@@ReyRey42315 I don’t know but out of the three comments I’ve seen, he replied to two of them which were both taken down or deleted. I’m pretty sure it’s either “men go through that too” or “it’s the woman’s fault”
@@ReyRey42315 Not sure, though looking at the comment section they're replying to comments with sexist things against women, so yeah. Why are they like that? No idea.
When I was a teenager I was almost human trafficked or kidnapped at a car wash. It was one of those car washes where you watched your car go through while you waited inside and watched through the glass. This man comes up asking me if I was a model, will I come to his car, he has this friend who he needs to take me to so I can get started…..yeah, all my alarm bells were ringing, I couldn’t really get away from him because my car was in the machine. I excused myself and said I needed to find a restroom. The manager of the place came up to me (probably because I looked like a scared rabbit. This was before cell phones.). He basically ended up hiding me in his office. I don’t know how he got rid of the guy, but it took like 30 minutes to convince him to go away. I had a terrible, sinking feeling in my stomach. That manager saved me from a terrible fate. Bless him.
I am a 6' 260lbs male. I was walking behind this tiny woman late at night one night. I said to her "While I am technically following you, I am not actually following you." She gave a small nervous laugh and thanked me. She visually relaxed and we went our own ways.
@@robynsalaver4069 I try. The flip side of this is that I don't want the cops called on me for stalking/menacing when all I wanted to do is get an ice cream from the store.
Good job. Don’t get the cops called on you. Also, can we just appreciate the people who go out of their way to comfort others and just mind their own business afterwards?
I’m 6’1 and around 270, I like to take late night walks so in situations like that I always try to call my brother or something and talk to him about something random to make sure they know I’m not following them
I was only 13ish and was riding my bike with a friend at a local park. A guy (known to me) from the local fire department pulled up and started chatting, he then pulled me up to his truck window and kissed me, I was in shock. He kept pulling at me and kept asking me to go for a ride. My friend (13M) pulled up and I said "Hey, we better get to Miss Jane's house, we're late." I can only imagine what my face looked like and he replied quickly "Yeah, you're right, our parents will get mad, best leave now!" And with that we cycled as fast as we could to Miss Jane's house, she called my parents. Apparently this guy was creeping on a lot of the girls whose parents were members of the fire department. My father put a stop to that.
This guy who wouldn't stop making advances was going to be at this party at my house, so I begged a friend of mine- super tall, charismatic, people person- to come, and he did even though he was exhausted. The creepy guy didn't make any advances, and my friend kept everything cheerful and civil. He's lovely
First time at a bar with friends, but not first time drinking. We had ordered a pitcher and I drank most of it. Some 40ish year old tried to pass as a 25 year old after he learned my age. Why? I told the dude I wasn't interested as he literally scanned me up and down. He kept saying he was 25, but he for sure wasn't. I had a guy friend sitting next to me and he told me he had noticed my body language. The hesitation in my voice, despite the slurring, also tipped him off that I wasn't comfortable. Andrew told the old guy off; standing between the creep and I so I was safe in a corner. Eventually old dude backed down - even coward a little. It's sad men don't take "no" for an answer. Edit: I fell out of touch with Andrew, but to this day I am thankful for him.
@@941sotaboy2 wow, you're one of those trolls. Here's a fact for you, I wasn't leading the 40 year old stranger on. I was there like most of the people there- for beer. You sound like the type of creeper he was being.
My best friend is a guy, and he's so good to me. We went to the fair a little while ago and this guy was hitting on me. He even followed me on a ride. I told him I had a boyfriend and the guy was like "oh then where is he?" Just then my best friend came back from grabbing us food and goes, "right here dip shit." The guy STILL wouldn't leave me alone, so my friend put his arm around me and took me to the food court. In front of everybody he told the guy off for bothering us and security showed up. The guy finally left us alone and I STILL mention it
Hello, Thank you for reading my comment thank goodness that you are okay say hi to him for me I wish I have a guy friend, also stay hydrated and healthy :D 🥹🥹☺️
*I loved the guy who noticed the girl was uncomfortable, it's like he has a sixth sense. :0 And, poor girls :(( This gave me more reasons to stay at home forever :"D Good thing, I'm an introvert.* *And, salute to these guys! They are rare these days.*
These guys are heroes. I hope someday we live in a world where women don’t need protection like this, where men just recognize when women don’t want to talk to them or just take no for an answer.
My husband's boss did something similar, two women started hitting on my husband and one even mentioned about taking him home with them. His boss while she can be sweet and nice, she can also be heavily sarcastic and mean when called for it. That's what she did, called them out saying he's married and if they didn't leave right then and there(she finished checking out and stayed to keep trying to flirt with him), she would not only call me to come there but she would kick them out herself. She saw how uncomfortable my husband got after even saying he's married with two babies under 5. They both told me, but she said she would take over their check outs if they came back while he was working. Women and men should be helping each other if the other is uncomfortable. But those men are the MPV(? Probably did that wrong) for their jobs.
@@rcbeckers3442 Thanks! I couldn't remember how it went. I agree 100%, we all should keep an eye out if someone is in trouble no matter the sex/gender.
I was on a train once and a woman was breastfeeding. She was covered, but a couple of young men were making lude comments and telling her to "show the other one", amongst other things. A bloke with his wife sitting oposite her got up and sat in the seat next to the breastfeeding mother to block the view. The younger blokes backed off. There are gentlemen out there. If ever you're in a spot, they'll be there. They don't wear capes, but they are heroes.
Not really my story but my friends. She was a grade ahead of me and asked me to attend prom with her as friends. She'd just broken up with her possessive boyfriend (PB) and really didn't like going to social events alone. I agreed and went. I met her friends from the upper grade and we were having a great time. At some point I'd earned the title Little Sister Friend. Everything was going fine until I ran into PB by the drinks. He asked me to give the drink he was holding to my friend. I brought it back to her and told her where it came from, which she then dumped it (What I should have done). Later that night we'd been separated and I found PB trying to dance with her, then demanding why she didn't take the drink. Things to keep in mind. This guy was like 6' and a basketball player. I was and still am 5'4 on a good day, usually with a book in my hand. No way was I going to be able to stop this guy if things went wrong. He starts to grab her arm while I'm freaking out, trying to find the others, when this 6'3 football player walks over, puts his arm around her and casually says their dating. PB never showed up again that night. And after 2 months of being wing-girl, bestie and football jock were dating. That was two years ago and from what I can tell, they're a long distance couple due to college.
@@rena9526 they are! They've started planning to move in together when they finish college! A scary night for sure but she says she wouldn't give it up for the world 🥰
I've heard a story where once two teenage girls went up to the person who was telling the story, and said, "Hey Jessica how are you?" The person was confused, but later on the girls said that there was a guy who was taking pictures and following the person around. It creeped me out
@@msepiphqny at least to every comment when he knows it's a FeMaLe. Me thinks he doesn't get enough hugs from his mother at 15 so he's acting like a child.
The Xmas party story shows what life was like for those of us women who were in the workforce back then (I'm 63). It was a balancing act. I personally was asked not once but 3 times to be a mistress from 3 different managers in 3 different jobs. I had to politely return gifts so as not to be obliged to the male co-worker looking for payment in kind (if you know what I mean). I had to pass on lucrative positions because I could tell in the interview that I would have a problem with the boss. Women had to constantly deal with sexual harrassment. It's not so bad now - we have the right to tell them to get lost and back off without losing our jobs. We didn't then.
I work at a gas station and this guy that always hits on me walks in there and started to say inappropriate things after I gave him his stuff since I was there by myself and a regular customer comes in who i know somewhat personally and I just said his name really loud and he was like what’s up as he normally does. So i went to him hugged him and whispered “he’s creeping me out” so he pretended to be my boyfriend and the guy left after that
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We need guys to do Tik Toks and podcasts on when this has happened with them, the body language tips that clued them in and the best ways they've found to handle the situation. You don't always have to be a burly champion and get aggressive; you could be a cousin and the conversation about an ill mutual relative, a friend of her brothers and wanting to catch up with news of him, or her sibling ... so many ways to potentially save a life! Just please don't ask for a kiss or anything in return for the rescue - that's always so disappointing.
The real horror of all this is that there are so many men out there who don't respect the human rights of anyone else, and will only stop when stopped by force, or the convincing threat of it. They never learn "live by the sword, die by the sword". If nothing can make a person behave except being forced, sooner or later someone will force them to behave. Feeling entitled to someone else's body is the ethos of scum.
I hope someday you get the chance to be one of those men for your sister. You’ll be amazed how much it will be a defining moment for your relationship. My brother “rescued” me a similar way once, and in my books he has been my hero ever since.
