@mamacito1795 you and I both! Over the last 5 or so years, I have undergone a form of awakening almost, that's helped me form a filter and calm down a lil, lol. But in prior years, it has always been my nature to throw hands with people like Barb😅🤣 I have finally realized that you just can't fight everybody that pisses you off😅 Not to mention that it is childish and just so not worth your freedom. I'm still learning the whole process of using honey instead of vinegar🤣 It's a lengthy learning process for sure.
No, she was gentle FRIENDED. She was NOT treated like a child. Deedee is NOT that annoying "Gentle Parenting adults" TH-camr who looks down on other people and is SO INCREDIBLY AWFUL. Deedee didn't need to "gentle parent." She just treated Barb like an adult, who was clearly suffering from some form of pain, and she healed that pain for her. She was a FRIEND in need and a friend indeed. Please don't conflate "gentle parenting" and that.
@AuntLoopy123 gentle patenting doesn't have to be awful or self-righteous. The way DeeDee talked to Barb is the way actual gentle parenting looks, but I do agree that she also extended herself as a friend to Barb. We could all use a DeeDee in our lives to keep us grounded and accountable while cheering on the good.
@@Minnehotness I think their issue is that the notion of "parenting" another adult seems condescending by default. Barb isn't a child, she's a grown adult and doesn't need to be parented.
@@safidraws But what Barb did is exactly gentle parenting. Gentle parenting isn't supposed to be condescending. Kids don't like being condescended to any more than adults do.
@@greenbeantm1096 It's kinda crackup but also sad to think that he's probably just been sitting in the same room while chaos happens. Snoozing in an armchair or just pretending that nothing is happening with Barb. It's too real!!
I really enjoyed DeeDee’s interaction with Barb! DeeDee’s empathy really helped Barb, I think. I hope that this was a memorable learning moment for Barb. I love everything about this series!
I really appreciate the example of how to talk with someone like that. It's SO easy to peg that add her personality type and think she couldn't learn, but DeeDee has just the right distance from the situation and empathy to really help.
This is really heartwarming. I really love how DD, a secure and mature woman can see another woman struggling and extend a hand. And I love that she chose to, and didn't fall on Barb's family to do all the emotional lifting just because they are family. Hope this kind of kindness and clarity reaches everyone who watches your skits.
It takes a lot of compassion to have that much patience with person who is hurting as badly as Barb is. Poor Barb, really, and whatever toxicity shaped her into what she has become. The beauty is when people change for the better, and we saw a wee glimpse of it at the end!
I love this empathetic look into Barb’s behavior. As much as it’s unacceptable, underneath all the entitlement is a mom who’s feeling lonely and missing a time where her little babies needed her. If I knew her I’d definitely keep low or no contact, but it’s nice to have a reminder that she’s not evil. She’s just a sad person who doesn’t know how to reach out in a healthy way
This video made me wonder if maybe women who didn’t feel comfortable relaxing and silly and spontaneous with their kids (cookies at bedtime, letting them stay up late at holidays) when they were little maybe think that they CAN with grandkids. And when they get pushback from their kids about it (because if they NEVER did it, they may not know that there’s and time and place for it and holidays are not it) they feel resentful that they squashed all the fun out of parenting believing it would pay dividends when their kids were grown, and that never materialized in the way they expected. Especially if they themselves were raised in an “elders know best” way and never felt comfortable pushing back against their own parents’ boundary-stepping… they were raised to believe that exchange was normal, but they’re when their kids won’t conform to that “normal,” they feel the (unacknowledged) resentment of getting the bitter end of that generational dynamic.
Yes, you’ve nailed it. Great insight. Barb is not evil, she’s deeply injured. Sadly our unexamined hurt drives our behavior so when Barb feels she flails and damages the very ones she wants to be close to. It’s a cycle and will continue without real, conscious accountability.
It made me cry too and laugh cry on some parts. It was a whole mix of emotions in less than 10 minutes. Greg made me cry about the state of politics and the world, the game made me cry laughing, and DeeDee and Barb's conversation followed by how Barb had prepared for the kids made me happy cry. The holidays are hard and always an emotional mess for me, but I think I felt almost the whole range here.
I love how Barb was able to show more of her character and root of her bitter actions. Man, I continue to be impressed by your inclusion of sociological issue and create such realness to your characters. It is entertaining and teaching at the same time
Loving the way Shawna and DeeDee do their best to handle the situation with kindness even when Barb doesn’t deserve it at all. Shows how we are only in control of ourselves and how we handle even the hardest situations !!
i hear you, but i think this video proves that barb is extra deserving of kindness and love because she clearly doesn't get any help, compassion, or companionship from her husband. people change and make a lot of mistakes because they are lonely
@@SoftieeeeExactley, she literally said she wonders the house alone feeling empty and abandoned, while her husband is still there, and there can be only one cause for that; a completly checked out husband.
That’s just it, Barb absolutely does deserve kindness - it’s the ongoing unkindness that makes her act out worse. DeeDee’s compassion and acknowledgment of Barb’s efforts and contributions helped Barb feel seen and validated. Sometimes, we’re way too quick to just write people off.
