HOW TO BE CONFIDENT (+ find love in yourself)

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  • @delfinaalvarez6402
    @delfinaalvarez6402 3 ปีที่แล้ว +283

    just wanted you to know that u have literally saved my life more than once girl

  • @obarry5091
    @obarry5091 3 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    ✨CONFIDENCE IS A MINDSET✨
    ✨BEING HOT IS A MINDSET✨
    ~spencer 2020

  • @bela5475
    @bela5475 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Your videos are changing my life! I’m in the worst phase of my life. The last two years have been hell for me I’ve had/ have two eating disorders an lost all my grandparents (all of in two years) but your videos are making me so much happier and confident. Sending all the love from Brazil 🇧🇷😍

  • @oliviaburleigh6264
    @oliviaburleigh6264 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    i’ve been telling my friends these things lately and they said that it has really helped them. Your tik toks have literally changed my life. Thank you

  • @emy1668
    @emy1668 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    i always stand up for myself and all the boys at my high school are insulting me because I'm "mean". thank you so much spencer i love you

  • @ayda912
    @ayda912 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    GIRL YOU ARE ACTUALLY DOING THE RIGHT THING.
    I'M BEING MORE CONFIDENT EVEN THOUGH IT'S BEEN 5 HOURS SINCE I WATCHED SOME OF YOUR VIDEOS.
    YOU ARE AN INCREDIBLE PERSON, I'M JUST SMILING WHILE WATCHING YOU!!!!
    KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK YO! ❤️👍🏼

  • @djwaves8603
    @djwaves8603 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    You're such an amazing person! God has blessed this Earth with a beautiful, successful soul! God bless you Spencer! I'll continue to support you for years to come!!

  • @alyssahey8128
    @alyssahey8128 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    ✨The top tho✨I am actually obsessed!

  • @leaxpea5205
    @leaxpea5205 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Girl your so positive all the time i found your channel on my recommended and ive never heard of you before and like just want to say you are amazing

  • @shashat.6861
    @shashat.6861 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I do gymnastics and confidence is a key factor to succeed in that sport. I wasn’t confident but you helped through that!! Thank you so much!!

  • @bassantalaa1624
    @bassantalaa1624 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    I’m struggling so bad to be confident and Im wasting a lot of chances of becoming successful because I’m not confident enough :( I also want more vids like this!! 💕

    • @brookelynndgafff
      @brookelynndgafff 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      YOU GOT THIS!!!❤

    • @judyrojas9596
      @judyrojas9596 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      your amazing your imperfectly perfect and don’t worry I also lack in confidence 😎💕

  • @rosyhanae3539
    @rosyhanae3539 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This video made me feel like we’re just two friends talking about life and I loved it so much so thank you 🥺💕

  • @sherylabishek6570
    @sherylabishek6570 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bro you're literally filling up with so much positivity. I love your vibe. I'm so glad I found you. You're literally such a queen.😭🥺✨❤️

  • @AnaA-me8nr
    @AnaA-me8nr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You’re so inspirational and like a big sister to so many people 🤍🤍🤍

  • @dishasaini7994
    @dishasaini7994 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Just discovered her channel. And I'm absolutely in love with this girl!!!!
    She is literally so uplifting and cheerful person ever. Thank youu so much for this video. This helped me alot. Lot's of love and support 🥺🥺💕💕

  • @romamehta9821
    @romamehta9821 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    i want you to know that ive struggled so much with confidence before i discovered your tiktoks. spencer, you are changing so many lives and i absolutely love you! thank you for bringing young girls hope and helping them to realize the confidence that lies within them!! you go girl

  • @penelopealderete5668
    @penelopealderete5668 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you so much. I’m been having a hard time and your positivity and happy glow makes me feel so much better. ILY. I love knowing that I have you here to cheer me up. Again thank you so much. I hope you have a fantastic day ❤️

    • @_csinti_
      @_csinti_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      i wish you all the best 🤍