Not a man, but my mother. I was about 9 or 10 when we were driving down the street in the East Bay Area and saw a couple of girls walking in the opposite direction, looking very tense with two guys who seemed to be keeping pace behind them. I noticed the girls, but wasn't really paying attention. My mother did a U-turn and came up alongside them and told me to roll down my window. At first I thought she knew them and she said "Are you OK? Do you need a ride?" Then my mother told me to unlock the back door on my side and the girls just got in and my mother drove off. It turns out my mother didn't know them, but it looked like they were in trouble and made the decision to go to them. They started talking about how those guys were scaring them and my mother asked them where they wanted to go. We drove them to the house of one of them who said she had a key to get in. Then we left. I always remembered that about my mother. I've never been in the same situation again, but I think I would try to do what she did.
I was in on a date while on Workmans comp for a line of duty injury. I was on a cane due to an injured knee….while walking into the cinema I heard a woman yelling for help and telling a man to leave her alone. I handed my cane to my girlfriend and walked over with as little a limp as I could manage. The guy told me to mind my business so I displayed my badge and told him this seemed like it was exactly my business. We had a brief discussion and he decided he suddenly needed to be elswhere. We called the local pd and once they arrived I walked back to my girlfriend. She noticed that I was sweating and pale at this point and handed me back my cane….while clucking at me for always being “ that guy”.
Wish there were more good people like you, though i've met a few and try to be one myself. I wish you all the best and hope that your leg is better now, and i hope you keep being "that guy" as your lady put it, the guy who is willing to go out of their way to help others who are in need. It's a lovely trait 💕💕
being "that guy" is a good thing...however you had me on the first half, not going to lie. For a brief moment I thought you were going to let your girlfriend have at him with that cane. Hope your injury has healed though
just yesterday one of my exes kept harassing me by repeatedly emailing me even when i asked him not to for months. my solution? pretend to be my own bf and let this idiot have a piece of my mind cus he wont listen to me but he listened to "my bf" lmao still cant believe he fell for it *edit: its rly sad that i had to do that because he wouldn't take 'no' and 'stop' as an answer. if someones harassing you by email or through texting, snapchat, insta, whatever, don't let them guilt trip you by saying "i was just checking up on you" like my ex did, thats a manipulation tactic to make you feel guilty. don't back down, give them a piece of your mind and stand your ground.*
Was on vacation with a friend in Grand Cayman years ago and went to see a live band play at another hotel. We were drinking and having fun watching the band and this creepy guy kept hanging around and trying to talk to us. After their set, or during a break, I don't remember, the band came over to talk to us and ended up taking us back to our hotel in their van. In the morning, my friend and I realized that the band probably knew something was up with that creepy guy and took steps to make sure we'd be okay. How cool is that? I still feel grateful to them.
I was "Uncle Steve" one evening after work. Walked into the parking lot and a woman walks towards me asking if I had jumper cables. She had a slightly desperate look in her eye and a guy standing a few yards behind her saying he had everything in hand. I told her I was pretty sure I did (because I did) and pulled my car up by hers, basically blocking it in the spot. Then got the cables out. Creepy guy asks if I need help, I reply something like "If I can jump a log truck in the woods I can handle a Honda in a parking lot." He got the idea and headed towards his car. As I wired her up I said if he turns around or doesn't leave, get in my car and we'll circle the block until the cops show up. I took my time (red to red, black to black usually only takes about 10 seconds) and once he was clearly past the first light , started her car and got her out of there.
In reference to the first story. One of my friends was suffering from similar harassment with a mutual acquaintance being the person at fault. Well, just after she finished reporting to me about this guy. He walks up and proceeded to harass her in front of me. I had been having a bad day, and seeing my friend being made uncomfortable and having clearly stated she wasn't interested and him ignoring her. Well that was the end of my patience. The poor guy looked like I had him in a Force hold for the next 10 minutes perhaps while I pretty much talked... Except what I did was psychological in nature. He really couldn't respond because I was furious and basically shredded him to pieces mentally, before I decided him being in pieces wasn't enough... I stitched him up so that he would never try that BS again with my friend...apparently I scared him so badly that evening that he not only stopped harassing my friend, but all of the other people he'd been harassing were no longer being harassed. I don't remember, whatever it is that I said, but I know that it probably was traumatic, particularly since he was literally held in place by the sheer force of my will. I was a whole two meters from him physically, but he literally couldn't move without my permission. The speed and precision of my mind in that moment actually scared me. Even my friend was more than a little scared of me when that happened, because she'd never seen me actually be angry, let alone furious. I keep myself under tight control precisely because I know how horrific my anger can be...essentially, I don't like hurting people in the ways I have been hurt, so I make a large effort to diffuse things before it gets to a point where I am triggered. It means that most people don't even see me beyond mildly annoyed. I am that good at handling my anger. However, apparently even witnessing me being angry is enough to scare people. My second roommate saw me when I was angry about something, without my realizing he saw me, and he put in a room change request the same day. Ironic since if I had been one to do anything, he would've known about it far sooner. But yeah...apparently I'm scary, and I also look like a Viking.😅
@@cybercat29 LOL I felt horrible afterwards...so while it solved the problem, it left me feeling like I had been hit hard in the stomach... nauseated is a kind way to put it.
@@BJCMXY Don’t be. You have courage that’s hard to find and express nowadays and you can be proud of that 🙂 You know your own potential and where the line is so trust in yourself more and have confidence to speak out when you think its necessary
@@BJCMXY trust me I know how that feels, but sometimes letting your demons out to play is the right thing, even if our brains disagree. I'm a generally mild mannered, cheerful chatterbox but piss me off and I've been told what I say feels like plunging a hot poker in their gut, twisting it around and pulling out your insides. Still sounds a bit exaggerated to me but I do get pretty heartless when I'm mad, saying things that others didn't think was possible for me to say. You may have felt horrible but take solace that your darkness, possibly saved someone else's sanity.
as you should, I would take huge pride in that to be honest! I can also relate to that too: I conceal all my anger or when im being bothered until im pushed off the edge where people around me are actually shocked. I guess I rarely show it
Happened to me. I was alone at my local bar I frequented. The owner and the workers all knew me and my family. But I was having a rough night, and decided to go solo to drown my sorrows a bit. The bar tender, Lynn, was taking good care of me. Soon this smelly older guy was all up on me. I had no idea why as I had already lost what youthful beauty I had, guys don't go for fat single mothers like that. But down the bar, the owner was talking with some of his buddies. They called me down to sit with them and started up convo. I was drunk enough to not realize what they were trying to do, but eventually caught on and went down to sit with them. They made sure the creep was gone before letting me go home, after closing time. They let me sober up first ofc, and I was just a short drive down the road. They followed me to make sure I made it alright, and to make sure the wrong person didn't follow me. I could never thank them enough for looking after me that night, in more than one way.
Really wish there were good guys like this around when I needed them. I'm glad they exist and are helping women and girls everywhere. I'm 5ft, queer, and a woman. These creeps are why I always have some kind of weapon in my room, or have something makeshift on me. Even made a necklace that can turn into a ball n' chain. Not taking any chances.
@@deedoc6241 So, 1. I took a glass bead ball (Recycled African glass) and made a silver wire cage around it. (Had to stretch the silver to about 4 ft, then use a drill with a special bit to twist it, so it was then 2ft). 2. The silver wire went inside the ball twice (which you need to pull through with plyers, it is a tight fit) and it should have four parts around it, like a ribbon on a present that has the bow on all six sides of the box/cube and one side is the bow. 3. Then you can add decorations, so long as you have the sturdy wire cage and a loop at the top for the necklace chain to go through. 4. Then you get a nice sturdy chain (I like nickle or brass). 5. The part that makes it the ball n' chain is the clasp. It is a circle and stick one--where the little stick end goes into/through the circle end. So, you can keep it clasped to wear, OR, you can hold the stick end and let the chain for the neck drop down with the circle end of the clasp. So the result is you are holding one end with the stick clasp, and the circle clas is atop the ball with the neck chain going through it. www.ebay.com/itm/313325819741 (This clasp is KEY. Other than that, just make a nice ball with a wire cage and get a nice chain. Hope this helps!)
I had a creepy dude while I was out with my sisters on my 21st bday. I was blackout drunk and said dude tried hitting on me and apparently I screamed at him that I was married, and that I would castrate him with a bear trap....yep. it's on video, which hubby saw as soon as he got off work. 🤣🤣🤣
And my male roommate still doesn't get why I need him to lock the door at night before sleep. Great guy, and would do what these guys have done. But sometimes forgets to lock the door. We (women) feel unsafe. I wonder why. /s
I really enjoyed this topic of video. Any chance we could see more like this? It is helpful as to ways us women (or anyone really) can get out of a potentially dangerous situation and helps to normalize reaching out to strangers for assistance.
