Did the Prophet ( peace and blessing be upon him ) have secret marriages ? If he didn't , and we are to follow examples set by the Prophet ( pbuh ), then, there should be NO SECRET MARRIAGES. These things will never remain a secret! Do these men want their children end up marrying each other? Life is weird, things happen ! Women think before you become somebody's secret wife!
WOW! I really enjoyed listening to you. You brought up the situtation, but you didn't place blame on wither party. You just taught a lesson on the subject. So mature and informative. I appreciate your positive message and look forward to learning more from you. As a new muslim, I feel like this situation has been drama show where blame is just passed. It was a bit discouraging seeing the channels I was trying to learn from get caught up in the drama instead of doing what you did. Thank you. Keep it up.
I love the way you explained this! When hearing about this situation, many things didn't seem as though they were right to me, even though it seemed like everything was being done in a halal way. It just didn't seem right at all and I had never heard about this type of marriage. I wasn't sure what Islam said about this. Seeing as though this situation arose regarding someone I saw as being knowledgeable about Islam, it felt very wrong. I don't blindly trust people at all but you can tell when someone is genuinely knowledgeable and wants to spread that kindness to other muslims and educate them. Therefore what happened really didn't sit right with me as I saw the individual as being learned. Thank you very much sister. This video was extremely informative and said in a very respectful manner. May Allah (swt) bless you ❤
03:20 Why is it that the women always have to sacrifice (either willingly or unwillingly)? This makes me so so frustrated of my religion & then almost nothing is mentioned what we'll get in jannah. Ohhhh 72 hoors ONLY for men but nothing specifically mentioned only for women yet most sacrifices have to be made by them. We can't even ask for high mahr lol. BUT MEN? YASS, it is not only permissible but also encouraged to have more wives, kids & female slaves that too without marrying them. I get that they protect us from outsiders, fight in wars, carry heavy objects but their reward is also a lot for them. It’s something that'll make them happy but nothing mentioned only for the womenfolk despite making tremendous amount of sacrifices.
@@Saiqa2024 علماء کے درمیان اختلاف سے مسئلہ اور بھی واضح ہوجاتا ہیں اور ہر فریق اپنے دلائل پیش کرتا ہیں تو اس وقت آپ کو جو اچھا لگے وہ کریں مسال حنفی رفع یدین نہیں کرتے اور شافعی اور دوسرے مسلک والے کرتے ہیں اس مسلے میں اختلاف ہیں اگر چہ فقہ حنفی کے دلائل مظبوط ہیں لیکن سامنے والے بھی احادیث پیش کرتے ہیں تو اب ہم یہ نہیں کہ سکتے کہ آپ غلط ہے اور میں ٹیک ہوں بلکہ کہے گے کہ اگر کیا تو کوئی گناہ نہیں اور نہیں کیا تو بھی ٹیک ہیں اور ہاں آپ کا اختلاف حق پر ہر انسان کی اس کے بارے میں مختلف افکار ہیں
Sis I only mentioned them saying the whole issue of Misyar came into ‘spotlight’ because of them. Other than that my whole video is about Misyar and secret marriages.
@@Zoha.101 honestly speaking I was scared of being misunderstood 😬. Personally I didn’t want to mention their names but it’s connected to my content and I felt people would understand it better as they’re familiar with this controversy.
What u saying is irrelevant. Misyar marriage is never considered as Haram,u listing several scholars who did not admit it is also absurd .and for ur information anything is admitted in Islam as far it not contradictory to the Quran and Sunnah. For example A.I is never mentioned in the Quran or Hadith but still accepted coz it's never contradicting out main source
Did the Prophet ( peace and blessing be upon him ) have secret marriages ? If he didn't , and we are to follow examples set by the Prophet ( pbuh ), then, there should be NO SECRET MARRIAGES. These things will never remain a secret! Do these men want their children end up marrying each other? Life is weird, things happen ! Women think before you become somebody's secret wife!
Your advice is spot on sis and you say it with eloquence and rahma, I hope more people take heed 😊
WOW! I really enjoyed listening to you. You brought up the situtation, but you didn't place blame on wither party. You just taught a lesson on the subject. So mature and informative. I appreciate your positive message and look forward to learning more from you. As a new muslim, I feel like this situation has been drama show where blame is just passed. It was a bit discouraging seeing the channels I was trying to learn from get caught up in the drama instead of doing what you did. Thank you. Keep it up.
