MAN REGRETS GETTING MARRIED TO A RELIGIOUS LADY || Justice Court EP 213

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  • @adewaleadediran8417
    @adewaleadediran8417 หลายเดือนก่อน +148

    Men should learn. While you're empowering your woman, please don't neglect yourself. Grow too

    • @ulonudanieljacksonjackson4525
      @ulonudanieljacksonjackson4525 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thanks so------much

    • @adeyinkaoladapo5863
      @adeyinkaoladapo5863 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Daddy Freeze kept hammering on this point of yours o

    • @uchennaogbe5109
      @uchennaogbe5109 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      The talk someone to me a week ago

    • @maryanozie6543
      @maryanozie6543 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      He his a responsible man❤❤

    • @Healing_with_Joy
      @Healing_with_Joy 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I am a woman, and I second this. And if she really is into you, she will help you manage what you have

  • @OlumideOwaduge
    @OlumideOwaduge หลายเดือนก่อน +204

    Never marry for religious reasons, you will only impress your pastor and church members.

  • @kanayokenneth3608
    @kanayokenneth3608 หลายเดือนก่อน +182

    The fact that you married a religious lady is not enough for marriage to work. The both of you must make it work.

    • @bobbysamuellee6931
      @bobbysamuellee6931 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I still haven't seen why the ladies religious beliefs is the reason so far...

    • @seyiakins2932
      @seyiakins2932 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      They are the worse. They respect pastor more than their husband

    • @selinakyeraa569
      @selinakyeraa569 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      She is bias and not even listening to the man

    • @ezeobinna2303
      @ezeobinna2303 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@selinakyeraa569the man was close to tears. His heart is still heavy with many unsaid words!

    • @sadeodumuyiwa9832
      @sadeodumuyiwa9832 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It's well.
      The fact that the man has BP should move her to cook healthy food for him.I pity this lady,it's when the man dies that she will bring a corpse to the court.All these excuses this woman brought her man to court for I think can be resolved if they both drop egos

  • @cradleofrelaxation6473
    @cradleofrelaxation6473 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    Man was living alone, decided he needs a wife, got a wife for himself and now he has run away from the house 🏠.
    Oh shit, this marriage thing is not easy!!

    • @yrberinyuy9443
      @yrberinyuy9443 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      😂😂😂😂😂 oh shit really...

    • @abrahamw.7731
      @abrahamw.7731 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Some women are very terrible. I blame men who enable such women.

    • @princeprince8467
      @princeprince8467 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Full time shit

  • @israeloguche144
    @israeloguche144 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    This couple doesn't actually have any problem at all except for the fact that the man's earnings may have dropped and the woman whom he developed is now disturbing the peace of the home.

    • @tojuanugengen1600
      @tojuanugengen1600 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You literally just listed their problems

    • @mbsplace8446
      @mbsplace8446 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Honestly they don't have issue

  • @funmilolaolowe3210
    @funmilolaolowe3210 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    The fact that you married SU doesn’t guarantee you will have peace…this man is going through alot..this is really sad.

    • @omnipotentwiz5101
      @omnipotentwiz5101 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Fools marry on religious grounds. He deserves the devil he married.

  • @tejudaniels3109
    @tejudaniels3109 หลายเดือนก่อน +127

    I believe and pray this marriage will still work, the woman still loves her husband but seems she took his gentleness for granted and didn't believe the man could stay away from home. May the Lord restore the home. God bless Judge Funmi always.

    • @Jane-zp7hy
      @Jane-zp7hy หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      I am an old woman and have seen women like her. She treats him like a cash machine. Keeps what she makes, uses his.

    • @codephisher
      @codephisher หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      would never be with her again if I was the man.
      She sees him as a money printing machine no love and support... WTF

    • @tejudaniels3109
      @tejudaniels3109 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@codephisher You'll be surprised what love does; you would if you really love the woman. Some women have done worse things and their husbands have yet forgiven them.

    • @codephisher
      @codephisher หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@tejudaniels3109 life is short, you don’t want to spend it with someone make it even harder. I want to be happy, be respected and be loved and do same for my partner…
      Not going through this sh*t… that’s just my values.

    • @vincentegenti5072
      @vincentegenti5072 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Men should stop going to this court. The only conclusion the partial judge knows is, "How much do you want to be giving her for the Upkeep of the children?" Nothing more

  • @levBeing
    @levBeing หลายเดือนก่อน +107

    Why are men attacking the woman?
    Relationships are complex, the way he’s talking about her new success is a pointer towards a deeper issue. The way he reminds everyone of where she was when he met her, shows a man with a wounded ego.
    Men need to learn to deal with their ego & women need to be sensitive to the fragile egos of their partners.
    The main reason why men work hard in this life is to feel good and earn respect from others! Don’t mind any man that says otherwise.
    So, women respect your men & learn not to bruise their ego else they will change and adopt a childish, resentful and irritating attitude
    Man, try and work on your ego. If your woman becomes more successful than you, it’s not a curse or competition.
    I have a situation where a wife will call her husband to buy bread on his way home and when he was rich and doing well it wasn’t an issue. Infact whenever he forgot, he would drive out again to buy the bread and any other thing needed at home. Immediately, he lost his job that errand was seen as an insult to the same man.
    COUPLES YOU ARE PARTNERS O! Leave you egos at your parents house and support each other
    If you like don’t hear

