I mean....periods definitely are disgusting, but one should never EVER make a woman feel gross because of them, always be supportive throughout all of it.
Had a very controlling (older) BF in high school, I was miserable and it became my norm. While away on a senior trip to an amusement park, my friends commented how happy and relaxed I was, like the old me. It took friends I've had since elementary school to point out the obvious. I dumped him the following day. Gave his prom ticket to my best friend and went stag to my prom, loved it!!
Yea i have no doubt even with guys it can happen with my first ex she tried to make me jealous when talking to my friends and when she broke up with me she did it on the phone......... when she lived a 5 minute walk down the street from where i lived
The first one is definitely stalker behavior. I’ve heard a story of a woman who quit her job because her workplace refused to provide an alternative exit for her post-shift so she could avoid her ex-boyfriend.
If your kid doesn't trust him something is seriously wrong if he treats your kid different than he treats you run! Please listen to your children they may spot some major red flags that you Don't see my mom's boyfriend was pretty abusive he would put on a mask whenever she was around but as soon as she left it was hell
I agree. I would also add a similar concept with a pet. I had a dog when I started dating a narcissist. He hated my dog, who was the love and the center of my life, and he didn’t want my dog around when we were together. He even said one day, “I think you love your dog more than you love me”. I saw the red flag because of his twisted jealousy over a tiny dog. So I said, “of course I love my dog more than you. She gives me her unconditional love and never criticizes what I’m wearing or anything else, and she just wants to always be with me to give me her love and make me happy”. I eventually dumped him. Like the old saying goes: “Love me, love my dog”. And if my dog obviously didn’t like a guy, or if she ran away from him, or acted nervous around him, or, especially, if she growled at him, I would immediately turn down any further date with the guy. Dogs can tell when a guy is bad news, and I always took her advice.
@@rivstarlightt thank you it's been so long when something like that happens no matter how young you are you never forget something like that just having a place to share my frustration has been really therapeutic for me I might not be able to forget what he did to me but the most that I can do is share my story and not be ashamed anymore I was drunk at a party when everything slipped out woke up the next morning to my mother hugging me apologizing for everything and I've been on the road to healing ever since
I used to do things on purpose to get myself sick because he treated me differently it was so strange if I was already sick I would eat something that I know I shouldn't and my thought was well at least this way he'll leave me alone my happiest memories where when I got sick and it was just me and my mom she would take care of me or I when it was really late at night and we would watch the Grinch movie together at least for a little while my mom and I could have a moment of peace and happiness and not have to worry about him he would either go into his room to smoke a cigarette or play video games I later learned that he had a problem with drinking he would often be out cold for hours nothing would wake him up I would share more but I'll probably end up crying everyone told me that I'm okay he's not around anymore even so that stuff sticks with you I figured that by sharing what happened to me it wouldn't feel so scary anymore I'm so relieved that I got taken seriously everyone in my family now sees him in a different light that's karma in itself I used to think that if I had gotten my revenge on him somehow the pain would finally go away turns out I didn't need to do anything karma had my back
I had a very controlling and emotionally @busive religious stepdad my Mom and I had to put up with for 4-5 years, he was a very heartless jerk, he didn't care if he offended anyone, he was never accepting either. There is a list of the things he's done and said, but I can't put everything here unfortunately (maybe some day, I'll share my story). But we did leave late last year, and now, me and my Mom are doing better, we're finally free from that hellhole. My Mom has someone new in her life that actually treats her right.
As a christian, that's a person who just claims to be religious. I'm happy you're doing better, looks like God did a good job by getting you away from that man ❤
Just yesterday I came across an animated short film with the song "I'm walking on sunshine" playing in the background. It basically animated a woman facing the harsh reality of her boyfriend being abusive but trying too hard to cover it up with gifts.
Red Flags in my Ex: - If he asks for nudes first day of the relationship (yes this happened and it typically shows they only want your body, not you. I gaslit myself into thinking he would stop). - If he continues asking for them after you say no for multiple times, leave. He obviously won't take no for an answer.
Ok, this is a major red flag I have with men/boys: the inability to do common things like cook/clean/help out. Like I don't want to do your laundry ever weekend or cook a new meal for you after a long day at work. You should be able to do that at a young age!
