This man mouth sweet as he explains his own part of the story. It takes two to tangle. Treat each other with respect. It doesn’t take much to treat a woman the right way. If you treat your woman right peace will be in the house
Why on earth should a woman be biting her supposed husband like a 🐶? Look at the scars, I mean those are claims she couldn't deny bfor the court. I didn't believe the torn under wear until I saw real scars on his arms. How do you tangle with such bites? A man that could boast of the full responsibility of his family is not a bad man. If man beats a woman it is domestic violence and crime but if a woman beat, bite or even chew a man's flesh raw, it is an expression of anger. Haba, is it a crime to be a man?
How can the man pull his wife by the hair…how can you beat her…how can he go with such and you expect the wife not to fight back….she can’t just suddenly bite him without touching her…if he was peaceful his wife would have been the same for him too…
I'm a man too but I think this man is very malicious and unpredictable. For the children however, they must swallow their differences and raise the children with integrity and love. I can't stand the cry of a mother where children are involved.
Yeah, marriage is not do or die affairs, but if the marriage does not work out, it is still the responsibility of the man to be taking care of the woman and the children.
The children's welfare is really most important . Considering the parents as at present, separation is the best solution. The children are too young to seeing all this drama/wahala from adults that can't control themselves. Thanks to the Judge that could help in resolving this overwhelming case.
Age is not maturity , Understanding is paramount, Communication is paramount, Manner of approach matters a lot ,some persons don't know how to talk ,not everyone is meet you are meant to marry .
God bless you judge, there are so many broken home like this and at the end of the day the kids are affected. Thanks for standing up for our children….
Communication is key to a successful relationship. I can imagine how they both talk over each other in an argument 😂. Children are the ones that suffer in all of this.
Men are really trying! Pay for house rent , electricity bill, children sch fees, feeding, clothing etc 🥺🥺🥺 Make God Dey provide for una 🙏🏽 If you’re a woman and you have money, please support ur man!, if u have opportunity to work, please work, earn money and help out🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 It’s not easy🥺🥺🥺
From the judge's decision, you can tell that she knows that the man is a responsible father that doesn't shy away from his responsibilities.. so there was no need asking him the regular question of "How much will you be dropping for their upkeep"
Immaturity is kills all relationships. They two have issues with attitude. Women are advised to get a work for themselves and it must not be dropped because of marriage.
Not all of the time. Look at Mercy Aigbe’s present husband. His original wife with their four children built the house, furnished it etc. etc. He didn’t remember her. Very sad. Karma.
@@yvettewilliams5967 that’s why I don’t receive any favor from woman or grow with any woman. So if I want to leave all the women in Nigeria will not come and say she was with me from scratch or she built me. Even my elder brother way get money, en wife self don de say na en make my brother . Chai women
@@victorezeagu1893 Lol, you people are just ungrateful souls. So when someone builds with you and you treat them bad, it is out of place to remind you of what they've done for you? Lol, I no blame women wey dey avoid poor men. You people are proud and ungrateful
Any woman reading this if you have the opportunity don't get pregnant or married if you don't have your own money. A man's anger does not know the plight of his children. Read that again and let me know if you have any questions.
Like i said last week they both get for body. At some point she had the upper hand in the marriage but the guys level don change now. they both aren't bad they are just from 2 different mindset that connected via needs at time they met. wish them all the best.
I say this all the time, whenever there's a problem women always has many things to loose. Look at how this man is moving on very fast. Except for a toxic relationship and man who doesn't live up and take care of his responsibilities women respect your husbands submit it won't take anything out from you. I'm sure this man is already eyeing another lady and from look of things this woman don't want divorce or separation but see how everything is turning now.
First and foremost this woman needs to be submissive 📌 according to this man he has been taking care of his responsibilities and the wife doesn't deny any of his responsibilities. My point of view in this video is that the man really wants his family together. she is capable of taking care of the children that is why she took the children out of the house without the consent of the husband. Please come back together and build a happy family with your children period
The lady still wants the marriage but the man is handsome and has rented a duplex while the mother of his kids and the kids live in a home visited by rats
@@taiwofagbemi4243he takes care of his responsibilities? Someone who leaves no money for food, but come home and demands for food? Then starts to use violence? Wow… well done
@@ajbro8116 she own a shop go n watch the first clip. D man is jus acting Nigeria movies. Oga want to quit divorce but not ready to do the needful child care fees rent bills etc . Na u want divorce na 😊😊
As per the narration, in my opinion the women have her attitude not only the man. I like the way Judge Funmi advised them to see marriage counsellor and bothe refused. The judgement was fair with both party for the man side he have to be responsible and for the women as the Judge mentioned she can come back if the man default all the responsible. GOD BLESS JUDGE FUNMI🙏💕
Wats d work of d woman as both of them are no more together . Cos it seems dat d woman are d one benefiting more on dis divorce issue . D man pay house rent, feeding, electricity bills , maintemce bills. Which of d bills comes from d woman
The whole story is due to poverty. Marriage has so many problems but poverty is one of them. I can't take sides because both parties are lying. But for the fact that the woman still wants the marriage speaks alot. It shows that she is the real problem. The man just wants to go😂😂
The man wanted to go because he has seen another woman. He doesnt pay school fees, no food for his children, he doesnt care for them but he has money to rent standard 3 bedroom flat when his children were hungary. The woman actually want to stay for her children.
