AnP with Kevin Samuels | Is there a problem with modern women & men? | AnP #1
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This is great im a plumber and made $115,000 last year, own 2 cars, paid for my own house (still paying it off) and have no kids, no college debt and I'm under 30yrs old. But when i walk around after work in my work clothes people think im some poor mexican laborer 😂
Unfortunately blue collar work is looked down upon thanks to media pushing the narrative that people need to go to college to be considered as someone to be looked up upon.
Earn your cash save it and push for early retirement so you can enjoy life as much as you can.
@@BossManSays facts! Besides my income i have a pension, annuity, social security, and ira. When i retire ill get 2 monthly checks and have 2 accounts to draw from not including my checking and savings. I wanna put some money in government bonds and cds aswell just to diversify. Also wanna start buying condos to rent out as rental properties.
I’ll take a blue collar man any day over a white collar.never wanted a white collar man. I wish I would’ve been a plumber or an electrician vs my silly career and going to college twice! Kudos to you! You did it the right way one day the rest of these women will learn!
@@kendgabe822 thank brother, I recently got married to a beautiful caribbean woman, and thankfully i make enough to support us while she goes through school to get her dental hygiene license. Dental hygiene is only a 2yr associates degree but in many areas including ours it pays 100k+ per year. Ita a great career for women. In 2 yrs me and my wife should be making a quarter million combined a year no real college between us. Succes can be had for anyone.
@@davidverdugo5523 congratulations!!! Awesome!!!
The collab that we all needed, but didn't deserve...✊ I said Facts at least 37 times during the discussion 😂
They just need you there! 😀
WHAT UP TH-cam!!
Yup
MTR YALL ALL NEED TO GET TOGETHER YO!
you definitely should have been in on this conversation it would of completed the round table of perspectives I think.
Hands down the best interview that I’ve seen with Kevin Samuels. I Appreciate this.
Absolutely 👊🏾
WHAT UP AOK MAFIA!!!!
Very thorough
My other favorite youtuber
Heeey didn' expect to see you here , noice !
As a 50 year old woman- I loved and felt this!! We should all get this speech at 18.
You look great for 50
Yessss queen 50 where
Dam 50. Nice
You look amazing
Men and women should be taught about how to improve value and complement eachother always.
Everytime someone says „value” I can’t help but think of „value, value.” 😂
But do u value value?
@@moonlit85 in other words you hate womwn and everything they love? No petty at all!
I value that i value value!
@@iulian9072 I value you for the fact that you value you valueing value!
@@lolanaenamilo2395
I value valuing valued values! Also, I value your way of valuing valued values, it makes me value value even more
I think the problem some people have with Kevin Samuels is that he sees the world for the flawed, shallow, materialistic machine that it is rather than the idealistic vision that people would like to see.
That's what being redpill is
So did Thanos
Something called reality
... That world died (or at least the perception of it) for any logical realist in around 2010 at the latest.
Welcome to World 2.0 ... Enjoy folks.
And this why a lot of women have an issue with him. Reality doesn’t fit their fantasy.
Great interview brothers!
Ayo go make your 954th video on the same topic ya grifter
AMS they need you on there too!!
@@kishon3061 the MGTOW Grift is strong.
You have one of the worst advice videos for men. Flow the fuck out.
Am I the only one that reads AMS comments in his voice? "Grade inavew brothuhs"
“Chasing your purpose you’ll always have woman, chasing woman you’ll likely lose your purpose”. Those words were strong🤧
I can confirm this is 100 percent true. I tested it, and it’s true lol.
@Alexander What do you do for a living?
Exactly. Nothing sexier than a man on a mission and not in these streets.
Why are those words literally my ex whose’s taken 7yrs to graduate undergrad with his current toxic girlfriend💀
Big Super Facts...
I've lived that, and paid dearly.
I was raised by a Single mom and her for sisters , I was taught a load of B.S from lifetime T.V, R & B songs
Reality T.V and the $hit they would say.
I spent my teen years dreaming of being a FK'n White Knight with a Cape in a Hallmark movie.
I'm just be honest, when I was growing up.
Being a simp like in a Tyler Perry movie, Fabio or
"I am so tired of men apologizing for being men..."
Amen, brother. Amen.
You also have to apologise for stating common sense. Difference between the TWO GENDERS...Can't believe the world has come to this.
True that.
Fed up, not tired. Still plenty left.
Never apologize to anybody unless you’ve done something wrong to them. If someone wants an apology from me for no reason, or simply because I’m a man, they can get the f’ outta my face. I’m not tired of apologizing for being myself (a man), because that isn’t causing anyone hurt/pain that needs to be apologized for.
Straight up because they don't apologize one hit for being women
This man Kevin said “You can’t be short & fat, 2 strikes you gotta *pick a struggle.”* I’m wheezing bruh🤣💀💀💀. Also, regardless of how brutally honest he is the fact that he keeps the same energy with both men & women is very respectable.
Men and women can be one sided.. I definitely agree about picking a struggle.. man and women can be very myopic in their view of relationships and not see both sides...
Indeed
I don’t see the lie though
It's a false sense of choice though. You can't change being short, you can change being fat. He should be more upfront about that fact, but his delivery was too good 😂
@@henrytep8884 that's why he said, "pick your struggle"
"The problem is only with the delivery when the truth, the reality is inpalatable, it's not digestible."
This is so fucking true.
When did humanity become so bent on being “palatable” and “nice”? It’s lovely to be nice but sometimes the harshness is what wakes people up.
@@ramsy351 I don't even thing being nice is an admirable trait. Honesty, fairness, integrity, loyalty yes but NICENESS... no.
@@diedforurwins imo there is definitely a benefit to being warm, compassionate, welcoming and kind. Not only to yourself but to the world as a whole. But compassion should never trump honesty, a dishonest kindness is worse than no kindness.
@@jasonbrasier4205 The definition of nice is “giving pleasure or satisfaction”. Simply giving satisfaction isn’t noble.
@@jasonbrasier4205 yo Im 100% with you. If you knew me you’d know I’m extremely empathetic, warm and always treat people how I would wish to be treated and only change that attitude if they do so first. Niceness specifically is what I have an issue with and not in an ambiguous way.
Niceness usually comes with ulterior motives.
I love how Aba is not a yes man. While he agrees with a lot and clearly respects Kevin, he does call him on some stuff
I also like how the conversation wasn't combative.... even tho the men don't agree on everything they have a calm conversation about it. You don't see them cutting each other off or getting an attitude with each other
@@sen8to1021 men learn hard way young that if you run your mouth and act aggressive like that you're going to say it to wrong person on wrong day and get your behind beaten. Women don't have any consequences when it comes to talking to men like that bc they know vast majority of men won't hit them and that they have legions of white knights to cosign their bs.
@@SoulDelSol I think its deeper than just when women talk to men. When they talk to each other during a disagreement they get nasty or they completely shut down. They also don't generally fight. Everything is verbal so the nastiness continues. I don't think a man should fight a woman but I also think women shouldnt try to bait a man during an argument with nasty language, threats, spitting etc.
@@sen8to1021 true women tend to fight their battles via passive aggression, withdrawing affection, snarky comments, gossiping and spreading rumors, false allegations, gathering support from 3rd parties. I knew a women that when she was mad at her husband instead of arguing with him she would throw important unread mail and documents away which would create problems and stress for him, and she felt a sense of satisfaction from that kind of revenge even though he didn't know it was happening.