Had a coworker who’s BF did The Who waiting outside for her the entire shift too. Asked her about it in the women’s bathroom before the store opened to make sure she was okay and she wouldn’t be pressed to answer how he would want her to. She explained that she had a stalker and he was there to keep her safe. We went to HR and security and made sure that her stalker wasn’t allowed on the company grounds. On the plus side the police would come in to shop at least 3 times a day.
when a new guy comes into your ex best friend life while she's in a relationship and this new guy decides to kiss her, not once, but twice. Then she breaks up with her ex bf and gets with the new guy easily, and everyone around her, including me tells her its a red flag from the beginning and the new guy tells her its not a rebound. As a result, she rather ignore the red flags of this new guy and continues to stay there while he keeps playing with her and she's losing everyone around her for lying of her ex boyfriend being a bad boyfriend
@@jackiefenwick1678 specfic because it happened last year with my ex best friend and my friend. They both were a couple and a third party decided to get between them while she let this new guy get between them too.
We’re muslims so we don’t do dating before marriage, but we do go through.. a courtship stage ig you can call it? When my sister was about to get married she told her soon to be husband this: “I only have one thing that is a huge red line, you cross it, and it’s over, I don’t care if we even have 10+ kids; no disrespect. no calling names no saying things either of us will regret after” She said ever since then, whenever they get into a fight and her husband seems like he is so pissed off that he might say sth disrespectful, he takes himself out of the room/house until he calms down, same for her she leaves whenever she’s so angry that she’s about to say sth she’ll regret. And Alhamdulillah their marriage is going well since. She also said what helped her is my mother’s advice, my mum told her just last the first year, if the marriage lasts a year without major problems, then all will be fine after.
That’s actually seems like pretty good relationship advice, cool yourself down before you say something to the person you love that you will regret later. Then talk it out calmly later. Wish my parents learned how to do this. 😔
@@autisticdancer this is also similar to the advice the prophet pbuh gave us, which is that if you are angry while you are standing up, sit down, if that does not calm you (or you were sitting down), lie down. Basically changing from a position where one is ready to fight and is charged up (standing), to a more calming/relaxing/comfortable position. There is another hadith (sayings/actions recorded of the prophet) that he adviced a man who sought his advice, he told him don’t get angry, and he repeated it again and again (anger is a normal/natural emotion, the point is not that he is not allowed to get angry, but it is so he remembers and reminds himself whenever he starts feeling angry, in the footnoot of this hadith the narrator said the prophet used to advice people based on their personality, hence the man who asked for his advice might have been someone who gets angry often/his anger takes over him). In the quran there is also .. high regard(?).. for people who swallow their anger, because anger is never really good and never bears any good, it only leaves regret, the prophet said the person who swallows their anger is promised a paradise with the width of the heavens and earth. All those advice really help me whenever I get angry and remember them 😔🤌🤍
isn't it just ridiculous that most of the male leads in any dramas or wattpad stories have most of these red flags and still at the end the girl ends up choosing him in the name of 'love'?
Ikr? They're all like "Should I choose the boy who actually cares for me and emotionally supports me ORR should I choose the one who constantly guilt-trips me and is unnecessarily aggressive? wOw I cAn'T cHoOsE"
had a friend who'd asked me out and immediately started to act like we were dating... if you feel uncomfortable just get out asap. I got out after it since I didn't want to be rude
My last boyfriend had almost all of these red flags. Some I didn’t even realize until today and it’s been almost 2 years since that relationship ended. Edit. Meant to add. To this day. 2 years later. I’m still “the crazy ex”. Still not sure what I did that was crazy. All while 1 month after the break up multiple people texted me harassing me about shit he made up to make me look crazy.
My niece was saved because her boyfriend always stayed outside her work. A guy jumped her and not her to the ground! Her boyfriend got out the car and saved her. All depends the thinking behind it. maybe the KFC was in a dangerous place.
@Ba Gawk Now that I’m thinking about it, I’ve never heard of red flag in non-binary people, for example, so it would be interesting to see if they have their own red flags!
i have had so many relationships and many of the people i dated said that i was "too clingy" and if i was brave enough i would of said " well atleast i want a loyal (f word) ing relationship !"
