Why saying "I don't know" is a key to success | Poker champion Annie Duke | Big Think

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    In the earliest stages of our educations it gets drilled into us that certainty is good, and phrases like "I don't know" or "I'm not sure" are lesser ways of thinking. That's a shame, says former World Series poker champion and self-professed "uncertainty evangelist" Annie Duke: being uncertain is a much more accurate representation of the world than concrete certainty-there is just too much blind luck in the mix. Most often we're dealing with probability, not premonition, but the more accurate you make your worldview, the better your predictions will turn out. Embracing what you don't know can help you make surer bets on the future. Here, Duke gives an eye-opening lesson on how to recalibrate your beliefs, the difference between confidence and certainty, and how to use uncertainty to cultivate flexible thinking, smarter decision-making, and more productive collaboration. Annie Duke is the author of Thinking in Bets: Making Smarter Decisions When You Don't Have All the Facts.
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    ANNIE DUKE:
    Annie Duke has leveraged her expertise in the science of smart decision making to excel at pursuits as varied as championship poker to public speaking. For two decades, Annie was one of the top poker players in the world. In 2004, she bested a field of 234 players to win her first World Series of Poker (WSOP) bracelet. The same year, she triumphed in the $2 million winner-take-all, invitation-only WSOP Tournament of Champions. In 2010, she won the prestigious NBC National Heads-Up Poker Championship. Prior to becoming a professional poker player, Annie was awarded the National Science Foundation Fellowship. Thanks to this fellowship, she studied Cognitive Psychology at the University of Pennsylvania.
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    TRANSCRIPT:
    Annie Duke: I like to think of myself as an uncertainty evangelist. I’m just shouting it from the rooftops: we should all be embracing uncertainty. And one of the most common things that people are saying to me is: isn’t uncertainty a barrier to success?
    I think there’s a couple of things. I think that, first of all, this idea of “I don’t know” or “I’m not sure” or “it could turn out a lot of different ways” or all the different ways we might express uncertainty: “I believe this thing to be true, but I’m like 60 percent on it.” I think that we’re taught from the earliest stage, as we walk into preschool, that “I’m not sure” and “I don’t know” are strings of dirty words or something. I mean, last time you put “I don’t know” on a test what happened to you? I’m pretty sure you got marked wrong. But the thing is that that’s really a shame.
    Certainly it’s a much more accurate representation of any kind of prediction of the future. If I say to you, “Well I think that we should implement this business strategy because here’s how it’s going to turn out…” Well I hope that you’re not saying: “I know for sure it’s going to turn out that way,” because that’s just not an accurate representation of the world. Too many things can intervene. There’s too much luck involved in the way that things turn out.
    Even if I know for sure what the mathematics are; even if I’ve got a coin, I’ve examined it, I know it’s a fair coin with a heads and a tail, so I know it’s going to land heads or tails 50 percent of the time-I still don’t know how it’s going to turn out on the next flip. So if you ask me: "If I flip this coin what’s it going to land on?" There’s one sense in which I can tell you something with some certainty; I can say, “Well, if I had done my homework, I can say that 50 percent of the time it will land heads.” And if you say to me, “Well, no that’s not what I want you to tell me. What’s it going to land?” My answer has to be: I don’t know. I mean, how could I? So A: uncertainty is a more accurate representation of the world and I’d like to argue that the more accurate your representation of the world the better your decisions are and the better you’re going to propel yourself to success. So that’s number one. But we’re taught that it’s a bad thing.
    I think the other problem is that we really confuse confidence with certainty. And there’s a difference. One of the things that I used to say in poker when people would ask me about it-they’d say, “Don’t you need to be like super confident to be a great poker player?” And I would say, “Well it kind of depends on what you mean by confidence.” There’s one thing, which I would sort of view as hubris in the face of the game:
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  • @EskeAndersen
    @EskeAndersen 6 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    Is uncertainty a good thing? Maybe.

    • @LabrnMystic
      @LabrnMystic 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Eske Andersen Someone follows Tzeentch

    • @ruppedogg
      @ruppedogg 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hahaha well played

    • @dr.xomnom
      @dr.xomnom 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't know**

  • @mikalrain
    @mikalrain 6 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Among the better Big Think videos. Now go read Taleb's "Black Swan", Kahneman's "Thinking, Fast and Slow", and Rosenzweig's "The Halo Effect" -- they go deeper into this (from perspectives of finance, psychology, business, and more).

