The Harsh Truth About Single Mothers & Why You Should Never Date One | Dailyrapupcrew Podcast Ep 123

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  • @DailyRapUpCrew
    @DailyRapUpCrew  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

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    • @Future_Hendrix
      @Future_Hendrix 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      When are y'all going to do some live streams?

    • @ronnellhillman7260
      @ronnellhillman7260 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      La definitely need to be a regular on ya show she hold women accountable foreal

    • @j.a.y_lovely5544
      @j.a.y_lovely5544 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I would have loved to be on this episode . I have different perspectives. But I loved this. Great job guys ☺️

    • @help618
      @help618 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I would like 2 talk 2 Ayeol fr.!

    • @DailyRapUpCrew
      @DailyRapUpCrew  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@j.a.y_lovely5544 Glad you liked it!

  • @757Automatic
    @757Automatic 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +230

    I saw someone say having no kids and dating someone with kids is like finishing someone else’s my career and I couldn’t unsee it 🤣

    • @b.e.r.nnetwork8251
      @b.e.r.nnetwork8251 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Eww I'm so disappointed in my past mistakes lol

    • @AppliedPressure493
      @AppliedPressure493 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      What????? If your making a comment with a "punchline" at least proofread it so we know what you talking about.... your comment doesn't make sense

    • @757Automatic
      @757Automatic 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      @@AppliedPressure493 clearly nine other people and the first person that commented had no problem comprehending it. No need to proofread it. Only the gamers and people that are meant to get it will get it. ✌🏾

    • @757Automatic
      @757Automatic 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@b.e.r.nnetwork8251Lol at least you’ll never make the same ones again

    • @mlopezg17
      @mlopezg17 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      Dating/marrying someone with kids is like continuing someone else’s saved game. I got you fam.

  • @cmichole
    @cmichole 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    I fell in love with a man who has a son. Never again. I'm now blessed with a great man without baggage. Thank ya father!

    • @Laoriginal718
      @Laoriginal718 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      AMEN 🙏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @gailainsley6939
      @gailainsley6939 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Single women without children have no business dating men with kids.

    • @nikkinonames5265
      @nikkinonames5265 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      AMEN! Men with kids are DRAMA!!!

  • @user-qd2zt3hf9r
    @user-qd2zt3hf9r 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    I'm a senior man and I'm so happy to see these young folks holding an intelligent conversation!!!

  • @LeesayHarris
    @LeesayHarris 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    I love that Elz brought up a man being submitted to God because no one ever talks about that!!! It’s not about going to church or saying you’re a Christian, it’s about being in relationship with God and after a righteous heart!!

    • @Laoriginal718
      @Laoriginal718 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Facts. No disrespect to Kevin Samuels because he is deceased but for a man who claimed to be a Christian I NEVER heard him encourage men to submit to God and honor their vows. He did the opposite and told them that it’s ok for them to commit adultery and that women should tolerate it. That’s why I don’t idolize anyone. The only person I idolize is Jesus Christ.

    • @LeesayHarris
      @LeesayHarris 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yessss!!! or they say things like Solomon and David had multiple wives so God is okay with men having multiple wives. Like just cause the Bible describes what there sinful nature enjoyed doesn't mean God was okay with their sin. God hated sin then and he hates it now but the only reason He saw them as righteous was bc they had faith in His promises and were in relationship with Him. @@Laoriginal718

    • @MarcMarvels
      @MarcMarvels 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@Laoriginal718in the Bible men have the right to have more than one sexual partner (polygyny and concubinage) and it wasn’t considered adultery or sin. The definition of adultery you’re using is a modern, feministic/egalitarian version of the term, but back in the day adultery for men was defined as a man having sexual relations with another man’s wife/woman, and adultery for women was defined as women having sex with anyone other than her husband.
      So stating you want a man who submits to God is of course a good thing, but understand what that means. A man who submits to God will always love you by caring for you, providing and protecting you, and never abandoning you and y’all’s children (this is how a man shows faithfulness to his woman) but women nowadays want equality in everything and expect men to love them the same exact ways they are expected to love their husbands. Women hate gender roles and the expectations that come with them. They want men to choose to be horny and miserable even when their wife lose the desire to have sex after having kids and they prioritize the children over their husband, and also expect men to overcompensate by working a 9-5 (in some cases 2 jobs), and also help out with babysitting the kids after an exhausting day or week of work. Women these days have no community, no sisterhood, or strong family that can teach them how to be efficient mothers or to help them nurture the kids, so they shame men to step into a motherly role to help out and complain when a man doesn’t naturally do it. They fail to realize that their husband is already helping by providing child support financially (which is extremely devastatingly important aspect to parenting) and disciplining the children when they step out of line, and playing with them/bonding with them when they have the time/energy. But women want men to be God and have the strength to help them even with their roles. Well, if women want godly men, we want godly women. Put away your feminism, and let that man have another wife and she can help you nurture the kids and help you get things done around the home so that you’re not so overwhelmed and you can actually get time to yourself and rest and maybe get your sex drive back, etc. Sarah did it. Rachel and Leah did it. A lot of women did it and they were called godly women, seriously.