Years later, coming back to Kyutie's channel, nothing has changed, she gets right into the video. It's such a comfort channel, almost like going through social media while being accompanied by a friend. This is a lot of consistency, Kyutie. Hope you're doing well 💕
Late last year, I had a boyfriend who made a lot of ableist jokes (knowing I was autistic). I overlooked this because in my mind it was like "Who cares?", he was "only" making jokes at my expense (never even thought about it until now because as far as I know I was the only autistic person he did that around but now I realise it he was also joking at the expense of every autistic person on the planet). Then I learned something absolutely horrible about him, broke up with him, started to realise how bad he was. Never again. Never ignore the red flags, guys.
0:30 is only acceptable if it's a night shift tho and it's like just to be safe , not to creep on the girl , and if he's doing something else not just looking at her all the time , otherwise it's kinda creepy
my dad was an angry drunk and i had a bad childhood cuz he almost never showed up but when he did, he got drunk and abused me, my sister, and whatever girlfriend during. he's a narc.
@@Thatgirly777 yes. my sister and I don't talk to him anymore but we're still around drunk people all the time :/ but I'm doing better and my sister seems to be doing fine. Thank you for asking :)
The question is not 'does he not have one little bit of trust in HER', but, 'does he not have one little bit of FAITH in HIMSELF'? If he can't trust himself to choose the right girl, then how can he trust the girl to not cheat...or run away? 'Run away' is more likely the concern; he doesn't trust HER out of his sight.
TW. Mention of self harm//su!cide attempts. - My ex would always tell me they’d either kill their self, hurt themself, or full on show me their scars or recent cuts. It would make me uncomfortable and think of things (as I was just getting better. Because of school, family and friends, had to help throughout it all.), but after a while, I started getting distant because the constant talk of them self harming, or even thinking about killing theirself just killed me. We didn’t even talk normally. It was ALWAYS about that. i couldnt do a damn thing to stop them. It was always about them as well. If I were to try to talk about my problems the first thing they’d say is either, “ok but I have my own problems? I can’t always be there for you”. Yet I was always with them when they needed me. I understand they needed more from me, but I couldn’t handle it because I also had problems as well. and the thought of losing them.. it just never.. sit right with me. Plus, I think they lied about it a few times. They said they overdosed, but then texted me like three hours later saying “he’s fine. he’s going home now”. like..? the gut feeling of him lying just made it so much worse to the point where, I found someone new in the relationship and ended up breaking off with him. he got so upset and ended up trying to do it again?- I don’t know. It seemed so.. off.. and it didn’t seem like his “attempts” were real. :/..
My first boyfriend in high-school was super hard core and everybody thought he was cute but I just didn't like him he was my first boyfriend ever so I didn't like that he didn't kiss me more often so I broke with him well years later when I was in my 20s he ended up dating my sister and I mean I can forgive my sister but I absolutely cannot ever forgive the red flags about that guy ever lol
Ok in somewhat defense of the first one, I could somewhat see the logic. If she's known to lie about going to work and actually not go to work and do other shit, I can get the logic and reasoning but for the ENTIRE shift? Nah that's a bit far.
To be honest I don't see the logic here at all, a relationship is built on trust, and if he can't even trust her then what's the point of the relationship. I mean he could go and check up on her a few days or something to surprise her and stuff but yeah.
As I mentioned before, if I could just get someone to react to my She-Stooges cartoons, I'd love to know whether or not the girls ended-up with losers. I feel like Brian and Harry are the most questionable. But remember, the girls in question act like The Three Stooges, so any one of them are idiots. Candy especially.
Pay attention to the relationship that they have with their mother. If it's Eminem and his mother, run ...if it's Jim Jones and his and his mother run faster.
I dont have a husband but a wife, and I feel like she has changed who they are, I tried to tell her about it but it still seems like she hasnt tried to change at all.. I guess I just have to wait for a bit? I dont know, but I really hope she knows that I love her no matter what and she doesnt need to change. Anyone here have advice?? 😫
Hey just wanted to ask were you got your earrings form? as I think there so beautiful, kept seeing them on all your videos and now I’ve caved so I just have to have some if there still available to buy?