I thank God for my country Kenya. Child will remain with me till he or she turns 18 and above but this man I don't trust him men like this can frustrate the wife and manipulate her too
All I tell people is to try not to be selfish in your actions. Just do the little good you can do for others. And I tell people not to expect too much from another person. No human being have the answers to the human race problems
The issue in this marriage is still money. The man has not been providing for the family, she's expecting the woman to be bringing money since she is making money too. This man is very cunning and not responsible. The man has another woman outside let the man just continue taken up the children responsibility. Lesson here is that we should prayerfully shine your eyes before you marry whether you are a man or a woman. May God help us. Please don't forget to vote for Peter Obi in the 2023 presidential election. If you vote for Tinubu or Atiku you are an enemy of Nigeria.
So the man is irresponsible but paying for the tuition of his children since? He should die because he married? What is the use of a wife that can’t help her husband???
Very useless man arguing over what I don’t know, He think is easy to take care of children, men think bring money is everything they forget children have stress too
@@ojoolajumoke9633 I know but women should know their position in marriage and stay there... don't over do..no when to talk and when to close mouth.. when your husband is misbaving go back to God and report him to His maker... don't marry out of desperation
Women should know when to talk and when to close mouth and know position in the marriage? I can say, same to husbands. Ye, NEVER marry out of desperation.
This man showed many bite marks and other evidence in court and I didn’t hear Judge Funmi ask the woman why she inflicted all those injuries. The bias against men should not be institutionalized. I really love Judge Funmi, this could be an oversight.
Thank God for civilized society this nonsense will never happen. This can never happen here in America. His pay check will be garnished he will not see a dime from it. His pay check will go for well being of those children.
They never loved each other. there's a difference between sex and love. You can tell that these too hated each other but stayed together because of the kids.
That’s why it’s good to get married to your friend. Someone you love without sex being the primary reason. When. The loves seems to fade away the friendship keeps both couple going. Cause marriage is never a bed of rose.
The hand writing on the wall that this man is manipulative , calculative & defensive… am not saying the woman is a saint, but you won’t understand how disappointing it can be when you invested so much in someone all in the name of Love and at the end of the day. Hmm. The relationship shouldn’t have happened not even having children
Her problem and pain here is that he's moving on so quick without her if as he said he's keeping up to his fatherly duties she should have no reason to be worried.
It quite clear he want to move on. She should accept and try to move on as well she Should give the children to him over the weekend to give herself some space as well to rebuild her life without him.
I don't think it's by tribe Some men are gifted with the spirit of lies They will lie on your name until people will feel sorry for you that you are maltreating them,very manipulative people,they don't always want to win argument
Stop saying what you don't know... Did the woman. Deny not doing that? The evidence was presented and the woman didn't make any denial. So the man should watch how he is been chopped off
Many women think life is all about sex to have children. They still believe once they have children for a man, they can use that to hold down the man. They don't think about nothing. Everyone needs to be realistic in everything. If you can't pay school fees , teach your children at home
Lessons learnt. Manipulators everywhere.. always listen to both sides. An intelligent person has drawn a conclusion here. 😊 ladies keep ur home. Simple. Husband love ur wife.
This story off me ooo .lol I don't even know who's sincere with their confession here Judge Fummi is really doing a good job, because I've yelled so many times while watching her patience in listening to all these stories isn just amazing
I don’t think it’s fair to ask the man to pay for everything include Nepa bill and house rent. The children are also the woman’s responsibility. They are her fertilized eggs for goodness sake and his sperm. It’s 100-100. If the man pays complete school fees, pays a fixed upkeep, the woman should also chip in. They should find a balance. When this kids grow and make it, they will buy stuffs for their mother even more than they do for their father. Women should learn to have the number of kids they can personally take care of too Incase. There are no guarantees in life. If this man remarries today, we won’t expect him to be paying her rent, Nepa bills just because they have kids together. Same house she might even have a boyfriend be sleeping over in the future.
Do u know u are a complete fool? Because the woman also pay for upkeep as well, what will 10k do for the woman and her children this time that everything is expensive? Meaning she is the one that will cover up that expenses. Get sense
@@endurancepurity6659 see the way you re quick to call a man who I'm so sure is even older than you a fool. Some women are just so frustrated, looking for whom to vent there frustrated on. I have a lover who is a single mum, she told me that, at first women will ran away with there kid(s) thinking they are free to sleep with as many men they can to take care of there kids, but after 6months or 3years of running from one man to another, they will get tired and start looking for judge funmi to force there ex to be giving them upkip. She told me it happened to her and it's her worst mistake because it wasnt what she expected. Any woman who can not respect me but thinks she can mess me up in public has signed to be messed up for the rest of her stay here on earth
Hmmmm I was shocked when the judge asked the man to take responsibility of everything. How will the man move forward? Sometimes I don't understand some women. She can't even say she wants to take part of the responsibilities and that's very wicked and bad of her
What is women responsibilities in Nigeria, women please be responsible too and don’t leave everything for men. Me and my husband shared responsibilities
So because the man have sweet mouth. You believe the woman is doing nothing in the house. The man have money to rent standard 3 bedroom flat but he can't pay his children's school fees
This my genda! 😅 she was the who packed out first and she is jealous now that the man is living in a duplex, she doesn't want anymore but the man has already moved one 😢 na waow!
