What To Do On A Date
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Back when I still lived in New York City, I brought many of my dates to the very same place for the very first date. And literally every single person that I've brought there wanted to see me again. So if you're looking for some first date ideas or tips then you've come to the right place because today I'm going to show you exactly what to do on dates so that you have the perfect first date!
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People in the park seeing the guy of improvement pill with a new girl: "shit, here we go again"
😂😂 “there he does again with his bets”
@@ajonye "He's told that same story for the past 5 dates now."
😂😂
🤣😂🤣😂🤣😋
If it ain’t broke don’t fix it 😈
Bad timing. I am quarantined currently
Yeah! it will be easier to get dates because people will be bored to be inside their homes.
Stay safe for now. Just subbed nice content
We India we win😉😉😉
@@tyrengman6654 true HAHAHA
Yeah same
to summarize:
- physically challenge them
- tell them you commited arson
- coerce them to go somewhere when they clearly stated they are not comfortable with that
- "just mess with them a bit more"
- go to a trash dump
I wont whatch The vid i am Just gonna use this 👍
Using this tomorrow
Worked not even kidding but flushed them all out X100 by saying I burned down my house for insurance money (I didn't arrest me) and then ran 5 miles with her phone of she followed going bowling Friday 👌🌟
@@Sir_shits_them_self thanks man for testing it out 🙏🙏
bro what
Imagine being a female subscriber on a date with a guy and he starts telling the fire story and you're like *waitaminnit*
If I ever date someone who did that and I noticed
It would just make me love them more
Holy crap that’s hilarious
Definitely a bruh moment
LMAO
This needs more likes lol
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This dude is literally like a robot tactically planning a date to seem as human as possible
He’s like Kawhi Leonard
Mark Zuckerberg watches his videos carefully
@@samicheikhelchabab9120 lmao
😤🤣😤
@@samicheikhelchabab9120 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Plot twist: This video is just an excuse for IP to tell us his crazy fire story
'twas the best part though
😂😂😂
it worked, i’m on the ledge now
LMAOO
to be fair that story deserved its own video lmfao
Bad Ending: She falls off the ledge and breaks her leg
Dang 😔
“Every single girl wanted to see me again”
Me: but why’d he end up having to go on dates with so many ppl lmfaoo
Maybe he dont want a serious relationship, just hook ups, the girls go after, but he wants new girls already
Because you don't know how shitty that person is until you meet them
Bc after getting to know someone, you will notice if you are compatible or not. It doesn't neccessialy mean someone was a jerk,tho sometimes it is,but you are like not on the same wavelength.
Improvement pill:
*nervous sweating*
But why would he go on a date with a girl in relationship already 😂
Date:
"Aw, did you plan out this date just for me?"
Improvement Pill:
_nervous sweating_
💀💀💀💀💀
😭😂😂😂
@@moonie5836 Improvement Pill would be nervous because he didn't plan out this date for one particular girl, emphasizing that the date wouldn't really be special to that one girl.
*internally screaming*
@@taztheunstoppable5479 as you should.
Step 1: live in a New York city.
Not really...just travel, get out your house and get to know your town or maybe your childhood neighborhood...then take them somewhere that means something to you, maybe childhood memories or cool scenery. You could tell stories, challenges, jokes and just have a fun chill vibe💪🏼
@@geomejia8946 talking is easy firstworld boy
Step 1, check.
There are more than 1 New York?
Live in Dc so I’m pretty close
The girl you dated with is so cooperative. The situation I met is that the girl may consider the behavior that push her out of her comfort zone as offensive until she feels real safe with you, which takes a long term. Maybe everyone has different situation. Social skill is indeed the key factor, but it also has various factors. For you kind of people, expressing yourself is a very effective way to unfold a girl, but for some other guys, inducing the girl to tell her own stories and listening to them carefully can be more a suitable strategy (at least for me).
