00:00 INTRO 00:23 10 They are highly sensitive to conflict 01:17 09 being highly perceptive of others 02:19 08 Rational and emotional 03:15 07 They have long-range forecasting skills 04:12 06 They can manipulate situations too 05:21 05 They don't belong in anyone's league 06:21 04 They are never extroverted 07:11 03 Their silence doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with them 07:52 02 They are often the last to move on from a romantic relationship 08:33 01 They don't need people's advice Do You Have Topics In Mind? Comment Below... ♥♥♥Help Us Serve You Better!♥♥♥ Show us love and support through our Patreon: www.patreon.com/ON_TRACK Share This Video Right NOW: th-cam.com/video/5DetxsinfTU/w-d-xo.html ------------------------------------------------------------------------- Thanks for Watching! Are you an INFJ? What more would you like to add? We would definitely love to know! DROP A LIKE, SHARE, Click the SUBSCRIBE Button and HIT that notification bell to get the latest updates! SUBSCRIBE to our CHANNEL NOW 👉👉👉 bit.ly/2LY533N Help Our Channel Reach Awareness Share it With your Friends and Family. Caption Our Video To Your Language Here: 👉👉👉 bit.ly/3gBgWbU -------------------------------------------------------------------------- Videos You May Also Like: 10 Ways That CAN TURN ON AN INFJ th-cam.com/video/9C_hjpv5Whg/w-d-xo.html 10 Reasons Why The INFJ Stands Out From The Rest th-cam.com/video/dRYZI9crnbs/w-d-xo.html Here's Why YOU SHOULD NEVER MESS With An EMPATH th-cam.com/video/42CKb6wGZr4/w-d-xo.html Is The INFJ The TRUE ALPHA Of The MBTI? th-cam.com/video/CBgu8SnxxHI/w-d-xo.html 10 Shocking Confessions of A TRUE INFJ th-cam.com/video/iliHHAtMhm4/w-d-xo.html How TABOO Is The INFJ Personality? th-cam.com/video/jIHFIBeXNr0/w-d-xo.html 10 Signs of the EMPATH RAGE th-cam.com/video/AtKyC45edFI/w-d-xo.html 10 Qualities Of The INFJ That Instantly Gets Attention th-cam.com/video/rCXBCu69JfQ/w-d-xo.html 7 Things The INFJ Hides About Themselves th-cam.com/video/0qugYtLSRTI/w-d-xo.html 10 Signs You're An Intimidating EMPATH th-cam.com/video/6M8bvsBjqAM/w-d-xo.html 10 Things INFJ Types Do Differently th-cam.com/video/Qo3q3kmnWZ0/w-d-xo.html 10 SIGNS You're An INFJ EMPATH th-cam.com/video/cWOh_1L0eIs/w-d-xo.html 10 Manifestations Of The INFJ RAGE th-cam.com/video/5smks9Q5UQo/w-d-xo.html 10 Horrifying Experiences That Can Psychologically Affect The INFJ th-cam.com/video/VltdhXqMWtY/w-d-xo.html 10 Reasons The INFJ Struggles With TRUST ISSUES th-cam.com/video/_OEP5LEP9Hs/w-d-xo.html Why Is The INFJ So Rare? th-cam.com/video/ngbZmWJ6fi4/w-d-xo.html How Do People View The INFJ? th-cam.com/video/2O43CbjEk9s/w-d-xo.html How INFJ Are You? | The INFJ TEST th-cam.com/video/EOFHZMKNjBY/w-d-xo.html One-Word That Describes The INFJ th-cam.com/video/MwXmpR8W1QM/w-d-xo.html
Honestly I'm tired of being an INFJ, it's extremely hard to talk to people and feel normal without feeling like I'm pretending. I just want to be normal😢
Stop pretending and just be you. It took me years to learn this. I'm much happier and it really doesn't matter to me what other people think of me. It's more important what I think of me and being genuine is my right and it feels good to be me.
@@mclarenfan6050 , Just take a dog,he will know who you are, don't need to explain and he and you will be happy with mutual love, respect and good care.
People never see how strong we truly are. To constantly be misunderstood and attacked is daunting. But somehow we persevere. Understanding not everyone is the same. And there are some who truly care and want to understand. Those People are pure gold.
People : why are so quiet? Why are you so silent? INFJ : just smile but inside : A. because you already are too Loud. Why I have to be loud as you are B. Busy wandering thoughts C. Making thrilling and engaging convo with my self
It's tiring to see things that most people don't see or care about.. I realised I better be alone somewhere far away than with most sleeping shrimps! I hate it when most people care about trivial things.. Until they see things unfolding in their sleepy eyes, they realise it's too late to change and do something....look at how people don't see current events and never care at all..
What I've learned is that if my intentions and purpose are pure, with everyone's best interests in mind, I like to use the phrase 'the art of persuasion' rather than I've 'manipulated' someone. Manipulation tends to have a negative connotation to it. So I will tend to avoid the term manipulation.
"An INFJ pondering alone"... I'm never alone. I am with me. "When did you stop trying to make yourself understood"... When I finally decided to do just that, opened up fully to someone, and they weaponised that information.
Im always an outsider because i dont play by the social rules and i gave up trying and caring and decided being on the outside is more peaceful and less tense.
When I am silent, I get the question "What are you mad about." Opening up to people is more frustrating than if I don't. People can't understand the depth of my thoughts.
@@larauch13 We are at an entirely different level of thinking from the rest . Stay true to yourself and stay strong . Take care of yourself introvert .
53 yrs of not understanding myself, compared to others. A true INFJ will understand this, it is a curse and a blessing. Too many claim they are INFJ but aren't even close.