    • @barryduncanjr.6006
      @barryduncanjr.6006 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@MarcMarvelsExactly 💯 👏🏾

    • @shespeaks702
      @shespeaks702 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amen 💯

  • @brittanyb5942
    @brittanyb5942 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    I think if you don’t have kids, don’t hate someone with kids! I have 1 and I would prefer to only date someone with 1 child preferably around the same age. Kids do change the dynamics of all relationships married or single!

  • @renarenee581
    @renarenee581 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +94

    The lady in the white shirt need to have her own podcast 💯

    • @tiktokatnight7364
      @tiktokatnight7364 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Or maybe add her to the cast every now and then

    • @cashouttv5245
      @cashouttv5245 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Right but she single 🤣🤣🤣🤣 don’t listen to her at all 🤣🤣🤣

    • @DailyRapUpCrew
      @DailyRapUpCrew  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Glad you liked it!

    • @lobecosc
      @lobecosc 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@cashouttv5245 Didn't she say didn't want kids either?

    • @cashouttv5245
      @cashouttv5245 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@lobecosc so stop talking like you have them then 🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @decaturgalien3713
    @decaturgalien3713 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    Elz (white shirt) was cookin! Natural healthy looking hair and skin. Her mindset is also on point. Too bad she's rare in these times😢

    • @MrPragmatic
      @MrPragmatic 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thats LaOriginal formally she been cookin

  • @babiijean11
    @babiijean11 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Please put these women on when the "other ones" are on. This group has a lot of common sense!! Great conversation!

  • @kw4900
    @kw4900 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    WHAT AN AMAZING EPISODE! The conversation flowed smoothly and the ladies were very intelligent! One of my favorites by far🙏🏾💪🏾

    • @DailyRapUpCrew
      @DailyRapUpCrew  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Glad you liked it!

  • @sarasweetness475
    @sarasweetness475 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    I'm married. My daughter fathers is in a relationship with someone, and we all spend time together doing events etc we co parent all together. It's down to if your healthy and willing to do what's best for your kid. My husband loves my daughter and my daughter loves him. ❤️ My daughter loves her biological fathers girlfriend and of course her biological father so yesIt's totally possible but its hard to find you gotta know who you dealing with and if they are co parenting healthy.

    • @maxpowers111
      @maxpowers111 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      How is your child an asset to your new man?

    • @sarasweetness475
      @sarasweetness475 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@maxpowers111 please never have children if you see them as assets like a house or a car. My daughter isn't a asset. She's a person.

    • @maxpowers111
      @maxpowers111 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@sarasweetness475 The fact that you cannot answer a simple question speaks volumes; a decent man is unwise to deal with baggage like you!
      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @randymartin4881
      @randymartin4881 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@maxpowers111 liability

    • @shespeaks702
      @shespeaks702 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      💯 it's not easy. All parties involved must be mature and willing to compromise for the sake of the children. Your daughter will be emotionally and mentally stable as she grows into adulthood. I've seen children in this environment grow up and become the most stable and grounded parents for their own children. 💜💜💜

  • @tetemcclain
    @tetemcclain 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    The thing that grinds my gears that a mother can be single in relationship and the father can be still active in the child's life. Relationship status and parenthood are two separate concepts. Also single father exist and deserve to be a topic of conversation if not just for the challenges at least to give them some credit. Every relationship dynamic that has a single mother must also contain a single father. A child is not created on their own. Not negating anything that they are saying but there is a lot in these dynamics that are overlooked and unaddressed

  • @kinnyfranks
    @kinnyfranks 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    She was completely right about being a step parent and it’s rare that women do it

    • @sg5720
      @sg5720 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      These are the women who should get a chance- but no, men still chase the “baddies” then complain. 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @barryduncanjr.6006
      @barryduncanjr.6006 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@sg5720They're unattractive... and don't make a man look good. Which is bad for business... which requires obtaining respect from other men.

