James O'Brien meets Frank Skinner | LBC

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  • @timsaxon5825
    @timsaxon5825 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    I was only lamenting the loss of Frank’s radio show this morning so this is a real treat.

    • @devout666
      @devout666 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Blame Emily. Unbearable.

    • @davecrewe9074
      @davecrewe9074 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Emily... !.. OK. ? Over to you in the studio .. your witness she did my head in

    • @michaelmcdonald5175
      @michaelmcdonald5175 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      You probably know by now, but Mr Frank now has a Podcast with Emily and Pierre.

  • @danmayberry1185
    @danmayberry1185 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    Don't recall how I became a Skinner megafan here in Canada (unsuccessful in starting a "Skinheads" club for some reason) .. but 30+ years later, I'm still happy to drop everything and give him a listen.

  • @rabbieburns2501
    @rabbieburns2501 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    one of the best British stand-up comedians of all time imho

  • @Tony-yp7ok
    @Tony-yp7ok 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Great chat. Frank needs to be back on the airwaves! His Saturday morning show was the funniest thing on the radio.

  • @barnaclefelching4079
    @barnaclefelching4079 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    So much love for this unusual man

  • @RossPatzelt
    @RossPatzelt 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    love listening to Frank talk. Such a chilled man. He is just awesome

    • @user-lu8hl3bg4x
      @user-lu8hl3bg4x 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Agree. Shame about James O'Brien. He grates on me so much!

  • @worcestermark
    @worcestermark 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Always pleased to see you doing well Chris, I was your front of house manager when you were a volunteer box office worker for a while when we were both at the Triangle, doing our drinking at the Sack of Spuds, where you would often make us laugh.

  • @jean6370
    @jean6370 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I’m from West Brom and my sister an avid WBFc supporter. Always like Seeing Frank and happy of his success , but found out thing from this interview that I never knew, never mentioned his drinking and sobriety which I was surprised about. Well done Frank…nice hear from you.

  • @thepiratesjersey
    @thepiratesjersey 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    There’s a huge vacancy in my Saturday morning routines now. Terrible decision to let Frank go in my opinion.

    • @zerog4261
      @zerog4261 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Absolutely. Was a wee treasure

  • @mrcolmun
    @mrcolmun 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Frank is such a great communicator and this sort of thing seems so easy to him. Really miss the radio show already - such a great bunch of people. I hope they are given other avenues to continue

  • @RichardRatner.1972
    @RichardRatner.1972 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Frank is brilliant. Glad he's back. So funny. Big love, kindest regards, Richard U.K

  • @philipellis7039
    @philipellis7039 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I live in Halesowen and my sons went to Halesowen college. Somewhat after Frank’s time there but nice to hear it get a mention!

  • @III_Ed_B_III
    @III_Ed_B_III 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Fun time Frankie: a national treasure.

  • @tashussain560
    @tashussain560 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Really enjoyed this conversation between two exceptional people. Saw Frank's stand up show at the Leeds Playhouse recently which was brilliantly spontaneous and hilarious.

    • @judithcressey1682
      @judithcressey1682 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      O'brien exceptional only in the level of his thorough unpleasantness.

  • @JasonRamasami
    @JasonRamasami 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This could have gone on for several hours for me. Thankyou.

  • @Petesey0
    @Petesey0 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I'm 44, my teenage years and beyond were spent laughing to Frank, I even enjoyed Shane 👀😂

  • @danielmcelhatton1724
    @danielmcelhatton1724 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I never tire of listening to Frank.

  • @zerog4261
    @zerog4261 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    On the wireless...love that term. Im only 55 but one the last bastions of the endearing term

    • @PazLeBon
      @PazLeBon 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      its now just wifi :~) still a bit like wi reless and also hi-fi, you should like it :)

  • @marionmclean3749
    @marionmclean3749 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Nice conversation. I like these Full Disclosure videos!