  • @user-xc1712r
    @user-xc1712r 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Spencer you don't know what you helped me, today I got up and looked in the mirror, the only thing I saw was an ugly person, today I went to sleep and I saw a person who is more than everyone thinks.
    You have really helped me a lot, I can't tell you how grateful I am. ❤️

  • @hondacivic2054
    @hondacivic2054 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    GIRL. YOU’RE SO FUCKING PRECIOUS IN THIS WORLD. i loved from the bottom of my heart. You literally switching my mindset and i love how GOOD impact YOU have in my life cuz i need you always to feel better and when i feel so down . ILY🥺❤️

  • @blumahoenders825
    @blumahoenders825 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I first saw u on tiktok and immediately followed you and you’ve changed my life. You’re such an AMAZING person and you inspire me so much. Thank you for everything ❤️❤️. I love you so much❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @melibttgr1486
    @melibttgr1486 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    it makes me so happy to watch this video ... im not confident and i had a very bad day but this made my day
    ur a beautiful person in and outside

  • @annalazarenko763
    @annalazarenko763 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You’re bringing so much positive energy, you should definitely do more videos like that, we love them and we love youuuuu ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @verdiana.Catherine_24
    @verdiana.Catherine_24 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You are such an inspiration to so many people. And you helped me through a lot ily Spencer. 💜💜💜

  • @wellsjohan
    @wellsjohan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for all your help and support watching your video's
    has already made me way more confident about how I look and feel

  • @summerluma4032
    @summerluma4032 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ahhh!!! Literally so motivated now and soooo loving the vibes of being confident 🤩🤩

  • @Genevieveagar1
    @Genevieveagar1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow. Needed this today! Did my makeup wiped it off told myself I was too fat and ugly to wear makeup and cried for an hour 😆 then watched this and it made me feel better ❤️👌

  • @zeirymontes6482
    @zeirymontes6482 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You actually helped me a lot❤️ I still need to work on loving myself but I’m doing process because of you🥺❤️

  • @ARMYBLINK-pp9rz
    @ARMYBLINK-pp9rz ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You're inspiring ❤.....I also do have a big forehead like you and at start i also hated this thing abt me but after watching your videos I am becoming more confident
    ILYSM ❤️

  • @aliciayedalian8082
    @aliciayedalian8082 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Your just the best! I LOVE watching your vids it makes me feel great! Thx for everything ❤❤❤

  • @yourfavsmith
    @yourfavsmith 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    SHE IS A GODDESSSSSSS!!!!!! 🤩🤩🤩😎😎😎😎😎💯💯💯💖💖💖💗💗💗 LOVE YA GIRLLL!!! You have literally CHANGED MY WHOLE SELF. YOU HAVE CHANGED MY WHOLE MINDSET. I found you thru tiktok actually and I AM SO GLAD I DID. LOVE TOU SOOOOO MUCHHH!!!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @lillyherndon1511
    @lillyherndon1511 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    she needs a podcast right nowwwwwwwwwww!!!!!!!!!!

  • @abhaya665
    @abhaya665 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Broo u spoke factssssssss tyyysmmm ilysmmm bestieeeee.

  • @sarahjassani5239
    @sarahjassani5239 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so much girl. This is something I needed right now. I am actually feeling better just after watching this. Thank you.

  • @elydeslandes4536
    @elydeslandes4536 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Omg girl you are such an inspirational person to me💕 thank you I needed this so much

  • @alisoncordell747
    @alisoncordell747 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Spencer, i look up to you! You make me want to try my best to become more positive and confident person! I really admire your positive attitude and mindset! Thank you so much, you have really changed my life❣️

  • @avrielleleonel7206
    @avrielleleonel7206 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You literally changed my life , i love you sis

  • @Xxcalzzxx
    @Xxcalzzxx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love your confidence and you videos! Your amazing 💕

