"Were reacting to us reacting to kevin reacting to kevin reacting to the dude calling in" - FJuly (Reactinception) Full live discussion we had with him. th-cam.com/video/6HoPmxn6ku0/w-d-xo.html
@@Boss-ir3nm If you can't take constructive criticism then you are a slave to your desires. A good example is, before I embraced Islam, I was a hardcore gambler, blew bags on gambling, my life was deteriorating till I met up with an old friend of mine who sat me down and lectured me hours mate, I stopped gambling, turned my life around, and on a trip to Morocco, I got curious about the meaning of life, that curiosity leading to do research and stuff, resulting to a full turn around. I agree with you at some point, it hurt to be criticized, but being able to see things from different perspective usually leads to change in behaviour.
Biologically and psychologically we need someone to be brutally honest with us. Just to be blunt with it. This is something my girlfriend didn't have so when someone does that she feels attacked and that's how her countenance is for the whole day. It got to the point where if someone said something that she didn't agree with she becomes confrontational.
RIP Mr. Samuels. You left us too soon but you helped change many and your legacy will live on. You had something to say and many listened so CONGRATS on making a difference in this world.
I know, right? It's awful that he hasn't overcome his past like that but I have hope for him. And after getting some honesty thrown his way, I'm sure he will be alright!
Exactly there's nothing wrong with that we are teaching our society to have unrealistic standards. I think the problem is Nice Guys/smips gave women the idea to be entitled and to have high standards. I know cuz I used to be that guy I used to sing nice things because I thought how you get women. One day a woman it takes more than that I have to be myself that has to be one of the greatest breakthrough I have. I feel better women lose it when I told I'm not voting against Trump I'm not voting at all. Neither presidential candidate don't reach my standard.
@@itsabe90 people like you are why we have a president with dementia.... Who is a complete and utter racist..... Everyone should vote or a president who wants to take away all our rights will come.... "Cough" joe biden "cough"
@@darthbane418 they are both terrible so I’d rather not can’t look at Biden and think oh he’s the lesser evil so I’ll just go with him, hell no they’re both terrible.
Man... you can't help being short, but there's no damn reason to be walking around out here as a fat man. At 5'5 the least you can do is turn that 5'5 frame into a machine. Become a dangerous man. As a man, confidence instantly comes from becoming competent. I'm so happy Kevin is encouraging these men to get into Martial Arts too. Foreal man.
Doesn't help that much, I knew a jacked 5'3" guy who could have probably have kicked my taller ass, but girls actively put him down despite him having all the traits a woman could want other than height and an exceptional face. Unfortunately that made him insecure especially around taller guys and he just didn't have a chance even with girls shorter than him.
Coming from the USMC, you see way more monsters among the short guys than the tall ones. Some of that's just physiology (short limbs = less stress on joints and stuff = easier to get jacked without breaking yourself), but I'd say better than two-thirds of it is just a difference of attitude and motivation.
When I was a teen and was being a brat, after a punishment, my dad said: "I'm tough on you because the world is hard on us men. I am pointing out your mistakes so you can learn from them, so you can grow. Because as a man you don't have as much time as you think. The world doesn't point out your mistakes and gives you a chance to learn and grow. Out there, there are no second chances. Everything the world values in a man takes time, discipline, and commitment to achieve. When you leave my house to take on the world I don't expect you to be a fully grown man but I expect you to be able to admit your mistakes and learn from them". With hindsight, I really appreciate that I had two parents. Both my parents were amazing but for a boy having a father guide you is priceless. I didn't appreciate it then, like most teens, but my father's lessons were all true. Kevin is much like a father figure. He delivers hard lessons, and hard truths and he expects you to take action. Complaining is easy. Everyone knows how to complain. But to do something, to take responsibility for your own failure, that is what separates the men from the boys.
This is what true male honesty looks like. Straightforward, genuine, raw, and unapologetic. People can't handle this because society teaches us that this way of communication is inappropriate. I disagree. I think in many situations speaking like this is exactly what you need to hear.
Kevin was originally doing this critique on men. Then women poked their heads in and wanted to be a part of it and now are triggered because they are getting what they asked for.
Literally cause I didn’t hear about him till he went viral for telling that lady how average she was. But he’s very insightful and I can respect his views even if they don’t fully align with my own.
I love the personality of both of you guys and you spoke true Kevin tells a lot of Truth to but if you believe in your dream and you go out to it the sky's the limit even for a short guy one of my grandson is five three 24 years old married college-educated has two kids building his first real home, the specification of his liken and it's exceptionally nice....Bro go after your dream, go after your queen I see a lot of tall women with short men A six figure salary would be nice but it's not happening for the majority and they married people that equal or better and they make life happen...
@@vivianleach1686 Congrats on your grandson's success. I genuinely believe what Kevin says is said in good faith, vast majority of the time. Yes, the brutal honesty is his brand- he wasn't always what he is today. He changed his approach and his popularity soared. That said, a lot of young men can and need to maximize their potential. It's about becoming the best version of yourself. Like you mentioned, not everyone is going to make six figures a year, but we can definitely make decisions today that will have a direct impact on our lives decades from now.
This is why I’m so glad I’m joining the military shipping out this summer. I’m 22 so lost with my self identity and more confidence within. I’m positive the military will shape me into a better man.
He’s brutally honest with everyone. People just can’t handle the truth. I’ve seen some videos where he took it easy on some women and showed a somewhat softer side.
More men need to hear this type of stuff. Too many of them complaining about women offering nothing of value when they themselves have no money, no personality, and aren't in any semblance of shape.
Yep, you got it. It's a bit of harsh truth we need to hear. I was lucky enough to have a woman tell me as it is when I was in my early 20s and it really helped me sort my shit out.
Tbh I feel like this is all men have heard for the past 20 yrs. The rise in gender war has stemmed from feminism and the lack of accountability women have for their own actions. There is no shortage of man shaming, the shortage is constructive criticism of the modern day narcissist woman.
@@kgyeatman3569 Like I said in another comment, those women that don't have accountability - life ends up punching them in the gut more often than not. Men leave them, or they stay single into their late 30s. Pride always comes before the fall. All successful people, men and women, are able to self reflect and make improvements to themselves.
Many of these types of men want a return to the past where they assume they will be more attractive and get dates. The truth is they still going to be rejected and ignored. The reason you don't hear about guys dying alone or not getting married was because it was never reported and really you were never really important enough to care about to report.
He reminds me of my best friend (male). Straight to the point, no nonsense and you can tell that he doesn't have bad intentions. This is the type of people that help you get your shit together.
I'm usually not a fan of the tough love type people usually. Just because you're honest doesn't mean imma let you talk shit and be a dickhead. I have to be in the right headspace to want some harsh truths.
@@assassin9763 Yeah I do. I have a problem with people who think just because you are honest that allows you to be an asswipe. Literally just mentioned that. Seems like you have a problem with my problem.
That's the Ironic thing most are brutally honest with themselves likes this. The blunt honest cold truth is always with you no one needs to tell you that you know it for yourself. When you lie to you and try to escape the reality of it it what causes problems it's a balance of where you are what you are and then what can you do about it.
@@spktruth2stupid300 well, maybe I'm not as brutal as he is, but I'm very honest and straightforward with myself. I've learned to be nicer to myself over the years.
I'm SERIOUSLY glad that you guys posted this! I'm a therapist and a couple of my male friends have bombarded me with Kevin's videos to substantiate their experiences. A few I've had to explain that they don't fit into the category of men Kevin is referring to and that some of their own traits (mentioned in this video!) are what's keeping them out of the real running. I don't usually disagree with what Kevin says, but I have felt that some people (women in the past) wouldn't hear any of the takeaways because it would get lost in the delivery. It's great to know that he's an equal opportunity offender! LOL j/k, but this definitely provides a bigger picture to his approach. I WILL be sending this link to the gents that need to hear some of this, too. Also, he is 1,000% RIGHT about taking up martial arts or boxing! Activities where you can make MEASURABLE PROGRESS will prove your COMPETENCE to learn and grow and increase CONFIDENCE! I grew up as a competitive and then professional dancer with a high GPA throughout so that was established for me, but there are still times when I have to find a challenge to exercise, expand, and continue to develop my competence now. If you didn't get affirmations from the people in your life as a child, then SURROUND YOURSELF with positive, reinforcing role models/coaches/mentors/SENSEIs now! YOU and the man/woman you want in your life will thank you for it!
I disagree. Kevin was as much of a destroyer as he was a builder. Kevin is the one that single handedly help me to decide to date white men. I give him credit for that.
@@GK-ku3zva black man that doesnt even bind to any racial comments/ideology made you single handly date 7:53 another race? Are you trolling or mentally unstable?
I thought this was an odd thing for him to say. I used to be much heavier, I started exercising regularly and trying to eat better and learn more about nutrition and health and fitness. I've lost about 50 lbs. Someone can be "working on it" and be exercising and still be fat because it takes time for the changes to occur.
@starving artist Nah hes just gives un sugar coated real advice to people. In the past he focused on men now hes focusing on women and ofc women nowadays don't like things that arent sugarcoated so they make it seem like hes a woman hater but hes really keeps the same energy with everyone.
I grew up around a Dad that talks like this and my brother is extremely similar to him. I'm used to this. If I didn't grow up in this environment, I probably would not understand that this is a form of love. It does not mean they won't show you a softer side. They just want you to wake up first before they do.
@@Iamahumanehuman yes, but those people don't want to hear the truth. They want you to make it sound as sweet as possible, but don't tell them what is wrong with the assessment and/or don't say anything at all. I sometimes asked my Dad to expand on his point when I didn't immediately get what he was telling me so I would understand him better. When he did, it made sense. He even sounded more gentle and he appreciated that I was really listening and trying to understand him to even ask. Because what I have discovered with blunt men is that people don't want to understand them, just write them off as rude. Most are genuinely not. Just like some guys that speak sweet words are not good people just because they tell you what you want to hear.
Martial arts doesn’t teach you about life. It teaches you about yourself. It also helps you grow as a person. You are overconfident, it will humble you. You have no self confidence, you will get some. It also teaches you to be a team player and cheer on you fellow classmates.
Couldn’t agree more. And the best thing is it doesn’t really matter how early or late you get into it. There’s people who start learning martial arts in their 20’s and 30’s and they turn out to be really good at that sport/martial art. I started at 16 and over the course of 2 years my confidence is better, I feel more secure about my identity, it makes me wanna get out of bed in the morning. It’s just a great way to boost your mental and physical health and it teaches a lot of great lessons for life
Yeah even if kevin thought so why even say that from what I've heard there's someone out there for everyone and Kevin talking down on little guy was uncalled for tbh I see 👀 your getting a lot of laughs n giggles out of audience if that was your intended aim good for you huh 👍
@@bmoresweetz7023 sometimes people need to hear the truth. This might be the first time in that guys’ entire life that he’s heard honesty. The statement “what do I bring to the table to entice and bring in a quality mate?” needs to be answered on a personal level by all of us. Men AND women. Would I date me if I was an attractive female? I bet his answer is no. He wouldn’t date a man like himself if things were reversed. So why would a woman? That’s not mean. That’s honesty.
I saw that video on Instagram... He even ask the guy straight up if he has a big d*ck! Lmao!😂😂😂😂 He ask that with a monotonous voice... The way he says those savage questions and how blunt he is, is what makes me laugh lmao!😂😂😂😂
But that part is not his fault, he can be fat and lazy, and fix that, if he works everything will still have the same genetics and maybe a wife who will use his money and house to raise the son of a personal trainer, this is why DNA tests should be made always at the birth; This is easy to happen because women are allowed to defraud men and still get prizes.
I'm a 5'5" man and everything Kevin said is true. My height was a huge personnal issue for a long time. I took the time to build my character, find some hobbies and build a confidence. Never been happier. So if you are offended by what the man said, take a step back and look at yourself in the mirror cause you're the only one who will help you. This won't be done overnight, it takes time and it worth it.
So true. I'm 5'4" and ate $hit grew up because I was short. I had to level up my game big time to get any respect. Still have to fight for it cause so many people judge a man's value on his height.
