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It's so messed up. I can't even press charges against the man who repeatedly sexually assaulted me as a child because, get this, the statute of limitations is 7 years in my state. Seven years after he stopped he still had complete control over me financially and since I was still a child I wasn't even fully aware that what he had done was wrong.
Crystal Wolcott I am so sorry that you had to go through that. I hope that you were able to get help to deal with that and that you are able to have an absolutely beautiful life from now own.
only 4 ?! How dare everyone who says that. I saw and interview about a woman being abducted for "only" 8 hours in these 8 hours he tried to drown her 4 times, raped her multiple times, choked her, beat her so all her rips were broken and she had inner bleeding plus multiple fractures..again in "only" 8 hours. Image having to go through this for 4!! days
That would even feel longer. Imagine waiting 10 mins while bored, it feels longer than it should be. More so when you are in a dangerous situation without any guarantee of escape. Every hour would feel like an eternity, it would would be scarring mentally and emotionally. What really sucks after this is you'll never be the same after these kind of incidents.
Yeah, time means nothing if you're put in a stressful, painful situation. It doesn't matter if it's a few days, or even a few minutes, or even a few SECONDS. In that moment, every single second is horrible, and intensified. Every moment dragged out to seem like it lasts longer. The fear stays with you, changes you. People who told her that to her face clearly don't understand, and they don't care to either.
Even just getting attacked for a minute can be such a traumatic experience... I can’t imagine the trauma and can’t even rationalize how anyone could say that to someone...
Even worse most places don't take missing reports until its been after 24 hours since the person has gone missing. I'm not sure about this though I've just heard it somewhere
“Do not question yourself. Do not judge yourself. Take your time with yourself. You’ve fallen down before and you got back up. That strength is still in you” Such powerful words to live by. This narrative applies to everyone, abduction survivors or not. (P.S. for anyone who doesn’t know Alicia said this in the video)
@@davidela9022 all child molester and rapist, once undeniable proof is given, should have an immediate bullet to the head! Natural selection. Then they can't ever hurt anyone again. And people will be deterred from doing it. People will continue to do this if they know they'll be out of prison in no time.
Strawberry Milkshake in my opinion, that’s the easy way out. I respect your opinion, but pedophiles get treated so poorly in prison (as they should) and I feel like it’s much better for them to have to go through the torture that they put on others.
alizasucks for 5 mins even. These horrible people. Thank goodness these people r alive today to tell their tale, since not a lot of people have survived💔
“4 days ain’t that bad” I can’t believe there’s people like that. I bet they would be crying and sobbing from just a couple minutes of what they went through.
Yeah, a lot of the times when ever I think of someone going through a r@p3 then I forget and often times am in disbelief that it could really only last less than ten minutes sometimes, yet the person is still most likely scarred for life.
Would you rather spend four days in an unfamiliar place, or PERMANENTLY lose 3 pretty important body parts. It really isn’t the same. Yes, it would be better if they never went at all, but leaving with all your limbs after a 4 day stay with a stranger is much better than dying
I know this video is old, but as a survivor of kidnap & rape by multiple people (including family members) I have to say I am incredibly proud of what the 2 women have done. My long, multi-year story isn’t public & never covered by the news, so I don’t know what it would be like to deal with the emotional trauma in a public way, but I do know how I dealt with it in a very private, hush-hush environment. My trauma wasn’t recognized, nor was there any justice served. I was shamed as a child if I mentioned anything about what I went through. In fact, in January of this year (2022) did I finally admit to someone what I went through. While I have openly talked about a few things, I’d hid the entire horror from my husband, kids & friends. I appreciate you supporting surviving champions who have been through living hell & came out with a an immeasurable about of strength, grace, empathy & resilience in order to help others understand how to do the same, no matter their story or own experience.
I'm so proud of you for continuing on with your life and for continuing to do so. It's terrible you went through that, and I'm so sorry it all happened. But I'm glad you can open up about it now and heal further. Thank you for living, internet stranger :)
@@blorblin Thank You so much! After finally opening up about what happened, I definitely noticed a more positive shift within myself & my relationships which is amazing!
So many people downplay and blame these women because they don't want to think that something like this could happen to them. We need to stop victim blaming and downplaying the impact of abuse.
I got that a lot in comments from when i was on a tv show talking about abuse from a guy. I to this day never knew how to respond to those comments until now. People at work found the episode and i heard comments like that from them as well. It was even harder in person lol but now i know what to say! Im extremely grateful for this video.
For reference to people who say “4 days isn’t that bad”: Sexual assault can happen in seconds, and that can be a life altering event. Imagine how much assault can happen in in 4 days, even one.
My trauma happened in 10 minutes. I can't even imagine what it's like to endure even 4 days of torture. My heart is broken, I want to protect all of them :(
If someone told me “Just 4 days?” I would have responded with “Well, how many days have you spent in a strangers basement getting tortured and sexually assaulted?”
I know right??? Like, excuse me, have you gone through the situation? No, you haven't, so stop pretending like it's no big deal. People can be such idiots.
Sirama This. I despise when people label something like forcing a peck on someone’s lips as sexual assault. Was it not good to do? Yes. But was it sexual assault? Absolutely fucking not. It gets downplayed so damn much that talking about rape even sounds like a joke. People literally use rape as a joke these days, like “don’t turn around or i’ll rape u”. I can’t take it, it’s so fucking insensitive.
Right? 4 days must seem like a lifetime, when you don’t know if you are going to live or die. Being terrified for every single second of that time must really mess with your head.
When i was 15 i met a girl online. We started talking and she said something along the lines of "we should meet up in person". I was seriously debating it but decided against it in the end. I don't know if this was a dangerous person or if this really was the girl like she said. If my parents didn't teach me about internet safety i'm pretty sure i would have gone. Knowledge is power.
in 2020 i talked to this boy on playstation messages, (his voice sounded maybe 16) and we never really talked much and when locations were mentioned, he said his actual state but i said a general location (north/south/east/west) and i never even specified in what country either but then my father found out and i lost all devices up until the middle of 2021 that time alone was filled with the most crippling depression i’ve ever felt, but it was for the best, i guess
Dude I'm surprised I never got catfished or got in any danger after meeting so many girls thru dating apps. I don't do that anymore but yeah you just never know. So many creeps out there
@@EmmaJohnsonShenanigans I get if he was trying to protect you but I wish he had done it in a more reasonable way. Cell phones were barely even a thing when I was in high school but once they were if you didn't have one you didn't get invited places usually. I wish parents understood to use discipline sparsely and to communicate and watch over your kids. They can't stop you from using the internet as it is intended. Chatting with strangers is a part of a lot of games. Sounds like you were smart and I am sorry you were punished for it. That's not fair in my opinion.
I hate that people actually say stuff like “It was only 4 days”. It doesn’t matter if it was a few minutes, a few hours, or a few days, it’s still a very scary and certainly traumatic experience. A lot can happen in a few minutes and she was there for 4 days! These ladies are so strong, I can’t imagine how scary it must have been to be abducted and feel that sense of hopelessness and not knowing what’s going to happen next.
Ikr they annoy me so much. The worst part about judging someone is that you can never know what they went through. You always tend to imagine in the negative way.
When I was 13, my best friends older brother, who was a decade older than me, attempted to convince me to sneak out and get in his car via AIM messenger. I almost did. At 13, I thought it was cool that someone older would want to ‘hang out’ with me. When I look back on it, it gives me goosebumps imagining what could’ve happened. I wish I had more knowledge about how to interact with people online. I can’t blame my parents because at that time, the internet was so new.
to those people, i would like them to experience what she did just for 1 day since 4 isn't that bad, 1 must be easy for them...and see how not bad it'd going to be for the rest of their lives. obviously i don't really wish something like this to happen to anyone but comments like that are so incredibly ignorant i can't even believe it
Stupid people: ONly fOUr dAYs Could be just me but I’m pretty sure any amount of time spent being tortured in a basement is too much time spent being tortured in a basement.
Exactly I couldn't even imagine an hour of torture. Torture is torture either way and people who think "4 days" isn't bad should learn that so much can happen so easily in such little time
I mean, when u compare it to people who hv been kept it captivity for months or longer (like jaycee dugard), then yea. But in no way am i discrediting wat she went thru. Im just saying theres worse out there EDIT: btw im not referring to the trauma. Im referring to the sentence in commas
As a SA survivor, Every minute that things went on, was a minute too long. It’s absurd that someone would say that four days being KIDNAPPED, TORTURED, and ASSAULTED isn’t “that bad”. And it was live streamed? The hell. The ignorance of some people
4 days. 4 straight days. That is a LONG ass time. 4 days is 96 hours. 96 hours is 5760 minutes. 5760 minutes without love, a family, pain. And she was a *child* I'm sure every minute felt like an hour. Every second passing by, and it feels like you're never going to go home. And to ever blame these people for what they had to go through is disgusting. These woman are strong, and empowering, and brilliant. Never downplay a persons suffering, ever.
Exactly, EXACTLY. She had no idea she was going to be saved. She thought she had more time before her own murder, but she thought that time was going to be spent being tormented and raped indefinitely. The strength and courage that young girl showed.... to fight strategically for more time, knowing that time would be the worst time of her life.... wow. Powerful.
I remember watching an interview with a guy who was kidnapped for "only" 40 hours here on youtube and I remember seeing some salty comment about how that's not even 2 full days and the guy's a pussy, because I guess man aren't supposed to get hurt by this? Seriously, the length of it or their gender shouldn't invalidate anyone's trauma.
@@Ax00xL I agree. A lot of times, men have their emotions invalidated because of their gender. I feel like it's way too often that men who are sexual assault survivors or just assault survivors in general feel like they aren't allowed to be upset about it because "men are supposed to be strong" or even worse "emotions are for women!"
these people don't deserve to be free they deserve nothing they deserve to be hated by everyone fear for their life i don't care if this is dark they deserve nothing. nothing
I haven't been kidnapped, but I have been a victim of brutal abuse, sex trafficking, torture, neglect, and a list of other things. And what I gotta say for those who wanna victim blame and for those who want to minimize or degrade all of us who went through those traumas and traumas of all sorts, walk in our shoes for the amount of years, months, hours, even minutes of the trauma we've faced. People need to be aware of these things and need to be taught how to avoid being in these situations. These girls are heroes in my eyes. They deserve every inch of respect. They are trying to make a difference for this world by talking about what they went through and teaching kids and adults how they can avoid these experiences. These women are brave. They don't just speak for themselves, and they don't just speak for other survivors of kidnapping, but they speak for all of us who went through some serious trauma and are our voices. For that, I thank them very much.
