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You guys need to stop just letting these females talk for the sake of talking. If you ask them a direct question, hold them to task to answer the direct question not go off tangent talking about some isolated situation. The section about what privilege men have was an utter waste as they talk about everything but.
Same blueprint for me and my wife.... I'll never forget how her friends came over for our housewarming and was asking why I was being served my plate or her letting me relax while she's attending the guest..... Sexiest thing my wife did was smile at them and said: make sure you thank my husband for the food, drinks and comfort you enjoyed and experienced today! In front of everyone.
What the chick in the middle said at the beginning of the interview about how she bases the dude she picks on looks alone is the same thing I've always told my homegirl - Women, especially Black Women, want an accessory rather than a relationship. Envy over a happy relationship. And that's real
Tbh, you can find BW that pick and choose who needs looks, and who doesn't need looks. A man that's considered to be handsome isn't always who they go for every single time. Handsome guys may be some of the most rejected guys in town because they were supposedly missing something else that the other guy BW are now bitter about had. # Game # Swag # Street cred # Time served in prison # Appeared to have money # Car # Other women/options
@@rgw1380rwtrue you can find them but most of them aren’t in urbanized cities…. When you consider the fact most Black people in the country live in cities or go to school there and usually take on the systems and culture of city life then the pool for finding and choosing becomes quite small…
@HORIZON Gamining Wherever you find them, they are only interested in the minority group of guys there. Women absolutely pick and choose who needs what, my friend.
@@rgw1380rw I absolutely agree with you, I suppose I was a bit vague I was refering to men looking for women they can build long term, it is my opinion that cities are the worse place to find them based on odds however I will not pretend they don’t exist either. Ultimately women make the overwhelming majority (I think it’s 70-80%) of market choice decisions so I don’t disagree with you mate.
SELFISH!!??? Did she even consider retirement..?? Do you think this man wanna be working all his entire life!? Maybe he was saving up to retire so they both can live comfortably without him having to work!! There's still a reason he said no!! He's not tryna add another bill to the expenses!! Be open minded. Woman can be so SHORT sighted while a good man will always see beyond!! He's not selfish at all especially when she have the privilege to NOT work. That's insane to say!!
Bro it ain't a privilege any more smh. So many divorce courts where woman are saying they sacrificed there career to raise kids. But if you asked why she didn't start back working when the kids were school aged ....you get silence
alot of single moms put alot of pressure on themselves and act like they dont need men and it backfires. then they play the victim nobody tried to be there for her...
Some even let themselves go to the point most men aren't even looking their way. You hear them talking like they shut down the goodie store, but it's obviously not their reality. Their options are extremely limited based on their attitude, physical build/failed looks, plus they can be loud and masculine. Ultimately, they truly want everyone to believe that they still hold some value in the dating market 😂!
Its mainly men who dont want to commit...hence the single mom epidemic and women adapting to having to be strong single women. Men need to accept responsibility for this. Too many men go online acting like men are angels and its the women who dont want to commit.
@@tpoppy9303 F that. Ever thought perhaps the women are not worthy of commitment… The women in our community large seek unsuitable men to bare children and then complain about the outcome. If he ain’t your husband, why are u producing a baby.
Why do people feel that you should always be pushing for more? Is there something wrong with being happy with the life you've built? With being satisfied with your existence? Not saying your shouldn't be ambitious, but why is ambition assigned such a positive view and satisfaction is viewed negatively?
The way women disrespect the men who build their homes, fix their cars, make their food etc is crazy. It's one thing to say I am only chasing guys in the 1%", but to mock and devalue hardworking men who actually make America run is ridiculous. And then they criticize us for going where are hardworking good man is appreciated.
I've literally saw a BW belittling BM that have careers that will easily get them six figures per year because they were sharply dressed. Somehow, they were too old to be keeping themselves sharp, or they were somehow a doodus for whatever reason. One particular time I witnessed this hatred for upstanding BM was a well spoken Colonel in the armed forces that was on a popular game show with his successful family. His wife was a pretty attractive/fit woman who also had rank in the armed forces, plus his sons were both college educated men. The head of a nuclear Black family was a "doofus" to the usual BW that was criticizing him and his family. This same BW didn't have the same energy for BW that are who they always have the laundry list of complaints about ! I guess he wasn't nigga-ish enough to not be spoken about in a negative manner 🤔 ? Although he was very tall, well paid, has plenty status, and was physically fit, there was no appreciation for this man that is doing exactly what many BW claim BM don't do.
The lil girl in the white is childish and knows she was lying 90% of the time. She was arguing just to argue. She is the type you can’t tell no even once. She’s definitely dying alone.
I really enjoyed this conversation. There were so many great points made and the exchange of different perspectives was handled very tastefully. I wished the conversation lasted longer, maybe these ladies can come during a live stream.
They were all intelligent, educated black women. We're out here and it was rerefreshing to have our side seen and heard from. Women wearing clothes that cover them not jumping around the stage and thank you Jesus!! Not one clapped😂😂😂😂😂
These women are crazy these days.. The women on the far right thinks her Grandfather had selfish ways when he paid ALL the bills, protected her etc… A good man is not enough for these women and that’s why they’re alone!
