My parents passed away 17 months apart. I am still in my 30’s. Most people i know have their parents well over that age. I don’t have many pictures of them. But the brain, the memories are more powerful than any camera. Our loved ones will always be in our heart and mind. That motivates us to do better and live as good of a life as possible. You are never alone.
These is no way to waste effort. If you pick up a heavy thing and then later it falls, you have proven that you can pick it up again. Every time you do a mindless repetitive task, you get better at it. You are better today than you were yesterday, you can't even help it.
A beautifull video, a song that always comforts me is the "Song of healing" from Majoras Mask, it has a tragic touch to it, but thats part of what makes it beautiflul in my opinion, maybe it can help you too. :) And to everyone reading this, you are not alone, the night is darkest before Dawn, so dont lose hope. Take Care
my favourite character, Alexis Rose, once said "people aren't thinking about you the way that you're thinking about you" and I actually want to get a tattoo of this quote and hearing it being said in other words in this video felt like a warm hug 🥺
that was the only sentence i probably not agree whit there was a guy who told me i am literally bad person and how he said it he meant it 100% and i never thought of myself as bad maybe trash because i make a lot of mistakes and i made a lot of peoples life harder but not on purpose that guy who told me that i am bad think that i intentionally do wrong to others and then was guys who made me feel ashamed of myself ashamed of i even born and i never thought that my existence is a bad thing in itself so sorry but there are people who thinks worse of you than you of yourself
"Being hugged by someone who makes you feel tiny" just thinking about this kind of comfort made me shed a tear. Ive never had it but it almost felt like I did.
@@Skrymik I'm struggling to think of them doing so. Yes they cared for me, but I always felt out of a sense of duty than anything. I think my sister thinks more of me than my parents. Just come out of a 30 year relationship, and now listening to mindfulness and relationship videos I realise what little I got out of it. I was hoping to find a video that can help me make it through the day, but to be honest I'm struggling to relate to much of it.
@tedferkin because this is for people who are already somewhere. You gotta start slower, lower somehow. It's like the stairs for this video to work begins a meter from your head. You need a ladder there. Binaural beats or just sound related things work for me. Idk these love frequency whatever type of videos.
@@tayluvofficial What can I do for you? what seems to be the problem. I've been on the brink so many times and always wake up surprized Im still here, but there is always something that brings me back , brings my connection back to this place and it always seems to be the simple things. You are not your emotions, they do not control you. your ego is not you, it only survives to cause pain and doubt. You are more than what is going on, whatever it may be, it'll pass in time but you are here, alive and here for purpose! Please, take a moment to breathe deeply and realise you are not alone, you are not broken, you are you, special and meaningful. If you can't bring joy to yourself, do it for someone else ,it really does bring joy into your life and bring meaning to that lost feeling. I don't know you or your situation but feel my love, see the white light, it is pure and without judgement, let it surround you and connect it to those around you. That shattering is only temporary and something that exists to make you stronger, you will see in time even thou it is hard it has purpose. 🙏
@@bobrobertsNotUrBob what if one feels so down in the dumps. Like life has got nothing to offer me. Why does it come back more often it's like it's pulling me in that dark zone. I have lead a lonely life right from childhood. I always wanted more from my life, i looked at my friends life going to parties each weekend laughing having fun together. I've always wanted that. But i couldn't. I have always struggled making friends that last a lifetime atleast one friend that would ask me how am I doing. It's not like i haven't tried but the people's ive known never wanna stay in touch with me. When i meet some of them i still feel disconnected. I vibe with only a certain kind of people but those are rare. Each weekend I'm at home just staring at my phone. I've always wanted a connection maybe from a single girl or maybe from a group of friends but it's never ever worked out for me. Why doesn't it pass like you say and comes back more often. I try to keep my mind away from it. But now it feels like it has gripped me and maybe sadness is what I like. But it's like my mind still forces me to think that this isn't what i deserve. I wish it was different and i smiled more often. I always have to fake a smile to others that I'm fine. But deep inside i know I'm not
@@alzdsz It is hard to say, not knowing everything. I have the same thing with people not hanging around. i was told that life is just so crazy and hectic for most people that it is hard even for them to reach out instead of working hard or glued to their phone. I would have to say based on my own life and depression, that it is clearly a chemical imbalance. There are simple things that have helped (vitamins and minerals)omega 3, vitamin 6's, magnesium, potassium. but clearly I needed more than simple vitamins.
@@bobrobertsNotUrBob thanks for helping the way u can. Hopefully my life will end soon and I'll be out of this misery. I know it's not the answer. But thats what i feel. Probably as years go by it's gotta affect my mental and physical health. I might not be in the state of mind I'm now. Wish everything changed for the better. Sending out ❤️ to u mate.
I’m starting to play my guitar, at first I thought I was really good but my family hasn’t ever said anything, until I was reading my moms diary looking for her recipes, there I saw it. “I heard Darling playing her guitar, she’s getting really good :)”. I bursted into tears of happiness, she doesn’t know how much that meant to me, I love you mum
awww that's so sweet 🥰this reminds me of when I was having such a bad day at school and I felt so alone and I was crying a lot back then because of stuff, but when I came back home I saw my favourite cat plush toy on my bed, covered by the blanket that my mom made for me. it was set up in a way that the cat was sitting while covered in a blanket. when I tell you I literally burst into tears of happiness immediately. my mom put it there, though I didn't tell her about the things I was going through, she put it there right when I needed it most. that is just proof that we are never alone, and that sometimes we just need to be more open to see the positive of the world, how the world actually supports and loves us. your thinking goes a loong way. and such a small act can really make someone feel a million times better, so remember- your actions have power, so be mindful and kind to both yourself and others! there's a lot we cannot see. and im sure you're great at guitar :D I didn't mean to write such a gigantic paragraph lmao
@@heyyy1325 omg, your mom is the best! :) And I agree, little actions can make someone feel a lot more better! And thank you for that compliment! I hope you still have that toy cat and blanket, it’ll carry lots of memories!
I actually met a girl who was born in the same hospital on the same day and year as me! And we share the same name. We're friends now. That is so comforting actually 🥰
I was born within 36 hours at the same hospital as my stepsister. Both our parents divorced and started dating when we were ten. We grew up together as total opposites but maintain a friendship.
I hope you're okay now! You're definitely not alone, been suffering with anxiety for 10 years and dissociation for 7, it can be tiringgg. We've got this love
"Being childish is comforting" I actually smiled because of this. My childishness makes my grandfather laugh, and it's so fulfilling to see. Because of him, I learned to embrace it; because of him i found comfort in it; and because of him, i will never get rid of my childishness.
This was so comforting and I've been down lately about not having friends and feeling like I'm doing this life thing alone, not understood or even cared for enough to be understood. This felt like a little hand squeeze and thank you, really.
you might not notice this long enough but almost everyone is in utter alienation. we are into our smartphones these days, interfacing with the virtual world, customizing our own worldviews from the various information we gather globally. even though you try to relate to an actual human mind, it still feels lonely because you seem to cannot connect in comparison to that relatability you have with internet world. its not stimulating enough.... whence here one can pour anything without hindrances because nobody can really know its you. everyone is becoming individualized and some small minded ones, given they think they know alot better because they can read and absorb information, now act arrogant..
"No feeling of shame,grief or guilt will remain as intense as it does when it's recently occurred" this was exactly what i needed to hear today. And reading the comments made me realize that I'm not alone and thousands if not millions of people are struggling with me. I'm SO glad I found this video.
