I totally agree. I am more happy with out contact. We will not be walking in eggshells. I don't give a damn anymore. They can be what they want. They are a monster, and they recruit us to be like them. I will never want to be like them. I have a lot of good qualities in me that they will never have. They can't take away the best of me, and turn me to a monster. I am a good person, and I pray God will help them with what their Issues are. I can't help the people who doesn't want to be helped. I done it too many times. Instead, I am hurt by those creatures. Their behavior has nothing to do with me. They have to change themselves. Not us, we are not their savior.
I can't tell you how much your videos have helped me. I didn't understand what happened after I was discarded until I listened to your videos. Thank you so much for what you're doing. I really wish this was talked about more so we can deal with these people. I'm sorry for what you went through. But thank you for turning that into help for other people (us). God bless you!
I have limited contact due to a daughter , but it's extremely limited to only when I need to and only then . I make sure I'm in the " Drivers seat " during the brief encounters. They hate that !
These people spend their entire lives searching for something they are never going to find. That must be hell, and hell is precisely where they are heading.
They choose to go to.hell. They need to learn their lesson. They need to taste their own medicine for what they did. But God will do that for us. He will fight our battles.
The narc I know always seems to be permanently cheery, loud and happy no matter what happens. A lot of people admire her for her ability to appear positive and happy no matter what shit in her life might be going down. Any realistic person however can see it's not possible to be genuinely happy under those circumstances. Yes they are great performers.
I told the narc "I just want you to be happy." to which they snapped "That's not going to happen!" They are never happy whatever you do for them, so don't even try. Nobody is responsible for making them happy except themselves but they are determined not to be because what they have is never enough. They chase after the perfect job, the perfect partner, the perfect house, the perfect this and that, but they do not realise that perfection does not exist.
Narcissists are punisher, so they have never a real interaction because there will come a time where you do something a narcissist don´t like and you have to pay for it. This kind of thinking don´t bring happiness, it brings loneliness and the of running from yourself because of the pain narcissists bring to others. The crazy thing is that narcissist ask why others fear them as if they not punisher and abuser at all.
Sad but true. Indeed they are punishers. When you share a child it’s lifelong pain. Otherwise I’d be zero contact and not give AF about the ex narc. Only care as it relates to our child. And ex narc uses child to manipulate and control me.
Great video, Jess! Narcissists lack that one thing that makes for a balanced human being: AUTHENTICITY - the ability to be the same person both inwardly and externally.
Yep.....so much better with an occasional cyber reminder than a daily in person brain binder. Shit..those were exhausting times. Amazing how a boring day, is a great day.
Thank you for helping me get through the last 2 YEARS ! It's been a rough go for sure ,But , Your channel here has actually saved me from making mistakes that could have made my situation much worse . Everything you just described here in this video is 100% , my former Narc. It's hard to believe that there are people out there like this , so evil and actually very smart ...but once you catch them in the games they play?! Oh look out ! Now YOU have become the intellectual one ! You have more power than you think. You have you and who YOU ARE, then you have them all figured out because they become very comfortable with who they are and make viable, questionable mistakes you just can't overlook. You start questioning them and Bam! It's game over folks ! Now you have them figured out ! The only way to become a SURVIVOR , is to just stay strong stay the person you are and don't react poorly ! You'll sink fast if you do ! Thanks again Jess for helping me become a SURVIVOR!
This was a great video and breaks down it for those who may be new to this communtity and that these behaviors they project are not normal and there's a name for it ... NARCISSISM
I have to say I know narcissists that are quite wealthy through their own hard work. They are narcissists none the less, so don’t downplay other red flags just because someone has financial stability.
Yes some are very wealthy I have a friend that dated a millionaire narcissist the difference was he used his money to control her, mine was broke and tried to control me he had some nerves, I cold see controlling with money but broke and control is worse.