Hello Ellen I think if you have a partner and use both go to work during the day you should leave with a smile and come home with a smile knowing that you don't have to check up on your partner or be paranoid about what's happening or where they are but be extra extra excited at the end of the day knowing you are going home to hug your partner and enjoy the evening in peace and laughter together but yes this of course isant all-day the. Case . That KFC story blew my mind. Wtf omg. That crazy creepy. The person must have grey hairs many more years early than they should stress . Have a great weekend Ellen and every one. Bye
guys who are disgusted by periods is definitely on that list
Definitely
i agree
And if they are disgusted by the tampons. There was a video about a guy that kept getting rid of her tampons because he was disgusted by them.
I mean....periods definitely are disgusting, but one should never EVER make a woman feel gross because of them, always be supportive throughout all of it.
@@TigerLily12345 that one infuriated me!!
Had a very controlling (older) BF in high school, I was miserable and it became my norm. While away on a senior trip to an amusement park, my friends commented how happy and relaxed I was, like the old me. It took friends I've had since elementary school to point out the obvious. I dumped him the following day. Gave his prom ticket to my best friend and went stag to my prom, loved it!!
Wow beautiful!
So glad you got away from a toxic relationship!
gj
Yea i have no doubt even with guys it can happen with my first ex she tried to make me jealous when talking to my friends and when she broke up with me she did it on the phone......... when she lived a 5 minute walk down the street from where i lived
Dont let anyway one take you in a relationship both sides need to be supportive and understanding
The first one is definitely stalker behavior. I’ve heard a story of a woman who quit her job because her workplace refused to provide an alternative exit for her post-shift so she could avoid her ex-boyfriend.
That's kinda creepy. Thankfully, I didn't date anyone who was a stalker.
that’s crazy!! thanks for sharing this story but I hope she is okay now.
Like wtf is wrong with the manager?
I would like to believe he's living in his car atm, and doesn't have a better place to be... i highly doubt it, but I would like to think so.
Yeah that creepy
Angry drunk are scary to deal with, but the happy drunk they're fun to be around and they make great jokes!
Yea
If your kid doesn't trust him something is seriously wrong if he treats your kid different than he treats you run! Please listen to your children they may spot some major red flags that you Don't see my mom's boyfriend was pretty abusive he would put on a mask whenever she was around but as soon as she left it was hell
I’m so sorry you had to go through that, thank you for spreading awareness
I agree. I would also add a similar concept with a pet. I had a dog when I started dating a narcissist. He hated my dog, who was the love and the center of my life, and he didn’t want my dog around when we were together. He even said one day, “I think you love your dog more than you love me”. I saw the red flag because of his twisted jealousy over a tiny dog. So I said, “of course I love my dog more than you. She gives me her unconditional love and never criticizes what I’m wearing or anything else, and she just wants to always be with me to give me her love and make me happy”. I eventually dumped him. Like the old saying goes: “Love me, love my dog”. And if my dog obviously didn’t like a guy, or if she ran away from him, or acted nervous around him, or, especially, if she growled at him, I would immediately turn down any further date with the guy. Dogs can tell when a guy is bad news, and I always took her advice.
@@rivstarlightt thank you it's been so long when something like that happens no matter how young you are you never forget something like that just having a place to share my frustration has been really therapeutic for me I might not be able to forget what he did to me but the most that I can do is share my story and not be ashamed anymore I was drunk at a party when everything slipped out woke up the next morning to my mother hugging me apologizing for everything and I've been on the road to healing ever since
I used to do things on purpose to get myself sick because he treated me differently it was so strange if I was already sick I would eat something that I know I shouldn't and my thought was well at least this way he'll leave me alone my happiest memories where when I got sick and it was just me and my mom she would take care of me or I when it was really late at night and we would watch the Grinch movie together at least for a little while my mom and I could have a moment of peace and happiness and not have to worry about him he would either go into his room to smoke a cigarette or play video games I later learned that he had a problem with drinking he would often be out cold for hours nothing would wake him up I would share more but I'll probably end up crying everyone told me that I'm okay he's not around anymore even so that stuff sticks with you I figured that by sharing what happened to me it wouldn't feel so scary anymore I'm so relieved that I got taken seriously everyone in my family now sees him in a different light that's karma in itself I used to think that if I had gotten my revenge on him somehow the pain would finally go away turns out I didn't need to do anything karma had my back
I had a very controlling and emotionally @busive religious stepdad my Mom and I had to put up with for 4-5 years, he was a very heartless jerk, he didn't care if he offended anyone, he was never accepting either. There is a list of the things he's done and said, but I can't put everything here unfortunately (maybe some day, I'll share my story).