    • @frankarinze8141
      @frankarinze8141 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      What a well rounded comment! You just nailed 🔨

    • @BabygirlM
      @BabygirlM หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Thank you for elucidating these salient points

    • @joeadeleke
      @joeadeleke หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      @@levBeing he's reminding them of where he met her because of the way she treated him.
      Not saying the man is a saint o, I feel he's mentally drained as he expected her to also stand by him when things went rough.
      I can imagine how he'd feel when she didn't leave any portion of food for him... (That thing dey pain). Please stop starving ppl when there's food. Especially for someone you claim you love or was the love conditional?
      I love your last Paragraph though.
      Marriage is partnership. Those preprogrammed marriage rules you've heard dump them and create sustainable rules both of you are comfortable with

    • @bensonnwabueze8377
      @bensonnwabueze8377 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are very stupid

    • @austinjohn8713
      @austinjohn8713 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      relationship are not complex. the reason people come together is to get help they can't give each other in building their lives. if this man is reminding the court of how things were before, it is because he wants the court to see how he stood to support his family and his wife so that they become better and would have expected the same woman to step up too for him as is required of a wife but she isn't. A man does not work hard to impress anyone but to feed his family and gets the things he needs.
      It is human nature to expect help form someone you stood for. isnt that the reason many of you women complain about when a man makes it and forgets the woman who stood by him while he was struggling? This is not an ego thing

  • @Handofmercy-bn3ib
    @Handofmercy-bn3ib หลายเดือนก่อน +82

    This man is going through hell.I can only imagine how financially comfortable this man would be if had gotten married to peaceful woman.

    • @Pipeople2019
      @Pipeople2019 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😢 KAI! This is so truee

    • @silverlamb5768
      @silverlamb5768 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Really? What did she do that is not giving him peace? So you didn't hear the woman? You don't know the full story and you're judging already?

  • @oreoluwaadeyeye3294
    @oreoluwaadeyeye3294 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    Both parties have said and done things to hurt each other. They are too proud to apologise, thankfully the judge could see through this. Hopefully the marriage counselling will help them to communicate better.

    • @iwufaustinachinaemerem659
      @iwufaustinachinaemerem659 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I hope you heard him in the first episode that he has been begging over the years to know what is his offence but she doesn't talk, but only open up to outsiders or her church pastor

    • @mirrielleachu3231
      @mirrielleachu3231 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ​@@iwufaustinachinaemerem659that's not true. He did not say that. He said his wife doesn't talk to him but rather talk to people outside. Stop lying.

    • @prophetkazbj7356
      @prophetkazbj7356 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      They don't need counseling in my opinion it is a futile effort. This woman has hurt this man the most and she is at war with herself and now also at war with her husband. Do you know what it means for a wife that report her husband to court at all?

    • @phebejimba4399
      @phebejimba4399 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@prophetkazbj7356It means that wife is tired and now needs a legal intervention. He didn't drop money for food for a year plus remember ( she stopped cooking for him for a year )
      Couldn't tell the court how much he dropped and when last . Just went about saying how he established her . Okay , awesome , she can assist. But when did you drop money for food .....he couldn't answer

    • @adetayojosephadesiyan4313
      @adetayojosephadesiyan4313 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@prophetkazbj7356 Exactly what I could understand from the whole story. Both parties are proud, and they hurt each other. Whether they still love each other is not clear. All what the judge is trying to do is for the sake of their children.

  • @adesuaodihirin6688
    @adesuaodihirin6688 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    An amazing Courageous Gentleman
    With the Heart of a Servant Leader

  • @ezenwatasunday9327
    @ezenwatasunday9327 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    This man is passing through a lot.

  • @olanrewajuarilesere8957
    @olanrewajuarilesere8957 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    This woman is a very wrong choice for a wife. Marry a kind woman, not because she is overly religious or something. I'm not saying the guy is a saint, but his own wahala is a learner compared to that woman's wahala. This will serve as a lesson to young guys out there.

  • @olutosinoreoluwa
    @olutosinoreoluwa หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    This is a marriage that has every potential to work. They are both very hardworking individuals that can go very far and succeed if they can learn to do marriage right, after all 2 good heads are better than 1.
    I hope they both put their selfish interests aside, get good marriage counselling and give their marriage everything it takes to make it work.

  • @taiwofincH
    @taiwofincH หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    She don see say bills choke now she don calm down😂😂.She Dey whine herself before ni

  • @Barr.Emmanuella
    @Barr.Emmanuella หลายเดือนก่อน +97

    Very sound judgement. Women, let us stop keeping malice with our husbands, it scares them. Men, please stop listening when we get angry and say we no do again...abeg...let peace reign. I wish this family the BEST!!!