Barb absolutely DOES deserve it, she just makes it hard to like her, or be around her, because she uses manipulation and gaslighting for the attention she craves so badly.
I'm crying. Thank you for this, Shawna. There is almost always a reason that a person behaves the way that they do and having DeeDee see Barb and talk with her and for Barb to open up to her, even a little. Jeez. So good. Thank you.
This is such an interesting and well-crafted study on communication dynamics on an extended family gathering and I find it so compelling and admirable. This is such intricate and charming work! And the acting is phenomenal, as always. I love watching your content, it’s excellent.
Recently I heard a quote "Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle". Even though I'm frustrated in the moment with difficult people, I remember this and I wonder what they might be going through. Cruelty is easy, kindness is hard.
I've been watching your content for sometime now as a comfort on those days where I need it most. As a Sudanese-American, thank you for taking a moment to shed light on what's happening in the parts of our world that people often turn away from or ignore. You continue to show the value of humanity and family in every video you create ❤ your content means so much to me
I was not expecting that character arc for Barb but I tell ya, I got a little teary thinking she might move into the happier phase of her life with her family.
I absolutely love Delores and Greg! They're both so philosophical and level headed not to mention sooo family oriented. I also love how quick Delores is with the wit 😅
I’m Canadian so it’s not Thanksgiving here, but when I saw this I immediately stopped prepping dinner, turned the burners off, and sat down and watched. I could not be more invested in this series!
Gods the level of empathy i fewl for Barb is huge i almost cried She just wants to be understood and goes about it in such a bad way and DeeDee really hammered the nail on the head for her. I really hope barb is able to internalize her words
I love that Barb gets her happy thanksgiving. I hope you got yours too, Shawna. And you, reading this comment. I hope your holiday was filled with love and light. ❤️
It is refreshing to hear mature dialogue modelled with people being empathetic, helpful, kind but also knowing how to set boundaries. Also, why is Gregory such a vibe?
Me too! I can’t get enough of this story, the characters are so believable. The amount of work in putting the video together must be phenomenal. Well done 👏 I am proud
Tell me why I teared up at *exited pie chatter*? Shawna you are incredibly talented 👏 I get so sucked in to your stories, I forget you are everyone. Bravo 🙌
The amount of work it takes to do even one short is crazy but a full video is insane. I can’t be the only one n you’ve obviously heard this before but I really do believe there’s a cast of actors on this. Amazing, really well done, congratulations 👏👏👏🥰😍❣️
This is too wholesome, with no drama, and no backlash. Dee Dee sure saved the day by gracing herself to Thanksgiving it's beautiful how everything was sorted with just a little bit of conversation that Dee Dee just provided. We definitely need people like Dee Dee to save Thanksgiving.
Wow! That was amazing. These characters feel so real. Shawna is so good at observing people and finding the comedy and emotional depth in everyday interactions. Lots of love from Germany!
You really have a talent for writing! It’s clear with your shorts, but this longer form video is even more obvious how skilful and engaging your storytelling is 😊
At a time when my mother and I are rebuilding our relationship from many years of toxic traits on both of our parts, this made me realize that my mom might be feeling like Barb. 😢 It was still very wholesome and happy and I thank you for.the enlightenment! ❤
I finally sat down and watched a longer video instead of just munching down the shorts. And I LOVED IT!!! It felt like a TV show and you did NOT seem like one person doing multiple characters, it just felt like there WERE multiple actors. The speed, the rhythm, everything was so perfect.
That was the most beautiful way to get to Barb's heart and let her feel noticed ❤❤❤❤❤ Thank you Shawna! You are on my list of things I'm grateful for!!!
Wow! That is some seriously deep characterization here. It certainly did not go the way i expected and it most definitely did not disappoint!!! The fact that you can use Delores to make me understand and have compassion for Barb is way more than you'll ever get credit for!
I had an awful thanksgiving this year.. I fought with my bf (whom is amazing it happens) worked at the gas station and then left my family's thanksgiving to set a boundary. I was so excited to see you uploaded a video this long after I had popped open my bottle of wine. I know you were probably exhausted after making these skits, as I am exhausted right now. I love and appreciate you Shawna ❤you do amazing
Hey there! I don't know you or anything, but I read your comment and wanted to drop a line and say this: You are strong and brave for setting and holding your boundaries. Family/relatives can be the absolute hardest people to hold the line against. I want you to know that you and your efforts are Seen, and I'm proud of you.
@@shadowsbane877 omg thank you! It was really difficult, (for context my uncle spoke down to me me when I asked if they needed help in the kitchen, and I've got toddlers so I have held firm on how he talks to me because I don't want them to deal with it) but alas, I had a great time playing video games and drinking wine. Then my uncle apologized and asked me to come over the next day. ❤️ I love healthy relationships, it took us a while to get here but I started the whole healthy communication thing in my family. I wanted better for my kids.
