Lightskin Men Are Bitch3s! The Unspoken Bias Among Black Women |
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- In this new podcast episode of the Dailyrapupcrew episode, we delve into the often unspoken issue of colorism within the Black community, particularly focusing on the perceptions and stereotypes associated with skin tone among Black men. We explore how societal norms and biases have led some Black women to associate light-skinned men with femininity and dark-skinned men with masculinity.
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Man to this day, I see women all the time chosing light skinned dudes over us, then when they get rejected they run to us. Them b*#$ only talking out of a crushed ego.
They just want us lightskin dudes to be worst then the white man and rape the women and kill them and put them in chains
We all know that y'all were enslaved and get killed by the white man and go on TV wearing lipstick and wigs
I will never do that crap y'all the real b I t c h es mfs running around in purses tight jeans and wigs
As a light skin black man! let me tell you we get colorism and racism from everybody! Even our black counterparts!
Facts
Yepp... all across the board. And tbh, it only became that way in the 2010s... it's like everyone don turn their back on us. And I'm sittin here thinkin... was it because of Chris Brown??... Is it because we were TOO hyped and someone decided to knit pic the flaws?.. And no shade bt our lightskin sistas get more praise still to this DAY with no questions ask or challenged. I appreciate all shades of my sistas bt hot damn... can't they understand that we face JUST as much if not more than our darkskin brothas
Just being lightskin with an opinion with effeminate to them lol 😂 😂
@@javionriley8739 I'm here for ya too my brotha... how bout let's just stick together and unify as one!!! Wouldn't that be magnificent in all it's glory?... I mean.. at the end of the day.... WE ALL WE GOT 🤦♂️😎☝️👌😂😂
What about lightskin saying your to dark 😂
What is up with dark-skinned men making fun of light-skinned men, but they get with non-Black women and make more light-skinned men? Does anyone besides me see the hypocrisy in that behavior? Are these dark-skinned men going to make fun of their light-skinned sons too? 🤔
They hate light skinned sons they have no idea how to raise a LS son ! LS skin men do not fear WM like DSBM DO ! A lot DSBM will sexually molest a light skinned son !
Its jealousy
They're jealous it's sad
Dark skin men are jelous of us
Colorism and self hate. They prefer the boys to be dark like themselves and the girls to be light.😏
Imagine having no control over your shade of black and being constantly judged for it.
Precisely. Although I think black women in particular are just resentful for the fact that they had it hard, getting a lightskin dude's attention in junior high or high school... so they've decided to flip the coin on us. Or.. it could be because of Chris Brown, Drake who THEY say are claiming to be colorists... idk man, it's a strange phenomenon.
ask your grand parents. They can tell you their experience during the CRM
Immature ass world we live in
Sounds like all shades lmao
@@whiskey3741 it’ not fair for either shade, that’s my point overall
As a light skin woman I can absolutely agree. Black women especially my darker skin sisters call light skin men feminine and dark skin men masculine. Then turn around and complain about colorism.😂 Side Note: Light men in my family are definitely masculine.
Yup which is why i dont care about there plight there hypocrisy is astonishing
@@theanimelibarian7881but lightskin women talk the most shit about lightskin men tho
the darkskin women either don't like lightskin people in general or they were just brainwashed by darkskin men telling them that stuff or pushing it on social media.
Most gay men I know is Dark skin.
@@redmilitant1559no they don't, it does happen ,but don't sit here and pretend most dark skinned women are chasing after light men just don't, also most light skinned men come from.luhht skinned mothers
If you associate a persons behavior by the color of their skin you got serious mental issues.
Lot of black women do this.
What ? These women are f**king bleaching. If it didn't matter then why she wants to get camouflage.
@@anthonydwain: Black women also get mad when character and personality traits are attached to their skin color. That's a colorist way of thinking.
@@symonelewis1690running from facts
@@anthonydwain I don’t do that … that’s crazy
Black people complain about racism, yet are open practitioners of it.
Women are the biggest colorist out there as if we’re not all black.
Bruh...exactly.
And people trying to say it's programming like what kind of shit is that 😂
Men are
Fr but they’ll see a lightksin women as full black but not us??