Height truly does not matter, what matters is confidence and charm. Some of the men i've been most obsessed with and attracted to have pratically been my height, but their personality has been so great that you just dont give a crap
@@Dhuxul9 That’s true. Many girls says that I’m short. My fiancé direct give a crap about what I have and don’t have but at the same time, you are right.
no it doesn't. You're just able to have fitted clothes, and not be out of breath catching the bus or going up the stairs. Been there, shit's a lotta work (especially when you're mostly doing it by yourself).
@@izzylandyt Without a doubt it does, being in shape does way more than that. The journey may be painful but after two months of grinding you really start to feel a difference in your mood and energy. Those are two very important things. Even if you feel like you’re ugly face wise, you can’t help but feel proud when you look in the mirror.
@@ej13012010 No one is saying being fit cures depression. Though it has been scientifically proven to help. Unless there’s an eating disorder or body dysmorphia, doing exercise (whether working out, doing sports, etc.) is psychologically healthy and increases serotonin and dopamine productions (which are basically your happy hormones).
I have been to modelling agencies with my sister and never got cussed out. That’s because I wasn’t applying for the job. They aren’t going to be ruthless with you, that would just be a waste of their time. They just tell you “you’re not what we are looking for” etc
The thing is will they say that stuff to a person face depending on who it is. If they know the person is soft they more than likely will but bet you they will not say that stuff to any type person
Half the time I cant even bring myself to tell the Starbucks barista she made my drink wrong. I cant imagine having a living where I tell people they are short and fat and not worthy of passing on their genes 😂
I honestly feel that surely this guy must have known he needs to make some serious changes, as you could tell he wasn’t happy in life, was he hoping Kevin would baby him? Glad I’ve got self awareness, I know when I need to make changes regarding career or health, and I know when it’s time to cut people off too, I just hope the guy didn’t give up
@@jc_80 two things. 1. He was hoping for enlightenment 2. He was expecting inspiration 3. He didn't get either, he's a lonely frontier. At least I hope that's what was going on This whole things a joke, I don't know how much I could resonate but I'm here so there's something.
I'm short and a truck driver, we're known to get fat. When people try to get me off course on dieting or staying busy I've told them for years I will NOT be short AND fat if I can help it. Some guys need to hear this. Conversely, if I'm busting my ass to stay in shape I have no problem feeling justified in expecting the same out of a woman that wants a serious commitment from me. 💯💪🏾
@@lauralivingherlife860 there is such a thing as a “chubby chaser.” Short men are usually ostracized from the pick of the liter so we have to choose the bottom of the barrel.
“What makes you think your opinion matters?” “I owned a small business in Syria until ISIS came and killed my wife and children” “...I knew you had an excuse”
I use to work for a major talent agency. I worked under a very tough talent manager as his assistant. People thought he was EVIL because he was so blunt in crushing the hopes of people applying to be in the business. After seeing thousands of wanna be musicians and actors, I understood why he was so blunt. So many of these people have been enabled by their friends and family that will NOT tell them they have no talent. they feed into their delusions. Our industry is full of people that keep trying to succeed and end up doing drugs or suicide, or wasting their entire lives. My manager would tell them bluntly what they would need to do to succeed or if they just don't even have the basics talent. Yes they will get angry, or cry, but he just saved them years of their life being miserable. They can now continue your life and pursue a life that will succeed.
Do you still have their contact, I’m an artist and I would like to know if he thinks I have talent. I like getting other peoples perspective on my art so it would be helpful.
you should see the advertising industry. kids are graduating from universities or colleges thinking they're the next cannes winner when all they've learned is how to critique, not how to create. liberal arts schools and profs take their money, give them A grades for talking about other peoples work, hand them a piece of paper at the end and watch as they walk away thinking they're the next sagmeister. then these idiots enter the industry and it's incredible how little they know after 4 years of supposed education. i've seen designers who don't even know how to package working files but strut around acting as if they're better than anyone else. i've seen copywriters who can't do audience research, let along write a good line. i've seen junior art directors who don't see anything wrong putting purple text on blue background. social media "experts" who can't do anything else but post memes.
I'm a woman, and this guy reminds me of my family. Whenever I gain weight, everyone roasts me, but they always did, so I'm pretty desensitized to their comments. They're so blunt, I feel many of my Western acquaintances would be majorly rattled. The thought always amuses me. More seriously, I don't know if bluntness works for everyone. What makes some people tougher breaks others. I don't know if there's a cure-all.
That's true. It's cool that you can take it, but some people are just naturally more sensitive. They can't really help it, no matter how much anyone would try to change them, it wouldn't really work out. It's not necessarily a disadvantage either, it's just how they are. The same is also true the other way around. There isn't one single way of how to treat/raise someone, life is too complex for that.
@@lo4568 yeah I used to be extremely sensitive as a child, but my upbringing fixed that. Should people be less sensitive? I think so. Definitely makes one's life easier not to get easily upset. As with most things, I feel there's a healthy equilibrium to be found with sensitivity, and it's slightly on the insensitive side. But I agree there are people who won't toughen up and will just break instead. And I don't know if there's a way to tell until it's done, which is why it's a tricky thing.
Exactly thats why they saw only a few can handle this or that and so on. That just goes to show that most people are sensitive. It is literally natural so yeah one should be careful on the wording of things depending on the person they are talking to
Honestly to maintain a good weight 80% is how you eat / drink . Cut fast food out & soda an exercise for literally 7 min a day do this for a month only an you’ll be in shape or on your way to be dep how heavy you were but I swear don’t need to workout for an hour or anything literally just do 20-30 push up s maybe throw the 10lb weights around for 5 min an than maybe just a little walk around the block seriously don’t need to do anything crazy I think ppl forget this / spend more time putting there stretchy work out clothes on lol I work out in my pjas for literally 15 min before I shower and I’m in great shape
It definitely sucks having to hear the full on cold and blunt truth about yourself but sometimes that reality check is what you need to get the ball rolling. I can say that I very rarely see people truly get on their grind when receiving soft and gentle words compared to the cold, hard truth.
im eastern european and i agree bro my family don't play that nice shit they tell it straight up and a lot of my american friends are baffled or dont get that. It's so funny to hear but explains why there is such a pussy culture here.
@@nuttyjunior I've worked on a team with a couple of eastern Europeans and I can say that they were unfiltered in their delivery of criticisms lmao......
I've heard it said, "your mother keeps you alive and your father prepares you for life". So many of us are growing up without a strong father that will give objective guidance like this. Everyone, especially young men, needs someone in their formative years who speak the harsh truth like KS does. It is a cold world; you can put on a sweater or you can freeze to death.
Well said. My father used to say that nurturing is useless on a boy after the age of seven. I agree, now that I am old enough to have seen numerous women raise a boy of their own. An infant needs nurturing because it cannot survive on its own. Continuing to nurture a boy teaches them to be reliant on others. Many women view "man training" as cruel because they are more concerned about their son's feelings, than his functionality. They find themselves stuck in mothering their sons well into adulthood because they finally realize how much they have stagnated his personal development, and feel responsible for his shortcomings. I'm not saying that mothers are the villains. They are only doing what is in their nature. What I am saying is without the counterbalance of a male presence in their household, the mother's nature of nurturing creates an imbalance in the boy's development.
Your father's supposed to give your u the tools the deal with said freezing environment. Except the only tools present in the modern scene are the ones that decided to have children and subject them to this level of lagging behind.
The truth is everyone has desirable qualities in a partner. The problem is too many men and women expect to have their ideal forgetting that they may not be their ideal partner's ideal. People just either have to be realistic, lower their standard, or try and change to be in a position where they can get what they want. No one owes anyone anything.
Too true, if you can't be arsed to put the work in to reach the standards of your desired partner, then you gotta lower your standards. If you don't want to do that, then you're gonna be single for a long time coming
A word! I think if a woman or man goes to Kevin for advice, they know who he is and what they have signed up for. He is not going to play nice. The people unfamiliar with his "coaching" style are the ones freaking out.
@Jamilah Toenailkilla Who the fuck are these obese dudes wanting models? My dude at this point guys are struggling to get baby momas at least. The fuck they gotta do with model?
my high standards fall in the emotional category. Physically, I want somebody that has a face I could wake up in the morning to. In that regard, plenty of women qualify. But emotionally, only one.
He isn’t likable, but he is honest. You guys did a good job showing that with no context he looks anti-woman, but he is actually that same way with men.
@terrell ivey I literally posted a video with him saying black women are the most unattractive women in the world. You don't have to watch it or listen to him say it, because it doesn't matter to you. Kevin Samuels could literally call all black women whores and it wouldn't matter to his viewers. That's a fact.
Tell the truth to a man = "That dude is a loser who needed to hear it." Tell the truth to a vvoman = "How could you say that??? What about her feelings? Why are you so harsh? You must hate all vvomen!"
An example: I'm bald and I knew I was losing hair as early as 24 AND I was fat. Decided to hit the gym. 6 years later, I'm jacked with a beard. Nobody can even picture me with the hair because it doesn't define me. No struggles with women either.
Kevin Samuals actually tells men to not be sitting home with Mama and not being lazy ... he actually blames men not wanting to do any working on themselves
wouldn't be smart to stay with your mom so you can avoid extra college fees and other things but still work, invest your money and build up your wealth. Y does society look down on that? that is what I am going to do and I think that is smart.
@@kadirstan4333 Living at home until you're done with college is one thing. After that? You need to accept that it's going to put a crimp in your dating life. And you definitely don't want to be doing it after age 30.
@@muskegontribune Most men need another man to coach them about life. Most men had fathers for this until more recently. But many men no longer have that resource due to single-parent homes. So men like Samuels and Jordan Peterson are filling that role.
@@rationalthought9979 Lol. I hear you. If another man is "filling that role" for a grown man, that means that "grown man" is still in a boy state of mind. Save yourself. You don't need an Advice Pimp. Besides, he calling people broke, but his business is youtube. What successful business has he run?
People clearly have not seen that he has been working on guys for three years. Now the girls get three years...LOL If he was not interested in male excellence he would not have his own group etc that he helps men from. With the guys he holds nothing back. They think he is harsh to women...lol To be fair the guy took it like a champ though.
As a young man I wish I had a older male figure to tell me the truth straight like that. I would be in a much better position now however over the Internet I have been able to realise where I'm going wrong and there's still time for me to change my ways. I'm honestly grateful that people like Kevin are here they are very needed. The truth hurts but I'd rather the raw honest truth than a soft unhelpful lie.
The problem is women are used to or damn near never been harshly criticized. Especially in today’s world. That’s why it comes off straight forward to men and disrespectful, bashful and etc etc dumb shit with women
@@blackreign351 I honestly can agree. It’ll get quickly mislabeled as misogynistic even when women are COMING to him for HIS OPINION and feel a way that it doesn’t coddle their beliefs. It’s his own. If you don’t like it or won’t respect it don’t ask for it.
@@blackreign351 Not in today's world, it's always been like that with women. Now men are becoming like this too, but men gotta be better than that and roll with the punches
I feel like he’s the definition of “I’ll personally reach across the isle and bitch slap you as equals”. Don’t care who you are, he gonna give it to ya straight and blunt with no sugar coating
I wouldn't necessarily say that if I'm being honest. I didn't know this guy until I've seen him in that Video with Aba and Preach. Just because you dislike a certain way of what people are doing or disagree with how they do stuff doesn't make them a hater. By saying stuff like "the real fans" and "the haters" is so stupid. I agree that this guy is just honest and doesn't attack the people he speaks to but that doesn't mean everyone who disagrees or whatever is automatically a hater.
@@VenoXj1 One of the reasons people may go to that phrasing is because often times people who watch his videos watch enough to hate on him. Its fairly easy to see in some of the responses he gets comes from a place of not listening to him, but reacting to him. Sometimes you can see it in his guests too. Its easy for a lot of people to have an immediate negative reaction to him because reality is the most brutal mistress, and I've never seen Kevin come from a place where she is not present. xD
I started boxing at a really young age. I stopped around 12 because I just didn’t want to spend all my time in the gym anymore. I started rebelling and I lost my way and fucked everything up. I got back in the gym at 23 and I found myself again. It took a few years to get to a point where I wasn’t complete garbage. Dudes did not take it easy on me by any means. And I’m sooo grateful for that. I remembered after 2 years of just getting fucked up in spars by guys who had never left the gym the first time I came out on top it was a better feeling than any drug ever. I feel like it’s doing a disservice to “take it easy” on anyone in any part of life. Life is not easy. You needa go hard and give everything you have in everything you do.
