It’s HINDZ on another one. 👏🏾 I’d really love to sit with you on a podcast or video and talk deep and maybe reflect and learn from you. You inspire me yo! I GOT A STORY TO TELL too. Love you man 💯🚀
I started my TH-cam channel to speak my truth and to help people spark their consciousness. My brother shared my channel information with my toxic family members. Now I feel fear to speak out about issues that had affected me from childhood. I'm doing my best to overcome. Thank you for this video! You encourage me to put my heart in the right place and speak my truth.
Thank you hindz ❤ you have inspired me to get into action and create more artwork and not care what others may think, and just express myself authentically and mindful of my spirit. Thank you for creating this community ❤
Extra Words - And when you have an opportunity to do something amazing, even if it's not what you want to seek give it a try and have fun doing it because you will learn a great deal about what you want to do in life. Because doing what you are not sure of doing allows you to get closer to whatever it is that your heart truly longs for. Be open to trying new things and you will have less and I hope no regrets in life.
7 things to remember about caring what others think: 1. Everyone has insecurities of their own 2. Your value isn’t dependent on how much people like you 3. What others think isn’t your business anyways 4. People usually forget our “embarrassing” moments within seconds. 5. There is nothing wrong with being different than others. 6. You are by far your worst critic 7. We will all die, why waste life unable to express yourself fully
This really happened to me this morning! Woke up in such a weird mood but reminded myself that I can set the tone for my day..change my attitude and peace it was xo
@@Rels22 i get that a lot... the first 15 minutes after i wake up im so unmotivated and kinda stressed. But i always calm myself down, cause i know it's my sleepiness manipulating me
A wise sage once said 'What other people think of us is none of our business!' Living authentically will annoy the hell out of others because they are not living authentically. Say a prayer for them and stop apologising for being happy! 🙏🏽
i started crying because i’m afraid to be authentic and show people that. I don’t want to lead out of fear anymore, I want to lead with love and find those who will follow :)
Love love love I feel you. I struggle standing up for myself but it happened today. I did. And it felt like I was breathing fire. Take one step at a time. Start in little ways to build your confidence. Don’t let fear stop you. We see u ✨
I follow love along with you I know that love shall guide me to new beginnings and new experiences I love all no matter what I support all for their desires and passion
It is crazy how much my mindset has changed ever since i found your channel. I am also at the point of my life where I simply Love being on my own, I am isolated from the world and they probably do think I'm crazy or depressed but I am HAPPY, I am at peace.I deleted all my social media because I was constantly comparing myself to everyone I would see and feel left out, not good enough. I listen to your videos every morning, I probably watch 4 or 5 videos everyday and sometimes watch them all over again. I'm so thankful for you hindz, for being a teacher to all of us, I am thankful for everyone here tuning in
Definitely Profound wisdom.... I'm glad I can come and get Tea here 🍵... I feel like we have "Uncle Iroh" here in the flesh ....and I'm here for every moment of it !!!
as a person who has struggled IMMENSELY with my self love and caring what others think, i’ve learned that loving yourself is the ultimate form of protection and guidance…
I wish you all the success! Keep going and don't give up! Wherever you are now is exactly where you're meant to be. Remember that life is everchanging and things will come and go~
I just quit my job for a new one and the new one has let me down. I'm taking it as a sign that it's time for me to go for my dream of being a full time artist and im going at it with all of my energy! ! This video came at just the right time, thank you HINDZ!! 💜
"A seed is planted in the dark" is so profound. Been working hard for the past 6 years and the journey has been such a challenge. Horrible bosses, plenty of setbacks, rejections, snubs the list is long but we keep moving. I keep nurturing my gifts. Each challenge has groomed me. Started a TH-cam channel this year, and I've been avoiding it. I didn't want to be on camera either, but I just decided to jump in this year. It's a small channel but I'm enjoying the processes and the creative outlet.
Wow 6 YEARS ! that's impressively strong of you. i genuinely hope you fight through all the struggles and get stronger and more creative. With time i hope that you gain all that you dream of ! All the best, never give up
I’m gonna get into action. My family has harshly judged and determined my first steps for too long. Even now as I’m approaching one the first big ages, I find myself still waiting for their approval. My friends are supportive but i ultimately have ended up changing my trajectory to try to please the family. I’ve already stopped attending church and I doubt I’ll be voting like they say I should. My depression and anxiety are the products of not feeling free to express myself. Now, I just have to be mindful that nobody knows what I have growing inside of me. I’m gonna keep creating with music!! (I have so many ideas guys … IM SO EXCITED!!!)
Recently I've been meditating on the thought "what if I was accepted for being myself?" and that has opened up so many doors for me. I am committing to expressing myself through movement because that is what lights up my spirit! If you're reading this I'm cheering for you ♡♡
My main problem is that I get in my own way. I'm such a perfectionist, my fear of creating stems from not satisfying my inner critic to the point where I'd rather create nothing than create something that isn't up to my own standards. Posting on my TH-cam channel is helping me break out of that mindset, but I still have a long way to go 💫
That’s the beauty of creativity✨ nothing is ever truly perfect but the imperfections of your art in any form is what’s perfect 💚 you’ve got this, I believe in you!
Duuuude, I've been struggling with working in corporate America and my peers have been judging me as if something is wrong with me. I know I don't flourish in corporate settings and refuse to assimilate because the juice isn't worth the squeeze. I would rather spend my time in a way that serves myself and those I love much more. I'm in the planning stages of starting my own design business. Lots of meditation, journaling and organizing my thoughts. The encouragement is always appreciated. YOU ARE A HERO ❤
.. So you are another Hero, maybe you can't see it yet! You have all the power and answers within your true self 🤗 recognize who you are and allow it to emerge from down there 💗🙏🌺
I've been so scared of a lot of things especially starting my TH-cam channel as a Nigerian guy. I took the courage and started posting. its been 5months and so far so good. I'm wearing my heart on my sleeves and hving a good go at my dreams regardless of negativity around me.
It seems like it’s so much easier to point out what we don’t like, don’t agree with, or find to be a problem. To be mindful truly is an art we need a lot of practice in.