That was so wholesome throughout and exactly what I need to brave extended family tomorrow with an open heart. Thank you for a wonderful sketch Shawna. Your writing and acting is always a delight. I'm thankful for you. Happy Thanksgiving!
I loved this one. I loved how DeeDee managed to make Barb feel seen and appreciated so that she stopped being toxic for ten minutes!!!!! Absolutely brilliant!
Seriously refreshing to watch. I kept waiting for drama, some harsh words, a fight but nothing. Weird how anticipating a clash ramped up anxiety but when it was a good ending a sense of relief and calm. I wonder if others had that reaction.
I'm so glad Delores and barb talked, I just feel theres so many years of unspoken resentment and feeling unseen that it's turned her into a bit if a monster. I want a barb redemption arc...
This got me crying 🥹 I love seeing the healing that’s possible with these characters. Hope really is a precious gift 💝 Thank you so much for your story telling gift and for showing us so many aspects of how we can understand and interact with each other.
This was great. Greg is amazing, Deedee's out here really getting to the heart of things. And it turns out Frank exists. Maybe he only comes out during holidays/when there's lots of food. 😅 Seeing all the different characters really shows how different they all are and the talent going into this.
Awwww! I was expecting a massive blow up but dang! I got misty eyed!! The level of investment I have in this series is insane and I love it! Thank you for all your hard work Shawna!! Happy Thanksgiving too everybody! Be safe if you're going out for black Friday! Much love from Texas!
Phenomenal!!! The ‘Yay, I love drunk mom!’, had me roaring! How you nail every member of the family is beyond me, you’re exceptionally talented. Then you throw Frank in!!!! 😳 There’s a FIL?? Who knew? Hope your Thanksgiving was as brilliant as you are 💚
This really helps you understand that Barb can change for the better, she's just stubborn at changing on certain aspects of herself. She does want to be seen, but she forces it and manipulates the people around her to get what she wants, only granting herself the opposite outcome she wanted.
OMG - who knew a Barb redemtion arc was exactly the feel good feels I really appreciate right now. Happy thanksgiving - I'm gratefull for your posts showing how we can put ourselves in others shoes - especially when the other person is hard to understand - I'm learning so much and I appreciate you. :)
Oh wow! Just wonderful. Thank you so so much Shawna. The editing, the characters, the plot and character development ❤ superb 😮😊❤ The world is gripped🎉
I LOVED THIS! Deedee is an excellent emotionally regulated parent. Many Barbs and non-barbs need a good parental figure to chat with us through difficult emotions and transitions in adulthood. Deedee had nothing at risk, no personal needs from Barb so she could stay cool and in mom/therapist/friend mode. Barb really needed to feel heard enough to give an ounce of flexibility. I’m so glad this had the ending I was hoping for. I’m filled with warm fuzzies, and grateful to know that people can be good. ❤️ ❤️
Oh my goodness this sounds like an amazing Thanksgiving! You know, I stopped paying for streaming services a few years ago and started paying for TH-cam premium for content like yours and I will never go back so long as wholesome, authentic content like this keeps flowing! I hope your Thanksgiving was great and that your holidays are amazing.
Aw, that was nice. I'm alone this year so this was like sitting in the corner with a nicely dysfunctional vaguely familiar family. Now I really want a lemon drop and a piece of apple tart. Plus my mom's name was Delores so I had Thanksgiving with my mom this year. Thank you.
LOVE this!!!! DeeDee is fully immune to sharp tounges cuz she can see through to the person whos trying to be hurtful and why. Also the longer form content/ episode is awesome!!! Thank you for all the work you did on this video. I'm sure doing longer videos would take more work and time.
This is so great. the time you put into these--love it. I hope by the time Jennifer's baby arrives Barb will step up and help for the sake of others and not for her own recognition! Thanks for these, Shawna!
Not gonna lie, I think it's nice to see the many perspectives when it comes to the topic of being a mother. I did enjoy the perspective of the feeling of "I feel lonely and unappreciated so I'm gonna try to force everyone around me to appreciate me but that is having the opposite effect more and more." Cause sadly this is true sometimes.
It’s a Thanksgiving Miracle! Hooray for DeeDee’s EQ, and for the way she curated so many “everybody wins” opportunities, and brought out Barb’s ability to receive appreciation and be a little less “barbed”. Shawna, you’re a great writer and actor and I love the brilliance of your storytelling and how entertaining it is to learn while watching your videos. I’m always happy when another one of your shorts pops up on my feed. Thank you so much for all of it.
I love these series!!! Your writing balances the heart, conflict and lessons so well while also showing that learning is a continuous process that isn't linear. Yay for DeeDee saving the day and encouraging everyone to be better!
Barb setting up expectations that didn’t pan out in life, and being angry at everyone else for it is truly relatable. And people getting upset over Shawna’s innocent words, is also highly relatable, that’s my entire life.
I love how 3 dimensional your characters are. Sometimes it is good to remember that our real loved ones are too. Sometimes we see them through our own lense and forget they are whole entire people.
