Agree!!! And, what people may view as irresponsible behavior and immaturity could be a huge sign of traumatic events in early childhood that weren't ever addressed.
1. You take time seriously ♡ 2. You Embrace responsibility ♡ 3. You Respect Every Opinion ♡ 4. You are in charge of your emotions ♡ 5. Your career matters to you ♡ 6. You focus on self improvement ♡ 7. You have no expectations ♡ Once you know the importance of your self respect than love,then you'll be more matured. Respect and love yourself first!
1) You take time seriously, *0:37* 2) You embrace responsibility, *1:09* 3) You respect every opinion, *1:43* 4) You are in charge of your emotions, *2:14* 5) Your career matters to you, *2:51* 6) You focus on self-improvement, *3:33* 7) You have no expectations, *4:06*
*0:36** •You take time seriously* *1:09** •You embrace responsibility* *1:42** •You respect every opinion* *2:14** •You are incharge of your emotions* *2:51** •Your career matters to you* *3:32** •You focus on self improvement* *4:07** •You have no expectations* Hope this helps 🙂
This video is funny because it made me realize how immature I am emotionally but yet I don’t act how people would think of immature people as because of trauma. I am in the middle. I know I am not wise but I am a wise fool.
I agree with all the points except taking time seriously. Not everyone who is more mature than others is that way naturally, no some people are forced to be mature by brutal experiences and are shown the unfiltered bitter reality of the world. For us who are more mature than others, taking time seriously is not done. We are depressed, traumatized and desperate for feeling anything other than grief, sorrow, anger and numbness. It's not that we don't want a healthy routine it's that we can't do anything when our mind is dead set on reliving all the painful memories and experiences that our heart desperately tries to bury. We are constantly in battle, a war to feel normal, to feel whole. it's not easy and time and mindless routines just don't have the importance in our dark worlds. And I think that most people who are mature than others had a boost that made them that way. Be it a mild depression or a past severe suicide attempt once you get a taste- however small that may be- of the darkness you can't revert back to the carefully crafted ignorance and nonchalance our society lives in.
#7 is something I've been saying for YEARS. I have low expectations of oncoming events or tasks. That way, im not surprised by the worst case scenario, but over-joyed by even the slightest unexpected positivity. Hopefully that doesnt make me sound like a pessimist, I love everything I have and do. Just, I expect little and am pleased by positive outcomes.
1. Respect time. 2.Responsibilities 3. Respect others opinions 4.you are in charge of your emotions 5.Your career matters to you. 6.focus on self improvement . 7.you have no expectations.
You take time seriously ❎ You embrace responsibility ❎ You respect every opinion ✅ You’re in charge of your emotions ✅ Your career matters to you (Lol, I’m just 13) You focus on self-improvement ✅ You have no high expectations from others ✅
I do not have huge expectations of anyone, i respect people's opinions (as long as they are not awful/rude-) and i do want to focus more on my self improvement, even though i don't think i can do that-
My father had all 7 of the more mature points. But life was not easy, neither for him. I loved him very much. Thanks too to Psych2go for the beautiful and helpfull video´s. Cheers!
In my experience, a great sign of maturity is taking good care of pets. The people who take good care of their pets tend to be more organized and mature. Those who neglect their pets and plants are often childish and difficult to work with.
I can agree on that to a point. For one thing, I'm not a green thumb at all xD And sometimes I get too overwhelmed or too depressed, up to where it's even a struggle to take care of myself. Of course, it doesn't stop me from filling up my pets' food bowls; it's just a bit harder for me to do the simplest of tasks.
I take care of my pets by..not having any.. I work 12 hours a day and get home super tired, I know I'd neglect giving them the love I'd hope I would. Or maybe I can get something less complicated, like fish~
When I was living my life as a full teenager who's 16 with autism, I've always keep wondering if I'm ever maturing then I thought in life, but then later on, as I was going through very hard times such as cyber bulling and getting threats or what ever it was, I was avoiding it as much as I can while I was shaking in terror or just down right tried. But then moments later a video pops or a notifications and I see this and clicked on it as fast as I could to see if I was really maturing, turns out I was or most of the questions were right. Thanks for making this video Pysch2Go have a great weekend and December.
you'll get through this, don't let it get to you it's just meaningless words and giving them meaning is unnecessary stress for you. it will get better because you are strong enough to make it that. stay safe kid!