People are mean, it takes effort to actually care and put yourself in the other person's shoe's that's why most can sympathize at best but not empathize.
Exactly I live a perfectly normal life and it feels like an eternity to me. Imagine for someone who, A: doesn’t know how long they’re gonna be there. B: getting beaten and r*ped all the time. And C: You probably think you’re gonna die so you don’t even try to keep up to date.
I wish schools taught THIS. That rape is a horrible thing, that no man or women should have to ever be afraid to walk down a street. In Health we had ONE paper that mentioned rape and it wasn't even factual saying things like "women get raped because their clothes provoked the man". We need to stop teaching "boys will be boys" or "it's okay because it's a girl" rape or molestation is never acceptable. Schools and parents should build stronger generations that don't tolerate rape and know how to defend themselves.
The whole "women get raped because..." Is so wrong. Most of the time women that are raped aren't even wearing revealing or sexual clothing or anything of the sort.
@DudeImJasmine no its some sick perversion people have or some sick way to feel like they are in control. And the people who are supposed to protect everyone (police and justice systems) are not doing much to stop it. So ofcourse if you can get away with it, it must not be very bad behaviour and those people will just continue to do the same thing
@Alexis telling the story allows one to control the narrative.. they werent in control of what happened to them..but they can control how their story is told.
@Alexis it was a heartbreaking experiance and they were very hurt in those days eveb months its hard to tell about something that could have hurt them almost to death so its hard to say that relive it in words
One thing about when you are kidnapped, yeah it may have only been hours, but it may have felt like days, and if has been at least 48-72+ hours, then it seems like the days merge, and the only things you can really think about is death, hope, and the how helpless you are. Its a sad, painful, traumatic experience.
Yup I agree and it’s true. When it happened to me all I could think about was if I would be killed and all I did was pray. Also yea even a couple hours can seem like years and years.
They actually made a Netflix documentary about Jan’s story called “Abducted in Plain Sight”. It explores her case much deeper and is honestly so sickening. I cannot imagine the trauma she must still live with...
I thought I recognised her story. wasn't there a whole thing about her kidnapper also romantically and sexually manipulating her parents so they allowed him to abuse her more.
I'm sorry I gotta be that girl! I have it pulled up on my screen rn, and it's "Abducted in Plain Sight" although I guess perhaps it translates differently in other languages? Regardless, if you start searching Jan Broberg, it'll come up in the results so you can find it that way. 😊
TheBananaCat Absolutely agree! I’m sure she has forgiven her parents for everything and in the end it definitely is the perpetrator’s fault. But I cannot get over the fact that her parents were so passive in the whole situation, due to their own emotional dilemmas, that they failed to protect their own daughter from that sicko. They even allowed him to share a bed with her!
I’m honestly in constant fear of being kidnapped. I side-eye people suspiciously when my gut and intuition says to, I stay away from creeps, I watch true crime to defend myself, and then hearing voices who speak out about educate me. Hope these women are doing okay.
@@EmmaJohnsonShenanigans Great dad. I've been thinking of figuring out some way to make my son join a self-defense thing of some sort, because he's a fragile, very kind and good nature and have Asperger, but with low self confidence I think.. I've been training HEMA (Historical European Martial Arts), and can probably knock out almost anyone if I just have a stick or similar, it get built into muscle memory, and tried to bring him once, but he thought it was scary with the swords, and perhaps too rough for him. Do you have any advice of what made you interested in it?
“Just four days? That’s not that bad!” This is the problem I have with today’s society. No amount of trauma is bad enough. We downplay and compare every incident.
So freaking dismissive. “4 days??? That’s not bad.” If you were held captive in a dungeon, deprived of socialising and sunlight, and then r*p*d against your own will... 4 days will feel like 4 years.
I've noticed that a lot of other interviewers and documentaries refer to kidnapping survivors as "victims" whereas Anthony refers to them as "Survivors" Mad respect for you, man
Once my therapist said to me. “Trauma might have been a few hours or even a few days, but for trauma survivors it is like a million years long. Your brain keeps repeating that event pretty much everyday and you keep reliving which makes it feel like that”
Trauma could also be a few seconds for all that matter. A car accident, an explosion... I've been through a very bad earthquake that damaged my house quite a lot 4 years ago: it lasted less than a minute but I still have ptsd from it
this is the most terrifying video i've watched compared to the nutty putty cave incident. i don't EVER wanna trust strangers. i feel so bad for Alicia too, she got rap*d and tortured, it was terrifying to listen. i learned from this video, i'm never letting go of anyone i know and love.
@@Vince_c.3 some dude got trapped in a cave upside down in this very narrow area, he was stuck for days until he eventually passed away. Dude was an experienced cave explorer whilst also being pretty flexible, which is the reason why very few people even managed to reach him
@User yep, but sometimes there may be someone so far gone that they just dont feel it which us scary, thats why a weapon is needed and not just the spray
My worst fear is being trapped in a tiny metal box sealed tight, and I have to escape in like an Hour, or else it will slowly start getting smaller and smaller until my bones break, blood will gush out from every opening and I slowly and painfully become a mangled corpse
Could you do a day with sex trafficking victims? I was sold into sex slavery when I was very little. I'm out now but there's so much misinformation and a lot of us are brushed off and ignored. Not getting the proper help we need after escaping.
Thank you for sharing. We empathize with you, and appreciate your voice. It would be lovely if you could clear up any misinformation to better educate us
whoa Letting you know that you’re probably one of the strongest human being ever. Its so fucked that you and other people have to go through that. I hope you have a blessed day x
I agree, she was terrified for her life... she knew the day she was rescued that she was going to die.... don’t down play the trauma she went through by saying “only _ amount of days”... the time period doesn’t matter, it was traumatizing and shouldn’t have happened..... PERIOD
That one girl, not only was she kidnapped, but tortured. I can imagine how much that destroyed her. Mentally and physically. Thank god for that man who recognized her. Who tf would respond with “ONLY 4 DAYS?!” someone was tortured and almost killed. And THAT is your response?!
As a kidnapping survivor myself. This video was so well done and well handled by Anthony and it felt so nice to watch this and feel less alone in such a scary world. Sometimes I watch back at this video again for the comfort. Thank you Anthony ❤️
I am nearly 21 and recently started unearthing these memories buried deep within me of visits with my great grandfather when I was a child. It shook me to my core because everything they said was very real, I was brainwashed to believe I was the special one and I never thought it was anything bad, but was told to keep it a secret to avoid upsetting my family. So they wouldn’t feel “less special”. I just forgot about it, or maybe deep down knew it was wrong and buried it. I recently found out it happened to a lot of my cousins too, and my little sister so it’s still ongoing. I think this was an important video in all aspects, now I know which ladies to follow for more guidance. It breaks my heart
I gasped when she said it was 5 hours long ride. I thought it was way too long of a nightmare, and then she said that some people would come up to her and have the audacity to tell her that 4 freaking days is "oh not so bad?!!!!" SMH some people are insane! I want to thank these wonderful women for sharing their stories, and possibly preventing a similar situation. They've been incredibly strong
That “only 4 days?”, annoys tf out of me. Like okkkk there is a reason anyone found is found in a short period, bc any longer and they’re usually dead. SHE IS LUCKY, and 4 days is a long time and a scary time Don’t ever belittle someone else’s trauma
I'm so inspired by Alicia and Jan for being strong enough to come out and speak about that in this video. Alicia is honestly working so hard to prevent others from experiencing what she did, because she went through it and no one deserves to go through what these brave women went through. Lots of love to anyone who went through such a thing, you don't deserve it and if you haven't overcome it yet (which is a huge step) then I hope you do.
It could be because of the anxiety. I believe my anxiety is partly the reason I am so empathic. Regardless of the reason, Anthony seems like an amazingly kind person❤️
exactly, murders tend to get at least 50-60 years, but these abductors didn’t?!? they were planning on killing the victim, imagine if the girl was found a few hours later she could have been killed. they deserve so much more jail time.
It’s so difficult to arrest them as well because in cases of child abuse the child usually doesn’t come forward until they’re an adult. Then where’s the proof? Also kidnapping/ sexual abuse happens behind closed doors between two people. The criminal system is unjust and doesn’t protect survivors!
The fact that there are people like this just walking around and torturing and kidnapping people and only getting a few years in jail actually really bothers me.
Honestly though people like that are a reason that I get paranoid at night thinking "What if someone kidnaps or kills or even something worse" people like that also make me sick.
It's fucking disgusting how, for example, drug dealers can get life in prison, but people who kidnap/r!pe get less than 2 years. Like both are bad but one is significantly worse and is not taken seriously enough in the jail system
That's why so many people do it, they know there will be almost no consequences 🤷🏻♀️ the system doesn't give shit about us and nobody is willing to protect us we have to change something
"it was only 4 days"... I got sexually assaulted for just under 15 minutes and it permanently changed me as person and made my whole outlook on life different, not only that, my sexual assaulter got ZERO punishment for what he did to me. Imagine getting kidnapped for 4 days and your kidnapper/r*pist/assaulter barely getting any jail time. Even a few minutes can change someone entirely. Stop excusing the kidnappers behavior and realize that no matter how long something occurred, there will ALWAYS be some form of trauma. Edit: I wanna also acknowledge the immense fear women/men face after seeing their kidnapper/r*pist/assaulter. These women are so brave for being able to face them in court proudly. For me personally, he works at my local grocery store so I have to see him all the time. I always feel very unsafe and tense seeing him waltz around as a free man. It was to the point I refused even working at that grocery store because I didn't want to see him.
Was the woman in the story sexually assaulted or beaten. I didn't really understand? Also was the other woman taken into a cell by good law enforcement or people in on her kidnapping I am genuinely confused.
That's exactly what I was thinking! If you've been in a position like that 1 second feels like an hour, an hour feels like a day... it probably felt like forever. I could never understand what that must have felt like for her.
