You MESSED UP your LIFE…Now what?
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 2 มิ.ย. 2024
- My journey to accountability started by using my mistakes and conflicts as an opportunity to learn and take accountability of my own actions .
Through journaling, I gained clarity on the recurring problems I faced.
It became clear that to break free and find better situations, I realized I had to take ownership.
After all, you can't transform what you suppress or ignore.
Accountability became an invitation for positive change in my life.
Those negative parts of ourselves, the ones we call "demons," are still a part of us.
We try to act like they're not there, but they linger in the shadows.
But they are still a part of us.
True growth comes from awareness and by acknowledging these shadows, we disarm them and take back control.
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Simmy Goraya : / simmygoraya
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Shot and edited : / praveen0202
Assisted by Manpreet Bhamraa
Chapters:
02:56 How journaling helped me in taking accountability
05:24 How to avoid problems by understanding your mistakes?
09:20 Being kind to yourself
11:53 Trust the timing
How are we liking the videos so far? Leave your comments so I know what you guys would like to see next
Hey I literally love you 😘
And I want your philosophy to rest of my life 💖🧬
Really helpful videos dii. I can really relate to u. Ur thoughts and everything. I m also a girl who thinks a lots and whose mind is really f up
Simmy G..deep inside we all know..k thik h mistake r part of life but usko accept kr k move ahead..khud sambhal na is big thing.. thanks for explaining very critical things in this video.. nature also supporting u like.. thunder ..during ur deep talks..
A master piece simmy 💕💞❤️ em in love with your tone ❤
Simmy it was such a good video, I connect with you so much at this point of time in my life .
Just turned 25 and feels like everything about my life is changing. I know i want to be a better person and I’m willing to do everything it takes.
Cheers to our journey of being self aware & fighting our inner demons
It's been quite a while since I've had a good night's sleep. I've ruined my mental as well as physical health because I'm unable to see a way out of whatever I'm facing right now. Countless hours of crying until I get breathless. If that is what you call depression, then so be it. The worst part is pretending in front of the world that you're doing fine. I've tried a lot to get up and let it go, but I've always failed.
Simmy, I want you to know that you're helping so many people out there like me to get up once again, stronger, and try to face the hurdles and grow from them. Everyone says why are you hurting yourself this much....just let it go....just go and chill in life. But I really can't. I think these approx 20 min talks are what I've been needing all this while. It makes me feel like someone is actually understanding me and telling me that I'm not alone and I can come out of this. Thank you for this.
You can talk to me if you want ! There is nothing shame to admit about your mental health issues ! Here for you! Feel free to reach out because I m aslo suffering from this
Well, I must say Simmy you are an extremely strong individual who has recognized the need to go inwards and fight with those demons to be a better person with each passing day. It's ruthless as you say and it takes hell lot of courage to go there sit in the shit, smell it and then learn to clean it well. Not every person has the courage to do so , kudos to you girl. And I wish you more peace, more battles won with your inside demons so you come out even more stronger and rise like a phoenix. I'm in the process of doing it learning from your experiences too and progressing with it. Thank you for making this video and sharing the gems that you have as experiences within you.❤
Thank you so much Simmy for bringing this series to us!! We are so much involved in the hustle culture that we tend to forget lot of inner work we need to do!! It's not external world rather your inside world that matters! I hope everyone get the courage to work on their inertia!! Lots of love 😊
I didn't knew, I needed to hear this today. I have been going through the same problems over and over again and was feeling stuck, not knowing how to cope up with those situations. After watching this video, I feel I got a better clarity and taking accountability could be the very first step I could do to improve my situation. Thank you for sharing this video with us.
First of all, thank you so much for sharing this. You won’t believe that yesterday I went for a random drive alone and thought about everything you shared today, especially self-accountability and today I was going to drop a very good friend of mine at the bus station. I randomly began talking about how I learn most of the things so late in life and the next thing I told him that what exactly does late realization means. Just because one doesn’t follow the timeline orchestrated by society, one is either labelled as a slow learner or inefficient. As you were sharing your thoughts I realized, you and I share the same ideologies. It literally made me feel that I was looking at a mirror. Looking forward to more vlogs from this series. Please don’t ever stop sharing your thoughts. You’re doing a magnificent work. Godspeed to you!!