That was great. Thank you. I am both an INFJ and a Heyoka Empath. I am naturally introverted, but I can appear to be extroverted if the situation calls for it. I am also naturally funny and entertaining, which made me a good teacher and bartender when I did those things. Having said that, I do require a good amount of alone time to regenerate. As far as my interactions with others go, I am very sympathetic and empathetic, but I will be judgmental when I encounter a fake person. I don't have to do or say anything about it, but fake people freak me out because I wonder what awful stuff they are hiding. I used to want to know what and why, but I got over it. What a waste of time. Once I figure out the truth of a person, I I move on once I recogmize a truly bad person. Thank you for the great post. I really appreciate this channel. : )
Loved it, true and applicable in all respects. I avoid conflict like the plague. It's not that I am weak, it is just so unnerving and draining. Some people thrive on drama, it's the opposite with INFJ. We thrive on peace.
We will change the world because we can see the world , we will totally questioning the unquestionable because we will be one of inevitable factor of future , we will escape from the other person's present logic because we are under deep study of world .
Sometimes I think it's more of a case of (to paraphrase Sherlock Holmes) "Seeing but not observing." And a problem I seem to encounter a lot is I scare the hell out of people because they know I can see right through them, but they will not acknowledge their fear and don't do anything but work on angles that make it all my fault so they don't have to take any responsibility for their choice to be afraid.
Conflict: I want peace restored between the parties. This motivates me to "read" deeply, both parties, discover the true and actual point-of-division and typically expose that they are arguing the same point or it might be just a hairs-breadth difference in perception of each other's opinion. Being perceptive of others: in my 70 yrs, I've learned to grow and reach beyond the "restrictions" and confines of my personality type. As far as wanting someone else to "get-me" I've learned to lean on my INFJ trait of Writing, to become my own best friend. I Journal! Not only journal, but reread, rewrite, edit and (INFJ) perfect, the focus of my thoughts and solidify my understanding of my deepest issues. I give my hidden subconscious a fair chance to clue me in. And you know what? It wants desperately to communicate with me! To achieve my goals and clear my mind and even remember where I left my keys(sometimes LOL). I still love to observe people from my hidden vantage in the back corner of the room. Rational and emotional: simply, I am rational about my emotions. They are in balance with each other and have equal importance to me. When I am deciding something I give equal weight to both. In that way the answer is "holistic" Forecasting skills: this gets "spooky" for me because it even startles me to the point that it verges on ESP. I've seen many "flashes" of future events precisely, many months in advance to even a year ahead of time. I've met people afore-hand and could describe the situation surroundings and even the clothes the were wearing! These events, I cannot explain because I personally don't believe that the future exists, and yet I've seen it unmistakably. Of course I've had the "regular" premonitions but these are obvious to our type and somewhat common, like seeing a train coming down the tracks, or smelling rain afar off. Situation manipulation: you are so true! Just knowing how someone thinks is their vulnerability which can be easily exploited. I had a boss that I would do this with, just to keep him honest and on the straight-and-narrow. Just a word or two here or there or a simple innocent gesture and the outcome is … "he's got this great idea!" he needs to tell me about. Sometimes later he is unsure but suspects that I might have influenced him. Its like a superpower, but don't ever let them catch on! Not in anyone's league: in the eventuality that your intellect is exposed, there are some people who want to bring you down a notch. They don't understand that the INFJ isn't competing. The INFJ is just doing what they do everyday, it's their routine to maintain "creativity" within their souls, and of course people's jealousy drives them to become wanna-bee's unless they truly discover that you are completely out of their league and they completely retreat. I have learned to enjoy myself and "float" between personality types and "engage" whenever I want. I know that I can be an outsider or involved whenever I choose. It's more enriching and I can get a quicker "read" on people when they drop their guard, because people are either more cautious or guarded or preoccupied with mind-draining technology. Need for solitude: I've found that through my life experiences, you don't need to succumb to withdrawing unexpectedly. It can wait, but you can also develop coping skills to extend these breaks to recharge. Silence: I am ok with my silence. It makes other people uncomfortable and if someone want to disturb my revery they risk a stare-down. Just because I'm typically nice doesn't mean they have a right to intrude on me whenever you wish, frivolously. I don't condone nosy people. I am a mature INFJ and my solitude and my peace are 1st in my book. And though i am alone,, i am not lonely. Sometimes I do tell them what I am thinking and they are typically blown away. You are absolutely right. When I am alone I am comfortable because this is my "home", my palace, my fortress of solitude, and I particularly dislike and avoid platitudes.
Anton Doyola - I feel you exactly!!! My biggest pet peeve though is when people try to play me for stupid. It’s funny because the more they try to cover up their deceptions, the more obvious they make it. And I try to tell them “ nothing gets past me. Just because I haven’t said anything about it yet, doesn’t mean you got away with it”. I’ll even set traps and let them walk right into a situation I’ve predicted would happen a certain way, only if they are trying to be sneaky...if that makes sense. For example; the boyfriend cheating with the roommate and meeting up when each claims to be at other places unrelated to each other, and neither one knowing that I have google map location sharing with them both. I know they are going to meet up, and then watch them on end up the at the same place on the map for hours. I take screen shots of it happening like 7 times. I log my evidence to show them. And also predict how they will vanish off the map completely or try to fool the map, and how they are doing it. Hate the denial even with the smoking gun. I am so done. Funny thing is if they had just been less obvious or more honest, I wouldn’t have cared. Sorry I am rambling. Long story short, I dig what you say about where you are in regards to how you approach life and deal with it. I look forward to the day when I can be at your level.
