Narcissists' 8 Favorite Catchphrases - Spot Them a MILE Away
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Narcissists’ 8 Favorite Catchphrases - Spot Them a MILE Away // In this video, I unpack the narcissists’ 8 favorite catchphrases, so you can spot them a mile away, and take care of yourself accordingly.
The typical narcissist catchphrases are just another way the narcissist is predictable beyond belief, and when you know what to look for, you’ll be less susceptible to manipulation, exploitation, and narcissistic abuse.
When you’re dealing with someone who is narcissistic, it usually won’t be long before the signs of narcissistic abuse begin to be revealed, and knowing these catchphrases can help you spot the signs early and avoid unnecessary pain and trauma.
Narcissistic abuse healing, in particular, if you’ve been in close contact with someone who has a narcissistic personality disorder, is a journey that takes time, effort, and the determination to live the life you deserve to be living.
Whether the abuse has been from your narcissistic mother, narcissistic parents, narcissistic father, narcissistic sibling, or any other individual displaying the tell-tale traits of narcissism, it’s important to stop being a reliable source of narcissistic supply, so you can heal from the narcissistic abuse.
Again, healing from narcissistic abuse syndrome takes effort on your part, but know this…
Stepping into narcissistic abuse recovery, and healing from the damage caused by your narcissist relationship is key to living a good, happy, healthy life in peace and freedom.
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My cover narc Mom thinks “intending” to do something is the same thing as actually doing it. She always “intends” for my deliberately sabotages her life and mine and expects me to always rescue her. We have been estranged now for several years.
Narcists live in a state of DENIAL - Don't Even No I Am Lying.
Jealous people don’t seem to realize how obvious they make themselves.
💯% FACTS TO EVERY PHRASE. I've heard ALL of them over & over & over like a broken record...😫
Same! Every last one….and then some!
@5:45 "the best thing you can do is to make the decision to love and trust yourself enough to run in the other direction" 💯 💪 ❤️
My favorite line my narc gave me when we first met (heavy love bombing time) was “it’s all about you”. What a bunch of garbage and he was shocked when I told him that.
Good for you! Mine got shocked when I told him I was done. He called my youngest to come over. The roads she had to drive at 2 AM were icy. Even law enforcement advice against driving. He put my daughter's life at risk because he wanted me to look bad when he was the abuser. Again, I should have ran when I heard about the domestic violence charges.
To be fair, he never harmed me physically with hitting or such, he tore me down mentally.
Exactly 💯%! My narcissistic sister, which I can't stomach anymore.
My ex fiancé many years ago gave me that line of garbage…”no one will love you like I do”….my response was, I hope not, if this is love, I don’t want any part of it. I was in my 20’s then. I’ve unfortunately, have had many many more narcs in my life, but God woke me up two years ago in March 2022 and I’m so thankful I’ve learned so much and just how evil these people are.😊
I have been listening to you for near a year.
It kills me that I have experienced this. He has turned my kids against me. I seriously believed it was all me.
He found me a single mother with three kids and I was in debt. He came in, helped cleared my debt, helped me get a car, and the always threw it in my face I would never have a life without him. 20+ years.
I am in my 4th year of healing.
I have been blessed to have a second chance with my true love.
I am supported in the ways that I am able to choose my own path.
It sickens me that I stayed with him so long. I no longer wanted to live. Last ditch effort as I was leaving, he called my kids. He had them come down and had them so upset. I left that day. I have lost my children to him. It is insane.
I know where he learned it. I should have known, he was arrested for domestic violence. His wife, at the time, would not press charges.
I am so grateful to be away from him!
I appreciate your videos!;
I am so sorry you went through this. I had something similar with my wife of 15 years and losing my children. I would not want my worst enemy to experience it. You have my condolences and hopes that your life improves.
Parental alienation.
The most evil of all evil acts that a Narc can do.
My narc ex got custody of our daughter. Threatened and manipulated me all the way!! I was terrified to move!!!
My opinion - you did not lose your kids! Give them time. The truth comes out but it takes time.
