His advice is right on the money. Has helped me a TON! I'm still healing, but I'm feeling so much better. Andrew, if you're reading this: I blocked some people on FB that I knew were spying on me. Afterwards, I was worried. Couldn't sleep. I thought I made a stupid mistake. But your advice on blocking people is the best. After just 2 days, I knew I made the right decision. After blocking them, the fog lifted.
It’s not easy forgetting about the abuser but every time a negative though comes to mind about the abuser, I pray. That’s where I find courage and peace. Mostly in prayer.
Yes, prayer is the only way to deal with those thoughts. When we surrender them to God, He gives us strength to move forward and with that comes peace. Journaling helps as well.
@@michellepurcell8703 I did that & told him - he got spooked jumped up & walked out the door. This tells me it's all premeditated - the narc is fully aware of their destructive agenda. However the show continued off & on for yrs - intermittent reinforcement ! Also, they travel in packs...like roaches they hang together...kinda like the lesser of two evils or the devil you know or the devil you don't know..."to sup with the devil you need a long spoon" ... grey rocking is a good tactic ... to exit is Best ! 💣 Dumbass Evil Clowns.🤡
They say in my society :" Kidnapped (stolen) is cursed." You cannot enjoy stolen things. This is exactly the case with narcissists. They steal all their life, but they cannot enjoy what they steal.
Those shekels Judas took for shopping JESUS ? Judas tried to return them to the gang of wicked priests - but - those priests would not accept the shekels...
Every day the narc has to look in the mirror. Every night in their dreams they face their evil within. Their bad karma is relentless! We can let it go and focus on ourself!❤
In fact, what many don't understand is that narcissists are their own worst enemies. They have already been punished. They can't enjoy the little things in life. A narcissist is not what he wants to show us with his mask 🎭. Narcissist depends on us, on people, not us on THEM.
Exactly, like my father, he can’t see his grandkids, everyone stays clear of him, he’s getting older and uglier, he thinks he’s this young handsome chap, he looks like tales from the crypt, all he does is smear my name, telling who’ll listen but everyone is becoming more aware of his toxic behavior
A Saint who teaches meditation has said several times while teaching. "What you think of me ISN'T MY BUSINESS "😮 Andrew you show us the road out of hell !!❤🎉😂😊😊
Every act of revenge against a narcissist just further cements their hold over our psyche and forfeits our conscious over their mad game. STOP the cycle of abuse and build your own world of love and happiness!! ❤
I wish they would leave me alone. As they continue to attack me, I do wish they would get their Karma soon, being too busy with themselves and leave me alone, so I can live my life without them and in peace. Everyday some new BS. I’m praying that it will stop. Evil demon. Thank you Andrew
The furthest WE remove ourselves from them the less they can affect us. Block, disconnect, remove all flying monkeys and continue to focus on Number One, YOU! ♥😻
@@tinablok4213 I understand. I have a super thick file from the Court myself. Plenty of letters from attorneys. I, at some point filed for a restraining order and got it. Realized I needed to only communicate with the narc via a third party. And I learned to RESPOND VS REACT. Much love your way and best wishes for a speedy resolution and healing!♥
A narcissist's self-confidence depends on the reactions of the people around him. It doesn't matter at all whether this reaction is positive or negative.
Really crucial message, Andrew. I agree, totally. If we harbor hatred in our hearts toward the narcissist then they still have control over us. They are still consuming our precious energy. As you are saying, energy that we should be channeling into our healing and living the life of beauty and abundance that awaits each of us. Indeed, the narcissist is their own worst enemy. Namaste 🙏❣️
Well said. My thoughts are they are living their karma everyday. They know who they are, know they will never change, and they will never be happy or content. However, I will heal, move on, and be a better person.
Part of what helps me cope is that I am very conscious of how to foster a healthy relationship now.. and all the abuse has equipped me for success to the same depth as the hardship.
Trauma bonds are horrendous but you can def get over them. Narc won’t even see the trauma bond so best to forgive and move on- life is so great after healing. - worth it all ❤🎉
That’s exactly what happens. During the discard or post-narcissistic relationship I’d worry that I wasn’t in a good space but it can’t get much worse than the narcissist. She, or the narcissists in general, can not regulate her roller coaster of emotions most of which are negative. It’s usually the narcissist, the evil one, who’s worried about making “people pay for what they did” - not the other way around. That’s not what educated empaths do; that’d be just stooping down to their low.
Thanks for sharing. 😊🙏🪷 I've been thinking about this.....and I figured she will bring herself down. Her behaviour is so so bizarre, manipulative and greedy it will just be a matter of time. Her abuse is also out of control. There is no doubt about it tho she will take her flying monkey down with her or more than likely blameshift all her behaviour onto her flying monkey and others as she did me. 👿😵💫🤑🥴😢😭
Well you know the old adage "karma's a bitch". I believe that the only karma that's important is mine. I need to learn the lessons i came on this planet to learn so i will be done with those when i leave. And by the way for me the word karma is the same as lessons not learned. According to Dolores Cannon the author, planet earth is the planet where we must eliminate our karma in order to access a different frequency and vibrate higher in an other dimension. I do believe that too because it resonates with me. The karma of the narcs who didn't do right by us is their own. Their responsability. It has nothing to do with us. They also have lessons to learn. It is not our problem. Thank you for this video Andrew and have a wonderful afternoon coach. ❤❤😊
Radical acceptance,,see it for what it Really was,,.we got Deceived all of us,,they reeled us in and led us up the garden path,,,to their advantage ,,,,move forward and live ur Best life,,❤❤❤❤❤🙏🙏
Yes Andrew you are correct. If we are thinking about them, we are not taking care of us! ❤ And I have thoughts on protecting others... I feel like if I tried, I am wasting my VALUABLE TIME! And its true; 😂 they have to go to sleep and wake up with themselves every single day...ALONE! If I were like them, I would want, as you say, karma on them. I have never wished bad on anyone, because that is who I am. I do sleep better, and get so much more done already. I am blessed, and I will continue to be blessed, AMEN! ❤ Ty again for all you do for us all...❤ Everyday you bless us with more knowledge!!! ❤❤❤
I believe that when you wish bad things for "anyone", you will have karma for that as well. In the present moment on any given day, be a light for someone else that really needs it. That's what you are Andrew! Namaste. Everything good will come to you!!!
I do not care what they get as I knew what they had coming as they manifest their reality with their own negative thoughts. What I do care about is my life and the people in it that are no longer effected by them effecting me. Their mental prison is chosen by them as we can all change. We always do change if we choose to live each day working to be and live our best lives to share with and maintain harmony amongst us. Best to them. No negative thought or action I can have or take is as potent as the ones they create and live in by themselves. We gain bonus points by wishing them the best as wishing them the worst only hurts ourselves. Happy Healing Changing and Becoming Better then you could imagine!
When the actions of these narcissists actions are explained in this way, then you can really see how terrifying they really are. Inhuman springs to mind.
It's been 3 months, but there has been no contact. I was in the relationship for 14 years. Still healing. Thanks for your help. God will punish him sooner or later.
