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  • Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook! Today, we’ll continue our series 'It Girl Lessons from It Girls' by diving into the world of a true Hollywood icon, Marilyn Monroe.
    In this episode, we explore how Marilyn Monroe, once known as the shy Norma Jeane, transformed her life through her iconic alter ego, embodying glam and confidence that left the world in awe.
    You see, even stars like Beyoncé with her alter ego, Sasha Fierce also use their stage personas to exude confidence and charisma. And, ladies, you can do it too! By simply changing your mindset and believing in your own worth can transform how others see you and mind you, no expensive makeovers needed!
    And just a reminder: creating an alter ego isn't about rejecting your true self. This concept is about empowering yourself to be the best version you can be! Whether you're looking to boost your confidence or make a positive change in your life, by truly embracing your alter ego, you can walk with confidence just like Marilyn Monroe and Beyoncé did.

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  • @girlshushhhh
    @girlshushhhh 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +170

    this is real manifestation, becoming what you desire because you already have your desire, instead of waiting until it "comes true"

  • @rachaeljemmett3061
    @rachaeljemmett3061 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +40

    As a little girl I didn’t grow up in a stable healthy household. I used to day dream so vividly of what I would become after I left my childhood homes. It was a means of escape from the rough realities I faced. I essentially manifested the way my hair would look, the way I spoke, the way I dressed, absolutely every detail even down to my husband and children and guess what it all happened xx

  • @lily-dz8ig
    @lily-dz8ig 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +309

    This channel gon blow up.

    • @jade9596
      @jade9596 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Yea

    • @officallylilla
      @officallylilla 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      it def should

    • @GHOSTRIDER4EVER
      @GHOSTRIDER4EVER 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      It already has

    • @bigpunchline
      @bigpunchline 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Ya

    • @creatiicreamii
      @creatiicreamii 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Just discovered it now, I'm in love

  • @Batata_Quente
    @Batata_Quente 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +144

    This reminds me of the phrase "fake it until you make it." I'm from Brazil and I'm starting out as a model, so a big reference for me is also Gisele Bundchen. She mentions in her book that when she walked the runway, she embodied a persona full of confidence and strength, which was reflected in her walk, her gaze, and the way she moved on the catwalk. This helped her a lot with criticism as well. Models hear a lot of crap, and a large part of the beginning of a career is about being rejected in castings. About this, Gisele said that every time someone told her something, she directed those comments to her alter ego. I've been trying to create my persona, and this video appeared at the perfect time. I loved it! You've gained another subscriber.
    Kisses from Brazil ❤❤

    • @veronicajata3121
      @veronicajata3121 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      I'm rooting for you! I hope everything goes well for you and you are blessed and protected in your career/life.

    • @Batata_Quente
      @Batata_Quente 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      @@veronicajata3121
      Thank you so much! ❤❤
      I was very anxious today about career-related issues but reading this made my heart calm. I also wish blessings for you, your life, and all the happiness!!

    • @leahwilkens6605
      @leahwilkens6605 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Good luck!!!

    • @vi_toria_
      @vi_toria_ 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      boa sorte ❤️

    • @kenpibasar4641
      @kenpibasar4641 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Best wishes for u dear. May u achieve ur goal ❤

  • @TC4loveandlife
    @TC4loveandlife 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +118

    I love when girls level up wishing you all the best.

  • @laurenlee8514
    @laurenlee8514 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    5:15 EXACTLYY If you really want to love yourself, you need to treat yourself like your friend, mom, lover, someone you love. Would you want them to stay depressed and insecure? No! You would want them to change, reach their utmost potential, and thrive. That is exactly what you should want for yourself too.
    Compliment yourself like you would a friend. Celebrate your achievements, no matter how small, and offer yourself words of encouragement. Take time to care for your mental and physical health, and don’t be afraid to set boundaries that protect your peace. Be patient with yourself, forgive your mistakes, and acknowledge your worth.
    You are your best friend, and you have to treat yourself like one.