I was out for a walk late one night when I heard sounds of arguing. As I rounded the corner I saw a man capering around a woman like a lunatic. She was trying to walk quickly towards the end of the block I had just turned onto on the other side of the street but he kept jumping in front her. Her posture was very stiff and her arms were crossed tightly. I yelled when I saw him getting right in her face with his arms stretched out to his sides in a classic "C'mon!" pose and she shied away. He turned towards me and charged yelling expletives and I spent the next two or three minutes dodging around the middle of the street as I refused to fight him. He finally gave up but she was out of sight. She didn't even look back; I made sure his attention was on me as she speed walked away. Don't know what was actually going on but there wasn't another person in sight. I had to do something and I'm glad she didn't stop.
I’m an introvert and have to be dragged out of the house so I never go out alone. It’s usually my mom that drags me out. But if we see someone is trouble- doesn’t matter who - you can be damn sure they will be taken care of, protected and they will have a safe ride home. Super sad but we do know someone who can be a creep like these guys. He’s afraid of me though and he owes me money. If he’s creeping a girl out I become her best friend for the night and he keeps his distance
There's this shopping center close-ish to where I live. Most of it closes somewhat early, but there is a dance studio (on the south side) and a restaurant and an ice cream shop (on the east side) that are open a bit later. The area with the ice cream shop is pretty lively at night, but the area with the dance studio is pretty dead. After class one night, this creep started following me and whispering profanities, gradually getting faster and louder until I was actually running. At one point he got close enough where I felt his spit on the back of my neck. That was after I tried to make a turn and my legs gave out on me (I had just danced for four hours after not dancing for years). I made it to the east section, though, and kinda just found a wall to collapse against (I definitely didn't feel safe enough going out to my car in the dark, especially since it was towards the south side). After a little bit, this group of four men noticed me (crying because ???) and after telling them what happened, three of them went off to make sure the man wasn't around as well as find the security guard while the fourth stayed with me and told me about his wife and newborn daughter. They all ended up walking me to my car afterwards. I honestly had never felt safer (which was weird after such a terrifying experience). It was like I had been adopted by four older brothers for the night. Honestly, don't remember any of your names, but I'll be forever grateful for the way y'all took my mind off of what happened and kept me safe for the rest of the night, especially as I was in no condition to keep myself properly safe. So, thank you :)
when I was about 17 I went out one evening with some friends. On the way to the subway, I was walking faster than they were since it was getting late and I wanted to go home, so before I realized I was walking by myself. Noticed a group of guys, but continued on my way. Then, one of them tripped me on purpose so I turned around ready to slap whoever had done it. My hair, that had been up to then under the hat I was wearing, came down to my shoulders, and next thing I know one of the idiots in the crowd said, "she's a girl". with that, and if my magic a police officer showed up and walked me away from the crowd of idiots. never found out who tripped me, but those guys got real quiet real fast lol
Closest I've had was when i was working closing shift in fast food. I got a bad vibe off a customer a few minutes before closing, and apparently i wasnt the only one. My two coworkers, one who was training to be a body builder, stood behind me glaring him down, and my manager offered me extra hours to stay past lobby closing so one of them could give me a ride home. Probably a good thing. One of the guys went out to smoke after lobby closed, and spotted the guys car in the dark courner of the parking lot, where pedestrians have to walk to get to the sidewalk. After that, I started always wearing hairsticks when walking home at night. They don't look dangerous, but can be in a pinch, and I can reach one even if my arms are pinned.
I have see to shoot events at a couple of clubs in Scottsdale and it was pretty much an every weekend deal having to pretend to be some Gogo dancer’s boyfriend to ward off the drunk creeps.
the part that scares me the most is that one or two of these women left the BAR safely only to DRIVE away. They probably hardly drank anything if at all, but still…
You know it's just really nice to see a video like this where people are protecting each other and the classic beautiful interaction that men and women can have is still alive. There may be Hope for humanity yet! Thank you little lady, right about now I really needed SOME sign 💝💖
Thanks for choosing this topic. Great to hear your reaction and also great to hear these stories about random strangers protecting others. The girl with the spiked drink.... I don't think the hero suspected her drink was spiked. I think he just needed an excuse to get her to go with him to get away from the creep. He is an even bigger hero for saying afterwards that he was glad he picked THAT drink, as he realised that she could have been on the receiving end of it and things would have ended badly for her had she drunk it.
I would get off from work at night, and we'd always been told you can't park too close to the store because that was for guests. This night was especially thick fog and you couldn't see very far. One of my tall, male managers stopped me from leaving to let me know that he'd seen some creepy dude out there and walked me to my car to make sure I'd make it there safely and unbotheered. He let me know it's okay to park closer, especially when I'm closing, as it's for my own safety. Nothing big happened, but I'm still grateful for the guys at my work that I knew would do this for me.
@@cybercat29 Pepper spray and taser both are illegal in Canada? How are women supposed to defend themselves. I'm Indian, so I had to google about the prohibited items. Last resort, learn martial art😕
Pepper spray and literally anything designed for offensive use is banned in Australia. I'm a super short girl (barely 1.5m) and definitely not strong, so I'm doomed
Doesn't always end happily. Came across this woman with a flat tire outside a club one night. She was all distraught and freaking out over it. I volunteered to change it for her and the next thing I knew there were cops swarming ME. Seems they had set up a sting to catch a freak or two and caught a nice guy instead. As they had just watched me pull up they let me go with a warning. Back when I was a young buck, I was on a first date with this SMOKIN HOT BABE when another girl approached me at the bar. She went into all the signs of needing someone to 'protect' her from a clinger. Being the nice guy I was back then I went along with it. Clinger got the hint and left. SMOKIN HOT DATE didn't get it, and left as well. Bartender was all 'Dude that sucks". SMOKIN HOT BABE refused to believe any of it, never saw her again. Other chick left with her shoestring built boyfriend. Seems he was there the whole time, but couldn't intimidate a ground squirrel.
I helped a girl out by taking up space. This happened at my brother’s college graduation, and they had bleachers for seats. I decided I wanted to use the bathroom and was walking close to the bleachers for some reason. As I was walking a girl above me lost her footing and fell on to me. She was able to regain her balance and used me to steady herself. She said “ Nice catch” and returned to her friends
these kind of stories gives me hope in humanity but at the same time, it also take that same hope away. I'm happy that there are people who are willing to help, but life's gonne be much better if there would be no reason to give or get help from someone.
I remember talking to a guy. He said why do women dress up unless it's to get looked at. I had to tell him every single time women get judged on what they are wearing. The one time most women get to wear what they want is when they go out to a club etc. We dress up to make ourselves feel good.
I have so many stories too! But sadly noone helped me ever. I was just lucky and I still consider myself super lucky to just be alive in this stupid society
here is a little tip for anyone going to the bars, Be careful if someone is trying to get you to down a sweet drink. Sugar enhances the potency of alcohol, before ruffees people would get their victims blackout drunk on a few of those "girly" drinks and it had the same effect and a worse hangover. so if someone is trying to encourage you to drink more of a sweet drink, RUN .
I went to a club with three large black guys. We got separated. Some scrawny white guy was hitting on me when they walked up. "He bothering you?!" The dude scurried quickly away. Never felt so safe my entire life. It was awesome.
This is why I don’t plan on drinking. Just incase something goes wrong even though I might be the most socially aware person it has surely come in handy when things go south.
Yeah, I can imagine a pretty young woman like you would get a lot of unwanted attention. Its good to hear some guys out there still have a sense of what is right.
Omg i had a couple encounters like this...once was when i was around 1r and at a bar with my dad brother and older sister, i was waiting to play on the pinball machine and drinking a dr. pepper at the bar, my dad was playing pool, sis and bubba were sitting at the table. I was at the bar as it was closer to the pinball machine and i didn't want to miss my chance to play...some random guy comes up to me and asks if i want a drink, i tell him i have a drink showing him my soda and he said "no i mean a beer." At which point i told him he'd have to ask my dad, pointing out my 6' 6" dad playing pool, after the guy sees my dad he asked if i was my sister to which i responded "Nope, that's me sister's name and she's over there." I then point out my sister whi is sitting next to our brother at the table and the guy goes pale realizing he's trying to hit on someone who's underage and leaves the bar tender said it's best that i join my siblings at the table as i notice him putting up the bat he used to break up bar fights he said he'd tell me when the pinball machine was open and would make sure i got to play, i thanked him and joined my siblings at the table...another time was when this guy who was old enough to be my ded kept coming into my workplace while i worked at the wall-o-marts in the electronics area...he would rather often ask me to go out for drinks with him or to spend time with him to "get to know eachother" and all...i told my area manager and some co workers about it and any time they'd see the creep, if i was working they'd come up with some excuse to send me to the back or have me do the sight to store pick up orders that my area had to handle as it was "my turn"...because of the guys in my area watching out for me like that i never had to worry about that old creepy guy again...the guy had kept at it even after i had told him i had a boyfriend while saying "well what he doesnt know won't hurt him"...it honestly seemed like it made it more of a thrill to the guy knowing i was dating someone...total creep and douche bag for trying to hook up with someone that could be his kid and for still pushing the matter after being told "no thanks i have a boyfriend"...like seriously just no go away dude.