For anyone going through a hard time right now, I can promise you that at some point, everything will be okay. I'm sorry that you have to go through this. I know it's difficult. Just remember that you matter. Someone out there loves you infinitely. Now, get up and go get a glass of water I love you
i cant keep on going i need advice. you see im 19 and starting to be depend on my toxic or good for nothing friends. It started about an year ago when i was preparing for moving to different country for study but enrolled in my city for some time, due to unfortunate circumstances of indecisiveness, im stuck here for last year with them. My mindset has gone worse, my mental health needs attention like an addict. I need their company to get work from them atleast. About 25 students left my class in the first semester and you can assume what a shithole it is. Please tell me how can i be independent, im good-looking according do some decent women and not the ratchet ones. Im tall, smart and stand my ground when needed, dont let anybody toy with me. Its my mind that is making me weak and confused, my gut says to quit and go abroad but idk wtf is wrong with me. Pls help me.
@@lailal201 sorry for seeing your msg at only now. I understand things are going rough but I’m holding my own and I advice you should too. I don’t use IG but have a snap. Thing is I’m very skeptical to add new people, I hope you understand
@@the_one_03 somewhat same place as you. I think this is a generational issue, and after researching so many, I now know the way our condition is right now, is a result of so many things not done. And there is no infrastructure for us to bring ourselves out of the situation. So the first thing to understand is that, we are not loving the best of life rn. We have so much potential, unique. If you want to tap into that, only we can do this. When I discovered what all led us to the situations, I started blaming everything, but that's not a solution. We deserve happiness and wellbeing in all aspects of life, to say the least. It's nuanced, and there is no one answer for it. But i guess it starts with: - Educating yourself with proper perspectives and mindsets, through maybe videos. This way you can get clarity about yourselves, your potential and problems, your role in the world etc. - Finding an intelligent, authentic and a person that understands you to talk to everything openly. This will make the process faster and more possible. - Get your physical and mental health diagnosed in a proper way, and do the necessary. - And lastly, I wish that all of this will lead you to a strong, truth based, perspective and clarity, a thing to pursue which develops you into your potential, a good community or relationship to be in, and in good physical and mental health. Once this much happens, we all have the necessary, to build our lives to full potential! Much Love!
"To think that there was a time when you couldn't even walk or say a single word. Look how far you've come". This one just hit right in. I'll be having my final high school exams next month. Thank you so much for this video Lana! Lots of love from India💚
I loved that instead of the negativity we hear non-stop in our brains everyday, she just let out some enjoyments of life. It's honestly so fresh and relieving to hear such kind and comforting words.
İ suffer from anxiety and sometimes even when nothing is wrong,i feel like there is something wrong and i was feeling that way again and than i saw the notification.Thank you so much,you should know that you are helping a lot of people with this:)we are not alone.Stay safe
The lack of buzz around Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest is baffling. This book holds the key to amazing secrets, but no one seems to care. Don’t stay in the dark - find out what everyone’s missing!
I have literally been shaking for 25 minutes, this video made me cry, but not in a bad way. i am so grateful to have youtube, and to have people like you. I really appreciate you. thank you, Lana.
“You’ve been a good friend. You’ve tried your best.” This made me cry so hard, I really really needed that. I’ve been going through it with all my relationships and it’s been hard. Friend disagreements, arguments, basically everything. And I’m just stuck in the middle. I’ve been trying so hard, and I needed that. Thank you.
A hot cup of tea, the smell of an apple pie in the oven, the rustling of birds in a hedge, thunderstorms when you're laying in bed, a new book, seeing new leaves on your plants
The thunderstorms part reminded me of when I was a kid and I would lay in bed hearing the storm and watching thunder lightning through the window while I’m wrapped in my blanket feeling warm and cozy…there was something about hiding in the house on a cold stormy night that always made me feel scared yet excited and kinda happy, it’s like I know it can get bad but I will be safe inside and not have to do anything but let the storm pass..I just wanted to share this thought with anyone who might had this feeling as well 🥰
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!
Yes, dr.porassss. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
I wish they were readily available in my place. Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac. He's constantly talking about killing someone. He's violent. Anyone reading this Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.
all my life, i always wanted to do things by myself. I am almost 22 now and I am realizing I crave deeper connection with people. And I feel like no one really knows me because I am scared of being vulnerable.
I’m currently applying to medical school and the pressures of putting all my hopes and dreams into a career that may not except me is sometimes overwhelming. Thank you for this gentle reminder that everything is going to be okay 💜
I am in the same exact spot. Seeing your comment makes me feel less alone. There is so much pressure on premeds to be the "successes" we always have been, and so little understanding of the immense challenge and competition involved in the process.
The fact that you've still decided to try is what matters! Im sure the medical profession will get a hardworking humble queen as a doctor if they take you in, so girl, keep going! Whatever happens, never lose hope and stay happy😊
Hey!I was in your exact position 2-3 years ago.And I know what you feel.Medicine is so, so beautiful but it’s such a long and hard road.I am now in my second year and I enjoy it so much.I’m praying to God that everything goes well for you.Remeber to take care of yourself:)
3:23 i love this. I was simply breaking down over not making the volleyball team and then I found out my friend was struggling and this video is amazing
hey there! a complete stranger, i hope your overcoming difficulties in life and living for small happy moments! i wish that your happy wherever you are.
That feeling when you're exhausted and you finally get into bed and your bed is extraordinarily comfortable and before you know it, you drift into a dark, dreamless, and deeply healing sleep. The fact that everyone has hit a rough patch and has been in need of comfort, support, and love at some point or another in their life. We are all in this together. That moment when you're watching a movie or a TV show, or maybe reading a book, and a character says something that you relate to so deeply at that moment that it brings tears to your eyes. Very smooth rocks. They've been worn down by time, water, and other things to become that smooth and beautiful. Humans have quite a bit in common with rocks. Watching the stars twinkle outside your window just before slipping into bed. I like to think they're sending me Morse code messages, telling me that everything is going to be okay and they are always watching over me, even when the Sun is out and I can't see them.
i was crying my eyes out at 1 in the morning, in complete and utter defeat; incredibly stressed and almost collapsing under the pressure school was exerting on me. this helped me infinitely. i felt the muscles in my jaw relax, and the thoughts running around in my brain came to a crawl, soothing me. i'm definitely going to watch this again. you'll probably never see this, but thank you, lana
Thank you, So goddamn much. I used to hate talking, But after being around my chaotic family...I started to love it. I was sitting in silence, And its the most uncomfy feeling I've felt. This is one of the best, Listening to a calm and polite voice...Letting all the thoughts of passed loved ones and fears melt away...Writing...Letting all my tears fade. I love it, I love this.
"you've been a good friend, you've done your best. there's nothing more you could do. stop beating yourself up." I was at an audition for dance today and felt I did horrible and everyone was better than me like I let myself and others down. I was so disappointed in myself. then, this video shows up in my recommendations. thank you and I love you.
just came back with some bad news from hospital feeling emotional and i just search comforting video and i am here, almost cried listening to all those good thing ,so, just wanna let you know you kinda saved my day
I was feeling overwhelmed at the thought of my mistakes and struggling with getting my life together. This video came at the right time. Thank you Lana ❤
You genuinely got me through so many school days the past two years. When I was stressed I would leave class, sit in the stairwell when no one else was there, and listen to this video. It got me through so many days. Thank you ❤
"Your presence is comforting to someone" This one really got me in the soul! Such a beautiful video Lana, Thank you so much for creating this video! To whoever reading this, one day the bad situation you are going through, will be remembered and no longer will be suffered. It is worth waiting for that one day, sending you all the best vibes. It is all going to be okay!