Since finding your channel last night, I pulled myself out of the deepest depression. I lost all hope for life, been sleeping for 18 hours a day, haven’t ate in a week. It’s just been bad but the information and vibes you give on your channel has really helped me words can’t explain! Todays the first day but I’m hoping to keep the momentum going in an upward motion. Thank you 🙏🏾
I'm currently in treatment and one of the difficult things I struggle with during groups is speaking during AA or any other group that is held. Participating in the discussions that are held is what's difficult for me because I fear that people will judge what I have to say. But now I understand that people are going to judge or ridicule no matter what. You're completely right, as part of my healing journey I will no longer fear whay people think as long as I'm leading with love. I will start to participate in group discussions from now on because I know for myself that my heart is in the right place. Thank you for this! I will no longer struggle with social anxiety. :)
I’m getting into action, I will raise my hand and be more of a social butterfly. I’ll show everyone who I really am, only to those ppl who don’t rlly know me. I wont be scared of being judged of what I do. Even if it’s my parents.
In my experience, the pain of not expressing your authentic self is a worse option than the possibility of ridicule that may come from time to time when you decide to share your heart. Hugs to all on the journey
I did all the "right" things; school, bachelor, masters... but I didn't feel fulfilled. In silence, I took a course in creative writing, at the same time I started becoming a personal trainer. It was where my heart was all along... Yes, I've been judged, I still am, but focusing on the negativity can blow out the fire of passion unless I'm mindful. Thanks for the reminder! ❤
I have two degrees and I am just not sure what to do with them. I am an adult mental health therapist and it is hard AF. These past few days I’ve been called to write, I’m not that good at it but it’s something that keeps come up for me. also I was looking into dance and personal training or working with nutrition.
@@Evajjane Tried writing and/or dancing on the side of you current job? Do it if you can and see if you can grow it to become something more if it give ou that *spark*!
This video content resonated with me. I like that affirmation, “I’m going to be the best version of myself”. I often say to people “I’m a working progress”.
This video made me so excited to start expressing myself more. I've realized that I really lean on the validation of others. But I've decided that I want to take full responsibility for all my choices, even the mistakes. Because that's ME. I don't want to be anyone else. God brought me here to your channel, thank you!
Hi Hindz, I know that this video is pretty old and you might never see this, but I just wanted to thank you. You became a light and a guide in my life when I was at one of my lowest moments. And listening to your wisdom was one of the only things that brought me comfort. I am in a much better place now and I know a big reason for that is you being yourself and expressing - so really, thank you so much. I needed this word today. I have struggled with self acceptance and expression for a good portion of my young adult life. I've always just wanted to fit in, as many of us are conditioned to do in this society. However, i've recently been thrust into a period of isolation where i've finally had the opportunity to look at myself without any outside influence, and what i've discovered that I like it a lot better than who I was pretending to be :)
I identify myself so much with your comment, it's insane. I'm just a stranger but I wanna say I'm very proud of you and you inspire me so much to be the same
I’m going to start taking control of my responsibilities. A few examples are my family, schoolwork, sports, expression, eating habits, and sleep. I will make it through high school.
I’ve all my life been programmed with such a deep fear of being myself til I completely buried myself. I’ve always loved myself I couldn’t understand why I’m not accepted. It’s like no one wanted me to talk or be myself so I was mute for a long time. I’m now breaking out and afraid of what’s coming out. But I can’t hold back anymore. Thank you for this space it’s such a healing vibe. I’m going to finish my degree, start my business and be me 🤗
Wow! Sounds like such a similar place to what I’ve been in, same way for me growing up but I almost couldn’t take it any more! Good for you and don’t ever give up! You’ve got this🧡
That’s amazing! I have similar issues with breaking out of my shell as well, but you have given me little courage to go out for what I want to do, and I believe you will be successful, thank you and good luck love !!!💓💓
Really really needed this, especially when those opinionated words are come from the family, when you grew up a certain way and your heads filled with judgement there's no such thing as being optimistic. I wanna nourish this seed that's within me until I am best my self and so I can recieve and attract only the best no matter how many times I have to start over to do so, staying true to myself and avoiding Intaking other people's negative thoughts towards you is imminent, I really needed this reminder. Thank you hindz. Much love over here ❤️
Recently stopped smoking cannabis after 16 years more than half my lifetime (it’s extremely enduring and one of the hardest but most fruitful journeys for me so far),yet feel like I’m experiencing myself to a true extent for the first time since early childhood. Your content voice and work could not have been discovered at a better time thank you Hindz as well as the community curated here. Love and gratitude.
I’m applying to college a semester late to focus on my small business before going to school for psychology (which I love!) but I also love this little business and would love to support myself that way. But my grandma called me the other day and gave me a very discouraging lecture about how it seems as though I am doing nothing and I’ll end up a “loser” this video came in perfect timing. She’s judging my first step! That’s okay, I’ll keep going :) and I wish you all beautiful blessings & success 🤍
Good for you! ❤️ I understand what it’s like to have family members look down on you and cast judgment, it can be so painful! Sending all the best to you ✨
This has to be a sign for me because I am interested in psychology as well! And I hope your business succeeds and you succeed in life as well, as beings we hVe to encourage one another because we don’t get as much courage from the ones we love, I am proud of you for taking your first step and I have just started taking mine as well! 🥰🥰
This is an old vid but just popping in the comments to say I've been getting in my own way for the past 15 years roughly since leaving school never knowing what mark I want to leave on the world. Have finally decided I want to share my gifts and write, and create and wave the flag for my fellow lost souls ❤❤
I have been in the dumps for a while and have been hating & avoiding a picture my mom took of me when I was 9 because my face had so much confidence, hope and joy. 9 yr old me didn’t know that in 19yrs I wouldn’t have as much hope in my future as I did. 9 yr old me didn’t know that things would go south and I’d be a shadow mixed in a ball of anxiety, self doubt and shame. That I’d allow people to dictate my future and self worth. But whiles listening to this video, I looked at that picture and I realized 9 yr old me doesn’t deserve this, she’s too strong to succumb to the pressures of my now, she’d be so curious to see how I overcame to be the best version of my self and I’d be doing her a huge injustice to not craft my own identity and rediscover who I am. Seriously I’ve started to love that picture.
