Hi my loving tiffanythinks family. I am still trying to process a lot of information. I really want to say THANK YOU to all of you - you’ve all been so kind and so loving. I am THE luckiest girl. I love you lots and lots my tiffanythinks family. we got this💙
It's a massive shock Tiff you need time to get over that shock and process what's coming, which is what you are doing right now which is good because you can't block it out , have the hospital offered you anyone to talk to ? it will help massively to talk to someone that's not family and get it processed so you can be in the best possible frame of mind going into this. The next year is going to be so hard, but you can do it and you will have the rest of your life ahead of you and you will go on to do lots of amazing things and have a lovely happy life with Matt, you just have to go through this awful part now to get to that happy part. You can do it
Five year colon cancer survivor here, I too lost all of those things. In the beginning you can't even see how you can possibly get over that hurdle. You will. And you will never look back, because the rest of your life is waiting for you. Hugs from Texas.
I’m so glad you are here (in this world) and here in this blog because no one can reach Tiffany like you can. Thankyou for keeping on fighting to help this young girl. Much love from Edinburgh
Our diagnosis run parallel. I was diagnosed in July 2021. my tumor was removed in April 2022. I had my rectum, and colon removed. Colostomy is my friend now. Facing another surgery soon. You will get through this one day at a time. Recovery is tough but there are so many people to help. Your videos help me recover. Continue with life. So many things to live for. You got this!
Tiffany, I hope you read this. 9 years ago, I went through something extremely similar. I have a rare cancer called PMP (Pseudomyxoma Peritonei), which is a form of appendix cancer. In almost all cases it seeds the entire abdominal cavity with hundreds of tumors. I was stage IV, and my initial surgery was 18 hours long. (I've since had 3 more tune-ups; they average about 9 hours.) So far-- and typical to many PMP patients-- I've had the following removed: the entire large intestine, part of the small intestine, all of my belly fat (greater and lesser omentum), a full hysterectomy (including the vagina), the rectum, spleen, gall bladder, appendix (happy to be rid of that traitor!), the peritoneum (which is the entire lining of the abdomen), a chunk of my diaphragm, my entire tailbone, and have had tumors removed from my bladder and inguinal lymph nodes. I have an ileostomy bag (and I can assure you that after a brief adjustment, it's not difficult to have), and a ureteral stent (a long tube connecting my kidney to my bladder since my ureter was a casualty of war). I like to say I'm traveling light! :) I've gone into the last 2 surgeries not knowing if I'd wake up still owning a bladder, or if I'd lose that as well, so I completely understand the emotional uncertainty of cancer surgeries. I found I've been actually calmer than expected, because I have experience with the ileostomy bag now, and I know that I can simply tend to one more bag if necessary. Small price to pay for this magnificent gift of life! My story is in no way unique-it's a carbon copy of many, many PMP patients-so know that if all of us can do it and thrive afterwards, you can, too! Be hopeful. You are not alone, and there's a good life on the other side of treatment. Sending my best strength vibes and a warm hug.
@@dipstar2941 That's kind of you. Thank you. I have such gratitude every day for the remarkable surgeon who performed these surgeries and saved my life. They're the stars, and we the patients are the fortunate recipients of their dedication and skill.
@@juliaprochnik4632 Thanks, Julia!! ❤ I'm so hopeful for Tiffany -- I know she can do this, with some encouragement and love. Both make such a difference.
We're all with you Tiffany. Feel our prayers and strength coming your way. God bless, keep you safe and help you through this journey. All our love and best wishes from your friends in California.
My daughter had her colon removed at 21; she also had C-diff. She found it helpful to speak with someone who had gone through the same surgery successfully and then offered to do the same for others. She named her stoma Paloma and said it was less difficult to deal with than she anticipated. You got this!
I have been following your journey since the start. I myself had my bowel removed 4 years ago when I was 27 and live so much better than before with an ileostomy. My father had his bowel, bladder and other things removed 3 years ago at 60 years old. He has 2 ostomy bags but is completely cancer free and leads a completely (if not more adventurous) life now. Your strength as been amazing! I know it's hard now but think about in a year's time when this is all over and plan the things you can do 💙💙💙
Tiffany this family would be wonderful to reach out to for information and could totally relate to your feelings and concerns possible reach out to them for love and support ❤️ your amazing woman and have been so strong 💪 we will continue to pray 🙏🏻 for your healing mentally and physically ❤️ 💙
Your surgeon gave you the option for immediate surgery or waiting 6 weeks. You have it on video. He should have made you & Matt understand how serious your situation was.❤
Tiffany- my husband had same cancer as you and had this surgery in 2018 (for Colostomy). He was stage four colorectal cancer and I want you to know-- he is still alive and cancer-free today. He started treatment in 2017 so he is nearing five years cancer free. He did chemo, radiation, and then surgery to remove most of his colon and the rest on down. Much love to you-- the colostomy is hard for him at times, but you get used to it and it was definitely worth it. Miracles happen-- Praying for you.
Hi jennifer my dad had colorectal cancer in 2018 to ,it was stage 3 but the cancer had gone a little into his lymph nodes as well ,i took turns with my sister to sit with him why he had chemo as my mum was to traumatised! He had the op and was left with a colostomy bag ,Hes coped amazing my mum i think found it harder as theyve been married 50 years x Hes doin really well hes my best friend ❤️ i hope your husband is doing well and he seems very brave ❤️
Stay strong Tiffany ❤️ A friend had exactly this op 40 years ago. Sure, she had a bladder and bowel bag, but she has travelled the world and has just celebrated her 90th birthday! Celebrate Christmas 🎄 and enjoy x
@@Sammy-il1qfI believe the cancer has affected all the organs she has named. I was saddened to hear that it had grown but I think she's strong enough to get through it.
Tiffany,, I know someone who had this surgery and now she is living a full and happy life! There must be some kind of a support group of people who have had this surgery that you could meet and may be pleasantly surprised which will give you hope! I’m so sorry you are going through this, you are a strong person, you’ll get through this! So many people love you and will help get you through this! You had your eggs frozen, you can still have children with a surrogate, maybe your sister. I continue to keep you in my prayers! God bless you!
Tiffany, my dear, I am so sorry you have been given this frightening journey to traverse. You are going through all of the normal fears, grief, anger, & confusion that would be considered normal in this circumstance. Each person who has been given a cancer diagnosis has also been so frightened were afraid they would not live. But then we realized we could handle one day at a time. Then after each new day we realized that maybe we could do that again. Then all of a sudden we decided that maybe we had a chance because “hey” we DID handle all of those previous days. YOU are a strong young woman who has shown that over and over. You TOO can do this! I can laugh now when saying that when I found out I had a very rare form of melanoma 4+ years ago and researched my diagnosis every piece of information said I would likely die within a few months. Although much older than you, it scared the H-ll out of me. At the same time I got mad and decided if I was going to die then I was going to buy a used convertible and enjoy my short time left. That was in February of 2018. Last summer after enjoying it for 3-1/2 years and being cancer free since Sept of 2018, I traded it in realizing that after all I still had a lot of life left. You are NOT alone in facing these scary challenges but you ARE strong and you NEED to do what needs to be done, whatever challenges that leaves you with. Because in reality it is ALL you CAN do! Also, when they say you can only have one visitor in ICU I am pretty sure they mean at one time. Amma and Matt should be able to alternate who comes into the room to see you but it can only be one at a time. Too much going on in ICU, too much equipment, and some families would fill the room if there were no rules. Staff needs room to do their work without having to deal with multiple visitors. You have thousands of us who support, pray for & love you. We believe in you and your strength to overcome this and to accomplish great things going forward! Life is waiting for you and you WILL make the most of it, I am sure!
You do need to put up your tree! Do what makes you happy. Live each day, doing what you love and what makes you happy. It helps so much to take your mind off of other things. There’s plenty of time left to worry…
Hi Tiffany, I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this but I would like to encourage you. My dad was diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer in 1995. He was extremely depressed about losing his colon and anus and also having a permanent colostomy but he’s been cancer free since 2000. I just hope you feel encouraged! Praying for you, Matt, your family and your medical team. That God would give them wisdom and direction. ♥️🙏🏻♥️
Put your Christmas tree up and celebrate Christmas before the surgery. Christmas is time with your family not a day in a calendar. Soak that love in and although it’s so hard enjoy every moment possible. You’re so strong! We’ve got this. We’re all here for you ❤
Tiffany we are lucky to have you as well. Please reach out to a group or perhaps individual counseling. You’ve been pushing things down for a long time and you need to talk to someone outside of your family, so you can speak without fear of hurting you family’s heart. This is a lot to absorb. Try to push yourself to do the things you enjoy. Decorate for Christmas, do your Christmas list and shop on line to help get your mind off of things. All those feeling are yours sweet girl you can be sad mad angry…. Whatever own your feelings. We love you so much and I will continue to pray for a complete healing and for your mind to be at ease. 🌹🕯🤍🙏
Stage 4 squamous cell carcinoma cervical cancer. It’s spread to my liver lungs lymph nodes and soft tissue. I am so angry so so angry. Just finishing my first rounds of chemo. I am not able to get surgery. All I do is cry. All we can do is keep on keeping on. Your videos popped up and I’m grateful. Don’t ever stop fighting.
You can not live with chemotherapy and surgery. Because cancer stem cells is not gonna be killed with those methods. You are ganna die with those. Coc protocol is stemming from UK . LOTS OF koreans cure cancer with it. People change it Originally coc is 100mg mebendazole 80mg artovastatin 1000mg metformin doxycicline 100mg etc but it is not enough to kill cancer cells..but koreans changed it and added more.. For 3days in a week 2400mg mebendazole 30ml olive oil 1000mg omega3 and for4days liposomal vitaminc 20-25g( once in a week vitaminc injetion 50g) 100mg doxycycline 500mg arzithromycin and everyday naltrexone 3.5mg vitamin d 5000iu 1000mg metformin 400mg egcg 800mg pterostilbene 4000mg quercetin 100mg melatonin.... 30 people who is terminal cancer patients cure cancer in korea.(doctors gave up but they cured cancer)
@@고고고싱 I really haven’t had any negative side affects with chemo so assuming I’m just going to die is a a bit much. Lots of people beat cancer with chemo. Now I’m not saying you’re wrong and it may not kill all the cancer but again I’m no where near just dying. I have however thought about looking into alternative methods so I will look into you’re regiment. Saying people are just going to die is kind of insensitive and I’m not normally an insensitive person. So maybe when you talk to people about things like this you do it a little less harshly. This is my life we’re talking about.
I dont have cancer but I had surgery where I removed my colon and rectum. I now have a stoma. It was hard afterwards but I made it, got my life back and I believe you will too. We got this. You got this. You are sooo much stronger than you think. Sending you all my thoughts, prayers and lots of love! 💙💙💙
Tiffany...YOU GOT THIS!! Everyone's cancer story is different. It could be the same stage and type but how I handled mine was different than how my bestfriend handled hers, my aunts (3) handled theirs, my uncle handled his and my grandfather handled his. You're championing your journey. Anger is normal. I felt so full of anger during my battle and didn't have anyone to be angry at. After a year, I screamed. I screamed while alone, sitting on the sofa, while watching TV. My mind took me back to all I'd gone through and I had no more tears...all I could do was scream. Scream at the top of my lungs. Afterwards, I felt lighter. I had so much bottled up anger, anxiety, frustration, unhappiness and buried under all of that was my scream. As I'm typing this, I've realized that, that scream was my voice. The voice that I lost when the doctors took control. When I realized I had no control of what my body was doing. Betraying me. BUT, here I am 11 years later....feeling good. Grateful for what the journey taught me. You'll get through this! You absolutely will. All survivors have a date..a date that cancer was eradicated from our bodies. Mine: 1/11/11 (11 days before my 39th birthday)
Thanks for sharing hopefully your testimony encourages tiffany .God is good .john 10.10 says the devil comes to killed their and destroy but god came to have life and life in abundance.the devil will not win God is bigger n greater .god is our healer.
Tiffany, you should reach out to a therapist who specializes in cancer patients to help process your feelings. Cancer is not only a physical journey, but a psychological one and good mental health is an integral part of overall healing. From a 2X survivor in Chicago! You got this!