Too much of unwarranted stories.. The bottom line is this.. This mostly apply to Nigerian women, if you depend on your man to provide everything to the very least in your relationship, always expect to be treated like nobody, if such a man even have an extra marital affair outside the marriage, he won’t blink an eye, you know why? Because you as a lady DO NOT COMMAND THE RESPECT YOU DESERVE. A woman that wanted to be respected must have something meaningful doing, helping her husband financially, showing affection, don’t force yourself into a marriage, don’t just be in a marriage for just having a children that you cannot look after, be productive. By doing so, you won’t end up to this type of situation.
Did you watch the beginning of this drama. This is part 2. This woman took him out from dungeon and care for him. Now he has money and has children he is behaving like real Nigerian man. A typical narcissist.
@@ndorikeenyinkeowo7773 I did watched the first clip.. My point and thought remains the same, as a lady be productive, don’t be fully dependent on your husband, because if you do, Nigerian men as you said, will limit the respect you should deserve as a lady. Why do you see many of our women became beggars after losing their husbands?
My view is this as a woman build yourself! Keep building , keep saving small money … Have children you can single handedly cater for incase any issue arises
This man is a terrible person, how can you not buy clothes for them for that 3 days period they were with you. How much is bend down boutique that you had to wear them your own cloths for crying out loud.
You are very funny 😂🤣 in your comment, but this things this woman did to the man both good and bad, if another woman do it to ur beloved brother or your lovely sons, will you like it? So stop supporting what is not good or what you don't know. Karma is real. God did not create anyone to suffer in this world but if you see anyone going through any suffering today, it's either it is what he did to others or what he parents or fore parents did or even what he supported. This life is a principle world
@@thebest-zq1vg I'm not saying anybody is right but how can he not buy them clothes for that 3 days they were with him. Mind you, he didn't say he can't afford it but he chose to wear them his clothes
You are very funny, they have cloths already with the woman and you want him to buy another cloth. How can he buy the children's books ,school fees and the rent she is demanding if he spends money senselessly??.
Sometimes I wonder how couple go from Love to Hate, it baffles me how they got to that point🤦 Serious Marriage counseling is needed before saying I do. Make God help us for this marriage matter ooo
Unless you are facing life and death, you cannot take yourself and your children and leave your matrimonial home without discussing with your spouse. Where is the respect and fear of God in both of these people? Say no to violence and any form of abuse. If you sincerely love your husband, he becomes that sick and his leg is that infected… should you two not work together and find a better solution? This is part of the reason he no longer wants the marriage. You cannot use the children as pawn. Have self respect and move on. Both are claiming their business is not good. She is adamant about his business, what about her own business? When marriage is over, both are equally responsible for the children… Money money money… God help us. Children deserve to grow up in a safe home. In U.K./Europe, the social services will take the children away.
When domestic violence comes from a woman, no one talks about it, even yo...😢 If a woman claims to be the man of the house, let her takes the responsibility of a man.
It's very easy to point the finger saying the man is at fault. That woman too is not easy to deal with. You can see she is fed up of looking after them but does not want the man to have them. It's too bad
They two can work on their marriage. They need to go for counselling. They both don’t have interpersonal skills. They can’t relate with each other. They never did learn how to be friends and lovers. I hope they can sort themselves out and stay together. The lady is quarrelsome and the man doesn’t know how to calm her down so his solution is escape.
This man is looking for someone to manipulate. Yes , how much can a woman put up with ? When her man has fallen out of love with her . I feel that he has his eyes on someone else and are looking for excuses to Go on with his life. However, they both have faults but the woman is the one that suffered the most because she has to be responsible for those children especially when they are not well. So my dear sister, please seek God’s love . He is the only one that gives true love not man.
Most of you men here calling a woman liability are sickening... Ignorant men are askin what is the woman bringing to the table. First and foremost, do you know some people get paid outside just to get pregnant and deliver a baby Second, you as a man go to work and come back to your all tidied up house, do you know people get paid also to carry out domestic chores. And what about cooking food.... laundry, taking care of the children, errands etc., Do you know people get paid to carry out all this. Lemme tell you, a housewife is the most downgraded job especially in this part of the world. You men, just for one week, switch places with your wife, let her go to your office and you stay in her place as a housewife, lemme see if you would not either faint or run mad because of this chores and taking care of children at the same time. If housewives were paid for every single work they do, some would be multimillionaires by now. Dear men, get this analysis. Stop seeing your wives as liabilities , you can do better.