I mean he doesn't say what specifically happens at the pizza place, they could be talking more! nor what happens when going towards the car before they meet the metal can rubbish thing. He's also talking about compatibility at the start, and the people who aren't up for it simply can go away (or he goes away himself)
but yeah, if you're not like him, do not force them either, what you really have to do is find what defines you and share it with them, see how they like it, because that's both where it starts and ends, what you both want out of the relationship and of daily life!
Woman may feel like that a bit but they arent animals xD they dont need to act like a deer.
If they do, then they are animals or are socially incapable, best way to ditch them then.
In order for this to work you need to be young and attractive
@@210Artemka fr, but how young is young? How attractive is attractive? That is also a subjective question.
janitor in the park: "so, bringing out a new girl huh,? "
Awkward moment
imagine being one of the girls he took on this exact date lol
*insert Sulley's face on Mike Wazowski's body meme*
"So I'm one of those girls, huh?"
@@LloydMario its in quotes 😑
“let’s go for a race , i give you 10 seconds” they will think you’re mentally handicapped
@@carlosballantine4881 oh man, im crying. Thats why i love checking comments. You made my night.
This only happens when the girl is literally down for anything and is already into you. If she’s on the fence testing the waters, she’s not gonna be running a track or anything like that for you. Let’s be realistic.
what if she's wearing a dress or heels 😂 that would be awkward
@@emeree tell her the activities the day before
And if she is not willing to do those things then it's just like he said in the video -a relationship would probably not work out . That is what dating is for . Finding a compatible partner
@@ImprovementPill btw, I wondering, how can I make sure that when I save a video to check later, the highlight comment are still there ? (like the list of comment note I left here)
Disagree they’ll be down no matter how familiar they are
This is great for teens lmao. I can’t see a 30 year dude talking about “hey I race you”.
Something tells me Lloyd Christmas watched this video before his date with Mary Swanson...
Nobody asks you that's why 🤣
@@darklizardgaming587 I’m a teen myself. I’ll get laugh at saying this lol
Even worse if she’s in a wheelchair
This made me laugh way too hard
If only I had an interesting memorable childhood
Just use the make up fake stories strategy, works pretty well just make sure it’s logical haha
Wait a minute... if you’re going on this many dates, then... your techniques aren’t working.
Damn , that's deep
maybe out of stories second date? XD
Nah, he seems like a guy with high expectations. I'm sure he's kicking most of these girls to the curb. From what he's talked about he seems a lot more ambitious and conscientious then most people. And with that personality it's very hard to find girls who are similar.
That and /or its the same chick .
hmmm :D
My issue in my dating life: don’t even have a date
Yessir
Don't worry. Focus on yourself and you will be alright
Same
@@ImprovementPill I'm desperate ,please make one
in my expirience*, once you make yourself clear, that you dont need a gf and feel it,
it is way easier
Just a pro tip. Just let them talk about themselves.
People in general like to talk about themselves.
Oop it’s giving sexist
A better way to phrase this is that women usually like a dude who is great at listening.
@@chaseddraco hello my names Hüseyn. İts nicə to meet you. İ have a question. How do I get to start her talking about herself?
@@soz_ve_emel They usually start on their own, but not all women are like this so it would depend on if she likes talking about herself.
“And literally every single girl wanted to see me again”
Um.....why so many dates?
Doesn't necessarily mean that he wants a second date.
Maybe he dont want a serious relationship, just hook ups, the girls go after, but he wants new girls already
Lol
Comparability
Maybe he wants multiple wives. For procreational purposes
"making a dumpster fire"
"Almost burn down a park"
"Throwing a public property into a river"
Heroes!!
Like stabbing someone then bringing him to the hospital.
That's what heroes do
😂😂
Let us introduce a little anarchy
exactly ... he sounds like a teen date now I wonder how old improvement pill ... sounds like he is 15
totadol my thought too
A place that makes me comfortable huh?
...does my bedroom count?
Elise I think most peaple think that’s too straight forward
@@ImprovementPill hahaha
@@ImprovementPill Is it possible to invite you Huh..
@@ImprovementPill Are you by any chance interested in watching pirated zombie movies that are projected onto my wall? There'll be popcorn and comfy seats.
For sure.