Mr Helo yes the younger woman was sexually assaulted. Beaten r@aped (the word is bleeped in the video because TH-cam will take it down) for four days. She was kept in a torture chamber and tortured physically, emotionally, and sexually. The other woman, the older one, knew her kidnapper. Neither of them were arrested. The law enforcement wasn’t “in on it” when the first describes being rescued she THOUGHT it was someone coming to kill her not to rescue her. The older woman her kidnapper was arrested, and she was allowed to go see him in jail was what she was describing. There’s a whole documentary on her. It’s very sad and very strange. She’s endured so much.
"He's going to be released next year on my birthday" I can't imagine the anger and the pain she must feel toward the system. I have no words, this is disgusting.
Even I'm so angry and upset over it so I can't even begin to imagine how she could be feeling towards it. It's deeper in than heartbreak and terror....💔
When I first started going online, my mom sat me down and drew a diagram with just two circles, one smaller and inside the larger. She said “the smaller circle is the people you can tell everything to, inside the bigger circle is things you tell some people but not others, and outside the circle is people you can’t share anything with.” Then she had me go through and put a dot for where family fell on that scale, friends, and online friends. When I was done she explained the dangers of meeting people online and made sure I was aware that I can’t tell people online anything that could lead them to me. I think that every parent needs to have this conversation with their kid
I really appreciate that this video helps talk about kidnapping survivors. Especially because this has happened to me before. My heart goes out to all of them.
“Only four days, that isn’t that bad” it is not okay to minimize or compare trauma. All trauma is horrible and all trauma survivors are immensely strong.
Yes but 4 days is better than multiple years or never getting found, she wasn’t even gone for half a week, every second feels like forever I get that, I also get that she went through extreme torture and 4 days seems like a lot, but again it’s better than getting tortured for years
@@leeeverett7388 I don't intend on changing your mind, but in my opinion, it is still severe. This topic is so graphic that a person that hasn't been traumatized before in that degree wouldn't understand. Either 4 days or 4 years of a traumatic event so personal, violating, and dehumanizing, you would never forget it.
I was almost kidnapped by four men in a black BMW right outside my house on my way home from work one night when I was 17, it was traumatic and to this day as a 22 year old I can’t go anywhere by myself and if a car stops beside me I freak. If it wasn’t for a lovely old man walking his dog who had turned the corner at the right time who knows what would have happened to me. He started yelling at the man trying to pull me in and the dog started growling and barking so they sped off. Such a brave guy to stand up to four men and I’m forever thankful to him.
Pedophilia is not a sexuality. Minors cannot give anyone consent, it's not just unlawful it's totally disgusting that people look at kids and have these thoughts. EDIT: Ya so I don't wanna 'exterminate' them from the society or whatever. If they can get help well and good, we all can move on with our lives peacefully but if they can't they are sex offenders BECAUSE CHILDREN CAN'T CONSENT. No matter what the sexuality is, intercourse without consent is a crime.
@@SolidCheshire discussing and getting help is fine... but things this and rapes are what make them dangerous. You are right this should be talked about, they need to he understood as well before they become dangerous.
Boboqt Vv the feelings of being sexually attracted to a child, while still disturbing, aren’t inherently illegal. its if that person then decides to act upon these feelings where it’s a problem.
Imagine going through major rape or sexual assault, and people say," It was for only 4 days. It wasnt THAT bad." It doesnt matter how long it is,it is of the trauma that the victim has
I bet you if you pointed a NERF gun at one of these '4 days isn't that bad' mfers, they would soil themselves. 4 days being tortued is 4 days too long.
@Anonymous Well yeah obviously, but the VAST majority are men. Plus starting a sentence with "I felt really sorry for these women *but* " doesn't look too favorable for you
@MB i have seen cases of women commiting equal or worse crimes, i am not saying that there aren't horrible men out there that commit terrible acts against women. but there are just as many women commiting terrible act to men and the truth is that the justice system is far less fair to men than it is to women, women often get lesser sentences for the same crimes, and the system has a nasty habit of siding with women no matter the circumstances, with questions like "what did he do to make her mad?" the male version of "what was she wearing?" once again i am not trying to make light of what happened to either of the women in this video or anyone else for that matter, just saying that horrible things happen to both sexes and are commited by both sexes.
*_KIDNAPPED IS KIDNAPPED MK_* (sorry I'm just saying that kidnapped is just kidnapped it doesn't matter how many days or the gender or age oof this might look like I'm saying it's good to kidnap but it's just the opposite of that qnq)
You know, this is the second video I watch from this channel (the first one was about the morticians). At first I thought that it would be anoying because Antony seemed to me like someone who would try to make fun of the situation just to keep it "chill". I have been surprised with how sensible and gentle the conversations have been handled so far. Loving it!
Yeah like they are like “ It’S NoT ThAt BaD “ like ok then you go through the trauma and they are like “No WhY wOuLd I dO tHaT “ OH I’m sorry I thought it “ WaSn’T tHaT bAd “
“oNlY fOuR dAyS, tHatS nOt bAd” imagine going through ur worst fear for 4 days and then just dying, like drowning. Imagine drowning for 4 days just suffering then dying after all that pain.
in my opinion it's much worse because they survived. I can't imagine living with that sort of trauma. it almost makes it seem like dying would be the "easy" way out.
alicias story reminds me of the toy box killer, poor girls, they mustve been going through a lot after these experiences. Being kidnapped is my worst fear ever! My heart goes out to these strong brave survivors.
Ana Bean They’re idiots. If people that controlled who gets in and out of jail were put even through a day of what that girl had to go through they’d be fucking wanting that man/woman dead or have life in prison.
I'm all for giving people a chance at redemption But for doing what those men did, you have to cross so many lines, become so inhuman, that I don't see how anything less than a ticket to the death row could be appropiate
@@la8920 Same I never think killing someone is the best thing to do but the things these men did is so crazy and sad. It's sooo inhuman it makes me sick
The only person you should blame is the abuser, the kidnapper, etc. NEVER BLAME THE VICTIM OR THE VICTIMS PARENTS. EDIT: of course there are always situations where the parents should be blames (if they were in on it etc.) but normally we shouldnt blame the parents.
@@maryzaleski3946 True but if the parents dont care about childs safety,blame them. Theres alot of parents out there that wont believe u when u tell them what happened to u. These kind of parents are supposed be blamed.
Sometimes its okay tj blame them though, at school they teach us about this- yet people decide to be stupid. The amount of kid I have seen online dating is uncountable, the amount of times I caught kids having sex online is also very crazy. I try to warn them, "you're just jealous 😝" they say. So yeah- at these situations we should blame them since they had at least 1 person warn them.
*Basics for children online:* NEVER go and meet someone without FACETIMING them first. Meet only in PUBLIC PLACES and never at someone's home. ALWAYS let multiple people know where you're going and TURN ON YOUR GPS. PLEASE, PLEASE DO NOT GO ALONE!!
Please don't go alone! Bring at least 2+ people with you and tell EVERYONE where you are going. AND MEET IN A PUBLIC PLACE!!! Meet somewhere where if you ever need to scream for help there would be people around you. And if they ask if you want to go somewhere more "private" RUN
Don’t get in the car with the “parent” of the person you’re supposed to be meeting even if the person is there too because you never know if it is set up and they are a victim too! Meet in a public place with someone else, preferably your parent/guardian!!
"4 days, it's not that bad" I remember waking up after a black out and being kissed without my consent. It lasts for seconds before I push the guy and I felt like this last for a good whole 10 minutes. I wasn't even hurt or bound like she was. I can't imagine what this girl went through for 4 LONG and TERRIFRYING days. Human are heartless. I don't understand what is the goal of dimissing a traumatic event because you didn't "have it that bad". Yes people are kidnapped for decennies. I doesn't make her situation more bearable.
@@kerrycook233 yes it is you would want to die at that point if your getting tortured for 4 days straight and it is not that bad to not be kidnapped at all.
@@kerrycook233 based off of your spelling, you’re most likely 6-9 years old. How would you feel if you were tortured, abused, sexually assaulted, and more without knowing when it’s going to end? Even if it’s 10 minutes, it’s still terrifying.
It's crazy to think that she was beaten, tortured and abused, and yet when she shares her story people tell her that 4 days isn't that bad. I just can't comprehend the amount of complete and utter disrespect on those people. She was brave enough to share her story with you and you make her feel like a baby. Wtf?
@@Ethan-_-Lim Couldn't have said it better. If they had gotton kidnapped for that long, they would be screaming, crying, they might not have even made it. So they should keep their stupid ass comments to themself before they get hurt.
Exactly! Besides, in this situation i'm sure you feel like this is an eternity. I want this kind of people to just spend 4 minutes in that horrible dark room with this monster and see how they would feel in this situation. Human disgust me I swear...
@@mgtccnl Precisely. I would honestly like to watch that. Not... Of course... The psycho stuff, I'd just like to hear their screams of absolute terror echoing in the room. Does that make me a psychopath?
The ppl that say 4 days isn't that bad they should get what happened to the girl or boy they should be in that position and then I whold love to hear them say 4 days it wasn't that bad
I've heard stories about a guy who raped a child. He got sent to jail and got beaten up by his cellmates upon learning what he did I'm kind of hoping that happens more often as I hear more stories like these
It’s very common to be in isolation when in jail/prison for sex crimes and pedophilia. There are so many stories out there about it. Criminals hate that most of all.
Oh yeah, from what I've heard they have different outdoor times etc. for pedophiles and sex offenders in the prison in my town because the other inmates kept beating them up (rightfully so ☺️)
Truth is, no matter what you've done. You could have killed people, tortured someone, whatever. If your a pedophile you will get beat senseless until your forced into solitary. People in prison are bad, but there not monsters.
Jan’s story infuriates me, not because of her! She was a child that was innocent & trusted a man that gained the trust of her & her family. She was kidnapped TWICE, by the same man & there is so much more to her story. Watch her Netflix documentary if you haven’t! Edit: the documentary is called “Abducted in Plain Sight” it was on Netflix. There’s also a book wrote by Jan.
I respect the pedo's that voluntarily have themselves chemically castrated, because they are sickened by their desires. They didn't choose to have this attraction and I kind of feel bad for them that they can't ever have romantic love. HOWEVER, the other side of the coin should indeed be castrated and monitored. If they still can't behave, broadcast their crimes over the prison PA system I say. 3 years is a slap on the wrist sentence for most crimes, for assaulting children though? 3 years may very well be a deathsentence.
