I remember this one, there were so many people who wanted to bail her out because she was a yandere and very pretty. I couldn't stop thinking about this case for a week, like what on earth, how far has humanity gone down for us wanting to free a psychopath?
Same thing with Kris Wu fan wanted to do a jail break. Many people don’t use their brain and just blindly follow something cute or cool. Waste of having a brain
@@Freckledartist13 disgusting society man, people shouldn't even have to point out how unsafe that is for someone who committed a recent murder to be able to work in a field that revolves around the well-being and health of others
It must have been those guys that can't get a GF for some reason or another. I can't accept any other explanation as for who those guys were. Being disturbing or/and disgusting is reason enough NOT to have a GF. In any case, I completely agree with you, I only wanted to say that it must have been a specific group of people.
@@beqchyaldcit’s not psychopaths, it’s the lack of testosterone, masculine hormones. What man other than a mere simp would want a woman to kill them cause she’s pretty.
I'm glad phoenix survived and got to reunite with his siblings. With how he ended up settling things with Yuka, he seems like such a genuinely kind person.
@chaosjelly106 because no one deserves to be murdered. And he didn't force her to do any of the things she did, or even ask her to do them. He was a host, as Stephanie explains a lot of the things he said are things hosts, and hostesses (like she was) will say or imply to get people to come back. And most people understand that it's not real/it's part of the fantasy/transaction. It's been a few days since I watched the video, but I do think Phoenix expressed regret over the things she felt she had to do for him, as he didn't realize she was doing all of that, and if he did he would have handled things differently. It's why he asked for leniency for her. Regardless though, even you think think he had been a dick, he still didn't do anything to deserve getting stabbed and someone trying to kill him.
@@brazenzebra9581I don't think that the reason though if he thought she was that pretty to forgive for attempting murder on him he would date her in the first place
i definitely think phoenix is legitimately scared for his safety and thats why he "forgave" yuka and smiled at her. to provoke her in any way would just be dumb
You're right, cuz it makes no sense for him to ask for his nearly* murderer's sentence to be lessened. Yeah its quite brave of him to forgive her but this was probably a motive. CHILLS
Knowing how Japanese people reacts to these kind of news, his response was the smartest thing I’ve ever seen. Like he managed to gain sympathy AND was able to avoid all the media attentions because he was so “bother me no further” about this.
I don't understand how she falls into the love trap, spends all her money on a host and more... when she's a hostess herself. She's selling the same fantasy so what is this?!?
I think sometimes the women go into being a host themselves because they want more spending money on a host. There used to be an interesting documentary about it on Netflix not sure if it’s still there.
could be that because theyre in the same business, she believes she wouldnt fall for such an obvious trap or atleast he wouldnt pull it on her and maybe he took advantage of that to milk what he can from her. With host clubs, some hosts are very personable and when you talk to them daily, its easy to forget this person is working. (Not trying to victim blame tho, no matter how much of a "tease" someone is, they dont deserve to be stabbed, dragged, almost killed, etc etc.) Maybe he made the interaction feel very intimate and/or she felt it was more than what it was. Perhaps at the start she knew what he was doing and she gave into the fantasy, she started liking him the more they talked, and then at some point she thinks they're past the host/client relationship. Esp if they act like they were dating or are even doing more intimate things that he doesnt do at work.
@@neutralweird Literally his job is to milk her for every yen. Not disputing that part and it would have been understandable if she was in any other profession. But she isn't. She was so good as a hostess that she went up the ranks to manager. It just seems weird, like we're not getting the full story.
shes just a psycho thats all. like how she just smokes a cigarette next to him as if hes not actively bleeding to death. i dont think we have to question how she fell into the trap. shes just sick in the head
@@Panda_Rollthe managers are usually not able to bring in the money like the top hostesses, which is why they are the managers. The Hosts would often go to hostess clubs to recruit, mingle, and meet new potential customers. The girls are invited to the host clubs to return the favor and visit the hosts at their clubs, but some hosts seem to see the hostesses as easy prey.
fr, I feel so bad for the vitims and families of the victims that have to watch their killer getting thirsted over online. Must be a surreal experience
If she was ugly she would become a misogynistic talking point. Ironically men would be complaining that women should be getting more backlash for crimes they commit, missing the fact that they're the ones overlooking them in situations like this
The irony of her sleeping with multiple men for work while keeping it all a secret vs him doing non-sexual work with other women but her only expecting _him_ to tell her everytime is ridiculous… It’s okay when she does it but the other way around calls for murder?! Talk about double standards.
Steph: "Delivery Health Services. Its exactly what you think." Me: "Aawww, they bring you medicine and food when you're sick. So sweet." Steph: "And a hot sexy nurse comes by to perform other services." No, that is not what I was thinking at all but I did laugh at myself for 5 minutes straight.
People are so gross. Earlier on TikTok I saw a video about an 18 year old who killed a mom and her baby because he was car racing. He had gotten 24 years and people were complaining about it. Like they were saying how handsome, attractive he was and didn't deserve the 'harsh' punishment.
I feel like it's just a joke. I was almost run over in a parking lot and I was gunna chew the driver out, but they got out of their car and were literally the hottest man I had ever seen in my life so my dumb ass told my friend "I'd let that run me over again" I feel like it's likely just an expression. I seriously doubt they really meant it XD just saying the guy was a server at a maid cafe and started stripping at the rave. So that vs some host girl ain't that far off.
I honestly don't know why attempted murder is less of a harsh sentence than murder. Whether the person ended up dying or not, it is still murder. I don't know y a victim being strong and putting up a fight to stay alive is benefiting the murderer by making there sentence shorter. It isn't fair
You could've phrased this better cuz what you typed makes you look dumb, ATTEMPTED murder isn't murder in the literal sense, it's ATTEMPTED. Murder is the act of killing, attempted is the act killing but failing they are not the same?? But I do agree that they should be equal punishments.
either she's giddy, or excessively crazy... Cute standards for anime and LN/manga industries, but irl, it is best to stay vigilant, you can't be too careful..
She is now back on social media and getting A LOT of support… my mind is blown. She is dangerous and now free to live and do whatever. And Pheonix is so damn strong for keeping a positive outlook on this 🙏🏻
when you said "delivery health" i thought I knew what it was.... When my grandpa had cancer, a delivery man brought like oxygen and stuff to his house...but after you explained, i was like "lmfao that's definitely not what i thought it was"
HELPPP😭😭 SAME I WAS LIKE “oh so if i have cold when living alone, i could call someone for buying me the medicine and i can be healthy again🤗” LMAFOO IM BEING A CLOWN FO SURE
I love that the hostess places for men are just “dumb” girls providing an ego boost but the host places for women are men just treating women like they wish their husbands would treat them 😂 Edit: because ppl don’t seem to understand….I’m talking about the damn business model these places have come up with. Men are not bad and women are not bad. Does every man or women fit into one of these categories? No. It’s smart business model that they came up with and works all I was pointing out. Chill the fuck out.
@@quintboredom oh you are definitely not wrong! I was talking more of like the business model each group came up with, stroke the man’s ego and stoke the women’s heart.
@@quintboredomThe clubs for women are definitely less toxic, just men having manners, while clubs for men are women pretending to be dvmb and demeaning themselves for the sake of male ego. If that's what they want from a wife no wonder they remain single😂
Despite the craziness of this whole story, what made me gasp the most was her "SENTENCING"???? 3½ YEARS FOR ATTEMPTED MURDER?? I'm genuinely speechless
Therapy is more fake and can cost more than a hostest club. You literally pay to talk to a person and they pretend you're "making progress". They aren't even attractive or nice to you.
The cult of mental therapy is deeply neurotic in itself. Random people with strange reactions to things don't "need a therapist" whose just another money leech peddling pseudo medicine. They need to get their life in order.
Talk of therapy as something normal or widely needed is dysfunctional itself. It's yet another industry that never helps you actually solve your issues and sells talking to an unqualified nobody into a "need".
I don’t want to hear NOTHING about pretty privilege “not existing” when we have cases like this that exist smh ETA: I said what I said. The double negative has nothing to do with the video or my comment. You all that chose to address that tiny part of my comment can keep pretending that pretty privilege isn’t an issue though, cheers ❤️
Pretty privledge definitely exists - one reason is because biologically “beautiful faces” make us feal more comfortable. We are more prone to trust a pretty person. It’s a double edge sword- it’s the only privilege I think really exists in the west (I don’t believe in male privilege, when they’re majority homeless, of suicide and homicide cases).
