James dad, had 4 stage kidney failure and they couldn’t find a kidney …. So James wrote this to his dad as a goodbye in a sense…. After this came out, a distant relative came forward and was a match 🙏❤️🙏 This is his father inn the video ❤️ I think his father is doing ok to day. Lovely reaction 👍❤️👍🦋🦋🦋
Cant believe people don't get it ... a rough past between them... a duh ... make peace so his soul can go on easy to the next level easier, w/o regret/anguish between the past. How can people even question this lyrical depth? What complete idiots some of you are. Google it, and wake up. Then Google empathy cause all these next generations have lost ALL of it. Video Author is sadly 1OO% clueless ... but is sure to end with : "Yeah um, check out my social pages bla bla bla" ???!!!! How sad is that. Today's narcissistic "Trump" thinking society. My God, Jesus save us all/them also ... please?
I heard that since both were in the military, every time one or the other went on a mission, they said to each other, “I’m not your son, you’re not my father we’re just two grown men saying goodbye.” I was touching and poetic to add it to this dedication song when he thought his dad was dying.
I could be totally “off beam” but the way I interpret the “I’m not your son. You’re not my father. We’re just two grown men saying goodbye” line, is that they are now equals, seeing each other one eye level, rather than one or the other being in a more dominant role (as a father would normally have).
Yes! And in a sense, the son, has taken the fathers position. Like life tends to do. Father use to put his son to bed. And chase the monsters away. Protecting his son. Now, son has to take that position. Putting daddy to bed for the last time. And hoping his dad will “ sleep” peacefully. And not be afraid of dying. The son will chase the monsters away. And, I also see it as, they are beyond just father and son. Best friends. Or even, a relationship that there is no known label to describe. Yet, he calls him Daddy. Such a talented writer. Such a wonderful song.
I read somewhere that the I'm not your son,you're not my father is something that they said to each other when they deployed. It was their way of saying goodbye it was a personal meaning to them.
@@maxwellmoore8424 I agree but factor in that they are both ex British army officers, expressing emotions to each other is hard, stiff upper lip and all that.
Yeah that part is true it was one take and when I first watched it it was again me bawling my eyes out and I had both my parents watch it and both of them also followed their eyes out I knew they would they both lost their fathers my dad is lost both of his parents and my mom just has her mother laughed and saw that song has such a amazing meaning I’m crying texting this out because I’m thinking about it and thinking about my grandparents and my grandfathers!!
"You're not my father, I'm not your son" Is the singers way of relieving his terminally ill and suffering father from his duties and responsibilities a father has to a son.
Both Blunt and his father served in the military and when James's was sent to Kosovo it has been reported that when his father said goodbye, his dad said "you are not my son and I am not your father, we are just two grown men saying goodbye ".
I heard that James donated every penny of the money this song made to the UK charity 'Help For Heroes' who do so much outstanding work to help British ex-servicemen & service women. God bless him for that.
You are right, certain things don't matter now and I am talking to you man to man and thanx "DAD". "One man saying good bye to another", we're all grown up now and the time is gone.
The lines “I’m not your son, you’re not my father ..” washes away all the baggage of a father/son relationship. “I know your mistakes, you know mine..” means no need to hash over the past, the time has gone for that. The father is dying, let him go in peace.
It's not very often you get to hear your Eulogy delivered by your children while you are alive.... Being a Dad is often such a thankless job! I didn't have one myself, but I am the father of four, and I bawl every time I hear this song...
He’s one of the most emotional singers I’ve heard! My dad was very abusive, and my youngest brother ( I’m the oldest and only girl) had a long discussion about loving a monster. You have to watch the Seahawks so I can subscribe 😂
I absolutely love the reaction videos to this song. The humanity driven through Blunts word and note choice brings you right beside him in his pain. We feel alongside with him. I, too, have fixated on the I’m not your son you’re not my father line… I agree with many of the thoughts others have put out there, but I would add that he is saying it isn’t a father son relationship where the father has authority over his child… in fact the song beautifully just the transition of the father being the care taker, to needing to be cared for. But even so the lyric says we are just two men saying goodbye… he is honoring his father despite the roles of authority reversing…. But then moments later he calls him Daddy… something usually only small children say when they are most reliant on their parents… I think this beautifully shows the struggle of needing to step up and care, but at the same time feeling like Daddy has so much more for you to learn… so many more conversations, life lessons…. Watch the video again…. Don’t stop until it is completely out of time. You will see at the very end of the shot, Daddy Blunt reaches over and pats James on the arm in comfort. Furthering this imagery that even though he is the one dying, in need of care… his heart is to care for his son.
