Nur you are a master communicator. I want to hug you! So brilliant to recognize that others opinions are the product of their ever-changing lives and attitudes. Love you!
This video needs to reach so many people. I will share this with everyone whom I feel needs it, and I hope everyone watching shares this with others too.
This is a future Ted Talk. Thank you emilynoel83 for bringing me to this channel. There are some people in my life who I have sent this too and really need it. This is medicine.
People who want to know why she’s not making videos: I read her instagram and she’s helping people offline now, she explains it all on her IG. She gave us a whole lot of valuable priceless advice on here so I’m just grateful for these videos. Helping me through a very hard time, and when I get through it, I’m gonna pay it forward like her. She’s an inspiration.
I cannot imagine someone as amazing as you feeling like you don’t want to be on this planet anymore. I am SO GLAD you’re out of that dark place, and blessing the world with everything you learned. Much love ❤️
I like how you said to not care about what other people think, because they don't have the same values as you. It was like a light bulb went off when you said this.
Omg you made my day!! just wanna say thank youu for helping me out of an awful toxic relationship and for helping me get through so much shit and learning to love and respect myself❤️❤️
I NEEDED this video in my life. I’ve been through an ugly divorce and a horrible breakup that left me feeling like garbage, and if it wasn’t for my kids I wouldn’t be here now. Thank you for being so raw and vulnerable and open. We need more Nur’s in this world.
I’m sorry you are currently living through this, I want to make a recommendation, i don’t know if you have an iPhone , but on the podcast app there is a channel by Oprah Winfrey called super soul conversations and there are amazing talks on their that will bring positive energy into your life . Keep your head up!
vVegavida - thank you for the tip! I love watching and reading anything that helps with motivation and self love which is why I have always LOVED Nur, because she has helped me more than she knows. Thank you for your suggestion, I will definitely be checking them out 😊
nancy ferreira Yeah I loved her video, this is the first video I watch from her. I would also recommend the four agreements , trust me that book has helped me through the lowest moments in my life. You got this girl!
This may sound strange, but last night I asked for a sign from the universe cause I have been feeling lost, stuck, directionless, disenchanted, melancholy, and so many other things. To say this video spoke to me is an understatement. It was exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you seems too small a phrase to get across the gratitude I feel for you sharing your story. It has given me the breath I need to champion on through whatever this thing is. I thank you from the bottom of my heart. Your words are life preservers in a tumultuous sea. ♥️
The guilt that comes with suicidal thoughts is sooo overwhelming! No one wants to die. I remembered thinking who was going to feed my cat. Anyway, I got through it with online help. Thanks for sharing !!
This video broke me to tears. Your videos are so revealing and so powerful. Thank you Nur for being honest, for making these videos, and for sharing your experiences and helping us. I saw myself in everything you mentioned...I've been coasting and asking others if I'm doing the right thing because I don't trust in my opinion but this video is so self-reflecting. I want to step out of this darkness and be happy and feel free. I'm looking forward to your confidence course btw! Thank you from the bottom of my heart. I love what you do and I love who you are. 💙💙💙
Thank you for this video. This whole idea of being made in the dark is an amazing concept. I'm always astounded by the uniqueness of your advice. You actually offer practical solutions to problems instead of just saying 'be positive, things get better' like everyone else. I'm so thankful for the advice you've given me in all your videos, it's honestly changed the way I view life which is an invaluable gift. Stay blessed, thank you again.
I come back to this video when I need a GOOOOOD pick me up. It’s so comforting and humbling and forever relatable. Thank you. Will always be grateful for your wisdom and your courage to share your experiences. 💕
I missssssssed you so much it's quiet heart wrenching to not see you making videos anymore ..if you ever read my comment ..I hope you reconsider and come again ..you been such great helper and you had promised to keep helping us along the way part of it still doing videos and creating an new content ..I'm sad honestly ..for most of us you not just a regular TH-camr ..you are a true inspiration and hero ..I hope your ok I genuinely love you !
Wow.. this video is very powerful. It amazes me that someone as confident and self-assured as you went through such a dark time... especially considering how incredibly thoughtful your videos are. I really hope and pray that you write a book someday.
Agreed. I think by "making yourself free," it's all about feeling like we have some control over our lives, our "locus of control" as psychologists call it. Too often we get caught up in our thoughts that stem from our past or other challenging unfortunate circumstances that we don't see that we do have some control of our lives. Thank you
I remember when you shared this story on Snapchat! In fact, I wrote it down in my journal, it was so meaningful to me at that time. Here's what I wrote: "Fuck the finish line. Focus on moving forward and being better every day. You will regress, but you can handle anything life throws in your way. The old Nur died, this new Nur rose from the ashes and I wouldn't have it any other way. Live a life chosen by you. The advice in my 'Advice for my Younger Self' video was because of the darkness I endured. The light is not outside you." Thank you. A million thank yous.
