TOO YOUNG FOR THIS!: Miracle Hardy v Isaiah Hewlett
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 3 เม.ย. 2023
- Miracle's in court today, at the advice of her mother, to end the relationship with her cheating boyfriend, Isaiah. Isaiah wants to salvage his relationship and save his family.
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Tip to all you young ladies: If he’s “ in the studio” don’t get pregnant by him!😏
If he has a black parent but most definitely two of them according to statistics it’s not a good idea either 🤷🏾♀️🥴
That part !! 😂
Or when a dude says “I’m a provider. I give what I can” 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🤣🤣😂
Exactly
Bingo!
Perfect example of just because you got a baby together don’t mean y’all need to be together
Also, a perfect example of why birth control is so important.
@@neededtobesaid4275birth control doesn’t work all the time just like getting your tubes tied doesn’t work all the time. The best way is no sex.
But facts. I had to tell my daughter father to go find someone that will make him happy bc all I will do is cheat on him.
@@Idk-hy9zkBut no sex is unrealistic for ppl who want to have sex lol
@@Idk-hy9zkthis comment right here is the one for me
I'm glad she realized this at 20 instead of sticking out and hoping for the best and thinking he'll change.
She has learned nothing.
Me too. I hope she took the judges advice. Mr Hewlett has some very narcissistic tendencies to work through too. He needs to change that before he "prays" for another baby.
@@NotYourTypicalNegrolol!
@@NotYourTypicalNegro agreed lol
@@ruthlynaaron6725 they both are clueless.
Can we commend her mother?! Very rare to see a parent who is fair, objective and supportive.
Yes indeed, we need more like her 💯
Is it?? That's all I've ever known. The only experiences I've ever had. I just think the others are so outrageous that it overshadows the good. But I guess it's all about the company you keep 🤷🏾♀️
@@ebbyf294 You’re blessed to have that. I think it’s very rare to have parents of the older generation like this. But I think the younger generation is turning it around.
@@ruthlynaaron6725 her mother did not have that talk... Birth control.....none of this is commendable.
@@VeronicaJohnson-yn1cr we don't know whether she had the talk with her daughter or not as none of us were there. What I admire is the fact that she isn't conducting herself like a lot of the mothers we see on the show. Also the fact that she's not condoning the behaviour of either party.
He is not doing what he needs to do if she loses a job because he’s not watching the baby smh
Yeah that 's where I lost respect for him
Exactly I hate when try to say they are active fathers but they "help" with the kids 🙄
He acts like he’s doing her a favor by taking care of a baby he helped make. Babies having babies, smh…🙄
Exactly... I hate hearing guys say that they help with the kids
In the words of grandpa “Just cause your legally grown don’t mean your ready to be grown
Amen
This is what it looks like when you’re trying to be grown
You must be grown cause this was the best response
@@creamekay all of 32 grown ass man beloved 😂
Yup
Of course, pal, of course
She's a child that made an error, we've all been there
This is why I tell my daughter to live your life and don’t worry about being in a relationship right now in your early 20s. It takes young males a long time to grow up and they will only stress you out. Get your life together in your 20s because a man will always be there , no rush to be with them. I feel so bad for this young lady.
Same for the 30s too
Same for the 40's🤣
You can get married and/or serious in early 20s . Whatever you want ,do it
The truth is age is just a number. Im 24 and i have 0 dates, 0 relationships and 0 kids because i asked girls out to get to know them, but they constantly lied to me and disappeared on me. Thats why i cant trust them. Which makes me feel empty inside and ugly everyday. Nothing will change in my 30s later on.
@@geovoniejohnson4853 don't even trip about that shit fam just be you all the time dnt change for no body
That was frustrating. He had the perfect opportunity to make a promise to be the man she needed, but all he did was talk about his own needs. Saying "you know I love you" isn't going to confirm anything for her. They're both far too young and he, especially, has some growing up to do.
what do you expect from a 22 years old man. lol
@@michaele5588 the same thing a twenty-year-old woman would do. Stop making excuses.
@@serious7179 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I didn’t expect anything else I have been have been there had 3 daughters with the same type of person only he added drugs and couldn’t stay out of prison. I am hoping she took the judge’s advice. I love judge star she is amazing and 100% right based off the experience I’ve been through. I understand he’s 22 but he’s a narcissist. I would recommend she gets counseling, speak with a counselor, and move on. It’s soooo painful I know I was there. Excuses don’t need to made for his age he needs to help with that baby. Should’ve wrapped it up and not pray for something he’s not going to be responsible for emotionally and financially. Why should it all be on her
@@Passion85031 you're absolutely right I picked up on that narcissism the moment he said "I'm the father of her child" almost like he was sure she'd never leave him. It always annoys me how, when a young woman has a child, she's expected to grow up, but not the "man".