His dad had stage 4 kidney cancer, they couldn't find a donor, so he wrote this to his dad (yes this is his dad in the video) after this song released a distant relative came forward and was a match and as of 2019 his dad was doing good. James donated the money from this song to a charity for ex service men and women as James was a military man himself.
Cant believe people don't get it ... a rough past between them... a duh ... make peace so his soul can go on easy to the next level easier, w/o regret/anguish between the past. How can people even question this lyrical depth? What complete idiots some of you are. Google it, and wake up. Then Google empathy cause all these next generations have lost ALL of it. Video Author is sadly 1OO% clueless ... but is sure to end with : "Yeah um, check out my social pages bla bla bla" ???!!!! How sad is that. Today's narcissistic "Trump" thinking society. My God, Jesus save us all/them also ... please?
It was stage four kidney disease, not cancer. His father only had one kidney since he had been a living donor years ago. His remaining kidney was only functioning at 11% and due to his age, he wasn't a high priority patient because donor organs go to the youngest people first. James and his sister both offered to give him a kidney, but they weren't a match, and the doctors said it was unlikely he'd find a donor in time to save him. However, because of this song, his father's cousin became aware of the situation and donated a kidney.
As Dale said in another comment the I'm not your son. You're not my father we're just two grown men saying goodbye. Is telling his father that he's there because he loves him not just because he's his father. He's committed to him not because he has to be but because he wants to be.
To me, it is about how relationships don't matter when everything is on the line, it is two grown men having an opportunity to say goodbye without any chain of command, any seniority, just human beings who love each other grasping at the last straws of time together and the emotion that 50 years of cultivation gives them coming to this point. I am humbled by the emotion and the strength that this song must have taken to perform in front of his father.
It may be helpful to understand that his father was a senior officer in the British army and James was a Captain in the same guards regiment so their relationship was not only father and son but also junior officer to senior officer, this is why he says "I'm not your son" (but also a brother officer) and death is a fact of life in the military (British stiff upper lip , show no emotion) so James has always found himself in an odd relationship with his father.
Apparently, when they finished recording the video, everyone was crying except Charles. He looked around and said "Why is everyone crying? I'm still here."
It's a way to separate from the emotional nature of the situation - 'we're just a couple of blokes saying farewell to one another, no need to get upset'
Look out on TH-cam about how James stopped world war , when he refused his tank battalion to fire on Russian troops at a airport in the Balkans war when a member of the British army on UN duty
Very well said. I've seen this awkward place for sons when they're both in the army and the father is obviously his superior. A lot of stiff upper lip is called for.
No need to forgive, no need to forget, I know your mistakes and you know mine.....the truth of a parent and child so raw, despite how we love one another we are all human ❤ and let there be no darkness in your heart! 😢😢 amazing and poignant lyrics
He’s saying even though they’re father and son, it’s bigger than that. It’s two grown men with a history together saying their goodbyes. I’m a guy and I break down hearing this every time. Reminds me of my own dad and his dying experience but James’s voice here and his emotion are just raw emotion. Great reactions!
I lost my dad 3wks ago. May 4th 2023 n my Mama passed in Aug 2022 so its a double hitter for me an this song got me, by the end I was bawling so hard. Condolences to you an ur family.
Both men were in the British Army, father a colonel, James a Captain. Being stoic, when James went to fight in Kosovo his father said to him "We're just 2 men saying goodbye" - saying they were equal
Hello 👋 Great video, 👍👍 My personal interpretation of the ‘I’m not your Son, your not my Father’ is how he basically explains it, his father is dying and the respect they have for each other as the men they are and knowing each loves the other deeply means the past has no place in this moment, ‘no need to forgive, no need to forget’ it is just a time to say goodbye. Have a safe and wonderful week ahead, 👋😀👋
James wanted this to be 100% real and authentic. This was the first time he'd sung it to his dad, who had only recently been diagnosed with stage 4 kidney cancer and was not expected to survive, although they did eventually fine a donor and he made it. Both James and his dad are former officers in the British military. I don't know how James managed to keep himself together so well, but it was so damn powerful and obviously deeply emotional for him.
James and his father were army men James father was high up in the military. James took the line from his father's words when James was going to Kosovo the line was his father s statement when James was going to war. James reflected on his father s illness stage 4 kidney failure when he thought he was dying. Fortunately a cousin matched and donated a kidney.
I think it has a double meaning: The first meaning is what you said - that he'll be with him until the end. The other meaning I take from this is that he is reassuring his Dad that he will be ok and continue to make his father proud after his father is gone (I will be the last one), and carry on his legacy (so I'll leave a light on. Let there be no darkness in your heart).
Roles have changed - time for son to take on the role of monster rustle, light controller. Great place when a man can be recognized as a man in his father's eyes.
