Men dont need to be attractive in the face to be sexually attractive. Get your butts in the gym focus on yourself and the babes will chase you. Im dead serious.
I'm a 25-year-old black man who now lives abroad as an expat. I was totally invisible in the United States, but I'm legit treated like a movie star in China, Thailand, and the Philippines. It's literally night and day. Not used to getting so many compliments on my eyes, hair, height, and fashion. You're definitely considered attractive somewhere, you may just have to move around.
I totally agree with you! Right the other day came at work a very handsome guy but he had all that "I know I'm attractive" aurea all around and it was a total turn off for me. I like more genuine people, confident but not stuck up individuals.
1. People smile when they see you 2. You catch strangers staring at you 3. People lean in when they talk to you 4. People are surprised by what you are insecure about 5. People enjoy talking to you 6. People raise their eyebrows when they see you 7. You rarely get compliments on your looks 8. People may act differently around you 9. Relationships come easy to you 10. You get lots of direct messages 11. Its easy for you to get people's attention 12. People love to help you 13. People tend to show strong feelings about you 14. Some people are jelous of you 15. When you talk, people listen
Not good to wait for an external motivator. Say good morning to someone who looks more depressed then you. Brighten their day and you both will be brighter... Unless they are an ass... Then find someone else to make happy.
everyone? using such a term says more about you than them. Sounds you are walking around in sadness all the time, and want someone to say good morning to ya. Good morning :) or Good evening!
Don't forget they're staring because they find you attractive, and as a shy person you're not used to it. Iwas shy , still am when someone is interested in me get flustered etc. Best way is to engage with the person get them to talk about themselves. Good luck, and try to be more confident. Just be yourself.💗🧡
I used to be shy. I get where you are coming from. You don't WANT to be attractive you want to do your own thing and just skate by. Funny coming from a guy but how you dress can help (although significantly less when you are a guy). Hide your form, hide your face and don't draw attention to yourself. This strategy will let you shadow but not good for your career. For a good career you will want to draw attention and be on point. If it just doesn't feel good to have the attention then exposure therapy? The more you do it the less bad it feels, eventually it is just an irritation.
I never thought I was "attractive". In fact, as a teenager I thought I was down-right ugly. When I got into my 20's I noticed that women will go out of their way to look into my eyes. One lady - a total stranger - told me I had beautiful eyes. I would have never guessed from all of the negative reinforcement I got in my teen years.
Same thing hairnet to me in my late teens when I was getting my nails done one day. Was seated next to an older woman, but not quite elderly, and her nail tech. I was just about finished and getting ready to pay when she turned towards me and said, "you know, you have the most beautiful high cheek bones, like a ballerinas!" I quietly but politely said thank you, but God is that didn't make my day!!!
Say you have a 'friend,' who doesn't make you feel good about the way you look. She says things like ," you are cute, not pretty. you could've been pretty if you didn't have an innocent baby face." Or ," you look like a kid." And ," i feel like you will be bullied in college because of your baby face.." Are these potential signs this person is jealous of the way you look?
I expect so. I had all of that during school and a few later years. Later on in years (outside of school) i was constanty congratulated on my 'perfect complexion' and 'looks' etc.
Either jealous, abusive, or both. Either they think you’re prettier than themselves and are trying to put you down out of spite, or they’re neutral to the way you look and want to get your self esteem low so you don’t leave them. Either way it’s crappy behavior.
As someone who is extremely insecure about my looks, this was very nice to learn about. I recognize everything on that list and they happen to me fairly often.
@@joalvarez6252 idk if you're joking or not. But there was some ongoing trauma as a child and I didn't address it for a while. I fluctuated with weight gain and my self image went and confidence went down to zero. It is a lot better now, but I still have that deeply ingrained in me.
Attractiveness is not about perfection, it is about being confident and comfortable in your own skin. You are simply not defined by how others see you.
@@Jay-jv8hx in my opinion attractiveness is about being what you are. Perfect look also attractive but, the real attractiveness not based on what you look. is that okay 😀🤷
I'm a bit of a shut-in (won't go into detail) but it has destroyed my self confidence. But when I actually put myself together, go out and Interact with people, I get a huge boost of confidence because It reminds me that I'm not this hideous Creature that I've convinced myself of. Don't stay inside and hide yourself, If you wanna keep your self-esteem up.