They're just stupid like that.
It's not just women with that same mindset of light-skin men being weak......There's a lot of dark-skin Black men who dislike light-skin Black men. They always got some slick stuff to say about light-skin men being punks but all quiet about Lil NasX....🫠
And lil Uzi, lil yahty, Tyrese, saucy Santana etc
..........and to be honest, some of the realist brothers were light-skin- MalcolmX, Farrakhan, and Muhammad Ali. 🫡🫡🫡🫡
We laugh about it and make jokes about it But women actually take it to heart.
Most men know it’s just jokes.
@@PD-qu8dq no. A lot of you are haters. Not just jokes.
@@derrickpearson8419Khalid Muhammad was more militant than them and just as intelligent. Also, the N.O.I. has some deep colorism. Most of the leadership is brothers of a light complexion. Might be a Prince Hall thing.
Lightskin women talk down on lightskin men so lightskin can be perceived as soft and feminine and darkskin women talk down on lightskin men to get with darkskin men it benefits both of them.
I don’t really understand this internet talk. I’m light skinned/biracial and I’ve been with the hottest light skin women. They love me. However, I still get pissed off by all of this social media slander.
@@ramonemachismo3386 And they still slander lightskin men too
And that’s exactly why I have no interest in black women. They can have their chocolate man. Be my guest.
@@ramonemachismo3386as a lightskin dude, stop bullshitting
@@bxi1547as a lightskin dude, I really hate women
As a lighter brown woman I agree black women are theeeee most colorist. I got lightskin brothers ain’t none of them soft and feminine. Then cry wolf when it happens to you. Point is don’t treat ppl the way you don’t want to be treated
Black men are the most colorist and the most degraded in the black community have been darkskin women for hundreds of years.
Best comment here thank you and god bless you
Soft and feminine are two of the worst things a man can be called. It’s very insulting and they do it for no reason!!
These ladies demonstrated the potential for this show. When the fellas have competent ladies on the couch with real life, relevant experiences to the topic, the convo just flows so much better.
Shoutout to everyone here.
Only the Dark Skinned woman on the left of the couch took accountability, the other ladies made excuse after excuse, on every topic, especially when concerning light skin men.
Bingo👉🏾💯
yup i noticed that . i liked her a lot
Solid conversation. Colorism goes both ways within dating. Salute to my lightskin brothas
For sure appreciate the support 💪🏾
Na we don't buy that. They wanna run to us dark skinned men after the light skinned men treat them like s*# and reject them. Fuq them b*#$.
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I tell light skin dude, they need to abandon black women like how em dark skin brothers did, going to white, Asians etc. Black women are the biggest colorist. I see light skin dudes saying they love black women, but black women do nothing but bash em.
Most light skin brothers I know is about that life because the black community(Dark skin men) forces the issue on us from a very young age. My father is light skin and is toughest guy I know having been in and out of prison through out his life. I had to fight my entire life against darker skinned men who were a lot bigger than me at the time just because I was light skin which lead up to me becoming trained in Boxing, Muay Thai, Ji Jitsu and Karate to defended myself. I just don’t get it, the overall Bias towards Light skin from BW and some Dark skin men is overwhelmingly high. I’ve had little success with Darker skin woman because they don’t want light skin kids and also perceive us as weak and dark skin as strong🤷🏾♂️ which is whatever to me. None the less my wife is Light skin and my daughter so I’m pretty content with my life as it is.
Notice this only exist in America and nowhere wise and I wonder why???
It started with slavery. The Willie lynch doctrine. How to keep slavery going for centuries. pit the light skin slaves against the Dark. house slave usually were the offspring of the slave master and they purposely used that dynamic in controlling slaves. Now there is a lot of resentment on both sides. but in different ways. But also its biology because dark is more dominant so that is why the feminine is attracted more to it.
My husband only prefers lightskin women I just think dark skin women or brown skin gave him a weird vibe going off what he been saying
This for me is one of your top panels…no rachetness, loud delusional behavior…thanks for that
Appreciate that
the title of this video is hilarious considering dark skin black men clown light skin/biracial men because they look at at them soft and pretty and aren't black enough in their eyes. the hypocrisy.