Those old videos of Kevin’s critique on men were one of the most difficult video’s I’ve ever listened to. Ironically, they’re also the videos that helped me push out of my comfort zone of mediocrity and improve my quality of life. I appreciate his words of wisdom.
Just these clips are making me want to push through honestly. I'm lucky I have a gf right now, but with what he says I feel I need to better myself to make sure I keep my gf😆.
@@feliz2564 This is the difference between most men and most women. A woman would say that she shouldn’t have to do anything to keep a man. But you realize that you have to take care of yourself and be your best self in order to keep your girlfriend.
My late father was like that. He was blunt and brutally honest. He wld tell us, *"you are only a loser in his eyes if you complain about how much you have failed. How much to overcame is the measurment of success",* emotional, mental discipline was a must. Four things iI learned from him. 1. Potential means nothing if you dont work hard to make it become reality. 2. Work on yourself first before your complain about the world around you. 3. Your goals for the most part should be achievable. 4. How you think about yourself matters the most. Thats directly linked to how people will react to you.
@@MetalsirenIXI the only time I would call someone in asshole is when they’re being needlessly loud or accusative in their critique Kevin to me seems like a dude who just tells it like it is
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But at the same time it was done from a desire to make a positive impact and not to scorn, since he is telling his flaws and what he must do to overcome his flaws, instead of just dismissing him as hopeless...
But at the same time it was done from a desire to make a positive impact and not to scorn, since he is telling his flaws and what he must do to overcome his flaws, instead of just dismissing him as hopeless...
@@musafawundu6718 , yeah, I’m okay with that. Cant fix problems, until we honestly identify what the problems are. Honest truth is a step in the process of becoming a better person.
Complaining emasculates a man. It indicates there is a problem & he is helpless to solve it. It turns him into a weak powerless victim. A man either solves his problems or accepts grace that nothing can be done, and get backs to work.
Put up or shut up, right? Nah, if you can't solve a problem, you don't just put your head down and accept it, you go to someone who can solve the problem. I'm sick to the back teeth of this bullshit attitude that men should be stoic and never complain about anything or they're less of a man, it's total crap. Yes, try to solve your own problems, but if you can't then go get help.
What’s so funny is he was waaaay harsher on the men, like if a 20 year woman comes on and respectfully disagrees with him, he’ll school her but be nice. But when it’s a 20 year old guy, even if he’s respectfully disagreeing, it’s ‘your opinion don’t matter’ 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
It's because young women are more valuable than older women while oldmen are more valuable than young men. All our politicians are oldmen, all wise, smart, successful men are oldermen.
@@YouYou-sm8tf Absolutely not true. I have seen a vid of Kevin Tosspot being an absolute ass to a really lovely respectful 22 year old girl who disagreed with him. He was rude, condescending, telling her he was better then her because he is twice her age (ffs!), cut her off when she speaking and shouted over her. He Just embarrassed himself quite frankly. If it had been an older woman she would schooled him like the pathetic little man child he is.
@Hey Max you’re not blunt you think your are.., you really sensitive and emotional. Learn the definition of those words and apply them with context you’ll notice the difference.
"Nobody Cares" about your struggles, what are you doing about them? Exactly. This is what male to male conversations used to be when I grew up, direct, no sugar coating. We need much more of this, and yes it may hurt your feelings.
My girl is a OS girl. Kevin Samuels is never talking about whites unless he needs us as a point it seems every black manosphere creater only wants to talk about black so i guess i checked out of most channels its suppose to be a manosphere its in the name
In other words you approve of a rude society where everyone just says what comes to mind. Kevin was that kind of person. Thank God that most of us have verbal restraints. Just imagine if none of us had social manners.
@@GK-ku3zv Depends on the society you are living in. In western society where people think lying is a good thing because you are being nice. A population that rather live in a nice dream rather than facing the reality. The easiest thing to do in life is to lie to someone else and tell that they doing nothing wrong in life. heck, I do that everyday to people I don't give a crap about.
@@cabbagedestroyer1693 Telling the truth begins with oneself. When you know the truth and you live by that truth then telling the truth comes from a good and honest place. Often times the truth hurt but it does not necessarily have to be expressed in a rude and ugly manner. To be rude to most everyone when giving advice it means that you are a nasty person and may be cynical at best. If you do not care what you say then it is better not to offer any advice at all. Just go about your merry way.
@@GK-ku3zv There is absolutely a big difference between being blunt or cynical. If your intention is purely to hurt another individual then it can be cynical. However, if someone is overweight and you tell them that "you are overweight. You need to cut down on calories and exercise more." That may be interrupted as rude or offensive to some people. But it is actually helpful advice. Being "rude" to everyone then it actually means that person is just straight up blunt. Usually cynical people are very targeting and actually treat people differently based on status. A cynical person would treat one fat person better than another depending on how much they could benefit from those said people.
@@marierobles4879 IKR these guys understand and explain such complex topics with such ease. And also don't ridicule any one being. They say the truth only. Which is one reason why I've fallen in love with their channel and now can't stop watching them.
As a man, you have a responsibility to achieve your genetic potential. If you’re short, dont be short and fat. If you’re tall, dont be tall and fat. If you got an ugly face, make sure your body is on point and you get a solid skincare routine. We all get given a different hand, just do the best you can with what you’re given to achieve what you need to. Bless up!
Be your best self. I'm not out here telling folks they can't get it if they are short, fat, or whatever. These categories are easy to pick at but let's not forget we got people in all kinds of situations beyond them and they still get it.
I love how when guys hear the truth they accept it compared to the time he did that session with the woman from Canada who was in complete denial about her situation
Maybe you should find another wife. Judging by your words, if you get seriously ill, yours will leave you. Maybe you should think about whether you need such a woman?
This man radiates stable, honest masculine energy. We need more like him. We should not only take his advice, we should look to the man himself as an example of conduct.
I think this kind of blunt honesty is refreshing. Definitely wouldn't have thought that when I was younger, but cutting the bs and hearing things straight is how I prefer things now. Don't waste my time and your time beating around the bush.
I’m short, fat, and hit a couple of trees on my way out of the womb. I just gave up on having a relationship and just focused on having fun in my life. Thanks to couch Samuel I have started to enjoy life.
I am a big (1,98m | 6'6 tall) man, that has struggled with self-confidence through my childhood. I got into karate classes (Kyokushin) and my sensei was almost a Mr Myiagi to me, dude was 85 years old and could fight with me at 16, that dude beat the living shit out of me until I could stand up for myself as a fucking huge dude, that gave me such a confidence boost that I can't recommend it enough to anyone who struggles with self-confidence. Be it male or female, there is something powerful about being able to kick someone's ass that even if you don't want to do it, gets you going! It's not about being violent, but being able to stand up for yourself.
@@anzelaiv You guys are masochists... I will never allow people to talk to me like that. Which is exactly why I am fairly successful. I don't need anyone's advice and I will not moan to people either. Never knew this guy existed until this video got recommended to me.
@@sevenchambers You are right. I don't know them. But I don't need to know them to be able to see that something is wrong with their self esteem. I'll say this again. You should never ever allow anyone to talk to you in that way. If you are totally ok with somebody talking to you like that it is likely down to the fact that your family members were always rude to you. And that my friend is a likely reason for why you are failing in life. You lack confidense that's it. Reality checks are bullshit. Healthy people don't have any problem with seeing their own shortcomings they don't need anyone to tell them that problem exists. If you ask me, anyone who calls this rude guy (Kevin?) for advice, needs therapy. Because a person with normal self esteem would not want some random rude person discuss their life, even if they know that they could do better.
@@lizvtaz6 “I don’t need to know them to be able to see that something is wrong with their self esteem”. Wrong, conversations exist for that exact reason, to find out who a person really is. All of your posts in this thread are just assumptions with no evidence to back it up.
I'm tired of hearing guys blame their height for not getting girls smh there is loads of 6ft+ guys that have no girls. It's all in your mindset and confidence, I'm only 5'7ft but I carry myself like a man and don't care about what nobody got to say. Girls can sense that insecure shit from a mile away
It’s the same as dudes who blame how they’re ugly as well, meanwhile they haven’t ever spoken to a girl and lack any type of confidence. I genuinely believe that if every man takes care of themselves they can have a good appearance, it’s rare for a dude to be just straight up ugly even after a good self care routine + confidence.
@Rae Varsace...so true I dated a guy who appeared wow but his attitude sucked also a guy who looks amazing but had insercurities way above mine lol. I agree with what you are saying self esteem and self confidence is key. Just like us women who feel sexy and confident when we confident with our image and state of mind ..so should guys as well. To note I have dated all kinds of men, material wealth is not important ( maybe lol) but what's important is self worth and respect.
@Dan Lons Not really a mistake to be concerned about what women perceive, if your goal is to attract women. But yes, it's best if your confidence is built on who you are, and not just a smokescreen.
When you’ve been receiving preferential treatment your whole life, equality doesn’t feel so good. I’d rather someone tell me the honest truth than a comforting lie. It’s how we can grow.
Thing is a lot of people (especially young people) don't even know what they should be doing. Mentorship is important. If anything what Kevin and others are showing is we have a generation of young people out here who have no one in their lives to guide them.
@@bluewave3417 facts. Even though my dad was at home, he wasn’t emotionally present due to his alcoholism (he’s what you’d call a functional alcoholic). He also emotionally and verbally abusive. Even after I moved out at 25, all the negative things he told me still persisted because it became internalized. I’m still trying to undo the damage that was caused by him while learning how to become the man I want to become.
@@bluewave3417 I disagree, we're living in a unprecedented time of uncertainty that in a magnitude that we never experienced or expected in human civilization. If you're in high school right now, man... you're in for a very VERY wild ride. Because they're about to face a future where majority of jobs are going to be automated and we have not made any once of preparation for it, they're going to be in the front row seats of the results of climate change, political radicalism/extremists are already in our government, they're mostly likely to not have kids, and mental health crisis' are in the rise. No amount of mentorship or Kevin Samuel is going to alleviate what's coming to them... and they very aware of that.
@@WhoBlah21 You're talking about what's going to happen. I'm talking about getting them prepared to deal with it mentally and emotionally. The coming struggles won't be the first time. Just the first time for this generation. My grandfather (RIP) saw things that would make my head spin. He got through it. But he was from a time where they were built different. This younger generation needs to adjust their mental and emotional states to better deal with the kinds of things you are talking about. That's why they need some mentorship. Because if they can't take a candid conversation without mentally checking out they won't stand a chance as this economy gets worse. I think we are saying the same thing from different perspectives.
Every single person has flaws and insecurities, even people who seemingly hit all the checked boxes for attractiveness. The best thing you can do is work on the things you can control and Be the best version of yourself that you can possibly be. A lot of people will say they are rejected for being ugly, but they are overweight and don’t shower. If you take care of yourself and put your best foot toward your life will improve. You might never be a supermodel or anything but you will still do better with people than you used to.
Everyone that Kevin put down had as much going for them as he did. Kevin was embolden and rude. Look at the man. He was ugly to me both inside and out. His physical appearance was not in my league of attractiveness. Did that give me the right to go at him in any way I felt like just because he was far from being my cup of tea?
@@GK-ku3zv 1: He didn't put anyone down, that is what they need to hear, how do you live till that age and won't improve or change anything about yourself? This people live in iron bubble and it won't burst until someone tells them the truth. 2: "Not my cup of tea" and actual flaws are two different things, you can't label this things as something else, in the end if you don't have anything to offer except "Me" then you have nothing, and it is your job to change that!
I think in my early 20s I would have been tempted to call in. That headspace is a weird mixture of ego and self awareness? There's part of you that wants affirmation that you are a catch but also a part of you that knows you need help. I moved past that part of my life when I realized when I was asking for help I already knew the answer and there was no point in involving other people in my own self growth.
Im 17 and female. when he said to a 20 jaar old; why does your opinion matter? I got knocked the fuck out by that question. I literaly had to remind myself i don't know anything because i didn't experience it yet. It was very blunt, but i need to hear him say it like that so there is no beating around the bush. Im scared that i don't know enough. I just need to alow myself to make more mistakes so i can learn from it.