Incredibly gorgeous but most importantly, beautiful on the inside too. Some people think really attractive people are always happy and have no problems, obviously this couldn't be farther from the truth as no one is immune from the problems of this life! But there's always hope and things to be grateful for. And YES, our darkness leads to EMPATHY! This has always been huge for me too! You seem very down to earth, I have battled anxiety and depression on and off since I was a teen so this hits home. Last year was the worst year of my life as I was in a mentally abusive relationship with a narcissist. She made all of my problems worse but I've been away from her for months now and I am finally in a better place. Thanks so much for sharing your story and God bless you all!
This video seriously resonates with me. I'm 28 - similar age to when you were feeling suicidal thoughts and depression which is exactly what I'm going through right now. The conversation you had with your brother is also crazily similar to the conversations I have with my little brother. This video has given me hope when I feel like there is no hope left. Thank you so so so so much.
Karishma, (beautiful name,btw!) I just read your comment and it touched my heart and I hurt WITH you! You were so brave to share this! Just checking to see how you’re doing now?
Coming from a Clinical Psychologist, I have to say your video is so astoundingly powerful,that I think I will just tell my clients to watch this as part of their healing process. Just WOW.
I used to watch you way back in the day and wish that we were friends. We both live in Tampa but I thought you were way too cool to ever want to hang out with someone like me. I never thought that we could have faced some of the same demons. I’m glad you are in a better place in your life and that you are sharing your story so others know they’re not alone
You’re such an incredible woman.. The way you think about life is amazing. The world should’ve more people like you.. You can really improve people’s life and give them valuable advice.. Thank God I found your channel... You made me see life from a different perspective.. Thank you so so much ❤️😭🙏🏼
Ya, this got me tearing up at the line "you don't want to die, you just want to be free." Because I've been there, and because that truth saved your life and now you can share your story and save other people's lives in the the same way. Thank you for your vulnerability and courage to share this
Holy wow...I'm not familiar with you but somehow this video was recommended to me and I am SO grateful for that. Your brother sounds like an amazing human! I'm glad you're in a better place. Everything you've said here is so so true. :)
GOD BLESS YOU. Seriously!! You just explained exactly how I have felt and a bit of realization about life. Life is a playground!! We should whatever the hell we want and build toward our dream lives. Again, thank you. You are never alone in the way that you’ve felt.
How ironic is the fact that I re landed on your channel, just as you were a contributor to my rebirth after a major breakup I went trough 2 years ago ( in which I used listen watch one of your videos daily) , I’m certain I’ll get trough this depression and void and once more thanks to you
Thank you for showing us you are human and that something like that can happen to anyone. None of us have it all figured out. Thank you for showing us you too are vulnerable. Thank you for showing us how you coped with it. Your message is so powerful.
I truly believe it was planned for me to stumble upon you a year and a half ago. Your words create so many mind-shifts and game changers for me that, I don’t want to know where I’d be without you. Thank you. 🙏🏻❤️
I'm blown away! Everything you said is literally the thoughts that I have been having and just needed to hear this. Thank you for being you and just so real! So beyond happy for you ❤️
This is exactly what I need. I'm 18 and this is just so powerful. I'm also what you said near the end of the video lost and confused. And I actually didn't go to college just like my peers did, everyone expects me to be an "Adult" and to know my shit and get my shit together. I'm sittibg here thinking what the fuck does that mean. And this just made so much sense with everything and now I know, I can change my life just like what you did. Thank you so very much.
Just wanted to share what I typed to a friend a month ago while we were both doing some deep talking : 1 or 2 years ago, I was lost. I remember feeling so lost especially if you listen to external opinions. Everyone will have their own opinions and it’s based on their own personal journey or where they are at in that journey. My parents had strong opinions. My best friends had their strong opinions. Everyone will have their own opinions and it’s not necessarily right or wrong but it’s not right for you & you can feel it deep down. Even parents can let you down no matter how well intentioned they are.
"should darkness show up in another form, another vessel, i am going to bet on myself." TRUST YOURSELF! Cancel out every one opinion and do what you feel will set you free! I love how you speak so casually and all that you speak is gold. Thank you.
YES!! You bet I already liked the video before watching it... haha thank you Nur!!! Been waiting for another vid. I absolutely loved your previous one. Keep it going ♥️
Your words your stories makes my gloomy sky clear up. I struggled with depression and anxiety and kind of still am but now I'm not going to give up. I am going to figure out ways to stand back up. Thank you so much. YOU SAVED MY LIFE.
i watch so much youtube trying to help myself and you are truly the best person i have ever watched to make me feel okay about life. I was so happy when you posted again. thankyou
I begin to hold on to a little hope this year and me honestly right now consists of little hope and huge hopeless. But old me sarcastically-but-frankly-speaking consisted of 100 % hopeless. A new born little fragile hope made me reason I endure all of hardships with pride not shame. Although I have a fierce bettle between little hope verses huge hopeless, I continue to bet on hope and I will do until it wins. Thank you for sharing your story. You don't know me but you are giving me what I exactly need but couldn't or didn't know how to access to. God bless you and your loving bro and all of listeners in here. In the darkest darkness we have a choice to make the most shining us. Your lecture guides me to the choice and now it is my turn to guide my choice to my true being.