I went through this surgery in 2004. It is not how I envisioned my life would be - but you will learn what your new normal is. Use a mental health professional - it really helped with the anxiety. I have climbed the Eiffel Tower and swan with manatees - with all the post surgical changes. You can do this!
I got through total colectomy in the time of covid I wasn't allowed any visits through the whole hospital stay and I 'm so happy and healthy now, I love my ostomy because it gave me my life back. I would do the surgery hundred times again if needed. You will get through this and you will get free and healthy! You got this!
As a cancer survivor who has lost a major organ, I can say it's okay to not be okay.Your feelings are very valid, cry your tears and get angry, and when they dry get on with life and your emotion is spent,, do all those things that make you happy Tiff. Decorate the tree, the house, spend time with your loved ones, have Christmas early...Come Christmas we will all be with you in our thoughts and our prayers..WE got this!!!!
Have you thought about asking your Oncologist if there is someone who has been through a similar surgery that you could speak with, or find a reputable cancer group so that you can speak with your peers about what to expect and have them share their stories too? That is something we can do in the U.S. if it seems like that would help. 💙
I have a rare stomach disorder cyclic vomiting syndrome and finding others like me out there helped me so much.. The cool thing is that sometimes you get to help someone that may be suffering by offering them things I have already been threw or the meds that make my cycles not so Frequent.. I would at least try and find a cancer group that’s just like yours! Give you more hope!! You got this!!🤍
Sweetie, as a grandma I just want to send you a huge loving hug and also one for your lovely mum (she's amazing!). You are so so so brave! I truly believe you'll get through this and one day it'll all be behind you. Cry and be angry all you want but stay positive my sweet girl - you got this! xox
Tiffany my husband and I both include you in our prayers daily. We’re praying for your healing in every area of your existence. Your updates helps us in the direction of our prayers. We love you
Tiffany, there is a TH-cam channel called Let's Talk IBD. The woman on this channel has had her colon and rectum removed due to crohns disease, so she has an ostomy bag. She is very upfront about her journey and shares so much information. I realize cancer is different than crohns, but, she has to navigate life with the removal of some of those same organs. I encourage you to find her channel and listen to her journey. God bless.
Yes, Tiffany, please, please, please go to her channel. She is young just like you and she has gone thru the removal of the organs that you are going to have removed. She has a beautiful soft voice and she is so easy to listen to. I know that it would be good for you and your mom to talk with her.
there are two other channels Hannah Witton who has had a colostomy for a long time and has posted a number of videos living with it and also Laura Jean Bainbridge who had colorectal cancer and had everything removed, is living with a colostomy and will have it reversed next year with a J pouch. She is now getting married in December. Life will be different but you will be alive to enjoy it.
Plead the blood of Jesus over yourself and your mind, thoughts, heart soul and spirit. Think on the positive … Philippians 4:6-8. Read this scripture verse. There’s nothing impossible for our Jesus Christ of Nazareth. Our Heavenly Father, God almighty.
Tiffany, I ended up in hospital with a pain in my stomach. I woke up 2 weeks later in an ICU with a permanent ileostomy. I’d no warning at all. My advice is to reach out to support groups and chat with people who’ve went through similar surgery. Everyone’s experience will be different, but it’s good to hear how others coped. We are all here for you, listening and praying for you. 💕
Great suggestion. Tiffany, you are a very strong young woman but some support from support groups or your medical team would be helpful for you. This is a lot for anyone to deal with. Allow yourself the emotions. Try to stay focused on getting your strength for the surgery. You have a wonderful and loving family, lean on them, you don’t have to be strong all the time. Keeping you in my prayers. ❤
I do think a positive support group with people who have been through some similar surgeries would be very helpful for Tiffany at this point! Hearing about positive outcomes could be the encouragement and comfort she needs!
Tiff, you are going through the 5 stages of grief for the life you thought you would have - denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance. You are easily one of the bravest persons I’ve come across. Allow yourself to feel all of these emotions. There is grace in all of them. You don’t have to be strong for anyone. You are blessed to be at the best hospital for cancer in the UK and get the best care - many people cannot dream of that. You have a great support system, many people don’t have that. And you are young enough to look forward to the medical innovations that wil come to restore your quality of life. Many people do not have that future. We got you ❤
Your video meant a lot to me today. Today is my birthday and when I blow out my candles I am giving my birthday wish to you. I am wishing for you to have the strength and courage to get you through the surgery and recovery. It will be a tough journey but I can see you recovering from all this and having tea with us. stay strong and believe that it is possible.
Tiffany, I'm a Dietitian and if you would like any advice or support with nutrition during this time/ in the lead up to surgery or after, just let me know. You are a pillar of strength and I admire you so much!
I've often noticed that there is way too much highly processed food in T's diet. Needs to eat natural, high in fibre, good protein organic food to build her strength for surgery💙💙💙
With all due respect to those meaning well think Tiffany ought to obtain her advice from her own medical team. Some advice I have seen in the comments is at best - needs to be avoided & at worst - potentially dangerous.
@@YeahShaw oh absolutely, I would never just dish out information on here. I meant more that advice is available if Tiffany wanted to reach out privately!
I’m sorry Tiffany ❤ From someone that came out of an intensive care unit missing half the person they used to be and needing help to hold a plastic cup like a toddler; you can get back to yourself again. You’ll be forever changed by what happens to you but you will find yourself in there again one day and life will be fun and enjoyable again. Lots of Love gorgeous girl 💙
Tiff, I had a lot of organs removed a few years ago , my story is different to yours as everyones is , I had no idea of my future and my partner had just died. Life has been amazing and I have met 2 new grandchildren since then. I think of you so much and send you silent wishes , hope you feel them ❤️, I also didn't know how my surgery would go but I let go of the fear and trusted in my destiny. Sending so much love and strength to you xxx
Tiffany I don’t usually comment on your videos and am more a silent supporter. I have watched you since your uni room tour days. I can’t imagine how difficult this time must be for you but the courage, resilience and tenacity with which you’ve handled this whole journey is incredibly inspiring. I am praying for you and I know that you got this and that you can and will fight this! We are all with you!
Tiffany, mif you need to cry, scream, rant and rave, curse , what ever do it, that's why we are here. We love you and if you need to do these things do them with us, we got this.
I have watched you for a few years and only commented a couple of times. You have been so strong with all this journey has thrown at you. Get angry - you have a right, shout scream, cry, all of that. Let out your anger and frustration. I cannot imagine getting the news you have. I have had cancer in the past with surgery to remove it. My op was not as extensive as yours will be but you just have to put yourself in their hands. We are all routing for you. If anyone can do it you can. Sending love. xxx
Tiffany I’m giving you a much needed hug and a million prayers to assist you on this massive journey you have ahead of you. I was diagnosed with vagina cancer 10 years ago. I had half of my vagina removed, I have a stoma bag and I have double nephroscomy tubes. My hubby calls me the bag lady. It’s the most frightening thing to have to live with, but you have people who love you and will be with you through this terrifying journey. The Lord will be with you and put your trust in him always. You have been so brave and there will be an end to this, not the end you want, but you have you Mummy Matt and the Lord with you always xx🙏🏻🙏🏻xx I’m sending you love, prayers, and lots of love and strength my love xxxxx Gods Blessings on you always 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Tiffany, what you are going through - would break me. So if you say you are not strong - trust me - you are the strongest person I could ever know. I am honored to know you through this channel, and honored that you give me a lesson every day about how to be a good human being and a caring one and a loving one. Please know that you are teaching all of us what a good human being can be. Thank you for teaching me so much about life. You've made me a better dad and husband and human being!
You have the gift of writing , you put in words what I think everyone here feels . Yes ,she 's so strong and you're right she 's a special old soul. Thank you
When you said that cancer is not a sprint, its a journey... Oh yes, yes it is a journey. My daughter, my 7 year old beautiful soul was diagnosed with leukemia last June, and she gives us lessons for life. She, just like you, has this love for life and even when its difficult she is light and smiles. Praying for you ❤️
Sending love & support your way. Bless your beautiful child. Our child had a brain tumor. She is well with 4 children. Life is crazy but we are surly strong. We are Super moms ♥️💙🦋🙏🏼😘
This is heart breaking. Praying lots fir your daughter no child should go through that. I wish cancer never existed. So many people passing away from this horrible disease.
You don’t need to block it out Tiffany. You need to go through these feelings even though they’re horrible right now so that you can process what’s happening. 💙💙💙
Tiffany I think it’s time for you to ask your medical team to arrange counseling for you because your going through a major stressful, traumatic and life altering event. You need help to process your feelings and thoughts and this is a natural and normal reaction to what your going through. I hope this comment is helpful. Sending you all lots of love and hugs. From Jodie in Melbourne Australia. ❤️💐🐨
You are your heart and soul - not your body Tiffany. You’re grieving and that’s totally understandable! Please talk it out and see a counselor that can help you because it’s too much for you and Matt and your mother 💙 We love you so much!!! 💙💙💙💙 You’ve got this!!! 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙
My darling Tiffany 💙 It's okay to mourn the life you thought you would have had before cancer and surgery. It's okay to be angry and sad and confused. You can't be strong all the time and that's okay. Sometimes it's good to get it all out, but just know that there will come a day when you're going to look back and be amazed at just how incredibly resilient you are. WE GOT THIS 💙💙💙
I hate cancer so much. It robs us of our joy. But I love the idea of putting up a tree. And yes, bake cookies & wrap gifts. Whatever puts a smile on your face. This journey is going to come to an end & you will be cancer free. I'm standing in the gap with you & claiming victory. We got this!
Tiffany, I found your channel after losing my dad to cancer. He would have to have an operation similar to yours, to remove the bladder, but there was no time or conditions for him to be able to have the operation because of his age and other associated health problems. I'm so, so sorry you're going through this. I wish I could take it all away from you, you are so special and touch so many souls in this world. This is coming from a Brazilian girl watching you, you have no idea the impact your strength has for so many people. With that being said, it's okay to be sad, this is not the news you or us wanted at all. It is okay to grief, it is a part of the acceptance process. My heart truly aches for you right now. Seeing you crying makes me cry, I see in your journey many things from the journey my family went through as well with my dad's cancer. I know that it's a major surgery, and that you will have challenges, but you are young and you will be able to recover from this, I really believe you will be able to live a good life after this nightmare. I wish I could give you a hug. It will be a new life with challenges, but it will also bring you a new look at your future experiences and your relationships with your family members. You will be able to live to the fullest. I truly, truly hope you will be okay. I can't believe how you handle this journey, it is absolutely inspiring, and I also understand how difficult it is on you. Sending you so, so much love 💙it is going to be okay in the end!
Tiffany, I had never seen you so brave!!!. Talking to all of us, so genuinely and openly with tears in your eyes and a beautiful broken voice about the immense challenge you have ahead. Of course you have to be mad and worried and sad!!!!. Who wouldn't Tiffany??!? What a lesson for many of us!. Thank you for being there, sharing this part of your life with all of us. You have helped me Tiffany, in ways you can't even imagine. I am from Spain, but I live in the UK. I have this silly fantasy that I may run into you one day ( may be Tesco?) and give you the biggest hug ever. I know you don't need it, you are sorrounded by so many people who love you. But today, I really had the need to break the screen to wipe your tears and hug really tight.
Oh honey I m a mom estranged from my daughter. I hurt for her and I hurt for you As a mother I want to hold you both so close and give u more love than I ever knew I had inside. Love u sweetheart 💕💕💕
Hi Tiffany, you’ve been challenged certainly more than most. You’re a real person with emotions & fears, you’re not glass; you’re a real living child of God. Having fears doesn’t mean you’re faithless, it means you’re human. Your tears do not mean you’re weak, it means you’re human. I hope you feel ALL our love & support. We got this Tiff💙
If I could give you advice Tiffany, it would be to not block anything out. Embrace the pain and the fear and sit in it. It’s the first step to processing the information and gaining perspective and clarity. Experience it no matter how hard. You feel these ways for a reason so don’t deny yourself of these feelings that are natural and absolutely necessary for the process ❤️
Hi Tiffany. Just popped in to tell you about my favorite aunt Louise.Back in the 70s she had her colon and bladder removed she had cancer . She lived with those bags for 30 years. And she was the happiest person you would ever meet. She passed from old age well into her 90s. And my sister has a bag as well. She had cancer 20 years ago. I wish you all the best!! Sending love hugs and prayers ❤️. You got this 👍And put up your Christmas 🎄.I feel for ya. And feel free to be sad ,angry,and all of those emotions.