@@SoulDelSol and ultimately she was tanking the house hold. She was taking the ship down with her. How is that helpful? How is that mature? How is that productive? I've seen people go through similar and my only thought is leave! That kind of behavior is not conducive to a healthy family. The point of marriage is to build not tear down. Take yo ass back to high-school with the mean girl routine. This is grown up life ya know.
I failed my nurse board 2x and i would have a chip on my shoulder because i would think the world is against me. When kevin said, “no one cares” it hits me.... no one cares about my struggles, only my success. So thank you 🙏🏽 for giving me a wake up call. Thanks guy for introducing us to him
I hope you pass it next time!🙏🏾
Best of luck on your next attempt!
You got this
It's yours bro!!
I do not know you, however, let me just say... YOU CAN DO IT, IT IS NOT WORTH HAVING IF IT WAS NOT DIFFICULT....YOU CAN DO IT. DO NOT STOP.
A busy plumber is easily pulling 85k-90k/year. Too many ladies sleeping on the dudes that know how to lay pipe...
Lol 😂
LMAO brilliant 😂
Seriously though. Welding too
You said it
Pun master
Notice how KS respects the show and let them lead the show without him having a problem with it
Facts^
He respect those that respect him
Because it's their show..duh!!
@@sobc2737 The call in viewers on his show and many other brothers shows don’t seem to understand that dynamic and principle very well though.
@@sobc2737 he was trying to say that some wmn dont respect how KS runs his show by over talking him.
"Steel sharpens steel" that's why Aba challenges Kevin. It's to strengthen understanding and refine ideas
MTR and Abba and Preach collab would be DOPE!
Yes yes and yes
It really would tho, tatakae... tatakae....
Lol they were just talking about the misspelling of their names yesterday 💀😂
That's exactly what I was thinking
One word: YES!!!
Men are told the truth all the time no matter how much it hurts. My mom told me that i wasn’t going to get a girlfriend looking like that. What she meant was I needed a haircut, trim my beard, wax my eyebrows, go to the gym and work out and buy some fitted clothes. Basically I needed to look good to feel good. Because she knew I was struggling. After watching videos like this and amongst other videos that help men grow, I am finally starting to see results
You have a great mom
You accepted it because it came from a place of love.
@live for Jesus shape your eyebrows 😂 not wax them.
My mom was the exact opposite, her daughters got brutal honesty. My brother, her only son was treated with kid gloves all the damn time.
@live for Jesus you gotta wax/shape your eyebrows so you don’t be looking like Anthony David with unibrow goofy looking ass. If he was a normal dude not making tens of millions no woman would pay him any mind. Unibrows and unkept eyebrows are a major turn over for both sexes.
"Why does your opinion matter? "
I laughed, and then I paused
Yup.
First it tickles then it hits your soul 😂
Chale Kojo etisen? This guy no Dey lie o 😂
@@kojoewudzie900 Adey ooo. He no dey lie at all 😂
🤣funny but point made!
As a 20 year old black woman, Mr. Samuels changed me life. I was so entitled and the part where he said we are lacking the connection he is entirely right. I love the way he was blunt & made me think inward. The problem wasnt the world, it was what I thought the world owed me & that is nothing. RIP to the Godfather GOAT , I love you uncle Samuels. Safe travels to the other side, thank you for your time & sharing your insight with the ones of us who were tired of not getting the outcomes we want. I am now in a relationship & my boyfriend and I hope to be married by the time we are 24. I wish I could have met you in person, I can't believe this is real 💔
Oh, you knew him personally then??
@@kc4208 nigga they literally said they wish they could’ve met him in person, read??
Beautiful said! Rest in Power Kevin! 🙏🏾
its so easy to get married as a woman if you are not a terrible person. you have it easy. this is no achievement
At least KS is "honest" with everyone: Male AND female.
"Honest" as in he speaks his mind.
@@alexzanderroberts995 yes
@Hordy Jones are you a woman?
Why do you put it as "honest"? Lol
@Hordy Jones some men have a problem with him because they base their relationship with their women that they had from long time ago before modern dating that’s why in my opinion. The dating game has changed rapidly 100%.
Aba is a really great host. He didn't drop a beat even when Kevin left unexpectedly and super engaging.
You ain’t lying.. he had things to say just to keep me engaged.. it was nice. I like it.
Aba was really challenging This Samuels was making no danm sense!!!
Very 👍🏾
@the missile skud I watch a lot of his content from beginning to end...he says things that are spot on and needed for some people, but then he speaks from both sides of his mouth, he says one thing and Im like good ok I get it...then he goes to whole other space and completey loses me...what Ive gathered from watching video after video us that he is conflicted and toxic taking facts and twisting it to fit his narrative. He cares more about being right than helping people sincerely... He can be very negative especially when he seemingly in a bad mood...but when he in a good mood he great...he has issues...but Somethings I do agree with but his overall message is toxic and can be misconstrued!
Yes , I loved it 💛
I wanna see Jordan Peterson and Kevin Samuels have a conversation.
SAME!!
I had the exact same thought while listening to this, it would be perfect.
I'd pay to see that
That will be Classic
Manhood would explode as a result of that conversation.
Aba, Preach: “Kevin Samuels gives advice to Skippy”. Set it up!
That’s a great idea
YUSSSS!
Damn, that would be amazing
As good as Kevin is, we'd need a TEAM of Kevin Samuels to put a dent in Skippy.
@@rse1113 😂🤣☠️ I was about to say no one can help skippy 😂 skippy would probably have a heart attack
Clicked faster than Kevin Samuels cutting the conversation short!
You’re not gonna comment over me ma’am.
😂😂😂😂😂
@@1st_b wtf does your about section mean?
Sisss 😩✊🏾
@@1st_b 🤣🤣🤣
The truth hurts because people don't wanna hear it, but it's not as damaging as lying to yourself
Irony
I saw a few women in the chat saying they should get people that don't hate women, and im like bro just cause someone don't get on their knees and worship y'all doesn't mean they hate women
All these critics just can't put their own ego and emotions aside to listen to others points of view. It's sad and pathetic that you can't learn because you're just SOOO smart and know everything. Fuckin keep an open mind and learn. Jesus it's not that hard
Amen👏👏👏
@whistleblower gay feminine man what the fuck are you saying
Why Preach and Kevin streaming on a Nokia but Aba out here recording with a personal satellite 😂🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Ong he recording on a military drone🤣🤣
That’s because Aba was the HOST, and the feed on your screen is a projection of his screen..
It’s his lighting. It’s too dark.
@@c.mchido571 this is correct
I love that you guys honestly approach difficult topics without the fear of being wrong, corrected, right, or correcting others.
Women want traditional men while being “modern” but when I say men want traditional women on my channel I get called misogynists 😂
🔥💯
Men want traditional woman and don’t want to provide
ITS F CKED lol
@@iLovemoney201000 very illogical and rash assumption
-Stolen
Knowing that Kevin is a fan of Patrice O'Neal is more reason to appreciate him.
I came to the comment section for this comment! RIP Patrice
@Henry Ortiz FACTS
And he played yugioh
@@GxGNoir when he said shadow realm tho lol
@@blackcnn4929 “troop dupe scoop!”