    • @gabrex5940
      @gabrex5940 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      😂😂😂 Odeh you want people to be single mother like you

    • @ejembidavid1552
      @ejembidavid1552 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​@@gabrex5940😂😂😂

    • @ejembidavid1552
      @ejembidavid1552 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@gabrex5940😂😂😂

    • @ejembidavid1552
      @ejembidavid1552 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@gabrex5940😂😂

    • @iheny8407
      @iheny8407 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @gabrex5940 Did you read what she wrote at all, or are you this unintelligent. It is people like you that make us think the govt should restrict social media usage. If I were you, I will apologize to her for typing such ignorant nonsense

  • @shayshayman3369
    @shayshayman3369 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    This lady's family should be ashamed of her behavior. She is a disgrace to them.

  • @alwaysjesusgirlkatrina
    @alwaysjesusgirlkatrina หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Every Marriage Isn't From God, Love Is Not Forced!!! This World Needs Jesus 🌍

    • @bissman1168
      @bissman1168 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂😂 jesus my foot, none be only jesus,na jesus bring them together if so then he is a confused as them both, brainwashed slave

  • @patrickeneje9395
    @patrickeneje9395 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    I actually don't think these woman is a bad person it's just miscommunication...marriages have issues they should fix it or go there separate ways

    • @omnipotentwiz5101
      @omnipotentwiz5101 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Money don finish madam turn tiger.

    • @gcasag4409
      @gcasag4409 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Say the truth and stop supporting bad behaviour from women

  • @thynerbrown
    @thynerbrown หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Me I don't see anything serious with this couple's marital issue. These are the things that can be sorted out amicably. They just need to forgive each other and maybe go for another honeymoon and counseling and try to remember the things that brought them together in the first place. Love covereth a multitude of bad character. Madam this man still loves you. So remove anger and pride and cherish him ooo. E get why❤❤

    • @ghaneeyaha.o661
      @ghaneeyaha.o661 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I totally agree with you but the man doesn’t seem like he’s ready to make it work. He feels like he’s helping her and he has said so many demeaning things about her. Like he doesn’t appreciate her. He needs to work on his mindset. He should try to love and cherish her not just lord over her

    • @frankarinze8141
      @frankarinze8141 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Spot on!!

    • @thynerbrown
      @thynerbrown หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ghaneeyaha.o661 You are right but the man said he has invested so much into making her who she is today and I think if he doesn't love her he won't do that and for him to still be going back home I think he is still interested in the marriage if not he will just disappear like several men will do just to pain her and frustrate her the more. Every marriage has its own challenges. But manner of approach matters a lot and will go a long way to solve the problem. Most women that are divorced will tell you that it's costly oo. Maintain what you have if possible both for men and women especially if life is not threatened.

    • @joeadeleke
      @joeadeleke หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ghaneeyaha.o661 but she denies him food. Someone you claim you love, is that good?

    • @LewisKline
      @LewisKline หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ghaneeyaha.o661😂 typical woman comment

  • @IdrisAdisa-j2h
    @IdrisAdisa-j2h 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I really love the way Judge funmi tackle the situation. She refuse to allow any other unwanted emotional situations in the matter. All she's after is the happiness of the family. Na better judge be this. She's not emotionally attached by supporting one side and condemning the other

  • @Jks-w8c
    @Jks-w8c 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I love the composure of the Judge,Judge Funmi....

  • @Nuges_lar_ges_Mey2131
    @Nuges_lar_ges_Mey2131 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    Daddy wa trying to fulfill the Scriptures 😂...
    Prov 21:19: "¹⁹ It is better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and an angry woman."
    I feel their marriage will still work, "at times I will greet him in the morning; I can't touch his gas; you said you are rich now" ... 😁.
    Bros... The woman want attention
    Madam... The Bros wants some respect
    That smile on the woman's face showing she want make dem marriage work.
    So I feel ooo
    May God bless Judge Funmi

    • @joeadeleke
      @joeadeleke หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes, they need a good marriage counselor. Not anyhow pastor, not anyhow family member, not prayer.
      The mental health of the guy is damaged that's why he ran away 😂 (not fair on the children though). The wife needs to be more aware of her husband and less selfish.
      She should stand by him and encourage him out of his current condition...
      All the wahala might not put his mind in the right state to scale through

    • @chinaecheremdebbie9804
      @chinaecheremdebbie9804 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly 💯😂😂😂😂

    • @taiwofincH
      @taiwofincH หลายเดือนก่อน

      No bro she don see day bills choke .😂

  • @noahodion2111
    @noahodion2111 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    He does not trust you again so you dont poison him. Afterall, someone poisoned four men with pepper soup.

    • @phebejimba4399
      @phebejimba4399 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Where did you hear that o
      She stopped leaving food for him .
      She said he wasn't dropping money

  • @TheresiaNchendia
    @TheresiaNchendia หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Men stop looking for women in churches.
    Many go to churches to look for husbands not that they are prepared for a home.
    Men watch out.

    • @ao.6916
      @ao.6916 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Men and women should let God lead them in the choice of a spouse

    • @Persongr
      @Persongr 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I know this too be true

  • @abdulganiyubraimah5515
    @abdulganiyubraimah5515 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    I really pity this man. May God reinstate his economic situation.