  • @KittySnicker
    @KittySnicker 6 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I must be INCREDIBLY successful because I say “I don’t know” all the time!

    • @arnowisp6244
      @arnowisp6244 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      KittySnicker Sarcasm.

  • @billmarkelz
    @billmarkelz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am here because “I don’t know” is my immediate answer to practically every question! Realizing this many years ago I became highly aware of the constant response. It has become a life mantra :)

  • @oldschoolman1444
    @oldschoolman1444 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I appreciate a person that is willing to say I don't know instead of trying to bs their way through.

  • @anmol1771
    @anmol1771 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    It ain't what you don't know that gets you into trouble. It's what you know for sure that just ain't so.
    - Mark Twain

  • @abhimat
    @abhimat 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    "Don't wrap up your identity around your belief of being certain" Thanks, Annie!

  • @importantname
    @importantname 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Scientists, engineers and most military people are taught the intregrity to be honest. Which gets them into a lot of trouble with people who lack integrity.

  • @teresagaddy846
    @teresagaddy846 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very good information! Thanks!

  • @muthuk
    @muthuk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome...very very astute point...too many bad outcomes come out of not understanding this crucial aspect of the world...uncertainty is the norm in nature & the more one tends to run from it the more one runs straight into trouble

  • @aryavijaykumar4700
    @aryavijaykumar4700 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you all very much

  • @margaretjeannemoore
    @margaretjeannemoore 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Zen mind. Don't play poker but I think its a good talk. The more you know the more you know that you don't know.

    • @amalguptan6716
      @amalguptan6716 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Margaret Moore why shouldnt i play poker?

    • @margaretjeannemoore
      @margaretjeannemoore 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      LOL. I'm a great communicator. I meant I don't play poker and have no idea who the woman is but I thought her talk made a lot of sense.

  • @daveoatway6126
    @daveoatway6126 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    A delightful philosophy from a poker player! Better than any college class!

  • @someguynamedelan
    @someguynamedelan 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She puts it in words better than how I've thought of this.

  • @joseph4861
    @joseph4861 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That was fantastic.

  • @EatSleepDrumRepeat
    @EatSleepDrumRepeat 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Annie is brilliant.

  • @RodCornholio
    @RodCornholio 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thought like this for nearly all my life. Probably a major cause for my failure.

  • @adamwilder2943
    @adamwilder2943 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Interesting indeed, as there is always the x factor so to speak, wherein; no one can prepare for every single variable literally.

  • @lambusaab
    @lambusaab 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Certainly uncertain.

  • @sikandarkhan7641
    @sikandarkhan7641 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow!

  • @laomark9583
    @laomark9583 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very good point Annie, I understand well and too often feel/ see what you are stating, but thinking of "UNCERTAINTY" as somewhat weakness is naive and in fact, it is not the proper word to oppose CERTAINTY. Any unbiased broad thinking minded person knows that everything is "RELATIVE". Who Einstein "copied" it from? Maybe the ancient Taoist Chinese...it does not matter. The key is entering issues/event from the factual point of view that things are relative and if you have to "state" an outcome it shld be in terms of probabilities and percentages, which are "adjusted according to TIMING and SITUATION", as those ancient Chinese sages recommended since 2,500+ years ago! So the more appropriate word (if any) to oppose CERTAINTY (w/c is foolish) is RELATIVITY. If you focus from this standpoint you will "FEEL CERTAIN/ CONFIDENT IN BEING RELATIVIST (or relative))"

  • @Redlabel0
    @Redlabel0 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Isn't more percentage of the face that's having up prior to flip and still compensate for the possibility of it landing on its side....

  • @darthdaddy6983
    @darthdaddy6983 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The problem with what i know is that i cant remember what ive forgotten.

  • @chrisray5977
    @chrisray5977 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really feel your case for uncertainty is being misrepresented....there are things we should absolutely be certain about, the reason you get an incorrect score on a test where you answered "I don't know" is because the answer was absolute, it will never be anything else on that test.