Absolutely but to be fair most of those ones I met are higher functioning and are more clever in their narc ways and some are straight up Narcisstic sociopaths
Thank you for summarizing their unhappiness to all us survivors. I agree with some of the subscribers here, it feels great not to give a damn about a narcs issues anymore
So very well said! It’s been one year of no contact. I send prayers and positive wishes that everyone suffering from narcissistic abuse will find their freedom. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
I’ve heard differing opinions from psychotherapist, some say they are happy living this way and it’s not just self survival. How can anyone be who seeks happiness from outward sources? Living a day to day in contentment, happiness seems to find you. These are restless people by nature. So I’m with you Jess.
The same as me. @ cat lady. The narcissist kept hovering and want to reel me in so he can control me. But I just ignore him. He pretend to be friends like nothing happened. And every time we talk on social media, he use me as his verbal punching bag. He just talks about his ex who does not want him anymore. Moreover, he talks about her, and compare her physical attraction to me. Who the hell cares?I don't give a damn about her, nor him. They both are toxic and dangerous. That is why I walk away. I don't tolerate people who play stupid games, and be very disrespectful to me. So childish! As my friends said, they are monsters. Their intentions are to destroy people's lives.
I love the closing of this video. Exactly what I needed to hear. Just escaped after a year and a half. Still so very angry and I am having trouble thinking of anything else. This was great though. So true. Thank you. 💜
I'm late to this video. But thank you ! Ex has dragged me through family court system, smearing me, fooling others and treating new husband like her slave and he seems to go along.
You touched on EVERYTHING both what I have experienced and said today, and what I have been saying for YEARS!!!!! (Before I watched this video, I had expressed at least three statements you made,,,,,,EXACTLY TO THE WORD) and I thought I was crazy😂😂😂😂 See you next post Jess💗💗💗💗
She tried to hoover me last night after 6 weeks NC. I was doing great but she's been on my mind all day today. These videos are wonderful. Thank you for putting them out.
Thank you, Jess. Has anyone else had a similar experience: I had to leave my narc. He has forever punished me. Moved down the street. Still obsessed in a creepy way. You’d think having NS living with him would make him less interested in me. Nope. Awful.
The fact that the narcissist has to move on all the time, proves that they're never happy, or never content. Contentment is the word we should be looking at, instead of happiness. A narc will never reach a point of fulfillment, and happiness. Like one of my favourite bands Motörhead once sang: The chase is better than the catch. Part of the lyrics: "You know I'm bad, the times I've had I've got a bad reputation I don't care, I get my share Don't feel no deprivation, I don't The more I get the better it is I like it fine, like a little whiz Treat 'em like ladies, that's a fact You know the chase is better than the catch, you know"
Great video Jess each point was my narc. He was a lonely man who never had real friends and his family and friends did not like him. He stood from me his friends and family in Cuba. What kind of man tells his wife me and friends his mother had died for two years then suddenly turned up at a friend's house. From his mouth to God's ear I say.
Thank you Jess! Soooo right! 👍 As I continue to struggle with the narcissist, narcissistic behavior descriptions that you characterized today, continue to help so much! ❤️
Thank you for bringing some light into a vast shady topic. The more I read and listen, the more I understand that my love was either narc or narc struck somehow. I wanna understand the meaning of those last words spoken to me, as I was super stressed when they were spoken.
I was born lucky and I came with a little talent too. But at an early age, I noticed that great artists and famous people didn't live such a great life. I cared about my life more that pursuing a career in Art, and nobody has shown me why it's so wonderful to have ( ) and I have fun instead.
Thankyou for your fantastic video Jess...... Everything your saying is true..... problem is that we don't know we are getting used...... Out of the ten years that I knew him..... I only realised there was something not right.. in the last four years..... He hid it very well..... Until the mask slipped off... and then i really knew what i was dealing with.... Scarey business.....Jess... ❤️
Thank you for your podcast about Narcisistic people, you told the truth about them, LoL I guess Its why they use to ask me if i'm ever happy, hahaha. Of course I am, even nobody is Always happy, i'm not either
Spot on, someone I know chose meth over his family, has no friends just drug buddies. Smears everyone including STBXW, irresponsible with money, dont take responsibility for nothing the drug brought out the narcissist in him.
