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💖The educated empath we are. ⚘Gone are the days of being a door mat💣 . Being sqrewed up and thrown on the highway like a piece of used paper was a blessing in disguise .☮ Now peace and love can shine . Being one self is rewarding. 🌈 A bright shining star we are💥💫
''I love to listen to you. I imagine I am walking beside you in a park and I feel such relief when you speak Andrew. You remind me that I am a person worthy of being loved. I got duped and married a narcissist who has slowly ruined my life and I'm trapped. I try to endure and find peace in small moments when I am at work. Thank you for telling me I'm a shining star. I forget that I have two degrees, and a diploma and I make a 6 figure income. I forget that I am attractive and people enjoy being around me. I forget because every day I'm told I'm stupid and ugly by my narcissistic husband who has financially cornered me into debt that I cannot escape from. When I listen to you, I wish we could talk everyday so that I have strength to survive this. You are loved Andrew! Thank you!
Oh that’s what narcissists do best! Ensnare you with financial horrors. I am the same as you in what you described. I was discarded - because I was all used up financially- and it has been amazing to see what God has done for me financially. Now my biggest challenge is NOT finances- it’s being able to transition to be future focused. I stay stuck in the past - partly because of child custody issues. Always worried about the future of my children. And it clouds my decision making. It’s hard. But by God’s grace - I am getting stronger - this channel is definitely a life saver. You are getting wisdom about the disorder and will act accordingly and the narcissist WILL pick up on your changes. Don’t make finances the reason you continue to allow the abuse to happen to you. Instead pray and make a plan to escape. That’s what I did. I prayed every night for help and then I was discarded. Disconnecting is hard / even dreadful. But please know that if you don’t disconnect the narcissist will unalive you through your central nervous system. I am still dealing with health issues. These people are evil and if you are a light you have to flee the very presence of them. Sending you light and a sound mind.
For years, I wondered why my wife frequently talked about numerous “best friends” from the past, though none of these people seemed to be around anymore. Narcissists don’t have friends. They have nothing more than arms-length acquaintances.
@@Js-wd6dr Because they put an unbelievable amount of work into how the public and their social circles view them when they’re not behind closed doors. An amount of work that is not comprehensible or understandable to most of us. That’s part of the reason the smartphone is always in their hand. Constantly working on that fraudulent, phony public image.
Indeed it is!! Everyone says it’s a mental disorder. I see it as a demonic possession. They are so wired. Very difficult to explain to someone who has not endured it.
in my lived experiences, while there are many weaknesses of the narcissist, here's 5 of them, that they don't want you to know. 1) lack of self-reflection 2) competitiveness - they need to break you down to "fix" themselves up 3) chronic need for stimulation 4) obsessive need to be admired 5) addiction-based personality patterns - coping mechanisms such as drugs, alcohol, attention, creating drama the biggest weakness of them all, of the idiot narcissist, is that they will self-sabotage anything good out of greed, insecurity or jealousy. it's what they do best. cheers from southern ontario, canada 🍁
@@Hatbox948 agreed. narcissists need to be the center of attention, literally 24/7. it's why they have a penchant for ruining special occasions, especially where there are celebrations of other people. enjoy your narc free weekend. -cheers, steven
@@amandajohnson-williams7718 glad to be a bit of benefit to you/the community. 💙 if you or others have observed weaknesses to add, feel free to do so. -cheers, steven
My sister who is the narcissist said she never apologizes because when people apologize they don't mean it. They always have an out not to be accountable for anything.
@@sunnienciso9582 100% true.. sometimes they find a way to even make an apology sound like zero % accountability. How is this even possible? Oh it is possible with a narcissist.
@@zoukchata Thank you for replying, I am losing faith so much in humanity, and I am grateful for my four legged creatures. Means alot to hear a true man speak his mind.
I remember catching my mom on the phone with my sister whispering about me saying I was no better than my aunt 😢I then found the courage to confront her and tell her " my hearing is very accute" and it hurts when you call me names ,I'm your daughter not a piece of crap " she went silent ,the triangulation then stopped cause I called her out as my sister who is a alcholohoic was stirring the pot . The sinister jezebel type laughter ,them whispering about me is by far worse than if they hit me with a ball bat
You are lucky she stopped. Mine never did. When I called her out on it she would just roll her eyes, mimic me and what I was saying and do it all the more. I could tell by the silence I got from others in the family, being excluded and being laughed at whenever I was at a gathering. Heads together, looking at you, laughing and then ignoring you or calling you paranoid. They are demons
UNREAL!!!!! This is your best work. God Bless You!!!! As Maya once said, "When people show you who they are believe them. In an interview with Oprah, Oprah said to Maya When people show you who they are believe them THE FIRST TIME!!!!
Trouble is : they don't always show you who they are until you're picking yourself up off the mat OR trying to pull yourself out of a seemingly bottomless pit of despair.
Sometimes the past comes back in waves. I’m still asking after many years of freedom, “ Why did they do what they did? How did I allow myself to be trained to not upset them?” Just when I would relax a bit and think I was going to have a peaceful couple of days, or everything was going along well- it was like a bucket of marbles was thrown under my feet and everything was crazy again and I didn’t know why. It was all so cruel. 😔
My Narc Husband weaponized our children against each other to me it made no sense but looking back I can see the one child to him made him look better and the other one he never bonded with so he treated her just the opposite. Children deserve so much better from a parent. I didn’t know how to change the Narc Husband about his favoritism one child over the other. Seems so wrong Narcissists can continue to do what they do over and over again to other Adults and children. There’s jail for criminals but nothing to break the cycle of narcissists. Thank you Andrew for your videos of informative information.
They do have one glaring weakness (even the high functioning ones) and that is that they are terrified of their cult following figuring out who they really are and putting an end to the charade. That is one very strong point of leverage the non-narcissist has.
Yep... That's when they get violent... When they get caught with their hands in the cookie jar yet again but this time you had the audacity to breach the possibility of resolution and closure
That’s why over the years, everybody (including kids) runs away. Some of them were golden opportunities for security. Fast forward to age 50: no partner, no child, no degrees/certificates, NO HOME, no vehicle (my ex turns 59 this month, sleeps on hard wooden floor. So 59 with no mattress. Mull that over). Odd jobs, if they can bother to show up (they love disappointing others). Next group of friends look kind of sketchy, if not the dregs of society.
I'm trying to heal. I've been 4months away from my husband I've relocated and jus waiting for our divorce in July, he only has my email....NOT MY PHONE NUMBER....thank you all for helping all of us through this . I was married to him for 9 years. Love all of you ❤️ 💕 thank you all for your comments because I didn't know that this was my husband 😢😢 please Pray for my strength 🙏
Praying for you... I'm separated 7 months now and was married 19 years before realizing what I married only 2 years ago. It's very devastating. Hang in there. Each passing month will get a little better. It's the worst thing I've ever experienced and so heartbreaking, so just know you're not alone. God's peace be with you. ❤
Thanks Andrew. I look forward to your video every day. It has been 10 months since I left my narc. I am just starting to sleep through the night. I get better every day. For anyone who is just starting to get out of a narcissistic relationship please realize that you deserve so much better. Know your worth. 🙏
Many years later, my ex is trying to plant a mole (a side-chick) into MY accountant's office. Even more than infuriating than that is the realization that he thinks I'm still stupid enough to NOT figure it out! Once you understand these people, it all unravels. It's a beautiful thing.