You. Have. Nailed. This. At first seeing the thumbnail, I thought “oh wow brave to take on the karma angle Andrew! 😮 “ But this was exactly what needed to get shared - for all of us! That’s right, the narcs have lost the light and peace that we carried for ourselves - AND THEM. They will keep seeking and devouring with their insatiable appetite to find what can never satisfy them. We can move on in our peace and love and light. PHENOMENAL message. ❤❤❤
I believe he was going through his Karma,,Health wise,because of the past life he lived,so much Medical issues while I was with him,, I wouldn't Wish Karma On Anyone ,, people's sabotage themselves,, by their Lifestyles,, I want to get Better Not Bitter,,,T.Y. Andrew,👉🌟❤️❤️
In MY view and experience, every challenge has had positive lesson for me to learn from and become a better person. I have learnt a lot from painful experiences. Now I choose to let go of the past and learn from Joy. As far as the narc goes, I just want to create as much distance and space between us as possible. Don't think about it, don't care. Have too many goals and dreams that take all my focus and energy today. Blessings to all! Namaste! ♥
The longer one is in the relationship, the longer it takes to break the bond--which appears to break instantly. But it really happens after lots of work.
It has helped me to realize the anger is part sadness, part defense mechanism. I don’t have to defend myself any more. Now I can let the sadness process. Learning to be kind to yourself and be your own ally creates the person that will meet you at the end.
Their constant scheming to secure their next desire means they'll never really know peace and what it feels like to be happy with what you have. My feeling is that this is karma enough Great video, thank you Andrew 🙏
My feeling is that the relationship with a narcissist/narcissists are karmic relationships to teach us tough life lessons. If we don't learn them this time around, we'll just get back on the wheel (so to speak), and have to learn the hard lesson next time we incarnate. As for synchronicities, I've seen them for years, but it has increased powerfully since my healing has begun. No coincidence. ❤️❤️✨️✨️
Well said yet this 'Knowledge is Structured in Consciousness, therefore I "JUMP MY KARMA". Thx Andrew for the Absolute Truths revealed from the Akashic and human experience simultaneously. ❤
As you say “God Bless them just do it away from me” It gives much space to cause positive effects when we focus on ourselves not them or their consequences 💗
Thank You Andrew for being a big part of my healing path🙏 The narcissist lives in the Karma of his actions. They are the energy vampires. My ex couldn’t stop moving and talking. Always, the victim. He lost most of his true friends and good look. Mutual friend told me, he’s keeping company with the undesirables and paying for it. I had to have to go though what I have to go though to get where I’m going. I’m wiser and stronger due to this experience. Knowing I have something he would never have: Inner peace. That is my revenge and his karma. Namaste 🙏
you're right. i felt this "desire for revenge, or desire to see her down," so to speak, but it was a phase that only lasted some time. when i learned more about narcissism, i realized this person is mentally sick, not that i was bad or deserved the treatment i received, and i am also responsible for who i allow in my life and who i allow to stay. when i moved into that place, i think my focus shifted to me and away from her. now i actually pity her, because i can see the destructive patterns that will play out for her until she gets help. i appreciated you sharing the spiritual view as well, because i tend to view everything as connected, so i do not think people "get away," with anything in the long run, without being too specific
We are all out of it now, thank God or are about to exit it from it. I believe every day that the narcissist looks in the mirror, and sees their authentic self staring back at them, that's their real karma. Having to face themselves, knowing that they have to put on an act and perform. It must get very tiresome.They don't like to be alone with their own reflection. They have to chase after their next big adventure. We on the other hand are ok in our own company keeping it real. We are all moving forward to the beat of our own drum, happy in the knowledge, that we are moving towards a more fulfilling and peaceful existence. "You reap what you sow". Thank you Andrew. 🙏
No truer description Andrew. I was begging my ex partner of 8 years not to leave, after I noticed a real deterioration in his attitude towards me, and him suddenly announcing he wasn’t happy anymore and was going to move in with a sick uncle 80 miles away, which I know now was probably a massive lie, as I never met this man. I will never forget the cold empty stare with the black pupils of his eyes , when he left my crying begging him not to go . These people are stuck in their own emptiness, and are not ever going to change. Use your precious time, making your own life better, and saving your energy for people who actually deserve to be in your life . Sorry if this rambles on a bit .
when I saw his eyes & this glee on his face.... I was shocked.... it was a face/look I had never seen before ( married 30 years) - I didn't know who I was looking at -- the mask had been removed and I was horrified this face belonged to my husband..... it was so dark. No one besides you and Andrew spoke of what they look like when the mask is dropped.
Just had to say I agree completely. It is a human thing sometime have these negative feelings. But in the long run it only get worse. One should never wish any evil upon anyone else. Let the universe take care of these matters. ❤Annie
Hi Andrew. Thanks again for a right on point video. 👍🏻 My observation regarding Karma; if the individual who has left / escaped a Narcissistic relationship and is seeking karma years later on leaving this relationship, then in my opinion a) as you have said- they have not yet heald, but b) they must be very careful not to become a narcissist themselves by projecting ill will or retribution. As you quite rightly say, take the high road and consider ourselves fortunate to have come out from the other dark side of that relationship. Treat others with kindness and respect. In other words, just how you would like to be treated. "Do unto others as others as you would have done unto you" or watch out for those red flags. Smile and the world smiles back. Positivity breeds positivity..... Namaste 🙏🏻 xx
Thank you Andrew for another wonderful video! Everything you covered is 💯 correct. I gave a lot of years to my ex and I have healed❤ it’s a waste of my time to give him any more of my time
I agree with you, but when there is children involved it is a constant challenge. My thoughts are that it will pass and I am on the healing path, I have been using meditation. Meditation has moved me 200 miles from that poison and I’m loving my new environment ❤ I pray but I struggle with alcohol and tobacco. I will over come I have been reducing my self harm and greatly appreciate you and others like you…. THANK YOU ❤
Thank you so much, Andrew, for today message. You helped me through some Dark 👹 times . Thank you SOUL TIES is REAL! I'm FREE 🙏🙌 Health getting better, Gardening 🍅🥬🥒🫑🌶🥕🥔 SELF care,and ❤ I wouldn't change MY PEACE for nothing!🥰😌✨️😊
It has been very tough for me, after the initial SHOCK of it all...I felt sick inside, I felt crazy like I needed to know a reason for this to happen to me. I couldn't understand the WHY, of it all. And as I am learning more and more, I realize that is the way they work. THEY ARE AND ALWAYS WILL BE THAT WAY!!! I am blessed to finally see that I am not at fault. I am blessed to know this channel and find others like myself in need of healing. I am trying daily as I listen to Andrew's videos to remind myself that NOT EVERY BODY THINKS LIKE I DO; AND so also DOES NOT HAVE MY BEST INTERESTS AT HEART! If they abandoned you, it hurts more... try to remember that it is still YOUR CHOICE to not let them invade your space. For once in my life I am being stingy, I am NOT going to let them have access to my heart; because they will just break it again! They can't hurt you anymore. As long as you are hurting, they are still getting supply! Cut them off. They will NEVER change. Get mad about it. As mad as you would get over a stranger stealing your purse. You would not be hurt by the robber... you would be pissed off. They robbed you of your peace, your love and your time and efforts; I know it hurts. And you don't deserve to hurt, I don't deserve it. None of us did anything wrong. I just wish I found out sooner. But I know that I am NOT ALONE! I am right here with you going through this too. You will be in my prayers and I ask you pray for me too. We need each other! Please keep watching Andrew's channel...I learn something new everyday. I get inspired every single day! God Bless You Sweetheart; WE CAN DO THIS, TOGETHER! AMEN
Again you are right. My ex is living his karma, he was not a happy person and he will never be a happy person. I do not think about him and do not wish him bad.