I work in an acute rehab ward with the therapists- physio and occupational. You will be absolutely amazing and bounce back. Emotionally you still have lots of your journey left on this path but……you have pointed out so many positives and you are a rare person that is able to do that even on those very dark days. You see the light because you are strong enough to see it in a place that feels pitch black right now x
Tiffany, I rarely comment on videos, but I just wanted to say I’ve been watching you for about a year now and you have been so strong and have persevered through so much! Although the surgery is not going to be easy, you have so many people that love and support you and will be there for you during the times that you really need to have comfort and love and just some words of encouragement to keep you from getting into a dark place in your mind. You got this girl and you got all of us here online whenever you need to talk or just to get your mind off of things. Just remember that the present moment is temporary and the future still has so much in store for you - we will all support you from getting you through this time right now in this present moment and be there to cheer you on & to celebrate with you in the future of you being cancer free!!
Hi Tiffany , I also don’t comment , but I am always checking to see how you are doing . God bless you and keep up this fight . Always remember you got this ! You have been so strong keep fighting and think once all this is over you’ll be able to start your recovery and one day God willing you will look back and be so proud of the fight you put up for you and your family ♥️ God bless you and I will pray for you 🙏🏻
I'm not sure if you'll read this or not. I don't comment on video's often , but I felt this imense need to . Thank you for spreading awareness , positivity , encouragement and love through your channel. I hate cancer as it's taken so much beautiful life . I know people have shared story's of remission and I wanted to share that my father ( at 38) had stage 4 colon cancer . He was given 6 months to live after surgery to remove a majority of his colon. He lived many many years passed his diagnosis. I believe in you. You will get through this. You got this ! 💜 thank you for reminding me of the importance of life. You're so strong. You're so loved. Wishing you the best of the best.
Dearest Tiffany, you are constantly on my mind, please know we are behind you 100%. You are strong and have jumped every hurdle so far and you will get through this . Much love... We got this💙
Dear Tiffany, I've watched your journey but I don't usually comment but I'd like to let you know that you've got this! You're allowed to be scared and angry and to express that. I think these videos are sort of therapeutic for you, you can vent your emotions and you have a huge virtual family rooting and praying for you! We're cheering for you in this marathon! It'll be better soon 💜
Dear Tiffany, I've never commented before, but just wanted to send you a hug. One day at a time, one step at a time. All of your feelings are valid and of course you need to mourn and grief, to express your fears. None of us can truly put ourselves in your shoes but through the power of internet, we are walking along side you, every bit of the way.
You seem so anxious, scared and angry. Let yourself to express your thoughts and feelings, this is your story and we want to hear you. You're so important for us, the ones that wishes your wellness and happiness. We all will pray for you and your family because this fight is for everyone. You got this Tiffany 💙💙
Tiffany get up out of bed, put up your Christmas decor wrap presents and bake. Keep yourself busy with things that bring you joy. You have so much strength and people who are here to support you through this. You are definitely an inspiration to others. Sending you big hugs and prayers. You got this!!🌻
Hi Tiffany. I’ve never commented before but I’ve watched your entire journey. I just have to say that I think you are absolutely incredible. To face such a monumental surgery with the sheer resilience you’re showing is mind-blowing to me. The fact that at this time you’re able to articulate your thoughts so well and dig so deep for that positivity and lightness, is truly amazing. I am so deeply sorry that these are the cards you have been dealt and you have every right to feel angry, hurt, confused, sad and anything else you may be feeling. However, I have no doubt that your spirit, determination and sheer force of will will carry you through this indescribably testing time and that you will have a wonderful life, which you so deserve. Sending you so much love ❤ x
"Your illness does not define you. Your strength and courage does.” (quote unknown! 😊) You are super awesome and I love your family so much! Praying for you xx
Tiffany, your book of life has many chapters ahead. When this cancer journey chapter ends, you’re slate will be clean to write so many wonderful stories. Life is full of so many up’s and downs. You deserve an UP to share. 💙💙💙
Putting the tree up will give you joy!!! my husband had oral cancer, they did tell him if they didn’t feel they could get it all. They would stop the surgery because it would’ve been so invasive… But they were able to get it all. He had a radical neck dissection you are stronger than you know, and there are so many people out there that are going through what you were doing that will give you the support you need.❤❤. Please have Matt update us when you don’t feel you are strong enough.
Tiffany this is massive you need time to take it in, you are human you are doing so well to even be able to film this. You are a beautiful person, You have so much on your tiny shoulders, we are all so proud of you. big hugs. Remember we are all with you. xx
We are with you Tiffany! You have so much to process and all of the emotions, the sadness and anger are normal under the circumstances. You need to do whatever makes you happy and provides comfort to you. We will continue to keep you and your family in our prayers❤.
Tiffany, it’s 3:13 AM the morning here in Florida and you have been on my mind all day. The reason I am writing is because you deserve the world and the world has thrown you a curveball that is an incredible challenge To wrap your head around. Your little body has gone through a lot and now you’re going to need the strength to move forward to success. We are here to feed your heart and support you. You need to feed that little body to strengthen it as we cannot do that for you. And yes you are strong and you will make it through all of the upcoming surgery. I pray that they remove all the cancer from your body and you can look forward to a future with your wonderful loved ones. You are in my prayers and in my thoughts.
I started watching your vlogs and your journey this summer and it really feels like you're a close friend. I hate to see you like this, but please please - feel those feelings, you need to face them to gather your strength for the upcoming battle. You got this and we're here for you! Thousands of friends are hoping and praying for you. 💙
It’s natural to feel so upset and emotional and showing such raw emotion is so brave of you Tiffany it’s such a lot to process right now and crying is a great way to release some of the stress and “ grief “ you are feeling . You’ve got this Tiff
I am so sorry Tiffany. I’m sitting here crying along with you. I went back and watched your older videos and you’ve never changed, you’ve always been such a kind soul. You’re a beautiful person and you are surrounded by so many people who love you. I am in the US but I send you a great big hug!! You will get through this. ❤
Tiff, I’m just watching this now two weeks after. I’ve had cancer too. Cry whenever you want, scream, don’t ever feel like you have to ‘be positive and brave’. Other people feel better when you’re positive but you don’t have to do that. You can’t always do that. It’s shit and not fair and you’ve been thrown into so much nasty stuff. And you’ve done it with incredible courage. Sending a huge hug 💕. I’m crying with you.
Tiffany, your strength has been astounding this entire journey. My grandmother had the same type of cancer and went through the same surgery well into her 60's. She handled it like a champ and you will too. Your body is so much younger and stronger! It is extremely hard to think about how much life is going to change, but we often don't realize how much we can adapt and how our desire to live allows us to overcome even the most difficult of challenges. You GOT this!
What a great comment, she really is much stronger than she thinks and her body too, she has gone through so much already, I believe in you Tiffany, you got this.
Tiffany, it just broke my heart to see you suffering. But at the same time, watching you rally at the end- ticking off the challenges you’ve already overcome… you are amazing. You might be physically tiny, but your spirit is awesomely huge! I hope you’re comforted and lifted up knowing there are so many people praying for you and hoping for you and listening to you when you feel angry or sad and need to let it out. Maybe you could do Christmas before you go in for surgery? Like the whole thing you would normally do- presents, dinner, movies- just on a day you choose. Tiffany’s Christmas! 🎄
Tiffany, I don’t usually comment but I really just wanted to say I adore your strength and resilience. You will be ok, one thing I know is that God always gives us to the strength to deal with the tests he puts in front of us. You are such a gem! You’ve got this, we’ve got this x
@@Tondaloona03 my God? You’re coming on to a channel, where the creator clearly has a strong connection with religion and spewing this BS? Why comment belittling the thing she and so many find strength from? Keep your view to yourself if you have nothing positive to add. Pathetic …
Dear beautiful Tiffany, Your raw honesty is such a gift. I have stage 4 cancer. Diagnosed in May 21 as treatable but not curable. I have almost permanently been on chemotherapy since then and I have had surgery resulting in an illiostomy. What you are about to go through is HUGE, meaning that all of your emotions, including the anger are all ok. We have got this. xx
Beautiful Tiffany you have got this we are praying for you and hoping for s Xmas miracle for you and my hubby and for every one around the world,keep the faith with much love from South Africa mwahzzzz 🙏🙏😍😘😇
You are allowed to feel all these emotions, it’s so okay. Put up the Christmas decs, do all the things that make you feel happy. Whatever happens they have to remove the growth, cancer or no cancer; then you can get better, get stronger and move on. We care and are here for you Tiffany, xxx
Speak your fears to the Lord and all of your prayer warriors. Praying Philippians 4:6 that you “will not be anxious. That you can in this situation with prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving,you can present your concerns to your living Lord, and the peace that transcends all understanding will be yours and your loved ones, Tiffany.
This video literally breaks my heart. I can't even imagine what you are going through and will have to go through during and after the surgery. I pray for God's divine intervention in that surgery room. You got this girl!!! Put up your trees because you love Christmas and it will bring you joy. Love you Tiffany 💙🙏🏻
Hello dear Tiffany- I’ve just come recently to your channel and I cannot express in words how deeply you have moved me with your sweet personality, courage and positivity. We all complain about stupid, little things and here you are carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders with such grace. I know that life can really throw some mean stuff at us. I am 60 and have battled with major depression my whole life because of childhood abuse and trauma. When I am in a dark place what keeps me going is my family, friends and doctors. But I‘be learned that no matter what, the very fiber of what makes us who we are can bury deep to get through the hard times. Then when the light comes again we emerge a better version of ourself because we’ve grown and we have a better insight and a better appreciation for life. Let yourself feel and take all the time you need to process. Do little things to make yourself happy in the meantime. I’m😊very gratified to now be part of the Tifffanythinks family. Looking forward to seeing you become a healthy Tiffany! Sending best wishes and hugs from Richmond, Virginia.💕
You sweet thing. I'm so sorry for all that you are having to go through!! It just doesn't seem fair!!! You are such a good person. I just want you to know that miracles happen every single day! My brother was given 6 months to live over 10 years ago. He was diagnosed with liver cancer and fortunate enough to get a liver right away. Right at the six month he got a new liver. After that he was diagnosed with diabetes. Then his heart was acting up and he had to have a pacemaker. It's been one thing after another but he is still here and going strong!! I know you've got this! Prayer is so powerful! Especially with all of these kind people praying for you. Your going to be ok! We're all here for you!❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏 We love you!!!
Hi Tiffany, I've been watching you since your diagnosis. I too was diagnosed with stage 4 gastric cancer at the age of 21. I was just about to graduate with my masters degree and it felt like my life was just about to start but I started to get really sick and received the worse news of my life. I can't do surgery as the cancer has metastasized to other organs so you can get everything out. I'm currently just doing chemo to basically live as long as I can. I am 23 now and trying to make the best out of the rest of my life but it is hard. I often get sad and depressed and wonder what's all this for. Last week I had my an appointment to be apart of a clinical trial but found out that I might not be able to qualify because I have brain metastasis. That really made me sad because if I couldn't donate my organs to save lives I wanted to at least donate my body to science to help people in other ways. Right after that appointment I had a seizure. It just feels like my time is coming and I am deeply afraid but I'm still trying to be positive and know that I have lived a good life. Watching your videos and we'll as other cancer patients usually help because it let's me know I am not the only one dealing with this but it still sucks for us. Wishing you the best.
@ Matthew I'm Sending you so much love from 🇨🇦. Cancer is a monster no matter what form you can have. As a fellow cancer WARRIOR, I was one of the lucky ones that came through the other side of it. Even more difficult than the toll that treatments and surgeries take on the body is the toll it takes on your mental health and your Well being. Please know that you too, have a safe place on Tiffany's comments groups to come when you are struggling & need someone to listen or send you a hug. One day at a time. Sending my love from Canada 🇨🇦❤️❤️
Matthew, I am so sorry to read your comment. I have leukemia. Keep fighting my friend! You’re a warrior! You’re so brave! I will be praying for you! Please let us all know how you’re doing. You are loved!🧡💙
Matthew, it breaks my heart to read your story. Cancer has taken the lives of so many people that do not deserve to go through this!! You are very brave to share your story. Wishing you all the best and hoping for that miracle for you!!!