I read your whole comment..so, thanks a lot...and same to you Yamini ✨ I feel quite relieved by the fact that ...still, there are some people who wish well for others without even knowing them (like you just did by commenting) 🙂
the feel of book pages under your fingers, laying on the cold side of your pillow, seeing people go by their lives and thinking we all live a different life, the smell of hot cocoa, rubbing cold noses at chilly evenings, the mushy feel of sand at the edge of a beach
"You've been a good friend." That is exactly what I needed to hear, I was beginning to question how I have been as a friend and this made me start crying, thank *you*
"To think that there was a time when you couldn't even walk or say a single word. Look how far you've come." Thanks, Lana. Didn't realize that's all I wanted to hear right now. I have indeed come a long way... it's been freakin' hell. It's almost ironical how looking back, thinking of all the scars, I am actually empowered to get through the rest of the day. I feel like giving you a long warm hug... May God bless you.
Thank you. Thank you for this video. I didn’t know I needed this, but I did. This made me cry and smile and feel so save. “You, your presence is comforting to someone.” That made my day, and made me feel completed and so safe. Again, thank you.
When the world seems scary, stop thinking. Focus on your surroundings, on your next breath, on what you can do in that exact moment.Things don't stay terrible forever and sometimes that alone is comforting, knowing that you'll be okay.
2:49 That right there. I met a fellow Bulgarian last year who happened to be from the same city as myself. When we got to know each other, we found we had the same birthday and were born the same year! And to top that, we also were born in the same hospital, only 4 hours apart... How crazy that we met 20 years later across the Atlantic ocean in Canada. :)
Reading so many positive comments, makes me believe that are still good people out there, whole love you and care for you! Thank you to all the people who wrote comments here and our Dear Lana! ❤️ Glad to share that I feel much better now and I truly wish from the bottom of my heart that if someone is going thru something bad, they overcome it very soon! Cheer up, smile! ‘Cause YOU MATTER! YOUR SMILE IS BEAUTIFUL:)
growing up, i hv suppressed my emotions sm that i cant really cry much anymore. i had a really bad day today, and i couldnt cry. so i decided to watch this vid, and it helped me cry, esp the last 2 sentences. such a lovely video. tysm
We all need to comfort ourselves from time to time. Doing it in a healthy way like this is truly beneficial for everyone. I have a very rational mind so feeling my emotions is not an easy task. This video really helped me feel and I know I am not the only one. Thank you for being such a kind and empathetic soul.
So many people everywhere in search for true inner peace and joy that will last for eternity, but it can only be found in Jesus Christ. Jesus loves you more than you could ever know and He wants to give you this peace. I am sharing my best friend's story with you in hopes that you will come to know Jesus Christ and find real peace and comfort in your soul. God bless you. Precious Memories-By Sonya Lakey Family Story Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day. My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening. That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are. Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you. His Story Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God. “For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23) “Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12) He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell. “For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price] “But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8) Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today! “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16) “For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9) Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him. “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13) “...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b) Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour! “And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28) Your Story What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son. The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven. “Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6) We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready? “...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b) “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13) “(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c) ****************************** This testimony has been made into a gospel tract. If you or your Church would be interested in passing them out or if you would like to send a word of encouragement to the family, please go to: facebook.com/GITM-Foundation-113997824650357/
Your voice is so comforting. It felt like a relief to simply hear you talk and just close my eyes. That for me was comforting enough to forget about my problems for a short period of time.
"You were a good friend. Theres nothing more you could've done" i really needed this. for about a month i’ve been having a sort of tough time with a friend. she’s been making me feel like a bad person because she thinks our other two friends and i only care about each other and not her, which isn’t the case at all. she’s known our other two friends her whole life because they’re family friends who turned into family, but she lived three hours away for many years. she recently moved back to our town. for the last two and a half i’ve been friends with those said other friends. now that she has moved back to the same town as our two friends and i, she feels like she’s just walking into a friendship and interrupting it. which i understand how that feels but our other two friends and i include her in everything, care about her so much, and love having her around. i guess she just doesn’t see that tho. on new year’s eve we all hung out at this party, and the girl who feels left out ignored me the whole time, and even left the party early because i guess i was acting awkward towards her? when i reality i tried multiple times throughout the night to talk to her but every time i tried talking or made eye contact with her, she either left the room or just turned away from me. so the next day i confronted her over text, asking why she was ignoring me and asking if i did anything wrong. she proceeded to say i didn’t do anything wrong but she feels left out from our other two friends and i. i reassured her many times and told her she has to understand the four of us all can’t hang out together all the time, so sometimes it might be only three of us hanging out at a time, because the last time our two friends and i hung out, she got upset even tho she had other plans that day. after we talked for a bit over text when i confronted her she then just said it’s just something she needs to get over. i asked her if her and i were okay or did she need to say more to me, and all she said was “its fine, i really do not want this to add to more things and im really not trying to compare who is closer to who. it’s something i should probably just get over because i truly feel like this is gonna lead to nothing.” i tried my best to resolve whatever was happening but she wasn’t putting in any effort but i overthought the situation and felt like a horrible person. hearing from you that “you were a good friend and there’s nothing more you could’ve done” helped me because i now realize that i did try my best to fix the situation. things are still awkward between us so idk what’s going to happen and when this is going to be resolved. edit: it’s been three months and things are still awkward and she still gets mad over the tiniest things
I have been so overwhelmed. This helped me so much. Ur voice is very comforting.the “I’m proud of you” hit really hard. Growing up no one told me that.I’m here because of all the mistakes and guilt I feel. I’m struggling with my relationship. I’m so glad I found this video. I really needed this. Thank you so much.
been having a rough time for well over a year now. the pressure i've put on myself to heal quickly is definitely not helping, might as well just lay here and let it be, for now. thank you for this... it gives me hope 🌘
lana, thank you so much. genuinely. I was having such a hard day today and I really just felt so bad and like I couldn't talk to anyone about it. and I've been so hard on myself too. you really made me cry with this video. thank you lana, I love you so much and please always remember that you're amazing and you are enough!!!! you're doing the best you can with the knowledge you have now and that is already so great. everyone is just doing the best with what they have, and that's why we should always forgive people and be compassionate with both others and ourselves. you make me feel like it's all okay even when my mind is racing in a panic and it feels like it will never get better, when it seems that my anxiety is just... eating me up from the inside. even when i try so hard not to worry. but it will get better. i often feel like my anxiety is just too much for me to handle but these kinds of videos give me hope. the last part made me feel just a ton better. so, thank you again, and I hope everyone here will feel better after this video- know that you're never alone! I'm here to talk in the comment section for anyone who wants to just let some steam off) to a random stranger reading this: you're already doing amazing, everything will be okay and I am so proud of you. I love you and keep going! The universe loves and supports you, and there is always a way. you just gotta open your eyes to see how the ground holds you up and supports you, see the love this world gives you, stay grateful, see the possibility. it is always there, you just have to find it.
Knowing that you are not alone in your pain is one of the most comforting things ever. "Oh! I am not the only one that is in this case huh?" It is also comforting because you know people got out of that feeling as well
I just got here from my TH-cam recommendations and I watched the more recent video called "watch this video when you need a warm hug" and I am so so glad I found this because I never thought there'd be someone who tries to comfort others and make them feel good about themselves on TH-cam like this You're beautiful, you who is maybe reading this from somewhere in the world. Yes you, you're beautiful just because you exist and you try your best every day and because you're so human with all your imperfections and human behaviour.