I disagree on certain aspects of the definition of 'maturity'. The definition of the word is to act in a very well mannered way (behave, be there for a workplace that might be exhausting, be on time for anything, etc). That definition can lead people to be extremely hard on themselves if they have a mental breakdown, or if they are late by accident. Though did you know there are different types of maturity. Some may be emotionally mature while some are spiritually for a few examples. To demonstrate, someone may be in charge of emotions while not believing in spiritual aspects of life and vice versa. This is coming from someone who was obsessed with psychology and philosophy since I was a child. It's those two things that I love to learn and have a smile on my face. Like when there was a science fair for my 8th grade class; I chose psychology while others chose experimental projects. A lot of people were surprised to see this 13 year old do a college/university level subject as a science fair project.
You should make a video on Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria, I have it and feeling out of control while also in control at the same time made me feel like i was going insane, and seeing RSD and the signs line up made me feel like I’m not alone, which I usually feel I am because of how uniquely I react and deal with things compared to others. My psychiatrist never even heard of RSD, and I feel awareness about it should be spread
i fr thought it could relate to this i mean it’s obvious i understand and know how to handle things better than others. but i’m definitely not mature but definitely know how to manage things better than others. i also try to ignore my responsibilities because it stresses me out but i do try
i would argue that maturity is realizing that any way you choose to spend your time is beautiful because you are the reason you are alive, and any way that you choose to live is acceptable
*"Incredible change happens in your life when you decide to take control of what you have power over instead of craving control over what you don't." - Steve Maraboli*
The one I really need to work on is the expectations from others. I hold myself to a high standard and kind of do that with others. I expect timely responses, kindness and a general respect of myself and others from other people. That isn't realistic and I need help learning how to lower my expectations from others.
Of course it's realistic. You're describing basic human decency. Not expecting that from others would mean you had poor boundaries. Don't lower your standards just because the world is full of people who don't give a damn. Hold out for those friends who display decent behaviour and lessen contact with those who constantly display disrespectful behaviours.
This video told me more clearly how immature I am. Currently I had 1 out of 7 points. How to develop others more effectively Currently I am broken with emotional pain and guilt
Some signs I've had of maturity: You take time seriously, 0:37 - I'm NOT AFRAID to take the time to do the things I need to do. I have this feeling that if I CARED MORE I would ACHIEVE LESS, which can seem pretty counterintuitive to people, but it can only feel so backward if I already have the strong belief that if I put time and effort into something, I will have achieved more. So, I feel like any further reiteration of that fact would lead to a lot of anxiety (See if the same thing is happening to you). Sometimes, CARING LESS can help you ACHIEVE MORE. Sometimes when you are hesitant to take responsibility, sometimes it's smarter to reiterate to yourself the primary function of the human brain rather than how important it is for your PRACTICAL LIFE to handle your responsibilities (You have both a practical and spiritual life). This is so that you'll look at your brain as your own tool rather than your slave master. So, simultaneously, You embrace responsibility, 1:09 You respect every opinion without taking any of them as an attack on your character, 1:43 You are in charge of your emotions, 2:14 Your career matters to you, but not too much, 2:51 You focus on self-improvement, 3:33 You have no expectations, 4:06
Firstly love yourself trust urself belive in urself and speak for ur self if u do this things then no one can't break you💜 whoever reading this have a good day🤗
Everyone, I am proud that you still made it until today. Y'all are strong people and the fact that you opened your eyes this morning, is an accomplishment. I am proud of ya'll.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
People say that I'm mature then my age.. and i think that's my speciality and I'm grateful for that.. I've experienced the things at teen shouldn't.. mental trauma and other stuff... But you know i understand people and I'm a good listener.. being mature is not being mean ignoring and disrespecting other.. it's bout being understanding grateful kind sweet respectful and alert. Why alert? Bcoz you have to know when and how to act you know how people are and how to be distend with them.. you treat yourself better than before.. you start loving yourself.. that what makes you mature
what i do -take time seriously -respect every opinion (unless it hurts certain people) -i am in charge of my emotions -taking my job seriously (even hating to) -no expectations
My mom keeps on telling me Im too "mature" in the way i think and act. Maybe its because I've been sleep deprived or the fact I have been the perfect prodigy kid you keep on flaunting to your friends. All the love ive gotten from is just that you praise me in front of your friends. You cant even breastfeed me and you tell me you love me. You literally went to another country to work, then only come back to get stuck in debt and you party like some teenager forgetting the fact you have three children. You cant even buy me underwear. I would pretend im sick just to get attention and would be happy with the fact im inside the hospital. You tell me i should open up to you but all you do is twist my words and gaslight me saying "i have a reason" no. What you are doing is wrong. Listen to me and just accept you're wrong. Dont expect me to be a disciplined daughter because you did not discipline me. You tell me not to compare you to other mothers but im just asking the bare minimum. My classmates dont want anything to do with their parents but im here, wanting to spend time with you. I go out of my way to filter my mouth to things you want to hear, just so that you would talk to me. When you and dad were in a fight you refused to take care of your own son who was just 3 months old. Everything i say and do has to be planned out because your fragile little ego cant handle being corrected. I hate you so much but im keeping it together because i love my siblings. I want them to experience a normal childhood that i never got. Even though my sister had always been the favorite its not her fault. Its your fault mother. Accept that youre wrong. I still cant believe Im just 12 years old. Not even a teen yet.