I want to say that the one judging me, putting m down, and stopping my potential is myself. Today I choose me, today I choose to take action and tap into my potential. Spreading good energy to all; here's to our journey!!!
I’m definitely taking action. This video made it click for me. Thank you. My heart is always in the right place but I use to care too much. Now, I overstand. My heart is here to help others. No worries. Thank you Hindz!
I’m going to take action! 2023 will be the year I become the best version of myself. I will love myself more and trust myself more! I hope that we all can succeed and support one another!!💗
This goes well with overthinking. I overthink a lot about being my true self because of what the next person may think/or perceive me. But recently I thought to myself what does it matter like really? What does it matter about what the next person think. And it doesn’t matter! Your channel has great content my guy, keep working!
I need this the most. I usually think about what people would say instead of minding my own and doing what I need to do. Whether I want red but people want blue, I go for whatever I want as long as it Is good. There’s no joy in settling for others judgments if they can’t save themselves. And you know what, none of us can judge ourselves when we’re buried six fit under. This is what I believe. I GOT A STORY TO TELL 🏁
You’re right. It’s time to stop focusing on possibilities on what could happen and what people could say about my art and my personality. It’s not up to them to decide what I feel and what I want. I am becoming my best self.
Wow the divine timing of this video. I’m at a crossroads with an important decision right now and I’ve found myself seeking everyone else’s opinions & validity rather than just trusting myself. I know what the best decision is for my life but I don’t trust it. This is just what I needed ♥️ Thank you!
You're not alone there. We've been taught to not trust ourselves from a young age, and now we see that that's not working for what we want. You got this. Baby steps.
Keep going day by day. Tony Robbins said that people naturally will overthink what they can do in a year but under think what they can achieve in 5 years! Can you imagine what 10 years can do!
Was just reeling this weekend over my need to care about every little thing people say about me/give their words a lot of weight. You’re always right on time!
i'm ready to simply express myself even more now, not afraid to speak up about my thoughts and no longer be accustomed to being a "people-pleaser", my thoughts and opinions deserve to be heard
I started an Instagram for my poetry and art a while ago and just stopped because I was scared to let people see what I wrote and painted. But you are so right! Let them judge because they don’t know where my heart is. It helps me to write and it helps me to paint so why should I not do that because others decide it’s “different”. I’m so happy I found this community and channel💜😊
This is such a peaceful place to be in 🧘🏾♀️ I had to learn life isn’t meant to be taken too seriously, that helped me really not give af about what other ppl think
Today I will shift. I was afraid of my mom critisizing and judging me for going in my path. I fear her shaming me and telling to do things her way, and talking down to me as if I'm stupid or less for going down a path that is not "for show" or for business. I will start my showing up in my authentic truths.
I am going to college to get my degree for sonography, I am going to stop procrastinating and doubting myself. Because what people think or say about has NOTHING to do with me.🙏🏾🌻❤️
I’m going to get into action…I’ve had a really bad/hard year while on deployment and I’m ready to start a new journey… thank you 🙏🏽 I needed to hear this
Lord knows I needed to hear this this morning. I’ve always been someone who struggles with criticism and other people’s opinions. Thank you for helping me shift my perspective and understanding that my decisions and intentions show that my heart is in the right place. Always! I’m gonna get into action!
THANK YOU SOOOO MUCH FOR YOUR WISDOM in this message. My fear of other people’s opinions (especially family) has been holding me back. I needed to hear this message in this exact moment. 🙏🏽 I will be sharing this with others.
My journey has been that I'm the first to change in my family. I'm met with heavy judgement from my family, only for them to make the same exact change 2 or 3 years later. I don't force my ideals on them, I don't say, they should because I do. I just make the change to my life. It's incredibly annoying.
I’ve been trying to start a TH-cam channel and podcast for over 5 years. I haven’t started because I keep comparing myself to bigger TH-camrs. I learned that I need to focus on targeting a smaller audience for support first
I’m currently in the season of change. I’ve had my YT channel for over a year and I’m transitioning into what I know God has called me to do. This video came at the perfect time because some time the feeling of doubt is from within.
I love this space so much. You're helping me in a way I cant even explain. I've been trying to give myself some grace changing my self-talk and messages I consume. Its hard, Its an everyday practice but I'll get through it. Thank you very much. ❤
This morning I was literally journaling about this topic! Reflecting on validation, and how our confidence is diminished when we listen to these voices.
i am so grateful that life has guided me towards your content, such positive energy radiating from you HINDZ, i will take action and care less about what people think because i know deep down my heart is in the right place :]
I’m going to get into action, I’m going to overcome, I will make it even if no ones on my side, I have myself and God. I don’t really want anyone to remember my name, but the God in me. And I don’t want to live in fear, I want to let my heart run freely and I’m getting ready to show the world who I am whether they like it or not. ❤️
This is where my journey enters a new chapter, I am ready and I know that Christ is with me to support me. Good luck to everyone else entering this new stage of their life.
I have started to realize that in my life, there is always something/someone I am worrying about. I always allow one situation or person to be this daunting elephant in my mind. It's like my mind is looking for someone to be the elephant that's judging me. I'm beginning to feel sick of it, and I am trying to change my thoughts so that way I can live a happy life.
At first I was mindlessly scrolling through youtube, in a mess of a room and house and place of mind, but then I watched one of your videos that was recommended to me- and I got up and began to cleaning and rethinking. I've now listened to 3 of your videos and am subscribed. You have fundamentally changed my life and way of thinking only within an hour thank you
Hey Hindz, I really needed this.. Last week I went through being judged by family. It was extremely hurtful. My heart is definitely in the right place just wish they were more supportive. Thanks for this video and all you do! You keep me going! :)
Go towards fulfilling your true heart, ask only your intuition and wait for your feelings to show your path. Grow your intuitive self and trust only this "person"!!! This is the ultimate approval you must seek. 💖🤗💯🤙
I’m getting into action and I will start to confidently express my intentions w my heart. I have compassion for myself and I won’t let what others say or their opinion stop me from doing what I really want to do!