Really Jess 💞 , this is so very well explained , really Jess 💞 , I understand 🥰 this but I have never been able to really word it to put myself back together if this makes sense-? Thanks so very much for your video here 💗 , Jess don't they avoid people too-?
Everything was going good with my ex and her new supply until she found out he had kids he didnt tell her about. So her sister banned him from her house... Her mother is not happy.. Or her father. But she forgave him... And its really only 6 months into the relationship so far.
This podcast hit the nail on the head. I'm currently NC (again) after a choppy, voluntile 20 year relationshit with my ex and I was at the stage where denial & sadness begins to kick in and the reality of what was starts to subside along with the hope and logic. Jess, You have such a way with words that remind me of the disgusting, sorry ass he is and the worthy awesome amazing being I am without him!
They’ve gotta live with their MISERABLE selves every👏damn👏day & that’s why revenge is never necessary. Karma might be slow or mysterious but it’s REAL!!
My ex narc gf is a serious drinker… whiskey in her coffee, drinks at lunch and vodka or wine in the evening … one dui so far … she copes by drinking and collecting supply… good luck with that .. so happy I’m out …
What is that thing everybody get out and run for your life and don’t look back because it will destroy your life forever do you want something like that in your life I don’t and that’s a fact for my sake I thank God every day for leading me and guiding me in situations like this😇
hey Jess i would like to get your opinion: my narc ex discarded the romantic relationship 5 years ago and then naively he sent me messages as friends but 6 months ago i went no contact and blocked him,., who do you think won the game ?
to be with a narcissist feels like hell...it makes u sick and u start finding flaw in urself which u absolutely dont have ....pathetic piece of human ever existed in the world.
They are very cruel to their families they dont like being on their own they have to have a woman to fill their needs which is mostly sex they dont seem to be able to do without it im a mother of a 60 yr old and because i challenged his behaviour towards the family hes now gone silent on me no acknowledgement at mothers day my birthday and xmas he did not even attend his beautiful daughters engagement party all because the girlfriend caused some issues but happily the rest of us had a wonderful time its his loss as hes left with only his woman and a couple of friends the saddest part hes lost his beautiful grand children and doesnt even seem to care 😢
It's a beautiful thing when you don't give a damn about what they feel, think, or what they do.
Indifference ! Great Place to be ! Faraway from Narcissistic toxic demons ! ❤️
Amen
Yes, it's like 'you don't think I'm fabulous?' uh...no!
I totally agree. I am more happy with out contact. We will not be walking in eggshells. I don't give a damn anymore. They can be what they want. They are a monster, and they recruit us to be like them. I will never want to be like them. I have a lot of good qualities in me that they will never have. They can't take away the best of me, and turn me to a monster. I am a good person, and I pray God will help them with what their Issues are. I can't help the people who doesn't want to be helped. I done it too many times. Instead, I am hurt by those creatures. Their behavior has nothing to do with me. They have to change themselves. Not us, we are not their savior.
@@user-cu1sp3bn2x exactly
Two years No Contact after my doing the discard and I'm so very proud of myself !
Congrats! It’s been just over a year for me. Life is so much more peaceful, isn’t it? Wishing the best for you 🙏🏻💙
I can't tell you how much your videos have helped me. I didn't understand what happened after I was discarded until I listened to your videos. Thank you so much for what you're doing. I really wish this was talked about more so we can deal with these people. I'm sorry for what you went through. But thank you for turning that into help for other people (us). God bless you!
Just out of curiosity i want to know do the get depleted yet... Do they faced any kind of karma yet..??