Thank you for sharing your journey. It's the first video i am watching of yours. This much needed video, unknowingly, i started blaming others for my situation.. Sometimes, even your support systems, your friends and family help you in blaming others people.
But deep down you know the reality, if i am facing such situation, there is something wrong i am doing...
When you take accountability, you give power to change situation otherwise you would just do nothing.
A lof of times even you know the reality of yours but we ignore it. It's a good reminder for me as well to reflect on your thoughts and actions and make corrections.
Again, thank you so much! 😊
She's the one I'm addicted to now i was suffering from alot since past 3 months and putting things under the carpet and was about to end my life but she has encouraged me to live my life by taking accountability of my own actions and decisions
God bless you abundantly with lots of happiness and prosperity ❤ thankyou soo much for existing and making such videos go ahead and make many more you're helping alot of people deal with things
Yeah, I am here, and we definitely have something in common. I kind of broke into tears while listening to this. Because whatever you said was just so relatable and I felt like yeah, I am not alone. :) Please keep up with the series. It’s so raw and beautiful.
I can so relate with you. I have gone through all these phases and came out of it by looking inwards and working on my demons. I did my best and then I left it to God to decide what is best for me. Most importantly I always had faith in universe and God and really believe that whatever happens is always happen for something good ❤
Can feel how badly you are trying to control your tears through your voice,and this is me I'm going through the same and can feel you deeply. Thank you for figuring out a way for yourself and sharing it with us, helping us overcome the same challenge. Sending you lots of love and blessings Simmi❤
I found your channel recently. I can't thank you enough for making this series. I watched every single video of yours on acknowledging self- journey, trust me, I learned a lot from you. Thank you for making these videos.❤️
I am glad you’re enjoying the series 🤗
@@simmygoraya6060Aapki aawaj mai dard hai didi 😢 mai smj shkhti hu. Coz sem happened with me right now God bless uhh ❤❤🎉
How thankful I am to you, you can never ever imagine.
You have taught to live life which majority of people don't know yet.
I am highly thankful to you, God sent you to save lives of many 🙏
YOU ARE AN ABSOLUTE LIFE SAVER!!!!!!❤
Hey Di. Am turning 20 in September. And from the past few weeks, I have been regretting many things that happened in the last 3-4 years. I was perceiving this feeling as negative. But just like you said, we must take the mirror and see what were the minus points we had in the whole situation. Thanks for letting me know that this taking out mirror, sitting in feelings, realising mistakes is actually a good thing. I'll now focus on learning those things and letting go of the baggage. You're the older sister I needed honestly. And I hope you also are happy and doing well. Again, lots of love and thankyou so much. This video resonated to me on so many levels I can't even explain. Every line was full of wisdom 💕🫂✨
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Me too.... Same Same Buddy❤❤
From all the niche you have picked up so far, You're killing it with this one. Totally nailing it with the heart to heart connect and the utmost level of genuineness and authenticity. Totally loving each and every bit of it .❤❤
Finally someone is really sharing what we go through mentally and expressing in the best way one can understand irrespective of age .Lets start being in our own team first and stop complaining. God bless you
This video appeared on my feed at the perfect timing. I guess it is important to take accountability for things. Maybe now knowing this I can change old habits for the better, so thank you.
You know what Simmy? I have been battling through a lot of inner demons and other upheavals inside as well as in my social life. I struggled a lot and i lost a lot of things in my life. But yet when i started doing this i gained a better version of myself. This process is still going on. I am still learning, taking my accountability and improving with time. At the same time i am kind to myself as well. You know Simmy ?? Your videos are highly therapeutic as well as relative. Loads of love to you. I feel proud on you and what you're doing. I know this inner work is hard. God bless you to your pure soul, kind nature and genuineness. Keep shining...❤❤
With regards
Prateek kumar
you know what this is as relatable as it could get..love it, love the lessons that you have shared in this video, they bring hope🥰
Hii Simmy Dii !! I found your channel some days back and started listening this series and today your this video is like blessing to me or like answer from almighty bcz just before i came to your video.. i was struggling with my own thoughts and felt like Im afraid for all my actions and mistakes, I wasnt finding myself accountable though I know I am & prayed to almighty to make me out from all this circle of repeatation and as answer from him i got your this video.. But after listening this, I can say that yes Im accountable for all what i have done with myself, I realised my mistakes, I admit that i was procastinating things, i was running for instant pleasures and much more....