I dont mind planning dates. But what i do hate os when i have a date planned and the woman doesn’t want to be at that place. Now she has a attitude because we didn’t go to a place of her desire. Smh these women just be talking to be talking
I totally agree with this comment because she is looking at it from an immature aspect and how dare she say he was selfish when he provided for the damn family. And usually logic is not taking into account because if he's a grandfather he most likely was at that point on a fixed income So a car is not a piece of something that you just get and don't brace for depending on your situation. A woman that age should never speak poorly about her generations before that just shows the level of maturity she has. I hope any man that she dates sees what she just said as a warning. If she could speak about all men and especially her grandfather she is not worth the time it takes to even send her a text message
Dude this comment here. I can't tell you how many times I her women call their moms Married Single moms 🤦🏿♂️. Military kids saying they're mom raised them by herslef, but neglect to say how their dads sacrifice since deployed alot was the reason they could live a comfortable life.
This title was click bait at its finest. I actually liked the cast you brought out. Definitely a top 5. I don’t expect any woman to fully agree and understand the male side if things but they were very mature in how they conversed and how they made their points. It wasn’t the overused cliches that women use nowadays. Great show.
I'm engaged to an amazing man and I'm the breadwinner. He is the head of our household and it works for us.. it is possible.. I used to think that I didn't need a man.. I was single for 7 years and I can say that he has improved my life soo much!
She said she wanted a husband before a kid (which is respectable) but from listening to her I don't know that she actually wants to be a wife. Wanting the title of marriage and relishing the role of being a wife; 2 totally different things. It's fitting she had the army fatigue pants on bc she definitely running to the disagreements...😂😂😂
There is a major exaggeration as to how bad women have been done. I recall being young and women been playing games with dudes or dating older men. What is a good woman? A woman gets to state her worth when she should be asking him what he likes, wants, or feels.
Men are more than likely not responding to her because of her attitude and personality. I know a lot of women grew up tough but feminine energy pulls men in more, while masculine energy repels most men. Just listen to how she talks, her mannerisms and gestures. On top of that we have to see the type of dudes she not only attracts, but is attracted to.
There was a black man that went to jail for over paying his child support and spending too much time with his son, there's no excuses for this kind of stuff
36:21 "If a man pays for my lifestyle he's controlling" 48:07 "Men need to plan and pay for dates and a woman who can't appreciate that is a fool" This woman's a clown.
You are a clown two things can exist. A man that pays for a lifestyle and be controlling. Then again women as he should be provided for. So men not all weponize it
Shut up I had an oversized trench coat on cost more than your whole entire existence carry on peasant . That a high value man paid for something YOUR NOT
The old lady on the right is selfish, self-centered, and should not become the burden of any man. She needs to stay single, and should prolly get fixed so she can’t accidentally become a terrible mother.
Yeah man i can sense she’s the type of gal that’s only capable of framing what makes a man better by how much benefit we as men give her. i’ll never give into a self serving women that has this mental.. it’ll never be enough for 1 & for 2 it reeks of entitlement.
Per About 48:00 ; What the lady on the Right doesn’t understand is that a man never truly knows if a woman is HIS. We live in a society where you look and feel real dumb if you putting in that effort for a woman that’s entertaining other men. Very simple.
Around 28 mins a lot of women stop mentally maturing the moment they start getting excessive attention, which could be anywhere after 13. I've dated 30 year olds that acted like 14 year olds in private settings
This the one right here!! I'm 43 and I've been saying this since my mid 20's. I can pay everything but I control all the finances because I'm paying all the bills. If you want a specific lifestyle then we both get the bag
A woman who lives with her family is a green flag. Any man who enters her life is being vetted by family. He also is being held accountable for their daughters safety. This sets a good precedent for marriage. In addition it shows strong family values. If anything I’d prefer a woman living this way.
She capping back in the days dudes use to come home and give their wives the money to manage it. So basically every financial decision was ran through her.
Ayanna did most of the talking, but it was either delusional or selfish. If she thinks a man's success is because of the woman, that man is a Pookie. Women don't build, they move in. And she apparently had a good grandfather. Ayanna doesn't understand the responsibilities of a man taking care of a family.
What I've realized is that the talking points women tend to use primarily reside in the context of anecdotes, what ifs, and hypotheticals. The only points they ever argue are "well you do it too" and "I don't do that I'm the exception"
I really enjoy when y’all have calm conversations. I don’t know if it’s age but when y’all have ladies that are Uber loud and cutting the others off to make their points it just makes me not wanna watch the whole video(I still do) I know y’all can’t control that but I just love mature calm conversations. Like we grown enough to stay calm while disagreeing. P.S I realized as a woman I don’t understand women smh and it gets worse every year.
Paying all the bills from day one and chasing her is what a simp would do. It's her job to earn that from the man that she wants. You don't just give that to everyone you date. That guy in the video is wild'n
I like these group of WOMEN, they conversation skills is impeccable. Nobody yelling over nobody, they make sense when they speak... S/o 👏🏾 to those ladies
Mmmmm imma have to disagree with yall about can you be single and happy. 29 male here, been single for almost 7 years. I've tried dating, even getting into relationships, and I always feel like it isn't worth it honestly. Maybe it's because I'm a super introvert, but there are things about being in a long form relationship that just doesn't work for me. 1. Like with what Ju said, you have to talk with your spouse about purchases and big decisions, but I don't want to have to do that. If I want to do something, I want to be able to just do it. I should be able to do what I want, when I want, without consulting another adult on it. 2. Honestly, I tell people in my life I need like 4 days to myself where no one bothers me, whether it be my girlfriend, my friends, hell even my family. I've realized I just prefer my time with myself. Most of the time, if I spend a couple hours with people, I start getting annoyed and irritated, like I need to be by myself. I have YET to find a women okay with this. I have a very VERY low social battery. Don't get me wrong, it can get lonely at times, or if I want to fuck or have sex, but every time I try and scratch that itch, I end up regretting it after a couple weeks lol.