I really like what you have said here. Yes, the mask completely fell off the night before the discard. No doubt about it. You can't forget it afterwards. They are dark at their core. The trauma bond can be broken. Praise God for that. I have broken it. You can't rush the healing. I love your background 🙂🌲🌲🌳. What you are doing is not easy. I most humbly say "thank you". May God's strength, joy & peace be with you ☀️☀️🙂🙂 🪶🪶 🐦
Life is Being Aware of Your Mistakes and Making a Heart Felt Effort to CHANGE.....It is about Finding the COURAGE to CHANGE....and Actually Implementing a PLAN......to Success....For the Narc Leave them Behind and Never Look Back....
Great topic. I'm definitely working on my healing because I still wish worst for the narcissists, lol. Progress over perfection. But each day with our newborn son, I'm learning to be forgiving with the narcissist. Forgive, but never forget.
Forgiveness is for your own well being ( emotionally ). NOT forgetting is the life lesson. 🙂 Just don't wallow in the past - learn the lesson - listen to your intuition < GOD VOICE > when you recognize the 🚩🚩🚩, RUN!!! 😉
yes wolf in sheep clothing. I’ve blocked Him. and I will not ever unblock him . i don’t want anything to happen to him. i want him to to be on his way. i want him to know I will always love him. i tolerated it. but I have knowledge now. And how I cried so many tears and now I need to take care of myself. I need healing in my body. and I will learn to lean on God. Andrew I so want good for him. i don’t want karma. to happen to anyone. . i’m almost out of the trauma bond. To myself be true. i myself no more want or need him in my life.
I keep thinking, no way Andrew can produce a video as excellent as the last, but here comes another! Been through all the anger ( almost impossible to not wish them some form of Karmic justice ), but I'm glad I'm way past that.Your channel has me focused on self improvement and adjusting. Not having boundaries was one, the other was the need to adjust being overly empathic You're not going to believe this- My car was up on the rack and I heard a ghastly scream. The mechanic accidentally severed his finger and the ambulance was called. Of course, it wasn't my fault in any way, but took me days to stop feeling guilty. Narcissists try to control people in negative, exploitive ways. I need to Control my mental patterns and emotions ( most of all ). The focus is now inward to improve. Thanks Andrew, for pointing a way for so many of us!👉🌌
You need to be on National TV and speak to the world about this topic . It is so needed in today’s environment. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. You saved me and continue to bless my wisdom bank and when I go to court to finalize all this. Blessings and much love, sir.
Thank you for this great video, Andrew! "Living inside their head" is the narcissist's karma. This helps me to understand the karma of a narcissist better and I can focus the attention on myself and my healing so I don't need to think about the ex narc much at all. Namaste. 🙏 ❤️ 💡 💡
Anxiety riddled. Never sit stil.....living in fear, looking over their shoulder, move to another town and don't want anyone to know where they now live, open accounts with your address and details where you live...to mislead whomever could be on their case....again Andrew you are spot in with every video you share, and THAT IS WHY the toxic person I was involved in, is addicted to tablets. It keeps them in a state 'to escape-to manage their stress'. I can listen to you fir hours. You are like a daily dose of essential Vitamins. You build us up to make us strong. Thank you Andrew. Love and prayers to everyone on this channel. FOCUS on yourself, listen to Andrew and apply the tools he gives us. Karma never loses a address of the person who try to destroy us. The empath/supplier. Read Gen: 14:14
Thank you Andrew for this great video. So true,keep your energy going into yourself. They are there own Karma. We need our energy to heal and grow and become strong again. We are wounded. Very very badly wounded and we need all our energy for ourself ,what goes around comes around❤
Yes I do not have to take revenge or anyting on on him. Because revenge is mine saith the Lord😅. Truth be told I don't even want that karma on me. That's why I'm staying focused on me and continuing to listen to Andrew. God Bless you 🙏
I think if they get karma or not, should not really concern us, as we have to live our lives as best we can , and not concern ourselves with the narcissist. I guess it's a secret wish for their victims to get a sort of revenge. You are on point as usual Andrew. It is about our healing not the narcissist getting their karma. Stoicism is the best philosophy.
That’s where gaslighting is a huge example their absolutely yes riddled throughout and all over with anxiety but they make other people including us empaths believe it’s us that’s anxious but we’re not the wrong ones . We actually haven’t done anything wrong and we can refrain from wrong but they can’t refrain from wrong and they can’t truly love we can truly love to them the love is just a love they don’t have the true love and true happiness we can have . Sending true love and and true happiness and light 💖💖💖💖
My narc has already got his, he’s got two types of cancer and nobody to help or look after him. Ditto my mother who has leukaemia. She has alienated 2 children and 5 grandchildren. She actually tried to call me a few weeks ago nearly 3 years after I went no contact. I didn’t answer.
It takes time. What helped me was meeting new people and asking them how they feel about me. It helped destroy the negative self beliefs that were implanted by these narcicistic people. Go meet new people!
Andrew, I’m so proud of you. You have come-a-long ways! I as well have grown so much living alone. It has been over a year and a half since I last seen the narcissist that I once lived with. That is my past. I live in the moment. I have changed so much. I love my peace and yes I do think about you and your teachings quite often. Take care!