    • @AugustineAriola
      @AugustineAriola หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      He voted Tinubu. There is no God in his situation.

    • @abdulganiyubraimah5515
      @abdulganiyubraimah5515 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Seriously!!! 😂😂😂

    • @mazieziokwutv
      @mazieziokwutv หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You funny ​@@AugustineAriola

  • @ShadrachCeejay
    @ShadrachCeejay หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    When a man stop bringing the Dow , that's when he will know the real characters of the woman he married. Don't trust the loyalty of a poor woman .

    • @falodunabioduntv3769
      @falodunabioduntv3769 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You said it all

    • @prophetkazbj7356
      @prophetkazbj7356 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I agree but in this case the man only stopped directly giving her money to stop wastage especially given she doesn't give him food and sometimes the children remain hungry till he returns from his hustle then he starts looking for something for them even till he had to make a time table showing how bad things were. No sensible will continue giving money to such a woman. She only wants extra money to keep up with a lifestyle. If she could she would have determined the amount. I feel for such good hearted men, they suffer a lot unfortunately in the hands of this type of women

  • @victorlawal6056
    @victorlawal6056 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    May we not marry our enemy in disguise.

    • @prophetkazbj7356
      @prophetkazbj7356 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Amen

    • @lizzyikeh7197
      @lizzyikeh7197 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@prophetkazbj7356you are the one that turn your friend into an enemy

    • @Femimexican
      @Femimexican 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Amen

  • @daspokesmanstudios
    @daspokesmanstudios หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    10:28
    Judge: If you're angry with him, must your children suffer for that?
    Lady: They're boys, so...
    Men, that's the beginning of our suffering.😂
    Happy international men's day!

  • @burger4131
    @burger4131 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    The judge should extend more grace to the men,these women are running wild

  • @stanobende3613
    @stanobende3613 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Marriage is a lot of learning, unlearning and relearning. Same with any other things in life but spouses need to do so together to make great possibilities. Now, that’s what is called a POWER COUPLE not the ones displayed on social media

  • @christianhimbye1872
    @christianhimbye1872 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    My brother Run from this woman, it is not over yet oooo your disrespect not even start bro,

  • @ayorindeemmanuel9746
    @ayorindeemmanuel9746 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    She is novice in marriage. Thank you Judge Funmi for helping them to get a councillor.

  • @omnipotentwiz5101
    @omnipotentwiz5101 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    As a broke man, have kids. Avoid marriage until you’re about 60 or 70.
    Feel free to marry if you’re wealthy.

    • @angelaeze3800
      @angelaeze3800 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      😂

    • @somtoobiorah206
      @somtoobiorah206 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      The way you ppl reason ehn, have kids for what, so that they will suffer. The person that is giving birth to the children nko
      Una sef ehn😂

  • @DEverythingVlog
    @DEverythingVlog หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Women don’t understand that men can survive without them.

    • @97VIRTUESHEART
      @97VIRTUESHEART หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Are you sure? Most men remarry within 6months- 1yrs immediately after divorce or if their wife is died. It shows men can't leave alone.

    • @abokoeguale9783
      @abokoeguale9783 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      ​@97VIRTUESHEART They can live alone ,men marry for cultural and societal reasons.. It's a construct.

    • @georgeokechi7540
      @georgeokechi7540 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Absolutely 💯

    • @joeadeleke
      @joeadeleke หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@abokoeguale9783 you're talking about women

    • @ruth1789
      @ruth1789 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Same for women she has proven that😂

  • @Temmy_Temmy
    @Temmy_Temmy หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    This woman is a bunch of trouble

    • @Gladys-u1w
      @Gladys-u1w หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      How bunch of trouble? If you are not married sister married first ok

    • @carolinekolisang5457
      @carolinekolisang5457 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The man is very rude. He always interrupted the judge. he pretends to suffer.

  • @bobman6966
    @bobman6966 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    I watch this program often but with all due respect and humility, in as much as I love Judge Funmi's way of handling matters, she still does not see from the men's perspective. Maybe thats how the law prescribed. If so, then the law favors only the women. However, I love this Judge so much.

    • @malikmustapha9891
      @malikmustapha9891 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Was wondering if they could let us have a male judge in her place

    • @tosinadegbulu2520
      @tosinadegbulu2520 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@malikmustapha9891 Judge Judy is a woman and does not behave this way. she sometimes lashes the women in court coming from an American background. Some women are wicked sha

    • @prophetkazbj7356
      @prophetkazbj7356 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Seriously she downplayed every single concern the man had as if she wasn't interested in listening to his side

    • @ojonugwastephen5816
      @ojonugwastephen5816 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Her stands are, the children should not suffer because 2 adults have issues to deal with.