I feel my passion project intuitively but feeling lost in the execution due to self doubt and yes judgment. Thanks for this incredibly powerful message Hindz.
I’m going through a period in my life where I’ve been doing a lot of bamboo growth. I’m ready to take the next steps and show the universe what’s in my heart. And you are too. Believe in yourself, no one else is going to you. Sending everyone the best vibes ✨
Man this really hits home for me. I’ve dealt with a lot of insecurities in the past and it’s caused me to abuse my medication for several years in order to cope. I need to start letting go of the negativity the outside world may bring❤
Seeing this almost a year later and its message is just timeless. Thank you for sharing your mind and pushing through your curiosity to become the best version of yourself.
This has helped me to appreciate that Jehovah has created us all in our own unique way, and if HE created us then I just need to know that I am loved and guided by the two most important people - Jehovah God and Jesus Christ. I loved this video.
First off, loving the vibes, lighting + angles. Second, thank you so much for this powerful reminder. I can become paralyzed with the worry of what others are thinking. I started a mindfullness business during covid to try and support my community through these trying times. I still feel like I play it small with my offerings : Life + Health Coaching and Yoga + Meditation. I get so caught up in what the response might be that I feel I hold myself back from offering all that I can. But I'm getting in motion. Thank you for the motivation + inspiration. ✨🙏🏼✨
let's mindfully live our best lives 😌🍵 #vibeting
Always nailing it with the topics!!
It’s HINDZ on another one. 👏🏾 I’d really love to sit with you on a podcast or video and talk deep and maybe reflect and learn from you. You inspire me yo! I GOT A STORY TO TELL too. Love you man 💯🚀
I started my TH-cam channel to speak my truth and to help people spark their consciousness. My brother shared my channel information with my toxic family members. Now I feel fear to speak out about issues that had affected me from childhood. I'm doing my best to overcome. Thank you for this video! You encourage me to put my heart in the right place and speak my truth.
Thank you hindz ❤ you have inspired me to get into action and create more artwork and not care what others may think, and just express myself authentically and mindful of my spirit. Thank you for creating this community ❤
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And when you have an opportunity to do something amazing, even if it's not what you want to seek give it a try and have fun doing it because you will learn a great deal about what you want to do in life. Because doing what you are not sure of doing allows you to get closer to whatever it is that your heart truly longs for. Be open to trying new things and you will have less and I hope no regrets in life.
“I mindfully; do not care” is so powerful.
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7 things to remember about caring what others think:
1. Everyone has insecurities of their own
2. Your value isn’t dependent on how much people like you
3. What others think isn’t your business anyways
4. People usually forget our “embarrassing” moments within seconds.
5. There is nothing wrong with being different than others.
6. You are by far your worst critic
7. We will all die, why waste life unable to express yourself fully
Exactly brother 🙏
Love and light to you 💕💕💕
Facts !!
Absolutely love this💛👍🏾
thanks for this
Woke up this morning and chose peace. Thank you for the inspiration brother ❤️
me too!!, I said that I'll stop thinking bad shit, and it really help me through the rest of the day
This really happened to me this morning! Woke up in such a weird mood but reminded myself that I can set the tone for my day..change my attitude and peace it was xo
Woke up this morning with a sense of serenity, felt like something shifted 🤗wishing you a blissful way through this journey. 💖🙏
Yes
@@Rels22 i get that a lot... the first 15 minutes after i wake up im so unmotivated and kinda stressed. But i always calm myself down, cause i know it's my sleepiness manipulating me
A wise sage once said 'What other people think of us is none of our business!' Living authentically will annoy the hell out of others because they are not living authentically. Say a prayer for them and stop apologising for being happy! 🙏🏽
"let them judge you" 🙏🏾 need to hear this everyday
'Other people's negativity has nothing to do with you. They are just projecting their own insecurities'
Did you read the Four Agreements? 😅🖤
“Let them judge you, they’re not judging your heart they don’t know what’s in your heart” 🙌🏽
Right that hit me
i started crying because i’m afraid to be authentic and show people that. I don’t want to lead out of fear anymore, I want to lead with love and find those who will follow :)
fall in love with your authentic self and other people will follow , and life will get better 🙏
Love love love
I feel you. I struggle standing up for myself but it happened today. I did. And it felt like I was breathing fire.
Take one step at a time. Start in little ways to build your confidence. Don’t let fear stop you. We see u ✨
Investigate where that fear comes from - it's served you up until this point and that's okay. Learn how to label it thus giving it less power
Hello Beloved 💗
You are love walk in your power.
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I follow love along with you I know that love shall guide me to new beginnings and new experiences I love all no matter what I support all for their desires and passion
"Today is the day where I shift and fear no more because my heart is in the right place and I will simply become the best version of myself!" ✨✨✨
It is crazy how much my mindset has changed ever since i found your channel. I am also at the point of my life where I simply Love being on my own, I am isolated from the world and they probably do think I'm crazy or depressed but I am HAPPY, I am at peace.I deleted all my social media because I was constantly comparing myself to everyone I would see and feel left out, not good enough. I listen to your videos every morning, I probably watch 4 or 5 videos everyday and sometimes watch them all over again. I'm so thankful for you hindz, for being a teacher to all of us, I am thankful for everyone here tuning in
Sending Love to you 💕💕
im proud of you
Don't fear what people think, life begins where fear ends🙏
Yessss
That is soo true 💖
well said!
Simply facts, love it
Yessss
"They are judging your first step, they don't know where your heart is." This is so profound, thank for the words of wisdom 💓
Just stopped exactly at the same quote to leave a comment, then found yours. peace
Definitely Profound wisdom.... I'm glad I can come and get Tea here 🍵... I feel like we have "Uncle Iroh" here in the flesh ....and I'm here for every moment of it !!!
as a person who has struggled IMMENSELY with my self love and caring what others think, i’ve learned that loving yourself is the ultimate form of protection and guidance…
Ooh, Alana. This sounds amazing! Need to learn this, too.