Amen💯👍❣️wishing bad on others, even one who has devastated you, makes you no better than them...I have literally been so done by my narc partner that I have said I would laugh if you had to be me and know that you have been treated horribly by a loved one based on B's lies and be fat too...with a person who has a perfect metabolism and doesn't gain weight...basically, hoping that there is a way for this person to understand what his behaviors do to others.. but I'm so sad to say that many narcs are not able to feel empathy...I mean, when someone can drag you through it and berate you for crying, and then freak out as if it's the most unbelievable harsh cruel and unjust thing in the world if you give them a dose... it's crazy and I have had him throw me out of my friends home where we had to go after losing mine where he lived free onto the street, but 3 days later begged me back...anyway, I will not be destroyed, no I am getting out...and no, my hope is that he will not get to do this to anyone else and seeks GOD...I just have to be done💯🙏❣️
9:40 The part when Andrew mentions about noticing little hints from up above gave me chills and resonated with my experience! When my narc ex-fiancé told me he was going to leave (discarded me), 20 seconds later the sky turned completely dark out of nowhere and we had one of the biggest storms I’ve ever witnessed. Trees fell down everywhere and we lost power. But then the sun came out ☀️ and even though I felt devastated, I also thought… things are going to be alright. And the sign the universe gave me was correct! I feel so much better now and I feel as if I’ve been reborn 😊
Ugh 😖 TH-cam KEEPS recommending this “Dr. Remani” or whatever her name is. I saw one of her videos a long time ago when I set out to _learn_ about narcissism/ narcissists. I just found her COMPLETELY unrelatable. The reason I stuck with you, Andrew, and this channel since the beginning of my healing journey was because I found you COMPLETELY RELATABLE. I saw the emotions, and watched video after video that somehow made me feel like you knew every DETAIL of my story. And you didn’t need some fancy degree to describe all of it, and you didn’t go into a complex list of psychological terms that I couldn’t understand, much less identify with. You spoke in a way that a fellow Empath could understand, and the emotions that _you_ showed didn’t require an explanation (for me) … I knew what those emotions looked like _and_ felt like. Sorry if that sounds kinda sappy, but that’s how I feel about it 😉☺️☺️❤ I also don’t care much for people who come in here promoting another channel that deals with the same topics as this one. Kinda like you wouldn’t go into a burger joint wearing a tshirt with ANOTHER burger joint’s name on it. It’s just bad manners 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤷♀️
I have seen some only live 45 to 55 years then some otheirs live 80 some years. Not always sure why some live so much longer. I know alot of people who are bad, had alot of bad things happen to them or they happened to others , but we all will get what we got coming. Wisdom has to be earned, think through before you do
For myself I didn't have a job so in order for me to leave I had to get myself together and not count on anyone else. So I found a job, I started saving money so that I could get my own apartment without him knowing and when it was time for me to move on I wasn't devastated because I didn't have a place to live. You have to find strength to get up and fight for yourself, it's tough because The narcissist has made us feel useless, well I say not today, TODAY IS THE DAY OF RECONING!!! You've GOT THIS, WE ARE STRONGER THAN WE LOOK. I'M ROOTING FOR YOU❤❤❤❤❤
Another great video, Andrew. I'm so glad I found your channel a few years ago. All your videos have been such a great help for me and helped me to understand and rebuild. Still hurting more than 10 years on but feeling stronger than ever. Thank you Andrew, God bless you 🙏
👉❤️❤️❤️❤️put the hurt away ,,don't nurture it it's so draining,, live for yourself your best life ,please don't let it hold you captive,,sending love and prayers and Strength,👉❤️❤️❤️👉🙏🙏
@OrionsGlade I think it's because I have 4 children with the narcissist so was unable to make a clean break. Was controlled and manipulated years after the break up. It was mental torture. As the kids have got older things have become easier. Thank you for your kind words x
I went through this for a while. I honestly don’t know if karma is real or an idea but either way, nothing ends well with the narcissist. They’ll dig their own hole 🕳️ just as they’ve done in previous relationships, past friendships, etc. Worrying about the narcissist getting their karma shouldn’t be a priority. The best payback you can give to the narcissist is living the best life you can- without him or her in it.
I know a narcissist that when they get sick, they don’t stay home; hear me out, they love seeing others catch their sickness, no matter who it is. I’ve seen them purposely try to spread their illness. One time when they had c-word, they continued to work. An elderly co worker caught it and passed away. I truly believe this is all I needed to know about this person to stay away from them. Because in many more ways, they love spreading ALL of their illness and love seeing the destruction they cause.
That is so sad that someone would PURPOSELY infect others for their OWN ENJOYMENT. 😔😔😔 What goes around comes around, so GOD may inflict a horrible dis ease on said narc ( not wishing it on narc ) as a correction. ( Prefer correction to judgment/punishment .)
All I want is to be left alone!! I do not wish Karma on anyone, but I will have justice for the absolute evil pointed at me. I can't watch anymore of these, but thank you for sharing your truths. God bless you all, stay safe 🙏 👍
Also like my dad always says, the worst punishment for people like that is they have to be themselves, 100% of the time. They have to live in their own miserable world
💯% correct Andrew. Many that had heal are too busy living the best version of themselves. Their not on narcissist abuse channels. I'm only here in support of Andrew; spreading his experience,wisdom and knowledge. You are a shining light in the dark abyss.
The mind of compassion protects you from harming others and protects you when others harm you. Thus, you let go of anger. Anger really only makes people unhappy. No one really wishes to be angry. Narcissists WILL experience continual suffering and problems because they are like children who’ve not developed. The level of selfishness guarantees they will not feel fulfilled. Real happiness never comes from being selfish. Self-care is not selfish.
Brilliant advice andrew thank you
Welcome..😌💯💜
His advice is right on the money. Has helped me a TON! I'm still healing, but I'm feeling so much better. Andrew, if you're reading this: I blocked some people on FB that I knew were spying on me. Afterwards, I was worried. Couldn't sleep. I thought I made a stupid mistake. But your advice on blocking people is the best. After just 2 days, I knew I made the right decision. After blocking them, the fog lifted.
"If you seek vengeance, dig two graves."
~Confucius
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It’s not easy forgetting about the abuser but every time a negative though comes to mind about the abuser, I pray. That’s where I find courage and peace. Mostly in prayer.
That's a great way to turn it around!❤
PSALM 37
Write down every negative thing they did to you and how horrible it made you feel, this helps me
Yes, prayer is the only way to deal with those thoughts. When we surrender them to God, He gives us strength to move forward and with that comes peace. Journaling helps as well.
@@michellepurcell8703 I did that & told him - he got spooked jumped up & walked out the door. This tells me it's all premeditated - the narc is fully aware of their destructive agenda. However the show continued off & on for yrs - intermittent reinforcement ! Also, they travel in packs...like roaches they hang together...kinda like the lesser of two evils or the devil you know or the devil you don't know..."to sup with the devil you need a long spoon" ... grey rocking is a good tactic ... to exit is Best ! 💣 Dumbass Evil Clowns.🤡
“The Best Revenge Is Not to Be Like Your Enemy” -Marcus Aurelius, Meditations
They say in my society :"
Kidnapped (stolen) is cursed."
You cannot enjoy stolen things. This is exactly the case with narcissists. They steal all their life, but they cannot enjoy what they steal.
Those shekels Judas took for shopping JESUS ? Judas tried to return them to the gang of wicked priests - but - those priests would not accept the shekels...
@@HuHWhat-yi8cp The proverb says that anything you steal from others cannot bring happiness but only misfortune.
@@HuHWhat-yi8cp Judas needed Jesus, not Jesus him.
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“All dreams must end… that are built upon deception “
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Yes very true Temp97,🌼🕊️👉❤️❤️🙏
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the black hole eyes, when you see their demons, sent shudders up my spine
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I saw that too. It's something noone should have to see. Wishing you healing and happiness ❤️🕯️
That will be a LOT of Karma.
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Every day the narc has to look in the mirror. Every night in their dreams they face their evil within.
Their bad karma is relentless! We can let it go and focus on ourself!❤
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Also, at the end of life, they look back with a lot of regrets.
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Hi Jennifer! I hope you had a good weekend with fluffy pillows and a furry kitty.❤🥰😘
In fact, what many don't understand is that narcissists are their own worst enemies.
They have already been punished. They can't enjoy the little things in life. A narcissist is not what he wants to show us with his mask 🎭. Narcissist depends on us, on people, not us on THEM.
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@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone nope, it's not a 💡! I know that 😊💪❤️
Thank you so very much for all of your help 😊 . It has really helped me after 40 years, I finally understand. ❤
Exactly, like my father, he can’t see his grandkids, everyone stays clear of him, he’s getting older and uglier, he thinks he’s this young handsome chap, he looks like tales from the crypt, all he does is smear my name, telling who’ll listen but everyone is becoming more aware of his toxic behavior
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Great post, Andrew. You're so right, we need to focus on ourselves leveling up and healing. What becomes of the narcissist is not our business.