I love how he chose the name Phoenix for himself, it fits perfectly. He had to overcome so much both physically and mentally/psychologically. He is genuinely one of the nicest people I’ve ever heard of and has such a beautiful soul. The way his fellow coworkers and colleagues look after him and take care of him is such a heartwarming ending and is so sweet and again proves how amazing of a person Phoenix is for everyone to help him. I truly wish him also the best with his future and that he will be surrounded by real and true love and happiness the rest of his life 💜
@@le0nz Host and Hostesses are only "terrible" because they're young men and women trying to survive in a society that favors money above all else. They're no worse than ordinary salespeople. They have to draw in customers, sell their services and reach a certain quota, otherwise they get fired. If customers believe the hosts actually love them, they need a reality check, and probably shouldn't visit these clubs at all. And no one deserves to get murdered for stuff like this!
@@le0nz did you just not watch like, the first 15 min of the video? It probably contains more research than you did. Hosts are not "fooling" people, not to personally attack you but if you think they do or got "fooled" by them it's on you. If you or someone else goes in and pays for a host to act the way they're supposed to, that's what you're gonna get and thinking there's feelings is delusional on the customers part.
Hi Stephanie, Regarding the “Delivery Health” thing, you didnt mention it but prostitution in Japan is *technically* illegal. However, said law only criminalizes “penetration between male and female for an economic transaction”. If you think this is a loophole the size of Mount Fuji, you are right: prostitution-by-any-other-name flourishes in Japan, including the nondescriptively named “delivery health” (デリヘル), the sex workers are called “aestheticians” (エステ), and there are at least one recorded case of a lesbian sex work service that bills itself as totally not illegal because “there is no penetration”.
Make it illegal across the board with no deviation and watch the fireworks happen...maybe the idiots that keep promoting such things will learn about things like abstinence and heterosexuality instead?
Its a huge pet peeve when people beg for leniency for attractive people. So do ugly people deserve their punishment but attractive people dont simply because they are attractive? Twisted and sad.
i think it's due to biological wiring, not even ugly people care for ugly people. instead of personality, morality, and good deeds, the brain just focus on "Dang, what a waste of good genes!" given to us by thousands of years of Darwinism by instinct.
Was about to comment that@@WinniePooh33 how deranged! XD it is not biology. It is being delulu, having a white knight complex thinking it will get you cookie points to use the girl as a fl*sh light if you ever meet her.
Because people expect pretty people to fell ok in society so they wouldn't do these types of things, and when they do they expect them to "redeem" themselves because it's their destiny to be a good person. Looks are one thing that can save you in this capitalistic society.
yes, she's gorgeous in fact, i admire her beauty but that doesn't take away from the fact she attempted to kill someone for the sake she wanted him to herself.
@@fa1semomoEXACTLY i personally don't think it's bad to acknowledge or think she's pretty but glamorizing what she did and saying unhinged stuff like "I want her to stab me" is so disgusting and appalling
@@hellionshark3197 I can't understand that, either. All I see is what they did to their victims. But I guess some people don't. Disgusting. (Look up the trope for Monster Fangirl and look at the Real Life folder. Smh).
I've known about this case for years, but I never knew that he was just her crush. The amount of news outlets/online creators that called him 'her ex boyfriend' is absurd. I never knew how much misinformation there was on this case..
As a former stripper, it’s the same thing in many United States strip clubs. You get the guy to “buy you shots” but it’s just water with food coloring.
I really feel for Phoenix, I can't imagine being in his position and watching people romanticize his traumatic situation also I can sorta understand why he would forgive her. Earlier in the video steph mentioned that Yuka routinely made comments about killing herself, so if she were sent to prison with a harsh sentence who knows what she would do. He may not wanna be the reason she does something like that but also his forgiveness could be more for himself, as a way to move on. Anyways I really feel for him, sigh.
He actually said that he was grateful to her bc she caused him to be number 1 host and he was famous after it happened so he will still be number one at his club.
@@Selkie943 I agree. The fact that he was also happy to reunite w the friends from the orphanage also saddened me bc it was like a family reunion for him. I'm happy for him but dad that he has been through sp much.
He talks about her stabbing him like she stole money or something like “oh it’s ok I forgive her she must have been going through a lot” BRO SHE STABBED YOU
Forgiveness is more for yourself than it is for the person who hurt you. It truly takes away from your quality of life and mental healing to hold a grudge on a person, even if what they did was completely sick & twisted, you only hurt yourself more to hold onto that hate for so long.
Honestly, when I read that he forgave her, I sneered. But after I heard about his life story, I sympathized and not actually surprised. He probably had a very low self-worth. Just toiling on and living is probably his most heartful wish. Not to mention, the psycho did 'give' him money that he couldn't possibly get without her. His sense of self-worth is very low, he's very humble and gets satisfied easily. You would never know just how humble a human's self-worth could be from his life experiences. I'm just glad he finds a silver lining to comfort himself and I hope he could hold onto that and find his own true happiness.
honestly after something that traumatic, rationalizing it like that is just a peace of mind thing. better to say “that was weird but she did it as a result of exceptional circumstances and it probably won’t happen again” than just “sometimes a client might stab you”
People who fantasize about yandere have probably never actually been in an abusive relationship and have no idea what that kind of emotional manipulation and abuse is like. Yukas type of obsession is not "love". If they loved you, they would want you to be happy, instead they want to take away your freedom and control you. They don't really care if you are happy or not, its a very selfish thing.
As someone who was forced to live with an abusive stepfather for 10 years of my life and who deals with a narcissistic mother every day, I 100% agree with you. People like Yuka are true sociopaths, they don't value lives of others, they treat everyone like they're their items, personal property, which you can get rid off later.
@@PsychoPatatette I think it can be wrong to give people the idea that certain abusive relationship dynamics are actually normal and fine or cute, but you should be careful about what conclusions you draw from what data. We don't know that the reason there is a group of people who support Yuka is just because they were influenced by the yandere trope. There could be many other reasons they are attracted to that type of person like trauma they suffered growing up. I think its important to be careful with that line of thinking about fiction because it can easily blend into arguments like 'video games that have violence should be banned' and people saying that if you play GTA you are more likely to murder someone and so on. As well as many other similar arguments I think are bad.
The way you’ve educated me on host clubs makes me feel more aware of my prejudice and lack of understanding. Thank you so much Stephanie! This was very educational for myself but understand what happens around the world
I’m so glad Phoenix survived, he was dealt with such a bad hand but still looks up in life. He is a lot stronger than I am, and I hope he knows none of this was his fault.
@@x3ntertwined strongly recommend to learn how they use mind control to make women break the bank to raise them... I just cannot understand people who still support that host wishing him to make more money in the future and the entire industry has huge issue.
this reminds of that case where that teen decided to race someone on a public street and ran down a mom and her little baby. people wanted him to get out because he was “innocent” and “too handsome to be in jail”. literally sickening
@wardodoo because..? they both are cold hearted murderers. one was insane and delusional and the other was careless and idiotic. they both are attractive to tiktok teens and they both have weird fans who don’t want them to be prosecuted for their very obviously wrong crimes. i’m not seeing much of a difference
I love how men are calling the most "expensive" hostesess stupid and silly and they're the ones who pay thousands of dollars for a girl to tell him that he doesn't have any vices.
I get that fictionally, you can be interested in that kind of stuff, but going as far to bail her out of jail and saying you’d let her murder you? I can’t imagine wth is wrong with you to want that 😭 And that’s not even how it works!
For real. I never like the Yandere trope but if others love them than that's okay. But a real life Yandere? Nuh-uh, those people deserved to be locked up in jail. I get it that some people find Yandere trope to be cool and loyal but in reality, no sane person would want to be loved by a Yandere (unless they're that broken).
@@nurnadhirahsaing6169 Majority of people on the internet are that broken. Join any community, whatever topic you like. You will find tons of broken people looking for attention. People are incredibly lonely and act out of desperation. It's terrifying.
@@nurnadhirahsaing6169 Right? My favourite trope is yanderes (male version) and I am inclined to like even more the extremes, I think it's a sexy and unsettling trope. In real life though, the moment a dude starts asking me where I am or showcases any controlling behaviour, I'm out. Fiction is fiction.
i dont know if stuff like yandere is ever ok. Having a fantasy or fetish for this kind of shit is dark in itself. People can become so desensitised to violence and death.
When you were talking about the use of daisuki and aishiteru I actually have some translation corrections if read this: so suki is actually the more commonly used among couples. Suki means to like and it’s basically a more casual way of saying that you like someone. Daisuki would actually be translated to “big like” if translated literally. However in contexts it’s used in relationships as a way of being like “I love you” (but in the sense that they’re in a more serious relationship). Aishiteru however is normally used between husband and wife when expressing love for each other. From what I can gather it’s basically like unconditional love. Again it’s only really used between husband and wife. I hope this comment was helpful- I’ve been studying Japanese for about 8 years now
Girl, by the time I got 29 minutes in and you started talking about Phoenix, I was so interested in knowing more about these clubs I forgot I had originally come here because this was a murder episode. 😂
Heard this case before and it never fails to disappoint me when I hear about it, the fact that so many people were romanticizing this mentally disturbed woman and completely ignoring the man she hurt and all of her crimes because she was attractive is actually horrific. How could people be so blinded by stuff like that?