I really cant express in words how much relief im feeling now.. you are really a gem... almighty bless you...thank you so muchhh!!
Nice,
To sum up, identifying problems is the need of hour plus Acceptance of anything happening is necessary and then and then only one can do work on that shit. Plus as you said you can fool any one but not yourself so be honest and without FEAR. Right. It's true that it's hard but for a new beginning and being happy just work on yourself no matter how things were good bad. Better to work on yourself than blaming anybody because change in yourself changes the situation hence the mental peace and as you said automatically gains CONFIDENCE.
SO NICE VIDEOS HELPFUL ❤ Most i like that you are accepting that you are leaning and not learnt everything and giving lectures. Thanks and best wishes
Ur channel must grow so that it can reach millions people and learn a lot .......Thank you for considering the series.....I'm rooting for u.....
Thanks for this life experience, Simmy. I'm equally glad to see caring and calming comments rather than the regular vitriolic ones.
As an empathetic individual, who seems to understand this accountability episode, I realize that whatever you said is the same feeling many of us have, however, seldom do we have the guts to speak and let it out in the universe. This is a power that you have, and keep honing it.
My heart feels a little better today, especially through this video. Self-reflection has fantastic perks. Thanks, once again.
Hii Simmy didi. I am 20 now and whatever you shares your life experiences and solutions with us I can relate with it. I also expirences this same things but I couldn't tell anyone because I didn't knew how to tell this in words. I also face same kind of problems in my life from last 4 years and I figured out that biggest demons inside of me is fear, laziness and instant pleasures. And I am in the journey to kill this demons. You are 10 years older than me because of you I can clearly see what things should I do and shouldn't do in my 20's. This video is so knowledgeable. Thanks a lot for this video.
Hey simmy. I'm soo happy for the individual u have turned out. This video is sooo true. Ur videos have been genuinely helping me and I can totally relate things and apply in my life. Pls keep going. Loving these series.
This video is damn correct💯, I have recently dealt with this and I feel very proud that I showed so much courage and took accoutability for my problems and learned the lesson and become more self aware❤
Well ..only few people have such realisations and the way ure learning from these experiences, presenting to us in the most authentic way.. is just crazy..
Literally beautiful video
Makes me realise how everyone is just learning and figuring out life ..
Blessing in disguise! I just wanna hug you nd cry aloud. You don't know how much I'm going thru and that's the same I'm feeling
Ahh omgg what
this video is actually all about a realisation simmi you are truly solving my queries for life mannnn😭😭
Somewhere you are giving those hidden answers what I m trying to find ♥️
These series was truly the best best things l have watched like everytime you made me to realise what i actually supposed to do with sittty situations ✨💓🥺🥺🥺
Thanks dear it was eye opener,i was randomly scrolling social media some reason to get up and fight,now i got up from my bed wiped off my tears and yes ,u deserve a hug my sis.Thank u
My attention span has become so low that it is hard for me to stick to any video for more than 5 mins.
This video was coming repeatedly and I have been watching you from your earliest days, I had ignored it several times. Sitting at Andheri Stn in all the hustle bustle I thought let's give it a chance, one thing that really hooked me was, SAME PROBLEM BAAR BAAR AND THE WAY YOU HAVE EXPRESSED IT, IT FELT LIKE you're expressing my emotions.
I was just thinking how people i knew since school, college are thriving in their life and i never thought i would be struggling so much for so long, it made me so dissapointed that i was thinking that i should die. sometimes we feel we should shut ourselves off. i wish i could leave this world and start again.
