why is desiring romantic love so embarrassing? | Is It Due To My Lack Of Experience - Ep 7

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  • @hmmmm7879
    @hmmmm7879 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +135

    “if friendship is just so fulfilling break up with your boyfriend” TEAA

    • @spongebobcirclepants3843
      @spongebobcirclepants3843 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I always say I think we as humans secretly crave chaos and that’s why even when we have good other relationships we need something with a little more spice

  • @rifa1673
    @rifa1673 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +81

    the thing that bothers me when people say "you're still young or you have time" is that like yeah but that doesn't change the fact that people experienced theses things way before me so when I see people younger be in relationships and you my age having relationships and have had relationships before it makes me feel like I am falling behind or sometimes it validates the thought that i am undesirable. like yeah it might not be true but that doesn't change my desire to be in a relationship.

    • @anayaj7163
      @anayaj7163 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Jesus is the truth to that void. Allow Him to change you; change your life and make it better. In Jesus, I have you can too) find joy and peace in any situation; Jesus is always there and always dependable. I have come out of depression for 6 years and now I have the experience to help others who are stuck in a cycle of self-hatred, mental illness, loneliness, maladaptive daydreaming, and more. Please listen to me and know that Jesus loves you and He will bring others into your life who will love you, for YOU (desires of your heart), when you submit your life to Him. Ask Him (be genuine) and seek His face, so that way you will believe too! Any other theology, spirituality, and religion is fake and the perverted version of the Bible, just research it. Find the Truth for yourself! I pray that you will see the truth, you take this calling with an open mind, and take Jesus seriously!

    • @z1zzy941
      @z1zzy941 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Falling behind- laufey

  • @strudelh
    @strudelh 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    I can only talk about this with other people who have a lack of relationship experience. I’m just trying to focus on getting my money up so I can travel to distract myself on wanting a bf. ☠️☠️

    • @ShamillaCampbell1
      @ShamillaCampbell1  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      real😭😭😭

    • @anayaj7163
      @anayaj7163 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Jesus is the truth to that void. Allow Him to change you; change your life and make it better. In Jesus, I have you can too) find joy and peace in any situation; Jesus is always there and always dependable. I have come out of depression for 6 years and now I have the experience to help others who are stuck in a cycle of self-hatred, mental illness, loneliness, maladaptive daydreaming, and more. Please listen to me and know that Jesus loves you and He will bring others into your life who will love you, for YOU (desires of your heart), when you submit your life to Him. Ask Him (be genuine) and seek His face, so that way you will believe too! Any other theology, spirituality, and religion is fake and the perverted version of the Bible, just research it. Find the Truth for yourself! I pray that you will see the truth, you take this calling with an open mind, and take Jesus seriously!

  • @kaliyahwoods1236
    @kaliyahwoods1236 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

    Lady Campbell! Here’s a video idea: if so many people want friends, why is it so hard making them??

    • @ShamillaCampbell1
      @ShamillaCampbell1  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      “lady campbell”😭😭😭😭 that’s a really good idea!! thank you!!

    • @sneeeeeh.m
      @sneeeeeh.m 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You really ate that idea because yes wow I need answers

  • @xaviertavares1461
    @xaviertavares1461 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    The iconic line

  • @PandaChaos36
    @PandaChaos36 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    WERE TIRED OF HEARING THAT SAME DAMN thing. It’ll come back when you least expected etc etc my goodness💀

  • @dylanjackson29
    @dylanjackson29 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Lol same I have such a nonchalant attitude and have a ‘player’ aesthetic yet I just want to fall in love so bad. Sadly everyone I’m into is either already taken or ghosts me before we really get to know eachother 😂

  • @brb2000
    @brb2000 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    you are so relatable its like you're putting all of my thoughts into words and it makes s much sense. i'm loving this series sm yoh 😩😩

  • @sunnni_
    @sunnni_ 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I just love how it goes straight into "Strangers in the Night" after you're opening statement but girl I agree. Like growing up hearing that "it'll happen when you stop looking" like girl, shut up! I tried to express this to friends but now I've gotten to the point it felt like I was talking to walls so I just stop talking about how I want a real relationship as I've never had one

  • @i_luv_fuud1006
    @i_luv_fuud1006 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I found you from a tiktok and came here!! and the things you say literally is how i feel. Love watching you! 🫶

    • @ShamillaCampbell1
      @ShamillaCampbell1  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      aww thank you for supporting 🩷

  • @Psy_duckling
    @Psy_duckling 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Wow are you me…shits scary relatable

  • @Ruby-Jane
    @Ruby-Jane 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    subscribed cause you just described how i feel allll the timeee