What a beautiful treasure you have given me this morning. Thank you Lana for sharing warmth, comfort, truth and care. That video was the warm morning sunlight I hungered for! Thank you very much!
Comfort is not just extreme pleasure. Comfort is the realization of immortality and the realization that everything is heaven. When you realize that, it's so good, it's infinitely good. It's not just good. It's good to the infinite degree. It's so much goodness that you can't contain it. your body can't hold it. Your entire body shakes and shudders in a cosmic orgasm of bliss. It's perfection. It's total peace. It's absolute love, that's truly comfort.
The last part where she said "you, your presence is comforting to someone" made me shed a few tears. I've been having a rough time lately, especially thinking that i don't really matter and this helped me in a strange way Thank you for making this comforting video♡
i absolutely loved this. i love how you mention instances that have happened in everyones life, and with this the joys and memories that take you right back to experiencing this. today wasn't the worst day for me. it was very normal to be fair. but i was just feeling so lonely and really wanted to feel better. thank you lanaaa
I'm going through a hard time mentally right now where I feel lonely and unloved. I go back to this video from time to time and it does indeed bring me some comfort. It's so calm and your calm voice definitely helps. So thank you.
I was having such a bad day, you saved me. "To cry is comforting.Shed a tear if you feel like it. We all do sometimes. It's okay" 10 seconds ago, I was crying so bad that I couldn't breathe, but you happen to appear. Thanks. Why would I need therapy when I have you. Thanks, thanks for being my comfort person, it's means a lot, more than anyone would understand why. Thanks for being there for me when I needed, thanks for being my therapist, thanks for being my comfort person. Thanks
Everything about this video and the fact that i know it has made a LOT of people other than me feel validated and accepted just shows how much each and every one of us have the need to be comforted. May it be at the randomest time, everyone needs some form of comfort in their life, so don't feel bad about it.
You are such a comfort person, I really thank you sm for making me and everyone feel better. Your calming voice is everything. Thank you for this video .
My dentists son was born at the same hospital as me at the same time, never go a teeth cleaning without being reminded. Never met him but I’ve always thought it was cool that we have that connection.
the fact that "we shared that special moment together yet apart" with the others who were born around the same time as me really made me think. Like, we came in this life during the same time!!!
I'm someone that goes through severe panic attacks quite frequently. Idk if this will get lost in the comments, but sincerely i thank you. Because your voice and your videos are what helps me calm down instantly. Thank you so much.
“Your presence is comforting to someone” and that one got me, thank you for your kind words, I really needed them, I tend to be the type of person that overwhelms herself with thoughts that punish for not doing, or doing something wrong, or that maybe I am just a person passing by the life of others. Maybe that is true, but I would like to think that I was once important to someone, that maybe I was the one for them, that we were once good friends and that they miss my friendship, that maybe I am needed in this world. Regardless of the hurtful and overwhelming feelings I have now and may have later, I am going to find some peace in this life time that makes me think it was all worth the wait and pain.
Really needed to see this today as our world continues to be a place where hope is scarce. It usually takes a lot for me to cry but this video opened up the flood gates. Thank you Lana.
"no one thinks as badly of you, as you think of yourself" thank you i really needed that cause I've been crying for over an hour now and hearing this made me feel better
wow i'm crying :( when you said "you did your best, don't feel guilty" i felt that...thank you so much for the video, your presence certainly comforted me
''If, after a long day, no matter how tough or tiring, you can sleep in your own bed tonight, things may be better than you think.'' i really needed to get reminded of this. i've been having tough days go by in a fast-paced routine as i'm losing grip on time and it's very exhausting. it just suddenly made me aware again, that i'm actually really blessed and lucky to have my warm bed to sleep in after the end of every day. sometimes we just seem to overlook things that we should be grateful for because we're so used to them being there every day, though it all could be worse than this. things really may be better than we think.
"Although the world is full of suffering, it is also full of the overcoming of it." Much needed change in perception to pursue taking risks in life. Thanks a lot Lana❤
You've entered my top of most impacting videos of TH-cam all time in the category of : "Feeling" or transmitting feeling to your audience. I needed that, thank you. I hadn't added to this playlist for years to tell you how little of comforting, just nice really, videos I watched over this time period... Need to go back to those.
You remind me about the little simple things that I have forgotten, the things that I used to love. I haven’t been able to shed tears for months, you help me... Thank you Lana ❤️
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My parents passed away 17 months apart. I am still in my 30’s. Most people i know have their parents well over that age. I don’t have many pictures of them. But the brain, the memories are more powerful than any camera. Our loved ones will always be in our heart and mind. That motivates us to do better and live as good of a life as possible. You are never alone.
These is no way to waste effort. If you pick up a heavy thing and then later it falls, you have proven that you can pick it up again. Every time you do a mindless repetitive task, you get better at it. You are better today than you were yesterday, you can't even help it.
Subtitle Indonesia🙏🏻 please 🙏🏻
I hope one day i be strong enough
A beautifull video,
a song that always comforts me is the "Song of healing" from Majoras Mask, it has a tragic touch to it, but thats part of what makes it beautiflul in my opinion, maybe it can help you too. :)
And to everyone reading this, you are not alone, the night is darkest before Dawn, so dont lose hope.
Take Care
“no one thinks as badly of you, as you do of yourself.” i burst into tears. i was having such a low self esteem day. this video is perfect.
my favourite character, Alexis Rose, once said "people aren't thinking about you the way that you're thinking about you" and I actually want to get a tattoo of this quote and hearing it being said in other words in this video felt like a warm hug 🥺
🤭 Yes.
Dang, that hits hard.
if you having low self esteem, love meeeeeeeeeee
that was the only sentence i probably not agree whit
there was a guy who told me i am literally bad person and how he said it he meant it 100%
and i never thought of myself as bad maybe trash because i make a lot of mistakes and i made a lot of peoples life harder but not on purpose
that guy who told me that i am bad think that i intentionally do wrong to others
and then was guys who made me feel ashamed of myself ashamed of i even born and i never thought that my existence is a bad thing in itself
so sorry but there are people who thinks worse of you than you of yourself
“You were a good friend. Theres nothing more you could’ve done” immediately made me break down. Im so glad I found this video
i started crying as well
I as well, I really needed that
I burst into tears at all of the ones that were specific.. I’m so great full this video exists
Same
I could have been a better friend... I didn't know better at the time...
"Being hugged by someone who makes you feel tiny" just thinking about this kind of comfort made me shed a tear. Ive never had it but it almost felt like I did.
aww samee
Your parents literally never hugged you? 😳 that’s horrible. 😔
@@Skrymik my parents also didn't
@@Skrymik I'm struggling to think of them doing so. Yes they cared for me, but I always felt out of a sense of duty than anything. I think my sister thinks more of me than my parents. Just come out of a 30 year relationship, and now listening to mindfulness and relationship videos I realise what little I got out of it.
I was hoping to find a video that can help me make it through the day, but to be honest I'm struggling to relate to much of it.
@tedferkin because this is for people who are already somewhere. You gotta start slower, lower somehow. It's like the stairs for this video to work begins a meter from your head. You need a ladder there. Binaural beats or just sound related things work for me. Idk these love frequency whatever type of videos.
You've come this far, take a moment to realize this, take a deep breath and smile.