Another thing to note if it has not been mentioned, that as much as you have to do a lot to leave your impact, it is still a two player game. As much as you should do all that is recommended here, it is still important to give your date a chance to share their own ideas, their own experiences and so on, not only to let them know you are interested in knowing about them too, but also to not just overwhelm them with too much on the first date. It is a date to learn and figure each other out after all, give yourself and them all the time in the world to take in the moment.
"there's more fish in the sea"
Ok, let's say it this way:
I don't know how to fish
Kristofer Bermudez what if I know how to fish but I had caught the perfect juiciest fish ever and then it got away?
Alexandru Chirita you need to get out and talk to girls in any way, ASAP. Get used to rejection, and it's smooth sailing from there.
then ask a fisherman
@@TheInterestingInformer You need to realize then, that, the best fish, is the next fish. "You chase on, we replace on."
Error '404', 404 was the number of likes on your comment but now its 405, a small price to pay for salvation.
I’m starting every first date with:
“So, did you get Corona?”
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@Thomas Serrano for real
she pulls out beer from her bag
Parzival Nice corona beer
"Yeah"
"Nice! Me too- wait what?"
Can confirm this works! Followed the video word for word, bar for bar, and got married. 1000% certified advice!!!
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Very enthralled by your stories, I think I'm falling head over heels
I just got rejected by my crush, and this is the first thing that pops up after I open TH-cam to cheer myself up
FML
Feels bad man
You are not alone man.
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Imagine going on a date with some guy and seeing the exact pattern of this date..
Well then RIP guy, are you watching this for curiosity or to nvm. Explain yourself lol
lol
Well, the trick is to cause emotions, it can be done in many different ways xD
and is that so bad?
But still does it work?
Soo the Moral is...
Have a date in NYC
Have fun challenges and games
Eat pizza
And sit in random places
*"*Noice"*
"and that’s how we saved the park" you were the ones setting it on fire though 😂
Me: challenges girl to a bet
Girl: Did you learn that from improvement pill?
Me: *aight imma head out*
If she watches improvement pill then she's the one 😌
Just say YES
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Just tell the truth dont be a simp dude. CHAD CHAD CHAD CHAD!!!
💀💀💀
“All guys are the same”
Nah.. We just watch the same TH-cam videos.
😂😂😂
Tru story
True lol
Lmao
I believe 1 out of 5 don’t want ...
It's better for it to be natural than planned out, as when you plan dates out and see that it's not going your way you start to panic and then you start to do more worse and weird things, while if it's all natural, you feel more relaxed and more likely for the date to work.
Dude... thank you. I cannot express the sheer gratitude I have for this video. I just got back from a date and followed this guys advice, and she just said it was the best date of her life. Even if we don't end up a couple, I cannot express the gratitude I have for this guy...
Girl falls off bridge portion of the date & breaks her legs
*This guy:* "It clearly just wasn't going to work out"
👄
Take them somewhere ur familiar with
Me an introvert: ah yes classic
Find one spot and just learn it in and out.
Thinking about it like maiming a champion in league. Once you've got your One trick pony, consider learning another main with a similar play style in case you come across counters ( bad weather etc. )
Yeahh, my grandma's basement?
@@wiwwwwww tf bruh
Ah yes. I was going to comment this too xD
Brings her to my bed 😂
Without watching this some of the things I was already doing but this video told me I need to step it up further.
One girl I went on a date with never done rollerblading before so I taught her how to do it and whilst I did that, I was holding her, making her feel that I’m ensuring she can overcome her fears of falling or possibly being hurt. I even shown her how to fall properly she enjoyed that part. Only reason my relationship with her didn’t go beyond the 3rd date was because she already had someone else but was looking for a replacement if her real one didn’t work. Yeah it hurts but I enjoyed my time with her and I just move on. Anyway, if you’re reading this, give her/him the best time! Be yourself and open up in a positive way!
Damn ur strong minded
I would have broken, congratulations you are much better at this than I am
Damn that was such an ass move from her. But absolutely, the point of a date should first and foremost be having a fun experience regardless of the result.