I would also suggest, that you really go into reading and informing yourself about how life works. 1 year ago, i literally squandared through life and had no real idea about me or how things are. Just because i met a Girl, that was close to my Ideal and it didnt work out, i started to think. I went from asking myself what i did wrong and if im not good enough to understanding how some things work, what mistakes i did and really think that i found a path in my life that i can go.
respect to him for this, he reminds me of my dad. I remember whenever I would achieve something my mother would sing endless praises for me, but my father wouldn't say anything. He'd just ask me "what are you gonna do next". On the other hand, whenever I would fail in life my mother would scream and yell at me, but my father, with the same blank expression and tone of voice, would ask me "what are you going to do next". This kind of stoicism and blunt honesty is what creates real winners, it hurts at first but in the end youll be glad
Don't sell yourself short... no pun intended lol. But seriously I bet you have a great character and a beautiful soul. And if people dont see it oh well their loss. Be amazing.
I worked in construction for a couple of years. One thing I appreciated was the fact my boss treated me no different from any of the guys on the team. I knew he wasn’t being malicious when he yelled at us. At the same time he knew some of my limitations, but he pushed me to do better in the things I could do. I still remember and hold that close to me years later. He helped me to realize I can push myself to the limit to get stuff done.
“You can’t be short & fat, 2 strikes you gotta *pick a struggle.”* “Why does ur opinion matter?!?” Kevin really taking no prisoners. This man crucified buddy and then was ready for round 2 when the other dude had something to say🤣💀💀
That point he made asking the first dude "what's interesting about you?" is huge... I haven't had the most adventurous and exciting life, but one interesting thing I do on the side is play the accordion in a local gypsy-punk band... you wouldn't believe how many dates that line has gotten me...
Gypsy-punk? That’s really cool I agree that this makes you interesting. Many women love a man who can play an instrument, sing, and a man who can appreciate the culture surrounding music. 🖤
As hard as advice like this is to hear, a good balance of kindness and honesty is how to get through to people. Maybe this is a bit too far into the honesty side, but it sure is better than being overly kind :)
I think what we have to understand is in a week maybe he has 40+ calls. If he tries to sugar coat it takes longer or people start arguing ("I wouldn't say I'm fat but maybe I could work out a little more), but this blunt method cuts through the shit quicker so he moves onto the next caller
@@davidgogginsburner3369 Oh, I'm not harshing on him. I just mean with people in general, that's the best kind of advice. I think what he's doing is the right thing for the job he has. I mean, these people seek out for him, right? They should expect harsher results.
I am simply convinced that honest people, and people who say it as is are labeled aggressive and rude. I'm not for Kevin either but he keeps it a buck on everyone bill.
I'm brutally honest and I agree, when ever I'm brutally honest to someone they think I'm super mean and they come for my neck and tell me irrational insults
I think it’s all in the delivery. Because two people can both tell the truth, the honest truth with no sugarcoating, but it’s all in the tone and delivery. You don’t have to placate someone’s ego but if you come at them with kindness then they might take it easier. They still may not like it but it wasn’t sucker punched at them. Just my thoughts.
"Were reacting to us reacting to kevin reacting to kevin reacting to the dude calling in" - FJuly (Reactinception)
Full live discussion we had with him. th-cam.com/video/6HoPmxn6ku0/w-d-xo.html
Okay
Keep up the great work gentlemen.
Thank god for this men are really f up out here it's probably why there so many m£#ers happening
You brothers are geniuses. I wish you had a movie!
Aii
Every guy needs someone to be this honest to them at least once.
yes
Fact
Like a good dad does.
Big facts, it might hurt but it’s absolutely necessary
@@Boss-ir3nm If you can't take constructive criticism then you are a slave to your desires. A good example is, before I embraced Islam, I was a hardcore gambler, blew bags on gambling, my life was deteriorating till I met up with an old friend of mine who sat me down and lectured me hours mate, I stopped gambling, turned my life around, and on a trip to Morocco, I got curious about the meaning of life, that curiosity leading to do research and stuff, resulting to a full turn around. I agree with you at some point, it hurt to be criticized, but being able to see things from different perspective usually leads to change in behaviour.
A cold hearted truth is much better than a sugar coated lie by sycophant.
Yeah....were all tired of Derrick Jaxn.
Yh...i actually love how honest he is. If more people like this the world would be a better place
Yeah untill we get a feed back that the short broke dude ended his own life lol there has to be a balance nothing on the extreme works
@@jaywheely7672 Is that true? If so... it’s not his fault. He just couldn’t handle the brutal honest truth. Sad but true
Biologically and psychologically we need someone to be brutally honest with us. Just to be blunt with it. This is something my girlfriend didn't have so when someone does that she feels attacked and that's how her countenance is for the whole day. It got to the point where if someone said something that she didn't agree with she becomes confrontational.
"I'm working out"
"You're not working out, you're fat"
"That's true"
This took my soul straight out my body.
@Margret kayla Ania So you're back again with the racist comments I see.
@Margret kayla Ania ok but what race was the majority to work on ‘da plantation’
@Margret kayla Ania asshole
💀😂💀😩 I replayed that part 10x
@Margret kayla Ania hey margret kayla ania
RIP Mr. Samuels. You left us too soon but you helped change many and your legacy will live on. You had something to say and many listened so CONGRATS on making a difference in this world.
that man is 34 years old still worrying about not going to his high school prom
Oof
I know, right? It's awful that he hasn't overcome his past like that but I have hope for him. And after getting some honesty thrown his way, I'm sure he will be alright!
Love your profile pic
That part!!!
Promise so overrated
He literally just telling people not to have expectations and standards that you can’t hold yourself up to and there’s nothing wrong with that
Exactly there's nothing wrong with that we are teaching our society to have unrealistic standards. I think the problem is Nice Guys/smips gave women the idea to be entitled and to have high standards. I know cuz I used to be that guy I used to sing nice things because I thought how you get women. One day a woman it takes more than that I have to be myself that has to be one of the greatest breakthrough I have. I feel better women lose it when I told I'm not voting against Trump I'm not voting at all. Neither presidential candidate don't reach my standard.
But our truths is NOT The Truth , The True Way , His Truth .
@@itsabe90 people like you are why we have a president with dementia.... Who is a complete and utter racist..... Everyone should vote or a president who wants to take away all our rights will come.... "Cough" joe biden "cough"
@@darthbane418 don't blame him, blame the stupid system for not accounting for non voters. Saying no to both candidate should be a legitimate choice
@@darthbane418 they are both terrible so I’d rather not can’t look at Biden and think oh he’s the lesser evil so I’ll just go with him, hell no they’re both terrible.
Man... you can't help being short, but there's no damn reason to be walking around out here as a fat man. At 5'5 the least you can do is turn that 5'5 frame into a machine. Become a dangerous man. As a man, confidence instantly comes from becoming competent. I'm so happy Kevin is encouraging these men to get into Martial Arts too. Foreal man.
Totally agree with being competent, it really boosts your confidence
Doesn't help that much, I knew a jacked 5'3" guy who could have probably have kicked my taller ass, but girls actively put him down despite him having all the traits a woman could want other than height and an exceptional face. Unfortunately that made him insecure especially around taller guys and he just didn't have a chance even with girls shorter than him.
Coming from the USMC, you see way more monsters among the short guys than the tall ones. Some of that's just physiology (short limbs = less stress on joints and stuff = easier to get jacked without breaking yourself), but I'd say better than two-thirds of it is just a difference of attitude and motivation.
If everyone could be ripped, no one would be fat.
@@c.cullum5526 I can't call that accurate. Everyone can wash they ass, how many out here stinkin?
When I was a teen and was being a brat, after a punishment, my dad said:
"I'm tough on you because the world is hard on us men. I am pointing out your mistakes so you can learn from them, so you can grow. Because as a man you don't have as much time as you think. The world doesn't point out your mistakes and gives you a chance to learn and grow. Out there, there are no second chances. Everything the world values in a man takes time, discipline, and commitment to achieve. When you leave my house to take on the world I don't expect you to be a fully grown man but I expect you to be able to admit your mistakes and learn from them".
With hindsight, I really appreciate that I had two parents. Both my parents were amazing but for a boy having a father guide you is priceless. I didn't appreciate it then, like most teens, but my father's lessons were all true. Kevin is much like a father figure. He delivers hard lessons, and hard truths and he expects you to take action. Complaining is easy. Everyone knows how to complain. But to do something, to take responsibility for your own failure, that is what separates the men from the boys.
This is what true male honesty looks like. Straightforward, genuine, raw, and unapologetic. People can't handle this because society teaches us that this way of communication is inappropriate. I disagree. I think in many situations speaking like this is exactly what you need to hear.
Excatly u said it perfectly
@Margret kayla Ania wait what
@Margret kayla Ania a racist woman??? Uhmmm based? R u single?
@Margret kayla Ania I hope this was just a bad fucking joke. You gonna get slammed nonetheless. Better delete or clarify what you said 🤭
@Margret kayla Ania Rephrase this shit
Kevin was originally doing this critique on men. Then women poked their heads in and wanted to be a part of it and now are triggered because they are getting what they asked for.
Amen
Literally cause I didn’t hear about him till he went viral for telling that lady how average she was. But he’s very insightful and I can respect his views even if they don’t fully align with my own.
100% facts lol
More comment for the algorithm
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The military did this for me and many other young men. Look past the delivery, look past your feelings, absorb the message and thrive.
I love the personality of both of you guys and you spoke true Kevin tells a lot of Truth to but if you believe in your dream and you go out to it the sky's the limit even for a short guy one of my grandson is five three 24 years old married college-educated has two kids building his first real home, the specification of his liken and it's exceptionally nice....Bro go after your dream, go after your queen I see a lot of tall women with short men
A six figure salary would be nice but it's not happening for the majority and they married people that equal or better and they make life happen...
@@vivianleach1686 Congrats on your grandson's success. I genuinely believe what Kevin says is said in good faith, vast majority of the time. Yes, the brutal honesty is his brand- he wasn't always what he is today. He changed his approach and his popularity soared.
That said, a lot of young men can and need to maximize their potential. It's about becoming the best version of yourself. Like you mentioned, not everyone is going to make six figures a year, but we can definitely make decisions today that will have a direct impact on our lives decades from now.
This is why I’m so glad I’m joining the military shipping out this summer. I’m 22 so lost with my self identity and more confidence within. I’m positive the military will shape me into a better man.
@@JudeDude409 Glad to hear, it'll help. You'll discover a lot about yourself- both positive and negative. Good luck!
Well put sir! And thank you for your service to our great country 🇺🇸!
Kevin Samuels isnt the hero we want, but the hero we need, a Dark Knight.
I love this!
STUPID! We all need God. He's the only hero.
@@AdamAntMillions are u done?
@@JamesJohnson52990 🤣🤣
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He says the truth, women think he only roasts them. He’s even worse on the men 😂
Absolutely. He comes for everyone and I personally love it
He keeps that same energy with everyone he encounters
@@Alvin-xs7db but yeah your right some of those women in those conversations he has are always trying to start an argument
@@ctg5679 and some of those woman troll him as well😂😂😂😂.. I saw lots of it, and idk if he knew that they troll hime, but it was entertaining to watch
He’s brutally honest with everyone. People just can’t handle the truth. I’ve seen some videos where he took it easy on some women and showed a somewhat softer side.
More men need to hear this type of stuff. Too many of them complaining about women offering nothing of value when they themselves have no money, no personality, and aren't in any semblance of shape.
Yep, you got it. It's a bit of harsh truth we need to hear. I was lucky enough to have a woman tell me as it is when I was in my early 20s and it really helped me sort my shit out.
Tbh I feel like this is all men have heard for the past 20 yrs. The rise in gender war has stemmed from feminism and the lack of accountability women have for their own actions. There is no shortage of man shaming, the shortage is constructive criticism of the modern day narcissist woman.
@@kgyeatman3569 Like I said in another comment, those women that don't have accountability - life ends up punching them in the gut more often than not. Men leave them, or they stay single into their late 30s. Pride always comes before the fall. All successful people, men and women, are able to self reflect and make improvements to themselves.
Many of these types of men want a return to the past where they assume they will be more attractive and get dates. The truth is they still going to be rejected and ignored. The reason you don't hear about guys dying alone or not getting married was because it was never reported and really you were never really important enough to care about to report.