  • @paulcurran6747
    @paulcurran6747 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Got tickets to see Frank in Birmingham in November never seen him live,im sure he Will be great always been a great stand up,loved his radio show can't wait 👍

    • @butti5734
      @butti5734 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      His stand up and compèring is amazing

  • @JonnyArtistic
    @JonnyArtistic 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Approx 5:29 mins in: Yes!! That radio show was THE BEST moment of Saturday mornings. Honestly it really needs to cary on in some shape or form. With respect to Absolute, in my opinion, you let go of an absolute (excuse the pun) gem!!! Please, somebody keep this show going!

  • @tonytcook
    @tonytcook 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    James and Frank - loved this chat!!!

  • @nealgriffin1480
    @nealgriffin1480 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Saw him at Jongleurs in London with some London friends when I certainly didn't know him. As a Bham-born West Brom fan with a bit of inferiority complex at the time, the fact that he absolutely stormed it and crushed the opposition that night was immensely gratifying, and made me a fan ever since. Thanks Frank.

  • @tinay9491
    @tinay9491 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Frank would enjoy watching walkabouts of towns you've described so vividly + history ☮️

  • @grahamarobinson
    @grahamarobinson 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Love Franks comedy long may it continue 😅

  • @gohumberto
    @gohumberto 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Frank has what I'd call Comedy Tourettes. There's no gap between him hearing something and him coming back with something funny. He's hard-wired funny.
    I'm 100% as funny as Frank ...... if you give me about 12 hours to think about a funny reply. (My life is a series of "Why didn't I say that back then?" moments) and it's why my Standup shows would need to be 24 hours long, with very long silent pauses.

    • @Tony-yp7ok
      @Tony-yp7ok 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      L’esprit de l’escalier!
      I love that expression - “spirit of the stairs”, when you think of a perfect retort once you’ve left the room and you’re half way up the stairs 😂

  • @tinay9491
    @tinay9491 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Frank + co. are very missed on podcast. Pls consider indy podcast, waiting w/fingers crossed ☮️. Frank you are my #1

  • @brianferguson7840
    @brianferguson7840 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    The Monster Raving Loony party are changing its name to avoid accidental association with the Tories. And Count Binface has refused the offer of a coalition with Sunak for fear of "looking silly"

    • @ajsimo2677
      @ajsimo2677 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😆👍

    • @PazLeBon
      @PazLeBon 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      hehe

    • @michaelharrison3602
      @michaelharrison3602 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I was christened Walter stinky ring but people made fun of me so i changed it by deed poll to Dave Stinky ring it didn't make a difference 😅

  • @spaceo8568
    @spaceo8568 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Yay!!! Frank Skinner!!! An INTERnational absolute pleasure! (I'm American) i still laugh at the blooper video he did with Tim Key on series 1 of Taskmaster.

  • @wildwoodjack
    @wildwoodjack 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Brilliant interview, really enjoyed watching this.Thank you 😊😊

  • @tynebar
    @tynebar 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Frank is the best!

  • @andrewbenson4439
    @andrewbenson4439 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    One of the very few genuinely naturally funny comedians around

  • @ZeuzBluez
    @ZeuzBluez 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Miss his television talk show. Eric clapton as his guest was my favourite. wish you the best, frank , and thanks for the laughs .

  • @alstuart8801
    @alstuart8801 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    loving the socks Frank

  • @2e0wmghamradioandkayaking85
    @2e0wmghamradioandkayaking85 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Someone please give Frank a radio show, life is not the same without an occasional wailing of the A.E Housman alarm☹️

  • @bartpickford1836
    @bartpickford1836 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Liked Frank's Saturday show, but it didn't feel the same after Alan cochrane left

  • @nuschlerclark895
    @nuschlerclark895 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I'm a US citizen. I've never heard of Frank Skinner. But I thoroughly enjoyed this conversation between James and Frank!! Two very intelligent adults with great comedic timing. I kept thinking that Robin Williams would have been great in this Convo except Robin would have had difficulty containing his high energy level. But he would have loved these two!

    • @PazLeBon
      @PazLeBon 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      baddiel and skinner was a funny show back in the day

  • @trevorclarey3336
    @trevorclarey3336 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Frank Skinner the best comedian ever .

    • @johnristheanswer
      @johnristheanswer 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Small pool of comedians in the Midlands isn't it ?