The very foundation to living! Stay loving and strong. ❤️
Yes it is a struggle but we are gonna prevail. And be the best version of ourselves that wanna be great
I’m ready to release my music more now! Thank you for your wise words and support, let’s make it OUR year y’all ❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
💗❤️💗we got this! 👏🏼
rooting for you all the way🌼🎶🧿
I wish you all the success! Keep going and don't give up! Wherever you are now is exactly where you're meant to be. Remember that life is everchanging and things will come and go~
you got this! :))
I am choosing to TRUST MYSELF COMPLETELY, regardless if I am scared of change❤️ ASÉ💕
proud of you !
Yes! Keep going! 💕
ASE 🙏🏿 ❤️ ..... Thank You for saying that... You inspired me 😁🥰
I just quit my job for a new one and the new one has let me down. I'm taking it as a sign that it's time for me to go for my dream of being a full time artist and im going at it with all of my energy! ! This video came at just the right time, thank you HINDZ!! 💜
Send you my strength, go for it ❤❤❤
I'm in the same boat heading the same place you are. i will be your biggest cheerleader
Sending you love & support! You can & will 💙
Keep believing in yourself !
You're gonna be great! Happy for you 😊
“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.”😎
Noting this one 😩💜
💯 was just thinking about this earlier today
"A seed is planted in the dark" is so profound. Been working hard for the past 6 years and the journey has been such a challenge. Horrible bosses, plenty of setbacks, rejections, snubs the list is long but we keep moving. I keep nurturing my gifts. Each challenge has groomed me. Started a TH-cam channel this year, and I've been avoiding it. I didn't want to be on camera either, but I just decided to jump in this year. It's a small channel but I'm enjoying the processes and the creative outlet.
Wow 6 YEARS ! that's impressively strong of you. i genuinely hope you fight through all the struggles and get stronger and more creative. With time i hope that you gain all that you dream of ! All the best, never give up
@@atomshope thank you for your kind words 🙏 ❤️
Proud of you!!
I’m gonna get into action.
My family has harshly judged and determined my first steps for too long. Even now as I’m approaching one the first big ages, I find myself still waiting for their approval. My friends are supportive but i ultimately have ended up changing my trajectory to try to please the family. I’ve already stopped attending church and I doubt I’ll be voting like they say I should. My depression and anxiety are the products of not feeling free to express myself. Now, I just have to be mindful that nobody knows what I have growing inside of me. I’m gonna keep creating with music!! (I have so many ideas guys … IM SO EXCITED!!!)
all power to you mate! ✌🏼❤️
go for it!!!🎉
I am proud of you!!
Lets go 🎉!
Awesome
Recently I've been meditating on the thought "what if I was accepted for being myself?" and that has opened up so many doors for me. I am committing to expressing myself through movement because that is what lights up my spirit! If you're reading this I'm cheering for you ♡♡
I'm cheering for you too. I'm happy that you found what lights you up! 🤍
Go, Victoria! Stay showing up for you!
My main problem is that I get in my own way. I'm such a perfectionist, my fear of creating stems from not satisfying my inner critic to the point where I'd rather create nothing than create something that isn't up to my own standards. Posting on my TH-cam channel is helping me break out of that mindset, but I still have a long way to go 💫
you can do it!
Keep going!! 🙏
That’s the beauty of creativity✨ nothing is ever truly perfect but the imperfections of your art in any form is what’s perfect 💚 you’ve got this, I believe in you!
My uncle says ..being a perfectionist means .... NOTHING....Ever TRULY gets..Done.😞....So always stay aware of that.🙏👍🏿👍🏿🙏
Keep going girl..you got this🙋🏽♀️
Duuuude, I've been struggling with working in corporate America and my peers have been judging me as if something is wrong with me. I know I don't flourish in corporate settings and refuse to assimilate because the juice isn't worth the squeeze. I would rather spend my time in a way that serves myself and those I love much more. I'm in the planning stages of starting my own design business. Lots of meditation, journaling and organizing my thoughts. The encouragement is always appreciated. YOU ARE A HERO ❤
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"The juice isn't worth the squeeze" - LOVE that! Supporting you with your transition. I left a startup job a year ago for this same reason.
Aww this, rooting for you girl!💜
.. So you are another Hero, maybe you can't see it yet! You have all the power and answers within your true self 🤗 recognize who you are and allow it to emerge from down there 💗🙏🌺
Yes! Do what makes you happy! Choose passion over money and eventually your passion will make you money ❤️
I've been so scared of a lot of things especially starting my TH-cam channel as a Nigerian guy. I took the courage and started posting. its been 5months and so far so good. I'm wearing my heart on my sleeves and hving a good go at my dreams regardless of negativity around me.
It seems like it’s so much easier to point out what we don’t like, don’t agree with, or find to be a problem. To be mindful truly is an art we need a lot of practice in.
“Recognize that your presence has purpose.” Wow, so good. Thank you for always sharing your heart with us.
yessss
Since finding your channel last night, I pulled myself out of the deepest depression. I lost all hope for life, been sleeping for 18 hours a day, haven’t ate in a week. It’s just been bad but the information and vibes you give on your channel has really helped me words can’t explain! Todays the first day but I’m hoping to keep the momentum going in an upward motion. Thank you 🙏🏾
I hope you’re doing well, you are worth it 🙏🏼
IM SO PROUD OF U KEEP GOING U GOT THISSS
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I hope you’re doing so well! You have infinite power living inside of you🫶🏻
I pray you're okay. Sending you lots of love and virtual hugs!
It gives us thicker skin and inner peace amongst ourselves.