  • @BIkopsking
    @BIkopsking 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for uploading this. I just watched every second of this and it actually made me tear up, but also helped me a lot. I attempted 5 days ago and have been looking everywhere for a reason to keep going and a way to help myself and this video actually helped me a little. A little bit goes a long way so thank you. I need confidence, I need to love myself and your video spoke to me

  • @anjasmit3687
    @anjasmit3687 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so much, you really helped me with my convidens and now I use your tips and I believe that I’m more and I’m worthy, so thank you so much.So much love☺️♥️🌻

  • @ceruleanmess
    @ceruleanmess 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am so happy you are now in YT!!
    LOVE FROM PH 💙

  • @melissacooke3938
    @melissacooke3938 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are so positive and inspirational and are so helpful ❤️

  • @AlmondBobaClouds
    @AlmondBobaClouds ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I literally feel more confident already

  • @sophie-bx9ym
    @sophie-bx9ym 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I LITERALLY love you

  • @martynakowal6424
    @martynakowal6424 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Omg! Thank you so much for this video! Made my day! Love you so much! 🤍😘

  • @ENFPSIS
    @ENFPSIS ปีที่แล้ว

    Spencer, ILY so much!!
    You have helped me gain some confidence!
    Everytime I'm having a shitty day I open your videos and I begin to have a better day
    Thank you so much
    You're so pretty inside and out thanks for all your work and effort ❤️❤️

  • @polixeni5303
    @polixeni5303 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are so helpful....I had no confidence.... Your video helped me so so much.... I actually learned how to love myself and be self-confident...Thank so much❤️❤️

  • @amypomroy8677
    @amypomroy8677 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You're so beautiful and inspirational you have helped me so much to become the person who I've always wanted to be tysm for this video! ❤✨

  • @noname-hc9jj
    @noname-hc9jj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ngl ur smile is contagiousssss

  • @catiasimoes313
    @catiasimoes313 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am from 🇵🇹🇵🇹
    And me and my friends love you we need more friends like you!!

  • @ryderbenson8472
    @ryderbenson8472 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Coming from a Sabres Fan, I have to say that you are by far the prettiest Maple Leafs fan that I've ever Seen.

  • @graceamodia615
    @graceamodia615 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    i love you spencer, thank you for everything🥺 you may not know it but u helped me save my self.

  • @aprileve37
    @aprileve37 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I LOVE YOUUUUU! You have made me feel so much better about myself I wish you were like my best friend.

  • @kristenschubert9824
    @kristenschubert9824 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I luv ur videos so much, Spencer! I luv ur positive attitude and outlook and listening to u makes me so happy! I feel that over the past year I have really started to be more confident and once I found u on tiktok it helped me so much more. You are beautiful (inside and out) and so inspirational to so many people! luv u!!!

  • @judyrojas9596
    @judyrojas9596 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lol your hella funny 😂😂 also thank you so much this video means a lot to me I struggle so much with my confident and with social anxiety and this video really did change my perspective on how I view things . Thanks once again xoxo 💕🥺

  • @Anime.artsand.drawing
    @Anime.artsand.drawing 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes you go girl. I am on the way to loving myself.

  • @abhinavsehgal3713
    @abhinavsehgal3713 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great great video! I have always been suffering from a problem,i.e, not standing for myself.Thanks for letting me anknowledge this so that i can work on that.By the way,ur smile is just nuclear bomb of positivity that i love❤️ SO EAGER TO WATCH THE UPCOMING VIDEOS!

  • @shiningperfect3542
    @shiningperfect3542 3 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    Spencer is beautiful, lovely hair, beautiful big expressive eyes, and an amazing, bubbly personality to match. She is definitely hot hot hot.