Cant believe people don't get it ... a rough past between them... a duh ... make peace so his soul can go on easy to the next level easier, w/o regret/anguish between the past. How can people even question this lyrical depth? What complete idiots some of you are. Google it, and wake up. Then Google empathy cause all these next generations have lost ALL of it. Video Author is sadly 1OO% clueless ... but is sure to end with : "Yeah um, check out my social pages bla bla bla" ???!!!! How sad is that. Today's narcissistic "Trump" thinking society. My God, Jesus save us all/them also ... please?
He’s not saying it to be mean he is saying they are just two grown men saying goodbye. As men get older it is harder to say I love you to your dad. But now it’s time to say it before it’s too late.
Live singing in this video. It was his Dads idea to do the video together as ue was dying and close. But this song saved his Dads life. His dad and Iam's Dad suffered with the same illness.
I think anybody who love their dad can feel this song, it's just that universal feeling of s'adresse when you lose your parent. And very much when you are a guy and can relate to this...
Don't be afraid...its my turn.. To chase the monsters away...is a son remembering when as a child..his father would comfort him and chase the monsters away from his dreams.
"Your not my father, I'm not your son" is not literal, it's kinda like saying I Don't love you out of obligation I love you as the man you are and relation has nothing to do with my love for you. There are most likely better ways to explain what if mean than that but you catch my Drift.
Cant believe people don't get it ... a rough past between them... a duh ... make peace so his soul can go on easy to the next level easier, w/o regret/anguish between the past. How can people even question this lyrical depth? What complete idiots some of you are. Google it, and wake up. Then Google empathy cause all these next generations have lost ALL of it. Video Author is sadly 1OO% clueless ... but is sure to end with : "Yeah um, check out my social pages bla bla bla" ???!!!! How sad is that. Today's narcissistic "Trump" thinking society. My God, Jesus save us all/them also ... please?
I think as you grow up perspectives change. The roles blur and change. Parents and children both grow up at some point and can meet as adults. And at some point the relationship turns again and the child becomes the caring part. I think it is very respectful to say that as an adult you are on an equal footing with your parents. You are no longer a child and a parent. That's how it was between my mother and me in the end. I lost her last year. Shortly thereafter I found the video Monsters and first of all I cried a lot. I like this song a lot, even if it makes me cry again and again.
Hi By your reaction to James Blunt Monsters You will enjoy Justin Crum singing CREEP. It is on America got talent 2016. (You need to rewind a bit to before he sings and judges ask his age etc) so you can hear why he sings that song. Children can be very cruel!
I’m not sure how true this is but I read in another reaction that when James left for a military assignment this is what they would say to each other. His father was also in the military.
They both served in the British military and spent time a part as service to your country does. but they didn't want any fuss coz its the military way. we don't think death the same way as civilians but we still care
It's pretty clear that in the moment close to death being father and son is not the important thing - two grown men are saying goodbye with all that has gone between them as father and son. There is a role reversal here - dad used to look after his son, chase the monsters away, try to keep his son safe and now the son is doing the same in the moments his father is passing from this life - don't be afraid, I'll keep the light on and I'll chase your monsters away. And while you're away, I'll be a good person and make you proud. This was based on James's experience with his father featured here in the video when it seemed his father would die of kidney disease. Fortunately, his father managed to find a donor received a transplant.
They were both in the military, when his son was sent overseas this is what he told him Your not my son, I’m not your father, we are just two grown men saying goodbye,
Cant believe people don't get it ... a rough past between them... a duh ... make peace so his soul can go on easy to the next level easier, w/o regret/anguish between the past. How can people even question this lyrical depth? What complete idiots some of you are. Google it, and wake up. Then Google empathy cause all these next generations have lost ALL of it. Video Author is sadly 1OO% clueless ... but is sure to end with : "Yeah um, check out my social pages bla bla bla" ???!!!! How sad is that. Today's narcissistic "Trump" thinking society. My God, Jesus save us all/them also ... please?
Both James blunton and his father are Hi ranking in the military so they were like stiff upper lip his father was a colonel he himself was a captain he himself actually prevented World War 3. And I think the term of like I'm not your father I'm not your son we're just too grown mint and saying goodbye but then in the He referts to being a little boy saying daddy and I think it also is kind of like it speaks Of the emotions you go through when a loved one is passing trying to be brave for them trying to be tough but at the same time the death of a parent brings you back to being their baby
Cant believe people don't get it ... a rough past between them... a duh ... make peace so his soul can go on easy to the next level easier, w/o regret/anguish between the past. How can people even question this lyrical depth? What complete idiots some of you are. Google it, and wake up. Then Google empathy cause all these next generations have lost ALL of it. Video Author is sadly 1OO% clueless ... but is sure to end with : "Yeah um, check out my social pages bla bla bla" ???!!!! How sad is that. Today's narcissistic "Trump" thinking society. My God, Jesus save us all/them also ... please?