    • @prophetkazbj7356
      @prophetkazbj7356 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@ojonugwastephen5816 if the man dies or his health is gone maybe the judge will cater for the children. How can you not see that the children is used by the wife to punish the husband who clearly is already responsible for the entire family until he decided he will focus on himself and the children. The wife leaves her children hungry while she could afford to feed them because she wants the money in her hands. The reason the husband no longer gives her money is because she no longer cooks for him and sometimes the children. Only a daft man will keep giving money to such a woman especially when resources were more scarce than before. He had to buy food using a timetable to show how bad it was and eventually bought a gas cooker to save himself from starvation. This same man was doing everything before but for good reason decided not to be wasteful. I guarantee the only woman wanted him to be forced to keep giving her money like before so she can live the life of competition she wanted not because she wants it for family. I have seen these pattern too many times not to recognize it.

  • @winifredokonkwo2329
    @winifredokonkwo2329 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    The woman is very greedy and irresponsible..the same husband that you are denying food helped you to start up the business that you are making money from and if you cook,you won't give him? She is wicked

    • @prissydee
      @prissydee หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@winifredokonkwo2329 plus tax

    • @femiajishe689
      @femiajishe689 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Exactly my thoughts.... My advice to the man is for him to take care of himself medically first cos if he dies now the woman will continue her life. All Men should invest in themselves more.

  • @christophermonday1173
    @christophermonday1173 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    For any marriage to work, forgiveness must always be in the from burner .Any resentment toward each other will ruin the whole show.

  • @2blessn
    @2blessn หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Food is the least you shouldn’t give someone…. No matter what just cook and leave it there. If he eats fine if he doesn’t fine. But don’t cook and not leave food for everyone

    • @joeadeleke
      @joeadeleke หลายเดือนก่อน

      Omo that thing dey pain😢😭

    • @amenobas890
      @amenobas890 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@joeadeleke😂😂😂😂😂

    • @abubakarmohammed3913
      @abubakarmohammed3913 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well said…

    • @carolinekolisang5457
      @carolinekolisang5457 หลายเดือนก่อน

      African men always expect the least. I think it is good she does not feed this man baby.

    • @abubakarmohammed8405
      @abubakarmohammed8405 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Even when my father is angry at my mum. She will prepare his food morning and night and the man will not touch the food and she must continue to set the table.

  • @olanrewajuakinpelu7022
    @olanrewajuakinpelu7022 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    God bless the judge. She is truly a professional peacemaker!

    • @easepointAfrica
      @easepointAfrica 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      does she tell you her own family problem? am ashamed of you. so bringing your family problem in public is a good thing to you

  • @Bintu-c7k
    @Bintu-c7k หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I will advise that the man stays away from this woman until the marriage counselling is over

  • @COLLEGE_OF_SERVANTS_OF_GOD.
    @COLLEGE_OF_SERVANTS_OF_GOD. หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    As a Godfearing couple...4 Things you MUST DO for the marriage to WORK peacefully.
    1.Both MUST BE BORN AGAIN & Have GOD in the Centre of the family.
    2.Must be LED by the MAIN BOOK ..The BIBLE DAILY.
    3.Never ROB GOD His tithe ...have spiritual parents whom you can go to for such matters ....&
    4.Most Important..PRAY Together in the morning & evenning as a couple..arise very early and do LORDS PRAYER,,TONGUES, & dress with full armor of God.... BEARING ONE ANOTHER WITH PATIENCE & FORGIVENESS

    • @paulnwanze821
      @paulnwanze821 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You just dey talk rubbish… being over religious.. if you like wear the armor wey big pass Goliath own, if you don’t work on your nasty traits and character… your marriage go collapse… werey say na pray morning and night… LOL

  • @Starfo-information
    @Starfo-information หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    Am I watching a different video? Everyone is condemning the woman while the man couldnt answer simple questions.

    • @brightekhator3499
      @brightekhator3499 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What was the question the man couldn’t answer?

    • @OilmanJames-dd4wl
      @OilmanJames-dd4wl หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      The judge didn't even wan he to talk

    • @mirrielleachu3231
      @mirrielleachu3231 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      ​@brightekhator3499 the cout asked him how much does he want to be dropping. He said the wife said she is rich.

    • @mirrielleachu3231
      @mirrielleachu3231 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      So tell me. Do u think that was the answer the judge was expecting.

    • @mirrielleachu3231
      @mirrielleachu3231 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@brightekhator3499he said his wife doesn't cook, she replied saying he does not drop money for food.

  • @nelsonolatunde9199
    @nelsonolatunde9199 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Why arent you allowing the man to talk. His income is not fixed . They should share the responsibility 50/50 8:25 8:25

    • @phebejimba4399
      @phebejimba4399 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      They gave him more time to answer questions than they gave the wife . He just foes not know how to answer a question.

    • @truereality7407
      @truereality7407 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@phebejimba4399that is a big lie. The judge is very biased and never allowed the man to explain himself. Anytime he tried talking, the judge kept interrupting him and even told him she wasn't interested in what the man is going through. You can see the pain in the man's eyes towards the end of the video, as he used his hands to clean his face because he felt unheard.

