Sadhguru on Arranged Marriages

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  • Are arranged marriages outdated and regressive or is there something about them that is relevant in today’s times? Sadhguru answers.
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  • @vishwasagarwal
    @vishwasagarwal 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2242

    There is a reason why I prefer listening to Sadhguru than watching Netflix ❤️

    • @Anu_agrwl
      @Anu_agrwl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Same !!!!!!

    • @Sumit-ch4ee
      @Sumit-ch4ee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Same

    • @parthsood3039
      @parthsood3039 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Netflix is for people without beliefs. Who trust their own experiences than the wisdom of their ancestors.

    • @maliksy7746
      @maliksy7746 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Right

    • @psinghtk100
      @psinghtk100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me too

  • @Shivavishnubrahma
    @Shivavishnubrahma 3 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    Netflix lol
    India is a different country
    You cannot look at india through west perspective or even a middle east perspective
    India is india

  • @arya5352
    @arya5352 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1624

    Success of marriage can't be measured by divorce rates. There are a lot of people who suffer in hiding.

    • @sreelekshmi7636
      @sreelekshmi7636 3 ปีที่แล้ว +135

      @Yogic Lady nop... What she is telling is truth...
      Even my mom and dad is not divorced but the are like completly two souls now..
      Just for sake of us children they are acting the role....like just to show society..
      So read correctly and comment

    • @samarpatel4173
      @samarpatel4173 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@sreelekshmi7636 ohh ! That's the tough way deal..
      But what do you think- divorce is better option.

    • @VivekSingh-ts1ec
      @VivekSingh-ts1ec 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@sreelekshmi7636 so are you expecting there should be no disputes between people? Well good luck with that. Also, what's with that soulmate thing?

    • @aishwaryasitaram2227
      @aishwaryasitaram2227 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Then love marriages are also no better... people are just people

    • @aishwaryasitaram2227
      @aishwaryasitaram2227 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@sreelekshmi7636 acknowledge and appreciate what your parents are doing for u ...it's about priorities... easier said than done

  • @Coolaayanshgames
    @Coolaayanshgames 3 ปีที่แล้ว +476

    It's never about arranged or love marriage, it's about finding the right person and elders respecting the choice of kids.

    • @august-bl1jh
      @august-bl1jh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      and kids respecting the choice of parents too

    • @agnivmajumdar215
      @agnivmajumdar215 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      So basically love marriage 😂

    • @stanman1985
      @stanman1985 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@august-bl1jh what? Read what you just said.

    • @august-bl1jh
      @august-bl1jh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@stanman1985 if its an arranged marriage, kids should respect the choice of parents is what i mean

    • @stranger_0007
      @stranger_0007 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@august-bl1jh I'm gonna marry not my parents. I choose.

  • @anusharma-fk1tf
    @anusharma-fk1tf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +993

    Those who get good partners for marriage at right time are luckiest person on this planet do you all agree with me.

    • @onlyhuman5669
      @onlyhuman5669 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      No.

    • @jaychoudhury1401
      @jaychoudhury1401 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      The crux of the this session bis not to search for The good person but be the Good person, so that whoever is your partner, you would conduct the relationship the best way you can.

    • @dhareshm6189
      @dhareshm6189 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      More than that one should be good partners instead of expecting others to be good.

    • @libraryofmoments
      @libraryofmoments 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Totally agree with you... bdw m also anu😀😊

    • @suzannebernert
      @suzannebernert 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ❤️

  • @namasteindian3538
    @namasteindian3538 3 ปีที่แล้ว +899

    After seeing 2 completely compromised marriages, one that of my parents' and the other of my brothers',I chose to marry a person i liked and still going strong for 21 yrs.(by God's grace)!

    • @GladiatorKingz
      @GladiatorKingz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Great

    • @vishnu108hari
      @vishnu108hari 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      arranged marriage is pure rubbish .

    • @filmymela4638
      @filmymela4638 3 ปีที่แล้ว +101

      My parents have had Arranged Marriage and it's going strong . So, your experience is not a universal experience. 🙏

    • @himanshugupta7933
      @himanshugupta7933 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      @@filmymela4638 ask your mother if she is happy. There is a very high percentage of chance that she isn't. If she truly is happy, then she is exception.

    • @vivekghodvinde
      @vivekghodvinde 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      @@himanshugupta7933 nobody is fully happy in any relationship. We all have flaws and we all try to make it work.
      Nothing is perfect. We must all embrace imperfections. Then and only I guess couples can have a long lasting marriage

  • @jatinlalwani8355
    @jatinlalwani8355 3 ปีที่แล้ว +718

    Reporting sexual offence is also very less in India. Does that mean it's not happening? Divorce rate is less doesnt imply marriages are working. People are concerned about their image in the society here in India. This is the reason why they don't file for divorce and refrain from reporting sexual offence.