I can't. Each second is shattering me. I don't even think I'll be alive tomorrow. It's hurting me so much.
@@tayluvofficial What can I do for you? what seems to be the problem. I've been on the brink so many times and always wake up surprized Im still here, but there is always something that brings me back , brings my connection back to this place and it always seems to be the simple things. You are not your emotions, they do not control you. your ego is not you, it only survives to cause pain and doubt. You are more than what is going on, whatever it may be, it'll pass in time but you are here, alive and here for purpose! Please, take a moment to breathe deeply and realise you are not alone, you are not broken, you are you, special and meaningful. If you can't bring joy to yourself, do it for someone else ,it really does bring joy into your life and bring meaning to that lost feeling. I don't know you or your situation but feel my love, see the white light, it is pure and without judgement, let it surround you and connect it to those around you. That shattering is only temporary and something that exists to make you stronger, you will see in time even thou it is hard it has purpose. 🙏
@@bobrobertsNotUrBob what if one feels so down in the dumps. Like life has got nothing to offer me. Why does it come back more often it's like it's pulling me in that dark zone. I have lead a lonely life right from childhood. I always wanted more from my life, i looked at my friends life going to parties each weekend laughing having fun together. I've always wanted that. But i couldn't. I have always struggled making friends that last a lifetime atleast one friend that would ask me how am I doing. It's not like i haven't tried but the people's ive known never wanna stay in touch with me. When i meet some of them i still feel disconnected. I vibe with only a certain kind of people but those are rare. Each weekend I'm at home just staring at my phone. I've always wanted a connection maybe from a single girl or maybe from a group of friends but it's never ever worked out for me. Why doesn't it pass like you say and comes back more often. I try to keep my mind away from it. But now it feels like it has gripped me and maybe sadness is what I like. But it's like my mind still forces me to think that this isn't what i deserve. I wish it was different and i smiled more often. I always have to fake a smile to others that I'm fine. But deep inside i know I'm not
@@alzdsz It is hard to say, not knowing everything. I have the same thing with people not hanging around. i was told that life is just so crazy and hectic for most people that it is hard even for them to reach out instead of working hard or glued to their phone. I would have to say based on my own life and depression, that it is clearly a chemical imbalance. There are simple things that have helped (vitamins and minerals)omega 3, vitamin 6's, magnesium, potassium. but clearly I needed more than simple vitamins.
@@bobrobertsNotUrBob thanks for helping the way u can. Hopefully my life will end soon and I'll be out of this misery. I know it's not the answer. But thats what i feel. Probably as years go by it's gotta affect my mental and physical health. I might not be in the state of mind I'm now. Wish everything changed for the better. Sending out ❤️ to u mate.
“and finally you, your presence is comforting to someone.” ❤
cutest comment ever.
Too many people forget that part...
I started crying right away.
I'm not crying 😭🥺😭🥹😭 You are
I apologize for my negativity but I can’t see anyone being comforted by me.
I’m starting to play my guitar, at first I thought I was really good but my family hasn’t ever said anything, until I was reading my moms diary looking for her recipes, there I saw it. “I heard Darling playing her guitar, she’s getting really good :)”. I bursted into tears of happiness, she doesn’t know how much that meant to me, I love you mum
awww that's so sweet 🥰this reminds me of when I was having such a bad day at school and I felt so alone and I was crying a lot back then because of stuff, but when I came back home I saw my favourite cat plush toy on my bed, covered by the blanket that my mom made for me. it was set up in a way that the cat was sitting while covered in a blanket. when I tell you I literally burst into tears of happiness immediately. my mom put it there, though I didn't tell her about the things I was going through, she put it there right when I needed it most. that is just proof that we are never alone, and that sometimes we just need to be more open to see the positive of the world, how the world actually supports and loves us. your thinking goes a loong way. and such a small act can really make someone feel a million times better, so remember- your actions have power, so be mindful and kind to both yourself and others! there's a lot we cannot see. and im sure you're great at guitar :D I didn't mean to write such a gigantic paragraph lmao
@@heyyy1325 omg, your mom is the best! :) And I agree, little actions can make someone feel a lot more better! And thank you for that compliment! I hope you still have that toy cat and blanket, it’ll carry lots of memories!
Idk why am I crying while reading this😭😭
that's so sweet, i'm learning how to play the guitar too!
I actually met a girl who was born in the same hospital on the same day and year as me! And we share the same name. We're friends now. That is so comforting actually 🥰
That is so beautiful, it's as if it was meant to be
That is amazing ❤️
111 likes c:
I was born within 36 hours at the same hospital as my stepsister. Both our parents divorced and started dating when we were ten. We grew up together as total opposites but maintain a friendship.
@@brookealexandra2745 😭❤️
Me, dissociating with a panic attack, being saved by Lana Blakely and her magically grounding video
:')
Sending love and good vibes your way 🌟 I also suffer from anxiety and can relate. 🤗
I hope you're okay now! You're definitely not alone, been suffering with anxiety for 10 years and dissociation for 7, it can be tiringgg. We've got this love
i cant fathom how i can highly relate to this lol
Drink some ayahuasca, you’ll never have panic attacks again
"Being childish is comforting" I actually smiled because of this. My childishness makes my grandfather laugh, and it's so fulfilling to see. Because of him, I learned to embrace it; because of him i found comfort in it; and because of him, i will never get rid of my childishness.
aww😭
"You! Your presence is comforting to someone." That last bit really hit it in the feels 🥺
ain't that a lie. my presence is comforting to someone. I literally look so ugly.
This was so comforting and I've been down lately about not having friends and feeling like I'm doing this life thing alone, not understood or even cared for enough to be understood.
This felt like a little hand squeeze and thank you, really.
you might not notice this long enough but almost everyone is in utter alienation. we are into our smartphones these days, interfacing with the virtual world, customizing our own worldviews from the various information we gather globally.
even though you try to relate to an actual human mind, it still feels lonely because you seem to cannot connect in comparison to that relatability you have with internet world. its not stimulating enough.... whence here one can pour anything without hindrances because nobody can really know its you.
everyone is becoming individualized and some small minded ones, given they think they know alot better because they can read and absorb information, now act arrogant..
@@jJust_NO_ Perfect
Me too
I’m sorry you feel that way. A hug from someone who cares ❤️
Wow.. I feel like you just read my mind out loud... Its comforting to know that someone else felt the same way as I did when I found this video :')
"No feeling of shame,grief or guilt will remain as intense as it does when it's recently occurred" this was exactly what i needed to hear today. And reading the comments made me realize that I'm not alone and thousands if not millions of people are struggling with me. I'm SO glad I found this video.
For anyone going through a hard time right now, I can promise you that at some point, everything will be okay. I'm sorry that you have to go through this. I know it's difficult. Just remember that you matter. Someone out there loves you infinitely.
Now, get up and go get a glass of water
I love you
i cant keep on going
i need advice.
you see im 19 and starting to be depend on my toxic or good for nothing friends.
It started about an year ago when i was preparing for moving to different country for study but enrolled in my city for some time, due to unfortunate circumstances of indecisiveness, im stuck here for last year with them.
My mindset has gone worse, my mental health needs attention like an addict. I need their company to get work from them atleast. About 25 students left my class in the first semester and you can assume what a shithole it is.
Please tell me how can i be independent, im good-looking according do some decent women and not the ratchet ones. Im tall, smart and stand my ground when needed, dont let anybody toy with me. Its my mind that is making me weak and confused, my gut says to quit and go abroad but idk wtf is wrong with me.