Hello to you! I am a silent viewer, but really need to just say a few things that I am thinking after watching most of this video. First of you, you are an INCREDIBLE human being. That’s what drew me to you in the first place after watching only one video! Lol It’s also so beautiful seeing what An amazing support system you have in your family, friends and “your darling Matt”! Also, the way that you allow yourself to be so entirely vulnerable as you move through this journey is almost breathtaking. I wonder if you have any idea how many people you are helping while you are going through the most challenging time in your life? We watch as you go through each moment~and can almost see when a thought “clicks” and then takes hold in your mind. You are sharing your fears and also such courage as you move through these tumultuous feelings that you are experiencing ~what an honor for us to have the privilege of watching. Be brave, yes~ but like you said~ you are absolutely allowed to be afraid! You are absolutely allowed to be angry! You are experiencing actual trauma every single day due to the myriad of worries that come along with having cancer~ so whatever you are feeling is normal and it is your process and your experience, no one else’s. I feel like you are an old, sweet soul. You are so wise beyond your years! But then again, I see where some of your wisdom comes from when I watch you with your lovely mom. I can’t recall ever being literally worried when someone didn’t post a video~but I found myself all day on Friday and then Saturday checking to see if you had posted a video and then praying so much that you were ok because I was genuinely worried. This is getting entirely too long but in closing, I wanted to tell you that every time I run into something challenging I say the words “We’ve got this”… thank you. ❤
You are stronger than you believe, Tiffany. You may feel overwhelmed, but your profound honesty demonstrates such immense grace AND strength. It is perfectly okay to feel vulnerable, but you have SUCH fight in you. This is going to be a new beginning for you with so much to look forward to. Don’t ever discount your feelings, you deserve this time to grieve. As far as the Christmas tree goes, go for it! You’ll have loads of gifts to look forward to. I wish I could hug you from here, I’m sending you many prayers and much love from the USA! Don’t forget, we’ve got this!! 🙏🏼💕
Nothing will ever be the same but you will be alive and with your family. Plus you have thousands of us praying and supporting you. Cry when you need to, yell at the injustice then keep fighting. You got this.
Nothing is ever the same for any of us. We don’t know what life has in store. One day I could walk. The next I couldn’t. And that’s permanent but my point is our lives change every day in many ways. The fact we don’t notice doesn’t matter. The change around us and within us is occurring. Tiffany is surrounded by love ❤️ and support. That is constant. That won’t change.
Can the doctors put you in touch with other people who have come through your surgery, so you can talk to them about what life is like afterwards? Sending love x 💙💙💙
Hello Tiffany, thank you so much for keeping us updated. All your feelings are valid and justified. You are allowed to feel anything you feel. Grieving the outcome of the surgery, being scared, wondering, smiling, worrying, anger, planning, crying, hoping... all of this is happening at the same time and its overwhelming. You are doing an amazing job at dealing with everything; and it is like you say: its another challenge, another bump on the road to your destination. You will get through this, you got this 💙
I’ve just been thinking of you since this post and had to come back to offer more encouragement. You may be losing these organs but you will still thankfully have your lungs which will allow you to still breathe air to enjoy the scents of your loved ones and the beautiful flowers around you, you still have your brain which will allow you to know your loved ones and all the beauty of them and your world around you and you’ll have your heart which will allow you to feel all the LOVE around you and give you strength because we know You Got This❤
You are not alone on this journey - we are all here for you. When you cry, we cry with you - when you laugh, we laugh with you. Decorate your home and put up your Christmas tree. Buy and wrap your presents - enjoy the season as best you can. We're here if you want to talk, cry or laugh! You've got this Tiffany!
Sweet friend, this is hard. BUT YOU ARE KILLING IT. Here is our Cleveland Clinic Foundation Oncology nurses thoughts: 1) get yourself an amazing (mental health) counselor who specializes in cancer NOW. Today. A specialist. NOW!!! 2) DEMAND that they hook you up with and to meet other young women needing a bowel resection. Learn this is ok. It’s ok to have an ostomy. 3) we think they’re telling you that your surgery is called Cyto-reductive with HIPEC. 4) yes they will “remove all the cancer cells” and don’t worry about the length of the surgery, you’ll be in good hands. 5) then they will fill your peritoneal cavity with a very special warmed chemo and for 90 minutes go back and forth slowly to kill all remaining cancer cells. (PLEASE ASK ABOUT HIPEC- this is absolutely crucial for this cancer) 6) you may wake up different, but you will learn to adapt very quick! 7) we nurses will TEACH YOU how to feel and be normal again. And it will be BEAUTIFUL!!! 🥰🤗 8) you can have more than 1-2 people with you at all times, we promise you. 9) celebrate everything and clear your head. Decorate and celebrate up until the last hour. Stop worrying about everyone else (see step ONE ABOUT YOUR SPECIAL THERAPIST!) 10) stop saying no and GET THIS FREAKING CANCER OUT OF YOU!!! We love you, xo- all your ccf nurses Ps these numbers aren’t in any order, we just went around the room saying all the important things and we are rooting for you. GOOD LUCK!!! Cleveland clinic oncology nurses
This is such a sound and helpful post from nurses at one of the best medical establishments in the world so I do hope Tiffany sees it. It's a pity we can't highlight it or keep sending it to the top.
You are unbelievable Tiffany. Even through such a hard time, you’re still thinking about decorating the house so it’s lovely for other people. Such a kind person, it makes me so sad to see you crying and upset. YOU *WILL* GET THROUGH THIS! Sending love xxx
There is nothing stopping you from having an all-out Christmas with all of the trimmings before you go in for your surgery. Pick a date and talk to the family. I'm sure everyone would much prefer an early Christmas with you there than a regular one with you in the hospital or recovering from surgery. You can do this!
You have been so calm and stayed for so long . Now just have time to feel what you need to feel . Be sad,grumpy,tired,down, - whatever you need my lovely girl just be you ! Everyone understands . You WILL get through this !!! You are being prayed for by so many people . We love you . We got this 💙
Tiffany, I’ve been following your journey for a while, but this is my first time leaving a comment. I admire your strength and kindness so much! Even when things are so difficult for you, you think of others. I’m happy you have such loving support from your mom, Matt, family and friends. I think of you when I’m experiencing my own (compared to yours minor) health issues and it makes me feel supported and blessed. I hope you’ll enjoy decorating for Christmas. I think it will help you feel better. Hugs!
Tiffany, I've been watching your videos for a few months now. My heart has grown to love you & your family as if you were my own daughter. It feels like my heart is being ripped out of my body to see you going through this. I wish I could take this all away from you. You are so incredibly sweet & precious to your viewers around the world. May our prayers lift you up & bring you healing my dear, we love you! 🇺🇸
I’ve watched your entire journey and never commented the fact that you have chose to face this head on is incredible . I have stage for metastatic thymoma I went into a major surgery only to be told there was much more cancer than they thought and my only other option is to remove my entire lung with out a guarantee that I will be cancer free. I cannot bring myself to do this. You are an angel and a true soldier, it is okay to cry and fall apart take the time to process and work through your feelings. You are doing great. Put up that Christmas tree listen to the Christmas music and feel free to laugh and cry at the same time. You will be cancer free , you are an inspiration!! Love n Light!
@Dirty stinky ugly Indians no it is a thymoma a cancer that began in the thymus gland the gland that’s responsible for immune system function. Unfortunately it has spread outside of the primary location to the pluera which is the lining of the lung sometimes these tumors grow on the lining of the heart aswell, this cancer is extremely rare about 1 in every million are diagnosed per year . That fact makes treatment extremely difficult and diagnosis as well. They have yet to link this cancer to hereditary, environmental or lifestyle…. As far as smoking , if you believe in god give it up to him ask him to deliver you from your addiction, truth is we can not do anything without him and we can do everything through him. Good luck.. love n light
This time next year Tiffany, you are going to be amazing. You have got this. My best friend has had an ileostomy for 30 years and once she had recovered she didn’t and still doesn’t let anything stop her and you will be the same I know it. Funny story, in a pub some random bloke accused her of farting which she denied, he said no you definitely just farted, his face was a picture when she told him it was an impossibility and told him why! This operation is going to save your life, how amazing is that? Put your tree up, decorate the house, wrap the presents: get your tree up and I’ll put mine up too, who cares that it’s November? Let’s have fun 🎄🤶
I have just finished radiotherapy for breast cancer, my sister in law has had to have organs removed because of it. Its a horrible long journey, but take a day at a time, do your best to remain positive. Face each challenge head on and continue to fight. We are all with you. Take all the love you can into surgery and you will be strong. We've all got this!
Tiffany we’re in Missouri, USA. We wrap our arms around you and allow your feelings! Celebrate and whatever makes you happy is what you need to do!💙. We love you 💙💙
Hi my loving tiffanythinks family. I am still trying to process a lot of information. I really want to say THANK YOU to all of you - you’ve all been so kind and so loving. I am THE luckiest girl. I love you lots and lots my tiffanythinks family. we got this💙
You are so amazing and strong! Love you prayers and hugs pretty lady!🙏🙏🤍🤍
Tiffany! You're gonna be okay
We all love you too,honey
The strongest and sweetest person I know
Sending you big hugs, take care x.
I have suicide disease and struggling at the moment but we got this hugs 🤗
It's a massive shock Tiff you need time to get over that shock and process what's coming, which is what you are doing right now which is good because you can't block it out , have the hospital offered you anyone to talk to ? it will help massively to talk to someone that's not family and get it processed so you can be in the best possible frame of mind going into this. The next year is going to be so hard, but you can do it and you will have the rest of your life ahead of you and you will go on to do lots of amazing things and have a lovely happy life with Matt, you just have to go through this awful part now to get to that happy part. You can do it
Five year colon cancer survivor here, I too lost all of those things. In the beginning you can't even see how you can possibly get over that hurdle. You will. And you will never look back, because the rest of your life is waiting for you. Hugs from Texas.
I love how positive you are and that you are helping our sweet Tiffany see that she will be ok
Congratulations on your five years, I’m sure it was a long difficult journey, but you made it
I’m so glad you are here (in this world) and here in this blog because no one can reach Tiffany like you can. Thankyou for keeping on fighting to help this young girl. Much love from Edinburgh
Amazing testimony. I love what the body can do and the positive mind after all you’ve gone through.
Thankyou for sharing🤗🤗
Allow yourself to be sad and mourn, and keep fighting. All of your feelings are valid. We got this.
We need her most importantly her husband and her mother and family needs her as well
Yes.💕🙏
@@Karl671 Matt is her husband? I thought he was just her boyfriend. I did not know they were married.
@@Karl671 Matt is Tiffany's boyfriend
@@Karl671 They're not married, maybe they will be one day but wanted to let you know :)
Our diagnosis run parallel. I was diagnosed in July 2021. my tumor was removed in April 2022. I had my rectum, and colon removed. Colostomy is my friend now. Facing another surgery soon. You will get through this one day at a time. Recovery is tough but there are so many people to help. Your videos help me recover. Continue with life. So many things to live for. You got this!
I pray your recovery gets easier and love and prayers for your next surgery ❤
Blessings to you!
Sending you best wishes for a complete recovery. 🙏🏼maybe seeing your comment will give Tiffany strength & hope. Prayers to you both.
God bless you!
My dear Diane I really wish the best to you as well. Be strong and I'm a cancer survivor and I know exactly how you feel. Hugs and prayers to you.
