You almost got it. They are not missing the point. Their issue is that they didn't count on men going overseas. They thought men would accept their behavior. They thought they were the only option.
We both know that when men get into more money they look for ways to get into more women. A lot of people are whinging about societal sickness, but that kind of stuff doesn’t limit itself to one gender or type of person. If you can’t find what your heart wants, fine, go where you can get it if you can (within limits, no victims should be the outcome of this) but people should not pretend like they aren’t active participants in this particular problem.
@@enginerdy You say that both sides participate in this problem, but which side does western society favour more? Current culture is highly gynocentric and yet, when men walk away from this toxicity (such as by marrying non-westerners), this is portrayed as abuse of Asian women.
@@pyrrhicvictory6707 s* tourism is considered abuse. Going abroad to find _much_ younger mates is not looked on with a great deal of respect because of the power differential involved. You are exaggerating the basic criticisms, and no one is stopping you from doing this if you want.
As an American male, I say don’t be. They’re so strong and independent so let them be. They’re only making themselves look like fools. Don’t no self respecting man have to put with masculine energy coming from women.
Not all but most ----- 80% is poison and brain wash in the American culture ,TV ,music videos ,only fans , Instagram and let's not forget porn ..oh and this might just be the biggest one , feminist. ......welcome to AMERICAN ,WE GOT HORE FOR YOU
My Filipina wife treats me like a king because she wants to. I don't demand anything from her. I treat her with the same respect she gives to me, and it's been the best 10 years of my life. We make a great team.
My Filipina wife treats me the same way. I don't understand why these western women criticize us so much for finding love overseas? How does this affect their personal life? They call us losers for doing this. Well, they called us losers before we did this.
My wife is Filipina, holds a 4 year degree, and speaks 5 languages. In all my life , I have never met a better woman. My wife is an ever constant reminder of God's love and mercy on me. My wife has traditional values and is family oriented. I truly have won life's lottery.
Please pray for me that God would bless me with one of His well favored Asian daughters for my wife like He has blessed you and to bless me to go live in the Philippines with her and never have to return to the USA, IT WOULD BE GREATLY APPRECIATED !!!!
I feel the same way about my Filipina wife. The day i met her God must 've smiled upon me. And i enjoy being her husband and the father to her kids. Taking care of me is a joy to her, and in turn i provide my family with everything they need. Also i'm not ashamed to admit that on certain matters she's smarter and more practical than i am. For lack of a better word she's perfect to me.
Do Filipinas like conservative, old school, Christian white guys? I'm 18 years old, but I would like to marry a Filipina someday. I'm just afraid of what my family would think.
@@BryanChandler1905The family you are building is far more important than the family you come from. Your family should care about the character of your partner, not their race/ethnicity.
I’m a Filipino male in the US and the trash of what I see in the US is a dumpster fire that is just better to walk away from. Filipino women in the Philippines are truly ladies that are wifey material
I see a problem here though. If western men are travelling to the Philippines to find wives, what are the Filipino men doing to get wives? Male to female birth rates skew toward more men than women. So I imagine many Filipino men must be going wifeless. I can't imagine Filipino fathers are happy with that.
That's the big problem I m sensing in future for Asian countries , most Western men flying to asian countries to find wives and completely changing dating scene and dating culture of East. Thats like running from problem like a weak man without solving it , and unconsciously trying to destroys healthy culture cultivated by asian men for their country to raise family and future generations. If they would have kept their dating culture properly and women in check for what they really want from them.this problem wouldn't have even existed in western dating culture.
@@jeremystonell690 just means more competition for Filipino men this isn’t good news so I don’t know how filliphino/Asian men are okay with foreign men coming to their country and marrying their women 😂😂😂
American man here 58 and you are 100% spot on about American women. I was married to a woman 22 years who acts this way I divorced her moved to Philippines and met the love of my life. I have never been happier in life then I am now with a loving Filipina. I don’t care what you have in America it will never add up to the caring and loving woman you’ll have in a Filipina.
I agree, guys need to seriously look into their selves, and know what they want and how to respect the culture of the women they are now going towards, not jus mindlessly running from what they don't want. I can honestly say that there will be the bad ones who will go overseas and make it bad for the good ones who really wanna settle down, marry and have kids. I think alot of these passport channels should educate men and let them know that we also played a role in why women in the west act the way they do. If we leave for another country and bring that same energy, there is a likelihood of slowly contaminating their traditional culture. If we love the culture of these women in the east, let's do our best to preserve it
I completely agree with you Rubeauti, you just got a new subscriber. If men want one night stand just get a prostitute, don't use and abuse the those lovely woman.
@@lourdes86179 not the ones I know. But yes many are. But the problem is that social media is changing the attitudes when around peers. Kids everywhere act one way around parents and another when only around friends.
I looked elsewhere,because I got tired of being judged. Not good looking enough, I don’t drive a fancy car , I don’t dress a certain way. Now I’m with a beautiful Filipina lady who just loves me for me and I couldn’t be happier
They said they dont need us, they say they dont want to marry us. Now they are mad that we agreed. We are leaving them alone like they asked. Why are they mad at us for giving them what they wanted? It is like they want us to stick around and just sit there while they keep declining us. They dont want us and they dont want anyone else to want us. They sound miserable.
Simple. Because the western man who goes overseas to find a foreign bride takes his resources with him. Meaning western women cannot simply marry, have a few kids, then divorce rape western men. That leaves western women to provide for themselves their entire life without a man or is resources she can leach off of and use the government and lawyers to get what she wants
They are mad because.. the friendzone is getting empty, they are loosing power over us, and they are realizing we dont care about their life choices.. 🤷🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️✈✈ i got my passeport😅
I married a beautiful American born Filipina when I was younger and had the best life for 12 years. My marriage ended because my wife died from a terminal illness. I took care of her myself the last 2 years of our life together because I didn’t want strangers doing what I should do myself. She would have done the same for me. Before she passed she made me promise to not spend the rest of my life alone. She also told me I would have to go to the Philippines to find a wife worthy of a husband like me. She was 100% correct and I will be in the Philippines in early 2023. I know i will find a woman that has the same values as my wife had. When I marry her she will become my queen and I will care for her and support her for the rest of our lives together. And because I believe that two people do not exist separate from their families just because they are married I will help her family as much as I can. I won’t take her away from her family and friends either. We will live in the Philippines and hopefully start a family together. I will build a home for us large enough that her parents can live with us if that’s what she wants. I want our children to grow up with grandparents being a big part of their lives not just a face on a screen from a distant land. I also don’t want them growing up in the west which will ruin them. Thank you for warning men not to bring the west to the Philippines. Cheers
I’m Asian. Met my significant other (European) 10 yrs ago. Whenever I would ask him why not look at women from his country (or their region) he would make sour faces and gagging sounds. After watching a few reaction vids such as this one, I finally started to understand my SOs life choice.
Asian American women are just the same. I don't have to deal with the bs of American women. I'm expected to be traditional and provide for her while she does nothing for that honor. As an Asian American man, I married my wife in Cambodia.
That's the big problem I m sensing in future for Asian countries , most Western men flying to asian countries to find wives and completely changing dating scene and dating culture of East. Thats like running from problem like a weak man without solving it , and unconsciously trying to destroys healthy culture cultivated by asian men for their country to raise family and future generations. If they would have kept their dating culture properly and women in check for what they really want from them.this problem wouldn't have even existed in western dating culture.
Since the 90s, the marriage rate has declined as a result of modern feminism and entitlement. American women are clearly losing! The numbers don’t lie. Why marry here in US where 69 percent of divorces are filed by women?
@@joshuaramirez6039 I hear you and that is why guys want to travel to greener pastures. I’m not hating on guys and gals that enjoy American dating culture, more power to them.
Exactly. I stopped dating western women at the turn of the millennium. I understood even back then that they were no longer a good bet for building a longer term relationship and family. My boys have had passports for years and have already travelled internationally, so at least they have some perspective to make an informed choice.
I agree with everything Rubeauti says here. Misandry has become ubiquitous in the West. Especially in the States. I especially agree that Filipinas should be treated with love, kindness and faithfulness!
I'm dating a Filipina now, that's eight years older than me. I've never been treated so well in my life by a woman. In return, I treat her like gold. She's a true loving, feminine woman. We never argue. We never yell at each other. We both treat each other like we want each other. She's currently in Thailand teaching right now. I've visited her there. One big thing that I've noticed in the upbringing of children in Philippines and Thailand, versus the United States, kids there are brought up with a good sense of spirituality, whether it's Buddhism in Thailand, or Catholicism. That's something that is a huge void in the United States right now. I think that has created a huge narcissistic society here, in both men and women. I do fear that western culture is spilling out into Asian culture. A lot of billboards I saw around Bangkok, seem to portray that women aren't beautiful unless they have a big bust line, white skin, or a pointed nose. Thanks for the video Rubeauti! You're the best!