I think women find his words harsh & insensitive because it’s coming from a man and as a whole, we’re not use to hearing how men really feel. It’s always our feelings and what we want. It’s never how a man feels (“because men don’t have feelings”) or what he wants. I learned a lot from KS, truth hurts but I rather accept the truth than the deadly lies 💯
And youre going to have better dating experiences because of it. Keep learning.
That or also the fact that he is sometimes blatantly rude and disrespectful 🤷🏽♀️
I like how girls who write such comments always have some social media like facebook or onlyfans in their profile. Seems to me they're fishing for simp orbiters in here.
@@someonesomeone6616 oh come on, not everything is about validation
@@someonesomeone6616 I literally made that banner when I was 16, I deleted all my social media back in the summer because I couldn’t care less about it. You could look it up and u won’t find me🙃 & I don’t even know how to remove it
Imagine being with a man who could fix things around the house because he learned skilled labor + he’s intelligent despite the misconception of how people see him as just a low level worker.
👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
In the immortal words of Red Green:
If the womenfolk don't find ya handsome, they should at least find ya Handy. 😜
Thems the rules
Caller: I disagree with some of what you're saying.
Kevin: Ok, how old are you?
Caller: 20
Kevin: Why does your opinion matter?
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣. These comments are some of the best if you've ever watched his podcast.
Lowkey i don't agree with that. He could've been 20 and went through hell and back and matured as he went through that. But aye, thats just my opinion.
@@tetee0.077 the topic was women.... not life... and at 20.. his only relationships were with girls... not women
@@imgettingold9407 i know but still. He dismissed everything he could've said just because his age.
@@tetee0.077 I agree that it did seem disrespectful to toss the guys opinion aside but the guy was going to Kevin for advice, if this guy already knew whats up he wouldn't have been in that situation in the first place.
Awesome discussion!!!!
I love you ! You taught me how to braid my own world !!
Looooovvveeeee your videos!!
@@sandybaby9573 😍😘
Truly.
I absolutely ❤ your work!!!
I don’t like how certain people were being disrespectful towards Preach. And even sometimes Aba on their OWN channel. Preach wasn’t “sCarEd” and he didn’t disagree. He wasn’t angry either, if you watch Aba and Preach, you know that Preach is very observant. He really likes to take things in, and truly listen before he inputs anything. He’s ALWAYS been like that. Aba is more quick to respond, Preach takes more time. He had to go do something important, and he didn’t say anything because the other two were in the middle of a conversation, so he quietly slipped out, and let Aba know. You guys are so extra. I like uncle Kevin as well, but keep it mind that this is NOT his channel. Some of Kevin’s supporters are extremely rude and don’t like Kevin to be challenged. Even Kevin himself, said he LOVES being challenged, and of course no two people are gonna agree on EVERY SINGLE thing. It’s OKAY to have different points of view, as long as you’re educated about your opposing views. And as long as you’re not challenging or attacking the individual themself, (for example, calling him ugly or gay just because you disagree) but instead challenging his IDEAS. This was a very educated conversation with 3 very educated men. Of course Kevin and Aba disagreed on a few things, but that’s a part of life! Aba is NOT a “yes” man. Information needs to be challenged, so that the person can expand on their ideas and views a little bit more ‼️ Keep it up Aba and Preach, your supporters love you. And same to KS 💓
👍👍👍
@@chosengod8875 Lol.
@@chosengod8875 ‼️
Well said sis. I have a ton of respect for Preach and Aba.
Underrated comment
Kevin is encouraging people, men and women, to hold themselves accountable and to get their lives together in the way they desire. I liked the way he said to the guy not to worry about his height, to work on his fitness and his career. We are all responsible for ourselves and stop coddling others! it's NOT helpful to do that.
There is a lot of wisdom in the Serenity Prayer; "God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference." You can't change your height, or your hair or eye colour etc, but you can change your body composition, your attitude and outlook on life. If you accept the things you can't change, and not become insecure about them, they wont have any power over your self image. If you change the things you can, you improve your self image (become the best you can be etc), and the wisdom part goes without saying.
The problem most people run into, is they become insecure about the things they can't change, and they give up, and therefore make no effort to improve the things they can. They end up in a vicious cycle of misery, and it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy, because they put nothing in, and they get nothing out. They get judged as being losers, because they think and act like losers. If they thought and acted like winners, people will judge them as winners. Giving up and making no effort, will doom you to a life where no one takes you seriously, as if you were a member of a tribe that contributed nothing, but expected the others to carry and feed you. That tribe would soon start to look down on a person like that.
Kevin the type of dude to put on cologne before attending an online interview 🤣🤣 great video btw 💯
😂😂
Wait a minute. Do people put on some kind of deodorant or antiperspirant even if they don’t plan on leaving the house that day? Because I have been lol but hey maybe I could save ¢20 a day by not.
@@Miechonlada Sis, deodorant is used wherever. Men use cologne when they are outside the house.
Kevin the type of dude to stare at himself in the bathroom mirror for 30 minutes to make sure he looks fresh before the show.
@@Benyamin568 oh yeah shit I got it confused lol nvm. Cologne is just a perfume. Even though I also put perfume on everyday even when I’m home all day. I guess it’s my own weird habit lol
I’m 53 and he just described my childhood. You were safe,but you couldn’t get away with anything.
Exactly this kid is going off of fbi reports 😂
same here. My parents didn’t know where I was at night. no cell phones or pagers. They were not concerned.
Yes man. I remember it was a fight about 3 streets over from my home. Magically my uncle appeared, broke the fight up and took me home. I asked him how he knew I was there and he said "every street you go on in this neighborhood is someone's mother who son or daughter I know. We all look out for each other".
@@CL_Duybah I miss those days. I did it with my kids. I knew all there friends parents and neighbors. I would try to not let my kids know . It took them until high school sports to realize how many people I really talk too and how I knew when they were “out of bounds”. .
Yeah, my grandparents are from Trinidad and Tobago, and they were able to go pretty much where ever they wanted without problems and it seemed like less crime back than compared to today.
My grandmother would even do day trips to Venezuela to visit family and etc.
A lot of women can get most men to sleep with them but mistakenly think that a similar percentage of men would marry them. Men are easy to get but hard to keep.
Brown women the best.
Generally from Muslim societies. That’s how I feel. Nothing to do with the religion, everything to do with the people that follow it. They nothing alike white people in terms of principle, morale, for me at least. Maybe I dated the wrong white women. That’s likely but regardless I’m the opposite, I can’t stand white women.
@@YusuphYT Currently dealing with my first and probably last white girl rn. They’re very entitled and expect the world from you while not being the best version of themselves. Feels like I’m dating down. I know Arab Women are great to date, but what’s your perspective on Indian and eastern Asian women?
@@beenbizzy3842 I’m just going to say it, that generalization is racist.
@@vadim4252 not racist bruh that’s just tends to be how American Culture tends to condition women to think.
Kevin is right. There was still crime in his youth. Kidnappings and what not. But the difference is, that communities and neighborhoods were WAY more tight nit than they are today.
World doesn't seem so dark and scary when an entire neighborhood or block knows and looks out for each other and their families. I.E if a kid goes missing. People are calling neighbors and everyone drops what they're doing to help.
That’s pretty much what he said;the crime rate has never been perfect but it was controlled better back then due to communities being neighborhoods instead of the hood
@@blackandproud83 After a second listen. Yeah you right. He didn't go into detail but that is what he said.