Thank you so much for your encouraging comment 🙏
I love the way you explained this! When hearing about this situation, many things didn't seem as though they were right to me, even though it seemed like everything was being done in a halal way. It just didn't seem right at all and I had never heard about this type of marriage. I wasn't sure what Islam said about this. Seeing as though this situation arose regarding someone I saw as being knowledgeable about Islam, it felt very wrong. I don't blindly trust people at all but you can tell when someone is genuinely knowledgeable and wants to spread that kindness to other muslims and educate them. Therefore what happened really didn't sit right with me as I saw the individual as being learned. Thank you very much sister. This video was extremely informative and said in a very respectful manner. May Allah (swt) bless you ❤
I wouldn’t be surprised is Ali Dawat “comments” on your video in his usual way.
😂 he only comments on famous people, I’ve got nothing to worry about 😮💨
@@Saiqa2024 inshallah. I love how this was explained. Well done to you sis.
03:20 Why is it that the women always have to sacrifice (either willingly or unwillingly)? This makes me so so frustrated of my religion & then almost nothing is mentioned what we'll get in jannah. Ohhhh 72 hoors ONLY for men but nothing specifically mentioned only for women yet most sacrifices have to be made by them. We can't even ask for high mahr lol. BUT MEN? YASS, it is not only permissible but also encouraged to have more wives, kids & female slaves that too without marrying them. I get that they protect us from outsiders, fight in wars, carry heavy objects but their reward is also a lot for them. It’s something that'll make them happy but nothing mentioned only for the womenfolk despite making tremendous amount of sacrifices.
No such thing as a secret marriage
Your living in sin if you think that a secret marriage is valid.
Sister can you do a video on very young woman marriage?
اس مسلے میں علماء کا اختلاف ہیں
(اختلاف العلماء رحمت)
😂
رحمت ؟؟؟ اس مسلے ميں آپ کے ساتھ اتفاق کرنا مشکل ہيں
@@Saiqa2024 علماء کے درمیان اختلاف سے مسئلہ اور بھی واضح ہوجاتا ہیں اور ہر فریق اپنے دلائل پیش کرتا ہیں تو اس وقت آپ کو جو اچھا لگے وہ کریں مسال حنفی رفع یدین نہیں کرتے اور شافعی اور دوسرے مسلک والے کرتے ہیں اس مسلے میں اختلاف ہیں اگر چہ فقہ حنفی کے دلائل مظبوط ہیں لیکن سامنے والے بھی احادیث پیش کرتے ہیں تو اب ہم یہ نہیں کہ سکتے کہ آپ غلط ہے اور میں ٹیک ہوں بلکہ کہے گے کہ اگر کیا تو کوئی گناہ نہیں اور نہیں کیا تو بھی ٹیک ہیں
اور ہاں آپ کا اختلاف حق پر ہر انسان کی اس کے بارے میں مختلف افکار ہیں
وعليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته
Mashallah ❤
What was permitted during Prophet S and sahaba was mutah and still should be
And then prophet himself made it haram. So let it be haram.
أي سيدة عربية مهتمة بزواج المسيار
sister the whole thing between them was a misunderstanding.
Sis I only mentioned them saying the whole issue of Misyar came into ‘spotlight’ because of them. Other than that my whole video is about Misyar and secret marriages.
@@Saiqa2024 yes I understand.
@@Zoha.101 honestly speaking I was scared of being misunderstood 😬. Personally I didn’t want to mention their names but it’s connected to my content and I felt people would understand it better as they’re familiar with this controversy.
Assalamualaikum yh we acknowledge it might also cause some chaos so I don't recommend it but it's still not Haram.
@@Saiqa2024 Ofcourse. SIster. I totally understand now.
What u saying is irrelevant. Misyar marriage is never considered as Haram,u listing several scholars who did not admit it is also absurd .and for ur information anything is admitted in Islam as far it not contradictory to the Quran and Sunnah. For example A.I is never mentioned in the Quran or Hadith but still accepted coz it's never contradicting out main source
Any benefit?😢
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Any benifits of this marriage to women