@@Inky_doodledoo Johann „Jack“ Unterweger was a Serial-Killer from austria. He killed sexworkers but many girls where head over heels for him - he had great charme and i guess the dark and edgy side not many men are showing, is what was so fascinating for them.
20 mins in, and the stark difference between the hostess bar (where men go to feel less insecure about themselves and get an ego boost) and the host bars (where women go, just to be treated kindly and respectfully), that itself says everything about the world we live in.
I appreciate actually hearing about Phoenix's recovery because the first time I heard about this situation no one mentioned if he was okay or not. I'm really glad he recovered and got to see his family. What a terrifying thing to go through. I've been stalked before but I'm lucky it was never to this degree.
Stephanie is soo dedicated to her channels. Constantly posting on all 3 of them. Like she is literally feeding us. And also I would love it if you could cover the case of Javed Iqbal who killed 100 children.He was later sentenced to be cut into 100 pieces. This case is really sad.
She's so dedicated to this channel that she keeps deleting messages of people simply sharing their opinion or disgust of this case. I guess she's a big fan of censorship as well 🤷♂️
The fact that nobody saw any of the red flags, when there were clearly so many, is slightly shocking. Phoenix probably felt obligated to not complain either so she'd keep coming into his job, he couldn't even help himself. I also wonder if the girl who called Yuka & told on Phoenix feels any responsibility for this as well? Id feel guilty as hell honestly.
it warmed my heart knowing he survived. Part of me thinks that his forgiveness came partially from the social status of "having a yandere go after him". As dark as it sounds, he and his friends could have seen this as some sort of "male victory" and, thanks to her, not only his business had a major boost, but also his ego. In a way, he might feel like his almost-killer saved his life.
I really appreciate how Steph talks about these cases, so much empathy, and it’s not easy being able to explain a case in chronological order whilst giving all sides, all backstories with her hubby asking the questions we think about while watching, you’re my new favorite TH-cam channel 🖤
Nah, Phoenix doesn’t need to be applauded for being so forgiving. I used to be exactly like that, rationalizing the perpetrator’s behavior and being quick to forgive them, even taking the blame as the VICTIM. That’s not true forgiveness, that’s complete self abandonment. Not surprising considering his past, which is heartbreaking. I hope he’s able to actually heal from this, and I hope no one ever hires her as a nurse 🤬
Phoenix is applauded because it's very hard to forgive someone who attempted to murder you. It's actually easy to live in hate for the rest of your life. People forgive someone like Yuka because they want to move on and don't want their past to cling on them.
@@peachesandcream22 forgiveness is beneficial as long as it's genuine. I definitely don't know him and didn't see him process this, so maybe it is. It just worried me because it appeared he came to that conclusion so quickly
This 100% ^ I hope it’s not like what you’re saying because I could totally see it being like that. Still, I think we are all wishing him the best because he has a lot of hardship to get through just from his past. He doesn’t need more in the future.
She's proof the whole yandere meme is not good in real life. She slept with other guys secretly but stabbed him just for taking a photo with another woman.
Yes but I just can't help but got curious why do people really love a yandere character but what I've seen so far they're heavily insecure and have trust issues so they want someone to completely "love" Obsess and worship them such as yandere people
I watched that interview with Roland and within the first 5 minutes I was like "omg I can't stand this guy, what a narcissist, he's so unattractive." By the end of the interview I was like "wow, I like this guy, what a great personality." I was pretty shocked by my change in reaction lol. Needless to say, Roland is a brilliant communicator. I can definitely see why he's so successful.
The way she acted & waited for him to die, I feel she will finish what she started so he should be very extremely careful when she is released from jail. She may change her appearance to try her sick twisted agenda 🤬
The whiplash I felt from hearing Stephanie mention Yandere Sim 😭😭😭 I often forget normal ppl don't have encyclopedic knowledge on weird pc demos surrounded by controversy but her absolute confusion really drove that home
@@AVspectreIt’s basically about a game where your character(usually referred to as Yandere Chan) stalks a guy that she has a crush on, and you’re supposed to remove rivals(girls that interact or even glance) at said crush, and to get with the crush.
I looked his name up to see who he was,, and most lf the articles on the 1st page are so apologetic of him.. everything stressing that it was an accident and how unfortunate it is that his sentenced wasn't appealed. One of the articles blaimed the mom for stepping into the street like wtf
Phoenix is so forgiving, like, imagine being stabbed, haunted by dreams of your stabber, had serious mental and physical injuries yet you still smile at the person who tried to murder you and even blame yourself partly for your own stabbing. I think Phoenix is a really good person
i think it's more to do with the fact he was scared for his safety from both her and the media. it was the most sensible option he could've picked in his shoes and im unsure how much of it was that genuine. doesn't make him less of a good person or anything but yknow something to keep in mind
I don’t think I’ve ever heard of this name for an obsessive girl before, but I did have a boss once who said that some men liked “crazy” women because they believed the sex would be better. I still can’t wrap my head around it.
When I was working in Japan as a contractor, a group of us foreigners would bar hop on Fridays. There was one guy, barely in his 20s, who would always go into the same hostess club. It got to the point where he would leave birthday parties, work functions & his own friends to go to this club. I mean we would have to physically drag him out because he would not be convinced to leave. It was getting REALLY BAD. He was going there during the work week, sinking every paycheck into seeing this hostess. He really thought they were in love! The worst I personally saw, was when he didn't come back from vacation. We found him with a busted up face in a completely trashed hotel room, cans of chu-hais everywhere! Apparently, he had tried & failed to fight some guy, another customer, over this hostess, got thrown out & then had some drunken, Tasmanian devil temper tantrum in this hotel room. I don't know what happened to him after that, as I was already getting ready to come back to the states & we weren't that close to begin with. I hope he figured his stuff out tho, cuz he's a ticking time bomb if I've ever seen one.
I’m glad he survived and I hope he’s doing ok now. He had been through a lot then to go through that as well…heartbreaking. He seems like such a nice person even after that.
As someone who plays yandere simulator, i mostly play it for the aspect of pure fascination of how one can love someone so much that they would go to extreme lengths such as murder. This case makes me sick to my stomach, and im so glad he has recovered well.
This breaks my heart. Poor Fenix, he’d been through so much just to be victimised again by a psycho. He worked so hard to get away from his childhood to get it all taken away from him.
ok guys i think i finally got it. rotten mango is thing like serial killers and murderers, missmangobutt is for shows or books she’s watched/read, and stephanie soo is for the celebrities and their drama filled lives 😮😮😮
the mental gymnastics humans do to justify heinous crimes.. this case is truly the epitome of pretty privilege and infantilization of a literal murderer. also how on earth can someone get ONLY 3.5 yrs for attempted murder???? there's just sm wrong here
I can’t believe someone would kill their crush. So horrifying! And guys asking if she is single and saying I would let her stab me is so messed up Thank you Stephanie for covering this case!
Side note about living in Japan- no, you do NOT get that money back from your deposit. It`s always the first 6 months of rent, so moving anywhere new sucks. Living cost is reasonable, but moving costs are a lot. (source: me, a dude living in Tokyo)
It makes sense since it's westerners that are the most disrespectful but because it's not their culture. Hostess clubs, even after the explanation, songs like emotion porn. They shouldn't be disrespectful but it's probably because they don't understand the underlying purpose of hostess clubs. Well, that and sex tourism.
I do hope she has or gets mental help and understands the severity of what she’s done to someone. Phoenix was far too kind to her though. My heart goes out to him :( I hope he’s living happily and comfortably now.
i’m so glad to have an episode that didn’t end in murder and the victim has a somewhat of a better life because of it (minus the trauma) also i saw that picture trending years ago but never knew the backstory. I’m glad to finally know, thank you Stephanie❤
I remember this whole ordeal I remember watching a video inspired by her and i looked into it on curiosity and i found and article and in the comments were filled with simps talking about how they’ll break her out of jail and how cute she was i felt nauseous and disgusted
I am very familiar with this case and yet I still sat my ass down and eagerly listening to Stephanie narrate it again- totally engrossed. She is such a gifted story teller.