Shawna, i am thankful for you this year! You are by far one of my favorite creators. Even your vacation vlog and keeping your kids private, all the different shorts about relatable mom topics and especially this series,!!! This series keeps me coming back for more! I am sooo invested in these characters! Amd more full length videos of them woild be amazing! But ill take whatever we get and be happy with it. You're a phenomenal actress, i really feel like im watching multiple different people when i watch this series and the way you can cry on que is amazing! Thank you for the year of entertainment! Hope you and your family get everything you deserve in the upcoming year!
I know that producing a longer video like this must take as much work as Barb claimed to do for thanksgiving but I swear this is gonna blow up it’s sooooo good
It's like you knew exactly what I was hoping for Barb; for her to be understood. I always thought it seemed like she was hurting in some way, and I always wanted someone to pick up on it, the way DeeDee did. 😊❤ I cried hard, and am really thankful for this video. And, the fact that Barb blacked out the room for the baby... 🥺 She remembers what Shawna said about it. That speaks volumes to me. 💯💖😭
This is so sweet and wholesome, Barb is capable of change! DeeDee is a miracle worker! Also Frank! He came out of left field for me, I had no clue! He looks like a shell of a man, the way he immediately went to read to the grandkids when there was a conflict tells me everything I need to know.
This was wonderful, really. Bravo. Poor Barb, she was really, painfully human in this one. Also, mama Deedee forever. That’s a woman who knows how to read the room.
It is absolutely AAAAAmazing that when I watch your videos I DO SEE different people!! I have loved and enjoyed every one of your videos. Gotta say, those greens eyes are hella expressive.
I can’t get over how much planning and work must go into these! You are super talented. I genuinely have love for your characters as they remind me of so many different people in my life
You are so freaking talented. Playing all the characters, and they are all done so well! I love seeing Frank. You can tell that he's a man who has a Barb for a wife!
The change from Barb calling her Delores at first to DeeDee by the end.. I love it 🥹
yessss i loved that
I didn’t even catch it but I’m so here for it!
and finally calling Greg Greg
Thank the lemon drops
A subtle moment, great catch!! 💗
I'm so digging the therapist DeeDee and Barb moment! If there is anyone that can get through to that old hag, it's DeeDee!❤
I aspire to be a dee dee. I have a very short temper for ppl like barb, but truly catch more flies with sugar than vinegar!
@mamacito1795 you and I both! Over the last 5 or so years, I have undergone a form of awakening almost, that's helped me form a filter and calm down a lil, lol. But in prior years, it has always been my nature to throw hands with people like Barb😅🤣 I have finally realized that you just can't fight everybody that pisses you off😅 Not to mention that it is childish and just so not worth your freedom. I'm still learning the whole process of using honey instead of vinegar🤣 It's a lengthy learning process for sure.
@@mamacito1795but you catch the most fruit flies with wine 🍷
Shame she'll be gone for Christmas. Barb needs taming!😂
@bookgirl2 maybe after this we may see some progression with barb for christmas 😮
Barb was gentle parented and I'm here for it!
Omigosh she really was, wasn't she? Lol
No, she was gentle FRIENDED. She was NOT treated like a child. Deedee is NOT that annoying "Gentle Parenting adults" TH-camr who looks down on other people and is SO INCREDIBLY AWFUL.
Deedee didn't need to "gentle parent." She just treated Barb like an adult, who was clearly suffering from some form of pain, and she healed that pain for her. She was a FRIEND in need and a friend indeed.
Please don't conflate "gentle parenting" and that.
@AuntLoopy123 gentle patenting doesn't have to be awful or self-righteous. The way DeeDee talked to Barb is the way actual gentle parenting looks, but I do agree that she also extended herself as a friend to Barb. We could all use a DeeDee in our lives to keep us grounded and accountable while cheering on the good.
@@Minnehotness I think their issue is that the notion of "parenting" another adult seems condescending by default.
Barb isn't a child, she's a grown adult and doesn't need to be parented.
@@safidraws But what Barb did is exactly gentle parenting. Gentle parenting isn't supposed to be condescending. Kids don't like being condescended to any more than adults do.
I watch all the time and I’ve never met dad! Every moment of him checked out - the realism! You’re such a talent (or 7 different ones!)
I actually assumed he was dead until now 😂😂
@@komyn27Yes, I thought both grandmothers were widowed.
@@komyn27 same dude
@@komyn27I thought divorce/he walked out at some point in time
@@greenbeantm1096 It's kinda crackup but also sad to think that he's probably just been sitting in the same room while chaos happens. Snoozing in an armchair or just pretending that nothing is happening with Barb. It's too real!!
I really enjoyed DeeDee’s interaction with Barb! DeeDee’s empathy really helped Barb, I think. I hope that this was a memorable learning moment for Barb. I love everything about this series!
I kept saying that barb is just extremely insecure and just need a little more acknowledgement. Well done deedee.
It was a lovely moment but I have no illusions about it being a learning moment 😂
I really appreciate the example of how to talk with someone like that. It's SO easy to peg that add her personality type and think she couldn't learn, but DeeDee has just the right distance from the situation and empathy to really help.
