I have always been too introverted to be comfortable showing to true self to the public. I like be invisible. It's.... peaceful. It's nice and quiet and cozy.
@@marlonjormungand7845 One needn't be loud to stand up for oneself. Anger and aggressiveness are EGO-DRIVEN behaviors. If a person who is in touch with their ONENESS with SOURCE and all on Earth, they are able to stand up for themselves in a peaceful, loving manner. Personal integrity and personal space need not be loud and aggressive. Truth need not be shouted.
I deleted my social media over a year ago and I LOVE how free I am. No longer attempting to manage my image while balancing the opinions of others is PURE BLISS. Great video🤝🏾
I prefer to manage my image without concern to the opinion of others. I've connected with some great people via social media that I would have never met in my daily goings. I've also landed my top 3 biggest clients ever via social media. There's a balance of course, and being connected with the right people is even more important. Being able to digitally detox and unfollow people whom the chapter of your connection has ended.
You haven't understood the thing. Getting clients via social media anonymously and exposing your image there has several consequences. Yet, you can just expose image in front of clients. Like SMMA Stuff, Or Other Things All Of That You Don't Need To Show Your Face Everywhere. Also There Is WhatsApp And Phone Calls To Stay In Contact With.😊@@Originalman144
I have never used a social media account. When I was young I saw the potential dangers and how it could be used to destroy someone. At work I constantly see girls checking their social media and getting upset when they only get a few likes on a post.
Personally I only use social media to converse with a small circle of friends and to see what others are doing. Everyone has their own methods though and I am glad you found what works for you
I too deleted Instagram a couple weeks ago and I cannot express how great it has been for me. It has easily been one of the best decisions in my life. I am at peace without any need to notice what others do or validate myself through posts and stories or waste my time mindlessly scrolling reels. I get my information and news from google and books and I’m more than satisfied!
I’ve always kept this quote close “To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.” Ralph Waldo Emerson
Self Reliance - "a true man is one whom can remain themselves in a crowd." He said it many ways in that essay and it becomes more relevant as time goes on.
I’m pretty sure the greatest accomplishment would be to SOMEHOW travel to the other side of the universe in a split second RIGHT NOW. Or be in space without a spacesuit and not die.
That's been my goal since a child but the internet has taught morons that they should "choose your avatar and pronouns". People used to always steal my photos and content and claim it as their own. Creeeeeeepy people online.
Im in my 30's and I dont want relevance, I want peace in my life. Being invisible is working out very well for me. What I want, think, and feel is what matters. I pursue interests that I like, I don't follow trends. I can focus on my goals and pour more energy and time into myself. I have privacy and its peaceful 😊
@@wackoterp7026 A few cowokers/industry peers who know who you are is not the same thing as attention seeking. You remain invisible to society at large. Assuming your career path is skill-based, your resume will open doors for you after a while, that is how I have advanced. I don't attend industry events, I don't join local professionals groups, I don't write books, I don't give talks, I don't post on social media, to all but a few people I am at most a comment or two under a youtube video with a happy piece of poop for a user image... and yet I have advanced to a senior position in my career and make good money. That comes entirely from learning skills and doing my best at every job I have had, not from networking or being even remotely known.
In danish we have a saying that goes "den der lever stille, lever godt". It means "he who lives a quiet life, lives a good life". I follow this philosophy a lot in relation to social media, and it is also the reason why I would never strive to be a celebrity in any way shape or form. Glad to have some words put onto it.
The moral of the story is that there's nothing wrong with being a nobody. There's nothing wrong with working toward your own small goals. Or with not being wildly successful, whatever that even means. There's nothing wrong with having only a tiny sliver of influence on the people that matter to you
My mother put it like this, "If you're running around trying to be someone else, who's going to be you?" Other thing she told me was a Mark Twain quote. "The two most important days in your life are the day you were born and the day you find out why
I've been invisible for many years, quietly living a rather solitary existence...watching and observing, not allowing anyone to complicate or diminish my life. Every day, there's always something to do or something to learn
Unfortunately I can't be invisible here in America, because in Racist America a Halfbreed like me really stands out, especially since Donald Trump has actively encouraged racism. In Canada I likely wouldn't be noticed, but I would still be on the bottom of the social ladder...
@@MatichekTH-cam I was a millionaire, but I was pretty miserable. Then I suffered brain damage in a mugging and became homeless. I got myself together and lived in a tiny empty apartment, at first I was deeply ashamed - but then I started to like it. The emptiness was serenity, I didn't have to worry about employees or business or anything beyond my next meal, I wrote some books and learned to tailor bespoke historical suits and actively avoided going back to my old life. I was thinking last week about writing a book "How I Learned to Like Myself" or similar...
I, at 76, rarely raise an eye. All women will someday wake up and realize they've become invisible. My mother told me about it. I'm telling you...prepare your heart and don't fall into the trap of trying to reverse the inevitable. It'll only make it worse. (I pray someone who needs to hear this got this far).
I'm a fan of J. Krishnamurti, his words are more and more meaningful to me every time I read them. He said he aimed to help us gain total freedom of our minds.
I worked as a security guard at a major studio and wearing that security guard uniform allowed me to go just about everywhere on the property. It was also like wearing an invisible suit because nobody saw me. I listened to executives have long "private" conversations in front of me and they didn't acknowledge that I was in the room or off to the side within hearing distance. Janitor uniform is another great invisible suit. No one will see you and they will talk among themselves as if you weren't there.
During my school days we had the poem "Ozymandias" our English text book. The message stuck with me for the rest of my life. No mater how great you and your accomplishments are, time & competition has a way of erasing all. In the end you sacrificed the precious you to be something in eyes of the world just to be lost forever in the future. Such a waste, such a waste....
Also one of my favorite poems. I believe fictional ozymandias, accomplished much while he lived. His rule benefited his culture, his times, his community, his people, his legacy, even his enemies who had to become stronger due to threat.. before he was "almost" erased. Even his story benefited those who knew of him . Witness yourself and i". He was not a nobody who lived invisibly, set no example, benefited no one, and died.
That's what happened to me. I spent 13 years spending half or more of my paycheck on the rarest and best Tom Brady football cards and when I cashed out I purchased an incredible wardrobe and started chasing the Ladies. Long story short I'm still alone and single my accomplishments ment nothing.
Your anonymity is the true essence of the "Einzelgänger" project. If you revealed your face like all those narcissistic TH-camrs, perhaps you would have deprived the audience of the calm and the serenity that you transmit with your voice and wisdom. Thank you for being what you are because you have helped me weather many hard days and moments.
I was born in a little town where my parents were well known. everybody knew who I was. EVERYBODY. I couldn't do anything or go anywhere without my parents to know, and even the entire town. I was born into this so I didn't notice it, but this was part of the feeling I had I was choking when I was young. then I went to Europe to go to college, in a big town, and all of a sudden, nobody knew who I was. I felt so light, so free, so good!!! from this time I knew, never again! I have no tiktok, no youtube channel, my facebook is only for little business. I do not exist on the internet. I am a happy nobody.
I love being "invisible", nobody ever bothers me, i dont bother anyone, i don't have any enemies and I'm constantly getting promotions at work because I'm laser focused on my work as opposed to standing around and talking like other employees
This ultimately boils down to the type of personality you have... For me, I like being invisible - it gives me the freedom to do as I please. It's also liberating to not be constantly seeking acceptance, approval and validation from others. The crazy thing lots of people don't realise is that no matter how much acceptance, approval and validation you receive - it's never enough... You always want more.
I don't really understand why some people seek acceptance, approval and validation by the masses. Most people are idiots. Why even care about the opinion of the sheep? You give that to yourself.
At some point it becomes exhausting needing to uphold a persona to so many people, especially people you do not know personally. Not to say there aren't people that can manage it, but they're the exception not the norm.
It’s really a surprise to me that seeing other people subscribe to “being invisible is OK” is actually kind of comforting. I really didn’t expect that. Because outside of this video, and this comment section, I just assumed I was on an island. Which I was ok with. But reading your comments is making me smile. Just to know you’re out there is pretty cool.