She is very right about it happening a lot within homes and people avoiding talking about it is very true, thanks for telling us your stories ladies, very strong 🥰
I can’t imagine what it’s like to actually be kidnapped. I already get a bad feeling in my gut when I see somebody walking behind me in the dark. But actually being taken is... I can’t even describe the thought of it.
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CHILDREN CANNOT AND WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO CONSENT TO ANY ADULT SEXUAL ACTIVITY.
And that’s a fact
@@Shadow-vd7es nice
Period.
Fax
Amen.
In my opinion even one day is terrible and awful..
heck Hours and Minutes are awful
When she said she was tortured for four days I was shocked and horrified. Every second must feel like forever.
Even milliseconds and nanoseconds...
derpoverload yea and people have the ordasedy(sos I’m bad at English) to say OnLy FoUr DaYs
In my opinion, even a few seconds is atrocious
Who ever told that brave woman,
"4 days?? Thats not that bad!"
Is a rotten and sick person.
I wouldn’t say that. I think they just don’t understand because they haven’t experienced anything like it
They’re probably 12 ur olds that think they can say anything bc “it’s just a word”
I'm a little scared tht they had to suffer much longer and thts why 4 days seems less?
bhavika Kosambia r u saying that bc of longer experiences 4 days seem less?
The majority of kidnapping victims will be dead, by then.
Those jail times make me sick. 19 days. Kidnapping and violating a CHILD should be at the LEAST like 50 years. Absolutely unforgivable.
It should be death penalty!
@@UserMari45_67 i'm fine with that!
Anyone who would sexually assault a child deserves a painful death
no it should be life in prison
Atleast 20 badgillion years😻😻😻😻
Im sorry, LESS THAN A YEAR FOR REPETEDLY RAPING A CHILD?!?!?! I can't even fathom how that judgement could be just in any way.
It's so messed up. I can't even press charges against the man who repeatedly sexually assaulted me as a child because, get this, the statute of limitations is 7 years in my state. Seven years after he stopped he still had complete control over me financially and since I was still a child I wasn't even fully aware that what he had done was wrong.
Crystal Wolcott I am so sorry that you had to go through that. I hope that you were able to get help to deal with that and that you are able to have an absolutely beautiful life from now own.
Rape charges aren’t taken seriously enough and neither are pedo charges... like they should get the death sentence
Welcome to the American justice system
Crystal Wolcott I’m so sorry that happened to you.. I hope you’re in a better place. ♥️
only 4 ?! How dare everyone who says that. I saw and interview about a woman being abducted for "only" 8 hours in these 8 hours he tried to drown her 4 times, raped her multiple times, choked her, beat her so all her rips were broken and she had inner bleeding plus multiple fractures..again in "only" 8 hours. Image having to go through this for 4!! days
That would even feel longer. Imagine waiting 10 mins while bored, it feels longer than it should be. More so when you are in a dangerous situation without any guarantee of escape. Every hour would feel like an eternity, it would would be scarring mentally and emotionally. What really sucks after this is you'll never be the same after these kind of incidents.
@Lady Mercy what are you on? Invalidating someones trauma isnt going to help them get over it, itll just make them feel worse.
Yeah, 4 days isnt nothing.
Yeah, time means nothing if you're put in a stressful, painful situation. It doesn't matter if it's a few days, or even a few minutes, or even a few SECONDS. In that moment, every single second is horrible, and intensified. Every moment dragged out to seem like it lasts longer. The fear stays with you, changes you. People who told her that to her face clearly don't understand, and they don't care to either.
Even just getting attacked for a minute can be such a traumatic experience... I can’t imagine the trauma and can’t even rationalize how anyone could say that to someone...
“4 days? that’s not that’s bad!” most abducted children are murdered within 24 hours of being taken so like... 4 days is actually REALLY bad
It was like a slow murderer
Even worse most places don't take missing reports until its been after 24 hours since the person has gone missing. I'm not sure about this though I've just heard it somewhere
Hay Thi
That is only a myth, however I believe that myth is starting to become a fact...
@@MN-ys2pe this is not true for missing kids
@@eclipseisbmyt666 I hope it stays a myth and not become reality
Once a creep kidnaps a child, they should NEVER be released from jail.
Afuckinmen
and should be tortured very badly (:
At a minimum they should never be let out ever.
@@PydroAkk kidnapping doesnt mean rape, torture or any of those things you listed its just taking someone hostage
@@PydroAkk keyword: most
“Do not question yourself. Do not judge yourself. Take your time with yourself. You’ve fallen down before and you got back up. That strength is still in you”
Such powerful words to live by. This narrative applies to everyone, abduction survivors or not.
(P.S. for anyone who doesn’t know Alicia said this in the video)
Well said!👍
true thatttttt ....🥰
I never expected a dog to say such things
Avinash Jain I myself am not a dog, but my profile picture is of my dog, though. :-)
Judah Hernandez I was clarifying and trying to make the point that this comment/topic shouldn’t be joked about.
why is no one talking about the fact that the kidnappers got like NO JAIL TIME
It pisses me off too much to even think about it....
It's becuase the cjs look out for their own. Why do you think rich people get like no jail time? They're also rich. Same with rapists.
@@davidela9022 all child molester and rapist, once undeniable proof is given, should have an immediate bullet to the head! Natural selection. Then they can't ever hurt anyone again. And people will be deterred from doing it. People will continue to do this if they know they'll be out of prison in no time.
Strawberry Milkshake in my opinion, that’s the easy way out. I respect your opinion, but pedophiles get treated so poorly in prison (as they should) and I feel like it’s much better for them to have to go through the torture that they put on others.
david Ela I respect your opinion as well my dude(:
being kidnapped even for an HOUR would be so terrifying.
alizasucks for 5 mins even. These horrible people. Thank goodness these people r alive today to tell their tale, since not a lot of people have survived💔
just a second would be traumatizing
@@c4tm0chi45 kid
@@c4tm0chi45 ehh ur mom is just crazy not a witch
@@c4tm0chi45 can I make a anime about this
“4 days ain’t that bad”
I can’t believe there’s people like that. I bet they would be crying and sobbing from just a couple minutes of what they went through.
Yeah, a lot of the times when ever I think of someone going through a r@p3 then I forget and often times am in disbelief that it could really only last less than ten minutes sometimes, yet the person is still most likely scarred for life.
if I spent 20 minutes in a car being kidnapped I would literally shit myself
@@NekcropIf I spent TWO SECONDS in a car being kiddnapped I’d pee and poop myself
FR the SECOND i am in that car i have passed out from terror😭😭😭
It doesn’t matter if you were kidnapped for an hour, a day, or a year. Being KIDNAPPED is terrifying and horrible.
exactly.
Yyyyeeeeeeeessssssss
Exactly
Exactly it’s a traumatic experience that I would imagine you won’t forget
Yea and the kidnappers should be torture just like they did to them
It’s awful how they are letting her abuser out on her birthday, it’s totally ridiculous
It’s ridiculous they let him out period.
Seriously like what a greeeat birthday gift
/s
LudoTheMeh exactly
@gamingwith me here is not the time for stupid memes.
if i were making the decisions it would be therapy, mood stabilizers, fifty years of prison, and possibly a mental institution
Saying “iT wAs oNlY fOuR daYs” is like saying they only cut off your feet and only ONE of your hands you have your other hand your fine
When did he say that
SADBOYS production he never did, she’s saying that people who told her that
@@bois-se8id its just an example.
SADBOYS production it’s just an example
Would you rather spend four days in an unfamiliar place, or PERMANENTLY lose 3 pretty important body parts. It really isn’t the same. Yes, it would be better if they never went at all, but leaving with all your limbs after a 4 day stay with a stranger is much better than dying
I know this video is old, but as a survivor of kidnap & rape by multiple people (including family members) I have to say I am incredibly proud of what the 2 women have done. My long, multi-year story isn’t public & never covered by the news, so I don’t know what it would be like to deal with the emotional trauma in a public way, but I do know how I dealt with it in a very private, hush-hush environment. My trauma wasn’t recognized, nor was there any justice served. I was shamed as a child if I mentioned anything about what I went through. In fact, in January of this year (2022) did I finally admit to someone what I went through. While I have openly talked about a few things, I’d hid the entire horror from my husband, kids & friends. I appreciate you supporting surviving champions who have been through living hell & came out with a an immeasurable about of strength, grace, empathy & resilience in order to help others understand how to do the same, no matter their story or own experience.
I'm so proud of you for continuing on with your life and for continuing to do so. It's terrible you went through that, and I'm so sorry it all happened. But I'm glad you can open up about it now and heal further. Thank you for living, internet stranger :)
You are so strong and I hope you can live your life freely from now on.
@@icyhot9850 Thank you friendly stranger! There are no words that can ever express how appreciative I am for the kindness, support! Thank you
@@blorblin Thank You so much! After finally opening up about what happened, I definitely noticed a more positive shift within myself & my relationships which is amazing!
Can’t imagine how incredibly difficult that must have been. I hope you are in a better environment and can continue to heal. Sending love your way ❣️
So many people downplay and blame these women because they don't want to think that something like this could happen to them. We need to stop victim blaming and downplaying the impact of abuse.
I got that a lot in comments from when i was on a tv show talking about abuse from a guy. I to this day never knew how to respond to those comments until now. People at work found the episode and i heard comments like that from them as well. It was even harder in person lol but now i know what to say! Im extremely grateful for this video.
exactly!
Victim blaming and gaslighting is so toxic
People sometimes get on my nerves
@@Theconfusedace mhm
For reference to people who say “4 days isn’t that bad”:
Sexual assault can happen in seconds, and that can be a life altering event.
Imagine how much assault can happen in in 4 days, even one.
My trauma happened in 10 minutes. I can't even imagine what it's like to endure even 4 days of torture. My heart is broken, I want to protect all of them :(
LeneChibi I’m so sorry that happened to you!
Ray Of Fucking Sunshine oh my gosh that’s horrible
Exactly, it only takes one moment to ruin a lifetime.
@@LeneChibi F
If someone told me “Just 4 days?” I would have responded with “Well, how many days have you spent in a strangers basement getting tortured and sexually assaulted?”