I told my wife we both have to be capable of giving 100%. So if something happens to either of us the burden can be handled effortlessly. That means one month i may be 90%....another 45% and etc. But the end goal was for us to be so fluid with our financial situation that neither one of us was stressed out. The idea was .... apart we paid 100% each... so coming together why should one person be overburdened. First thing we did was look at our separate bills and saw which should be paid off, closed, or combined.
I'm a 50yr old single women. I was also a single parent of two children for years. I'm currently in love with me better now than I have ever been. So at this moment I'm capable of being in a loving relationship with a man the right way. Never would I selfishly get in a relationship with a man & burden him with all the financial expenses as if I never ever took care of my own expenses myself. I just wanna say I truly enjoyed all of this conversation. I look forward to listening more and if so participating.
The one in the middle don’t need to be calling no one ugly and the one to our left shouldn’t be laughing either. The one on the far right is saving the crew😂
Most successful men do not become successful because of a woman. They become successful because their hard work and ambition. Like Eli said maybe women are elevating the Pookies but men who are determined to be great will be great regardless of who their woman is.
There is nothing wrong with 50/50 dating and marriages, it helps keep both individuals safe should a divorce or separation occur (50% of marriages fail)... Too many men are left face down in the dirt because they use all their money to pay for everything while the woman mostly got to do what she wanted with hers (secretly save) then disappear like she owes nothing ... But women will say they want EQUAL treatment... Great episode keep up the good work... 💯
@@aquarius-woman5364 🙂good question... For the same reason women exaggerate they are independent yet still want a man to pay for everything....lol Because those wives are possibly demanding more than what the husband is providing instead of being content, so the husband is like well I'm doing my best and happy but if you want more money in the house how about you find a job and share the bills with me, if we are supposed to be a team since women have been striving for financial Independence / stability for themselves.... This could get very deep and long if we're going to have this conversation so I'll stop there for now...🙂
A lot of women don’t like being picked up anymore for security reasons (understandably). My only thing about planning a date is, if I do all of this are you going to show up or flake and waste my time? Are you going to enjoy it or complain that it’s not your favorite 5 star restaurant or $500+ date?
You Can Be Married & Still Be The Only One Doing Everything Just Because It’s A Two Parent Household Doesn’t Mean Y’all Are Doing It Equally Or Taking Turns, Being A Single Mom/Dad Doesn’t Mean You Can’t Be A Gentle Parent Either
I feel like most women don't understand how unreasonable they sound until told, the most she should expect is good company on the first 1 or 2 dates, especially if he's paying, where does this expectancy come from, who's to say if he wants a 2nd date?
For the third topic: Financial support, emotional support, friendship, partnership, companionship, connection, intimacy...all of the things i would want to contribute to my relationship.
Yeah, I'm definitely one of the guys saying I don't need a female to cook and clean for me. I'm also the one advocating for an as 50/50 as possible relationship including finances, house maintenence and if/when ever I have any, child care. I was raised to both learn how to work together with people and accept their help and opinions as well as how to do for myself but most importantly, how to learn to do for myself if I encounter a new situation. That's why despite hearing so often that 50/50 relationships don't work, I have no problem advocating for them because the issues that seem to worry a female in regards to being with a man who wants that (it just being all talk and no walk and being unwilling to step up in child care, etc) are non existent with me and I don't just say the words, I act it out by actually doing all those things and even liking some of them. I like cooking most times and even when I don't, I still do because I hate seeming irresponsible and incapable. If a males job is to be a leader, how can you lead if you don't at least have some idea and some capability of doing all that needs to be done. Even if you chose not to do everything, I think a man should AT LEAST know how to do everything. Only thing I can't do is birth a child (which even technology is working it's way towards in vitro being a more affordable thing, though that still requires a female egg and sperm aka more than just me. Of course that's also not as fun so... lol) however I'm more than willing to take on full responsibility of everything during the time my woman is on bed rest both before and after pregnancy because she's being responsible for her part so I've gotta do mine and really these "parts" are all for the whole so I don't see the issue.
This is the problem ratchet thinking!!! So, arguing exceptions like strippers that don’t sell sex aka dance through a glass window don’t do any lap dances etc etc. what percentage of “dancers” do this? Not necessarily means yes sometimes but don’t judge me
Saying bring your friends is a low down move. Thats disingenuous and immature to use one person to get a chance to see if one of her friends is more compatible. You’re also playing with with their friendships.
Ultimately their mothers told them to be “strong and independent” when they themselves didn’t want to be, did it in a much easier socioeconomic arena, and knew men just wasn’t checking for them. I feel bad for the daughters who got sold a fantasy they truly didn’t want or deserve..
The fantasy is a woman waiting for some man to love, cherish and take care of her. Most men dont have the mentality of traditional men so women HAVE to be independent. Look at the huge amount of single moms out here. The men clearly are not reliable for security.
Judge Lynn Toler was (probably still is) the bread winner in her marriage. Then again she's not an average woman. She's older and has a different mindset when it comes to being committed to another.
Its weird. You will say you hold the wrong men down. Then she ask " What do you mean by holding down" As if she doesn't know or getting to the bag. All phrases they use but them act like they don't know what it is when you hold them accountable.