This man is a responsible father. Compatibility is the issue I see here.
Communication and manner of approach matters.
When the complainant called judge Funmi Mummy! I busted out with laughter 🤣🤣
You too dey laugh!
@@obinna6345 🤣🤣🤣
I was shocked too... Mummiiiii
Mommyy.
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Her level of ignorance is crude like oil😂
This man mouth sweet as he explains his own part of the story. It takes two to tangle. Treat each other with respect. It doesn’t take much to treat a woman the right way. If you treat your woman right peace will be in the house
Why on earth should a woman be biting her supposed husband like a 🐶? Look at the scars, I mean those are claims she couldn't deny bfor the court.
I didn't believe the torn under wear until I saw real scars on his arms. How do you tangle with such bites? A man that could boast of the full responsibility of his family is not a bad man.
If man beats a woman it is domestic violence and crime but if a woman beat, bite or even chew a man's flesh raw, it is an expression of anger. Haba, is it a crime to be a man?
A woman can not suddenly bite a man with him beating her…
How can the man pull his wife by the hair…how can you beat her…how can he go with such and you expect the wife not to fight back….she can’t just suddenly bite him without touching her…if he was peaceful his wife would have been the same for him too…
After the judgement, you people are still judging yourselves here. See why quarrel will never finish ? What else do you want?
This judge do like to side women somehow
I'm a man too but I think this man is very malicious and unpredictable. For the children however, they must swallow their differences and raise the children with integrity and love. I can't stand the cry of a mother where children are involved.
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Yeah, marriage is not do or die affairs, but if the marriage does not work out, it is still the responsibility of the man to be taking care of the woman and the children.
@Ayodele Awoseye happy foolishness. But if you have said the children good
God bless u for saying the truth especially when kids are involved
There is no love here my brother
The look on Judge Funmi’s face when the woman raised her hand after she has passed her judgment is priceless! Like, you dey whine me? 😂😂
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You got it
The lady doing the sign language is even tired of the couple, see the way she is stretching herself 😂😂😂😂
I pity her. Hope she got overtime for this case
She never know the job wey she collect😀
Lol...
😂😂😂😂😂😂this comment cracked me up
Honestly😂😂😂 very complicated set of people
The children's welfare is really most important . Considering the parents as at present, separation is the best solution. The children are too young to seeing all this drama/wahala from adults that can't control themselves. Thanks to the Judge that could help in resolving this overwhelming case.
Age is not maturity ,
Understanding is paramount,
Communication is paramount,
Manner of approach matters a lot ,some persons don't know how to talk ,not everyone is meet you are meant to marry .
My thoughts exactly, compatibility is the only issue I see here
@@idahcharity3115and I saw lack of respect. The woman has no atom of respect for this man.
God bless you judge, there are so many broken home like this and at the end of the day the kids are affected. Thanks for standing up for our children….
Communication is key to a successful relationship. I can imagine how they both talk over each other in an argument 😂. Children are the ones that suffer in all of this.
Men are really trying!
Pay for house rent , electricity bill, children sch fees, feeding, clothing etc 🥺🥺🥺
Make God Dey provide for una 🙏🏽
If you’re a woman and you have money, please support ur man!, if u have opportunity to work, please work, earn money and help out🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
It’s not easy🥺🥺🥺
From the judge's decision, you can tell that she knows that the man is a responsible father that doesn't shy away from his responsibilities.. so there was no need asking him the regular question of "How much will you be dropping for their upkeep"
This woman is pained😊😊when things were good she supported this man 😊it’s time for him to reciprocate 😊even pay her
She supported him by fighting him everyday?
Immaturity is kills all relationships. They two have issues with attitude. Women are advised to get a work for themselves and it must not be dropped because of marriage.
Yes, it must not be dropped because of marriage, you are so correct.👏👏👏👏
This woman is not innocent
But she has a business
They should share the expenses half half. The woman should get a job to support
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Men always remember somebody that has been suffering with you, no woman on earth is Angel, thanks.
Not all of the time. Look at Mercy Aigbe’s present husband. His original wife with their four children built the house, furnished it etc. etc. He didn’t remember her. Very sad. Karma.
@@yvettewilliams5967 that’s why I don’t receive any favor from woman or grow with any woman. So if I want to leave all the women in Nigeria will not come and say she was with me from scratch or she built me. Even my elder brother way get money, en wife self don de say na en make my brother . Chai women
@@victorezeagu1893 Lol, you people are just ungrateful souls. So when someone builds with you and you treat them bad, it is out of place to remind you of what they've done for you?
Lol, I no blame women wey dey avoid poor men. You people are proud and ungrateful
I don’t beg any woman to suffer with me if she’s not pleased she can walk away, living together is not by force, death can take anyone at anytime.