@@girl6girl6Though I Used to be tech-Savvy in the OLD Days, back 40+ yrs ago, I'm not anymore. I put that part of my life behind me. But you are apparently very familiar with today's tech. Your ability to "pick-up" on those signs of betrayal is amazing, don't ever allow negative feelings to blunt your natural sensitivity. I had gone through that and I regretted losing that "sharpness" and had to recover it. I've never felt or had to deal with that level of betrayal and I am imagining that you are reasonably young and thus, those feelings will be very "sharp" for you! My ex-wife had an affair on me about 15yrs ago. I was about 55yrs. Though it hurt very badly, I could "see" the signs but still hoped for her to "turnaround" for me and the kids, but that never happened. And though she was and overt-narcissist it hurt me badly and I wanted to stop "feeling" especially when she took the kids with her and the judicial system didn't protect any of my interests. She had gas-lit them so badly that she could even say to the court that "I was a good guy, supportive and fatherly" and yet take my kids from me. Yup … it hurt alot, but not as bad as your hurt, because I was getting old and lost alot of "fight". I could tell by seeing her pattern of living, that her life would fail, even if she found a reasonably comfortable life, because she is never satisfied. And hurting people to get your way will catch up with her … and it worked put that way exactly as predicted (INFJ). Even though my daughters were raised to believe I was a horrible person, in my old age my daughters are slowly returning to me (on their own) as adults and realizing what type of gas-lighting narcissist their mom is. Yeah, this story has gotten long also. I just want you to know that you have a silent, invisible co-traveler with you in life. You are smart but you are also wise.
@@antondoyola1970 I am sorry you had to go through all of that. It sucks. I totally understand about not wanting to see the signs. Actually, I didn’t start out trying to find evidence. I was trying to prove to myself that I was just being absurd. However the more I tried to prove myself wrong, the more confirmation just fell into my lap. I never wanted to be proven wrong so bad in my life. But as an INFJ, you know we are never really wrong. After I started seeing evidence, lightbulbs started going off in my head and I started connecting dots...then I started back tracking and then I saw the pattern and started to be able to predict future behavior based on a set of circumstances. I’d get a feeling and write something down, then predict the timeline and the sequence of events that would play out. I’m still logging. Thought it was all over, then I found a sneaky text and a d**k pic on his phone. They are both just using me because I take care of all the household expenses...little do they know, I taking off Back to Boston with my cats as soon as I finish setting up my new RV. They caa a n have each other....I am so done. My favorite saying is “if I can’t trust you, you are useless to me”. I have no use for eithe of them.
@@girl6girl6 yeah ... I know what you mean. I don't mean to intrude or give advice, but I can try to give comfort. The feelings of these things really don't go away but given time we heal enough to continue living and grow with it and it becomes a lesson of the past. I'm sure that you already know this (being INFJ) but I just want you to know that I understand your caring spirit that we all share.
@@antondoyola1970 I’m always just better on my own. I really miss the feeling of close knit family. On August 31st, it was my 20 year anniversary of moving to Los Angeles from Boston. I was very close with my family. Our in LA I’m an empath living in a sea of Narcs. It’s hard, and so to keep my own sanity, I tend to keep to myself because the Narcs come to me in the guise of wounded birds that I can’t turn away. The INFJ Indigo Empath in me wants to heal them and so I try, and try, and try to be the one to fix their trauma from childhood, by being someone they can count on...only to figure out later, that it was all part of a plan. I’m pretty good at spotting Narcs, but they always spot who and what I am before I’ve spotted them. And if they are an animal lover, forget it. Animal lover Narcs are the best at hiding from me. Their love for their animal clouds my perception for a long time. Being an animal lover myself I can’t see past that veil at first. Since I can’t change who I am, the way I protect myself, is to stay away from people (so I won’t have the chance to see any birds). However, every once in a while a narc slips in and I get played for a little while. Anyway...it’s time for me to go back to my people. I miss my family. I’ve been away far too long. I should have thrown in the towel years ago.. but I am no quitter. And that is my greatest downfall. I’ve gotten better at just walking away over the last few years. So, it’s almost about that time.
Ty for bringing that fact up about The imposters meeting their inequities.. I say it a thousand times Over..YOU DO NOT WANT To Be an "infj" or Even be considered as one..PLS HEED THAT.. we are not the kinds anyone wants to emulate..honestly..you cannot handle the whirlwinds of emotions and trauma stacked up and made particularly for us to experience..as healers..many of us get first hand experiences to painful ..absolutely inexplicable traumas ..the kinds that don't typically happen everyday nor ever..in many cases.. I, can Genuinely attest to this. I know it's fun..being unique and all..but that's only the topping of the cake.. the innermost parts.. I see many of us try to showcase in videos as such..but they actually leave out the gory details.. anyhoo.. thanks for reading this far..pls brush your teeth and dream of being nothing But 100% you.💜💯💥
Wow I've exhibited this many times in life... I had to manipulate the truth or extract the truth from many people I have worked with and they didn't even realize that I had done this... Also with an ex girlfriend.... I couldn't help but laugh inside but showed no emotion on the outside.... Then I began to go more internally to heal myself.... After self mastery I began to master my gifts.....
#1 When I retreat, especially when I'm upset or in need to brood over something, my family now understands that I need to be alone. It might take hours, days or weeks. But they shouldn't disturb me in my mental bubble. No advice will penetrate nor any emotional attempt will connect. It's when only my logic that's working. And the only thing they could do is wait until i come out of it.
To be honest, *during* social interactions I am not thinking about when I can get away (unless it is particularly excruciating). I am all-in and actually properly engaged, and actually enjoying the interaction, but it is when I get to my car to go home, or back to my hotel room, that the exhaustion kicks in. Instantly. Then I need to spend at least a couple of hours watching something mindless on tv or youtube to unwind before I have even a hope of getting to sleep. Otherwise my head is going through incessant iterations of conversation and experiences that have just happened and the flood is overpowering. It will still sneak in while watching the mindless stuff, but the mindless stuff makes it more tolerable.