    • @visnu3
      @visnu3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      even if it is underreported I don't think it can blow up to 90% like in some European countries

    • @sonja_rademacher
      @sonja_rademacher 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Jatin Lalwani That is a big problem. In China, too. Russia, too. In Russia, the police mostly doesn't help if a woman is beaten by her husband. And often women are beaten to death. Mankind has got to learn a lot...

    • @excuseme1911
      @excuseme1911 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Exactly.. People love living in delusion......The arrogance is strong

    • @excuseme1911
      @excuseme1911 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@sonja_rademacher here police will help the woman no doubt but women are ingrained to accept suffering...

    • @sonja_rademacher
      @sonja_rademacher 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @Super nova So then please explain why couples stay together even when they don't want children and don't have children?
      It makes me sad, that your mother and your father have not given you true, deep love.
      If parents don't give love to their children, the children are not able to feel love later in life.
      Believe me: Love exists. Everywhere.

  • @GS-um6ww
    @GS-um6ww 3 ปีที่แล้ว +305

    Key word willing to take *RESPONSIBILITY* ...there is chance to miss the word

    • @gautamudayabhanu7424
      @gautamudayabhanu7424 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bang on!❤️

    • @prashantmalla6060
      @prashantmalla6060 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I think the keyword is to make yourself Joyful human, if you are already unhappy expecting happiness from others (e.g from marriage) is not a sensible thing

    • @sunitalamba1394
      @sunitalamba1394 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Gautam Udayabhanu nn

    • @namrataagarwal3279
      @namrataagarwal3279 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes

  • @elpanchitoruso
    @elpanchitoruso 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    “Change happens in an instant. It happens the moment you decide to change.”

  • @surajverma-em5zp
    @surajverma-em5zp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    He khowns how to play with words
    But this is the powerful line "every marriage is arrange only que is by whom " thats right

  • @vinay3381
    @vinay3381 3 ปีที่แล้ว +290

    In India divorce rate is 1.5 percent because... Very less chance for women to get married for second time and many indian women are not independent... Otherwise India will also have good number of divorce rate... Nothing else

    • @bloggerblogg5878
      @bloggerblogg5878 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Exactly! finally, someone pointed out the reason right in this question. Thank you!!!!

    • @meeralakshmis5863
      @meeralakshmis5863 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      True that.

    • @idontshiplarryanymoreiship2716
      @idontshiplarryanymoreiship2716 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @Allie X nobody actually supports divorce. It's good if two are happy and satisfied in a relationship but if they're not, why stay in an unhappy marriage?

    • @excuseme1911
      @excuseme1911 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      @Allie X are you from India? Do you know how many people are forced to marry? My own friend is forced against her will and she's miserable.getting beaten by her husband but her parents don't care because they spent too much on the wedding ...this is the reality just in case you're living under a rock.stop watching American shows and see what's happening here

    • @idontshiplarryanymoreiship2716
      @idontshiplarryanymoreiship2716 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Super nova I have experienced love. So how can I accept it doesn't exist when i have felt it. It doesn't necessarily have to be a boy/girl. Can be the ones for your friends, family and yourself too 😌😌

  • @majorbhaskaranrb3624
    @majorbhaskaranrb3624 3 ปีที่แล้ว +282

    That women sounded like siri

    • @buddhvivekanand5651
      @buddhvivekanand5651 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Questioner was definitely a Christian or a Communist Hypocrite.

    • @shantanupandey5174
      @shantanupandey5174 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Allie X like aimim see wikipedia

    • @shantanupandey5174
      @shantanupandey5174 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Allie X I talk about party see his party ideology

    • @Vincent44483
      @Vincent44483 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      its ok , she have a well and clear accent than most of indian

    • @majorbhaskaranrb3624
      @majorbhaskaranrb3624 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nasska B That’s true. Indian accent is very thick and hard to understand

  • @prithvijmody2529
    @prithvijmody2529 3 ปีที่แล้ว +238

    summary :
    1. divorce rates in India are Considereably lower than other nations.
    2. every marriage is arranged, either my someone or by emotions or you.
    3. you need to be happy within yourself and only then enter a relationship, not compulsiveness.
    4. you need to marry the girl and nothing else, not her background or things that don't concern.
    5. usually parents make marriage with best interests in mind and a longer time frame

    • @lynn-qv2wg
      @lynn-qv2wg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      I think the divorce marriage rates in India has more to say about culture, traditions, and taboo in India rather than how well-arranged marriage works vs how well love marriage works.

    • @lakshyakumarjha7240
      @lakshyakumarjha7240 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      No 5 is debatable!

    • @creamyhora4005
      @creamyhora4005 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lakshyakumarjha7240 Absolutely

    • @praveerkumarmistry4665
      @praveerkumarmistry4665 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      But the thing is, in india divorce is unacceptable by the couples there is a constant fear of " what sociaty will think " that's one of the reasons of such a small rate of divorce cases in india

    • @JustMe54328
      @JustMe54328 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Ok, domestic violence rate?

