@Traveling Guy no they aren't man, they have the potential and capability for promiscuity, but humans are naturally monogamous creatures, and we evolved on monogamy. Theres a reason why humans inherently react terribly to promiscuous behaviour, and theres a reason why almost every civilisation in history has practiced enforced monogamy as the cultural norm, and those that were institutionally promiscuous, always led to a rapid increase in violence, along with the detabalisation and collapse of the society, and even those societies that were institutionally promiscuous, majority of people still practiced monogamy. The introduction of contraception such as the pill and condoms, as well as abortions, and a whole new wave of younger generations who are so desperately tryna convince themselves that they can treat sex casual with zero consequence, and that they can get away with abandoning responsibility.
@@PC.NickRowanYou contradict yourself. "Enforced monogamy" is not "naturally monogamous". We did not evolve on monogamy, we built civilization on monogamy. For civilization to exist, as you correctly indicate, you must have monogamy and every civilization builds institutions to enforce this. The civilization crumbles when these institutions do (see "Sex and Cultire" by JD Unwin). Ducks are naturally monogamous, they didn't need a church or government to do it. I agree with you that casual sex and hookup culture is not good for people's psyche; what we are naturally are serial monogamists. Pair up, make a baby, raise it to the point it is self sufficient (5-7 yrs old in our evolved, pre-civilization state), then move on to the next breeding partner. The "7 year itch" starts when the youngest kid turns 5-7 and she is wanting to procreate some more, with some new genes to maximize success of her offspring. She will also look for a better deal in terms of the candidate breeding man's resources. The original guy (modern husband) at that point has had the same itch for 5 years, and so is ready for a change too. In the modern world you get cheaters and a 60% divorce rate everywhere. Unfortunately we've built a civilisation where optimal outcomes require both parents to be involved well past the 'natural' time, 15-20+ years. So, our civilisation is bursting at the seams against our nature until we figure out how to scratch our promiscuity/serial monogamy itch AND keep a civilization going. We are forever trapped in this cycle of rise and fall until we figure out how to resolve this; we are maladapted to the current environment and our fertility rate reflects this and we will collapse and be replaced by another civilisation that is earlier in their cycle.
@@visionaryman3548 "enforced monogamy" is simply the term used to describe monogamy as the cultural norm. If polyamory or promiscuity was the cultural norm, they'd be called "enforced polyamory" or "enforced promiscuity". Also you know lw theres more than one sociobiology study on sexual strategies right? I personally havnt read the one you've referred to, but in my research, the consensus amongst the sociobiologists was that we evolved off of monogamy, as polyamory caused too much harm toward not only the males and female individuals, but their children as well, and on a side note, I had also mentioned that across history, the societies that did practice polyamory as the cultural norm, majority of the population voluntarily chose to be monogamous. Now perhaps I'm wrong, anything is possible, I personally dont like to claim or assume that I know anything, on the count that anything is possible, and I would like to think that I focus on evidence as oppose to definitively trying to prove something. But from the evidence I've seen, I think that we've the capacity for both monogamy and polyamory, but I think that we evolved on monogamy, as there are just too many reasons as to why polyamory would have completely disrupted our evolutionary cycle, as humans its been well documented that all hell breaks loose in the practice of polyamory for both men, women and children. Evolutions supposed to operate in our favour, and we became monogamous to ensure that Males increased the probability of their genetic code passing on, the likelihood of Male commitment and resources is increased for women, and children are rared by both a mother and a father, thus fulfilling the necessities for development.
@@visionaryman3548 Note that the 60% divorce figure is misleading- if you only count first marriages the divorce rate is 40-50%. Serial divorcees drive the numbers up. (these are US stats)
In some ways Al Bundy was rather wise. Women are EXTREMELY competitive with each other. I heard a female comedian once say, "women will buy shoes they have no intention of wearing to keep other women from buying them". Women can be nasty to each other. Guys might fight, but once it's over, it's over and, back in the day if two guys fought, there was a good chance they would become friends at some point. With women.....it's ongoing....it becomes about EVERYTHING, no matter how petty....little to nothing is off limits. And women wonder why men will welcome them into the bedroom but not the boardroom. We don't want the drama that seems to accompany them.....
I’ve been married to the same woman for 28 years. Raised two girls who are now college graduates We met as broke college students. Her engagement ring was about a weeks salary. She didn’t cry because the diamond was small. She cried because of the love and commitment being shown. Some years she made more money, some years I made more. It’s always been about US, not what’s in it for me.
@@mordredvonumbra154 Na. People don’t want to be compassionate. The minute you’re significant other stops doing for YOU. People get upset and cheat and end up lonely. Learn some fucking compassion and forgiveness. Love exists. Stop fucking denying it. Heartbreak happens. Be happy you get to feel it. It’s all part of this human experience. And it’s amazing every step of the way. Just love.
@@TheWizard134 If you think the world just suddenly got over populated by a few and not the majority then you need to get out of your 1st world country.
When joe has guests around.. He doesn't want to show off his knowledge.. You can feel him withhold statements.. He allows his guests to shine. Take the spotlight.. I think that is a skill in itself.. Beautiful.
Patrice O’Neal said it best, men don’t really care about women making $100000 a year when it comes to us being attracted to them. We probably find the cute girl at McDonald’s more valuable than a woman making bank
Yes they do, they see it as a negative if they're not making 100k+. That's still caring about how much they make. A lot of men are really insecure which is why I never let them know how wealthy I am.
This is very true, men are 100% about looks, we don’t even give af about personality, as long as your hygien is good, we good, I will tell u tho if her hygiene is off men will get turned off, and once men get turned off, well there goes the whole motive, that’s why men leave after sex, once we cum, we loose all sexual desire, women must not know that since they can cum multiple times. That’s why men jack off to a women they think they love as a test to know if they truly love them. If they nut and are still attracted, then that’s love, if they lose interest, then it was just sexual desire
Quick side note: The whole "Spend a months salary on a wedding ring" was entirely made up by the DeBeers Diamond corporation in a 1930 ad campaign. Before that, men and women traditionally exchanged gifts as a token of commitment (upon being engaged).