@@cranberrysweets5424 I am talking about her appearance though. It’s my opinion. And you are commenting on my comment from 9 months ago. You must be bored..😂
I've heard about this case before from another youtuber. They made it seem like he forgave her and wanted to be with her after all this?!!!! I was so shocked and thought that he was crazy too. Thank you for clarifying things and for always taking a lot of time to research not only the stories but also the background and the cultural differences. Sending you lots of love ❤
The amount of men who glorify the yandere troupe, really puts on display that men have NO DAMN CLUE what women go through at the hands of men. So many stories of women being killed by possessive, obsessive, sick and selfish men who thought they had a right to take a life. A male "yandere" sounds like a terrifying nightmare to most women. If the roles were reversed and those men had to deal with the same fear women have to live with everyday, then not a single one of them would find this behaviour attractive.
Regardless of gender, people can have attraction to twisted people, with different reasons. Remember there are women glorifying male perpetrators too, who have murdered women. Gender position has nothing to do with this. But it has more because of sickening reasons : 1. There are people who think twisted people are wild in bed 2. There are people who have this " I can fix them" mentality 3. There are people, young and old, who think criminals are cool. And these people are also twisted themselves.
Yes, it is actually way less harmful when the female is the chaser/aggressor rather than the other way round. If a man does what Yuka did, it is definitely an unforgivable crime, a story worth not any telling.
Phoenix is a better person than I’ll ever be, thank god he pulled through and was able to reconnect with his family. Also Joey and Yandere Sim being mentioned in a Rotten Mango video is such a strange crossover. Especially since Joey also talked about this case.
No, I had not heard of this story nor "host, hostess" establishments. That is one of the things that I love about you, I learn so much about other cultures from someone who is an excellent and compassionate storyteller.
The hosting clubs is the first time I’m hearing details in-depth! I was told and offered work in Japan to do 20 years ago when I was 21. I was always told I would make good money bc I’m blonde/blue eyes and pale skin. I never went and now I’m wondering if I did, how my life would have turned out… So interesting!
I already knew this story from another true crime creator but I'm always happy to watch your version of it! Thank you for all the respect always Stephanie
I remember this one, there were so many people who wanted to bail her out because she was a yandere and very pretty. I couldn't stop thinking about this case for a week, like what on earth, how far has humanity gone down for us wanting to free a psychopath?
yea and at one point there were ppl romanticizing ted bundy and even jeffery dahmer 😕☹️
Pretty privilege
Same thing with Kris Wu fan wanted to do a jail break. Many people don’t use their brain and just blindly follow something cute or cool. Waste of having a brain
Same
@@miikaomochahybristophilia is strong in some people 🙃
The fact that she got 3 YEARS only is crazy. For attempted murder and everything Phoenix went through to recover.
She's out already
that's how the system in japan works
Wait what? Japan you okay?
@@theRealTayLink yess the nurse thing is also insane how are the police letting her do that.
@@Freckledartist13 disgusting society man, people shouldn't even have to point out how unsafe that is for someone who committed a recent murder to be able to work in a field that revolves around the well-being and health of others
It is extremely disturbing and disgusting that people defended and glamorized her attempted murder.
Female privilege at best
Simp gonna simp i guess
It must have been those guys that can't get a GF for some reason or another. I can't accept any other explanation as for who those guys were. Being disturbing or/and disgusting is reason enough NOT to have a GF.
In any case, I completely agree with you, I only wanted to say that it must have been a specific group of people.
There's people out there that suck on diapers. This is not surprising how much people will simp for a woman.
Only Pronatalists simping towards another Pronatalist.
“It’s exactly what you think it is” IM SORRY I WASNT THINKING SEX I THOUGHT IT WAS MEDICINE DELIVERY 😭
me too, omg we are so naive haha
LMAO SAME THEN SHE STARTED SAYING ABOUT IT I WAS LIKE WHAT I DIDNT WE WERE TALKING ABOUT THAT
I though "oh nice, she got a medical licence somehow"
dude i genuinely was SHOCKED with the euwrfs djhn thing when she like went through all that for a guy who DIDNT EVEN LIKE HER ???
I went from "Oh, she's delivering medicine, that's nice" to "Why is she delivering it in a sexy nurse costume?" to "Ohhhhhhhhhh, oh noooooooo."
The fact some people simp for killers and even want to be killed by them is the definition of insanity
natural selection no cappucino ✋🏽💀
Bro why are you everywhere
@@beqchyaldcit’s not psychopaths, it’s the lack of testosterone, masculine hormones. What man other than a mere simp would want a woman to kill them cause she’s pretty.
It's bizarre that people will side with the wrong people all because of looks! this is sickening.
really messed up, they took "i would let you kill me" too literally
I'm glad phoenix survived and got to reunite with his siblings. With how he ended up settling things with Yuka, he seems like such a genuinely kind person.
He's almost too kind in my opinion :/ she shouldn't have been let off so easily, let alone forgiven
@@SocksWithSandalsEnjoyer fr shes out of prison and posting on insta... and liking some questionable comments
@chaosjelly106 because no one deserves to be murdered. And he didn't force her to do any of the things she did, or even ask her to do them. He was a host, as Stephanie explains a lot of the things he said are things hosts, and hostesses (like she was) will say or imply to get people to come back. And most people understand that it's not real/it's part of the fantasy/transaction. It's been a few days since I watched the video, but I do think Phoenix expressed regret over the things she felt she had to do for him, as he didn't realize she was doing all of that, and if he did he would have handled things differently. It's why he asked for leniency for her.
Regardless though, even you think think he had been a dick, he still didn't do anything to deserve getting stabbed and someone trying to kill him.
I think he's kind but definitely seems to have mental health problems
@@sunnlustWhat is her instagram?
Phoenix sounds like such a good person to be able to forgive her. So glad hes doing ok and is surrounded by friends and his family
thanks for this comment i was scared that he would die after this 😭
yeah that's what I thought too.
Maybe he forgave her cause she's pretty.
In which case...
I'm disappointed.
@@brazenzebra9581 she literally stabbed him the fuck are u talking about.....
@@brazenzebra9581I don't think that the reason though if he thought she was that pretty to forgive for attempting murder on him he would date her in the first place
i definitely think phoenix is legitimately scared for his safety and thats why he "forgave" yuka and smiled at her. to provoke her in any way would just be dumb
You're right, cuz it makes no sense for him to ask for his nearly* murderer's sentence to be lessened. Yeah its quite brave of him to forgive her but this was probably a motive. CHILLS
Knowing how Japanese people reacts to these kind of news, his response was the smartest thing I’ve ever seen. Like he managed to gain sympathy AND was able to avoid all the media attentions because he was so “bother me no further” about this.
I don't understand how she falls into the love trap, spends all her money on a host and more... when she's a hostess herself. She's selling the same fantasy so what is this?!?
I think sometimes the women go into being a host themselves because they want more spending money on a host. There used to be an interesting documentary about it on Netflix not sure if it’s still there.
could be that because theyre in the same business, she believes she wouldnt fall for such an obvious trap or atleast he wouldnt pull it on her and maybe he took advantage of that to milk what he can from her. With host clubs, some hosts are very personable and when you talk to them daily, its easy to forget this person is working.
(Not trying to victim blame tho, no matter how much of a "tease" someone is, they dont deserve to be stabbed, dragged, almost killed, etc etc.)
Maybe he made the interaction feel very intimate and/or she felt it was more than what it was. Perhaps at the start she knew what he was doing and she gave into the fantasy, she started liking him the more they talked, and then at some point she thinks they're past the host/client relationship. Esp if they act like they were dating or are even doing more intimate things that he doesnt do at work.
@@neutralweird Literally his job is to milk her for every yen. Not disputing that part and it would have been understandable if she was in any other profession.
But she isn't. She was so good as a hostess that she went up the ranks to manager. It just seems weird, like we're not getting the full story.
shes just a psycho thats all. like how she just smokes a cigarette next to him as if hes not actively bleeding to death. i dont think we have to question how she fell into the trap. shes just sick in the head
@@Panda_Rollthe managers are usually not able to bring in the money like the top hostesses, which is why they are the managers. The Hosts would often go to hostess clubs to recruit, mingle, and meet new potential customers. The girls are invited to the host clubs to return the favor and visit the hosts at their clubs, but some hosts seem to see the hostesses as easy prey.
the fact killers have defenders are just disgusting....
911 likes, noice!
fr, I feel so bad for the vitims and families of the victims that have to watch their killer getting thirsted over online. Must be a surreal experience
coz peope are sick up there...people are cheap
💯 agreed 👍 I don't even understand some people 😭
I genuinely believe most of these guys felt like it wouldn't happen to them. They would see it coming and be able to stop her
"Pretty privilege" I know for sure that if this girl was "ugly" everyone would've called her crazy and no one wouldve wanted her.
Fr. Or if she wasn’t young. People would of lashed her out with blinking. Just goes to show how beauty really matters to some people.