"Whatever's on the radio." For years, I thought it was strange that my wife seemed to have zero hobbies. There was nothing she liked doing during her alone time, no personal interests, no passions. Even her taste in music was bland - just sort of "whatever's on the radio." It was actually the bland taste in music that made me start realizing who and what I was dealing with (outside of wondering why I was slowly losing my own mind). That's because a narcissists' entire life is "whatever's on the radio." They'll like, mirror, and pretend to enjoy whatever everyone else is doing. My wife was a prime example of this. She was a chameleon that changed color and skins to adapt to whatever room she was in at the time, and whoever was in the room. Her only hobbies were binge-watching tv, and the smartphone that was surgically attached to her hand. And that was her primary smartphone. Not including the one that she hid in our youngest son's backpack in the hallway at night. Thanks for another good video.
I thought it was just me. My wife binges tv all day. No need for a remote. No hobbies. On facebook, 100 percent of the day. But when i met her, she was this super outgoing social butterfly. All a front. Can even have a substant convo. Its like question marks in her eyes when she has to think. I feel you
@@Encorneliouswow omg!!!! I can tell you my ex narc wife told me one time she spent nearly the whole entire day on Facebook on her phone!!!!!! Holyyy crapppp!!?!??? Yoo I just got a big lightbulb moment, in hindsight now that I just thought about it she was on Facebook all day looking for and grooming the new supplyyy😮😮😮 damnnn just realized this!!! They are psychoss beyond belief Holy crapp!!!?
@@paulwisdom1090 @Encornelious Anything in front of their face to distract them from what’s going on behind the eyes and between the ears. If technology is a person’s one and only hobby, you can bet that nothing good is going on when they’re hooked up to social media. Completely absorbed in a fake and phony version of life on a little screen in front of their face. No significant other should have to compete for attention with their loved one’s smartphone, laptop, or tv. Ever.
Laughed out loud on the 'take your idea and act like it's their own'. Yep. And see the smile like the Cheshire Cat looking side to side as he was complimented on the thought I shared with him the night before. Geez.
Thank you Andrew. The narcissist is a weak coward and bully. The sign of a strong person is their ability to apologize and change their behaviour and grow in the process. We need strong people in this world not narcissists.
“These people are just a broken record going around in a loop. And it will continue - it just needs to continue without you.” Wow, brilliant parting words and so accurately describes the narcissist and why getting out is always the best way.
You know what I just realized? Both narcissist friends were lifelong & their birthdays are 2 days apart in the same month. Not that I believe that stuff however, there is a commonality in behaviors as well. They both have the attention span of a gnat & they both go after relatives & me. We grew up together as it turns out I'm their last old school friend. Both came to visit me after significant deaths. Both use passive aggression to amuse themselves. They detest anything that makes them feel like they're not the authority. Weirder & weirder.
I don't think I would have gotten through the bad days if not for your videos.I watch one every morning just so I know it's ok to not be ok stay strong and know being alone is still easier than being alone with someone there
Agree! The older videos never get old. A gold mine. I rewatch them whenever life starts to drag me down and I need bucked up. A favorite line in almost every video message is "in YOUR time."
They don't introspect or get help because they don't WANT to. They remind me of people with alcohol or drug addictions who actually resent others for intervening and trying to "fix" them.
@@VinnyCarwash-js8op Studies show that narcissists are made, not born. There is no narcissist gene. While it is true that the narcissistic parent can imprint narcissistic "traits" that are evident in the adult child, it is equally true that the child can go in the opposite direction and emerge into adulthood as a crushed soul with little self-worth and little self-confidence as the result of narcissistic abuse in their formative years, and the odds are high that they will have developed addictions (alcohol, drugs, porn, gambling, etc.) to cope with what they have yet to understand about themselves. Either way, the adult child is going to be trouble for someone or else they're going to be a doormat for someone. That's why education on this subject needs to be accessible and widespread, like AA has done. It's about personal choices. Bottom line, the lack of personal accountability boils down to the "original sin" of human laziness and not WANTING to do the inner work required. Allow me to suggest the book, "The Road Less Traveled," by Peck. Highly recommended reading.
@@VinnyCarwash-js8op Studies show that narcissists are made, not born. There is no narcissist gene. While it is true that the narcissistic parent can imprint narcissistic "traits" that are evident in the adult child, it is equally true that the child can go in the opposite direction and emerge into adulthood as a crushed soul with little self-worth and little self-confidence as the result of narcissistic abuse in their formative years, and the odds are high that they will have developed addictions (alcohol, drugs, porn, gambling, etc.) to cope with what they have yet to understand about themselves. Either way, the adult child is going to be trouble for someone or else they're going to be a doormat for someone. That's why education on this subject needs to be accessible and widespread, like AA has done. It's about personal choices. Bottom line, the lack of personal accountability boils down to the "original sin" of human laziness and not WANTING to do the inner work required. Allow me to suggest the book, "The Road Less Traveled," by Peck. Highly recommended reading.
@@VinnyCarwash-js8opyeah, it's something in their minds that has them like...phobic of taking accountability. They literally can't do it. Even that self aware guy on here, when he talks about what led him to start going to counseling, he STILL doesn't take accountability of how he was hurting his wife and kids... It's gotta be all about him. He's merely getting supply out of his social media following.
Andrew you are great however you truly hit it out of the park with this!! Home run 👏👏Thanks for everything you share!! Thanks for the confirming my sanity through enlightenment! Thank goodness I can laugh because otherwise I wouldn’t be able to see puppies and rainbows through the tears. I especially love your references to the flying monkeys. Thanks for letting me have the courage to laugh and smile freely again.
Very true. I just finished the two books by Thomas Sheridan. Excellent. One thing he says is when you get past the manipulation and drama, underneath is just a moron and an imbecile. Cheers from Burnaby BC!
This is another great message and at minute 12:58 made me wonder just how many in this community went to seek help and were completely exhausted from wracking their minds and carrying extra baggage. I do believe I had my own baggage, but I owned it and actively worked - and work still- on myself and narcs? No, they won’t get help. They don’t see themselves in a way that could possibly need to change or improve. And when these relationships end, those bags 💼 🧳 🎒 just fall away 😅 and you feel lighter and lighter😌. ✨ thank you Andrew - and happy weekend everyone 🙏❤️
Every single video of yours is so accurate in every way. I honestly feel like your looking in a magic glass ball telling me about everything that I've lived through. I'm going to share your site with my sister who is going through the same situation after 10 years of marriage. Thankyou Andrew, you are so amazing and you deserve the best in life, cheers Tracey xo
Make sure your sister, does not tell her husband. If she's a tattletail,,be careful, look into your family dynamics, mom,dad,siblings, where is the loci,how did you 2 end up with same type of spouse?
It’s been 4 years since I left him but today, just now, watching your video, I took a deep breath and realized that I am strong and don’t need to worry any more. There’s no more BS, no more financial struggles because I am on my own.
Thanks for the info! It has been helping me to connect the missing dots in my life. I had a dream about living with the devil. It might have been a warning from my subconscious or a higher power. It turned out to be true. I survived but not without a lot of scars. Cheers
THIS IS SUCH VALUABLE INFORMATION, BECAUSE NORMAL PEOPLE HAVE A VERY HARD TIME UNDERSTANDING SUCH EVIL, DESTRUCTIVE BEHAVIOR, ESPECIALLY USING CHILDREN AND ANIMALS AS PAWNS, THEIR FAMILIES AS WELL. IT TAKES SO MUCH PERSONAL STRENGH TO GET OUT OF A TOXIC, MANIPULATIVE RELATIONSHIP. CONSTANT BLAME MAKES A PERSON QUESTION THEMSELVES EVEN WHEN YOU KNOW YOU ARE NOT TO BLAME.