I used to play rugby, so I was quite well muscled, one Saturday I was walking through the town, I was wearing a rugby club sweat shirt with the club logo on the front. As I walked past a bench with a group of people around it, a girl reached out and grabbed my arm, so said, "Steve, I've been waiting for ages for you" kissed me on the cheek, linked arms with me and she whispered, "please play along." we walked away from the group and she told me that she had been trying to get away from them for about 5 minutes, it turns out that the group were some of the visiting rugby team that we were hosting. We ended up going out for about 6 months.
It sucks that a lot of creeps won’t stop harassing a woman unless a man has to step in, but at least there are people there who are willing to help someone in need
It is so GOOD that you are publishing these stories. Gives good guys a wake up call to keep an eye out for your fellow humans. Be aware! You could save a life. Thank you Kyutie!!
I'm a woman with kids. I was on a City bus and some perv was trying to get his hand under this preteens skirt! I got up, sat between them and stared at him. He got off at the next stop.
When I was 20ish a regular at the store I worked at (a weird 60ish guy who only ever wore camo outfits) started following and approaching me outside of work. At the bus stop, other stores,... I once took a bus two extra stops so he wouldn't find out where I lived. He didn't usually take my bus. Another regular customer, who used the same bus as me) noticed and offered to be my "bus-boyfriend" for a few days and that did the trick. I'm so so SO grateful to him even 25 years later.
I work at a convenience store and some guy kept coming in every night to try to get me to go out with him. I kept telling him I was married. Another regular came in one night when I couldn't get the other to leave and stood next to the counter and heard me tell the 1st guy that I was married again. Now the second guy is 6'3"s and built like a linebacker (he is a biker) he looks the other guy in the face and says "I'm the husband".I I went with it and never saw the first guy again.
I love watching your videos, however, I must admit that this one is by far my favorite one. These men are true heroes to me. I wish all men were so thoughtful and kind. We definitely need more men like this in the world.
My health teacher was telling us how we have to have situational awareness for ourselves and our friends - to make sure that if we get a water bottle that it clicks because it is not worth getting a bottle with something in it when you could just get a new one, and to keep our hands over our drinks, and even take it to the bathroom if we have to. I hope I do the story justice. He told us a story from his college days where he went to a bar with friends, and one of the girls in his group was talking with a guy at the bar. My teacher thought he saw the guy put something in her drink, so he went over there and said “Hey, I am sorry to bother you, but I think he just put something in your drink.” He told him to drink her drink, and that if he was wrong, he would by their drinks for the rest of the night. The guy was of course all defensive and started to make a scene. The bar tender came over to see what the problem was, and when my teacher told him that he thought he put something in her drink and about the wager the bar tender was like “Yeah just drink her drink buddy,” and the guy just bolted. The bar tender poured it out and they assume it was roofied or something. His friend was very thankful.
I love it that they get to live another day, both the women and the men who saved them. A lot of men in SA have lost their loves violently after or during saving the girls' lives.
When young and going out I rarely had problems but I remember this one guy who seemed nice when he asked me to dance. I agreed but boy those hands. I told him several times to stop and when he didn't I walked away. He then followed me to my table and was hands on again saying I liked it the night before at a different bar that was such a bad place I would never go there. Anyway, he tried putting his hand between my legs, oh no my drink suddenly jumped right into his lap as he crouched beside me. Oh wow was he mad. The bartender and a couple of male customers quickly let him know that his kind was not welcome, ever. When I left I was excorted to my ride. That little country bar still is the safest bar for ladies some almost 50 years later. Country boys don't take well to creeps messing with the women folk. Heck, I met my husband there. We will celebrate our 42 anniversary this coming week.
I'm so glad I'm an introvert. I don't think I would ever find myself in a club. Too many people, bad for my social anxiety. If it was urgent tho and I did run into a creep, I would force myself to go up to a random person and say "*random name*!! How's college going, I didn't know you were coming home! Does Mom know you're in town? Let's go visit her! She missed you a lot you know." I'm good at acting when it's necessary
Thanks for this video, it's nice to see that the guys who do the right thing are getting some airplay. If only we could stop the creeps from breeding, the breed would improve.
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I've learned two things from this video.
Number 1: There are a lot of scary men out there.
Number 2: There are a lot of kind men out there.
@@941sotaboy2 don't bring your toxic beliefs into this, creepy man!
@@941sotaboy2 shut up dude
What did 941 Sorta Boy say?
@@ReyRey42315 I don’t know but out of the three comments I’ve seen, he replied to two of them which were both taken down or deleted. I’m pretty sure it’s either “men go through that too” or “it’s the woman’s fault”
@@ReyRey42315 Not sure, though looking at the comment section they're replying to comments with sexist things against women, so yeah.
Why are they like that? No idea.
Ok wait. The guy that downed that drink for her and got sick instead of her is a amazing person. Like omg- that is a true good human
The man is a true chad. 🥺
@@theninjacalledbasilisk7770 TRUE CHAD-HAHAHAHA fr tho he is 🥰🥰😙😙😙🤍🤍🤍😌😌😌
I can imagine what would have happened to her if he hadn’t done that. He is truly a hero.
@@kgs2280 Exactly
I hope all good things happen to that man. ❤️ And the other good men that saved these women’s lives in this video. ❤️
These men are walking winners. Infinite respect for them.
Thanks for hearting my comment :D
Agreed. I'm so glad they helped those women. Genuine people like that I respect.
@@Aerodil Exactly
Agreed. And I also stand with Ukraine =)
@@rosepetunia1829 =D
"You don't know me, but you look really uncomfortable, are you okay?"
Can we address how this was so... could've saved her life or something.
When I was a teenager I was almost human trafficked or kidnapped at a car wash. It was one of those car washes where you watched your car go through while you waited inside and watched through the glass. This man comes up asking me if I was a model, will I come to his car, he has this friend who he needs to take me to so I can get started…..yeah, all my alarm bells were ringing, I couldn’t really get away from him because my car was in the machine. I excused myself and said I needed to find a restroom. The manager of the place came up to me (probably because I looked like a scared rabbit. This was before cell phones.). He basically ended up hiding me in his office. I don’t know how he got rid of the guy, but it took like 30 minutes to convince him to go away. I had a terrible, sinking feeling in my stomach. That manager saved me from a terrible fate. Bless him.
MGR should have called 911 instead of talking to a-hole to leave. Maybe you could have ended a sex trafficking organization?
Yes, bless his heart. Glad you made it out safely.
I am a 6' 260lbs male. I was walking behind this tiny woman late at night one night. I said to her "While I am technically following you, I am not actually following you." She gave a small nervous laugh and thanked me. She visually relaxed and we went our own ways.
That was very considerate.
@@robynsalaver4069 I try. The flip side of this is that I don't want the cops called on me for stalking/menacing when all I wanted to do is get an ice cream from the store.
@II~wolf_cub~II thank you. You cannot go wrong with Ben & Jerry's Chunky Monkey.
Good job.
Don’t get the cops called on you.
Also, can we just appreciate the people who go out of their way to comfort others and just mind their own business afterwards?
I’m 6’1 and around 270, I like to take late night walks so in situations like that I always try to call my brother or something and talk to him about something random to make sure they know I’m not following them
I was only 13ish and was riding my bike with a friend at a local park. A guy (known to me) from the local fire department pulled up and started chatting, he then pulled me up to his truck window and kissed me, I was in shock. He kept pulling at me and kept asking me to go for a ride. My friend (13M) pulled up and I said "Hey, we better get to Miss Jane's house, we're late." I can only imagine what my face looked like and he replied quickly "Yeah, you're right, our parents will get mad, best leave now!" And with that we cycled as fast as we could to Miss Jane's house, she called my parents. Apparently this guy was creeping on a lot of the girls whose parents were members of the fire department. My father put a stop to that.
@@941sotaboy2 can you shut up
@@enakshiparua836 What happened? Message is gone and I missed it
@@DinosaurNick he said "totally believable *roll eyes*" in a sarcastic way
This guy who wouldn't stop making advances was going to be at this party at my house, so I begged a friend of mine- super tall, charismatic, people person- to come, and he did even though he was exhausted. The creepy guy didn't make any advances, and my friend kept everything cheerful and civil. He's lovely
@@941sotaboy2 it wasn't my choice, my mom pitied him and invited him over it was a teen party
@@piegirl8263 don't listen to him, he's a troll.