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A Saint who teaches meditation has said several times while teaching. "What you think of me ISN'T MY BUSINESS "😮
Andrew you show us the road out of hell !!❤🎉😂😊😊
Every act of revenge against a narcissist just further cements their hold over our psyche and forfeits our conscious over their mad game.
STOP the cycle of abuse and build your own world of love and happiness!! ❤
Yes! Very well said! TY 😻♥
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👍🏻❤️Thank you great thoughts well stated
Thank you for your message of truth and encouragement, Lio! ❤️ 🙏 🌷 🌻
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IT COMES BACK To them when your joy returns and theirs doesnt
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I wish they would leave me alone. As they continue to attack me, I do wish they would get their Karma soon, being too busy with themselves and leave me alone, so I can live my life without them and in peace. Everyday some new BS. I’m praying that it will stop. Evil demon. Thank you Andrew
The furthest WE remove ourselves from them the less they can affect us. Block, disconnect, remove all flying monkeys and continue to focus on Number One, YOU! ♥😻
@@lourdesecheverria6209 you are right, but I cannot ignore letters from court. I do have to react 🤬
@@tinablok4213 I understand. I have a super thick file from the Court myself. Plenty of letters from attorneys. I, at some point filed for a restraining order and got it. Realized I needed to only communicate with the narc via a third party. And I learned to RESPOND VS REACT. Much love your way and best wishes for a speedy resolution and healing!♥
@@lourdesecheverria6209 thanks 😉
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A narcissist's self-confidence depends on the reactions of the people around him. It doesn't matter at all whether this reaction is positive or negative.
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Really crucial message, Andrew. I agree, totally. If we harbor hatred in our hearts toward the narcissist then they still have control over us. They are still consuming our precious energy. As you are saying, energy that we should be channeling into our healing and living the life of beauty and abundance that awaits each of us. Indeed, the narcissist is their own worst enemy.
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Absolutely and they have to live with themselves.
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@@blessed162 Bottom line - there is no self ! The narc is like the sound of one hand clapping.
It's mad knowing that narc left kid grandkids let alone me her at 56 years old and going to find herself. B.S.
Well said. My thoughts are they are living their karma everyday. They know who they are, know they will never change, and they will never be happy or content.
However, I will heal, move on, and be a better person.
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They ABSOLUTELY HATE being alone and will earn money to buy more "friends " or family members become trapped FOREVER.
All I can say is........SURE WOULDN'T WANT TO BE STANDING IN THEIR SHOES!
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Right! Or anywhere near when it happens!😻😘
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The message of this video is 💯 percent true. The best revenge is a life well lived. Don't concentrate on the narcissist in any way, shape or form.
It's sad that we have to go through the WORST to have the BEST💯. Thank you 🙏😊 Andrew once again. Much love,take care and God bless you 🙏🤗🥰
Yes, it true. I agree with that.
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Part of what helps me cope is that I am very conscious of how to foster a healthy relationship now.. and all the abuse has equipped me for success to the same depth as the hardship.
Trauma bonds are horrendous but you can def get over them. Narc won’t even see the trauma bond so best to forgive and move on- life is so great after healing. - worth it all ❤🎉
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I stopped caring about the narc and recently discovered the narcissists took themselves down.
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That’s exactly what happens. During the discard or post-narcissistic relationship I’d worry that I wasn’t in a good space but it can’t get much worse than the narcissist. She, or the narcissists in general, can not regulate her roller coaster of emotions most of which are negative. It’s usually the narcissist, the evil one, who’s worried about making “people pay for what they did” - not the other way around. That’s not what educated empaths do; that’d be just stooping down to their low.
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I've been thinking about this.....and I figured she will bring herself down. Her behaviour is so so bizarre, manipulative and greedy it will just be a matter of time. Her abuse is also out of control. There is no doubt about it tho she will take her flying monkey down with her or more than likely blameshift all her behaviour onto her flying monkey and others as she did me. 👿😵💫🤑🥴😢😭
They reap what they sow. 🎤⬇️
Greatest truth! 😻♥
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Well you know the old adage "karma's a bitch". I believe that the only karma that's important is mine. I need to learn the lessons i came on this planet to learn so i will be done with those when i leave. And by the way for me the word karma is the same as lessons not learned. According to Dolores Cannon the author, planet earth is the planet where we must eliminate our karma in order to access a different frequency and vibrate higher in an other dimension. I do believe that too because it resonates with me. The karma of the narcs who didn't do right by us is their own. Their responsability. It has nothing to do with us. They also have lessons to learn. It is not our problem. Thank you for this video Andrew and have a wonderful afternoon coach. ❤❤😊
Screenshotting this. Never heard this perspective quite like this before but liking it. ❤
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Of course. Every man on this planet is responsible for himself first.
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Karma is simply the universal law of cause and affect 🙏
Radical acceptance,,see it for what it Really was,,.we got Deceived all of us,,they reeled us in and led us up the garden path,,,to their advantage ,,,,move forward and live ur Best life,,❤❤❤❤❤🙏🙏
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Yes Andrew you are correct. If we are thinking about them, we are not taking care of us! ❤ And I have thoughts on protecting others... I feel like if I tried, I am wasting my VALUABLE TIME!
And its true; 😂 they have to go to sleep and wake up with themselves every single day...ALONE! If I were like them, I would want, as you say, karma on them. I have never wished bad on anyone, because that is who I am. I do sleep better, and get so much more done already. I am blessed, and I will continue to be blessed, AMEN! ❤ Ty again for all you do for us all...❤
Everyday you bless us with more knowledge!!!
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Agree. Our time is the most valuable asset. Time is LIFE! Love your post!♥😻
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I feel like your messages on your videos are personalized and tapped in my mind... you're so spot on. Thank you again.
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I believe that when you wish bad things for "anyone", you will have karma for that as well. In the present moment on any given day, be a light for someone else that really needs it. That's what you are Andrew! Namaste. Everything good will come to you!!!
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I do not care what they get as I knew what they had coming as they manifest their reality with their own negative thoughts. What I do care about is my life and the people in it that are no longer effected by them effecting me. Their mental prison is chosen by them as we can all change. We always do change if we choose to live each day working to be and live our best lives to share with and maintain harmony amongst us. Best to them. No negative thought or action I can have or take is as potent as the ones they create and live in by themselves. We gain bonus points by wishing them the best as wishing them the worst only hurts ourselves. Happy Healing Changing and Becoming Better then you could imagine!
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When the actions of these narcissists actions are explained in this way, then you can really see how terrifying they really are. Inhuman springs to mind.
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Vengeance and hate only destroys and benefits no one.
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It's been 3 months, but there has been no contact. I was in the relationship for 14 years. Still healing. Thanks for your help. God will punish him sooner or later.
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Let God exact karma and let us work on ourselves. Let us not transgress.
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You. Have. Nailed. This. At first seeing the thumbnail, I thought “oh wow brave to take on the karma angle Andrew! 😮 “
But this was exactly what needed to get shared - for all of us! That’s right, the narcs have lost the light and peace that we carried for ourselves - AND THEM. They will keep seeking and devouring with their insatiable appetite to find what can never satisfy them. We can move on in our peace and love and light.