You are correct and he says you’re not a father I am not your son he is saying that in a way it’s time to forget about labels let’s just enjoy each other in the little time amount we have left, his dad was dying A kidney failure and you need a kidney yeah and if I want to be not mistaken James actually gave him a kidney but don’t quote me on that one, and he was already making the song and everything so he decided on a different approach with the music video and I think it ending they changed a little bit but I don’t think by much because I still like even though you’re you’re fine now we still need to live life to the fullest!
He says im not your son your not my father because they both served in the army, in war you have to disconnect due to the risk.. and i think your interpretation holds weight too.. definetly a strong mix of the both.
“I’m not your son your not my father, we’re just two grown men saying goodbye” means that we know it’s the end so let’s not get emotional. Let’s pretend we’re just two grown men saying good bye.
You don't notice that he dresses just like his dad. Acts like him. They're both sittin there with their hands folded a bit stiff. James Blount is a bit stiff😊. Not just here. They wear the same pinky ring amd not jist for this video.
James was potentially responsible for preventing WW3 during the Kosovo conflict. As the 1st officer to arrive at an airport he refused a order from an American officer to take the airport which was occupied by the Russian army.
His Father is his hero. He joined the military jecause his Dad was a veteran. Where they're from this is what veterak Fathers sau to their sins going off to war. Akd this is what his Father told him when he went off to war. You're not my son. I'm not your Father. We're just 2 grown men sayin goodbye.
Why is it confusi g "WE'RE JUST 2 GROWN MEN SAYING GOOD BYE" Passing the baton on for taking care of things man to man, its not Father and Child, its man to man passing on responsibility to take care of his mam and what ever other responsibilities that need doing
Cant believe people don't get it ... a rough past between them... a duh ... make peace so his soul can go on easy to the next level easier, w/o regret/anguish between the past. How can people even question this lyrical depth? What complete idiots some of you are. Google it, and wake up. Then Google empathy cause all these next generations have lost ALL of it. Video Author is sadly 1OO% clueless ... but is sure to end with : "Yeah um, check out my social pages bla bla bla" ???!!!! How sad is that. Today's narcissistic "Trump" thinking society. My God, Jesus save us all/them also ... please?
>>> Amazing how all "first times" try to ingnore the actual FULL deapth of the actuial lyrics. Sorta scares me the absence of real life empathy these days.
James dad, had 4 stage kidney failure and they couldn’t find a kidney ….
So James wrote this to his dad as a goodbye in a sense….
After this came out, a distant relative came forward and was a match 🙏❤️🙏
This is his father inn the video ❤️
I think his father is doing ok to day.
Lovely reaction 👍❤️👍🦋🦋🦋
Cant believe people don't get it ... a rough past between them... a duh ... make peace so his soul can go on easy to the next level easier, w/o regret/anguish between the past. How can people even question this lyrical depth? What complete idiots some of you are. Google it, and wake up. Then Google empathy cause all these next generations have lost ALL of it. Video Author is sadly 1OO% clueless ... but is sure to end with : "Yeah um, check out my social pages bla bla bla" ???!!!! How sad is that. Today's narcissistic "Trump" thinking society. My God, Jesus save us all/them also ... please?
The only dry eyes after the completion of this video were Charles Blount's. He asked "Why is everyone crying? I'm still here!"
I heard that since both were in the military, every time one or the other went on a mission, they said to each other, “I’m not your son, you’re not my father we’re just two grown men saying goodbye.” I was touching and poetic to add it to this dedication song when he thought his dad was dying.
Exactly. The military aspect was huge in the lyrics since they were both veterans. ❤
I could be totally “off beam” but the way I interpret the “I’m not your son. You’re not my father. We’re just two grown men saying goodbye” line, is that they are now equals, seeing each other one eye level, rather than one or the other being in a more dominant role (as a father would normally have).
Yes! And in a sense, the son, has taken the fathers position. Like life tends to do. Father use to put his son to bed. And chase the monsters away. Protecting his son. Now, son has to take that position. Putting daddy to bed for the last time. And hoping his dad will “ sleep” peacefully. And not be afraid of dying. The son will chase the monsters away. And, I also see it as, they are beyond just father and son. Best friends. Or even, a relationship that there is no known label to describe. Yet, he calls him Daddy. Such a talented writer. Such a wonderful song.
Absolutely
I read somewhere that the I'm not your son,you're not my father is something that they said to each other when they deployed. It was their way of saying goodbye it was a personal meaning to them.
No ,I think your bang on mate 👏.
@@maxwellmoore8424 I agree but factor in that they are both ex British army officers, expressing emotions to each other is hard, stiff upper lip and all that.