@@nik3x47 THAT is true! I only traveled overseas once, and found the same thing. I felt more freedom, relaxation, and solitude on the crowded street and subways, than in my own town where neighbors and family all knew each other. Because people were so busy and focused on their own deadlines and situations that they didn't scrutinize each other. Loved it.
I have always subscribed to the philosophy of invisibility and I agree with the reasons you have provided. I think it began with not wanting to play the games that others play and finding that attention seeking people were pretentious. Initially I was ostracized by others and felt hurt and excluded. Growing up with low self esteem prevented me from taking the center stage or feeling self important and worthy of people's attention. After spending so much time alone and watching others rise and fall, I realized just how lucky I was to be unnoticed. I wanted the superpower of invisibility. I began to make sure that I looked ordinary and avoided the limelight. In doing so, I managed to avoid negative attention or be bullied or suspect. I think the biggest challenge to living this lifestyle was to find a way to become financially independent. Once you are no longer reliant upon others financially and for approval and attention, you can truly be free and do almost anything you want virtually unnoticed.
I agree. When you are invisible or a so-called 'nobody', you are able to enjoy life and your freedom.. You'll not be a slave to everybody's expectations of you .. Once you got to the point of being financially well off, still, be low-key asf and you'll enjoy life to the fullest.. Privacy is gold.
Sounds familiar. I like privacy. I wear what I like, I follow some trends(if I like them), ignore other trends, just it. If others like/dislike how I look, it is not my problem. I enjoy attending social events sometimes, I do it when I want and how I want. I like to socialize with some people sometimes, but I am mostly alone and I find it comforting.
As a 60 something female in the US, I am invisible. This bothered me at first but then I realized flying below the radar is awesome! I have always been unconventional and now no one cares🤣
Jcsrst Allow me to say DITTO !!! I'm 77 and also became glad to be invisible. I'm free to be my authentic self liking my own company and saving all that ENERGY I used to spend trying to be likeable or funny or cute. 😇
This is the greatest part about getting older. I found when I was a younger woman, there was more judgement when out in public. If someone thought you were attractive, they'd stare at you or approach you. If someone thought you were unattractive or they were intimidated by you, they'd snicker to their friends or give you sour looks. It was hard to escape constant judgement based solely on appearances. I'm in my late 40s now and get way less attention. If I smile or am kind to someone, there's no weird assumptions of me flirting or anything like that. It's easier to just exist, be myself and blend in.
@@coolbreeze5683 After 65 I was FREE to actually outright flirt with WHOEVER I chose and folks just thought I was cute. Hah!! Yet another perk to being an 'Old Lady'.
Invisible is fun & normal to me. I was raised pretty strict where "children are to been seen and not heard".... But I was also taught "to give your best effort at anything you try". I combined those two throughout the years! I never knew I was training for this age of overexposure & lack of privacy.
I'm glad you are happy with your decision to remain "invisible". It puts your message in the spotlight instead of distracting the audience. You're entitled to your privacy and anonymity while benefitting all of us with your wisdom.
Being invisible in case of content creators makes the message stand out more than the creator him/herself. I really value this in the times when we're experiencing a flood of narcisistic people. In general, quiet life is something to be cherished more
Thank you! This is so timely for me. I deactivated Instagram last week, and finally got the courage to deactivate Facebook yesterday. Now I have no social media, and am taking steps to limit my TH-cam consumption. What once was frightening is now attractive. I desire anonymity, to no longer care if my posts matter to a stranger, and to live my life on my own terms without the influence of others who don’t matter to me. I truly value your content. Thank you for doing what you do, and bravo for maintaining your anonymity.
I also left Facebook and Instagram a few years ago, and while at first, it left a big void, that void was replaced with calm and sanity. I will never go back to that place.
These habits are difficult to change, but I know you can do it, and you have already started your journey away from the antisocial media space. The beauty in this change is gaining so much time and energy that you can spend on healthier activities!
@@johnlangston4108 Congrats! I haven't had Facebook in close to a decade. In your opinion, why is it so bad? Not that I want to go back and find out, so would appreciate your opinion on that.
I understand how people may feel. When I wrote the apology msg, I preferred myself invisible. But at the same time, I have some thoughts after reading the Stoics philosophy, so I just put the 2 paragraphs on one page. It doesn’t mean that the thought for reading also needed to be invisible. In this case, I’ll put the thoughts for reading as a comment in the video I just watched, then only the apology part is invisible.
I love being a “fly on the wall.” I find life to be so much more enjoyable without too much outside attention, and it’s taken a lifetime to understand that happiness comes from not needing outside validation. ❤
I must say being alone has given me a measure of mental tranquility. Something i never encountered while trying to fit in with others. As your video states people by in large end up surrounded by fake friends. Users, nothing more.
Stealth is the way. Embrace irrelevance! Escape the drama. Liberate yourself from "The Matrix"... walk away from the theater, the stage, the game, the race. Love the howls of Einzelganger!
I've been a nobody for most of my life. In school they called me mr. nobody, which was refreshing. I didn't like the attention and I still don't. Being an introvert may have an influence. For some time in the past years, I somehow lost myself in showing off and trying to be special while being creative, until people recognized me and I hated it so much. I value privacy a lot, so I went back to be nobody, not looking for attention from strangers, not showing my face or name online. And I feel so much happier and authentic. Most people don't need to know who you are. It's enough if your loved ones know and rather spend your time and focus on them and yourself, not on some shallow strangers. It brings a lot of peace to know you're nobody to the world.
As a woman in my 60's, I started to disappear in my early 50's. I also wear alot of black, navy and grey clothing. Once I was shopping with my daughter and told her I was invisible. To prove the point I started dancing in the shoe isle in a well known store, and no one looked at me. It was silly, but people actually walked by me and pretended I wasn't there. She said people probably thought I was crazy and didn't want to embarrass me, but I felt powerful. 😊
After I finally accepted my music career was over, I became anti-social. I didn't shy at an opportunity to play a song at an open mic or if friends wanted to hear an old original, but I did not seek them. Life has just put me in scenarios where I could choose to be successful. I feel more at peace with who I am without prying eyes, portraying an extreme persona constantly, and distributing myself like a product. What I am today is just a man, and if the right circumstances allow, you may see a master performer. But if not, I am quite content to being unamed, and unknown
Thank you for this video. It was an addition to a philosophy I have had for some time. As one who has been invisible most my life it isn’t until later years that I learned to appreciate it. The “invisibility” has led me to have less people noticing me, therefore less demands on my precious time. I have the space to be myself instead of wasting my time trying to meet others requests on my time. Thank you mate. I value your wisdom.
Ive tried both approaches, being myself most of the time has earned me few friends but some. Being very quiet and blending in which earned me zero friends. What really matters to people is how you make them feel, thats what they will remember.
The first benefit I can think of with the way you present your channel (Anonymously) is that the content ALWAYS comes first and you are not caught up in the cult of personality.
@@CharlieKellyEsqIntrovert doesn’t mean anti social shut-in, it just means that you’re drained by too much social interaction. Idk why people call themselves solely introverted when they’re just anti social
I find that being invisible gives me more control. When others speak and direct attention, it invites people to chatter about them when they are not there. Being in the sidelines and invisible doesn't give other people opportunities to speak about you or on you. It's only your actions that you allow to speak for you. Plus, if you have a special someone, you only want to be 'visible' to them. Visibility then becomes a concept of love, loyalty, vulnerability and most importantly trust. Great video!
Never had Instagram, Snapchat, TikTok, Facebook etc. Never posted deeply personal posts/videos on TH-cam. Absolutely love my "off the radar" life! ❤. Such a powerful and valuable video. Thanks for posting!
@-__gh0st__- - It, honestly, is so liberating to be free from the need/desire to be " noticed" or " relevant " Fill your life with experiences that really matter: family, friends, laughter, learning, nature, delicious food etc. Make memories not social media "friends". You sound like a balanced person. When it ( social media) all becomes overwhelming, just take a step back from it and really enjoy the feeling!
I think you're more relatable being anonymous. I'm as invisible as possible- no social media, minding my own business, enjoying my freedom and peace. This resonates with me 100%❤
One of the most charming qualities of living in gratitude is, aside from accepting everything life throws at you as a gift; is that your actions will, for the most part, will go unnoticed. Thus a grateful person embraces an anonymous existence; graciously. Incognito.