Those must be some clowns that never stepped outside a day in their lives. Being darker skinned doesn't give you any edge, nor does it mean you can't get your ass whipped by a light skinned so called Black man.
Exactly
The title illustrates the apparent paradox of black women accusing black men of colorism, while simultaneously showing similar tendencies towards men with lighter skin tones.
@@DailyRapUpCrew Lol black men can’t decide if bw prefer lightskin men or darkskin men. Black men hate darkskin women for sure though.
And yet dark skin men are the main ones lusting after white women. And when they have a baby it will be light skin. The irony…
As a light skin black man, there has definitely been a switch in how we are perceived, since social media took off. A lot of it has to do with hip-hop culture in the black community back then every woman wanted drake or Chris Brown nowadays every woman wants Lil Baby or one of the Atlanta-based rappers. Hip-hop is so influential. Most of these girls following these hip-hop couples wanting to be just like them. My wife is a brown skinned black woman and I have three daughters with her. In the future, I see light skin men feeling left out and probably even more start dating outside of the race. That’s a sad reality but if black women don’t want us What can we do?
Yeah light-skin men are already dating outside of the race.
@@ThugFreeZone yeah until the non-BWs will get fired-up with the LSMs Bull$hit. Romanticizing LSMs feels like you're in the lesbian relationship,I'm saying this because they're so uptight,pompous,narcissistic,overly-opinionted,entitled,bratty,snobbish,low/high-key biased and bigoted(badmouthing anyone whose darker than them is one of their main favorite hobbies,just like their wh!te and Asian counterparts),controlling, possessive,insecure (especially when it comes down to DSBMs),manipulative,cold,egoistical,selfish,stingy,greedy,abusive,bipolar,self-righteous,sometimey,trifling,infernal,pretentious,deceiving,mouthy,aloof,backwards,careless,sneaky,corny,pointless,humiliating,dramatic and parasitic. I'm saying this as a caramel skinned woman,The Almighty Dark brown skinned Jesus Christ have already rebuked and departed them from me,made them get behind me in his name and I wish,hope and pray to God one day my future next man will be a beautiful chocolate man who has The Most High God's power, humor and charisma; both Samson and David's strength and swag; Adam's image from head to toes; Jesus' heart and soul; Moses' mindset; Solomon's income and Noah's animal love and don't be surprised most of the Biblical villains were sadly happened to be non-DSB/BSB people expect Noah who was happen to be an albino
I’ve always cheated on black women most of their dudes be hating and I been sexing different races of women since early I can care less to my lightskin bros f em lol. I have slept with Spanish women , white women , very thick brown women , and slim darkskin women
I’m also confused because I’m sexing women in my caddy when I was a teen as a man I’m sexing women in my vw and I’m sexing women on the beach 🏖️ ,the golf ⛳️ course par , the hallways , on tree logs 🪵 in the park , college dorms ,alleys and the library 📚 bathroom and my 🛌 and tub 🛀 miss me with that goof troop fem shit before I put a hot shell in one of y’all ass better listen to Nelly on country grammar I move just like that and talk to niggas like that
There is nothing in the BC but ratchetness and ghetto we cannot save people who do not want to save themselves , date other races of women ! You have more options than DSBM !
become homo
I live in ATL, and the over whelming majority of the gay men here are dark brown to dark skin. Light skin men from back in the days were tough because they had to constantly fight to prove themselves. I don't know a single light skin man who's not mixed that's soft.
I’m mixed and I drove around trying to kill niggas with my shotguns when I was younger I use to put mfs on they back I did go soft tho because sometimes when I was finished they would be 🩸 lol
My family is Afro latin some have killed cops
this is a fact
🗣
The reason why more of them are gay are brown and dark it’s because it’s more brown dark ppl in the black k than light so it’s percentage thing
@tracer073 I think da point is dat ppl often claim dat dam near all brown/darkskin men are masculine, dominant etc. But it's a lot of dem dat are gay, dl and trans. Dey would see a lightskin dude dat may be a metrosexual and dey would generalize all lightskin men to be gay, sassy, suspect etc.