It's the judge and the bit for me so good
My biggest regret in life is supporting a man that has nothing to something now he telling me am not his class
It is well. God will repay you
But while upgrading others, try to upgrade your self too
Supporting him how? Did you give him money to start business or did you secure a job for him?
But you look so beautiful why his now tell you that you aren't his class
Don't be clever. You betrayed God. Trust God only.
It's good for a woman to have something doing
Very true .. 👍
I tell you my dear.
God bless you I keep on saying this
She’s doing something
Any woman reading this if you have the opportunity don't get pregnant or married if you don't have your own money. A man's anger does not know the plight of his children. Read that again and let me know if you have any questions.
It's well oo.. God bless you more ma for making things easy for everyone
This man is something else, just imagine having business issues with him
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Naa ego wan kill am
He'll sooo sweet mouth you eh
Like i said last week they both get for body. At some point she had the upper hand in the marriage but the guys level don change now. they both aren't bad they are just from 2 different mindset that connected via needs at time they met. wish them all the best.
Thank you madam may God continue to shower u with his wisdom.
I say this all the time, whenever there's a problem women always has many things to loose. Look at how this man is moving on very fast. Except for a toxic relationship and man who doesn't live up and take care of his responsibilities women respect your husbands submit it won't take anything out from you. I'm sure this man is already eyeing another lady and from look of things this woman don't want divorce or separation but see how everything is turning now.
First and foremost this woman needs to be submissive 📌 according to this man he has been taking care of his responsibilities and the wife doesn't deny any of his responsibilities. My point of view in this video is that the man really wants his family together. she is capable of taking care of the children that is why she took the children out of the house without the consent of the husband. Please come back together and build a happy family with your children period
The lady still wants the marriage but the man is handsome and has rented a duplex while the mother of his kids and the kids live in a home visited by rats
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Exactly 💯
@@taiwofagbemi4243he takes care of his responsibilities? Someone who leaves no money for food, but come home and demands for food? Then starts to use violence? Wow… well done
JUDGE Fumi you be mama oh i just like the way you de JUDGE you are so patient and kind , Love you ma
You don't have money but you went and rent another house God is watching you, thanks.
Is dat d only tin u hear 🙄?
I can't trust that man o !
@@tochika3598 😆 fr
She's a bad woman,
She went he to be doing everything and still she's not respecting he, why she is not working 😡😡?
@@ajbro8116 she own a shop go n watch the first clip. D man is jus acting Nigeria movies.
Oga want to quit divorce but not ready to do the needful child care fees rent bills etc .
Na u want divorce na 😊😊
As per the narration, in my opinion the women have her attitude not only the man. I like the way Judge Funmi advised them to see marriage counsellor and bothe refused. The judgement was fair with both party for the man side he have to be responsible and for the women as the Judge mentioned she can come back if the man default all the responsible. GOD BLESS JUDGE FUNMI🙏💕
Then why is the man walking out of marriage he could fix even wen d woman refused. 😊
Marriage is not by force, since he no longer wants the marriage but he's ready to take care of his children that's fine
Marry poor man okwu..marry rich man okwu..nawahooooo.anyway rich man is better at least less thinking about children upkeep and future.
Nneka, so you mean all men are okwu, what of women?
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@@seteoluisikilulanrelanre2359 Marriage bu okwu..but you gats to choose between alternatives.
Wats d work of d woman as both of them are no more together . Cos it seems dat d woman are d one benefiting more on dis divorce issue . D man pay house rent, feeding, electricity bills , maintemce bills. Which of d bills comes from d woman
@@denconigeria2023his the one that choose to work away
They were both trying to lie and cover some truths... Well done Judge Funmi
Fact
Even devil shouted Jesus when this man was talking
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The whole story is due to poverty. Marriage has so many problems but poverty is one of them. I can't take sides because both parties are lying. But for the fact that the woman still wants the marriage speaks alot. It shows that she is the real problem. The man just wants to go😂😂
The man wanted to go because he has seen another woman. He doesnt pay school fees, no food for his children, he doesnt care for them but he has money to rent standard 3 bedroom flat when his children were hungary. The woman actually want to stay for her children.
I thank God for my country Kenya. Child will remain with me till he or she turns 18 and above but this man I don't trust him men like this can frustrate the wife and manipulate her too
So after 18, what happens
@@stanoh02 child will decide
@@angelineowade2650 and if the child decides that he/she never wants to see your face again, what will you do
All I tell people is to try not to be selfish in your actions. Just do the little good you can do for others. And I tell people not to expect too much from another person. No human being have the answers to the human race problems
Liar liar man! 😂😂😂😂. They were rolling on the floor begging him for her to come back? 😂😂😂😂😂 Dey play
The worst thing to happen to a man is to marry a liability in the name of a wife.
You are funny. Very funny comment
I pity this man, illiteracy is killing so many marriages
I like this woman for her wisdom the wisdom of Solomon
These two were never meant to be from the onset. Life just happened.