I know right??? Like, excuse me, have you gone through the situation? No, you haven't, so stop pretending like it's no big deal. People can be such idiots.
Say “rape” for some reason “sexual assault” makes people not take it seriously.
Sirama
This. I despise when people label something like forcing a peck on someone’s lips as sexual assault. Was it not good to do? Yes. But was it sexual assault? Absolutely fucking not. It gets downplayed so damn much that talking about rape even sounds like a joke. People literally use rape as a joke these days, like “don’t turn around or i’ll rape u”. I can’t take it, it’s so fucking insensitive.
Right? 4 days must seem like a lifetime, when you don’t know if you are going to live or die. Being terrified for every single second of that time must really mess with your head.
Seriously!? Could you imagine someone just torturing you for even an hour?
When i was 15 i met a girl online. We started talking and she said something along the lines of "we should meet up in person". I was seriously debating it but decided against it in the end. I don't know if this was a dangerous person or if this really was the girl like she said. If my parents didn't teach me about internet safety i'm pretty sure i would have gone. Knowledge is power.
in 2020 i talked to this boy on playstation messages, (his voice sounded maybe 16) and we never really talked much and when locations were mentioned, he said his actual state but i said a general location (north/south/east/west) and i never even specified in what country either
but then my father found out and i lost all devices up until the middle of 2021
that time alone was filled with the most crippling depression i’ve ever felt, but it was for the best, i guess
My dad once told me even if the person IS who they say they are its not worth risking it because it could cost your life
W parents
Dude I'm surprised I never got catfished or got in any danger after meeting so many girls thru dating apps. I don't do that anymore but yeah you just never know. So many creeps out there
@@EmmaJohnsonShenanigans I get if he was trying to protect you but I wish he had done it in a more reasonable way. Cell phones were barely even a thing when I was in high school but once they were if you didn't have one you didn't get invited places usually. I wish parents understood to use discipline sparsely and to communicate and watch over your kids. They can't stop you from using the internet as it is intended. Chatting with strangers is a part of a lot of games. Sounds like you were smart and I am sorry you were punished for it. That's not fair in my opinion.
Love how Anthony respects everyone who is on his show no matter their situation or wellbeing
yess
yess
everyone should do that.
Yess
Call it opposite of keemstar
I hate that people actually say stuff like “It was only 4 days”. It doesn’t matter if it was a few minutes, a few hours, or a few days, it’s still a very scary and certainly traumatic experience. A lot can happen in a few minutes and she was there for 4 days! These ladies are so strong, I can’t imagine how scary it must have been to be abducted and feel that sense of hopelessness and not knowing what’s going to happen next.
Yeah. Death can happen in a few seconds
Who tf even says that- "only" 4 days- this one of the major reasons why people are afraid of opening up.
So true...i feel when ppl are ignorant they need a taste or wakeup call. Though I don't wish that on anyone.
Ikr they annoy me so much. The worst part about judging someone is that you can never know what they went through. You always tend to imagine in the negative way.
4 days..... do people not know how quick death is? It only takes a moment for people to decide to end your life even when its not your fault.
It's amazing how 19 days can seem like nothing to a criminal
but 4 days can seem like a lifetime for a victim
I was just thinking this
i was was kidnapped by my biological father when i was five, only for 24 hours. but, it felt like days
@@lilyyyy7306 i’m so sorry about that. i hope you’re doing okay.
@@hilol2220 i am doing better! thank you for asking!
@@lilyyyy7306 that’s good! i’m glad to hear :)
When I was 13, my best friends older brother, who was a decade older than me, attempted to convince me to sneak out and get in his car via AIM messenger. I almost did. At 13, I thought it was cool that someone older would want to ‘hang out’ with me. When I look back on it, it gives me goosebumps imagining what could’ve happened. I wish I had more knowledge about how to interact with people online. I can’t blame my parents because at that time, the internet was so new.
Thank god you didn't get in that car.
Or maybe he really wanted to hang out🤷♂️
@@obzidian3746shut up
@@obzidian3746 💀
@@obzidian3746 😶😶😦😶
For the “only four days” people, remember, a thousand days of evasion is better than one day of captivity. Trust me.
to those people, i would like them to experience what she did just for 1 day since 4 isn't that bad, 1 must be easy for them...and see how not bad it'd going to be for the rest of their lives. obviously i don't really wish something like this to happen to anyone but comments like that are so incredibly ignorant i can't even believe it
@@edelleaa agreed
Preach
Wats evasion )sorry about the speling)
@@craftcorner3312 to evade something means to be free of it, to avoid it. in this context: evasion = freedom
Stupid people: ONly fOUr dAYs
Could be just me but I’m pretty sure any amount of time spent being tortured in a basement is too much time spent being tortured in a basement.
bruhh imagine having to go to sleep 3 times in a row inside a torture basement, not even knowing if you'll wake up 😭
Amen
Exactly I couldn't even imagine an hour of torture. Torture is torture either way and people who think "4 days" isn't bad should learn that so much can happen so easily in such little time
XRYING 5 minutes of torture would break me forever. one minute.
10 minutes or 10 hours. it’s still torture
I can’t believe someone actually told Alicia that “oh four days isn’t that bad/long.”
Trauma doesn’t have a shelf life.
Yes it does
@@TestChannelOfcourse no, it really doesn't...
FamousBump Elaborate.
People who think that a minute is fast they clearly have not done a plank. Some people are idiots.
I mean, when u compare it to people who hv been kept it captivity for months or longer (like jaycee dugard), then yea. But in no way am i discrediting wat she went thru. Im just saying theres worse out there
EDIT: btw im not referring to the trauma. Im referring to the sentence in commas
As a SA survivor, Every minute that things went on, was a minute too long. It’s absurd that someone would say that four days being KIDNAPPED, TORTURED, and ASSAULTED isn’t “that bad”. And it was live streamed? The hell. The ignorance of some people
I highly admire these survivors for being able to speak about their experiences. I can't even begin to imagine the trauma they must have endured
It must have caused so much trauma, im so proud of them for being so brave, sharing their past and their feelings.
yes it is, must have been trapped in like a prison all year
if this happened to me i probably wouldn't be strong enough to talk about it
Yeah, me too... I don't know how they do it.
@@goldendragon5259 4 days probably would've felt like 4 weeks if you had to go through something like that
4 days. 4 straight days. That is a LONG ass time. 4 days is 96 hours. 96 hours is 5760 minutes. 5760 minutes without love, a family, pain.
And she was a *child*
I'm sure every minute felt like an hour. Every second passing by, and it feels like you're never going to go home. And to ever blame these people for what they had to go through is disgusting. These woman are strong, and empowering, and brilliant. Never downplay a persons suffering, ever.
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Exactly, EXACTLY. She had no idea she was going to be saved. She thought she had more time before her own murder, but she thought that time was going to be spent being tormented and raped indefinitely. The strength and courage that young girl showed.... to fight strategically for more time, knowing that time would be the worst time of her life.... wow. Powerful.
I remember watching an interview with a guy who was kidnapped for "only" 40 hours here on youtube and I remember seeing some salty comment about how that's not even 2 full days and the guy's a pussy, because I guess man aren't supposed to get hurt by this? Seriously, the length of it or their gender shouldn't invalidate anyone's trauma.
also, she didn’t know how long she would be there and that just is worse
@@Ax00xL I agree. A lot of times, men have their emotions invalidated because of their gender. I feel like it's way too often that men who are sexual assault survivors or just assault survivors in general feel like they aren't allowed to be upset about it because "men are supposed to be strong" or even worse "emotions are for women!"
He’s going to be released on her birthday. That is horrible.
Yeah ikr
these people don't deserve to be free they deserve nothing they deserve to be hated by everyone fear for their life i don't care if this is dark they deserve nothing. nothing
The fact that he’s gonna be released at all is horrible..
The fact that people like this exist
@@drista6648 for a second I thought you were talking about the kidnap survivors
I haven't been kidnapped, but I have been a victim of brutal abuse, sex trafficking, torture, neglect, and a list of other things. And what I gotta say for those who wanna victim blame and for those who want to minimize or degrade all of us who went through those traumas and traumas of all sorts, walk in our shoes for the amount of years, months, hours, even minutes of the trauma we've faced. People need to be aware of these things and need to be taught how to avoid being in these situations. These girls are heroes in my eyes. They deserve every inch of respect. They are trying to make a difference for this world by talking about what they went through and teaching kids and adults how they can avoid these experiences. These women are brave. They don't just speak for themselves, and they don't just speak for other survivors of kidnapping, but they speak for all of us who went through some serious trauma and are our voices. For that, I thank them very much.
Sorry that u had to go thru all that
“4 days?! That’s not that bad!”
4 days of torment = a lifetime of painful memories for her.
Also u don't know it won't be 4 days ur not counting, it seems much longer
@@itsfrance6500 and u wont even know how long it will last
Its useless to say, “u will be free in four days” or something
People are mean, it takes effort to actually care and put yourself in the other person's shoe's that's why most can sympathize at best but not empathize.
Amen sis
Exactly I live a perfectly normal life and it feels like an eternity to me. Imagine for someone who, A: doesn’t know how long they’re gonna be there. B: getting beaten and r*ped all the time. And C: You probably think you’re gonna die so you don’t even try to keep up to date.
I wish schools taught THIS. That rape is a horrible thing, that no man or women should have to ever be afraid to walk down a street. In Health we had ONE paper that mentioned rape and it wasn't even factual saying things like "women get raped because their clothes provoked the man". We need to stop teaching "boys will be boys" or "it's okay because it's a girl" rape or molestation is never acceptable. Schools and parents should build stronger generations that don't tolerate rape and know how to defend themselves.
My school teaches us this, and human trafficking, substance abuse topics, and more important subjects
Water Wolf we need more schools like yours!
Katherine Alberca
I agree 100%
The whole "women get raped because..." Is so wrong. Most of the time women that are raped aren't even wearing revealing or sexual clothing or anything of the sort.
@DudeImJasmine no its some sick perversion people have or some sick way to feel like they are in control. And the people who are supposed to protect everyone (police and justice systems) are not doing much to stop it. So ofcourse if you can get away with it, it must not be very bad behaviour and those people will just continue to do the same thing
The fact that they were willing to share their stories at all is admirable on its own.
Reliving the worst day of their lives again. They are so strong.