Numerous times black women didn't want to date me because I'm light skinned. What type of reverse racism is this? Its cool I keep it moving knowing I ain't missing much
😂
Because deep down dark skinned women only want dark men but alot of dark skinned men don't want dark women
😮 yes me too... Even the light ones want dark skinned men which I raise a red flag on because they DO NOT WANT dark skinned children.. nobody will say it but yes black women over generalize dark skinned men as "masculine" but truth is they don't really like them either.
Not if you too dark@@vaimende
@@Donniewearstomford trust me dark skinned. Women on average only love dsrk men
Aint nothing was soft about Malcom X, Huey P Newton, Frank Lucas and Nicky Barnes!!!
🙌🏽
Well frank and nicki barnes did something that gangsters are not supposed to do right?
Your point is spot on about huey and Malcolm though
@@manman3792 damn near everybody in the mafia snitched. that dont make em soft
Most of my pain came from black women yet I don’t discriminate. Being of a light complexion, we are often stereotyped as weak, soft, “zesty”, pretty, etc. When we come face to face with law enforcement, we’re all the same. When we’re asked about upon other ethnicities, we are the stereotypes vs who we truly are.
Who said y’all was pretty
I'm black and I like light skin men
@@GS-ff5dd miss you don’t have to say this! They are gaslighting black women. Why would you believe anything that comes out their mouth. Black men started name calling light skin men feminine just like they started calling dark skin women masculine. Do you hate other women so much that you believe the lies that come out of black men mouth with no research or second thought
I think we can hold are emotions in better, every time I’ve got in trouble with friends, they are usually loud and emotional with no tactical awareness, then theirs me, cool as ice
All too true my brotha
I feel like it’s light skin men and dark skin women that feel colorism dark skin men don’t even go through colorism I swear they don’t get bashed
Right it’s sad
Lies colorism is more complex than just dating options. It goes deeper when it comes to jobs/career etc.
As a lightskin dude. When dating black women I haven't had the smoothest experience when it comes to black on black dating. Almost like a hit or miss. Sometimes I feel as if I don't belong at all. Not to say all black women are like that but it hasn't been the best. I've dated out before and honestly wouldnt mind doing it again.. I still fine black women attractive and so other nationally and races of women but the whole black on love thing hasn't been the best just back and forth and etc . This is coming light bright like myself..
other races treat me better then my own black women do it’s embarrassing, i might just go outside for good , u should go where you are wanted
Absolutely!!
just date white and asian girls lmao.
@@canadiansareracist blks are the worst. They don’t want to see us shine!
True
I’ve always said that colorism is really a black women’s issue or problem. It doesn’t have anything to do with us men. It don’t matter too us. If you’re light skin, brown skin or dark skin. As long as we find you attractive. That’s all that we care about.I think a woman’s self esteem or insecurities are behind colorism.
Colorism doesn't exist, just like how racism doesn't exist.
It's all I people heads.
You're right for the most part... bt I must say about DS dudes in particular I've seen a lot go for a young lady of lighter shade... never quite understood that phenomenon. It could be mommy issues, or family... or maybe even school issues. I remember even in Sunday school both ds boys and girls be ROASTIN eachother alive. It was funny at the time, bt that's because I didn't get the pattern. Now I understand, and for that... I say we should uplift the ENTIRE shade of the Negro race. Cause that's what it boils down to at the end of the day is... sticking together
They are very selfish, so if they are choosing between men and women they choose themselves. If choosing between shades they will also only fight for self.
That’s not true about the colorism about the men part. I have met and have bros. That only fuck with, a certain shade when it comes to females.
@@Ariii443 so you telling me. If they met an attractive woman. An she was the shade they was looking for. They would pass on her. 🧢
I'm light skin I wish someone one would
I’m Afro Latino lightskin myself this may sound weird but i say we lightskins separate ourselves from darkskins just my opinion
I’m way ahead of you. I hate blk people now. Done with them.
So light skinned
@@ramonemachismo3386let's ride on em
In 2014 I drove around with shotguns trying to kill them that’s not the answer
Truly succsss is the best revenge I know these people burnt my cars and broke into my homes on some hating 💩 most just hate to see us doing good In life lol
@@ldub4226 and they say dark skins are dangerous
Yall are being very emotional.