Pls help me.
@@the_one_03 I feel almost the same as you. If you want to u can tell me your snap or insta and i can add u so we can talk:)
Very kind of you to put such messages on internet so that people feel Good.. God Bless you❤
@@lailal201 sorry for seeing your msg at only now. I understand things are going rough but I’m holding my own and I advice you should too.
I don’t use IG but have a snap. Thing is I’m very skeptical to add new people, I hope you understand
@@the_one_03 somewhat same place as you. I think this is a generational issue, and after researching so many, I now know the way our condition is right now, is a result of so many things not done. And there is no infrastructure for us to bring ourselves out of the situation. So the first thing to understand is that, we are not loving the best of life rn. We have so much potential, unique. If you want to tap into that, only we can do this. When I discovered what all led us to the situations, I started blaming everything, but that's not a solution. We deserve happiness and wellbeing in all aspects of life, to say the least. It's nuanced, and there is no one answer for it.
But i guess it starts with:
- Educating yourself with proper perspectives and mindsets, through maybe videos. This way you can get clarity about yourselves, your potential and problems, your role in the world etc.
- Finding an intelligent, authentic and a person that understands you to talk to everything openly. This will make the process faster and more possible.
- Get your physical and mental health diagnosed in a proper way, and do the necessary.
- And lastly, I wish that all of this will lead you to a strong, truth based, perspective and clarity, a thing to pursue which develops you into your potential, a good community or relationship to be in, and in good physical and mental health.
Once this much happens, we all have the necessary, to build our lives to full potential! Much Love!
"To think that there was a time when you couldn't even walk or say a single word. Look how far you've come". This one just hit right in. I'll be having my final high school exams next month. Thank you so much for this video Lana! Lots of love from India💚
Good luck on your exams, take it one day at a time! :)
@@avneet2.0 Thank you!
How's it come? I hope you were doing really fantastic!
Do you mean the 12th board exams because I also gave my 12th board exam last month.
I hope all the students get good marks!!🥰🥰
@@rudra5515 Yup! Hopefully all of us get good marks(unlike term 1)
I loved that instead of the negativity we hear non-stop in our brains everyday, she just let out some enjoyments of life. It's honestly so fresh and relieving to hear such kind and comforting words.
This is a 5-minute other-worldly, anti-depressant and anti-anxiety pill, spreading an aura of tranquility, serenity, and a sense of solace
i love This
@@cecasheillehuh? U wanna date the video?
İ suffer from anxiety and sometimes even when nothing is wrong,i feel like there is something wrong and i was feeling that way again and than i saw the notification.Thank you so much,you should know that you are helping a lot of people with this:)we are not alone.Stay safe
Your comment is kinda comforting, thank you
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i know this feeling so well and the notification came in the right moment for me too
@@yoon7217 it makes me feel good that you felt comfort:) you're welcome
@@lucaonthesecondfloor365 knowing there is someone understands me is comforting thank you☺️
The lack of buzz around Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest is baffling. This book holds the key to amazing secrets, but no one seems to care. Don’t stay in the dark - find out what everyone’s missing!
I have literally been shaking for 25 minutes, this video made me cry, but not in a bad way. i am so grateful to have youtube, and to have people like you. I really appreciate you. thank you, Lana.
It's comforting to know that this lady, Lana Blakely, cared enough to make this video to help other people. Thank you Lana for your care.
“You’ve been a good friend. You’ve tried your best.”
This made me cry so hard, I really really needed that. I’ve been going through it with all my relationships and it’s been hard. Friend disagreements, arguments, basically everything. And I’m just stuck in the middle. I’ve been trying so hard, and I needed that. Thank you.
A hot cup of tea, the smell of an apple pie in the oven, the rustling of birds in a hedge, thunderstorms when you're laying in bed, a new book, seeing new leaves on your plants
The thunderstorms part reminded me of when I was a kid and I would lay in bed hearing the storm and watching thunder lightning through the window while I’m wrapped in my blanket feeling warm and cozy…there was something about hiding in the house on a cold stormy night that always made me feel scared yet excited and kinda happy, it’s like I know it can get bad but I will be safe inside and not have to do anything but let the storm pass..I just wanted to share this thought with anyone who might had this feeling as well 🥰
@@florafarah 🥰
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!
Yes, dr.porassss. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
I wish they were readily available in my place.
Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac.
He's constantly talking about killing someone.
He's violent. Anyone reading this
Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.
Is he on instagram?
Yes he is dr.porassss.
all my life, i always wanted to do things by myself. I am almost 22 now and I am realizing I crave deeper connection with people. And I feel like no one really knows me because I am scared of being vulnerable.
I’m currently applying to medical school and the pressures of putting all my hopes and dreams into a career that may not except me is sometimes overwhelming. Thank you for this gentle reminder that everything is going to be okay 💜
❤️❤️ best of luck to you
I am in the same exact spot. Seeing your comment makes me feel less alone. There is so much pressure on premeds to be the "successes" we always have been, and so little understanding of the immense challenge and competition involved in the process.
wishing you the best in your application! an internet stranger is here to root for ya:>
The fact that you've still decided to try is what matters! Im sure the medical profession will get a hardworking humble queen as a doctor if they take you in, so girl, keep going! Whatever happens, never lose hope and stay happy😊
Hey!I was in your exact position 2-3 years ago.And I know what you feel.Medicine is so, so beautiful but it’s such a long and hard road.I am now in my second year and I enjoy it so much.I’m praying to God that everything goes well for you.Remeber to take care of yourself:)
"Your presence is comforting someone" i felt that😭😭
3:23 i love this. I was simply breaking down over not making the volleyball team and then I found out my friend was struggling and this video is amazing
This video made me cry 💜
I can relate 😔🤍
Omg hiii, two of my favorite TH-camrs together 🥺💛💛
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Me too 🥺
now i get why … 🥹😭
that "oh! You too?" really got me....your voice and words are comforting
"Im proud of you"
First time ive heard that in my life.
@petersammovies .
hi stranger
i'm proud of you
me too..
"Nobody thinks as badly of you as you think of yourself." Thanks for reminding. Much love from India ❤️❤️
hey there! a complete stranger, i hope your overcoming difficulties in life and living for small happy moments! i wish that your happy wherever you are.
"your presence is comforting to someone" that is what I needed.
That feeling when you're exhausted and you finally get into bed and your bed is extraordinarily comfortable and before you know it, you drift into a dark, dreamless, and deeply healing sleep.
The fact that everyone has hit a rough patch and has been in need of comfort, support, and love at some point or another in their life. We are all in this together.
That moment when you're watching a movie or a TV show, or maybe reading a book, and a character says something that you relate to so deeply at that moment that it brings tears to your eyes.
Very smooth rocks. They've been worn down by time, water, and other things to become that smooth and beautiful. Humans have quite a bit in common with rocks.
Watching the stars twinkle outside your window just before slipping into bed. I like to think they're sending me Morse code messages, telling me that everything is going to be okay and they are always watching over me, even when the Sun is out and I can't see them.
i was crying my eyes out at 1 in the morning, in complete and utter defeat; incredibly stressed and almost collapsing under the pressure school was exerting on me.
this helped me infinitely. i felt the muscles in my jaw relax, and the thoughts running around in my brain came to a crawl, soothing me.
i'm definitely going to watch this again.
you'll probably never see this, but thank you, lana
my gosh i am not alone. i also hate pressure. i relate too much with pressure from encanto
this is my exact situation right now..its 1 in the morning too
Thank you, So goddamn much. I used to hate talking, But after being around my chaotic family...I started to love it. I was sitting in silence, And its the most uncomfy feeling I've felt. This is one of the best, Listening to a calm and polite voice...Letting all the thoughts of passed loved ones and fears melt away...Writing...Letting all my tears fade. I love it, I love this.