It's absolutely nuts to do that as part of conditioning and programming. You can use that money towards investing or a vacation. Or just paying for gas nowadays 💀
It also only really made sense in a world where couples don't live together before getting married. In a world where you're both living with your parents when you propose, and maybe haven't even had sex yet, the idea of an expensive gift to show your commitment (be it an engagement ring or some sort of dowry) makes sense. But the reality is that in the modern age, most people getting engaged have already shown sufficient commitment and seriousness by living together for years first. You've already cooked for them every day, looked after them when they're sick, bought loads of things together, and basically had a trial marriage before the actual one. And because of the way marriage laws work, the proposal itself is already a promise to basically give them half of everything you own. If you're still relying on a man to show sufficient seriousness by spending a load of his money (soon to be your money) on a ring before you decide whether or not he's worth marrying, then something's already gone wrong. Which isn't to say you can't still go through the tradition and expect someone to do things 'properly,' but expecting things like an arbitrary amount of money dreamt up by some marketing executive at a diamond dealer is ridiculous (especially when they add an extra month onto it every time your back is turned).
Hey. It was natures way of making sure we survived. Women *had* to be cruel when they select. If the husband was incapable of taking care of the physically weak woman and vulnerable child, humanity would go POOF. Men on the other hand just had to make sure the sperm meets the egg. But I get your point. Its the double standard in modern society. We are no longer hunted by jaguars. We are more immune to the impact of drought and famine. We don't have to worry about selection any longer. Women shouldnt worry about a poor husband if she's already rich. Men dont have to worry about flat-chested girls 😏because we can feed our babies baby-food. But our minds are still primitive.🤷 If I were an alien looking down on the planet, I would be laughing my ass off watching humans and their silly mating antics.
@@dithaingampanmei couldn't have said it better myself. For such an advanced society it's amazing how primitive we are when it comes to certain things.
Thats a lie look at Jeremy meeks. Dude was a convict and is now dating a billionaire heiress. There are plenty of women who will fly the coop from a man supporting them for a bum.
@John S. same. I gave up trying to understand arabic. Its so hard because the grammar is so different beteeen english and Arabic. One word in Arabic could account to multiple for englisj
@John S. im african and african language has a lot of similar sounding words so ive never struggled with pronunciation. Its the gramar and understanding that killed me.
I got dumped from a beautiful relationship because of the quarantine and bc I was going through the hardest part of my life yet, my status got crushed to the ground, no job, no friends and under heavy depression and stress. My ex partner stood with me for some months, separated due to quarantine, and with time she told me she didn't loved me anymore. So now im here, feeling guilty everyday for being myself. Women tend to act really dismissive when a man has emotional breakdowns, its like we have to be a shield at all times and when we show vulnerable, women sees us as a nuisance and weak partner. I read somewhere that if you're a man, the world doesn't care about your problems, only solutions are expected from you. Then they ask why many of us end up being stoic, cold, and tough when it comes to emotions.
I’m sorry to hear you’ve had a bad time. Maybe she did you a favour…? It’s still hard though isn’t it. Giving love and realising it’s not sent back the same way.
First mistake you have made is letting her know how weak you are second it’s not because of quarantine she left you it’s because you keep making excuses. Women leave the relationship while they are still with you it’s happened way before quarantine sometimes they want a man who can man up and admit there mistakes and they definitely don’t want men who make excuses all the time you need to look in the mirror I hope you are doing better now
@@user-ng5ei5rg6c he needed to know why she left some people in your lives will never be honest with you so I hope he took what I said and used it it takes courage to admit the truth to yourselves then you can start healing
@@snowy1584 I'm with you, truth hurts him a little to hear, but hopefully he learned. Dude needs to know, Don't EVER let your woman see you being weak, or making excuses, or "being vulnerable" dude that's a SURE way to get dumped for the confident guy down the street. coddling the guy AINT gonna do him any favors, it'll just encourage him to make the same mistakes in the future and get his heart smashed again. Women want MEN. Be a MAN
I used to meet so many women who were high-paid, well educated, well traveled and still very attractive in their 30s. But they were all desperate to settle down. You know what they wanted? Someone a LITTLE older than them who was RICHER, smarter, mysterious and good looking. Meanwhile, such a successful dude in his mid 30s would be looking to get with the girls who were in their early to late 20s. LOL
@@fatesd84 pretty much. Some girls get the hint and actually stop being so picky. Unfortunately a lot of people call them desperate. I just see them as being realistic or even reasonable. Guys do the same. (I remember when I used to be extremely obese having such high, ridiculous standards.) So I guess the lesson, for me at least, is to just be reasonable. There's nice girls I know that if I was still that unreasonable obese guy, I would be complaining they're not super models, totally dumb and unrealistic. Plus, I much prefer those girls over some selfish, self-centered "hot" girls that I know.
Giant Stack women are shamed if they’re reasonable or make good decisions. Every bad decision they make is championed. Society wants misery for women but it’s presented as empowerment and women cant tell the difference
I don't see women who are really into their career as real women. They're like men to me, just more (unnecessary) competition. I suspect there are a lot of men who secretly feel the way I do.
Makes so much sense to me. I am 5’11 pretty tall and doing my PhD. I am single because I sometimes even say I just don’t find too many people attractive. The older you get the less attraction you feel to your peers in comparison to high school times when we were all equal. I had the same thoughts before. Glad to hear that on a podcast
I would say 80-90% of people think like this but it's not a requirement. There are people who don't think like this and are genuine about their attitudes to life. You don't have to live like this. Choose to be good and choose virtue.
Yeah, my mom was way more successful and more attractive than my father back when they were dating, and that gap on success was just getting wider and wider. They are still married 25 years later. She never paid attention to other more handsome and richer men who would try to pursue her. I also don't fall for the hottest women available, personality goes immeasurably way ahead looks, though the women whom had been the most interested in me (the ones who would flirt and seek more of my sympathy) do tend to be the most attractive among the crowd. There are more primitive spirits as well as the least mundane. It's a good thing that one is free to choose which of the two they will cultivate.