Exactly
THANK you for the intervention
The issue in this marriage is still money. The man has not been providing for the family, she's expecting the woman to be bringing money since she is making money too. This man is very cunning and not responsible. The man has another woman outside let the man just continue taken up the children responsibility. Lesson here is that we should prayerfully shine your eyes before you marry whether you are a man or a woman. May God help us.
Please don't forget to vote for Peter Obi in the 2023 presidential election.
If you vote for Tinubu or Atiku you are an enemy of Nigeria.
So the man is irresponsible but paying for the tuition of his children since? He should die because he married? What is the use of a wife that can’t help her husband???
Very useless man arguing over what I don’t know, He think is easy to take care of children, men think bring money is everything they forget children have stress too
How will the woman and 4 children live in a small house and the man alone in 3 bedroom flat?
She has suffered with him now he wants to be comfortable with the new woman in his life while she and the kids suffer in a small place
Why are people making marriage look like bondage....
It actually is; but meant for happiness
It takes a lot commitment for marriages to work, esp when both parties have communication gap
@@tedinijames7341 🤣 for people who want it to be... people should marry their own...
@@ojoolajumoke9633 I know but women should know their position in marriage and stay there... don't over do..no when to talk and when to close mouth.. when your husband is misbaving go back to God and report him to His maker... don't marry out of desperation
Women should know when to talk and when to close mouth and know position in the marriage? I can say, same to husbands. Ye, NEVER marry out of desperation.
This man showed many bite marks and other evidence in court and I didn’t hear Judge Funmi ask the woman why she inflicted all those injuries. The bias against men should not be institutionalized. I really love Judge Funmi, this could be an oversight.
But I believe that the man is lying just that is not the duty of the judge to say it.
The issue is their marriage already failed. So the children's welfare is the only issue left.
@@sylvesternwanze6682the man is lying.
That man was lying.
She didn't respond to the woman's abuse allegations too😅
Thank God for civilized society this nonsense will never happen. This can never happen here in America. His pay check will be garnished he will not see a dime from it. His pay check will go for well being of those children.
That's your American.
Mtwseeeeee
@@muniratdooumar8994 Far better than your 3rd world
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If the government was working some menace will not be accommodated, I wish Nigeria will get better one day
Go and check properly. Most men don't even work anymore because of child support. So it is still a loss for the women
This man is not that bad because he is trying his best to take care of his children.He just wants to walk out of the marriage.
He is a bad man putting his hands on their mother.
@@HeyMe75he is not bad man. is the woman a saint?
The man just want peace and the woman is not giving his poor soul peace.
marriage is not by force.
The man is no longer interested in the woman the children is all he's after.
The woman is just envious about the new house
I swear.... It's the 3 toilet 4 me
They both have their various faults but the woman should be more patient and supportive to her husband for the kids
I love your notion on this for stated it both have their various fault ❤️❤️
I really feel sad, when I see couples that were once in love, turned against eachother.
Honestly speaking 👌 really so sad
They never loved each other. there's a difference between sex and love. You can tell that these too hated each other but stayed together because of the kids.
@@PepTalkTillYouDropspot on
That’s why it’s good to get married to your friend. Someone you love without sex being the primary reason. When. The loves seems to fade away the friendship keeps both couple going. Cause marriage is never a bed of rose.
The man have another woman outside but no woman is Angel, thanks.
90% of men wants 2 wives
Every man needs a woman that will respect him. I can't marry Mike Tyson.
The hand writing on the wall that this man is manipulative , calculative & defensive… am not saying the woman is a saint, but you won’t understand how disappointing it can be when you invested so much in someone all in the name of Love and at the end of the day. Hmm. The relationship shouldn’t have happened not even having children
This man has to be more patient with his wife. He shouldn’t have moved to another apartment so quickly. Love is patient!!
If this woman goes on her knees now and say husband am sorry please come back …. this problem will end and the marriage will be safe
May we never ever be a liability to our Husband's. Ameen😢😢
Her problem and pain here is that he's moving on so quick without her if as he said he's keeping up to his fatherly duties she should have no reason to be worried.
It quite clear he want to move on. She should accept and try to move on as well she Should give the children to him over the weekend to give herself some space as well to rebuild her life without him.
Well, the man should be listened to too.
This woman don't want to stay in that old house again 😂😂
😂😂 😂 I swear
These guys need therapy, this matter is not just court matter otherwise the children will suffer.
Your honor, I think the man is not properly dressed. He should have realized he wasn't going to a nite club.
This woman really loves the man but the man is tired of her drama
This is just the truth.
Yes the lady loved him but the man thinks there are more women out here who he can pursue now he is in a flat
Edo men😊 if you jam them you jam agbagko... They can lie ehn 😂 and the way they will lie against you, everyone will hate you instantly. All is well
And ibadan man too...they can manipulate somebody en!
Generally Edo men and Ibadan men get sharp mouth and they very convincing but then no get good character atall
@Remi Egwuda I believe, that's why I changed for me not to attract them anymore
As in he was went further acting a movie 😊
I don't think it's by tribe
Some men are gifted with the spirit of lies
They will lie on your name until people will feel sorry for you that you are maltreating them,very manipulative people,they don't always want to win argument
Na you one judge me? Abeg allow the judge to judge me😆 🤣 😂 😹 this man na character.