I'm sorry you're in such a bad situation. Does your school teacher know the things that happen at home? You should tell them if they don't know already. You and your siblings may get some help then. Sending you love and strength.
@@dreamer6943 thank you so much for your concern about me and my siblings. I really appreciate it. And thankfully my grandparents from my fathers side are the ones taking care of us three. My grandma is the only person i share with and i just wanted to share my situation here. I am in a good situation now. Again thank you so much for caring.
Unless someone doesn't disregard or disrespect someone's opinions just for the sake of proving themselves right, I will accept it even if it doesn't stand by my values.
I agree with no. 3 (listening to everyone's opinion) and no. 7 (keeping no expectations from others) myself. I also want to do the other 5 but find it difficult to encourage myself to.
It is true that is better to have no expectations of others.It is however easier said than done.It really is painful when you find out that you cannot count on people that you thought you could.That is one of life’s lessons.
These signs really define my life when I was in the process of changing majors after volunteering at a business that helped shaped my character. I'll be able to finally graduate by the end of this school year.
Psych2Go must be psychic. Friend of mine called me childish and immature yesterday, while they claimed that they've grown up. In the end, I told them that I wasn't going to argue with them, and it was silent treatment after that. Not responding to any more of my messages (shrug). During that argument, while I said to my friend that I disagree with what they were saying, I was acknowledging their opinion too. I ALMOST lost my temper, but I stopped and said to myself, "What would it make me if I were to argue with them?" So instead of calling them out, I said that I was done arguing. And the argument was over something real stupid to get mad over. I simply didn't match their opinion, and their standards of what's maturity to them. I take responsibility of what's my own, I learn from mistakes in order to self-improve, and I've been trying my best to not let my emotions rule me. I hold little expectations of anyone. I expect people to be punctual though because I take that very seriously. I can't stand people who are late all the time. Also, as long as they're not being jerks, I respect their opinion, if harmless.
You know what, I’m lucky to be alive. There are so many opportunities where I could have died, but here I am, the fact that I wake up every morning is a miracle. I don’t think a lot of people realise that at 21. No, I haven’t had a health scare or car accident, but just think of all the kids in the world that don’t make it to their first birthday, or their fifth, all the people that die of starvation or disease, all the women who die in childbirth. We are honestly so lucky in the West that we get to live in comfort and have long lives.
As someone who is viewed as more mature, mentally (way I think) and emotionally (way I deal with emotions; mine and others), I am often perceived to being doing okay when I am anything but. My ability to be aware and own my emotions is perceived as me not having "major" problems. Others tend to put me on a pedestal and treat me like I couldn't possibly need their help. Irony is, it is the same treatment given to someone that is not cared about and thrown into a pit to be ignored. Neither receive basic human dignity. Neither are a reason to take action. At best, they are a side affect of other actions taken. The pedestal is a very lonely place.
I relate heavily to 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, and 7. I am terrible at time management. I value it, so basically, I'm constantly stressed about wasting time and to relieve that stress I waste time. I really should be working instead of watching TH-cam right now...
5 1/2 /7 I take time seriously but tend to not be able to manage it due to mental issues and I embrace some responsibility’s not all my mental capacity is not large enough
Who am I, if I run from responsibilities, but not from taking them, but from getting them. I try not to be responsible of too much, but if I am already responsible of something - I will take it with all seriousness, and do my best to get everything people want me to do, done.