@@Exit_343 But remember we can all be the best version of ourselves. If we Hit The Gym we would be more attractive! True story: I saw my HOT male coworker CHASE DOWN an ugly girl when he saw her exit the elevator. I thought what the hell.... But then I realized, her Face was ok but her Body was On Point! True story. I wish I had gotten a personal trainer and got more serious about the gym on that day!!!
Ive closed all my doors when i turned 15. I only lived in the confines of my room. At 31, i had a great spiritual realization that i am not as trash as my body is. Everyone looks at me like some hot shot ever since i got confident. But sadly there are people who will shoot you down as well when you are soaring above. They dont want you to go higher because they cant catch up. Guess i really am attractive as my friends do say.
Im a single woman, when I go out socially I'll see a guy look at me but when i look bk he looks away and doesn't say anything. Sometimes i think is there something wrong with me?
Guys will not approach women for a lot of reasons. Doesnt mean they don't find you pretty. If you're interested, smile at them and try to be approachable. If you are with a big group of friends, imagine how awkward a guy would feel going up to you too.
"so wanna go on a date?" - "oh no! sorry i only see you as a friend" seems to be a response ive gotten....enough so that now i just automatically friendzone/brotherzone/unclezone everyone i meet...coz whats the point in trying when everyone sees u as nothing more than one of those?
As someone who isn't always keen on social cues this might be true, who knows. I always thought people would stare at me because I was weird or something was stuck to my face so I would keep checking a mirror and couldn't figure it out 🤦🏻♀️
@@josepmckoon948 not really. Im 31 and in a class of 19s to 23s. They thought i was 26 at best. But of course i dont chase after these kids. I just want them to see that ageing isnt bad and you can definitely be young in looks and soul
@@josepmckoon948 i dont think thats what he meant. i THINK he means it as in, if young people are "attracted" to you, according to this video, they are more likely to listen to what you have to say, or try to emulate what you do. hence you can be a good rolemodel to them.
💯 good points, I figured that people must find me attractive because I am on the petite side and I've never had anyone turn me down when I asked him to hand me something I can't reach, for example.
I wish someone had published this list 45 years ago when I started high school. I recognize all of them, especially #9; no one ever told me I was handsome, not even my wife. It wasn't until a reunion of sorts where my old classmates told me why I was so popular. I always thought it was be cause I am a friendly extrovert.
@@monicadaniels784 People who don't know me are sometimes scared. Even at my current age few people want to test me, and I'm fine with that. Friendship and laughter are preferable to conflict and competition.
@@morganjohnson539 I was the youngest of five kids. I learned very quickly that joking around was far better than conflict.I don't claim my jokes are good, but I try.😀
Attractiveness comes from good habits, and that you are making a good habits everyday And morals are a good standard. Then you can start working on the inside and iinside someone elese.
I’m an older lady who gets looks.. I don’t take it any further cause I’m happily married. If not, it would be interesting to see what would happen if I flirted??? Hmmm
100% convinced others are just being friendly. Majority of strangers can and will demonstrate good mannerisms and that's it. Don't mistake it for anything else. That cashier or wait staff is just doing their job. Leave and come back in 2 hours, odds are good they'll greet you like it's the first time again.
Yes, I do catch people staring me,men, women and even children. I assume that it’s because I’m snappy dresser. Omg, they do act different around me I thought it was because they wanted to catch my attention, but I hate it, unless they behave themselves around me. We live in a world of weirdos with no values. I remember my folks rebuking me for staring.
When I taught psychology - I introduced a new opening exercise usually once a week. But usually as a surprise. But each morning you would look to the person to your right. And say something mind or nice or flattering to them. At riser people thought it would just turn into an exercise where p oops would hit on each other or insult each other. Or where the attractive people would only get certain compliments. Etc etc. and there are always a few clowns. But it was a very large class - and the overwhelming majority of people would say somethjnf very honest and complimentary- especially as the semester progressed -and more people took it more and more seriously. But my students always loved it. And ended up remind the idea and applying it to AA Meetings on campus. And religious meetings etc etc. The overwhelming majority of people- when asked to describe their favorite activity from the semester- was always “the compliment cycle” And students would say that it would change their entire week And it was fascinating that most students didn’t feel like the person next to them just”said if cause they had to” And rhe compliments got more and more positive and personal and specific as the semester continued. I’ve never bragged or felt like I’m teacher of the year or anythjng. But that one activity is something I will continue to do as long as I am a teacher. I also work with young students with depression and social anxiety. And I started doing something similar with those students. And again. Parents would send me emails thanking me and saying how dope their kid felt after my classes. I say all this to point out A thah I hen people drop their guards and start telling someone how they really see them. It is shocking how people will see so many positive things about us - things that we never want to see in ourselves
I spent so much of my time wallowing in self pity and became so depressed that I shut the world out with the exception of having to go to work, but even then I walked around half dead and kept social interaction to an absolute minimum. But by doing that I was closing off any and all prospects of finding happiness. Truth be told nobody wants to be around a dude who's a downer. You need activities that will help boost your confidence and improve your self image. Weights and gym are a great way to increase your testosterone levels. You could try that to help get you out of the slump you're in, or continue to sit around feeling sorry for yourself. The reality of it is that nobody will care that you're down and depressed in life because society doesn't give a shit about men's feeling unfortunately.