"You mean like 5 years ago right Mo- ?" SHE DOES NOT
This is really heartwarming. I really love how DD, a secure and mature woman can see another woman struggling and extend a hand. And I love that she chose to, and didn't fall on Barb's family to do all the emotional lifting just because they are family. Hope this kind of kindness and clarity reaches everyone who watches your skits.
It takes a lot of compassion to write Barb as pleasant. So happy to see that. You are so in touch with your characters.
It takes a lot of compassion to have that much patience with person who is hurting as badly as Barb is. Poor Barb, really, and whatever toxicity shaped her into what she has become. The beauty is when people change for the better, and we saw a wee glimpse of it at the end!
This is the first time I've seen Shawna put her foot in it for Barb. Very well done!
I love this empathetic look into Barb’s behavior. As much as it’s unacceptable, underneath all the entitlement is a mom who’s feeling lonely and missing a time where her little babies needed her. If I knew her I’d definitely keep low or no contact, but it’s nice to have a reminder that she’s not evil. She’s just a sad person who doesn’t know how to reach out in a healthy way
This video made me wonder if maybe women who didn’t feel comfortable relaxing and silly and spontaneous with their kids (cookies at bedtime, letting them stay up late at holidays) when they were little maybe think that they CAN with grandkids. And when they get pushback from their kids about it (because if they NEVER did it, they may not know that there’s and time and place for it and holidays are not it) they feel resentful that they squashed all the fun out of parenting believing it would pay dividends when their kids were grown, and that never materialized in the way they expected.
Especially if they themselves were raised in an “elders know best” way and never felt comfortable pushing back against their own parents’ boundary-stepping… they were raised to believe that exchange was normal, but they’re when their kids won’t conform to that “normal,” they feel the (unacknowledged) resentment of getting the bitter end of that generational dynamic.
Yes, you’ve nailed it. Great insight. Barb is not evil, she’s deeply injured. Sadly our unexamined hurt drives our behavior so when Barb feels she flails and damages the very ones she wants to be close to. It’s a cycle and will continue without real, conscious accountability.
This one made me cry.
I love Mama Dee Dee working her loving magic on Barb and helping to reparent her.
Shawna, you are a gift. Thank you.
Barb got a happy ending!
@@cathipalmer8217 uh, what now?
@MrsSidneyApplebaum I don't know, but that was like a Thanksgiving miracle.
It made me cry too and laugh cry on some parts. It was a whole mix of emotions in less than 10 minutes. Greg made me cry about the state of politics and the world, the game made me cry laughing, and DeeDee and Barb's conversation followed by how Barb had prepared for the kids made me happy cry. The holidays are hard and always an emotional mess for me, but I think I felt almost the whole range here.
I love how Barb was able to show more of her character and root of her bitter actions. Man, I continue to be impressed by your inclusion of sociological issue and create such realness to your characters. It is entertaining and teaching at the same time
im so invested, also the “i love drunk mom!” from jennifer is hilarious XD
I laugh so hard when I do Jennifer’s lines 😂
Loving the way Shawna and DeeDee do their best to handle the situation with kindness even when Barb doesn’t deserve it at all. Shows how we are only in control of ourselves and how we handle even the hardest situations !!
i hear you, but i think this video proves that barb is extra deserving of kindness and love because she clearly doesn't get any help, compassion, or companionship from her husband. people change and make a lot of mistakes because they are lonely
@@SoftieeeeExactley, she literally said she wonders the house alone feeling empty and abandoned, while her husband is still there, and there can be only one cause for that; a completly checked out husband.
That’s just it, Barb absolutely does deserve kindness - it’s the ongoing unkindness that makes her act out worse. DeeDee’s compassion and acknowledgment of Barb’s efforts and contributions helped Barb feel seen and validated. Sometimes, we’re way too quick to just write people off.
It's easy to see where Shawna gets it from. DeeDee is lovely, and so sensitive and thoughtful.
Barb absolutely DOES deserve it, she just makes it hard to like her, or be around her, because she uses manipulation and gaslighting for the attention she craves so badly.
I'm crying. Thank you for this, Shawna. There is almost always a reason that a person behaves the way that they do and having DeeDee see Barb and talk with her and for Barb to open up to her, even a little. Jeez. So good. Thank you.
Oh yes, always a reason 💗🤗
This is such an interesting and well-crafted study on communication dynamics on an extended family gathering and I find it so compelling and admirable. This is such intricate and charming work! And the acting is phenomenal, as always. I love watching your content, it’s excellent.
Recently I heard a quote "Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle". Even though I'm frustrated in the moment with difficult people, I remember this and I wonder what they might be going through. Cruelty is easy, kindness is hard.
I love this quote. It’s so true. Thanks for sharing!
"Everyone's the hero in their own story" has gotten me through a lot.
But mostly, praying very hard to see this person as the Savior sees them.