Incredible video! I feel this hits so close to home. This is a path I've wanted and people who are engrossed in vain will regularly try to convince us that living OUR lifestyle is "wrong", "lesser". They cannot fathom not throwing themselves into the risky lifestyle of surrendering yourself to other people, destroying parts of oneself as some kind of sick sacrifice to gain validation. Because, they get that validation. But they don't know what happens when they begin to step out of line, that they're essentially surrundering their control to complete strangers who will determine whether they are to be considered Acceptable or Not. The less we depend on people for happiness, the the less enslaved we are, that is part of acquiring true freedom. Thank you for these videos!
I am basically invisible. And designed it. It is my best creation. The less I’m noticed, the happier I am. Self Contentment. Books. Nature. Cooking. Connection on your own terms. Highly recommended. Be well.. my Brethren.
Every time you post a video, I feel like you are reading my mind and we are best friends talking about life. Priceless having a friend like you, thank you!
I've been blessed with a shitty life. Having ASD, I've struggled tremendously to fit in and find my place in the world. Now that I'm a bit older I've come to realise how important it is to be true to yourself. There is much freedom to be had by sticking with what feels right, you don't have to stand out to have a fulfilling life. If everything you need you already have then what's there to look for? Just keep on keeping on and you'll be alright.
Man, you're truly a wizard and an inspiration! Yes, never show your face, you already have 2M subscribers, enjoy your peace and anonymity, while making money from doing something that you very obviously love doing. You are truly exceptional and your videos are profoundly meaningful. I cannot congratulate you enough for your channel and this particular video. Never change and keep doing what you're doing. Cheers
You just described my life. Thank you for the validation. Other people’s opinions are irrelevant as long as they don’t interfere with my life. I love being “invisible “.
I am a video game developer (Level Designer) with more than 20 years of experience and throughout my career of several released titles, there have been literally millions of people who've played my work, have experienced the gameplay scenarios and locations that I designed for them to play...and they don't know who I am. It also happened on one occasion in Hamburg when I was wearing a shirt that had the logo of the game company I was working for at the time, and I was mobbed by a dozen kids and teenagers who had a million questions about the next game we were making. I love being invisible.
I've spent my life trying to remain invisible. Even at school would try to blend into the background, avoiding the attention of the teachers and the bullies, and the idiots. At 54 I'm not much different.
I started meditating a lot, and trying to achieve the Buddhist sense of non self. I’m currently overcoming my insecurities, rejecting the need for validation, and it is absolute bliss. It’s still a work in progress, I’m not sure it’s possible to achieve true contentment as I reside in a physical body and brain. But I’d recommend this path to anyone struggling with a dependence on validation. The validation is like drinking saltwater to try to cure your thirst. It will just intensify it and will drive you mad in the end. Seek peace from within, not from outside. It’s the only path.
Excellent! - Your anonymity is part of your success and allows the listeners to focus on your message or thought and NOT be distracted by your looks or what you wear today. You are a messenger of thought-provoking content in an ocean of narcissists and empty-headed "new trends". Keep doing what you are doing and to yourself be true.
True, but it's not that all these people are narcissists, but rather that our culture promotes narcissistic behaviors. It takes the rare quality of going against the herd to remain content with not demonstrating what will gain you recognition in such a culture. Many of these people would likely make great friends and not have the issues that we can so easily label them with, if the culture were to change. That's our task IMHO. The trend isn't going that way though, sadly... You can look up professor Sam Vaknin to get a good analysis about this all
The idea of invisibility is kinda awesome. I really like to quietly do meaningful things behind the scenes and remain "invisible". Doing so keeps me going better and doesn't attract any unnecessary attention.
I need this. It’s okay to be invisible. Thank you. I have a problem with being seen. I lost my dad @18 months, my mom is a narcissist, my half brother hates me because I came along and took my dad from him. I got rejected a lot in Utah not being Mormon. I’ve never fit in and I have desperately wanted to be noticed because I’ve been alone most of my life. I’ve tried social media doesn’t work for me it’s too easy to get wrapped up in likes and metrics and it sucks. My TH-cam channel 😅 I think secretly I don’t want to be seen and I’ve had this hole I’ve been trying to fill. Epiphany just happens. Thanks man.
Try reading J. Krishnamurti, he addresses all of that. Be patient and keep reading, it will come to you. He's the ticket out of your sorrow and you definitely aren't alone. Take care❤
@@kathleenc8810 thanks Kathleen. I’ll check it out and see what’s whats. Currently I’m using the shadow journal and reading Miyamoto Musashi The Book of Five Rings.
@@weebler Thanks for replying! I looked up Shadow Journaling and it sounds like J.Krishnamurti just might be your cup of tea to help with your inner work. I may look into Shadow Journaling myself as I already keep a journal with some of the same elements contained within. Keep going on the path you're on, it sounds like a good one.
One thing that helps maintain this discipline; keep your work life and personal life very separate, don't make friends or date at work. Especially those of us who are unusual because of autism and/or lifestyle. That, and give up on social media. Been off since 2016, it's sooooo worth it.
I worked with someone that I felt shared too much of their business. And felt she had to tell other coworkers that I was too quiet. I was friendly and shared what I wanted. Felt like I was going crazy working there just toxic, people crying every other week. I wanted to stay in the zone that I was only there to get a pay check. I have no regrets that I was a chatter head and didn't trust no one.
This is a power I've grown to love last year. I use to hate feeling invisible and feeling like so many didn't give a damn about me, my work, nor what I've done... but thanks to a few of my friends, some artists I admire, and the movie known as The Menu, I've grown to just appreciate just being here and doing what I love (and even gotten some closure for the artsy side of me). Bless you for making this video and spreading this message. A lot of people out there should definitely hear it.
@-__gh0st__- Oh yeah, I feel that 😂 . The 'Alpha' in my name is suppose to be a biblical reference and not associated with the internet term at all lol.
I have a friend named Neo and it's in his username. People always ask if he thinks he's "The One" from The Matrix and he says "Nope, it's just the name on my birth certificate" 😂 he was born in the 70s in South Africa so his parents didn't name him after the movie either lol
Yet another fantastic video full of wisdom and insight. Yes, being invisible is highly beneficial, I agree. Anonymity is utter freedom. The idea of fame, to me, is repulsive.
We need less judging. What's normal for you might certainly not be normal for others. Introverts need to get out their high horse of assuming they're smarter or deeper than extroverts. Without extroverts, this world would be a boring place.
@chiefchiefstress Where is the judging? In my comment, I said the words 'to me', and 'I agree'. My comment is about me, my experience, and my own opinion. It's not a statement of what should be, it's not saying anyone thinking or acting differently is wrong. Honestly, it's not introverts who judge in any case, it's usually extroverts who do that. They judge introverts all the time, always asking if we're okay if we're quiet or want to be alone. They assume we're depressed or that there's something wrong with us. I get that often. But no, as for my comment above, and the two others who replied to me, there's no judging. I don't get why you commented with what you did.
@@Rise876 There are Trolls who really don't care about the presentations. Their comments are just to create arguments. . . . Jerks looking for a fight. Your thoughtful explanation prob. just went over that jerk's head.
I love being invisible. I actually get quite anxious when I'm in the spotlight, unless I'm with friends. It would be a nightmare if I was famous, considering I live in New York. I would never be left alone.
being an anonymous youtuber gives you the best of both worlds. you get all the money and financial independence without any of the drawbacks of losing your privacy and being famous. it's the perfect balance, all upside and no downside. i've wanted to do an anonymous youtube channel for a long time but just never had any good ideas. you're doing it right.
When I entered the workforce, I was told to make myself relevant and visible to the bosses and stakeholders. You are supposed to stand out, not just for the promotion but also to justify the salary they are paying you. It’s not enough to just do your job and grind quietly at your desk everyday. There are things that I do to just to show I am still working here and not forgotten. It’s just part of the game.
The workplace has a way of making you feel like you're an actor in a play, especially in office jobs. People are usually different in their personal life than they are at work and it's like you and all of your co-workers know this but you're still all playing along for the sake of work. It's a very strange atmosphere the corporate world has created.