This was a real good convo, definitely necessary.
This is the best panel I've seen on this pod.
If blue checks are worthless because you can buy them, what can be said of a woman’s value who gets a bbl instead of working out and dieting?
Starting to think women hate on the things they really want, but can't get.
Why you think so?
@@DailyRapUpCrew Because they have all these things they liked before then all of a sudden "It's giving zesty" or something. I remember when they were all in on light skin dudes. But I guess things go in waves.
@@jinxie712 all this shit cyclical
They don't like a man who has more options, a man they can't control, a man that speak up and don't follow her or agree with everything she say due he want some from her... Smh someone told them men are dogs and should kiss the ground she walk on no matter what cus she a angel.
@@joeyzaza1512 aren't the "real" depictions of angels many eyed/winged monstrosities?
Love these real conversations. Like it’s very educating and touches on so many important aspects of life and relationships
LS man here we could careless most BW are not on our lists as dateable. We prefer our own women.
Exactly why csnt dark skinned people stick with their own.and we stick together ase closed no drama
Never happening my friend , they = the BC are even repulsive to themselves so they try to get us in the same crab barrel sewage mess they have themselves in . Unfortunately most our MLS women are groomed by their elder mammies to go after the most ratchet darkest they can find just like the ones that burned their mammies @@vaimende
Bingooooooo!!!!!!!
@@kmcc2355unless we make them pay for it
I always enjoy the show, but this one was special. Very intimate honest and transparent A lot of realizations and understanding came for both genders this time. Great conversation and topics. keep it up!!!
Great convo!🔥✅💯
Please have more guests like this!!
I LOVE Light Skin Men, and I'm a dark skin girl, always have.
okok 🔥🔥that’s what i like to hear salute 🫡
@@canadiansareracistas a lightskin man, i don't care anymore fck em
@@redmilitant1559sassy
@@sdneytaco2226how is that sassy
@@sdneytaco2226i got yo ip address... bitch
Colorism or hating darker skins for the greater majority is not an American thing, it’s a South American thing, Caribbean island thing, it’s a Europe thing, it’s an Asia thing. It’s a thing attached to the descendants of Africans, some of which are descendants of the Hebraic culture, so dark/light skinned bias is inherited
So it will never end?
@@meme-fs1jnstereotypes too strong now
Right
The fact she actually used that bleaching cream is wildddddd. She got some deeper self esteem issues fr
Just started watching garuntee it be the light skin woman got the most hate for the light skin men
It’s predictable.
And yet all the hate us throw at dark skinned girls.
YOU ALREADY KNOW!
want to know why you guys can predict it? because they've been programmed to hate their own color by their very own black community. no one speaks on this though.
More videos like this should be consistent. We need to have more conversations about how to heal and support black love. Watching so many shows where we're consistently bashing each other is not cool or ok. Be yhe solution and not the problem
I find it extremely funny how you can be discriminated over the shade of your colour diabolical😂
Read the Willie Lynch letter, it's all in there.
@@DeeDaKaang1you right, that's what I've been telling everybody, Willie Lynch said it, in order to control the slaves have them fight each others, the tallest one vs the shorter one , the light skinned vs the darker one etc, and he also said this """"will last through generations and generations """
Bastardized version of white supremacy created by the white supremacists to keep black people at each other's throats.
GREAT SHOW FAMILY
1:15:31 I had to go to therapy to determine the good and bad from my childhood. Our toxic household scared me into not committing to anyone. 30 and still haven’t had a relationship past 6 months… now I’m ready, I just haven’t been found by my husband yet 🤷🏾♀️
Good shit, good convo
I need to get up on this cause I can clarify half the stuff that gets spoken about just for the fact that it doesn’t really get understood it’s somewhat in the air for a few topics and ppl should want to fully comprehend
What women say on camera never really matches up with how they move in real life. Be that nigga and it don't matter what color you are, how much money you got or anything. They can all be got
Learning more everyday from the people!