Thanks but a guy such a ME doesn't belong in this world anymore.. I had the habit or maybe diseases of thinking I'm dead. I dunno,When I was in large crowd haha I don't know why,I just feel I'm a ghost,or a walking corpse,or a rotten flesh. And everyone avoids me. They said I'm handsome but I actually underestimate myself because I'm clinically dead in my own universe
1. You don't obssess over anime'. 2. Your hair is a natural human color. 3. You don't reference anime' or video game characters in video comment sections. 4. You see school as a means to an end and not a dodge for real life. 5. You know that ALL politics (OK 98.9%) is wrong, evil and mostly harmful. 6. You realize that money is only a means to an end. 7. You realize the importance of kindness and courteousness but don't use them as an excuse to avoid being truthful.
Listen typically since I am this do not really strive for all of this but be sure to put in effort but it really is a power struggle between you and others
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What is one regret that you have in life? Comment below.
I'm first to ur comment again
Edit: Or atleast first reply
Not taking opportunities for myself
I don't have any.
Having a lot of habit :)
Acting like I'm the boss in my class and i was bossing all of my classmates around thinking that i'm the teacher in class (when there was no covid)
I would argue that as a child being more mature can be a trauma response. Sometimes being Parentified is not a positive attribute.
Agree!!! And, what people may view as irresponsible behavior and immaturity could be a huge sign of traumatic events in early childhood that weren't ever addressed.
Exactly!! So happy I did found your comment. Thank you for this 🙏🏽💜
Like kids now that act like grown adults ? When they’re like 5
Garbage.
Parentified?
1. You take time seriously ♡
2. You Embrace responsibility ♡
3. You Respect Every Opinion ♡
4. You are in charge of your emotions ♡
5. Your career matters to you ♡
6. You focus on self improvement ♡
7. You have no expectations ♡
Once you know the importance of your self respect than love,then you'll be more matured. Respect and love yourself first!
Thank you
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reading this comment i took time seriously lol
@@terremotoraptor Lol
Her voice is so relaxing. It's not just me right?
Yep. Not just you :)
Not just you 😊🤸♂️
Definitely !
Not just you
@@heal6752 true
1) You take time seriously, *0:37*
2) You embrace responsibility, *1:09*
3) You respect every opinion, *1:43*
4) You are in charge of your emotions, *2:14*
5) Your career matters to you, *2:51*
6) You focus on self-improvement, *3:33*
7) You have no expectations, *4:06*
thank you for the timestamps! They help a lot especially when i dont want to watch the whole video and want to see certain parts
@@ahemahem8106 no problem bud 👍
Time traveler
@@riceball2854 You see three months too right??!!
@@theaclottttt yup
*0:36** •You take time seriously*
*1:09** •You embrace responsibility*
*1:42** •You respect every opinion*
*2:14** •You are incharge of your emotions*
*2:51** •Your career matters to you*
*3:32** •You focus on self improvement*
*4:07** •You have no expectations*
Hope this helps 🙂
THANK YOUUU
😃✨Thank you for posting this!!
Career not carrier but ye
I think I got most of these so far! 😄
lol I read “carrier” & thought to myself, “true, good phone signal makes a huge difference” 🤣
This showed me that I’m less mature than I used to be and I need to work that. Thank you for the knowledge!
exactly same!
Im gonna act like a baby when i get older
Same. I used to be on top of my game. Since COVID though it’s been a bit hard.
"you have no expectations"
This so righhtttt, Having high expect can end Up you being disappointing in the end
i have low expectations. To be able to look into comments without getting SEX BOTS EVERY FIVE SECONDS
Yes- i expect nothing at all at this point.
This video is funny because it made me realize how immature I am emotionally but yet I don’t act how people would think of immature people as because of trauma. I am in the middle. I know I am not wise but I am a wise fool.
Same !!
I agree with all the points except taking time seriously. Not everyone who is more mature than others is that way naturally, no some people are forced to be mature by brutal experiences and are shown the unfiltered bitter reality of the world. For us who are more mature than others, taking time seriously is not done. We are depressed, traumatized and desperate for feeling anything other than grief, sorrow, anger and numbness. It's not that we don't want a healthy routine it's that we can't do anything when our mind is dead set on reliving all the painful memories and experiences that our heart desperately tries to bury. We are constantly in battle, a war to feel normal, to feel whole. it's not easy and time and mindless routines just don't have the importance in our dark worlds. And I think that most people who are mature than others had a boost that made them that way. Be it a mild depression or a past severe suicide attempt once you get a taste- however small that may be- of the darkness you can't revert back to the carefully crafted ignorance and nonchalance our society lives in.