@Alexis telling the story allows one to control the narrative.. they werent in control of what happened to them..but they can control how their story is told.
Yes
@Alexis it was a heartbreaking experiance and they were very hurt in those days eveb months its hard to tell about something that could have hurt them almost to death so its hard to say that relive it in words
So true that they do it is bound to be hard but they did it
One thing about when you are kidnapped, yeah it may have only been hours, but it may have felt like days, and if has been at least 48-72+ hours, then it seems like the days merge, and the only things you can really think about is death, hope, and the how helpless you are. Its a sad, painful, traumatic experience.
Yup I agree and it’s true. When it happened to me all I could think about was if I would be killed and all I did was pray. Also yea even a couple hours can seem like years and years.
They actually made a Netflix documentary about Jan’s story called “Abducted in Plain Sight”. It explores her case much deeper and is honestly so sickening. I cannot imagine the trauma she must still live with...
I thought I recognised her story. wasn't there a whole thing about her kidnapper also romantically and sexually manipulating her parents so they allowed him to abuse her more.
I'm sorry I gotta be that girl! I have it pulled up on my screen rn, and it's "Abducted in Plain Sight" although I guess perhaps it translates differently in other languages? Regardless, if you start searching Jan Broberg, it'll come up in the results so you can find it that way. 😊
s0lastsummer7 Oops sorry it is actually “Abducted in plain sight”. Thanks for the correction💖
TheBananaCat Absolutely agree! I’m sure she has forgiven her parents for everything and in the end it definitely is the perpetrator’s fault. But I cannot get over the fact that her parents were so passive in the whole situation, due to their own emotional dilemmas, that they failed to protect their own daughter from that sicko. They even allowed him to share a bed with her!
Yeah I saw that
the fact these people are allowed out of prison makes me beyond angry and disgusted.
Hi
what's even worse is that a lot of rapists don't even get a day behind prison bars
@@rocki7426 In Saudi Arabia, rapists are beheaded then their heads are thrown down to the crowd and they are hanged
TheFuryOfTheDragon we should normalize that
@@cricketjuice i love your pfp
it especially is horrible when you trust someone and then they kidnap you
Sleep over
Shadow Moon Bruh..... just nah fam. 😐.....
Yes😟
Y’a Imagine if was someone that you trust the most
terrifying i swear
@@shadowmoon5775 omg being kidnapped at a sleep over is my worst nightmare
I’m honestly in constant fear of being kidnapped. I side-eye people suspiciously when my gut and intuition says to, I stay away from creeps, I watch true crime to defend myself, and then hearing voices who speak out about educate me. Hope these women are doing okay.
my father has been teaching both me and my brother self defense at the gym
i’m so grateful for him for that, i know not everyone has that
@@EmmaJohnsonShenanigans Great dad. I've been thinking of figuring out some way to make my son join a self-defense thing of some sort, because he's a fragile, very kind and good nature and have Asperger, but with low self confidence I think.. I've been training HEMA (Historical European Martial Arts), and can probably knock out almost anyone if I just have a stick or similar, it get built into muscle memory, and tried to bring him once, but he thought it was scary with the swords, and perhaps too rough for him. Do you have any advice of what made you interested in it?
“Just four days? That’s not that bad!”
This is the problem I have with today’s society. No amount of trauma is bad enough. We downplay and compare every incident.
It is so retarded to measure drama with a certain amount of time. Jesus Christ. Agree 100%
AG AZ don’t say the r slur!! It’s ableist
So freaking dismissive. “4 days??? That’s not bad.” If you were held captive in a dungeon, deprived of socialising and sunlight, and then r*p*d against your own will... 4 days will feel like 4 years.
star_fruit Retarded isn’t a bad word so many people saw there a words that people say that are worse
I think 4 days is horrible even an hour could be horrible
I've noticed that a lot of other interviewers and documentaries refer to kidnapping survivors as "victims" whereas Anthony refers to them as "Survivors"
Mad respect for you, man
Yeah I noticed that too
This. So much of this. All of this.
Calling someone a victim is so awful. No. We survived this. We are survivors, damnit. 💙
They are Warriors amazing! ❤️
Survivors are some of the bravest people I know. They are survivors. ♥️
Once my therapist said to me. “Trauma might have been a few hours or even a few days, but for trauma survivors it is like a million years long. Your brain keeps repeating that event pretty much everyday and you keep reliving which makes it feel like that”
🤯
So true ❤️
Trauma could also be a few seconds for all that matter. A car accident, an explosion... I've been through a very bad earthquake that damaged my house quite a lot 4 years ago: it lasted less than a minute but I still have ptsd from it
Camila Chávez
That’s basically PTSD
Basically: ADHD
this is the most terrifying video i've watched compared to the nutty putty cave incident. i don't EVER wanna trust strangers. i feel so bad for Alicia too, she got rap*d and tortured, it was terrifying to listen. i learned from this video, i'm never letting go of anyone i know and love.
Oh yeah I remember the nutty putty cave incident…
holy crap 101 likes?
@@lesbrooklyn the hell is that
@@Vince_c.3 some dude got trapped in a cave upside down in this very narrow area, he was stuck for days until he eventually passed away. Dude was an experienced cave explorer whilst also being pretty flexible, which is the reason why very few people even managed to reach him
@@lesbrooklyn ye I just watched it I was curious, that thing is scary
kidnapping is my worst fear. I have so much respect for these people.
edit: thanks for all the likes :))
User damn i hate the world bc of the fact u have to say that
@User yep, but sometimes there may be someone so far gone that they just dont feel it which us scary, thats why a weapon is needed and not just the spray
(:
My worst fear is being trapped in a tiny metal box sealed tight, and I have to escape in like an Hour, or else it will slowly start getting smaller and smaller until my bones break, blood will gush out from every opening and I slowly and painfully become a mangled corpse
If I ever have kids, this will be my biggest fear.
Could you do a day with sex trafficking victims?
I was sold into sex slavery when I was very little. I'm out now but there's so much misinformation and a lot of us are brushed off and ignored. Not getting the proper help we need after escaping.
Thank you for sharing. We empathize with you, and appreciate your voice. It would be lovely if you could clear up any misinformation to better educate us
whoa Letting you know that you’re probably one of the strongest human being ever. Its so fucked that you and other people have to go through that. I hope you have a blessed day x
I hope you're better now and I'm so sorry you had to endure that, you didn't deserve that
I wish u r doing okay now please take care of yourself
Im sorry that happened to you, and i hope you're doing better now ♥
Why would someone ever say "only four days" like that's fucking disusing .
Right
I agree, she was terrified for her life... she knew the day she was rescued that she was going to die.... don’t down play the trauma she went through by saying “only _ amount of days”... the time period doesn’t matter, it was traumatizing and shouldn’t have happened..... PERIOD
It’s only four fays
@@yea9677 are you kidding me?! Four days is a long time. For you to even comment that is disgusting
@@yea9677 you can't even spell right so you're clearly not educated
The fact that it was all live streamed is traumatizing yet it was her life savor.
can’t even begin to imagine the trauma they have to endure.
Its probably the adrenaline sadly sometime its not enough
jk lol
19 days.
19 DAYS?!
WHAT THE ACTUAL HELL IS WRONG WITH OUR JUSTICE SYSTEM?!
ikr she got more of a punishment than he did
If you payed the wrong taxes on accident you get five years by comparison
we don't have a justice system. we have a legal system. it sucks.
Everything
Its america obv it’s horrible. Only china cares about rape
That one girl, not only was she kidnapped, but tortured. I can imagine how much that destroyed her. Mentally and physically. Thank god for that man who recognized her. Who tf would respond with “ONLY 4 DAYS?!” someone was tortured and almost killed. And THAT is your response?!
StrawberryCowCharlotte wait who said “only four days”
@@anonymousmoose193 some random person said that to her. Idk how someone can be okay with saying that.
they forget she was literally 13
EXACTLY
Who tf is that dubm like omfg it was probably the worst four days of her life like i cant imagine how hard that was i feel so bad omg
As a kidnapping survivor myself. This video was so well done and well handled by Anthony and it felt so nice to watch this and feel less alone in such a scary world. Sometimes I watch back at this video again for the comfort. Thank you Anthony ❤️
Its horrifying to learn that people can be so sickening. Their accounts shake me to core. Being brainwashed is the worst too. That part sickened me.
I am nearly 21 and recently started unearthing these memories buried deep within me of visits with my great grandfather when I was a child. It shook me to my core because everything they said was very real, I was brainwashed to believe I was the special one and I never thought it was anything bad, but was told to keep it a secret to avoid upsetting my family. So they wouldn’t feel “less special”. I just forgot about it, or maybe deep down knew it was wrong and buried it. I recently found out it happened to a lot of my cousins too, and my little sister so it’s still ongoing. I think this was an important video in all aspects, now I know which ladies to follow for more guidance. It breaks my heart
Giovanna Rosa if one of the kidnappers were my parents my life would feel terrible and in life I just wouldn’t care what happens
Griffin McAuley who would even want to have a child with them?
True
its not really there fault physcopaths like they dont chosse to be like that its kinda like a diease (not justfying what they did)
I gasped when she said it was 5 hours long ride. I thought it was way too long of a nightmare, and then she said that some people would come up to her and have the audacity to tell her that 4 freaking days is "oh not so bad?!!!!" SMH some people are insane! I want to thank these wonderful women for sharing their stories, and possibly preventing a similar situation. They've been incredibly strong
That “only 4 days?”, annoys tf out of me. Like okkkk there is a reason anyone found is found in a short period, bc any longer and they’re usually dead. SHE IS LUCKY, and 4 days is a long time and a scary time
Don’t ever belittle someone else’s trauma
especially the fact that in those four days she experienced brutal trauma
I have personal experience not a kidnapping something else
some roblox noob on the internet what is it if you don’t want to share it’s fine
cassie u r not that lucky becoz u will b kidnapped n will not b escaped obe day
@@sophiafury3089 sophia hiw u know u she faced brutal trauma
I'm so inspired by Alicia and Jan for being strong enough to come out and speak about that in this video. Alicia is honestly working so hard to prevent others from experiencing what she did, because she went through it and no one deserves to go through what these brave women went through. Lots of love to anyone who went through such a thing, you don't deserve it and if you haven't overcome it yet (which is a huge step) then I hope you do.