@@kevinmorbidthelostcronin1984 I appreciate your kind thoughts. I do hope they see everything for what it honestly is. Bless you.
My narcissist started the relationship by telling me that God told her to love me and that it would change me. Being with her did change me it destroyed me it completely altered my trust levels in people and my heart has never recovered. I'm smarter, I'm wiser, but I am definitely broken-hearted.
I am so sorry you went through this!
Congrats to your freedom ! 🎉🎉we deserve to love ourselves !!!
“You’re so sensitive.” When they’re the ones overreacting and being overly sensitive.
Right!!, 😂😂🤦🏼♀️
My ex covert narcissist girlfriend of 15yrs told me when I was about to move out that she is quite the catch and that I will not make any friends or find a girlfriend. And that is the nicest thing that she has said to me.
Oh and when we broke up she told me not to tell anyone about her toxic behavior as it would make her look bad, no doubt she was spreading lies about me to her friends as they act different around me now.
Wow it's sad, but she nailed it😮. Learn from her information and then go fishing, or relax with a book. Become yourself again ❤
Fantastic segment I can't tell you that each phrase, 1 through 8, is what I lived through daily, I'm not with the destructive narcissist anymore. I kicked him out 2 years ago, and I've never been happier
Good for you 👍 👏 They are a waste of space
This is spot on. I wish I would have known this years ago.
Beware of that though, it is not your own it is part of the residual effects of their abuse. We are constantly stuck in the past with a mind set of what we should have done sooner, its one of the ways they live rent free in out heads hiding in the shadows of our money.
Shared this with a friend who still doesnt get it and keeps getting entrapped with these people.
I had the WORST mothers day ever because I tried to be the "bigger person" by inviting my future mother-in-law , who is an alcoholic destructive narcissist, over to meet the rest of my small family. I've NEVER been so insulted in my own home. I'm still shook over it...
How do we deal with the narcissists that blood-bonds won't let us escape?
Save your sanity. There is no being the bigger person with these type of people. Set hard boundaries. Nothing says you have to associate with abusive people.
Pretty simple you stand up to them and watch them quiver in their boots. Never hold your tongue ever!!
Run before future mil becomes present. She won’t change!
Someone raised by a destructive narcissist will have a lot of maladaptive coping behaviours aka either narcissism or codependency. Hope you take the time to really get to know your future spouse before the final commitment.
@@melp8616 exactly!
I relate 100% been through this for many yrs. I finally woke up and seen the truth.
This totally resonates with me! More than once…I want to change this pattern super bad!
I relate to all of this!
For meeeee….😊 😮😮!! If I heard it once I’ve heard it a thousand times…
The family scapegoat that was me and I was never asked if I wanted that role. I was the youngest so it makes sense to mentally and physically abuse a child. When I became an adult that abuse didn’t stop and when I stood up for myself I was accused of being aggressive and a bully. It was interesting when I was accused of having a temper just like my dad and he wasn’t allowed to see me grow up. What a family. 😬
Thank you. Strong, structured, striking.
I’m only halfway thru your video and I can honestly say that I identify with pretty much everything so far.
Oh you hit the nail on the head. I've heard everyone of these. And my sister & I were so close at 1 time. Then we both moved to be with my Dad. Now we don't talk & I can't trust her as far as I can throw her. It sucks that it's come to this. Cuz I married & divorced a narcissist. And he used our daughter as a weapon to hurt me. 3 yrs ago she committed suicide. So now I would love to have that sister relationship. It's pretty lonely these days. But I can't trust her anymore😢 I hate that
I’m so sorry for your loss I really do hope you and your sister work out
I'm so sorry for your loss, Heather. How awful to say the least! That said, if your sister is harmful to your well-being, you are much better off without that relationship.
@@TamieMJoyce oh she's a very sick & toxic person. But i look at ither families & si wisb i had 1 thwt would be there for each other. Thanx for the advice 👍
There were times when I looked at my mother when she was spewing her garbage at me and thinking
"if this was a movie Alfred Hitchcock would make his cameo right about now"
I can relate to all of it from family, friends and intimate relationships. I went no contact with all of them.