#7 is something I've been saying for YEARS. I have low expectations of oncoming events or tasks. That way, im not surprised by the worst case scenario, but over-joyed by even the slightest unexpected positivity.
Hopefully that doesnt make me sound like a pessimist, I love everything I have and do. Just, I expect little and am pleased by positive outcomes.
1. Respect time.
2.Responsibilities
3. Respect others opinions
4.you are in charge of your emotions
5.Your career matters to you.
6.focus on self improvement .
7.you have no expectations.
You take time seriously ❎
You embrace responsibility ❎
You respect every opinion ✅
You’re in charge of your emotions ✅
Your career matters to you (Lol, I’m just 13)
You focus on self-improvement ✅
You have no high expectations from others ✅
Technically your career should be your studies then.
You've come a long way so far. 👍
@@ZeroZmm Hmm, yeah. Then I'd say: at certain times-it does matter, however, other times-not so much.
@@greatwavefan397 Thank you!
My insecurities stunted my ability to mature, watching this video helped me focus on what I need to fix about myself thank you!!
I do not have huge expectations of anyone, i respect people's opinions (as long as they are not awful/rude-) and i do want to focus more on my self improvement, even though i don't think i can do that-
I feel the same way man, I'm also looking for self improvements as well. And that's also good that you respect people's opinions.
@Jalesa Nina bruh.
@@menacekplayz3975 its a bot
I can relate with all the signs you've mentioned above , thanks for making me realise that I'm more mature than others 😌🤗
My father had all 7 of the more mature points. But life was not easy, neither for him. I loved him very much. Thanks too to Psych2go for the beautiful and helpfull video´s. Cheers!
Well the harder life is the more mature you’re going to be. That’s just how it. works.
In my experience, a great sign of maturity is taking good care of pets. The people who take good care of their
pets tend to be more organized and mature. Those who neglect their pets and plants are often childish and difficult to work with.
I can agree on that to a point. For one thing, I'm not a green thumb at all xD And sometimes I get too overwhelmed or too depressed, up to where it's even a struggle to take care of myself. Of course, it doesn't stop me from filling up my pets' food bowls; it's just a bit harder for me to do the simplest of tasks.
I take care of my pets by..not having any..
I work 12 hours a day and get home super tired, I know I'd neglect giving them the love I'd hope I would.
Or maybe I can get something less complicated, like fish~
Uhh I don't have pets...so what am i..?
When I was living my life as a full teenager who's 16 with autism, I've always keep wondering if I'm ever maturing then I thought in life, but then later on, as I was going through very hard times such as cyber bulling and getting threats or what ever it was, I was avoiding it as much as I can while I was shaking in terror or just down right tried. But then moments later a video pops or a notifications and I see this and clicked on it as fast as I could to see if I was really maturing, turns out I was or most of the questions were right. Thanks for making this video Pysch2Go have a great weekend and December.
you'll get through this, don't let it get to you it's just meaningless words and giving them meaning is unnecessary stress for you. it will get better because you are strong enough to make it that. stay safe kid!
y i relate with everyone!😦😯
@@tatethetottle Thanks man, I appreciate it.
I disagree on certain aspects of the definition of 'maturity'. The definition of the word is to act in a very well mannered way (behave, be there for a workplace that might be exhausting, be on time for anything, etc). That definition can lead people to be extremely hard on themselves if they have a mental breakdown, or if they are late by accident. Though did you know there are different types of maturity. Some may be emotionally mature while some are spiritually for a few examples. To demonstrate, someone may be in charge of emotions while not believing in spiritual aspects of life and vice versa.
This is coming from someone who was obsessed with psychology and philosophy since I was a child. It's those two things that I love to learn and have a smile on my face. Like when there was a science fair for my 8th grade class; I chose psychology while others chose experimental projects. A lot of people were surprised to see this 13 year old do a college/university level subject as a science fair project.