As a INFJ,it's a rope walk. You have read people,people tell you everything they are suffering from and expect help,if you complain,you are called a pessimist. I gave up trying to help everyone. I will warn them or advise them,then it's their choice.
I have moved on quickly from people hurting me because of a handsome Japanase guy I have been following on TH-cam 😂 I hate TH-cam for censoring people who speak the truth but o thank it too because I have found an outlet to de-stress and I can say, I'm 98% healed. I have moved on quickly because I felt the pain from my former friend's insecurities(which I haven't noticed before because I just trusted her with all my heart honestly). I pity her more than I am into having vengeance and I am the happiest person ever for being delivered from a destructive relationship with them! With sincere prayer to God, He can fight for you and lets you see things before it totally destroys you! This is my testimony that God answers prayers and He cares about us. He loves us infinitely like the vast universe where He resides! Thank you God for protecting me... 😇😇😇😇😇
Think independently from other's domination , ( Asatho ma sadgamaya ) , think beyond logic ( because logic is today's dominant power ,or every person's logic is not a real logic ) , independent thinks and decisions will be inevitable factor of future , don't be a highly logic person ( because our demand is not logic ) , don't be highly dependence in god ( because it decrease your thinks , strength , wisdom etc ) , so be a good and powerful full INFJ .
Transference ..simulated emotions..😊...truly ♥..what we do well..in order to understand others' feelings and help them find solutions for that situation...
Uh this is really the most annoying thing when people think you're shy or whatever just because you don't want to talk to them and they keep disturbing you and asking you questions and giving you advice for not being shy and that everyone is so friendly and kind :/ i also had friends who left me bcs they were mad about me wanting to be alone and spend time for myself and sometimes stop using social medias for a while :/ and I hope one day people don't stare at you weirdly when you are alone at coffeeshop and restaurants
Infj here we are the only ones that think and feel at the same time=wisdom The door slam we do is after putting up with a bad situation too long so we escape to keep our health even if it hurts like he'll We want silence or nature to build up our energy
The two things nobody seems to ever mention about infj is that (at least as my own personal experience) to an infj everyone is both unique and the same. Unique because you acknowledge their individuality and will adjust to them and their needs when u talk and interact with them, but at the end just another human being nothing special or scary or higher At least for myself there is no difference between my brother or my best friend and a total stranger And second I have the same need as anyone else for just a hug, the difference is while most people need the actual hug all I need is to feel the option is there, I honestly wouldn’t know how to react to someone actually giving me a hug, just to feel like I can get a hug from a loved one is the same as the real hug for them. The thing is it’s not about known it’s about feeling the opinion is there
We are all in need of intervention. Jesus Christ intervenes for us on our behalf. Through the belief and trust of his death, burial, and Resurrection. That he paid the debt of our sins.
Yes, I dont want to be seen or noticed. Yet, everything about me.....Tends to stick out. To those who have the slightest mental awareness. We can manipulate anyone. Even without making the effort to do so.
took the test yesterday and found out my personality type, INFJ. I'm just trying to understand myself everyday 😪 and trying not to bottle things inside .
about people's advice, I like it when my bf gives me advice even when I don't need it as it's good to know they care. but still, the amount matters per day in order to not get annoyed.
Rational and emotional.. Yes this is true.. But i think not all have same level.. I mean i am INFJ 5w6 which is the thinker and the anxious enneagram type... Then some INFJ might be 5w4 which is good at thinking and creativity.. Some might be type 9 which is good at people.
Some INFJ don’t talk is because they haven’t experience or learn more things yet, just like experiencing or learn how to socialize, but some INFJ that are confident knows how to talk well because of most of the experiences and that they are not afraid to move forward if they know the answer, INFJ I hope you will be a beautiful butterfly or a fairy god and act dumb and secretly hide some stuff but still make things right at the right time, this are my experience, and advice for you when meeting some friends, so people will see you are like a normal person, Hope you will get well first years INFJ students 😄
I'm an INFJ and I'm not very introvert. In so close to be an extrovert and I'm athletic. I'm willing to end the social meetings to go home, otherwise I wouldn't go to the meeting, I go when I know I'll have fun with the people there, otherwise I don't go. Why shall I go????
Do not give a damn about the assumptions of the observers ! Do not react or respond to their words ! INFJs should live inside their isolated world that is peaceful ,bright and magical. Just like - minded people should be allowed inside . That is the only way to live without chaos and drama that drain energy.
10 No because I am.... Darkseid infj every time someone tries to start a conflict I rip them apart so bad they're scared to ever open their mouth again
*manipulate* is taken as a derogatory term these days.. I prefer to say "improvise" or "make certain provisions"...😂😁🤣👌but yeah..ALSO another reason why You Don't want to Cross THEM..ever..lol..😉😘
I remember i don't want to ride bike that night because i don't know why i really don't want not as usual i always go anywhere alone. And i told my mom, and she said to ask help my brother to drove me, but he don't want because he knew i never ask help for riding. So that night after party i wanna drove my friend, and bad luck before reached her home i got accident and my leg broken. And whenever i refused my intuition i got the bad luck 😂😭
Why are we magnets for certain people? Strangers suddenly discussing their personal problems with us. lol I often wonder, do we INFJs emit a certain aura for these individuals. INFJs The 'Instant Counselors' for people in need of comfort or validation?
i think most of people lies that's they are INFJ cause i don't see this kind of people most of the time but many people claime that they are INFJ..... so funny😂😂
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00:23 10 They are highly sensitive to conflict
01:17 09 being highly perceptive of others
02:19 08 Rational and emotional
03:15 07 They have long-range forecasting skills
04:12 06 They can manipulate situations too
05:21 05 They don't belong in anyone's league
06:21 04 They are never extroverted
07:11 03 Their silence doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with them
07:52 02 They are often the last to move on from a romantic relationship
08:33 01 They don't need people's advice
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When we do "open up" most people get overwhelmed by the complexities of our thoughts or opinions!