  • @deepakbellur9676
    @deepakbellur9676 3 ปีที่แล้ว +423

    An old joke : 'You fall in love with a pair of eyes and end up marrying the whole person!"

  • @SyamaSivaprasad
    @SyamaSivaprasad 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    how joyfully Sadhguru explains and clarifies this matter of break ups, which is one of the major causes of immense pain and stress to almost half of the world's population.. thank you Sadhguru for always explaining even the hardest of matters (as the world perceives it to be), in a very simplified and humorous manner💖🕊️🙏

  • @phenom2012
    @phenom2012 2 ปีที่แล้ว +220

    I would prefer to be alone than be in a loveless, lifeless, ARRANGED marriage.

  • @aranyacockatiels6682
    @aranyacockatiels6682 3 ปีที่แล้ว +717

    Now 23 year old Netflix has become the platform to judge one of the ancient civilizations , indian traditions😂.

    • @rrr5_Finance2
      @rrr5_Finance2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      exactly

    • @ky8519
      @ky8519 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      What series was the lady talking about btw

    • @AyeBeeG
      @AyeBeeG 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      People have been criticizing arranged marriages for decades. Netflix just turned it into content and happens to be a western company that will question eastern ideology as well as western culture, don’t flatter yourself.

    • @aranyacockatiels6682
      @aranyacockatiels6682 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      @@AyeBeeG East doesnt need approval from west.Both should mind their ways..Dont flatter west over east..

    • @aranyacockatiels6682
      @aranyacockatiels6682 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @Ankita Pr You may be entitled to your opinion mam, but I dont agree with you ..

  • @prernakulkarni6759
    @prernakulkarni6759 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I don't understand how the success of a marriage is decided by the divorce rate of a country. In India a vast majority of people stay in bad marriages rather than getting a divorce and compromise on their health, happiness and life for the sake of preserving a marriage.

    • @tarmin1711
      @tarmin1711 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      There's nothing to understand, your bias is showing.

  • @palyada1
    @palyada1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I have been looking for the best explanation to respond to my non-indian friends about arranged marriages. This wisdom by Sadhguru is the best one of all, like everything else!

  • @Norahpaws
    @Norahpaws 3 ปีที่แล้ว +159

    Divorce rate low because people choose to suffer in a marriage rather than being judged by society. Arranged marriage is like neglecting ones right to choose his or her own mate. Its forced on them with out even realizing its forced. We have to give more importance to individuality

    • @enigma533
      @enigma533 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Who is forcing, they give atleast 6 months to one year time.... if ur love is pure, one day is more than enough... people who have broad minds will never face problem with arrange marriages, there are many suicides in love marriage as well...so think big

    • @janmejaypandey2424
      @janmejaypandey2424 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Individuality is now in the most compulsive state..So yess if you become truly aware then you are a conscious individual..In this state everything is taken care of.

    • @Mohittiwariji
      @Mohittiwariji 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      What you are saying is forced marriage, not arranged marriage. There is big difference.

    • @Norahpaws
      @Norahpaws 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Mohittiwariji read again to understand clearly

    • @Norahpaws
      @Norahpaws 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@enigma533 the entire system of arrange marriage is forced and conditioned

  • @cinnflowergirl
    @cinnflowergirl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    I can see how arranged marriage could work, especially because families are involved. In the US our families are too separate. But I think the percentage of divorce per country are just as reflective on how easy/hard it is to get a divorce in those countries. That cannot be separated from the equation.

    • @Effervescent_1212
      @Effervescent_1212 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      And low divorce rate is not an indicator of happy marriage. People here probably don't walk out of a unhappy marriage due to fear of social stigma. Statistics don't prove much in my opinion.

    • @divyaamohan3743
      @divyaamohan3743 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Statistic is just bullshit society here is traumatising every woman to suffer in long terms

    • @kumarabhishek5652
      @kumarabhishek5652 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@divyaamohan3743
      Then please leave the society which also comprises of 50% women.

    • @nirvaashah168
      @nirvaashah168 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@kumarabhishek5652 and 50% brash men
      But wrongs also happen to men, not just women.

    • @falguni.bonaparte
      @falguni.bonaparte 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Actually about marriages I won’t speak that whether to do arrange or love marriage it varies with person, but I believe that if in USA family culture comes in life of people then it will solve half of their problems may be if it’s loneliness and some other problems which are associated with it. As an example whenever we are living with family we see better moral support in life, which is there in India.

  • @You_can_28
    @You_can_28 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    "Self Appointed Advisor" hit me hard🤣😋

  • @computerauditor
    @computerauditor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +245

    All marriages are arranged by whom that's the question 😀 truly Sadhguru's words are always so true, real and blissful!!!