Incredible storytelling accompanied by incredible visuals!
This video:
Me, as a girl: okayyy, so that's a no for heels on first dates
Improvement Pill ohh okay, good to know :)
Lol
@@psykotic1 No. The girl wears jeans the day BEFORE the date, probably as an attempt to decrease the chance that she'll wear jeans on the date. But that's my guess.
@@danielyuan9862 😂😂😂
Individual that doesn’t wear heals often, if at all: ... I’m okay with this.
No one:
Me: That drawing of girl looks cute.
Same
2d girls are amazing
@Logan Perry was there ever any hope?
ok mate
R34 artists: it’s fre real state
Pretty much same for me, I always bring my first date for 1 round of board-game session (simple yet competitive game like "Ticket to Ride"). From there quite easy to follow the flow and tell the stories. Then go for casual meals.
Naturally having something to say on a date, or just not saying anything at all.
Sometimes being myself can make a date really awkward. I can be really silent, and then really talkative at the worst times.
My guy out here having his whole dang life figured out
Lol, wish I could say the same
as a girl watching this, he really doesn't
@@ItsHowdy If that’s you in your profile picture, you’ve got WAY more to worry about then Improvement Pill
@@Dycewyfe lmaoo
@@Dycewyfe LMAOOOOOOO
I could see this dude taking notes in the middle of dates
kermitheus 😆👍👏
haha gotta min max dude 😷😷😷
I agree with the part "telling exciting stories about yourselves".I have noticed throughout my High school and College years that ppl wanna be friends with you if you are more open and got exciting stories to tell.thanks for sharing this tip tho. Ill keep this in mind When im in university.
This makes me relieve I have no game what so ever.
This dude just had the exact same date over and over with different girls. That's seriously weird.
But if it works it works. I would take it too ngl
Yea naw bro. This guy is weird. Its not natural. Its so calculated and planned. Bro has got a huge mask to pull off.
exactly .. sounds like he does not know how to connect with people so he made a strict scenario to stick to
What's the point of a date if not to get the girl attracted to you?
@@dificulttocure the point is connection over attraction. You can't connect with people using a copy-paste date
Me dating a paralyzed girl : I'll race you for lunch
Still beats u
Ruben S LMFAO
Dark.
Lmaoooo
😂😂😂😂
8:41 *But it's you who brought her into this danger on purpose...*
It's like pushing someone into a wild river and then saving them from drowning
Bro his story was so thrilling, I loved it!
"So that's how we saved the park" well you also caused the situation in the first place, does that count as saving it? lmao
Improvement Pill no funny at all
In the real life it’s a date killer
@@lorenzobasileus Probably. Being irresponsible. Not thinking the consequences before the action
@@thunderbirdice they were kids. We all do something stupid when we were kids but what counts was that they tried to make up for their mistake
Also how did they lift up a *metal* bin that was on fire
It's like a scaled-down Regular Show episode
Mah boi went from giving life lessons to dating advice. I can't thank you enough for this. Your channel has helped me in ways I could never imagine
This was the most interesting video that’s educational and enjoyable with its art style and voice over
This'll be extremely helpful for my first date in the future
Improvement pill: hey let's race.......
Girl: *turns into sonic*
...army?
@@lokohesseth9063 stfu
aight, ima put this on my "just in case..." playlist
I should make a “just in case playlist”
Omg u actually have a just in case playlist lol
I literally have a dating advice playlist and I'm planning on using it when I turn 18. It has, like 40 videos.
@@dwarfplanets533 💀
Nah bro, put it on the last resort playlist
I just wanted 13 daring vids and this is the only one that helped LOL
Really great tips/insights into what you can do with a first date thanks!
Personal note:
Make them feel young and free not old and stressed.
Push them over their comfort zone to fun zone.
Those are.. What I have to do to myself. I don't even do those to myself.. Maybe that's why I'm single most of my life.
It’s not so terrible to be single as many think 💭
If one is not comfortable in his/her skin as a single- relationship will not make it any better.