But we did leave late last year, and now, me and my Mom are doing better, we're finally free from that hellhole. My Mom has someone new in her life that actually treats her right.
Good for you and your mother!
Good for you guys, I wish you all the best in life and I hope your year is amazing!
As a christian, that's a person who just claims to be religious. I'm happy you're doing better, looks like God did a good job by getting you away from that man ❤
Basically, if you see this in men OR women, NOPE OUT OF THERE. (Talking to you, random person out there who isn’t doing that)
Just yesterday I came across an animated short film with the song "I'm walking on sunshine" playing in the background. It basically animated a woman facing the harsh reality of her boyfriend being abusive but trying too hard to cover it up with gifts.
What is it called?
@@stevengrantods3803 "Sunshine: Don't confuse love and abuse."
OH I'VE SEEN THAT ONE
Red Flags in my Ex:
- If he asks for nudes first day of the relationship (yes this happened and it typically shows they only want your body, not you. I gaslit myself into thinking he would stop).
- If he continues asking for them after you say no for multiple times, leave. He obviously won't take no for an answer.
Ok, this is a major red flag I have with men/boys: the inability to do common things like cook/clean/help out. Like I don't want to do your laundry ever weekend or cook a new meal for you after a long day at work. You should be able to do that at a young age!
fr like Im not your mother.
Had a coworker who’s BF did The Who waiting outside for her the entire shift too. Asked her about it in the women’s bathroom before the store opened to make sure she was okay and she wouldn’t be pressed to answer how he would want her to. She explained that she had a stalker and he was there to keep her safe. We went to HR and security and made sure that her stalker wasn’t allowed on the company grounds. On the plus side the police would come in to shop at least 3 times a day.
I feel like some of the red flags in men and women are the same but they all have different emotions attached to the red flags
when a new guy comes into your ex best friend life while she's in a relationship and this new guy decides to kiss her, not once, but twice. Then she breaks up with her ex bf and gets with the new guy easily, and everyone around her, including me tells her its a red flag from the beginning and the new guy tells her its not a rebound.
As a result, she rather ignore the red flags of this new guy and continues to stay there while he keeps playing with her and she's losing everyone around her for lying of her ex boyfriend being a bad boyfriend
Oddly specific or is that just me
@@jackiefenwick1678 specfic because it happened last year with my ex best friend and my friend. They both were a couple and a third party decided to get between them while she let this new guy get between them too.
We’re muslims so we don’t do dating before marriage, but we do go through.. a courtship stage ig you can call it?
When my sister was about to get married she told her soon to be husband this:
“I only have one thing that is a huge red line, you cross it, and it’s over, I don’t care if we even have 10+ kids; no disrespect. no calling names no saying things either of us will regret after”
She said ever since then, whenever they get into a fight and her husband seems like he is so pissed off that he might say sth disrespectful, he takes himself out of the room/house until he calms down, same for her she leaves whenever she’s so angry that she’s about to say sth she’ll regret. And Alhamdulillah their marriage is going well since.
She also said what helped her is my mother’s advice, my mum told her just last the first year, if the marriage lasts a year without major problems, then all will be fine after.
That’s actually seems like pretty good relationship advice, cool yourself down before you say something to the person you love that you will regret later. Then talk it out calmly later. Wish my parents learned how to do this. 😔
@@autisticdancer this is also similar to the advice the prophet pbuh gave us, which is that if you are angry while you are standing up, sit down, if that does not calm you (or you were sitting down), lie down. Basically changing from a position where one is ready to fight and is charged up (standing), to a more calming/relaxing/comfortable position.
There is another hadith (sayings/actions recorded of the prophet) that he adviced a man who sought his advice, he told him don’t get angry, and he repeated it again and again (anger is a normal/natural emotion, the point is not that he is not allowed to get angry, but it is so he remembers and reminds himself whenever he starts feeling angry, in the footnoot of this hadith the narrator said the prophet used to advice people based on their personality, hence the man who asked for his advice might have been someone who gets angry often/his anger takes over him).
