"Not Like Other Girls" - the Culture of Internalised Misogyny | Antonina Stępak | TEDxYouth@2SLO

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  • @anna.ked.28
    @anna.ked.28 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    As a masculine girl this is so true. I’m everything you described, not to be different, just to be myself.

  • @chriss.3740
    @chriss.3740 3 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    There is nothing wrong with being like “other girls.” They are people with interests too, and you’d be surprised to see how much in common with girls.

    • @danielalizbethcastropineda9720
      @danielalizbethcastropineda9720 ปีที่แล้ว

      THATS THE WHOLE POINT, we have so much in common buts they feel bad admitting that, because femininity is like a CRIME to society.

  • @sarakjeldsen769
    @sarakjeldsen769 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I was just thinking about this. The "othering" you see sometimes from other women, or women demeaning themselves or other women, etc. The cool girl rhetoric is so true - and it serves to put down women who are more "feminine" in behaviour.

    • @gram.
      @gram. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's mens faults

  • @knzmb605
    @knzmb605 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I want society to consider video games not as "manly" trait.

  • @fannygonzalez3211
    @fannygonzalez3211 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    this video is so underrated

  • @lilangel1773
    @lilangel1773 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    lovedd

  • @krystalmemije4606
    @krystalmemije4606 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    love this video!

  • @yewo.m
    @yewo.m ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "You're not like other men". Simply saying that on its own doesn't carry much positive or negative meaning, in my opinion. It ultimately depends on the context and why the person said that, in determining whether it's a complement or not. Like, what if the person believes most other men she's met are jerks, but you're special? It would be a complement, in that case

  • @lilypena1511
    @lilypena1511 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    ❤️

  • @bushmg1061
    @bushmg1061 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Are you telling me women aren’t allowed to be different? That’s lunacy! Get real.

    • @tangerinefizz11
      @tangerinefizz11 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      That's not what she's saying. She's saying that stereotypically masculine traits are more valued than stereotypically feminine ones. Women and girls who display more stereotypically masculine traits are often praised more and taken more seriously than those who are stereotypically feminine. Women and girls have internalized these attitudes. Gender stereotypes should be done away with, and people should all just be allowed to be themselves and be accepted for it. That's the point.

    • @bushmg1061
      @bushmg1061 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@tangerinefizz11 I was speaking about her insinuation that there’s something wrong with a woman saying “I’m not like other girls,” which is patently ridiculous. Obviously that conclusion was not the focal point of her thesis

    • @yikxuan2977
      @yikxuan2977 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@bushmg1061 Yes because saying "I'm not like other girls" suggests that it is a *bad* thing to be like other girls. (which she says is because society views femininity as weak and masculinity as strong)

    • @victoriaalbastra6325
      @victoriaalbastra6325 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      She's obviously referring to the "pick me" girl trope. If you don't get it, you don't get. Stop wasting our time.

    • @gram.
      @gram. 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tangerinefizz11 yeah, like they're valued in the workplace and women with masculine traits are paid more than some men, that's how it is, nature, deal with it

  • @xmartinx666x
    @xmartinx666x ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Internalised Misogyny does actually mean accepting traditional gender roles

    • @Yeetmaster3000-co4on
      @Yeetmaster3000-co4on 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No it doesn't. Misogyny means you hate women.

  • @kaelanmartinezdeescobar1870
    @kaelanmartinezdeescobar1870 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    What world does this woman live in? No one thinks that way

    • @iila
      @iila 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      It's called Earth. You may not know. Which world are you living in?

    • @bushmg1061
      @bushmg1061 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Iila Actually, _you_ seem to be living on Planet Sass

    • @jaguarholly7156
      @jaguarholly7156 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      nah, i agree with Kaelan. This woman is making the typical mistake of thinking that what Hollywood shows is what real people think. Shes just one cancerous cell spreading from the massive tumor that is Hollywood. Not her fault, its sad. But still, just coz u feel bad for a cancerous cell doesnt meanit isnt sick and needs to be rejected by the healthy cells.

    • @yourdagan
      @yourdagan ปีที่แล้ว

      Women are crabs in a bucket.

  • @madmax5841
    @madmax5841 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Femcel theories

  • @mohammedmansoor4347
    @mohammedmansoor4347 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I would say Hijab for Womens and Girls to end the MISOGNY among peoples.

    • @tangerinefizz11
      @tangerinefizz11 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Forcing women and girls to wear a hijab is more misogynistic than anything, because they're being dictated to about how they should dress.

    • @arisamelody
      @arisamelody 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      out of sight out of mind? i’m sorry but ur idea of modesty is inherently misogynistic

    • @mohammedmansoor4347
      @mohammedmansoor4347 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@tangerinefizz11
      Women wearing hijab is fortold in both Quran and Bible.

    • @mohammedmansoor4347
      @mohammedmansoor4347 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@arisamelody
      So you mean showing women's boobs in public places and freedom of doing every shameful activity is your culture right, in reality it sucks.

    • @tangerinefizz11
      @tangerinefizz11 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@mohammedmansoor4347 I don't care what the Bible and Qur'an say. Women and girls shouldn't be forced to wear hijabs against their will.