One must be happy as an individual first and then enhance it with a partner who is also already grounded and happy as an individual; this will create a happy union.❤️🙏🌱
Yeah, He covered that in previous videos
@@ResilientGrind but i wanna say that when you find someone,it just...it just changes everything and if you know how to handle it...it will be the best thing of your life
@@eddi2565 Dont put poeple on pedestal.
Dont do idol worship we are the polytheist phase of society
@@Turnpost2552 im not saying to put people on a pedestal. Im just saying that if you're able to find someone worth for you, you'll be surely feel better
Here's my story:
I was a local gangster back when I was young along with my big buddies. We rode big black motorcycles as we fought the law and almost died
Oh, and she also realized I was lying so the date didn't last an hour
Wow omg what a badass
same, before i was married, i always chose parks and historical sites in my city as the place of the 1st date. it's much more memorable than going to malls and restaurants.
Comepletely took this advice for my first date with my current girlfriend on 2/15/2020, still together to this day over a year later! :)
She told me in the beginning of the date she doesn't kiss on the first date, but we ended up kissing by the end of the date anyway. Thank you!
A date more exciting than most of the people’s life🤣
Someone in iraq is willing to kill for that boring mundane life, no need exciting dates whatever, they will gladly swap live with those people with plain normal life
imagine beeing so introverted your heart isn't racing cause of the ledge but just because of the situation
that could happen to me
omg. yes. my social anxiety flips like a switch. I could be very extroverted one moment, and then start introspectively overthinking what I am doing and what I am saying and everything fades to white and I can't speak and then my energy just completely drains.
having my second date ever this video has made me more confident thankyou :)
I did this and IT WORKED THANK YOU!!!
"saved the park" more like almost burned it
yea genius, that was the joke
I feel like acting mature shouldnt be tied in with "making people feel old" I've never had a problem dating, and I've been mature since I was 14. Maybe your relationships aren't working out because you keep going after after women who dont want a serious and mature relationship. Maybe one of these girls you deem as incompatible because they dont want to run a quarter mile are who you're meant to spend your life with. I've been with the same girl for 5 years and I believe we're truly compatible because we pick up where the other lacks.
She's high sprung and energetic and makes the world around her happy great at being spontaneous.
I'm thoughtful and precise and good at planning
She sees the day ahead, I see 5 years ahead. You dont need someone "compatible" you need someone that makes everyday better for you regardless of whether or not they can run a quarter mile.
Amazing!!! I have never seen anything quite like this!!
This video was very helpful, thanks a lot!!!
I have a crush on a girl for the first time in 3 years and started nofap to help myself to get back on track. I hope that I'll take her for a date.
Your channel is inspiring, thank you for advices bro
Careful for that Oneitis.
Good luck bro. A crush is usually doomed though since you've "put the pussy on the pedestal". Don't put her above your or anyone else, just speak to her like she was anyone else. You can joke about what she says if she says something stupid, she will respect that more. Don't be cringy.
People say you should fap before you f her so you will last longer
fingers crossed
Just do it!
Me:- hears that you brought MANY dates to the same place
My brain:- well it clearly didn't work
My thoughts exactly.
"Didn't work" how? He spent the day getting to know someone new and doing things he likes. Best-case scenario: he's made a new friend or begun a new romantic partnership. Worst-case scenario: they part ways but he still gets the benefit of having had the experience and spending his day doing things he loves, plus the excitement of engaging someone new. He can't really lose here.
@@DCamp1271 seems like you didn't got the joke😕
@@shab-re5334 Oops! Sorry, Shab. Yeah, it flew right over my head!
@@shab-re5334 what joke?
wow thank you man this is really helpful , i get the main idea of making it interesting and more importantly it has to be EXCITING which is want women want.
to be honest though im not a very exciting person lol so imma have to improve on myself before trying this
None of my dates ever wanted to see me again. Hard finding ladies that love marvel movies and comic cons.
"It was a very impressive fire. I've never seen a fire so big before"
Read it again with trump voice.
I'm so sorry I took my girl to your best dating spot and I also told her your stories.