They are both seriously too young and immature. There are always exceptions to the rule, but in this case, it's plain as day this is a classic case of kids having a kid.
The truth is age is just a number, not a factor.
He is delusional and lazy. Then he tried to make it seem like her story about being fired was all a lie because he takes care of his daughter. Smh he serves no purpose
He serves no purpuse indeed! What a deadbeat!
HE'S A CHILD AND SO IS SHE.
She’s gotta leave him
Anybody, running to the club every weekend, and texting other women, while laying in bed with you, is not interested in a committed relationship, he is still acting like a high school teenager, who wants to be single, how much more disrespect, and dishonesty does she need to witness, SHE SHOULD STOP BEING A DOORMAT AND KICK HIM TO THE CURB 😡
I did.
@@AHennaGrace Thank God! Now you can go live your best life being truly happy, joyful, and give that baby the same! You go girl!!
Chillllee, put your Nikes on & RUNNN! 🏃🏽♀️ Don’t waste your 20s waiting on him to get it together
You deserve better. There is someone out there who will love you and support you with your baby.
"I'm her baby's father. She's stuck with me." 🤔🤔🤔🤔😔
I caught that. He's giving very passive aggressive vibes 🤔
Smh so frustrating
That was very telling to his personality. I immediately felt bad for her. He’s pretty much telling her to deal with it.
He is ridiculous
That's a remark that's very concerning she needs to run and fast
She made me cry when she said, "You know I never had a Dad growing up. My Dad passed away. It's hard for me. That's why I'm so hard on you." Even though my Dad is still alive, he was never there for me so I know how painful that is. The absence of a father leaves a hole in a woman's heart.
The absence of a father leaves even a larger hole in sons. They too have to "figure out" if they are going to be like daddy or find a mentor or look around for how a relationship work from someone else. I was that type of guy. I date women in intact homes where the dad was part-provider, nuturer, disciplinarian, information source. And I dated young women where there dads were absent. Both were good people, but I learned from those dads that stuck around. I learned the grass can be greener on the other side, but just not taste the same. Most likely, the grass on the other side is too sweet, that like candy, if you eat too much of it, you can get sick. Players that don't know the rules, get played.
She better leave while she still can before one baby turns into two or three babies, feeling stuck trapped and struggling for real
She may carry the same mindset then there's goes multiple bds
This is why kids need to enjoy their youth before making kids. It is always best to wait as long as you can for intimacy, especially without protection.
I am enjoying my youth. But I don't want to have kids. 1. Cuz I know I ain't shit. 2. Because being single and not having to take care of a woman and kids is easier.
Yes, we should teach our children both boys and girls to not have sex until marriage.
I personally don't believe that age has anything to do with marriage. I believe there's not enough knowledge on marriage, what to expect, choosing the right partner, conflict resolution, etc.
@@Que772a
@@Que772age definitely has to do with marriage
He didn't say ANYTHING about being the man she needs. He said what he thought she wanted to hear and not what she needed to hear.
He said he wasn't leaving there without her....yet he walked out of court alone.
He's dangerous....he is not taking no for an answer....She's stuck with me? I can see him in the news doing something crazy...smh
Yeah, the way he said, "I ain't leaving here without her" concerned me. I pray they can co-parent without any violence.
You can tell she's grown tremendously since becoming a mother. She's thinking logically now and strong enough to use her head over her heart walking away and cutting her losses early instead of wasting her best young years... He's going to live to regret not catching up to her growth.
He could've at least gotten the baby while she was trying to make money to bring into the home since he's not providing. Makes no sense he was home and still didn't help. This young lady is calm, gentle, beautiful, and completely reasonable - she's not asking for too much; she's just asking for the basics. He needs to get a clue, and fast!
Thank you so much ❤
He’s crazy to even say she is STUCK with him…… BOY GOODBYE! First baby father isnt a real true title in someone’s life……..
First baby father this some ratchet stuff
Man, I was having fun and enjoying life at their age.
Riiiiight & at 33 still IS!!!!!