    • @MomoAfterDark
      @MomoAfterDark 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@sg5720lol the only 2 options are “baddies” or single mothers ? 😂

  • @artmieseelizabeth8074
    @artmieseelizabeth8074 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I’d never date someone with children. I don’t have children and I’d rather have a mate who doesn’t either.

  • @truthseekingfreethinker5214
    @truthseekingfreethinker5214 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This was a great panel, and with some good comedic sections, which makes for a great listen.

  • @LaRONJEREMY23
    @LaRONJEREMY23 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    This podcast continues to evolve and cover important topic. You guys keep working 💪🏽

  • @julianabraham1071
    @julianabraham1071 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    Yes I’m glad they brought the woman back she bring wise truth to these modern women that men can’t 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @Laoriginal718
      @Laoriginal718 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m checkin these niggas too because a lot of y’all are just as delusional as the women yall complain about (not you per say but you get what I’m saying lol)

    • @DailyRapUpCrew
      @DailyRapUpCrew  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Glad you liked it!

    • @UncleThomasaurus
      @UncleThomasaurus 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She sounds like she has a father.

    • @julianabraham1071
      @julianabraham1071 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@UncleThomasaurus she mentioned she grew up with a single mother.

  • @jeweleneharris3608
    @jeweleneharris3608 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    These ladies were so awesome and well spoken! Great job Daily Wrap Up Crew for this episode. I love your podcast and you guys are a beautiful representation of high value men.

  • @devildocque7665
    @devildocque7665 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love her logic and mindset. SHE SEES IT FROM BOTH SIDES

  • @Cb36900
    @Cb36900 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Wow hearing “ women lack accountability from a woman within the first 4 mins of the show had me spit my drink out

  • @NewWorldOrder19
    @NewWorldOrder19 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    Girl in white shirt speaking facts

    • @DailyRapUpCrew
      @DailyRapUpCrew  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Glad you liked it!

    • @sg5720
      @sg5720 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      As a woman I agree with her 100%

    • @adim00lah
      @adim00lah 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Elz is savage yo, I lost it when she called the hypothetical baby mama a wack ass bih, lmfao!

  • @JasonSmith-og5uf
    @JasonSmith-og5uf 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks! Great show all. First tip ever and y’all earned that. Keep it coming!

    • @DailyRapUpCrew
      @DailyRapUpCrew  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Appreciate that 🙏🏾

  • @shaakirabdullaah4637
    @shaakirabdullaah4637 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    All BS aside these sisters are the most based sisters your podcast ever had! I'm literally amazed! They sre ssying everything great!

    • @DailyRapUpCrew
      @DailyRapUpCrew  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Glad you liked it!

    • @DailyRapUpCrew
      @DailyRapUpCrew  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@izealliaeldridge1901 Glad you liked it!

    • @sg5720
      @sg5720 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      And then they say ONE thing you don’t like, and then men throw the insults in the comments.🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @brandonholloman6835
      @brandonholloman6835 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@DailyRapUpCrew is the girl with the fro is she Spanish???

  • @AminehLivingTV
    @AminehLivingTV 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    The difference between women & Instagram baddies ! I loved this episode! ❤

  • @aboachie1
    @aboachie1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I really see the maturity in you guys.

    • @DailyRapUpCrew
      @DailyRapUpCrew  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We’re trying, glad you’re noticing!

  • @mugandaje
    @mugandaje 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This the best panel y’all had

  • @ACARR2016
    @ACARR2016 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My husband had six children from a previous marriage and I was 25 years old. When I got with him he was 35 and I was there to help support him to raise the children. We dealt with a little bit of drama but it was him as a person, and how he presented himself and the vision he had for our lives that made me Stay with him and we work through it so all relationships are different. Everyone that has a child is not to be warded off it’s just depends on what you want. It’s not necessarily even a standard because you can have a A-to-Z standard checklist get that relationship and it be dog shit because people are who they are and they just put on a show when they meet you to get you, and then they change so you just never know

  • @jamileegenevee
    @jamileegenevee 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I love Elz!!! Bring her back more please!!

    • @MrPragmatic
      @MrPragmatic 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thats LaOriginal formally she been cookin

  • @roolyfe
    @roolyfe 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    STOP 🛑 DATING BABY MOMMAS!