    • @indianmilitary
      @indianmilitary 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      by karma

    • @rambocool4284
      @rambocool4284 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Zapper Zapped how do you know that?

    • @truthalone4083
      @truthalone4083 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@rambocool4284 Awesome question... Im sure he doesnt have an answer.

    • @rambocool4284
      @rambocool4284 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@truthalone4083 he will answer just like you by quoting some ancient scripture written by people of the past, apart from that he and you have nothing to answer, you both are different sides of the same coin.

    • @truthalone4083
      @truthalone4083 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rambocool4284 Hey, your question is a good one. @Zapper Zapped is just a deceived fellow

  • @adityajambhekar5444
    @adityajambhekar5444 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    The music in the end is soooo relaxing 😀❤️

  • @eljoemissiletoe3438
    @eljoemissiletoe3438 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    This is one of the smartest people on the planet representing humanity and teaching. Thanks

  • @ilregnoregno6697
    @ilregnoregno6697 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    What I like most about this man is that he doesn't force words. He just put them in orders then you have to choose which is the best. ❤️❤️What a genius!

    • @JankyToe
      @JankyToe 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Genius? Really?

  • @vijayalakshmik4385
    @vijayalakshmik4385 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Omg even i say the same to people, who argue about arranged or love marriage. I say, whether it is love marriage or arranged marriage, how good character your husband and how you take up things matters. Not the kind of marriage

  • @ziniadas5443
    @ziniadas5443 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Can't believe that I just saw you few days back in person, the day will forever be embedded within me. Thank you Sadhguru for making me wanting to be a better person.🙏🙏🙏

  • @yashwanthgowda4483
    @yashwanthgowda4483 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    To all single people who came here just too make themselves feel better 😁😁😁 ...

  • @yashramteke4190
    @yashramteke4190 3 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    I wish I could stay at Isha yoga center and grasp sadhguru's grace and preaching

    • @Yagamilight19383
      @Yagamilight19383 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Do you get to meet sadhguru?

    • @youtubedotcom6241
      @youtubedotcom6241 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Yagamilight19383 yes if he is there we may meet him I would love to go there

    • @mehaksharma7826
      @mehaksharma7826 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too

    • @Dannydaring
      @Dannydaring 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sadhguru hardly stays at Isha he is always on the Move🏇

  • @dailyclicks8308
    @dailyclicks8308 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    We want a society where woman feels most safe... We don't want an open society where relationships are taken for granted

  • @syedansurgouse5272
    @syedansurgouse5272 3 ปีที่แล้ว +256

    Arranged Marraige comes with longer Expiry dates due to Tradition and Social Conditioning ✍️

    • @ssingha9554
      @ssingha9554 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      And if break that socail conditions will i be jailed for that??

    • @sankar-rl3zv
      @sankar-rl3zv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ssingha9554 no it's ur choice if u consider keeping more than one or two wife/husband is good then u can break that social conditions it's ur choice

    • @himanshugupta7933
      @himanshugupta7933 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      You meant Forced relationships? Right? Just give an option to women of India. Believe me majority of them would divorce their husbands. They stay in marriages because they are not financially independent and are forced by whole society to stay in marriages.

    • @human1505
      @human1505 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Indians suffer due to societal norms.

    • @adhithyanal908
      @adhithyanal908 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@himanshugupta7933 says a man

  • @bcs3790
    @bcs3790 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Just loved it, Crystal clear explanation, feels good.❤️

  • @sanjoychakraborty8638
    @sanjoychakraborty8638 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    In India though The Divorce Rate Is 1.5% (approx)
    Many women Live very Uncomfortably, the Main Part Is responsibilty,
    If One Is responsible and Can Create connections With Love any Kind Of mariage Should work.

  • @yashibhardwaj6871
    @yashibhardwaj6871 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When there is no answer to ur question there is always an answer which will come from his side🙏🙏huge respect to sadhguru ji

  • @parvathy.r457
    @parvathy.r457 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    2:48 , that really really is perfect . I have written an article about it too

  • @Rohit-tt5xe
    @Rohit-tt5xe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    I don't believe in arrange marriages .
    How can someone marry some stranger.
    It's better to marry someone known to you

    • @vrutikarao2005
      @vrutikarao2005 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      But before marrying you can get engaged know that person for some months. If you think it's going good you can marry or else break off the engagement. No one says marry the very next day you got a proposal.

    • @aryakumar9921
      @aryakumar9921 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@vrutikarao2005 Yes but getting engaged makes you feel obliged to marry. Also, seeing people for marrying is equivalent to marrying *just for the sake of marrying*, as if it is compulsory to marry when you attain a certain age. Marriage should be an option, if someone fell in love or is looking for love, not a compulsion.

    • @akkshitaakkshita9591
      @akkshitaakkshita9591 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Specially women, it's like forced prostitution. Like if she is not even interested!