@@yaoshiily Bruuuuuh he's only trying to understand the situation.
@@letsseetofindout2560 He does this under every comment.
@@yaoshiily Oh okay sorry
First time at a bar with friends, but not first time drinking.
We had ordered a pitcher and I drank most of it. Some 40ish year old tried to pass as a 25 year old after he learned my age.
Why?
I told the dude I wasn't interested as he literally scanned me up and down.
He kept saying he was 25, but he for sure wasn't.
I had a guy friend sitting next to me and he told me he had noticed my body language. The hesitation in my voice, despite the slurring, also tipped him off that I wasn't comfortable.
Andrew told the old guy off; standing between the creep and I so I was safe in a corner.
Eventually old dude backed down - even coward a little.
It's sad men don't take "no" for an answer.
Edit:
I fell out of touch with Andrew, but to this day I am thankful for him.
@@941sotaboy2 wow, you're one of those trolls. Here's a fact for you, I wasn't leading the 40 year old stranger on. I was there like most of the people there- for beer.
You sound like the type of creeper he was being.
Hopefully one day you can reconnect with Andrew. Whatever accidentally or through social media or whatever.
We must protect these men at all costs-🥰
Facts we need to make sure these people are safe. Get them to safety everybody😊
I think you should specify which men otherwise some might misunderstand 💀
@@vain_abundalakaka OH- yeah I meant the men helping the women, the creeps can leave😭
@@js8303 HAHAH-
_I think they can protect themselves pretty well, but I'd say they're really nice people for doing this stuff._
My best friend is a guy, and he's so good to me. We went to the fair a little while ago and this guy was hitting on me. He even followed me on a ride. I told him I had a boyfriend and the guy was like "oh then where is he?" Just then my best friend came back from grabbing us food and goes, "right here dip shit." The guy STILL wouldn't leave me alone, so my friend put his arm around me and took me to the food court. In front of everybody he told the guy off for bothering us and security showed up. The guy finally left us alone and I STILL mention it
Your guy friend is a hero gosh I hope you are doing better now stay safe
@@jenguiix thank you so much we're both going great! I read your comment to him and it made him smile thank you ☺️❤️
Hello, Thank you for reading my comment thank goodness that you are okay say hi to him for me I wish I have a guy friend, also stay hydrated and healthy :D 🥹🥹☺️
@@jenguiix aw of course!! He said hello and thank you for the comment! You're sweet, thank you! Take care of yourself and stay safe ☺️🤍
You made my day since I have been feeling down and lost lately and your words made me smile so thank you very much :)
*I loved the guy who noticed the girl was uncomfortable, it's like he has a sixth sense. :0 And, poor girls :(( This gave me more reasons to stay at home forever :"D Good thing, I'm an introvert.*
*And, salute to these guys! They are rare these days.*
@@buck99 ur caps lock broken-?
@@buck99 *Dude, chill-*
@@charlie-yp2oq *I think that's a yes*
@@_Solo-SUS_ BAHAHA
@@_Solo-SUS_ Just out of curiousity- what did they say?-- cause I don't see the person you replied to.
These guys are heroes. I hope someday we live in a world where women don’t need protection like this, where men just recognize when women don’t want to talk to them or just take no for an answer.
My husband's boss did something similar, two women started hitting on my husband and one even mentioned about taking him home with them. His boss while she can be sweet and nice, she can also be heavily sarcastic and mean when called for it.
That's what she did, called them out saying he's married and if they didn't leave right then and there(she finished checking out and stayed to keep trying to flirt with him), she would not only call me to come there but she would kick them out herself. She saw how uncomfortable my husband got after even saying he's married with two babies under 5. They both told me, but she said she would take over their check outs if they came back while he was working.
Women and men should be helping each other if the other is uncomfortable. But those men are the MPV(? Probably did that wrong) for their jobs.
Thanks for pointing out that sexual harassment and stalking happen to men too. Good for his boss in standing up for him!
@@sadespain2339 I wish more people would point out that happens to men too but at least we got a few who do agree.
I think you mean mvp (most valued person) but yeah, I totally agree. Men can be victims too, so we need to help each other out!
@@rcbeckers3442 Thanks! I couldn't remember how it went. I agree 100%, we all should keep an eye out if someone is in trouble no matter the sex/gender.
@@missraven420 You're welcome!
I was on a train once and a woman was breastfeeding. She was covered, but a couple of young men were making lude comments and telling her to "show the other one", amongst other things. A bloke with his wife sitting oposite her got up and sat in the seat next to the breastfeeding mother to block the view. The younger blokes backed off. There are gentlemen out there. If ever you're in a spot, they'll be there. They don't wear capes, but they are heroes.
Not really my story but my friends. She was a grade ahead of me and asked me to attend prom with her as friends. She'd just broken up with her possessive boyfriend (PB) and really didn't like going to social events alone. I agreed and went.
I met her friends from the upper grade and we were having a great time. At some point I'd earned the title Little Sister Friend. Everything was going fine until I ran into PB by the drinks. He asked me to give the drink he was holding to my friend. I brought it back to her and told her where it came from, which she then dumped it (What I should have done).
Later that night we'd been separated and I found PB trying to dance with her, then demanding why she didn't take the drink. Things to keep in mind. This guy was like 6' and a basketball player. I was and still am 5'4 on a good day, usually with a book in my hand. No way was I going to be able to stop this guy if things went wrong. He starts to grab her arm while I'm freaking out, trying to find the others, when this 6'3 football player walks over, puts his arm around her and casually says their dating.
PB never showed up again that night. And after 2 months of being wing-girl, bestie and football jock were dating. That was two years ago and from what I can tell, they're a long distance couple due to college.
That must have been terrifying
..but that's so cute, hope they're doing good !
@@rena9526 they are! They've started planning to move in together when they finish college! A scary night for sure but she says she wouldn't give it up for the world 🥰
@@sugargemstudios3361 That's good to hear!
First time hearing about a nice football player and this is the cutest one yet ngl I hope they live a wonderful life :))
Aw yay I love happy endings!
Those were men raised right, I hope there mamas is proud of them
I've heard a story where once two teenage girls went up to the person who was telling the story, and said, "Hey Jessica how are you?" The person was confused, but later on the girls said that there was a guy who was taking pictures and following the person around. It creeped me out
Ha! And they say, "chivalry is dead!" Who are they kidding?! Those men are genuine heroes!😊
We need men like this to make podcasts, not those "alpha male" bimbos!
@@941sotaboy2 found an "alpha male"
@@941sotaboy2 ah yes, I'm somehow a feminist for exposing misogynists!
@@MyTurtleApril He's replying stuff like this to every comment, don't worry just ignore him he wants attention
@@msepiphqny at least to every comment when he knows it's a FeMaLe.
Me thinks he doesn't get enough hugs from his mother at 15 so he's acting like a child.
@@Aerodil his father probably left for milk
The Xmas party story shows what life was like for those of us women who were in the workforce back then (I'm 63). It was a balancing act. I personally was asked not once but 3 times to be a mistress from 3 different managers in 3 different jobs. I had to politely return gifts so as not to be obliged to the male co-worker looking for payment in kind (if you know what I mean). I had to pass on lucrative positions because I could tell in the interview that I would have a problem with the boss. Women had to constantly deal with sexual harrassment. It's not so bad now - we have the right to tell them to get lost and back off without losing our jobs. We didn't then.
I work at a gas station and this guy that always hits on me walks in there and started to say inappropriate things after I gave him his stuff since I was there by myself and a regular customer comes in who i know somewhat personally and I just said his name really loud and he was like what’s up as he normally does. So i went to him hugged him and whispered “he’s creeping me out” so he pretended to be my boyfriend and the guy left after that
Stay safe Army. Hope he didn't bother you again 🥺💜
"well that's it for the video, hope you guys enjoyed, tell me in the comments down below what your thoughts are, and as always, thanks for watching hope you guys liked it and i'll see you guys next time, bye!" this outro never gets old i love it! always say it together w you when the video ends
I love these people, who save/help someone in awkward situations
We need guys to do Tik Toks and podcasts on when this has happened with them, the body language tips that clued them in and the best ways they've found to handle the situation. You don't always have to be a burly champion and get aggressive; you could be a cousin and the conversation about an ill mutual relative, a friend of her brothers and wanting to catch up with news of him, or her sibling ... so many ways to potentially save a life! Just please don't ask for a kiss or anything in return for the rescue - that's always so disappointing.
That's true. Sometimes women can help each other as well
@@robynsalaver4069 Absolutely. It's an open game of 'Look out for each other'.