    • @trevorclarey3336
      @trevorclarey3336 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@johnristheanswer Tony Hancock, Bill Oddie, Don Maclean,Joe Lycett, Lucy Davis, Billy Russell to name a few, ?

    • @johnristheanswer
      @johnristheanswer 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      One name from every decade. Haha. You forgot the "hilarious" Lenny Henry.

    • @trevorclarey3336
      @trevorclarey3336 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@johnristheanswer Lenny Henry was never funny.

    • @johnristheanswer
      @johnristheanswer 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@trevorclarey3336 Correct

  • @silversteel6312
    @silversteel6312 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great to see David looking fresh faced and 10 years younger post his Hammers management 👏👏👏

  • @qt8099
    @qt8099 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Just love Frank, if your ever in NZ look me up

  • @jamesburke2094
    @jamesburke2094 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Told Frank Skinner my best joke last year in London
    Nice man

  • @Beansontoast93911
    @Beansontoast93911 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    It coming home ish⚽️

  • @mjpaynewales
    @mjpaynewales 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'd watch a Skinner and Key poetry show. (Or individually)

  • @ivorsmith3999
    @ivorsmith3999 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Avner the Eccentric is actually doing a workshop in Belgium!

  • @samworrell5202
    @samworrell5202 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love Frank, true legend

  • @loydwilliams6693
    @loydwilliams6693 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Me and Frank both have something in common… we were both threatened to be ‘knocked out’ by former TV host Mathew Kelly! Ah those were the days eh.

    • @mongolmcphee7791
      @mongolmcphee7791 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You’ve got to follow up with that story. What happened?

    • @loydwilliams6693
      @loydwilliams6693 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@mongolmcphee7791 Another time :) I can’t stand the man (MK).

  • @perirgensolsson3673
    @perirgensolsson3673 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    James who has ever been sacked from a bank?possibly the cleaning lady and at that level the rest get bonuses

  • @eyesonly7072
    @eyesonly7072 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This was hard to watch, Frank skinner is Fantastic. I just cannot stand James O’Brien!

  • @dianefields6056
    @dianefields6056 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Frank, in his socks with red toes and heels, swivelling his foot. This could turn into Haiku! I do like him. I met him only on TH-cam, itv artist of the year.

  • @MatthewTipton2
    @MatthewTipton2 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    As always with Frank Skinner, so much honesty, intelligence and insight. Love what he said about the barrier presented by a West Midlands accent and getting people to look beyond that. Having grown up in Walsall and working in education, its still a very real misconception.

    • @PazLeBon
      @PazLeBon 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      dunno why hes playing that nonsense victim card, was bigger brummies before and after frank. jasper and lennie and ozzy to name but 3, never heard them say such things. franks funny but an old man since 1990 lol

    • @garethwilliams2897
      @garethwilliams2897 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Completely agree Matt, think your from Aldridge like me and has been a barrier and misconception in my life aswell.

    • @PazLeBon
      @PazLeBon 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@garethwilliams2897 maybe it's your spelling the problem?

    • @johnristheanswer
      @johnristheanswer 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Regularly voted the most hated and unpleasant accent, I believe.

  • @italsounds001
    @italsounds001 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I remember Frank at a place in Bearwood and later at the MAC, then the compare for the comedy night that introduced some great comedians, what a laugh. There were lots of references to stuff in Birmingham, I remember one routine about the buskers that was hilarious.

  • @7732147
    @7732147 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Seriously if you haven't read Frank Skinners autobiography then you should. As a piece of literature its way way above the rest.

  • @hugolindum7728
    @hugolindum7728 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    O’Brian likes to present himself as a man of the people, keeping quiet that he went to the £50,000 a year Ampleforth College public school.

    • @DreamsOfGaruda
      @DreamsOfGaruda 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He mentions it a lot. Hardly a secret

  • @James1-9-7-8
    @James1-9-7-8 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Fantastic interview! Was unsure about Skinner because along with Baddiel he seemed so laddie. However, his intellectual chops are clear.

  • @7732147
    @7732147 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    These guys are putting Halesowen on the map!!!!
    Probly.