Thank you for elucidating so eloquently what I've felt for so long. Something that's caused so much conflict, and yet, I keep choosing invisibility everytime. Instinctively, I guess, making sense to me in the way you describe. Painfully though, it takes a long long time for people to see and appreciate; when trying to make and deepen friendships, finding and being a partner in a serious relationship...
My ex was so obsessed with being someone special. Someone noteworthy. A somebody. I have no social media and the only human interaction i have is in person with coworkers at work or comments on youtube. I am not concerned about being known. Being admired. Being someone to look up to. I am a complete version of apathy and indifference. I dont wish ill on anyone. I wish all to succeed. But not being liked is the same as the sky being blue to me now. It is what it is. Doesnt matter at the end of the day. You dont need anyone to reaffirm your existence. You exist and therefore you matter. Your presence brings something no one to elses can. Also, as long as you dont care about anything, you are truly free to be yourself. Genuine. No fake shit. No facade. No mask. And that in itself is a priceless feeling. And while you do have to give up some things such as (goals, ambitions and dreams with a burning desire and passion) the upsides are worth it.
My experience in life tells me- your analysis is perfectly described. Low profile is the key to daily contentment. Shade the borders & widen your horizons.
Thank you for this. It made my adversity to exposing my self online much clearer. This is exactly what I needed to hear, and what I’ve been thinking/doing for many years 🙏
Fame has always seemed like it would be terrible to me. While I hope my words affect others or inspires a change, I find myself only really able to have awareness of that by not being subject to attention for the act. It seems inauthentic, I question my own and others motives when seeking fame or recognition of a good deed. One loses sight of the inner self when the focus, the desire is attention and approal from others. I was never content when I did this, never will be... that is what being able to with self has shown me.
Seeking attention and/or approval from others is an EGO DRIVEN strategy. The Human Ego is NOT our friend. Not following our Ego's suggestions is a BIG STEP in authentic Human behavior/Growth.
This channel is what I was looking for years, Im glad I found you! You are enriching my life in an amazing way and I can’t wait to watch all your remaining videos! Thanks for your insightful work!
I'm so invisible that I don't even need this channel to confirm it. . but I LOVE YOU so much for everything you share. . everything you share is beautiful workmanship, and is of service to humanity. .THANK YOU for your service! 💋
When I was younger, I always look for recognition from others... I dont want to trauma dump but I figured the reason why I acted that way is because I always look for my parents recognition growing up. I received significant recognitions lately (from my company and school) and nobody knows about it 😂😂😂 I decided to stay lowkey because I dont want people expect too much from me... its exhausting really
Yes, thankyou brother. Your contents are priceless and etch deeply to me inside, Being invisible is a blessing in itself, you get the whole world where you are only you and even more. The beauty lies in becoming thyself and grow in the sedate 🤞🏻☘
These comments are really helping me, nobody going nowhere. My invisibility can feel like a super power. Yet naturally non-conforming, I long for the deepest of connections and authenticity. I do acknowledge the guides, elementals, angels, and ancestors always reside near. I try to remember that human connection is always possible, yes, to be seen. That, I cannot control, but I can enjoy seeing. This channel has been a balm. Thank you
As children we were subject to the idea of achieving, in school, in a career, in a partner, in a family, etc. I think that is why people want everyone to look at them. They want to feel validated and significant.
This was a great video 👍. I like being invisible, it gives me peace and freedom and independence. I don't seek for validation from the outside. It's something I started to realize in my mid-thirtees and I'm glad I did. Thank you Einzelgänger 🙏
I think many women inherently understand this when they begin their 20s, even earlier for some. Being "seen" isn't fun anymore after a point, it can be scary and harmful. Dressing up for a night out is fun in groups, but being visible as a single, alone, woman can be frightening experience, depending on the setting.
Thanks for sharing. I’ve always was ostracized since a child. While that was horrible thinking, I managed to go out into the world to seek and find people, places and things that allowed me to experience. Not being stuck on the approval of family members, my life invested loved varieties. Being in my 60’s enjoying doing things I love listening online to uplifting, encouraging, challenging, meaningful, mind opening stories is adventurous. Thanks for reading my comments. Smiles
If you're invisible, you have less enemies, less evil eyes, and more control
I have always been too introverted to be comfortable showing to true self to the public. I like be invisible. It's.... peaceful. It's nice and quiet and cozy.
As a fellow introvert I completely relate 😊
Confidence is silent, insecurities are loud.
good one !
Being a push over is also silent. Standing up for yourself is sometimes also loud. Too simple truths won't get you far.
I'm not sure why I am thinking of cars with loud exhaust, but I think that's what you mean.
@@marlonjormungand7845 @tomjones8293 is stating a psychological axiom.
@@marlonjormungand7845
One needn't be loud to stand up for oneself. Anger and aggressiveness are EGO-DRIVEN behaviors. If a person who is in touch with their ONENESS with SOURCE and all on Earth, they are able to stand up for themselves in a peaceful, loving manner.
Personal integrity and personal space need not be loud and aggressive. Truth need not be shouted.
I deleted my social media over a year ago and I LOVE how free I am. No longer attempting to manage my image while balancing the opinions of others is PURE BLISS. Great video🤝🏾
I prefer to manage my image without concern to the opinion of others. I've connected with some great people via social media that I would have never met in my daily goings. I've also landed my top 3 biggest clients ever via social media. There's a balance of course, and being connected with the right people is even more important. Being able to digitally detox and unfollow people whom the chapter of your connection has ended.
You haven't understood the thing.
Getting clients via social media anonymously and exposing your image there has several consequences.
Yet, you can just expose image in front of clients.
Like SMMA Stuff, Or Other Things All Of That You Don't Need To Show Your Face Everywhere.
Also There Is WhatsApp And Phone Calls To Stay In Contact With.😊@@Originalman144
I have never used a social media account. When I was young I saw the potential dangers and how it could be used to destroy someone. At work I constantly see girls checking their social media and getting upset when they only get a few likes on a post.
Personally I only use social media to converse with a small circle of friends and to see what others are doing. Everyone has their own methods though and I am glad you found what works for you
I too deleted Instagram a couple weeks ago and I cannot express how great it has been for me. It has easily been one of the best decisions in my life.
I am at peace without any need to notice what others do or validate myself through posts and stories or waste my time mindlessly scrolling reels. I get my information and news from google and books and I’m more than satisfied!
I’ve always kept this quote close “To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.”
Ralph Waldo Emerson
Self Reliance - "a true man is one whom can remain themselves in a crowd." He said it many ways in that essay and it becomes more relevant as time goes on.
I’m pretty sure the greatest accomplishment would be to SOMEHOW travel to the other side of the universe in a split second RIGHT NOW. Or be in space without a spacesuit and not die.
@@Mr.Honest247 what would have been accomplished by that exactly?
"Self-reliance" is a very short read that I always go back to. That essay is pure gold.
That's been my goal since a child but the internet has taught morons that they should "choose your avatar and pronouns". People used to always steal my photos and content and claim it as their own. Creeeeeeepy people online.
Im in my 30's and I dont want relevance, I want peace in my life. Being invisible is working out very well for me. What I want, think, and feel is what matters. I pursue interests that I like, I don't follow trends. I can focus on my goals and pour more energy and time into myself. I have privacy and its peaceful 😊
Thank you for speaking for me, too.
Sounds like an amazing way of living❤️
Being invisible has been my first line of defense since I was a child. I'm over 70 now, and it still works.
I am half your age and it's worked out beautifully thus far for me too. :)
Especially with collection agencies.
But how? Because I was told that being social and having connections is key to achieving your goals
@@wackoterp7026 A few cowokers/industry peers who know who you are is not the same thing as attention seeking. You remain invisible to society at large. Assuming your career path is skill-based, your resume will open doors for you after a while, that is how I have advanced. I don't attend industry events, I don't join local professionals groups, I don't write books, I don't give talks, I don't post on social media, to all but a few people I am at most a comment or two under a youtube video with a happy piece of poop for a user image... and yet I have advanced to a senior position in my career and make good money. That comes entirely from learning skills and doing my best at every job I have had, not from networking or being even remotely known.