Tiffany, I hope you read this. 9 years ago, I went through something extremely similar. I have a rare cancer called PMP (Pseudomyxoma Peritonei), which is a form of appendix cancer. In almost all cases it seeds the entire abdominal cavity with hundreds of tumors. I was stage IV, and my initial surgery was 18 hours long. (I've since had 3 more tune-ups; they average about 9 hours.) So far-- and typical to many PMP patients-- I've had the following removed: the entire large intestine, part of the small intestine, all of my belly fat (greater and lesser omentum), a full hysterectomy (including the vagina), the rectum, spleen, gall bladder, appendix (happy to be rid of that traitor!), the peritoneum (which is the entire lining of the abdomen), a chunk of my diaphragm, my entire tailbone, and have had tumors removed from my bladder and inguinal lymph nodes. I have an ileostomy bag (and I can assure you that after a brief adjustment, it's not difficult to have), and a ureteral stent (a long tube connecting my kidney to my bladder since my ureter was a casualty of war). I like to say I'm traveling light! :) I've gone into the last 2 surgeries not knowing if I'd wake up still owning a bladder, or if I'd lose that as well, so I completely understand the emotional uncertainty of cancer surgeries. I found I've been actually calmer than expected, because I have experience with the ileostomy bag now, and I know that I can simply tend to one more bag if necessary. Small price to pay for this magnificent gift of life! My story is in no way unique-it's a carbon copy of many, many PMP patients-so know that if all of us can do it and thrive afterwards, you can, too! Be hopeful. You are not alone, and there's a good life on the other side of treatment. Sending my best strength vibes and a warm hug.
Wow you are so brave, sending you hugs for everything you have gone through x
@@dipstar2941 That's kind of you. Thank you. I have such gratitude every day for the remarkable surgeon who performed these surgeries and saved my life. They're the stars, and we the patients are the fortunate recipients of their dedication and skill.
Thank you for sharing your story! Wish you all the best
@@juliaprochnik4632 Thanks, Julia!! ❤ I'm so hopeful for Tiffany -- I know she can do this, with some encouragement and love. Both make such a difference.
We're all with you Tiffany. Feel our prayers and strength coming your way. God bless, keep you safe and help you through this journey. All our love and best wishes from your friends in California.
My daughter had her colon removed at 21; she also had C-diff. She found it helpful to speak with someone who had gone through the same surgery successfully and then offered to do the same for others. She named her stoma Paloma and said it was less difficult to deal with than she anticipated. You got this!
Best advice ever
Great advice 👍🏼
Great comment ! God bless you
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏💝
My uncle had something similar and lived a full life for several decades. ❤💙💙💕💙💙
I have been following your journey since the start. I myself had my bowel removed 4 years ago when I was 27 and live so much better than before with an ileostomy. My father had his bowel, bladder and other things removed 3 years ago at 60 years old. He has 2 ostomy bags but is completely cancer free and leads a completely (if not more adventurous) life now.
Your strength as been amazing! I know it's hard now but think about in a year's time when this is all over and plan the things you can do 💙💙💙
So glad for you Katherine.
Tiffany this family would be wonderful to reach out to for information and could totally relate to your feelings and concerns possible reach out to them for love and support ❤️ your amazing woman and have been so strong 💪 we will continue to pray 🙏🏻 for your healing mentally and physically ❤️ 💙
I was looking through for a message such as this. Thanks for taking the time to do this for Tiffany.
Just what Tiff needs to hear. So glad for you Katherine 💙💙💙
Continued health to you and
Your dad…added to the prayer list
Your surgeon gave you the option for immediate surgery or waiting 6 weeks. You have it on video. He should have made you & Matt understand how serious your situation was.❤
Tiffany- my husband had same cancer as you and had this surgery in 2018 (for Colostomy). He was stage four colorectal cancer and I want you to know-- he is still alive and cancer-free today. He started treatment in 2017 so he is nearing five years cancer free. He did chemo, radiation, and then surgery to remove most of his colon and the rest on down. Much love to you-- the colostomy is hard for him at times, but you get used to it and it was definitely worth it. Miracles happen-- Praying for you.
Hi jennifer my dad had colorectal cancer in 2018 to ,it was stage 3 but the cancer had gone a little into his lymph nodes as well ,i took turns with my sister to sit with him why he had chemo as my mum was to traumatised! He had the op and was left with a colostomy bag ,Hes coped amazing my mum i think found it harder as theyve been married 50 years x Hes doin really well hes my best friend ❤️ i hope your husband is doing well and he seems very brave ❤️
My brother went through it he is still alive and well 🙏
How many years cancer survivor
I am here for you and sending prayers
Your anger, sadness and emotional state is well justified. YOU DON'T NEED TO APOLOGIZE OR FEEL LIKE THEY ARE NOT WARRANTED. We love you Tiffany. ❤
YES it really is
Love you Tiffany
I was going to say exact same thing.
Well said.
Absolutely agree WE GOT THIS Sweetheart ❤
Stay strong Tiffany ❤️ A friend had exactly this op 40 years ago. Sure, she had a bladder and bowel bag, but she has travelled the world and has just celebrated her 90th birthday! Celebrate Christmas 🎄 and enjoy x
Do you know why, if tumour is confined to the colon that they need to remove so many organs?
I think because its probably grown through the lining of the bowel and into other nearby organs. As she said once I'm sure thats its a t4b tumour x
@@Sammy-il1qfI believe the cancer has affected all the organs she has named. I was saddened to hear that it had grown but I think she's strong enough to get through it.
@@msky6508 Ah OK, thanks, I just heard her say that it was in the colon in this video. Feel so bad for her.
Wonderful your friend is living life . People are amazing & strong!🙏🏼❤️
they are organs, not your soul and light......I am praying you live a long life to share your love with those who need it.
Tiffany,, I know someone who had this surgery and now she is living a full and happy life! There must be some kind of a support group of people who have had this surgery that you could meet and may be pleasantly surprised which will give you hope! I’m so sorry you are going through this, you are a strong person, you’ll get through this! So many people love you and will help get you through this! You had your eggs frozen, you can still have children with a surrogate, maybe your sister. I continue to keep you in my prayers! God bless you!
I agree there must be a support group out there that can help her through this stage
Tiffany, my dear, I am so sorry you have been given this frightening journey to traverse. You are going through all of the normal fears, grief, anger, & confusion that would be considered normal in this circumstance. Each person who has been given a cancer diagnosis has also been so frightened were afraid they would not live. But then we realized we could handle one day at a time. Then after each new day we realized that maybe we could do that again. Then all of a sudden we decided that maybe we had a chance because “hey” we DID handle all of those previous days. YOU are a strong young woman who has shown that over and over. You TOO can do this!
I can laugh now when saying that when I found out I had a very rare form of melanoma 4+ years ago and researched my diagnosis every piece of information said I would likely die within a few months. Although much older than you, it scared the H-ll out of me. At the same time I got mad and decided if I was going to die then I was going to buy a used convertible and enjoy my short time left. That was in February of 2018. Last summer after enjoying it for 3-1/2 years and being cancer free since Sept of 2018, I traded it in realizing that after all I still had a lot of life left.
You are NOT alone in facing these scary challenges but you ARE strong and you NEED to do what needs to be done, whatever challenges that leaves you with. Because in reality it is ALL you CAN do!
Also, when they say you can only have one visitor in ICU I am pretty sure they mean at one time. Amma and Matt should be able to alternate who comes into the room to see you but it can only be one at a time. Too much going on in ICU, too much equipment, and some families would fill the room if there were no rules. Staff needs room to do their work without having to deal with multiple visitors.
You have thousands of us who support, pray for & love you. We believe in you and your strength to overcome this and to accomplish great things going forward! Life is waiting for you and you WILL make the most of it, I am sure!
You do need to put up your tree! Do what makes you happy. Live each day, doing what you love and what makes you happy. It helps so much to take your mind off of other things. There’s plenty of time left to worry…
Great positive comment.
Hi Tiffany, I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this but I would like to encourage you. My dad was diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer in 1995. He was extremely depressed about losing his colon and anus and also having a permanent colostomy but he’s been cancer free since 2000. I just hope you feel encouraged! Praying for you, Matt, your family and your medical team. That God would give them wisdom and direction. ♥️🙏🏻♥️
Put your Christmas tree up and celebrate Christmas before the surgery. Christmas is time with your family not a day in a calendar. Soak that love in and although it’s so hard enjoy every moment possible. You’re so strong! We’ve got this. We’re all here for you ❤
Agree ❤️🙏🏽
What a wonderful idea...seize each moment, knowing that your home will look beautiful while you are in hospital 🎄👵
Thats a wonderful idea
Tiffany we are lucky to have you as well. Please reach out to a group or perhaps individual counseling. You’ve been pushing things down for a long time and you need to talk to someone outside of your family, so you can speak without fear of hurting you family’s heart. This is a lot to absorb. Try to push yourself to do the things you enjoy. Decorate for Christmas, do your Christmas list and shop on line to help get your mind off of things. All those feeling are yours sweet girl you can be sad mad angry…. Whatever own your feelings. We love you so much and I will continue to pray for a complete healing and for your mind to be at ease. 🌹🕯🤍🙏
Oh YES!
Hoping Tiffany sees your post! Great idea!
Stage 4 squamous cell carcinoma cervical cancer. It’s spread to my liver lungs lymph nodes and soft tissue. I am so angry so so angry. Just finishing my first rounds of chemo. I am not able to get surgery. All I do is cry. All we can do is keep on keeping on. Your videos popped up and I’m grateful. Don’t ever stop fighting.
Hey Brandi..I am so sorry to hear about this news. We love you..🤗❤️
Brandi...this is a safe place to come when you need to vent, or need support. ❤️❤️
You can not live with chemotherapy and surgery. Because cancer stem cells is not gonna be killed with those methods. You are ganna die with those.
Coc protocol is stemming from UK . LOTS OF koreans cure cancer with it. People change it
Originally coc is 100mg mebendazole 80mg artovastatin 1000mg metformin doxycicline 100mg etc but it is not enough to kill cancer cells..but koreans changed it and added more.. For 3days in a week 2400mg mebendazole 30ml olive oil 1000mg omega3 and for4days liposomal vitaminc 20-25g( once in a week vitaminc injetion 50g) 100mg doxycycline 500mg arzithromycin and everyday naltrexone 3.5mg vitamin d 5000iu 1000mg metformin 400mg egcg 800mg pterostilbene 4000mg quercetin 100mg melatonin.... 30 people who is terminal cancer patients cure cancer in korea.(doctors gave up but they cured cancer)
@@고고고싱 I really haven’t had any negative side affects with chemo so assuming I’m just going to die is a a bit much. Lots of people beat cancer with chemo. Now I’m not saying you’re wrong and it may not kill all the cancer but again I’m no where near just dying. I have however thought about looking into alternative methods so I will look into you’re regiment. Saying people are just going to die is kind of insensitive and I’m not normally an insensitive person. So maybe when you talk to people about things like this you do it a little less harshly. This is my life we’re talking about.
And where would one get all this stuff ?!
I dont have cancer but I had surgery where I removed my colon and rectum. I now have a stoma. It was hard afterwards but I made it, got my life back and I believe you will too. We got this. You got this. You are sooo much stronger than you think. Sending you all my thoughts, prayers and lots of love! 💙💙💙
Me too .. permanent ileo. 💜
Tiffany...YOU GOT THIS!! Everyone's cancer story is different. It could be the same stage and type but how I handled mine was different than how my bestfriend handled hers, my aunts (3) handled theirs, my uncle handled his and my grandfather handled his. You're championing your journey. Anger is normal. I felt so full of anger during my battle and didn't have anyone to be angry at. After a year, I screamed. I screamed while alone, sitting on the sofa, while watching TV. My mind took me back to all I'd gone through and I had no more tears...all I could do was scream. Scream at the top of my lungs. Afterwards, I felt lighter. I had so much bottled up anger, anxiety, frustration, unhappiness and buried under all of that was my scream. As I'm typing this, I've realized that, that scream was my voice. The voice that I lost when the doctors took control. When I realized I had no control of what my body was doing. Betraying me. BUT, here I am 11 years later....feeling good. Grateful for what the journey taught me. You'll get through this! You absolutely will. All survivors have a date..a date that cancer was eradicated from our bodies. Mine: 1/11/11 (11 days before my 39th birthday)
Thank you that's Avery positive message to Tiffany may God bless with good health
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Pilar, what an amazing comment. What insentive you give to our girl. Also, so happy for you. Take care, Susan
Thanks for sharing hopefully your testimony encourages tiffany .God is good .john 10.10 says the devil comes to killed their and destroy but god came to have life and life in abundance.the devil will not win God is bigger n greater .god is our healer.
What am awesome response! Thank you for that.
Tiffany, you should reach out to a therapist who specializes in cancer patients to help process your feelings. Cancer is not only a physical journey, but a psychological one and good mental health is an integral part of overall healing. From a 2X survivor in Chicago! You got this!