I married a Filipino woman here in the USA. We have a happy home with a blending of Southern Black culture and Filipino culture. Both of our families get along very well.
This I don't have a problem with, she is a Filipino-American. It's the guys who go over there wanting a woman who is dependent on them for permission to stay in the USA that I don't like.
Love it bro, but i think submissive is not the right word, it’s supportive, a life long partnership to tackle life goals together, it’s like in a game’s setting, you have the fighters, defenders and the healers, a good woman are healers. You can have a bad day because of your work, and just with a smooth pat on the back from your wife can take it all away.
I think that men in the west are just tired of the anger, which was illustrated in some of the clips you had at the beginning of the video. Just too much constant stress imo. Good job Rubeauti. ❤
@@Rubeauti Western men are enslaved by the western welfare system and military draft system. Males in the west have to provide resources and protection to women, but women retain ownership of their bodies and resources. Western women treat western men as one would treat a slave. Consequently, men are divesting from and leaving the west and looking to invest in the east. If Filipinas desire men who have conquered the world with their military might and led the world with their industry, let western men know. Western men will go where they are valued and appreciated. If Filipino society could use a labor force highly educated in science, technology, engineering, mathematics, and the trades, let western men know.
@@Rubeauti I'll be crude to make a point. Time for dinner, American women figuratively take a dump in the chicken stew. No thank you, I think I'll have the fish
It is not just anger, but anger direct at us who did nothing wrong. On top of that no man wants a combative partner and that is what many of these Western political women are. A man doesn't want to come home after work to hear his wife yell and scream at him because some guy in another state said he wasn't a feminist lol.
This was painful to watch. Its impressive how the western dating culture has gone to shit over just ten+ years. I feel sorry for the next generation of young people who will have to sift through this crap. Great take on the issue Rubeauti.
Family formation is done in the western world, and with it the very cornerstone of a civilization. You are gonna want one of two things in the coming century if you are from one of these Western cesspools. Either a passport, or a firearm, because if you think it’s bad now, well let’s just say we are at the very beginning of the end.
I think I am actually lucky. I have an American woman who cares for me like a Filiapena and she really sees me as a protector and provider. We are both in our 40s. She does watch these videos, and she totally understands why men of all races are leaving the USA for wives. Merry Christmas and New Year
I just married my filipina last week. She's been taking very good care of me. She did it because she wanted a husband not an upgrade in life. She has a degree in electrical engineering and an established career in sales but left that to be with me. So no tourism here but a loving nurturing woman with good morals and values.
awww... she loves you if she did that. But she will work if in any case her man's in trouble. Do note that Filipinos work in tandem with their partners.
"She has a degree in electrical engineering and an established career in sales but left that to be with me." Why the hell did she have to leave it? Because you want her to depend on you?
@@neutrino78x No, that's because she wants to prioritize to be a wife first. that's the thing so many westerners don't see. Women here, like to be wives, and also after that they'll work as long as she can help.
Like her honesty, frankness, and perspective. To paraphrase a podcast I saw from another Filipina woman; "Your men are choosing US. How many men are coming to the states to choose YOU?" Nuff said.
as someone who recently heard of the term "passport bro", i was glad that it was a term that salty American women give to guys looking overseas for relationships. like, it actually made me happy that these women who constantly tell guys they aren't good enough are now learning that we have other options. i met my gf online and we've been talking for 3 months now, every day, even though we are on opposite sides of the world. we are working on getting married though as i know i will never find a better woman than her... and no one can say anything that can change that.
Brother it's a Wonderful Knowing that the Love that You could Always imagine finally is becoming a Reality. In my Relationship with my FILAPINA LADY We have Been Consistent Everyday to Keep it a HOLY Relationship.... Daily: Worship Repentance PRAYER BIBLE STUDY....1 Chapter a Day of PROVERBS for 14 Months then Completely Read the New Testament Together...WE ARE SO BLESSED TO HAVE FOUND EACH OTHER...(it was very bizarre how we met)...Cried out for someone in the entire World to Pray for me 3 Years ago and WOW!!!! She was the only one....took me 6 months to realize I was chatting with a Woman on Facebook...She Never Posted any Pictures of Her. Very Ultra Conservative Lady From the Province...WE NOW HAVE A COMPLETE SELF SUSTAINING FARM WE BUILT TOGETHER WITH HER PARENTS ( AWESOME PARENTS) HER TWO BROTHERS ARE AWESOME GUYS IN CEBU SELF EMPLOYED AS AUTO MECHANICS. KEEP GOD IN THE RELATIONSHIP AND IT WILL LAST FOREVER AND BE AN INTENSE LOVE RELATIONSHIP! CONGRATULATIONS!!!
I'm currently in Cebu City IT Park area and absolutely love the Philippines. I'm a successful, high earning medical professional about to retire early. Western women are delusional and are home wreckers waiting to happen. I appreciate the tradition mentality of the Asian women and their overall beauty and feminity. Hoping to find my true love over here and move here full time next year. Love the channel ❤️
Smartphone is eroding the women in PI by the year, I'm guessing. Any decent looking Filpina has vast Facebook friends, Instagram ,Tik Tok, etc. Ball game has changed in maybe 14 short yrs. You will be the ATM Beta Bob for Filpinas family while she pines for the skinny Jeepney driver who lives in a shack. Truth.
You've nailed it, Rubeauti! Listen to these women! Who would want to spend any time with them, much less try to form a life with them? I just came back from my first trip to the Philippines a couple months ago. I went in not really know what to expect, but came back with an admiration for the people of the Philippines. Yes, it's a simpler life and there is a lot of poverty, but in my opinion, that's part of what makes the people of the Philippines focus on what's really important and develop their character. They don't have a lot of the excesses in life, so they focus on what's important. I found it completely refreshing to see people who aren't simply focused on material possessions. Yes, there's a lot of poverty... and yet I found more happiness, kindness, and saw more smiles there in my few weeks, than I do here at home in a year. Here in the states, if I'm walking down a street and say hi to a woman, very often I either won't get a reply or will just get a quick hi with little to no eye contact. In the Philippines, when i would walk around and say hi to people.... EVERY SINGLE TIME I said hi to someone, it was greeted with a big smile and a returned hi. It was such a welcome change to life here in the US. I've basically given up on American women at this point.
They have a "take me as I am" mentality while demanding you to conform to them while also feeling entitled to the best while offering little to nothing.
I'm in my early 40's. When I was in my 20's and 30's, I pursued relationships with women I went to grad school with, but nothing ever really came of it. Now in my 40's, I can't even get the time of day from women and online dating is a joke. The few women I might be able to date are low quality, have awful personalities, and some are outright slovenly. I'd rather be alone than date the typical American woman who are attainable for me at this point in my life. So... I'm going to look for a wife abroad. Maybe I'll find somebody, maybe I won't, but I am DONE being rejected and being made to feel a fool for even trying. I make decent money, own my own house (with a lot of equity), just average looks, but I'm not some abusive creep and I am genuinely interested in a serious relationship. Most single women now have 2-3 kids from 2-3 different men, don't seek serious relationships, and are pretty much one step removed from being prostitutes. Women in the US don't deserve quality men until they bring quality to the table too. So many women have nothing going on for them in their lives, aren't particularly hot, and have vile personalities. The only thing they literally have going for them is what is between their legs, certainly not what is between their ears. Some of the women like this who rejected the younger me did me a favor, something younger me didn't understand, but I'm grateful now that none of these women ever got their hooks into me and took me for a ride on the divorce/alimony/child support carousel that I've seen ruin the lives of so many of my friends. I hope you're happy, US women. All of you can fight over the same handful of Chads and bad boys while the rest of us get on with our lives and find a real co-equal partnership where both partners compliment and bolster each other. You don't NEED a man? Okay, have fun being a strong, INDEPENDENT woman.
56 American… I was married 22 years to a tradition wife. As her friends began to divorce and date and do girls trips she soon followed their behavior. She left me with the kids 9 years ago. I finished raising them in private school myself. My little one is now 20. If they remove the Vax requirement I’d like to visit the Philippines 😊 ma’am you are a sweetheart 🙏🏽
It’s wild how they “don’t need no man” but also do everything they can to stop other women from getting that man. That they say they don’t want. Major “don’t ignore me me when I’m ignoring you” vibes.