Some people do be like that, not everyone is insane though
its just ted bundy again
Even if she was ugly she'd still have some simp pining for her somewhere
If she was ugly she would become a misogynistic talking point. Ironically men would be complaining that women should be getting more backlash for crimes they commit, missing the fact that they're the ones overlooking them in situations like this
The irony of her sleeping with multiple men for work while keeping it all a secret vs him doing non-sexual work with other women but her only expecting _him_ to tell her everytime is ridiculous… It’s okay when she does it but the other way around calls for murder?!
Talk about double standards.
Narcissism 101: rules for thee, not for me.
Don’t try to understand crazy. There’s no double standard, just madness
It’s crazy
wahmen ☕
Steph: "Delivery Health Services. Its exactly what you think."
Me: "Aawww, they bring you medicine and food when you're sick. So sweet."
Steph: "And a hot sexy nurse comes by to perform other services."
No, that is not what I was thinking at all but I did laugh at myself for 5 minutes straight.
69th!
That's exactly what I thought as well!
I literally thought this too I’m like “ oh they drop your prescriptions off”
@Xychi_x 38:48
No but I thought the same as u until Stephanie said it😂
People are so gross. Earlier on TikTok I saw a video about an 18 year old who killed a mom and her baby because he was car racing. He had gotten 24 years and people were complaining about it. Like they were saying how handsome, attractive he was and didn't deserve the 'harsh' punishment.
And people say pretty privilege doesn’t exist ☹️
Cameron Herrin?
i heard about him too thats so f sick
Bro he was fr fr mid
i was thinking of this case while watching the vid
This is horrid.. imagine defending a literal *killer* and saying you are okay with them *stabbing* you.. that is insane.
Must be more to this so story.
They think it's kinky probably
I feel like it's just a joke. I was almost run over in a parking lot and I was gunna chew the driver out, but they got out of their car and were literally the hottest man I had ever seen in my life so my dumb ass told my friend "I'd let that run me over again" I feel like it's likely just an expression. I seriously doubt they really meant it XD just saying the guy was a server at a maid cafe and started stripping at the rave. So that vs some host girl ain't that far off.
@@okiedokieartichokie772 no these men actually mean it, these dudes gotta go 😂 you do too 😂😂😂
I mean....
I honestly don't know why attempted murder is less of a harsh sentence than murder. Whether the person ended up dying or not, it is still murder. I don't know y a victim being strong and putting up a fight to stay alive is benefiting the murderer by making there sentence shorter. It isn't fair
You could've phrased this better cuz what you typed makes you look dumb, ATTEMPTED murder isn't murder in the literal sense, it's ATTEMPTED. Murder is the act of killing, attempted is the act killing but failing they are not the same?? But I do agree that they should be equal punishments.
Exactly!
Fr
Bc then there's no incentive to not kill
@@dharanishakthivel7263Hmmm. How do you figure?
“Sometimes they wait outside the bathroom door cuz idk maybe you might get flushed down the toilet bowl”
Had me dying 💀💀
fr
I was looking for this comment! That had me crying! Lmfaoooooooo
Fr 😭
LMAO
rip fish
35:28 “she has this very cute naive personality like the girl next door”
*shows her violently shaking her head*
😂😂
😂😂😂
either she's giddy, or excessively crazy...
Cute standards for anime and LN/manga industries, but irl, it is best to stay vigilant, you can't be too careful..
HELP ME
😂😂😂😂😂
She is now back on social media and getting A LOT of support… my mind is blown. She is dangerous and now free to live and do whatever.
And Pheonix is so damn strong for keeping a positive outlook on this 🙏🏻
I simply held up a mirror to society, yet they hate me for what they are.
@@moonshinershonor202 What???
Pheonix is a superficial guy. He wrote to her a letter thanking her for doing this because he got more fan and (clients) money in his host club
@@narudayo5053 Not you pointing finger at the VICTIM for finding something positive in almost getting murdered… you are sick.
@@narudayo5053 he was stalked, attacked and put into a coma by this woman i think he has the right to act like that
when you said "delivery health" i thought I knew what it was.... When my grandpa had cancer, a delivery man brought like oxygen and stuff to his house...but after you explained, i was like "lmfao that's definitely not what i thought it was"
HELPPP😭😭 SAME I WAS LIKE “oh so if i have cold when living alone, i could call someone for buying me the medicine and i can be healthy again🤗” LMAFOO IM BEING A CLOWN FO SURE
I love that the hostess places for men are just “dumb” girls providing an ego boost but the host places for women are men just treating women like they wish their husbands would treat them 😂
Edit: because ppl don’t seem to understand….I’m talking about the damn business model these places have come up with. Men are not bad and women are not bad. Does every man or women fit into one of these categories? No. It’s smart business model that they came up with and works all I was pointing out. Chill the fuck out.
idk but it sounds kinda the same, there exist some men who do kinda wish their wives would treat them like that
@@quintboredom oh you are definitely not wrong! I was talking more of like the business model each group came up with, stroke the man’s ego and stoke the women’s heart.
I mean yea…a great business model if I’ve ever seen one haha
@@christianstraughter-johnso7604 100% agreed. Super smart!!!
@@quintboredomThe clubs for women are definitely less toxic, just men having manners, while clubs for men are women pretending to be dvmb and demeaning themselves for the sake of male ego. If that's what they want from a wife no wonder they remain single😂
Despite the craziness of this whole story, what made me gasp the most was her "SENTENCING"???? 3½ YEARS FOR ATTEMPTED MURDER?? I'm genuinely speechless
Nah the thing that gave me chills down my spine was the fact that she’s a nurse.
@@roomijsjeeeeshe should lose her job for this
There's so many ppl with drug charges facing way more time.
@@darlanova5182 its an evil world
Glad to see I'm not the only one who was thinking this. Everyone else is just glossing right over it
"I want a girl to love me like that!" Honey, you need a therapist to love you.
Therapy is more fake and can cost more than a hostest club. You literally pay to talk to a person and they pretend you're "making progress". They aren't even attractive or nice to you.
The cult of mental therapy is deeply neurotic in itself. Random people with strange reactions to things don't "need a therapist" whose just another money leech peddling pseudo medicine. They need to get their life in order.
They need their PARENTS to love them oml
Talk of therapy as something normal or widely needed is dysfunctional itself. It's yet another industry that never helps you actually solve your issues and sells talking to an unqualified nobody into a "need".
HELP😂😂
People wanting to bail her out doesn't surprise me, what surprised me was the victim *forgave her* and can no longer enjoy alcohol.
Man's a big simp
alcohol is the last thing im concerned ab tbh, he forgave her...
@@t4ggukForgiveness can give a lot of comfort to the victims.
@@t4ggukIt just means he's a good person, nothing more to it
@@theshermantanker7043 Even if he didn't forgive her, he would still be a good person.
I don’t want to hear NOTHING about pretty privilege “not existing” when we have cases like this that exist smh
ETA: I said what I said. The double negative has nothing to do with the video or my comment. You all that chose to address that tiny part of my comment can keep pretending that pretty privilege isn’t an issue though, cheers ❤️
Pretty privledge definitely exists - one reason is because biologically “beautiful faces” make us feal more comfortable. We are more prone to trust a pretty person. It’s a double edge sword- it’s the only privilege I think really exists in the west (I don’t believe in male privilege, when they’re majority homeless, of suicide and homicide cases).
Skill issue
what made you think it was okay to comment this, seriously@@magikarp1666
@@magikarp1666ew
no way you just said that @@magikarp1666
I love how he chose the name Phoenix for himself, it fits perfectly. He had to overcome so much both physically and mentally/psychologically. He is genuinely one of the nicest people I’ve ever heard of and has such a beautiful soul. The way his fellow coworkers and colleagues look after him and take care of him is such a heartwarming ending and is so sweet and again proves how amazing of a person Phoenix is for everyone to help him. I truly wish him also the best with his future and that he will be surrounded by real and true love and happiness the rest of his life 💜
He was a host they are terrible people. you need to research
@@le0nz Host and Hostesses are only "terrible" because they're young men and women trying to survive in a society that favors money above all else. They're no worse than ordinary salespeople. They have to draw in customers, sell their services and reach a certain quota, otherwise they get fired. If customers believe the hosts actually love them, they need a reality check, and probably shouldn't visit these clubs at all. And no one deserves to get murdered for stuff like this!
@@le0nz did you just not watch like, the first 15 min of the video? It probably contains more research than you did. Hosts are not "fooling" people, not to personally attack you but if you think they do or got "fooled" by them it's on you. If you or someone else goes in and pays for a host to act the way they're supposed to, that's what you're gonna get and thinking there's feelings is delusional on the customers part.
Hi Stephanie,
Regarding the “Delivery Health” thing, you didnt mention it but prostitution in Japan is *technically* illegal. However, said law only criminalizes “penetration between male and female for an economic transaction”. If you think this is a loophole the size of Mount Fuji, you are right: prostitution-by-any-other-name flourishes in Japan, including the nondescriptively named “delivery health” (デリヘル), the sex workers are called “aestheticians” (エステ), and there are at least one recorded case of a lesbian sex work service that bills itself as totally not illegal because “there is no penetration”.