I'm currently in treatment and one of the difficult things I struggle with during groups is speaking during AA or any other group that is held. Participating in the discussions that are held is what's difficult for me because I fear that people will judge what I have to say. But now I understand that people are going to judge or ridicule no matter what. You're completely right, as part of my healing journey I will no longer fear whay people think as long as I'm leading with love. I will start to participate in group discussions from now on because I know for myself that my heart is in the right place. Thank you for this! I will no longer struggle with social anxiety. :)
I’m getting into action, I will raise my hand and be more of a social butterfly. I’ll show everyone who I really am, only to those ppl who don’t rlly know me. I wont be scared of being judged of what I do. Even if it’s my parents.
let's goooooooo
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In my experience, the pain of not expressing your authentic self is a worse option than the possibility of ridicule that may come from time to time when you decide to share your heart. Hugs to all on the journey
I did all the "right" things; school, bachelor, masters... but I didn't feel fulfilled. In silence, I took a course in creative writing, at the same time I started becoming a personal trainer. It was where my heart was all along... Yes, I've been judged, I still am, but focusing on the negativity can blow out the fire of passion unless I'm mindful. Thanks for the reminder! ❤
I have two degrees and I am just not sure what to do with them. I am an adult mental health therapist and it is hard AF. These past few days I’ve been called to write, I’m not that good at it but it’s something that keeps come up for me. also I was looking into dance and personal training or working with nutrition.
@@Evajjane Tried writing and/or dancing on the side of you current job? Do it if you can and see if you can grow it to become something more if it give ou that *spark*!
I hope you’re at a point in life where you are doing what you want without the care about being judged! I hope things are well, much love ♥️
This video content resonated with me. I like that affirmation, “I’m going to be the best version of myself”. I often say to people “I’m a working progress”.
I love it ! Seriously keep feeding the mindset the growth and the positive and you’ll over come the judgment and negativity with a smile on your face
This video made me so excited to start expressing myself more. I've realized that I really lean on the validation of others. But I've decided that I want to take full responsibility for all my choices, even the mistakes. Because that's ME. I don't want to be anyone else. God brought me here to your channel, thank you!
I hope you embrace your individuality without the chains of validation holding you back. All the best for your incredible journey !
Hi Hindz, I know that this video is pretty old and you might never see this, but I just wanted to thank you. You became a light and a guide in my life when I was at one of my lowest moments. And listening to your wisdom was one of the only things that brought me comfort. I am in a much better place now and I know a big reason for that is you being yourself and expressing - so really, thank you so much.
I needed this word today. I have struggled with self acceptance and expression for a good portion of my young adult life. I've always just wanted to fit in, as many of us are conditioned to do in this society. However, i've recently been thrust into a period of isolation where i've finally had the opportunity to look at myself without any outside influence, and what i've discovered that I like it a lot better than who I was pretending to be :)
I identify myself so much with your comment, it's insane. I'm just a stranger but I wanna say I'm very proud of you and you inspire me so much to be the same
“each morning, peace arrives at your front door in the form of choices” jahhhhh
I’m going to start taking control of my responsibilities. A few examples are my family, schoolwork, sports, expression, eating habits, and sleep. I will make it through high school.
Yes! I LOVE THAT! Much support from Norway and I am very proud of you
me too 110%
keep goin bro i believe in you
Hope u staying strong school won’t be forever and it’ll take u anywhere u wanna go❤️
I’ve all my life been programmed with such a deep fear of being myself til I completely buried myself. I’ve always loved myself I couldn’t understand why I’m not accepted. It’s like no one wanted me to talk or be myself so I was mute for a long time. I’m now breaking out and afraid of what’s coming out. But I can’t hold back anymore. Thank you for this space it’s such a healing vibe. I’m going to finish my degree, start my business and be me 🤗
That's awesome! I'm sure your business will bring much good to the world 🌍
Wow I am so proud of you!!!! That’s great
Wow! Sounds like such a similar place to what I’ve been in, same way for me growing up but I almost couldn’t take it any more! Good for you and don’t ever give up! You’ve got this🧡
Yes, be you! There's only one of you who can do what you can. From one entrepreneur to another: keep going, keep growing ❤️
That’s amazing! I have similar issues with breaking out of my shell as well, but you have given me little courage to go out for what I want to do, and I believe you will be successful, thank you and good luck love !!!💓💓
Really really needed this, especially when those opinionated words are come from the family, when you grew up a certain way and your heads filled with judgement there's no such thing as being optimistic. I wanna nourish this seed that's within me until I am best my self and so I can recieve and attract only the best no matter how many times I have to start over to do so, staying true to myself and avoiding Intaking other people's negative thoughts towards you is imminent, I really needed this reminder. Thank you hindz.
Much love over here ❤️
I hope you are able to grow beautifully through all the ups and downs and be proud in your own self and strength
“They see your first step NOT your heart.” 🙌🏽
Recently stopped smoking cannabis after 16 years more than half my lifetime (it’s extremely enduring and one of the hardest but most fruitful journeys for me so far),yet feel like I’m experiencing myself to a true extent for the first time since early childhood. Your content voice and work could not have been discovered at a better time thank you Hindz as well as the community curated here. Love and gratitude.
Good job mate keep doing u!! Happy to see u on this journey
You sound like you are on a good path. Im with you.
Wishing you all the support on this journey back to you
Keep going!!! You got this!
Fantastic! Keep it up and you will only see more improvements.
I’m committed to showing up as my best most authentic self every day.
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True self love. Beautiful. 🙏
I’m applying to college a semester late to focus on my small business before going to school for psychology (which I love!) but I also love this little business and would love to support myself that way. But my grandma called me the other day and gave me a very discouraging lecture about how it seems as though I am doing nothing and I’ll end up a “loser” this video came in perfect timing. She’s judging my first step! That’s okay, I’ll keep going :) and I wish you all beautiful blessings & success 🤍
I’m so happy for you!!! Pour love into which you enjoy most regardless of others!
Good for you! ❤️ I understand what it’s like to have family members look down on you and cast judgment, it can be so painful! Sending all the best to you ✨
This has to be a sign for me because I am interested in psychology as well! And I hope your business succeeds and you succeed in life as well, as beings we hVe to encourage one another because we don’t get as much courage from the ones we love, I am proud of you for taking your first step and I have just started taking mine as well! 🥰🥰
Keep going, Chloe!!!
This is an old vid but just popping in the comments to say I've been getting in my own way for the past 15 years roughly since leaving school never knowing what mark I want to leave on the world. Have finally decided I want to share my gifts and write, and create and wave the flag for my fellow lost souls ❤❤
I have been in the dumps for a while and have been hating & avoiding a picture my mom took of me when I was 9 because my face had so much confidence, hope and joy. 9 yr old me didn’t know that in 19yrs I wouldn’t have as much hope in my future as I did. 9 yr old me didn’t know that things would go south and I’d be a shadow mixed in a ball of anxiety, self doubt and shame. That I’d allow people to dictate my future and self worth.