Yeah i've seen that's very common among older folks they say how back then things where much safer you could let your kids play outside without fear of them being robbed or go outside and not fear to be mugged as much as todayi have some that say they remember the first ugly crime to happen in a certain area and how back then dangerouse places like even New York where safer and it was rare to hear a gunshot at night but now there is more kidnappings and fear your kids might get stolen and all that.
That still happens son
Plus they had real parents. Not so much today. Kids were breaking stuff in my neighborhood and they each pointed to the other and all the parents said my kid said they didn't do it. When I was a kid and we did the same things the parents were like what are you smart asses you think we're stupid? Nobody saw who did it you're all punished. Parents far too often don't parent anymore.
To the weight topic at the end...I came home from school after years away and a buddy of mine had gained about 30 or 40 lbs. 1st thing I said when I saw him was “Yo bruh you fat as fuck. WFT is going on? Get that shit together bro.” In a year and a half he went from 225 to 165 and ripped. Thanked me afterwards and told me how he couldn’t believe the homies around let him get fat and didn’t say anything. Not saying you have to say it the way I did, (that’s how the boys talk) but be honest with the people around you. Men or Women...
Damn, like I really wanna do this for a friend and I don’t even know how to bring it up. I don’t think they’ll take it well if I say it like that.
@@OrealeXO tell them that their health is important
@@OrealeXO be direct and let them know that you care for their well-being. Let them know that their chances of getting some kind of weight related disease, dying in their sleep, etc is much higher than if they're healthy. Especially diabetes and getting a body part amputated as a result.
@@OrealeXO Thats the sad thing to many women don't tell each other hard truths so for you to say something so simple it is now challenging because of how women all around act to each other
@@OrealeXO just ask them mate u have put on a lot of weight if your happy I'm happy but if you are not happy I'm here to help
Can we all agree that this is one of the most educational and factual video we have seen
One of the most...
Very productive, although I was blocked lol, I was actually praising some parts. As Preach said the delivery is harsh and takes away from the truth. I dont think you should be dismissive from jump and at least hear the person speak. I guess I walked in like a principal on his talks in his chatroom/live it just seemed like utter mess and women bashing. What I can still perceive as a principal walking in, is that when he talked to men, he did the same, he told that one guy to lose weight, etc, but there is a slight difference if it's an older woman and she went with her career first, he was dismissive and made it feel as if she had no hope. While the 40 year old man gets the pickings. If you noticed when Aba showed him about going in on the man who is short, low income and overweight, everybody including Aba was laughing, that's what I walked into the 2 times I tried to watch this man. So, if you aren't a loyal fan you won't get it, but as a new comer, it seems like a hopeless situation. Yes, great here's reality, but how do you overcome? He seems like he is a believer, God corrects, but he also redeems too. I believe women would listen, but the presentation is awful. That's like you're trying to talk to your husband or boyfriend and each time he is dismissive of your thoughts, women are communicators and that just shut her down. She is probably going to stop talking and tell her girlfriends everything about your relationship because you don't consider her thoughts. If you dont just hit her reality and then become dismissive, she will eventually go sit down and reflect. Men and women communicate differently, men can be hit with harsh realities and yes unfortunately society coddles women and we need to be eased into harsh criticism, although we can dish it. I know double standards. If we could deconstruct what society is doing to us, it would be a great place. Going back to coming from Adam's rib, us the women being the supporter, partner and him being the protector and provider, even if she can help out financially.
@m karina Sounds like ur triggered cuz some of this may apply to you
Betam aref program 👌
FACTS
I love KS content. Yes I see faults, but that’s unrealistic to expect perfection. These are the sort of conversations we need to be having - everything has a finite number. You’ll only pick up your baby, have a heartbeat, get in a vehicle, get it on, walk on your own, and hug a loved one a finite number of times. This is harsh but it is reality. Numbers matter, cost matters, and we all have to make a deal whether we are conscious of said deal or not.
Enjoyed this comment.
Yea
Preach
Another...well said...Uncle Kev says...he is not perfect....always striving to get better....a philosophy we all should embrace
shoutout to you Aba for wearing our Ethiopian 🇪🇹 traditional men shirt! 👊🏾❤️
Keep acknowledging the truth sister. You have the power to influence women far more than any man can. Share these types of content and spread the word.
This man exists because of weak fathers. Very important to have a strong male figure in everyone's life. You need to have someone who explains the male perspective without sugar coating it.
@James Joe right. Men have virtually no reproductive rights nor given a fair shake regarding custody, child support matters. Statistics suggest women leave relationships yet it’s “men’s” fault when they get removed from the home and they have to jump through hoops just to see their kids a few days a month.
It exists due to an absence of fathers in the home and strong traditional values within Black Society as a result of the Black woman’s deal with white supremacy to keep us (Black men) in a weakened, emasculated, and non threatening positioning. The black woman turned her back on her man for wider acceptance in white society.
@@HigherCelf100 how can a black women keep the “alpha black men” down? Another excuse. Yet whenever you all get up, you get a Becky and bring wealth into the white mans community that you claim keeps you down? 🥴
@@lasupremapersonal615 what he means is they try to bring black men down, and that’s why they leave. Leaving a kid with an agressive black women as a mother. Which emasculates the child made perfect sense and wasn’t an excuse.
I can’t believe a man typed this. Wow
Top quote: " sick and tired of men apologizing for being men". This interview should be a required, cornerstone, education for a man.
Because it’s at the expense of a woman’s self worth.
@@Misuneverse How so? Please elaborate
@@KNEWERAADVERTISING my statement only applies to men who have little self reflection or boundaries. So men who feel as though they can invade your space without your permission, men who feel as though they can be sexual with other women(or person they are interested in)when they are in a relationship with their spouse (even worse if they do it without protection), men who do nothing about a women in distress when dealing with another violent man by or men. Those are some solid examples.
Precisely brother
@@Panzer_ze_tank as well as men in my neighborhood. Too many experiences to name. It’s something I’m very used to growing up in the society we live in. By all means, continue to feel as though I’m the issue. And I definitely said that the statement “only applies to...” if you do not fit that category than why bother leave a comment
I'm seriously grateful for you brothers. Men and women need these platforms. Platforms that question the core values of society and force, viewers, to not only question their beliefs but how their beliefs even became their beliefs in the first place.
Stay blessed everyone! 🖤❤️🙏🏿🙏
Guuuyss what you doin over herrree 🌝💖 (what a nice surprise!)
That username 😂
@theiconiumfoundation learn what simp is🤦🏿♂️. If someone is giving solid/good advice to people so they can better themselves or have a better life isn’t simping. Here’s the definition of simp: if you are putting anyone on a pedestal while that person isn’t doing anything or that person isn’t putting any effort into anything is simping...💯💯💯💯
This was the best Kevin Samuels interview prior to his death to understand the man he was and what he stood for. RIP Godfather 🙏🏾
I like how when there's a difference in opinion it doesn't divulge into personal attacks. It's strictly just debating opinions and facts. We need more of this as an example of how to conduct yourself when opposed
@natural selection yeah that ain’t sexist at all
@@sxyteesa0890 he’s right y’all are belligerent
Agreed! Great interview!💯👊🏽
Agreed, it gives different perspectives on the subject at hand, which gives us a better view of it all
@@igpxmaster no not at all but I see generalization always exist with sexist men
No wonder they hate him! He's a savage. In a world where "body shaming" is seen as evil, and hard work goes out the door, he's being real. Subscribed!