PHENOMENAL message. ❤❤❤
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Hey Grateful, can you see my comment? Something weird seems to be happening 🤔😔😔
I believe he was going through his Karma,,Health wise,because of the past life he lived,so much Medical issues while I was with him,, I wouldn't Wish Karma On Anyone ,, people's sabotage themselves,, by their Lifestyles,, I want to get Better Not Bitter,,,T.Y. Andrew,👉🌟❤️❤️
I love that," I want to get better, not bitter!"❤
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Yes carrying around hate is very un healthy,,,they call it nurtured anger,Not for me,,I want to move on and have a good life 🎉🎉❤❤
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In MY view and experience, every challenge has had positive lesson for me to learn from and become a better person. I have learnt a lot from painful experiences. Now I choose to let go of the past and learn from Joy. As far as the narc goes, I just want to create as much distance and space between us as possible. Don't think about it, don't care. Have too many goals and dreams that take all my focus and energy today. Blessings to all! Namaste! ♥
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The longer one is in the relationship, the longer it takes to break the bond--which appears to break instantly. But it really happens after lots of work.
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It has helped me to realize the anger is part sadness, part defense mechanism. I don’t have to defend myself any more. Now I can let the sadness process. Learning to be kind to yourself and be your own ally creates the person that will meet you at the end.
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Their constant scheming to secure their next desire means they'll never really know peace and what it feels like to be happy with what you have. My feeling is that this is karma enough
Great video, thank you Andrew 🙏
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Very true, Louise, I think the same way that you do and this is their karma. 💕 🙏 🌷
❤️ 👍🏻 I so agree
They are constantly on that same hamster wheel and layers of scheming.
I am so thankful to be released of that toxic environment
My feeling is that the relationship with a narcissist/narcissists are karmic relationships to teach us tough life lessons. If we don't learn them this time around, we'll just get back on the wheel (so to speak), and have to learn the hard lesson next time we incarnate. As for synchronicities, I've seen them for years, but it has increased powerfully since my healing has begun. No coincidence. ❤️❤️✨️✨️
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Sherry I believe this more and more, it's been crystal clear lately 👉❤️❤️🙏🌺🕊️
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Well said yet this 'Knowledge is Structured in Consciousness, therefore I "JUMP MY KARMA". Thx Andrew for the Absolute Truths revealed from the Akashic and human experience simultaneously. ❤
As you say “God Bless them just do it away from me”
It gives much space to cause positive effects when we focus on ourselves not them or their consequences 💗
From a retired therapist, This has been very helpful. And it does take a long time, so we need to be patient with our own progress. Thank you!
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Thank You Andrew for being a big part of my healing path🙏 The narcissist lives in the Karma of his actions. They are the energy vampires. My ex couldn’t stop moving and talking. Always, the victim. He lost most of his true friends and good look. Mutual friend told me, he’s keeping company with the undesirables and paying for it. I had to have to go though what I have to go though to get where I’m going. I’m wiser and stronger due to this experience. Knowing I have something he would never have: Inner peace. That is my revenge and his karma. Namaste 🙏
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you're right. i felt this "desire for revenge, or desire to see her down," so to speak, but it was a phase that only lasted some time. when i learned more about narcissism, i realized this person is mentally sick, not that i was bad or deserved the treatment i received, and i am also responsible for who i allow in my life and who i allow to stay. when i moved into that place, i think my focus shifted to me and away from her. now i actually pity her, because i can see the destructive patterns that will play out for her until she gets help.
i appreciated you sharing the spiritual view as well, because i tend to view everything as connected, so i do not think people "get away," with anything in the long run, without being too specific
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As I wipe my tears…. You’re so right. Thank you 🙏
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We are all out of it now, thank God or are about to exit it from it. I believe every day that the narcissist looks in the mirror, and sees their authentic self staring back at them, that's their real karma. Having to face themselves, knowing that they have to put on an act and perform. It must get very tiresome.They don't like to be alone with their own reflection. They have to chase after their next big adventure. We on the other hand are ok in our own company keeping it real. We are all moving forward to the beat of our own drum, happy in the knowledge, that we are moving towards a more fulfilling and peaceful existence. "You reap what you sow". Thank you Andrew. 🙏
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No truer description Andrew. I was begging my ex partner of 8 years not to leave, after I noticed a real deterioration in his attitude towards me, and him suddenly announcing he wasn’t happy anymore and was going to move in with a sick uncle 80 miles away, which I know now was probably a massive lie, as I never met this man. I will never forget the cold empty stare with the black pupils of his eyes , when he left my crying begging him not to go . These people are stuck in their own emptiness, and are not ever going to change. Use your precious time, making your own life better, and saving your energy for people who actually deserve to be in your life . Sorry if this rambles on a bit .
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when I saw his eyes & this glee on his face.... I was shocked.... it was a face/look I had never seen before ( married 30 years) - I didn't know who I was looking at -- the mask had been removed and I was horrified this face belonged to my husband..... it was so dark. No one besides you and Andrew spoke of what they look like when the mask is dropped.
This September it was two years. So difficult 😞 it has changed my life forever. I appreciate all your wisdom.
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My narcissist took a reliable personality test and tested psychotic. I was so shocked!
I know a narc who got karma big time and actually I’m quite pleased. It was SMACK.
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Just had to say I agree completely. It is a human thing sometime have these negative feelings. But in the long run it only get worse. One should never wish any evil upon anyone else. Let the universe take care of these matters. ❤Annie
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IMO that is called surrendering it to GOD. 🙂
When I FINALLY did that, I found that ☮️beyond all understanding for myself. 🙂
Hi Andrew. Thanks again for a right on point video. 👍🏻
My observation regarding Karma; if the individual who has left / escaped a Narcissistic relationship and is seeking karma years later on leaving this relationship, then in my opinion a) as you have said- they have not yet heald, but b) they must be very careful not to become a narcissist themselves by projecting ill will or retribution. As you quite rightly say, take the high road and consider ourselves fortunate to have come out from the other dark side of that relationship. Treat others with kindness and respect. In other words, just how you would like to be treated. "Do unto others as others as you would have done unto you" or watch out for those red flags.
Smile and the world smiles back. Positivity breeds positivity.....
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Very true words
Well said. Thanks.
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Thank you Andrew for another wonderful video! Everything you covered is 💯 correct. I gave a lot of years to my ex and I have healed❤ it’s a waste of my time to give him any more of my time
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I agree with you, but when there is children involved it is a constant challenge. My thoughts are that it will pass and I am on the healing path, I have been using meditation. Meditation has moved me 200 miles from that poison and I’m loving my new environment ❤
I pray but I struggle with alcohol and tobacco. I will over come I have been reducing my self harm and greatly appreciate you and others like you…. THANK YOU ❤
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Thank you so much, Andrew, for today message. You helped me through some Dark 👹 times . Thank you SOUL TIES is REAL! I'm FREE 🙏🙌 Health getting better, Gardening 🍅🥬🥒🫑🌶🥕🥔 SELF care,and ❤ I wouldn't change MY PEACE for nothing!🥰😌✨️😊
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When will the pain stop. I know it was right for me to leave… it just hurts.