We lived through their hell of many weaknesses..& then went through more excruciating hell to pull ourselves back up. SURVIVORS....THAT NOW KNOW EXACTLY WHO THEY ARE!!! If ever a narc come near, I'm "SO READY".. first to avoid...or, NARC BABY....JUST MAKE MY DAY!!!!!!! 🌈 🎀😘
Their Numerous weakness brush them on us and become part of us the longer we become part of them. When out of their association the healing begins and it all clears away. In other words I am just so happy looked at an old pic and realised,ed that my hair which had developed patches and thinned out thinned out has fully grown back. Fully whole head now and bouncy . Being close with them is a way to eat into our health
Does anyone else have the experience of then always saying to you "you never apologize" but when you ask them about what they never have an answer. There is no winning with them. They abuse you to keep you in your place. I became a complete zombie and I'm ashamed. I don't get how they can see their partner so miserable and unhappy and be okay with it.😢
As time goes by you start to see how much of all this stuff comes clear . It takes going through what seemed so hard at the time to come to awareness. At times one video from Andrew brings so many of the other videos to mind. Its like I get bits and pieces for a time and then there is this profound awakening of the gift he has helped me see. Feel very grateful!!
Had to laugh a bit at 8 mins when you mentioned parents telling kids to go play outside/run around the block etc 😂.. pre-smartphone days.. I grew up before smartphones too but wasn’t allowed to do those 2 things without supervision.. only when I was a teenager I was finally allowed to walk to school by myself 🥰albeit I’m glad I grew up in those days.. technology didn’t follow me home from school.. anyway this was a very informative video.. you’re right that there’s probably 5000 weaknesses of a narc.. and any apology from a narc is fake.. if it’s ever offered it’s only because they want something.. I heard the horns a few times but I didn’t understand why it’s a special place or day there? I liked what you did with your fingers at the end too but didn’t understand either 🥰 if anyone wants to explain to me then please feel free to do so.. i saw someone mentioned a wedding in the comments below so perhaps that was the case.. I much appreciate the video today.. thank you 💜💜💜🪻🪻🪻
Day 5 of silence from my good guy narcissist. Usually, the weekend was our 'time together' because of our conflicting work schedules. He has sent me a flying monkey this week too, same day I had a dream of a virus of monkey emoji on my phone ... I just need to make my way through this weekend. I will not chase. I will not call. Maybe if he come to me with a fresh set of eyes and wisdom in due time. But my counselor told me that less than 1% of narcs change. Thanks for your wisdom to get me through without tears this time around
As a teen in love, I had no idea what I was in for marrying him and having 5 kids and staying for over 20 years. One night, coming home from a carnival, he was mad at me because I wouldn't give him sex, because I was tired and wanted to go home. He stopped the car on a country road, pitch black, no lights and pushed me out of the car and drove off. I stood there, frozen not knowing what to do. I could not see my hand in front of me. He did come back and I caved to his desires and tried to forget what he did. I'm in my 70's now and I never forgot that night.
Yes Andrew, you are our daily boost of confidence on our recovery path! Thank you and God bless you, your wisdom, your patience and your kindness 💜💜💜🇬🇧
OMG you are spot on as usual! I got my boundaries up and guess he doesn’t like it. He wants to compete with me and can’t stand that I am making my own trail. He can’t stand it. I’m moving on and heeled and making a life for myself. He can’t handle it. I won’t respond to him. Like a toddler having a tantrum. He choked me to were I had 2 bones replaced and still says he wants me to die!
I was forced to drive, then... Behind the wheel, they'd start crazy ass arguments with me out of thin air. Always creating chaos, the narcissistic personality disorder demon.
The narcissist will never be truly happy. They will never be at peace with themselves or anyone else. Big weakness. Great video Andrew 🙌. Resonate with it all. Very insightful. Have a good night 🙂 God bless 🌟 Lol, I'm baffled! I have no idea what your hand gesture at the end was 🤔🤔🧐 Hang in there everyone. Stay strong ☀️
Thankyou Andrew for this great reminder😊 I think someone just got married! I could hear the cars honking continuesly in a part of your video and couldn't help thinking i hope they dint marry a narcissist! Just coes thats when my nightmare began... Have a good night or day from Montreal Canada 🇨🇦 😊
I am proud to announce that today I finally blocked the N who raised me. It was the last social channel open. It was already limited/restricted with almost no contact. But man it felt great to block. I did it after listening to one of your videos. You have helped me have strength and belief in claiming my dignity. Thank you Andrew! 🙏
Everything you are saying is spot on and exactly as I've experienced. Thank you for your voice of hope, encouragement and truth to the world of empaths, and people needing to hear this! Keep up the great work!
The complete lack of closure from these people albeit after the shock wears off is where you start realizing how cowardly and weak these people really are..Their whole agenda is to keep you on that ruminentary merry go round wondering what it is you did wrong.. After a bunch of introspection you realize that their game was to throw you off the truth and that truth is that they are devoid of love and are scared you'll find out.. Although they think they have the wool over us with their games it's just a matter of time when we can see straight through their weaknesses and start using it as a strength..when I think of her emotionless face staring at me thinking she was all that at the disgard i now see the truth that what I was staring at was a scared, weak, power hungry, dic-tator, who's only intention was to inflict as much pain as she could on a person..You could say that misdirection is their perceived superpower, I'm happy at the end of the day that introspection is mine.... The ruminatary road is a never ending circle that always ends up in the same place, no closure, building that road block and detour to get you off that road is imperative, I use the fact that simply, she was a roadblock to my evolution in this lifetime.. time to step off that road and walk a new path...or maybe if I'm lucky, find my old road and just keep going with a new hard won appreciation for - well - everything!..🙏☮️
Man Spring has Sprung... Loving all the wisdom and morning posts of flowers ESPECIALLY this time of year... Bless you Andrew for walking in the light and being resilient, the most important message of all... Don't become all you despise, toxicity is one of the most contagious things on the planet.... Too bad it isn't compassion and understanding (what they Sear in your soul)
Andrew, good evening. Thanks, once again you are on point. He does feel he is better than everyone. Always boasting about something or other. But when I realized he is pathological liar I become all of the achievements he talked about were far from the truth. And could never complete anything. Started law school, then dropped out then said he was going to med school, never saw the university one day. Have a blessed evening and be safe. Thanks again❤
I've noticed a new behavior that The Narc will ask your opinion, actually listen to your answer and then do the total opposite that isn't in the best interset for them or you (if you're living together, married) 😮 Dogs ..interesting ... I've noticed the they are in want want want... don't treat animals well, under feed, overfeed, neglect..just want some supply but not caring at all or appear to be only in front of others. 😮
Oh well - after 'power-listening' to some of your videos, Andrew ... ALL of the unicorns & gnomes took a real hard killing... but it was a long time coming and what survivor of narc abuse is not a work in progress... (the narcissist's grown children just took a hit, too) as they're peppered with your videos that I 'power sent' to them) Im still being called crazy and now that they know I'm listening to you, Andrew - I'm guessing they'lll feel the need to amp up their game. (Its okay - now that I'm onto them) Thanks is not a big enough word. Keep up the good work🌞TIMSHEL.
The reason why my handle is Nickeyvamp is because I had my last name on my handle.. I choose to add vamp to remind me of all of the abuse I had indured.