I love Deloris sooo much. The way she handle Barb was just *chefs kiss*
I've been watching your content for sometime now as a comfort on those days where I need it most. As a Sudanese-American, thank you for taking a moment to shed light on what's happening in the parts of our world that people often turn away from or ignore. You continue to show the value of humanity and family in every video you create ❤ your content means so much to me
Oh my heart. Biggest hug, sweet friend 💗🤗
I was not expecting that character arc for Barb but I tell ya, I got a little teary thinking she might move into the happier phase of her life with her family.
It's just a supporting comment to help the algorythm realize this channel deserves to be seen.
That’s kind 🥹 THANKS
There are people like Delores who know exactly what to say to make someone feel seen and appreciated. It's like a superpower.
Ok, this made me tear up a little. DeeDee is exactly who Barb needed in this moment.
I absolutely love Delores and Greg! They're both so philosophical and level headed not to mention sooo family oriented. I also love how quick Delores is with the wit 😅
I’m Canadian so it’s not Thanksgiving here, but when I saw this I immediately stopped prepping dinner, turned the burners off, and sat down and watched. I could not be more invested in this series!
Happy Thanksgiving anyway.
Canadian Thanksgiving for the win! I'm so glad ours isn't as close to Christmas and it's still when the leaves are all pretty
“Get a room”
“Kay” I loved that grin on her face 😂
Gods the level of empathy i fewl for Barb is huge i almost cried
She just wants to be understood and goes about it in such a bad way and DeeDee really hammered the nail on the head for her. I really hope barb is able to internalize her words
I love that Barb gets her happy thanksgiving. I hope you got yours too, Shawna. And you, reading this comment. I hope your holiday was filled with love and light. ❤️
Your comment really hit home for me. I was alone with a turkey sandwich this year.😢 No family or friends just me and TH-cam
@faithgilfillan4777 ❤️
*chanting* Greg! Greg! Greg! Greg! Greg!!!!!! Who needs football when the MVP is already here?!!!😂😂
It is refreshing to hear mature dialogue modelled with people being empathetic, helpful, kind but also knowing how to set boundaries. Also, why is Gregory such a vibe?
The level at which I am invested in the characters and story is higher than in my current series 😅🫠
lol… right?!
I paused criminal minds to watch this😂😂😂
Same!!! 😂
this is my current series
Me too! I can’t get enough of this story, the characters are so believable. The amount of work in putting the video together must be phenomenal. Well done 👏 I am proud
Tell me why I teared up at *exited pie chatter*? Shawna you are incredibly talented 👏 I get so sucked in to your stories, I forget you are everyone. Bravo 🙌
The amount of work it takes to do even one short is crazy but a full video is insane. I can’t be the only one n you’ve obviously heard this before but I really do believe there’s a cast of actors on this. Amazing, really well done, congratulations 👏👏👏🥰😍❣️
Omg there's a dad ????? Hi Frank !!!!!!
Right?? I think he's been hiding from Barb behind the couch the past year!
@melissadecker5689 probably can’t imagine being married to someone like that 😂😂 he’s stronger than most people
I think I unconsciously suspected Barb had been widowed for a while...where is Shawna's dad?
I think I unconsciously suspected Barb had been widowed for a while...where is Shawna's dad?
🤣🤣🤣
Yay I love seeing the bits that don't make it into the shorts content!
That Mama Dee turnaround was :chef's kiss: 💋😘🤌
How the hell did she create ANOTHER totally distinct character??? Amazing. ❤️
This is too wholesome, with no drama, and no backlash. Dee Dee sure saved the day by gracing herself to Thanksgiving it's beautiful how everything was sorted with just a little bit of conversation that Dee Dee just provided. We definitely need people like Dee Dee to save Thanksgiving.
Wow! That was amazing. These characters feel so real. Shawna is so good at observing people and finding the comedy and emotional depth in everyday interactions. Lots of love from Germany!
You really have a talent for writing! It’s clear with your shorts, but this longer form video is even more obvious how skilful and engaging your storytelling is 😊
Not me crying in my bathrobe at Barb finally getting a redemption arc! 😭
At a time when my mother and I are rebuilding our relationship from many years of toxic traits on both of our parts, this made me realize that my mom might be feeling like Barb. 😢
It was still very wholesome and happy and I thank you for.the enlightenment! ❤
I finally sat down and watched a longer video instead of just munching down the shorts. And I LOVED IT!!! It felt like a TV show and you did NOT seem like one person doing multiple characters, it just felt like there WERE multiple actors. The speed, the rhythm, everything was so perfect.
That was the most beautiful way to get to Barb's heart and let her feel noticed ❤❤❤❤❤ Thank you Shawna! You are on my list of things I'm grateful for!!!
Wow! That is some seriously deep characterization here. It certainly did not go the way i expected and it most definitely did not disappoint!!!
The fact that you can use Delores to make me understand and have compassion for Barb is way more than you'll ever get credit for!