Me too. Invisible is safe.
In danish we have a saying that goes "den der lever stille, lever godt". It means "he who lives a quiet life, lives a good life". I follow this philosophy a lot in relation to social media, and it is also the reason why I would never strive to be a celebrity in any way shape or form. Glad to have some words put onto it.
We have something similar in French "vivons heureux vivons cacher"
@@Onceuponadevil Ouais, cette est vrai
@@waedjradi hello ! Comment allez-vous ?
@@Onceuponadevil Je suis ça va. Cette rien. Oú vien tu?
@@waedjradi France et vous?
The moral of the story is that there's nothing wrong with being a nobody. There's nothing wrong with working toward your own small goals. Or with not being wildly successful, whatever that even means. There's nothing wrong with having only a tiny sliver of influence on the people that matter to you
I like that : working towards your own small goals. It ties in with the idea of the benefits of being able to appreciate the small things in life.
well said my bro
I like the stoic mindset. You can only controle your own actions
nicely said bro
I get that
My mother put it like this, "If you're running around trying to be someone else, who's going to be you?"
Other thing she told me was a Mark Twain quote.
"The two most important days in your life are the day you were born and the day you find out why
You had a lovely mum. Thanks for telling her words ❤❤❤
I've been invisible for many years, quietly living a rather solitary existence...watching and observing, not allowing anyone to complicate or diminish my life. Every day, there's always something to do or something to learn
That's right, I really agree with your statement
Unfortunately I can't be invisible here in America, because in Racist America a Halfbreed like me really stands out, especially since Donald Trump has actively encouraged racism. In Canada I likely wouldn't be noticed, but I would still be on the bottom of the social ladder...
Fame will cost you privacy & freedom to enjoy in life..
What you say is right, but I think it depends on each case@@sexymary
Peace is a beautiful gift and invisibility is the box that it comes with
Not having social media is the best thing ever, people call me crazy but im very happy without it.
technically TH-cam is social media; but your point is made.
*IT TOOK ME 40 YEARS* of being a big somebody to realise that its OK to be a nobody, and its quite nice...
ya, same - you can make a stupid art, music etc. whatever, and learn that is stupid, and nobody cares :D
@@MatichekTH-cam I was a millionaire, but I was pretty miserable. Then I suffered brain damage in a mugging and became homeless. I got myself together and lived in a tiny empty apartment, at first I was deeply ashamed - but then I started to like it.
The emptiness was serenity, I didn't have to worry about employees or business or anything beyond my next meal, I wrote some books and learned to tailor bespoke historical suits and actively avoided going back to my old life.
I was thinking last week about writing a book "How I Learned to Like Myself" or similar...
@@piccalillipit9211 yes, interesting, you should
I, at 76, rarely raise an eye. All women will someday wake up and realize they've become invisible. My mother told me about it. I'm telling you...prepare your heart and don't fall into the trap of trying to reverse the inevitable. It'll only make it worse. (I pray someone who needs to hear this got this far).
@@piccalillipit9211Simplicity is its own reward.
There's nothing more authentic than to embrace the simple lifestyle when it deeply resonates with you on the inside.
"The greater the outward show, the greater the inward poverty." - J. Krishnamurti
I'm a fan of J. Krishnamurti, his words are more and more meaningful to me every time I read them. He said he aimed to help us gain total freedom of our minds.
The girl whose entire instagram account is photos of herself and selfies is the most destitute soul on earth.
but i don’t think this is always the case.
I worked as a security guard at a major studio and wearing that security guard uniform allowed me to go just about everywhere on the property. It was also like wearing an invisible suit because nobody saw me. I listened to executives have long "private" conversations in front of me and they didn't acknowledge that I was in the room or off to the side within hearing distance. Janitor uniform is another great invisible suit. No one will see you and they will talk among themselves as if you weren't there.
As someone once said: "I like to be discovered, not announced!"
During my school days we had the poem "Ozymandias" our English text book. The message stuck with me for the rest of my life. No mater how great you and your accomplishments are, time & competition has a way of erasing all. In the end you sacrificed the precious you to be something in eyes of the world just to be lost forever in the future. Such a waste, such a waste....
Also one of my favorite poems. I believe fictional ozymandias, accomplished much while he lived. His rule benefited his culture, his times, his community, his people, his legacy, even his enemies who had to become stronger due to threat.. before he was "almost" erased. Even his story benefited those who knew of him . Witness yourself and i". He was not a nobody who lived invisibly, set no example, benefited no one, and died.
That's a great perspective.
That's what happened to me. I spent 13 years spending half or more of my paycheck on the rarest and best Tom Brady football cards and when I cashed out I purchased an incredible wardrobe and started chasing the Ladies. Long story short I'm still alone and single my accomplishments ment nothing.
Your anonymity is the true essence of the "Einzelgänger" project. If you revealed your face like all those narcissistic TH-camrs, perhaps you would have deprived the audience of the calm and the serenity that you transmit with your voice and wisdom. Thank you for being what you are because you have helped me weather many hard days and moments.
100%
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Exactly ❤
That's right, I really agree with your statement
Yep I agree. I prefer you stay faceless 🙃
I was born in a little town where my parents were well known. everybody knew who I was. EVERYBODY. I couldn't do anything or go anywhere without my parents to know, and even the entire town. I was born into this so I didn't notice it, but this was part of the feeling I had I was choking when I was young. then I went to Europe to go to college, in a big town, and all of a sudden, nobody knew who I was. I felt so light, so free, so good!!! from this time I knew, never again! I have no tiktok, no youtube channel, my facebook is only for little business. I do not exist on the internet. I am a happy nobody.
Being nobody is the only real freedom... due to the way this world has become.
True Peacefulness
I love being "invisible", nobody ever bothers me, i dont bother anyone, i don't have any enemies and I'm constantly getting promotions at work because I'm laser focused on my work as opposed to standing around and talking like other employees
I used to love the concept of invisability. Due to trauma of course. But even after being healed.. i love being invisible. Its so freeing.
gl living a good life my friend
real trauma never heals, u just need triggers u see its still there. losing family members is not a trauma.
@@Science-Vlog I noticed this too.
gl with ur life too @@JaCsIObre
Its how most off the people lived before uss
I wouldn't trade the freedom of being invisible and having the peace to come and go for anything in this world.
This ultimately boils down to the type of personality you have...
For me, I like being invisible - it gives me the freedom to do as I please. It's also liberating to not be constantly seeking acceptance, approval and validation from others.
The crazy thing lots of people don't realise is that no matter how much acceptance, approval and validation you receive - it's never enough... You always want more.
I don't really understand why some people seek acceptance, approval and validation by the masses. Most people are idiots. Why even care about the opinion of the sheep? You give that to yourself.
I like being invisible. Thanks for your great videos❤
At some point it becomes exhausting needing to uphold a persona to so many people, especially people you do not know personally. Not to say there aren't people that can manage it, but they're the exception not the norm.
I agree, validation and expectations are like an opium
@@markusaurelius83 maybe for money , job promotions, and need to be recognized caused people tend to looked down to the uknown
It’s really a surprise to me that seeing other people subscribe to “being invisible is OK” is actually kind of comforting. I really didn’t expect that. Because outside of this video, and this comment section, I just assumed I was on an island. Which I was ok with. But reading your comments is making me smile. Just to know you’re out there is pretty cool.
Being nobody gives me a lot of peace of mind... That reason alone is priceless in this crazy world...
Peace is a much undervalued asset nowadays :)
I left facebook 2 years ago, my life has been fruitfull after that.
I don't know why this showed up in my feed, but I'm grateful.
Truth. The downside of fame is being heavily scrutinized, and the loss of freedom and privacy. The public "owns" you now.
Yep, I enjoy being in foreign countries because no one recognizes me, its absolutely enjoyable and you don’t have to keep watching your back
@@nik3x47 THAT is true! I only traveled overseas once, and found the same thing. I felt more freedom, relaxation, and solitude on the crowded street and subways, than in my own town where neighbors and family all knew each other. Because people were so busy and focused on their own deadlines and situations that they didn't scrutinize each other. Loved it.