So true.
I'm not gonna open up to anyone but if they are asking in so many times, I'll just fake it and say here it is so they will go away from me lol
I stopped caring & proving myself just recently. It’s their job to figure out who I am, not mine
👍me too. Long long ago. Life is much more simple this way. 🤜🤛🏻
Well done. I wish I were at that point too. I am still at the "being deeply hurt" stage by people I have helped for years.
@@annmowatt7547 hang in there Ann! You got this!!
Honestly I'm tired of being an INFJ, it's extremely hard to talk to people and feel normal without feeling like I'm pretending. I just want to be normal😢
I agree constantly pretending to be things we aren't in order to relate to others and doing so makes it harder to know our true selves
Go to Wenzes channel, she does counselling for INFJ's.
Stop pretending and just be you. It took me years to learn this. I'm much happier and it really doesn't matter to me what other people think of me. It's more important what I think of me and being genuine is my right and it feels good to be me.
@@mclarenfan6050 , Just take a dog,he will know who you are, don't need to explain and he and you will be happy with mutual love, respect and good care.
@@fazzaustralia8932 Thanks for the Wenzes counseling channel; it sounds helpful! I will check it out
People never see how strong we truly are. To constantly be misunderstood and attacked is daunting. But somehow we persevere. Understanding not everyone is the same. And there are some who truly care and want to understand. Those People are pure gold.
People : why are so quiet? Why are you so silent?
INFJ : just smile but inside :
A. because you already are too Loud. Why I have to be loud as you are
B. Busy wandering thoughts
C. Making thrilling and engaging convo with my self
Nicely said.
It's tiring to see things that most people don't see or care about.. I realised I better be alone somewhere far away than with most sleeping shrimps! I hate it when most people care about trivial things.. Until they see things unfolding in their sleepy eyes, they realise it's too late to change and do something....look at how people don't see current events and never care at all..
“Sleeping shrimps” 😆
I never get to move on from relationship (internally) externality I do.
I never stop loving.
I just accept.
What I've learned is that if my intentions and purpose are pure, with everyone's best interests in mind, I like to use the phrase 'the art of persuasion' rather than I've 'manipulated' someone. Manipulation tends to have a negative connotation to it. So I will tend to avoid the term manipulation.
I call it my social navigation. My intentions are pure too, sometimes, I read people so well it feels like manipulation 😅
It's a love hate relationship with self, get so tired of being criticised for doing me, whilst I criticise no-one in return.
When people ask "why are you so quite" I reply "I let my silence speak for me" - I love their reactions.
That was a good one , I may borrow it if you don’t mind 😉
"An INFJ pondering alone"... I'm never alone. I am with me.
"When did you stop trying to make yourself understood"... When I finally decided to do just that, opened up fully to someone, and they weaponised that information.
Im always an outsider because i dont play by the social rules and i gave up trying and caring and decided being on the outside is more peaceful and less tense.
You nailed that. I can accurately read someone's brain especially a person I've interacted with for a long time
When I am silent, I get the question "What are you mad about." Opening up to people is more frustrating than if I don't. People can't understand the depth of my thoughts.
I can understand the depth of your thoughts . I'm an introvert , I'm very quiet and I keep to myself and I mind my own business .
@@nelsonvargas2367 Definitely not understood by extroverts. It drives them crazy.
@@larauch13 We are at an entirely different level of thinking from the rest . Stay true to yourself and stay strong . Take care of yourself introvert .
@@nelsonvargas2367 I will. You take care as well.
53 yrs of not understanding myself, compared to others. A true INFJ will understand this, it is a curse and a blessing. Too many claim they are INFJ but aren't even close.
People think you are antisocial for not socializing with them; I find that kind of tense.
That was great. Thank you. I am both an INFJ and a Heyoka Empath. I am naturally introverted, but I can appear to be extroverted if the situation calls for it. I am also naturally funny and entertaining, which made me a good teacher and bartender when I did those things. Having said that, I do require a good amount of alone time to regenerate. As far as my interactions with others go, I am very sympathetic and empathetic, but I will be judgmental when I encounter a fake person. I don't have to do or say anything about it, but fake people freak me out because I wonder what awful stuff they are hiding. I used to want to know what and why, but I got over it. What a waste of time. Once I figure out the truth of a person, I I move on once I recogmize a truly bad person. Thank you for the great post. I really appreciate this channel. : )
Loved it, true and applicable in all respects. I avoid conflict like the plague. It's not that I am weak, it is just so unnerving and draining. Some people thrive on drama, it's the opposite with INFJ. We thrive on peace.
We will change the world because we can see the world , we will totally questioning the unquestionable because we will be one of inevitable factor of future , we will escape from the other person's present logic because we are under deep study of world .
Sometimes I think it's more of a case of (to paraphrase Sherlock Holmes) "Seeing but not observing." And a problem I seem to encounter a lot is I scare the hell out of people because they know I can see right through them, but they will not acknowledge their fear and don't do anything but work on angles that make it all my fault so they don't have to take any responsibility for their choice to be afraid.
Conflict: I want peace restored between the parties. This motivates me to "read" deeply, both parties, discover the true and actual point-of-division and typically expose that they are arguing the same point or it might be just a hairs-breadth difference in perception of each other's opinion.
Being perceptive of others: in my 70 yrs, I've learned to grow and reach beyond the "restrictions" and confines of my personality type. As far as wanting someone else to "get-me" I've learned to lean on my INFJ trait of Writing, to become my own best friend. I Journal! Not only journal, but reread, rewrite, edit and (INFJ) perfect, the focus of my thoughts and solidify my understanding of my deepest issues. I give my hidden subconscious a fair chance to clue me in. And you know what? It wants desperately to communicate with me! To achieve my goals and clear my mind and even remember where I left my keys(sometimes LOL). I still love to observe people from my hidden vantage in the back corner of the room.