I had an awful thanksgiving this year.. I fought with my bf (whom is amazing it happens) worked at the gas station and then left my family's thanksgiving to set a boundary. I was so excited to see you uploaded a video this long after I had popped open my bottle of wine. I know you were probably exhausted after making these skits, as I am exhausted right now. I love and appreciate you Shawna ❤you do amazing
Hey there! I don't know you or anything, but I read your comment and wanted to drop a line and say this: You are strong and brave for setting and holding your boundaries. Family/relatives can be the absolute hardest people to hold the line against. I want you to know that you and your efforts are Seen, and I'm proud of you.
@@shadowsbane877 omg thank you! It was really difficult, (for context my uncle spoke down to me me when I asked if they needed help in the kitchen, and I've got toddlers so I have held firm on how he talks to me because I don't want them to deal with it) but alas, I had a great time playing video games and drinking wine. Then my uncle apologized and asked me to come over the next day. ❤️ I love healthy relationships, it took us a while to get here but I started the whole healthy communication thing in my family. I wanted better for my kids.
That was so wholesome throughout and exactly what I need to brave extended family tomorrow with an open heart. Thank you for a wonderful sketch Shawna. Your writing and acting is always a delight. I'm thankful for you. Happy Thanksgiving!
This was do wholesome and sweet!!!! Many people lashing out just need a hug.
Why am I crying at how beautiful that ended?!! ❤❤
I loved this one. I loved how DeeDee managed to make Barb feel seen and appreciated so that she stopped being toxic for ten minutes!!!!! Absolutely brilliant!
This literally made me tear up - the compassion that DeeDee has for Barb is amazing, and she can really see through the wall she put there 🥺
Seriously refreshing to watch. I kept waiting for drama, some harsh words, a fight but nothing. Weird how anticipating a clash ramped up anxiety but when it was a good ending a sense of relief and calm. I wonder if others had that reaction.
Perfection. I'm crying my eyes out. DeeDee for the win! Such a touching, truthful moment.
Deedee and Greg have such a fun dynamic! Also I love Greg's mention of humanitarian causes :]
DEEDEE FIXED BARB!! Or maybe took necessary giant leaps, hopefully they stick!
Thank you for this blessed video, Shawna~
I'm so glad Delores and barb talked, I just feel theres so many years of unspoken resentment and feeling unseen that it's turned her into a bit if a monster. I want a barb redemption arc...
The full circle was absolutely perfection!!
Awwww Barb made the room dark ❤️❤️ that is real growth
This is such a heartwarming video I actually got a little emotional, hats off to you Shawna I hardly ever cry 😭😭
I didn’t expect this to make me cry but here we are with a heartwarming sketch😂 I love the character development here
This got me crying 🥹 I love seeing the healing that’s possible with these characters. Hope really is a precious gift 💝 Thank you so much for your story telling gift and for showing us so many aspects of how we can understand and interact with each other.
This was great. Greg is amazing, Deedee's out here really getting to the heart of things. And it turns out Frank exists. Maybe he only comes out during holidays/when there's lots of food. 😅 Seeing all the different characters really shows how different they all are and the talent going into this.
The random deepness of Greg is beautiful😂
Awwww! I was expecting a massive blow up but dang! I got misty eyed!!
The level of investment I have in this series is insane and I love it!
Thank you for all your hard work Shawna!!
Happy Thanksgiving too everybody! Be safe if you're going out for black Friday! Much love from Texas!
Phenomenal!!! The ‘Yay, I love drunk mom!’, had me roaring! How you nail every member of the family is beyond me, you’re exceptionally talented. Then you throw Frank in!!!! 😳 There’s a FIL?? Who knew? Hope your Thanksgiving was as brilliant as you are 💚
This really helps you understand that Barb can change for the better, she's just stubborn at changing on certain aspects of herself. She does want to be seen, but she forces it and manipulates the people around her to get what she wants, only granting herself the opposite outcome she wanted.
OMG - who knew a Barb redemtion arc was exactly the feel good feels I really appreciate right now. Happy thanksgiving - I'm gratefull for your posts showing how we can put ourselves in others shoes - especially when the other person is hard to understand - I'm learning so much and I appreciate you. :)
HOW DID I NOT KNOW THERE WERE FULL LENGTH VIDEOS WITH MORE CONTENT THIS IS AMAZING!!!
Oh wow! Just wonderful. Thank you so so much Shawna. The editing, the characters, the plot and character development ❤ superb 😮😊❤ The world is gripped🎉
I love what DeeDee did for Barb. Sometimes we come of as overbearing and all we really need is to feel like we're still a part of our kids lives!
I LOVED THIS! Deedee is an excellent emotionally regulated parent. Many Barbs and non-barbs need a good parental figure to chat with us through difficult emotions and transitions in adulthood. Deedee had nothing at risk, no personal needs from Barb so she could stay cool and in mom/therapist/friend mode. Barb really needed to feel heard enough to give an ounce of flexibility. I’m so glad this had the ending I was hoping for. I’m filled with warm fuzzies, and grateful to know that people can be good. ❤️ ❤️
Can we just give a standing O to Shawna for making this whole one woman show??!😮😮👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽❤️❤️
I am not crying, you are!!! Dolores to Dee Dee. Why am I so invested????