How i hate this body positivity from Fat women. How can i bust my ass working out and be told i need to date some over weight whale nope.
Body shaming is evil. Body critiquing is fine, it’s okay to say “you could look better” but don’t confuse that with straight up appearance based humiliation. We shouldn’t give people excuses to be dicks. You can ofc course choose to not date someone cos they’re fat, but don’t humiliate them about it.
@@reylime2991 hey women body shame men more, i want a man who is 6ft, 6 pack abs, 6 figures salary and yet how many take their shape or health seriously ? Obesity, cancer etc kill black people the most and you have some dumb Ceo of Bumble promoting body positivity to over weight obese women, who think they can land a man of high value. The Ceo of bumble is married, and a Billionaire and is targetting women for her own financial means. While my black sister die of Obesity, Cancer or are depressed. Kevin Samules is pouring cold water to you women and your delusions social media and media feeds you and i will continue to shame over weight people , get into shape and stop listening to lies.
@@godkingceaser7594 I my experience, women know when they’re not in your arena.
@@reylime2991
How often have you actually seen women humiliated and body shamed by men they wanted to date? Honestly, c'mon...
This was very refreshing, usually men aren't allowed to exercise any kind of freedom of speech to critique modern women without being cancelled. More cross platform dialogue needs to happen.
Agreed
Gents need a place to go to feel heard. 👂
People would rather here comfortable lies, than uncomfortable truths
Preach and Abe deliver is different.They are neutral.They don't take sides and they analyze the info. they don't jump on someone's coattail just because they like them they get to the truth.
RIP
you gotta feel the pain of shame to overcome your weaknesses. being too nice doesn't help anyone, its worthless.
Kind of like in the army where they break you to build you.
@@Reshme77 yeah pretty much.
100 percent! Im the same way with my kids. Being too nice sets them up for failure and disappointment in the real world. For example, my daughter is 5yo.. and wants to be an astronaut. I told her if she doesn't take math seriously and try her best, that career choice will never happen. Lol. Some might see that as harsh, but Im trying to give her realistic goals. And if that's what she wants to be when she grows up, atleast she knows she has to work extremely hard at it.
@@Chatillgbt what's the definition of too nice? Like not being honest with people to protect their feelings? Being nice to a fault and having no teeth? I'm just wondering what people mean by "too nice."
@@educationalporpoises9592 I suppose it could mean many different things to different people depending on their reality, culture and lifestyle. But within the context of this video and this conversation, I would say its pretty obvious how "too nice" has been defined.
As a women in her twenties, I’m so glad people like him are telling the cold hard truth. All these useless women talkshows are setting us to be alone and miserable. Keep preaching for the women in the back!
Preach it! It's like they don't want us to understand who we're trying to be in a relationship with. It's not a one person relationship
Truth!!! Feminism has destroyed the nuclear family. And then these feminists wanna cry that they dont have a man. I thought you could do better all by yourself!
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Hope you know other women like yourself.
girl, lets be frens
All RIGHT. Love that Aba and Preach challenged Kevin and he had a logical response.
Undoubtedly
They owned Kevin smh
@@TheNyion912 lol what were you watching? This wasn’t even adversarial 😂
@@thebxsavage They challenged him and some things he says he did try to subvert
@@thebxsavage Just look at his wife, she is a lazy 4/10... who divorced him...
I understand why you do it, but it’s a sad state when you have to clarify that just because you disagree with a man, it doesn’t mean you hate him. This is how productive conversations work. This is how we grow as people, as communities, and as human beings in general. This was a fantastic conversation.
A big problem is that we all are so messed up mentally by thinking of a relationship in terms of material/financial gains. Some of the best couples that I have seen are lower middle class and they are truly happy. They go for walks and bike rides. they're outside playing with their kids. I think we should look for a relationship based on how people can enrich our lives: spiritually, mentally, or emotionally not based on possible capital gains or status. I'm not saying money is not important, because I understand it is. However, it doesn't matter what car you drive, how big the house is, or what title you hold at work if you are still feeling empty inside. We need to be careful on how we present(image) ourselves to the world because it takes a lot of effort to keep playing a role. Let's reflect and ask why, what we want is important to us, when considering relationships. Great collaboration.
Bingo!!
Kevin Samuel's audience are people who want to be above average, not average or below average.
@@nnnmmmable
*Kevin Samuel's audience are people who want to be above average, not average or below average.*
Can't wholly agree with that. To be honest some of the stuff he says are things that the average guy has been thinking for decades. So he's drawing in all kinds of people due to what he's saying.
@@nnnmmmable I have nothing against people who want to better themselves. As a matter of fact I encourage it, but we need to do it in every aspect of our lives. Again, average and below average based on who's standards? Your standards because of what society "dictates" is above average or your standards because of what you perceive above average, based on your own philosophies without fear of anyone else's judgement? You have millions of people walking around saying they don't give a fudge about what people think of them, yet all their actions are based on how they want to be perceived. I may not always agree with Kevin's delivery, and think he is unlikeable, unlike Simon Cowell or Gordon Ramsey, but it doesn't change the fact that much of what he says is TRUE. I don't follow him much, but I Respect his stances and his explanations behind his stances.
@@Jaslath The women who called Kevin Samuels want six figure earners, and the men who called Kevin Samuels want hot women. None of them have said they wanted average.
Good dialogue 💯
it was clean
Tech on this nigga Samuel's
Tech! On the nigga djmeech...addictive Kevin Samuels Fan
That was clean!!
Constructive criticism is something people can't take. Understand you're not being attacked, it's to make you better help you improve on what's lacking.
Well I wish Kevin Samuels takes that advice
I agree, and I’ll add, honesty without a little compassion is brutality.
KS is a shallow idiot, just as shallow as the black women he talks to.
Tell that to you Head Simp, KS
I like how Kevin addressed the fbi statistics (which are often used to draw false conclusions). Overall Kevin proved himself to not only be well informed, but to also have actually thoroughly thought through his positions. Many people hold positions that they haven’t thoroughly considered. Aba did a great job engaging and pushing back. Overall, great interview. I wish preach could’ve been present for the entire interview. He brought up some great points and highlighted great points. I’m sure none of the gentlemen involved in the interview will ever see this message, lol, but Hats off to you fellas
Kevin is like rubbing alcohol. Sting you in the now, save you in the later.
~New Girl
Beautifully stated!
Kevin is a trogladyte.
Don't listen to him just because he owns a suit.
@@bvishal2kn I thought a suit meant absolute truth would spill out your mouth
Or as Patrice would say its like medicine. Won't taste good but its for your own good.
Rubbing alcohol is not good for open wounds to if it stings the you are killing life skin tissue. Sooooo. Sorry not good.
Kevin is just straight forward exactly how it should be with people, don’t sugar coat nothing for people, everyone can improve on some area in their life. Know your weaknesses and make them your strengths, simple.
And don't think you got your strengths down and pay no attention to keeping them on par, because then they will decay into weaknesses.
@@miavandermeer77 good one, keep everything up to date 🙌🏽
Simple!
@@LoveIsWar977 but its not like he is walking up to strangers and giving them advice. These people call him and ask him for advice. If you ask me a question I can answer it however I want, its own you on how you take it. Being an former athlete, in which you have to put in extreme work to just be good, not even great. But people want to coddle people and lie to them knowing their not good
And if you dont want honest answers dont ask, especially if you already know the answer
He is given men what they need. Men need that tuff love. Improve yourself every day.