Yes, it is very painful. Slowly your pain turns in to strength for you to live your best life.🕊️💕💪🏻
Attempted soul murder. Like their father satan they are sent to steal - kill - destroy. That hate they oozed out had zilch to do with us. 🥳
It has been very tough for me, after the initial SHOCK of it all...I felt sick inside, I felt crazy like I needed to know a reason for this to happen to me. I couldn't understand the WHY, of it all. And as I am learning more and more, I realize that is the way they work. THEY ARE AND ALWAYS WILL BE THAT WAY!!!
I am blessed to finally see that I am not at fault. I am blessed to know this channel and find others like myself in need of healing. I am trying daily as I listen to Andrew's videos to remind myself that NOT EVERY BODY THINKS LIKE I DO; AND so also DOES NOT HAVE MY BEST INTERESTS AT HEART!
If they abandoned you, it hurts more... try to remember that it is still YOUR CHOICE to not let them invade your space.
For once in my life I am being stingy, I am NOT going to let them have access to my heart; because they will just break it again! They can't hurt you anymore. As long as you are hurting, they are still getting supply! Cut them off. They will NEVER change. Get mad about it. As mad as you would get over a stranger stealing your purse. You would not be hurt by the robber... you would be pissed off.
They robbed you of your peace, your love and your time and efforts; I know it hurts. And you don't deserve to hurt, I don't deserve it. None of us did anything wrong. I just wish I found out sooner. But I know that I am NOT ALONE! I am right here with you going through this too.
You will be in my prayers and I ask you pray for me too. We need each other!
Please keep watching Andrew's channel...I learn something new everyday. I get inspired every single day! God Bless You Sweetheart; WE CAN DO THIS, TOGETHER! AMEN
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@@emilywilson7308 I am trying. My strength is running out. I don’t want to do this anymore or be here. I am so so tired of crying.
Once again you saved the day🎉🎉🎉
My mind has been poisoned so much by these excuses.
Good shall always triumph over evil.
The Phoenix has risen.
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Again you are right. My ex is living his karma, he was not a happy person and he will never be a happy person. I do not think about him and do not wish him bad.
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I really like what you have said here. Yes, the mask completely fell off the night before the discard. No doubt about it. You can't forget it afterwards. They are dark at their core. The trauma bond can be broken. Praise God for that. I have broken it. You can't rush the healing. I love your background 🙂🌲🌲🌳. What you are doing is not easy. I most humbly say "thank you". May God's strength, joy & peace be with you ☀️☀️🙂🙂 🪶🪶 🐦
TaKe the high road you will feel better in the end❤
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Your observation on the reality is testimony to your experience ♥️
Love what you are doing. Wish I had your courage 💕
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You do have the courage! You just have not tapped into it yet.💪🏻🌈☀️
You will have the courage. Keep focused on yourself, not the people who have tried to harm you . Their lives won’t change . Yours can
Life is Being Aware of Your Mistakes and Making a Heart Felt Effort to CHANGE.....It is about Finding the COURAGE to CHANGE....and Actually Implementing a PLAN......to Success....For the Narc Leave them Behind and Never Look Back....
Great topic. I'm definitely working on my healing because I still wish worst for the narcissists, lol. Progress over perfection. But each day with our newborn son, I'm learning to be forgiving with the narcissist. Forgive, but never forget.
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God bless your precious baby boy 👶💙😊 and you.
Forgiveness is for your own well being ( emotionally ).
NOT forgetting is the life lesson. 🙂
Just don't wallow in the past - learn the lesson - listen to your intuition < GOD VOICE > when you recognize the 🚩🚩🚩, RUN!!! 😉
yes wolf in sheep clothing. I’ve blocked Him. and I will not ever unblock him . i don’t want anything to happen to him. i want him to to be on his way. i want him to know I will always love him. i tolerated it. but I have knowledge now. And how I cried so many tears and now I need to take care of myself. I need healing in my body. and I will learn to lean on God. Andrew I so want good for him. i don’t want karma. to happen to anyone. . i’m almost out of the trauma bond. To myself be true. i myself no more want or need him in my life.
Blessings on your path 👍
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I keep thinking, no way Andrew can produce a video as excellent as the last, but here comes another! Been through all the anger ( almost impossible to not wish them some form of Karmic justice ), but I'm glad I'm way past that.Your channel has me focused on self improvement and adjusting. Not having boundaries was one, the other was the need to adjust being overly empathic You're not going to believe this- My car was up on the rack and I heard a ghastly scream. The mechanic accidentally severed his finger and the ambulance was called. Of course, it wasn't my fault in any way, but took me days to stop feeling guilty.
Narcissists try to control people in negative, exploitive ways. I need to Control my mental patterns and emotions ( most of all ). The focus is now inward to improve.
Thanks Andrew, for pointing a way for so many of us!👉🌌
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One good point Andrew made here is that if you do good good things will happen to you. That’s karma returning what was taken from you.
You need to be on National TV and speak to the world about this topic . It is so needed in today’s environment. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. You saved me and continue to bless my wisdom bank and when I go to court to finalize all this. Blessings and much love, sir.
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Thank you for this great video, Andrew! "Living inside their head" is the narcissist's karma. This helps me to understand the karma of a narcissist better and I can focus the attention on myself and my healing so I don't need to think about the ex narc much at all. Namaste. 🙏 ❤️ 💡 💡
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So true 👍🏼focus on healing from within 👍🏼if we focus on the narcissist - it will seem as if they moved on happily 🤷♀️ and that only makes us bitter 😑
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Reaping what is sown is inescapable, so why worry?
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Anxiety riddled. Never sit stil.....living in fear, looking over their shoulder, move to another town and don't want anyone to know where they now live, open accounts with your address and details where you live...to mislead whomever could be on their case....again Andrew you are spot in with every video you share, and THAT IS WHY the toxic person I was involved in, is addicted to tablets. It keeps them in a state 'to escape-to manage their stress'. I can listen to you fir hours. You are like a daily dose of essential Vitamins. You build us up to make us strong. Thank you Andrew. Love and prayers to everyone on this channel. FOCUS on yourself, listen to Andrew and apply the tools he gives us. Karma never loses a address of the person who try to destroy us. The empath/supplier. Read Gen: 14:14
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Thank you Andrew for this great video.
So true,keep your energy going into yourself.
They are there own Karma.
We need our energy to heal and grow and become strong again.
We are wounded.
Very very badly wounded and we need all our energy for ourself ,what goes around comes around❤
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Yes I do not have to take revenge or anyting on on him. Because revenge is mine saith the Lord😅. Truth be told I don't even want that karma on me. That's why I'm staying focused on me and continuing to listen to Andrew. God Bless you 🙏
Andrew thank God I found you this was not a coincidence
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Their karma is that their a narcissist and stuck like that for life.
Don't waste your precious time. Today, is a very challenging day for me. I will survive! Freedom rocks, and better late than never.❣️🍁🍂
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I think if they get karma or not, should not really concern us, as we have to live our lives as best we can , and not concern ourselves with the narcissist. I guess it's a secret wish for their victims to get a sort of revenge. You are on point as usual Andrew. It is about our healing not the narcissist getting their karma. Stoicism is the best philosophy.