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Actually agree with you and your thoughts are insightful on this topic
thanks for sharing
*"If there is no struggle, there is no progress." - Frederick Douglass*
You should make a video on Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria, I have it and feeling out of control while also in control at the same time made me feel like i was going insane, and seeing RSD and the signs line up made me feel like I’m not alone, which I usually feel I am because of how uniquely I react and deal with things compared to others. My psychiatrist never even heard of RSD, and I feel awareness about it should be spread
Being disappointed isn't the same thing as immaturity. The contents of this video makes me question the maker's judgment.
Totally agreed.
i fr thought it could relate to this i mean it’s obvious i understand and know how to handle things better than others. but i’m definitely not mature but definitely know how to manage things better than others. i also try to ignore my responsibilities because it stresses me out but i do try
I literally take notes from these videos for myself. 💕💕😂
i would argue that maturity is realizing that any way you choose to spend your time is beautiful because you are the reason you are alive, and any way that you choose to live is acceptable
*"Incredible change happens in your life when you decide to take control of what you have power over instead of craving control over what you don't." - Steve Maraboli*
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The one I really need to work on is the expectations from others. I hold myself to a high standard and kind of do that with others. I expect timely responses, kindness and a general respect of myself and others from other people. That isn't realistic and I need help learning how to lower my expectations from others.
Of course it's realistic. You're describing basic human decency. Not expecting that from others would mean you had poor boundaries. Don't lower your standards just because the world is full of people who don't give a damn. Hold out for those friends who display decent behaviour and lessen contact with those who constantly display disrespectful behaviours.
This video told me more clearly how immature I am. Currently I had 1 out of 7 points. How to develop others more effectively
Currently I am broken with emotional pain and guilt
Some signs I've had of maturity:
You take time seriously, 0:37 - I'm NOT AFRAID to take the time to do the things I need to do.
I have this feeling that if I CARED MORE I would ACHIEVE LESS, which can seem pretty counterintuitive to people, but it can only feel so backward if I already have the strong belief that if I put time and effort into something, I will have achieved more. So, I feel like any further reiteration of that fact would lead to a lot of anxiety (See if the same thing is happening to you).
Sometimes, CARING LESS can help you ACHIEVE MORE.
Sometimes when you are hesitant to take responsibility, sometimes it's smarter to reiterate to yourself the primary function of the human brain rather than how important it is for your PRACTICAL LIFE to handle your responsibilities (You have both a practical and spiritual life). This is so that you'll look at your brain as your own tool rather than your slave master.
So, simultaneously,
You embrace responsibility, 1:09
You respect every opinion without taking any of them as an attack on your character, 1:43
You are in charge of your emotions, 2:14
Your career matters to you, but not too much, 2:51
You focus on self-improvement, 3:33
You have no expectations, 4:06
Interesting topic :D
I may not be emotionally more mature, but I am most definitely mentally more mature.
love the thumbnail!! immediately thought of the Monopoly guy 😂
i find so much comfort in these videos (especially the voice overs) but every time i get called out i’m just like •_•
Firstly love yourself trust urself belive in urself and speak for ur self if u do this things then no one can't break you💜 whoever reading this have a good day🤗
I'm very immature and sensitive, I'm probably just like this in front of others because of trauma
Same lol
Everyone, I am proud that you still made it until today. Y'all are strong people and the fact that you opened your eyes this morning, is an accomplishment. I am proud of ya'll.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Your voice is so soothing😌
I am mature when others are involved, but unfortunately not so much when it's just myself. I hope I can do better in the future since I am quite young
True older people always act like a child while a kid needs to understand and talk to thr elder properly
I hate it 😑
Seek God while you still can, the King is on his way th-cam.com/video/MGqCrbjH0pA/w-d-xo.html
People say that I'm mature then my age.. and i think that's my speciality and I'm grateful for that.. I've experienced the things at teen shouldn't.. mental trauma and other stuff... But you know i understand people and I'm a good listener.. being mature is not being mean ignoring and disrespecting other.. it's bout being understanding grateful kind sweet respectful and alert. Why alert? Bcoz you have to know when and how to act you know how people are and how to be distend with them.. you treat yourself better than before.. you start loving yourself.. that what makes you mature
what i do
-take time seriously
-respect every opinion (unless it hurts certain people)
-i am in charge of my emotions
-taking my job seriously (even hating to)
-no expectations
This channel has really helped me get through my hard times and challenges.