  • @jonridley
    @jonridley 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    His poetry podcast is awesome

  • @nlole
    @nlole 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hopefully this is a shoe in for LBC😊

  • @petercolledge2236
    @petercolledge2236 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ah Frank, what a guy!

  • @taxi134-y1q
    @taxi134-y1q 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    These are the only times Jimbo manages not to interrupt every couple of seconds.Starstruck little chap that he is.

  • @mickcrill
    @mickcrill 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love Frank😎

  • @bowlingarry
    @bowlingarry 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wes T Bromwich.
    It works for me 😂

  • @damianclifford9693
    @damianclifford9693 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great episode, please consider inviting the polymath Iain McGilchrist on the show.

  • @2gooddrifters
    @2gooddrifters 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Miss him on PAOTY and LAOTY.

  • @zoymills9868
    @zoymills9868 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love the Dalek top

  • @kevinjackson9156
    @kevinjackson9156 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Radio execs have turned radio into a bland grey sameness, too scared to take risks. Frank was a breath of fresh air and they don't like that at all.

  • @heritagehomesJapan
    @heritagehomesJapan 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Nice watch; could anyone see what it is?

  • @christinemcneil4499
    @christinemcneil4499 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Watch the Shaun Atwood and Jon Wedger interview. David Badiel and Frank Skinner are shown in a clip during that interview making a joke about Jimmy Saville. That ‘joke’ reveals just how well Saville’s heinous proclivities were known.
    What an excuse for a human being. Enjoy your retirement, Frank. May sleep escape you, like your one time comedy partner.

  • @domb8448
    @domb8448 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It looks rather uncomfortable. Table's too low, chairs seem unsupportive.. but decent conversation.

    • @Padraigp
      @Padraigp 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      100 percent. Weirdly canteen like chairs and the table is so low and odd looking. But it is radio so we can't see it so it's fine 😂

    • @domb8448
      @domb8448 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Padraigp Is it studio, cocktail bar or waiting for egg n' chips?

    • @Padraigp
      @Padraigp 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@domb8448 I feel like it's more we found this in a skip and added legs 🦵 😳

    • @domb8448
      @domb8448 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Padraigp What would be its IKEA name?

  • @andrewmcewan8081
    @andrewmcewan8081 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    there are very few students at the fringe at least back then there were .as it happens outwith term time .

    • @tynebar
      @tynebar 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      eh?

    • @andrewmcewan8081
      @andrewmcewan8081 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@tynebar it's pretty self explanatory Edinburgh during term time lots of students as there are 2 or 3 universities and 4 or more colleges, they have holidays ,the students go home during those holidays, the fringe happens during those holidays. So speaking as someone from Edinburgh there is less students about ,by quite a large margin ,during the festival and the fringe.

  • @BenjaminHackett-l1r
    @BenjaminHackett-l1r 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I met Frank Skinner in Edinburgh one time and told him 'its never coming home' as a bit of banter, and he was just about crying, his jack the lad persona was just an act

    • @johnristheanswer
      @johnristheanswer 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He's probably never heard that hilarious quip before.

  • @frankhumbug
    @frankhumbug 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I remember frank skinner (and sean hughes) on the just for laughs Montreal comedy festival and in particular frank doing a joke about unlocking a dogs jaw by putting his finger somewhere inappropriate (one of his hands as the dogs mouth and the other the finger insertion.)

    • @PazLeBon
      @PazLeBon 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      i did that once during a dog fight. it works :) i dont think it was a joke

  • @turntheblueiris4626
    @turntheblueiris4626 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    James! Did you make Frank take his shoes off?

    • @raqueldobson1
      @raqueldobson1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Noticed that too… 😅

    • @patrickmorris3721
      @patrickmorris3721 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Toe jobs under the table. 🫣🤣🤡 what new 💥🤣

  • @Rich-ng3yy
    @Rich-ng3yy 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    They will forgive you anything except unmerited success or success they think is unmerited, which is a rather different thing. Because there is only so much space for an actor or comedian or artist or musician or writer for every one that makes it thousands don't and so people applaud success but hate it when they think it blocks real talent.