So by thier logic about light skin men are bytches...the opposite would be true about dark skin women would be to manly 😅😢...i personally dont feel tht way im light skin and love dark mocha sistas but tht logic is crazy...truth is if your dark green and thick they dont care 😅
If I were you I’d date different races and let them kill their self they doing a good job lol
I’m lightskin I’ve dated biracial mixed Spanish and white women it’s time for us to leave the black community they not doing anything but hating
I want to see everyone calling us bitches while they locked up in chains and shackles in hell like their ancestors
W video......W convo
Dang racism is seated deep in my ppl smh 🤦🏾♂️
Colorism, not racism
😪........We as a people have bought into the Whyt 👨🦳 Supremacist notion that someone who calls us all niqq@s and coons somehow likes one shade of people more than another.
@@thadonjuan2339 You’re right. There is a difference💯
@@RicardoCray Facts
@@thadonjuan2339 without either one, no one can claim to be a victim.
Wow, i actually recognize the woman in the suit. She's been in mad skits on TH-cam with Big Jahh
ooh really?
All shades of black are deeply beautiful without a doubt but that don’t make every girl beautiful js 💯💯💯
I bet you them bills dont care what shade of color you are
If your a lightskin dude who can’t get girls it’s not cause of your skin I promise you😅 self improvement bro
But half of it is the reason why tho
@@iamwitit4351 nah. I never met a handsome (no homo) lightskin dude who can’t get girls. If anything it’s an advantage
@@iamwitit4351 Stop dating American black women.....Voila! Problem solved
we in 2023 not 2016 our time been over since quarantine
It could just be you are not dusty enough. If you are thugmaxxing or betabuxxing you could make up for being a light skin man
Eli Samuels in rare form 😂
1:16:10 the biggest problem in the majority of relationships is people have standards for another person that they can’t even meet or don’t even know how to match the energy of.
Great one
I love when dialogue happens with your guest and it isn't from a place of delusion. These women could honestly receive you POV's and understand it, you might not agree 100% but they were definitely open minded. Even women like this though, admit there is a problem holding women accountable...no one can convince me otherwise...accountability is kryptonite to most modern women
As a light skin guy like myself, the main criticism black women have against light skin men can literally apply to dark skin men as well lol. Feminine? DL? Soft? Etc? All that can apply to dark skin men…
It more applies to light skin though
Cap @@manman3792
There were literally like 7 gay dark skinned guys at my last job and this is in a small city.
Practice what you PREACHHH!!!
They so smart loved it
It’s interesting to hear this young ladies talk about their experiences with their fathers. But when light skinned shawty said, “men are like two people” because the way her father acted varied to how he acted towards her and her mother separately. The same case can be made about women. So it’s a human thing. But shame insults guilt need to be right
This is why we are becoming more and more violent towards each other. There’s always some barrier we put between each other instead of a rope to hand each other. We ain’t never getting right in America. It’s over.
Completely over
I find it funny how lightskin shorty don’t wanna admit it’s colorism… she know exactly what’s being said and understand but doesn’t wanna acknowledge it as colorism because she guilty of it… girls just wanna say it’s colorism towards dark skin but it’s not the truth lol 😂
lmaooo ik she tried to say it’s discrimination if i don’t choose someone based on their dark skin but it’s preference if you don’t choose someone that’s light skinned 😂😂😂u cannot make this up , light skinned women are the biggest colorists! it goes unchecked when they do it
@@canadiansareracistfacts it’s even encouraged when they do it. They get a pat on the back and hand claps
You get the real me from the first meeting. Ppl that say, ppl are fake in the beginning are being fake too. Lol
I’m a colorist. Only light skin chicks or Hispanics for me ✊🏽
U wild 😂
Exactly me too!!!
43:51 That Why Eli girl for sure!!!! 😂😂😂😂 I still remember that dumb ass interview! “Why Eli!?!??” 😂😂😂
i like this pannel
It’s was a great panel
Please release the Dr Umar episode to the public, some of us unfortunately due to circumstances like me personally suffered a stroke and I'm completely dependent on my parents so releasing the episode would do me and people like me a huge favor.