But whiles listening to this video, I looked at that picture and I realized 9 yr old me doesn’t deserve this, she’s too strong to succumb to the pressures of my now, she’d be so curious to see how I overcame to be the best version of my self and I’d be doing her a huge injustice to not craft my own identity and rediscover who I am. Seriously I’ve started to love that picture.
After 10 years of always wanting to make TH-cam channel, I’m really gonna set my mind to it, you always inspire me and appreciate you very much
I wish you the best of luck!
Go for it!! I’m supporting you!
Good vibes to you! 💖 You've got this.
I wish you the best of luck on this journey beautiful 💪🏾
yes do it!
I heard this quote somewhere & it stuck with me: *You can either be anxious, or you can be creative. Never both at the same time. So choose one.* ✌
That's a nice quote !!
I want to say that the one judging me, putting m down, and stopping my potential is myself. Today I choose me, today I choose to take action and tap into my potential. Spreading good energy to all; here's to our journey!!!
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Yes!! 🔥🔥
I’m definitely taking action. This video made it click for me. Thank you. My heart is always in the right place but I use to care too much. Now, I overstand. My heart is here to help others. No worries. Thank you Hindz!
Let’s gooooo!!!
Nothing like overstanding the situation 👏🏿💪🏿💪🏿💯
I’m going to take action! 2023 will be the year I become the best version of myself. I will love myself more and trust myself more! I hope that we all can succeed and support one another!!💗
Not allowing fear to control me.
This goes well with overthinking. I overthink a lot about being my true self because of what the next person may think/or perceive me. But recently I thought to myself what does it matter like really? What does it matter about what the next person think. And it doesn’t matter! Your channel has great content my guy, keep working!
You got dis, you dont care about how others see you!
I need this the most. I usually think about what people would say instead of minding my own and doing what I need to do. Whether I want red but people want blue, I go for whatever I want as long as it Is good. There’s no joy in settling for others judgments if they can’t save themselves. And you know what, none of us can judge ourselves when we’re buried six fit under. This is what I believe. I GOT A STORY TO TELL 🏁
:) u got this
You’re right. It’s time to stop focusing on possibilities on what could happen and what people could say about my art and my personality. It’s not up to them to decide what I feel and what I want. I am becoming my best self.
Gonna start practicing and creating actively without fear of criticism and imperfection-- thank you! good to all of you
Wow the divine timing of this video. I’m at a crossroads with an important decision right now and I’ve found myself seeking everyone else’s opinions & validity rather than just trusting myself. I know what the best decision is for my life but I don’t trust it. This is just what I needed ♥️ Thank you!
You're not alone there. We've been taught to not trust ourselves from a young age, and now we see that that's not working for what we want. You got this. Baby steps.
@@ElleRosher the sweetest message. thank you so much! sending love.
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Yes ma'am! I completely relate!
Exactly what i needed🌿🌿 I've been having lots of intrusive thoughts about this topic
you've got this!! 💜💜
Keep going!🤍
Keep going day by day. Tony Robbins said that people naturally will overthink what they can do in a year but under think what they can achieve in 5 years! Can you imagine what 10 years can do!
Thank you so much yall!🧡🧡 hope you have a beautiful day🌟🌟
I can relate but I believe in you!!! Your strong powerful and worthy always remember
Was just reeling this weekend over my need to care about every little thing people say about me/give their words a lot of weight. You’re always right on time!
Same here
Ahahahha your photo
Yes same here! But what they think is all about them not you. You get to right your own reality. Sending lots of love.
i'm ready to simply express myself even more now, not afraid to speak up about my thoughts and no longer be accustomed to being a "people-pleaser", my thoughts and opinions deserve to be heard
“Let the world be your mirror, the reflection can’t judge you, only you can judge what’s in the mirror”
I've been waiting for the right moment to start a new chapter in my life, and I think now it is time.
I support you
I started an Instagram for my poetry and art a while ago and just stopped because I was scared to let people see what I wrote and painted. But you are so right! Let them judge because they don’t know where my heart is. It helps me to write and it helps me to paint so why should I not do that because others decide it’s “different”. I’m so happy I found this community and channel💜😊
As someone who would like to do just that, I hope you keep on going ❤ I'd love to see your work if you want to share 😊
@moandersen4602 if you start a page as well, I'd love to see it ❤️ your voice deserves to be heard 😊
Yes keep going! I’ve started at TH-cam channel and also a Twitch. While I do feel judged and afraid doing those, I’m going to keep going.
I'm happy I found this channel and community as well... I'm new here .. but glad to be home 🏠
This is such a peaceful place to be in 🧘🏾♀️ I had to learn life isn’t meant to be taken too seriously, that helped me really not give af about what other ppl think
Still learning this myself!
Today I will shift.
I was afraid of my mom critisizing and judging me for going in my path. I fear her shaming me and telling to do things her way, and talking down to me as if I'm stupid or less for going down a path that is not "for show" or for business.
I will start my showing up in my authentic truths.
I am going to college to get my degree for sonography, I am going to stop procrastinating and doubting myself. Because what people think or say about has NOTHING to do with me.🙏🏾🌻❤️
Do It !!!
I’m going to get into action…I’ve had a really bad/hard year while on deployment and I’m ready to start a new journey… thank you 🙏🏽 I needed to hear this
You got this! Im sending you all the love and the light on your journey
@@mariah3435 aww thank you 🙏🏽
You are so brave and I know you're gonna achieve everything you set out for! Cheering for you! ❤️
Lots of love ❤️
Sending the good vibes and love your way !! You’re going to get everything you need in your life and more ! Keep being you :)
Lord knows I needed to hear this this morning. I’ve always been someone who struggles with criticism and other people’s opinions. Thank you for helping me shift my perspective and understanding that my decisions and intentions show that my heart is in the right place. Always! I’m gonna get into action!