The Narc be like the 5 year old ar the county fair who drops his ice cream cone on the ground by mistake, and then blames the ground for being there. So then he grabs an ice cream cone out of a random stranger he sees, a 3 year old, much smaller little boy. So he GRABS it out of the baby's hands! And eats it right in front of the kid's face, moaning how good it tastes, licking his lips, and teasing and taunting him the entire time saying "ha ha I have an ice cream cone and YOU DONT. And then when the 3 year old cries in sadness and hangs his head in sadness and shame the Narc has that evil "smirk" on his face. Just enjoying every minute of that kid's misery and pain. And with no empathy or compassion for the tears he says "Oh go cry to your MOMMY you big cry baby! It's the same child bully on the playground rhat we all know who grows into an adult body, but stays child in the mind and then becomes and grows into the adult bully narc in our lives. And ironically my Narc was bullied badly as a child. Never defended himself. And just chose to turn into the same bully that he hated. Definitely Demonic!!
Great analogy. Sometimes, the 3 yr.old gathers his/her wits, wipes the tears ( like these educated Empaths and kicks the Narc a good one in the shin ( metaphorically speaking).
Your healing light is shining bright Andrew! What a pleasure and blessing ☺️. I heard the train of confirmation, lol.. No clue what the hand gesture meant, maybe someone here will let me know 🙏✨💫☀️💜
Hanging out with neighbors at the fire pit last night.. the a boisterous narc who I've been avoiding showed up. He couldn't fit his chair into the circle, and told me to move. I don't like confrontations, so I obliged, moving my chair four inches to the left as far as I could because another person was there, but it wasn't enough for him to get his chair in. He demanded I move my chair back away from the cozy fire pit, so he could join us- it was an expectation, he wasn't even halfway nice about it. I told him "I'm not moving my chair back (outside the circle of friends.) He could have fit in had everybody just scooched their chairs a bit, but not a single person moved (because they don't want him around, nobody likes him). Instead of asking them politely to make room, he immediately raged at me using profanity directed specifically at me. I returned his attitude. He stomped off defeated, I asked my friends loud enough for him to hear, "Did y'all hear that? This is why I don't want to be around him." They nodded, but were all a little shocked by his outburst. I'm proud of myself for not yeilding to his grandiose, entitled demands.
I think back and remember when the narcissist told me he was messed up and stiluck in his ways. He certainly was/ probably still is however I am happy I am no longer swept up in his tornado of chaos!
You are the best in this topic, it’s wonderful to know that we are so many empathetic people who listen to your videos, I wish I could talke to all of them,it would be wonderful. Thanks a lot, from Denmark 😅
Thanks Andrew. One of the lasting aspects or impacts of narcissistic abuse for me is finding out who are real friends or family and who are not. Family gone. Only 2 friends left. But this is good.
My youngest daughters dad is a narcissist (my ex who I spoke about previously is a narcassist) but both are different in many ways, my daughter's dad initially said he would pay for my repairs to my car so I could get my/our special needs daughter to college from next week, then it suddenly turned (when I stuck up for myself when he blamed the little things on me) to...I will be stopping your maintenance till you've paid me back for the repairs to your car. Little put downs Infront of our child like I was the child and he was the sole adult.no talking about,ok she is OUR child,I will pay half seens as you get her to college everyday and you need your car..just a weapon to make me suffer. So I'm going to be worse off by 200 pounds a month without my maintenance when i would have been happy with half (I wouldn't mention diesel it takes) I love my daughter more than life,but I have had to give up working to be there for her, while he works everyday and owns two houses while I struggle. Sometimes we live on ten a week for food, while he has thousands in the bank.but he has an accountant that (tweaks) the books,so I don't have a leg to stand on. I'm going back to college in September to train as a florist, even at my age if nearly 45, but I deserve and want to work too, I know karma will hit, and I know my time will come when I can be thankful quietly and know I won't need his help with no conditions. Funny how narc's take different forms but they end up being the vile human beings with the same traits. (Putting money and themselves first) You show me that I shouldn't engage in their games, and to just be quietly respectful of myself and my beliefs and humility...namaste to you🙏
Still recovering from cptsd sleep paralysis its like im in a time warp trying to decompress ,for a few days after i left i wanted to call them ,but you helped me realize that would only make it worse on me , had to cut the family ties of the Scooby-Doo spooky mansion 👻 its not really funny sometimes i swear there are polterggeist in that house i have seen and heard crazy things that would turn you chalk white
No, it's not a joke & very possible. You can anoint yourself with oil & always speak out.. that you are covered by the blood of Jesus, for protection if you sense anything strange. God Bless 🙏❤ 🌈🎀😘
💖The educated empath we are. ⚘Gone are the days of being a door mat💣 . Being sqrewed up and thrown on the highway like a piece of used paper was a blessing in disguise .☮ Now peace and love can shine . Being one self is rewarding. 🌈 A bright shining star we are💥💫
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''I love to listen to you. I imagine I am walking beside you in a park and I feel such relief when you speak Andrew. You remind me that I am a person worthy of being loved. I got duped and married a narcissist who has slowly ruined my life and I'm trapped. I try to endure and find peace in small moments when I am at work. Thank you for telling me I'm a shining star. I forget that I have two degrees, and a diploma and I make a 6 figure income. I forget that I am attractive and people enjoy being around me. I forget because every day I'm told I'm stupid and ugly by my narcissistic husband who has financially cornered me into debt that I cannot escape from. When I listen to you, I wish we could talk everyday so that I have strength to survive this. You are loved Andrew! Thank you!
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Oh that’s what narcissists do best! Ensnare you with financial horrors. I am the same as you in what you described. I was discarded - because I was all used up financially- and it has been amazing to see what God has done for me financially. Now my biggest challenge is NOT finances- it’s being able to transition to be future focused. I stay stuck in the past - partly because of child custody issues. Always worried about the future of my children. And it clouds my decision making. It’s hard. But by God’s grace - I am getting stronger - this channel is definitely a life saver. You are getting wisdom about the disorder and will act accordingly and the narcissist WILL pick up on your changes. Don’t make finances the reason you continue to allow the abuse to happen to you. Instead pray and make a plan to escape. That’s what I did. I prayed every night for help and then I was discarded. Disconnecting is hard / even dreadful. But please know that if you don’t disconnect the narcissist will unalive you through your central nervous system. I am still dealing with health issues. These people are evil and if you are a light you have to flee the very presence of them. Sending you light and a sound mind.
There is nothing Financial that is inescapable maybe a student loan?Leave,what can he do? Declare a BK,what can he do. ?
One day you'll have the strength to leave. One day you'll know that you can move on and live your best life!
The narcissist's worst enemy is themselves. They blow up all their friendships and relationships.
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For years, I wondered why my wife frequently talked about numerous “best friends” from the past, though none of these people seemed to be around anymore. Narcissists don’t have friends. They have nothing more than arms-length acquaintances.
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Then why do people like them?
@@Js-wd6dr Because they put an unbelievable amount of work into how the public and their social circles view them when they’re not behind closed doors. An amount of work that is not comprehensible or understandable to most of us. That’s part of the reason the smartphone is always in their hand. Constantly working on that fraudulent, phony public image.
How do they blame everything on you and run off sad and think you’re a horrible person and not know they have these issues??? It’s full demonic!
Indeed it is!! Everyone says it’s a mental disorder. I see it as a demonic possession. They are so wired. Very difficult to explain to someone who has not endured it.