Well done justice court
Teeth can not cut the boxer like that
Unless she was hungry 🍆and he was refusing🤣🤣
Lol
Stop saying what you don't know... Did the woman. Deny not doing that? The evidence was presented and the woman didn't make any denial. So the man should watch how he is been chopped off
Stop playing it can
Not womens teeth that cut bones
What some men are going through in marriage is too much
Domestic violence to the max. The female was abusing the husband. The husband was also abusing the wife. Not acceptable behavior
This man is dubious 😢😢 very cunny and a liar too
So bad this woman has been going through a lot
I noticed it...and he's a wicked fellow you can imagine moving to 3bedroom abandoning his family in a single room apartment
Funny you
The only thing I'm see here is a minor misunderstanding, the woman should respect the man
The man too has his own problems
What I see here is financial crisis and lack of love.
"The man married five wives"...in this economy! 😳
Landlord has 5 wifes. Don't divorce, just add😊
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Add women who knows that they pay school fees and feed human beings.
Many women think life is all about sex to have children. They still believe once they have children for a man, they can use that to hold down the man. They don't think about nothing. Everyone needs to be realistic in everything. If you can't pay school fees , teach your children at home
Omo that man don get another woman outside that's it. I can't stay with such a pretentious man for up to 1 year.
Both of them lack understanding, and I think the man has gotten another woman waiting
Her body language shows she’s definitely guilty of much of what he’s saying
Exactly
Mummy mummy 😅
Lessons learnt. Manipulators everywhere.. always listen to both sides. An intelligent person has drawn a conclusion here. 😊 ladies keep ur home. Simple. Husband love ur wife.
This story off me ooo .lol
I don't even know who's sincere with their confession here
Judge Fummi is really doing a good job, because I've yelled so many times while watching
her patience in listening to all these stories isn just amazing
Justice funmi and her facial expressions ☺️☺️
As in ehn, especially when e b like sey case no wan get head or tail.. She dislikes stress I guess
I don’t think it’s fair to ask the man to pay for everything include Nepa bill and house rent. The children are also the woman’s responsibility. They are her fertilized eggs for goodness sake and his sperm. It’s 100-100. If the man pays complete school fees, pays a fixed upkeep, the woman should also chip in. They should find a balance. When this kids grow and make it, they will buy stuffs for their mother even more than they do for their father. Women should learn to have the number of kids they can personally take care of too Incase. There are no guarantees in life. If this man remarries today, we won’t expect him to be paying her rent, Nepa bills just because they have kids together. Same house she might even have a boyfriend be sleeping over in the future.
I swear the wife na just to dy look she can't find something doing to support the marriage imagine
Do u know u are a complete fool? Because the woman also pay for upkeep as well, what will 10k do for the woman and her children this time that everything is expensive? Meaning she is the one that will cover up that expenses. Get sense
@@endurancepurity6659 see the way you re quick to call a man who I'm so sure is even older than you a fool. Some women are just so frustrated, looking for whom to vent there frustrated on.
I have a lover who is a single mum, she told me that, at first women will ran away with there kid(s) thinking they are free to sleep with as many men they can to take care of there kids, but after 6months or 3years of running from one man to another, they will get tired and start looking for judge funmi to force there ex to be giving them upkip. She told me it happened to her and it's her worst mistake because it wasnt what she expected.
Any woman who can not respect me but thinks she can mess me up in public has signed to be messed up for the rest of her stay here on earth
Hmmmm I was shocked when the judge asked the man to take responsibility of everything. How will the man move forward? Sometimes I don't understand some women. She can't even say she wants to take part of the responsibilities and that's very wicked and bad of her
What is women responsibilities in Nigeria, women please be responsible too and don’t leave everything for men. Me and my husband shared responsibilities
U hear from the beginning so???
U here from the woman so???
So because the man have sweet mouth. You believe the woman is doing nothing in the house. The man have money to rent standard 3 bedroom flat but he can't pay his children's school fees
This my genda! 😅 she was the who packed out first and she is jealous now that the man is living in a duplex, she doesn't want anymore but the man has already moved one 😢 na waow!
You're a big fool
Too much of unwarranted stories.. The bottom line is this.. This mostly apply to Nigerian women, if you depend on your man to provide everything to the very least in your relationship, always expect to be treated like nobody, if such a man even have an extra marital affair outside the marriage, he won’t blink an eye, you know why? Because you as a lady DO NOT COMMAND THE RESPECT YOU DESERVE. A woman that wanted to be respected must have something meaningful doing, helping her husband financially, showing affection, don’t force yourself into a marriage, don’t just be in a marriage for just having a children that you cannot look after, be productive. By doing so, you won’t end up to this type of situation.
Did you watch the beginning of this drama. This is part 2. This woman took him out from dungeon and care for him. Now he has money and has children he is behaving like real Nigerian man. A typical narcissist.