The real horror of all this is that there are so many men out there who don't respect the human rights of anyone else, and will only stop when stopped by force, or the convincing threat of it. They never learn "live by the sword, die by the sword". If nothing can make a person behave except being forced, sooner or later someone will force them to behave. Feeling entitled to someone else's body is the ethos of scum.
I really wish my sister can find one of these men when she's in the same situation, the world we have to live in
Your sister is lucky. Hope your good wish works for you both
I hope someday you get the chance to be one of those men for your sister. You’ll be amazed how much it will be a defining moment for your relationship. My brother “rescued” me a similar way once, and in my books he has been my hero ever since.
Things like this is what gives me hope for humanity. These people are literal heroes.
Men like these make my heart happy. They really woke up and chose to be literal angels.
Not a man, but my mother. I was about 9 or 10 when we were driving down the street in the East Bay Area and saw a couple of girls walking in the opposite direction, looking very tense with two guys who seemed to be keeping pace behind them. I noticed the girls, but wasn't really paying attention. My mother did a U-turn and came up alongside them and told me to roll down my window. At first I thought she knew them and she said "Are you OK? Do you need a ride?" Then my mother told me to unlock the back door on my side and the girls just got in and my mother drove off. It turns out my mother didn't know them, but it looked like they were in trouble and made the decision to go to them. They started talking about how those guys were scaring them and my mother asked them where they wanted to go. We drove them to the house of one of them who said she had a key to get in. Then we left. I always remembered that about my mother. I've never been in the same situation again, but I think I would try to do what she did.
I was in on a date while on Workmans comp for a line of duty injury. I was on a cane due to an injured knee….while walking into the cinema I heard a woman yelling for help and telling a man to leave her alone. I handed my cane to my girlfriend and walked over with as little a limp as I could manage. The guy told me to mind my business so I displayed my badge and told him this seemed like it was exactly my business. We had a brief discussion and he decided he suddenly needed to be elswhere. We called the local pd and once they arrived I walked back to my girlfriend. She noticed that I was sweating and pale at this point and handed me back my cane….while clucking at me for always being “ that guy”.
Wish there were more good people like you, though i've met a few and try to be one myself. I wish you all the best and hope that your leg is better now, and i hope you keep being "that guy" as your lady put it, the guy who is willing to go out of their way to help others who are in need. It's a lovely trait 💕💕
Should have kept the cane. He would underestimate you, and the cane can be an effective weapon.
being "that guy" is a good thing...however you had me on the first half, not going to lie. For a brief moment I thought you were going to let your girlfriend have at him with that cane. Hope your injury has healed though
just yesterday one of my exes kept harassing me by repeatedly emailing me even when i asked him not to for months. my solution? pretend to be my own bf and let this idiot have a piece of my mind cus he wont listen to me but he listened to "my bf" lmao still cant believe he fell for it
*edit: its rly sad that i had to do that because he wouldn't take 'no' and 'stop' as an answer. if someones harassing you by email or through texting, snapchat, insta, whatever, don't let them guilt trip you by saying "i was just checking up on you" like my ex did, thats a manipulation tactic to make you feel guilty. don't back down, give them a piece of your mind and stand your ground.*
Was on vacation with a friend in Grand Cayman years ago and went to see a live band play at another hotel. We were drinking and having fun watching the band and this creepy guy kept hanging around and trying to talk to us. After their set, or during a break, I don't remember, the band came over to talk to us and ended up taking us back to our hotel in their van. In the morning, my friend and I realized that the band probably knew something was up with that creepy guy and took steps to make sure we'd be okay. How cool is that? I still feel grateful to them.
I was "Uncle Steve" one evening after work. Walked into the parking lot and a woman walks towards me asking if I had jumper cables. She had a slightly desperate look in her eye and a guy standing a few yards behind her saying he had everything in hand. I told her I was pretty sure I did (because I did) and pulled my car up by hers, basically blocking it in the spot. Then got the cables out. Creepy guy asks if I need help, I reply something like "If I can jump a log truck in the woods I can handle a Honda in a parking lot." He got the idea and headed towards his car. As I wired her up I said if he turns around or doesn't leave, get in my car and we'll circle the block until the cops show up. I took my time (red to red, black to black usually only takes about 10 seconds) and once he was clearly past the first light , started her car and got her out of there.
In reference to the first story.
One of my friends was suffering from similar harassment with a mutual acquaintance being the person at fault.
Well, just after she finished reporting to me about this guy.
He walks up and proceeded to harass her in front of me.
I had been having a bad day, and seeing my friend being made uncomfortable and having clearly stated she wasn't interested and him ignoring her.
Well that was the end of my patience.
The poor guy looked like I had him in a Force hold for the next 10 minutes perhaps while I pretty much talked... Except what I did was psychological in nature.
He really couldn't respond because I was furious and basically shredded him to pieces mentally, before I decided him being in pieces wasn't enough... I stitched him up so that he would never try that BS again with my friend...apparently I scared him so badly that evening that he not only stopped harassing my friend, but all of the other people he'd been harassing were no longer being harassed.
I don't remember, whatever it is that I said, but I know that it probably was traumatic, particularly since he was literally held in place by the sheer force of my will.
I was a whole two meters from him physically, but he literally couldn't move without my permission.
The speed and precision of my mind in that moment actually scared me.
Even my friend was more than a little scared of me when that happened, because she'd never seen me actually be angry, let alone furious.
I keep myself under tight control precisely because I know how horrific my anger can be...essentially, I don't like hurting people in the ways I have been hurt, so I make a large effort to diffuse things before it gets to a point where I am triggered.
It means that most people don't even see me beyond mildly annoyed. I am that good at handling my anger.
However, apparently even witnessing me being angry is enough to scare people. My second roommate saw me when I was angry about something, without my realizing he saw me, and he put in a room change request the same day.
Ironic since if I had been one to do anything, he would've known about it far sooner.
But yeah...apparently I'm scary, and I also look like a Viking.😅
Good for you!
@@cybercat29 LOL
I felt horrible afterwards...so while it solved the problem, it left me feeling like I had been hit hard in the stomach... nauseated is a kind way to put it.
@@BJCMXY Don’t be. You have courage that’s hard to find and express nowadays and you can be proud of that 🙂 You know your own potential and where the line is so trust in yourself more and have confidence to speak out when you think its necessary
@@BJCMXY trust me I know how that feels, but sometimes letting your demons out to play is the right thing, even if our brains disagree. I'm a generally mild mannered, cheerful chatterbox but piss me off and I've been told what I say feels like plunging a hot poker in their gut, twisting it around and pulling out your insides. Still sounds a bit exaggerated to me but I do get pretty heartless when I'm mad, saying things that others didn't think was possible for me to say.
You may have felt horrible but take solace that your darkness, possibly saved someone else's sanity.
as you should, I would take huge pride in that to be honest! I can also relate to that too: I conceal all my anger or when im being bothered until im pushed off the edge where people around me are actually shocked. I guess I rarely show it
Happened to me. I was alone at my local bar I frequented. The owner and the workers all knew me and my family. But I was having a rough night, and decided to go solo to drown my sorrows a bit. The bar tender, Lynn, was taking good care of me. Soon this smelly older guy was all up on me. I had no idea why as I had already lost what youthful beauty I had, guys don't go for fat single mothers like that. But down the bar, the owner was talking with some of his buddies. They called me down to sit with them and started up convo. I was drunk enough to not realize what they were trying to do, but eventually caught on and went down to sit with them. They made sure the creep was gone before letting me go home, after closing time. They let me sober up first ofc, and I was just a short drive down the road. They followed me to make sure I made it alright, and to make sure the wrong person didn't follow me. I could never thank them enough for looking after me that night, in more than one way.
Really wish there were good guys like this around when I needed them. I'm glad they exist and are helping women and girls everywhere.
I'm 5ft, queer, and a woman. These creeps are why I always have some kind of weapon in my room, or have something makeshift on me. Even made a necklace that can turn into a ball n' chain. Not taking any chances.
How do make a necklace that can turn into a ball and chain? I want one like that!
@@deedoc6241 So,
1. I took a glass bead ball (Recycled African glass) and made a silver wire cage around it. (Had to stretch the silver to about 4 ft, then use a drill with a special bit to twist it, so it was then 2ft).
2. The silver wire went inside the ball twice (which you need to pull through with plyers, it is a tight fit) and it should have four parts around it, like a ribbon on a present that has the bow on all six sides of the box/cube and one side is the bow.
3. Then you can add decorations, so long as you have the sturdy wire cage and a loop at the top for the necklace chain to go through.
4. Then you get a nice sturdy chain (I like nickle or brass).
5. The part that makes it the ball n' chain is the clasp. It is a circle and stick one--where the little stick end goes into/through the circle end. So, you can keep it clasped to wear, OR, you can hold the stick end and let the chain for the neck drop down with the circle end of the clasp. So the result is you are holding one end with the stick clasp, and the circle clas is atop the ball with the neck chain going through it.