Me I'm a black American/Indian I was looking for a good friend and business partner in a women. Here in America you can't find that at all! The women here will Rush everything and they are so immature that throws me off so I decided to go to the Philippines and I found what I was looking for. also if you are nice to American women they will call you a simp behind your back or even take advantage of. If you are rich or a business person don't date in America
You are so right. The sad part is a lot of People are going to get on here and try to make you feel bad for telling the truth. And the nerve of them to say that other women want men's money. I have not yet met one here in the West that did not want the man's money also. If they didn't want it they would not ask for it in the divorce. The lines are blurry over here when it comes to relationships. Continue blessings to you
Yep I'm going to find a decent traditional woman 2023 or 2024 outside of Europe, western hookup culture just isn't my thing. I turned my hobby into a career, bought my house 3 years ago and just turned 35 last month I worked hard to get where I am so I know what I want moving forward and it's definitly not here. As a single man with no kids, and never married, I've got options and my choice is Asian! Rubeauti and The Filipina Pea are two awesome youtubers on this subject. 👍 Much respect !
@@The-Cat that’s not nerdy at all. Your a genius man congratulations! When you made your hobby a business did it take the fun away from pursuing it in your free time or did it just make your more fired up and passionate to succeed?
I married an Asian woman 43+ years ago. Have never once looked back. We…..and I emphasize the we…..work on issues together, support each other and never make unreasonable demands on each other. Feminists are so busy touting how strong and independent they are that they have lost sight of the fact that marriage is all about an equal partnership. It’s about supporting each other, even in the worst of times. Both my wife and I have had issues with the health of our parents that resulted in us having to spend large amounts of our time with them giving them basic care. What could have been incredibly stressful times for us brought us closer together. That’s what marriage is. The feminists of today would pack up and leave in a second under the same scenario because they don’t see marriage as a partnership, but as a competition. Oh, and for those feminists that buy into the notion that men are looking to Asian women because they’re more easily controlled, let me tell you, the idea of a docile Asian wife is a myth. My wife is very strong-willed, but she tempers that with compassion. She shows that you can be a strong woman without being a stone cold bitch. The feminists would never understand that.
COMPASSION is the key word, not just for women but human beings overall. Think of it as the human soul’s food storage for winter. If it isn’t cultivated mutually people eventually run out and will experience a slow spiritual mortality. Compassion is an empathic quality. And sadly our most heavily tested trait.
I met my filipina online, we became friends during covid and I finally went to meet her in 2022 and she is my best friend now. She is everything a man could want for his future and I feel appreciated 😊
Being 60 I haven't been on a date with a woman in North America in 15 years. I been going to the Philippines for about 3 months out of the year for the last 10 years. No regrets:).
Western women are mad because they are not being chosen. You showed how women post "go and get sex" videos, but when a man brings that up, they act like we're insane and play the "that's not me" game. Then, at the same time, say "my body count should not matter" .... I married my wife (she is from Indonesia) and it's been 14 years. She's AWESOME!
Spot on with regard to each and every observation! I am a 58 year old US man who has been all over the planet and would never have anything to do with a Western female because of the attitudes and behaviors shown here. Fortunately, I am now engaged to a magnificent Igorota from northern Luzon and would never trade her for anything or anyone!
My father in law met a mature lady from the philapeans. She gave him the happiest time in hid life before he passed away. Some of the nicest people on the planet.
I genuinely enjoyed your video. And, great advice for us Passport bros. I can't speak for everyone, but I will make sure to travel and date respectfully.
What makes western men look for a good Phillipina women is because they respect and appreciate their man and value marriage and family. The country's culture, in my opinion, is so attractive too.
Dated many western women (mostly UK/ some US), they all dragged me down, used me, cheated on me, some physically abused me, locked me in their houses screaming etc, never appreciated me. They saw me as an object to use. I started dating with a foreign lady (not Filipina though!) and honestly it was a breathe of fresh air. I would never date a woman from the UK ever again. How jealous/attacking they are towards foreign women who have better behaviour, shows their true colours. First time seeing this channel but I fully agree with it.
I watched a video where a Phillipina interviewed women on the streets with pictures. The women were asked if they liked men to approach them on the streets. They said no. They were then asked, if the men in her pictures approached, told them they liked the Philippina, would she give him her number. She then showed them the pictures of the models. Most Philippinas said no. She then showed pictures of more "normal" looking men and asked the number question. The Philippinas hesitated, said maybe, said depending how they asked, etc. When asked why not the beautiful/handsome men, they answered "they won't stay." Western women don't think like that. Eastern women do.
You are spot on, Rubeauti! I'm in the US and have been learning about the red pill/passpot bros movement for about 1.5 years now, and the women that you have in the video couldn't be a better example of what we deal with in the West. Women who want to be traditional in the States are VERY RARE, and the search is just not worth it. I'd rather go to a country where majority of women do wish to be feminine, fit/active, family-minded, and friendly. Stats are coming out that most Western Women will be single by 2030 (a VERY short time) and the feminist movement has caused this problem (and fyi, it's going to be even WORSE for black women!) Thank you for this video and I look forward to visiting your country!
Having been married to a Philippina for 30 years, Rubeauti is "spot on" this topic. Well done! I think she should expand on this topic and let everyone know the benefits of marring outside your culture with Philippina woman. There were and still are so many benefits that make your life so much more fulfilling. It is important to remember marriage is a partnership.
You just earned a new subscriber. Thank you for making this video, and your channel to speak out for men. Get your Passports Bro's! Rize Kingz!!!!✊🏿✊🏾✊🏽✊🏼✊🏻✊
I keep myself conservative and still single with the v-card. I believe that I'm Currently not able to support a family without a job. Investing in myself.
"Bottom line - we have what they're looking for." I'm impressed how fast Filipinas have recognized and grabbed this opportunity to get a Westerner. The biggest mistake I ever made in my life was not asking my Filipino friends to hook me up with a Filipina.
Well done Rubeauti. What I really don't like is the disrespect that Western women have for Asian women who they have never met. Asian women can take care of themselves and their parents and their own families. They are much happier then Western women too. This is because they are thankful for what they have. Asian women rarely whine and complain about trivial things and say how unfair life is to them. Filipina's are very special Asian women who are able to deal with a lot and still enjoy life. It's really sad when people are upset at other people who are trying to find happiness instead of try to make their own life better.
This is so sad. I am glad to hear women in the philippines are not infected with 3rd generation feminism culture and are happy being women. Please don't change. .
Great talking points Rubeauti! Sad that this trend may be seeping into the Philippines as well. Morgan Stanley has a web page devoted to investment opportunities from the huge demographic of single women that will emerge by 2030. Their economists have projected that nearly 45%(almost half!) of all women in the USA between the ages of 25-44 will remain single and childless for their entire lives! The video clips you attached with your presentation hint that many women in the West may have psychological issues. An estimated 57% of women in the USA are on one or more prescription medications including many who are on antidepressants. Who could blame any man for wanting to seek a stable and loyal woman anywhere they could hope to meet one?
I have said this before. These women can be safely ignored, most of the time. If you have to deal with a self centered, immature, attention seeking, over the top, and hostile people, just be courteous and leave. Don’t debate. You can not and will not change their mind. I personally like someone who is straightforward and honest, and who can be powerful just on their own. I don’t have to have a traditional relationship or someone who is dependent on me. That does not mean you can’t have a true partner who respects you and is truly complementary in their thinking and abilities. You will have permanently different opinions about things but it only matters how you deal with those differences. Never go with a partner who can’t see you as their true peer. End of respect means end of relationship and start of abuse if you stay. These women are not fit to be in a relationship. They do not deserve it. Many of them are in this state due to their own behavior. I am not dismissing bad men, but damn, move on rather than poison your life with complete nonsense. They are nothing but memes at this point.
You are exactly 💯 percent correct. I'm a 67 year old man , retired and single for quite a few years. I have no interest in trying to date here anymore. The attitude is what can you do for me not how do we do this together
Such an important message, thank you for saying it: Guys, do not take your Western dating "values" to the East, don't ruin it for everyone else. Court the woman and respect her and the relationship.
FUTURE VIDEO SUBJECT REQUEST- This is way away from the topic in this video.. I would very much like to come to the Philippines but the poverty of people, children and animals and everything is really hard for me to get my head around. Geez, can I handle being near that all the time? How can I be near that and still live with myself? That is a tough one for me and I just don't know the answer.. How should we approach that mentally or is it even possible? Personally, I would forget I even read this request but maybe you can come up with something to bridge peace of mind or get it to a bearable level. Great videos, thank you for them.
@@RubeautiI have no dislike for poor folks I feel comfortable around that it's just that I've read about it being at am incredibly sad level over there often times.