Wow. The way Anthony speaks to people is so respectful and empathetic. He is so good at what he does
He asks what we all want to know but in a respectful way that leaves them feeling comfortable!
It could be because of the anxiety. I believe my anxiety is partly the reason I am so empathic. Regardless of the reason, Anthony seems like an amazingly kind person❤️
Agreed 100%!
Better than Shane Dawson
I got the same last name than you
The fact that these men got little to no sentence for their horrid crimes is so infuriating.
exactly, murders tend to get at least 50-60 years, but these abductors didn’t?!? they were planning on killing the victim, imagine if the girl was found a few hours later she could have been killed. they deserve so much more jail time.
I wish I could get justice, but it's impossible. I'd have no proof. It's been years.
Jamie Robb-Morrison that’s terrible, really shows how great our justice system is
sometimes even the female abusers get no time
It’s so difficult to arrest them as well because in cases of child abuse the child usually doesn’t come forward until they’re an adult. Then where’s the proof? Also kidnapping/ sexual abuse happens behind closed doors between two people. The criminal system is unjust and doesn’t protect survivors!
The fact that there are people like this just walking around and torturing and kidnapping people and only getting a few years in jail actually really bothers me.
Apparently it's really good odds you'll get away with it entirely. We solve less than half of murders and like 20 or 30% of rapes.
it SHOULD bother you. in fact it should bother EVERYONE
Honestly though people like that are a reason that I get paranoid at night thinking "What if someone kidnaps or kills or even something worse" people like that also make me sick.
It's fucking disgusting how, for example, drug dealers can get life in prison, but people who kidnap/r!pe get less than 2 years. Like both are bad but one is significantly worse and is not taken seriously enough in the jail system
That's why so many people do it, they know there will be almost no consequences 🤷🏻♀️ the system doesn't give shit about us and nobody is willing to protect us we have to change something
Hearing this is so disturbing. I hate the feeling, and I can’t see these things too often. Alicia and Jan are so strong.
For anyone that doesn't know: Jan's story was made into a documentary on Netflix called "Abducted in plain sight". It's really good.
I will look into it..
Thx
@@tinyapples9583 so how was it?
I watched it about a month ago, I’m glad she is safe, Jan didn’t really know what was wrong, she was small.
Omg thx u I was like I remember this
"it was only 4 days"... I got sexually assaulted for just under 15 minutes and it permanently changed me as person and made my whole outlook on life different, not only that, my sexual assaulter got ZERO punishment for what he did to me. Imagine getting kidnapped for 4 days and your kidnapper/r*pist/assaulter barely getting any jail time. Even a few minutes can change someone entirely. Stop excusing the kidnappers behavior and realize that no matter how long something occurred, there will ALWAYS be some form of trauma.
Edit: I wanna also acknowledge the immense fear women/men face after seeing their kidnapper/r*pist/assaulter. These women are so brave for being able to face them in court proudly. For me personally, he works at my local grocery store so I have to see him all the time. I always feel very unsafe and tense seeing him waltz around as a free man. It was to the point I refused even working at that grocery store because I didn't want to see him.
I'm so sorry 😞
Was the woman in the story sexually assaulted or beaten. I didn't really understand?
Also was the other woman taken into a cell by good law enforcement or people in on her kidnapping I am genuinely confused.
That's exactly what I was thinking! If you've been in a position like that 1 second feels like an hour, an hour feels like a day... it probably felt like forever. I could never understand what that must have felt like for her.
Mr Helo yes the younger woman was sexually assaulted. Beaten r@aped (the word is bleeped in the video because TH-cam will take it down) for four days. She was kept in a torture chamber and tortured physically, emotionally, and sexually.
The other woman, the older one, knew her kidnapper.
Neither of them were arrested. The law enforcement wasn’t “in on it” when the first describes being rescued she THOUGHT it was someone coming to kill her not to rescue her. The older woman her kidnapper was arrested, and she was allowed to go see him in jail was what she was describing. There’s a whole documentary on her. It’s very sad and very strange. She’s endured so much.
Why was there zero punishment??? They've probably done it to more people then..
"He's going to be released next year on my birthday" I can't imagine the anger and the pain she must feel toward the system. I have no words, this is disgusting.
I literally tore up. The system is fucked man
Even I'm so angry and upset over it so I can't even begin to imagine how she could be feeling towards it. It's deeper in than heartbreak and terror....💔
The death penalty has a place.
@@Michael-Oh I'm normally against but I'm not even going to argue on that, some people just deserve hell.
God...and on your birthday? Not a good gift at all...
When I first started going online, my mom sat me down and drew a diagram with just two circles, one smaller and inside the larger. She said “the smaller circle is the people you can tell everything to, inside the bigger circle is things you tell some people but not others, and outside the circle is people you can’t share anything with.” Then she had me go through and put a dot for where family fell on that scale, friends, and online friends. When I was done she explained the dangers of meeting people online and made sure I was aware that I can’t tell people online anything that could lead them to me. I think that every parent needs to have this conversation with their kid
4 days- that's 96 hours of just torture and abuse....people are so ignorant i swear
Fr. 8 seconds is incredibly long for bull riders. Imagine 96 hours of torture 😣
Ong I wouldn’t even last an hour
jordan it's not 96 hours strait but yes it's annoying they say it like it's nothing
Time
Wait who The fuck said tuhat wasnt a Lontoon time
19 DAYS FOR KIDNAPPING A CHILD FOR 4 YEARS? WHAT THE HELL-
ikr
They should get 50 to life
WHAT THE HELL
IKR TF
like i don't understand why people just wanna make people lives worst and just kidnapped them like ugh-
I can't imagine how horrible that must have been for those survivors
Same
I really appreciate that this video helps talk about kidnapping survivors. Especially because this has happened to me before. My heart goes out to all of them.
“Only four days, that isn’t that bad” it is not okay to minimize or compare trauma. All trauma is horrible and all trauma survivors are immensely strong.
Thank you so much for this comment -from someone whom experienced trauma
Yes but 4 days is better than multiple years or never getting found, she wasn’t even gone for half a week, every second feels like forever I get that, I also get that she went through extreme torture and 4 days seems like a lot, but again it’s better than getting tortured for years
Lee Everett its not a competition how about we feel greatful she didnt go thru that even more😺
@@leeeverett7388 I don't intend on changing your mind, but in my opinion, it is still severe. This topic is so graphic that a person that hasn't been traumatized before in that degree wouldn't understand. Either 4 days or 4 years of a traumatic event so personal, violating, and dehumanizing, you would never forget it.
Lee Everett ni
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I was almost kidnapped by four men in a black BMW right outside my house on my way home from work one night when I was 17, it was traumatic and to this day as a 22 year old I can’t go anywhere by myself and if a car stops beside me I freak. If it wasn’t for a lovely old man walking his dog who had turned the corner at the right time who knows what would have happened to me. He started yelling at the man trying to pull me in and the dog started growling and barking so they sped off. Such a brave guy to stand up to four men and I’m forever thankful to him.
I'm glad you're ok☺️
I'm glad that was stopped from happening to you and so sorry you had to go through that
wow that's incredible! im so glad you're okay you're insanely strong!
I'm so sorry this happened to u
I’m so happy you’re ok, some people witness this stuff and ignore it. He’s a hero
Pedophilia is not a sexuality. Minors cannot give anyone consent, it's not just unlawful it's totally disgusting that people look at kids and have these thoughts.
EDIT: Ya so I don't wanna 'exterminate' them from the society or whatever. If they can get help well and good, we all can move on with our lives peacefully but if they can't they are sex offenders BECAUSE CHILDREN CAN'T CONSENT. No matter what the sexuality is, intercourse without consent is a crime.
They're trying to be a part of LGBTQA+ and we will never claim them
@@SolidCheshire discussing and getting help is fine... but things this and rapes are what make them dangerous. You are right this should be talked about, they need to he understood as well before they become dangerous.
They are disgusting. We will never allow them in.
Boboqt Vv the feelings of being sexually attracted to a child, while still disturbing, aren’t inherently illegal. its if that person then decides to act upon these feelings where it’s a problem.
We are never letting them be a part of the community.
Giant respect to the victims that can tell about the experiences.
Imagine going through major rape or sexual assault, and people say," It was for only 4 days. It wasnt THAT bad." It doesnt matter how long it is,it is of the trauma that the victim has
You just have to ask " do you want to be raped for four days" and their perspective will change real quick
4 days is a LONG TIME
even a half hour is bad ofc, i think what people mean is "4 days is better than 1 year"
Exactly
I bet you if you pointed a NERF gun at one of these '4 days isn't that bad' mfers, they would soil themselves.
4 days being tortued is 4 days too long.
Imagine saying: “that’s not that bad” to someone that has been raped, beaten and kidnapped for four days I-
Anonymous bruh are you making this a gender competition, keep that on tiktok my dude
@Anonymous Well yeah obviously, but the VAST majority are men. Plus starting a sentence with "I felt really sorry for these women *but* " doesn't look too favorable for you
@MB i have seen cases of women commiting equal or worse crimes, i am not saying that there aren't horrible men out there that commit terrible acts against women. but there are just as many women commiting terrible act to men and the truth is that the justice system is far less fair to men than it is to women, women often get lesser sentences for the same crimes, and the system has a nasty habit of siding with women no matter the circumstances, with questions like "what did he do to make her mad?" the male version of "what was she wearing?" once again i am not trying to make light of what happened to either of the women in this video or anyone else for that matter, just saying that horrible things happen to both sexes and are commited by both sexes.
@@savannahssuffering we get that this happens to men too, but you're dismissing what happened to her making you apart of the problem
*_KIDNAPPED IS KIDNAPPED MK_*
(sorry I'm just saying that kidnapped is just kidnapped it doesn't matter how many days or the gender or age oof this might look like I'm saying it's good to kidnap but it's just the opposite of that qnq)
You know, this is the second video I watch from this channel (the first one was about the morticians). At first I thought that it would be anoying because Antony seemed to me like someone who would try to make fun of the situation just to keep it "chill". I have been surprised with how sensible and gentle the conversations have been handled so far. Loving it!
I hate how there's actually people who do this kind of things in this world
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Yeah They should all go to hell
@@chris21boi There is no hell, only execution.