Wow.. No words, you are so amazing and I am grateful that you took the time to share this because it gives me hope and new ways to look at life. Also a huge smack in the face that I have been living for other people and looking for approval. Anyway, I'm looking forward to your confidence course. Thanks again Nur. 💙
I found your videos when my boyfriend had just broken up with me, and the rest of my world was/is falling apart, living feels so difficult sometimes but I'm so grateful for your help and support, thank you
Thank you💛 When the part about freedom was spoken it was like a salve to my ears and heart. I want to live free. I've been stuck for a decade and a few days ago it caught up to me. I was so mad at myself for my choices. It was dark, I have already faced suicide twice and knew it wasn't an option this time. I'm adamant about living. Many of those choices though they were mine were made with other people in mind. After years of stuck I feel I have 30 days of just listening to myself in me. Thank you, again💛
Anahn Nemus Anahn, I know what it’s like to feel stuck for an extended period of time. How are you doing now? You don’t have to share, but I at least had to check in and ask...
A beautiful and important video. I will hold on to the advice and wisdom that you and your little brother have given. I'm sure that this will help a lot of people. Thank you so much for sharing Nur.
I love this video. For a long time I had depression and felt lost. One thing I love that you mentioned is to talk to someone about it because I did. Someone told me that I was free too. I didn't understand at the time but I realized later what he meant. It took alot of work and I'm still working on myself. But I am in a better place, a more healing, empowering place now. It took time to get to that place but im am grateful i came out the other end. Thank you for sharing that. Your awesome.
I'm currently in a dark place, feeling stuck. Thank you for sharing your story...it hits home for me. In this moment I feel desperate to find my freedom. I live and do wayyyyyy too much for others. Where along the way did I forget who I am??? Glad you got my back. It's good to know I'm not alone. You look so beautiful and radiant in this video! Please keep them coming! It's inspiring to see you in the light! X💜
Ahh I’m sooooo happy to see a new video from you! You’re such an inspiration to me you have no idea💕 I never would have expected you to have been in a place like that because you do seem so put together and confident and intelligent, but we never can tell what goes on underneath. You’re such a beautiful and strong women, which I’m sure you know, but just want to remind you of that✨♥️
i thought u had stopped making videos, i searched how to overcome jealousy and came across a video that u made girl!!! i so glad ur still making videos, stupid youtube unsubbed me!!!!!! grrrrr!!! so glad ur here!!
Holy goodness oh my gosh!!!! Just thinking about my life and how many unneeded opinions I let in that create chaos. When I let others give advice on my situations I am not trusting in myself enough to decide what's best for me!!!! This is incredibly astounding and freeing!!! 💜💜💜💜
I love your channel and I am a middle aged woman I am just now on a journey to self help Its taken me all my years to realize I am able to turn my life around on my own. I know there are people of all ages who have or still do have suicidal thoughts/ intentions Thank you for your courage on speaking your story You have given even me hope/ inspiration to want to keep on my journey I am hoping to become very confident in myself so i can help others Your awesome!
I’m a stranger and I care about you, absolutely love your videos. I believe in you and think once fulfill your passion/purpose in this world you will then feel free. Your truly so beautiful inside and out, thank you for making this video it takes so much compassion and courage to share your experience ✨
Here in 2020 during the quarantine, feeling stuck and lacking self- confidence. Thank you for this video. I’ve learnt so many tips and I can’t wait to go forward and apply them to my life ❤️
You make me feel more confident and powerful. I never understood why people give unsolicited opinions, life isn't so serious and I need to work my way out of a dark hole I dug myself in. When you are surrounded by toxic people, friends, spouse or family it's difficult to see the sunshine. But some of your advice shed a glimpse of hope, so thank you.
You are absolutely right. My closest (and safe friend) shared this video with me. I've saved it so that I can watch it again and again. I'm fighting many demons right now and I'm trying to crawl my way out of the darkness. I'm really not sure what to write, I never leave comments, but thank you.
Nur i just want to thankyou you have helped me realise that my life is worth living for me and that other peoples advice and opinions are not where my answers will be found. I have been in the same dark place only recently and have had to start all over again at 34. Your videos inspire and help so many people most importantly you have saved me from a life of trying live for others and not myself. Thank you from the deepest part of my heart. Im from Australia and your videos reach all over the world. Good on ya mate. 😊
Please continue to share your voice Nur, you are such an incredible speaker and human being. People really need to hear this. Thank you truly for sharing your story and not holding back.