Asking where you wanna go eat and asking what you like are two different things. All you have to do is ask questions find out what she likes and plan from there.
In my opinion that should only be done when the woman show interest…also most people be in carnal relationship and don’t try to actively key word actively( so not just the person tell you thing without you asking direct and pertinent questions to get to know them ) trying to get to know their partners and most of the time it’s the man doing because they’re supposed to court the women .
CHEAT CODE: Never ask a woman what they like. Tell her what you like and they'll definitely tell you how they feel about it. So if you two are truly compatible you won't have to try to impress her. She'll already be impressed and you both can move forward with the best intentions. At least that's been my experience. 💯
@@kairayrocket7442 definitely don't do shit for her if she ain't showing that she feeling you. It's true men search for women's interests more because we are doing the courting women show more interests the more she feel you.
Mrs Y was on point.. You can tell she has invested time to do research, logically looked at both sides and is able to make better decisions based in reality. Whoever she ends up with is a lucky man.
It is not a red flag Most family live in the same house for years some get married and move out then. “Still Living with yo momma” is the stupid thing fr
When me and my husband worked, he paid the big bills like house, cars, car ins. All the ins, health, life and all that. I paid the utilities. He was a truck driver so naturally he paid the bulk.
And @45:37 she told us her age (Which she didn’t want to do earlier) and didn’t even know it smh. She said she used to not even know where she was going on a date and was excited about the surprise. That’s b/c your value was in your youth you messed that up! Now you’re older and Jaded with all these feminist thoughts so those guys back in the day don’t approach you anymore due to them seeing you as a headache..
His budget is not separate from yours. Money is a tool and we do not live together as individuals together together means just that together. Cars come with more than just paying a note if that is even the case. Who will have to maintain that car once it’s purchased. Better yet who will be expected to maintain that car correctly?
This dude is advocating Simphood...... Why do women want equality right up until the mortgage is due.....What women don't understand is the less you bring to the table the more expendable you become......Why be with you when he can have a housekeeper for half the price????
So she's saying if you're not rich enough you can die alone Men always getting rejected for years, I'm not happy single but I do have more peace and no arguments and stress and no betrayal, Because they don't trust you
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You guys need to stop just letting these females talk for the sake of talking. If you ask them a direct question, hold them to task to answer the direct question not go off tangent talking about some isolated situation. The section about what privilege men have was an utter waste as they talk about everything but.
I need to get on here with you guys I have these debates daily without a camera
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My wife and I split the bills 70-30. I knock out the big ones, rent, cars, etc. Meanwhile she handles utilities, internet, etc.
Let them tell it, you're a bum....
Great balance..
I’m glad you guys can come to that decision together
Same blueprint for me and my wife.... I'll never forget how her friends came over for our housewarming and was asking why I was being served my plate or her letting me relax while she's attending the guest..... Sexiest thing my wife did was smile at them and said: make sure you thank my husband for the food, drinks and comfort you enjoyed and experienced today! In front of everyone.
Team work makes the Dream Work!
What the chick in the middle said at the beginning of the interview about how she bases the dude she picks on looks alone is the same thing I've always told my homegirl - Women, especially Black Women, want an accessory rather than a relationship. Envy over a happy relationship. And that's real
Tbh, you can find BW that pick and choose who needs looks, and who doesn't need looks. A man that's considered to be handsome isn't always who they go for every single time. Handsome guys may be some of the most rejected guys in town because they were supposedly missing something else that the other guy BW are now bitter about had.
# Game
# Swag
# Street cred
# Time served in prison
# Appeared to have money
# Car
# Other women/options
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@@rgw1380rwtrue you can find them but most of them aren’t in urbanized cities…. When you consider the fact most Black people in the country live in cities or go to school there and usually take on the systems and culture of city life then the pool for finding and choosing becomes quite small…
@HORIZON Gamining
Wherever you find them, they are only interested in the minority group of guys there. Women absolutely pick and choose who needs what, my friend.
@@rgw1380rw I absolutely agree with you, I suppose I was a bit vague I was refering to men looking for women they can build long term, it is my opinion that cities are the worse place to find them based on odds however I will not pretend they don’t exist either. Ultimately women make the overwhelming majority (I think it’s 70-80%) of market choice decisions so I don’t disagree with you mate.
SELFISH!!???
Did she even consider retirement..?? Do you think this man wanna be working all his entire life!? Maybe he was saving up to retire so they both can live comfortably without him having to work!! There's still a reason he said no!! He's not tryna add another bill to the expenses!! Be open minded. Woman can be so SHORT sighted while a good man will always see beyond!! He's not selfish at all especially when she have the privilege to NOT work. That's insane to say!!
Nonhelpmeets
Bro it ain't a privilege any more smh. So many divorce courts where woman are saying they sacrificed there career to raise kids. But if you asked why she didn't start back working when the kids were school aged ....you get silence
alot of single moms put alot of pressure on themselves and act like they dont need men and it backfires. then they play the victim nobody tried to be there for her...
It’s call ego
Some even let themselves go to the point most men aren't even looking their way. You hear them talking like they shut down the goodie store, but it's obviously not their reality. Their options are extremely limited based on their attitude, physical build/failed looks, plus they can be loud and masculine. Ultimately, they truly want everyone to believe that they still hold some value in the dating market 😂!
Its mainly men who dont want to commit...hence the single mom epidemic and women adapting to having to be strong single women. Men need to accept responsibility for this. Too many men go online acting like men are angels and its the women who dont want to commit.