This is called having an adult discussion. Bouncing around ideas 💡 and thoughts. Good 👍🏾 job
I remember watching this livestream last year and it was first time I got to hear Kevin Samuels talk about issues in society, dating etc. RIP Kevin Samuels
"women want the power of men, the privilege of women and the accountability of children" - Stolen
No you didn't. That's not true.
So do men nowadays
@@Ehlaar Men will never lose accountability. Stay at home dads are still labeled as lazy, unambitious, etc...
Of course women with "names" like Tekeisha and Latasha react as expected, lol
@@Ehlaar "But, but men do it too >:( !" Always with this deflection bs lol.
I am very upset that I am getting advice similar to what Mr. Samuel's is spreading so late in my life. if you are reading this and in you are between 20-40, be happy you hearing the knowledge he is sharing.
Thank you for a great collaboration.
I agree with you. I'm 31 but I wish I was listening to guys like him when I was in my early 20s, I was simping and a people pleaser for basically all of my 20s. Wasn't until I was around 28 or 29 that I STARTED waking up and taking a critical look at myself as a man and making changes.
All we can do is the best we can I wish I would have learned earlier myself
The only way to improve society is for us to get these type of discussions to youth starting from the high school level
Im 20 man and this is golden for me and right after a heart break im learning so much
Does that mean that I should be sad about it?
I am 18 years old.
Kevin Samuels is the reason I am taking my weight loss seriously. Hopefully in a year I will be in a better place.
Persistence is key! Good luck, and may you reach your goal!
You can do it! Ride that bike!
Focus on diet mate, I used to be 300lbs and the amount of effort required to exercise off fat is drastically higher than the effort required to alter your diet.
I'd also heavily consider a reduction in carbohydrates and increase in protein. If your carbs are low enough, I'd also look into increasing fat consumption.
Good luck. And do it for you! Your health matters
Dont drink anything with sugar,even better only drink water.No eating sweets or something that has carbohydrates.No workout Is actually nedeed,unless you really wanna push that weight quite a lot.How much do you closely have now?
Rip Kevin
I used to walk to school by myself in newark nj at age 10, there's not a parent alive today that would allow that. KS is right on the crime discussion.
Then either the gov is lying about the crime statistics or Y’all just grew up in very nice areas because statistically crime rate has been going up since the 70s and hit it’s all time peak in 1991 and has been going down ever since
@@ayubsharif7419 The violent crime today is double what it was in the 1960's but is lower than the 1980's. So Kevin is actually right.
@@lcako1616 exactly after the 60s is when the crime rate stared to rise so yes he is right but speaking for people who grew up in 70s and 80 who are now in their 40s they lived in much more violent times then today.
@@ayubsharif7419 newark nj had and still has one of the highest crime rates, definitely not a nice neighborhood. Most high schools now have police onsite, and I don't blame them. We didn't need that back in my day.
Too much fear. Disconnected Humans and programmed zombie people. Quote- Leon C. AKA M. Check him out
I wish I heard Kevin's message in my 20's
I feel you, but don't be remorseful over spilled milk. Be glad you're hearing it now, rather than 20 years later or never at all. ;)
@@allonifrah3465 wise words
Foreal that is why this message is so powerful we been told lies
read rollo tomassi´s books
It’s a difference between a high quality man vs a high value man. A think people have a big misunderstanding over this.
I agree
Ah yeah. Just because someone is high value doesn't mean they are high quality
All of this and then some ☝🏾
That's some bull. What you're talking about is subjective and different cultures and belief systems will vary on what a "high quality man" is. Being a "high value man" is quantifiable. So whatever difference there is between the two means very little because one is useful and the other cant even be defined in a finite manner, making it of little use to no one.
@@kingobsidian6941 that’s what I’m saying.
I disagree that cheating should be tolerated in any circumstance especially when children are involved in the relationship or marriage. Even if there is an agreement made between the couple it may have a negative effect on the family dynamics and the child's social development.
he is not saying it should be tolerated. he’s just saying that it's more than likely one of the criteria that will come with a man that makes that much money. Personally I think cars should be reliable, but there are some brands out there that are inherently higher maintenance and harder to keep running. usually you understands this when purchasing the car and understand that it's just the cost of driving that particular car or brand.
@@AIRBORNE916 that’s the very definition of tolerance. “He makes this much money so you’ll have to tolerate him “exercising his options”.
@@lightblueribbon never said It wasn't tolerance. I said that Kevin is not saying it SHOULD be tolerated. There is a difference.
What he said was it comes with the price. Kings of old and the oligarchs nowadays have plenty of girlfriends, some of them even have spouses. Marriage to some are for economic reasons and survival.
What, you think Melania stayed with Trump because of his charming good looks?
@@lightblueribbon he's not say you should tolerate cheating it's like the car anology if you buy a Range Rover you should know what you are getting yourself into it doesn't mean everyone is unreliable but you should know the odds.
I’m so glad he won’t change his delivery. The truth is the truth. Stop crying because he is straight forward and upfront.
No people have different preferences. His beliefs are his beliefs. He puts people down.
@@rainbow9987 The things he is saying aren't a matter of opinion. They are just facts. You don't have to like what he says or how he says. Either way it doesn't change the reality. You can believe what you want but the facts are facts.
@@rainbow9987 we all need to be put down sometimes it helps us wake up. And his opinions are backed up backed by the reality of world we live in.
@@rainbow9987 its not a matter of beliefs. Its a matter of facts, you just dont want to accept it. Dont be a snowflake and say all that. Sometimes we all need to hear the harsh truth and reality in order to grow as a better version of ourselves.
@@rainbow9987 You will hear the harsh truth one day, in a nice or mean way. Life doesnt care about your feelings. ❄️❄️❄️
In giving advice to women he's also advising men what to avoid.
Ladies, it’s not “settling,” it’s “compromise.” No long term or meaningful relationship is possible without it.
How do men compromise though? Your ideal woman must be overly sexual and doing everything in bed BUT at the same time a virgin, ideally, plus smart, educated but not more than you, work a job all day and bring home money but at the same time do a full housewife work that takes 5-6 hrs a day (???), give birth to your kids but take care of them mostly by herself, pay half of your bills but be also submissive (how???shes the one helping you out! You should be the one to.
submit), she should respect and treat you as if you're a provider but she pays for herself everywhere??? Tell me where exactly you compromise, because from what I see you all have contradicting standards and put all responsibility on us for your failures in relationships. You want a modern feminist when it comes to paying for stuff, but you want a traditional woman at night and on weekends. Is that why so many of you are not loyal and cheat?
@@AMoore-jm3md see this is the silliness these men are talking about the average man has no were near all these requirements you really trying to get us to believe that even half of the men in relationships get the treatment you listed. Na the truth is you do all of that for a man out of your league a man with many options who can cheat cause all of yall order your sexual fantasies from the same catalog. The vast majority of men are invisible to you cause you think your hot enough to snag leo DiCaprio or leo DiCaprio light and they would be happy jus to get in your guts once a month and provide you a family if your decent looking enough. Lol women 🧢🧢🧢 learn to humble your self for a man slightly above your level and see what happens.