I understand what it means when people smile when they see you.... but why are people always snickering when I walk away? I guess I'm extra attractive!
I'm actually confused now because I have heard PPL saying that I'm ugly behind me n I'm also insecured about my nose because PPL say that my nose is long and yes when i speak ppl do listen to me, i have caught few ppl staring at me from far n I only look away or walk out of that location because I get nervous, ppl don't lean to talk to me and some of my friends and others too call me cold and rude because I have a straight dead expressionless face, n my eyebrows are curvy which make me look like I'm in anger even though I'm not , I also like to talk to them but the thing is I'm an introvert n ii can't speak n laugh comfortably with new PPL which is y they judge me n leave before they even get to know me, overall being called as a cold n rude girl became normal to me now
Although this video does have some truth to it. BUT if someone HELPS you or wants to talk to you please don't think that it has anything to do with being attracted to you as in a "Intimate Relationship." Might just want to help a friend out. Just remember that everyone please haha.
My question is, how would you know if someone acts differently around you, seing as you only know how someone acts around you, not when you are not there.
Also remember just because someone finds you attractive does not mean they want to sleep with you or be with you. I have zero sexual attraction to women but I think Beyonce is a tractor as being Rihanna as attractive I see girls daily that I think that are attractive but I have no desire to sleep with him same with men that I think that are attractive but I have no desire to sleep or be with them. And the gaze thing is always hilarious to me because when I find someone attractive I want to look at them and usually I'll do but if I find them extremely attractive it's hard for me to make eye contact because I feel like it'll be written all over my face. And I'm definitely guilty of going above and beyond for someone I find attractive but I also do it for people that I find never genuinely kind or might genuinely need help. I become extremely helpful to people who don't speak English, especially if they're from outside the country or if it's like their first time to Texas or something extremely nice to those people too because I want them to have a positive experience
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Now I Can Openly Say That "I'm Not Attractive At All"
Please don't do that. You may lose your self confidence which of course can be very serious. I hope you're joking anyway.
Same here. I’ve always known but this confirms it.
Don't say that, every person is attractive in their own way.❤
Same here bro, you ain't alone. Stay strong.
Men dont need to be attractive in the face to be sexually attractive. Get your butts in the gym focus on yourself and the babes will chase you. Im dead serious.
I'm a 25-year-old black man who now lives abroad as an expat. I was totally invisible in the United States, but I'm legit treated like a movie star in China, Thailand, and the Philippines. It's literally night and day. Not used to getting so many compliments on my eyes, hair, height, and fashion. You're definitely considered attractive somewhere, you may just have to move around.
That may be because the only people they ever see who are of sub-Sahara African genetic descent are in movies and tv shows… or music videos.
Black men are more celebrated in other countries it’s sad.
Honestly, any american would gather that attention in those countries but i agree with you
Yup i went to Thailand a few years ago and it was the most positive response I've ever gotten
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Can't say enough how unattractive it is to be with someone that knows they're attractive. Confidence is one thing and conceded is totally a turn off.
I totally agree with you! Right the other day came at work a very handsome guy but he had all that "I know I'm attractive" aurea all around and it was a total turn off for me. I like more genuine people, confident but not stuck up individuals.
You're the type of person that seems...
*_couldn't stay 'cool'._*
Do you have street smarts?!
Why are you with them then 🤣
U meant 'conceited', right?
Nothing is wrong with knowing you're attractive.