This video was the first time he had sung this to his dad. He insisted that the video be real, no auto tune, no retakes, just the pure emotion
The first time I watched it, I was on the floor sobbing. I don't cry that easily, but this just about killed me.
Yeah that part is true it was one take and when I first watched it it was again me bawling my eyes out and I had both my parents watch it and both of them also followed their eyes out I knew they would they both lost their fathers my dad is lost both of his parents and my mom just has her mother laughed and saw that song has such a amazing meaning I’m crying texting this out because I’m thinking about it and thinking about my grandparents and my grandfathers!!
Not true that this was the first time his dad heard it.
"You're not my father, I'm not your son"
Is the singers way of relieving his terminally ill and suffering father from his duties and responsibilities a father has to a son.
It means that at this time, they’re coming together man to man. It’s beautiful.
Both Blunt and his father served in the military and when James's was sent to Kosovo it has been reported that when his father said goodbye, his dad said "you are not my son and I am not your father, we are just two grown men saying goodbye ".
I heard that James donated every penny of the money this song made to the UK charity 'Help For Heroes' who do so much outstanding work to help British ex-servicemen & service women. God bless him for that.
Correct he did for a number of reasons as youve seen in the comments his dad was in the armed forces and so was james
You are right, certain things don't matter now and I am talking to you man to man and thanx "DAD". "One man saying good bye to another", we're all grown up now and the time is gone.
This video was the first time he had sung this song to his dad. He insisted that it be real, no auto tune, no retakes.
turn it back on, and let it play out those last few seconds. there's something that's so heartwarming, so wholesome that ought to be seen.
Yes, he missed it.
@@botticellirejectbotticelli2668 it's such a tiny thing, but it made my heart ache and warmed me at the same time.
The lines “I’m not your son, you’re not my father ..” washes away all the baggage of a father/son relationship. “I know your mistakes, you know mine..” means no need to hash over the past, the time has gone for that. The father is dying, let him go in peace.
It's not very often you get to hear your Eulogy delivered by your children while you are alive.... Being a Dad is often such a thankless job! I didn't have one myself, but I am the father of four, and I bawl every time I hear this song...
Sooooo sad... so beautiful between daddy and son.
I cry every time I hear it. 😢
The roles reverse as they get older. It's heart breaking and beautiful at the same time
He’s one of the most emotional singers I’ve heard! My dad was very abusive, and my youngest brother ( I’m the oldest and only girl) had a long discussion about loving a monster. You have to watch the Seahawks so I can subscribe 😂
I absolutely love the reaction videos to this song. The humanity driven through Blunts word and note choice brings you right beside him in his pain. We feel alongside with him. I, too, have fixated on the I’m not your son you’re not my father line… I agree with many of the thoughts others have put out there, but I would add that he is saying it isn’t a father son relationship where the father has authority over his child… in fact the song beautifully just the transition of the father being the care taker, to needing to be cared for. But even so the lyric says we are just two men saying goodbye… he is honoring his father despite the roles of authority reversing…. But then moments later he calls him Daddy… something usually only small children say when they are most reliant on their parents… I think this beautifully shows the struggle of needing to step up and care, but at the same time feeling like Daddy has so much more for you to learn… so many more conversations, life lessons….
Watch the video again…. Don’t stop until it is completely out of time. You will see at the very end of the shot, Daddy Blunt reaches over and pats James on the arm in comfort. Furthering this imagery that even though he is the one dying, in need of care… his heart is to care for his son.
His dad had stage 4 kidney cancer, they couldn't find a donor, so he wrote this to his dad (yes this is his dad in the video) after this song released a distant relative came forward and was a match and as of 2019 his dad was doing good. James donated the money from this song to a charity for ex service men and women as James was a military man himself.
Cant believe people don't get it ... a rough past between them... a duh ... make peace so his soul can go on easy to the next level easier, w/o regret/anguish between the past. How can people even question this lyrical depth? What complete idiots some of you are. Google it, and wake up. Then Google empathy cause all these next generations have lost ALL of it. Video Author is sadly 1OO% clueless ... but is sure to end with : "Yeah um, check out my social pages bla bla bla" ???!!!! How sad is that. Today's narcissistic "Trump" thinking society. My God, Jesus save us all/them also ... please?
I believe it was Stage 4 kidney disease, not cancer.
It was stage four kidney disease, not cancer. His father only had one kidney since he had been a living donor years ago. His remaining kidney was only functioning at 11% and due to his age, he wasn't a high priority patient because donor organs go to the youngest people first. James and his sister both offered to give him a kidney, but they weren't a match, and the doctors said it was unlikely he'd find a donor in time to save him. However, because of this song, his father's cousin became aware of the situation and donated a kidney.