I have always subscribed to the philosophy of invisibility and I agree with the reasons you have provided. I think it began with not wanting to play the games that others play and finding that attention seeking people were pretentious. Initially I was ostracized by others and felt hurt and excluded. Growing up with low self esteem prevented me from taking the center stage or feeling self important and worthy of people's attention. After spending so much time alone and watching others rise and fall, I realized just how lucky I was to be unnoticed. I wanted the superpower of invisibility. I began to make sure that I looked ordinary and avoided the limelight. In doing so, I managed to avoid negative attention or be bullied or suspect. I think the biggest challenge to living this lifestyle was to find a way to become financially independent. Once you are no longer reliant upon others financially and for approval and attention, you can truly be free and do almost anything you want virtually unnoticed.
I agree. When you are invisible or a so-called 'nobody', you are able to enjoy life and your freedom.. You'll not be a slave to everybody's expectations of you .. Once you got to the point of being financially well off, still, be low-key asf and you'll enjoy life to the fullest.. Privacy is gold.
You are correct. At 63 I am financially independant and answer to no one.
Sounds familiar. I like privacy. I wear what I like, I follow some trends(if I like them), ignore other trends, just it. If others like/dislike how I look, it is not my problem. I enjoy attending social events sometimes, I do it when I want and how I want. I like to socialize with some people sometimes, but I am mostly alone and I find it comforting.
As a 60 something female in the US, I am invisible. This bothered me at first but then I realized flying below the radar is awesome! I have always been unconventional and now no one cares🤣
Let's get married lol
Jcsrst
Allow me to say
DITTO !!!
I'm 77 and also became glad to be invisible. I'm free to be my authentic self liking my own company and saving all that ENERGY I used to spend trying to be likeable or funny or cute. 😇
This is the greatest part about getting older. I found when I was a younger woman, there was more judgement when out in public. If someone thought you were attractive, they'd stare at you or approach you. If someone thought you were unattractive or they were intimidated by you, they'd snicker to their friends or give you sour looks. It was hard to escape constant judgement based solely on appearances.
I'm in my late 40s now and get way less attention. If I smile or am kind to someone, there's no weird assumptions of me flirting or anything like that.
It's easier to just exist, be myself and blend in.
I’m 60+ female, fat and gray haired. Being invisible is my superpower.
@@coolbreeze5683
After 65 I was FREE to actually outright flirt with WHOEVER I chose and folks just thought I was cute. Hah!! Yet another perk to being an 'Old Lady'.
Invisible is fun & normal to me. I was raised pretty strict where "children are to been seen and not heard".... But I was also taught "to give your best effort at anything you try". I combined those two throughout the years!
I never knew I was training for this age of overexposure & lack of privacy.
I'm glad you are happy with your decision to remain "invisible". It puts your message in the spotlight instead of distracting the audience. You're entitled to your privacy and anonymity while benefitting all of us with your wisdom.
he's a Soviet
Privacy is the possibility of having a sacred space where we can bare our souls before God and God alone ..
Power of critical thinking
@@kevinwelsh7490 nah he's Dutch
@@chantal4366 Dutch Soviet
Being invisible in case of content creators makes the message stand out more than the creator him/herself. I really value this in the times when we're experiencing a flood of narcisistic people. In general, quiet life is something to be cherished more
Thank you! This is so timely for me. I deactivated Instagram last week, and finally got the courage to deactivate Facebook yesterday. Now I have no social media, and am taking steps to limit my TH-cam consumption. What once was frightening is now attractive. I desire anonymity, to no longer care if my posts matter to a stranger, and to live my life on my own terms without the influence of others who don’t matter to me. I truly value your content. Thank you for doing what you do, and bravo for maintaining your anonymity.
I also left Facebook and Instagram a few years ago, and while at first, it left a big void, that void was replaced with calm and sanity. I will never go back to that place.
@@vidiot9000 thank you for the validation. I’m looking forward to the increased serenity, and the anonymity.
These habits are difficult to change, but I know you can do it, and you have already started your journey away from the antisocial media space. The beauty in this change is gaining so much time and energy that you can spend on healthier activities!
@@johnlangston4108 Congrats!
I haven't had Facebook in close to a decade.
In your opinion, why is it so bad? Not that I want to go back and find out, so would appreciate your opinion on that.
@-__gh0st__- another great reason to avoid these platforms, they don’t care about the user at all.
Invisibility is a form of protecting privacy. Thank you for uploading 🙏🏻
I understand how people may feel. When I wrote the apology msg, I preferred myself invisible. But at the same time, I have some thoughts after reading the Stoics philosophy, so I just put the 2 paragraphs on one page. It doesn’t mean that the thought for reading also needed to be invisible.
In this case, I’ll put the thoughts for reading as a comment in the video I just watched, then only the apology part is invisible.
I love being a “fly on the wall.” I find life to be so much more enjoyable without too much outside attention, and it’s taken a lifetime to understand that happiness comes from not needing outside validation. ❤
I must say being alone has given me a measure of mental tranquility. Something i never encountered while trying to fit in with others. As your video states people by in large end up surrounded by fake friends. Users, nothing more.
You as a TH-camr being anonymous gives you more of a spirit guide feel for your channel. I think that works much better for these videos
agreed!
Exactly
Absolutely agree.
Interesting you have the biggest narcissist in the world as your profile picture.
@@DustyMacrotrump 2024!
Stealth is the way. Embrace irrelevance! Escape the drama. Liberate yourself from "The Matrix"... walk away from the theater, the stage, the game, the race. Love the howls of Einzelganger!
I've been a nobody for most of my life. In school they called me mr. nobody, which was refreshing. I didn't like the attention and I still don't. Being an introvert may have an influence. For some time in the past years, I somehow lost myself in showing off and trying to be special while being creative, until people recognized me and I hated it so much. I value privacy a lot, so I went back to be nobody, not looking for attention from strangers, not showing my face or name online. And I feel so much happier and authentic. Most people don't need to know who you are. It's enough if your loved ones know and rather spend your time and focus on them and yourself, not on some shallow strangers. It brings a lot of peace to know you're nobody to the world.
As a woman in my 60's, I started to disappear in my early 50's. I also wear alot of black, navy and grey clothing. Once I was shopping with my daughter and told her I was invisible. To prove the point I started dancing in the shoe isle in a well known store, and no one looked at me. It was silly, but people actually walked by me and pretended I wasn't there. She said people probably thought I was crazy and didn't want to embarrass me, but I felt powerful. 😊
After I finally accepted my music career was over, I became anti-social. I didn't shy at an opportunity to play a song at an open mic or if friends wanted to hear an old original, but I did not seek them. Life has just put me in scenarios where I could choose to be successful. I feel more at peace with who I am without prying eyes, portraying an extreme persona constantly, and distributing myself like a product. What I am today is just a man, and if the right circumstances allow, you may see a master performer. But if not, I am quite content to being unamed, and unknown
You were once bold enough to even doing music?
@@sneakykidugo yes
"And be a simple kind of man
Oh, be something you love and understand"
@@andreasklindt7144 I like what you did there partner
Thank you for this video. It was an addition to a philosophy I have had for some time. As one who has been invisible most my life it isn’t until later years that I learned to appreciate it. The “invisibility” has led me to have less people noticing me, therefore less demands on my precious time. I have the space to be myself instead of wasting my time trying to meet others requests on my time. Thank you mate. I value your wisdom.
Precious time that is the key. None of us know how much we have remaining, regardless of age.
"He suffers more than necessary, who suffers before it is necessary." - Seneca
Ive tried both approaches, being myself most of the time has earned me few friends but some. Being very quiet and blending in which earned me zero friends. What really matters to people is how you make them feel, thats what they will remember.
I am so private I feel like I’ve always been invisible. It’s a good place to observe the chaos and I quite like it ✨
The first benefit I can think of with the way you present your channel (Anonymously) is that the content ALWAYS comes first and you are not caught up in the cult of personality.
I realized this strength since I've been introverting for most of my life.
You would rather be an introvert?