As long as I can remember I always found myself attracted to women with Asian features: eyes, slender, long dark hair, etc. I never heard of 'yellow fever' until I was older in the Navy. I have 3 sisters and was taught courtesy and manners which seem to upset women now. After all who in their right mind would want one of the 'WAP' women when there is someone as perfect as Rubeauti? As soon as I can 'Philippines here I come'.
I never went to the Philippines to find a wife. I didn't even know where exactly it was. We just started chatting on facebook out of the blue. In fact she started the conversation with me. I knew pretty quickly that we had everything in common. I had zero desire to date anyone at all at the time. Less than zero in fact. I raised my two kids alone since they were five years old. They're both 24 years old now. My filipina is 52 years old. Every guy I know at work raised their kids alone too. What does that say about american women. Women who are feminine and take care of their husband actually have alot of power in a relationship. In addition to security they also have an adoring husband who acts like a man. I don't control her at all. Anyone who knows filipinas knows that. What we have is complete respect for each other. Couldn't be happier. We both consider ourselves to be very lucky.
There are those who think having boundaries and having those boundaries respected is a bad thing. Not being treated disrespectfully is a key component in a healthy dynamic. I just recently found your content from a reaction video on another channel and look forward to seeing more.😊
My Filipina wife and I were engaged for over a year before we met in person. We have spoken with each other enough so that we know each other very well.
🤣😆🤣 Damn! Girl I can't stop laughing! I know it's not funny but you are spot on in your assessment of the situation. We have a "hookup culture" here and the only women complaining are the ones that's gotten burned in it. I also believe "Hook-up culture" will eventually get there in the Philippines but I doubt it will ever happen in the Provinces. Just like here (USA) there are many traditional women left you just have to look harder to find them.
Well, American women with your hook ups come in from a a red blooded American 300 years in this country family served in all American wars. My culture has went to shit and yes, smart men have to go to places like Philippines to get a real woman we do not want hook up women that are village bicycles. Thank you very much. Have a nice day. Elvis has left the building.
I have an asian gf for 12 yrs now. I am so lucky. No major issues at all. She told me from the beginning that bad things happen to women after dark. So she tries to be home before it gets dark at all times. That alone is peace of mind. Just saying, I don't need to control. She already understands the roles.
Even I don’t like staying out late because of the sketchy stuff that happens. My fiancée always asks if I’ve eaten, if I’m happy, etc. Most women in the U.S. wouldn’t do that, they have that “what can you do for me” attitude and not the “how can we make this work” attitude
As I man who found my wife “overseas “ you are bringing up most of the points that I first stopped looking in the USA where I am from. I got fed up as being looked at as a bank account. Not to mention the difference in personalities.
I lived in Asia for many years. I returned to the States, met, and married an Amazing woman (she’s from Asian). I just wanted to add this to let men know that you don’t need a passport to find a traditional woman.
Passport bro in training. My conversations with the Filipina women so far has been soooooooo refreshing! I’m planning my trip. I thank you and others for educating me on Filipina culture. I don’t want to make mistakes … or at least any more. Be a blessing. 😊
As I wrote in one of the BGC-women interview videos: why would Western men accept ugly, fat, aggressive, tatooed, manly females when we have the option of being with feminine, nice, sweet, slim, attractive females that remove stress (we have enough of that)? It's not about race - it's about behaviour. White women who behave with class have no issues finding good men, Asian women that try to be "bad b*tches" can enjoy being alone with a pack of cats (which is fine, I like cats too). There are TWO (2) genders, only, and we have evolved to complement each other. Let men be men and women be women and both parties will be happier and the couple have a bigger chance to last. As for "slaves" etc - there will most likely be more respect in a traditional couple than a "modern" one...but arguing against a strawman is easier than looking at your blue-haired pudgy face in the mirror (with the mandatory cow ring in the nose), I guess? Oh, and if you need three layers of makeup to feel pretty - you have a problem (men typically don't a) care b) like it, so don't put that cr*p on us.
Filipina Pea broke this over a month ago. Tribe of men used her publication on his video Men here in the states Know the score and have for decades. These broken women are not hard to spot...btw my Filipina (hardest working women I have ever met) came to me and is paying her own way, has her own apartment, and drives her own car, worships at her own church... She is everything I need at this point of my life.
Hi Rubeauti,first time seeing you and I just subscribed! I've been to your country many times and I love it,it's my home away from home! I have had many long distance relationships with filipina, but none of them were genuine and used me for money and cheated on me! Can you please advise me on how to find the right woman in the Philippines? Because women here in Canada are just no good!
You almost got it. They are not missing the point. Their issue is that they didn't count on men going overseas. They thought men would accept their behavior. They thought they were the only option.
ON THE MONEY
That's why they got so mad lol
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Preach, brother preach!!!!!!
Western men when they get into money: "I can now provide for my wife"
Western women when they get into money: " I don't need a man"
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I always appreciate when they unintentionally oust themselves as gold diggers.
We both know that when men get into more money they look for ways to get into more women. A lot of people are whinging about societal sickness, but that kind of stuff doesn’t limit itself to one gender or type of person.
If you can’t find what your heart wants, fine, go where you can get it if you can (within limits, no victims should be the outcome of this) but people should not pretend like they aren’t active participants in this particular problem.
@@enginerdy You say that both sides participate in this problem, but which side does western society favour more? Current culture is highly gynocentric and yet, when men walk away from this toxicity (such as by marrying non-westerners), this is portrayed as abuse of Asian women.
@@pyrrhicvictory6707 s* tourism is considered abuse. Going abroad to find _much_ younger mates is not looked on with a great deal of respect because of the power differential involved. You are exaggerating the basic criticisms, and no one is stopping you from doing this if you want.
As an American male, I'm embarrassed American women act this way. Not all of them, but so many....... great video
As an American male, I say don’t be. They’re so strong and independent so let them be. They’re only making themselves look like fools. Don’t no self respecting man have to put with masculine energy coming from women.
You’re right. Not all of them. But, enough to make a lot of noise! So a large amount of the others get lumped in with them.
Not all but most ----- 80% is poison and brain wash in the American culture ,TV ,music videos ,only fans , Instagram and let's not forget porn ..oh and this might just be the biggest one , feminist. ......welcome to AMERICAN ,WE GOT HORE FOR YOU
Many of these American women aren't even women
you mean the majority of women in the US lol
My Filipina wife treats me like a king because she wants to. I don't demand anything from her. I treat her with the same respect she gives to me, and it's been the best 10 years of my life. We make a great team.
My Filipina wife treats me the same way.
I don't understand why these western women criticize us so much for finding love overseas? How does this affect their personal life? They call us losers for doing this. Well, they called us losers before we did this.
My wife is Filipina, holds a 4 year degree, and speaks 5 languages. In all my life , I have never met a better woman.
My wife is an ever constant reminder of God's love and mercy on me.
My wife has traditional values and is family oriented. I truly have won life's lottery.
Please pray for me that God would bless me with one of His well favored Asian daughters for my wife like He has blessed you and to bless me to go live in the Philippines with her and never have to return to the USA, IT WOULD BE GREATLY APPRECIATED !!!!
I feel the same way about my Filipina wife. The day i met her God must 've smiled upon me. And i enjoy being her husband and the father to her kids.
Taking care of me is a joy to her, and in turn i provide my family with everything they need.
Also i'm not ashamed to admit that on certain matters she's smarter and more practical than i am. For lack of a better word she's perfect to me.
Congratulations!
Do Filipinas like conservative, old school, Christian white guys? I'm 18 years old, but I would like to marry a Filipina someday. I'm just afraid of what my family would think.
@@BryanChandler1905The family you are building is far more important than the family you come from. Your family should care about the character of your partner, not their race/ethnicity.
I’m a Filipino male in the US and the trash of what I see in the US is a dumpster fire that is just better to walk away from. Filipino women in the Philippines are truly ladies that are wifey material
I see a problem here though. If western men are travelling to the Philippines to find wives, what are the Filipino men doing to get wives? Male to female birth rates skew toward more men than women. So I imagine many Filipino men must be going wifeless. I can't imagine Filipino fathers are happy with that.
That's the big problem I m sensing in future for Asian countries , most Western men flying to asian countries to find wives and completely changing dating scene and dating culture of East. Thats like running from problem like a weak man without solving it , and unconsciously trying to destroys healthy culture cultivated by asian men for their country to raise family and future generations. If they would have kept their dating culture properly and women in check for what they really want from them.this problem wouldn't have even existed in western dating culture.
@@jeremystonell690 just means more competition for Filipino men this isn’t good news so I don’t know how filliphino/Asian men are okay with foreign men coming to their country and marrying their women 😂😂😂
Don't worry about Filipino men , they are not losing Filipina gf . in fact they
They have the first choice or many options ! Look at the # of single mothers !