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hi all,feeling good today 💯
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That’s where gaslighting is a huge example their absolutely yes riddled throughout and all over with anxiety but they make other people including us empaths believe it’s us that’s anxious but we’re not the wrong ones . We actually haven’t done anything wrong and we can refrain from wrong but they can’t refrain from wrong and they can’t truly love we can truly love to them the love is just a love they don’t have the true love and true happiness we can have . Sending true love and and true happiness and light 💖💖💖💖
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thank you man, you're doing a great work
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Just gotta love this guy....Thank-you again, Andrew🥰
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My narc has already got his, he’s got two types of cancer and nobody to help or look after him. Ditto my mother who has leukaemia. She has alienated 2 children and 5 grandchildren. She actually tried to call me a few weeks ago nearly 3 years after I went no contact. I didn’t answer.
It takes time. What helped me was meeting new people and asking them how they feel about me. It helped destroy the negative self beliefs that were implanted by these narcicistic people. Go meet new people!
Andrew, I’m so proud of you. You have come-a-long ways! I as well have grown so much living alone. It has been over a year and a half since I last seen the narcissist that I once lived with. That is my past. I live in the moment. I have changed so much. I love my peace and yes I do think about you and your teachings quite often. Take care!
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Perfect point Andrew! 🙌 Having to live in their head is hell and their own punishment. 💯 THANK YOU for your daily wisdom 🙏
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Amen💯👍❣️wishing bad on others, even one who has devastated you, makes you no better than them...I have literally been so done by my narc partner that I have said I would laugh if you had to be me and know that you have been treated horribly by a loved one based on B's lies and be fat too...with a person who has a perfect metabolism and doesn't gain weight...basically, hoping that there is a way for this person to understand what his behaviors do to others.. but I'm so sad to say that many narcs are not able to feel empathy...I mean, when someone can drag you through it and berate you for crying, and then freak out as if it's the most unbelievable harsh cruel and unjust thing in the world if you give them a dose... it's crazy and I have had him throw me out of my friends home where we had to go after losing mine where he lived free onto the street, but 3 days later begged me back...anyway, I will not be destroyed, no I am getting out...and no, my hope is that he will not get to do this to anyone else and seeks GOD...I just have to be done💯🙏❣️
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9:40 The part when Andrew mentions about noticing little hints from up above gave me chills and resonated with my experience! When my narc ex-fiancé told me he was going to leave (discarded me), 20 seconds later the sky turned completely dark out of nowhere and we had one of the biggest storms I’ve ever witnessed. Trees fell down everywhere and we lost power. But then the sun came out ☀️ and even though I felt devastated, I also thought… things are going to be alright. And the sign the universe gave me was correct! I feel so much better now and I feel as if I’ve been reborn 😊
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I dont let the things that happened in my life be in charge of what happens next
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Ugh 😖 TH-cam KEEPS recommending this “Dr. Remani” or whatever her name is. I saw one of her videos a long time ago when I set out to _learn_ about narcissism/ narcissists. I just found her COMPLETELY unrelatable. The reason I stuck with you, Andrew, and this channel since the beginning of my healing journey was because I found you COMPLETELY RELATABLE. I saw the emotions, and watched video after video that somehow made me feel like you knew every DETAIL of my story. And you didn’t need some fancy degree to describe all of it, and you didn’t go into a complex list of psychological terms that I couldn’t understand, much less identify with. You spoke in a way that a fellow Empath could understand, and the emotions that _you_ showed didn’t require an explanation (for me) … I knew what those emotions looked like _and_ felt like. Sorry if that sounds kinda sappy, but that’s how I feel about it 😉☺️☺️❤ I also don’t care much for people who come in here promoting another channel that deals with the same topics as this one. Kinda like you wouldn’t go into a burger joint wearing a tshirt with ANOTHER burger joint’s name on it. It’s just bad manners 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤷♀️
Agree. Kinda like showing respect for the house Andrew built. Respect.
I have seen some only live 45 to 55 years then some otheirs live 80 some years.
Not always sure why some live so much longer.
I know alot of people who are bad, had alot of bad things happen to them or they happened to others , but we all will get what we got coming.
Wisdom has to be earned, think through before you do
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For myself I didn't have a job so in order for me to leave I had to get myself together and not count on anyone else. So I found a job, I started saving money so that I could get my own apartment without him knowing and when it was time for me to move on I wasn't devastated because I didn't have a place to live. You have to find strength to get up and fight for yourself, it's tough because The narcissist has made us feel useless, well I say not today, TODAY IS THE DAY OF RECONING!!! You've GOT THIS, WE ARE STRONGER THAN WE LOOK. I'M ROOTING FOR YOU❤❤❤❤❤
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Andrew, Thank you for each and everyone of your videos. The Beatles got it right in their song, 'Let it be' and there will be an answer. 🙏❤️🌺
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Another great video, Andrew. I'm so glad I found your channel a few years ago. All your videos have been such a great help for me and helped me to understand and rebuild. Still hurting more than 10 years on but feeling stronger than ever. Thank you Andrew, God bless you 🙏
👉❤️❤️❤️❤️put the hurt away ,,don't nurture it it's so draining,, live for yourself your best life ,please don't let it hold you captive,,sending love and prayers and Strength,👉❤️❤️❤️👉🙏🙏
They have helped me too
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@OrionsGlade I think it's because I have 4 children with the narcissist so was unable to make a clean break. Was controlled and manipulated years after the break up. It was mental torture. As the kids have got older things have become easier. Thank you for your kind words x
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I went through this for a while. I honestly don’t know if karma is real or an idea but either way, nothing ends well with the narcissist. They’ll dig their own hole 🕳️ just as they’ve done in previous relationships, past friendships, etc. Worrying about the narcissist getting their karma shouldn’t be a priority. The best payback you can give to the narcissist is living the best life you can- without him or her in it.
I know a narcissist that when they get sick, they don’t stay home; hear me out, they love seeing others catch their sickness, no matter who it is. I’ve seen them purposely try to spread their illness. One time when they had c-word, they continued to work. An elderly co worker caught it and passed away. I truly believe this is all I needed to know about this person to stay away from them. Because in many more ways, they love spreading ALL of their illness and love seeing the destruction they cause.
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That is so sad that someone would PURPOSELY infect others for their OWN ENJOYMENT. 😔😔😔
What goes around comes around, so GOD may inflict a horrible dis ease on said narc ( not wishing it on narc ) as a correction. ( Prefer correction to judgment/punishment .)
I believe that they are getting their KARMA when you LEARN.
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All I want is to be left alone!! I do not wish Karma on anyone, but I will have justice for the absolute evil pointed at me. I can't watch anymore of these, but thank you for sharing your truths. God bless you all, stay safe 🙏 👍
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Also like my dad always says, the worst punishment for people like that is they have to be themselves, 100% of the time. They have to live in their own miserable world
You said this very thing! I left my comment before I’d watched the whole video 😂😘
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💯% correct Andrew. Many that had heal are too busy living the best version of themselves. Their not on narcissist abuse channels. I'm only here in support of Andrew; spreading his experience,wisdom and knowledge. You are a shining light in the dark abyss.
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The mind of compassion protects you from harming others and protects you when others harm you. Thus, you let go of anger.
Anger really only makes people unhappy. No one really wishes to be angry.
Narcissists WILL experience continual suffering and problems because they are like children who’ve not developed. The level of selfishness guarantees they will not feel fulfilled. Real happiness never comes from being selfish. Self-care is not selfish.
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I broke those trauma bonds too and it was not easy at all. It actually took quite a while and thats ok. Just make the start and never look back.
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