Thank you Simmy, for this wonderful video and the entire series. 😊
Unfortunately, I am doing this at 40. And as you said, it's so much to take on. But I tell myself it's better late than never. And still hope for a better future. 🥺😒
See, you are sooo truthful, in this fake world. You have given me the hope to stay honest !
Thank you Simi Di, Earlier I was not in favour to watch this video. However eventually I landed up here and gave a thought to watch this video and as you have started sharing your experience, Now I able to relate a lot exactly why the same things are happening in my life although every time I think I have learned my lesson by being accountable that yes it’s my mistake at first place where I could have been taken some preventive measures to avoid such mess in my life but I didn’t thought in that direction as to write why Soniya why? So I will write and think on my actions 😊
Your videos are spot on for my life…Goodbye was so relatable and now find answers here aswell!
Love you Simmy ❤️
Thank you so much 🤗❤️
❤ It's really nice to hear you again. Not at all boring. ....
I could connect with this. Keep up the good work Simmy. I too sat and wrote 3-4 pages after watching your video. 😇
Very interesting perspective to look at life. Thanks for making it so clear about why taking accountability is such an important thing to grow in our life.
Didi absolutely in love with your series. Make a video on relationship advices especially for the ones who are in their 20’S. since you’re more wiser it would great to learn more from you.
A beautiful video ❤❤ Thank you so much!!!❤❤
Maine aapki phle bhi videos dekhi h ..
And I find same meri life Mai hota. H same feel hota...
Achha lag rha hai I am not only. One. Feeling these kind of things...
Koi aur bhi h. Same feel kr rha h...
But I pray ki.. ase jyda kisi ko aur ko feel na ho because it's. Very pain full as well... Thanks to put it. As it is. 🎉 But acha lgta h bcz mai aapse chhoti hu...to lgta chlo mere pass thoda sa time extra h. jab aap. Happy ho. To mai bhi happy. Ho skti hu in my future ❤
I am in my 20s, running 21, I found this series so relatable to my problems in life. it feels like all you are talking is about me. Thanks so much for doing this series.💌
Thank you Simi! From now on, I'll start to take accountability rather than blaming it on others🙌🏻🙌🏻💯💯
Thank you so much Simmy. Stay blissful ❤️
This is the most honest content I have watched on internet.
Koi itna relatable kese ho sakta h ♥️🌸
Hats off.. finally someone said this 🙌
I'm a 26-year-old guy and I feel powerful. I truly understand the power of manifestation and how it can transform our entire lives. This video really spoke to me. Your story about overcoming challenges through manifestation resonated deeply with me.
Thank you for sharing your inspiring journey!
I've been watching you for the past 4 years but this simmy didi is something different😌
I'm gonna follow this accountability thing for sure
😃 BTW I'm 19 I think it's the perfect time to learn all this.
Thank you so much 😊
Rooting for you. 💕
Beautiful and every word was true. I am 18 and have got some really down phases of my life and could actually see i had managed myself in these. Thank you di❤
Thankyou ❤ it’s peace to listen you.
Really great..and very much relatable
Great realisation....I am 40 ... learning everyday ..and taking responsibility and accountability for every thing/ situation in my life
I dont know but somehow i can relate to your feelings which you are facing now.....i faced same situation in my past but only way is to go ahead with hardships and accept as and when come..
Thank you so much di I really needed this after a long journey of regrets and mistakes and again mistakes and regrets
Journaling has saved me in a similar way. I’m proud of you and me. ❤
Your voice indicates how much trauma you have gone through. Stay strong ♥️
LOVING these videos!!
The more genuine you are within yourself, the more free you would become. But to face your own flaws you must have courage otherwise you can't face your own wrong doings, biases, disingenuous ways of your own behaviour in various things.
Becoming a sincere person is the most beautiful and enriching experience in life but it takes courage and understanding of life in an inclusive and deeper sense.
वीर भोग्य वसुंधरा
There is a long way for you to go..and that is the truth but the truth initially feels like a demon that steals hope but eventually it's the key to freedom and the end of suffering.
Simmy, le meeee tell u one thing and that is....... U r doing Marvelous work for every person.. Who is in need of moral support!