As Dale said in another comment the I'm not your son. You're not my father we're just two grown men saying goodbye. Is telling his father that he's there because he loves him not just because he's his father. He's committed to him not because he has to be but because he wants to be.
To me, it is about how relationships don't matter when everything is on the line, it is two grown men having an opportunity to say goodbye without any chain of command, any seniority, just human beings who love each other grasping at the last straws of time together and the emotion that 50 years of cultivation gives them coming to this point. I am humbled by the emotion and the strength that this song must have taken to perform in front of his father.
It may be helpful to understand that his father was a senior officer in the British army and James was a Captain in the same guards regiment so their relationship was not only father and son but also junior officer to senior officer, this is why he says "I'm not your son" (but also a brother officer) and death is a fact of life in the military (British stiff upper lip , show no emotion) so James has always found himself in an odd relationship with his father.
Apparently, when they finished recording the video, everyone was crying except Charles. He looked around and said "Why is everyone crying? I'm still here."
It's a way to separate from the emotional nature of the situation - 'we're just a couple of blokes saying farewell to one another, no need to get upset'
Look out on TH-cam about how James stopped world war , when he refused his tank battalion to fire on Russian troops at a airport in the Balkans war when a member of the British army on UN duty
Very well said. I've seen this awkward place for sons when they're both in the army and the father is obviously his superior. A lot of stiff upper lip is called for.
There is a version on American got talent where a contestant sings monsters. It’s a must see and reaction .
No need to forgive, no need to forget, I know your mistakes and you know mine.....the truth of a parent and child so raw, despite how we love one another we are all human ❤ and let there be no darkness in your heart! 😢😢 amazing and poignant lyrics
He’s saying even though they’re father and son, it’s bigger than that. It’s two grown men with a history together saying their goodbyes. I’m a guy and I break down hearing this every time. Reminds me of my own dad and his dying experience but James’s voice here and his emotion are just raw emotion. Great reactions!
I lost my dad 3wks ago. May 4th 2023 n my Mama passed in Aug 2022 so its a double hitter for me an this song got me, by the end I was bawling so hard. Condolences to you an ur family.
It's his dad he wrote it and for One moment it's saved God bless his Dad and James just do what God put you on on earth to do
I have heard this song many times, i am crying every time, if you don't cry you don't have a heart
“You’re not my father and I’m not your son” is an attempt at recognizing that these are human roles…
Your interpretation is spot on.
Those lines, James tries to explain the fact where his kidney doesn't match his dad's...🥺
Both men were in the British Army, father a colonel, James a Captain. Being stoic, when James went to fight in Kosovo his father said to him "We're just 2 men saying goodbye" - saying they were equal
Hello 👋
Great video, 👍👍
My personal interpretation of the ‘I’m not your Son, your not my Father’ is how he basically explains it, his father is dying and the respect they have for each other as the men they are and knowing each loves the other deeply means the past has no place in this moment, ‘no need to forgive, no need to forget’ it is just a time to say goodbye.
Have a safe and wonderful week ahead, 👋😀👋
That's right.
James wanted this to be 100% real and authentic. This was the first time he'd sung it to his dad, who had only recently been diagnosed with stage 4 kidney cancer and was not expected to survive, although they did eventually fine a donor and he made it. Both James and his dad are former officers in the British military. I don't know how James managed to keep himself together so well, but it was so damn powerful and obviously deeply emotional for him.
Yes, it's his dad. It's a dedication in a way cuz his dad was sick
James and his father were army men
James father was high up in the military.
James took the line from his father's words when James was going to Kosovo the line was his father s statement when James was going to war.
James reflected on his father s illness stage 4 kidney failure when he thought he was dying.
Fortunately a cousin matched and donated a kidney.
His father was dying here, the last verse is saying I'll be with you till your last breath, you won't be alone.
The monsters of death....
I think it has a double meaning: The first meaning is what you said - that he'll be with him until the end. The other meaning I take from this is that he is reassuring his Dad that he will be ok and continue to make his father proud after his father is gone (I will be the last one), and carry on his legacy (so I'll leave a light on. Let there be no darkness in your heart).
...he's saying...forget that we are father and son...at this time we are grown men saying goodbye!
Roles have changed - time for son to take on the role of monster rustle, light controller. Great place when a man can be recognized as a man in his father's eyes.
You are such a sweetheart. Loved you reaction. 💕
Cant believe people don't get it ... a rough past between them... a duh ... make peace so his soul can go on easy to the next level easier, w/o regret/anguish between the past. How can people even question this lyrical depth? What complete idiots some of you are. Google it, and wake up. Then Google empathy cause all these next generations have lost ALL of it. Video Author is sadly 1OO% clueless ... but is sure to end with : "Yeah um, check out my social pages bla bla bla" ???!!!! How sad is that. Today's narcissistic "Trump" thinking society. My God, Jesus save us all/them also ... please?