@@ariamarshall5161 I know that's right
I’m her age !! And Chile I’m doing me and university 😂😂
@@lehnaxxo5450 LOOL
lmaooo like I was really living a nonsensical lifestyle back then. Eating hot pockets at 3 am and doing hoodrat things with my friends. The last thing in the world I wanted to do was pray for a baby with someone's tired and unemployed son. 🤣
How hard is it to stop texting other women and spend time with his daughter?
It’s one thing to change diapers and hold babies when they are crying but when they are content they need attention as well.
Hope he gets a mentor that can help him understanding what she is asking for.
They're 20 lol. It's very hard to probably stop texting other people at that age when your hormones are raging. No excuse, but that's the reality. They signed up for something they were not ready for.
He doesn’t take any accountability. He just keeps saying “you know how much I do”- clearly she’s not happy or they wouldn’t be here! SMH!
His reaction to her saying that she wants out scared me.
It’s even harder having a man there, that’s contributing nothing. Let it go! You ,can do bad ,all by yourself, why do you need this man!
Amen
How about picking a suitable partner instead of you can do bad all by yourself.
The hardest part was choosing to have a baby with this man. She made that decision "all by herself"!
Star dropped a subtle word about shame, government assistance & it being a launch 4 life.🚀
She’s got an apartment with the support of government assistance and he’s just living there. No help with utilities, or if there is an additional amount to pay for housing. This poor girl needs to get him out.
“Helping her out with the baby”
That’s what 22 year old guys do, party and go out. Too many young folks jump in the bed before truly knowing someone. Babies raising babies
I whole heartedly agree. But there are a few that step up. My son had his daughter at 22 and he works two very good jobs to make sure she wants for NOTHING. He know I don’t play them games. Not the idle life I wanted for him but he put on his big man boxers and bossed up. Their lights are definitely paid…
This was a real case and not some acting from people trying to build their following...More like this please. I wish the young lady and her baby the best.
My momma always use to say people are gonna do what they really want to do. You can’t beg nobody to want to be committed to you whether you’re 22 or 52 . At this point it’s all about the baby and self preservation.
I never ever comment on videos but omg I’m so proud of her telling him what she needed ik it was hard and I’m just so glad she has a good head on her shoulders and she uses her brain and knows that he just might never change
She needs to leave and be a happy, whole human being. Make sure she lets him see his baby, but leave for her own sanity and peace.
I'm so grateful God saved me from fornication. We men need to repent and value our purity more. ✝
Amen...and woman also..
@@jesussaves222 I say we men need to value our purity first. We are the leaders. Women will follow.
They are both young and in over their heads 😢 wishing them both well moving forward 🥰
The truth is age is just a number, not a factor.
“She’s stuck with me”
He sound crazy as hellllll
They are too young period for this relationship. They have to grow up alone first and experience life
The truth is age is just a number, not a factor. Im 24 and ive never been in a relationship because girls lied to me and disappeared on me after i asked them out and them asking me out years ago, thats why i cant trust them.
he purposely trapped her with a baby , that was made clear when he said she can’t leave we have history I’m her first baby’s father. 😅 also planning a child with someone you aren’t married to or cannot financially support is insanity…
She trapped herself. He didn't rape her! Seems like they both planned the baby and now she regrets her poor decision making! She mad herself look good in court but BOTH of them messed up.
@@neededtobesaid4275 trapping someone is purposely getting someone pregnant or making sure someone gets you pregnant to keep that person restrained to you. He did that , and proved that in court. The part where I said “also planning a child with someone…” was referring to her . & to me she didn’t look good in court just looked better than him they both looked like dumb fools cause I’m in their age group and so is my little brother and wouldn’t dare blame our age on this amount of stupidity they presented to the judge nor would our parents co-sign the foolishness.
Why do people go on this show when they are not married, therefore, no need for a divorce, just walk away.
He is NOT wanting to grow up and do what is necessary to properly take care of a child. He doesn't seem to even care to take care of himself. He's looking for help. He needs to go back and live with his parents. Somewhere that he can either loaf, or learn how to become an adult. He knows she is a good young lady. I hope they can get a plan together for that baby.
My daughter worked from home with 2 toddlers. As a customer call representative you do get angry customers who don’t want to hear your children in the background!
And you get miserable people who have no remorse. She was silly to tell him she was dealing with something but the customer went to far.
I’m not angry and I still don’t want to hear your children in the background
Lawd baby go home with your non then go to te chid support ppl to help you
Anytime a person say, " I ain't perfect ", all the low down stuff they do is about to come to the light.