Met my wife when we were both 13/14, got married at 22. We now have two amazing kids. It hasn’t always been easy financially as we’ve tried various business projects and made money, lost some but being married now for 11 years we couldn’t be happier. When money becomes more important than marriage then that’s where issues begin. I’m thankful we’ve both been patient through good times and the bad.
"YOU" couldn't be happier. She will hit her "bored with you" wall and feel like she wasted her life. She will leave you. You aren't special and she isn't different. Matter of time. She's gone.
@@nazgullinux6601bro she has a family w him. Considering the fact they’ve known each other for that long I doubt that will happen. But it also wouldn’t surprise me if it did. Hopefully not
"Mating and food, you don't want to become someone's dinner ,you want to find dinner and you want to have sex" What a statement!! This is the entirety of life for most people
"Rejection makes a man stronger. I believe that you can't really call yourself a man unless you can laugh off all the bad stuff that happens to you, or at least use it as writing material." = Jiraiya from Naturo
@@pourfour7856 that advice is actually in self help book i read called “who moved my cheese”, being able to laugh at your mistakes is geniunely the way to move past them
Interesting conversation as I have a friend in this predicament. She’s married and makes a decent living (50-55k) at a job she doesn’t love whereas her husband works a job he does like but brings home maybe 18k. He helps out around the house as he works from home, but my friend is so resentful of his laid back days while she works a high pressure job and pays the bulk of their bills. Add to that she’s a staunch feminist. 😂 I pointed out that men have been in role of primary breadwinner for generations and he’s basically a SAHH - she should be happy for the equality - omg did that ruffle her feathers. She was like “I know, I know” but then started to curse all feminists everywhere. Ladies, be careful what you wish for. 😅
I prefer the LOX's version..."I believe in Money, Power, and Respect! First you get the money. Then you get the muthafuckin' power! After you get the power, muthafuckas will RESPECT YOU!" I heard that in the Marines in 1998...didn't say shit about a woman. A woman is optional. It's amazing...Cher said a man is optional and she was celebrated. Man says that, he's misogynist. It's amazing. Women really thought they could get away with that passive aggressive shit forever.
Why do you need a piece of paper from “the man,” to define a relationship? It’s the same people that tell you, you have to spend 1/4 of your annual salary on a ring! F**K that!!! (The key is to find a likeminded female...... and, I’m lucky to say..... I have!)
It's not an investment it's a financial, soul, mental drain. Get a vasectomy and bang them. If you wear a wedding ring they will bang you. Or Brad Pitt.. or rich.
Well, duh! You think women of past and present would risk having children with some bum ass dude? When it comes to biology, men have nothing to offer (since they cannot give birth) their value is tied to working and supporting the family. I’m sure modern times have jaded that.
From my experience being better at everything compared to her can still not work. You need to have some flaws. At the end of the day, it's about how you maker her feel. Does she feel secure? Would 10 million dollars make her feel more secure or would 2k a month be ok? Does she feel safe? Do you need to get buff and the tallest, strongest ever or would simply going by a car and then driving instead of walking through that dangerous alley solve it? Does she feel pretty? Do you need to tell her twice a day or is simple smile enough? Does she feel sexually satisfied? Do you need to learn tantra or would eating her well be enough? Does she experience adventure? Would you need to go on 10 vacations a year or is having sex 3 times a year in a unusual place enough? I met couple of girls where the balance was not there. If she just wants to be pumped for next 3 months, you gotta have the D of destiny and money does not matter much
@ There is a strong evolutional reason for female hypergamy but men not having anything to offer biologically is the most stupid argument I have ever read. Like women can make children without men lol. In the end its strongly mens genes that women pass.
Karen Aguilar you gonna give birth without a man? Wouldn’t surprise me if women start extracting animal semen to try and prove that they don’t need men period 😂
I'm 5'6" and dated a couple women that were some inches taller than me and one of them even liked to wear heels. I used to get these looks from other people, especially other dudes, like "what the fuck is going on here?" 😆
Nothing wrong there. I’m 6’4” and honestly it still bugs me to see tall girls with shorter guys. I don’t think I’ll ever not feel a little cringe towards it. Doesn’t mean it’s bad though! Good on you for telling the rest of them to fuck off.
Wow. this has just explained my divorce. My ex-wife could never explain to me what went wrong, the divorce was a huge shock to me.... and this has just clarified it totally. Thank you.
Your not alone. My x-wife never gave me a satisfactory answer. But it was money, it was always about money, perceived income potential and status. Unfortunately she greatly over estimated her sexual market place value and it has not gone well for her..
I never understood why it is necessary for people to get married anyway. Why can't there be such a thing as people living together without it being legally-binding for either party? I mean, if two people really 'love' each other, then making it official via marriage shouldn't really be of importance, right?
Men desire beauty, fertility, sex, and femininity. Women want status, money, children, and masculinity. This isn’t true in all cases, but it’s largely accurate. *edit- this isn’t bad either, it’s just the way it is. Nothing wrong with the fact that men and women want different things.
Stellar Gnoma yes obviously women still care about looks, but it’s not to the same degree that men do. And as I said in my comment this isn’t true in all cases but it largely is. Just look to the extremes. If an older man is mega successful and wealthy it doesn’t matter if he’s ugly or handsome he can have a beautiful wife. If a older woman is mega successful there aren’t exactly rows of hot young Chads lining up to marry her. Are there girls who would marry a man solely because of looks, certainty there are, but it’s not a huge number. Are there men that would marry a women just because of her good looks? Well I think that one answers itself. The point isn’t to say women don’t care about looks, they obviously do just like any human. If you ask an average girl what she wants in a man, “someone hot” usually isn’t at the very top of the list. It’s more likely to be “wants children”,”has a stable job”, “very intelligent” etc. There is a complete overlap in what men and women want from one another. Both sexes value good looks, money, shared morals, children, sex, etc. but depending on the sex, it is to different degrees or different priorities on average
Nah man if you’re ugly I ain’t into you No matter how rich you are I don’t care if I’m shallow Women just care too much about being called shallow they don’t wanna admit that looks count
@@goldgabich6863 Looks are far more important to women than men. They just lie about it. In fact, women when polled only consider the top 20% of men attractive. When presented with an average man she rates him as below average, while men rate average women without bias.
