This is my self 😢 im running low on energy i can't stand him for his gaslighting 😢. When I tried to tell him he doesn't validate my value, and accuse me of wanting a reward for my goodness it hurts 🤕😭. This is Soo true.
Heres an example of shrinking. So my fam can leave things all over the house & all their things are where and how they want them with limited issues the only one able to speak on it's a problem is when the Narc or the other dysfunctional head of the house says it is bothering them not anyone else but them. So when I would place my stuff in the open it gets used or they'll immediately say it's a problem or they'll move it and put it somewhere unuseful for me or unwanted they know I do not like my stuff touched. So to combat their touching, moving, using my things I'll place them in out of the way places it took me years to find a nook unused to put my items in just on the edge of my need to have the darn thing in a reachable location that they won't use, years! I can't have my stuff where I need or even where I'd prefer if I need it it hides way across the space if it's a prefer it best go in my room or else they'll mess with it or yell at me even if I put it in the same place as others like dump a coat on the treadmill it's fine if everyone else does it but if my coat is seen amongst them oh no!
i grew up hungry, literally. hungry. My parents pretended to be upper middle class living a lie. My sister literally shrank physically into a super skinny child. I hid in a cave of silent invisibility. The lies of my parents were a web of death for their kids. We were the walking dead. Now, I practice telling the truth in love no matter how difficult and painful. Truth seems to be the only weapon against this sick behavior. My skinny sister became a hijackal.
Yes I fawn fawn fawn fawn , fight!!!!and when I blow at the end from fawning and people pleasing , it's not pretty . It scares off the narc (borderline me)
They do it all romantic partners who they feel secure enough with. Once they feel they have the person. I wondered this about my situation and I discovered that he was just the same (if not worse) with his ex's. So to answer your question no probably not just you.
Hi i have question for you over affairs. Is it emotional affair. 1 texting 2 meeting up 3 thinking about them 4 calling them Without their girlfriend or boyfriend knowing without having no sex?
Yes. Those are all affairs/ adultery. The Bible defines adultery the minute a man rests his eyes on a woman and lusts in his HEART. These narcissists do not have self discipline.
You are such a good teacher and communicator with compassion. Thank you. Helpful.
This is my self 😢 im running low on energy i can't stand him for his gaslighting 😢. When I tried to tell him he doesn't validate my value, and accuse me of wanting a reward for my goodness it hurts 🤕😭. This is Soo true.
Heres an example of shrinking. So my fam can leave things all over the house & all their things are where and how they want them with limited issues the only one able to speak on it's a problem is when the Narc or the other dysfunctional head of the house says it is bothering them not anyone else but them. So when I would place my stuff in the open it gets used or they'll immediately say it's a problem or they'll move it and put it somewhere unuseful for me or unwanted they know I do not like my stuff touched. So to combat their touching, moving, using my things I'll place them in out of the way places it took me years to find a nook unused to put my items in just on the edge of my need to have the darn thing in a reachable location that they won't use, years! I can't have my stuff where I need or even where I'd prefer if I need it it hides way across the space if it's a prefer it best go in my room or else they'll mess with it or yell at me even if I put it in the same place as others like dump a coat on the treadmill it's fine if everyone else does it but if my coat is seen amongst them oh no!
Thank You! So Much! You are such gift for all of us! In these type of relationships.
i grew up hungry, literally. hungry. My parents pretended to be upper middle class living a lie. My sister literally shrank physically into a super skinny child. I hid in a cave of silent invisibility. The lies of my parents were a web of death for their kids. We were the walking dead. Now, I practice telling the truth in love no matter how difficult and painful. Truth seems to be the only weapon against this sick behavior. My skinny sister became a hijackal.
I’m so sorry …..your victory will encourage many 🩷🩷🩷
Absolutely. Everyone in my family is this way. My siblings especially.
Yes I fawn fawn fawn fawn , fight!!!!and when I blow at the end from fawning and people pleasing , it's not pretty . It scares off the narc (borderline me)
Great video. Very helpful. Thank you
Was it just to me they bread crumbs? Or do they treat everyone that way?
They do it all romantic partners who they feel secure enough with. Once they feel they have the person. I wondered this about my situation and I discovered that he was just the same (if not worse) with his ex's. So to answer your question no probably not just you.
Hi i have question for you over affairs.
Is it emotional affair.
1 texting
2 meeting up
3 thinking about them
4 calling them
Without their girlfriend or boyfriend knowing without having no sex?
Yes. Those are all affairs/ adultery. The Bible defines adultery the minute a man rests his eyes on a woman and lusts in his HEART. These narcissists do not have self discipline.