I absolutely hate when parents, especially fathers say they "help" with their own children.
Sir you're not doing a favour to the mother/your partner, you're being a parent.
Same with helping with the house, you live there.
This kind of phrasing is partly why people are confused about what marriage and parenting is about.
They’re too young seriously.
The truth is age is just a number, not a factor.
He needs to STOP Already! 🙄
They made a hard bed in life. Now they have to deal with it
Another single mother having to depend on the government for assistance. It's sad. They both are to young to have all of these issues. They should be in college, having fun with friends, living their lives, instead of playing house. They're old enough to know and use birth control and condoms. He need to step up and take care of his child, because this guy isn't going to be faithful. He's young. They should have thought about this before being intimate with each other. Just sad overall.
I was in school and I graduated. I’m good and so is my child, but thanks for your concern. Be blessed.❤
She is beautiful 😍❤. She needs to leave and let him go. Go home young lady. Get a degree or good job young lady. Your mom loves you.
Judge Jones and Ms. Caudle gave Ms. Hardy, positive advice. They did not belittle her and make feel worst than what she all ready is feeling. Ms. Hardy, will make a wonderful life for her daughter and herself. She should stick with her co-parenting plan for now. All the best for both parents and their daughter in the future.
ooh Lawd. that first love will break you down!
Helping her out with the baby?!! How about just taking care of your baby?!! How does a father "help"? Let a mom say that and she'll be called all kinda names lol
This is the reason why you date, especially in your teens and 20s, you learn who you are. He said they prayed about having a baby. You can't force someone to grow up before they're ready. They took on responsibilities they were not prepared for, they were playing house. He is doing what 20 year olds do, play, have fun, date. They really don't know what having a baby and family really means. PROTECTION PROTECTION PROTECTION!
Just cause you pregnant and have a dream, DOES NOT mean anything for the record
She will be pregnant again in a year! He’s already planning it.
He’s nothing more than a man child. He could care less. Leave and don’t look back, just parenting. He is ridiculous
These boys think if you have their baby you stuck with them for life! He’s going to change
Yes, stuck with them for 18 years co- parenting.
He adds no value to her life, complete waste of time
Yes sometimes when we are innocent and honest to others dreams do make us aware of sinister behaviors.Gods way of looking out for you and making you aware.
Awe she's so cute, I hope she finds happiness 🙏💪❤️
Hopefully, she doesn't think that being "so cute" is going to solve her problems.
Full time mom 25/8 🤣🤣🤣
What’s funny about that ?
Help me on this 😂
i agree....funny as fuck😅😅
I think she meant MORE than 24/7.
@@_meiko000 think hard about it and maybe you’ll get what she meant
20 and 22… they caused this on themselves. At 20… I was very far away from thinking about creating a family with any lil boy. They weren’t even serious enough. Expecting them to be a man and they aren’t ready.
Facts!!! Furthest thing from my mind
I would love to know what happened after they left the courtroom. Does anyone have an update on that?
I’m 20 and this is definitely an eye opener, keep you head up high my love
And it’s selfish to think it’s all his fault. She’s not mature enough for all this.
She may not be, but her being thrust into being a mom forces her to mature even faster than usual
Nope. These last few episodes have been some foolishness. These young boys are triflin (as most young boys are) and these girls are too beautiful to put up with disrespect and emotional abuse. I know people don’t look at it this way, because the infidelity is not about the other partner. But infidelity can trigger so many negative feelings. And if this happens over and over the PTSD can impact more than just the effected party. It can change all the relationships in the person’s life. If a person can’t be with one person. Don’t. But don’t lie. To yourself or others
Let's not give her too much credit because she's "beautiful". That has NOTHING to do with anything. She allowed herself to get pregnant by a "trifling" young boy and now has to deal with it for at least 18 years.
PTSD? That term is thrown around way too loosely. I would love to trade my ptsd from a violent crime for infidelity. Omg sooooo dumb
@@aliciacarstensen7904 I’m sorry you went through something that has caused you to be in fear, or triggered or to relive the event. Infidelity can absolutely cause PTSD. I know.
@@RobinZK67 interesting
If you ask a man for his plans to change and do better for you and what those plans look like... and he opens with "You know what it is."
RUN! RUN AWAY AS FAST AS YOU CAN! Cause all he gon do is talk talk talk.
If you work from home, take you kid to a babysitter. You can't watch you kid and work at the same time. If so, it's unprofessional.