Never been so excited to see a new video from someone before. I just adore you! Thank you so much again for an amazing and powerful video. You never fail to inspire me. On a side note, can you invite your little brother to do a video some time? He sounds like an intellectual.
Besides the fact that video content is amazing, inspirational and close to me, I should really mention that stucture and the way Nur guides through the story and comes to conclusions is genious. I can see that she has thought through the topic and way it should be delivered to the viewers. This video should be taught in schools.
Thank you , thanks you. Very well spoken and articulate. We appreciate u sharing your journey and struggles and how you made the decision to turn around in full 180 degrees. Approaching 25 and this out of many videos has made probably the MOST impact. All I’ve ever wanted from life was to be free. Since I was a little girl, butterflies always resonated with me and I never knew why .. I’m starting to see the symbolism and what butterflies represent. Freedom. Transformation. The caterpillar doesn’t ask permission to transform and flourish. So beautiful in the end.
Wow!! What an amazing video!! Nur, thanks for sharing your heart & your testimony!! You're awesome & ever so brave!! #Overcomer #Victorious #PressingOn
Beautiful video! I'm 29 now and in a great place but I spent a good portion of my 20s depressed. Your videos are a big part of the reason I'm able to say I'm in a better place. Thanks for sharing!
OMG! Nur! I just subscribed to you today, as a result of trying to find some help out of my Darkness! It’s like you have literally stepped into my life and and knew how I’m feeling... what you gave me right now is a virtual hug and an absolute recognition of why I, it seems all of a sudden I fell into this DARK place where I don’t want to live anymore, I’m tired and everything in my life is falling apart... no matter what I do, it just seems to get worse... today, you gave me the greatest gift to realise why and that I just want to be free of heartbreak and burden and stress... the list goes on... that I want and need to be the master of my life to take the reins of control and STOP basing my whole entire life and my next move on the approval of others... legit... today you saved my life and I don’t even know you! But it’s like you know me! Thank you🙏 I don’t want to die anymore I just want to be free. Thank you! Thank you ❤️ you are an absolute Babe ❤️
I hope you realise how much this video means to some people. This is amazing. Your doing such a inspirational thing here. Talking about your personal demons isn’t easy. Thank you. X
"You don't want to be dead, you want to be free" That is a game changer!!!!!
And freedom is perception! It is changeable!
Gloriana right? And I always am thinking the only freedom is death but this really give hope!
i was allright & then this one sentence made me crack up in tears so badly that i had to pause the video & write it down in my notebook
Precisely, exactly the point. 100%
Nur you are a master communicator. I want to hug you! So brilliant to recognize that others opinions are the product of their ever-changing lives and attitudes. Love you!
Emily!! Thank you so much!! Love YOU!!! 💙
This video needs to reach so many people. I will share this with everyone whom I feel needs it, and I hope everyone watching shares this with others too.
Emily brought me here, and your story keeps me. Thank you for sharing this and I have shared with all of my sisters as well. Love to you.
This is a future Ted Talk. Thank you emilynoel83 for bringing me to this channel. There are some people in my life who I have sent this too and really need it. This is medicine.
Emily bright me here as well. This was so needed for me right now, thank you
Work hard in silence; let success make the noise^^
It took me 27 years to fully understand this quote!!!
I feel inspired
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Very good one indeed!
People who want to know why she’s not making videos:
I read her instagram and she’s helping people offline now, she explains it all on her IG. She gave us a whole lot of valuable priceless advice on here so I’m just grateful for these videos. Helping me through a very hard time, and when I get through it, I’m gonna pay it forward like her. She’s an inspiration.
Edie what’s her Instagram?
Thank you
@@sasha-leeshantello5774 @nurberxo
I am glad to hear she is doing well
I cannot imagine someone as amazing as you feeling like you don’t want to be on this planet anymore.
I am SO GLAD you’re out of that dark place, and blessing the world with everything you learned.
Much love ❤️
I like how you said to not care about what other people think, because they don't have the same values as you. It was like a light bulb went off when you said this.
You're one of my biggest rolemodels
You are so sweet!! 💙
Omg you made my day!! just wanna say thank youu for helping me out of an awful toxic relationship and for helping me get through so much shit and learning to love and respect myself❤️❤️
I NEEDED this video in my life.
I’ve been through an ugly divorce and a horrible breakup that left me feeling like garbage, and if it wasn’t for my kids I wouldn’t be here now. Thank you for being so raw and vulnerable and open. We need more Nur’s in this world.
