Fear of judgment is a barrier to true self-expression. As Lao Tzu wisely noted, 'He who controls others may be powerful, but he who has mastered himself is mightier still. Live your truth-those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind.
you ever heard of the term the "Spotlight Effect" it's when your mind believes that you are being noticed by everyone and they are thinking about you, when really they are not. It's only your mind playing into your insecurities. You see nobody cares about how you look or behave. They will noticed it and glance for a few second then after that they will move forward doing their own thing, because everyone are too busy with their own personal lives to worry about yours. Don't take it as an insult, but look at it more as liberating, because now you don't have to try so hard.
thank youuuu, you’re so beautiful omg, also so soft and well spoken :))) i’m subscribing good advice bby, currently on my way to trying to make something out of myself
Abigail Is it I’m starting love the praises that you give in your videos how did a young women start to gain such knowledge wisdom this slightly up lifting in a way
Don't you think that when you're judged it helps you get better? And some people just get judged and get sad I see it as getting judged and getting better
In a way yes, it’s all about the mindset you have. Judgement is inevitable but it’s not always bad judgement. It’s about not letting others negative judgement that births from insecurity affect us. We can’t be afraid to be judged🌸
I was talking about in terms of worth. Nobody is worth more than anyone. Things like privilege, opportunities, and life circumstances affect what people achieve, but don’t define a person’s true value.
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." -Princess diaries
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Fear of judgment is a barrier to true self-expression.
As Lao Tzu wisely noted, 'He who controls others may be powerful, but he who has mastered himself is mightier still.
Live your truth-those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind.
Couldn’t have said it any better! 🫶🏼
love that
this girl so freaking underrated
forreal
I really needed to hear this. Sometimes even when u know, just hearing those words from another person feels wayy more real.
You can understand something but to hear it from someone else can help innerstand it💕 I’m glad I helped
Thank You Sister for Sharing.
Thank you for making the world beautiful with your beauty. May you always remain beautiful...
you ever heard of the term the "Spotlight Effect" it's when your mind believes that you are being noticed by everyone and they are thinking about you, when really they are not. It's only your mind playing into your insecurities. You see nobody cares about how you look or behave. They will noticed it and glance for a few second then after that they will move forward doing their own thing, because everyone are too busy with their own personal lives to worry about yours. Don't take it as an insult, but look at it more as liberating, because now you don't have to try so hard.
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@@lvwlor ^_^
Remind your self first.
Come on girlie why the hate , she's just helping people out like chill
thank you so much for this i love the message
Not only that but when you try to make everyone happy and you push your feelings aside you’re not truly loving or respecting yourself🙌🏼
Noted 📝 ☑️
Thank you for the video, it helped me much today, i love your voice and accent its just perfection.
I’m glad it was able to reach you💕💕
this did help!! great video ❤
Love this video thanks for the inspiration
Always⭐️
You're freaking pretty girl🫶🏻🎀
Thank you love💕
thank youuuu, you’re so beautiful omg, also so soft and well spoken :))) i’m subscribing good advice bby, currently on my way to trying to make something out of myself
Thank you love🌸💕 glad you joined the journey:)
put this in a podcast so i can listen to it on repeat please 🙏🏾
Working on it🫶🏼
she's gonna be my new yt bestie
We all besties here🫶🏼
@@lvwlor love you 😭😭
ur voice is beautiful mashaAllah
Abigail Is it I’m starting love the praises that you give in your videos how did a young women start to gain such knowledge wisdom this slightly up lifting in a way
Life experiences, meditation, books, and a whole lotta deep thinking
@@lvwlor oh I bet you have 😏 I don’t doubt that for one second I guess it takes one to know one 🤔
@@lvwlor I just haven’t got to the part where I’m reading books or meditating
Fax ! Came from DRS vids! Fw these vid bc they give people reassurance! 🔥
Thank youu! Glad it helped:)
I like that painting in the background! Did you do it yourself! It’s really beautiful
No a family friend did that one. But I am a painter and you can find my paintings in my instagram highlight labeled “I’m an artist” @lvwlor :)
Ur actually ma favourite influencer , hopr u all the lack
Thank you lots💕
Talking about Beyonce and Kanye is crazy considering the situation 💫💫
Yoo when I made this I swear I never even heard about it I take it back😭😭😭
@@lvwlor The allegations came out public like 3 days ago so no worries 🐈🩷
They never gave positive vibes anyway
Jesus loves you.
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Hey abigail i get you channel right now but you speak is hits me, and you look pretty and natural girl 😊
Off topic ur so beautiful gurl
Thank you love💕
Thanks this is good but you can add sutitles it gonna make the video so much better 😍
Which country do you live?
You’re absolutely beautiful. I know that’s not the point if the video but I just had to say it. ❤
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Abi 😃
Don't you think that when you're judged it helps you get better? And some people just get judged and get sad I see it as getting judged and getting better
In a way yes, it’s all about the mindset you have. Judgement is inevitable but it’s not always bad judgement. It’s about not letting others negative judgement that births from insecurity affect us. We can’t be afraid to be judged🌸
@@lvwlorwould you say that most ppl who say negative things are projecting because they are insecure?
You are so beautiful
Agree with everything but everybody on the same level. Me and everyone is this world are NOT on the same level 😂😂
I was talking about in terms of worth. Nobody is worth more than anyone. Things like privilege, opportunities, and life circumstances affect what people achieve, but don’t define a person’s true value.