I went through this surgery in 2004. It is not how I envisioned my life would be - but you will learn what your new normal is. Use a mental health professional - it really helped with the anxiety. I have climbed the Eiffel Tower and swan with manatees - with all the post surgical changes. You can do this!
I got through total colectomy in the time of covid I wasn't allowed any visits through the whole hospital stay and I 'm so happy and healthy now, I love my ostomy because it gave me my life back. I would do the surgery hundred times again if needed. You will get through this and you will get free and healthy! You got this!
As a cancer survivor who has lost a major organ, I can say it's okay to not be okay.Your feelings are very valid, cry your tears and get angry, and when they dry get on with life and your emotion is spent,, do all those things that make you happy Tiff. Decorate the tree, the house, spend time with your loved ones, have Christmas early...Come Christmas we will all be with you in our thoughts and our prayers..WE got this!!!!
Have you thought about asking your Oncologist if there is someone who has been through a similar surgery that you could speak with, or find a reputable cancer group so that you can speak with your peers about what to expect and have them share their stories too? That is something we can do in the U.S. if it seems like that would help. 💙
My sister went to cancer group and it helped her doctor can refer her to counselling, cancer group.
Excellent idea.
I have a rare stomach disorder cyclic vomiting syndrome and finding others like me out there helped me so much.. The cool thing is that sometimes you get to help someone that may be suffering by offering them things I have already been threw or the meds that make my cycles not so Frequent.. I would at least try and find a cancer group that’s just like yours! Give you more hope!! You got this!!🤍
Sweetie, as a grandma I just want to send you a huge loving hug and also one for your lovely mum (she's amazing!). You are so so so brave! I truly believe you'll get through this and one day it'll all be behind you. Cry and be angry all you want but stay positive my sweet girl - you got this! xox
I feel the same way! I just want to hug them both! Love them so much!
Tiffany my husband and I both include you in our prayers daily. We’re praying for your healing in every area of your existence. Your updates helps us in the direction of our prayers. We love you
Tiffany, there is a TH-cam channel called Let's Talk IBD. The woman on this channel has had her colon and rectum removed due to crohns disease, so she has an ostomy bag. She is very upfront about her journey and shares so much information. I realize cancer is different than crohns, but, she has to navigate life with the removal of some of those same organs. I encourage you to find her channel and listen to her journey. God bless.
Yes, Tiffany, please, please, please go to her channel. She is young just like you and she has gone thru the removal of the organs that you are going to have removed. She has a beautiful soft voice and she is so easy to listen to. I know that it would be good for you and your mom to talk with her.
there are two other channels Hannah Witton who has had a colostomy for a long time and has posted a number of videos living with it and also Laura Jean Bainbridge who had colorectal cancer and had everything removed, is living with a colostomy and will have it reversed next year with a J pouch. She is now getting married in December. Life will be different but you will be alive to enjoy it.
Plead the blood of Jesus over yourself and your mind, thoughts, heart soul and spirit. Think on the positive … Philippians 4:6-8. Read this scripture verse. There’s nothing impossible for our Jesus Christ of Nazareth. Our Heavenly Father, God almighty.
My heart aches for you. You can’t carry this burden alone. Reach out for support. Strength to you and your loved ones.
You might want to seek out a support group for someone who’s gone through similar surgery. You’re a fighter Tiffany. You got this.
Tiffany, I ended up in hospital with a pain in my stomach. I woke up 2 weeks later in an ICU with a permanent ileostomy. I’d no warning at all. My advice is to reach out to support groups and chat with people who’ve went through similar surgery. Everyone’s experience will be different, but it’s good to hear how others coped. We are all here for you, listening and praying for you. 💕
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I agree so much.
Great suggestion. Tiffany, you are a very strong young woman but some support from support groups or your medical team would be helpful for you. This is a lot for anyone to deal with. Allow yourself the emotions. Try to stay focused on getting your strength for the surgery. You have a wonderful and loving family, lean on them, you don’t have to be strong all the time. Keeping you in my prayers. ❤
I do think a positive support group with people who have been through some similar surgeries would be very helpful for Tiffany at this point! Hearing about positive outcomes could be the encouragement and comfort she needs!
Tiff, you are going through the 5 stages of grief for the life you thought you would have - denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance. You are easily one of the bravest persons I’ve come across. Allow yourself to feel all of these emotions. There is grace in all of them. You don’t have to be strong for anyone. You are blessed to be at the best hospital for cancer in the UK and get the best care - many people cannot dream of that. You have a great support system, many people don’t have that. And you are young enough to look forward to the medical innovations that wil come to restore your quality of life. Many people do not have that future. We got you ❤
Yes! Good point! And people don’t always go straight through them in order. We sometimes jump around.
Your video meant a lot to me today. Today is my birthday and when I blow out my candles I am giving my birthday wish to you. I am wishing for you to have the strength and courage to get you through the surgery and recovery. It will be a tough journey but I can see you recovering from all this and having tea with us. stay strong and believe that it is possible.
You're so sweet .
Happy birthday Mary🎉 how sweet of you to give Tiffany your birthday wish.
Tiffany, I'm a Dietitian and if you would like any advice or support with nutrition during this time/ in the lead up to surgery or after, just let me know. You are a pillar of strength and I admire you so much!
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Also a dietitian. We’re here for you ❤❤
I've often noticed that there is way too much highly processed food in T's diet. Needs to eat natural, high in fibre, good protein organic food to build her strength for surgery💙💙💙
With all due respect to those meaning well think Tiffany ought to obtain her advice from her own medical team. Some advice I have seen in the comments is at best - needs to be avoided & at worst - potentially dangerous.
@@YeahShaw oh absolutely, I would never just dish out information on here. I meant more that advice is available if Tiffany wanted to reach out privately!
I’m sorry Tiffany ❤ From someone that came out of an intensive care unit missing half the person they used to be and needing help to hold a plastic cup like a toddler; you can get back to yourself again. You’ll be forever changed by what happens to you but you will find yourself in there again one day and life will be fun and enjoyable again. Lots of Love gorgeous girl 💙
Tiff, I had a lot of organs removed a few years ago , my story is different to yours as everyones is , I had no idea of my future and my partner had just died. Life has been amazing and I have met 2 new grandchildren since then. I think of you so much and send you silent wishes , hope you feel them ❤️, I also didn't know how my surgery would go but I let go of the fear and trusted in my destiny. Sending so much love and strength to you xxx
Tiffany I don’t usually comment on your videos and am more a silent supporter. I have watched you since your uni room tour days. I can’t imagine how difficult this time must be for you but the courage, resilience and tenacity with which you’ve handled this whole journey is incredibly inspiring. I am praying for you and I know that you got this and that you can and will fight this! We are all with you!
Tiffany, mif you need to cry, scream, rant and rave, curse , what ever do it, that's why we are here. We love you and if you need to do these things do them with us, we got this.
God bless you darling keep fighting sweetie.x
Pasebomba We sure are.!!
I'm a silent supporter too. My Love, my Strength, my Prayers and my positive Energy from Germany. 💖🙏🕊
I have watched you for a few years and only commented a couple of times. You have been so strong with all this journey has thrown at you. Get angry - you have a right, shout scream, cry, all of that. Let out your anger and frustration. I cannot imagine getting the news you have. I have had cancer in the past with surgery to remove it. My op was not as extensive as yours will be but you just have to put yourself in their hands. We are all routing for you. If anyone can do it you can. Sending love. xxx
Tiffany I’m giving you a much needed hug and a million prayers to assist you on this massive journey you have ahead of you.
I was diagnosed with vagina cancer 10 years ago. I had half of my vagina removed, I have a stoma bag and I have double nephroscomy tubes. My hubby calls me the bag lady. It’s the most frightening thing to have to live with, but you have people who love you and will be with you through this terrifying journey.
The Lord will be with you and put your trust in him always.
You have been so brave and there will be an end to this, not the end you want, but you have you Mummy Matt and the Lord with you always xx🙏🏻🙏🏻xx
I’m sending you love, prayers, and lots of love and strength my love xxxxx
Gods Blessings on you always 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Tiffany, what you are going through - would break me. So if you say you are not strong - trust me - you are the strongest person I could ever know. I am honored to know you through this channel, and honored that you give me a lesson every day about how to be a good human being and a caring one and a loving one. Please know that you are teaching all of us what a good human being can be. Thank you for teaching me so much about life. You've made me a better dad and husband and human being!
Well said Dave. I totally agree.
THIS.
Dave CGS what a beautiful person you are a loving caring man to your family & others May God Bless you !
You have the gift of writing , you put in words what I think everyone here feels . Yes ,she 's so strong and you're right she 's a special old soul. Thank you
When you said that cancer is not a sprint, its a journey... Oh yes, yes it is a journey. My daughter, my 7 year old beautiful soul was diagnosed with leukemia last June, and she gives us lessons for life. She, just like you, has this love for life and even when its difficult she is light and smiles.
Praying for you ❤️
Sending you and your daughter healing love and light. Bless you x
Sending you and your little angel so many well wishes !
Sending love & support your way. Bless your beautiful child. Our child had a brain tumor. She is well with 4 children. Life is crazy but we are surly strong. We are Super moms ♥️💙🦋🙏🏼😘
And praying for your daughter.
This is heart breaking. Praying lots fir your daughter no child should go through that. I wish cancer never existed. So many people passing away from this horrible disease.
You don’t need to block it out Tiffany. You need to go through these feelings even though they’re horrible right now so that you can process what’s happening. 💙💙💙
Tiffany I think it’s time for you to ask your medical team to arrange counseling for you because your going through a major stressful, traumatic and life altering event. You need help to process your feelings and thoughts and this is a natural and normal reaction to what your going through. I hope this comment is helpful. Sending you all lots of love and hugs. From Jodie in Melbourne Australia. ❤️💐🐨
Totally agree, she needs counselling to help cope through all this. Also from Melbourne Australia 🇦🇺 ♥
You are your heart and soul - not your body Tiffany. You’re grieving and that’s totally understandable! Please talk it out and see a counselor that can help you because it’s too much for you and Matt and your mother 💙 We love you so much!!! 💙💙💙💙
You’ve got this!!! 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙
💙💙 You’re so much stronger than you think. We’re all here rooting for you xxx
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ABSOLUTELY. ALWAYS!!
@@tiffanythinks please read my face book message to you❤️
My darling Tiffany 💙
It's okay to mourn the life you thought you would have had before cancer and surgery. It's okay to be angry and sad and confused. You can't be strong all the time and that's okay. Sometimes it's good to get it all out, but just know that there will come a day when you're going to look back and be amazed at just how incredibly resilient you are.
WE GOT THIS 💙💙💙
Very well said! ❤
Well said!!
I hate cancer so much. It robs us of our joy. But I love the idea of putting up a tree. And yes, bake cookies & wrap gifts. Whatever puts a smile on your face. This journey is going to come to an end & you will be cancer free. I'm standing in the gap with you & claiming victory. We got this!
Cancer has ruined my family 😢I had it my sister and two brothers had at a very young age but thank god we are still here 🙏
Tiffany, I found your channel after losing my dad to cancer. He would have to have an operation similar to yours, to remove the bladder, but there was no time or conditions for him to be able to have the operation because of his age and other associated health problems. I'm so, so sorry you're going through this. I wish I could take it all away from you, you are so special and touch so many souls in this world. This is coming from a Brazilian girl watching you, you have no idea the impact your strength has for so many people. With that being said, it's okay to be sad, this is not the news you or us wanted at all. It is okay to grief, it is a part of the acceptance process. My heart truly aches for you right now. Seeing you crying makes me cry, I see in your journey many things from the journey my family went through as well with my dad's cancer. I know that it's a major surgery, and that you will have challenges, but you are young and you will be able to recover from this, I really believe you will be able to live a good life after this nightmare. I wish I could give you a hug. It will be a new life with challenges, but it will also bring you a new look at your future experiences and your relationships with your family members. You will be able to live to the fullest. I truly, truly hope you will be okay. I can't believe how you handle this journey, it is absolutely inspiring, and I also understand how difficult it is on you. Sending you so, so much love 💙it is going to be okay in the end!
Tiffany, I had never seen you so brave!!!. Talking to all of us, so genuinely and openly with tears in your eyes and a beautiful broken voice about the immense challenge you have ahead. Of course you have to be mad and worried and sad!!!!. Who wouldn't Tiffany??!?