@@CharlieKellyEsqIntrovert doesn’t mean anti social shut-in, it just means that you’re drained by too much social interaction. Idk why people call themselves solely introverted when they’re just anti social
I find that being invisible gives me more control. When others speak and direct attention, it invites people to chatter about them when they are not there. Being in the sidelines and invisible doesn't give other people opportunities to speak about you or on you. It's only your actions that you allow to speak for you. Plus, if you have a special someone, you only want to be 'visible' to them. Visibility then becomes a concept of love, loyalty, vulnerability and most importantly trust. Great video!
Never had Instagram, Snapchat, TikTok, Facebook etc. Never posted deeply personal posts/videos on TH-cam. Absolutely love my "off the radar" life! ❤. Such a powerful and valuable video. Thanks for posting!
Respect mate
@@shachinartlab - back at ya! ❤️
@-__gh0st__- - It, honestly, is so liberating to be free from the need/desire to be " noticed" or " relevant "
Fill your life with experiences that really matter: family, friends, laughter, learning, nature, delicious food etc. Make memories not social media "friends". You sound like a balanced person. When it ( social media) all becomes overwhelming, just take a step back from it and really enjoy the feeling!
Same here. I love privacy - the thought of posting my private life online fills me with fear and loathing.
@@lobstermash- 👌💯. Absolutely! Once it's out there- it's out there forever. Pretty scary......
I think you're more relatable being anonymous. I'm as invisible as possible- no social media, minding my own business, enjoying my freedom and peace. This resonates with me 100%❤
It’s blessings to be rich, successful and being invisible 😂. only scammers used to do that but it’s possible for few like you in this internet era.
Blending in while not conforming is my life path ❤
All True and Alive Gospel Spoken here....
One of the most charming qualities of living in gratitude is, aside from accepting everything life throws at you as a gift; is that your actions will, for the most part, will go unnoticed.
Thus a grateful person embraces an anonymous existence; graciously. Incognito.
Incredible video! I feel this hits so close to home. This is a path I've wanted and people who are engrossed in vain will regularly try to convince us that living OUR lifestyle is "wrong", "lesser". They cannot fathom not throwing themselves into the risky lifestyle of surrendering yourself to other people, destroying parts of oneself as some kind of sick sacrifice to gain validation. Because, they get that validation. But they don't know what happens when they begin to step out of line, that they're essentially surrundering their control to complete strangers who will determine whether they are to be considered Acceptable or Not.
The less we depend on people for happiness, the the less enslaved we are, that is part of acquiring true freedom. Thank you for these videos!
Very well said .. 🙌🏽💪🏽👏🏽
I am basically invisible. And designed it. It is my best creation. The less I’m noticed, the happier I am. Self Contentment. Books. Nature. Cooking. Connection on your own terms. Highly recommended. Be well.. my Brethren.
You live in a cave?
Almost. Highly recommend stepping back from this narcissistic society.
Every time you post a video, I feel like you are reading my mind and we are best friends talking about life. Priceless having a friend like you, thank you!
I've been blessed with a shitty life. Having ASD, I've struggled tremendously to fit in and find my place in the world. Now that I'm a bit older I've come to realise how important it is to be true to yourself. There is much freedom to be had by sticking with what feels right, you don't have to stand out to have a fulfilling life. If everything you need you already have then what's there to look for? Just keep on keeping on and you'll be alright.
Man, you're truly a wizard and an inspiration! Yes, never show your face, you already have 2M subscribers, enjoy your peace and anonymity, while making money from doing something that you very obviously love doing. You are truly exceptional and your videos are profoundly meaningful. I cannot congratulate you enough for your channel and this particular video. Never change and keep doing what you're doing. Cheers
You just described my life.
Thank you for the validation.
Other people’s opinions are irrelevant as long as they don’t interfere with my life.
I love being “invisible “.
I am a video game developer (Level Designer) with more than 20 years of experience and throughout my career of several released titles, there have been literally millions of people who've played my work, have experienced the gameplay scenarios and locations that I designed for them to play...and they don't know who I am. It also happened on one occasion in Hamburg when I was wearing a shirt that had the logo of the game company I was working for at the time, and I was mobbed by a dozen kids and teenagers who had a million questions about the next game we were making.
I love being invisible.
I've spent my life trying to remain invisible. Even at school would try to blend into the background, avoiding the attention of the teachers and the bullies, and the idiots. At 54 I'm not much different.
I started meditating a lot, and trying to achieve the Buddhist sense of non self. I’m currently overcoming my insecurities, rejecting the need for validation, and it is absolute bliss. It’s still a work in progress, I’m not sure it’s possible to achieve true contentment as I reside in a physical body and brain. But I’d recommend this path to anyone struggling with a dependence on validation. The validation is like drinking saltwater to try to cure your thirst. It will just intensify it and will drive you mad in the end. Seek peace from within, not from outside. It’s the only path.
Excellent! - Your anonymity is part of your success and allows the listeners to focus on your message or thought and NOT be distracted by your looks or what you wear today. You are a messenger of thought-provoking content in an ocean of narcissists and empty-headed "new trends". Keep doing what you are doing and to yourself be true.
True, but it's not that all these people are narcissists, but rather that our culture promotes narcissistic behaviors.
It takes the rare quality of going against the herd to remain content with not demonstrating what will gain you recognition in such a culture.
Many of these people would likely make great friends and not have the issues that we can so easily label them with, if the culture were to change.
That's our task IMHO.
The trend isn't going that way though, sadly...
You can look up professor Sam Vaknin to get a good analysis about this all
Another way of saying chart your own course is.......
IF YOU FOLLOW THE HERD YOU'LL LIKELY STEP IN A LOT OF WHAT THEY LEAVE BEHIND. 💩 😊
I love being invisible. I can get away with things I do in public that I otherwise wouldn't be able to if I was well known.
Agree, I have actually been thinking about this a lot lately. It is a great way to avoid wasting valuable time, bandwidth, energy, and focus.
The idea of invisibility is kinda awesome. I really like to quietly do meaningful things behind the scenes and remain "invisible". Doing so keeps me going better and doesn't attract any unnecessary attention.
Yes invisibility is best by far. Great video, thank you for it, and all your work.
I deleted social media I had 15 k and couldn't keep up with all the conversations. I've never felt more free and happy
Blending is dangerous for me. I forgot who I am and I’m left with the pain of not truly fitting
I need this. It’s okay to be invisible. Thank you.
I have a problem with being seen. I lost my dad @18 months, my mom is a narcissist, my half brother hates me because I came along and took my dad from him. I got rejected a lot in Utah not being Mormon. I’ve never fit in and I have desperately wanted to be noticed because I’ve been alone most of my life. I’ve tried social media doesn’t work for me it’s too easy to get wrapped up in likes and metrics and it sucks. My TH-cam channel 😅
I think secretly I don’t want to be seen and I’ve had this hole I’ve been trying to fill. Epiphany just happens. Thanks man.
Try reading J. Krishnamurti, he addresses all of that. Be patient and keep reading, it will come to you. He's the ticket out of your sorrow and you definitely aren't alone. Take care❤
@@kathleenc8810 thanks Kathleen. I’ll check it out and see what’s whats. Currently I’m using the shadow journal and reading Miyamoto Musashi The Book of Five Rings.
@@weebler Thanks for replying! I looked up Shadow Journaling and it sounds like J.Krishnamurti just might be your cup of tea to help with your inner work. I may look into Shadow Journaling myself as I already keep a journal with some of the same elements contained within. Keep going on the path you're on, it sounds like a good one.
@@kathleenc8810 thanks! You too! If I could I’d send you one.
One thing that helps maintain this discipline; keep your work life and personal life very separate, don't make friends or date at work.
Especially those of us who are unusual because of autism and/or lifestyle.
That, and give up on social media. Been off since 2016, it's sooooo worth it.
I worked with someone that I felt shared too much of their business. And felt she had to tell other coworkers that I was too quiet. I was friendly and shared what I wanted. Felt like I was going crazy working there just toxic, people crying every other week. I wanted to stay in the zone that I was only there to get a pay check. I have no regrets that I was a chatter head and didn't trust no one.
In a world in which it often seems that nobody cares, nobody knows, and nobody is truly happy, it has never been a better time to be nobody.