"you've been a good friend, you've done your best. there's nothing more you could do. stop beating yourself up." I was at an audition for dance today and felt I did horrible and everyone was better than me like I let myself and others down. I was so disappointed in myself. then, this video shows up in my recommendations. thank you and I love you.
just came back with some bad news from hospital feeling emotional and i just search comforting video and i am here, almost cried listening to all those good thing ,so, just wanna let you know you kinda saved my day
This is now gonna be my go to video to have a peaceful sleep
This makes me happy.
I didn’t even know I needed this until I started crying and smiling at the same time. Thank you.
1:58
cought me off guard, I literally cried when I heard it.. thank u
I was feeling overwhelmed at the thought of my mistakes and struggling with getting my life together. This video came at the right time. Thank you Lana ❤
You genuinely got me through so many school days the past two years. When I was stressed I would leave class, sit in the stairwell when no one else was there, and listen to this video. It got me through so many days. Thank you ❤
"Your presence is comforting to someone" This one really got me in the soul!
Such a beautiful video Lana, Thank you so much for creating this video!
To whoever reading this, one day the bad situation you are going through, will be remembered and no longer will be suffered.
It is worth waiting for that one day, sending you all the best vibes.
It is all going to be okay!
I read your whole comment..so, thanks a lot...and same to you Yamini ✨ I feel quite relieved by the fact that ...still, there are some people who wish well for others without even knowing them (like you just did by commenting) 🙂
Yup , you are 100 right Yamini , "this 2 will pass" .... njoy.
the feel of book pages under your fingers, laying on the cold side of your pillow, seeing people go by their lives and thinking we all live a different life, the smell of hot cocoa, rubbing cold noses at chilly evenings, the mushy feel of sand at the edge of a beach
"You've been a good friend."
That is exactly what I needed to hear, I was beginning to question how I have been as a friend and this made me start crying, thank *you*
“No one thinks as badly of you as you think of yourself”.. damn I’m actually crying 🥺
"To think that there was a time when you couldn't even walk or say a single word. Look how far you've come."
Thanks, Lana. Didn't realize that's all I wanted to hear right now. I have indeed come a long way... it's been freakin' hell. It's almost ironical how looking back, thinking of all the scars, I am actually empowered to get through the rest of the day.
I feel like giving you a long warm hug... May God bless you.
With everything going on in the world this seems perfect timing, almost made me cry.. thank you Lana💓
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Thank you. Thank you for this video. I didn’t know I needed this, but I did. This made me cry and smile and feel so save. “You, your presence is comforting to someone.” That made my day, and made me feel completed and so safe. Again, thank you.
When the world seems scary, stop thinking. Focus on your surroundings, on your next breath, on what you can do in that exact moment.Things don't stay terrible forever and sometimes that alone is comforting, knowing that you'll be okay.
2:49 That right there. I met a fellow Bulgarian last year who happened to be from the same city as myself. When we got to know each other, we found we had the same birthday and were born the same year! And to top that, we also were born in the same hospital, only 4 hours apart... How crazy that we met 20 years later across the Atlantic ocean in Canada. :)
Reading so many positive comments, makes me believe that are still good people out there, whole love you and care for you! Thank you to all the people who wrote comments here and our Dear Lana! ❤️ Glad to share that I feel much better now and I truly wish from the bottom of my heart that if someone is going thru something bad, they overcome it very soon! Cheer up, smile! ‘Cause YOU MATTER! YOUR SMILE IS BEAUTIFUL:)
I dont.
Rly needed this tonight
One of the most comforting videos I've ever seen.... Thank you for reminding me all of these little happiness
“And finally… you. Your presence is comforting to someone.” *sobs*
growing up, i hv suppressed my emotions sm that i cant really cry much anymore. i had a really bad day today, and i couldnt cry. so i decided to watch this vid, and it helped me cry, esp the last 2 sentences. such a lovely video. tysm
Some videos are original, many videos are simple. But very few videos are simple and original. This is one of them. So good
We all need to comfort ourselves from time to time. Doing it in a healthy way like this is truly beneficial for everyone. I have a very rational mind so feeling my emotions is not an easy task. This video really helped me feel and I know I am not the only one. Thank you for being such a kind and empathetic soul.
So many people everywhere in search for true inner peace and joy that will last for eternity, but it can only be found in Jesus Christ. Jesus loves you more than you could ever know and He wants to give you this peace. I am sharing my best friend's story with you in hopes that you will come to know Jesus Christ and find real peace and comfort in your soul. God bless you.
Precious Memories-By Sonya Lakey
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
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This testimony has been made into a gospel tract. If you or your Church would be interested in passing them out or if you would like to send a word of encouragement to the family, please go to:
facebook.com/GITM-Foundation-113997824650357/
"To think that there was a time when you couldn't even walk or say a single word... look how far you've come" I really needed that
Your voice is so comforting. It felt like a relief to simply hear you talk and just close my eyes. That for me was comforting enough to forget about my problems for a short period of time.
"You were a good friend. Theres nothing more you could've done" i really needed this. for about a month i’ve been having a sort of tough time with a friend. she’s been making me feel like a bad person because she thinks our other two friends and i only care about each other and not her, which isn’t the case at all. she’s known our other two friends her whole life because they’re family friends who turned into family, but she lived three hours away for many years. she recently moved back to our town. for the last two and a half i’ve been friends with those said other friends. now that she has moved back to the same town as our two friends and i, she feels like she’s just walking into a friendship and interrupting it. which i understand how that feels but our other two friends and i include her in everything, care about her so much, and love having her around. i guess she just doesn’t see that tho. on new year’s eve we all hung out at this party, and the girl who feels left out ignored me the whole time, and even left the party early because i guess i was acting awkward towards her? when i reality i tried multiple times throughout the night to talk to her but every time i tried talking or made eye contact with her, she either left the room or just turned away from me. so the next day i confronted her over text, asking why she was ignoring me and asking if i did anything wrong. she proceeded to say i didn’t do anything wrong but she feels left out from our other two friends and i. i reassured her many times and told her she has to understand the four of us all can’t hang out together all the time, so sometimes it might be only three of us hanging out at a time, because the last time our two friends and i hung out, she got upset even tho she had other plans that day. after we talked for a bit over text when i confronted her she then just said it’s just something she needs to get over. i asked her if her and i were okay or did she need to say more to me, and all she said was “its fine, i really do not want this to add to more things and im really not trying to compare who is closer to who. it’s something i should probably just get over because i truly feel like this is gonna lead to nothing.” i tried my best to resolve whatever was happening but she wasn’t putting in any effort but i overthought the situation and felt like a horrible person. hearing from you that “you were a good friend and there’s nothing more you could’ve done” helped me because i now realize that i did try my best to fix the situation. things are still awkward between us so idk what’s going to happen and when this is going to be resolved.
edit: it’s been three months and things are still awkward and she still gets mad over the tiniest things
this video is a warm hug, made me cry. thank you lana that's exactly what I needed today
I have been so overwhelmed. This helped me so much. Ur voice is very comforting.the “I’m proud of you” hit really hard. Growing up no one told me that.I’m here because of all the mistakes and guilt I feel. I’m struggling with my relationship. I’m so glad I found this video. I really needed this. Thank you so much.