Strange and interesting
Make it illegal across the board with no deviation and watch the fireworks happen...maybe the idiots that keep promoting such things will learn about things like abstinence and heterosexuality instead?
Its a huge pet peeve when people beg for leniency for attractive people. So do ugly people deserve their punishment but attractive people dont simply because they are attractive? Twisted and sad.
i think it's due to biological wiring, not even ugly people care for ugly people. instead of personality, morality, and good deeds, the brain just focus on "Dang, what a waste of good genes!" given to us by thousands of years of Darwinism by instinct.
Just shows why we should'nt be judged by a jury of our peers, sadly many of them favor pretty ppl, & are put off by not as pretty, logic is M.I.A.
@@princeofdarkness4711Baby thats just you.
Was about to comment that@@WinniePooh33 how deranged! XD it is not biology.
It is being delulu, having a white knight complex thinking it will get you cookie points to use the girl as a fl*sh light if you ever meet her.
Because people expect pretty people to fell ok in society so they wouldn't do these types of things, and when they do they expect them to "redeem" themselves because it's their destiny to be a good person. Looks are one thing that can save you in this capitalistic society.
its insane and mind boggling to think people will dismiss the actions of a killer simply because they're attractive.
yes, she's gorgeous in fact, i admire her beauty but that doesn't take away from the fact she attempted to kill someone for the sake she wanted him to herself.
@@fa1semomoEXACTLY i personally don't think it's bad to acknowledge or think she's pretty but glamorizing what she did and saying unhinged stuff like "I want her to stab me" is so disgusting and appalling
People do it with Ted Bundy too. It's a tale as old as time, and I'll never understand it.
@@hellionshark3197 I can't understand that, either. All I see is what they did to their victims. But I guess some people don't. Disgusting. (Look up the trope for Monster Fangirl and look at the Real Life folder. Smh).
I've known about this case for years, but I never knew that he was just her crush. The amount of news outlets/online creators that called him 'her ex boyfriend' is absurd. I never knew how much misinformation there was on this case..
First thing I noticed when I googled it, none of them said crush they all said they had been in a relationship.
As a former stripper, it’s the same thing in many United States strip clubs. You get the guy to “buy you shots” but it’s just water with food coloring.
I really feel for Phoenix, I can't imagine being in his position and watching people romanticize his traumatic situation also I can sorta understand why he would forgive her. Earlier in the video steph mentioned that Yuka routinely made comments about killing herself, so if she were sent to prison with a harsh sentence who knows what she would do. He may not wanna be the reason she does something like that but also his forgiveness could be more for himself, as a way to move on. Anyways I really feel for him, sigh.
He actually said that he was grateful to her bc she caused him to be number 1 host and he was famous after it happened so he will still be number one at his club.
@miaknig3130 honestly, that makes me even sadder, like he's probably more financially stable because he's #1, but it's sad that this is what it took.
@@Selkie943 I agree. The fact that he was also happy to reunite w the friends from the orphanage also saddened me bc it was like a family reunion for him. I'm happy for him but dad that he has been through sp much.
He talks about her stabbing him like she stole money or something like “oh it’s ok I forgive her she must have been going through a lot” BRO SHE STABBED YOU
Forgiveness is more for yourself than it is for the person who hurt you. It truly takes away from your quality of life and mental healing to hold a grudge on a person, even if what they did was completely sick & twisted, you only hurt yourself more to hold onto that hate for so long.
Honestly, when I read that he forgave her, I sneered. But after I heard about his life story, I sympathized and not actually surprised. He probably had a very low self-worth. Just toiling on and living is probably his most heartful wish. Not to mention, the psycho did 'give' him money that he couldn't possibly get without her. His sense of self-worth is very low, he's very humble and gets satisfied easily. You would never know just how humble a human's self-worth could be from his life experiences. I'm just glad he finds a silver lining to comfort himself and I hope he could hold onto that and find his own true happiness.
honestly after something that traumatic, rationalizing it like that is just a peace of mind thing. better to say “that was weird but she did it as a result of exceptional circumstances and it probably won’t happen again” than just “sometimes a client might stab you”
Way too many W do this and it drives me crazy.
People need boundaries and protect themselves without fearing to come out as "rude".
she better not be allowed to practice as a nurse when she gets out. That is terrifying
She's already out of the prison though...
Who said she gets to practice as a nurse
I could easily listen to the cultural explanations for hours.
People who fantasize about yandere have probably never actually been in an abusive relationship and have no idea what that kind of emotional manipulation and abuse is like. Yukas type of obsession is not "love". If they loved you, they would want you to be happy, instead they want to take away your freedom and control you. They don't really care if you are happy or not, its a very selfish thing.
As someone who was forced to live with an abusive stepfather for 10 years of my life and who deals with a narcissistic mother every day, I 100% agree with you. People like Yuka are true sociopaths, they don't value lives of others, they treat everyone like they're their items, personal property, which you can get rid off later.
Used to laugh at folks who stayed in abusive situations... built an understanding of it the hard way 😮💨
@@PsychoPatatette I think it can be wrong to give people the idea that certain abusive relationship dynamics are actually normal and fine or cute, but you should be careful about what conclusions you draw from what data. We don't know that the reason there is a group of people who support Yuka is just because they were influenced by the yandere trope. There could be many other reasons they are attracted to that type of person like trauma they suffered growing up. I think its important to be careful with that line of thinking about fiction because it can easily blend into arguments like 'video games that have violence should be banned' and people saying that if you play GTA you are more likely to murder someone and so on. As well as many other similar arguments I think are bad.
Fetishists are generally losers without any experience of anything, so, yeah you're right
Funny how W run away from abusers but M run *toward* them.
Doesnt that prove something?
Yes it does prove they dont get abused much.
So happy Phoenix survived, but how awful what he experienced. Hope he is able to live a happy life and heal, he sounds like a lovely, warm person.
The way you’ve educated me on host clubs makes me feel more aware of my prejudice and lack of understanding. Thank you so much Stephanie! This was very educational for myself but understand what happens around the world
bet you a million dollars yuka was trafficed like 90% of host girls are but its sex work so it doesnt matter right
@@thecoolestofthe834s2 its not sex work and care to show where those statistics come from? just saying anything is a bad habit
@@thecoolestofthe834s2 she probably trafficked man tbh
@@Liam-mf4fl"just saying anything is a bad habit." That's the most polite "you're a fucking idiot" I've ever heard 😂 im gunna use that.
I found her instagram and the way everyone was hyping her up and saying what she did was ok was crazy
What’s her Ig ?
@@fatushabani7555🤨
@@fatushabani7555 uyupekochan
whats her @?
whats her insta tho?
I’m so glad Phoenix survived, he was dealt with such a bad hand but still looks up in life. He is a lot stronger than I am, and I hope he knows none of this was his fault.
HES A HOST ITS ALWAYS THEIR FAULT
？？r u kidding he's a host and keeping cheating on girls for money……
@@wangshiqiuits their job?? the customer are supposed to understand that its ONLY transactional not emotional
@@x3ntertwined strongly recommend to learn how they use mind control to make women break the bank to raise them... I just cannot understand people who still support that host wishing him to make more money in the future and the entire industry has huge issue.
@@kabukillmee.0125 bro how is it his fault he got stabbed nothing justifies that... there's no excuse for that
He’s so strong, the way he has been treated in this situation is disgusting.
this reminds of that case where that teen decided to race someone on a public street and ran down a mom and her little baby. people wanted him to get out because he was “innocent” and “too handsome to be in jail”. literally sickening
Yeah yeah yeah I remember that case
Some people are genuinely effed in the head
I remember that case and when I watched this, I immediately thought abt that guy☠️☠️☠️
@wardodoo because..? they both are cold hearted murderers. one was insane and delusional and the other was careless and idiotic. they both are attractive to tiktok teens and they both have weird fans who don’t want them to be prosecuted for their very obviously wrong crimes. i’m not seeing much of a difference
@wardodooHow…? I’m genuinely curious about the answer here.
The absolute best part of your videos is the fact that you take your sweet time giving us the full cultural context of EVERYTHING.
I love how men are calling the most "expensive" hostesess stupid and silly and they're the ones who pay thousands of dollars for a girl to tell him that he doesn't have any vices.
femcel
@@bro918 What makes me a femcel? 😂 Pointing out that a lot of men don't like when their ego is in danger?
Fr they're both paying for the same thing from the other gender
no you're definitely filled with misandry, but we all know you won't admit it.
These host/hostess clubs are the parasocial relationship equivalent of heroin.