@Hordy Jones a genuine question, who are the blue colar men? I am not being sarcastic I genuinely don't know
He reminds me of my best friend (male). Straight to the point, no nonsense and you can tell that he doesn't have bad intentions. This is the type of people that help you get your shit together.
I'm usually not a fan of the tough love type people usually. Just because you're honest doesn't mean imma let you talk shit and be a dickhead. I have to be in the right headspace to want some harsh truths.
@@SuperMurray2009 seems like a you problem...
@@assassin9763 agreed
@@assassin9763 Yeah I do. I have a problem with people who think just because you are honest that allows you to be an asswipe. Literally just mentioned that. Seems like you have a problem with my problem.
Yes! and I'm a female who actually appreciates honesty.
As a woman , I learned a lot from Kevin…RIP
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God bless you we need more woman like you ❤
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Kevin Samuels is basically how I talk to myself. I don't bullshit myself whenever I know I'm messing up and need to fix up
That's the Ironic thing most are brutally honest with themselves likes this. The blunt honest cold truth is always with you no one needs to tell you that you know it for yourself. When you lie to you and try to escape the reality of it it what causes problems it's a balance of where you are what you are and then what can you do about it.
Word
Straight up!
Andrew, if you talk to yourself that way, you need some type therapy or GOD. KS does Not give Loving or constructive criticism.
@@spktruth2stupid300 well, maybe I'm not as brutal as he is, but I'm very honest and straightforward with myself. I've learned to be nicer to myself over the years.
"What's your height?"
"How much do you weigh?"
"Where's your father?"
Kevin Samuels not afraid to bring you down back to reality!
KS: _GET OVER HERE. . .back to reality_
Women: Height. Weight. Dress size.
Men: Height. Weight. Where is your father.
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Don't forget single moms status that brings down quite no of points down in the SMV scale.
Because you need to find the problem before you fix it
People attack him for asking for dick sizes when we all know that matters to women lol
Derrick Jaxn: “I’m a simp and I’m a cheater.”
*TWO STRIKES*
My guy🤣🤣🤣
That took me out 😆
This should be pinned under: *Pin of Pettiness*
And I'm all about that! 🤣
Derrick Jaxn is not a simp.
We call that an oxymoron pun intended 😜
I'm SERIOUSLY glad that you guys posted this! I'm a therapist and a couple of my male friends have bombarded me with Kevin's videos to substantiate their experiences. A few I've had to explain that they don't fit into the category of men Kevin is referring to and that some of their own traits (mentioned in this video!) are what's keeping them out of the real running. I don't usually disagree with what Kevin says, but I have felt that some people (women in the past) wouldn't hear any of the takeaways because it would get lost in the delivery. It's great to know that he's an equal opportunity offender! LOL j/k, but this definitely provides a bigger picture to his approach. I WILL be sending this link to the gents that need to hear some of this, too.
Also, he is 1,000% RIGHT about taking up martial arts or boxing! Activities where you can make MEASURABLE PROGRESS will prove your COMPETENCE to learn and grow and increase CONFIDENCE! I grew up as a competitive and then professional dancer with a high GPA throughout so that was established for me, but there are still times when I have to find a challenge to exercise, expand, and continue to develop my competence now. If you didn't get affirmations from the people in your life as a child, then SURROUND YOURSELF with positive, reinforcing role models/coaches/mentors/SENSEIs now! YOU and the man/woman you want in your life will thank you for it!
I disagree. Kevin was as much of a destroyer as he was a builder. Kevin is the one that single handedly help me to decide to date white men. I give him credit for that.
@@GK-ku3zv 🤣
@@GK-ku3zva black man that doesnt even bind to any racial comments/ideology made you single handly date 7:53 another race? Are you trolling or mentally unstable?
“What are you doing about it?”
“Working out”
“No you ain’t working out, you’re fat”
“That’s true..”
haha this had me dying
The cringe was unreal
This had me hollering 🤣
I thought this was an odd thing for him to say. I used to be much heavier, I started exercising regularly and trying to eat better and learn more about nutrition and health and fitness. I've lost about 50 lbs. Someone can be "working on it" and be exercising and still be fat because it takes time for the changes to occur.
@@mikean7074 Totally agree. Losing the pounds isn't instantaneous. So telling him he's not working out is a bit disingenuous.
Just watched this today. He's just a blunt man. Male or female. He's not a woman hater. Just doesn't waste time getting to the point
@starving artist Nah hes just gives un sugar coated real advice to people. In the past he focused on men now hes focusing on women and ofc women nowadays don't like things that arent sugarcoated so they make it seem like hes a woman hater but hes really keeps the same energy with everyone.
@@cainmagnetic9796 huge facts
@starving artist Women put themselves in that situation by not sticking to the point and getting offended by the truth.
Period.
@@cainmagnetic9796 he should get an Emmy or Oscar award if you ask me.
I grew up around a Dad that talks like this and my brother is extremely similar to him. I'm used to this. If I didn't grow up in this environment, I probably would not understand that this is a form of love. It does not mean they won't show you a softer side. They just want you to wake up first before they do.
You are so lucky your dad was like this, it’s what our society lacks. You will go through life with a tough skin, and not be a punk.
Yup that tough love is foreign to so many people!
Being blunt doesn’t always translate well. If you understood that then cool but I’ve seen countless people rebel when communicated to in a blunt way.
@@Iamahumanehuman yes, but those people don't want to hear the truth. They want you to make it sound as sweet as possible, but don't tell them what is wrong with the assessment and/or don't say anything at all.
I sometimes asked my Dad to expand on his point when I didn't immediately get what he was telling me so I would understand him better. When he did, it made sense. He even sounded more gentle and he appreciated that I was really listening and trying to understand him to even ask. Because what I have discovered with blunt men is that people don't want to understand them, just write them off as rude. Most are genuinely not. Just like some guys that speak sweet words are not good people just because they tell you what you want to hear.
Correction is love
Moral of the story: don’t ask for advice when you know what the problem is. Cause you ain’t gettin sympathy, specially from that dude lol
Or if you’re not open to receive the answer.
Martial arts doesn’t teach you about life. It teaches you about yourself. It also helps you grow as a person. You are overconfident, it will humble you. You have no self confidence, you will get some. It also teaches you to be a team player and cheer on you fellow classmates.
BAM 100%
Yessir
Couldn’t agree more. And the best thing is it doesn’t really matter how early or late you get into it. There’s people who start learning martial arts in their 20’s and 30’s and they turn out to be really good at that sport/martial art. I started at 16 and over the course of 2 years my confidence is better, I feel more secure about my identity, it makes me wanna get out of bed in the morning. It’s just a great way to boost your mental and physical health and it teaches a lot of great lessons for life
And it also teaches you Wu Tang Clan ain't nothing to fuck with!
Still will get your ass beat.😂😂😂😂 go in there humble from jump street.
As Mike Tyson said: 'You can't beat a man that won't quit'.
Well said.
@Rose Roberson what does not bend, breaks
@Rose Roberson f.e. what?
@Rose Roberson actually yes always there’s a point of force at which any material steel rock or diamonds will bend or break
The Taliban took this to heart.
Kevin really said "why would she want your genes" roasted that dude on an existencial level
Yeah even if kevin thought so why even say that from what I've heard there's someone out there for everyone and Kevin talking down on little guy was uncalled for tbh I see 👀 your getting a lot of laughs n giggles out of audience if that was your intended aim good for you huh 👍
@@bmoresweetz7023 lmaoo you said all that only to call him “little guy” 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@bmoresweetz7023 sometimes people need to hear the truth. This might be the first time in that guys’ entire life that he’s heard honesty. The statement “what do I bring to the table to entice and bring in a quality mate?” needs to be answered on a personal level by all of us. Men AND women. Would I date me if I was an attractive female? I bet his answer is no. He wouldn’t date a man like himself if things were reversed. So why would a woman? That’s not mean. That’s honesty.
I saw that video on Instagram... He even ask the guy straight up if he has a big d*ck! Lmao!😂😂😂😂 He ask that with a monotonous voice... The way he says those savage questions and how blunt he is, is what makes me laugh lmao!😂😂😂😂
But that part is not his fault, he can be fat and lazy, and fix that, if he works everything will still have the same genetics and maybe a wife who will use his money and house to raise the son of a personal trainer, this is why DNA tests should be made always at the birth; This is easy to happen because women are allowed to defraud men and still get prizes.
I'm a 5'5" man and everything Kevin said is true. My height was a huge personnal issue for a long time. I took the time to build my character, find some hobbies and build a confidence. Never been happier. So if you are offended by what the man said, take a step back and look at yourself in the mirror cause you're the only one who will help you. This won't be done overnight, it takes time and it worth it.
So true. I'm 5'4" and ate $hit grew up because I was short. I had to level up my game big time to get any respect. Still have to fight for it cause so many people judge a man's value on his height.
Height truly does not matter, what matters is confidence and charm. Some of the men i've been most obsessed with and attracted to have pratically been my height, but their personality has been so great that you just dont give a crap
@@elisabet1138 Height really matters especially when it comes to dating
@@Dhuxul9 That’s true. Many girls says that I’m short. My fiancé direct give a crap about what I have and don’t have but at the same time, you are right.
Same for women that are too tall. Good character and confidence in oneself is a huge plus for anyone to adapt no matter what you look like.
“Uh.. Working out?”
“Stop the CAP.”
“Yea you right, sorry.”
😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
😭😭😭
I feel he took better eventhough he got angry but I think that was just he felt he was being attacked but I feel he took it better than the women be
@@bizor22 For real! Good on him though. It’s that type of humiliation that changes people for the better.
Usually.
"You got 2 struggles already, short and fat." Fellas, being fit elevates your status and your confidence even if you're broke.
Very true.
no it doesn't. You're just able to have fitted clothes, and not be out of breath catching the bus or going up the stairs. Been there, shit's a lotta work (especially when you're mostly doing it by yourself).
@@izzylandyt Without a doubt it does, being in shape does way more than that. The journey may be painful but after two months of grinding you really start to feel a difference in your mood and energy. Those are two very important things. Even if you feel like you’re ugly face wise, you can’t help but feel proud when you look in the mirror.
I know alot of guys that are fit n depressed see em everyday some even commit suicide
@@ej13012010 No one is saying being fit cures depression. Though it has been scientifically proven to help. Unless there’s an eating disorder or body dysmorphia, doing exercise (whether working out, doing sports, etc.) is psychologically healthy and increases serotonin and dopamine productions (which are basically your happy hormones).
People can't seem to remember that he's an image consultant. He judges image. And, he's way nicer than if you were to show up at a modeling agency.
👍
Can vouch for the modeling agency dem mfs ruthless
I have been to modelling agencies with my sister and never got cussed out. That’s because I wasn’t applying for the job. They aren’t going to be ruthless with you, that would just be a waste of their time. They just tell you “you’re not what we are looking for” etc
The thing is will they say that stuff to a person face depending on who it is. If they know the person is soft they more than likely will but bet you they will not say that stuff to any type person
@@badafrican8035 dub you weren't applying. And modelling agencies are notoriously ruthless so your anecdote literally means nothing
Half the time I cant even bring myself to tell the Starbucks barista she made my drink wrong. I cant imagine having a living where I tell people they are short and fat and not worthy of passing on their genes 😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣
I just don't want nobody putting shit in my order
I honestly feel that surely this guy must have known he needs to make some serious changes, as you could tell he wasn’t happy in life, was he hoping Kevin would baby him?
Glad I’ve got self awareness, I know when I need to make changes regarding career or health, and I know when it’s time to cut people off too, I just hope the guy didn’t give up
@@jc_80 two things.
1. He was hoping for enlightenment
2. He was expecting inspiration
3. He didn't get either, he's a lonely frontier.
At least I hope that's what was going on
This whole things a joke, I don't know how much I could resonate but I'm here so there's something.
Women do that in everyday laugh with their actions
I'm short and a truck driver, we're known to get fat. When people try to get me off course on dieting or staying busy I've told them for years I will NOT be short AND fat if I can help it. Some guys need to hear this. Conversely, if I'm busting my ass to stay in shape I have no problem feeling justified in expecting the same out of a woman that wants a serious commitment from me. 💯💪🏾
MAB!!! What up!
@Brown Sugabay Can't have it all lol it's a lot of broke guys who are in decent shape :)
I know a lot of short skinny dudes who like big girls, depends on the person.