    • @Laoriginal718
      @Laoriginal718 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      And stop dating baby daddies. 🙌🏾

    • @enviedeveryday2835
      @enviedeveryday2835 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Laoriginal718y’all can be original just copy blk men talking points 😂I see why other blk women call women like u pick me you frontingvto these simps

    • @goffsgetawaygardenhomestea5997
      @goffsgetawaygardenhomestea5997 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      @@Laoriginal718😂😂😂y’all can’t even stop dating married men…

    • @TheYeaISaidItPodcast
      @TheYeaISaidItPodcast 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thing is there is a difference between a baby mama and the mother of someone's child. 2 totally different types of women, with 2 different mentalities....

    • @TrueRattlehead
      @TrueRattlehead 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@TheYeaISaidItPodcast I'm sorry maam that's just how it is. It doesn't make sense for men to do

  • @JahsonnM313
    @JahsonnM313 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Excellent work! Excellent guests! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @rootedessence
    @rootedessence 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It was refreshing hearing from a nice group of women speaking facts!

  • @kendraowens4268
    @kendraowens4268 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Somebody talking about having a husband when they really wanna be a husband. Energy

    • @creativetalks5984
      @creativetalks5984 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes she wouldn’t be any of the host cup on tea because she was very men like.

    • @scienceman9433
      @scienceman9433 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I was thinking the same thing.

  • @_Renee2
    @_Renee2 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Experience will shape you and life will humble you. Just live a little and you shall see.

  • @rahassiamendez6724
    @rahassiamendez6724 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The women they bring on this show are the fresh and fit version of them. No soul no compassion no softness. This that male energy they talk about yet want them. God bless America yo

  • @gegebuysflorida
    @gegebuysflorida 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Elz speaking nothing but facts!!! Respect you my girl !

  • @bemamarie
    @bemamarie 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Everyone's situation is different and it's what you want in your life and how you build your relationship with the other person

  • @deeric3
    @deeric3 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Elz's mindset is A1 💯

  • @nygwill88
    @nygwill88 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Elz is dope fr. Great answers.

  • @jesterarts734
    @jesterarts734 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Eli came with the BARZ!!! Lmao well done g.

  • @Christian900
    @Christian900 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Jue bars never rhymes 😂

  • @koolcal1
    @koolcal1 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I'm a father. Men have the same rights, when it comes to his child that lives outside of his home.. No man wants the judicial system or anyone stating what you have to pay and when you have to pay.. Fellas!! Look at it like taxes and move on, you have to take care of the child anyways, most times the mother is receiving less than what you were dispersing when ya were together..
    Oan: Go to family court and ask for joint custody if it's not working out for you.. make sure your end of living is solid (safe environment, employed, no domestic violence with your child (s) mother) put ya emotions and pride to the side and stop settling for the weekend especially when you're in the same city and state...

    • @tjackson6408
      @tjackson6408 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If it’s joint custody why do I have to pay 🤔

  • @eyere9549
    @eyere9549 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The intro tho 😂😂😂
    Ace funny as hell 😂

  • @xrossmiller3491
    @xrossmiller3491 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The car payment image was straight on point.

  • @asdfghj13579fly
    @asdfghj13579fly 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I find it interesting women don’t receive the same repercussions for backed child support as men. I never heard of a women getting her freedom taken over it.

    • @Laoriginal718
      @Laoriginal718 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Because the legal system is biased against men

  • @KiDaLoner
    @KiDaLoner 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I luv the one in the white shirt she keeps it 💯💯✨✨✨ bring her back!!

  • @davidcollins4868
    @davidcollins4868 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ju Cookin ace veneers was hilarious 😂

  • @SouthSide1st
    @SouthSide1st 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Eli with the pick. Lol. 🤣🤣

  • @bigmall25
    @bigmall25 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    31:38 this was the wildest statement I've heard all day😂😂😂

  • @svs2699
    @svs2699 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    The girl In the white is 35 with no kids...she sounds good but in my opinion a man would pick a more feminine woman...she sounds like a man and her expectations are unrealistic

  • @mecojohnson3509
    @mecojohnson3509 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This panel is so fucking refreshing! Keep at it!

  • @DanteviousLars
    @DanteviousLars 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    They had my guy Eli on his toes in this one Great episode

  • @NahshonMark
    @NahshonMark 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Even if she your wife tell her get a job.. is the realest thing she said the whole time

  • @kbis2cold
    @kbis2cold 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I rock with Elz but a man that dates a single mother ain't necessarily stupid or deserving of whatever happens. People grow up in all kinds of situations. Like for example, a man that is raised by a single mother in a female dominated family will be raised with a mindset that nothing is wrong with dating single mothers and even encouraged to do so. It will take time and a lot of growing up to break out of that brain washing.

    • @dcoldestjenkins5868
      @dcoldestjenkins5868 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Men will "date" single mothers, which means we'll Netflix and Chill with single mothers.