@JJ Buddhabrot No. A must is food, water, shelter, clothing. These are musts. A piece of metal with an over-priced piece of carbon, mined by the hands of starving children... Is not a must.
My mom hasn’t worked since I was born and my dad is very successful at his work and has been the only bread winner for over 23 years. You can tell that there’s a huge disconnect between them and lots of fighting because their contribution is so disproportional.
masterxyr not all women think about money especially if they come from it and know it’s not what makes happiness or have it themselves and don’t need to worry about basic necessities.
johnDomain well actually women seem to fall easily for “fucked up” guys, thinking they could fix them. Most men look at girls with issues as easy prey they can fuck and dump because of their low self esteem
Thank you. People are too caught up in saying one sex is worst than the other. Personality and connection are important as well. No one has mentioned that.
Wow Joe, what you said right at 6:48 is so true. You described my current situation. And I live in Miami.. You could imagine how tough it is to deal with that.
It's true, women, and men as well, are seeking to climb the social hierarchy. But why stop our analysis there? What is the core motivation to reach the top of the social hierarchy? Is it because it is perceived that by doing so we will attain something that we are lacking? There has to be something at or near the top of the social hierarchy that has value, right? Is it increased potential of survival? Well, not necessarily. With added wealth comes added risk of predatory behaviour, especially from lower members of the hierarchy. It is probably safest to be in the middle of the pack, insulated from destitute poverty, and from others seeking your wealth. So its not survival. It is, I think, satisfaction, that people are searching for. To finally be satisfied. The only thing that satisfies in my experience, is love. And so high status without love is fundamentally dissatisfying. To work so hard only to still be dissatisfied... what a torture. Work for what you love, and who you love. Forget the hierarchy. Practice self-love. Or keep on chasing... but I don't recommend it, you'll just end up where you were, with a golden noose from which to hang yourself.
My parents were high school sweets hearts, my moms career took off and my dad was very uncomfortable with that and he was making just as good money too but that pretty much ended their marriage. My dad saw my mom as a stay at home mom but my mom was very into her career so that didn’t work out. It’s just the perfect example of what u guys are talking about my parents were the text book of that .
My husband and I were married at 19 and 20. Gad is right about the early marriage thing. I was lucky enough that although I am more educated than my husband (I have a Master's degree) and he has a Bachelor's degree ,he makes more money than I do. I love my role in our family as a mother and wife. Another factor that Gad can study is ethnicity and the role it plays in keeping young couples together. My husband and I are both Hispanic and Catholic, divorce was never an option for us during tough times. We were forced by family to work it out. BTW, we've now been married for 22 years and I love him much more today than ever before. I feel like he feels the same :)
Malena The Menace Almost identical life to mine. I was 21, my husband 22, when we married 27 years ago. We’re also Catholic, and we never considered divorce either ~ even though we definitely had some rough times in the first 10 years. I also think our relationship is even better now than it was in the beginning; the knowledge that you successfully overcame the bad times makes you even stronger.
All those problems could have been avoided by not getting a masters degree. His stress and mental health would also have been better. Women don't give a shit about men, they care about the luxury he can give. That makes them all 304s.
@@nitinpandey6037 an ugly chick could suck her way to the top. An EXTREMELY underrated skill that greatly boosts your "mating value" is doing things in the bedroom with your mouth that others mates cannot or will not. Its a harder method of seduction than just being naturally attractive but importantly it IS something you have control over.
I have been married twice first one at 19 lasted 7 years, second marriage 17 years going strong. This is so true. First husband didn't want to move forward past 22, drinking no job. He was a good fit at 19 20, terrible at 26. Our values split, we spilt.
I think this is the truth behind what these guys are saying. Women want the guy to work provide for her and the children do that by money. Simple as that.
@@HONDACR919USA313 that or at least someone who is a good a partner. If a women feels like she has to work a full-time job and then come home and take over most of the housework and child uprearing, she will become resentful because her spouse isn't a partner but just another human to take care of who contributes some of the money. Housework and raising children are a whole job in themselves, so if both parties work, both parties should share responsibilities at home.
Your values didn't split, they were always the same. You were just dumb enough to be fooled by it when you were younger until enough years and enough other men in sight taught you how wrong you were. I'd be willing to bet that you certainly didn't make him prove his value or commitment, which women should do by withholding sex until marriage. If you had done so, then I guarantee he wouldn't have stuck around to wait for you, or he would have been cheat g while trying to con you and you would have caught him.
@@patriciaikeda2608 I'm glad it worked out for you in the long run. I wish more people got to have a happy ending but they seem to be few and far between these days.
Eddie Murphy said this 33 years ago. They called him a misogynist. Re-watch his bit about women and marriage (i.e. Johnny Carson)...it's damn near sociology at this point.
I had a bf that was lazy, I paid for everything, he even cheated on me, and once he got physical I kicked him out, and never looked back, I'm married with 2 kids and my husband treats me wonderfully, I'm thankful for knowing i have standards and expectations.
That's the thing to. Younger women aren't as smart when choosing guys early on. They just go for the hottest guys with a big mouth and big status that put up a front. Then when the women get older, they realize that they missed out on dating ACTUAL good nice guys. By this time the woman is usually at least 28+ years old desperate for a man.
@@wombat5252 Not all of them, I'm 18 years old and I chose the good boy before the bad boy, maybe the environment in which women grow up has a lot of influence, I was always disgusted by bad boys for being egocentric and manipulative and always putting themselves in victim mode, god yuck
@Rob Gibson until your friends get married and have families of their own. It will get lonely as you get older. An God forbid you get sick. I hope you mgtow redpill guys wake up before it’s too late. Married men overall are happier and live longer. There is lots of benefits to marriage, you just have to pick well.
This has to be the best video clip I have ever seen of a Joe Rogan interview. It is so informative and important especially for men of all ages , races and creeds to watch and learn from this . Save this video to your favorites and rewatch it fellas because it will be a long time till you hear the truth spoken like this again.