1. People smile when they see you
2. You catch strangers staring at you
3. People lean in when they talk to you
4. People are surprised by what you are insecure about
5. People enjoy talking to you
6. People raise their eyebrows when they see you
7. You rarely get compliments on your looks
8. People may act differently around you
9. Relationships come easy to you
10. You get lots of direct messages
11. Its easy for you to get people's attention
12. People love to help you
13. People tend to show strong feelings about you
14. Some people are jelous of you
15. When you talk, people listen
Guess I'm ugly then...
Interesting....
Literally have none of these...
Thanks
Number 15 also occurs if you work for EF Hutton
Everyone walks around in saddness until someone walks by, notices you and say Good morning.. Then your world can change.
Not good to wait for an external motivator. Say good morning to someone who looks more depressed then you. Brighten their day and you both will be brighter... Unless they are an ass... Then find someone else to make happy.
everyone? using such a term says more about you than them. Sounds you are walking around in sadness all the time, and want someone to say good morning to ya.
Good morning :) or Good evening!
So glad I saw that list, it just validates exactly what I believed. I AM NOT ATTRACTIVE AT ALL, I AM INVISIBLE!!!
Take up ju jitsu chief!
Its going to be OK. Everything on God green earth created is attractive ...including YOU.
Perfect!
@@joalvarez6252 TF that supposed to mean?
@Jennifer J if you cant be attractive at least you can be fit and dangerous!!
What if you're a shy person and you don't want attention people are staring at you
Shy is very attractive - don’t you worry about that
@@MJ-qb5ph typical. ‘People’ aren’t staring at you
I FEEL THIS COMMENT!!! 💯💯💯 MOST PPL DNT TRULY SPEAK - HONESTLY THAT IS. #respectt
Don't forget they're staring because they find you attractive, and as a shy person you're not used to it. Iwas shy , still am when someone is interested in me get flustered etc. Best way is to engage with the person get them to talk about themselves. Good luck, and try to be more confident. Just be yourself.💗🧡
I used to be shy. I get where you are coming from. You don't WANT to be attractive you want to do your own thing and just skate by.
Funny coming from a guy but how you dress can help (although significantly less when you are a guy). Hide your form, hide your face and don't draw attention to yourself. This strategy will let you shadow but not good for your career. For a good career you will want to draw attention and be on point.
If it just doesn't feel good to have the attention then exposure therapy? The more you do it the less bad it feels, eventually it is just an irritation.
I never thought I was "attractive". In fact, as a teenager I thought I was down-right ugly. When I got into my 20's I noticed that women will go out of their way to look into my eyes. One lady - a total stranger - told me I had beautiful eyes. I would have never guessed from all of the negative reinforcement I got in my teen years.
Same thing hairnet to me in my late teens when I was getting my nails done one day. Was seated next to an older woman, but not quite elderly, and her nail tech. I was just about finished and getting ready to pay when she turned towards me and said, "you know, you have the most beautiful high cheek bones, like a ballerinas!" I quietly but politely said thank you, but God is that didn't make my day!!!
@@user-qp2qe5gf9b I'm glad things worked out for you. Take care!
Say you have a 'friend,' who doesn't make you feel good about the way you look. She says things like ," you are cute, not pretty. you could've been pretty if you didn't have an innocent baby face." Or ," you look like a kid." And ," i feel like you will be bullied in college because of your baby face.."
Are these potential signs this person is jealous of the way you look?
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I expect so. I had all of that during school and a few later years. Later on in years (outside of school) i was constanty congratulated on my 'perfect complexion' and 'looks' etc.
ABSOLUTELY, kick their ass to the curb!! Go have Fun!!!
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Either jealous, abusive, or both. Either they think you’re prettier than themselves and are trying to put you down out of spite, or they’re neutral to the way you look and want to get your self esteem low so you don’t leave them. Either way it’s crappy behavior.
I loved the picture on 8:24 and the script. Someone truly said that "Men will be Men".
Confidence and happiness is attractive
Being polite helps too!
As someone who is extremely insecure about my looks, this was very nice to learn about. I recognize everything on that list and they happen to me fairly often.
This shit never happens to me
Why the insecurities chief?! Tell uncle al wus going on?!
@@joalvarez6252 idk if you're joking or not. But there was some ongoing trauma as a child and I didn't address it for a while. I fluctuated with weight gain and my self image went and confidence went down to zero. It is a lot better now, but I still have that deeply ingrained in me.
Attractiveness is not about perfection, it is about being confident and comfortable in your own skin. You are simply not defined by how others see you.