" your presence is comforting to someone" im crying out loud.
been having a rough time for well over a year now. the pressure i've put on myself to heal quickly is definitely not helping, might as well just lay here and let it be, for now. thank you for this... it gives me hope 🌘
Turned this on and didn't realize how many things I took for granted
lana, thank you so much. genuinely. I was having such a hard day today and I really just felt so bad and like I couldn't talk to anyone about it. and I've been so hard on myself too. you really made me cry with this video. thank you lana, I love you so much and please always remember that you're amazing and you are enough!!!! you're doing the best you can with the knowledge you have now and that is already so great. everyone is just doing the best with what they have, and that's why we should always forgive people and be compassionate with both others and ourselves. you make me feel like it's all okay even when my mind is racing in a panic and it feels like it will never get better, when it seems that my anxiety is just... eating me up from the inside. even when i try so hard not to worry. but it will get better. i often feel like my anxiety is just too much for me to handle but these kinds of videos give me hope. the last part made me feel just a ton better. so, thank you again, and I hope everyone here will feel better after this video- know that you're never alone! I'm here to talk in the comment section for anyone who wants to just let some steam off) to a random stranger reading this: you're already doing amazing, everything will be okay and I am so proud of you. I love you and keep going! The universe loves and supports you, and there is always a way. you just gotta open your eyes to see how the ground holds you up and supports you, see the love this world gives you, stay grateful, see the possibility. it is always there, you just have to find it.
Knowing that you are not alone in your pain is one of the most comforting things ever. "Oh! I am not the only one that is in this case huh?" It is also comforting because you know people got out of that feeling as well
I just got here from my TH-cam recommendations and I watched the more recent video called "watch this video when you need a warm hug" and I am so so glad I found this because I never thought there'd be someone who tries to comfort others and make them feel good about themselves on TH-cam like this
You're beautiful, you who is maybe reading this from somewhere in the world. Yes you, you're beautiful just because you exist and you try your best every day and because you're so human with all your imperfections and human behaviour.
"Shed a tear if you feel like it. We all do sometimes."
I had been holding them in for so long. This one line broke the dam.
Thank you so much. ❤❤
What a beautiful treasure you have given me this morning. Thank you Lana for sharing warmth, comfort, truth and care. That video was the warm morning sunlight I hungered for! Thank you very much!
I appreciate that, thank you so much.
You deserve everything you want. Don't let anyone make you feel like you don't.
Comfort is not just extreme pleasure. Comfort is the realization of immortality and the realization that everything is heaven. When you realize that, it's so good, it's infinitely good. It's not just good. It's good to the infinite degree. It's so much goodness that you can't contain it. your body can't hold it. Your entire body shakes and shudders in a cosmic orgasm of bliss. It's perfection. It's total peace. It's absolute love, that's truly comfort.
The last part where she said "you, your presence is comforting to someone" made me shed a few tears. I've been having a rough time lately, especially thinking that i don't really matter and this helped me in a strange way
Thank you for making this comforting video♡
i absolutely loved this. i love how you mention instances that have happened in everyones life, and with this the joys and memories that take you right back to experiencing this. today wasn't the worst day for me. it was very normal to be fair. but i was just feeling so lonely and really wanted to feel better. thank you lanaaa
I'm going through a hard time mentally right now where I feel lonely and unloved. I go back to this video from time to time and it does indeed bring me some comfort. It's so calm and your calm voice definitely helps. So thank you.
Loved how simple yet comforting this was. One of those "I didn't know I needed this" kinda videos! Thank you :)
I was having such a bad day, you saved me.
"To cry is comforting.Shed a tear if you feel like it. We all do sometimes. It's okay"
10 seconds ago, I was crying so bad that I couldn't breathe, but you happen to appear.
Thanks.
Why would I need therapy when I have you. Thanks, thanks for being my comfort person, it's means a lot, more than anyone would understand why. Thanks for being there for me when I needed, thanks for being my therapist, thanks for being my comfort person.
Thanks
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Ohh I hope you’re doing better, you’re a lovely person ❤
Everything about this video and the fact that i know it has made a LOT of people other than me feel validated and accepted just shows how much each and every one of us have the need to be comforted. May it be at the randomest time, everyone needs some form of comfort in their life, so don't feel bad about it.
You are such a comfort person, I really thank you sm for making me and everyone feel better. Your calming voice is everything. Thank you for this video .
My dentists son was born at the same hospital as me at the same time, never go a teeth cleaning without being reminded. Never met him but I’ve always thought it was cool that we have that connection.
This video was so sweet and wholesome. That last line too, though. 🫶
the fact that "we shared that special moment together yet apart" with the others who were born around the same time as me really made me think. Like, we came in this life during the same time!!!
I'm someone that goes through severe panic attacks quite frequently. Idk if this will get lost in the comments, but sincerely i thank you.
Because your voice and your videos are what helps me calm down instantly.
Thank you so much.
“Your presence is comforting to someone” and that one got me, thank you for your kind words, I really needed them, I tend to be the type of person that overwhelms herself with thoughts that punish for not doing, or doing something wrong, or that maybe I am just a person passing by the life of others.
Maybe that is true, but I would like to think that I was once important to someone, that maybe I was the one for them, that we were once good friends and that they miss my friendship, that maybe I am needed in this world.
Regardless of the hurtful and overwhelming feelings I have now and may have later, I am going to find some peace in this life time that makes me think it was all worth the wait and pain.
Really needed to see this today as our world continues to be a place where hope is scarce. It usually takes a lot for me to cry but this video opened up the flood gates. Thank you Lana.
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1:59 hits hard. I always wish I could have done more for someone. But in the end people have to chose for themseves, for better or worst. Thankz.
"To cry is comforting. Shed a tear if you feel like. We all do sometimes. It's okay"
Thank you so much. I really needed it
"Your presence is comforting to somebody" MADE ME CRYYYYY
Omg "the fact that the flame of a single candle can light thousands of other candles" that's so beautiful
"no one thinks as badly of you, as you think of yourself" thank you i really needed that cause I've been crying for over an hour now and hearing this made me feel better
Sending everybody light! You can do this! You're so loved, you're never alone! Love you! 💝
wow i'm crying :( when you said "you did your best, don't feel guilty" i felt that...thank you so much for the video, your presence certainly comforted me
''If, after a long day, no matter how tough or tiring, you can sleep in your own bed tonight, things may be better than you think.'' i really needed to get reminded of this. i've been having tough days go by in a fast-paced routine as i'm losing grip on time and it's very exhausting. it just suddenly made me aware again, that i'm actually really blessed and lucky to have my warm bed to sleep in after the end of every day. sometimes we just seem to overlook things that we should be grateful for because we're so used to them being there every day, though it all could be worse than this. things really may be better than we think.
"Although the world is full of suffering, it is also full of the overcoming of it."
Much needed change in perception to pursue taking risks in life. Thanks a lot Lana❤
Just when I needed it, after crying all evening from bad relationship ♥️
I'm so sorry. I hope you find what's right for you in this situation.
You've entered my top of most impacting videos of TH-cam all time in the category of : "Feeling" or transmitting feeling to your audience.
I needed that, thank you.
I hadn't added to this playlist for years to tell you how little of comforting, just nice really, videos I watched over this time period...
Need to go back to those.
You remind me about the little simple things that I have forgotten, the things that I used to love. I haven’t been able to shed tears for months, you help me... Thank you Lana ❤️