Mirroring , they feel like what they accuse you of being. It's a mystery 😮
in my lived experiences, while there are many weaknesses of the narcissist, here's 5 of them, that they don't want you to know.
1) lack of self-reflection
2) competitiveness - they need to break you down to "fix" themselves up
3) chronic need for stimulation
4) obsessive need to be admired
5) addiction-based personality patterns - coping mechanisms such as drugs, alcohol, attention, creating drama
the biggest weakness of them all, of the idiot narcissist, is that they will self-sabotage anything good out of greed, insecurity or jealousy. it's what they do best.
cheers from southern ontario, canada 🍁
So true. My ex narcissist had a hyper need for stimulation. He couldn't entertain himself, but needed people to engage him and stroke his ego.
@@Hatbox948 agreed. narcissists need to be the center of attention, literally 24/7. it's why they have a penchant for ruining special occasions, especially where there are celebrations of other people.
enjoy your narc free weekend.
-cheers, steven
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@@amandajohnson-williams7718 glad to be a bit of benefit to you/the community. 💙
if you or others have observed weaknesses to add, feel free to do so.
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Narcissist CAN apologize, but they NEVER change their behavior. Same arguments will eventually happen.
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My sister who is the narcissist said she never apologizes because when people apologize they don't mean it. They always have an out not to be accountable for anything.
@@sunnienciso9582 100% true.. sometimes they find a way to even make an apology sound like zero % accountability. How is this even possible? Oh it is possible with a narcissist.
@@zoukchata Thank you for replying, I am losing faith so much in humanity, and I am grateful for my four legged creatures. Means alot to hear a true man speak his mind.
My daily boost of confidence! Thanks!
I remember catching my mom on the phone with my sister whispering about me saying I was no better than my aunt 😢I then found the courage to confront her and tell her " my hearing is very accute" and it hurts when you call me names ,I'm your daughter not a piece of crap " she went silent ,the triangulation then stopped cause I called her out as my sister who is a alcholohoic was stirring the pot . The sinister jezebel type laughter ,them whispering about me is by far worse than if they hit me with a ball bat
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That would hurt.
You sure called it out right,
a Jezebel Spirit!!!
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You are lucky she stopped.
Mine never did. When I called her out on it she would just roll her eyes, mimic me and what I was saying and do it all the more. I could tell by the silence I got from others in the family, being excluded and being laughed at whenever I was at a gathering. Heads together, looking at you, laughing and then ignoring you or calling you paranoid. They are demons
@sharon3108 dear lord that's awful 😖 I'm so sorry I can totally relate 😢
❤ Yes, I've also caught my mother on the phone talking about me many times, and she denied it.
UNREAL!!!!! This is your best work. God Bless You!!!! As Maya once said, "When people show you who they are believe them. In an interview with Oprah, Oprah said to Maya When people show you who they are believe them THE FIRST TIME!!!!
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Trouble is : they don't always show you who they are until you're picking yourself up off the mat OR trying to pull yourself out of a seemingly bottomless pit of despair.
Sometimes the past comes back in waves. I’m still asking after many years of freedom, “ Why did they do what they did? How did I allow myself to be trained to not upset them?” Just when I would relax a bit and think I was going to have a peaceful couple of days, or everything was going along well- it was like a bucket of marbles was thrown under my feet and everything was crazy again and I didn’t know why. It was all so cruel. 😔
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My Narc Husband weaponized our children against each other to me it made no sense but looking back I can see the one child to him made him look better and the other one he never bonded with so he treated her just the opposite. Children deserve so much better from a parent. I didn’t know how to change the Narc Husband about his favoritism one child over the other. Seems so wrong Narcissists can continue to do what they do over and over again to other Adults and children. There’s jail for criminals but nothing to break the cycle of narcissists. Thank you Andrew for your videos of informative information.
This!
They do have one glaring weakness (even the high functioning ones) and that is that they are terrified of their cult following figuring out who they really are and putting an end to the charade. That is one very strong point of leverage the non-narcissist has.
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Yep... That's when they get violent... When they get caught with their hands in the cookie jar yet again but this time you had the audacity to breach the possibility of resolution and closure
To further clarify forgiveness isn't your burden, they must come in confession asking of it... With a narc this'll NEVER happen😏
That’s why over the years, everybody (including kids) runs away. Some of them were golden opportunities for security. Fast forward to age 50: no partner, no child, no degrees/certificates, NO HOME, no vehicle (my ex turns 59 this month, sleeps on hard wooden floor. So 59 with no mattress. Mull that over). Odd jobs, if they can bother to show up (they love disappointing others). Next group of friends look kind of sketchy, if not the dregs of society.
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“Crawling all over the planet” 💯😉💣💥👌
I can't count how many times he told me to go seek therapy. That was spot on Andrew.
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Man, i promise i 😂😂😂at this. I just read this in a 4 page letter i received the bed when i got home from work yesterday. I need therapy 🤦🏿♂️
😂 Maybe I should have. That way I might have gotten out sooner. Take good care.
Thank you Andrew, you are an amazing person, thanks for all you do, you have helped people probably more than you will ever know
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I'm trying to heal. I've been 4months away from my husband I've relocated and jus waiting for our divorce in July, he only has my email....NOT MY PHONE NUMBER....thank you all for helping all of us through this . I was married to him for 9 years. Love all of you ❤️ 💕 thank you all for your comments because I didn't know that this was my husband 😢😢 please Pray for my strength 🙏
Praying for you... I'm separated 7 months now and was married 19 years before realizing what I married only 2 years ago. It's very devastating. Hang in there. Each passing month will get a little better. It's the worst thing I've ever experienced and so heartbreaking, so just know you're not alone. God's peace be with you. ❤
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Blessings Michelle 🙏❤
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Thanks Andrew. I look forward to your video every day.
It has been 10 months since I left my narc. I am just starting to sleep through the night. I get better every day. For anyone who is just starting to get out of a narcissistic relationship please realize that you deserve so much better. Know your worth. 🙏
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Omg yes! Once I left mines I was also able to sleep at night.
Many years later, my ex is trying to plant a mole (a side-chick) into MY accountant's office. Even more than infuriating than that is the realization that he thinks I'm still stupid enough to NOT figure it out! Once you understand these people, it all unravels. It's a beautiful thing.
I guess to get to your taxes, and finances,,wow!!!
The Narcissist is always constantly watching and comparing....this cabal is all about that!
"Whatever's on the radio."
For years, I thought it was strange that my wife seemed to have zero hobbies. There was nothing she liked doing during her alone time, no personal interests, no passions. Even her taste in music was bland - just sort of "whatever's on the radio." It was actually the bland taste in music that made me start realizing who and what I was dealing with (outside of wondering why I was slowly losing my own mind). That's because a narcissists' entire life is "whatever's on the radio." They'll like, mirror, and pretend to enjoy whatever everyone else is doing. My wife was a prime example of this. She was a chameleon that changed color and skins to adapt to whatever room she was in at the time, and whoever was in the room. Her only hobbies were binge-watching tv, and the smartphone that was surgically attached to her hand. And that was her primary smartphone. Not including the one that she hid in our youngest son's backpack in the hallway at night. Thanks for another good video.
I thought it was just me. My wife binges tv all day. No need for a remote. No hobbies. On facebook, 100 percent of the day. But when i met her, she was this super outgoing social butterfly. All a front. Can even have a substant convo. Its like question marks in her eyes when she has to think. I feel you
@@Encorneliouswow omg!!!! I can tell you my ex narc wife told me one time she spent nearly the whole entire day on Facebook on her phone!!!!!! Holyyy crapppp!!?!??? Yoo I just got a big lightbulb moment, in hindsight now that I just thought about it she was on Facebook all day looking for and grooming the new supplyyy😮😮😮 damnnn just realized this!!! They are psychoss beyond belief Holy crapp!!!?