Eddie Murphy has a TH-cam channel 👍🏻
Your reaction is genuine and good on you 😢 tis a healing song eh ❤
He’s not saying it to be mean he is saying they are just two grown men saying goodbye. As men get older it is harder to say I love you to your dad. But now it’s time to say it before it’s too late.
This video found a far relative compatible to his father and his father survived after watching this video
Live singing in this video. It was his Dads idea to do the video together as ue was dying and close. But this song saved his Dads life. His dad and Iam's Dad suffered with the same illness.
I think anybody who love their dad can feel this song, it's just that universal feeling of s'adresse when you lose your parent. And very much when you are a guy and can relate to this...
Great song ❤️
That is his dad, father! His name is Charles Blount!
Don't be afraid...its my turn.. To chase the monsters away...is a son remembering when as a child..his father would comfort him and chase the monsters away from his dreams.
He was saying it to make it easier to say goodbye
Metaphor where sometimes it’s just two men at the same time acknowledging we are family
"Your not my father, I'm not your son" is not literal, it's kinda like saying I Don't love you out of obligation I love you as the man you are and relation has nothing to do with my love for you. There are most likely better ways to explain what if mean than that but you catch my Drift.
This is my interpretation of it also I'm not here just because you're my father I'm here because I love you.
Beautifully put 😁 very articulate. The song is heartbreaking gets me every time 😭💔😭💔😭
Cant believe people don't get it ... a rough past between them... a duh ... make peace so his soul can go on easy to the next level easier, w/o regret/anguish between the past. How can people even question this lyrical depth? What complete idiots some of you are. Google it, and wake up. Then Google empathy cause all these next generations have lost ALL of it. Video Author is sadly 1OO% clueless ... but is sure to end with : "Yeah um, check out my social pages bla bla bla" ???!!!! How sad is that. Today's narcissistic "Trump" thinking society. My God, Jesus save us all/them also ... please?
Duality, Both Are One ❤
The Father is the Son
The Son is the Father 🕊🕊
Both James and his father were in the British army. James sung You’re beautiful
Beautiful reaction video. I love your interpretation and sincerity!!
He's communing with his father as a human man, not a needy child.
6:06 Correct. That's what he said on interviews.
I think as you grow up perspectives change. The roles blur and change. Parents and children both grow up at some point and can meet as adults.
And at some point the relationship turns again and the child becomes the caring part.
I think it is very respectful to say that as an adult you are on an equal footing with your parents. You are no longer a child and a parent. That's how it was between my mother and me in the end. I lost her last year. Shortly thereafter I found the video Monsters and first of all I cried a lot.
I like this song a lot, even if it makes me cry again and again.
Author is still in child mode, maybe fatherless ... sadly very common in that culture
My heart 💔
Tears 😥😢😥
Hi Nice reaction. Yes His dad was very ill with kidney problems but I believe he got a donar kidney in time.
he doesnt want to say goodbye to hi father
Hi By your reaction to James Blunt Monsters You will enjoy Justin Crum singing CREEP. It is on America got talent 2016. (You need to rewind a bit to before he sings and judges ask his age etc) so you can hear why he sings that song. Children can be very cruel!
I’m not sure how true this is but I read in another reaction that when James left for a military assignment this is what they would say to each other. His father was also in the military.
James Blunt and his father were both in the British Army, and said good bye that way. 0:15
So Eddie Murphy does song reactions now. Damn he looks like him.
It’s hard to say bye forever to your dad! It’s easier too say goodbye to another man! Coping
5:59 nailed it.
They both served in the British military and spent time a part as service to your country does. but they didn't want any fuss coz its the military way. we don't think death the same way as civilians but we still care
His father had stage 4 liver cancer. But after James song came out a distant relative gave him a kidney
huh? had liver cancer but got a new kidney , how does that work
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Yes she's got it wrong, it was stage 4 kidney disease....
Yeah it’s his father he sang it to him cuz he is slowly dying due to a bone disease.
To make it easier to say goodbye metamorphic ally
It's pretty clear that in the moment close to death being father and son is not the important thing - two grown men are saying goodbye with all that has gone between them as father and son. There is a role reversal here - dad used to look after his son, chase the monsters away, try to keep his son safe and now the son is doing the same in the moments his father is passing from this life - don't be afraid, I'll keep the light on and I'll chase your monsters away. And while you're away, I'll be a good person and make you proud. This was based on James's experience with his father featured here in the video when it seemed his father would die of kidney disease. Fortunately, his father managed to find a donor received a transplant.
James and his father Charlie were both Officer's in the British military. This is a Military send off, that thankfully is ok now.....