@@ndorikeenyinkeowo7773 I did watched the first clip.. My point and thought remains the same, as a lady be productive, don’t be fully dependent on your husband, because if you do, Nigerian men as you said, will limit the respect you should deserve as a lady. Why do you see many of our women became beggars after losing their husbands?
My view is this as a woman build yourself!
Keep building , keep saving small money …
Have children you can single handedly cater for incase any issue arises
This man is a terrible person, how can you not buy clothes for them for that 3 days period they were with you. How much is bend down boutique that you had to wear them your own cloths for crying out loud.
I thought as much too... he is stingy
You are very funny 😂🤣 in your comment, but this things this woman did to the man both good and bad, if another woman do it to ur beloved brother or your lovely sons, will you like it?
So stop supporting what is not good or what you don't know. Karma is real.
God did not create anyone to suffer in this world but if you see anyone going through any suffering today, it's either it is what he did to others or what he parents or fore parents did or even what he supported. This life is a principle world
@@thebest-zq1vg I'm not saying anybody is right but how can he not buy them clothes for that 3 days they were with him. Mind you, he didn't say he can't afford it but he chose to wear them his clothes
You are very funny, they have cloths already with the woman and you want him to buy another cloth. How can he buy the children's books ,school fees and the rent she is demanding if he spends money senselessly??.
The moment a relationship becomes violent, I don't advise either couple to remain. Separation is key here but children warfare paramount.
Sometimes I wonder how couple go from Love to Hate, it baffles me how they got to that point🤦
Serious Marriage counseling is needed before saying I do. Make God help us for this marriage matter ooo
There is a slim line between love and hate
Everything has a time
Honestly
As your Mummyship pleases! 😂
my advice for both of you .record each conversation.you can use it as evidence.hard to tell who is saying the truth .
Unless you are facing life and death, you cannot take yourself and your children and leave your matrimonial home without discussing with your spouse. Where is the respect and fear of God in both of these people? Say no to violence and any form of abuse.
If you sincerely love your husband, he becomes that sick and his leg is that infected… should you two not work together and find a better solution? This is part of the reason he no longer wants the marriage. You cannot use the children as pawn. Have self respect and move on.
Both are claiming their business is not good. She is adamant about his business, what about her own business?
When marriage is over, both are equally responsible for the children…
Money money money… God help us.
Children deserve to grow up in a safe home. In U.K./Europe, the social services will take the children away.
When domestic violence comes from a woman, no one talks about it, even yo...😢
If a woman claims to be the man of the house, let her takes the responsibility of a man.
It's very easy to point the finger saying the man is at fault. That woman too is not easy to deal with. You can see she is fed up of looking after them but does not want the man to have them. It's too bad
They two can work on their marriage. They need to go for counselling. They both don’t have interpersonal skills. They can’t relate with each other. They never did learn how to be friends and lovers. I hope they can sort themselves out and stay together. The lady is quarrelsome and the man doesn’t know how to calm her down so his solution is escape.
The woman is violent and man is a responsible person as regard the children.
This u said is seen by the few. Others are just acting and commenting with emotions and sentiment..
Why swallow their differences, and subject the children to all this abuse. It's better that the children have one bad parent than two bad parents.
What kind of crafty man is this ? Edo people and being dubious are 5 and 6. Judge funmi is patient ooooooq
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you are very correct
Such toxic individuals this two.
Exactly, two cannot live together except they agree
These two premature couple lacks : wisdom, knowledge, patience, endurance understanding and tolerance.
Are u married ??
@@emekaukaigwe5668 please can I know your reason of asking?
The court needs to stop laughing when a man says he was beaten
You cannot eat your cake And still have it!!
This man is looking for someone to manipulate. Yes , how much can a woman put up with ? When her man has fallen out of love with her . I feel that he has his eyes on someone else and are looking for excuses to Go on with his life. However, they both have faults but the woman is the one that suffered the most because she has to be responsible for those children especially when they are not well. So my dear sister, please seek God’s love . He is the only one that gives true love not man.
😂😂😂 I know he’s saying the truth… about the fight
The man is even quoting dates
I see it
Most of you men here calling a woman liability are sickening... Ignorant men are askin what is the woman bringing to the table.
First and foremost, do you know some people get paid outside just to get pregnant and deliver a baby
Second, you as a man go to work and come back to your all tidied up house, do you know people get paid also to carry out domestic chores.
And what about cooking food.... laundry, taking care of the children, errands etc., Do you know people get paid to carry out all this. Lemme tell you, a housewife is the most downgraded job especially in this part of the world. You men, just for one week, switch places with your wife, let her go to your office and you stay in her place as a housewife, lemme see if you would not either faint or run mad because of this chores and taking care of children at the same time. If housewives were paid for every single work they do, some would be multimillionaires by now. Dear men, get this analysis. Stop seeing your wives as liabilities , you can do better.
Don't trust any poor man, this guy is so wicked.
So being a poor man is now an official crime?
The woman no dey work? Man can not do everything for you naw. Wake up woman