What a lesson for many of us!. Thank you for being there, sharing this part of your life with all of us. You have helped me Tiffany, in ways you can't even imagine. I am from Spain, but I live in the UK. I have this silly fantasy that I may run into you one day ( may be Tesco?) and give you the biggest hug ever. I know you don't need it, you are sorrounded by so many people who love you. But today, I really had the need to break the screen to wipe your tears and hug really tight.
i agrée with you
Well said
Oh honey
I m a mom estranged from my daughter. I hurt for her and I hurt for you
As a mother I want to hold you both so close and give u more love than I ever knew I had inside. Love u sweetheart 💕💕💕
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Hi Tiffany, you’ve been challenged certainly more than most. You’re a real person with emotions & fears, you’re not glass; you’re a real living child of God. Having fears doesn’t mean you’re faithless, it means you’re human. Your tears do not mean you’re weak, it means you’re human. I hope you feel ALL our love & support. We got this Tiff💙
If I could give you advice Tiffany, it would be to not block anything out. Embrace the pain and the fear and sit in it. It’s the first step to processing the information and gaining perspective and clarity. Experience it no matter how hard. You feel these ways for a reason so don’t deny yourself of these feelings that are natural and absolutely necessary for the process ❤️
Hi Tiffany. Just popped in to tell you about my favorite aunt Louise.Back in the 70s she had her colon and bladder removed she had cancer . She lived with those bags for 30 years. And she was the happiest person you would ever meet. She passed from old age well into her 90s. And my sister has a bag as well. She had cancer 20 years ago. I wish you all the best!! Sending love hugs and prayers ❤️. You got this 👍And put up your Christmas 🎄.I feel for ya. And feel free to be sad ,angry,and all of those emotions.
I work in an acute rehab ward with the therapists- physio and occupational. You will be absolutely amazing and bounce back. Emotionally you still have lots of your journey left on this path but……you have pointed out so many positives and you are a rare person that is able to do that even on those very dark days. You see the light because you are strong enough to see it in a place that feels pitch black right now x
Tiffany, I rarely comment on videos, but I just wanted to say I’ve been watching you for about a year now and you have been so strong and have persevered through so much! Although the surgery is not going to be easy, you have so many people that love and support you and will be there for you during the times that you really need to have comfort and love and just some words of encouragement to keep you from getting into a dark place in your mind. You got this girl and you got all of us here online whenever you need to talk or just to get your mind off of things. Just remember that the present moment is temporary and the future still has so much in store for you - we will all support you from getting you through this time right now in this present moment and be there to cheer you on & to celebrate with you in the future of you being cancer free!!
Hi Tiffany ,
I also don’t comment , but I am always checking to see how you are doing . God bless you and keep up this fight . Always remember you got this ! You have been so strong keep fighting and think once all this is over you’ll be able to start your recovery and one day God willing you will look back and be so proud of the fight you put up for you and your family ♥️
God bless you and I will pray for you 🙏🏻
This video made me comment for the first time, what a fantastic woman Tiffany is.
Beautifully said…
I'm not sure if you'll read this or not. I don't comment on video's often , but I felt this imense need to . Thank you for spreading awareness , positivity , encouragement and love through your channel. I hate cancer as it's taken so much beautiful life . I know people have shared story's of remission and I wanted to share that my father ( at 38) had stage 4 colon cancer . He was given 6 months to live after surgery to remove a majority of his colon. He lived many many years passed his diagnosis. I believe in you. You will get through this. You got this ! 💜 thank you for reminding me of the importance of life. You're so strong. You're so loved. Wishing you the best of the best.
Dearest Tiffany, you are constantly on my mind, please know we are behind you 100%. You are strong and have jumped every hurdle so far and you will get through this . Much love... We got this💙
I’m so sorry tiff, you aren’t alone in this whatsoever. Please reach out to whoever you need to get through this. 💙
Dear Tiffany, I've watched your journey but I don't usually comment but I'd like to let you know that you've got this! You're allowed to be scared and angry and to express that. I think these videos are sort of therapeutic for you, you can vent your emotions and you have a huge virtual family rooting and praying for you! We're cheering for you in this marathon! It'll be better soon 💜
I don't usually comment either but I totally agree with u, Tiffany u need time to process this, cancer sucks. In my.thoughts and prayers 🙏 ❤️
Dear Tiffany, I've never commented before, but just wanted to send you a hug. One day at a time, one step at a time. All of your feelings are valid and of course you need to mourn and grief, to express your fears. None of us can truly put ourselves in your shoes but through the power of internet, we are walking along side you, every bit of the way.
You seem so anxious, scared and angry. Let yourself to express your thoughts and feelings, this is your story and we want to hear you. You're so important for us, the ones that wishes your wellness and happiness. We all will pray for you and your family because this fight is for everyone. You got this Tiffany 💙💙
Tiffany get up out of bed, put up your Christmas decor wrap presents and bake. Keep yourself busy with things that bring you joy. You have so much strength and people who are here to support you through this. You are definitely an inspiration to others. Sending you big hugs and prayers. You got this!!🌻
Hi Tiffany. I’ve never commented before but I’ve watched your entire journey. I just have to say that I think you are absolutely incredible. To face such a monumental surgery with the sheer resilience you’re showing is mind-blowing to me. The fact that at this time you’re able to articulate your thoughts so well and dig so deep for that positivity and lightness, is truly amazing. I am so deeply sorry that these are the cards you have been dealt and you have every right to feel angry, hurt, confused, sad and anything else you may be feeling. However, I have no doubt that your spirit, determination and sheer force of will will carry you through this indescribably testing time and that you will have a wonderful life, which you so deserve. Sending you so much love ❤ x
"Your illness does not define you. Your strength and courage does.” (quote unknown! 😊) You are super awesome and I love your family so much! Praying for you xx
Tiffany, your book of life has many chapters ahead. When this cancer journey chapter ends, you’re slate will be clean to write so many wonderful stories. Life is full of so many up’s and downs. You deserve an UP to share. 💙💙💙
Putting the tree up will give you joy!!!
my husband had oral cancer, they did tell him if they didn’t feel they could get it all. They would stop the surgery because it would’ve been so invasive… But they were able to get it all. He had a radical neck dissection you are stronger than you know, and there are so many people out there that are going through what you were doing that will give you the support you need.❤❤. Please have Matt update us when you don’t feel you are strong enough.
Life is so so unfair put the tree up live your life 🎉xx✝️
Tiffany this is massive you need time to take it in, you are human you are doing so well to even be able to film this. You are a beautiful person, You have so much on your tiny shoulders, we are all so proud of you. big hugs. Remember we are all with you. xx
We are with you Tiffany! You have so much to process and all of the emotions, the sadness and anger are normal under the circumstances. You need to do whatever makes you happy and provides comfort to you. We will continue to keep you and your family in our prayers❤.
Tiffany, it’s 3:13 AM the morning here in Florida and you have been on my mind all day. The reason I am writing is because you deserve the world and the world has thrown you a curveball that is an incredible challenge To wrap your head around. Your little body has gone through a lot and now you’re going to need the strength to move forward to success. We are here to feed your heart and support you. You need to feed that little body to strengthen it as we cannot do that for you. And yes you are strong and you will make it through all of the upcoming surgery. I pray that they remove all the cancer from your body and you can look forward to a future with your wonderful loved ones. You are in my prayers and in my thoughts.
I started watching your vlogs and your journey this summer and it really feels like you're a close friend. I hate to see you like this, but please please - feel those feelings, you need to face them to gather your strength for the upcoming battle. You got this and we're here for you! Thousands of friends are hoping and praying for you. 💙
Me to , a friend
It’s natural to feel so upset and emotional and showing such raw emotion is so brave of you Tiffany it’s such a lot to process right now and crying is a great way to release some of the stress and “ grief “ you are feeling . You’ve got this Tiff
I am so sorry Tiffany. I’m sitting here crying along with you. I went back and watched your older videos and you’ve never changed, you’ve always been such a kind soul. You’re a beautiful person and you are surrounded by so many people who love you. I am in the US but I send you a great big hug!! You will get through this. ❤
Tiff, I’m just watching this now two weeks after. I’ve had cancer too. Cry whenever you want, scream, don’t ever feel like you have to ‘be positive and brave’. Other people feel better when you’re positive but you don’t have to do that. You can’t always do that. It’s shit and not fair and you’ve been thrown into so much nasty stuff. And you’ve done it with incredible courage. Sending a huge hug 💕. I’m crying with you.
Hope and pray that you get cancer free life soon ❤️
Tiffany, your strength has been astounding this entire journey. My grandmother had the same type of cancer and went through the same surgery well into her 60's. She handled it like a champ and you will too. Your body is so much younger and stronger! It is extremely hard to think about how much life is going to change, but we often don't realize how much we can adapt and how our desire to live allows us to overcome even the most difficult of challenges. You GOT this!
definitely a comment worth making and so glad it worked out for grandma; it will work out for out Tiff too! Keep her in your prayers :)
Very wise and encouraging words x
What a great comment, she really is much stronger than she thinks and her body too, she has gone through so much already, I believe in you Tiffany, you got this.
great comment
That is so inspiring. She needs to hear this. That is alot to overcome. Knowing someone else did it would help.
Tiffany, it just broke my heart to see you suffering. But at the same time, watching you rally at the end- ticking off the challenges you’ve already overcome… you are amazing. You might be physically tiny, but your spirit is awesomely huge! I hope you’re comforted and lifted up knowing there are so many people praying for you and hoping for you and listening to you when you feel angry or sad and need to let it out.
Maybe you could do Christmas before you go in for surgery? Like the whole thing you would normally do- presents, dinner, movies- just on a day you choose. Tiffany’s Christmas! 🎄
That’s such a great idea
Pray, Hope, and Don't Worry. Place All Your Worries In God. Read Matthew 8:17, John 6:63
Tiffany, I don’t usually comment but I really just wanted to say I adore your strength and resilience. You will be ok, one thing I know is that God always gives us to the strength to deal with the tests he puts in front of us. You are such a gem! You’ve got this, we’ve got this x
@@Tondaloona03 my God? You’re coming on to a channel, where the creator clearly has a strong connection with religion and spewing this BS? Why comment belittling the thing she and so many find strength from? Keep your view to yourself if you have nothing positive to add. Pathetic …
Dear beautiful Tiffany, Your raw honesty is such a gift. I have stage 4 cancer. Diagnosed in May 21 as treatable but not curable. I have almost permanently been on chemotherapy since then and I have had surgery resulting in an illiostomy. What you are about to go through is HUGE, meaning that all of your emotions, including the anger are all ok. We have got this. xx
Wishing you the best❤
Stay away from fluoride and processed foods, try a clean diet if you can. Much love to you!
Beautiful Tiffany you have got this we are praying for you and hoping for s Xmas miracle for you and my hubby and for every one around the world,keep the faith with much love from South Africa mwahzzzz 🙏🙏😍😘😇
You are allowed to feel all these emotions, it’s so okay. Put up the Christmas decs, do all the things that make you feel happy. Whatever happens they have to remove the growth, cancer or no cancer; then you can get better, get stronger and move on. We care and are here for you Tiffany, xxx
Speak your fears to the Lord and all of your prayer warriors.
Praying Philippians 4:6 that you “will not be anxious. That you can in this situation with prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving,you can present your concerns to your living Lord, and the peace that transcends all understanding will be yours and your loved ones, Tiffany.
This video literally breaks my heart. I can't even imagine what you are going through and will have to go through during and after the surgery. I pray for God's divine intervention in that surgery room. You got this girl!!! Put up your trees because you love Christmas and it will bring you joy. Love you Tiffany 💙🙏🏻
Great advise!!