American man here 58 and you are 100% spot on about American women. I was married to a woman 22 years who acts this way I divorced her moved to Philippines and met the love of my life. I have never been happier in life then I am now with a loving Filipina. I don’t care what you have in America it will never add up to the caring and loving woman you’ll have in a Filipina.
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British woman are similar in general
Dont come to Southern Ontario, Canada
@@canadianbrotv1303 I'm from Montreal it's the same here.
It's sad broh.
Absolutely Ken or a Vietnamese Wife like me Married for 10 Happy Years and will Retire to Saigon Very Soon To Enjoy my Golden Years in Heaven on Earth
Rubeauti you said the most important thing these guys need to hear "do not bring your dating culture to the East."
Yep, Western dating culture is a cancer and leads to genuinely unhappy human beings. It should not be spread abroad.
I agree, guys need to seriously look into their selves, and know what they want and how to respect the culture of the women they are now going towards, not jus mindlessly running from what they don't want. I can honestly say that there will be the bad ones who will go overseas and make it bad for the good ones who really wanna settle down, marry and have kids.
I think alot of these passport channels should educate men and let them know that we also played a role in why women in the west act the way they do. If we leave for another country and bring that same energy, there is a likelihood of slowly contaminating their traditional culture.
If we love the culture of these women in the east, let's do our best to preserve it
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I completely agree with you Rubeauti, you just got a new subscriber.
If men want one night stand just get a prostitute, don't use and abuse the those lovely woman.
It's already seeping into every culture in the east ... thanks to social media and woke narrative everywhere
Well said, Rubeauti! You are wise.
The Filipino culture needs to make a decision. Get rid of Tiktok, Facebook, and other toxic social media or become the west.
Mother's/parents in the Philippines are very strict .
@@lourdes86179 not the ones I know. But yes many are. But the problem is that social media is changing the attitudes when around peers. Kids everywhere act one way around parents and another when only around friends.
I looked elsewhere,because I got tired of being judged. Not good looking enough, I don’t drive a fancy car , I don’t dress a certain way. Now I’m with a beautiful Filipina lady who just loves me for me and I couldn’t be happier
AMEN BROTHER
Congratulations to you, friend. And I hope you both have a happy life together. It's far better than playing russian roulette in the west.
She has friends or s sister?
Smart man
@@DigitalWraith Indeed my friend
They said they dont need us, they say they dont want to marry us. Now they are mad that we agreed. We are leaving them alone like they asked. Why are they mad at us for giving them what they wanted? It is like they want us to stick around and just sit there while they keep declining us. They dont want us and they dont want anyone else to want us. They sound miserable.
Or want us to ne miserable.
@Ancient Paradox ~ You SAID IT !!! 👍🏽 👏 👏 👏
Simple. Because the western man who goes overseas to find a foreign bride takes his resources with him. Meaning western women cannot simply marry, have a few kids, then divorce rape western men. That leaves western women to provide for themselves their entire life without a man or is resources she can leach off of and use the government and lawyers to get what she wants
They want to abuse and exploit their own men, and I am one of a growing number of men who's having none of it.
They are mad because.. the friendzone is getting empty, they are loosing power over us, and they are realizing we dont care about their life choices.. 🤷🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️✈✈ i got my passeport😅
These woman are slowly figuring out that they will die alone and they are lashing out.
I married a beautiful American born Filipina when I was younger and had the best life for 12 years. My marriage ended because my wife died from a terminal illness. I took care of her myself the last 2 years of our life together because I didn’t want strangers doing what I should do myself. She would have done the same for me. Before she passed she made me promise to not spend the rest of my life alone. She also told me I would have to go to the Philippines to find a wife worthy of a husband like me. She was 100% correct and I will be in the Philippines in early 2023. I know i will find a woman that has the same values as my wife had.
When I marry her she will become my queen and I will care for her and support her for the rest of our lives together. And because I believe that two people do not exist separate from their families just because they are married I will help her family as much as I can. I won’t take her away from her family and friends either.
We will live in the Philippines and hopefully start a family together. I will build a home for us large enough that her parents can live with us if that’s what she wants. I want our children to grow up with grandparents being a big part of their lives not just a face on a screen from a distant land.
I also don’t want them growing up in the west which will ruin them.
Thank you for warning men not to bring the west to the Philippines. Cheers
I’m Asian. Met my significant other (European) 10 yrs ago. Whenever I would ask him why not look at women from his country (or their region) he would make sour faces and gagging sounds. After watching a few reaction vids such as this one, I finally started to understand my SOs life choice.
Western women are literally Lilith demons incarnate. Well, good news, is their master approaches and he’s coming to collect
Asian American women are just the same. I don't have to deal with the bs of American women. I'm expected to be traditional and provide for her while she does nothing for that honor. As an Asian American man, I married my wife in Cambodia.
That's the big problem I m sensing in future for Asian countries , most Western men flying to asian countries to find wives and completely changing dating scene and dating culture of East. Thats like running from problem like a weak man without solving it , and unconsciously trying to destroys healthy culture cultivated by asian men for their country to raise family and future generations. If they would have kept their dating culture properly and women in check for what they really want from them.this problem wouldn't have even existed in western dating culture.
Yes, I got the same question as to me, but this is something that I believe that Asian women must see for their self
@@headhunter_nj1727 Yes but far more Asians have migrated to the West than the other way
As I watched this I realized that Philippines dating culture is similar to what I experienced in the 80’s in the US.
Since the 90s, the marriage rate has declined as a result of modern feminism and entitlement. American women are clearly losing! The numbers don’t lie. Why marry here in US where 69 percent of divorces are filed by women?
@@joshuaramirez6039 I hear you and that is why guys want to travel to greener pastures. I’m not hating on guys and gals that enjoy American dating culture, more power to them.
Exactly. I stopped dating western women at the turn of the millennium.
I understood even back then that they were no longer a good bet for building a longer term relationship and family.
My boys have had passports for years and have already travelled internationally, so at least they have some perspective to make an informed choice.
I agree with everything Rubeauti says here. Misandry has become ubiquitous in the West. Especially in the States. I especially agree that Filipinas should be treated with love, kindness and faithfulness!
It's ubiquitous to the point where Thai and Filipina women know about it.Thats good for us because these beautiful women are anticipating are arrival.
@@ballergame1017 Who is helping out the local men lol...
@@ballergame1017 Even Non Western women think Western women are delusional
@@Cbd_7ohm These women are not lacking in number. There's plenty for everyone
I'm dating a Filipina now, that's eight years older than me. I've never been treated so well in my life by a woman. In return, I treat her like gold. She's a true loving, feminine woman. We never argue. We never yell at each other. We both treat each other like we want each other.
She's currently in Thailand teaching right now. I've visited her there.
One big thing that I've noticed in the upbringing of children in Philippines and Thailand, versus the United States, kids there are brought up with a good sense of spirituality, whether it's Buddhism in Thailand, or Catholicism.
That's something that is a huge void in the United States right now. I think that has created a huge narcissistic society here, in both men and women.
I do fear that western culture is spilling out into Asian culture. A lot of billboards I saw around Bangkok, seem to portray that women aren't beautiful unless they have a big bust line, white skin, or a pointed nose.
Thanks for the video Rubeauti! You're the best!
It is so refreshing to hear a beautiful woman that understands what men need to creat a loving family
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Thank you so much for your kind words. It's always great to hear that my message has resonated with someone! 💖
I married a Filipino woman here in the USA. We have a happy home with a blending of Southern Black culture and Filipino culture. Both of our families get along very well.
This I don't have a problem with, she is a Filipino-American.
It's the guys who go over there wanting a woman who is dependent on them for permission to stay in the USA that I don't like.
Filipino women is at the top of my list. We have alot in common.
Men don’t want a boss girl we want a partner to be supportive and a traditional submissive woman. This is why we all left the west.
Amen bro, Amen. Moved from Calif. to Cebu. Found my wife here. Philippines is HOME now. Don't ever want to go back.
@@glstka5710 Love it bro
i hate my effing boss at work, why the eff would I want another one at home
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Love it bro, but i think submissive is not the right word, it’s supportive, a life long partnership to tackle life goals together, it’s like in a game’s setting, you have the fighters, defenders and the healers, a good woman are healers. You can have a bad day because of your work, and just with a smooth pat on the back from your wife can take it all away.
i'm glad i found your channel ruby you're a really peaceful girl i could listen your positive thoughts for hours.
10 years ago i was already scared by a date with 500 friends on facebook.
I think that men in the west are just tired of the anger, which was illustrated in some of the clips you had at the beginning of the video. Just too much constant stress imo. Good job Rubeauti. ❤
@@Rubeauti Those are some angry people, for sure
Why would anybody want that?