    • @lovebenz3516
      @lovebenz3516 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      He's not answering the questions being asked
      He's wasting time
      He goes out of point

  • @cynthiasaint-kafui
    @cynthiasaint-kafui 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I support the judge,we must think about the children we bring to this life

  • @mekwunyesunday1226
    @mekwunyesunday1226 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Most at times good men always suffer in marriage because of their good hearts but the bad ones are always feared and respected.

  • @emekaukaigwe5668
    @emekaukaigwe5668 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    Narcissistic woman..

    • @ao.6916
      @ao.6916 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Very wicked, sadist woman

    • @militarybishop6053
      @militarybishop6053 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I'm sorry, I didn't observe that in her. She never interrupted the Judge at any point. Narcissistic personalities will always interject, display rage, uneasiness and prominent singers vein because they always want to be heard solely. An example to this is Wike (FCT Minister). I perceive laxity in communication, gross lack of marriage vibes which most religious people lack, ego issues and hygienic issues as well, although I may be wrong. Don't just throw words out there except you know them in toto. I'm a man, and I don't rush to defend women, but I study things first before making my submission. Both of them are calm people. However, only the man was interjecting the judge.

    • @michaelzcun
      @michaelzcun หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@militarybishop6053The man seemed he wants to be heard, that's all.
      He sees the wife as an ungrateful person who was helped to grow financially but became fool of herself because of the additional monies she has made

  • @obedorji2456
    @obedorji2456 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Beautiful Judge FUNMI I love you 💕. Very intelligent, cool, calm and calculated Judge.

  • @christophero5626
    @christophero5626 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Empower some woman at your own risk . If you have never done this before pls dont say anything. You will think a woman is very humble until you set rhem up and neglect yourself .

  • @adebamiroayokunle-wi1rp
    @adebamiroayokunle-wi1rp 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    As a man, just know say life is already leading you 2:0, it’s so obvious the society is built to always favor the women. The judge should also be allowing men to speak their mind and what they are going through

  • @TheLegend-uq1gz
    @TheLegend-uq1gz 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Marriage is work. They both MUST be willing to put in the effort to make it work.

  • @bilikisqaasim5634
    @bilikisqaasim5634 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I think this couple can reunite if they work with the advice of a councillor. Thanks for the good job, ma

  • @akuwiyadzeclifford5817
    @akuwiyadzeclifford5817 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Finances and upkeep of the home should be handled communally. There is no my your money when it comes to running the home. Why is one person bearing all the brunt of the upkeep if all are working. If one person loses their means to provide (god forbid) the other picks up the slack.
    Finance in the home is really not that complicated na we like to complicate am.
    Have four accounts
    - Wife Account
    - Husband account
    - Home Account (for daily/weekly expenditure)
    - Home Savings Account for rainy days kids college future projects.
    Ensure that all are funded as agreed. He who who earns more contributes more and all benefit if you cannot do this both of you better not marry. Money breaks homes apart quicker than extramarital affairs.

  • @TolulopeHafeez
    @TolulopeHafeez หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Obviously, the man is not happy.
    I believe this marriage can still work as the decision of Judge Funmi is simply what sincere religious leaders or family members could help the couple reach. No sacrifice is too big for both parties to take to have a better relationship. This matter should not have come to the court at all.
    I wish them a better marital life.

  • @omotosodiya3811
    @omotosodiya3811 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Man, please take care of your health. If your BP goes uncontrollable na die be that oo. This woman and children will enjoy when you are gone

  • @JesusMyLord.
    @JesusMyLord. หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This woman needs help, The Husband needs to Understand this woman..

    • @ifejuwondaniel8410
      @ifejuwondaniel8410 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      So the man doesn't need any help?

  • @OliverSunday-fb8li
    @OliverSunday-fb8li หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    God please give me a good woman to marry 🙏🙏🙏

    • @prissydee
      @prissydee หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I am available ooo

    • @michealjegede2589
      @michealjegede2589 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Aaah!😂😂😂😂😂​@@prissydee

    • @graceifyogu
      @graceifyogu หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hope you are a good man too. Because it takes two to .,....

    • @OliverSunday-fb8li
      @OliverSunday-fb8li หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@prissydee 🤣

    • @dondomoses4118
      @dondomoses4118 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Be a good man too

  • @MaybelsNatural
    @MaybelsNatural 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    They both have a point. There major problem is communication

  • @olowoyeyefolashade1157
    @olowoyeyefolashade1157 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Never marry or have relationship with over religious people......

  • @reinematene460
    @reinematene460 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Going to church doesn't mean the person is transformed.And even it's so,don't take it for granted continuisly pray for your familly.
    It's not ...Christian are also tempted. If Jesus where tempted then who are we.

  • @bodeprime
    @bodeprime หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Gentle, timid men don suffer for this life

  • @jimwafula4733
    @jimwafula4733 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    This woman is wicked! How do you cook n deny your husband? Yet when you were down he provided?

    • @electromecstore1367
      @electromecstore1367 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      My brother don't take matters like this. Even the judge knows that they like each other just that something must have been pushing one of them.