    • @BrooklynBaby-1
      @BrooklynBaby-1 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Wow yes! 🙌🏼 awesome! 👏🏼

  • @RealityRecovery
    @RealityRecovery 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Marilyn didn’t just change her mindset, she did more work then most of you could ever imagine and she had TREMENDOUS HELP from her modeling & acting industry. It’s not that simple. It’s so sad girls are still idolizing this woman she was a WARNING not an idol!!!!

  • @user-yp9xs4qq1s
    @user-yp9xs4qq1s 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +41

    i'd say, being able to distinguish yourself and your alter ego will make you very powerful and it is very beneficial. but you can also use this to slowly becoming the girl/boy you dream of. if you wanted to glow up (in terms of self and personality), if you wanted to change, this is the right thing for you to do. create an alter ego, it's not being fake, it's becoming the person you desire to be. think about what this person likes, their dislikes, how they act, what would they think if this something happened, what kind of person are they, think of them as a character that is suits to your liking and then be them. be this person you admired, you desired. at one time, you will realized you're just becoming your higher self. because no matter how much you hated yourself, you can't change your taste in person. your alter ego is just another you with a healthy mindset, maybe happier.

  • @justblah6162
    @justblah6162 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    This video made me realise I think I have one too. Im generally a very VERY quiet person. Before speeches at school I'd be RATTLING with fear. But the second I'm in front of people. And I speak. I don't know how to explain this but my fear takes a backseat. After my one speech, my friend literally asked me "Were you even nervous?" if only they knew how badly my stomach was turning with fear.
    We all have this inside us

  • @diannaprince9779
    @diannaprince9779 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +52

    I asked my therapist about making a whole new identity and she said it could harm me because I'm essentially not addressing my actual issues😢

    • @beccaraymond
      @beccaraymond 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

      True honestly

    • @wheelofortune
      @wheelofortune 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      i think its not abt completely ignoring all your problems and running to the new identity as escapism, but i think its more so abt acknowledging amd identifying ur weaknesses and creating a new identity / alter ego that can help u step into ur higher / ideal self ...!

    • @MelinaH
      @MelinaH 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      maybe just become a better version of yourself rather than creating a completely new identity

    • @brookesbeehive5616
      @brookesbeehive5616 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I say lets do it..both of us..what else do we have to loose😊I think it would be fun

    • @jojocircus2917
      @jojocircus2917 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Personally I don't recommend this if you have mental issues. I did this myself and my anxiety and depression got so much worse

  • @RT-fs3tt
    @RT-fs3tt 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Self love is striving towards your full potential and enforcing standards for yourself and your life. And of course, putting yourself first, meeting your own needs, talking nice to yourself, and not taking any nonsense from anyone else.

  • @Centimilli
    @Centimilli 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    That's so true...yet. NORMA JEAN DID spend so much money on surgeries as well as tons of makeup to become "Marilyn Monroe"....🤷🏽‍♀️...to become that comfortable with herself to be THEE MARILYN MONROE ❤ she practiced for hours day in and day out to become Marilyn. Period.

  • @north_star8
    @north_star8 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Building an alter ego is great but what I’m learning as a woman almost hitting 40 is that if you don’t do the inner work to shift/grow than the outer alter ego is just a shell and they don’t sync up and it absolutely wreaks havoc in your life. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but it’s true. It’s a lot of work doing the inner stuff but I believe it’s so worth it and it actually is the thing that gives a reference point to the outer you.