They were both in the military, when his son was sent overseas this is what he told him Your not my son, I’m not your father, we are just two grown men saying goodbye,
If you ever look after your parents, that is what happens, the child becomes the parent, as you said, role reversal.
Cant believe people don't get it ... a rough past between them... a duh ... make peace so his soul can go on easy to the next level easier, w/o regret/anguish between the past. How can people even question this lyrical depth? What complete idiots some of you are. Google it, and wake up. Then Google empathy cause all these next generations have lost ALL of it. Video Author is sadly 1OO% clueless ... but is sure to end with : "Yeah um, check out my social pages bla bla bla" ???!!!! How sad is that. Today's narcissistic "Trump" thinking society. My God, Jesus save us all/them also ... please?
Jeez! His dad was dying of stage four kidney cancer. Pretty sure James wasn't worried about his voice.
Both high ranking officers in the British army..
your missing the point ... just like the author or this reaction. Smfh.
It's his dad.
Both James blunton and his father are Hi ranking in the military so they were like stiff upper lip his father was a colonel he himself was a captain he himself actually prevented World War 3. And I think the term of like I'm not your father I'm not your son we're just too grown mint and saying goodbye but then in the
He referts to being a little boy saying daddy and I think it also is kind of like it speaks Of the emotions you go through when a loved one is passing trying to be brave for them trying to be tough but at the same time the death of a parent brings you back to being their baby
Cant believe people don't get it ... a rough past between them... a duh ... make peace so his soul can go on easy to the next level easier, w/o regret/anguish between the past. How can people even question this lyrical depth? What complete idiots some of you are. Google it, and wake up. Then Google empathy cause all these next generations have lost ALL of it. Video Author is sadly 1OO% clueless ... but is sure to end with : "Yeah um, check out my social pages bla bla bla" ???!!!! How sad is that. Today's narcissistic "Trump" thinking society. My God, Jesus save us all/them also ... please?
You are correct and he says you’re not a father I am not your son he is saying that in a way it’s time to forget about labels let’s just enjoy each other in the little time amount we have left, his dad was dying A kidney failure and you need a kidney yeah and if I want to be not mistaken James actually gave him a kidney but don’t quote me on that one, and he was already making the song and everything so he decided on a different approach with the music video and I think it ending they changed a little bit but I don’t think by much because I still like even though you’re you’re fine now we still need to live life to the fullest!
It's a song about saying goodbye to your father! He's dying of kidney disease. They haven't found a kidney for him. Nobody's a good match.
How do u not get it?
He says im not your son your not my father because they both served in the army, in war you have to disconnect due to the risk.. and i think your interpretation holds weight too.. definetly a strong mix of the both.
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“I’m not your son your not my father, we’re just two grown men saying goodbye” means that we know it’s the end so let’s not get emotional. Let’s pretend we’re just two grown men saying good bye.
His dad was terminal at this point in time
Nice.
You don't notice that he dresses just like his dad. Acts like him. They're both sittin there with their hands folded a bit stiff. James Blount is a bit stiff😊. Not just here. They wear the same pinky ring amd not jist for this video.
he is saying him and his dad are eguals and he is saying goodbye as a man to his dad
James was potentially responsible for preventing WW3 during the Kosovo conflict. As the 1st officer to arrive at an airport he refused a order from an American officer to take the airport which was occupied by the Russian army.
Very tough song
try out bg3 sound down by the river
But yet again let it finish.
His Father is his hero. He joined the military jecause his Dad was a veteran. Where they're from this is what veterak Fathers sau to their sins going off to war. Akd this is what his Father told him when he went off to war.
You're not my son. I'm not your Father. We're just 2 grown men sayin goodbye.
He wants them to be equal as his father was dying
Why is it confusi g
"WE'RE JUST 2 GROWN MEN SAYING GOOD BYE"
Passing the baton on for taking care of things man to man, its not Father and Child, its man to man passing on responsibility to take care of his mam and what ever other responsibilities that need doing
Cant believe people don't get it ... a rough past between them... a duh ... make peace so his soul can go on easy to the next level easier, w/o regret/anguish between the past. How can people even question this lyrical depth? What complete idiots some of you are. Google it, and wake up. Then Google empathy cause all these next generations have lost ALL of it. Video Author is sadly 1OO% clueless ... but is sure to end with : "Yeah um, check out my social pages bla bla bla" ???!!!! How sad is that. Today's narcissistic "Trump" thinking society. My God, Jesus save us all/them also ... please?
His dad had kidney disease, James was not a match.
Talking to him man to man,not son to father
The roles have reversed. He will take care of his father now. Charles is doing well now.
>>> Amazing how all "first times" try to ingnore the actual FULL deapth of the actuial lyrics. Sorta scares me the absence of real life empathy these days.
His dad had terminal cancer
Have no idea why you couldn't join the dots there