    • @C-hp3ws
      @C-hp3ws หลายเดือนก่อน

      Because the yeye woman rapper man is ur brother or friend, u should be ashamed of yourself, which normal man lives his family to live with his sister 🤌🤔

    • @C-hp3ws
      @C-hp3ws หลายเดือนก่อน

      A mumu man that bought gas foodstuff for only himself and refused to provide for his wife and children, buy him PADS because he is ev?l father w?cked family who do competition

    • @jimwafula4733
      @jimwafula4733 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @electromecstore1367 not that am judging her but I have seen such things happen in relationships. When a man is working & providing he is a king. When he is struggling to provide he is a burden, this is women character

    • @joeadeleke
      @joeadeleke หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@jimwafula4733 Aswear na the cooking part pain me pass. How would you starve someone you claim you love abi na loved... Shey na True love or conditional love

  • @SilverNwaobilor-wh1bl
    @SilverNwaobilor-wh1bl หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    All i have to say is that this man is a very different man to live with ,simple !

  • @EbenezerOladipo-z5i
    @EbenezerOladipo-z5i หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Stay in your marriage there is no better one outside o.

    • @ewejefolusho7854
      @ewejefolusho7854 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Says who? Stay home and be suffering.

    • @GoodLuck-cv6xk
      @GoodLuck-cv6xk หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Have you gone outside?

    • @glowriyah4827
      @glowriyah4827 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Theres always a better one

    • @joeadeleke
      @joeadeleke หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@glowriyah4827 after how many children? Who you want leave them for?

    • @jianoddon2510
      @jianoddon2510 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@glowriyah4827 continue to deceive yourself...better ask those who have been outside and now aging... They'll tell u more

  • @Bintu-c7k
    @Bintu-c7k หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    The woman is a religious extremist. What do you expect😂? She will frustrate the man with her close mindedness. I pray God helps them sha

  • @chibuzorisrael5878
    @chibuzorisrael5878 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What is this judge saying, he foots the bill of his household.
    This type of wife, mark them and avoid them.

  • @r.hhaywood1555
    @r.hhaywood1555 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    All these women be pretendin.. baltazar egonga has xposed all of them..

    • @chibuzorokpala6717
      @chibuzorokpala6717 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So because hushpuppi is a fraudulent yahoo boy, was caught and jailed means every man is a criminal? You are mugu!!!

    • @margaretpeterogwucheTA
      @margaretpeterogwucheTA หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😅😅😅😅

  • @wisdom447
    @wisdom447 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you, mama Judge.

  • @stiphodilepidoekayode
    @stiphodilepidoekayode หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It is a pathetic to know that this is a supposed christian home. May God help them to recover.

  • @TrendMasterhq
    @TrendMasterhq 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    The man want to pressure the woman to submit as a wife but the woman na i no gree type...men study them and deal with women according to knowledge.

  • @olayemibakare6137
    @olayemibakare6137 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    If u really want to enjoy your marriage as a man show your wife practically that u love her children.

  • @lukmanisah2967
    @lukmanisah2967 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Please forgive each other for the sake of the innocent children.

  • @director_mrnizefilms
    @director_mrnizefilms หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Judge you are not settling this problem well to my understanding 👨‍⚖️

  • @odianosenarabome4100
    @odianosenarabome4100 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This lady is selfish and insensitive. She is also unreasonable. She is the problem.

  • @pamilerindejoy
    @pamilerindejoy หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Understanding matters and co parenting

  • @jianoddon2510
    @jianoddon2510 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hmmm...this kinda lady needs a marriage counselor and spiritual deliverance. Her mindset is porous.
    The man should win back his marriage at all cost...because of the kids.

  • @fortress6334
    @fortress6334 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He didn't stop living in the house, not sleeping at home at night doesn't mean you don't live in your home.

  • @BAMIDELEOLASUPO
    @BAMIDELEOLASUPO 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The justice court should look deep into men's issues critically too. Should men stop empowering their wives and face responsibilities duly? Because most women turn against their husbands after being empowered.

  • @shilohlm-pi5ex
    @shilohlm-pi5ex 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    😅big man started claiming walking dead. They still love each other but ego really is their problem......... The biggest fvvk up is the fact he doesn't take care of his kids

    • @AudaciousAda
      @AudaciousAda 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      📌📌📌📌

  • @adekoyeadesuyi4394
    @adekoyeadesuyi4394 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    This is one of those women that went into marriage because of what they can gain, money and children,and not for the sake of love and what they can Such women are not in marriage to support their husbands to get back to their feets when they have financial challenges.
    And in such marriages, the moment the benefits stopped or disrupted,no marriage again and the man becomes useless.
    This woman is still in that house because she doesn't have the finance to cater for herself, she will be gone the moment she's financially okay.
    That's why she didn't come to court to fight for her marriage but for financial benefits.

    • @giftedchild9490
      @giftedchild9490 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She is even comparing the man with outsiders

    • @tierraokonkwo6671
      @tierraokonkwo6671 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Very true. I have seen both men and women do this. Once they have taken the gain or the gain is not viable, the marriage breaks down

    • @omotolaomoleye629
      @omotolaomoleye629 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You nailed it. She never loved this man. She is a heartless woman.