I get that fictionally, you can be interested in that kind of stuff, but going as far to bail her out of jail and saying you’d let her murder you? I can’t imagine wth is wrong with you to want that 😭 And that’s not even how it works!
For real. I never like the Yandere trope but if others love them than that's okay. But a real life Yandere? Nuh-uh, those people deserved to be locked up in jail. I get it that some people find Yandere trope to be cool and loyal but in reality, no sane person would want to be loved by a Yandere (unless they're that broken).
@@nurnadhirahsaing6169 Majority of people on the internet are that broken. Join any community, whatever topic you like. You will find tons of broken people looking for attention. People are incredibly lonely and act out of desperation. It's terrifying.
@@nurnadhirahsaing6169 Right? My favourite trope is yanderes (male version) and I am inclined to like even more the extremes, I think it's a sexy and unsettling trope. In real life though, the moment a dude starts asking me where I am or showcases any controlling behaviour, I'm out. Fiction is fiction.
online interest is never just online interest. the people watching those things are as sick as her and thats why they want her out
i dont know if stuff like yandere is ever ok. Having a fantasy or fetish for this kind of shit is dark in itself. People can become so desensitised to violence and death.
When you were talking about the use of daisuki and aishiteru I actually have some translation corrections if read this: so suki is actually the more commonly used among couples. Suki means to like and it’s basically a more casual way of saying that you like someone. Daisuki would actually be translated to “big like” if translated literally. However in contexts it’s used in relationships as a way of being like “I love you” (but in the sense that they’re in a more serious relationship). Aishiteru however is normally used between husband and wife when expressing love for each other. From what I can gather it’s basically like unconditional love. Again it’s only really used between husband and wife.
I hope this comment was helpful- I’ve been studying Japanese for about 8 years now
Girl, by the time I got 29 minutes in and you started talking about Phoenix, I was so interested in knowing more about these clubs I forgot I had originally come here because this was a murder episode. 😂
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Same. Its just so fascinating because it is so different from anything in the USA (or Korea right next door!).
Same 😂 when the story continued after the host explanation I was like "oh yesh...the story ..."
Heard this case before and it never fails to disappoint me when I hear about it, the fact that so many people were romanticizing this mentally disturbed woman and completely ignoring the man she hurt and all of her crimes because she was attractive is actually horrific. How could people be so blinded by stuff like that?
Society is so sick that we excuse murder if the person looks good. How fucked is that.
I’ve not seen any comments on this video defending her though
@@jayasmrmore3687did u even watch the video?
Reminds me of those bundy and Dahmer fan girls
@@Inky_doodledoo Johann „Jack“ Unterweger was a Serial-Killer from austria. He killed sexworkers but many girls where head over heels for him - he had great charme and i guess the dark and edgy side not many men are showing, is what was so fascinating for them.
wahmen get less harsh sentencing. this is a known fact. as usual tho, wahmen are more concerned with groupthink than the facts.
20 mins in, and the stark difference between the hostess bar (where men go to feel less insecure about themselves and get an ego boost) and the host bars (where women go, just to be treated kindly and respectfully), that itself says everything about the world we live in.
I appreciate actually hearing about Phoenix's recovery because the first time I heard about this situation no one mentioned if he was okay or not. I'm really glad he recovered and got to see his family. What a terrifying thing to go through. I've been stalked before but I'm lucky it was never to this degree.
Hope you’re doing well.
Stephanie is soo dedicated to her channels. Constantly posting on all 3 of them. Like she is literally feeding us. And also I would love it if you could cover the case of Javed Iqbal who killed 100 children.He was later sentenced to be cut into 100 pieces. This case is really sad.
Omg
Holy cow that's a whole new level of case.
Horrifying!
She's so dedicated to this channel that she keeps deleting messages of people simply sharing their opinion or disgust of this case. I guess she's a big fan of censorship as well 🤷♂️
@@brandonizaguirre2963is that so? I’ve seen a whole lot of comments talking about how gross this case is.
It feels insane that the guy almost got killed by a ravid fan and as soon as he was okay he came back to the same job 😭😭 I could never
bro was in 24 hour internet cafés tryna catch naps
being homeless ain't easy... ain't no way you'd wanna go back to that... you'd probably rather die
I love your storytelling style. I never knew anything about these clubs. Gotta respect the hustle.
The fact that nobody saw any of the red flags, when there were clearly so many, is slightly shocking. Phoenix probably felt obligated to not complain either so she'd keep coming into his job, he couldn't even help himself. I also wonder if the girl who called Yuka & told on Phoenix feels any responsibility for this as well? Id feel guilty as hell honestly.
Did the friend truly think they were dating?
@@lordtetteYuka probably told her friend that. Delusional asf
the most shocking thing ab the case is the “ good ending. “ im really glad phoenix is doing well after all thats happened, seriously crazy 😭
I haven't sat through a 1 hour+ video, listening intently in years. Wow what a crazy story. Life is indeed stranger than fiction
She's a grand storyteller
it warmed my heart knowing he survived. Part of me thinks that his forgiveness came partially from the social status of "having a yandere go after him". As dark as it sounds, he and his friends could have seen this as some sort of "male victory" and, thanks to her, not only his business had a major boost, but also his ego.
In a way, he might feel like his almost-killer saved his life.
I really appreciate how Steph talks about these cases, so much empathy, and it’s not easy being able to explain a case in chronological order whilst giving all sides, all backstories with her hubby asking the questions we think about while watching, you’re my new favorite TH-cam channel 🖤
Nah, Phoenix doesn’t need to be applauded for being so forgiving. I used to be exactly like that, rationalizing the perpetrator’s behavior and being quick to forgive them, even taking the blame as the VICTIM. That’s not true forgiveness, that’s complete self abandonment. Not surprising considering his past, which is heartbreaking. I hope he’s able to actually heal from this, and I hope no one ever hires her as a nurse 🤬
Phoenix is applauded because it's very hard to forgive someone who attempted to murder you. It's actually easy to live in hate for the rest of your life. People forgive someone like Yuka because they want to move on and don't want their past to cling on them.
@@peachesandcream22 forgiveness is beneficial as long as it's genuine. I definitely don't know him and didn't see him process this, so maybe it is. It just worried me because it appeared he came to that conclusion so quickly
yes i see what you mean because him blaming himself partically is sad because he was just doing his job
@@peachesandcream22the notion you have to “forgive” to move on is ridiculous fantasy.
This 100% ^ I hope it’s not like what you’re saying because I could totally see it being like that. Still, I think we are all wishing him the best because he has a lot of hardship to get through just from his past. He doesn’t need more in the future.
I know my sentiment is shared, yet it does bear repeating: You, Stephanie, are a very captivating storyteller.
Very
She's proof the whole yandere meme is not good in real life.
She slept with other guys secretly but stabbed him just for taking a photo with another woman.
Yes but I just can't help but got curious why do people really love a yandere character but what I've seen so far they're heavily insecure and have trust issues so they want someone to completely "love" Obsess and worship them such as yandere people
I watched that interview with Roland and within the first 5 minutes I was like "omg I can't stand this guy, what a narcissist, he's so unattractive." By the end of the interview I was like "wow, I like this guy, what a great personality." I was pretty shocked by my change in reaction lol. Needless to say, Roland is a brilliant communicator. I can definitely see why he's so successful.
The way she acted & waited for him to die, I feel she will finish what she started so he should be very extremely careful when she is released from jail. She may change her appearance to try her sick twisted agenda 🤬
She's already out and back on social media
@@lordtetteWHAT
@@lordtette for real ? Ugh this is so sickening😢
Phoenix is probably the nicest person ever to forgive someone who tried to kill him I can’t believe she is being let out of prison
Right? He's so nice I can understand why Yuka fell in love with him 😅
it’s so sad he deserved for her to have been locked up for a long ass time.
or under peer pressure...who knows
Maybe he was scared after all she was only 3 years on prison
@@delmicortave can’t blame him, seems there’s no systems to keep him safe
She was released in 2023 on an undisclosed date. She's been streaming on her Tiktok account and posting stuff.
The whiplash I felt from hearing Stephanie mention Yandere Sim 😭😭😭
I often forget normal ppl don't have encyclopedic knowledge on weird pc demos surrounded by controversy but her absolute confusion really drove that home
Same, I watched gameplay back in the day when it was trending.
I’d always heard the name in passing (perhaps in random comments online?) but I didn’t know what the game was about or what that term meant. 😅
@@AVspectreIt’s basically about a game where your character(usually referred to as Yandere Chan) stalks a guy that she has a crush on, and you’re supposed to remove rivals(girls that interact or even glance) at said crush, and to get with the crush.
reminds me of the Cameron Herrin case, where TikTok girls defended a man who killed 2 people because “he’s too cute”
I know right. It's always a group of people defending someone attractive, they did it with other killers too
I looked his name up to see who he was,, and most lf the articles on the 1st page are so apologetic of him.. everything stressing that it was an accident and how unfortunate it is that his sentenced wasn't appealed. One of the articles blaimed the mom for stepping into the street like wtf
i've even seen cases where teens were almost in love with a school shooter... because he had nicely split-dyed hair or something
He ain't even that cute. I am speaking as a teenage girl.