  • @mayya9004
    @mayya9004 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So it's more like an I'm open to learn

  • @allisonwilson3856
    @allisonwilson3856 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lens input push military sister aim pop logic grip.

  • @plaguedoct0r
    @plaguedoct0r 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Almost definitely preaching to the choir here. I'm not even certain this stuff can be taught.
    In my weakest moments, I like to think that it can. But I have to be really _really_ drunk.

  • @insane_troll
    @insane_troll 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    When you see new evidence the thing to do is update your estimated probabilities using Bayes' Theorem.

  • @RTL2L
    @RTL2L 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Some things here make sense, but, in general, I really can't get along with "I'm not sure" people.

  • @kazkk2321
    @kazkk2321 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Uncertainty and lack of control are the worse things in the world. I hate this intellectual trend towards embracing pain, anxiety and uncertainty as a means to be better

  • @Edgar-Friendly
    @Edgar-Friendly 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Living in Asia....I agree. However, getting Asian students or their Confucian parents to embrace this is sadly too often a fool's errand.

  • @hussamqadomi3859
    @hussamqadomi3859 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's like a way to run form something 😉

  • @jimlawton4184
    @jimlawton4184 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Did anyone else catch the word 'certainly' at 0:54?

    • @jimlawton4184
      @jimlawton4184 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Seriously! Noone has liked this?! She used the word certainly in a video AGAINST certainty. If that's not a contradiction, I don't know what is!

    • @patman_for_sure
      @patman_for_sure 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Calm down

  • @dasanji90
    @dasanji90 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm going all In! Only a fool would fold!

  • @skaternesto
    @skaternesto 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes yes yes

  • @kristine8338
    @kristine8338 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sweet lady, I can Tell and even show you things that make you wonder... even last sunday, and Today ... love from France 🇫🇷

  • @Symbolicliving
    @Symbolicliving 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well, I don't know what's really going on behind the scenes in politics, and I don't know what news really is true or not.

  • @MrC0MPUT3R
    @MrC0MPUT3R 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    *THE GAME*

  • @nopenope655
    @nopenope655 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    everything within reason

  • @APprojection
    @APprojection 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Did they literally just changed the title to completely different one?

    • @yungxmodulus
      @yungxmodulus 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah, I came for some poker tips and left with philosophical knowledge lol

  • @xthe_moonx
    @xthe_moonx 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I like what ur saying but saying “I’m wrong” or being wrong isn’t bad either! It’s when u don’t say “im wrong” or believe you are wrong! Lol

  • @nathansmith7335
    @nathansmith7335 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    She was a poker champion when poker was easier - she just doesn't cut it now and hasn't for nearly ten years

  • @joepimental6938
    @joepimental6938 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    THE GREATEST, MOST HELPFUL TEACHING / LESSON ON THE WEB, IN THE WEB'S HISTORY. ONLY THE HUMBLE CAN BECOME THE GREATEST. WHAT A HONEY. WISH I WAS YOUNG ENOUGH TO BE GOOD ENOUGH 4 U.

  • @stratovation1474
    @stratovation1474 ปีที่แล้ว

    The best predictors are the most skeptical of their own conclusions. Look to debunk their own reasoning. In another sphere this is called the scientific method. You may often be right but won't suspect the times you will be wrong. The best climbers are killed by the most basic mistakes.

  • @Hansblow12
    @Hansblow12 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I liked the video, but I feel like she contradicts herself. She says we can't be sure about many things, yet she is very sure about her opinions in this video. What do you guys think?

  • @Kube_Dog
    @Kube_Dog 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    She's seems pretty sure about her uncertainty idea.

  • @japonesa5186
    @japonesa5186 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don’t know isn’t an answer. You’re hungry or your not.

  • @Keirosqeen
    @Keirosqeen 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    but how is she so sure that not knowing is a key to sucess?

  • @mukagila2940
    @mukagila2940 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why I read the title as Pokemon Champion?

  • @mrnarason
    @mrnarason 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kinda has to do with religion as well. Religious people are often "certain" in their belief but really have no basis for it.