@@lauralivingherlife860 there is such a thing as a “chubby chaser.” Short men are usually ostracized from the pick of the liter so we have to choose the bottom of the barrel.
@Brown Sugabay 5'5"
“How old are you? 20. What makes you think your opinion matters?” 😂
He was shot down with precision and speed.
😂😂
“What makes you think your opinion matters?”
“I owned a small business in Syria until ISIS came and killed my wife and children”
“...I knew you had an excuse”
@@jlupus8804 did you fight back and take revenge for your family or did you flee like most of the cowardly men in that country.
Like honestly, age tells experience and value, sure. But he was not wrong that everyone's opinion matters. Some people's opinions just matter more.
@@madyconn everyone's opinion doesn't matter. Not everyone has an experience to talk about every issue. 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
I use to work for a major talent agency. I worked under a very tough talent manager as his assistant. People thought he was EVIL because he was so blunt in crushing the hopes of people applying to be in the business. After seeing thousands of wanna be musicians and actors, I understood why he was so blunt. So many of these people have been enabled by their friends and family that will NOT tell them they have no talent. they feed into their delusions. Our industry is full of people that keep trying to succeed and end up doing drugs or suicide, or wasting their entire lives. My manager would tell them bluntly what they would need to do to succeed or if they just don't even have the basics talent. Yes they will get angry, or cry, but he just saved them years of their life being miserable. They can now continue your life and pursue a life that will succeed.
But you going need that person in life to tell you it is
Do you still have their contact, I’m an artist and I would like to know if he thinks I have talent. I like getting other peoples perspective on my art so it would be helpful.
@@Eg0sol you can usually go to an open casting call at a talent agency near you
you should see the advertising industry. kids are graduating from universities or colleges thinking they're the next cannes winner when all they've learned is how to critique, not how to create. liberal arts schools and profs take their money, give them A grades for talking about other peoples work, hand them a piece of paper at the end and watch as they walk away thinking they're the next sagmeister.
then these idiots enter the industry and it's incredible how little they know after 4 years of supposed education. i've seen designers who don't even know how to package working files but strut around acting as if they're better than anyone else. i've seen copywriters who can't do audience research, let along write a good line. i've seen junior art directors who don't see anything wrong putting purple text on blue background. social media "experts" who can't do anything else but post memes.
- Why Blue Face famous then 🤔?!
I'm a woman, and this guy reminds me of my family. Whenever I gain weight, everyone roasts me, but they always did, so I'm pretty desensitized to their comments. They're so blunt, I feel many of my Western acquaintances would be majorly rattled. The thought always amuses me.
More seriously, I don't know if bluntness works for everyone. What makes some people tougher breaks others. I don't know if there's a cure-all.
That's true. It's cool that you can take it, but some people are just naturally more sensitive. They can't really help it, no matter how much anyone would try to change them, it wouldn't really work out. It's not necessarily a disadvantage either, it's just how they are. The same is also true the other way around. There isn't one single way of how to treat/raise someone, life is too complex for that.
@@lo4568 yeah I used to be extremely sensitive as a child, but my upbringing fixed that. Should people be less sensitive? I think so. Definitely makes one's life easier not to get easily upset. As with most things, I feel there's a healthy equilibrium to be found with sensitivity, and it's slightly on the insensitive side. But I agree there are people who won't toughen up and will just break instead. And I don't know if there's a way to tell until it's done, which is why it's a tricky thing.
Exactly thats why they saw only a few can handle this or that and so on. That just goes to show that most people are sensitive. It is literally natural so yeah one should be careful on the wording of things depending on the person they are talking to
Honestly to maintain a good weight 80% is how you eat / drink . Cut fast food out & soda an exercise for literally 7 min a day do this for a month only an you’ll be in shape or on your way to be dep how heavy you were but I swear don’t need to workout for an hour or anything literally just do 20-30 push up s maybe throw the 10lb weights around for 5 min an than maybe just a little walk around the block seriously don’t need to do anything crazy I think ppl forget this / spend more time putting there stretchy work out clothes on lol I work out in my pjas for literally 15 min before I shower and I’m in great shape
Mine too, we will call each other FAT not thick. As a result I try to control my weight. 🤣
It definitely sucks having to hear the full on cold and blunt truth about yourself but sometimes that reality check is what you need to get the ball rolling. I can say that I very rarely see people truly get on their grind when receiving soft and gentle words compared to the cold, hard truth.
As a martial artist and active fighter I totally agree with what is being said. "People are not born humble, they are born to be humbled" Mike Tyson.
You are dominant
Couldn’t agree more, getting your ass kicked humbles you real fucking quick 😂
That is how my parents or most people in Nigeria talk. I can take it, but my partner that isn't Nigerian gets offended.
Broooo😂😂 you didn't lie
im eastern european and i agree bro my family don't play that nice shit they tell it straight up and a lot of my american friends are baffled or dont get that. It's so funny to hear but explains why there is such a pussy culture here.
@@nuttyjunior I've worked on a team with a couple of eastern Europeans and I can say that they were unfiltered in their delivery of criticisms lmao......
Heyyyy... A fellow Nigerian.
Omo... Too many softies in the west.
People will tell you stuff to your face over here
@@nuttyjunior lol you must of not been to an American Ghetto yet go to some of those places if you want to see something blunt and up front 😂
I've heard it said, "your mother keeps you alive and your father prepares you for life". So many of us are growing up without a strong father that will give objective guidance like this. Everyone, especially young men, needs someone in their formative years who speak the harsh truth like KS does. It is a cold world; you can put on a sweater or you can freeze to death.
Well said. My father used to say that nurturing is useless on a boy after the age of seven. I agree, now that I am old enough to have seen numerous women raise a boy of their own. An infant needs nurturing because it cannot survive on its own. Continuing to nurture a boy teaches them to be reliant on others. Many women view "man training" as cruel because they are more concerned about their son's feelings, than his functionality. They find themselves stuck in mothering their sons well into adulthood because they finally realize how much they have stagnated his personal development, and feel responsible for his shortcomings. I'm not saying that mothers are the villains. They are only doing what is in their nature. What I am saying is without the counterbalance of a male presence in their household, the mother's nature of nurturing creates an imbalance in the boy's development.
"your mother keeps you alive and your father prepares you for life".
In my Hispanic household... both parents keep you alive and prepared.
Your father's supposed to give your u the tools the deal with said freezing environment.
Except the only tools present in the modern scene are the ones that decided to have children and subject them to this level of lagging behind.
Nah, my father beat my ass and sat on his ass. My mom prepared me for life in the real world. I have the most respect for women because of it.
That last statement. Well said.
The truth is everyone has desirable qualities in a partner. The problem is too many men and women expect to have their ideal forgetting that they may not be their ideal partner's ideal. People just either have to be realistic, lower their standard, or try and change to be in a position where they can get what they want. No one owes anyone anything.
Too true, if you can't be arsed to put the work in to reach the standards of your desired partner, then you gotta lower your standards. If you don't want to do that, then you're gonna be single for a long time coming
Well put.
A word! I think if a woman or man goes to Kevin for advice, they know who he is and what they have signed up for. He is not going to play nice. The people unfamiliar with his "coaching" style are the ones freaking out.
@Jamilah Toenailkilla Who the fuck are these obese dudes wanting models? My dude at this point guys are struggling to get baby momas at least. The fuck they gotta do with model?
my high standards fall in the emotional category. Physically, I want somebody that has a face I could wake up in the morning to. In that regard, plenty of women qualify. But emotionally, only one.
He isn’t likable, but he is honest. You guys did a good job showing that with no context he looks anti-woman, but he is actually that same way with men.
He's anti black women. The videos are on TH-cam if you look for them
I don't like him, I love him. This man has actually helped people.
@terrell ivey I literally posted a video with him saying black women are the most unattractive women in the world. You don't have to watch it or listen to him say it, because it doesn't matter to you. Kevin Samuels could literally call all black women whores and it wouldn't matter to his viewers. That's a fact.
@@thepoorblackman your name fits you smh.. he is not anti-black woman! If anything he is pro-black woman. He is a consultant. And deals with facts.
@@thelightworker01 if you have internalized misogyny, I'm sure it seems like he likes black women lmao.
Dating for men is like a job interview. Dating for women is like shopping.
True Story
I had to screenshot that one
I agree with you
Sad but true
Depends...once your a high man....not many women can afford you....on a permanent basis.
When it comes to men talking to men. There is no too honest. Feelings don't apply when men talk honesty
Tell the truth to a man = "That dude is a loser who needed to hear it."
Tell the truth to a vvoman = "How could you say that??? What about her feelings? Why are you so harsh? You must hate all vvomen!"
Facts women love to give it but hate when it’s reciprocated
Unlike modern women, modern men are taught to take their Ls
@@imanigordon6803 Everyone is like that now, lots of men who are just as sensitive
@@AK-74K Single mothers make their sons into b!tches.
You forgot the one all men can see coming miles away when you call out a woman on her bs or don't break frame. It's the "Who hurt you?" nugget.
An example:
I'm bald and I knew I was losing hair as early as 24 AND I was fat.
Decided to hit the gym. 6 years later, I'm jacked with a beard. Nobody can even picture me with the hair because it doesn't define me.
No struggles with women either.
Yeah being bald does now🥱
?@@kamalnewson1625
Can't have struggles with women if they're not around ;)
@@husseinmohamud6506 i post some decent advice and i’m 17 as well, if you got time check it out
I am 36 and losin my hair... thank you for your comment, it definitely helps me a lot!
Kevin Samuals actually tells men to not be sitting home with Mama and not being lazy ... he actually blames men not wanting to do any working on themselves
wouldn't be smart to stay with your mom so you can avoid extra college fees and other things but still work, invest your money and build up your wealth. Y does society look down on that? that is what I am going to do and I think that is smart.
Who needs another man to "coach them", this is insanity?
@@kadirstan4333 Living at home until you're done with college is one thing.
After that? You need to accept that it's going to put a crimp in your dating life. And you definitely don't want to be doing it after age 30.
@@muskegontribune Most men need another man to coach them about life. Most men had fathers for this until more recently. But many men no longer have that resource due to single-parent homes. So men like Samuels and Jordan Peterson are filling that role.
@@rationalthought9979 Lol. I hear you. If another man is "filling that role" for a grown man, that means that "grown man" is still in a boy state of mind. Save yourself. You don't need an Advice Pimp. Besides, he calling people broke, but his business is youtube. What successful business has he run?
Gottdang! Shout out to Kevin for keeping it 100 across the board.
People clearly have not seen that he has been working on guys for three years. Now the girls get three years...LOL If he was not interested in male excellence he would not have his own group etc that he helps men from. With the guys he holds nothing back. They think he is harsh to women...lol To be fair the guy took it like a champ though.
As a young man I wish I had a older male figure to tell me the truth straight like that. I would be in a much better position now however over the Internet I have been able to realise where I'm going wrong and there's still time for me to change my ways. I'm honestly grateful that people like Kevin are here they are very needed. The truth hurts but I'd rather the raw honest truth than a soft unhelpful lie.
Kevin Is actually more harsh towards men when it comes to brutal honesty lol
The problem is women are used to or damn near never been harshly criticized. Especially in today’s world. That’s why it comes off straight forward to men and disrespectful, bashful and etc etc dumb shit with women
@@blackreign351 I honestly can agree. It’ll get quickly mislabeled as misogynistic even when women are COMING to him for HIS OPINION and feel a way that it doesn’t coddle their beliefs. It’s his own. If you don’t like it or won’t respect it don’t ask for it.
He expects more from men so he gonna be more harsh
Kevin is not more harsh. This is what the truth looks like. Zero "well I feel this" involved.
@@blackreign351 Not in today's world, it's always been like that with women. Now men are becoming like this too, but men gotta be better than that and roll with the punches
I feel like he’s the definition of “I’ll personally reach across the isle and bitch slap you as equals”. Don’t care who you are, he gonna give it to ya straight and blunt with no sugar coating
@energizedbones by the eagle, of the eagle, for the eagle, eagle
@energizedbones 🤣😂🤣😂
Just unlocked a memory of erb😂😂
I disagree. I think if someone acted like Kevin Samuels to Kevin Samuels himself, he wouldn't be able to take it.