Hello dear Tiffany- I’ve just come recently to your channel and I cannot express in words how deeply you have moved me with your sweet personality, courage and positivity. We all complain about stupid, little things and here you are carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders with such grace. I know that life can really throw some mean stuff at us. I am 60 and have battled with major depression my whole life because of childhood abuse and trauma. When I am in a dark place what keeps me going is my family, friends and doctors. But I‘be learned that no matter what, the very fiber of what makes us who we are can bury deep to get through the hard times. Then when the light comes again we emerge a better version of ourself because we’ve grown and we have a better insight and a better appreciation for life. Let yourself feel and take all the time you need to process. Do little things to make yourself happy in the meantime. I’m😊very gratified to now be part of the Tifffanythinks family. Looking forward to seeing you become a healthy Tiffany! Sending best wishes and hugs from Richmond, Virginia.💕
Beautiful words
You sweet thing. I'm so sorry for all that you are having to go through!! It just doesn't seem fair!!! You are such a good person. I just want you to know that miracles happen every single day! My brother was given 6 months to live over 10 years ago. He was diagnosed with liver cancer and fortunate enough to get a liver right away. Right at the six month he got a new liver. After that he was diagnosed with diabetes. Then his heart was acting up and he had to have a pacemaker. It's been one thing after another but he is still here and going strong!! I know you've got this! Prayer is so powerful! Especially with all of these kind people praying for you. Your going to be ok! We're all here for you!❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏 We love you!!!
Hi Tiffany, I've been watching you since your diagnosis. I too was diagnosed with stage 4 gastric cancer at the age of 21. I was just about to graduate with my masters degree and it felt like my life was just about to start but I started to get really sick and received the worse news of my life.
I can't do surgery as the cancer has metastasized to other organs so you can get everything out. I'm currently just doing chemo to basically live as long as I can. I am 23 now and trying to make the best out of the rest of my life but it is hard. I often get sad and depressed and wonder what's all this for.
Last week I had my an appointment to be apart of a clinical trial but found out that I might not be able to qualify because I have brain metastasis. That really made me sad because if I couldn't donate my organs to save lives I wanted to at least donate my body to science to help people in other ways. Right after that appointment I had a seizure. It just feels like my time is coming and I am deeply afraid but I'm still trying to be positive and know that I have lived a good life.
Watching your videos and we'll as other cancer patients usually help because it let's me know I am not the only one dealing with this but it still sucks for us. Wishing you the best.
I am so sorry Matthew I hope you get some more good times with your family and friends.. cancer sucks!!
@ Matthew I'm Sending you so much love from 🇨🇦. Cancer is a monster no matter what form you can have. As a fellow cancer WARRIOR, I was one of the lucky ones that came through the other side of it. Even more difficult than the toll that treatments and surgeries take on the body is the toll it takes on your mental health and your
Well being. Please know that you too, have a safe place on Tiffany's comments groups to come when you are struggling & need someone to listen or send you a hug. One day at a time.
Sending my love from Canada 🇨🇦❤️❤️
Matthew, I am so sorry to read your comment. I have leukemia. Keep fighting my friend! You’re a warrior! You’re so brave! I will be praying for you! Please let us all know how you’re doing. You are loved!🧡💙
Matthew, it breaks my heart to read your story. Cancer has taken the lives of so many people that do not deserve to go through this!! You are very brave to share your story. Wishing you all the best and hoping for that miracle for you!!!
So sorry Matthew!
Dear Tiffany, this is another step on the ladder to recovery. You have conquered so much - you've got this! God bless you and your family.
Hello to you! I am a silent viewer, but really need to just say a few things that I am thinking after watching most of this video.
First of you, you are an INCREDIBLE human being. That’s what drew me to you in the first place after watching only one video! Lol It’s also so beautiful seeing what An amazing support system you have in your family, friends and “your darling Matt”! Also, the way that you allow yourself to be so entirely vulnerable as you move through this journey is almost breathtaking. I wonder if you have any idea how many people you are helping while you are going through the most challenging time in your life? We watch as you go through each moment~and can almost see when a thought “clicks” and then takes hold in your mind. You are sharing your fears and also such courage as you move through these tumultuous feelings that you are experiencing ~what an honor for us to have the privilege of watching. Be brave, yes~ but like you said~ you are absolutely allowed to be afraid! You are absolutely allowed to be angry! You are experiencing actual trauma every single day due to the myriad of worries that come along with having cancer~ so whatever you are feeling is normal and it is your process and your experience, no one else’s. I feel like you are an old, sweet soul. You are so wise beyond your years! But then again, I see where some of your wisdom comes from when I watch you with your lovely mom. I can’t recall ever being literally worried when someone didn’t post a video~but I found myself all day on Friday and then Saturday checking to see if you had posted a video and then praying so much that you were ok because I was genuinely worried. This is getting entirely too long but in closing, I wanted to tell you that every time I run into something challenging I say the words “We’ve got this”… thank you. ❤
You are stronger than you believe, Tiffany. You may feel overwhelmed, but your profound honesty demonstrates such immense grace AND strength. It is perfectly okay to feel vulnerable, but you have SUCH fight in you. This is going to be a new beginning for you with so much to look forward to. Don’t ever discount your feelings, you deserve this time to grieve. As far as the Christmas tree goes, go for it! You’ll have loads of gifts to look forward to. I wish I could hug you from here, I’m sending you many prayers and much love from the USA! Don’t forget, we’ve got this!! 🙏🏼💕
Nothing will ever be the same but you will be alive and with your family. Plus you have thousands of us praying and supporting you. Cry when you need to, yell at the injustice then keep fighting. You got this.
Nothing is ever the same for any of us. We don’t know what life has in store. One day I could walk. The next I couldn’t. And that’s permanent but my point is our lives change every day in many ways. The fact we don’t notice doesn’t matter. The change around us and within us is occurring. Tiffany is surrounded by love ❤️ and support. That is constant. That won’t change.
Can the doctors put you in touch with other people who have come through your surgery, so you can talk to them about what life is like afterwards? Sending love x 💙💙💙
Hello Tiffany, thank you so much for keeping us updated. All your feelings are valid and justified. You are allowed to feel anything you feel. Grieving the outcome of the surgery, being scared, wondering, smiling, worrying, anger, planning, crying, hoping... all of this is happening at the same time and its overwhelming. You are doing an amazing job at dealing with everything; and it is like you say: its another challenge, another bump on the road to your destination. You will get through this, you got this 💙
I’ve just been thinking of you since this post and had to come back to offer more encouragement. You may be losing these organs but you will still thankfully have your lungs which will allow you to still breathe air to enjoy the scents of your loved ones and the beautiful flowers around you, you still have your brain which will allow you to know your loved ones and all the beauty of them and your world around you and you’ll have your heart which will allow you to feel all the LOVE around you and give you strength because we know You Got This❤
You are not alone on this journey - we are all here for you. When you cry, we cry with you - when you laugh, we laugh with you. Decorate your home and put up your Christmas tree. Buy and wrap your presents - enjoy the season as best you can. We're here if you want to talk, cry or laugh! You've got this Tiffany!
Sweet friend, this is hard. BUT YOU ARE KILLING IT. Here is our Cleveland Clinic Foundation Oncology nurses thoughts:
1) get yourself an amazing (mental health) counselor who specializes in cancer NOW. Today. A specialist. NOW!!!
2) DEMAND that they hook you up with and to meet other young women needing a bowel resection. Learn this is ok. It’s ok to have an ostomy.
3) we think they’re telling you that your surgery is called Cyto-reductive
with HIPEC.
4) yes they will “remove all the cancer cells” and don’t worry about the length of the surgery, you’ll be in good hands.
5) then they will fill your peritoneal cavity with a very special warmed chemo and for 90 minutes go back and forth slowly to kill all remaining cancer cells. (PLEASE ASK ABOUT HIPEC- this is absolutely crucial for this cancer)
6) you may wake up different, but you will learn to adapt very quick!
7) we nurses will TEACH YOU how to feel and be normal again. And it will be BEAUTIFUL!!! 🥰🤗
8) you can have more than 1-2 people with you at all times, we promise you.
9) celebrate everything and clear your head. Decorate and celebrate up until the last hour. Stop worrying about everyone else (see step ONE ABOUT YOUR SPECIAL THERAPIST!)
10) stop saying no and GET THIS FREAKING CANCER OUT OF YOU!!!
We love you, xo- all your ccf nurses
Ps these numbers aren’t in any order, we just went around the room saying all the important things and we are rooting for you.
GOOD LUCK!!!
Cleveland clinic oncology nurses
This is such a sound and helpful post from nurses at one of the best medical establishments in the world so I do hope Tiffany sees it. It's a pity we can't highlight it or keep sending it to the top.
You are unbelievable Tiffany. Even through such a hard time, you’re still thinking about decorating the house so it’s lovely for other people. Such a kind person, it makes me so sad to see you crying and upset. YOU *WILL* GET THROUGH THIS! Sending love xxx
You are so allowed to cry and have every right to be angry. Sending big hugs xx
We're all here for you sweet Tiffany. Don't ever forget that you got this💙Lots of love and prayers from Greece.
There is nothing stopping you from having an all-out Christmas with all of the trimmings before you go in for your surgery. Pick a date and talk to the family. I'm sure everyone would much prefer an early Christmas with you there than a regular one with you in the hospital or recovering from surgery. You can do this!
wonderful idea
Great idea!
Yes!
Absolutely great idea!
Completely agree!
You have been so calm and stayed for so long . Now just have time to feel what you need to feel . Be sad,grumpy,tired,down, - whatever you need my lovely girl just be you ! Everyone understands . You WILL get through this !!! You are being prayed for by so many people . We love you . We got this 💙
I agree. Feeling is a part of acceptance & living.🦋💙
Tiffany, I’ve been following your journey for a while, but this is my first time leaving a comment. I admire your strength and kindness so much! Even when things are so difficult for you, you think of others. I’m happy you have such loving support from your mom, Matt, family and friends. I think of you when I’m experiencing my own (compared to yours minor) health issues and it makes me feel supported and blessed. I hope you’ll enjoy decorating for Christmas. I think it will help you feel better. Hugs!
Tiffany, I've been watching your videos for a few months now. My heart has grown to love you & your family as if you were my own daughter. It feels like my heart is being ripped out of my body to see you going through this. I wish I could take this all away from you. You are so incredibly sweet & precious to your viewers around the world. May our prayers lift you up & bring you healing my dear, we love you! 🇺🇸
I’ve watched your entire journey and never commented the fact that you have chose to face this head on is incredible . I have stage for metastatic thymoma I went into a major surgery only to be told there was much more cancer than they thought and my only other option is to remove my entire lung with out a guarantee that I will be cancer free. I cannot bring myself to do this. You are an angel and a true soldier, it is okay to cry and fall apart take the time to process and work through your feelings. You are doing great. Put up that Christmas tree listen to the Christmas music and feel free to laugh and cry at the same time. You will be cancer free , you are an inspiration!! Love n Light!
@Dirty stinky ugly Indians no it is a thymoma a cancer that began in the thymus gland the gland that’s responsible for immune system function. Unfortunately it has spread outside of the primary location to the pluera which is the lining of the lung sometimes these tumors grow on the lining of the heart aswell, this cancer is extremely rare about 1 in every million are diagnosed per year . That fact makes treatment extremely difficult and diagnosis as well. They have yet to link this cancer to hereditary, environmental or lifestyle…. As far as smoking , if you believe in god give it up to him ask him to deliver you from your addiction, truth is we can not do anything without him and we can do everything through him. Good luck.. love n light
This time next year Tiffany, you are going to be amazing. You have got this.
My best friend has had an ileostomy for 30 years and once she had recovered she didn’t and still doesn’t let anything stop her and you will be the same I know it. Funny story, in a pub some random bloke accused her of farting which she denied, he said no you definitely just farted, his face was a picture when she told him it was an impossibility and told him why!
This operation is going to save your life, how amazing is that?
Put your tree up, decorate the house, wrap the presents: get your tree up and I’ll put mine up too, who cares that it’s November? Let’s have fun 🎄🤶
I have just finished radiotherapy for breast cancer, my sister in law has had to have organs removed because of it. Its a horrible long journey, but take a day at a time, do your best to remain positive. Face each challenge head on and continue to fight. We are all with you. Take all the love you can into surgery and you will be strong. We've all got this!
Tiffany we’re in Missouri, USA. We wrap our arms around you and allow your feelings! Celebrate and whatever makes you happy is what you need to do!💙. We love you 💙💙
You are such a kind, loving, brave young woman….YOU’VE GOT THIS TIFFANY!🙏🏼❤️
My heart is breaking for you. You have been through so much. Keep positive! Half the battle is being positive. Remember You Got This!
You got this girl. You are a survive and you got this. So proud of you