    • @joeadeleke
      @joeadeleke หลายเดือนก่อน

      Omo, you sabi the drill. Aswear it's a pattern that I've noticed with a lot of women. Some don't like companionship, some just married the available and not what they want.
      That's why at the end of the day, marry a kind reasonable person.

    • @joeadeleke
      @joeadeleke หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@tierraokonkwo6671 Well I noticed this with women. After child bearing and she's well to do, the next thing for her is to find her way out of the marriage.

  • @habaram58
    @habaram58 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    He owns the House. He is still catering for the apartment. He's not sleeping there, but He still lives there.
    His crime is "being nice" to the lady ftom the start of their marriage, when he always gave her capital for her Recharge Card Business.

  • @MaybelsNatural
    @MaybelsNatural 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is really touching 😢

  • @anipeters5154
    @anipeters5154 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I use to say it
    I don't need a relationship that is based on scripture from the church
    But the word of God
    This is a pastor's child.
    😂😂

  • @olusegunfeyisetan1127
    @olusegunfeyisetan1127 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This can never be me sha.
    She'll either go or I'll take another woman.

  • @quincytommy6754
    @quincytommy6754 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Marriage isn’t always rosy I guess they need more communication

  • @LilianJeromeAmaka
    @LilianJeromeAmaka หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Please how do i contact this court and the lawyer,i have similar case

    • @femiajishe689
      @femiajishe689 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      U better sort ur problem privately within your both families/parents cos I don't subscribe to public degradation, it's just a mess.

  • @noahodion2111
    @noahodion2111 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How can he live with her when she has become a thorn in his flesh.

  • @C-hp3ws
    @C-hp3ws หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    The woman should leave the man because he is a woman rapper doing competition with his wife and kids over food in the same house, his family should be ashamed mostly his sister

    • @olaoyekunle4488
      @olaoyekunle4488 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Watch the first part. Last week episode

    • @joeonoja3272
      @joeonoja3272 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Go and watch the first one and stop talking shit

    • @paulnwanze821
      @paulnwanze821 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You dey crase… Oloshi woman

    • @irewoleolalekanoladimeji3251
      @irewoleolalekanoladimeji3251 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      If only that's your brother, you won't be saying this from your ass h#le called mouth.... Omo aley

  • @adegokevictor6973
    @adegokevictor6973 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I am of the opinion that the Lady is not doing enough to fight for her family. I think the ball is in her court.

    • @carolinekolisang5457
      @carolinekolisang5457 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Nobody should have to fight for theier family. Men have enjoyed being fought for. As is they were so special.

    • @michaelzcun
      @michaelzcun หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@carolinekolisang5457😂😂😂 Pained

  • @Ekia-j7q
    @Ekia-j7q หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    this woman is is not a good woman. This man is really in trouble

  • @Remyberry
    @Remyberry หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The man self na mumu you day talk like woman so you leave house for your wife go your sister side 😅😅😅💔

  • @deyoungpatoofisheriesaquac3665
    @deyoungpatoofisheriesaquac3665 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have a lot to say but I only said thank you judge fumi for your good work

  • @michaelirimefe1277
    @michaelirimefe1277 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If don't want to marry him again then leave his house. Dem swear for you

  • @chubbyo5059
    @chubbyo5059 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    It's May sound right for men to stop investing in their wives. When marriage collapse, nobody will remember man sacrifice to the family

  • @ngozi.chukwuneke
    @ngozi.chukwuneke หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    This woman has problem. Wicked woman. Plus she lies a lot. In the first video, she lied that she has been supported before judge Funmi asked who bought the oven you are using now.
    I’m sure she stopped cooking for the man and the man went ahead to buy gas and cook for himself.

  • @dr.vivian4277
    @dr.vivian4277 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Low key some people have personality disorders and sometimes mental health disorder and we will be laughing and thinking they are difficult.

  • @aaa-pp
    @aaa-pp หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    This man is try to evade his responsibilities to his children. It's like pulling teeth, he's frustrating the judge. The woman came for child support, the Judge ordered marriage counseling. Nigeria is a man's country.

    • @joeadeleke
      @joeadeleke หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      The man has a share of the blame same as the woman too. I feel his mental health has been damaged that's why he left.
      Partners should learn how to work as a team and be considerate with themselves.. Make una pity yourselves.
      And finally, a good marriage counselor would save this marriage

    • @ikevalentine4085
      @ikevalentine4085 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      How do you ask for child support when you are still legally married? A request for child support comes when you are separated or divorced

    • @tierraokonkwo6671
      @tierraokonkwo6671 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@ikevalentine4085 no, it doesn't matter, u can be living under the same room and not doing it

    • @aaa-pp
      @aaa-pp หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@ikevalentine4085@6.00 Judge Funmi asked him how much he's willing to give for food. He never answered her, he kept evading the question.

  • @angelaiwo4551
    @angelaiwo4551 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This man just leave that woman go her way. The man is afraid of the wife. The woman can be dangerous to the husband

  • @aq091ayatullah3
    @aq091ayatullah3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Men should be very careful with marriage! Not just any woman!