Well, I look perfect, so am not attractive 😞
@@Jay-jv8hx in my opinion attractiveness is about being what you are. Perfect look also attractive but, the real attractiveness not based on what you look. is that okay 😀🤷
Tell that to shallow and judgmental people
I am grumpy when I wake up in the morning. grrrr. stay away! Then I get dressed, look in the mirrow and WOW I feel awesome!
I'm a bit of a shut-in (won't go into detail) but it has destroyed my self confidence. But when I actually put myself together, go out and Interact with people, I get a huge boost of confidence because It reminds me that I'm not this hideous Creature that I've convinced myself of. Don't stay inside and hide yourself, If you wanna keep your self-esteem up.
Totally agree 💯 I love being around attractive people it’s a different vibe & energy.
Glad you enjoyed the video 😊
In what sense is the vibe different?Do you think attractive people hang out only with attractive people?
@@Bojan-tg2vk No absolutely not what I mean I just feel less bothered by negative energy and jealousy. But everyone is beautiful in their own way.
This video indirectly says that if you’re “unattractive” life becomes exponentially harder. It is what it is.
Yeah...those of us who have are unattractive...don't need to be reminded. Lol
@@Exit_343 But remember we can all be the best version of ourselves. If we Hit The Gym we would be more attractive! True story: I saw my HOT male coworker CHASE DOWN an ugly girl when he saw her exit the elevator. I thought what the hell.... But then I realized, her Face was ok but her Body was On Point! True story. I wish I had gotten a personal trainer and got more serious about the gym on that day!!!
of course
Well, when nobody asks you out on a date, you kinda feel otherwise.
Yes, I do get quite of people staring at me, but not the smiling part. I have very bad social anxiety.
Same
Ive closed all my doors when i turned 15. I only lived in the confines of my room.
At 31, i had a great spiritual realization that i am not as trash as my body is.
Everyone looks at me like some hot shot ever since i got confident.
But sadly there are people who will shoot you down as well when you are soaring above.
They dont want you to go higher because they cant catch up.
Guess i really am attractive as my friends do say.
I hate those kinds of people.. i wish they could go away
@@user-mariardz its fine.
They can eat my dust 🙂
I’ve only had people stare at me in public but that’s about it.
Im a single woman, when I go out socially I'll see a guy look at me but when i look bk he looks away and doesn't say anything. Sometimes i think is there something wrong with me?
There's nothing wrong with you. Most guys are shy and fear rejection that's why they often avoid the first move.
How would you like to be approached by a guy because I've seen some of my friends trying to talk to some women in public and the women just walk away
Guys will not approach women for a lot of reasons. Doesnt mean they don't find you pretty. If you're interested, smile at them and try to be approachable. If you are with a big group of friends, imagine how awkward a guy would feel going up to you too.
woooowww never felt so bad about getting compliments😂
#1 - Woman that just met me ask my family or friends if I'm married or have a girlfriend after I leave.
100%❤️!!! All these happen a lot to me❤️!!!
My hubby said that people find me approachable and that’s what attracted him to me❤️!!!
100%, this helped alot!
Glad it was helpful! 🌟
when everyone around you says . how can you be single you look good I think is a good hint. you still have to convince yourself 👍
"so wanna go on a date?" - "oh no! sorry i only see you as a friend" seems to be a response ive gotten....enough so that now i just automatically friendzone/brotherzone/unclezone everyone i meet...coz whats the point in trying when everyone sees u as nothing more than one of those?
100% and completely agree 🥰
Glad you liked it! 🌟
As someone who isn't always keen on social cues this might be true, who knows. I always thought people would stare at me because I was weird or something was stuck to my face so I would keep checking a mirror and couldn't figure it out 🤦🏻♀️
100% this is great.
Thank you
100% I welcome the new outlook you give with this video!
I love be attractive mostly to young people cos it means you're role model to them
That's a bad reason to be a role model .
Nonce
@@josepmckoon948 not really.
Im 31 and in a class of 19s to 23s.
They thought i was 26 at best.
But of course i dont chase after these kids.
I just want them to see that ageing isnt bad and you can definitely be young in looks and soul
@@josepmckoon948 i dont think thats what he meant. i THINK he means it as in, if young people are "attracted" to you, according to this video, they are more likely to listen to what you have to say, or try to emulate what you do. hence you can be a good rolemodel to them.
This video rings truth to my life. Despite my downfalls, it's relatable.
Next video: A 100 signs you're less attractive than you think. 😉
That would be more of a video about narcissistic personality.