@@AMoore-jm3md You have not been around healthy male energy that much if at all, there is a difference between boys that look like men and men that behave as mature healthy masculine energy men. Discern the difference first then give input please
@@AMoore-jm3md 🤣😂 you trippin shawty...you need therapy and a personal trainer
@@AMoore-jm3md men literally just want a nice woman who hasnt been fucked by a whole football team and we get accosted for saying that
A lot of women is waking up today and realizing they have to go out and accomplish the life they want women is buying their own homes by their selves and realizing that sometime marriage is not for everybody and learning to love their selves if a man come along that’s honest decent and not trying to screw everything in the world and that’s a big maybe then I will settle down and get married but if it doesn’t happen they’re not afraid to be alone. I’m 68 almost 70 and I know a lot of women that are single don’t have kids and find that hey there happy with the other company that is Mr. right to happen to come along they’re happy but if I don’t they’re happy that way too because they are not afraid of their own company
Fuck me, use a coma once in a while
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Good points
It's idealistic but at 70 years old having never had a husband, they'll replace companionship with a husband to a dog/cat. Sometimes they even bother their siblings' kids.
And what you actually prove is Kevin Samuel's point that single women keep women single
I call BS. I would bet dollars to doughnuts that they wish they were in some sort of relationship. It may not necessarily mean that the significant other is in the home, but I would bet they would like to have some other significant other they could confide in.
Listening to this video at 24 years of age has flipped a switch in my head that saved me many many years of figuring out. I appreciate every minute of this video.
There ya go! Find and stay on your purpose, young man. Everything else falls into place.
Just a saying : "A smart man learn from his mistakes. A wise man learn from mistakes made by others."
Have a bright futur young man.
That's good watch Tommy Sotomayor...
I grew up on the receiving end of the 'you can't leave the table until you finished the whole plate' mentality. And Spanish servings are huge! And not just my parents - the whole family, even extended family. Even to this day: I went to visit a relative recently got into an argument about how little I was serving my kids by the same person who was commenting on how chubby I was. It's like they don't realize that there is a direct correlation between the two things. When I made my own household, I changed all that. I don't cook rice everyday, and make less food when I cook. I never understood why enough food for three days was made and then we were expected to finish it all that same night? (You can imagine my betrayal when I found out that the human stomach is only about the size of a fist. That changed my perspective more than anything!) Also, I cautioned my kids about the negative side effects of being over weight. My husband stressed exercise and healthy habits. And thankfully my children are all at a healthy weight. But I recognize that they were helped because I ditched the 'you can't leave the table until you finish the whole plate mentality'. We are better for it.
Wait... size of fist? Wut o.o
My family also tried to force feed me food when I was a kid but I just couldn't do it. Constantly had to deal with their bullying over food to the point where I dreaded meal times. I understand monitoring what a child eats but demanding one to eat beyond full is abusive.
This dude isn't just giving good advice to black ppl man this advice is universal
ThankYOU...I say the same thing!
You’re aren’t black don’t speak on the topic of what he’s doing ? Speak on what relates to you
@@elijahmiller8386 lol is what he said wrong tho?
@@TheFloorGeneral100 nothing. Hes just defensive and reflecting his insecurity.
That's true , I'm from and I like listening to him .
Guys I'm broke again , I'm going back to my grandparents house.
You guys have no idea how I'm feeling, all those pandemic things cut my legs.
But I'm still standing and facing everything with hope .
Being a 50 year old man; I've had the opportunity to see the impact of the influx of drugs, and technology into our community. Before COVID-19 became a thing; we allowed drugs and technology to create a Socially Distanced environment.
kevin story never change up thats why they mad lol
💯!
Facts !!
I really liked this conversation. I do believe that both genders needs to be realistic & go for what really matters. It's okay to have a preference, but too many people (on both sides) keep telling the other gender to reduce their standards while simultaneously saying that their standards are fine, it's hypocritical imo.
If women say they want men with 6 figures or more, like KS said, you're directly correlating men to money & not seeing the man as a person. Similar to when men say they want fit, attractive, submissive women, those men are directly correlating a woman's value to her beauty. Neither gender will ever feel truly loved if we go based on superficial values. Both genders need to start going for people with great character, great morals, & kind hearts. So if that means dating a man who loves you, however, makes less than you, then that should be okay. Just like men should dating women who love them, however, are on the bigger side, (maybe Lizzo or Loni Love size) & may have strong personalities, etc.
As long as the other party shows love, appreciation, & treats you well. That's all that should matter. Again preferences are fine, but it's weird how people want to shame others for their preferences while simultaneously saying that their preferences need to be met.
@@tumelothatedit3484 NP 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Quite the opposite, because were dealing with teh real world. Unintangible emotions and feelings dont pay the bills, work , support kids,or look after you whenb your sick. I think part of the problem with relationships now is its based on a 1) disney style fantasy rather than dealing in reality. and 2) the idea that men and women are the same, when there not in general. I'm not saying having love and respect isn't important, but lets stop being naive.
I would say that you should be sure of what you need and you are sure you need. I would not date someone who is ugly to me or not my type. However that doesn't mean that I will date man who looks good and doesn't have great character. I will date one who has both. I do lean towards your sentiments more, of course, when I started relationship with my husband he had no money and I had some money. We struggled and made things together and that's also joy for me, money is not important (how much spouse earns or if at all) but journey is, being a team is. However maybe there are people for whom rich man is enough and connection is not main thing? Also, there is another part to it. I can do it. I have no debt, never had. We live in alternative ways and rather save money than take credit. We don't have children by choice and that makes a lot of less financial pressure on us as people.
@@RedDevilStudio I see where you're coming from. Yes emotions don't pay the bills, but that kind of pressure is a lot for a man to fulfill. I personally don't mind providing, I have the income to do so, however, not every man has the income to do so, & I'm aware of that.
Yes bills are important obviously, but so is treating our partners like human beings. Like if a woman is fit, submissive, got her shit together, etc. then yeah, she's looking for a certain type of man who is equally yoked, however, I don't personally feel as though people who aren't "top notch" should be looking for their partner to be "top notch". Again, if that's your preference, then sure, who am I to stop you, however, it seems kind of hypocritical imo if you don't provide equal value to this relationship.
At the same time I'm not saying women should be overly obese and men should be dirt broke. Neither of those things are healthy, & personal health is the #1 thing we should all strive for. But don't be overly picky either imo.
@@joannawinters6592 Fundamentally it actually comes to what peoples expecattions are going into a relationship/marriage. The reality is that people aren't honest or upfront with what they want, then complain when they don't get it, and then bounce at the first sight of danger, given the ease it is to do so. Having a 'connection', is a modern thing, because humans today not have to worry that much about survival.
The thing about human beings is that we're all liars that adore the truth; so when we hear it, we both admire and loath it all at once.
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I’m stealing this. Sue me when I’m famous.
Oohh, a word... I have never heard this but I love it.
Kevin Samuels is actually really down to earth and keeps it very real. I can appreciate him.
He has definitely change the internet conversation! .. I’m glad men have Kevin Samuels to mold themselves into! .. He’s a real class act! 👍🏽👍🏽
then tell him to pay his back child support so he's not that down to earth ..
@@SuperTruthful didn’t know that! I’m gonna research him alittle more in depth.
@@callmekells802 research a lot go to many different platforms and get that info
@@SuperTruthful Evidence ....???