  • @gati8079
    @gati8079 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This is relatable to me on a spiritual level.Thank you for making me feel seen

    • @anayaj7163
      @anayaj7163 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Jesus is the truth to that void. Allow Him to change you; change your life and make it better. In Jesus, I have you can too) find joy and peace in any situation; Jesus is always there and always dependable. I have come out of depression for 6 years and now I have the experience to help others who are stuck in a cycle of self-hatred, mental illness, loneliness, maladaptive daydreaming, and more. Please listen to me and know that Jesus loves you and He will bring others into your life who will love you, for YOU (desires of your heart), when you submit your life to Him. Ask Him (be genuine) and seek His face, so that way you will believe too! Any other theology, spirituality, and religion is fake and the perverted version of the Bible, just research it. Find the Truth for yourself! I pray that you will see the truth, you take this calling with an open mind, and take Jesus seriously!

  • @chapli_kebab
    @chapli_kebab 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    guys i have a question: genuinely what is the difference between romantic and platonic love? is romantic love just friends w benefits? like we all know physical/sexual attraction is separate from love like u can lust or desire someone without loving them so like what makes romantic love different from friends who have sex? like people describe their husband/wife/partner as their "best friend" all the time like idk maybe its due to my lack of experience (see what i did there) but i feel like if i spent the rest of my life living w one of my best female friends and we just had fun i would be fulfilled genuinely what is the difference living w a man who u also have sex with? minus the sex factor everything else is the same so if someones been in love romantically before pls tell me what the diff is

    • @GreenerBlue
      @GreenerBlue 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      I would say the difference between romantic and platonic love is the intensity and the way it manifests in your life. I have had friends that I loved being around, but didn't have the urge to spend all day, every day with them. Romantic love comes with the urge to combine your lives on a more profound and intimate level. If you decide to move to another city, is it a no brainer that they are moving with you? If you are deciding on a major purchase, are they included in the decision making process because it will have an effect on their own finances? Some stuff like that. Having a romantic interest in someone does not require any sexual interest, whatsoever. There are many people who identify as asexual, that also have the desire for a longterm/committed life partner/spouse. Aromantic, on the other hand, has little to no desire for romance. I would also like to add that in the asexual/aromantic community, there is a concept of "queerplatonic relationships" or QPRs. It's basicallly a step in between being just friends and romantic partners. It's basically what you just described when you mentioned spending the rest of your life with a best friend. You are an individual with the right to tailor your life and relationships how you see fit. If you have no desire for something, whether it be hand holding all the way up to full blown esx, you have every right to opt out. And you will still be able to find someone who aligns with you and gives you love in the way you desire. :)

  • @minatasidibe1006
    @minatasidibe1006 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I relate with everything you said. And I'm noticing that we are a lot in this situation due to the new dating ways(I'm talking dating app like u mentioned, situationship and hooking culture). It get so hard to know if the person you're interested to is in the same way as you. Maybe, dating should be more "community-like". Dating is supposed to be a personal matter, but zince we're a lot in our situation,maybe single people should help each other, meet each other. Just an hypothesis ☺️

  • @LaurynS.
    @LaurynS. 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Speaking straight facts

  • @shriyab5097
    @shriyab5097 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I LOVE THE WAY YOU TALK OMG HAVENT SKIPPED A SECOND AND I REALTE TO EVERYTHING YOU SAID

    • @anayaj7163
      @anayaj7163 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Jesus is the truth to that void. Allow Him to change you; change your life and make it better. In Jesus, I have you can too) find joy and peace in any situation; Jesus is always there and always dependable. I have come out of depression for 6 years and now I have the experience to help others who are stuck in a cycle of self-hatred, mental illness, loneliness, maladaptive daydreaming, and more. Please listen to me and know that Jesus loves you and He will bring others into your life who will love you, for YOU (desires of your heart), when you submit your life to Him. Ask Him (be genuine) and seek His face, so that way you will believe too! Any other theology, spirituality, and religion is fake and the perverted version of the Bible, just research it. Find the Truth for yourself! I pray that you will see the truth, you take this calling with an open mind, and take Jesus seriously!