“they are judging your first step, they dont know where your heart is” will keep this in mind, hindz. we believe and we’ll grow.
"They are judging your steps, not your heart" 🙏🏻 Wow. Thank you for this video. Confirmation of this path of authenticity
THANK YOU SOOOO MUCH FOR YOUR WISDOM in this message. My fear of other people’s opinions (especially family) has been holding me back. I needed to hear this message in this exact moment. 🙏🏽 I will be sharing this with others.
My journey has been that I'm the first to change in my family. I'm met with heavy judgement from my family, only for them to make the same exact change 2 or 3 years later. I don't force my ideals on them, I don't say, they should because I do. I just make the change to my life. It's incredibly annoying.
I will be a successful musician and embrace myself freely. Fear will no longer hold me back, I choose to live freely.
HINDZ: "They are judging your first step, they don't know where your heart is." ME: (pauses the video and finally commit to shaving my head)😆
I’ve been trying to start a TH-cam channel and podcast for over 5 years. I haven’t started because I keep comparing myself to bigger TH-camrs. I learned that I need to focus on targeting a smaller audience for support first
I’m currently in the season of change. I’ve had my YT channel for over a year and I’m transitioning into what I know God has called me to do. This video came at the perfect time because some time the feeling of doubt is from within.
I love this space so much. You're helping me in a way I cant even explain. I've been trying to give myself some grace changing my self-talk and messages I consume. Its hard, Its an everyday practice but I'll get through it. Thank you very much. ❤
You can do this!
@@Marieven thank you 😭❤
❤❤❤❤ fighting !
This morning I was literally journaling about this topic! Reflecting on validation, and how our confidence is diminished when we listen to these voices.
I needed this reminder, I've been too much within people's mind thinking about how they perceive me . THANK YOU
i am so grateful that life has guided me towards your content, such positive energy radiating from you HINDZ, i will take action and care less about what people think because i know deep down my heart is in the right place :]
I’m going to get into action, I’m going to overcome, I will make it even if no ones on my side, I have myself and God. I don’t really want anyone to remember my name, but the God in me. And I don’t want to live in fear, I want to let my heart run freely and I’m getting ready to show the world who I am whether they like it or not. ❤️
I'm going to get into action. Starting with my job in my building. My heart will be in the right place. I support myself and know I am guided💛🙏🏾👍🏾
Yes get it with these affirmations! I BELIVE IN YOU - Lotta love from Norway
@@Westward_blowfly Thank you sending you lots of love from Ohio💖💖💖😍
For the last 2 weeks, I HAVE BEEN GETTING INTO ACTION. Amazing feeling to not care what others think for the first time in my life. Thank you. 💚
This is where my journey enters a new chapter, I am ready and I know that Christ is with me to support me. Good luck to everyone else entering this new stage of their life.
I have started to realize that in my life, there is always something/someone I am worrying about. I always allow one situation or person to be this daunting elephant in my mind. It's like my mind is looking for someone to be the elephant that's judging me. I'm beginning to feel sick of it, and I am trying to change my thoughts so that way I can live a happy life.
I think it also stings a lot of people in the heart that you’re actually having enough courage to go after your dreams
Thankyou for this point of view
At first I was mindlessly scrolling through youtube, in a mess of a room and house and place of mind, but then I watched one of your videos that was recommended to me- and I got up and began to cleaning and rethinking. I've now listened to 3 of your videos and am subscribed. You have fundamentally changed my life and way of thinking only within an hour thank you
Hey Hindz, I really needed this.. Last week I went through being judged by family. It was extremely hurtful. My heart is definitely in the right place just wish they were more supportive. Thanks for this video and all you do! You keep me going! :)
Go towards fulfilling your true heart, ask only your intuition and wait for your feelings to show your path. Grow your intuitive self and trust only this "person"!!! This is the ultimate approval you must seek. 💖🤗💯🤙
Thank you for that I appreciate it 😊
Was feeling down and now I'm feeling motivated to continue learning music and languages!! Thank You God Brotha💜🙏🏾💚🔥👑
I’m getting into action and I will start to confidently express my intentions w my heart. I have compassion for myself and I won’t let what others say or their opinion stop me from doing what I really want to do!
I feel my passion project intuitively but feeling lost in the execution due to self doubt and yes judgment. Thanks for this incredibly powerful message Hindz.
You got this! I belive in you
You have a mighty mighty strength inside you can do anything. Cheering for you! You can do it 👊
DOOO IT. NO HESITATION YOU GOT THIS
I’m going through a period in my life where I’ve been doing a lot of bamboo growth. I’m ready to take the next steps and show the universe what’s in my heart. And you are too. Believe in yourself, no one else is going to you. Sending everyone the best vibes ✨
Man this really hits home for me. I’ve dealt with a lot of insecurities in the past and it’s caused me to abuse my medication for several years in order to cope. I need to start letting go of the negativity the outside world may bring❤
"They're only judging your first step, they don't know where your heart is"
wow just wow. you're soul just communicated with my soul on the deepest level. Incredible message brother ❤️
Thank you Hindz…this is a beautiful message. Supporting each other’s expression makes the world a better place!
Ohhhh this was such a wonderful message. Gives me such confidence to focus on what my heart is saying rather than what others are saying.
Seeing this almost a year later and its message is just timeless. Thank you for sharing your mind and pushing through your curiosity to become the best version of yourself.
This has helped me to appreciate that Jehovah has created us all in our own unique way, and if HE created us then I just need to know that I am loved and guided by the two most important people - Jehovah God and Jesus Christ.
I loved this video.
I've also been on TH-cam for ~6 years now! 🥂
Thank you for being so inspiring & motivating 😊🙌✨
First off, loving the vibes, lighting + angles. Second, thank you so much for this powerful reminder. I can become paralyzed with the worry of what others are thinking. I started a mindfullness business during covid to try and support my community through these trying times. I still feel like I play it small with my offerings : Life + Health Coaching and Yoga + Meditation. I get so caught up in what the response might be that I feel I hold myself back from offering all that I can. But I'm getting in motion. Thank you for the motivation + inspiration. ✨🙏🏼✨