This episode was taken down on Spotify, I was able to find it and I have to say. They crossed a lot of lines there and it was hilarious, I don't blame Spotify for taking it down
What Gad Saad says is the truth. I like that he just lays it out without making any judgment of value, even though the judgment of value is pretty obvious for any man with a brain.
Wow, what he shared about divorces when married young speaks to me since my divorce. Huge inequities that weren't there in the beginning. That's so insightful it makes me a bit sad, as that might have been helpful to assess together before things went south.
The only way to survive as a man is to aim to be the best version of yourself everyday, regardless of how you feel or want, and be able to walk away at any point, even at the slightest disrespect, as a man you have the advantage of time on your side. Men peak in their 30s, women peak in their 20s, women always want older, and men will always want younger, but you need to be successful first, however you define your own success. Easier to be a 40yo man with a 20yo girl to fall in love with you then a 40yo women to get a 20 year old man to fall in love
Sorry to break it to you but men hit the wall too. You get beer bellies and receding hairlines. I don’t think any woman in their twenties can fall in love with a wrinkly balding 40 year old man. She might tag along for a while if he’s rich, just like a 20 something guy will tag along with a rich old lady. but there’s almost 0% chance of actual love, because they’re ugly.
I miss being in my 20's with a beautiful, nympho girlfriend. We had so much fun together till she met a wealthy construction baron who paid for everything.
@@soleilsonira4467 It is cope but what he said is true tho. Why don't the oil baron go for a virgin who looks 10x better? I'm sure he has loads of option with that kinda money.
I just think there’s too many of us to really come to a conclusion on why we do certain things when it comes to relationships and dating. Everyone has their own wants/ needs on top of their own set of morals and reasoning behind the way they treat others. On top of that, humans are just emotionally weird. Especially in this new age we live in.. Congratulations to whoever has naturally loving relationships. They’re definitely out there..
@@ClappyCakes nah I disagree. I think if anything he just helps people think for themselves. Trying to give a reason to everything is definitely a hard one but if we want to have everyone accountable for their own actions then I thinks it’s important that we at least try to understand the reasoning behind those actions. Why are we this complex? I don’t fucking know 😓
@@egordontov9814 I won't hold expectations because I expect nothing from females but it is messed up that society is gonna normalize racial preferences especially since I hear stories about a single racial society in a city, for example blacks with blacks and whites with whites is widely accepted?
@@egordontov9814 To add onto what I just said, I don't believe the color of anybody's skin should be the reason for a relationship because to me it has no value , a men either wants to fuck or reproduce while a women uses racial bias to selectively choose her mate go ahead but you bury your own grave.
I'm 5'7 so I see a lot of women who look down on me. Ha ha. But don't worry guys, money makes all your imperfections vanish for some reason. So chase money first, instead of women and watch how it works better. But yeah, being poor and short is no real fun. Trust me.
@@danielmayen6545 Yeah, thats the bonus of being shorter. Our junk looks more impressive cause the size to height ratio is better for us. Average on us looks good but tiny on taller men. Just ask @pliit upstairs.
Nothing wrong with women looking for the best mate possible. Problem is they keep looking after they get married too lol.
@Traveling Guy no multiple reasons to still get married nobody wants to raise kids that's not there's and get STDs
@Traveling Guy no they aren't man, they have the potential and capability for promiscuity, but humans are naturally monogamous creatures, and we evolved on monogamy. Theres a reason why humans inherently react terribly to promiscuous behaviour, and theres a reason why almost every civilisation in history has practiced enforced monogamy as the cultural norm, and those that were institutionally promiscuous, always led to a rapid increase in violence, along with the detabalisation and collapse of the society, and even those societies that were institutionally promiscuous, majority of people still practiced monogamy. The introduction of contraception such as the pill and condoms, as well as abortions, and a whole new wave of younger generations who are so desperately tryna convince themselves that they can treat sex casual with zero consequence, and that they can get away with abandoning responsibility.
@@PC.NickRowanYou contradict yourself. "Enforced monogamy" is not "naturally monogamous". We did not evolve on monogamy, we built civilization on monogamy.
For civilization to exist, as you correctly indicate, you must have monogamy and every civilization builds institutions to enforce this. The civilization crumbles when these institutions do (see "Sex and Cultire" by JD Unwin). Ducks are naturally monogamous, they didn't need a church or government to do it.
I agree with you that casual sex and hookup culture is not good for people's psyche; what we are naturally are serial monogamists. Pair up, make a baby, raise it to the point it is self sufficient (5-7 yrs old in our evolved, pre-civilization state), then move on to the next breeding partner. The "7 year itch" starts when the youngest kid turns 5-7 and she is wanting to procreate some more, with some new genes to maximize success of her offspring. She will also look for a better deal in terms of the candidate breeding man's resources. The original guy (modern husband) at that point has had the same itch for 5 years, and so is ready for a change too. In the modern world you get cheaters and a 60% divorce rate everywhere.
Unfortunately we've built a civilisation where optimal outcomes require both parents to be involved well past the 'natural' time, 15-20+ years. So, our civilisation is bursting at the seams against our nature until we figure out how to scratch our promiscuity/serial monogamy itch AND keep a civilization going. We are forever trapped in this cycle of rise and fall until we figure out how to resolve this; we are maladapted to the current environment and our fertility rate reflects this and we will collapse and be replaced by another civilisation that is earlier in their cycle.
@@visionaryman3548 "enforced monogamy" is simply the term used to describe monogamy as the cultural norm. If polyamory or promiscuity was the cultural norm, they'd be called "enforced polyamory" or "enforced promiscuity". Also you know lw theres more than one sociobiology study on sexual strategies right? I personally havnt read the one you've referred to, but in my research, the consensus amongst the sociobiologists was that we evolved off of monogamy, as polyamory caused too much harm toward not only the males and female individuals, but their children as well, and on a side note, I had also mentioned that across history, the societies that did practice polyamory as the cultural norm, majority of the population voluntarily chose to be monogamous. Now perhaps I'm wrong, anything is possible, I personally dont like to claim or assume that I know anything, on the count that anything is possible, and I would like to think that I focus on evidence as oppose to definitively trying to prove something. But from the evidence I've seen, I think that we've the capacity for both monogamy and polyamory, but I think that we evolved on monogamy, as there are just too many reasons as to why polyamory would have completely disrupted our evolutionary cycle, as humans its been well documented that all hell breaks loose in the practice of polyamory for both men, women and children. Evolutions supposed to operate in our favour, and we became monogamous to ensure that Males increased the probability of their genetic code passing on, the likelihood of Male commitment and resources is increased for women, and children are rared by both a mother and a father, thus fulfilling the necessities for development.