  • @mads7542
    @mads7542 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I felt SO SO SO HEARD watching this! Thank you for this, truly

    • @ShamillaCampbell1
      @ShamillaCampbell1  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You're so welcome! thank you for watching ❤️❤️

  • @nyallmalik5359
    @nyallmalik5359 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have so much love and respect for you. Your videos make me laugh so much and brighten my day and then to see you use your platform to talk about Palestine was the cherry on top. Sending all the love and blessings your way ❤

  • @sneeeeeh.m
    @sneeeeeh.m 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As someone that was a serial dater in HS and now that I'm 22 been single for 4 years, you are definitely right about when you get a sense of self your expectations are higher because really in HS I was just dating for fun man but now I definitely know what I want but than the men are nowhere to be found 👀 or they sadly (for them) don't meet my standards/expectations

  • @NonsenseOblige
    @NonsenseOblige 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Don't know where you posted stuff before TH-cam, just got recc'ed you randomly today. I'm binging your stuff already and for additional video ideas, maybe open up a form to get people to tell you dating stories and call it "learning from your experiences", could even interview some people.

    • @ShamillaCampbell1
      @ShamillaCampbell1  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      first of all, welcome😍🫶🏽 and secondly, i was initially posting on tiktok then people kept telling me to put them on youtube as well. that’s actually a really good idea!!! i think i’m gonna do that, thank you

  • @ayandadlamini2871
    @ayandadlamini2871 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Shamilla
    This is so relatable 😭😭😭

  • @baldjungkook4582
    @baldjungkook4582 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I fear that ppl who say that "it will come when u least expect it", they just want to feel better abt themselves and feed you this "delusion" instead of giving actual advice

  • @susanatolosarojas9044
    @susanatolosarojas9044 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    finally someone who gets me 😫

  • @jkl6362
    @jkl6362 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    algorithm did me a solid w this one

  • @denbertignacio
    @denbertignacio 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    These vids are better on TH-cam for sure. Also, my suggestion for you other content would be like a simple vlogs

    • @ShamillaCampbell1
      @ShamillaCampbell1  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      my life is too boring to make vlogs lmao but thanks for the suggestion!

  • @hananyohannes802
    @hananyohannes802 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love your crazy intros 😂❤

  • @moonlitmess
    @moonlitmess 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    omg.... this is so me WORD FOR WORD

  • @bug5460
    @bug5460 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    this is so true and real and I love you for this.

  • @Jd1156
    @Jd1156 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Dope content keep growing

  • @justarandomgirllol7428
    @justarandomgirllol7428 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    3:25 LOUDER lol

  • @xaviertavares1461
    @xaviertavares1461 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This is #real

    • @anayaj7163
      @anayaj7163 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Jesus is the truth to that void. Allow Him to change you; change your life and make it better. In Jesus, I have you can too) find joy and peace in any situation; Jesus is always there and always dependable. I have come out of depression for 6 years and now I have the experience to help others who are stuck in a cycle of self-hatred, mental illness, loneliness, maladaptive daydreaming, and more. Please listen to me and know that Jesus loves you and He will bring others into your life who will love you, for YOU (desires of your heart), when you submit your life to Him. Ask Him (be genuine) and seek His face, so that way you will believe too! Any other theology, spirituality, and religion is fake and the perverted version of the Bible, just research it. Find the Truth for yourself! I pray that you will see the truth, you take this calling with an open mind, and take Jesus seriously!

  • @PandaChaos36
    @PandaChaos36 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Straight gas ⛽️ 🤝🤝🤝🤝

  • @YaIshe
    @YaIshe 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Came from tik tok definitely not disappointed

  • @dianaslade9595
    @dianaslade9595 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Exactly! 💯

  • @sleepsleep1365
    @sleepsleep1365 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bullying doe's work yall!!!

  • @kahtoria1803
    @kahtoria1803 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love your videos seriously 😊😊❤❤

  • @xaviertavares1461
    @xaviertavares1461 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Break up with your boyfriend 😭👋🏾👋🏾

  • @tochiemegano2465
    @tochiemegano2465 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    but can't you be asexual and still desire romantic love?

    • @ShamillaCampbell1
      @ShamillaCampbell1  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      you definitely can, i don’t know a lot about the asexuality spectrum ❤️

  • @britneyt9253
    @britneyt9253 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What do you do on your skin for skin care? I have the same complexion but struggle with acne and dark spots.

    • @ShamillaCampbell1
      @ShamillaCampbell1  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      my skin isn’t that good irl, it just looks really good on camera. honestly i don’t have much of a routine, my “good” skin is genuinely from genetics. although i break out sometimes, i’ve never really had serious skin problems. i’m planning on going to a dermatologist so i can get the right products for me, so maybe in the future i can share a skincare routine ❤️

  • @xaviertavares1461
    @xaviertavares1461 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yaaaaaa🎉🎉

  • @tyrekechikwanha5169
    @tyrekechikwanha5169 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

  • @sebonengs
    @sebonengs 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @hmmmm7879
    @hmmmm7879 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    just found your videos you are so me i feel seen 🤍