    • @Spencer.Barbosa
      @Spencer.Barbosa  3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      i stan u

    • @oogaboogapigs
      @oogaboogapigs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Shining Perfect
      You ARE ur profile name, always have been 💕😌

  • @augustina5957
    @augustina5957 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You have NO idea how much this helped me!! 🥺💞 You are such an inspiration to me!! ✨Love you lots! ❤️❤️
    P.S. Yes, we do need a video called "Spencer hyping you up for 10 mins straight", take it or leave it. 🦋🥺

  • @oaklynn1742
    @oaklynn1742 ปีที่แล้ว

    Spencer I love you everytime you’re in my fyp you make me feel better

  • @hannahburke6572
    @hannahburke6572 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your videos because they are just super honest and true. They make mw feel better about myself and everything else.

  • @gera_sacha
    @gera_sacha 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Spencer, I really really love and appreciate this kind of videos! Thank you so much for sharing with us🥰
    I love you so much and I'm so thankful with you💞

  • @jessicamontgaue6579
    @jessicamontgaue6579 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ilysm, i love your content and you are helping me in ways that cannot be described 🤣🥺💖💖

  • @himavari48
    @himavari48 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Girl, I love your advices and I have to say that it really helps me and motivates me through the day😇😘 keep going, even trough the hardest times ❤️

  • @DonnaJanssen
    @DonnaJanssen 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    you're looking like a bestie for meee, love youuu

  • @ekramahmed1250
    @ekramahmed1250 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Idk why i loves this girl she's so cute that I fell she's my own sister omg !!❤

  • @charlotteprice3404
    @charlotteprice3404 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Spencer you are actually amazing! I have tried your self confidence tips and tricks and they are so easy and work so well so thank you! You are my hero!!! 🥰💕

  • @penellie8232
    @penellie8232 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I came back and watched this vid from 9 months ago and it melted my heart and I also went to go grab tea ☕️ for it too, and now I KNOW than I AM HOT AND CONFIDENT thx spencer!!!

  • @zoecipriano111
    @zoecipriano111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    when she started singing the hannah Montana song did anyone else start singing and dancing too?
    nope, just me.....ok. cool

  • @Katalina055
    @Katalina055 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Heyyy! Thank u for teaching me more life lessons for a few yt videos than school for 8 years...🙃💅🤝

  • @Sayantika-ms1dt
    @Sayantika-ms1dt ปีที่แล้ว

    I was actually having a cup of tea while clicking on this video .

  • @kksong815
    @kksong815 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Spencer ur my idol and my favourite tiktoker

  • @itsevelinakp
    @itsevelinakp 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tysm for sharing your positive energy ❤️❤️
    I should probably watch this video every day, so it would sink in to my mind

  • @mehakrai6840
    @mehakrai6840 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Identify the reason
    Being confident is a mindset.

  • @ahmercdgf8310
    @ahmercdgf8310 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I LOVE YOU SO MUCH 😭💚

  • @salinasmari94
    @salinasmari94 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm grateful that you came in my life in this 2020, thank you for everything, lyyy🥺💜

  • @yasminvictoria7652
    @yasminvictoria7652 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Tysm for this 💜

  • @reannaarunodaya5197
    @reannaarunodaya5197 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your videos sooo much!!! I feel so much more confident just watching you ❤️❤️❤️

  • @rosariocornejo1
    @rosariocornejo1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    GIRL I LOVE YOU SO MUCH!!! hi from Chile (latinamerica)

  • @azraoezz
    @azraoezz 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    THANK YOU SPENCER!

  • @galaxystar7106
    @galaxystar7106 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    omg literally omg I was so insecure yesterday about what I looked like and what people thought of me and I woke up the next day and I looked in the mirror and I thought wow I'm hot and I'm an insecure teenager so I thought how! and I don't think I'm in love with myself yet but I'm on my way and if someone bullies me at school again i don't care because I know I'm kind and pretty. and I want to thank you for that spencer💗💗💗💗💗💗

    • @_csinti_
      @_csinti_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      i wish you the best 🤍

  • @melissaeortega
    @melissaeortega 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for this, I really needed to hear this🥺❤️