In the quran there is also .. high regard(?).. for people who swallow their anger, because anger is never really good and never bears any good, it only leaves regret, the prophet said the person who swallows their anger is promised a paradise with the width of the heavens and earth.
All those advice really help me whenever I get angry and remember them 😔🤌🤍
Not Muslim, but thank you for the advice
isn't it just ridiculous that most of the male leads in any dramas or wattpad stories have most of these red flags and still at the end the girl ends up choosing him in the name of 'love'?
Ikr
Ikr? They're all like "Should I choose the boy who actually cares for me and emotionally supports me ORR should I choose the one who constantly guilt-trips me and is unnecessarily aggressive? wOw I cAn'T cHoOsE"
@@littlelemon3465 they literally decide who to choose from the very first moment and that's the one with an uncontrollable temper.
had a friend who'd asked me out and immediately started to act like we were dating... if you feel uncomfortable just get out asap. I got out after it since I didn't want to be rude
I’m loving these type of vids! They’re very helpful and so entertaining at the same time. Keep up the great uploads, Ellen! ❤️
@Ba Gawk Yep!
Honestly, I think these are just general red flags, same as those in the women version.
I feel really bad because a lot of these are how my moms husband acts to my mom
I feel like some of these apply to friends as well
My last boyfriend had almost all of these red flags. Some I didn’t even realize until today and it’s been almost 2 years since that relationship ended.
Edit. Meant to add. To this day. 2 years later. I’m still “the crazy ex”. Still not sure what I did that was crazy. All while 1 month after the break up multiple people texted me harassing me about shit he made up to make me look crazy.
These are all so true. Multiple flags could be applied to an ex I had. I was stupid for staying so long 🙄
My niece was saved because her boyfriend always stayed outside her work. A guy jumped her and not her to the ground! Her boyfriend got out the car and saved her. All depends the thinking behind it. maybe the KFC was in a dangerous place.
I like how today’s video is a sequel to yesterday‘s video but opposite😂😁
@Ba Gawk Now that I’m thinking about it, I’ve never heard of red flag in non-binary people, for example, so it would be interesting to see if they have their own red flags!
i have had so many relationships and many of the people i dated said that i was "too clingy" and if i was brave enough i would of said " well atleast i want a loyal (f word) ing relationship !"
Yess I really want to learn these early on.
Years later, coming back to Kyutie's channel, nothing has changed, she gets right into the video. It's such a comfort channel, almost like going through social media while being accompanied by a friend.
This is a lot of consistency, Kyutie. Hope you're doing well 💕
awww, such kind words.. thank you!
Late last year, I had a boyfriend who made a lot of ableist jokes (knowing I was autistic). I overlooked this because in my mind it was like "Who cares?", he was "only" making jokes at my expense (never even thought about it until now because as far as I know I was the only autistic person he did that around but now I realise it he was also joking at the expense of every autistic person on the planet). Then I learned something absolutely horrible about him, broke up with him, started to realise how bad he was. Never again. Never ignore the red flags, guys.
0:30 is only acceptable if it's a night shift tho and it's like just to be safe , not to creep on the girl , and if he's doing something else not just looking at her all the time , otherwise it's kinda creepy
"Here we go again."
If they aren't able to take any blame, RUN
my dad was an angry drunk and i had a bad childhood cuz he almost never showed up but when he did, he got drunk and abused me, my sister, and whatever girlfriend during. he's a narc.
Has your life gotten any better
@@Thatgirly777 yes. my sister and I don't talk to him anymore but we're still around drunk people all the time :/ but I'm doing better and my sister seems to be doing fine. Thank you for asking :)
@@karissa-tkaczoh good!! that comforts me stay safe ^^^^
These go for friends too!!
The question is not 'does he not have one little bit of trust in HER', but, 'does he not have one little bit of FAITH in HIMSELF'? If he can't trust himself to choose the right girl, then how can he trust the girl to not cheat...or run away? 'Run away' is more likely the concern; he doesn't trust HER out of his sight.
I really like how you just get right to the point and not do a 2-minute intro telling people to subscribe...