Totally 2 months no contact ! Had one hoover so far and it nearly made me barf!
Congrats on no contact!!
hey jesyka well done ! i had gone nc for 5 months and blocked him but after he discarded me first ! do you think we win in their eyes ? suffering
6 months no contact. Got one hoover 😂😅
I have limited contact due to a daughter , but it's extremely limited to only when I need to and only then .
I make sure I'm in the " Drivers seat " during the brief encounters. They hate that !
Their energy is just that toxic. I had my Ex inadvertently walk by me and I did barf !
Narcissists have great expectations and spend their lives looking for perfection, but that is also their downfall.
These people spend their entire lives searching for something they are never going to find.
That must be hell, and hell is precisely where they are heading.
Even when they could choose between heaven and hell, they would choose for hell. Because Yes, they know they are evil, but they just don't care!
Satan's Disciples !
They choose to go to.hell. They need to learn their lesson. They need to taste their own medicine for what they did. But God will do that for us. He will fight our battles.
I’m working on the disentanglement. The most difficult thing I’ve ever been through!
The most difficult thing.
You will get through this! I promise!!!!
The narc I know always seems to be permanently cheery, loud and happy no matter what happens. A lot of people admire her for her ability to appear positive and happy no matter what shit in her life might be going down. Any realistic person however can see it's not possible to be genuinely happy under those circumstances. Yes they are great performers.
They are exhausting to be around nothing is ever going right for them… mine punished me too for absolutely any perception of criticism.. so free now!!
100% hit the nail on the head with my soon to be ex husband. ❤️❤️❤️💯
Danielle, yes, sounds familiar!
realdeal
Chronic Dissatisfaction is what I call it...
That in a nutshell is perfect.
I told the narc "I just want you to be happy." to which they snapped "That's not going to happen!"
They are never happy whatever you do for them, so don't even try. Nobody is responsible for making them happy except themselves but they are determined not to be because what they have is never enough.
They chase after the perfect job, the perfect partner, the perfect house, the perfect this and that, but they do not realise that perfection does not exist.
If you want someone you are with to be happy, then why in the hell did you choose a narcissist as a partner?!
@@MoonwalkerWorshiper exactly. You do not want to always walk on eggshells.
@@user-cu1sp3bn2x Why would anyone want to walk on eggshells at any time?
@@MoonwalkerWorshiper exactly. The verbal, mental and emotional abuse. It is ridiculous. Enougf is enough!
@@user-cu1sp3bn2x Enough? I'm questioning why you ever would subject yourself to that in the first place.
Narcissists are punisher, so they have never a real interaction because there will come a time where you do something a narcissist don´t like and you have to pay for it. This kind of thinking don´t bring happiness, it brings loneliness and the of running from yourself because of the pain narcissists bring to others. The crazy thing is that narcissist ask why others fear them as if they not punisher and abuser at all.
Sad but true. Indeed they are punishers. When you share a child it’s lifelong pain. Otherwise I’d be zero contact and not give AF about the ex narc. Only care as it relates to our child. And ex narc uses child to manipulate and control me.
My greatest birthday gift in my life is this year- freedom from my abusive narcissist husband. Thank you 🙏🏻 Lord for rescuing me .
Great video, Jess! Narcissists lack that one thing that makes for a balanced human being: AUTHENTICITY - the ability to be the same person both inwardly and externally.
I’m so exhausted. I need to get away from the nightmare narcissist. What you say is spot on. The narcissist is very empty
THEY WERE PHANTOMS WHEN WE MET THEM. JUST LIKE THE PERFECT PEOPLE THEY CHASE ALL THEIR LIVES.
Yep.....so much better with an occasional cyber reminder than a daily in person brain binder. Shit..those were exhausting times. Amazing how a boring day, is a great day.
Contentment equals happiness
This is so accurate these birds are never happy and they are far from perfect yet they want the supply to be perfect. I can’t stand these pigeons .