@@paulwisdom1090 @Encornelious Anything in front of their face to distract them from what’s going on behind the eyes and between the ears. If technology is a person’s one and only hobby, you can bet that nothing good is going on when they’re hooked up to social media. Completely absorbed in a fake and phony version of life on a little screen in front of their face. No significant other should have to compete for attention with their loved one’s smartphone, laptop, or tv. Ever.
my daily dose of andrew is all i need incredible video tonight 😄❤️
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Through all the horn honking you never lost your focus, didn't miss a beat. Big 👍 for awesome Andrew. 😁 And happy horn honking tomorrow.
I am educated and empowered. I am a winner
Laughed out loud on the 'take your idea and act like it's their own'. Yep. And see the smile like the Cheshire Cat looking side to side as he was complimented on the thought I shared with him the night before. Geez.
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This for sure.
Thankyou Andrew you are spot on again, your positive messages have helped healing path from very nasty narcissist. All the best😊
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Thank you Andrew. The narcissist is a weak coward and bully. The sign of a strong person is their ability to apologize and change their behaviour and grow in the process. We need strong people in this world not narcissists.
“These people are just a broken record going around in a loop. And it will continue - it just needs to continue without you.” Wow, brilliant parting words and so accurately describes the narcissist and why getting out is always the best way.
You know what I just realized? Both narcissist friends were lifelong & their birthdays are 2 days apart in the same month. Not that I believe that stuff however, there is a commonality in behaviors as well. They both have the attention span of a gnat & they both go after relatives & me. We grew up together as it turns out I'm their last old school friend. Both came to visit me after significant deaths. Both use passive aggression to amuse themselves. They detest anything that makes them feel like they're not the authority. Weirder & weirder.
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Andrew, thanks for all your kind uplifting words. They help.
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I don't think I would have gotten through the bad days if not for your videos.I watch one every morning just so I know it's ok to not be ok stay strong and know being alone is still easier than being alone with someone there
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Agree! The older videos never get old. A gold mine. I rewatch them whenever life starts to drag me down and I need bucked up. A favorite line in almost every video message is "in YOUR time."
They cant be alone cos they need people, weirdos! Being alone is peaceful and pure bliss.
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Powerful Andrew. You have summed it up perfectly. I've escaped and I'm free... I'm believing finally...thank you 💜
They are so weak… once I recognized his tactics, it became so easy to not react… but was so frustrating to think he thought I was so stupid…🏀🏀
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Never give them the benefit of the doubt..... you probably already did 100X .... Let Go!
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I like that reminder- Solid!👍
They don't introspect or get help because they don't WANT to. They remind me of people with alcohol or drug addictions who actually resent others for intervening and trying to "fix" them.
No, it's because they are unable to, it's not beecause they don't want to.
@@VinnyCarwash-js8op Studies show that narcissists are made, not born. There is no narcissist gene. While it is true that the narcissistic parent can imprint narcissistic "traits" that are evident in the adult child, it is equally true that the child can go in the opposite direction and emerge into adulthood as a crushed soul with little self-worth and little self-confidence as the result of narcissistic abuse in their formative years, and the odds are high that they will have developed addictions (alcohol, drugs, porn, gambling, etc.) to cope with what they have yet to understand about themselves. Either way, the adult child is going to be trouble for someone or else they're going to be a doormat for someone. That's why education on this subject needs to be accessible and widespread, like AA has done. It's about personal choices. Bottom line, the lack of personal accountability boils down to the "original sin" of human laziness and not WANTING to do the inner work required. Allow me to suggest the book, "The Road Less Traveled," by Peck. Highly recommended reading.
@@VinnyCarwash-js8op Studies show that narcissists are made, not born. There is no narcissist gene. While it is true that the narcissistic parent can imprint narcissistic "traits" that are evident in the adult child, it is equally true that the child can go in the opposite direction and emerge into adulthood as a crushed soul with little self-worth and little self-confidence as the result of narcissistic abuse in their formative years, and the odds are high that they will have developed addictions (alcohol, drugs, porn, gambling, etc.) to cope with what they have yet to understand about themselves. Either way, the adult child is going to be trouble for someone or else they're going to be a doormat for someone. That's why education on this subject needs to be accessible and widespread, like AA has done. It's about personal choices. Bottom line, the lack of personal accountability boils down to the "original sin" of human laziness and not WANTING to do the inner work required. Allow me to suggest the book, "The Road Less Traveled," by Peck. Highly recommended reading.
@@VinnyCarwash-js8opyeah, it's something in their minds that has them like...phobic of taking accountability. They literally can't do it. Even that self aware guy on here, when he talks about what led him to start going to counseling, he STILL doesn't take accountability of how he was hurting his wife and kids... It's gotta be all about him. He's merely getting supply out of his social media following.
All true🤩 now i know that you learn a lot from people when they don't get what they want. 😉 have a beautiful evening Andrew 🙌💜🙏
Hi Marie...just sending luv your way...hope you catch it! ❤💥
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@@marieeakin8534 i did! 😄 hope you are doing well my friend. Have a great evening 😊🙌💞
Andrew you are great however you truly hit it out of the park with this!! Home run 👏👏Thanks for everything you share!! Thanks for the confirming my sanity through enlightenment! Thank goodness I can laugh because otherwise I wouldn’t be able to see puppies and rainbows through the tears. I especially love your references to the flying monkeys. Thanks for letting me have the courage to laugh and smile freely again.
I totally relate & understand 👍❤
Blessings
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Very true.
I just finished the two books by Thomas Sheridan. Excellent. One thing he says is when you get past the manipulation and drama, underneath is just a moron and an imbecile. Cheers from Burnaby BC!
This is another great message and at minute 12:58 made me wonder just how many in this community went to seek help and were completely exhausted from wracking their minds and carrying extra baggage. I do believe I had my own baggage, but I owned it and actively worked - and work still- on myself and narcs? No, they won’t get help. They don’t see themselves in a way that could possibly need to change or improve.
And when these relationships end, those bags 💼 🧳 🎒 just fall away 😅 and you feel lighter and lighter😌.
✨ thank you Andrew - and happy weekend everyone 🙏❤️
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Every single video of yours is so accurate in every way. I honestly feel like your looking in a magic glass ball telling me about everything that I've lived through. I'm going to share your site with my sister who is going through the same situation after 10 years of marriage. Thankyou Andrew, you are so amazing and you deserve the best in life, cheers Tracey xo
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Make sure your sister, does not tell her husband. If she's a tattletail,,be careful, look into your family dynamics, mom,dad,siblings, where is the loci,how did you 2 end up with same type of spouse?
This is so very accurate..thank you..5 months today away ..
It’s been 4 years since I left him but today, just now, watching your video, I took a deep breath and realized that I am strong and don’t need to worry any more. There’s no more BS, no more financial struggles because I am on my own.
