How To Deal With Moody People

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  • @ShazWag
    @ShazWag 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Gosh. You just described my mother to a tee! Growing up, we always had to be aware of her moods and respond accordingly. She was the absolute dictator!

  • @AskLovelyIgniteTheChange
    @AskLovelyIgniteTheChange 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Tired of the tip toe... but this is helpful cause I think this person is using the mood to get what they want...

  • @user-oz7nw9sq7y
    @user-oz7nw9sq7y ปีที่แล้ว +4

    WOW amazing video! I’m extremely triggered by moodiness since I grew up walking on eggshells around both of my parents. At one point I was very moody myself. Thru self awareness, self care and healthy choices, I’m no longer moody. However- I’m deeply affected by other’s moods, especially the manipulative bully. Thank you for this amazing advise on how to cope.

  • @aliascatahara
    @aliascatahara 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I have never found a better video that shows constructive steps and non-manipulative ways to deal with moody people. Clearly you have found your calling, so please keep doing what you are doing! I am greatly appreciatively for your video and happy that I stumbled on it.

    • @lynnettekyme969
      @lynnettekyme969 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      totally agree - this gave me more insight and practical tips in 15 minutes than any therapist

  • @Braddowell45
    @Braddowell45 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I'm a extremely confident person but when something put me in a crap mood I find it hard to get out of it

  • @petrakolenakova2
    @petrakolenakova2 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I know someone who always needs to dictate the emotional atmosphere- my " partner" i have 2 small kids with ..i am so over it....walking on eggshels , he is never happy , extreme moodiness - i would walk away TODAY if i could !!!!

  • @specialstone9153
    @specialstone9153 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I met an older lady and have compassion for her but had to address her cantankerous moods and questioned why. It got her attention. She was surprised and decided to say it was physical pain, but it was not exactly that. (entirely) I addressed her circumstances with understanding and she received insight about herself. I also gave gentle warning that showing such moodiness around others can repel them.

  • @28batchie
    @28batchie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hi I just would like to express my great appreciation on all your videos. Im not a practitioner but I always check on your videos to treat my difficulties on myself. It helped me a lot esp with my trauma and relationship. Very informative. 👌👌👌And helpful

  • @jamielawrence4749
    @jamielawrence4749 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "Rent an ear" haha!! That reminds me of my friend since 7th grade. And the shifting sands is really reminding me of my sister. It's so tiring and exhausting. Even scary for me, at times. She will seem happy or content, and then she will start making critical remarks or passive aggressive comments about something I'm doing or my family is doing, or change plans or not make plans, and I'm suddenly wondering how to trust anything she says, or how to manage her moods so I can have some clarity or stability. I'm still wondering what she gets out of it... these are helpful points and tips, thank you! Sometimes she will break out of her mood when I ask directly or comment on her behavior, but sometimes she will deny it or seem defensive or like there are so many emotions she then has to shut the conversation down. Any tips how to manage that? (Perhaps just walk away and have a break at that point, which is what I tend to do when I feel I've made it worse or upset her).

  • @magicsupamoggie
    @magicsupamoggie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I was married to a moody person. I wish I had this insight way back when I married him. I had never met a moody person before.

    • @middleearth8809
      @middleearth8809 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Snap! Me too.

    • @CANQKHAN
      @CANQKHAN 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@middleearth8809 ...Is Moody Person dangerous ? Please reply

    • @CANQKHAN
      @CANQKHAN 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@middleearth8809 ...Is Moodiness a Medical disorder ?

  • @Ccdabossbabe
    @Ccdabossbabe 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This video is very useful thanks 🙏. I have been dealing with someone that's very moody and I now know how to deal with him

  • @yh3428
    @yh3428 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    My father seems to be moody and oscillate between treating me nicely only when I met physically hurt. Otherwise he will be passive aggressive and give me silent treatment.

  • @animalames78
    @animalames78 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I am moody. I get very drained by other people’s energy and personalities and I get very moody. I have trouble with sleep, bad thoughts. But let’s face it there are some very irritating and selfish people in this world who don’t think of other people’s feelings. I’m introverted and generally get worn out but strong personalities easily. I don’t manipulate people with my mood, I pretend everything is ok, and stuff down my moodiness, it’s all internal.

    • @TheEssenceIsLove
      @TheEssenceIsLove 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hi Amelia! You may also look to find a good Ayurveda Doctor, there are many ways how Ayurveda lifestyle changes and adjusents in food and herbs can help in this process ✌🌷🙏

  • @thatkatt_
    @thatkatt_ 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Absolutely amazing video. You hit so many things on the nail for me

  • @paintingzoneart4026
    @paintingzoneart4026 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is really helpful. Thanks again

  • @tealusional4494
    @tealusional4494 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    A "friend" literally hung up on me bc I said her baby momma was earthy. Although Im a hippie teacher. And said "dont talk about my baby momma" as if we were strangers & known each other for over 10+ yrs. Although earlier today she told me my gf doesn't care about me. But earthy is an insult to her. I'm wondering if she has BPD or Manic depression

  • @syrus3k
    @syrus3k 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great stuff Mark.. I really enjoy your practical advice, and I have purchased a couple of your hypnosis audios.. your thoughtful way of talking is really captivating, it seems I have a lot to learn from you. Thanks!

  • @hollys546
    @hollys546 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very amazing clip!

  • @roccoconte2960
    @roccoconte2960 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    very helpful , i enjoy your videos very much .

  • @joshualionheartvillela5895
    @joshualionheartvillela5895 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was so good!

  • @killjoy4540
    @killjoy4540 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Subscribed
    Thank you

  • @podcastmachine8617
    @podcastmachine8617 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video

  • @tracesprite6078
    @tracesprite6078 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dieting (low blood sugar, feelings of deprivation) can make you feel moody and depressed.

  • @Vi-olynn
    @Vi-olynn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I need help with this.. Because someone 😭

  • @jamiewilliams829
    @jamiewilliams829 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    A friend of mine who I've known for 5 years can be moody with me and his others friends and sisters,the lockdownd has made him live in the past and his health isn't too good,I'm fairly upbeat and positive and he never sees the bright side of life and acts like the world owes him a living.

  • @tonyho5611
    @tonyho5611 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Cut them off.... People who are Moody will never change... I used to live with a partner that was always Moody.. luckily I never married her.. I lived with her than had enough of her moodiness and I moved the hell out..
    I feel really bad for people married to someone that is Moody or becomes moody

  • @arifulambia9956
    @arifulambia9956 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am moody at 23 for being the eldest sibling of 4 children and living with parents. They have all hated me because I am born profoundly deaf and easily misunderstood.

    • @tracesprite6078
      @tracesprite6078 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That sounds so difficult for you, Arif. I'm so sorry that you have to deal with that tough situation. How sensible of you to use You Tube where you can get into some written conversations.

  • @rossanapettersen
    @rossanapettersen 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mark, could you make a video on how to handle when a client starts having romantic feelings for you (his/her therapist)? I've heard from colleagues that it is quite common

  • @joyfamily2708
    @joyfamily2708 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My husband in the moment he alway in moody he give the world to make me sad and I I fill down all the time i fill so bad

    • @tracesprite6078
      @tracesprite6078 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's awful, Joy. I wish there were some happy times for you.

  • @mdimam4158
    @mdimam4158 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I saw many moody guy in my life

  • @lydiacrisafi8745
    @lydiacrisafi8745 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Called narcisim and your just their source

  • @Bradley9967
    @Bradley9967 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You can see above how many moody people have watched this video.

  • @clausm2203
    @clausm2203 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video