@@Rubeauti Western men are enslaved by the western welfare system and military draft system. Males in the west have to provide resources and protection to women, but women retain ownership of their bodies and resources. Western women treat western men as one would treat a slave. Consequently, men are divesting from and leaving the west and looking to invest in the east. If Filipinas desire men who have conquered the world with their military might and led the world with their industry, let western men know. Western men will go where they are valued and appreciated. If Filipino society could use a labor force highly educated in science, technology, engineering, mathematics, and the trades, let western men know.
@@Rubeauti I'll be crude to make a point. Time for dinner, American women figuratively take a dump in the chicken stew. No thank you, I think I'll have the fish
It is not just anger, but anger direct at us who did nothing wrong. On top of that no man wants a combative partner and that is what many of these Western political women are. A man doesn't want to come home after work to hear his wife yell and scream at him because some guy in another state said he wasn't a feminist lol.
This was painful to watch. Its impressive how the western dating culture has gone to shit over just ten+ years. I feel sorry for the next generation of young people who will have to sift through this crap. Great take on the issue Rubeauti.
Lots of young men shying away from women. Now I have a better understanding of why.
Family formation is done in the western world, and with it the very cornerstone of a civilization. You are gonna want one of two things in the coming century if you are from one of these Western cesspools. Either a passport, or a firearm, because if you think it’s bad now, well let’s just say we are at the very beginning of the end.
@@Guitarooster52 Western women are turning into the antifreeze of dating. Looks sweet, but toxic.
Who said there will be a next generation in the West? The depopulation plan says otherwise.
@@madhatter9001 babies are still being born, just not at a rate large enough to sustain or grow the population.
A Filipina once asked me what I was looking for in a women, I replied "it's pretty simple really, the exact opposite of a western women" 😀
Sooo refreshing to hear you express the other female perspective, so refreshing! Thank you.
I think I am actually lucky. I have an American woman who cares for me like a Filiapena and she really sees me as a protector and provider. We are both in our 40s. She does watch these videos, and she totally understands why men of all races are leaving the USA for wives. Merry Christmas and New Year
This is a rarity my friend but I'm happy you found her.
Western men find Asian and Eastern European women with traditional family values attractive and Western women rage and wonder why we don’t want them.
I just married my filipina last week. She's been taking very good care of me. She did it because she wanted a husband not an upgrade in life. She has a degree in electrical engineering and an established career in sales but left that to be with me. So no tourism here but a loving nurturing woman with good morals and values.
We should all be so blessed, congrats to you and her
Congratulations friend!
awww... she loves you if she did that. But she will work if in any case her man's in trouble. Do note that Filipinos work in tandem with their partners.
"She has a degree in electrical engineering and an established career in sales but left that to be with me."
Why the hell did she have to leave it? Because you want her to depend on you?
@@neutrino78x No, that's because she wants to prioritize to be a wife first. that's the thing so many westerners don't see. Women here, like to be wives, and also after that they'll work as long as she can help.
Like her honesty, frankness, and perspective. To paraphrase a podcast I saw from another Filipina woman; "Your men are choosing US. How many men are coming to the states to choose YOU?" Nuff said.
as someone who recently heard of the term "passport bro", i was glad that it was a term that salty American women give to guys looking overseas for relationships. like, it actually made me happy that these women who constantly tell guys they aren't good enough are now learning that we have other options. i met my gf online and we've been talking for 3 months now, every day, even though we are on opposite sides of the world. we are working on getting married though as i know i will never find a better woman than her... and no one can say anything that can change that.
Brother it's a Wonderful Knowing that the Love that You could Always imagine finally is becoming a Reality.
In my Relationship with my FILAPINA LADY We have Been Consistent Everyday to Keep it a HOLY Relationship....
Daily:
Worship
Repentance
PRAYER
BIBLE STUDY....1 Chapter a Day of PROVERBS for 14 Months then Completely Read the New Testament Together...WE ARE SO BLESSED TO HAVE FOUND EACH OTHER...(it was very bizarre how we met)...Cried out for someone in the entire World to Pray for me 3 Years ago and WOW!!!! She was the only one....took me 6 months to realize I was chatting with a Woman on Facebook...She Never Posted any Pictures of Her. Very Ultra Conservative Lady From the Province...WE NOW HAVE A COMPLETE SELF SUSTAINING FARM WE BUILT TOGETHER WITH HER PARENTS ( AWESOME PARENTS) HER TWO BROTHERS ARE AWESOME GUYS IN CEBU SELF EMPLOYED AS AUTO MECHANICS.
KEEP GOD IN THE RELATIONSHIP AND IT WILL LAST FOREVER AND BE AN INTENSE LOVE RELATIONSHIP! CONGRATULATIONS!!!
I'm currently in Cebu City IT Park area and absolutely love the Philippines. I'm a successful, high earning medical professional about to retire early. Western women are delusional and are home wreckers waiting to happen. I appreciate the tradition mentality of the Asian women and their overall beauty and feminity.
Hoping to find my true love over here and move here full time next year. Love the channel ❤️
I'm just south in Talisay. moved here from Calif. Found my sweet wife here. Life is good.
You really went!! Congrats bro. Have fun take lots of pics.
I dont think this ladies site is meant for finding a date...
Smartphone is eroding the women in PI by the year, I'm guessing. Any decent looking Filpina has vast Facebook friends, Instagram ,Tik Tok, etc. Ball game has changed in maybe 14 short yrs. You will be the ATM Beta Bob for Filpinas family while she pines for the skinny Jeepney driver who lives in a shack. Truth.
@@glstka5710 keep giving that money, Cali. Lol
You've nailed it, Rubeauti! Listen to these women! Who would want to spend any time with them, much less try to form a life with them? I just came back from my first trip to the Philippines a couple months ago. I went in not really know what to expect, but came back with an admiration for the people of the Philippines. Yes, it's a simpler life and there is a lot of poverty, but in my opinion, that's part of what makes the people of the Philippines focus on what's really important and develop their character. They don't have a lot of the excesses in life, so they focus on what's important. I found it completely refreshing to see people who aren't simply focused on material possessions. Yes, there's a lot of poverty... and yet I found more happiness, kindness, and saw more smiles there in my few weeks, than I do here at home in a year. Here in the states, if I'm walking down a street and say hi to a woman, very often I either won't get a reply or will just get a quick hi with little to no eye contact. In the Philippines, when i would walk around and say hi to people.... EVERY SINGLE TIME I said hi to someone, it was greeted with a big smile and a returned hi. It was such a welcome change to life here in the US. I've basically given up on American women at this point.
Instead of self reflection and say how can we get men back, nope they throw out insults, shaming tactics and resentment. American women are done
They have a "take me as I am" mentality while demanding you to conform to them while also feeling entitled to the best while offering little to nothing.
5:15 is that the Gohan Namek saga bowl cut 😂😂😂
I'm in my early 40's. When I was in my 20's and 30's, I pursued relationships with women I went to grad school with, but nothing ever really came of it. Now in my 40's, I can't even get the time of day from women and online dating is a joke. The few women I might be able to date are low quality, have awful personalities, and some are outright slovenly. I'd rather be alone than date the typical American woman who are attainable for me at this point in my life. So...
I'm going to look for a wife abroad. Maybe I'll find somebody, maybe I won't, but I am DONE being rejected and being made to feel a fool for even trying. I make decent money, own my own house (with a lot of equity), just average looks, but I'm not some abusive creep and I am genuinely interested in a serious relationship. Most single women now have 2-3 kids from 2-3 different men, don't seek serious relationships, and are pretty much one step removed from being prostitutes.
Women in the US don't deserve quality men until they bring quality to the table too. So many women have nothing going on for them in their lives, aren't particularly hot, and have vile personalities. The only thing they literally have going for them is what is between their legs, certainly not what is between their ears. Some of the women like this who rejected the younger me did me a favor, something younger me didn't understand, but I'm grateful now that none of these women ever got their hooks into me and took me for a ride on the divorce/alimony/child support carousel that I've seen ruin the lives of so many of my friends.
I hope you're happy, US women. All of you can fight over the same handful of Chads and bad boys while the rest of us get on with our lives and find a real co-equal partnership where both partners compliment and bolster each other. You don't NEED a man? Okay, have fun being a strong, INDEPENDENT woman.
You'll find her bro. Trust me. The difference between American and foreign women are night and day. It's absolutely unbelievable.
56 American… I was married 22 years to a tradition wife. As her friends began to divorce and date and do girls trips she soon followed their behavior. She left me with the kids 9 years ago. I finished raising them in private school myself. My little one is now 20. If they remove the Vax requirement I’d like to visit the Philippines 😊 ma’am you are a sweetheart 🙏🏽
They have already removed the vax requirements Tony...