  • @cohawtton3637
    @cohawtton3637 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Oh my gosh, I used to do this as a kid all the time with fictional characters. I never knew what it was and even tried searching it up but nothing came up. When I shifted I would feel exactly like them, sometimes it took doing a certain face or not and then bam, Sherlock o’ clock. I did it often with Sherlock and felt like him and wanted to be smart and talk sophisticated like him and eventually I became him, it’s where I picked up a lot of my personality traits of walking with my hands behind my back and looking at little details on nouns. Then there was Hawks’ confidence and cockiness, I loved it so when I shifted into Hawks mode It felt easier to be a little more confident even if it wasn’t fully. I didn’t understand it until now, but I enjoyed doing it, especially in my alone time because I could play a part that wasn’t me for a while and make stories up about these characters every night, pretending to live their lives

  • @bubbles5973
    @bubbles5973 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +55

    binge watching all of your videos right now

    • @pattycake0610
      @pattycake0610 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Can't wait!🥹❤️

  • @txwtw
    @txwtw 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +37

    Alter egos sound pretty damn rad

  • @oonaghmolyneux7760
    @oonaghmolyneux7760 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Marilyn Monroe was dead at 36, so maybe not the best role model. I totally admire her stratospheric rise from foster care hell to sex bomb female icon, who shared her nutrition and exercise habits with us, and she was a bookworm. Pioneering woman. For me, JLo is her nearest successor, a triple talented actress, performer, marketer/self-promoter, fitness, nutrition and style icon with a similar body and sophistication.

  • @firebird3639
    @firebird3639 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Let me see if I can transform myself into a version that doesn't need anything from anyone else.🎉

  • @PrettyyAngell
    @PrettyyAngell 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +31

    Hey Girls. Levelling up❤❤❤

  • @GabtsyVoodoo986
    @GabtsyVoodoo986 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    once this channel grows up,imma be able to say i was here,good job

  • @IrbisMountainGhost
    @IrbisMountainGhost 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Omg... I already have alter ego. I even drew it, and I am as it in my dreams which helped me improve it. And my alter ego is... superhero with multidimentional power... but I guess noone see me as it 😂

  • @ericwhalen1032
    @ericwhalen1032 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +25

    I love who I am and I am secure in myself. I have millions of fans and haters so obiviously I am doing something right your fans are an extension of your greatness and your haters are an extension of their own insecurities so I accpet myself wholeheartedly with out any apologies.

    • @estherthejester
      @estherthejester 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      me and you both 🩷

  • @Night_Butterfly_x3
    @Night_Butterfly_x3 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I needed to hear this. Thank you! I'm finding more and more that we manifest our own realities. Today alone I sensed my aura was a little offputting, and sure enough I had a couple of rude encounters. We are what we put out into the world. We can change that at any moment!

  • @lily-dz8ig
    @lily-dz8ig 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    I LOVE this channel.Binged watched all of the videos.

    • @itgirlplaybook
      @itgirlplaybook  21 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      so grateful to have you here

  • @bubbles5973
    @bubbles5973 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    GIRLLL, I LOVE LOVE LOVE YOUR CHANNEL

  • @paramiwijesiri8364
    @paramiwijesiri8364 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thank you so much darling❤️🥰

  • @wondrousunoo.
    @wondrousunoo. 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Proud to say im a fan since beginning

  • @MarthazMusicofficial
    @MarthazMusicofficial วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thanks for putting all this together I learnt a lot❤❤

  • @lovemefortruth
    @lovemefortruth 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    i literally loved your video and was shocked to see how many views you have, you definitely deserve more!! love your content

  • @TrInc-sh3kn
    @TrInc-sh3kn 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Please do a video on how you can get into an altered state ego and stay there...that would be fun!

  • @suihtflava
    @suihtflava 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I love this Channel!!! Amazing!!!

  • @Daniela.777
    @Daniela.777 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Excellent video, especially your insights at the end

  • @lotta4246
    @lotta4246 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Literally taking notes

  • @nuvies.2234
    @nuvies.2234 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Found you channel yesterday and I am hooked and inlove

  • @BoosalisBimbo
    @BoosalisBimbo 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Omg I love how you edit your videos! 💗👍

  • @UnluckyGirl-ih1vf
    @UnluckyGirl-ih1vf วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I never become my alter ego but she is fine people can't stop talking about her . May be in future l will try be my alter ego personality.❤

  • @clarissapapai189
    @clarissapapai189 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Loving it🎀

  • @angelstar6048
    @angelstar6048 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    doing gods work. love this

  • @lunamartiana5219
    @lunamartiana5219 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    This is amazing thank you !