Rational and emotional: simply, I am rational about my emotions. They are in balance with each other and have equal importance to me. When I am deciding something I give equal weight to both. In that way the answer is "holistic"
Forecasting skills: this gets "spooky" for me because it even startles me to the point that it verges on ESP. I've seen many "flashes" of future events precisely, many months in advance to even a year ahead of time. I've met people afore-hand and could describe the situation surroundings and even the clothes the were wearing! These events, I cannot explain because I personally don't believe that the future exists, and yet I've seen it unmistakably. Of course I've had the "regular" premonitions but these are obvious to our type and somewhat common, like seeing a train coming down the tracks, or smelling rain afar off.
Situation manipulation: you are so true! Just knowing how someone thinks is their vulnerability which can be easily exploited. I had a boss that I would do this with, just to keep him honest and on the straight-and-narrow. Just a word or two here or there or a simple innocent gesture and the outcome is … "he's got this great idea!" he needs to tell me about. Sometimes later he is unsure but suspects that I might have influenced him. Its like a superpower, but don't ever let them catch on!
Not in anyone's league: in the eventuality that your intellect is exposed, there are some people who want to bring you down a notch. They don't understand that the INFJ isn't competing. The INFJ is just doing what they do everyday, it's their routine to maintain "creativity" within their souls, and of course people's jealousy drives them to become wanna-bee's unless they truly discover that you are completely out of their league and they completely retreat. I have learned to enjoy myself and "float" between personality types and "engage" whenever I want. I know that I can be an outsider or involved whenever I choose. It's more enriching and I can get a quicker "read" on people when they drop their guard, because people are either more cautious or guarded or preoccupied with mind-draining technology.
Need for solitude: I've found that through my life experiences, you don't need to succumb to withdrawing unexpectedly. It can wait, but you can also develop coping skills to extend these breaks to recharge.
Silence: I am ok with my silence. It makes other people uncomfortable and if someone want to disturb my revery they risk a stare-down. Just because I'm typically nice doesn't mean they have a right to intrude on me whenever you wish, frivolously. I don't condone nosy people.
I am a mature INFJ and my solitude and my peace are 1st in my book. And though i am alone,, i am not lonely. Sometimes I do tell them what I am thinking and they are typically blown away.
You are absolutely right. When I am alone I am comfortable because this is my "home", my palace, my fortress of solitude, and I particularly dislike and avoid platitudes.
Anton Doyola - I feel you exactly!!! My biggest pet peeve though is when people try to play me for stupid. It’s funny because the more they try to cover up their deceptions, the more obvious they make it. And I try to tell them “ nothing gets past me. Just because I haven’t said anything about it yet, doesn’t mean you got away with it”. I’ll even set traps and let them walk right into a situation I’ve predicted would happen a certain way, only if they are trying to be sneaky...if that makes sense. For example; the boyfriend cheating with the roommate and meeting up when each claims to be at other places unrelated to each other, and neither one knowing that I have google map location sharing with them both. I know they are going to meet up, and then watch them on end up the at the same place on the map for hours. I take screen shots of it happening like 7 times. I log my evidence to show them. And also predict how they will vanish off the map completely or try to fool the map, and how they are doing it. Hate the denial even with the smoking gun. I am so done. Funny thing is if they had just been less obvious or more honest, I wouldn’t have cared. Sorry I am rambling. Long story short, I dig what you say about where you are in regards to how you approach life and deal with it. I look forward to the day when I can be at your level.
@@girl6girl6Though I Used to be tech-Savvy in the OLD Days, back 40+ yrs ago, I'm not anymore. I put that part of my life behind me. But you are apparently very familiar with today's tech. Your ability to "pick-up" on those signs of betrayal is amazing, don't ever allow negative feelings to blunt your natural sensitivity. I had gone through that and I regretted losing that "sharpness" and had to recover it. I've never felt or had to deal with that level of betrayal and I am imagining that you are reasonably young and thus, those feelings will be very "sharp" for you! My ex-wife had an affair on me about 15yrs ago. I was about 55yrs. Though it hurt very badly, I could "see" the signs but still hoped for her to "turnaround" for me and the kids, but that never happened. And though she was and overt-narcissist it hurt me badly and I wanted to stop "feeling" especially when she took the kids with her and the judicial system didn't protect any of my interests. She had gas-lit them so badly that she could even say to the court that "I was a good guy, supportive and fatherly" and yet take my kids from me. Yup … it hurt alot, but not as bad as your hurt, because I was getting old and lost alot of "fight". I could tell by seeing her pattern of living, that her life would fail, even if she found a reasonably comfortable life, because she is never satisfied. And hurting people to get your way will catch up with her … and it worked put that way exactly as predicted (INFJ). Even though my daughters were raised to believe I was a horrible person, in my old age my daughters are slowly returning to me (on their own) as adults and realizing what type of gas-lighting narcissist their mom is.
Yeah, this story has gotten long also. I just want you to know that you have a silent, invisible co-traveler with you in life. You are smart but you are also wise.
@@antondoyola1970 I am sorry you had to go through all of that. It sucks. I totally understand about not wanting to see the signs. Actually, I didn’t start out trying to find evidence. I was trying to prove to myself that I was just being absurd. However the more I tried to prove myself wrong, the more confirmation just fell into my lap. I never wanted to be proven wrong so bad in my life. But as an INFJ, you know we are never really wrong. After I started seeing evidence, lightbulbs started going off in my head and I started connecting dots...then I started back tracking and then I saw the pattern and started to be able to predict future behavior based on a set of circumstances. I’d get a feeling and write something down, then predict the timeline and the sequence of events that would play out. I’m still logging. Thought it was all over, then I found a sneaky text and a d**k pic on his phone. They are both just using me because I take care of all the household expenses...little do they know, I taking off Back to Boston with my cats as soon as I finish setting up my new RV. They caa a n have each other....I am so done. My favorite saying is “if I can’t trust you, you are useless to me”. I have no use for eithe of them.