Vax is no longer required, just a test before departure as far as I know.
Never let your girl go on girl'a trips & never bring them back to this broken place, live overseas.
@@Legend354. Female friends can down your whole life. For some reason they hold more sway than 10 or 20 years of investment into your family.
@tony all you need is proof of test you don't need a vax anymore to travel there. It was lifted a year ago.
It’s wild how they “don’t need no man” but also do everything they can to stop other women from getting that man. That they say they don’t want.
Major “don’t ignore me me when I’m ignoring you” vibes.
They want the option to reject you
@@boydebrook they want the POWER to reject you
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Yep It's called the Trixie Syndrome .🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I’m team passport team overseas 🇵🇭✈️ i love Asian women and Asian countries thank you rubeauti for discussing this topic keep up the awesome work
Why don't you like African women and going to Africa?
I'll be off to the Philippines this summer too!!!
@@-whackd Why does he have to? Im also white and have an Asian dark skin beautiful wife!?
He love Asian women, but is he going to marry one, or just bring western dating to Asia, and fk it up for all of us
Cause legit, I'm tryna find an actual wife. Watch your step, you might come up missing
Right on I was totally done dating in Denmark since they made the "Consent law". I totally avoid women in Denmark.
They cast us aside and are dumbfounded that we look elsewhere.
Of course we’re not gonna stay lonely 😂
Me I'm a black American/Indian I was looking for a good friend and business partner in a women. Here in America you can't find that at all! The women here will Rush everything and they are so immature that throws me off so I decided to go to the Philippines and I found what I was looking for. also if you are nice to American women they will call you a simp behind your back or even take advantage of. If you are rich or a business person don't date in America
You are so right. The sad part is a lot of People are going to get on here and try to make you feel bad for telling the truth. And the nerve of them to say that other women want men's money. I have not yet met one here in the West that did not want the man's money also. If they didn't want it they would not ask for it in the divorce. The lines are blurry over here when it comes to relationships. Continue blessings to you
My thoughts exactly!
_yOu cAn'T hAnDlE tHe sTrOnG wEsTeRn wOmEn_ is on I hear also
Yep I'm going to find a decent traditional woman 2023 or 2024 outside of Europe, western hookup culture just isn't my thing.
I turned my hobby into a career, bought my house 3 years ago and just turned 35 last month I worked hard to get where I am so I know what I want moving forward and it's definitly not here.
As a single man with no kids, and never married, I've got options and my choice is Asian!
Rubeauti and The Filipina Pea are two awesome youtubers on this subject. 👍
Much respect !
Already dating one my brother and it’s the best
What’s your hobby and now business
@@vlogcity1111 Software Engineering. It sounds nerd-isch but I'm just really into tech, not books. 😅
@@The-Cat that’s not nerdy at all. Your a genius man congratulations!
When you made your hobby a business did it take the fun away from pursuing it in your free time or did it just make your more fired up and passionate to succeed?
Get it, my brother! Find your Asian Queen ✊
I married an Asian woman 43+ years ago. Have never once looked back. We…..and I emphasize the we…..work on issues together, support each other and never make unreasonable demands on each other. Feminists are so busy touting how strong and independent they are that they have lost sight of the fact that marriage is all about an equal partnership. It’s about supporting each other, even in the worst of times. Both my wife and I have had issues with the health of our parents that resulted in us having to spend large amounts of our time with them giving them basic care. What could have been incredibly stressful times for us brought us closer together. That’s what marriage is. The feminists of today would pack up and leave in a second under the same scenario because they don’t see marriage as a partnership, but as a competition.
Oh, and for those feminists that buy into the notion that men are looking to Asian women because they’re more easily controlled, let me tell you, the idea of a docile Asian wife is a myth. My wife is very strong-willed, but she tempers that with compassion. She shows that you can be a strong woman without being a stone cold bitch. The feminists would never understand that.
COMPASSION is the key word, not just for women but human beings overall. Think of it as the human soul’s food storage for winter. If it isn’t cultivated mutually people eventually run out and will experience a slow spiritual mortality. Compassion is an empathic quality. And sadly our most heavily tested trait.
Such an eye-opening video. Thank you so much!
I met my filipina online, we became friends during covid and I finally went to meet her in 2022 and she is my best friend now. She is everything a man could want for his future and I feel appreciated 😊
That’s awesome man! What website would you suggest?
Being 60 I haven't been on a date with a woman in North America in 15 years. I been going to the Philippines for about 3 months out of the year for the last 10 years. No regrets:).
Western women are mad because they are not being chosen. You showed how women post "go and get sex" videos, but when a man brings that up, they act like we're insane and play the "that's not me" game. Then, at the same time, say "my body count should not matter" ....
I married my wife (she is from Indonesia) and it's been 14 years. She's AWESOME!
Spot on with regard to each and every observation! I am a 58 year old US man who has been all over the planet and would never have anything to do with a Western female because of the attitudes and behaviors shown here. Fortunately, I am now engaged to a magnificent Igorota from northern Luzon and would never trade her for anything or anyone!
Thanks for sharing this!
My father in law met a mature lady from the philapeans. She gave him the happiest time in hid life before he passed away. Some of the nicest people on the planet.
I meet my Filipina in Canada. She has been here for 20 years. She is by far the best gf I have ever had. I'm 52 and she is 40.
I genuinely enjoyed your video. And, great advice for us Passport bros. I can't speak for everyone, but I will make sure to travel and date respectfully.
What makes western men look for a good Phillipina women is because they respect and appreciate their man and value marriage and family. The country's culture, in my opinion, is so attractive too.
More power po sa inyo ate! Sana mas marami ka pong video na maipaintindi sa kanila ang pagiging TUNAY na FILIPINA....😊
I just had an ah-ha moment! I'm going into the cat business! It's about to be some lonely 304s out here!
Dated many western women (mostly UK/ some US), they all dragged me down, used me, cheated on me, some physically abused me, locked me in their houses screaming etc, never appreciated me. They saw me as an object to use. I started dating with a foreign lady (not Filipina though!) and honestly it was a breathe of fresh air. I would never date a woman from the UK ever again. How jealous/attacking they are towards foreign women who have better behaviour, shows their true colours. First time seeing this channel but I fully agree with it.
I watched a video where a Phillipina interviewed women on the streets with pictures. The women were asked if they liked men to approach them on the streets. They said no. They were then asked, if the men in her pictures approached, told them they liked the Philippina, would she give him her number. She then showed them the pictures of the models. Most Philippinas said no. She then showed pictures of more "normal" looking men and asked the number question. The Philippinas hesitated, said maybe, said depending how they asked, etc. When asked why not the beautiful/handsome men, they answered "they won't stay." Western women don't think like that. Eastern women do.
You are spot on, Rubeauti! I'm in the US and have been learning about the red pill/passpot bros movement for about 1.5 years now, and the women that you have in the video couldn't be a better example of what we deal with in the West. Women who want to be traditional in the States are VERY RARE, and the search is just not worth it. I'd rather go to a country where majority of women do wish to be feminine, fit/active, family-minded, and friendly. Stats are coming out that most Western Women will be single by 2030 (a VERY short time) and the feminist movement has caused this problem (and fyi, it's going to be even WORSE for black women!) Thank you for this video and I look forward to visiting your country!
Men are fed up in the U.S. we dont like being told we're not needed, necessary, valued, cared for.
As a feminist I support men going overseas...
Be happy King.❤
Asian women from asia are amazing. Petite, feminine, affectionate, gentle, self respect. THOSE are real women.
Having been married to a Philippina for 30 years, Rubeauti is "spot on" this topic. Well done! I think she should expand on this topic and let everyone know the benefits of marring outside your culture with Philippina woman. There were and still are so many benefits that make your life so much more fulfilling. It is important to remember marriage is a partnership.
You just earned a new subscriber. Thank you for making this video, and your channel to speak out for men. Get your Passports Bro's! Rize Kingz!!!!✊🏿✊🏾✊🏽✊🏼✊🏻✊
I keep myself conservative and still single with the v-card. I believe that I'm Currently not able to support a family without a job. Investing in myself.
"Bottom line - we have what they're looking for." I'm impressed how fast Filipinas have recognized and grabbed this opportunity to get a Westerner. The biggest mistake I ever made in my life was not asking my Filipino friends to hook me up with a Filipina.
I’ve been married to a Filipina for the last 21 years. We got three teenagers now, living in a nice house. Life is good.
Thanks for covering this. Please brothers don’t mess up Filipino culture. Would hate to see it become like the West.
They just wouldn't mess with Filipino culture if they DON'T go there.