    • @salonichavan1629
      @salonichavan1629 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@akkshitaakkshita9591 exactly sis exactly 🙄 exactly

    • @salonichavan1629
      @salonichavan1629 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@akkshitaakkshita9591 exactly

  • @BrianSmith-li3zs
    @BrianSmith-li3zs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Respect love and gratitude

  • @luzvictorialopezgiraldo9164
    @luzvictorialopezgiraldo9164 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Por favor, traducir al Español o colocar subtítulos en Inglés....estoy aprendido mucho Inglés con ustedes, pero no quiero perderme nada. Gracias🙏🤗

  • @AkshayKumar-bn7gm
    @AkshayKumar-bn7gm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just last two minutes of this video can change many lives🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @nallurilavanya2636
    @nallurilavanya2636 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    And he himself didn’t involved his parents. He chose his partner. Sometimes, marriage is a lesson for life, definitely many men and women out there in India are emotionally bonded to their parents. They stay for them and for the society. Otherwise India will be in first place in the other way

    • @shiengtan8328
      @shiengtan8328 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Indeed

    • @salonichavan1629
      @salonichavan1629 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Can't agree more 👍👍👍

    • @lakshyakumarjha7240
      @lakshyakumarjha7240 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So true

    • @Annsu2017
      @Annsu2017 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ain't that thruth😏

    • @suchitradas5892
      @suchitradas5892 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Most often their parents too much involvement in their lives ruin their marriages ...And they don't even realise that...

  • @simpleguy38
    @simpleguy38 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Love marriage is something which doesn't involve a third person otherwise it is still be called arranged marriage even if it is arranged by friends.

    • @FirstLast-lw1oi
      @FirstLast-lw1oi 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      With this many people in the world, you really think you can isolate the two people concerned. Whatever and whoever interacts with them at any point is ubiquitously going to arrange it after all

  • @kanakmahendraaliveness5646
    @kanakmahendraaliveness5646 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Every day I watch your video Sadhguruji and that always makes my day. Thank you

  • @Vishwajeet-Deshmukh
    @Vishwajeet-Deshmukh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We are eager to watch.

  • @zekriashams6294
    @zekriashams6294 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    He is truly a man of wisdom.💕

  • @TEERTHESH
    @TEERTHESH 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    As long as there is willingness to make it work(which comes from tradition and upbringing), relationship will last longer. Lack of patience and quick judgements have failed many things..

    • @andreamessiasgomes7118
      @andreamessiasgomes7118 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Rubbish , vibe is vibe , if the vibe is gone and you have grown it's finished, y'all being spiritual don't know this stuff. What y'all think that growth happenes only in academics? Put that in relationship then y'all will know , that yes sometimes relationship don't work even for soulmates it's because even in relationship there are lessons.

    • @tarmin1711
      @tarmin1711 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@andreamessiasgomes7118 Rubbish, there's no such thing as vibe.

  • @HSTemkar
    @HSTemkar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One can't stop future happening.🙏
    Saying is easy, facing is difficult...

  • @gampinny
    @gampinny 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Listening to sadh is soo refreshing. He puts you at a comfortable place mentally, freedom indeed ✌🏾❤️❤️

  • @prakashdesai403
    @prakashdesai403 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    When you don't allow any one, but you, who can make you happy or unhappy, no relation can be failed once established in your life. Perhaps problem is that every one wants spouse to be ideal according to his/her definition but don't want to be so for his/her partner, or they take marriage as business contract, where, spouse behavior is directly related with partner's behavior, almost no tolerance.

    • @Annsu2017
      @Annsu2017 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Preach👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @maumitamajumdar6831
    @maumitamajumdar6831 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    In love marriage one chooses his own partner and also divorces by his own will..but in arrange marriage one doesnt choose his/her partner by his choice and cannot either leave by his own choice.

    • @shinefia5987
      @shinefia5987 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly he cant compare it to western values of individuality. While India is bond to family and societal pressure

    • @aakankinskywalker384
      @aakankinskywalker384 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      family and societal pressure is also important@@shinefia5987, the lack of that is causing high instability in the life of western people.

  • @yashrajtejpal1034
    @yashrajtejpal1034 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sadhguru ji is really supeb the way he looks at anything makes it so simple.

  • @sonukumarchoubey4510
    @sonukumarchoubey4510 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for making it Clear 👏👏👏

  • @pratimamahato7856
    @pratimamahato7856 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    And if there is a marriage without the girls agreement and she is been forced to mary a person , doesn't it be considered a legal rape . And this is the thing mostly happening in India

  • @dhanachandrasanasam9705
    @dhanachandrasanasam9705 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    A lot of noises around me but whenever I started listening to Sadhguru everything seems to be quite and cool.🙏

    • @akshaydushyanth9720
      @akshaydushyanth9720 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thts becoz he makes u to focus on your ownself

    • @j.jeayareka5193
      @j.jeayareka5193 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It happens when our excess energy is not channelised. Please ase do some physical exercise, and meditation.