@@_VISION. - I was thinking the same thing 🤣🤦♂️!
Back here to remember Kevin Samuels giving out much needed TOUGH LOVE. You will be Missed R.I.P 👑💪🏿💪🏿
The real fans know he doesn't attack anyone , the haters and the ones who run from the truth try to create that narrative
The haters are the ones who can’t face the truth when it’s in front of their faces. This dude is 💯
I wouldn't necessarily say that if I'm being honest. I didn't know this guy until I've seen him in that Video with Aba and Preach. Just because you dislike a certain way of what people are doing or disagree with how they do stuff doesn't make them a hater. By saying stuff like "the real fans" and "the haters" is so stupid.
I agree that this guy is just honest and doesn't attack the people he speaks to but that doesn't mean everyone who disagrees or whatever is automatically a hater.
Truth. I even prefer my friends this way, normalize telling people what they need to hear not what they want to hear
@@VenoXj1 One of the reasons people may go to that phrasing is because often times people who watch his videos watch enough to hate on him. Its fairly easy to see in some of the responses he gets comes from a place of not listening to him, but reacting to him. Sometimes you can see it in his guests too. Its easy for a lot of people to have an immediate negative reaction to him because reality is the most brutal mistress, and I've never seen Kevin come from a place where she is not present. xD
👏🏾👌🏾🙆🏾♀️
Like Biggie said "I'm ugly as ever, however" Guys get yourself a however! You short: get a fire body, get your money up!
Stay Coogi down to the socks
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He was a millionaire tho.
@@bettyjones6240 Not when he said that. He was just a fly confident kid.
@@bettyjones6240 He got girls before he was.
BIG had height tho
Brutal honesty. Is what a lot of people need either they take it into consideration or take it to heart 🤷🏾♀️
I started boxing at a really young age. I stopped around 12 because I just didn’t want to spend all my time in the gym anymore. I started rebelling and I lost my way and fucked everything up. I got back in the gym at 23 and I found myself again. It took a few years to get to a point where I wasn’t complete garbage. Dudes did not take it easy on me by any means. And I’m sooo grateful for that. I remembered after 2 years of just getting fucked up in spars by guys who had never left the gym the first time I came out on top it was a better feeling than any drug ever. I feel like it’s doing a disservice to “take it easy” on anyone in any part of life. Life is not easy. You needa go hard and give everything you have in everything you do.
Those old videos of Kevin’s critique on men were one of the most difficult video’s I’ve ever listened to. Ironically, they’re also the videos that helped me push out of my comfort zone of mediocrity and improve my quality of life. I appreciate his words of wisdom.
They helped push me too.
Just these clips are making me want to push through honestly. I'm lucky I have a gf right now, but with what he says I feel I need to better myself to make sure I keep my gf😆.
@@feliz2564 This is the difference between most men and most women. A woman would say that she shouldn’t have to do anything to keep a man. But you realize that you have to take care of yourself and be your best self in order to keep your girlfriend.
@G. G. How so? If you don't mind explaining.
@G. G. Make what? You're a tool lmao
My late father was like that. He was blunt and brutally honest. He wld tell us, *"you are only a loser in his eyes if you complain about how much you have failed. How much to overcame is the measurment of success",* emotional, mental discipline was a must.
Four things iI learned from him.
1. Potential means nothing if you dont work hard to make it become reality.
2. Work on yourself first before your complain about the world around you.
3. Your goals for the most part should be achievable.
4. How you think about yourself matters the most. Thats directly linked to how people will react to you.
Lucky to have a dad like that 🙂
@@Bethanyfreespeech yeah mines still grabbing milk...unfunny joke i know
And that's exactly why we need dads like yours, hope you follow in his footsteps
sounds like he was projecting rather than giving proper advice
@@izzylandyt my dad was a lead design engineer for a sugar company. Self made and never gave excuses.
The truth hurts like hell but once the pain passes it will set you free.
Facts
Faxx
You win 🏆 💪🏾
Here is wisdom...
TH-cam algorithms think they slick
right, his death has pulled all of his content up.
Kevin gets straight to the point and doesn’t wanna hear excuses all blunt
He’s tired of hearing all these excuses from all them calls he’s been receiving.
Being blunt and being an asshole (which he can be sometimes) are two different things.
@@MetalsirenIXI the only time I would call someone in asshole is when they’re being needlessly loud or accusative in their critique Kevin to me seems like a dude who just tells it like it is
Blunt, honest truth, is so rare, that when you hear it, a lot of people have a hard time processing it.
And that’s not a joke.
In your free time, leave a comment of constructive criticism on my page on whatever song you like or don't like:
1. Now or Never
2. This Love
3. PVO(positive vibes only)
Thank You in advance
But at the same time it was done from a desire to make a positive impact and not to scorn, since he is telling his flaws and what he must do to overcome his flaws, instead of just dismissing him as hopeless...
But at the same time it was done from a desire to make a positive impact and not to scorn, since he is telling his flaws and what he must do to overcome his flaws, instead of just dismissing him as hopeless...
@@musafawundu6718 , yeah, I’m okay with that. Cant fix problems, until we honestly identify what the problems are. Honest truth is a step in the process of becoming a better person.
Bluntness, is me, 24/7
Complaining emasculates a man. It indicates there is a problem & he is helpless to solve it. It turns him into a weak powerless victim. A man either solves his problems or accepts grace that nothing can be done, and get backs to work.
Put up or shut up, right? Nah, if you can't solve a problem, you don't just put your head down and accept it, you go to someone who can solve the problem. I'm sick to the back teeth of this bullshit attitude that men should be stoic and never complain about anything or they're less of a man, it's total crap. Yes, try to solve your own problems, but if you can't then go get help.
@@michaelleighwilliams8372 true that
@@michaelleighwilliams8372 fax ong
Cant a man talk to someone who can help them or talk to them or Express how there problems are
@@michaelleighwilliams8372 Preach it
What’s so funny is he was waaaay harsher on the men, like if a 20 year woman comes on and respectfully disagrees with him, he’ll school her but be nice. But when it’s a 20 year old guy, even if he’s respectfully disagreeing, it’s ‘your opinion don’t matter’ 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
It's because young women are more valuable than older women while oldmen are more valuable than young men. All our politicians are oldmen, all wise, smart, successful men are oldermen.
@@YouYou-sm8tf Absolutely not true. I have seen a vid of Kevin Tosspot being an absolute ass to a really lovely respectful 22 year old girl who disagreed with him. He was rude, condescending, telling her he was better then her because he is twice her age (ffs!), cut her off when she speaking and shouted over her. He Just embarrassed himself quite frankly. If it had been an older woman she would schooled him like the pathetic little man child he is.
@@kelliejackson3563 says a girl. Lmao. Shut up already! Your opinion don't matter.
Cuz he a bona-fide simp. That's why.
“Never hide or run from your demons, face them head on and slay that dragon!”
damn right
For someone who overthinks, seems like the demons be doin drive bys.
Ah yes, saving your father by fighting the metaphorical post-modernist Dragon of chaos without falling into the trap of order.
@@wavey4068 I swear man! I had to do some real searching to stop myself from overthinking things.
@@urkcin9385 Factsss I got better. Sometimes, things aren't that serious. We tend to magnify the small and trival things and freak out about them.
I’m 23 and I’m pretty successful because I had men like him in my life when I was young. Truth is needed in our society today!
@@masonridgewell8063 I know where you're going with this. 🤣
@Hey Max oh you're sensitive 🤦🏾♂️
@Hey Max you’re not blunt you think your are.., you really sensitive and emotional.
Learn the definition of those words and apply them with context you’ll notice the difference.
@Hey Max honestly seem pretty blunt and wasnt all that rude....your def not blunt
@Hey Max your probably more rude than blunt
"Nobody Cares" about your struggles, what are you doing about them? Exactly. This is what male to male conversations used to be when I grew up, direct, no sugar coating. We need much more of this, and yes it may hurt your feelings.
As a white guy I enjoyed watching Kevin. His words apply to any man and women. Everyone is so sensitive nowdays
My girl is a OS girl. Kevin Samuels is never talking about whites unless he needs us as a point it seems every black manosphere creater only wants to talk about black so i guess i checked out of most channels its suppose to be a manosphere its in the name
In other words you approve of a rude society where everyone just says what comes to mind. Kevin was that kind of person. Thank God that most of us have verbal restraints. Just imagine if none of us had social manners.
@@GK-ku3zv Depends on the society you are living in.
In western society where people think lying is a good thing because you are being nice. A population that rather live in a nice dream rather than facing the reality.
The easiest thing to do in life is to lie to someone else and tell that they doing nothing wrong in life. heck, I do that everyday to people I don't give a crap about.
@@cabbagedestroyer1693 Telling the truth begins with oneself. When you know the truth and you live by that truth then telling the truth comes from a good and honest place. Often times the truth hurt but it does not necessarily have to be expressed in a rude and ugly manner. To be rude to most everyone when giving advice it means that you are a nasty person and may be cynical at best. If you do not care what you say then it is better not to offer any advice at all. Just go about your merry way.
@@GK-ku3zv There is absolutely a big difference between being blunt or cynical. If your intention is purely to hurt another individual then it can be cynical.
However, if someone is overweight and you tell them that "you are overweight. You need to cut down on calories and exercise more." That may be interrupted as rude or offensive to some people. But it is actually helpful advice.
Being "rude" to everyone then it actually means that person is just straight up blunt. Usually cynical people are very targeting and actually treat people differently based on status. A cynical person would treat one fat person better than another depending on how much they could benefit from those said people.
This man deals in harsh realities😂
Watching this channel has made me think so differently about so many different topics. 👍
Same
Shut up woman.
@@annefrank4652 lol u ok
@@marierobles4879 IKR these guys understand and explain such complex topics with such ease. And also don't ridicule any one being. They say the truth only. Which is one reason why I've fallen in love with their channel and now can't stop watching them.
As a man, you have a responsibility to achieve your genetic potential.
If you’re short, dont be short and fat.
If you’re tall, dont be tall and fat.
If you got an ugly face, make sure your body is on point and you get a solid skincare routine.
We all get given a different hand, just do the best you can with what you’re given to achieve what you need to.
Bless up!
Dress nice. That really helps your confidence. It feels good to look good
There are so many things that we could change and improve outside of what we are born with yet so few people tried smh
Dad bod works
Guy who’s mute:
Be your best self. I'm not out here telling folks they can't get it if they are short, fat, or whatever. These categories are easy to pick at but let's not forget we got people in all kinds of situations beyond them and they still get it.
I love how when guys hear the truth they accept it compared to the time he did that session with the woman from Canada who was in complete denial about her situation
He doesn’t hate anyone. People aren’t use to this level of honesty. I find it refreshing. Love that you guys had him on.
Shit in Chinese cultural they usually kill the messenger!
@@blackorchid2494 who would that be in this case? Aba & Preech? 🤔
No he is a bully . He is putting people down. Usually these people don’t even like themselves.
@@rainbow9987 Then they shouldn’t call him.
@@The.Terror.Lab. I agree but he is still accountable for his behavior
It's easier to live a convenient lie than a painful truth.
- Revolver Ocelot.
"You're pretty good..."
Kept you waiting huh
- Solid snake.
@@lastwarning1 No shit Sherlock. Seriously trying to use nerd as a derogatory remark? I wear nerd like a badge of honour.
@@lastwarning1 XDDDDD When weirdo claim someone else as a weirdo. You are funny.
@@lastwarning1 I don't claim anything, I'm what you would call a nerd by definition, and it's something I don't hide. So what is your goal here?
Man spitting facts. Coming from a short/average height dude, if I were out of shape and broke, my wife would have had nothing to do with me.
So if something happened you loose all your money would she leave ?
@@raidendwayne21 that's how it is for the most part especially in the western society. With women it's about security not loyalty.
This aint something to brag about dude lol but go off.
Maybe you should find another wife. Judging by your words, if you get seriously ill, yours will leave you. Maybe you should think about whether you need such a woman?
@@russian3736 not just western
This man radiates stable, honest masculine energy. We need more like him. We should not only take his advice, we should look to the man himself as an example of conduct.
He's correct. He is telling these young men what a good father would.
Amen brother, I lived at home till 24 with a father and mother. You can already read that's not okay.
yeah father who was divorced twice lmfao BYE
@@yoshinikunachegran1963 "lmfao BYE".