@@tpoppy9303 F that. Ever thought perhaps the women are not worthy of commitment… The women in our community large seek unsuitable men to bare children and then complain about the outcome. If he ain’t your husband, why are u producing a baby.
@@tpoppy9303 Who's more at fault for a woman becoming a single mother? Her or the man she let smash raw without a condom.
Why do people feel that you should always be pushing for more?
Is there something wrong with being happy with the life you've built? With being satisfied with your existence?
Not saying your shouldn't be ambitious, but why is ambition assigned such a positive view and satisfaction is viewed negatively?
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Deeply conditioned consumerism mindset
I call it greed
Greed and capitalism mindset, also materialism.
That’s called being CONTENT! The Bible says we should be content but the world says we should never settle
Teachers defiantly should get paid more, they are apart of the upbringing of your kids. I have a few teachers I still keep in contact with.
The way women disrespect the men who build their homes, fix their cars, make their food etc is crazy. It's one thing to say I am only chasing guys in the 1%", but to mock and devalue hardworking men who actually make America run is ridiculous. And then they criticize us for going where are hardworking good man is appreciated.
I've literally saw a BW belittling BM that have careers that will easily get them six figures per year because they were sharply dressed.
Somehow, they were too old to be keeping themselves sharp, or they were somehow a doodus for whatever reason.
One particular time I witnessed this hatred for upstanding BM was a well spoken Colonel in the armed forces that was on a popular game show with his successful family.
His wife was a pretty attractive/fit woman who also had rank in the armed forces, plus his sons were both college educated men.
The head of a nuclear Black family was a "doofus" to the usual BW that was criticizing him and his family. This same BW didn't have the same energy for BW that are who they always have the laundry list of complaints about ! I guess he wasn't nigga-ish enough to not be spoken about in a negative manner 🤔 ?
Although he was very tall, well paid, has plenty status, and was physically fit, there was no appreciation for this man that is doing exactly what many BW claim BM don't do.
Modern womanism doesn't respect men
It's leading only if she can benefit. If she doesn't she feels like it can benefit her then she will call it controlling.
Nonhelpmeets aren't for long term
Facts, if she said her man handles all the finances, they would've called that controlling
The lil girl in the white is childish and knows she was lying 90% of the time. She was arguing just to argue. She is the type you can’t tell no even once. She’s definitely dying alone.
I really enjoyed this conversation. There were so many great points made and the exchange of different perspectives was handled very tastefully. I wished the conversation lasted longer, maybe these ladies can come during a live stream.
What!😆😂 you must be trolling 🤣 😂 🙄
They had the same perspective dam near every female has 😭😭😭
what you talking bout Willis
@@305grant8 I was more so referencing the perspectives from the Daily Rap Up Crew and how they dismantled the female(s) arguments.
They were all intelligent, educated black women. We're out here and it was rerefreshing to have our side seen and heard from. Women wearing clothes that cover them not jumping around the stage and thank you Jesus!! Not one clapped😂😂😂😂😂
These women are crazy these days.. The women on the far right thinks her Grandfather had selfish ways when he paid ALL the bills, protected her etc… A good man is not enough for these women and that’s why they’re alone!
Big facts !!!
I dont mind planning dates. But what i do hate os when i have a date planned and the woman doesn’t want to be at that place. Now she has a attitude because we didn’t go to a place of her desire. Smh these women just be talking to be talking
41:00 her grandma aint tell her this. this is how she interpreted the situation from the outside looking in as a child.
I totally agree with this comment because she is looking at it from an immature aspect and how dare she say he was selfish when he provided for the damn family. And usually logic is not taking into account because if he's a grandfather he most likely was at that point on a fixed income So a car is not a piece of something that you just get and don't brace for depending on your situation. A woman that age should never speak poorly about her generations before that just shows the level of maturity she has. I hope any man that she dates sees what she just said as a warning. If she could speak about all men and especially her grandfather she is not worth the time it takes to even send her a text message
Dude this comment here. I can't tell you how many times I her women call their moms Married Single moms 🤦🏿♂️. Military kids saying they're mom raised them by herslef, but neglect to say how their dads sacrifice since deployed alot was the reason they could live a comfortable life.
This title was click bait at its finest. I actually liked the cast you brought out. Definitely a top 5. I don’t expect any woman to fully agree and understand the male side if things but they were very mature in how they conversed and how they made their points. It wasn’t the overused cliches that women use nowadays. Great show.
I'm engaged to an amazing man and I'm the breadwinner. He is the head of our household and it works for us.. it is possible.. I used to think that I didn't need a man.. I was single for 7 years and I can say that he has improved my life soo much!
Shout out to you and glad to hear sistas saying they need a man, because men we definitely need you guys.
That’s cool and all but will you still be loyal if he loses his livelihood? Would you still support him through richer and poorer
@@HorizonMediaGaming don’t congratulate her just yet.
@@HorizonMediaGaming stop saying that fam.
Assets Vs Liabilities. A woman that brings ZERO value, is a liability.
This lady with the white shirt is Definitely a feminist.
indeed.. like don’t we have enough womxn out here that don’t respect men. Or hate men..
She said she wanted a husband before a kid (which is respectable) but from listening to her I don't know that she actually wants to be a wife. Wanting the title of marriage and relishing the role of being a wife; 2 totally different things. It's fitting she had the army fatigue pants on bc she definitely running to the disagreements...😂😂😂
There is a major exaggeration as to how bad women have been done. I recall being young and women been playing games with dudes or dating older men. What is a good woman? A woman gets to state her worth when she should be asking him what he likes, wants, or feels.