Thanks for the info! It has been helping me to connect the missing dots in my life. I had a dream about living with the devil. It might have been a warning from my subconscious or a higher power. It turned out to be true. I survived but not without a lot of scars. Cheers
THIS IS SUCH VALUABLE INFORMATION, BECAUSE NORMAL PEOPLE HAVE A VERY HARD TIME UNDERSTANDING SUCH EVIL, DESTRUCTIVE BEHAVIOR, ESPECIALLY USING CHILDREN AND ANIMALS AS PAWNS, THEIR FAMILIES AS WELL. IT TAKES SO MUCH PERSONAL STRENGH TO GET OUT OF A TOXIC, MANIPULATIVE RELATIONSHIP. CONSTANT BLAME MAKES A PERSON QUESTION THEMSELVES EVEN WHEN YOU KNOW YOU ARE NOT TO BLAME.
We appreciate you, Andrew. You get it. Thank you so much 💓
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We lived through their hell of many weaknesses..& then went through more excruciating hell to pull ourselves back up.
SURVIVORS....THAT NOW KNOW EXACTLY WHO THEY ARE!!!
If ever a narc come near, I'm "SO READY".. first to avoid...or,
NARC BABY....JUST MAKE MY DAY!!!!!!! 🌈 🎀😘
@marieeakin8534 enjoy your narc free weekend.
-cheers, steven
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That simplest of a game plan is the best ... and the real energy saver.👍
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I totally agree Joe, I was being a little facetious...I'm good!
We get by with a little help.from our friends... Thanks 😊 ☕
This is bang on!
Their Numerous weakness brush them on us and become part of us the longer we become part of them. When out of their association the healing begins and it all clears away. In other words I am just so happy looked at an old pic and realised,ed that my hair which had developed patches and thinned out thinned out has fully grown back. Fully whole head now and bouncy . Being close with them is a way to eat into our health
Does anyone else have the experience of then always saying to you "you never apologize" but when you ask them about what they never have an answer. There is no winning with them. They abuse you to keep you in your place. I became a complete zombie and I'm ashamed. I don't get how they can see their partner so miserable and unhappy and be okay with it.😢
Great concentration delivering a great video with all the honking in the background.
The narcissist made me feel like a soiled wipey🤭
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As time goes by you start to see how much of all this stuff comes clear . It takes going through what seemed so hard at the time to come to awareness. At times one video from Andrew brings so many of the other videos to mind. Its like I get bits and pieces for a time and then there is this profound awakening of the gift he has helped me see. Feel very grateful!!
“Go run around the block”. I LOVE it! Sounds like my childhood!!
GOOD morning Andrew💯🇫🇷🙏✨️✨️OUR STRENGTH & SHINING LIGHT ,,, will ALWAYS OVERPOWER THEIR DARK HEARTS😂✨️🙏💯🫶
Had to laugh a bit at 8 mins when you mentioned parents telling kids to go play outside/run around the block etc 😂.. pre-smartphone days.. I grew up before smartphones too but wasn’t allowed to do those 2 things without supervision.. only when I was a teenager I was finally allowed to walk to school by myself 🥰albeit I’m glad I grew up in those days.. technology didn’t follow me home from school.. anyway this was a very informative video.. you’re right that there’s probably 5000 weaknesses of a narc.. and any apology from a narc is fake.. if it’s ever offered it’s only because they want something.. I heard the horns a few times but I didn’t understand why it’s a special place or day there? I liked what you did with your fingers at the end too but didn’t understand either 🥰 if anyone wants to explain to me then please feel free to do so.. i saw someone mentioned a wedding in the comments below so perhaps that was the case.. I much appreciate the video today.. thank you 💜💜💜🪻🪻🪻
Day 5 of silence from my good guy narcissist. Usually, the weekend was our 'time together' because of our conflicting work schedules. He has sent me a flying monkey this week too, same day I had a dream of a virus of monkey emoji on my phone ...
I just need to make my way through this weekend. I will not chase. I will not call.
Maybe if he come to me with a fresh set of eyes and wisdom in due time. But my counselor told me that less than 1% of narcs change.
Thanks for your wisdom to get me through without tears this time around
As a teen in love, I had no idea what I was in for marrying him and having 5 kids and staying for over 20 years. One night, coming home from a carnival, he was mad at me because I wouldn't give him sex, because I was tired and wanted to go home. He stopped the car on a country road, pitch black, no lights and pushed me out of the car and drove off. I stood there, frozen not knowing what to do. I could not see my hand in front of me. He did come back and I caved to his desires and tried to forget what he did. I'm in my 70's now and I never forgot that night.
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Are u still with this person?
Yes Andrew, you are our daily boost of confidence on our recovery path! Thank you and God bless you, your wisdom, your patience and your kindness 💜💜💜🇬🇧
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OMG you are spot on as usual! I got my boundaries up and guess he doesn’t like it. He wants to compete with me and can’t stand that I am making my own trail. He can’t stand it. I’m moving on and heeled and making a life for myself. He can’t handle it. I won’t respond to him. Like a toddler having a tantrum. He choked me to were I had 2 bones replaced and still says he wants me to die!
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Get a restraining order, move in stealth, move away
narcissistic road rage was the worst. for 14 years i wasnt allowed to drive lol my life isnt like that now
Thanks for these words! Ugh the horrible times in the car! It was so crazy! And I do mean mentally ill.
I was forced to drive, then... Behind the wheel, they'd start crazy ass arguments with me out of thin air. Always creating chaos, the narcissistic personality disorder demon.
Brilliant work Andrew thank you
The narcissist will never be truly happy. They will never be at peace with themselves or anyone else. Big weakness.
Great video Andrew 🙌. Resonate with it all. Very insightful. Have a good night 🙂 God bless 🌟
Lol, I'm baffled! I have no idea what your hand gesture at the end was 🤔🤔🧐
Hang in there everyone. Stay strong ☀️
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Thankyou Andrew for this great reminder😊
I think someone just got married!
I could hear the cars honking continuesly in a part of your video and couldn't help thinking i hope they dint marry a narcissist!
Just coes thats when my nightmare began...
Have a good night or day from Montreal Canada 🇨🇦 😊
I am proud to announce that today I finally blocked the N who raised me. It was the last social channel open. It was already limited/restricted with almost no contact. But man it felt great to block. I did it after listening to one of your videos. You have helped me have strength and belief in claiming my dignity. Thank you Andrew! 🙏
Well done. Congratulations. It's a big step, the first step to healing.
Everything you are saying is spot on and exactly as I've experienced. Thank you for your voice of hope, encouragement and truth to the world of empaths, and people needing to hear this! Keep up the great work!
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The complete lack of closure from these people albeit after the shock wears off is where you start realizing how cowardly and weak these people really are..Their whole agenda is to keep you on that ruminentary merry go round wondering what it is you did wrong.. After a bunch of introspection you realize that their game was to throw you off the truth and that truth is that they are devoid of love and are scared you'll find out.. Although they think they have the wool over us with their games it's just a matter of time when we can see straight through their weaknesses and start using it as a strength..when I think of her emotionless face staring at me thinking she was all that at the disgard i now see the truth that what I was staring at was a scared, weak, power hungry, dic-tator, who's only intention was to inflict as much pain as she could on a person..You could say that misdirection is their perceived superpower, I'm happy at the end of the day that introspection is mine.... The ruminatary road is a never ending circle that always ends up in the same place, no closure, building that road block and detour to get you off that road is imperative, I use the fact that simply, she was a roadblock to my evolution in this lifetime.. time to step off that road and walk a new path...or maybe if I'm lucky, find my old road and just keep going with a new hard won appreciation for - well - everything!..🙏☮️
The desert island scenario sounds wonderful! So peaceful! Thanks Andrew for all you do! ⭐️💛
Man Spring has Sprung... Loving all the wisdom and morning posts of flowers ESPECIALLY this time of year... Bless you Andrew for walking in the light and being resilient, the most important message of all... Don't become all you despise, toxicity is one of the most contagious things on the planet.... Too bad it isn't compassion and understanding (what they Sear in your soul)
That's no car alarm... That's some bastage purposely disrupting the "environment' noise pollution, spitefully inspired I'm certain🙄
You’ve hit the nail squarely on the head! You give me strength. Thank you!