  • @pjmispop
    @pjmispop 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    This is helping me so much to step into tht "deserving" persona / mindset, because why won't things go smoothly for me? I deserve the best. Love to embrace my higher self, thank you so much for this video. I'm excited to be my whole secure self each day

  • @serialnoir
    @serialnoir 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    i love this video so much ❤

  • @toyang..
    @toyang.. 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    will you also do "it girls" but like based on tv/film characters? if yes, i would love to see one about blair waldorf! i know serena is the "it girl" of gossip girl but there's so much to learn from blair's choices, mistakes, and personalities

  • @katherineraquelle1930
    @katherineraquelle1930 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    My real name is Kathy Kim during Covid I transformed to Katherine Raquelle… of Raquelle from Barbie as a human ❤ I already manifested in 2007…

  • @biancasinclair.
    @biancasinclair. 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Marilyn had a very tragic life and death. Why women use her as a positive example is beyond me.

  • @luunaa.
    @luunaa. 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Just found ur channel and Im in love 💗💗

  • @kyshasmith7798
    @kyshasmith7798 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    The videography is good.

  • @AngelinaA1824
    @AngelinaA1824 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Congratulations on over 1k subs❤

    • @itgirlplaybook
      @itgirlplaybook  21 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Thank you so much, I'm very grateful! ❤

    • @AngelinaA1824
      @AngelinaA1824 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@itgirlplaybook ❣️

  • @Erina888
    @Erina888 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I love your video❤❤❤

  • @happywithdrawal
    @happywithdrawal 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    have a feeling i might binge all the videos on this channel soon idk 🧡 xoxo

  • @Lotus.sweets707
    @Lotus.sweets707 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    First off, love the video, but I tried doing this as well putting a lot of effort into my appearance. But I feel like I just doesn’t have the facial features to channel the vibe/look I want or to just look like an pretty girl☹️ It feel like no matter what I do I’ll always just be forced into a plain Jane/homely archetype (if that make sense) idk I just feel stuck. Does anyone have any advice on what I can do?

  • @faeriescottageispawn
    @faeriescottageispawn 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I fan my iconic audrey hepburn💌🎀

  • @feariehollow
    @feariehollow 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Please do Audrey Hepburn ✨✨

  • @mari_nne
    @mari_nne 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Can you explore Snejana onopka?

  • @tiktokies3724
    @tiktokies3724 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Yeaaa I'm pretty early this time....

  • @almaguillot8597
    @almaguillot8597 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    TH-cam is at again giving me hints.

  • @tomislavnagy8715
    @tomislavnagy8715 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I am a Men, and I would like to be a Male Version of Merilyn! I would like to do to Women what Merilyn did to Men! What should I do? Can You give me Examples?!

    • @ilikedyesterdaybetter1541
      @ilikedyesterdaybetter1541 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I’m not sure, but reading your comment John Draper from Mad Men can to mind. He had all the ladies wrapped around his finger and he had an air of self esteem. Hope this helps ❤

  • @CristalClear-nx7ko
    @CristalClear-nx7ko 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    3:44 , who gon tell her thay Marilyn had undergone surgeries and skin bleaching as well. 😭☝️

    • @paigew6707
      @paigew6707 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I think you missed the point. Marilyn had gotten these surgeries, died her hair, lost weight, etc. and still her personality had an effect on how she was perceived. Her “turning it on” what the switch that got attention. The looks HELPED her obviously, but it was the confidence and aura that got people to react.