If a woman is living at home with a parents that is not a red flag at all.
That’s a green flag or at worst neutral.
@@yummdiddy exactly
So if it's a man it's a red flag .but if it's a woman it's not.?hot is it not for a woman?
@@dallasmayke624 depends on the age, honestly
@@MrJkusmc23 lol wow
she called her grandfather selfish even tho her grandmother didn’t have to work n he took care of the family smh women will never be satisfied
Good video fellas. Great points. I see y’all are getting better at verbal gymnastics. Holding women accountable for is never an easy task.
Men are more than likely not responding to her because of her attitude and personality. I know a lot of women grew up tough but feminine energy pulls men in more, while masculine energy repels most men. Just listen to how she talks, her mannerisms and gestures. On top of that we have to see the type of dudes she not only attracts, but is attracted to.
Guys going broke paying all their bills and not His lol ... Money smart is not being broke, its thinking longevity.
There was a black man that went to jail for over paying his child support and spending too much time with his son, there's no excuses for this kind of stuff
36:21 "If a man pays for my lifestyle he's controlling"
48:07 "Men need to plan and pay for dates and a woman who can't appreciate that is a fool" This woman's a clown.
You are a clown two things can exist. A man that pays for a lifestyle and be controlling. Then again women as he should be provided for. So men not all weponize it
“When he talk to a baddy…he need to stay in his place”…from homegirl in the middle 😒 Wild for putting her in the middle too. 😂
Ikr foolishness! 😂
@@mcfly4706 She really think she's one of them. I wish I could see the end when they had to get up from the couch.
I said the same thing. She’s bigger than Ju!
Shut up I had an oversized trench coat on cost more than your whole entire existence carry on peasant . That a high value man paid for something YOUR NOT
@@alinalaossa5299 Stop it. Everything in your wardrobe is oversized. Humble yourself.
Loving the convo right now fellas
Appreciate that and appreciate you for being a member
From the 80s it was always 70 30 but men respect was 100
The old lady on the right is selfish, self-centered, and should not become the burden of any man. She needs to stay single, and should prolly get fixed so she can’t accidentally become a terrible mother.
Yeah man i can sense she’s the type of gal that’s only capable of framing what makes a man better by how much benefit we as men give her. i’ll never give into a self serving women that has this mental.. it’ll never be enough for 1 & for 2 it reeks of entitlement.
Ms. "Your Opinion Doesn't Pay My Bills" is telling on herself.
Per About 48:00 ; What the lady on the Right doesn’t understand is that a man never truly knows if a woman is HIS. We live in a society where you look and feel real dumb if you putting in that effort for a woman that’s entertaining other men. Very simple.
Around 28 mins a lot of women stop mentally maturing the moment they start getting excessive attention, which could be anywhere after 13. I've dated 30 year olds that acted like 14 year olds in private settings
Western society doesnt criticize women so the environment just enables which brings entitlement
Shit I was fucking with a 40 year acted like 21 year old
This the one right here!! I'm 43 and I've been saying this since my mid 20's. I can pay everything but I control all the finances because I'm paying all the bills. If you want a specific lifestyle then we both get the bag
A woman who lives with her family is a green flag. Any man who enters her life is being vetted by family. He also is being held accountable for their daughters safety. This sets a good precedent for marriage. In addition it shows strong family values. If anything I’d prefer a woman living this way.
Ol girl said women have "morals" but at the same time they can be bought or had for a particular price?...make it make sense
She capping back in the days dudes use to come home and give their wives the money to manage it. So basically every financial decision was ran through her.
Ayanna did most of the talking, but it was either delusional or selfish. If she thinks a man's success is because of the woman, that man is a Pookie. Women don't build, they move in. And she apparently had a good grandfather. Ayanna doesn't understand the responsibilities of a man taking care of a family.
Her ass is delusional foreal
What I've realized is that the talking points women tend to use primarily reside in the context of anecdotes, what ifs, and hypotheticals. The only points they ever argue are "well you do it too" and "I don't do that I'm the exception"
I really enjoy when y’all have calm conversations. I don’t know if it’s age but when y’all have ladies that are Uber loud and cutting the others off to make their points it just makes me not wanna watch the whole video(I still do)
I know y’all can’t control that but I just love mature calm conversations. Like we grown enough to stay calm while disagreeing.
P.S I realized as a woman I don’t understand women smh and it gets worse every year.
Paying all the bills from day one and chasing her is what a simp would do. It's her job to earn that from the man that she wants. You don't just give that to everyone you date. That guy in the video is wild'n
I like these group of WOMEN, they conversation skills is impeccable. Nobody yelling over nobody, they make sense when they speak... S/o 👏🏾 to those ladies
You guys should BAND white shirt. She is the mouthpiece but she is speaking about her self and not women in general. She GOTTA go
Mmmmm imma have to disagree with yall about can you be single and happy. 29 male here, been single for almost 7 years. I've tried dating, even getting into relationships, and I always feel like it isn't worth it honestly. Maybe it's because I'm a super introvert, but there are things about being in a long form relationship that just doesn't work for me.
1. Like with what Ju said, you have to talk with your spouse about purchases and big decisions, but I don't want to have to do that. If I want to do something, I want to be able to just do it. I should be able to do what I want, when I want, without consulting another adult on it.