Also the one thing I regret in life is not trying something new
I think I agree on these points, but they require something beyond my capacity to do them well.
My dealing with said situations is Asking for Help.
My mom keeps on telling me Im too "mature" in the way i think and act. Maybe its because I've been sleep deprived or the fact I have been the perfect prodigy kid you keep on flaunting to your friends. All the love ive gotten from is just that you praise me in front of your friends. You cant even breastfeed me and you tell me you love me. You literally went to another country to work, then only come back to get stuck in debt and you party like some teenager forgetting the fact you have three children. You cant even buy me underwear. I would pretend im sick just to get attention and would be happy with the fact im inside the hospital. You tell me i should open up to you but all you do is twist my words and gaslight me saying "i have a reason" no. What you are doing is wrong. Listen to me and just accept you're wrong. Dont expect me to be a disciplined daughter because you did not discipline me. You tell me not to compare you to other mothers but im just asking the bare minimum. My classmates dont want anything to do with their parents but im here, wanting to spend time with you. I go out of my way to filter my mouth to things you want to hear, just so that you would talk to me. When you and dad were in a fight you refused to take care of your own son who was just 3 months old. Everything i say and do has to be planned out because your fragile little ego cant handle being corrected. I hate you so much but im keeping it together because i love my siblings. I want them to experience a normal childhood that i never got. Even though my sister had always been the favorite its not her fault. Its your fault mother. Accept that youre wrong. I still cant believe Im just 12 years old. Not even a teen yet.
I'm sorry you're in such a bad situation. Does your school teacher know the things that happen at home? You should tell them if they don't know already. You and your siblings may get some help then. Sending you love and strength.
@@dreamer6943 thank you so much for your concern about me and my siblings. I really appreciate it. And thankfully my grandparents from my fathers side are the ones taking care of us three. My grandma is the only person i share with and i just wanted to share my situation here. I am in a good situation now. Again thank you so much for caring.
This girl's voice is beyond amazing!!
POV: You came here if you're mature
This was the video I've been waiting for
On the other hand, I'm the exact opposite of this :crying emoji:
it’s okay just be urself
At least you're self-aware. That's better than most people who think they're more mature than they are.
Adulting can be hard but our maturity can be fun and the lessons we learn fulfilling if we are willing.
I just love the "keep the drama on stage" i love i even took a screenie.
Last one is the best! 😊
Unless someone doesn't disregard or disrespect someone's opinions just for the sake of proving themselves right, I will accept it even if it doesn't stand by my values.
My "maturity" is probably just trauma response..
I think 7 should be changed to realistic expectations. Having no expectations leads you to be taken advantage of.
Love the illustrations :3
I am neither mature nor immature according to psych2go videos
Exactly same
It doesn't matter, as long as you are saved th-cam.com/video/MGqCrbjH0pA/w-d-xo.html
I agree with no. 3 (listening to everyone's opinion) and no. 7 (keeping no expectations from others) myself. I also want to do the other 5 but find it difficult to encourage myself to.
From: Xavier This is Very informative and also pretty understanding if you ask me Because I always do my best to Pray whenever I'm in trouble.
I can relate to not having high expectations of people… but so does everyone else.
I love the drawing styles these videos have; they’re soooo fun!
It is true that is better to have no expectations of others.It is however easier said than done.It really is painful when you find out that you cannot count on people that you thought you could.That is one of life’s lessons.
I’m gonna use these tips to help myself be more mature
Thanks!
These videos are so spot on!! And yes her voice is relaxing 😌 ☺
I already thought I was more mature, thanks for confirming, all 7
With this soothing sounding voice, please consider guided meditations 🙏 I'd fully hit zen mode listening to your voice
These signs really define my life when I was in the process of changing majors after volunteering at a business that helped shaped my character. I'll be able to finally graduate by the end of this school year.
Don’t confuse timid docile behavior with true maturity
thank you for this video💖
loved the art!
I'm mature mentally and emotionally. when it comes to talking to adults I tend to hold long conversations with them. I'm only 14.😂
true like my peers are so distant from me but when I am talking to some adults, I find some of them quite relatable
you also have an assassins creed pfp, no respect
@@evojnicholas1020 Agreed
Sameee
@@evojnicholas1020 One time, I had to talk in the girls' group at church because I got tired of telling jokes with the guys.
This was a great video and I'm losing my mind.