  • @macystevenson3100
    @macystevenson3100 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    At the same time you sometimes do have to steel your mind from misinformation. Ex. the Earth is round, I'm certain

  • @sono_the_goat
    @sono_the_goat 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I dont know if i like this video

  • @meanttobe3872
    @meanttobe3872 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have a theory.
    big think use misleading titles to force us to watch every single video because we have no way to know what each video is about.
    I'm not watching this one because I'm tired of it.

  • @SentientPickle
    @SentientPickle 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    kind of a Socratic view on wisdom and knowledge, no?

  • @AlejandroBravo0
    @AlejandroBravo0 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bayesianism

  • @bantcreamguy8651
    @bantcreamguy8651 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    First

  • @mcconkeyb
    @mcconkeyb 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    User: Is this bridge strong enough for my car?
    Engineer: I don't know
    User: Will this building fall down?
    Engineer: I don't know
    User: Will this phone explode while I hold it near my head?
    Engineer: I don't know
    You can't wish yourself to a better future!

    • @patman_for_sure
      @patman_for_sure 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The engineer can say "yes" to all these using well calculated choices and the exact opposite have the possibility of occurring. Even if the engineer is 100% accurate using both facts and calculations, what the he/she considered as impossible is still possible.
      There's a difference between what you wrote and what she meant.

    • @IlanHirschfield
      @IlanHirschfield 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@patman_for_sure You're correct. The comment made by Brian McConkey highlights the notion of a system's resilience under stress or disorder. Nassim Taleb developed an idea of "antifragility" as a spinoff of that, where a system actually gains from disorder or stress

    • @patman_for_sure
      @patman_for_sure 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@IlanHirschfield hmmm, can you please explain further?
      Can human beings also grow more from stress; can we also be subject to that theory?

    • @IlanHirschfield
      @IlanHirschfield 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@patman_for_sure Yes! In fact, I would consider a woman who maintains a level-headed attitude despite increasing entropy around her (while dealing with the issues causing that entropy) a highly desirable candidate for a romantic partner!

    • @patman_for_sure
      @patman_for_sure 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@IlanHirschfield very interesting. The randomness of her behaviour that is more akin to a surfer on a rough wave than a steady ship can give the relationship an extra breath of life.
      Am I understanding you right?

  • @MISRYluvsCOMPNY
    @MISRYluvsCOMPNY 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Would really love to meet the people who down vote this

  • @justinadil2104
    @justinadil2104 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Don't blame her for his brother.

  • @Learna_Hydralis
    @Learna_Hydralis 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    The only true wisdom is known that you don't know nothing 👌

  • @cestlavegan5793
    @cestlavegan5793 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well, I was always certain slavery, murder and rape were unethical, but now "I don't know"

  • @45von
    @45von 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It is a Shame that you think of "evangelism" as a good or even a positive thing.

    • @jimlawton4184
      @jimlawton4184 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She didn't say whether it was good or bad, just that she is one. ie that she proselytizes uncertainty.

  • @mihailudusan9074
    @mihailudusan9074 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Poker champion? What kinda joke is this?

  • @kartikrawat2029
    @kartikrawat2029 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    That's a sadhguru lube

  • @tchedoumenou1165
    @tchedoumenou1165 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    she's constantly mixing up notions. Incertainty of the situation and incertainty of the individual. That's not the same thing.

  • @dengmadhel
    @dengmadhel 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wtf is she going on about? If the coin toss has 2 possible results, you have certainty of one of two possible outcomes. You can plan around both outcomes.
    Certainty is a good thing.

    • @dengmadhel
      @dengmadhel 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Some outcomes are fixed. Like a coin toss. Only two possible outcomes.

    • @IlanHirschfield
      @IlanHirschfield 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dengmadhel Yes, but you can't determine FOR SURE on any single coin toss which outcome will result. Saying otherwise is ignorance of simple probability theory for discrete variables.

    • @dengmadhel
      @dengmadhel 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ignorance is in not knowing that there are only two possible outcomes to a coin toss and preparing accordingly.

    • @IlanHirschfield
      @IlanHirschfield 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dengmadhel What do you mean by "prepare accordingly"? You can't CONTROL which outcome will result from flipping the coin, even though those outcomes are discrete