2. Honestly, I tell people in my life I need like 4 days to myself where no one bothers me, whether it be my girlfriend, my friends, hell even my family. I've realized I just prefer my time with myself. Most of the time, if I spend a couple hours with people, I start getting annoyed and irritated, like I need to be by myself. I have YET to find a women okay with this. I have a very VERY low social battery.
Don't get me wrong, it can get lonely at times, or if I want to fuck or have sex, but every time I try and scratch that itch, I end up regretting it after a couple weeks lol.
I told my wife we both have to be capable of giving 100%. So if something happens to either of us the burden can be handled effortlessly. That means one month i may be 90%....another 45% and etc. But the end goal was for us to be so fluid with our financial situation that neither one of us was stressed out.
The idea was .... apart we paid 100% each... so coming together why should one person be overburdened.
First thing we did was look at our separate bills and saw which should be paid off, closed, or combined.
I'm a 50yr old single women. I was also a single parent of two children for years. I'm currently in love with me better now than I have ever been. So at this moment I'm capable of being in a loving relationship with a man the right way. Never would I selfishly get in a relationship with a man & burden him with all the financial expenses as if I never ever took care of my own expenses myself. I just wanna say I truly enjoyed all of this conversation. I look forward to listening more and if so participating.
The one in the middle don’t need to be calling no one ugly and the one to our left shouldn’t be laughing either. The one on the far right is saving the crew😂
Most successful men do not become successful because of a woman. They become successful because their hard work and ambition. Like Eli said maybe women are elevating the Pookies but men who are determined to be great will be great regardless of who their woman is.
Been tapped in with y’all for a few months! This was one of my favorites for sure ✊🏾🙏🏾
47:13 I actually do that but it’s exactly the reason y’all said I don’t wanna come off as controlling especially when you barely know someone
Good conversation I especially like the young lady on the far right she sounds like she can articulate herself without being rude and disrespectful
Definitely well mannered guest but her points were invalid and when proving so she didn’t accept it
Women don't like making decisions. Straight up
There is nothing wrong with 50/50 dating and marriages, it helps keep both individuals safe should a divorce or separation occur (50% of marriages fail)... Too many men are left face down in the dirt because they use all their money to pay for everything while the woman mostly got to do what she wanted with hers (secretly save) then disappear like she owes nothing ... But women will say they want EQUAL treatment...
Great episode keep up the good work... 💯
@@aquarius-woman5364 🙂good question... For the same reason women exaggerate they are independent yet still want a man to pay for everything....lol
Because those wives are possibly demanding more than what the husband is providing instead of being content, so the husband is like well I'm doing my best and happy but if you want more money in the house how about you find a job and share the bills with me, if we are supposed to be a team since women have been striving for financial Independence / stability for themselves....
This could get very deep and long if we're going to have this conversation so I'll stop there for now...🙂
She wants to make her own money, but doesn't want to spend it
@@NoCapJustFaxts absolutely and more men are starting to wake up and realize that is a bad deal...
25:47 fellas, y’all heard her? That woman isn’t a wife! Leave that kind alone!!!
A lot of women don’t like being picked up anymore for security reasons (understandably). My only thing about planning a date is, if I do all of this are you going to show up or flake and waste my time? Are you going to enjoy it or complain that it’s not your favorite 5 star restaurant or $500+ date?
You Can Be Married & Still Be The Only One Doing Everything Just Because It’s A Two Parent Household Doesn’t Mean Y’all Are Doing It Equally Or Taking Turns, Being A Single Mom/Dad Doesn’t Mean You Can’t Be A Gentle Parent Either
I feel like most women don't understand how unreasonable they sound until told, the most she should expect is good company on the first 1 or 2 dates, especially if he's paying, where does this expectancy come from, who's to say if he wants a 2nd date?
Being in a halfway house does not mean you’re a pookie or ray ray.
This episode is a perfect example of women speaking on the exception 2 the rule
Great conversation impeccable diversion tactics
The one on the right side is a total vibe..and she look just like Lavenda Monroe. Besides that I really appreciate the majority of her viewpoints.
8:40 it’s funny how every woman thinks she’s a baddie 😂
Fellas 2023 50/50 only
Chase your dreams
I'm the bread winner in my marriage but my husband manages so well, people won't know unless one of us say it.
For the third topic: Financial support, emotional support, friendship, partnership, companionship, connection, intimacy...all of the things i would want to contribute to my relationship.
Yeah, I'm definitely one of the guys saying I don't need a female to cook and clean for me. I'm also the one advocating for an as 50/50 as possible relationship including finances, house maintenence and if/when ever I have any, child care. I was raised to both learn how to work together with people and accept their help and opinions as well as how to do for myself but most importantly, how to learn to do for myself if I encounter a new situation. That's why despite hearing so often that 50/50 relationships don't work, I have no problem advocating for them because the issues that seem to worry a female in regards to being with a man who wants that (it just being all talk and no walk and being unwilling to step up in child care, etc) are non existent with me and I don't just say the words, I act it out by actually doing all those things and even liking some of them. I like cooking most times and even when I don't, I still do because I hate seeming irresponsible and incapable. If a males job is to be a leader, how can you lead if you don't at least have some idea and some capability of doing all that needs to be done. Even if you chose not to do everything, I think a man should AT LEAST know how to do everything. Only thing I can't do is birth a child (which even technology is working it's way towards in vitro being a more affordable thing, though that still requires a female egg and sperm aka more than just me. Of course that's also not as fun so... lol) however I'm more than willing to take on full responsibility of everything during the time my woman is on bed rest both before and after pregnancy because she's being responsible for her part so I've gotta do mine and really these "parts" are all for the whole so I don't see the issue.