@@visionaryman3548 Note that the 60% divorce figure is misleading- if you only count first marriages the divorce rate is 40-50%. Serial divorcees drive the numbers up. (these are US stats)
“Don’t try to understand women. Women understand women and they hate each other.”
-Al Bundy
Mate if they didn't have lady bits we'd throw stones at them
You can either love women or understand them, but you can't do both
In some ways Al Bundy was rather wise. Women are EXTREMELY competitive with each other. I heard a female comedian once say, "women will buy shoes they have no intention of wearing to keep other women from buying them". Women can be nasty to each other. Guys might fight, but once it's over, it's over and, back in the day if two guys fought, there was a good chance they would become friends at some point. With women.....it's ongoing....it becomes about EVERYTHING, no matter how petty....little to nothing is off limits. And women wonder why men will welcome them into the bedroom but not the boardroom. We don't want the drama that seems to accompany them.....
Legendary😂😂😂
😆
I’ve been married to the same woman for 28 years. Raised two girls who are now college graduates We met as broke college students. Her engagement ring was about a weeks salary. She didn’t cry because the diamond was small. She cried because of the love and commitment being shown. Some years she made more money, some years I made more. It’s always been about US, not what’s in it for me.
Congrats on that, Ken! Enjoy your 30th anniversary when it comes fella!
Things were different back in the day. Society accelerated so fast that it started flying.
@@mordredvonumbra154 Not for too long.
@@mordredvonumbra154 Na. People don’t want to be compassionate. The minute you’re significant other stops doing for YOU. People get upset and cheat and end up lonely. Learn some fucking compassion and forgiveness. Love exists. Stop fucking denying it. Heartbreak happens. Be happy you get to feel it. It’s all part of this human experience. And it’s amazing every step of the way. Just love.
Lol keep telling yourself that.
As Dave chappelle once eloquently put it:
*guy buys Porsche*
Girl: nice Porsche!
Guy: gotcha bitch!
🤣🤣 thank you for reminding me.
Woman demands 1 carat engagement ring
guy buys 1 carat engagement ring
Woman: Gotcha bitch!
My life....
Guy: buys porsche
Me: looks at it
Guy: do you like my car?
Me: yea, I have one too.... Have a good day!
A woman's test is material a man's test is a woman - Dave Chappelle
Being human is such a chore.
Facts doh..
God bless SSRIs
Amen.
Damn I felt this
Hell yea ppl judge me cuz my gf gotta clit longer than my dicc wit the most adorable ball sac lookin thing but shez a girl tho
Gad Saad looks and speaks as if he was a wise owl in an animation movie
Lmao
Hahha.. there is this wise and joyful looks to him
🤣
I heard somewhere his parents based him off of Winnie the Poohs buddy
😂😂😂
We overcomplicated our lives too much in the last 200 years to the extent that our species needs are becoming insanely unachievable.
I agree like what is all this shit. Are humans really this shallow?
Yet we fuck like crazy and overpopulation is a thing that exists.
@@noobnoob8922 A few, but not the majority.
@@TheWizard134 If you think the world just suddenly got over populated by a few and not the majority then you need to get out of your 1st world country.
@@noobnoob8922 hahahaha
When joe has guests around.. He doesn't want to show off his knowledge.. You can feel him withhold statements.. He allows his guests to shine. Take the spotlight.. I think that is a skill in itself.. Beautiful.
mmmm yes and no
It's not very surprising. Podcasts are basically long interviews.
The rule of thumb in interviews is to let the other person speak till they want.
They both are smart... Idk about Joe "letting him" have the spotlight. That's the whole point of having a guest is to let the guest speak
Just for you to recognise that is skill i itself
Na if Joe disagrees with something he usually speaks up dude is honest and unbiased asf
Patrice O’Neal said it best, men don’t really care about women making $100000 a year when it comes to us being attracted to them. We probably find the cute girl at McDonald’s more valuable than a woman making bank
Yes they do, they see it as a negative if they're not making 100k+. That's still caring about how much they make. A lot of men are really insecure which is why I never let them know how wealthy I am.
@@ashleyashleym2969 of course some men care about that, but its not on the same proportion!
@@ashleyashleym2969 you need a man like me!
This is very true, men are 100% about looks, we don’t even give af about personality, as long as your hygien is good, we good, I will tell u tho if her hygiene is off men will get turned off, and once men get turned off, well there goes the whole motive, that’s why men leave after sex, once we cum, we loose all sexual desire, women must not know that since they can cum multiple times. That’s why men jack off to a women they think they love as a test to know if they truly love them. If they nut and are still attracted, then that’s love, if they lose interest, then it was just sexual desire
S Boy you nut to women you are with? Gross
“ Women don’t want to win , they want a winner “ - Patrice O’Neal
“Women are abusive.”
~Patrice O’Neal
Gold!
the goat! rip
We need him now more than ever before... To many penguins!! RIP Patrice
Great comment
Quick side note: The whole "Spend a months salary on a wedding ring" was entirely made up by the DeBeers Diamond corporation in a 1930 ad campaign. Before that, men and women traditionally exchanged gifts as a token of commitment (upon being engaged).
It's absolutely nuts to do that as part of conditioning and programming. You can use that money towards investing or a vacation. Or just paying for gas nowadays 💀
Today, it's 2 months salary!