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(This clasp is KEY. Other than that, just make a nice ball with a wire cage and get a nice chain. Hope this helps!)
@@ErutaniaRose Thank you so much! I’m totally gonna make myself one! 😊
I had a creepy dude while I was out with my sisters on my 21st bday. I was blackout drunk and said dude tried hitting on me and apparently I screamed at him that I was married, and that I would castrate him with a bear trap....yep. it's on video, which hubby saw as soon as he got off work. 🤣🤣🤣
this is absolutely hilarious, castrating with a bear trap?! genius AND creative
And my male roommate still doesn't get why I need him to lock the door at night before sleep. Great guy, and would do what these guys have done. But sometimes forgets to lock the door. We (women) feel unsafe. I wonder why. /s
I really enjoyed this topic of video. Any chance we could see more like this? It is helpful as to ways us women (or anyone really) can get out of a potentially dangerous situation and helps to normalize reaching out to strangers for assistance.
Yesss
I was out for a walk late one night when I heard sounds of arguing. As I rounded the corner I saw a man capering around a woman like a lunatic. She was trying to walk quickly towards the end of the block I had just turned onto on the other side of the street but he kept jumping in front her. Her posture was very stiff and her arms were crossed tightly.
I yelled when I saw him getting right in her face with his arms stretched out to his sides in a classic "C'mon!" pose and she shied away. He turned towards me and charged yelling expletives and I spent the next two or three minutes dodging around the middle of the street as I refused to fight him. He finally gave up but she was out of sight. She didn't even look back; I made sure his attention was on me as she speed walked away.
Don't know what was actually going on but there wasn't another person in sight. I had to do something and I'm glad she didn't stop.
I’m an introvert and have to be dragged out of the house so I never go out alone. It’s usually my mom that drags me out. But if we see someone is trouble- doesn’t matter who - you can be damn sure they will be taken care of, protected and they will have a safe ride home.
Super sad but we do know someone who can be a creep like these guys. He’s afraid of me though and he owes me money. If he’s creeping a girl out I become her best friend for the night and he keeps his distance
Good to see you Kyutie. I hope you had a great day and drank some water.
Please stay safe ❣
There's this shopping center close-ish to where I live. Most of it closes somewhat early, but there is a dance studio (on the south side) and a restaurant and an ice cream shop (on the east side) that are open a bit later. The area with the ice cream shop is pretty lively at night, but the area with the dance studio is pretty dead.
After class one night, this creep started following me and whispering profanities, gradually getting faster and louder until I was actually running. At one point he got close enough where I felt his spit on the back of my neck. That was after I tried to make a turn and my legs gave out on me (I had just danced for four hours after not dancing for years). I made it to the east section, though, and kinda just found a wall to collapse against (I definitely didn't feel safe enough going out to my car in the dark, especially since it was towards the south side).
After a little bit, this group of four men noticed me (crying because ???) and after telling them what happened, three of them went off to make sure the man wasn't around as well as find the security guard while the fourth stayed with me and told me about his wife and newborn daughter. They all ended up walking me to my car afterwards. I honestly had never felt safer (which was weird after such a terrifying experience). It was like I had been adopted by four older brothers for the night. Honestly, don't remember any of your names, but I'll be forever grateful for the way y'all took my mind off of what happened and kept me safe for the rest of the night, especially as I was in no condition to keep myself properly safe. So, thank you :)
These men hold my intense respect. Hats off to the good men in the world! 🎩
A HEART YAY
I'm glad he protected her but it made me scared for him when he took the drink because anything could have happened to him afterwards 😥😓
I love stories like these, I don’t want this to happen to anyone, but I want to be able to help someone like these people do.
when I was about 17 I went out one evening with some friends. On the way to the subway, I was walking faster than they were since it was getting late and I wanted to go home, so before I realized I was walking by myself. Noticed a group of guys, but continued on my way. Then, one of them tripped me on purpose so I turned around ready to slap whoever had done it. My hair, that had been up to then under the hat I was wearing, came down to my shoulders, and next thing I know one of the idiots in the crowd said, "she's a girl". with that, and if my magic a police officer showed up and walked me away from the crowd of idiots. never found out who tripped me, but those guys got real quiet real fast lol
Closest I've had was when i was working closing shift in fast food. I got a bad vibe off a customer a few minutes before closing, and apparently i wasnt the only one. My two coworkers, one who was training to be a body builder, stood behind me glaring him down, and my manager offered me extra hours to stay past lobby closing so one of them could give me a ride home.
Probably a good thing. One of the guys went out to smoke after lobby closed, and spotted the guys car in the dark courner of the parking lot, where pedestrians have to walk to get to the sidewalk.
After that, I started always wearing hairsticks when walking home at night. They don't look dangerous, but can be in a pinch, and I can reach one even if my arms are pinned.
I have see to shoot events at a couple of clubs in Scottsdale and it was pretty much an every weekend deal having to pretend to be some Gogo dancer’s boyfriend to ward off the drunk creeps.
You're amazing! Hope you get all the happiness in the world!❤
Good for you! I hope you keep doing that. You never know what you might have saved these girls from. You might have literally saved someone’s life.
the part that scares me the most is that one or two of these women left the BAR safely only to DRIVE away. They probably hardly drank anything if at all, but still…
Shout-out to all the men and women that help those in situations like these, y'all the mvps
You know it's just really nice to see a video like this where people are protecting each other and the classic beautiful interaction that men and women can have is still alive.
There may be Hope for humanity yet!
Thank you little lady, right about now I really needed SOME sign 💝💖
Thanks for choosing this topic. Great to hear your reaction and also great to hear these stories about random strangers protecting others. The girl with the spiked drink.... I don't think the hero suspected her drink was spiked. I think he just needed an excuse to get her to go with him to get away from the creep. He is an even bigger hero for saying afterwards that he was glad he picked THAT drink, as he realised that she could have been on the receiving end of it and things would have ended badly for her had she drunk it.
I would get off from work at night, and we'd always been told you can't park too close to the store because that was for guests. This night was especially thick fog and you couldn't see very far. One of my tall, male managers stopped me from leaving to let me know that he'd seen some creepy dude out there and walked me to my car to make sure I'd make it there safely and unbotheered. He let me know it's okay to park closer, especially when I'm closing, as it's for my own safety. Nothing big happened, but I'm still grateful for the guys at my work that I knew would do this for me.
I’m really happy there are people like that out! Sometimes it makes it hard to think people can be so nice with so much wrong in the world right now….
Carry pepper spray and tasers ladies. Raise you voice or shout at the creep for that matter so that people surrounding you know you're being harassed.
I want to know where I can get a taser here on the West Coast of Canada!
@@cybercat29 Pepper spray and taser both are illegal in Canada? How are women supposed to defend themselves. I'm Indian, so I had to google about the prohibited items. Last resort, learn martial art😕
Pepper spray and literally anything designed for offensive use is banned in Australia. I'm a super short girl (barely 1.5m) and definitely not strong, so I'm doomed
HAHAHA I'm finally early and that's because of a doctor appointment lol I'm kinda nervous but watching Kyutie is definitely gonna make me better ^_^
ah!!! i just came back from one!! hope everything goes well! good luck :)
utile
Good luck on the appointment :D
@@Kyutie. thanks so much!!
@@lula259. thank you :)
Doesn't always end happily.
Came across this woman with a flat tire outside a club one night. She was all distraught and freaking out over it. I volunteered to change it for her and the next thing I knew there were cops swarming ME. Seems they had set up a sting to catch a freak or two and caught a nice guy instead. As they had just watched me pull up they let me go with a warning.
Back when I was a young buck, I was on a first date with this SMOKIN HOT BABE when another girl approached me at the bar. She went into all the signs of needing someone to 'protect' her from a clinger. Being the nice guy I was back then I went along with it. Clinger got the hint and left. SMOKIN HOT DATE didn't get it, and left as well. Bartender was all 'Dude that sucks". SMOKIN HOT BABE refused to believe any of it, never saw her again. Other chick left with her shoestring built boyfriend. Seems he was there the whole time, but couldn't intimidate a ground squirrel.
Thank you....it's good to actually hear about random kindnesses in this world.
I helped a girl out by taking up space. This happened at my brother’s college graduation, and they had bleachers for seats. I decided I wanted to use the bathroom and was walking close to the bleachers for some reason. As I was walking a girl above me lost her footing and fell on to me. She was able to regain her balance and used me to steady herself. She said “ Nice catch” and returned to her friends
these kind of stories gives me hope in humanity but at the same time, it also take that same hope away. I'm happy that there are people who are willing to help, but life's gonne be much better if there would be no reason to give or get help from someone.