  • @sapnamudgal3979
    @sapnamudgal3979 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think its more about making a fix system or dynamic methods for marriage. Well it depends upon the quality of people in the society

  • @va4250
    @va4250 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am always impressed by his answers

  • @victorrock1427
    @victorrock1427 3 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    If you are capable & willing to take the responsibility then you arrange your own marraige .... If parents are capable & willing to take the responsibility then let them arrange it. As simple as that.

    • @ranjitsur6397
      @ranjitsur6397 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      In most cases parents will insist for arranged marriage according to their choice but later they will not take any responsibility.

    • @jita14
      @jita14 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Ranjit Sur they’ll say - it’s your fate😟

    • @victorrock1427
      @victorrock1427 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@ranjitsur6397 Then that is a broken system .... And all you can do is take charge and fix things yourself. Taking responsibility for your own life and making your own choices..... And suffering your own choices also if need be
      But to begin with .... They are your parents and your inside voice would warn you about what & why they are saying.

    • @excuseme1911
      @excuseme1911 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@victorrock1427 exactly

    • @excuseme1911
      @excuseme1911 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@victorrock1427 there are men bitching in the comment section about how they are mad divorce exists and they can't keep slaves haha.....This is the mentality of some Indian men...No wonder our country is the way it is

  • @jankirathod5350
    @jankirathod5350 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This has changed my mind completely about the marriage....in a good way....Thank you sadhguru :)

  • @mayankswank6020
    @mayankswank6020 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very logical, simple and factual & its not easy to be this ...that is the life👍

  • @Jayanti508
    @Jayanti508 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great advice, great words guruji
    Thank you

  • @milanhembram6314
    @milanhembram6314 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Adjustable nature is required for a long lasting marriage.

  • @anukrishnan3733
    @anukrishnan3733 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    There is lot of transformation on me because of u sadhguru. U r mine great teacher 💓💓

    • @anukrishnan3733
      @anukrishnan3733 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      👍👍transformation

    • @user-bc1nx9uo2p
      @user-bc1nx9uo2p 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@anukrishnan3733 there has been a lot of transformation in me due to sadhguru.He is my great teacher*

  • @tanvidesai251
    @tanvidesai251 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The last sentence hit me hard 💯

  • @mehdikm3015
    @mehdikm3015 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    On a enfin réglé mon problème merci à la fondation isha Europe 🙏❤

  • @vaibhavgarg9549
    @vaibhavgarg9549 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Sadhguru quoting himself did love marriage.. along with answer of this doubt means .. love marriage is best s.t you are clear about your
    Choice and loyal to your partner.. in other cases .. arranged marriage is obviously better in comparison to doing love marriage in which you are actually not
    that clear just to avoid arrange marriage..

  • @HSTemkar
    @HSTemkar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Don't be hurry to get married or don't overthink about it, be ready for any changes, just managed to sort out things, solution is more important for any situation.....

  • @marlineramlotchan4214
    @marlineramlotchan4214 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    So beautiful pastimes of Sadhguruji 💎🌻👌🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @DasGaneshRAKESH
    @DasGaneshRAKESH 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's doing the best we can, with what we have
    And not worry about the results
    And living every moment on the journey

  • @srinidhi7140
    @srinidhi7140 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    ನಮಸ್ಕಾರಗಳು ಸದ್ಗುರು 🙏

  • @TMP_19
    @TMP_19 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    It is a wrong metric to look at, the divorce rate. Ask how many are happy and I am sure more than 90% are divorced in their minds

  • @gokulamparikh2087
    @gokulamparikh2087 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very true❤ i may not agree with all his speaches this one was so right.

  • @jcyadav527
    @jcyadav527 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i love to watch Sadhguru speech every hour 😇💗💗

  • @gauravchaturvedi6080
    @gauravchaturvedi6080 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Success rate of arranged marriage in INDIA >>>> love marriages

    • @harkharajbharali808
      @harkharajbharali808 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      beacause people who arrange marraige are a bit ancient type and they dont believe in divorce and thinks society will judge them

    • @kanchansahu1814
      @kanchansahu1814 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sahi bat hai

    • @gauravchaturvedi6080
      @gauravchaturvedi6080 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@harkharajbharali808 but actually i r judging them and generalised ur judgement😂😂😂😂so don't be prejudiced and accept the reality

    • @bloggerblogg5878
      @bloggerblogg5878 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@harkharajbharali808 that's why the divorce rate is so low in India, and not because they are happier in marriage then western countries. The reason is cultural and family pressure. Statistic don't worth too much if you didn't see beyond them. But people need facts and numbers to proof and that's enough if say couple numbers.