    • @DailyRapUpCrew
      @DailyRapUpCrew  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for sharing your perspective!

  • @know413J1S
    @know413J1S 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Lzzzz don’t miss b, good show fella’s..

  • @brainiacbold169
    @brainiacbold169 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This chick is a real one ☝🏾.. I don’t even have to say who I’m talking about

  • @randyjb2
    @randyjb2 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The one with the afro drive me crazy 😩🤪😍

  • @lobecosc
    @lobecosc 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Keep the girl on the right (Elz) on the show and make her a regular. She looks like a girl I used to date and she made some very good points. Very good job fellas. Keep up the good work and nice job to the lady as well.

  • @Sydcidy1205
    @Sydcidy1205 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just found this pod today! And I’m so happy I did from the trans convo to this I’m really enjoying hearing different perspectives of these important topics and with young black people at that ! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @CorneliusSmalleliterealtor
    @CorneliusSmalleliterealtor 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Eli “Don’t go too deep” pause 😂 j/k great show. I saw someone say the other day women can have a preference and it’s okay. But if we have a preference there’s something wrong with us. I think their issue is not our preference it’s us saying it out loud

  • @destinyjones5711
    @destinyjones5711 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I agree with her when she said a high value man is a man who submit to God. An individual who does not believe or have a relationship (giving thanks, showing gratitude, living divine) with God more than likely their life have chaos.

    • @samueldixie26
      @samueldixie26 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      right it was frustrating to me they kept talking as if she was saying every man in the church is HV, but she was justvsayingbthats where it starts.

    • @v.s.o.poodah
      @v.s.o.poodah 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Lol 😅 nah you can be a hv man ie respected by other hv men and men alike have a network of hv men around have some assets and money to go with that their is nothing religious about being hv

  • @louisdavis6432
    @louisdavis6432 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    A lot of people need to Grow Up....Maturity in relationships are so satisfying especially when you're growing together. All relationships start with Christ and then you grow/mature in Christ and together.

    • @Laoriginal718
      @Laoriginal718 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You should be mature in Christ regardless of your relationship status. But I understand what you’re saying. 🙏🏾

  • @floydphillipsco
    @floydphillipsco 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    WOW! The lady in the middle is wearing 0 makeup and her natural hair! I love it...

    • @iamgenesisnyc
      @iamgenesisnyc 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks! ❤

  • @BluEx22329
    @BluEx22329 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Shes spittin! 24:50

  • @antoniohooks8866
    @antoniohooks8866 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    1:05:05 She is dropping pure facts💯💯💯💯💯💯💯❤‍🔥

    • @DailyRapUpCrew
      @DailyRapUpCrew  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Glad you liked it!

  • @bemamarie
    @bemamarie 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Yes therapy is something a person needs to better themselves and in most communities the people think of therapy as an negative but its actually an positive

    • @DailyRapUpCrew
      @DailyRapUpCrew  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for sharing your perspective!

    • @KtotheG
      @KtotheG 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It depends on the therapist. Not all therapy is good therapy. There are a lot of hurt people who become therapists to push an agenda.

    • @Laoriginal718
      @Laoriginal718 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Church can also be a form of therapy it has helped me ALOT. Made me think about things a lot and acknowledge things that I’d never thought of before so that I could make the necessary changes for my own betterment.

  • @dy6277
    @dy6277 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    They asked what was the high value man and these girls started talking about their preferences. They clearly did not understand the question.

  • @dameonnettles4790
    @dameonnettles4790 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is how you lead wit facts & not feelings. Shout out to white t shirt

  • @diz354
    @diz354 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Eating Glizzies after the church service is crazy 😂😂😂 this was a great episode guys.

  • @mikecheckproductionz
    @mikecheckproductionz 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Is having kids out of wedlock the ULTIMATE "L" as well? Or only if you date one

    • @DailyRapUpCrew
      @DailyRapUpCrew  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🤔🤔🤔

    • @Laoriginal718
      @Laoriginal718 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      It’s the ultimate L. In my opinion.

    • @hzlkelly
      @hzlkelly 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Apparently it’s an L 😂. But I don’t regret my twins. I couldn’t accept their father’s proposal because he was abusive. But people think everyone’s story is the same. I’m happily married now to a good man. So to me it’s not L. You must do what’s best for you and yours.