Very good insight
100%! Great video!
Thank you 😊
💯 good points, I figured that people must find me attractive because I am on the petite side and I've never had anyone turn me down when I asked him to hand me something I can't reach, for example.
I wish someone had published this list 45 years ago when I started high school. I recognize all of them, especially #9; no one ever told me I was handsome, not even my wife. It wasn't until a reunion of sorts where my old classmates told me why I was so popular. I always thought it was be cause I am a friendly extrovert.
Judging by your avatar picture I'm thinking people were scared of you! Or maybe you were just lion.
@@monicadaniels784 People who don't know me are sometimes scared. Even at my current age few people want to test me, and I'm fine with that. Friendship and laughter are preferable to conflict and competition.
@@morganjohnson539 I was the youngest of five kids. I learned very quickly that joking around was far better than conflict.I don't claim my jokes are good, but I try.😀
People stare at me all the time, but when I talk they quickly look and or run away… it’s my breath… and face… and personality…. It’s ok.
Thank you for the confirmation 👍🏾
love this video it was very interesting, 👍
Thank you
💯 this helped me so much
me & attractive don't belong in the same arena. I made peace with myself a long time ago 😌
To be an attractive introvert is a nightmare
You can fix that pretty easily if you're a guy
@@adrian5721 how?
Why?
@@ChrisPBacon-lu6wd same question. I don't get how being an attractive introvert is bad.
So most of these signs apply to me.
Except I never got in a relationship yet lmao.
I'm still waiting for that one different girl.
Your special, in a good way
It's sad how much more respectful and nice people will be to someone just because they're good looking
If you are comfortable everything about yourself it makes you attractive...
Yea I already knew I was not attractive....thanks for reminding me
💯% agree. 😊
one hundred percent agree! thanks
Thank you!
attractiveness and beauty are two totally different things!!!!!!
I watched and like the video. 100%
100% this is very good for self confidence.
Love to know the 15 signs if you are attractive 100%!
Glad you enjoyed the video 😊
it's all subjective from person to person. one person's trash is another person's treasure.
THANK YOU I NEEDED THIS NOW I NO ❤️
This list checks out..
Attractiveness comes from good habits, and that you are making a good habits everyday And morals are a good standard. Then you can start working on the inside and iinside someone elese.
After seeing this no wonder I've been single for over a decade. Seems like The only people I attract are the ones I don't want anything to do with.
Strangers stare at me all the time.
They usually just want to fight me though.
😑
I’m an older lady who gets looks.. I don’t take it any further cause I’m happily married. If not, it would be interesting to see what would happen if I flirted??? Hmmm
Don't say older. Say old. No shame.
Well Done
I enjoy the video
I like how they’re showing a ton of conventionally attractive people in these stock clips lol
If you are super hero like Spider Man ( 5:21 ), you can bank on being in a relationship with a beautiful woman.
Andrew Garfield and Emma Stone in The Amazing-Spider (2012)
I am neither physically attractive nor physically unattractive.
I just AM.
100% convinced others are just being friendly. Majority of strangers can and will demonstrate good mannerisms and that's it. Don't mistake it for anything else. That cashier or wait staff is just doing their job. Leave and come back in 2 hours, odds are good they'll greet you like it's the first time again.
Yes, I do catch people staring me,men, women and even children. I assume that it’s because I’m snappy dresser. Omg, they do act different around me I thought it was because they wanted to catch my attention, but I hate it, unless they behave themselves around me. We live in a world of weirdos with no values. I remember my folks rebuking me for staring.
I agree 😇🙏🥰 thanks 😊
You are welcome 😊
100 percent. That was interesting
Thank you 🌟
When I taught psychology - I introduced a new opening exercise usually once a week. But usually as a surprise.
But each morning you would look to the person to your right. And say something mind or nice or flattering to them. At riser people thought it would just turn into an exercise where p oops would hit on each other or insult each other. Or where the attractive people would only get certain compliments. Etc etc. and there are always a few clowns. But it was a very large class - and the overwhelming majority of people would say somethjnf very honest and complimentary- especially as the semester progressed -and more people took it more and more seriously.
But my students always loved it. And ended up remind the idea and applying it to AA Meetings on campus. And religious meetings etc etc.
The overwhelming majority of people- when asked to describe their favorite activity from the semester- was always “the compliment cycle”
And students would say that it would change their entire week
And it was fascinating that most students didn’t feel like the person next to them just”said if cause they had to”
And rhe compliments got more and more positive and personal and specific as the semester continued.