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I think this kind of blunt honesty is refreshing. Definitely wouldn't have thought that when I was younger, but cutting the bs and hearing things straight is how I prefer things now. Don't waste my time and your time beating around the bush.
I’m short, fat, and hit a couple of trees on my way out of the womb. I just gave up on having a relationship and just focused on having fun in my life. Thanks to couch Samuel I have started to enjoy life.
“Hit a couple trees” ??😂 but good for you with your new journey ☺️
Good for you man. Can’t go wrong investing in yourself.
No reason to give up tho. You just have a confidence issue you need to address. Real women want a confident guy above all.
No excuse not to loose weight
His point isn't to give up on relationships. Hit point is to improve what you can, even if you've been dealt some tough cards.
I am a big (1,98m | 6'6 tall) man, that has struggled with self-confidence through my childhood. I got into karate classes (Kyokushin) and my sensei was almost a Mr Myiagi to me, dude was 85 years old and could fight with me at 16, that dude beat the living shit out of me until I could stand up for myself as a fucking huge dude, that gave me such a confidence boost that I can't recommend it enough to anyone who struggles with self-confidence. Be it male or female, there is something powerful about being able to kick someone's ass that even if you don't want to do it, gets you going! It's not about being violent, but being able to stand up for yourself.
"Some of you all are asking for shit you're not ready for and then acting like a victim" 👈 this statement right here is absolutely EVERYTHING!
The best advice I ever got was from my weightlifting coach at 16 was “who told you life was supposed to feel good”.
Same here. It turns your whole world upside down, but, man , is it effective.
@@anzelaiv You guys are masochists... I will never allow people to talk to me like that. Which is exactly why I am fairly successful. I don't need anyone's advice and I will not moan to people either. Never knew this guy existed until this video got recommended to me.
@@lizvtaz6 Lame accusation. You don’t know them at all.
@@sevenchambers You are right. I don't know them. But I don't need to know them to be able to see that something is wrong with their self esteem. I'll say this again. You should never ever allow anyone to talk to you in that way. If you are totally ok with somebody talking to you like that it is likely down to the fact that your family members were always rude to you. And that my friend is a likely reason for why you are failing in life. You lack confidense that's it. Reality checks are bullshit. Healthy people don't have any problem with seeing their own shortcomings they don't need anyone to tell them that problem exists. If you ask me, anyone who calls this rude guy (Kevin?) for advice, needs therapy. Because a person with normal self esteem would not want some random rude person discuss their life, even if they know that they could do better.
@@lizvtaz6 “I don’t need to know them to be able to see that something is wrong with their self esteem”. Wrong, conversations exist for that exact reason, to find out who a person really is. All of your posts in this thread are just assumptions with no evidence to back it up.
I'm tired of hearing guys blame their height for not getting girls smh there is loads of 6ft+ guys that have no girls. It's all in your mindset and confidence, I'm only 5'7ft but I carry myself like a man and don't care about what nobody got to say. Girls can sense that insecure shit from a mile away
It’s the same as dudes who blame how they’re ugly as well, meanwhile they haven’t ever spoken to a girl and lack any type of confidence. I genuinely believe that if every man takes care of themselves they can have a good appearance, it’s rare for a dude to be just straight up ugly even after a good self care routine + confidence.
@Rae Varsace...so true I dated a guy who appeared wow but his attitude sucked also a guy who looks amazing but had insercurities way above mine lol. I agree with what you are saying self esteem and self confidence is key. Just like us women who feel sexy and confident when we confident with our image and state of mind ..so should guys as well. To note I have dated all kinds of men, material wealth is not important ( maybe lol) but what's important is self worth and respect.
Who cares what they can sense? Men are the prize
@Dan Lons Not really a mistake to be concerned about what women perceive, if your goal is to attract women.
But yes, it's best if your confidence is built on who you are, and not just a smokescreen.
Real shit
Thank you for this!! Kevin just spoke facts to everyone he will be missed!!
When you’ve been receiving preferential treatment your whole life, equality doesn’t feel so good. I’d rather someone tell me the honest truth than a comforting lie. It’s how we can grow.
A lot of us needa stop looking for other people's advice and just follow through with the shit we already know we should be doing
Or just do away with this rugged individualist bullsh*t, just accept that life is unpredictable and do the best you can.
Thing is a lot of people (especially young people) don't even know what they should be doing. Mentorship is important. If anything what Kevin and others are showing is we have a generation of young people out here who have no one in their lives to guide them.
@@bluewave3417 facts. Even though my dad was at home, he wasn’t emotionally present due to his alcoholism (he’s what you’d call a functional alcoholic). He also emotionally and verbally abusive. Even after I moved out at 25, all the negative things he told me still persisted because it became internalized. I’m still trying to undo the damage that was caused by him while learning how to become the man I want to become.
@@bluewave3417 I disagree, we're living in a unprecedented time of uncertainty that in a magnitude that we never experienced or expected in human civilization. If you're in high school right now, man... you're in for a very VERY wild ride. Because they're about to face a future where majority of jobs are going to be automated and we have not made any once of preparation for it, they're going to be in the front row seats of the results of climate change, political radicalism/extremists are already in our government, they're mostly likely to not have kids, and mental health crisis' are in the rise. No amount of mentorship or Kevin Samuel is going to alleviate what's coming to them... and they very aware of that.
@@WhoBlah21 You're talking about what's going to happen. I'm talking about getting them prepared to deal with it mentally and emotionally. The coming struggles won't be the first time. Just the first time for this generation. My grandfather (RIP) saw things that would make my head spin. He got through it. But he was from a time where they were built different.
This younger generation needs to adjust their mental and emotional states to better deal with the kinds of things you are talking about. That's why they need some mentorship. Because if they can't take a candid conversation without mentally checking out they won't stand a chance as this economy gets worse. I think we are saying the same thing from different perspectives.
Every single person has flaws and insecurities, even people who seemingly hit all the checked boxes for attractiveness. The best thing you can do is work on the things you can control and Be the best version of yourself that you can possibly be. A lot of people will say they are rejected for being ugly, but they are overweight and don’t shower. If you take care of yourself and put your best foot toward your life will improve. You might never be a supermodel or anything but you will still do better with people than you used to.
Yea
Everyone that Kevin put down had as much going for them as he did. Kevin was embolden and rude. Look at the man. He was ugly to me both inside and out. His physical appearance was not in my league of attractiveness. Did that give me the right to go at him in any way I felt like just because he was far from being my cup of tea?
@@GK-ku3zv 1: He didn't put anyone down, that is what they need to hear, how do you live till that age and won't improve or change anything about yourself? This people live in iron bubble and it won't burst until someone tells them the truth.
2: "Not my cup of tea" and actual flaws are two different things, you can't label this things as something else, in the end if you don't have anything to offer except "Me" then you have nothing, and it is your job to change that!
RIP to a Real One😔😔😔
I think in my early 20s I would have been tempted to call in. That headspace is a weird mixture of ego and self awareness? There's part of you that wants affirmation that you are a catch but also a part of you that knows you need help. I moved past that part of my life when I realized when I was asking for help I already knew the answer and there was no point in involving other people in my own self growth.
I can tell u like black guys
@@gioparker9036 true but not limited to. I'm bi and I've dated within and outside my race 🤷♀️
@@Meggsie white girls are to fine
This is so true. I think deep down we all know the truth about ourselves and what we can improve on.
@@gioparker9036 why are you simping on youtube bruh she's not gonna fuck you lol
Im 17 and female. when he said to a 20 jaar old; why does your opinion matter? I got knocked the fuck out by that question. I literaly had to remind myself i don't know anything because i didn't experience it yet. It was very blunt, but i need to hear him say it like that so there is no beating around the bush. Im scared that i don't know enough. I just need to alow myself to make more mistakes so i can learn from it.
I would also suggest, that you really go into reading and informing yourself about how life works.
1 year ago, i literally squandared through life and had no real idea about me or how things are. Just because i met a Girl, that was close to my Ideal and it didnt work out, i started to think. I went from asking myself what i did wrong and if im not good enough to understanding how some things work, what mistakes i did and really think that i found a path in my life that i can go.
❤️❤️❤️, don't even think about that Feminsm road...
Yes think about the feminism road. It’s why you have freedom
@@gdredd9587
Thanks for dooming her to a life of repelling men.
@@LembeckIsStaying She will repel the worst of you incel
In another life he could have been a comedian. The man's deliver is top tier
This is true, he's amazing
respect to him for this, he reminds me of my dad. I remember whenever I would achieve something my mother would sing endless praises for me, but my father wouldn't say anything. He'd just ask me "what are you gonna do next". On the other hand, whenever I would fail in life my mother would scream and yell at me, but my father, with the same blank expression and tone of voice, would ask me "what are you going to do next". This kind of stoicism and blunt honesty is what creates real winners, it hurts at first but in the end youll be glad
The truth fucking hurts man. I’m short, and the only way I get girls is due to me being in shape and making a solid income.
Don't sell yourself short... no pun intended lol. But seriously I bet you have a great character and a beautiful soul. And if people dont see it oh well their loss. Be amazing.
Shallow relationships in a shallow world. Unfortunately.
Short man gang here bruv🤟🏾. Yeah getting in shape at 5'5" is a non negotiable for me.
@energizedbones sure buddy
@energizedbones height might not be relevant but looks certainly are, you can be broke and short with no ambition but still get a pass based on looks.
I worked in construction for a couple of years. One thing I appreciated was the fact my boss treated me no different from any of the guys on the team. I knew he wasn’t being malicious when he yelled at us. At the same time he knew some of my limitations, but he pushed me to do better in the things I could do. I still remember and hold that close to me years later. He helped me to realize I can push myself to the limit to get stuff done.
“You can’t be short & fat, 2 strikes you gotta *pick a struggle.”* “Why does ur opinion matter?!?” Kevin really taking no prisoners. This man crucified buddy and then was ready for round 2 when the other dude had something to say🤣💀💀
Fr 😭
You cant pick heights, so only he can do is lose weight hand hope for the best
@energizedbones True. But being short, fat and not earning that much isn’t great. Those 3 strikes alone don’t help
@@raidendwayne21 get swol like asta
Bro Austin I swear I see you everywhere dude
Damn this hits hard after yesterday. RIP to Kevin
That point he made asking the first dude "what's interesting about you?" is huge... I haven't had the most adventurous and exciting life, but one interesting thing I do on the side is play the accordion in a local gypsy-punk band... you wouldn't believe how many dates that line has gotten me...
@DOOM SLAYER you breed exotic animals? I'm calling the f*cking cops
Gypsy-punk? That’s really cool I agree that this makes you interesting. Many women love a man who can play an instrument, sing, and a man who can appreciate the culture surrounding music. 🖤
As hard as advice like this is to hear, a good balance of kindness and honesty is how to get through to people. Maybe this is a bit too far into the honesty side, but it sure is better than being overly kind :)
I think what we have to understand is in a week maybe he has 40+ calls. If he tries to sugar coat it takes longer or people start arguing ("I wouldn't say I'm fat but maybe I could work out a little more), but this blunt method cuts through the shit quicker so he moves onto the next caller
Well said
I think its better because it doesn't allow them to feel sorry for themselves and makes them swallow the pill
@@davidgogginsburner3369 Oh, I'm not harshing on him. I just mean with people in general, that's the best kind of advice. I think what he's doing is the right thing for the job he has. I mean, these people seek out for him, right? They should expect harsher results.
Not when you are in the emergency situation 🧐🤒🤕
I am simply convinced that honest people, and people who say it as is are labeled aggressive and rude. I'm not for Kevin either but he keeps it a buck on everyone bill.
honesty and truth been offensive for ages
Yeah goes to show people prefer to hear what they want to and not what they need to...
I don't know people like to hype. Being blunt about it don't make you more profound. The truth is the truth.
I'm brutally honest and I agree, when ever I'm brutally honest to someone they think I'm super mean and they come for my neck and tell me irrational insults
I think it’s all in the delivery. Because two people can both tell the truth, the honest truth with no sugarcoating, but it’s all in the tone and delivery. You don’t have to placate someone’s ego but if you come at them with kindness then they might take it easier. They still may not like it but it wasn’t sucker punched at them. Just my thoughts.