Omg sooooo goood! Touching and just hit the spot. Can’t believe its all one person. 🏅🏆
Oh my goodness this sounds like an amazing Thanksgiving! You know, I stopped paying for streaming services a few years ago and started paying for TH-cam premium for content like yours and I will never go back so long as wholesome, authentic content like this keeps flowing! I hope your Thanksgiving was great and that your holidays are amazing.
Aw, that was nice. I'm alone this year so this was like sitting in the corner with a nicely dysfunctional vaguely familiar family. Now I really want a lemon drop and a piece of apple tart.
Plus my mom's name was Delores so I had Thanksgiving with my mom this year. Thank you.
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LOVE this!!!! DeeDee is fully immune to sharp tounges cuz she can see through to the person whos trying to be hurtful and why. Also the longer form content/ episode is awesome!!! Thank you for all the work you did on this video. I'm sure doing longer videos would take more work and time.
I am crying. Oh my goodness. I am literally crying tears and I am not even sure why.
This is so great. the time you put into these--love it. I hope by the time Jennifer's baby arrives Barb will step up and help for the sake of others and not for her own recognition! Thanks for these, Shawna!
Not gonna lie, I think it's nice to see the many perspectives when it comes to the topic of being a mother. I did enjoy the perspective of the feeling of "I feel lonely and unappreciated so I'm gonna try to force everyone around me to appreciate me but that is having the opposite effect more and more." Cause sadly this is true sometimes.
It’s a Thanksgiving Miracle! Hooray for DeeDee’s EQ, and for the way she curated so many “everybody wins” opportunities, and brought out Barb’s ability to receive appreciation and be a little less “barbed”. Shawna, you’re a great writer and actor and I love the brilliance of your storytelling and how entertaining it is to learn while watching your videos. I’m always happy when another one of your shorts pops up on my feed. Thank you so much for all of it.
I love these series!!! Your writing balances the heart, conflict and lessons so well while also showing that learning is a continuous process that isn't linear. Yay for DeeDee saving the day and encouraging everyone to be better!
Barb setting up expectations that didn’t pan out in life, and being angry at everyone else for it is truly relatable. And people getting upset over Shawna’s innocent words, is also highly relatable, that’s my entire life.
I love how 3 dimensional your characters are. Sometimes it is good to remember that our real loved ones are too. Sometimes we see them through our own lense and forget they are whole entire people.
The ending gave me chills. Dee Dee is stellar. Love the dad though. Silent and grumbly.
Shawna, i am thankful for you this year! You are by far one of my favorite creators. Even your vacation vlog and keeping your kids private, all the different shorts about relatable mom topics and especially this series,!!! This series keeps me coming back for more! I am sooo invested in these characters! Amd more full length videos of them woild be amazing! But ill take whatever we get and be happy with it. You're a phenomenal actress, i really feel like im watching multiple different people when i watch this series and the way you can cry on que is amazing! Thank you for the year of entertainment! Hope you and your family get everything you deserve in the upcoming year!
The kindest thing this holiday was giving Barb a voice through awesome momma Dee.
I know that producing a longer video like this must take as much work as Barb claimed to do for thanksgiving but I swear this is gonna blow up it’s sooooo good
It's like you knew exactly what I was hoping for Barb; for her to be understood. I always thought it seemed like she was hurting in some way, and I always wanted someone to pick up on it, the way DeeDee did. 😊❤ I cried hard, and am really thankful for this video. And, the fact that Barb blacked out the room for the baby... 🥺 She remembers what Shawna said about it. That speaks volumes to me. 💯💖😭
This is so sweet and wholesome, Barb is capable of change! DeeDee is a miracle worker! Also Frank! He came out of left field for me, I had no clue! He looks like a shell of a man, the way he immediately went to read to the grandkids when there was a conflict tells me everything I need to know.
And I'm crying!! 😭 Bravo, Shawna!!
This was wonderful, really. Bravo. Poor Barb, she was really, painfully human in this one. Also, mama Deedee forever. That’s a woman who knows how to read the room.
It is absolutely AAAAAmazing that when I watch your videos I DO SEE different people!! I have loved and enjoyed every one of your videos. Gotta say, those greens eyes are hella expressive.
(excited pie chatter) 😂
Between Greg and DeeDee that family is going to be so well adjusted! Good for them
This video is so nice. I teared up at the end with Delores understanding Barb. I hope it makes for a better Barb.
awh. Shawna always passing the vibe check. Thank you for this video. It gave me hope in small and significant ways. Thank you
Just wow! Kudos all around for all the characters residing inside of you. This was amazing!
WHY DID THIS MAKE ME CRY THIS WAS MY FAVE YET
I can’t get over how much planning and work must go into these! You are super talented. I genuinely have love for your characters as they remind me of so many different people in my life
Get this girl her own TV SHOW! 👏🏻 👏🏻
You are so freaking talented. Playing all the characters, and they are all done so well! I love seeing Frank. You can tell that he's a man who has a Barb for a wife!