@@raisinbrancerealofficial even his own mom disowned him
She’s having sex with clients but he’s not allowed? She’s scary crazy😂
Phoenix is so forgiving, like, imagine being stabbed, haunted by dreams of your stabber, had serious mental and physical injuries yet you still smile at the person who tried to murder you and even blame yourself partly for your own stabbing. I think Phoenix is a really good person
i think it's more to do with the fact he was scared for his safety from both her and the media. it was the most sensible option he could've picked in his shoes and im unsure how much of it was that genuine. doesn't make him less of a good person or anything but yknow something to keep in mind
I don’t think I’ve ever heard of this name for an obsessive girl before, but I did have a boss once who said that some men liked “crazy” women because they believed the sex would be better. I still can’t wrap my head around it.
When I was working in Japan as a contractor, a group of us foreigners would bar hop on Fridays. There was one guy, barely in his 20s, who would always go into the same hostess club. It got to the point where he would leave birthday parties, work functions & his own friends to go to this club. I mean we would have to physically drag him out because he would not be convinced to leave. It was getting REALLY BAD. He was going there during the work week, sinking every paycheck into seeing this hostess. He really thought they were in love! The worst I personally saw, was when he didn't come back from vacation. We found him with a busted up face in a completely trashed hotel room, cans of chu-hais everywhere! Apparently, he had tried & failed to fight some guy, another customer, over this hostess, got thrown out & then had some drunken, Tasmanian devil temper tantrum in this hotel room. I don't know what happened to him after that, as I was already getting ready to come back to the states & we weren't that close to begin with. I hope he figured his stuff out tho, cuz he's a ticking time bomb if I've ever seen one.
I’m glad he survived and I hope he’s doing ok now. He had been through a lot then to go through that as well…heartbreaking. He seems like such a nice person even after that.
i looked up the picture online, and i was speechless. something out of a horror movie…
As someone who plays yandere simulator, i mostly play it for the aspect of pure fascination of how one can love someone so much that they would go to extreme lengths such as murder. This case makes me sick to my stomach, and im so glad he has recovered well.
The game itself is pretty crappy, Yandere Dev (a.k.a. Alex) is a shitty person himself, but I play this game only because of Mission mode.
Eww, Yandere Dev
the only reason i play is because i grew up with games like it😭😭
yea the game concept is cool sadly yandere dev sucks n so does his game
Yandere dev is yikes 😭
This breaks my heart. Poor Fenix, he’d been through so much just to be victimised again by a psycho. He worked so hard to get away from his childhood to get it all taken away from him.
Poor fox :(
ok guys i think i finally got it. rotten mango is thing like serial killers and murderers, missmangobutt is for shows or books she’s watched/read, and stephanie soo is for the celebrities and their drama filled lives 😮😮😮
Ah! Thanks!
im watching this in February 2024...
the mental gymnastics humans do to justify heinous crimes.. this case is truly the epitome of pretty privilege and infantilization of a literal murderer.
also how on earth can someone get ONLY 3.5 yrs for attempted murder???? there's just sm wrong here
I can’t believe someone would kill their crush. So horrifying! And guys asking if she is single and saying I would let her stab me is so messed up
Thank you Stephanie for covering this case!
That's why they call her the real life Yandere (I hate that trope). I believe she had this mindset where if she can't have him, then no one else can.
@notville_ why did you copy the other comment
@@kennamoo7427😂
Stephanie, you are my favourite story teller! Those details that you added about hostess and host clubs made the case 10x more interesting!!!
Yes, great storytelling and educational.
Stephanie sometimes when i feel like I can’t breathe I turn to you and your voice, and it feels better. Keep doing you ❤
Side note about living in Japan- no, you do NOT get that money back from your deposit. It`s always the first 6 months of rent, so moving anywhere new sucks. Living cost is reasonable, but moving costs are a lot. (source: me, a dude living in Tokyo)
This story was crazy…
The way these things can affect people scares me. Even those who work there.
As a European man, I am not surprised that us westerners are the most disrespectful in the hostess clubs
Why what are you like
Don’t project your own behaviour onto everyone else
"Usually the western or foreign travelers the passport Bros" Europee On ppl are so dumb 😂
It makes sense since it's westerners that are the most disrespectful but because it's not their culture. Hostess clubs, even after the explanation, songs like emotion porn. They shouldn't be disrespectful but it's probably because they don't understand the underlying purpose of hostess clubs. Well, that and sex tourism.
@@signity5540 most europeans are like this ig
I do hope she has or gets mental help and understands the severity of what she’s done to someone.
Phoenix was far too kind to her though. My heart goes out to him :( I hope he’s living happily and comfortably now.
Never would have expected to hear the words “yandere simulator” from stephanie but here we are LMAO
i’m so glad to have an episode that didn’t end in murder and the victim has a somewhat of a better life because of it (minus the trauma)
also i saw that picture trending years ago but never knew the backstory. I’m glad to finally know, thank you Stephanie❤
1st video, and this woman knows how to tell a story. Thank you for sharing this cautionary tale
Saw something where someone commented "He clearly deserved it but what did he do?" It's so sickening.
I remember this whole ordeal I remember watching a video inspired by her and i looked into it on curiosity and i found and article and in the comments were filled with simps talking about how they’ll break her out of jail and how cute she was i felt nauseous and disgusted
I am very familiar with this case and yet I still sat my ass down and eagerly listening to Stephanie narrate it again- totally engrossed. She is such a gifted story teller.
She’s not that pretty though 🤷🏼♀️
@@Cats_cats_cats_cats_cats_cats i think he meant the woman in the story not the youtuber lol
@@Treemonieee😂I'll assume english is not your first language but he's not talking about her appearance
@@cranberrysweets5424 I am talking about her appearance though. It’s my opinion. And you are commenting on my comment from 9 months ago. You must be bored..😂
@@Treemonieee 😂I am bored just wanted to know why the comment was necessary
I've heard about this case before from another youtuber. They made it seem like he forgave her and wanted to be with her after all this?!!!! I was so shocked and thought that he was crazy too.
Thank you for clarifying things and for always taking a lot of time to research not only the stories but also the background and the cultural differences.
Sending you lots of love ❤
This sounds like an actual anime. The main character never dies.
The amount of men who glorify the yandere troupe, really puts on display that men have NO DAMN CLUE what women go through at the hands of men.
So many stories of women being killed by possessive, obsessive, sick and selfish men who thought they had a right to take a life. A male "yandere" sounds like a terrifying nightmare to most women.
If the roles were reversed and those men had to deal with the same fear women have to live with everyday, then not a single one of them would find this behaviour attractive.
Regardless of gender, people can have attraction to twisted people, with different reasons. Remember there are women glorifying male perpetrators too, who have murdered women. Gender position has nothing to do with this.
But it has more because of sickening reasons :
1. There are people who think twisted people are wild in bed
2. There are people who have this " I can fix them" mentality
3. There are people, young and old, who think criminals are cool.
And these people are also twisted themselves.
i think the appeal is just wanting to be "wanted" so much. its still disgusting, dont get me wrong
Only Pronatalists simping towards another Pronatalist.
gotta love clowns like you always blaming men for everything.
Yes, it is actually way less harmful when the female is the chaser/aggressor rather than the other way round. If a man does what Yuka did, it is definitely an unforgivable crime, a story worth not any telling.
Phoenix is a better person than I’ll ever be, thank god he pulled through and was able to reconnect with his family.
Also Joey and Yandere Sim being mentioned in a Rotten Mango video is such a strange crossover. Especially since Joey also talked about this case.
No, I had not heard of this story nor "host, hostess" establishments. That is one of the things that I love about you, I learn so much about other cultures from someone who is an excellent and compassionate storyteller.
The hosting clubs is the first time I’m hearing details in-depth! I was told and offered work in Japan to do 20 years ago when I was 21. I was always told I would make good money bc I’m blonde/blue eyes and pale skin. I never went and now I’m wondering if I did, how my life would have turned out… So interesting!
I already knew this story from another true crime creator but I'm always happy to watch your version of it! Thank you for all the respect always Stephanie
Eleanor neale?
@@ipoundmen69yes!!
yep. I think she recently posted about it
I thought I heard this horrific story before, thought I was losing my mind 😅
@@ipoundmen69 exactly!!
i already knew about her crime in 2019. but that she now has a fanclub? what the hell..