Excellent💯💯👏👏
Her voice is so relaxing
Fascinating
Great video.❤️
I really have no expectations of others, but I have many expectations of myself
Noooooo, I am the most mature person in the world and I am nothing this video says... this is wrong, I'm telling mom
Thank you 😊💖
I do prefer to compare myself to how I was yesterday, not to other people
Hola loved it Psych2Go♡
Keep spreading psychology :")
Psych2Go must be psychic. Friend of mine called me childish and immature yesterday, while they claimed that they've grown up. In the end, I told them that I wasn't going to argue with them, and it was silent treatment after that. Not responding to any more of my messages (shrug). During that argument, while I said to my friend that I disagree with what they were saying, I was acknowledging their opinion too. I ALMOST lost my temper, but I stopped and said to myself, "What would it make me if I were to argue with them?" So instead of calling them out, I said that I was done arguing. And the argument was over something real stupid to get mad over. I simply didn't match their opinion, and their standards of what's maturity to them.
I take responsibility of what's my own, I learn from mistakes in order to self-improve, and I've been trying my best to not let my emotions rule me. I hold little expectations of anyone. I expect people to be punctual though because I take that very seriously. I can't stand people who are late all the time. Also, as long as they're not being jerks, I respect their opinion, if harmless.
The exact same thing happened to me lol
@@brainy717 Fun, isn't it?
@@arcanesiren629 yes it is fun
I love the inside out
my family situation made me so mature at such a young age i can relate to all these sings !!
I got 3,4,5,6,7. Gonna put some effort in the first two and try to improve.
You know what, I’m lucky to be alive. There are so many opportunities where I could have died, but here I am, the fact that I wake up every morning is a miracle. I don’t think a lot of people realise that at 21. No, I haven’t had a health scare or car accident, but just think of all the kids in the world that don’t make it to their first birthday, or their fifth, all the people that die of starvation or disease, all the women who die in childbirth. We are honestly so lucky in the West that we get to live in comfort and have long lives.
As someone who is viewed as more mature, mentally (way I think) and emotionally (way I deal with emotions; mine and others), I am often perceived to being doing okay when I am anything but. My ability to be aware and own my emotions is perceived as me not having "major" problems. Others tend to put me on a pedestal and treat me like I couldn't possibly need their help. Irony is, it is the same treatment given to someone that is not cared about and thrown into a pit to be ignored. Neither receive basic human dignity. Neither are a reason to take action. At best, they are a side affect of other actions taken.
The pedestal is a very lonely place.
Having high expectations of someone is what led to the phrase "never meet your heroes" 😶😐😑
I relate heavily to 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, and 7. I am terrible at time management. I value it, so basically, I'm constantly stressed about wasting time and to relieve that stress I waste time. I really should be working instead of watching TH-cam right now...
Im glad i can relate all of these, :D
5 1/2 /7 I take time seriously but tend to not be able to manage it due to mental issues and I embrace some responsibility’s not all my mental capacity is not large enough
thank you Psych2Go for the video!
Some opinions are not worthy of respect. Some things are not subjective
Who am I, if I run from responsibilities, but not from taking them, but from getting them. I try not to be responsible of too much, but if I am already responsible of something - I will take it with all seriousness, and do my best to get everything people want me to do, done.
Thanks but a guy such a ME doesn't belong in this world anymore.. I had the habit or maybe diseases of thinking I'm dead. I dunno,When I was in large crowd haha I don't know why,I just feel I'm a ghost,or a walking corpse,or a rotten flesh. And everyone avoids me. They said I'm handsome but I actually underestimate myself because I'm clinically dead in my own universe
1. You don't obssess over anime'.
2. Your hair is a natural human color.
3. You don't reference anime' or video game characters in video comment sections.
4. You see school as a means to an end and not a dodge for real life.
5. You know that ALL politics (OK 98.9%) is wrong, evil and mostly harmful.
6. You realize that money is only a means to an end.
7. You realize the importance of kindness and courteousness but don't use them as an excuse to avoid being truthful.
Artistic expression ≠ Immaturity
Depends on the situation, but I get it.
“Keep the On the Drama Stage”
@Yee It's what it looks like the thumbnail says. To me, anyway.
Your voice is so calm! I love watching your videos
Listen typically since I am this do not really strive for all of this but be sure to put in effort but it really is a power struggle between you and others