Balanced perspective made for great conversation the stylist should definitely be back.
I subscribed a while ago but this is my first show I watched it was worth subbing
You may hear other women saying that’s a problem but you won’t hear men having an issue with that.
The lady to the right doesn't want to listen the facts! She's not comprehending anything these men are saying!
This is the problem ratchet thinking!!! So, arguing exceptions like strippers that don’t sell sex aka dance through a glass window don’t do any lap dances etc etc. what percentage of “dancers” do this? Not necessarily means yes sometimes but don’t judge me
It's still selling vagina. A bank teller and Walmart cashier both handle money, it's just the business decides what you do with the money.
But exotic dancing IS sex work.
Me as a thinker, I go for the least finer or the more protected one, always work out to be good for me
The fact that women still think they get paid less than men is crazy 🤦🏽♂️😂😂😂😂😂
Legit video with great conversation. Bring them back especially woman on the end
Saying bring your friends is a low down move. Thats disingenuous and immature to use one person to get a chance to see if one of her friends is more compatible. You’re also playing with with their friendships.
Ultimately their mothers told them to be “strong and independent” when they themselves didn’t want to be, did it in a much easier socioeconomic arena, and knew men just wasn’t checking for them. I feel bad for the daughters who got sold a fantasy they truly didn’t want or deserve..
The fantasy is a woman waiting for some man to love, cherish and take care of her. Most men dont have the mentality of traditional men so women HAVE to be independent. Look at the huge amount of single moms out here. The men clearly are not reliable for security.
Judge Lynn Toler was (probably still is) the bread winner in her marriage. Then again she's not an average woman. She's older and has a different mindset when it comes to being committed to another.
Its weird. You will say you hold the wrong men down. Then she ask " What do you mean by holding down" As if she doesn't know or getting to the bag. All phrases they use but them act like they don't know what it is when you hold them accountable.
Asking where you wanna go eat and asking what you like are two different things. All you have to do is ask questions find out what she likes and plan from there.
In my opinion that should only be done when the woman show interest…also most people be in carnal relationship and don’t try to actively key word actively( so not just the person tell you thing without you asking direct and pertinent questions to get to know them ) trying to get to know their partners and most of the time it’s the man doing because they’re supposed to court the women .
CHEAT CODE: Never ask a woman what they like. Tell her what you like and they'll definitely tell you how they feel about it. So if you two are truly compatible you won't have to try to impress her. She'll already be impressed and you both can move forward with the best intentions.
At least that's been my experience. 💯
@@kairayrocket7442 definitely don't do shit for her if she ain't showing that she feeling you. It's true men search for women's interests more because we are doing the courting women show more interests the more she feel you.
@@justmezkut10up agreed but with the way these women talk you'll know anyway if you care to listen lol
He should be able to tell you no if what you want doesn’t fit the mission at hand. Whether it’s your own money or not. That is the point of leading.
Great conversation!! That intro music is not cutting it at all!! Let me know I got you! 👍🏾👍🏾
Let me also say that the misconception is courting is a one way street women have to court men when being courted as well.
Mrs Y was on point.. You can tell she has invested time to do research, logically looked at both sides and is able to make better decisions based in reality. Whoever she ends up with is a lucky man.
O girl want to argue just to argue
Any excuse to not be accountable.
It is not a red flag
Most family live in the same house for years some get married and move out then.
“Still Living with yo momma” is the stupid thing fr
When me and my husband worked, he paid the big bills like house, cars, car ins. All the ins, health, life and all that. I paid the utilities. He was a truck driver so naturally he paid the bulk.
Really enjoyed this episode the privilege is off the charts haha stay strong fellas
The privilege is that men don't have to risk their lives in childbirth....🤔
That chick said when y’all break up, she’s goin with ya friend. Stay away from her. It’s a cold world
And @45:37 she told us her age (Which she didn’t want to do earlier) and didn’t even know it smh. She said she used to not even know where she was going on a date and was excited about the surprise. That’s b/c your value was in your youth you messed that up! Now you’re older and Jaded with all these feminist thoughts so those guys back in the day don’t approach you anymore due to them seeing you as a headache..
The bag = Ballin.. More then basics
Word of a lifetime for these women is "vibe"
She didn't answer the question...............lol
Which question? There were multiple questions asked
@@What5Poppin5lime the last one about about why women don't want to spend money on their men? Lol I believe homie asked her twice
His budget is not separate from yours. Money is a tool and we do not live together as individuals together together means just that together. Cars come with more than just paying a note if that is even the case. Who will have to maintain that car once it’s purchased. Better yet who will be expected to maintain that car correctly?
Women get lesser prison sentences for the same crimes committed by a man.
That was the craziest video I ever seen in my life , men should take over a woman's bills from day one. 🧢😂😭🤣
This dude is advocating Simphood...... Why do women want equality right up until the mortgage is due.....What women don't understand is the less you bring to the table the more expendable you become......Why be with you when he can have a housekeeper for half the price????
Look who raised those men she talking about. Women made men like that,the bare minimum needed.
So she's saying if you're not rich enough you can die alone
Men always getting rejected for years, I'm not happy single but I do have more peace and no arguments and stress and no betrayal, Because they don't trust you
The woman on the right just like to hear herself talk