TW. Mention of self harm//su!cide attempts. -
My ex would always tell me they’d either kill their self, hurt themself, or full on show me their scars or recent cuts. It would make me uncomfortable and think of things (as I was just getting better. Because of school, family and friends, had to help throughout it all.), but after a while, I started getting distant because the constant talk of them self harming, or even thinking about killing theirself just killed me. We didn’t even talk normally. It was ALWAYS about that. i couldnt do a damn thing to stop them. It was always about them as well. If I were to try to talk about my problems the first thing they’d say is either, “ok but I have my own problems? I can’t always be there for you”. Yet I was always with them when they needed me. I understand they needed more from me, but I couldn’t handle it because I also had problems as well. and the thought of losing them.. it just never.. sit right with me. Plus, I think they lied about it a few times. They said they overdosed, but then texted me like three hours later saying “he’s fine. he’s going home now”. like..? the gut feeling of him lying just made it so much worse to the point where, I found someone new in the relationship and ended up breaking off with him. he got so upset and ended up trying to do it again?- I don’t know. It seemed so.. off.. and it didn’t seem like his “attempts” were real. :/..
My first boyfriend in high-school was super hard core and everybody thought he was cute but I just didn't like him he was my first boyfriend ever so I didn't like that he didn't kiss me more often so I broke with him well years later when I was in my 20s he ended up dating my sister and I mean I can forgive my sister but I absolutely cannot ever forgive the red flags about that guy ever lol
These videos are so helpful and fun to watch please do more in the future, love you!!!! ❤️
I love your videos, I always watch them on the morning before I go to uni
Ok in somewhat defense of the first one, I could somewhat see the logic. If she's known to lie about going to work and actually not go to work and do other shit, I can get the logic and reasoning but for the ENTIRE shift? Nah that's a bit far.
To be honest I don't see the logic here at all, a relationship is built on trust, and if he can't even trust her then what's the point of the relationship. I mean he could go and check up on her a few days or something to surprise her and stuff but yeah.
Damn this video came for me since im going through a break up 😂 cant come for a girl like that jk. Love your videos though.
I've been watching you for years, keep it up ❤
As I mentioned before, if I could just get someone to react to my She-Stooges cartoons, I'd love to know whether or not the girls ended-up with losers.
I feel like Brian and Harry are the most questionable.
But remember, the girls in question act like The Three Stooges, so any one of them are idiots.
Candy especially.
This is why the only toxic relationship i will accept are from my cats
Pay attention to the relationship that they have with their mother. If it's Eminem and his mother, run ...if it's Jim Jones and his and his mother run faster.
Me an aro ace: interesting
I needed this
making sure my future s/o wont have any of these🤞
My little chocolate coco butter Shea butter chocolate chip brown fudge queen
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It took me years to get out of my love bomber relationship because I was so alone and desperate (he also had many other of these 🚩)
Red flag: if they breathe
Jk🤣🤣
I dont have a husband but a wife, and I feel like she has changed who they are, I tried to tell her about it but it still seems like she hasnt tried to change at all.. I guess I just have to wait for a bit? I dont know, but I really hope she knows that I love her no matter what and she doesnt need to change. Anyone here have advice?? 😫
out of topic but ur so pretty
They meet my dad and run 😂😂
10 minutes early and you are the best!!
Hey just wanted to ask were you got your earrings form? as I think there so beautiful, kept seeing them on all your videos and now I’ve caved so I just have to have some if there still available to buy?
So true
Love your videos
Hi Ellen! Can you play Emily Is Away 3? :D
Hello Ellen I think if you have a partner and use both go to work during the day you should leave with a smile and come home with a smile knowing that you don't have to check up on your partner or be paranoid about what's happening or where they are but be extra extra excited at the end of the day knowing you are going home to hug your partner and enjoy the evening in peace and laughter together but yes this of course isant all-day the. Case . That KFC story blew my mind. Wtf omg. That crazy creepy. The person must have grey hairs many more years early than they should stress . Have a great weekend Ellen and every one. Bye
Omg I’m so early and I love your vids kyutie
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too speedy for u :^
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Even though i am lesbian, i feel like i am not worthy of love due to being dumped a lot.
I’m really sorry about that!! I’m sure there will be someone who will truly love you! If you need to talk, I’m here!
@@cococoffee2305 it is what is. I havent dated in a while tho, i gotta get myself together
@@isismeow111 Everyone is ready at different times. I hope all goes well for you!
Hi. 50th comment. 26 minutes in the time of being up.
IM EARLY
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@@shadowboxer1 thanks 😊