I’m sorry you are currently living through this, I want to make a recommendation, i don’t know if you have an iPhone , but on the podcast app there is a channel by Oprah Winfrey called super soul conversations and there are amazing talks on their that will bring positive energy into your life . Keep your head up!
vVegavida - thank you for the tip! I love watching and reading anything that helps with motivation and self love which is why I have always LOVED Nur, because she has helped me more than she knows. Thank you for your suggestion, I will definitely be checking them out 😊
nancy ferreira
Yeah I loved her video, this is the first video I watch from her. I would also recommend the four agreements , trust me that book has helped me through the lowest moments in my life. You got this girl!
Sister i just went thru the same thing. I wish you peace and love! I know its hell but hang in there.
nancy ferreira.Thanks
This may sound strange, but last night I asked for a sign from the universe cause I have been feeling lost, stuck, directionless, disenchanted, melancholy, and so many other things. To say this video spoke to me is an understatement. It was exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you seems too small a phrase to get across the gratitude I feel for you sharing your story. It has given me the breath I need to champion on through whatever this thing is. I thank you from the bottom of my heart. Your words are life preservers in a tumultuous sea. ♥️
The guilt that comes with suicidal thoughts is sooo overwhelming! No one wants to die. I remembered thinking who was going to feed my cat. Anyway, I got through it with online help. Thanks for sharing !!
You should get your little brother on one of these videos 😊
U Wot??! Awe yeah I wish he would, he sounds so amazing!!
Your brother is a genius with the sweetest soul!
This video just helped me confirm that I’m doing the right thing. Thank you
This video broke me to tears. Your videos are so revealing and so powerful. Thank you Nur for being honest, for making these videos, and for sharing your experiences and helping us. I saw myself in everything you mentioned...I've been coasting and asking others if I'm doing the right thing because I don't trust in my opinion but this video is so self-reflecting. I want to step out of this darkness and be happy and feel free. I'm looking forward to your confidence course btw! Thank you from the bottom of my heart. I love what you do and I love who you are. 💙💙💙
SO excited for you and your path ahead!! Thank you for the kind words!!! Sending you so much love!!! 💙
"You don't wanna die, you just wanna be free". Holy shit, I'm wrapped up in a blanket like a burrito and that just gave me chills.
Thank you. This means more than you could ever know.
Your brother is amazing. 💙💙💙
Thank you for this video. This whole idea of being made in the dark is an amazing concept. I'm always astounded by the uniqueness of your advice. You actually offer practical solutions to problems instead of just saying 'be positive, things get better' like everyone else. I'm so thankful for the advice you've given me in all your videos, it's honestly changed the way I view life which is an invaluable gift. Stay blessed, thank you again.
I come back to this video when I need a GOOOOOD pick me up. It’s so comforting and humbling and forever relatable. Thank you. Will always be grateful for your wisdom and your courage to share your experiences. 💕
Thank you so much 💙
@@nurology Are you alive? Why don't you take new videos?🥺 I just found you
I missssssssed you so much it's quiet heart wrenching to not see you making videos anymore ..if you ever read my comment ..I hope you reconsider and come again ..you been such great helper and you had promised to keep helping us along the way part of it still doing videos and creating an new content ..I'm sad honestly ..for most of us you not just a regular TH-camr ..you are a true inspiration and hero ..I hope your ok I genuinely love you !
I always binge watch your videos all over again, just before you upload new content #telepathy
Wow.. this video is very powerful. It amazes me that someone as confident and self-assured as you went through such a dark time... especially considering how incredibly thoughtful your videos are. I really hope and pray that you write a book someday.
Agreed. I think by "making yourself free," it's all about feeling like we have some control over our lives, our "locus of control" as psychologists call it. Too often we get caught up in our thoughts that stem from our past or other challenging unfortunate circumstances that we don't see that we do have some control of our lives. Thank you
I remember when you shared this story on Snapchat! In fact, I wrote it down in my journal, it was so meaningful to me at that time. Here's what I wrote: "Fuck the finish line. Focus on moving forward and being better every day. You will regress, but you can handle anything life throws in your way. The old Nur died, this new Nur rose from the ashes and I wouldn't have it any other way. Live a life chosen by you. The advice in my 'Advice for my Younger Self' video was because of the darkness I endured. The light is not outside you."
Thank you. A million thank yous.
Incredibly gorgeous but most importantly, beautiful on the inside too. Some people think really attractive people are always happy and have no problems, obviously this couldn't be farther from the truth as no one is immune from the problems of this life! But there's always hope and things to be grateful for. And YES, our darkness leads to EMPATHY! This has always been huge for me too! You seem very down to earth, I have battled anxiety and depression on and off since I was a teen so this hits home. Last year was the worst year of my life as I was in a mentally abusive relationship with a narcissist. She made all of my problems worse but I've been away from her for months now and I am finally in a better place. Thanks so much for sharing your story and God bless you all!