@@girl6girl6 yeah ... I know what you mean. I don't mean to intrude or give advice, but I can try to give comfort. The feelings of these things really don't go away but given time we heal enough to continue living and grow with it and it becomes a lesson of the past. I'm sure that you already know this (being INFJ) but I just want you to know that I understand your caring spirit that we all share.
@@antondoyola1970 I’m always just better on my own. I really miss the feeling of close knit family. On August 31st, it was my 20 year anniversary of moving to Los Angeles from Boston. I was very close with my family. Our in LA I’m an empath living in a sea of Narcs. It’s hard, and so to keep my own sanity, I tend to keep to myself because the Narcs come to me in the guise of wounded birds that I can’t turn away. The INFJ Indigo Empath in me wants to heal them and so I try, and try, and try to be the one to fix their trauma from childhood, by being someone they can count on...only to figure out later, that it was all part of a plan. I’m pretty good at spotting Narcs, but they always spot who and what I am before I’ve spotted them. And if they are an animal lover, forget it. Animal lover Narcs are the best at hiding from me. Their love for their animal clouds my perception for a long time. Being an animal lover myself I can’t see past that veil at first. Since I can’t change who I am, the way I protect myself, is to stay away from people (so I won’t have the chance to see any birds). However, every once in a while a narc slips in and I get played for a little while. Anyway...it’s time for me to go back to my people. I miss my family. I’ve been away far too long. I should have thrown in the towel years ago.. but I am no quitter. And that is my greatest downfall. I’ve gotten better at just walking away over the last few years. So, it’s almost about that time.
Ty for bringing that fact up about The imposters meeting their inequities.. I say it a thousand times Over..YOU DO NOT WANT To Be an "infj" or Even be considered as one..PLS HEED THAT.. we are not the kinds anyone wants to emulate..honestly..you cannot handle the whirlwinds of emotions and trauma stacked up and made particularly for us to experience..as healers..many of us get first hand experiences to painful ..absolutely inexplicable traumas ..the kinds that don't typically happen everyday nor ever..in many cases.. I, can Genuinely attest to this. I know it's fun..being unique and all..but that's only the topping of the cake.. the innermost parts.. I see many of us try to showcase in videos as such..but they actually leave out the gory details.. anyhoo.. thanks for reading this far..pls brush your teeth and dream of being nothing But 100% you.💜💯💥
Wow I've exhibited this many times in life... I had to manipulate the truth or extract the truth from many people I have worked with and they didn't even realize that I had done this... Also with an ex girlfriend.... I couldn't help but laugh inside but showed no emotion on the outside.... Then I began to go more internally to heal myself.... After self mastery I began to master my gifts.....
Thankfully I've finally moved on from past relationships.
#1 When I retreat, especially when I'm upset or in need to brood over something, my family now understands that I need to be alone. It might take hours, days or weeks. But they shouldn't disturb me in my mental bubble. No advice will penetrate nor any emotional attempt will connect. It's when only my logic that's working. And the only thing they could do is wait until i come out of it.
To be honest, *during* social interactions I am not thinking about when I can get away (unless it is particularly excruciating). I am all-in and actually properly engaged, and actually enjoying the interaction, but it is when I get to my car to go home, or back to my hotel room, that the exhaustion kicks in. Instantly. Then I need to spend at least a couple of hours watching something mindless on tv or youtube to unwind before I have even a hope of getting to sleep. Otherwise my head is going through incessant iterations of conversation and experiences that have just happened and the flood is overpowering. It will still sneak in while watching the mindless stuff, but the mindless stuff makes it more tolerable.
As a INFJ,it's a rope walk. You have read people,people tell you everything they are suffering from and expect help,if you complain,you are called a pessimist. I gave up trying to help everyone. I will warn them or advise them,then it's their choice.
Right there with ya, people are ungrateful and narrow minded most often.
I have moved on quickly from people hurting me because of a handsome Japanase guy I have been following on TH-cam 😂 I hate TH-cam for censoring people who speak the truth but o thank it too because I have found an outlet to de-stress and I can say, I'm 98% healed. I have moved on quickly because I felt the pain from my former friend's insecurities(which I haven't noticed before because I just trusted her with all my heart honestly). I pity her more than I am into having vengeance and I am the happiest person ever for being delivered from a destructive relationship with them! With sincere prayer to God, He can fight for you and lets you see things before it totally destroys you! This is my testimony that God answers prayers and He cares about us. He loves us infinitely like the vast universe where He resides! Thank you God for protecting me... 😇😇😇😇😇
Amen! 🙏♥️ And I'm Grateful you decided to share your testimony with us and it's absolutely true! Praise The Lord Almighty And God Bless!
Think independently from other's domination , ( Asatho ma sadgamaya ) , think beyond logic ( because logic is today's dominant power ,or every person's logic is not a real logic ) , independent thinks and decisions will be inevitable factor of future , don't be a highly logic person ( because our demand is not logic ) , don't be highly dependence in god ( because it decrease your thinks , strength , wisdom etc ) , so be a good and powerful full INFJ .
Amazingly relatable comment! 💕💕🧡💜🤸♀️thank you
Your post is Excellently said and put. God Bless🙏👍
Transference ..simulated emotions..😊...truly ♥..what we do well..in order to understand others' feelings and help them find solutions for that situation...