    • @praful4383
      @praful4383 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Arindam Das perfect reply

  • @SarikaSolanke
    @SarikaSolanke 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Excellently explained by Sadguru about the arrangement of a marriage.
    However, initial comparison of divorce rate in India Vs other countries is Not a right measure to compare sucess of marriages. 😀

    • @armedtuxedo6632
      @armedtuxedo6632 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Agree, because people can suffer inside

  • @thegamingmonk7377
    @thegamingmonk7377 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for this video sadhguru for making me realise that nobody is perfect.....

  • @ligiasommers
    @ligiasommers 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very interesting and profoundly explained 🙏🏻💖🌷

    • @simpleguy38
      @simpleguy38 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Love marriage is something which doesn't involve a third person otherwise it is still be called arranged marriage even if it is arranged by friends.

  • @MindBodyMantra
    @MindBodyMantra 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    The idea of how one takes it forward matters. Respect for everyone. Respect your partner. Regardless of how it happened. You both complete it each other. Remember Shiva's Ardhnarishwar avatar. One cannot exist without the either. Namaskaram!

    • @truthalone4083
      @truthalone4083 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Should we immitate the pattern of Shiva's leela with Mohini?

  • @indigenous6550
    @indigenous6550 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    The very concept of marriages as a whole is outdated these days, leave a side arranged or love... in this realm of hookup culture etc. Marriage doesn't hold that sanctity as it used to in our Forefathers era.

    • @raiPKyt
      @raiPKyt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That is absolutely correct ..!!

    • @RK-nq3fj
      @RK-nq3fj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Very true. It exists primarily for raising children

  • @praviagrawal4604
    @praviagrawal4604 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you Sadhguru🙏

  • @antareepmondal7899
    @antareepmondal7899 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I appreciate your words Sadhguru.

  • @ReynaSingh
    @ReynaSingh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    India has a low divorce rate not because arranged marriage is more successful. It's low because divorce is still quite taboo in India.

    • @meeralakshmis5863
      @meeralakshmis5863 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Exactlyyyy.

    • @idontshiplarryanymoreiship2716
      @idontshiplarryanymoreiship2716 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      👏👏👏👏 true

    • @idontshiplarryanymoreiship2716
      @idontshiplarryanymoreiship2716 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @Allie X that's not true. There are single moms in India too. Generalising that all their kids will turn out bad is like stereotyping them.
      You'd rather live with a partner in an unhappy marriage than live peacefully with your child?
      It's HOW you raise them.

    • @excuseme1911
      @excuseme1911 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Allie X god bless 498 a

    • @rajnimalakhelawan6439
      @rajnimalakhelawan6439 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Allie X there is not an army of single mothers in india because most unmarried women abort their babies! What choice do they have but to abort them? Your tradition will eat them up alive. Plus, dont forget the 32 million plus missing girls that have been aborted in india, making men to girl ratio quite imbalanced!. What nerve do you have to criticize a Western country that many Indians would love to migrate to! (And...some of the single mothers in western societies are in fact abandoned by Indian men who are afraid to go against their parents wish for their arranged marriage, thus they deny and leave their child and marry who their parents choose for them. (And their wives have no clue that this child exists normally; they hide it! Sickening, really!)

  • @shashioberoi6715
    @shashioberoi6715 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Sadhguru i dont know if ull be reading this... But i really need help! My mom is not feeling well... She once was a very active lady but now she tries but unable to get up from the bed...we got her tested everything is fine.... I don't knowts going on! Please 🙏🙏

    • @nomanostar982
      @nomanostar982 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I am replying so that your comment moves up ....
      Prayers.

    • @nomanostar982
      @nomanostar982 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I am replying so that your comment moves up .......
      Prayers..

    • @priyesh3357
      @priyesh3357 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Prayers for her🙏🙏🙏

    • @guleriab
      @guleriab 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She needs you not Sadhguru.

    • @khemrajachray9179
      @khemrajachray9179 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🙏

  • @kamalk.rakshak4764
    @kamalk.rakshak4764 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Please..... Relese hindi version soon..... We hindibhashi waiting for it.....😊😊

  • @sepalikafernando3681
    @sepalikafernando3681 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Sadhguru Ji
    Great talk. And very inspiring talk

  • @nakulkanchan7313
    @nakulkanchan7313 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Actually the Indian divorce rate isn't low because arranged marriage works. It's because divorce is such a taboo that people would rather live their life with the wrong person than be shamed for being divorced.

    • @kolkataguy3917
      @kolkataguy3917 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Divorce rate is low in India mainly because of the kids . It is obviously not good for the kids if their parents get divorce . Indian parents take their kids seriously.

    • @nakulkanchan7313
      @nakulkanchan7313 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kolkataguy3917 Yes, that too.