  • @aliafshar7142
    @aliafshar7142 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I think when people are jealous of you they always make up something to heart you or push you away because they know if you notice that how awesome you are you will be a threat to them which they can't defeat.
    By the way, I think your forehead is awesome but still it doesn't matter what I think, it matters what you think about your self 👍🌺
    Move forward, conquer every thing

  • @gemriddle6816
    @gemriddle6816 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I needed that I love you you're the best big sister ever

  • @avrillenicholle9400
    @avrillenicholle9400 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    omg Spencer this helped so so much! thank you so much!:)

  • @dazzlingdahlia6868
    @dazzlingdahlia6868 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    girl i literally love ur videos

  • @himanshijoya748
    @himanshijoya748 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    thanku so soo much I feel more confident every time listening to u make such videos more

  • @chajapavlidis8198
    @chajapavlidis8198 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    literally you help me so much!! love u

  • @oliwia12536
    @oliwia12536 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You helped me so much Spencer I love you have an amazing day !!

  • @universe9049
    @universe9049 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much beautiful soul 😭❤❤ lots of love and hugs to you from INDIA ❤❤

  • @sammiemerida7722
    @sammiemerida7722 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your so inspirational and helpful and I’ve been watching you for years now and Ilysm❤️

  • @tonymartial1575
    @tonymartial1575 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I feel Spencer is a hybrid of Monica from friends, and Amy Santiago from Brooklyn nine nine

    • @tonymartial1575
      @tonymartial1575 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Brielle Ehmann I think we have to let Spencer herself decide. Can she reply to this comment?

  • @jfirwmahfj
    @jfirwmahfj 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love it thank you for your hard work spencer and effort ❤️😊thanks I'm going to try them all🥰

  • @olaabbas4217
    @olaabbas4217 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for reminding me ily

  • @hondacivic2054
    @hondacivic2054 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi spencer !! I don’t know if you really gonna see this or maybe i’m too late but i want you to know that you’ve helped me a lot in my life and you’ve have literally changed my mindset. It’s 4:00am and i just got rejected from a guy that i really liked him a lot time ago. It’s 1st April and because i’m from Greece we have something like a tradition that prank each other and told him that i liked him . Because i kind of found it like an opportunity to finally tell it to him. We’re so good friends and because i didn’t want to lose him as a friend i found this special to prank him with this , for just to see his reaction.( if he would date with me or no) Well .. it doesn’t turned out as i wanted. He told me that even if it was a prank he

    • @hondacivic2054
      @hondacivic2054 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      he wouldn’t date me anyways. So as you can probably i’ll never told my real feelings for him . But right now .. i’m so disappointed , i don’t know what to do and just move on.. always i like guys who don’t like me back.. it’s so frustrating. Anyways .. the only that i want from you is if you could make a video for this situation it’ll be very helpful cause you have so many impact in my life . ily endlessly!! ❤️ always keep going🥺❤️

    • @hondacivic2054
      @hondacivic2054 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      special day*

  • @seymurhuseynli8145
    @seymurhuseynli8145 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great content 👍👌. Love from an Azerbaijani Turk 🇦🇿❤️

  • @janahisham9340
    @janahisham9340 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    YOU ARE just AMAZING🥺 thank you and love you🥰

  • @loulouvierabeck433
    @loulouvierabeck433 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you so much ! This showed me how important it is to me to love me and I’m starting to getting more confident Bc of you and your tiktoks and just what you do !! Just thank you and your also a mf hot Girl like every girl that is on this planet !

  • @onelshenaya
    @onelshenaya 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are sooo prettyyyyyy🥺💖

  • @ani6244
    @ani6244 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Spencer bruvv can you PLS make a video on standing up for your self politely and confidently without hurting someone pls like I need more comeback lessons in general hope you notice mee :P I wuv chu and TYYYY

  • @paulinebrun2968
    @paulinebrun2968 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    More people should see that video