Uh this is really the most annoying thing when people think you're shy or whatever just because you don't want to talk to them and they keep disturbing you and asking you questions and giving you advice for not being shy and that everyone is so friendly and kind :/ i also had friends who left me bcs they were mad about me wanting to be alone and spend time for myself and sometimes stop using social medias for a while :/ and I hope one day people don't stare at you weirdly when you are alone at coffeeshop and restaurants
Infj here we are the only ones that think and feel at the same time=wisdom
The door slam we do is after putting up with a bad situation too long so we escape to keep our health even if it hurts like he'll
We want silence or nature to build up our energy
The two things nobody seems to ever mention about infj is that (at least as my own personal experience) to an infj everyone is both unique and the same. Unique because you acknowledge their individuality and will adjust to them and their needs when u talk and interact with them, but at the end just another human being nothing special or scary or higher
At least for myself there is no difference between my brother or my best friend and a total stranger
And second I have the same need as anyone else for just a hug, the difference is while most people need the actual hug all I need is to feel the option is there, I honestly wouldn’t know how to react to someone actually giving me a hug, just to feel like I can get a hug from a loved one is the same as the real hug for them. The thing is it’s not about known it’s about feeling the opinion is there
Absolutely true
We are all in need of intervention. Jesus Christ intervenes for us on our behalf. Through the belief and trust of his death, burial, and Resurrection. That he paid the debt of our sins.
Amen! 🙏♥️
I enthusiastically second this amen! ❤️
Yes, I dont want to be seen or noticed.
Yet, everything about me.....Tends to stick out. To those who have the slightest mental awareness.
We can manipulate anyone. Even without making the effort to do so.
took the test yesterday and found out my personality type, INFJ. I'm just trying to understand myself everyday 😪 and trying not to bottle things inside .
I found out the first of this year.
Sorry. It's not all bad. lol.
Wow! Everything said here is so true. It scares me
#1.
We really dont...
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i hope that everyone sees this video, if they do our lives will be much better and easier specially when we need time alone to recharge.
I will not conform to the rest of society . I never did , i never will .
I still love every women I've ever loved but that doesnt mean I am still IN love with them, it's only recently I discovered this is not normal.
about people's advice, I like it when my bf gives me advice even when I don't need it as it's good to know they care. but still, the amount matters per day in order to not get annoyed.
I write they eyes so I know what I aspect from them
Rational and emotional.. Yes this is true.. But i think not all have same level.. I mean i am INFJ 5w6 which is the thinker and the anxious enneagram type... Then some INFJ might be 5w4 which is good at thinking and creativity.. Some might be type 9 which is good at people.
How can you explain your need for solitude to others?
A: Being alone doesn't require as much energy. / Need time to process emotions
Your right. Very true and correct.ℹ️💯✅❤️👌🏿👍🏿✝️🙏🏿📖🗡🥷☯️😎
Some INFJ don’t talk is because they haven’t experience or learn more things yet, just like experiencing or learn how to socialize, but some INFJ that are confident knows how to talk well because of most of the experiences and that they are not afraid to move forward if they know the answer, INFJ I hope you will be a beautiful butterfly or a fairy god and act dumb and secretly hide some stuff but still make things right at the right time, this are my experience, and advice for you when meeting some friends, so people will see you are like a normal person, Hope you will get well first years INFJ students 😄
Why is this youtube channel so good?
"How were you able to balance the emotional and analytical aspects of your personality?"
Think with heart and feel with brain.
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I'm an INFJ and I'm not very introvert. In so close to be an extrovert and I'm athletic. I'm willing to end the social meetings to go home, otherwise I wouldn't go to the meeting, I go when I know I'll have fun with the people there, otherwise I don't go. Why shall I go????
Do not give a damn about the assumptions of the observers ! Do not react or respond to their words ! INFJs should live inside their isolated world that is peaceful ,bright and magical. Just like - minded people should be allowed inside . That is the only way to live without chaos and drama that drain energy.
You are great! Yes!
Accuarte all of the 10 points 🙏🏿👊🏿
10 No because I am.... Darkseid infj every time someone tries to start a conflict I rip them apart so bad they're scared to ever open their mouth again
*manipulate* is taken as a derogatory term these days.. I prefer to say "improvise" or "make certain provisions"...😂😁🤣👌but yeah..ALSO another reason why You Don't want to Cross THEM..ever..lol..😉😘
I remember i don't want to ride bike that night because i don't know why i really don't want not as usual i always go anywhere alone. And i told my mom, and she said to ask help my brother to drove me, but he don't want because he knew i never ask help for riding. So that night after party i wanna drove my friend, and bad luck before reached her home i got accident and my leg broken. And whenever i refused my intuition i got the bad luck 😂😭
Why are we magnets for certain people? Strangers suddenly discussing their personal problems with us. lol I often wonder, do we INFJs emit a certain aura for these individuals. INFJs The 'Instant Counselors' for people in need of comfort or validation?
I have experienced what you describe often...it seems unreal most of the time.
INDEED!!!💥💯❤✨❤✨😌🤦.
You have really been working on your accent. Wow!
100% true
S0 freaking true
Number 2 is trueeeee
That was a pretty good one.
i think most of people lies that's they are INFJ cause i don't see this kind of people most of the time but many people claime that they are INFJ..... so funny😂😂
tenth answer: When there are only boring samples.
Bullpucky.
What people think about me is of no importance to me it's what God knows about me and I know about myself I'm Gucci with who I am
Love your confidence
When i heard nine, for some reason i heard it as nein
I am in a world of my own I am an outsider
Very me 🤣😊
Yessssssss
I like the last narrator better. I this dudes voice makes these videos harder to watch🤷🏻♂️
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What people think about me is of no importance to me it's what God knows about me and I know about myself I'm Gucci with who I am
I am in a world of my own I am an outsider