Your brother is a life coach. A natural one
This video seriously resonates with me. I'm 28 - similar age to when you were feeling suicidal thoughts and depression which is exactly what I'm going through right now. The conversation you had with your brother is also crazily similar to the conversations I have with my little brother. This video has given me hope when I feel like there is no hope left. Thank you so so so so much.
Karishma, (beautiful name,btw!) I just read your comment and it touched my heart and I hurt WITH you! You were so brave to share this! Just checking to see how you’re doing now?
Coming from a Clinical Psychologist, I have to say your video is so astoundingly powerful,that I think I will just tell my clients to watch this as part of their healing process. Just WOW.
I just discovered your channel. Please make more videos! Everything discussed in your content is just what I needed to hear
She is active on Instagram
@@selkoa8384 what is her @ ?? ❤️
I used to watch you way back in the day and wish that we were friends. We both live in Tampa but I thought you were way too cool to ever want to hang out with someone like me. I never thought that we could have faced some of the same demons. I’m glad you are in a better place in your life and that you are sharing your story so others know they’re not alone
You’re such an incredible woman.. The way you think about life is amazing. The world should’ve more people like you.. You can really improve people’s life and give them valuable advice.. Thank God I found your channel... You made me see life from a different perspective.. Thank you so so much ❤️😭🙏🏼
Sometimes we just need these type of videos🙌🏽
This video touched and inspired me so much that I had to subscribe to your channel. Your such a beautiful soul and thank u for sharing your story
I've binged watched your channel today. It's been two years since this video & I pray that everything is going well for you 💙
This was such a blessing to wake up to, you are a incredible woman
Ya, this got me tearing up at the line "you don't want to die, you just want to be free." Because I've been there, and because that truth saved your life and now you can share your story and save other people's lives in the the same way. Thank you for your vulnerability and courage to share this
Holy wow...I'm not familiar with you but somehow this video was recommended to me and I am SO grateful for that. Your brother sounds like an amazing human! I'm glad you're in a better place. Everything you've said here is so so true. :)
Thank you for sharing and being real, “you don’t want to die you want to be free” 💡 thanks for the help
GOD BLESS YOU. Seriously!! You just explained exactly how I have felt and a bit of realization about life. Life is a playground!! We should whatever the hell we want and build toward our dream lives. Again, thank you. You are never alone in the way that you’ve felt.
How ironic is the fact that I re landed on your channel, just as you were a contributor to my rebirth after a major breakup I went trough 2 years ago ( in which I used listen watch one of your videos daily) , I’m certain I’ll get trough this depression and void and once more thanks to you
Thank you for showing us you are human and that something like that can happen to anyone. None of us have it all figured out. Thank you for showing us you too are vulnerable. Thank you for showing us how you coped with it. Your message is so powerful.
I truly believe it was planned for me to stumble upon you a year and a half ago. Your words create so many mind-shifts and game changers for me that, I don’t want to know where I’d be without you. Thank you. 🙏🏻❤️
I'm blown away! Everything you said is literally the thoughts that I have been having and just needed to hear this. Thank you for being you and just so real! So beyond happy for you ❤️
This is exactly what I need. I'm 18 and this is just so powerful. I'm also what you said near the end of the video lost and confused. And I actually didn't go to college just like my peers did, everyone expects me to be an "Adult" and to know my shit and get my shit together. I'm sittibg here thinking what the fuck does that mean. And this just made so much sense with everything and now I know, I can change my life just like what you did. Thank you so very much.
Just wanted to share what I typed to a friend a month ago while we were both doing some deep talking :
1 or 2 years ago, I was lost. I remember feeling so lost especially if you listen to external opinions. Everyone will have their own opinions and it’s based on their own personal journey or where they are at in that journey. My parents had strong opinions. My best friends had their strong opinions. Everyone will have their own opinions and it’s not necessarily right or wrong but it’s not right for you & you can feel it deep down. Even parents can let you down no matter how well intentioned they are.
"should darkness show up in another form, another vessel, i am going to bet on myself." TRUST YOURSELF! Cancel out every one opinion and do what you feel will set you free!
I love how you speak so casually and all that you speak is gold. Thank you.
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YES!! You bet I already liked the video before watching it... haha thank you Nur!!! Been waiting for another vid. I absolutely loved your previous one. Keep it going ♥️
LOL!!!! Hope you feel like the thumbs up was the right decision when you're done watching 🙂 Enjoy!!
Your words your stories makes my gloomy sky clear up. I struggled with depression and anxiety and kind of still am but now I'm not going to give up. I am going to figure out ways to stand back up. Thank you so much. YOU SAVED MY LIFE.