    • @mikecheckproductionz
      @mikecheckproductionz 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @hzlkelly aht aht.... don't forget the 🤌🏿 "Ultimate" on that "L" 🤣🤣😂. Yea, everyone's story doesn't end the same. Some are fortunate to move past, past bad decisions and end up with happy endings. Most aren't so fortunate. Your kids father was abusive you say??🤔🤔 Well, you what's coming next right?????.... Question 1. How long were you 2 together before your twins?

    • @MrDarkjustice30
      @MrDarkjustice30 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@tajahmusic isnt it crazy thats a question when all of human history the answer has been universal?

  • @MaynardGalloway
    @MaynardGalloway 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love this young queen

  • @BluEx22329
    @BluEx22329 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    If you never think youre wrong why would you change your standards, ladies.

  • @xbreezy9843
    @xbreezy9843 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I say this too, its nothing wrong with a person having preferences yo, but dont think because a woman is bad or that guy is 6ft or makes good money that their gonna be great partners yo but if check all the boxes for you in the dating process then by all means go for it

    • @DailyRapUpCrew
      @DailyRapUpCrew  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for sharing your perspective!

  • @DarkSideOfTheBrightSide
    @DarkSideOfTheBrightSide 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Nothing wrong with having preferences, extreme or not, it’s your life.. do what makes you happy.
    But.. I think when you’re young, you tend to make things too complicated. What you’ll find out, it’s better to find somebody you can be yourself around- you can talk, laugh, and grow with.

    • @Laoriginal718
      @Laoriginal718 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Be yourself around someone who has no kids if you yourself have no kids as well.

    • @biggmixxo
      @biggmixxo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's all I know 😂

    • @DailyRapUpCrew
      @DailyRapUpCrew  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for sharing your perspective!

  • @AlphaDiakitebakelcitygang92i
    @AlphaDiakitebakelcitygang92i 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bro said Dr JUMAR 😹😹😹 y’all funny 😂

  • @jhariz7387
    @jhariz7387 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Finally, someone with sense..

  • @BluEx22329
    @BluEx22329 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    They think mens preferences are only in skin tone lol. They dont listen to us at. They pay attention to how they FEEL after we say things

    • @Laoriginal718
      @Laoriginal718 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Some men’s preferences ARE ONLY skin tone. Let’s not act like there aren’t men who ONLY date light skinned women. Cut it tf out. I had a nigga tell me that if I was any darker he wouldn’t be interested I cut that nigga off hibachi style. I may be light skinned/caramel or whatever you wanna call it but I don’t tolerate colorism. He could have kept that comment to himself. I’ve also been told I’m “not too dark”. I don’t tolerate shit like that. So yes there are plenty of men out here that are colorist. A preference is one thing but when you make demeaning or disparaging remarks you are a colorist. And women can be colorist too.

  • @diajaywelcome3957
    @diajaywelcome3957 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    U can’t say not to have child out of wedlock but have sex out of wedlock !

  • @HelloKittyPretti
    @HelloKittyPretti 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    As a single person I would not want to date a man with no kids for this same reason. If by some stroke of unfortunate luck, my husband and I don’t work out then if I decide to remarry it’ll be someone with kids. I 100% understand where they are coming from but not all single mothers are baby mamas. You’ll have those who were married, the marriage did not workout and they split either amicably or not amicably. To say that you are raising someone’s poor decision does not apply in a lot of circumstances. Sometimes people just outgrow each other as well. But ultimately it is that single persons choice and if she/he chooses to pursue that single parent then those kids are a packaged deal.

    • @Laoriginal718
      @Laoriginal718 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Don’t divorce.

  • @Tinadoll95
    @Tinadoll95 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love how she talks

  • @Siren_827
    @Siren_827 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I’m not dating nobody with kids. That’s Always the end of the conversation for me 🤷🏾‍♀️ go be with ya babymother.

  • @maskedman5657
    @maskedman5657 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Girl in the white always speaking facts. Need to be a panel member.

    • @jermaineburgess3767
      @jermaineburgess3767 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Listening to a 35 year old with no husband nah bro

    • @IkeGlenn928
      @IkeGlenn928 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      She has some chameleon in her. She’s older and doesn’t want kids, rough voice besides the NY accent and she said she was raised by a single mother. I doubt m😅st men would really want that.

    • @maskedman5657
      @maskedman5657 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@jermaineburgess3767 Wtf does that have to do with it? Does any of the panel members have a wife? Yet you still watching?