Imagine being raped tortured and assaulted and people say “its not THAT bad” THAT IS STILL TRAUMATIC!!
Yeah like they are like “ It’S NoT ThAt BaD “ like ok then you go through the trauma and they are like “No WhY wOuLd I dO tHaT “ OH I’m sorry I thought it “ WaSn’T tHaT bAd “
Honestly tho. Like, *you* try going through even half of that, and see how you feel
I agree
@Haru_Kobayashi ikrrrrr
I know its just weird
“oNlY fOuR dAyS, tHatS nOt bAd” imagine going through ur worst fear for 4 days and then just dying, like drowning. Imagine drowning for 4 days just suffering then dying after all that pain.
She wasn't drowning tho
IMAHACKER it was a example.
Exactly
in my opinion it's much worse because they survived. I can't imagine living with that sort of trauma. it almost makes it seem like dying would be the "easy" way out.
Jason Green it’s a example
alicias story reminds me of the toy box killer, poor girls, they mustve been going through a lot after these experiences. Being kidnapped is my worst fear ever! My heart goes out to these strong brave survivors.
19 DAYS AND A YEAR? ARE YOU KIDDING ME? SHE GOT YEARS OF HER LIFE TAKEN AWAY. ONTOP OF HIM ABUSING OTHER YOUNG KIDS. Wtf.
Ikr? It made me so angry!
The justice system has always been mind boggling.
It is completely INFURIATING
Tired Human that was for Alicia, i am talking about Jan.
It’s because he’s a white person. I hate that to make it about race but let’s be honest, that’s what it’s about.
To all the toxic people who say “only four days” it was four days of hell.
who is even saying four days
who is even saying four days
tiffany philips Watch the video first Moron
The people saying those things deserve 4 days in hell
4 days too long
HOW DO THEY LET THESE MEN OUT OF JAIL.
The justice system doesn’t care for survivors it’s built to protect predators like those men
Ana Bean They’re idiots. If people that controlled who gets in and out of jail were put even through a day of what that girl had to go through they’d be fucking wanting that man/woman dead or have life in prison.
I'm all for giving people a chance at redemption
But for doing what those men did, you have to cross so many lines, become so inhuman, that I don't see how anything less than a ticket to the death row could be appropiate
☹same
@@la8920 Same I never think killing someone is the best thing to do but the things these men did is so crazy and sad. It's sooo inhuman it makes me sick
It’s so incredible to watch these types of videos and see the kidnapping survivors point of view and see how they escaped and what happened to them!
The only person you should blame is the abuser, the kidnapper, etc. NEVER BLAME THE VICTIM OR THE VICTIMS PARENTS.
EDIT: of course there are always situations where the parents should be blames (if they were in on it etc.) but normally we shouldnt blame the parents.
Unless the victims parents were in on it
@@tinksy12 yea. but I think they would be included in the kidnapper and abuser.
@@maryzaleski3946 True but if the parents dont care about childs safety,blame them. Theres alot of parents out there that wont believe u when u tell them what happened to u.
These kind of parents are supposed be blamed.
@@utatwt8688 I totally agree.
Sometimes its okay tj blame them though, at school they teach us about this- yet people decide to be stupid. The amount of kid I have seen online dating is uncountable, the amount of times I caught kids having sex online is also very crazy. I try to warn them, "you're just jealous 😝" they say.
So yeah- at these situations we should blame them since they had at least 1 person warn them.
Why does TH-cam keep demonetizing you. THIS IS CONTENT WE *NEED*
i got ads
it is monetized sir
there you are perry
He puts like 7 of them? Ive never watched a video of his without ads.
Cuz he speaks the truth
This is why victims don't speak up... justice isn't served.
Exactly, they have to be afraid of repercussions. What happens when they get out?
Seriously
Yup. Because when the kidnapper goes to court, chances are they'll go back for the victim. To "make them pay" for telling someone. Disgusting.
Hmm ur num. Of likes is 666 lol
Law system at its finest
I love Anthony Padilla's way of interviewing. His videos are always fun and interesting and never biased. Thanks for creating such wonderful content!
*Basics for children online:*
NEVER go and meet someone without FACETIMING them first. Meet only in PUBLIC PLACES and never at someone's home. ALWAYS let multiple people know where you're going and TURN ON YOUR GPS. PLEASE, PLEASE DO NOT GO ALONE!!
also NEVER go alone!!!
@@Lara-bn2xs
Bring at least 8/20 ppl with YOU
Please don't go alone! Bring at least 2+ people with you and tell EVERYONE where you are going. AND MEET IN A PUBLIC PLACE!!! Meet somewhere where if you ever need to scream for help there would be people around you. And if they ask if you want to go somewhere more "private" RUN
@@pleasetf7214
Exactly! Bring a weapon as well just in case if things get outta hand!!
Don’t get in the car with the “parent” of the person you’re supposed to be meeting even if the person is there too because you never know if it is set up and they are a victim too! Meet in a public place with someone else, preferably your parent/guardian!!
"4 days, it's not that bad"
I remember waking up after a black out and being kissed without my consent. It lasts for seconds before I push the guy and I felt like this last for a good whole 10 minutes. I wasn't even hurt or bound like she was. I can't imagine what this girl went through for 4 LONG and TERRIFRYING days. Human are heartless. I don't understand what is the goal of dimissing a traumatic event because you didn't "have it that bad". Yes people are kidnapped for decennies. I doesn't make her situation more bearable.
I’m sorry that happened to you 🥺❤️
@@rafaelamallmann5088 i’m okay now but thanks :) it’s always nice to feel support
I’m so sorry for you
LOL
@@joshuaw4217 wtf you mean lol the hell is wrong with you this isnt funny and never will be ever
These two are so brave and inspirational...I cant even fathom how traumatic these experiences must have been
I feel so bad that people act like 4 days isn't that much. Imagine being taken from your home and being tortured for 4 days straight.
And rescued the day u were supposed to die
but these girls were kidnapped, and taken from their home. abused, tortured, sexually assaulted, etc.
Exactly
@@kerrycook233 yes it is you would want to die at that point if your getting tortured for 4 days straight and it is not that bad to not be kidnapped at all.
@@kerrycook233 based off of your spelling, you’re most likely 6-9 years old. How would you feel if you were tortured, abused, sexually assaulted, and more without knowing when it’s going to end? Even if it’s 10 minutes, it’s still terrifying.
It's crazy to think that she was beaten, tortured and abused, and yet when she shares her story people tell her that 4 days isn't that bad. I just can't comprehend the amount of complete and utter disrespect on those people. She was brave enough to share her story with you and you make her feel like a baby. Wtf?
@@Ethan-_-Lim Couldn't have said it better. If they had gotton kidnapped for that long, they would be screaming, crying, they might not have even made it. So they should keep their stupid ass comments to themself before they get hurt.
Exactly! Besides, in this situation i'm sure you feel like this is an eternity. I want this kind of people to just spend 4 minutes in that horrible dark room with this monster and see how they would feel in this situation. Human disgust me I swear...
@@mgtccnl Precisely. I would honestly like to watch that. Not... Of course... The psycho stuff, I'd just like to hear their screams of absolute terror echoing in the room. Does that make me a psychopath?
The ppl that say 4 days isn't that bad they should get what happened to the girl or boy they should be in that position and then I whold love to hear them say 4 days it wasn't that bad
I know right! If it was me I wouldn't be able to survive 1 minute let alone 4 days
I've heard stories about a guy who raped a child. He got sent to jail and got beaten up by his cellmates upon learning what he did
I'm kind of hoping that happens more often as I hear more stories like these
It’s very common to be in isolation when in jail/prison for sex crimes and pedophilia. There are so many stories out there about it. Criminals hate that most of all.
Oh yeah, from what I've heard they have different outdoor times etc. for pedophiles and sex offenders in the prison in my town because the other inmates kept beating them up (rightfully so ☺️)
they usually get killed in prison. most inmates, even serial killers hate pedophiles...
Truth is, no matter what you've done. You could have killed people, tortured someone, whatever. If your a pedophile you will get beat senseless until your forced into solitary. People in prison are bad, but there not monsters.
I’m in favor of that
Having these conversations with children is so so so important!
I cant beleave That guy spent 19 days in jail he should be lock up for life
@Pandoraxio so in order for someone to like a comment, they have to reply? mate people can like comments without replying, i do it all the time.
Pandoraxio uh what?
Pandoraxio Haha what? There was 4k likes on a comment, after 7 months I was the first reply.
@Pandoraxio lmao what?? That's so stupid haha
Pandoraxio or maybe people just agreed with them and didn’t feel the need to comment, no need to get salty man
Jan’s story infuriates me, not because of her! She was a child that was innocent & trusted a man that gained the trust of her & her family.
She was kidnapped TWICE, by the same man & there is so much more to her story. Watch her Netflix documentary if you haven’t!
Edit: the documentary is called “Abducted in Plain Sight” it was on Netflix. There’s also a book wrote by Jan.
what is it called?
Christopher “Abducted in Plain Sight”
@@jennajune2101 Thank you
@@luffybetterr it’s really good, can’t believe she had to go through that horrible shit
Her story pissed me off so bad. Her parents are what killed me. Like wtf
😥 our justice systems failed them. Those creeps should've been neutered...perhaps worse.
I respect the pedo's that voluntarily have themselves chemically castrated, because they are sickened by their desires. They didn't choose to have this attraction and I kind of feel bad for them that they can't ever have romantic love. HOWEVER, the other side of the coin should indeed be castrated and monitored. If they still can't behave, broadcast their crimes over the prison PA system I say. 3 years is a slap on the wrist sentence for most crimes, for assaulting children though? 3 years may very well be a deathsentence.
@Marcus738 how do they not deserve to be neutered or worse??
@@bararobberbaron859 imagine feeling bad for pedos that torture and rape kids.
The fact that they survived means that the system didn't fail then too much. There's many people that aren't even alive to tell their experience.
Lynched* lmao
She is very right about it happening a lot within homes and people avoiding talking about it is very true, thanks for telling us your stories ladies, very strong 🥰
I can’t imagine what it’s like to actually be kidnapped. I already get a bad feeling in my gut when I see somebody walking behind me in the dark. But actually being taken is... I can’t even describe the thought of it.
Honestly...
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AxxL you just spoke gibberish I couldn’t understand a word.
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