Now she thinks I'm cool😎
😂😂😂😂 big brain time
Exactly I live in ny and I might take my next date to that park
@@justinfernandez9876 I already imagine you walking to the race track, and there is just a bunch of couples already running around xD
And then she finds this video, rip
Wow
Great vid bro thank you
Your really a story man. I loved this man, great tips man.
*me being single and knowing i’ll never ever get a girlfriend* “hmm lemme take some advice i’ll never use”
Ssssssseeeeeeymm hahahah! I very much relate to you!!!
Just get out of your comfort zone bro, you ain't going to die if you try
Just get out of your comfort zone bro, you ain't going to die if you try
Well, not with that attitude.
@@GOLDENOZZY oh here comes Romeo in person
I don’t even have no girlfriend but for some reason, I’m watching this.
They dont need to be your girlfriend , just go up random women and get phone numbers
Trippy gameing then they give you fake phone numbers and end up gettin hurt lmao
@@guhd4378 Then you must've had bad day duh...
Then you remember how miserable you are and rubb one off
@@JacobbBrah lol
Ngl i watch your videos because i like the art
Awesome content ..and I like the dating game you have ..playa playa 👍
This isn't the kind of video I was expecting lol. Honestly, to me it comes off somewhat disingenuous. It sounds like a fun date, but personally I'd prefer if the guy picked a couple activities to do and just came as he is. Another thing, to any young men who might be reading, if you focus too* much on telling stories to look interesting, it might put your date off. They want to see your interested in them as a person. Spend time getting to know them, ask them questions, and actively listen.
Right? Im never going on a date but it is VERY off putting when someone only talks about themselves.
And having the same date with every girl is in-genuine and will come off as such.
Well it's a bit unfair considering most conversations are dry as hell, it's very strange because I can talk better with my date's mom than with my actual date, or even with my friends parents for that matter.
What to do on a date?
Step 1: Find a date
Me : Nobody says it's gonna be easy.
I never experienced dating, but i know that you should be yourself.
Bro i just love this vid! Tysm 😁😁😁
I don’t have any amazing stories to tell
I was homeschooled
Game app Reviewer You can still have funny stories even if they aren’t crazy. Like, take a small moment and play it up. I had somewhat of an overprotected childhood and that works for me.
I'm a homeschooler too, and only have a few minor exciting moments in my life so far.
So, I use a bit from those stories, and exaggerate. I throw a few jokes into it, that never actually happened. I never lie, I exaggerate.
Otherwise, I have no stories to tell.
its time to make some then :)
Same but i was homestuck because mh parent don't take or letme go out so i have 0 stories
Hahahaha saaaaame
What if an Introvert like me that don't have any fun moment or something like that?
I was thinking the exact same. Also like what to do if you have a hard time with physical contact? 😲
Introverts have fun too, just keep working on it and keep looking for The one- s/he out there, I promise ❤️👍
Improvement Pill what if I have no stories
Improvement Pill Introgang
@@matildeandersen9201 i can relate
we need series on this!
Thanks, this video helped alot.
Yeah so the girl is gonna accept the race while wearing heels and a tight dress jaja
"So I guess I can say... We're local heroes"
Actually almost setting the park on fire
Dude, I love this guy's voice
i just had my first date today and i took them to a park and we walked around and talked and got food and it was fun
Typical Hero Syndrome: Proud of stopping the disaster they nearly caused🤓
Just messing keep up the good work!
Hahaha so much like me😂
You talked a lot about highly emotional events that you had, and used those to your advantage, but if someone like me didn't had that many intense events, or don't remeber, what do you think should we do?
+1 I also struggle with this
I don't remember em*...same problem
@@ImprovementPill Oh, good to know, i will eork on it then. Thank you, i really appreciate it
@@ImprovementPill or lie about stories, but make sure to make up stories that happened a long time ago so if she wants any proof, you can just say everyone forgot about it
@@ImprovementPill thank you for the reply. May I ask, how can one go about finding such stories? Lying is easy but I want to be genuine, but I can't come up with what stories to tell. Very thankful.
so, now we all basically had a date with this guy. smart.
Thanks this helped a lot
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