    • @CristalClear-nx7ko
      @CristalClear-nx7ko 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@paigew6707 I completely agree with you , but I guess her looking the part helped her as well , from her body mannerisms that hid what she perceived as flaws , which were mind-blowing to say the least , to the hair and makeup tips she implemented to highlight her sensuality , it's a whole package, she knew how to perfectly play the "Marilyn Monroe" role , and she needed a visual canvas that suited it. Although Marilyn Monroe embodied that persona because she needed to do , in order to stay relevant in the Hollywood scene , and she did it better than most , and that's why she stood out.

  • @user-rk7ck6ri9n
    @user-rk7ck6ri9n 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Can this work for manifesting my desired body and life?

    • @makishacox6100
      @makishacox6100 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Yes 🙌, our new bodies !!
      It looks amazing!!

  • @riley.autumn
    @riley.autumn 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Can you make a video about Regina George

  • @seabreeze4559
    @seabreeze4559 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    find out your arudha lagna sign and lean into that

    • @jupiterian5831
      @jupiterian5831 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Not always. Mine is Aries with Saturn in the ascendant in mutual aspect with mars ( in the 7th house ) and it’s not that simple…

  • @4aza
    @4aza 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    GIRL ARE U THE ONE WITH THE SKINCARE/MAKEUP CHANNEL 😭UR PICTURE LOOKS TOO FAMILIAR

  • @pendafen7405
    @pendafen7405 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Was Marilyn the best example to use? She was lonely, miserable, estranged from her true core essence by her persona.

  • @RealityRecovery
    @RealityRecovery 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Marilyn is not a good role model, she had a horrible outcome & no alter ego or success could let her escape from her demons which ultimately lead to her life decline & ruined the second chance she was trying to have at life. Pick someone with a happy ending.

    • @kitemodeempire
      @kitemodeempire วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      It’s not about the destination, it’s about the journey… Marilyn is an amazing example of what this video is about.. She encourages using the power of your mind to change your life. That doesn’t mean bad things never come up. What is negative about that?

  • @crystalreyes9340
    @crystalreyes9340 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Y’all doing anything but love yourself🤦‍♀️

  • @demivydE
    @demivydE 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Comparing Beyonce to Marilyn Monroe? Nope.

    • @ggkooki
      @ggkooki 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      please be more intelligent

    • @badgyalmimi
      @badgyalmimi 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Listening skills are really important smh

  • @haahmayan9637
    @haahmayan9637 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    Lately I’ve been putting more effort into my looks via self care 🧖🏽‍♀️ and telling myself how beautiful I am then suddenly today at the airport a man and wife was sitting down marveling at me and she came up to me and she said forgive me and my husband but you’re so beautiful you have beautiful skin 🎉so ladies she’s correct what you put out you get back don’t block your blessings calling yourself ugly because you’re not!

  • @GHOSTRIDER4EVER
    @GHOSTRIDER4EVER 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    @itgirlplaybook one day you are going to make a movie on this, where you shall be a co executive producer with a man named SEPH Adler on the content you make, more like Gossip Girl with you as the narrator, but the impact it will make will change the universe’s people forever, give it 10 years but never forget this message because that movie will put everyone’s LOVE (of SELF & OTHERS) ON TOP ❤ UNTIL THEN KEEP DOING WHAT YOU DO

  • @lmnoprs
    @lmnoprs 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    How am I just discovering this channel? 🥲

  • @RealityRecovery
    @RealityRecovery 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Marilyn didn’t just change her mindset, she did more work then most of you could ever imagine and she had TREMENDOUS HELP from her modeling & acting industry. It’s not that simple. It’s so sad girls are still idolizing this woman she was a WARNING not an idol!!!!

    • @kenpibasar4641
      @kenpibasar4641 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Why she is a warning?

  • @RealityRecovery
    @RealityRecovery 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Marilyn is not a good role model, she had a horrible outcome & no alter ego or success could let her escape from her demons which ultimately lead to her life decline & ruined the second chance she was trying to have at life. Pick someone with a happy ending.