It also only really made sense in a world where couples don't live together before getting married. In a world where you're both living with your parents when you propose, and maybe haven't even had sex yet, the idea of an expensive gift to show your commitment (be it an engagement ring or some sort of dowry) makes sense. But the reality is that in the modern age, most people getting engaged have already shown sufficient commitment and seriousness by living together for years first. You've already cooked for them every day, looked after them when they're sick, bought loads of things together, and basically had a trial marriage before the actual one. And because of the way marriage laws work, the proposal itself is already a promise to basically give them half of everything you own. If you're still relying on a man to show sufficient seriousness by spending a load of his money (soon to be your money) on a ring before you decide whether or not he's worth marrying, then something's already gone wrong. Which isn't to say you can't still go through the tradition and expect someone to do things 'properly,' but expecting things like an arbitrary amount of money dreamt up by some marketing executive at a diamond dealer is ridiculous (especially when they add an extra month onto it every time your back is turned).
“She was a foul beast” had me rolling 😂
I’m wondering who he’s talking about 😂
Chicks when their friend starts dating: is he rich?
Guys when their friend starts dating: is she hot?
A new intellectual has arrived in our generation
Does she go down
😂😂😂
You're only half right. Men would definitely ask that... but you underestimate the women here.
First question is usually also "Is he hot?"
Does she suck after fu+*^%king? On mop up detail.
That guy looks like he is in a Disney movie
💀💀
He really does, omg, he looks like that uncle who gives wisdom to the protagonist at their worst moment in the movie.
I dont like fat girls, its gross
Martin Petrovski who asked
He looks like the actor playing Konstantin in Killing Eve, Kim Bodnia. And I can totally see him in a Disney movie
Dr. Gad Saad is a first class honest & ultra appreciated man! That was awesome, again 👊🇨🇦🇺🇸
“There’s no nobility in poverty. I’ve been a rich man, and I’ve been a poor man, and I choose rich every fuckin time.” - Jordan Belfort
No truer words have been spoken
@@praised1745 soulless as they may be.
One of the greatest scam artists of all time.
@@brianjacob8728 It ain’t about soul. It’s about how you’re living
@@SAMSARALIVEEEEEE it has everything to do with soul, which you obviously lack.
A man's height is measured when he stands on his wallet.
Like lil uzi vert
Omg so funny roflmao
So I am a midget 😰
Funny 😄
Gold!
A man can find a poor girl and change her life but a rich girl won’t even look at a poor man
Hey. It was natures way of making sure we survived. Women *had* to be cruel when they select. If the husband was incapable of taking care of the physically weak woman and vulnerable child, humanity would go POOF.
Men on the other hand just had to make sure the sperm meets the egg.
But I get your point. Its the double standard in modern society. We are no longer hunted by jaguars. We are more immune to the impact of drought and famine. We don't have to worry about selection any longer.
Women shouldnt worry about a poor husband if she's already rich. Men dont have to worry about flat-chested girls 😏because we can feed our babies baby-food.
But our minds are still primitive.🤷
If I were an alien looking down on the planet, I would be laughing my ass off watching humans and their silly mating antics.
😂😂😂. Well so it's a good thing men hold most of the wealth in the world
@@dithaingampanmei couldn't have said it better myself. For such an advanced society it's amazing how primitive we are when it comes to certain things.
Thats a lie look at Jeremy meeks. Dude was a convict and is now dating a billionaire heiress. There are plenty of women who will fly the coop from a man supporting them for a bum.
Man fr
Fun fact: Saad actually means happiness in Arabic
Pronounced differently though
@John S. same. I gave up trying to understand arabic. Its so hard because the grammar is so different beteeen english and Arabic. One word in Arabic could account to multiple for englisj
@John S. im african and african language has a lot of similar sounding words so ive never struggled with pronunciation. Its the gramar and understanding that killed me.
Aw don't give up. I didn't and I'm learning my brother can now read it lollll
Gad in Croatian means BASTARD, so in the mix is pretty cool name Happy Bastard 😂
I got dumped from a beautiful relationship because of the quarantine and bc I was going through the hardest part of my life yet, my status got crushed to the ground, no job, no friends and under heavy depression and stress. My ex partner stood with me for some months, separated due to quarantine, and with time she told me she didn't loved me anymore. So now im here, feeling guilty everyday for being myself. Women tend to act really dismissive when a man has emotional breakdowns, its like we have to be a shield at all times and when we show vulnerable, women sees us as a nuisance and weak partner. I read somewhere that if you're a man, the world doesn't care about your problems, only solutions are expected from you. Then they ask why many of us end up being stoic, cold, and tough when it comes to emotions.
I’m sorry to hear you’ve had a bad time. Maybe she did you a favour…? It’s still hard though isn’t it. Giving love and realising it’s not sent back the same way.
First mistake you have made is letting her know how weak you are second it’s not because of quarantine she left you it’s because you keep making excuses. Women leave the relationship while they are still with you it’s happened way before quarantine sometimes they want a man who can man up and admit there mistakes and they definitely don’t want men who make excuses all the time you need to look in the mirror I hope you are doing better now
@@user-ng5ei5rg6c he needed to know why she left some people in your lives will never be honest with you so I hope he took what I said and used it it takes courage to admit the truth to yourselves then you can start healing
@@snowy1584 I'm with you, truth hurts him a little to hear, but hopefully he learned. Dude needs to know, Don't EVER let your woman see you being weak, or making excuses, or "being vulnerable" dude that's a SURE way to get dumped for the confident guy down the street. coddling the guy AINT gonna do him any favors, it'll just encourage him to make the same mistakes in the future and get his heart smashed again. Women want MEN. Be a MAN
Probability is not destiny. Find a woman who loves you with a bit more depth and consistency. And never compromise who You are
*The only way you know a woman really loves you is if you lose your job/money/status/health and she stays with you and supports you.*
what about if you quit your job for no god damn reason?
She either loves you or she's got deep set trauma and is codependant
Yeah, so start getting shit at your job so you can get fired, husbands.
@CallaLily women got the good side of the deal there didnt they?
@CallaLily poor man 😂 different women want different things (some don't even want men full stop, others want them all) #notallwomen
"behind every angry woman, there is a man that doesn't know wtf they have done."
Adam and Noah
Yeah or behind every angry woman there is lack of sexual contact and therefore dissatisfaction followed by bitterness.