This is a power I've grown to love last year. I use to hate feeling invisible and feeling like so many didn't give a damn about me, my work, nor what I've done... but thanks to a few of my friends, some artists I admire, and the movie known as The Menu, I've grown to just appreciate just being here and doing what I love (and even gotten some closure for the artsy side of me). Bless you for making this video and spreading this message. A lot of people out there should definitely hear it.
Same here
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@-__gh0st__- Ah, gotcha lol 😎
@-__gh0st__- Oh yeah, I feel that 😂 . The 'Alpha' in my name is suppose to be a biblical reference and not associated with the internet term at all lol.
I have a friend named Neo and it's in his username. People always ask if he thinks he's "The One" from The Matrix and he says "Nope, it's just the name on my birth certificate" 😂 he was born in the 70s in South Africa so his parents didn't name him after the movie either lol
Yet another fantastic video full of wisdom and insight. Yes, being invisible is highly beneficial, I agree. Anonymity is utter freedom. The idea of fame, to me, is repulsive.
and frightening!
Being an introvert, I would hate it!
We need less judging. What's normal for you might certainly not be normal for others. Introverts need to get out their high horse of assuming they're smarter or deeper than extroverts.
Without extroverts, this world would be a boring place.
@chiefchiefstress Where is the judging? In my comment, I said the words 'to me', and 'I agree'. My comment is about me, my experience, and my own opinion. It's not a statement of what should be, it's not saying anyone thinking or acting differently is wrong. Honestly, it's not introverts who judge in any case, it's usually extroverts who do that. They judge introverts all the time, always asking if we're okay if we're quiet or want to be alone. They assume we're depressed or that there's something wrong with us. I get that often. But no, as for my comment above, and the two others who replied to me, there's no judging. I don't get why you commented with what you did.
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There are Trolls who really don't care about the presentations. Their comments are just to create arguments. . . .
Jerks looking for a fight.
Your thoughtful explanation prob. just went over that jerk's head.
This kinds of videos resonate me. I don't have anyone to talk to about these things so I am grateful for this.
I love being invisible. I actually get quite anxious when I'm in the spotlight, unless I'm with friends. It would be a nightmare if I was famous, considering I live in New York. I would never be left alone.
Agreed. As Epicur said: Live hidden. Works very well.
being an anonymous youtuber gives you the best of both worlds. you get all the money and financial independence without any of the drawbacks of losing your privacy and being famous. it's the perfect balance, all upside and no downside. i've wanted to do an anonymous youtube channel for a long time but just never had any good ideas. you're doing it right.
I love being invisible. No stress, no drama, no fuss, beautiful.
When I entered the workforce, I was told to make myself relevant and visible to the bosses and stakeholders. You are supposed to stand out, not just for the promotion but also to justify the salary they are paying you. It’s not enough to just do your job and grind quietly at your desk everyday. There are things that I do to just to show I am still working here and not forgotten. It’s just part of the game.
The workplace has a way of making you feel like you're an actor in a play, especially in office jobs. People are usually different in their personal life than they are at work and it's like you and all of your co-workers know this but you're still all playing along for the sake of work. It's a very strange atmosphere the corporate world has created.
@@coolbreeze5683it is so awful and so fake.
Would you mind sharing some tipps to not end up a forgotten worker drone?
Thank you for elucidating so eloquently what I've felt for so long. Something that's caused so much conflict, and yet, I keep choosing invisibility everytime. Instinctively, I guess, making sense to me in the way you describe. Painfully though, it takes a long long time for people to see and appreciate; when trying to make and deepen friendships, finding and being a partner in a serious relationship...
My ex was so obsessed with being someone special. Someone noteworthy. A somebody. I have no social media and the only human interaction i have is in person with coworkers at work or comments on youtube. I am not concerned about being known. Being admired. Being someone to look up to. I am a complete version of apathy and indifference. I dont wish ill on anyone. I wish all to succeed. But not being liked is the same as the sky being blue to me now. It is what it is. Doesnt matter at the end of the day. You dont need anyone to reaffirm your existence. You exist and therefore you matter. Your presence brings something no one to elses can. Also, as long as you dont care about anything, you are truly free to be yourself. Genuine. No fake shit. No facade. No mask. And that in itself is a priceless feeling. And while you do have to give up some things such as (goals, ambitions and dreams with a burning desire and passion) the upsides are worth it.
Hear, hear. I couldnt agree more. 😊
My experience in life tells me- your analysis is perfectly described. Low profile is the key to daily contentment. Shade the borders & widen your horizons.
You are an amazing person. Your depth and intelligence is so impressive. Especially in today’s world. Thank you for making these videos!
For real! We appreciate you! Saving lives!
Thank you for this. It made my adversity to exposing my self online much clearer. This is exactly what I needed to hear, and what I’ve been thinking/doing for many years 🙏
Fame has always seemed like it would be terrible to me. While I hope my words affect others or inspires a change, I find myself only really able to have awareness of that by not being subject to attention for the act. It seems inauthentic, I question my own and others motives when seeking fame or recognition of a good deed. One loses sight of the inner self when the focus, the desire is attention and approal from others. I was never content when I did this, never will be... that is what being able to with self has shown me.
a good deed is no good deed if you want it to be rewarded.
agreed with your comment.
Seeking attention and/or approval from others is an EGO DRIVEN strategy.
The Human Ego is NOT our friend. Not following our Ego's suggestions is a BIG STEP in authentic Human behavior/Growth.
This channel is what I was looking for years, Im glad I found you!
You are enriching my life in an amazing way and I can’t wait to watch all your remaining videos! Thanks for your insightful work!
I'm so invisible that I don't even need this channel to confirm it. . but I LOVE YOU so much for everything you share. . everything you share is beautiful workmanship, and is of service to humanity. .THANK YOU for your service! 💋
AMEN !!!
and so it IS.
You have helped me through very difficult situations, through grieving and very hard times. Bless your heart ❤
When I was younger, I always look for recognition from others... I dont want to trauma dump but I figured the reason why I acted that way is because I always look for my parents recognition growing up. I received significant recognitions lately (from my company and school) and nobody knows about it 😂😂😂 I decided to stay lowkey because I dont want people expect too much from me... its exhausting really
Yes, thankyou brother. Your contents are priceless and etch deeply to me inside, Being invisible is a blessing in itself, you get the whole world where you are only you and even more. The beauty lies in becoming thyself and grow in the sedate 🤞🏻☘
These comments are really helping me, nobody going nowhere. My invisibility can feel like a super power. Yet naturally non-conforming, I long for the deepest of connections and authenticity. I do acknowledge the guides, elementals, angels, and ancestors always reside near. I try to remember that human connection is always possible, yes, to be seen. That, I cannot control, but I can enjoy seeing. This channel has been a balm. Thank you
As children we were subject to the idea of achieving, in school, in a career, in a partner, in a family, etc. I think that is why people want everyone to look at them. They want to feel validated and significant.
I like being invisible and peaceful. That IS a super power, brother! Love your channel! Thanks for the content and sharing. 💙✌️🤗
great work...more of us should learn 2 be content in obscurity. it is safety & peace there...bein a hidden gem is a good thing
This was a great video 👍. I like being invisible, it gives me peace and freedom and independence. I don't seek for validation from the outside. It's something I started to realize in my mid-thirtees and I'm glad I did. Thank you Einzelgänger 🙏
Well done. I wanted to be a Finance Titan once, but learned Im better off being invisible.
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I think many women inherently understand this when they begin their 20s, even earlier for some. Being "seen" isn't fun anymore after a point, it can be scary and harmful. Dressing up for a night out is fun in groups, but being visible as a single, alone, woman can be frightening experience, depending on the setting.
Thank you for saying this ❤
Some people think all women want attention and a man with lots of money. Those people are idiots.
@yuordreams - sad but true 😔
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Thanks for sharing. I’ve always was ostracized since a child. While that was horrible thinking, I managed to go out into the world to seek and find people, places and things that allowed me to experience. Not being stuck on the approval of family members, my life invested loved varieties. Being in my 60’s enjoying doing things I love listening online to uplifting, encouraging, challenging, meaningful, mind opening stories is adventurous. Thanks for reading my comments. Smiles