Thank you for helping me get through the last 2 YEARS ! It's been a rough go for sure ,But , Your channel here has actually saved me from making mistakes that could have made my situation much worse .
Everything you just described here in this video is 100% , my former Narc.
It's hard to believe that there are people out there like this , so evil and actually very smart ...but once you catch them in the games they play?!
Oh look out ! Now YOU have become the intellectual one ! You have more power than you think.
You have you and who YOU ARE, then you have them all figured out because they become very comfortable with who they are and make viable, questionable mistakes you just can't overlook.
You start questioning them and Bam!
It's game over folks ! Now you have them figured out ! The only way to become a SURVIVOR , is to just stay strong stay the person you are and don't react poorly !
You'll sink fast if you do ! Thanks again Jess for helping me become a SURVIVOR!
I’m so glad I got out from the narcissistic paradise 😉
You mean HELL!
@@helenlovell8587 sure,but the narc thinks it’s paradise.
@@precioussoul7128 oh I get it!😂
😂💙
I am happy as well to walk away from the narcissist. They will run out of source of supplies. They will burn the bridges.
This was a great video and breaks down it for those who may be new to this communtity and that these behaviors they project are not normal and there's a name for it ... NARCISSISM
Grate video, I just got of a relationship with a Narcissist you have helped me sooo much, thank you
Wonderful!
I have to say I know narcissists that are quite wealthy through their own hard work. They are narcissists none the less, so don’t downplay other red flags just because someone has financial stability.
Yes some are very wealthy I have a friend that dated a millionaire narcissist the difference was he used his money to control her, mine was broke and tried to control me he had some nerves, I cold see controlling with money but broke and control is worse.
@@givegodthanks No kidding! Of course, that’s a narcissist for you! Glad you got out!😎
Absolutely but to be fair most of those ones I met are higher functioning and are more clever in their narc ways and some are straight up Narcisstic sociopaths
Thank you for summarizing their unhappiness to all us survivors. I agree with some of the subscribers here, it feels great not to give a damn about a narcs issues anymore
I freakin love you. You always inspire me to be a badass Thank you for another great video. Sending lots of love ❤️❤️
Thank you so much!!
Spot on every one. I'm laughing all the way to the bank with my happy life since I discarded that irrelevant sorry sap
This entire list... Check ! Check ! Check!
So very well said! It’s been one year of no contact. I send prayers and positive wishes that everyone suffering from narcissistic abuse will find their freedom. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
My ex an alcoholic, drugs . He said “ I don’t follow rules “ . He also told me that he was the best I’ll ever have in a relationship .
I’ve heard differing opinions from psychotherapist, some say they are happy living this way and it’s not just self survival. How can anyone be who seeks happiness from outward sources? Living a day to day in contentment, happiness seems to find you. These are restless people by nature. So I’m with you Jess.
Thank you Jess, good video. I needed to hear this, you could have been describing my ex who still keeps trying to hoover me back 🤦♀️
The same as me. @ cat lady. The narcissist kept hovering and want to reel me in so he can control me. But I just ignore him. He pretend to be friends like nothing happened.
And every time we talk on social media, he use me as his verbal punching bag. He just talks about his ex who does not want him anymore. Moreover, he talks about her, and compare her physical attraction to me. Who the hell cares?I don't give a damn about her, nor him. They both are toxic and dangerous. That is why I walk away. I don't tolerate people who play stupid games, and be very disrespectful to me. So childish!
As my friends said, they are monsters. Their intentions are to destroy people's lives.
They have no idea what a loving respectful relationship is
Narcissistic women will break up a family without blinking twice
I love the closing of this video. Exactly what I needed to hear. Just escaped after a year and a half. Still so very angry and I am having trouble thinking of anything else. This was great though. So true. Thank you. 💜
I'm late to this video. But thank you ! Ex has dragged me through family court system, smearing me, fooling others and treating new husband like her slave and he seems to go along.