I’ve never bragged or felt like I’m teacher of the year or anythjng. But that one activity is something I will continue to do as long as I am a teacher.
I also work with young students with depression and social anxiety. And I started doing something similar with those students. And again. Parents would send me emails thanking me and saying how dope their kid felt after my classes.
I say all this to point out A thah I hen people drop their guards and start telling someone how they really see them. It is shocking how people will see so many positive things about us - things that we never want to see in ourselves
The inflections of the ai narrator is fun. ❤️
Boy, I sure flunked that one
Yeah one of your points happend to me the part of helping someone out
Be your best without being anyone else.
I am an introvert and not confident etc I can’t find the love of my life sadly 🤨
Tgen go out of your comfort zone, it's easier than you think.
Reality is different than you think.
99% reality
1% expectations
I spent so much of my time wallowing in self pity and became so depressed that I shut the world out with the exception of having to go to work, but even then I walked around half dead and kept social interaction to an absolute minimum. But by doing that I was closing off any and all prospects of finding happiness. Truth be told nobody wants to be around a dude who's a downer. You need activities that will help boost your confidence and improve your self image. Weights and gym are a great way to increase your testosterone levels. You could try that to help get you out of the slump you're in, or continue to sit around feeling sorry for yourself. The reality of it is that nobody will care that you're down and depressed in life because society doesn't give a shit about men's feeling unfortunately.
9. Well I guess people are really into me since I havent recieved a single compliment in my entire life...
next video idea: 15 Signs You Are More ugly Than You Think
Random ppl start Convo wit me 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I understand what it means when people smile when they see you.... but why are people always snickering when I walk away? I guess I'm extra attractive!
I can openly say that I am attractive
I'm actually confused now because I have heard PPL saying that I'm ugly behind me n I'm also insecured about my nose because PPL say that my nose is long and yes when i speak ppl do listen to me, i have caught few ppl staring at me from far n I only look away or walk out of that location because I get nervous, ppl don't lean to talk to me and some of my friends and others too call me cold and rude because I have a straight dead expressionless face, n my eyebrows are curvy which make me look like I'm in anger even though I'm not , I also like to talk to them but the thing is I'm an introvert n ii can't speak n laugh comfortably with new PPL which is y they judge me n leave before they even get to know me, overall being called as a cold n rude girl became normal to me now
Although this video does have some truth to it.
BUT if someone HELPS you or wants to talk to you please don't think that it has anything to do with being attracted to you as in a "Intimate Relationship." Might just want to help a friend out. Just remember that everyone please haha.
I have had this happen to me often
Ms. Hawaii won Ms. America when she answered the question. How are you attractive. She said attractness comes from within.
My gradually declining face when I kept saying, "maybe the next one!"
11.not always. People may ignore you because they want to hurt you
Here I thought people were just being nice to me but its because I’m attractive 100%
*me watching the video* "nope. no. nu-uh. never. nope" confirmed. I'm ugly lol
I don't know whether the stranger catches me or me trying to catch the stranger 😆
POV:First sign you're not attrative:you're watching this vidéo
My question is, how would you know if someone acts differently around you, seing as you only know how someone acts around you, not when you are not there.
I dont get jealous of someone about someone better than me i get excited because there is a challange i think it is kinda weird
Fascinating
Thank you 🌟
I may be the only person who smiles at themselves with no reason (I always think stuff). People are staring because they keep an eye on me.
Also remember just because someone finds you attractive does not mean they want to sleep with you or be with you. I have zero sexual attraction to women but I think Beyonce is a tractor as being Rihanna as attractive I see girls daily that I think that are attractive but I have no desire to sleep with him same with men that I think that are attractive but I have no desire to sleep or be with them.
And the gaze thing is always hilarious to me because when I find someone attractive I want to look at them and usually I'll do but if I find them extremely attractive it's hard for me to make eye contact because I feel like it'll be written all over my face. And I'm definitely guilty of going above and beyond for someone I find attractive but I also do it for people that I find never genuinely kind or might genuinely need help. I become extremely helpful to people who don't speak English, especially if they're from outside the country or if it's like their first time to Texas or something extremely nice to those people too because I want them to have a positive experience
Introverts run away in such situations 😂🤣😅👍🏼
Lately if they stare and look away, I smile a little bit I don't engage them
Love from Texas ❤️
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