Andrew, good evening. Thanks, once again you are on point. He does feel he is better than everyone. Always boasting about something or other. But when I realized he is pathological liar I become all of the achievements he talked about were far from the truth. And could never complete anything. Started law school, then dropped out then said he was going to med school, never saw the university one day. Have a blessed evening and be safe. Thanks again❤
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Wow ❤ your spot on Andrew.
I've noticed a new behavior that The Narc will ask your opinion, actually listen to your answer and then do the total opposite that isn't in the best interset for them or you (if you're living together, married) 😮
Dogs ..interesting ... I've noticed the they are in want want want... don't treat animals well, under feed, overfeed, neglect..just want some supply but not caring at all or appear to be only in front of others. 😮
Yes, that's a weakness-- their over prioritizing public IMAGE ( over you of course).
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Oh well - after 'power-listening' to some of your videos, Andrew ... ALL of the unicorns & gnomes took a real hard killing... but it was a long time coming and what survivor of narc abuse is not a work in progress... (the narcissist's grown children just took a hit, too) as they're peppered with your videos that I 'power sent' to them) Im still being called crazy and now that they know I'm listening to you, Andrew - I'm guessing they'lll feel the need to amp up their game. (Its okay - now that I'm onto them) Thanks is not a big enough word. Keep up the good work🌞TIMSHEL.
My 💞 ☮️ 🕊is very important to me!!! I will never drop my Gard again Andrew💜🙏MB
The reason why my handle is Nickeyvamp is because I had my last name on my handle.. I choose to add vamp to remind me of all of the abuse I had indured.
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The Narc be like the 5 year old ar the county fair who drops his ice cream cone on the ground by mistake, and then blames the ground for being there.
So then he grabs an ice cream cone out of a random stranger he sees, a 3 year old, much smaller little boy. So he GRABS it out of the baby's hands!
And eats it right in front of the kid's face, moaning how good it tastes, licking his lips, and teasing and taunting him the entire time saying "ha ha I have an ice cream cone and YOU DONT. And then when the 3 year old cries in sadness and hangs his head in sadness and shame the Narc has that evil "smirk" on his face. Just enjoying every minute of that kid's misery and pain. And with no empathy or compassion for the tears he says "Oh go cry to your MOMMY you big cry baby!
It's the same child bully on the playground rhat we all know who grows into an adult body, but stays child in the mind and then becomes and grows into the adult bully narc in our lives.
And ironically my Narc was bullied badly as a child. Never defended himself. And just chose to turn into the same bully that he hated.
Definitely Demonic!!
Great analogy. Sometimes, the 3 yr.old gathers his/her wits, wipes the tears ( like these educated Empaths and kicks the Narc a good one in the shin ( metaphorically speaking).
Only a Sith would weaponize a child against an adult.
Your healing light is shining bright Andrew! What a pleasure and blessing ☺️. I heard the train of confirmation, lol.. No clue what the hand gesture meant, maybe someone here will let me know 🙏✨💫☀️💜
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Hanging out with neighbors at the fire pit last night.. the a boisterous narc who I've been avoiding showed up. He couldn't fit his chair into the circle, and told me to move. I don't like confrontations, so I obliged, moving my chair four inches to the left as far as I could because another person was there, but it wasn't enough for him to get his chair in. He demanded I move my chair back away from the cozy fire pit, so he could join us- it was an expectation, he wasn't even halfway nice about it. I told him "I'm not moving my chair back (outside the circle of friends.) He could have fit in had everybody just scooched their chairs a bit, but not a single person moved (because they don't want him around, nobody likes him). Instead of asking them politely to make room, he immediately raged at me using profanity directed specifically at me. I returned his attitude. He stomped off defeated, I asked my friends loud enough for him to hear, "Did y'all hear that? This is why I don't want to be around him." They nodded, but were all a little shocked by his outburst. I'm proud of myself for not yeilding to his grandiose, entitled demands.
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Ive been considering getting rid of my cell phone entirely.
I think back and remember when the narcissist told me he was messed up and stiluck in his ways. He certainly was/ probably still is however I am happy I am no longer swept up in his tornado of chaos!
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❤ Thanks ❤ I feel better...😊❤😊❤😊
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You are the best in this topic, it’s wonderful to know that we are so many empathetic people who listen to your videos, I wish I could talke to all of them,it would be wonderful. Thanks a lot, from Denmark 😅
Thanks Andrew.
One of the lasting aspects or impacts of narcissistic abuse for me is finding out who are real friends or family and who are not.
Family gone. Only 2 friends left. But this is good.
My youngest daughters dad is a narcissist (my ex who I spoke about previously is a narcassist) but both are different in many ways, my daughter's dad initially said he would pay for my repairs to my car so I could get my/our special needs daughter to college from next week, then it suddenly turned (when I stuck up for myself when he blamed the little things on me) to...I will be stopping your maintenance till you've paid me back for the repairs to your car. Little put downs Infront of our child like I was the child and he was the sole adult.no talking about,ok she is OUR child,I will pay half seens as you get her to college everyday and you need your car..just a weapon to make me suffer. So I'm going to be worse off by 200 pounds a month without my maintenance when i would have been happy with half (I wouldn't mention diesel it takes) I love my daughter more than life,but I have had to give up working to be there for her, while he works everyday and owns two houses while I struggle. Sometimes we live on ten a week for food, while he has thousands in the bank.but he has an accountant that (tweaks) the books,so I don't have a leg to stand on. I'm going back to college in September to train as a florist, even at my age if nearly 45, but I deserve and want to work too, I know karma will hit, and I know my time will come when I can be thankful quietly and know I won't need his help with no conditions. Funny how narc's take different forms but they end up being the vile human beings with the same traits. (Putting money and themselves first) You show me that I shouldn't engage in their games, and to just be quietly respectful of myself and my beliefs and humility...namaste to you🙏
Still recovering from cptsd sleep paralysis its like im in a time warp trying to decompress ,for a few days after i left i wanted to call them ,but you helped me realize that would only make it worse on me , had to cut the family ties of the Scooby-Doo spooky mansion 👻 its not really funny sometimes i swear there are polterggeist in that house i have seen and heard crazy things that would turn you chalk white
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No, it's not a joke & very possible.
You can anoint yourself with oil & always speak out.. that you are covered by the blood of Jesus, for protection if you sense anything strange.
God Bless 🙏❤
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Can't tell you enough how much your words mean to me in my healing process. It's hard work but I'm learning what my role was in it too. Thank you 💗 🙏
Maybe you’re in Raleigh! We are too and under all of the celebration happening!
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It's the Final Four, of course 🏀
I’m going to put this on replay every single day!!! Thank you brother
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When you tilt your head to the side and use your eyes....it says it all.
you mean you think he looks like a narcissist too?
They are impotent without someone serving them 😂😂
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❤Thank you ❤ Andrew 😘🥰
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I was never apologized to in eight years.
those empty shells are full of holes
Thank you so much again.Every time I listen to you I learn new things.It's only been a couple maybe three weeks It's really helping me so much!
They know very well to wear a mask and have a target,plan sounds like a strategy
Love you so much and thank you
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Spot on.