    • @enviedeveryday2835
      @enviedeveryday2835 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@IkeGlenn928just the simps praising her 😂

    • @TrueRattlehead
      @TrueRattlehead 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@IkeGlenn928 respectfully agree

  • @eyere9549
    @eyere9549 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Nice comeback tho Juu 😂

  • @patrickfortunat7867
    @patrickfortunat7867 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Y’all count how many times Shorty said like in the orange dress

  • @blackmancool9983
    @blackmancool9983 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    As soon as i saw they all had real hair i immediately knew they were going to be different.
    😂😂❤❤

    • @Laoriginal718
      @Laoriginal718 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂😂 God bless you.

  • @michealanderson1714
    @michealanderson1714 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I have full custody of mines my child mother doesn’t even come around

    • @hakimmccants1370
      @hakimmccants1370 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Stay strong brother I have a close friend thats in the same boat

    • @JasonSmith-og5uf
      @JasonSmith-og5uf 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I commend you bro. Trying to get there myself.

  • @jasonclay9946
    @jasonclay9946 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It’s easy to say what you won’t do until you’re not wanted. Learn to relax your choices because people are listening.

  • @robertedwards589
    @robertedwards589 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Shorty next to Eli is seriously hurt! Pure absolutes!

  • @user-tb4hn4rt1s
    @user-tb4hn4rt1s 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Sadly far too many women truly don't care about men's joy and happiness. As being a woman with limited "friendships" on purpose this has a great deal to do with my distance. Men have no idea the thoughts and ideology attached to many women regarding their lack of regard for men. Being a Sista who is absolutely my Brotha's keeper it is crazy to see and hear the sneakily and sometime calculated attacks on men from women. Being someone who is a bit older than all of the host and the panel, I have been here long enough to remember when we actually liked y'all (OUR men) and had y'all backs even when they didn't deserve it. My generation and I often talk how our hearts going out to you alls generation. There are so many things we were able to enjoy connected to simply BEING. You all have to ask for permission to simply be! The war between OUR men and women is sad to see. Being a happily married woman and mother and seeing the amazing in each of you. Do know we are keeping you all lifted up. Thank y'all for creating a space for these needed and necessary discussions among your peers.

  • @fly_with_a_gemini5477
    @fly_with_a_gemini5477 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I am a dark skinned sista to the point some African men think I am African …. It saddens me that most men isn’t attracted to me because of my skin tone. Lights vs darks is a thing and that’s very disappointing

    • @hueyriley
      @hueyriley 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Baby it's OK I love your chocolate azz. Lmao. I like women so dark, if they wear black shoes, they look barefoot

    • @brittanyb5942
      @brittanyb5942 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You are beautiful! Don’t let anyone makes you feel less than! ❤️

    • @fly_with_a_gemini5477
      @fly_with_a_gemini5477 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@brittanyb5942 thank you !🥰

    • @Laoriginal718
      @Laoriginal718 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Facts. My mom is dark skinned and my father is light skinned. My father likes dark skinned women as do his brothers lol but colorism is definitely real and my mothered shared her experiences growing up and dealing with it in school….but luckily my mother had hands…..so hoes knew to tread lightly.

    • @Laoriginal718
      @Laoriginal718 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@fly_with_a_gemini5477melanin is like money…..you can never have too much melanin and you can never be too rich. Don’t let what other ppl think of you get you down. You are beautifully and wonderfully made.

  • @shespeaks702
    @shespeaks702 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    A relationship that you can build together in all aspects of life...agreeing to disagree, communication, compromise and setting goals together...it won't be all sugar and honey..but as long as communication and commitment is

    • @shespeaks702
      @shespeaks702 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There....and don't get distracted from the outside

  • @brandonbetalking9758
    @brandonbetalking9758 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The girl in the orange doesn’t know any other word besides like 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @rakimisrael7641
    @rakimisrael7641 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    1:05:05 she’s straight pure knowledge❤❤❤

  • @civildiscourse7626
    @civildiscourse7626 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I think it’s important to differentiate between a baby momma and an ex wife with children.

    • @lobecosc
      @lobecosc 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I'm quick to do that. My cousin is a widow and not a baby mama. I tell her all the time every time she says that it had being a single mother that a man married you, had a kid with you and stayed married with you until he passed. You're not a baby mama. You're where the baby mama's want to be.

    • @civildiscourse7626
      @civildiscourse7626 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@lobecosc exactly, I think baby mommas carry the connotations of someone casually knocked up by a sexual partner. Being married and starting a family as a wife is different

    • @gjbeckfilms
      @gjbeckfilms 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Most men care how the children came into the world, meaning were you married or not. Most women only want to know if the mother is around or not.

    • @Laoriginal718
      @Laoriginal718 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You are correct however on the dating market it Doesn’t matter they are both women with children that are no longer with the fathers. They carry the same baggage. The only exception is a widow.