I remember talking to a guy. He said why do women dress up unless it's to get looked at. I had to tell him every single time women get judged on what they are wearing. The one time most women get to wear what they want is when they go out to a club etc. We dress up to make ourselves feel good.
I have so many stories too! But sadly noone helped me ever. I was just lucky and I still consider myself super lucky to just be alive in this stupid society
I wanna see women saving men now ;-;
yes pleasee!!
I wanna see people saving intersex/trans/enbies from jerks harrassing them
here is a little tip for anyone going to the bars, Be careful if someone is trying to get you to down a sweet drink. Sugar enhances the potency of alcohol, before ruffees people would get their victims blackout drunk on a few of those "girly" drinks and it had the same effect and a worse hangover. so if someone is trying to encourage you to drink more of a sweet drink,
RUN
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Excellent advice for anyone!
@@cybercat29 had a classmate who worked as a bartender. His boss warned him of this and to keep an eye on the people.
I went to a club with three large black guys. We got separated. Some scrawny white guy was hitting on me when they walked up. "He bothering you?!" The dude scurried quickly away. Never felt so safe my entire life. It was awesome.
This is why I don’t plan on drinking. Just incase something goes wrong even though I might be the most socially aware person it has surely come in handy when things go south.
Yeah, I can imagine a pretty young woman like you would get a lot of unwanted attention.
Its good to hear some guys out there still have a sense of what is right.
These men restore my faith in humanity- even though it is destroyed again ten seconds later.
We need men who are actual _nice people._
Now this is proof that there are ,even just a few, really good people in the world however hard it is to believe.
the one when they ended up dating was absolutely adorable, he saved her and they ended up together
Omg i had a couple encounters like this...once was when i was around 1r and at a bar with my dad brother and older sister, i was waiting to play on the pinball machine and drinking a dr. pepper at the bar, my dad was playing pool, sis and bubba were sitting at the table. I was at the bar as it was closer to the pinball machine and i didn't want to miss my chance to play...some random guy comes up to me and asks if i want a drink, i tell him i have a drink showing him my soda and he said "no i mean a beer." At which point i told him he'd have to ask my dad, pointing out my 6' 6" dad playing pool, after the guy sees my dad he asked if i was my sister to which i responded "Nope, that's me sister's name and she's over there." I then point out my sister whi is sitting next to our brother at the table and the guy goes pale realizing he's trying to hit on someone who's underage and leaves the bar tender said it's best that i join my siblings at the table as i notice him putting up the bat he used to break up bar fights he said he'd tell me when the pinball machine was open and would make sure i got to play, i thanked him and joined my siblings at the table...another time was when this guy who was old enough to be my ded kept coming into my workplace while i worked at the wall-o-marts in the electronics area...he would rather often ask me to go out for drinks with him or to spend time with him to "get to know eachother" and all...i told my area manager and some co workers about it and any time they'd see the creep, if i was working they'd come up with some excuse to send me to the back or have me do the sight to store pick up orders that my area had to handle as it was "my turn"...because of the guys in my area watching out for me like that i never had to worry about that old creepy guy again...the guy had kept at it even after i had told him i had a boyfriend while saying "well what he doesnt know won't hurt him"...it honestly seemed like it made it more of a thrill to the guy knowing i was dating someone...total creep and douche bag for trying to hook up with someone that could be his kid and for still pushing the matter after being told "no thanks i have a boyfriend"...like seriously just no go away dude.
These guys are absolute champs. Their parents raised them right❤️
I'm a 65yo woman, and I really enjoyed these stories. Very heartwarming!!
I used to play rugby, so I was quite well muscled, one Saturday I was walking through the town, I was wearing a rugby club sweat shirt with the club logo on the front. As I walked past a bench with a group of people around it, a girl reached out and grabbed my arm, so said, "Steve, I've been waiting for ages for you" kissed me on the cheek, linked arms with me and she whispered, "please play along." we walked away from the group and she told me that she had been trying to get away from them for about 5 minutes, it turns out that the group were some of the visiting rugby team that we were hosting. We ended up going out for about 6 months.
Personally loved the theme of this video!! Very wholesome to counteract the creep moments
It sucks that a lot of creeps won’t stop harassing a woman unless a man has to step in, but at least there are people there who are willing to help someone in need
this is one of the reasons I'm thankful that I'm a 6'0'' tall woman who has been described as scary by many men
It is so GOOD that you are publishing these stories. Gives good guys a wake up call to keep an eye out for your fellow humans. Be aware! You could save a life. Thank you Kyutie!!
I’m still shocked that people would drink things strangers give them. Like, that’s rule number one.
I haven’t watched Kyutie in a fat year
This is great to come back too
AW! welcome back~~
Crazy how the one guy ended up getting the drugged drink :O
I'm a woman with kids. I was on a City bus and some perv was trying to get his hand under this preteens skirt! I got up, sat between them and stared at him. He got off at the next stop.
I'm also glad they didn't expect anything in return
When I was 20ish a regular at the store I worked at (a weird 60ish guy who only ever wore camo outfits) started following and approaching me outside of work. At the bus stop, other stores,... I once took a bus two extra stops so he wouldn't find out where I lived. He didn't usually take my bus. Another regular customer, who used the same bus as me) noticed and offered to be my "bus-boyfriend" for a few days and that did the trick. I'm so so SO grateful to him even 25 years later.
Yes. My heart swoons like hell at these kinds of guys
I work at a convenience store and some guy kept coming in every night to try to get me to go out with him. I kept telling him I was married. Another regular came in one night when I couldn't get the other to leave and stood next to the counter and heard me tell the 1st guy that I was married again. Now the second guy is 6'3"s and built like a linebacker (he is a biker) he looks the other guy in the face and says "I'm the husband".I I went with it and never saw the first guy again.
I love watching your videos, however, I must admit that this one is by far my favorite one. These men are true heroes to me. I wish all men were so thoughtful and kind. We definitely need more men like this in the world.
My health teacher was telling us how we have to have situational awareness for ourselves and our friends - to make sure that if we get a water bottle that it clicks because it is not worth getting a bottle with something in it when you could just get a new one, and to keep our hands over our drinks, and even take it to the bathroom if we have to.
I hope I do the story justice.
He told us a story from his college days where he went to a bar with friends, and one of the girls in his group was talking with a guy at the bar. My teacher thought he saw the guy put something in her drink, so he went over there and said “Hey, I am sorry to bother you, but I think he just put something in your drink.” He told him to drink her drink, and that if he was wrong, he would by their drinks for the rest of the night. The guy was of course all defensive and started to make a scene. The bar tender came over to see what the problem was, and when my teacher told him that he thought he put something in her drink and about the wager the bar tender was like “Yeah just drink her drink buddy,” and the guy just bolted. The bar tender poured it out and they assume it was roofied or something. His friend was very thankful.
Dang it!! 😣 These stories are so frickin wholesome!
These people are true heros I respect them
I love it that they get to live another day, both the women and the men who saved them. A lot of men in SA have lost their loves violently after or during saving the girls' lives.
Admit it, we needed this.
It's sad that women even have to go through this.
Fanfic writes be like: write that down, write that down!!
I feel attacked, lol
Man, I wish someone like that was around when I was being stalked and harassed by a crazy lesbian.
Ooh creepy.
That actually is a bit more terrifying to me... actually more unsettling.
When young and going out I rarely had problems but I remember this one guy who seemed nice when he asked me to dance. I agreed but boy those hands. I told him several times to stop and when he didn't I walked away.
He then followed me to my table and was hands on again saying I liked it the night before at a different bar that was such a bad place I would never go there.
Anyway, he tried putting his hand between my legs, oh no my drink suddenly jumped right into his lap as he crouched beside me. Oh wow was he mad. The bartender and a couple of male customers quickly let him know that his kind was not welcome, ever. When I left I was excorted to my ride. That little country bar still is the safest bar for ladies some almost 50 years later.
Country boys don't take well to creeps messing with the women folk. Heck, I met my husband there. We will celebrate our 42 anniversary this coming week.
Good for you and them! Congratulations on 42 years of a long and happy marriage!
I really want to know (from the first story) if the girl and the big Viking dude got to see each other again 🙌
I'm so glad I'm an introvert. I don't think I would ever find myself in a club. Too many people, bad for my social anxiety. If it was urgent tho and I did run into a creep, I would force myself to go up to a random person and say "*random name*!! How's college going, I didn't know you were coming home! Does Mom know you're in town? Let's go visit her! She missed you a lot you know." I'm good at acting when it's necessary
Thanks for this video, it's nice to see that the guys who do the right thing are getting some airplay. If only we could stop the creeps from breeding, the breed would improve.