Can’t believe how long it’s been since you posted :(
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i watch so much youtube trying to help myself and you are truly the best person i have ever watched to make me feel okay about life. I was so happy when you posted again. thankyou
u deserve so many more subscribers, you’re incredible. thank you so much for everything
I begin to hold on to a little hope this year and me honestly right now consists of little hope and huge hopeless. But old me sarcastically-but-frankly-speaking consisted of 100 % hopeless. A new born little fragile hope made me reason I endure all of hardships with pride not shame. Although I have a fierce bettle between little hope verses huge hopeless, I continue to bet on hope and I will do until it wins.
Thank you for sharing your story. You don't know me but you are giving me what I exactly need but couldn't or didn't know how to access to. God bless you and your loving bro and all of listeners in here. In the darkest darkness we have a choice to make the most shining us. Your lecture guides me to the choice and now it is my turn to guide my choice to my true being.
Wow.. No words, you are so amazing and I am grateful that you took the time to share this because it gives me hope and new ways to look at life. Also a huge smack in the face that I have been living for other people and looking for approval. Anyway, I'm looking forward to your confidence course. Thanks again Nur. 💙
It's truly my pleasure, thank YOU!!!
I found your videos when my boyfriend had just broken up with me, and the rest of my world was/is falling apart, living feels so difficult sometimes but I'm so grateful for your help and support, thank you
I’m ready for that life update video. 🙂
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I am only watching this video now and it’s just exactly what I need right now. Thank you for having posted these videos.
Thank you💛 When the part about freedom was spoken it was like a salve to my ears and heart. I want to live free. I've been stuck for a decade and a few days ago it caught up to me. I was so mad at myself for my choices. It was dark, I have already faced suicide twice and knew it wasn't an option this time. I'm adamant about living. Many of those choices though they were mine were made with other people in mind. After years of stuck I feel I have 30 days of just listening to myself in me. Thank you, again💛
Anahn Nemus Anahn, I know what it’s like to feel stuck for an extended period of time. How are you doing now? You don’t have to share, but I at least had to check in and ask...
Why not knowing where to start is is a fantastic way to start?
Apart from that, I fucking love your videos and advices!
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A beautiful and important video. I will hold on to the advice and wisdom that you and your little brother have given. I'm sure that this will help a lot of people. Thank you so much for sharing Nur.
I love this video. For a long time I had depression and felt lost. One thing I love that you mentioned is to talk to someone about it because I did. Someone told me that I was free too. I didn't understand at the time but I realized later what he meant. It took alot of work and I'm still working on myself. But I am in a better place, a more healing, empowering place now. It took time to get to that place but im am grateful i came out the other end. Thank you for sharing that. Your awesome.
I wish she still post online... Where ever you are I send you all the joy and happiness in the world 🖤
You can follow her on instagram if you don't already, she has a few "stories" and sometimes goes live
@@lovehemi465 thank you, I'll definitely search for her
I'm currently in a dark place, feeling stuck. Thank you for sharing your story...it hits home for me. In this moment I feel desperate to find my freedom. I live and do wayyyyyy too much for others. Where along the way did I forget who I am??? Glad you got my back. It's good to know I'm not alone. You look so beautiful and radiant in this video! Please keep them coming! It's inspiring to see you in the light! X💜
Ahh I’m sooooo happy to see a new video from you! You’re such an inspiration to me you have no idea💕 I never would have expected you to have been in a place like that because you do seem so put together and confident and intelligent, but we never can tell what goes on underneath. You’re such a beautiful and strong women, which I’m sure you know, but just want to remind you of that✨♥️
Thank you so much, Marina!! 💙
This triggered something in me and thank goodness. :) thank you so much.
i thought u had stopped making videos, i searched how to overcome jealousy and came across a video that u made girl!!! i so glad ur still making videos, stupid youtube unsubbed me!!!!!! grrrrr!!! so glad ur here!!
You just don’t know how much I needed this right now. Just know you saved someone
I needed this. I love you! Thank you for all you do.
wow you honestly changed my life. Ive never thought these thoughts but your outlook on life changed the way I look at the world
wow im 27 right now. this video is for me
Holy goodness oh my gosh!!!! Just thinking about my life and how many unneeded opinions I let in that create chaos. When I let others give advice on my situations I am not trusting in myself enough to decide what's best for me!!!! This is incredibly astounding and freeing!!! 💜💜💜💜
Your brother is your soul mate
Beautiful video
I love your channel and I am a middle aged woman
I am just now on a journey to self help
Its taken me all my years to realize I am able to turn my life around on my own.
I know there are people of all ages who have or still do have suicidal thoughts/ intentions
Thank you for your courage on speaking your story
You have given even me hope/ inspiration to want to keep on my journey
I am hoping to become very confident in myself so i can help others
Your awesome!
Nana Rori ASMR , your comment inspired me! I am also older...how is your journey going?
May God keep blessing you!