I'll NEVER go through your phone. I'll NEVER lie to you. I'll NEVER cheat on you. These kinda proclamations seem to come outta the blue too, like, nobody said anything about phones, or lying, or cheating, or fill in the blank. Anybody here already knows if they say they won't, wouldn't, didn't...they will, they would, and they did.
Yess all of it
Bad flashback , from 1 of them. However Happy to be free!!! 🥳🥳🎉🎉🎉🎉
How about when you point out ALL of the shit you've done for these monsters and they say... "I didn't ask you to do ___________"
The games end when you walk away
Spot on. Everything you said is so very on point. Thank you for brilliant advice Tamie 😊God bless you ❤
You're welcome! Thanks for watching!! 🙂
Brillant explanation. Thanks for sharing ❤
Glad you liked it! Thanks for watching!! 😉
I recently had someone tell me gaslighting is a woke concept. Guess what type of family system they're in?
My narcissist used to tell me her love was destroying me. Lol
Oh yes recently after all sick feelings of my inferior self worth being spoken over me. Devaluing me is my little sister's way to empower herself as she regurgitates all her presumptions over and over of who I am what I'm like or why I do things...The all knowing wisdom of her insults and belittlement aimed to directly deface me. Win my support against her deceptive friends but when I arrive to her home everyone of them is invited over, but I'm the one who's being served up as the problem now. My eyes and ears opened and I'm done with the little sister, her status of self entitlement the accusations, words she has dreamed up to place in her story telling .and the new level has become the lies.
And changing of how her children see me now that they are teenagers she been making a new group of cheerleaders to degrade me . I walk away. But she sees that as weak. I see it as escaping the rage cage, never crack the nut leave it in its shell and keep your peace, because she loves to dominate.
@Sharonb777 It doesn't matter how she sees it. The important thing is whether or not you're happy and at pace, and you can't be that if you're being abused.
✌️💜🌟 ty for this video; so many people need to know how to spot a narc/toxic person 5:11
ALL….OF……THIS!!! #projectmuch 🤨🤨#selfesteemintact 💪💪 Thank you as always, Tamie!! THE BEST!!! 💖🤩😇
Thank you for the videos.
God bless you.
From JANESVILLE, WI
Hey, CynthiaAnn! You're so welcome! Thanks for watching!!
@@TamieMJoyce huuuuuuugs… I enjoy every minute of your videos
🙏 so true
I know it ALL TO WELL!🙃
I’m dealing with a lot of narcissistic followers of a celebrity. They have done everything you have mentioned in this video. The narcissist unleashed and weaponized 3 million followers. It’s been going on for 3 years and it’s been a hell of a battle with my mental state. But I keep fighting….
I lived through all of this
ALL PPL SEE HE'S HEAVY PSYCHO
May 17th
Taking Off The Masks
'He answered and said unto them, Well hath Esaias prophesied of you hypocrites, as it is written, This people honoureth me with their lips, but their heart is far from me.'
- Mark 7:6
This is the biblical definition of a hypocrite, 'someone whose words and heart (actions) don't agree.' A hypocrite may act the part of a Christian or he may talk like Christ, but he won't do both. When both confession and action from the heart are consistent with God's Word, there is salvation (Rom. 10:9-10).
The word 'hypocrite' comes from the Greek word 'hupokrites,' meaning 'the playing of a part on the stage; an actor.' It was a custom for Greek and Roman actors to use large masks, when acting, to disguise their true identity. Hence, hypocrisy became 'the feigning of beliefs, feelings, or virtues that one does not hold or possess; insecurity' (American Heritage Dictionary).
I’m in big trouble
Thats what you get for..
Uh…my ex IS crazy and a narc
Hi Tamie
Let me tell you their number one catch phrase..WHO CARES.
Thank you.
Peace&Love&Light Namaste 🙏 ♥️
Oh my goodness my mother is A narcissist,