Very Accurate !
AGAIN ON POINT WORD FOR WORD! TRAIT BY TRAIT
You touched on EVERYTHING both what I have experienced and said today, and what I have been saying for YEARS!!!!! (Before I watched this video, I had expressed at least three statements you made,,,,,,EXACTLY TO THE WORD) and I thought I was crazy😂😂😂😂 See you next post Jess💗💗💗💗
completely on point. every survivor needs to hear this. concise, and true AF.
Nothing or noone can fill anyones void but God Almighty Himself!
This is all the proof I need to forget that my narc never existed!!! Spot on once again Jess!!!
Thank you Jess seems they discard and deceive themselves into thinking they’re deceiving you
She tried to hoover me last night after 6 weeks NC. I was doing great but she's been on my mind all day today.
These videos are wonderful. Thank you for putting them out.
Thank you, Jess.
Has anyone else had a similar experience: I had to leave my narc. He has forever punished me. Moved down the street. Still obsessed in a creepy way. You’d think having NS living with him would make him less interested in me. Nope. Awful.
The fact that the narcissist has to move on all the time, proves that they're never happy, or never content. Contentment is the word we should be looking at, instead of happiness. A narc will never reach a point of fulfillment, and happiness. Like one of my favourite bands Motörhead once sang: The chase is better than the catch. Part of the lyrics:
"You know I'm bad, the times I've had
I've got a bad reputation
I don't care, I get my share
Don't feel no deprivation, I don't
The more I get the better it is
I like it fine, like a little whiz
Treat 'em like ladies, that's a fact
You know the chase is better than the catch, you know"
This is golden! My current situation with my narc described to a T
I feel that way and was the one that went through all the abuse
Great video Jess each point was my narc. He was a lonely man who never had real friends and his family and friends did not like him. He stood from me his friends and family in Cuba. What kind of man tells his wife me and friends his mother had died for two years then suddenly turned up at a friend's house. From his mouth to God's ear I say.
The narcacisst gives the devil a run for his money as the 'Father of Lies'
Spot on!!
Your so accurate it’s amazing
You really opened my eyes!
Thank you Jess! Soooo right! 👍 As I continue to struggle with the narcissist, narcissistic behavior descriptions that you characterized today, continue to help so much! ❤️
You are so welcome!
Thank you for bringing some light into a vast shady topic. The more I read and listen, the more I understand that my love was either narc or narc struck somehow. I wanna understand the meaning of those last words spoken to me, as I was super stressed when they were spoken.
thank you jess
So true Jess ❤
Wow she is so accurate , everything that she said is true . Very smart lady, thanks for such a good info🌟🌟🌟🙏🏻
I love that you're a straight shooter. Great informative videos!
1. You're right
2. This made my morning.
3. I love the way you talk.
Thank you!
I was born lucky and I came with a little talent too. But at an early age,
I noticed that great artists and famous people didn't live such a great
life. I cared about my life more that pursuing a career in Art, and nobody
has shown me why it's so wonderful to have ( ) and I have fun instead.
Thankyou for your fantastic video Jess...... Everything your saying is true..... problem is that we don't know we are getting used...... Out of the ten years that I knew him..... I only realised there was something not right.. in the last four years..... He hid it very well..... Until the mask slipped off... and then i really knew what i was dealing with.... Scarey business.....Jess... ❤️
Thank you for your podcast about Narcisistic people, you told the truth about them, LoL
I guess Its why they use to ask me if i'm ever happy, hahaha.
Of course I am, even nobody is Always happy, i'm not either
Thank You!!!! I needed this today
Yes spot on they are the devil in disguise.
Great video. This was my life, not any more 🥰
Such a great video! Soooo helpful! Love this video. Thank you for the wisdom 🙏🏽
Loved your video.
That's super precise. Thank you.