  • @DadgeCity
    @DadgeCity 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How many people really resent other people's success? Surely fewer than Frank thinks.

  • @davidsmith2440
    @davidsmith2440 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Sorry that Frank has been sacked. Another Ageist Radio Station

  • @evertondod
    @evertondod 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    no shoes frank

  • @usercarefree44
    @usercarefree44 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I like Frank...

  • @lazlolazlolazlo
    @lazlolazlolazlo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Skinner sounds like a Kenneth Willims impression of a brum with Emphysema

  • @TC8787-yq7og
    @TC8787-yq7og 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Frank Skinner is great but people get envious over all sorts of things - not just success - anyone who does better than they do basically.

  • @niguel4438
    @niguel4438 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lowering your standards here Frank!

  • @trevorfeelgood
    @trevorfeelgood 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He has his shoes off 😮😅

  • @Vtwin_Superbikes
    @Vtwin_Superbikes 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nice to see Frank has slipped off his neolithic labourers shoes.

  • @winstoncorrigan4309
    @winstoncorrigan4309 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🎶Funtime franky

  • @devout666
    @devout666 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Alun knew

  • @ghouston431
    @ghouston431 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Would love my hero, and he is, James to have taken Nicola Sturgeon for an interview. . But as they say there ye go. Show them a photo of a campervan and a party with forensics tents and ye ye go.

    • @Paul-k6h
      @Paul-k6h 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Made up a guest so you could crowbar an anti SNP comment in,how sad of you.

  • @stevestokes-li8xr
    @stevestokes-li8xr 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Boing Boing Baggies !

  • @simac3880
    @simac3880 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    No, Frank. 'Reading poetry' for your podcast isn't 'like being an academic'. I think you're confused.

  • @JohnFord-c5l
    @JohnFord-c5l 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why hasn't this man been cast as Dr Who..casting department BBC sort this out and wake up

  • @taxi134-y1q
    @taxi134-y1q 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Only one of a small number of contemporay British comics that are actually funny.

  • @RoyWhearty
    @RoyWhearty 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What about racism, Frank?

    • @PazLeBon
      @PazLeBon 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      not rom wba fans i imagine

  • @theyatter
    @theyatter 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Aw James what is success other than making fun of people who aren't paid to do the research you are??

  • @happinesstan
    @happinesstan 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That thumbnail has annoyed me so much I had to come in just to stop it appearing. No offence Frank, but I can't spend one second listening to Jobbie.
    For the record, I've never begrudged Frank his success, and I find it hard to believe anybody would. Nobody deserves it more than him, I'd say, so I don't know where he's coming from. I have noticed he talks about his success, quite a bit, and it can be charming at times, but mostly it's just unrelatable, and frank was always a relatable comic.
    I look at Gervais, and Billy Connolly, as two comics who comment on their fame with success. Gervais was never relatable, so it's almost a natural progression for him, and Connolly always laughed at the craziness of it all, but he was talking about Hollyweird, and that's a different kind of success.

  • @purehyperbole5727
    @purehyperbole5727 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Pretty sure Skinner and his crew were expensive. So the maths will eventually get rid of him once the figures stop making sense. That is commercial radio.

  • @timdale9123
    @timdale9123 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ...anything but success". In a capitalist society, guess they would. How's its successor coming along?

  • @Eddie_Booth
    @Eddie_Booth 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Top groomer from Smethwick

  • @EdGreen-rm3mg
    @EdGreen-rm3mg 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Frank's got it all wrong as per usual. People don't mind you being successful what they object to it's you shoving their face in your success and flouting your success and wealth in front of the entire world.

  • @dooda77penn19
    @dooda77penn19 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    James O'Brein meets Douglas Murray, Nope😂 , James O'Brein meets Matt Goodwin, Nope 😂😂😂😂, James O'Brein coward Yes, 😊

  • @markbeddow6762
    @markbeddow6762 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    3 clowns 😂😂😂

  • @gtowngtown1601
    @gtowngtown1601 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Grim. The thirst.

  • @robertpirsig5011
    @robertpirsig5011 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Or People will find ways to play the victim.