    • @ahanachoudhury4811
      @ahanachoudhury4811 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Who says arranged marriage is always about wrong partner? It can also work

  • @saideepreddy9922
    @saideepreddy9922 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Anyone will surely love a responsible and kind guy
    Marriage is dependent on commitment and concern towards partner not because how it happened

  • @sagarbarai
    @sagarbarai 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I like the way he laughs. Makes one Happy about it ☺️

  • @SaiSuraj9
    @SaiSuraj9 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wisdom spoken 👏🏻

  • @laxmandeep9409
    @laxmandeep9409 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Today's sadhguru quote for you..
    '' karma means your life is your making,
    Karmic accumulation can be either boost or burden. That is your choice '' -sg
    Marriage is your making, A bond tat becomes Boost or burden depends on how efficiently you arranged the relation.
    Arrangement has to dispense through out the life !! Moment to moment.. People think
    Once we do, it is over .No it is a constant process.. You can make every moment a fresh meet 😅😅🙏 !! Only if you how to handle the true life partner K A R M A 😜
    The E t e r n a l b o n d.....

    • @laxmandeep9409
      @laxmandeep9409 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Only if you learn *** typo !!

  • @vkumar5605
    @vkumar5605 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Well, it's depends on your behavior and respect on the Partner, doesn't matter whether it is a Arrange or Love marriage. In INDIA divorce percentage has raised because of different mindsets and independence of one's feelings and never ending expectations from partner. In INDIA, people are much worried about image, so they try to adjust within themselves as they treat Divorce as negative impact on their family Image and also may be because of children they have. Simple way to be happy,
    "Don't Expect Much" from partner. Respect her/him.
    Forgive them if any mistake, because you love them & no one is perfect in this world, Even sachin "multi record breaker" gets out on Zero... Forgive them with smile as you do with your kids/friends.
    Soon your world will be changed.
    ALL THE BEST.

  • @harithamalathivempatichann8014
    @harithamalathivempatichann8014 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sadhguru no one can change our Destiny or karma both arrange and love are good but people mess between them for silly reasons 🙏

  • @manthenavijaya5814
    @manthenavijaya5814 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Even without watching the video of sadhguru.....I just go and like it becoz i know it will be good.

  • @Thelittleclipstore
    @Thelittleclipstore 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I had arranged marriage .. and I can tell u from my community that the divorce rate is so low simply because divorce is considered the worst thing to do.. but there’s full of miserable people stuck in marriage .. arranged marriages can work but only if the couple dates enough afterwards and knows who they are and what their looking for an are simply well educated what to look for and what to feel.

    • @nirvaashah168
      @nirvaashah168 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      agreed!

    • @Vibes3438
      @Vibes3438 ปีที่แล้ว

      yes

    • @swetha4844
      @swetha4844 ปีที่แล้ว

      Horoscope matched?

    • @Thelittleclipstore
      @Thelittleclipstore ปีที่แล้ว

      @@swetha4844 you mean if we match based of synastry ? No the parents choose and child just agrees or disagrees but the child is often under pressure and has no clue what’s flying and just says yes as long there’s nothing obviously terrible or super ugly about the person

  • @evergreen7781
    @evergreen7781 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Rather it's best DO NOT MARRY 😅😅😅 Enjoy your life with full freedom ❤️❤️❤️

  • @SagrikaOberoi
    @SagrikaOberoi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Namaskaram sadhguru lots of love ..such an eye opener..

  • @saurabhmishra1652
    @saurabhmishra1652 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wonderful ❤️

  • @pam4840
    @pam4840 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I was waiting for some one to to pop this question and see how Sadguru balances the millennial and orthodox beliefs.

    • @rachelmcclain5367
      @rachelmcclain5367 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Too bad he isn't as mainstream as the "millennial" belief

    • @pam4840
      @pam4840 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@rachelmcclain5367 Well, As the case, is I don't think you need to bring a revolution in the matchmaking culture. As there is no guarantee that a love marriage may last so is the case with an arranged marriage.

    • @rachelmcclain5367
      @rachelmcclain5367 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@pam4840 I'm talking about what he has to say in general. He forces those watching to think about both sides, which I love

    • @pam4840
      @pam4840 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@rachelmcclain5367 agree.. he kind of made me look at things from an unbiased, non hippocritical point of few. His wisedom is profound and should be taught at school to make gentler, smarter generation.

  • @nikitatandekar1427
    @nikitatandekar1427 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Sadhguru i am having a very genuine question, if marraiges are made in heaven then why marraiges are breaking in 3 to 4 months? And why people from family are using black magic kind of things to seperate the couple

    • @preethishetty6179
      @preethishetty6179 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      First of all he doesn’t believe that marriages are made in heaven .

  • @HSTemkar
    @HSTemkar 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I would love to listen sadguru ji all the time...

  • @TigerAnkittGarg
    @TigerAnkittGarg 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes Sadguru ji Life is Wonderful 😊🤗