He's so possessive. She is telling him how she feels, and he is telling her NO that's not true.
Show this episode in every junior high. Thank you Judge Star.
Poor child doesn’t know the definition of clairvoyant.
Been there done that. Yes it's hard but hunni push & you'll make it. You can't force no man to be a man especially a little boy. He has to want to. You're betta off on your own & NEVER let a man tell you he don't want you more than once. It's actions not words! Watch that baby during the day or night & go to school on opposite times. Let your mom help or other trust worthy folk. And use protection. If you can't afford to take care of yourself don't have no babies just to struggle.
They're young, they'll be already. Lesson learned... hopefully.
I don’t understand why people can’t be in relationships without having children. You can’t expect a child to have the qualities of a grown up. People need to learn that there in more to a relationship then just sex smh
"I made a lot of mistakes". That's the death sentence for ANY relationship. One mistake? That's somewhat understandable. Two mistakes? Well....Some people take a long time to mature. But if the person keeps repeating the same mistake over again, then a break-up is necessary. Sometimes old chemistry grow old. Old chemistry needs to be refreshed every day. As an almost 40 year married man, marriage is work and reward, work and reward....it doesn't stop. Every candidate for marriage should know this ahead of time.
He trapped her. Despite what people think, a lot of men purposely impregnate women. Not because they want to marry/be with them forever but because they want to hold them back and always have access to them.
They want you until they get you ...
I love Judge Star. She gives the best advise..
This is what happens when you don't use birth control
Or when birth control fails…and you don’t choose abortion
That wasn’t a pregnancy dream. That was god
I’m happy she has her mom
20s, playing adulta Life, then a new Life , comes to the stage🎉
Where are these people's FATHER'S.
MEN need to speak up and get involved with modeling correct behavior. Addressing their sons and their daughters lovers.
Men call this trap “babymama privileges “ and he’ll be the same man throughout her daughter’s life
Prayed and planned for a baby at 20-21 what the hell?! These people really be out here just making kids just cause!! SMH.
You stuck with me…..LET THAT SIMMER.
Ole boy is controlling and a manipulator. He loving the fact he has someone who will flip over him. I feel that young lady NEVER had guidance along her journey. Just met and feel for the first one who gave her attention .
Put him on child support and move on.
Why is the judge acting like she's doing him a favor?
They are both young and immature. He can go get someone slimmer.
No he didn’t say “she’s stuck w/ me” oh girl RUNNNNNNNNNNNN
thats what the call baby trap. Our young women have to be smarter than that. in reality, she stuck with him for life via baby daddy.
He got her pregnant on purpose--definitely trapped her…”she’s stuck with me….I’m her first baby daddy…I’m not leaving here without her”. It’s giving Ive impregnated her and now i can do whatever i want, including cheating. Girl run!!!
Another broken home and single mother out there😣. I guess it's down to the State to be a step father.
and us to take care of them🎉
Yep!
How is women falling into this trap every time
@@youngodyssey16 people lie, one doesn’t get in a relationship and have kids with someone if they don’t plan on taking responsibility and stepping up. Clearly he put on and couldn’t come through with his words. Many people ,in this case men, do that. The best solution is to not have these men kids and have very high standards
@@youngodyssey16 Most men put their best foot forward first and then change after the relationship isnt new. Its crazy how MOST women have so many stories of aint shit men.....seems to indicate theres a lot of men who don't really know to be in relationships.
Young people think that being in this position, will cause them to change via a judge or other...the older we get and the wiser, we know when to walk away!
A 22year old man isn’t ready for a serious relationship/fatherhood. So if you fall into the temptation you have to go through that growth with him. Now you’ve got a baby so it becomes harder
chyle this exactly why abortion's should not be banned. cus im sure before she had that babie, the signs were there. and i know her mother told her. that aint no babie or piece of paper, goin keep or change a mane . but chyle i wouldn't want no babie that young. id like to enjoy my 20's 🤷♀️ not running behind no babie or a responsibility
he has no idea what he is talking about literally.
I love the Plaintiff Mother's Hair!👍
The 1 who's NOT paying the bills ALWAYS think the problems aren't that Big & they can be fixed. Truth is they just want more time to BS you. Move on
She tired of you! Go live and raise your baby.
In the words of Judge Lynn Toler “you must control your fertility”
He thinks she's "stuck" with him no matter what happens.
Unfortunately, for 18 years co parenting should he choose to participate in the child's life.
Babies having babies