As black people get older skin tone becomes less of a factor. You just want someone who's nice and will treat you right. Teenagers and people in their twenties care about skin tone. Also i think the darker skin tone preference only applies to normal bm who arent rich or famous. I bet money if Drake, Nelly, or Chris Brown hit their dms, they wouldn't turn them down because their light skin
54:49 believe it or not most people who say "tall dark and handsome" are NOT referring to skin color. Maybe in subsections of black communities, but majority of the world specifically use it figuratively. Its in regards to their persona (not personality), the way they come off when first seen. Many non-black women across the world have said that line but never meant skin color (they would say someone like Matt Damon or James Bond is tall dark and handsome). At best, they'd refer to a man in a dark suit, looking mysterious or any other "mystifying" qualities of a man. Across races, I rarely heard them refer to skin tone with that phrase when entirely serious.
It’s crazy to think that a man is a b!+[# because he’s lighter. It’s about where you’re from & who raised you. I from Philly & I grew up with plenty of light skinned fighters & a few light skinned murderers.
All I want to know is how can you have a preference of light-skin men being soft feminine and all that how is that a preference that is literally that colorism at its finest
I always thought the dark in “Tall, Dark and Handsome” translated to mysterious. That’s the first time I heard dark haired.
It was but black people always wanna make everything about them.
46:54 EXCUSES!!! Hold these women accountable. I get called all types of names daily. And idc, as long as they can’t find me, ima say what I gotta say! 😂😂😂
Thanks!
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
We our own worst enemy..social media making worse.🤦🏾♂️
46:19 I agree strongly on the message being said, essentially at the end of the day it's called. I'm telling you what you need to hear. I'm not going to tell you what you want to hear. Anyone can tell you what you want to hear even though it's to your own detriment.
22:52 " You gotta be up here for us to be a woman" So w t f are they when they are single?
Lesbians
@@morefreedomplease all they wanna do is twerk, be bisexual, eat hot chip, and lie.
Glasses Eli goin crazy
😂😂😂
Damn Ace being eaten too much!!!!😂😂😂😂
I recognize the girl on the left from Big Jah skits
Its moreso a difference in overall experience and/or treatment
Her pops watching this like "dang..i aint got no backbone?"CRAZY..Downing yo pops on a big platform....GET THE ROCKS!
Ladies, you need to blame mom for picking dad. Most of the time the men they chose to give a baby to has multiple baby moms.
25:56 a man on his purpose doesn’t mind correction. As long as you’re not belittling them, they appreciate when their woman is trying to keep them on their path. If a man is jealous and can’t take direction, he’s not a man worth placing your time into.
They Keep saying MEN IN GENERAL WHEN THEY KNOW DAMN WELL THEY TALKING RAY RAY AND POOKIE
Everyone considers themselves to be Alpha today it’s getting played out
Facts
Stg
The Lady in Brown. You can not say you date men that are not on your level. Then complain about the man. That's like knowing a spot has bad food and service. And you still go. Then complain about the bad food and service.
I been watching them for so long n I still don’t kno what Eli be saying at the beginning hah no booga? No booka? Lol
3:26 like this guy just filling in for Ace right?
As a lightskin nigga, i don't give a fuck about yo feelings
I went to school with jew boy, Rico, Pablo , Wiesel they light skin and definitely not b***s
Willie lynch smiling from his grave smh
Unfortunately
And yet y’all help keep his memory alive🤷♀️
Need to read or listen to the book male vs man by Dondre Whitfield
I’m golden brown and proud of it.
My shade changes depending on the season but i see the b.s. now that I live in a dominant black city... People are ignorant asf...
I’m so sick and tired of hearing black ppl blame they messed up train of thought on some dmn brainwashing or tryna blame a celebrity…YOU THINK FOR YOURSELF! How tf you gon let a mf celebrity brainwash you stop coming up with excuses and just take accountability da sh not dat hard🤦🏾♂️
only in our community can we come up with such an excuse 😂it’s amazing
Facts bruddah 😂💯
I watch a lot steet documentaries on youtube. Aint nothing soft about Larry Hoover, Big Meech, Karlton Hines, Domencio Benson, Rudy Williams, Nikko Jenkins
I love both dark skin and light skin men, even Latino men but unfortunately there not a lot of light skin , Latinos and mixed men around me to choose from where I’m from and don’t approve me so all I have approaching me is dark skin men.