A woman's attraction for a man grows when she feels that the man is better than her. She has to work for your attention and approval then her attraction will grow
Facts
It's good to hear both sides of a perspective. Part of the problem is we are not listening to each other and have selective hearing. Finger pointing ain't it either. Accept people for who they are. If you dont like the people you are attracting, take a look in the mirror. The common demoniator is you. That's the cold cold heart truth. Like attracts like....dysfunction attracts dysfunction.... God is always reflecting back to us who we are being on the inside. Change starts with you😉
Kevin’s totally right about the safety of the neighborhood - I remember a dad who stood up and saved a kid from a beating and the kids dad and the dad that saved the kid hated each other - but it was our neighborhood and you didn’t attack one of our kids - that’s gone now
True. Now everyone would just walk on by like nothing happened
Pull out a phone, record and walk right along
@@officiallydreama4412 ... Screaming "WUUUUHRLDSTAHHHRRR" 🤷🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️
R.I.P Kevin Samuels!
Dudes gonna be blowing satan and getting his ass blown out down there that ain’t peace
I really do believe that is what's wrong with relationships in general when people are too worried about what society thinks about them and not worry about what their significant other thinks. When you're in a relationship fvck what everybody else think. Focus on who you're with. Focus on what their likes and dislikes are. What works for one relationship may not work for another. It's ok to take advice here or there. Just be careful which advice you take that best fits your relationship. Not the idea on what others think what a relationship should be.
Average at best
If I may, especially in regards to men. We have to stop conforming to our partners. We feel, especially when we are younger, that we have to change to make them comfortable when they liked and loved us for who we were in the beginning. We have to teach young men this lesson earlier.
I think a man of integrity will not worry about what society thinks of him, unless if he is not doing right.
Start ur own channel lol cause advice there was fire.... Real breathtaking to hear some thing like this.
💯💯💯 no one individual has the perfect recipe to have a fulfilling relationship, it’s up to you and your partner to cultivate that.
Great interview...Aba showed his youth talking about how he correlates safety to FBI statistics. You speak with anyone who was alive in the 60’s 50’s and before and they’ll tell you how safe they felt each community was...nowadays I cringe when I see a house with the blinds open at night and all the lights on...but then again I’m from Detroit
Can't have shit in Detroit!
I do that every night and my husband gets mad. I'm just like what's the point of you working so hard to provide this beautiful home and we can't enjoy it. I love open windows etc
@J D I think it might be a income thing more than a race thing, I'm white and raised on the poverty line, and I keep the house shut up like that. Only open windows are in the back where no one can look in.
@J D I’ve only been to neighborhoods like that recently because of my job. Most cities in Miami dade county are bad lol, and I actually lived off section 8 and now I live in a pretty good neighborhood with houses that range from 350-600k and you still better lock your shit. They jumped into my backyard once an stole some shit a while back. About a month ago some jits broke into my truck trying to have a quick come up. All they did was steal my damn grinder
this shit don't go down in a black neighbourhood! (Leon from Curb)
"if you have to settle with lieutenant cuze there's only so many generals then theres a Hierarchy"
bruh thats gold
I love that Aba takes the time to give us backstory and define definitions for us. Saves me from pausing the video and googling what high value or hypergamy is lol
I'm a 60 year old brother from Chicago and I'm hear to tell you that Kevin Samuels is held in the highest esteem in my life. His bluntness is appreciated and his advice I try to follow. He's, in my opinion, is who Derrick Jaxn should strive to become. Love the show,keep up the good work. Peace
Derrick Janx is fucking joke please. Talking shit about relationships but caught cheating. Kevin Saunders is more blunt and calls out phony women who can't handle the truth
@@seanfelder3286 but he also talk to men who can’t handle the so called “truth” his truth!
@@cupcakepatrice8418 the only truth Is that when you put Pu*sy as the most important thing,its not gonna go well.
Live your own life . He is negative he has mommy issue. He need to be speaking to men not women. Seek your higher power for truth
No one cares about your opinion, your opinion doesn't matter.
The thing is about Kevin is he doesn’t claim to be some expert! He just gives advice based off of his own values and beliefs! We literally do not have to take his word as gold if we don’t want to
He more gives advice from legit statistics on the state of our families, finances etc that reflect we need to do much better....and we (men and women both) can do better. Starting with priorities, decisions etc.
@Arwyn *personal image* expert, not a relationship or dating expert
A small but important distinction
@@DrAlchem01 Careful now. They don't know what distinctions are or how those work. They have their mind made up and that's that.
@Arwyn ok, well I was just going by what he literally said in this conversation, around 26:23
@@DrAlchem01 exactly
Never heard Kevin speak to men until now. I can't believe how mad women are towards him for his delivery. He was WAY more direct with us than he is with women. Y'all ladies got it good compared to us💯
Lol they don't care
Why are you comparing as if he's our parent? He hates black women....he's not a god of relationship wisdom or self love. He's average at best....
@@Nokss87 I can sense the deep-seated hatred in your words and veins
As everything in life. Women have it easier.
@@Nokss87
Upset because the 6’8 Millionaire didn’t give you the relationship he promised?
Kevin is dead on the money. I grew up in the 90's but I never felt unsafe in my neighborhood. We knew everyone there and everyone knew us. Still tied to some of those same people to this day. The biggest loss over the years is "Tight-knit Communities"
Ironic first choice of words
My experience is the exact opposite, and I grew up in a small town. But I did not grow up in a stable or loving environment.
You guys dont even know what impact finding your channel has done for my life !!!!!!! & Ladies I am 100% Afro Black. What these men are saying is the truth. No matter how hard it is to face yourself as a young women it's required to be honest with yourself on where you need to improve!! Thank you Thank you Thank You !!! ❤️❤️Much love from 🇨🇦
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Right
It's basically that women can't be happy no matter what a man provides. Look at Will & Jada as an example or Steph Curry & Ayesha. Anyways long story short truth of the matter is woman don't know what they want. They want it all but the world doesn't work that way & therefore are left lost, confused & conflicted as they all end up on anti-depressents one by 1.
@@mdogzino Conversely, contrary to popular belief, men do not know what they want so please stop trying to make this argument that only women do not know what they want, it is redundant.
@@MegaFELIPE48 riiiiighhhht lol
On the weight issue: intermittent fasting folks, it WORKS
Another 1.... caloric deficit
☝🏾25lbs down so far. That coupled with exercise and the weight will fly off.
@@kevinu6004 i want to try this but i get extremely tired when i don’t get enough calories in my system
@@kevinu6004 fasting is caloric deficit.
What's the ideal fasting time for it to work?
I think Kevin Samuels is overdue amongst us. He is a breath of fresh air in a stuffy hot n funky room. And I’m a 37 yr old black woman
Be careful, hE hAtEs bLaCk wOmEn!! Lol stay blessed sis
Expandaited
@@myguychris7739 c’mon simp! How does he hate black women when majority of men agree with his views. KS has said in other interviews his goal is to get Black people married , stay married and grow together.
@@blkghostxx you misunderstood my comment. I was being sarcastic since that's the first thing people want to say about him. Ain't no simp shit over here
@@myguychris7739 sarcasm does not translate well in comments... (Unless you add a disclaimer that you are)
I’ve never missed a voice for men more than Mr. Samuels. Obviously never met him, but his words will forever ring true. We always lose the real ones too soon.
Men like yourself will continue to inspire others around you to greatness, drawing from both your own wisdom and the teachings of Mr. Samuels.
Each one, teach one