Something that many here have already done or will still do.
Never happen parents in the Philippines are disciplinarian
U R so on point it's really refreshing to see. I want to share this with everyone I know.
Well done Rubeauti. What I really don't like is the disrespect that Western women have for Asian women who they have never met. Asian women can take care of themselves and their parents and their own families. They are much happier then Western women too. This is because they are thankful for what they have. Asian women rarely whine and complain about trivial things and say how unfair life is to them. Filipina's are very special Asian women who are able to deal with a lot and still enjoy life. It's really sad when people are upset at other people who are trying to find happiness instead of try to make their own life better.
This is so sad.
I am glad to hear women in the philippines are not infected with 3rd generation feminism culture and are happy being women.
Please don't change.
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Rubeauti - Your calm confidence and thoughtful perspective is absolutely beautiful. It is good to know there are still women in the world like this.
Great talking points Rubeauti! Sad that this trend may be seeping into the Philippines as well. Morgan Stanley has a web page devoted to investment opportunities from the huge demographic of single women that will emerge by 2030. Their economists have projected that nearly 45%(almost half!) of all women in the USA between the ages of 25-44 will remain single and childless for their entire lives! The video clips you attached with your presentation hint that many women in the West may have psychological issues. An estimated 57% of women in the USA are on one or more prescription medications including many who are on antidepressants. Who could blame any man for wanting to seek a stable and loyal woman anywhere they could hope to meet one?
I have said this before. These women can be safely ignored, most of the time. If you have to deal with a self centered, immature, attention seeking, over the top, and hostile people, just be courteous and leave. Don’t debate. You can not and will not change their mind.
I personally like someone who is straightforward and honest, and who can be powerful just on their own. I don’t have to have a traditional relationship or someone who is dependent on me. That does not mean you can’t have a true partner who respects you and is truly complementary in their thinking and abilities. You will have permanently different opinions about things but it only matters how you deal with those differences. Never go with a partner who can’t see you as their true peer. End of respect means end of relationship and start of abuse if you stay.
These women are not fit to be in a relationship. They do not deserve it. Many of them are in this state due to their own behavior. I am not dismissing bad men, but damn, move on rather than poison your life with complete nonsense. They are nothing but memes at this point.
Good wisdom you are sharing. Thank you
Yup. Don't try to reason with people who can not be reasoned with.
You are exactly 💯 percent correct. I'm a 67 year old man , retired and single for quite a few years. I have no interest in trying to date here anymore. The attitude is what can you do for me not how do we do this together
Such an important message, thank you for saying it: Guys, do not take your Western dating "values" to the East, don't ruin it for everyone else. Court the woman and respect her and the relationship.
Y'all need to watch Andrew Tate or Jordan Peterson instead. This woman don't know anything
FUTURE VIDEO SUBJECT REQUEST- This is way away from the topic in this video.. I would very much like to come to the Philippines but the poverty of people, children and animals and everything is really hard for me to get my head around. Geez, can I handle being near that all the time? How can I be near that and still live with myself? That is a tough one for me and I just don't know the answer.. How should we approach that mentally or is it even possible? Personally, I would forget I even read this request but maybe you can come up with something to bridge peace of mind or get it to a bearable level. Great videos, thank you for them.
@@RubeautiI have no dislike for poor folks I feel comfortable around that it's just that I've read about it being at am incredibly sad level over there often times.
As long as I can remember I always found myself attracted to women with Asian features: eyes, slender, long dark hair, etc. I never heard of 'yellow fever' until I was older in the Navy. I have 3 sisters and was taught courtesy and manners which seem to upset women now. After all who in their right mind would want one of the 'WAP' women when there is someone as perfect as Rubeauti? As soon as I can 'Philippines here I come'.
I never went to the Philippines to find a wife. I didn't even know where exactly it was. We just started chatting on facebook out of the blue. In fact she started the conversation with me. I knew pretty quickly that we had everything in common. I had zero desire to date anyone at all at the time. Less than zero in fact. I raised my two kids alone since they were five years old. They're both 24 years old now. My filipina is 52 years old. Every guy I know at work raised their kids alone too. What does that say about american women. Women who are feminine and take care of their husband actually have alot of power in a relationship. In addition to security they also have an adoring husband who acts like a man. I don't control her at all. Anyone who knows filipinas knows that. What we have is complete respect for each other. Couldn't be happier. We both consider ourselves to be very lucky.
Good information. Thanks for speaking out. 😀
There are those who think having boundaries and having those boundaries respected is a bad thing. Not being treated disrespectfully is a key component in a healthy dynamic. I just recently found your content from a reaction video on another channel and look forward to seeing more.😊
My Filipina wife and I were engaged for over a year before we met in person. We have spoken with each other enough so that we know each other very well.
How did you guys meet?
🤣😆🤣 Damn! Girl I can't stop laughing! I know it's not funny but you are spot on in your assessment of the situation. We have a "hookup culture" here and the only women complaining are the ones that's gotten burned in it. I also believe "Hook-up culture" will eventually get there in the Philippines but I doubt it will ever happen in the Provinces. Just like here (USA) there are many traditional women left you just have to look harder to find them.
Well, American women with your hook ups come in from a a red blooded American 300 years in this country family served in all American wars. My culture has went to shit and yes, smart men have to go to places like Philippines to get a real woman we do not want hook up women that are village bicycles. Thank you very much. Have a nice day. Elvis has left the building.
I have an asian gf for 12 yrs now. I am so lucky. No major issues at all. She told me from the beginning that bad things happen to women after dark. So she tries to be home before it gets dark at all times. That alone is peace of mind. Just saying, I don't need to control. She already understands the roles.
Even I don’t like staying out late because of the sketchy stuff that happens. My fiancée always asks if I’ve eaten, if I’m happy, etc. Most women in the U.S. wouldn’t do that, they have that “what can you do for me” attitude and not the “how can we make this work” attitude
As I man who found my wife “overseas “ you are bringing up most of the points that I first stopped looking in the USA where I am from. I got fed up as being looked at as a bank account. Not to mention the difference in personalities.
Smart,beautiful, and wise! YOU ARE that woman! Thank you for the great content. Kepp it coming please.🙏
@Rubeauti Your advice to men visiting or migrating to the Philippines is 100% accurate. Some men might not see themselves as part of the problem.
I lived in Asia for many years. I returned to the States, met, and married an Amazing woman (she’s from Asian). I just wanted to add this to let men know that you don’t need a passport to find a traditional woman.
Very thoughtful and well reasoned. Also 100% accurate. Good job!
Love your attitude Rubeauti.. You always do a great job....presenting your videos.👍
Passport bro in training. My conversations with the Filipina women so far has been soooooooo refreshing! I’m planning my trip. I thank you and others for educating me on Filipina culture. I don’t want to make mistakes … or at least any more. Be a blessing.
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As I wrote in one of the BGC-women interview videos: why would Western men accept ugly, fat, aggressive, tatooed, manly females when we have the option of being with feminine, nice, sweet, slim, attractive females that remove stress (we have enough of that)? It's not about race - it's about behaviour. White women who behave with class have no issues finding good men, Asian women that try to be "bad b*tches" can enjoy being alone with a pack of cats (which is fine, I like cats too).
There are TWO (2) genders, only, and we have evolved to complement each other. Let men be men and women be women and both parties will be happier and the couple have a bigger chance to last. As for "slaves" etc - there will most likely be more respect in a traditional couple than a "modern" one...but arguing against a strawman is easier than looking at your blue-haired pudgy face in the mirror (with the mandatory cow ring in the nose), I guess?
Oh, and if you need three layers of makeup to feel pretty - you have a problem (men typically don't a) care b) like it, so don't put that cr*p on us.
BOOOM!!!! You nailed it perfectly!
Filipina Pea broke this over a month ago. Tribe of men used her publication on his video Men here in the states Know the score and have for decades. These broken women are not hard to spot...btw my Filipina (hardest working women I have ever met) came to me and is paying her own way, has her own apartment, and drives her own car, worships at her own church... She is everything I need at this point of my life.
Western culture has already taken roots in the Philippines slowly but surely. Tik Tok trends and other social media platforms has facilitated that.
It might reverse soon as passport movement grows and see how women there are causing men to flee.
@@longbeach225 Let's hope
Hi Rubeauti,first time seeing you and I just subscribed! I've been to your country many times and I love it,it's my home away from home! I have had many long distance relationships with filipina, but none of them were genuine and used me for money and cheated on me! Can you please advise me on how to find the right woman in the Philippines? Because women here in Canada are just no good!
Spot on! Great video with very accurate info!
All you said about western women is so true 👍 I love your channel
Successful passport bro here. Don’t hesitate guys.