    • @civildiscourse7626
      @civildiscourse7626 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Laoriginal718 true but one is still traditional

  • @TheboogiemanCan
    @TheboogiemanCan 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Most dudes don't even have custody of their children." If they do, women don't have to deal with the same pressure that fall on a man that deals with a woman that has kids." It's still stressful either way though."

  • @JasonSmith-og5uf
    @JasonSmith-og5uf 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Much respect to Elz, she a little shortsighted on some things with respect to fathers not being in their child’s life. Don’t ignore how these mothers try to keep fathers at bay to keep the children in their custodianship due to bitterness because the father has moved on or because she doesn’t want to be alone.

  • @brentlandstephenson9389
    @brentlandstephenson9389 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    She hard 💆🏾‍♂️ bring her back make her a member of the squad 😂she already have the shirt on 😂

    • @Laoriginal718
      @Laoriginal718 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂

  • @daquantwp
    @daquantwp 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    The lady in the white who normally makes great points is red pill. I normally agree with a lot of her talking points, but she's passionately talking about something that she's wrong about. Christians, Muslims, and the Jewish community all believe in the same God. We all just disagree with the order after God. The fellas love talking about masculine women, but she's the perfect example of one and they never call her out.

    • @Laoriginal718
      @Laoriginal718 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m not red pill. I just have common sense. Secondly I know EXACTLY what I am talking about. The Bible says that the ONLY way to the father is through the son. (John 14:6-7 Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me. If ye had known me, ye should have known my Father also: and from henceforth ye know him, and have seen him.) You CANNOT say you believe in God and not believe in Jesus. Muslims do not believe Jesus is the son of God and God in the flesh and neither to Jewish people. The father, the son and the Holy Ghost are all ONE. If you don’t believe that ALL THREE ARE ONE than you don’t believe in God. It’s as simple as that and the Bible says exactly that. End of story.

    • @annawarner4161
      @annawarner4161 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Never tell a Christian there’s only one GOD. They’ve been brainwashed to believe they are correct, and if you don’t believe exactly what they do, you’re going to hell 🤦🏽‍♀️. It’s actually very ignorant of them, but don’t tell them that either 🤫

    • @nunya54
      @nunya54 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not if God is Jesus

    • @nunya54
      @nunya54 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Laoriginal718 You can't say they don't believe in God because Muslims have an authentic book and the Bible is not authentic. Biblical scholars do not know who John or any of the other gospel writers were. If you don't know who someone is, you cannot verify if what they were saying is true and they do not believe now they even wrote their gospels.
      Only Christians after the third century have this concept of God which is not found in anything Jesus himself actually taught nor any other prophet before him. It is an idea borrowed by Paul and the Church from the pagan religions to easily convert pagans into Christianity. It is not based on anything authentically revealed from God or said by Jesus. This is one of the many reasons people are becoming Muslim because they are finding out what Jesus actually taught his disciples and the people who followed him for three hundred years is the same as what Islam teaches.
      The Trinity, God being three, Jesus being God or the son of God where all what Paul taught and he was considered a heretic, apostate of the law and refuted for these ideas by the true followers of Jesus like James and Jude. He was established to be untrustworthy by Jewish academics having lied about rabbinical training to teach his peculiar ideas of Jesus which makes Christianity more like paganism than it does the other Abrahamic religions. No one believed Jesus was God or the son of God until Paul made up that idea and it wasn't mainstream until hundreds of years later. It was simply made up.

  • @JamesJ30t
    @JamesJ30t 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    @20:00 - We saw the situation play out in the movie Why did I get married.

  • @A_JoshOfAllTrades
    @A_JoshOfAllTrades 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Jeuumar Johnson is crazyy 😂😂

  • @hzlkelly
    @hzlkelly 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    My man followed me and fought to be with me though I had my twins and all. He’s so sweet ❤❤. Made me the happiest lady in the world. We have our beautiful third son now. ❤

    • @DailyRapUpCrew
      @DailyRapUpCrew  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thanks for sharing!

    • @hueyriley
      @hueyriley 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Better treat him like a king then...

    • @hzlkelly
      @hzlkelly 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@hueyriley well he’s happy with how I treat him thank you very much 😊

    • @hueyriley
      @hueyriley 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@hzlkelly 🙏

    • @Laoriginal718
      @Laoriginal718 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So you found a man with low standards and now you have 3 kids by two different men. Not seeing the bright side in this sewer tunnel 🤷🏽‍♀️