My ex narc would say "I guess your not going to buffet!" Or rub it in my face
💯 accurate what you said in this video, thank you Jess 😊❤️
Spot on, someone I know chose meth over his family, has no friends just drug buddies. Smears everyone including STBXW, irresponsible with money, dont take responsibility for nothing the drug brought out the narcissist in him.
Hi Jess! Thanks, good one! 🌹🎶🎵
Hey jess, thank you!!
Been there and I'm out. I seem to attract these types of people but I am not sure why still.
Really Jess 💞 , this is so very well explained , really Jess 💞 , I understand 🥰 this but I have never been able to really word it to put myself back together if this makes sense-? Thanks so very much for your video here 💗 , Jess don't they avoid people too-?
What about the Cackle, When they blurt out with a sudden loud Cackle, isn't that happiness???? Or is that to cover-up the shit they just made??
Boom ! Omg - so dead on !
Spot on….
Sooooooo true! 10000%
Dani Boo,You look cute 🥰,Hope you are not with a narcissist…..
Everything was going good with my ex and her new supply until she found out he had kids he didnt tell her about. So her sister banned him from her house... Her mother is not happy.. Or her father. But she forgave him... And its really only 6 months into the relationship so far.
It’s going to be over in about 6 months. There are more lies to be uncovered along the way. She’ll reap what she sowed.
It's a relationshit 😈💩
My narc is a full on crackhead and alcoholic. The new supply doesn't know yet i guess
Jess … you described my ex perfectly… as if you met and new her…(which you have.. by a different name)
This podcast hit the nail on the head. I'm currently NC (again) after a choppy, voluntile 20 year relationshit with my ex and I was at the stage where denial & sadness begins to kick in and the reality of what was starts to subside along with the hope and logic. Jess, You have such a way with words that remind me of the disgusting, sorry ass he is and the worthy awesome amazing being I am without him!
👏💝💪💫
They’ve gotta live with their MISERABLE selves every👏damn👏day & that’s why revenge is never necessary.
Karma might be slow or mysterious but it’s REAL!!
My ex narc gf is a serious drinker… whiskey in her coffee, drinks at lunch and vodka or wine in the evening … one dui so far … she copes by drinking and collecting supply… good luck with that .. so happy I’m out …
Love it!!!!!!
What is that thing everybody get out and run for your life and don’t look back because it will destroy your life forever do you want something like that in your life I don’t and that’s a fact for my sake I thank God every day for leading me and guiding me in situations like this😇
hey Jess i would like to get your opinion: my narc ex discarded the romantic relationship 5 years ago and then naively he sent me messages as friends but 6 months ago i went no contact and blocked him,., who do you think won the game ?
Waiting to be dumped🗑If not? Guess I'll be the the one doing the dumping🚮Never thought I would ever want to be dumped!!
I need someone to show me the things in life that I can't find
I can't see the things that make true happiness, I must be blind
This is so on point
The narcissist says they're not a narcissist. And they also say they're happy. Do you actually believe either? 😂
I'm trying to get out ,its really difficult cause he got me to move 2 hrs away from my family..
Escaped
So true!!!
to be with a narcissist feels like hell...it makes u sick and u start finding flaw in urself which u absolutely dont have ....pathetic piece of human ever existed in the world.
They are very cruel to their families they dont like being on their own they have to have a woman to fill their needs which is mostly sex they dont seem to be able to do without it im a mother of a 60 yr old and because i challenged his behaviour towards the family hes now gone silent on me no acknowledgement at mothers day my birthday and xmas he did not even attend his beautiful daughters engagement party all because the girlfriend caused some issues but happily the rest of us had a wonderful time its his loss as hes left with only his woman and a couple of friends the saddest part hes lost his beautiful grand children and doesnt even seem to care 😢
Me Too!
Oh wow just learning all this its pathetic and im freeeee yay
So my question is where do I go from here
I need HELP please