Thank u.from the core of my heart..may allah showers u with all the blessings nd kindness .. amazing people .nd everything you ever wanted...nt personality u want to become
Thunder added just the right emphasis to your expression. Keep going, the nature is with you :)
Wonderful initiative...would help a lot of people put there✨️✨️✨️
This is my first-time on your channel. And you answered my question. Everything that I wanted to ask .
As always the best❤ continue it
Thank you for sharing your opinions ❤
Thank u a lot. Diii . Really helpful
As a teenager now I'm 17 even I lost my self because of my mistakes later I have known the actual meaning of life, yes again I found myself, but but regret, fear , ajj thak mujhee pareshan karti rahti haii .....the message which you have given didi it helps me a lot at some point. Dii from our self mistakes, problems I want to tell one thing if we don't normalise our mistakes, or problems then one should not expect from people to normalise our mistakes , it's okay dii, normalise mistakes ,always find your inner peace ❤ thank you for your videos didi you're beautiful 😊 aurr bhii video banaoo dii like past ko let go karna and on fearless .
Kbse wait krti hu k apki video kab ayegi or mujhe nh Pata apki videos dekh kr mere andar itni positivity kese ajati hai thank you so much with core of my heart ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Real content we all need❤ you are best
people are seriously missing out by not watching this series , i am loving it and basically like a therapy session for me at this point
Thankyou didi for sharing your thoughts..these mean a lot ❤
Thankyou so much di, for giving another lesson. Day by day I am improving, it's all because of you.❤
I felt like I'm talking to my innerself.. I dont want to the same thing happened to me again & again & I want to correct my mistakes. I need to change.. and be my own strength again.
At 30 I realised this 😔
Thank God you didn't add any background music. Its so connecting to listen you ❤
Lots of love simmi.. from an another simmi.. aisey hi real, natural or khud k core experiences share krte rho.. juss be the same natural..
Thank you for sharing this video Simmy
This is literally the best video ever
Thank u didi for just helping out and I feel so good after these videos ❤❤❤
Ahhhh simmy I followed you from many years ago you did your vidios best whatever it is you did great go for it girlll...🔥💞
Thanku simmy its really relatable ❤
Uff uff uff. No words Simmy di 🙃🙃.. thanks thanks thanks! One tight hug from my side.... Hum kar lenge yaar sab kuch..... And you know what the one thing that I've learnt is that ki everything is in the thoughts.. it's all about us not the others..... I mean life ke equations pehle sai hi clear ho toh kya hi baat hai.....❤
Finally I am seeing your video today❤ simmy di continue this series pls ❤😢😢😢😢😢 I love love loooovvvveee this series. No we are not afraid to look inside ❤. You're like a big sis and I wanna hear you and take all the lessons I can ❤ and i am facing an issue again and again and Aaj hi ek new situation vse hi ayi hai .. and I feel stuck stuck ki yrr same hi situation kse arhi baar baar baar baar . Abhi feel horha hai to accept and acknowledge ki kya horha hai kyu horha hai . Praying to God . The sooner the better 😢😭❤️🙏
Very very helpful intuition.. Mam.
I also enjoyed this series because i relate some incidents that happens to you
Your videos are so relatable.
Simmi di your effort is make us more powerful or calmer person love from odisha❤
Thank youu so much simmy........Its so relatable❤❤🩹
You are my unpaid therapist Simmy! I love you!
thankyou for telling the lessons
I've realised that I've messed up my life many times, mostly because I trusted others too easily. I accept that this is my fault, and I'm now trying to recover from a very bad situation. till smiling. 😊
I love you Simmy i love to listen sometimes i feel i am going through the same
Absolutely there are many things common between you nd us Mam that's why i just wait for your new videos as usual...such a very helpful video it is ♥ Well as you asked to suggest some topics to you for your next upcoming videos these topics should be like...Insecurity , self-doubt , over kindness , self-guilt for something done wrong by us...etc .
Thank you really Thank youu!
nice !!
hope i will meet you some day as our life situation is same sharing thoughts will be bliss!!
I am already messed up from 2013 kicked out of my job due to my health issue really struggling till now , hope you overcome ur situation,god bless you tc ...doing good karma is the only soultion every pblm.