Watching Nur's videos is the best remedy for closing all of your tabs in your mind. This provided so much clarity and I'm so glad you're here
POST MORE PLEASE I LOVE UR POSITIVITY 🖤🖤🖤☠️
I’m a stranger and I care about you, absolutely love your videos. I believe in you and think once fulfill your passion/purpose in this world you will then feel free. Your truly so beautiful inside and out, thank you for making this video it takes so much compassion and courage to share your experience ✨
I'm 27 right now...good video!!!!!!
Here in 2020 during the quarantine, feeling stuck and lacking self- confidence. Thank you for this video. I’ve learnt so many tips and I can’t wait to go forward and apply them to my life ❤️
Amazing video & I cant stop staring at your flawless makeup 😫😍❤
You make me feel more confident and powerful. I never understood why people give unsolicited opinions, life isn't so serious and I need to work my way out of a dark hole I dug myself in. When you are surrounded by toxic people, friends, spouse or family it's difficult to see the sunshine. But some of your advice shed a glimpse of hope, so thank you.
I love your spirit Nur ♥
I'm a guy wishing I could come across more girls like you. I love everything you have to say, to share, and to offer. Your such a wise individual.
You are very inspiring...I really like the word FREE.
You are absolutely right. My closest (and safe friend) shared this video with me. I've saved it so that I can watch it again and again. I'm fighting many demons right now and I'm trying to crawl my way out of the darkness. I'm really not sure what to write, I never leave comments, but thank you.
When are u going to do a life update??? I love your content please do more videos!! x
Nur i just want to thankyou you have helped me realise that my life is worth living for me and that other peoples advice and opinions are not where my answers will be found. I have been in the same dark place only recently and have had to start all over again at 34. Your videos inspire and help so many people most importantly you have saved me from a life of trying live for others and not myself. Thank you from the deepest part of my heart.
Im from Australia and your videos reach all over the world. Good on ya mate. 😊
That was some next level Tony Robbins shizz your little brother pulled out. Wow.
Please continue to share your voice Nur, you are such an incredible speaker and human being. People really need to hear this. Thank you truly for sharing your story and not holding back.
Never been so excited to see a new video from someone before. I just adore you! Thank you so much again for an amazing and powerful video. You never fail to inspire me. On a side note, can you invite your little brother to do a video some time? He sounds like an intellectual.
Besides the fact that video content is amazing, inspirational and close to me, I should really mention that stucture and the way Nur guides through the story and comes to conclusions is genious. I can see that she has thought through the topic and way it should be delivered to the viewers. This video should be taught in schools.
I’ve been looking for a female youtuber to learn from. Thank you for sharing ❤️
Thank you , thanks you. Very well spoken and articulate. We appreciate u sharing your journey and struggles and how you made the decision to turn around in full 180 degrees. Approaching 25 and this out of many videos has made probably the MOST impact. All I’ve ever wanted from life was to be free. Since I was a little girl, butterflies always resonated with me and I never knew why .. I’m starting to see the symbolism and what butterflies represent. Freedom. Transformation. The caterpillar doesn’t ask permission to transform and flourish. So beautiful in the end.
Wow!! What an amazing video!! Nur, thanks for sharing your heart & your testimony!! You're awesome & ever so brave!! #Overcomer #Victorious #PressingOn
I needed this! I am exactly where you were right now! Just today I was thinking it would be so much easier if I wasn't here. This helped me so much!
Also I love that even at your vulnerable moment (crying) you manage to say f uck. 😂 I love you!
LOL!!!! It's always a good time to just throw it out there!! Love YOU!
Beautiful video! I'm 29 now and in a great place but I spent a good portion of my 20s depressed. Your videos are a big part of the reason I'm able to say I'm in a better place. Thanks for sharing!
I absolutely love your videos!! You're inspiring.
OMG! Nur! I just subscribed to you today, as a result of trying to find some help out of my Darkness! It’s like you have literally stepped into my life and and knew how I’m feeling... what you gave me right now is a virtual hug and an absolute recognition of why I, it seems all of a sudden I fell into this DARK place where I don’t want to live anymore, I’m tired and everything in my life is falling apart... no matter what I do, it just seems to get worse... today, you gave me the greatest gift to realise why and that I just want to be free of heartbreak and burden and stress... the list goes on... that I want and need to be the master of my life to take the reins of control and STOP basing my whole entire life and my next move on the approval of others... legit... today you saved my life and I don’t even know you! But it’s like you know me! Thank you🙏 I don’t want to die anymore I just want to be free. Thank you! Thank you ❤️ you are an absolute Babe ❤️
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thank you Nur. as always, thank you *prayer hands emoji*
Love you!!!!!
I hope you realise how much this video means to some people. This is amazing. Your doing such a inspirational thing here. Talking about your personal demons isn’t easy. Thank you. X