Kris Shu BG your opinion but I do have one question since you think that of angry women what angry men .
"behind every angry woman, there is a man that doesn't play by here rules"
@@user-db2tz9hg8f I can come with one. Lack of self control
"For a signal to be honest it has be costly" Jesus Gadd the quote hit deep 😳
Ladies if you find a good man with a good heart and you become more of an earner...hold on to him... because integrity is worth more than money ❤️
I used to meet so many women who were high-paid, well educated, well traveled and still very attractive in their 30s. But they were all desperate to settle down. You know what they wanted? Someone a LITTLE older than them who was RICHER, smarter, mysterious and good looking.
Meanwhile, such a successful dude in his mid 30s would be looking to get with the girls who were in their early to late 20s.
LOL
Giant Stack the irony is women lose appeal as they age but they somehow become pickier. Imagine a used Toyota costing more then a new one
@@fatesd84 pretty much. Some girls get the hint and actually stop being so picky. Unfortunately a lot of people call them desperate. I just see them as being realistic or even reasonable. Guys do the same. (I remember when I used to be extremely obese having such high, ridiculous standards.)
So I guess the lesson, for me at least, is to just be reasonable. There's nice girls I know that if I was still that unreasonable obese guy, I would be complaining they're not super models, totally dumb and unrealistic. Plus, I much prefer those girls over some selfish, self-centered "hot" girls that I know.
Giant Stack women are shamed if they’re reasonable or make good decisions. Every bad decision they make is championed. Society wants misery for women but it’s presented as empowerment and women cant tell the difference
Daddy issues and fertility. Next.
I don't see women who are really into their career as real women. They're like men to me, just more (unnecessary) competition. I suspect there are a lot of men who secretly feel the way I do.
Dude I was in such a great mood but then I Gad Saad
underrated
Word bro
That made me giggle. Nice.
Hahaha🤣
get out
Makes so much sense to me. I am 5’11 pretty tall and doing my PhD. I am single because I sometimes even say I just don’t find too many people attractive. The older you get the less attraction you feel to your peers in comparison to high school times when we were all equal. I had the same thoughts before. Glad to hear that on a podcast
Have this dude back on the show!
Sex always costs something. Love is never given for free. Prostitutes are just honest.
Honest and full of STDs
Busy depends on country
@@amitcarbyne3635
Nah
Busy yeah - they get tested regularly in some countries and have certificates.
Amit Carbyne
Hope you marry one soon
“Everything is about sex except for sex; sex is about power."
Tyler Crighton god, so threw me discovering how true that actually is
Then you guys are doing it wrong.
i disagree. sex is about trust. and being vulnerable. and connection.
those who say sex is about power have issues with power and control.
rizza mae ong only by surrendering power can one be vulnerable and trusting in order to build the connection you speak of
@@greensageICT95
nope.
they're mutually exclusive.
I would say 80-90% of people think like this but it's not a requirement. There are people who don't think like this and are genuine about their attitudes to life. You don't have to live like this. Choose to be good and choose virtue.
Exactly. Choose love and truth over these egotistical drives and standards.
Yeah, my mom was way more successful and more attractive than my father back when they were dating, and that gap on success was just getting wider and wider. They are still married 25 years later. She never paid attention to other more handsome and richer men who would try to pursue her. I also don't fall for the hottest women available, personality goes immeasurably way ahead looks, though the women whom had been the most interested in me (the ones who would flirt and seek more of my sympathy) do tend to be the most attractive among the crowd. There are more primitive spirits as well as the least mundane. It's a good thing that one is free to choose which of the two they will cultivate.
Met my wife when we were both 13/14, got married at 22. We now have two amazing kids. It hasn’t always been easy financially as we’ve tried various business projects and made money, lost some but being married now for 11 years we couldn’t be happier. When money becomes more important than marriage then that’s where issues begin. I’m thankful we’ve both been patient through good times and the bad.
"YOU" couldn't be happier. She will hit her "bored with you" wall and feel like she wasted her life. She will leave you. You aren't special and she isn't different. Matter of time. She's gone.
@@nazgullinux6601bro she has a family w him. Considering the fact they’ve known each other for that long I doubt that will happen. But it also wouldn’t surprise me if it did. Hopefully not
@@cambeck9194 In the US, that "family with him" is a free permanent paycheck for her if she so chooses.
@@nazgullinux6601incel
"Mating and food, you don't want to become someone's dinner ,you want to find dinner and you want to have sex"
What a statement!! This is the entirety of life for most people
@@JinroTheCorpse you just called yourself a handsome arrogant genius I’m assuming only one of those adjectives are correct from that self assessment
Most women don't actually need sex. But they never admit to it, because that would mean they'd die alone.
"Rejection makes a man stronger. I believe that you can't really call yourself a man unless you can laugh off all the bad stuff that happens to you, or at least use it as writing material." = Jiraiya from Naturo
Naruto*
Such a fucking dope character
@@pourfour7856 lol 😂
@@pourfour7856 that advice is actually in self help book i read called “who moved my cheese”, being able to laugh at your mistakes is geniunely the way to move past them
Wise af he was
Gad Saad is one of my favorite guys to listen to.
Interesting conversation as I have a friend in this predicament. She’s married and makes a decent living (50-55k) at a job she doesn’t love whereas her husband works a job he does like but brings home maybe 18k. He helps out around the house as he works from home, but my friend is so resentful of his laid back days while she works a high pressure job and pays the bulk of their bills. Add to that she’s a staunch feminist. 😂 I pointed out that men have been in role of primary breadwinner for generations and he’s basically a SAHH - she should be happy for the equality - omg did that ruffle her feathers. She was like “I know, I know” but then started to curse all feminists everywhere. Ladies, be careful what you wish for. 😅
“In this country, you gotta make the money first. Then when you get the money, you get the power. Then when you get the power, then you get the women”
this .... pretty much happens everywhere all the time
SAY HELLO TO MY LITTLE FREN!
@@rexblack8170 🇨🇺 nah my fren
I prefer the LOX's version..."I believe in Money, Power, and Respect! First you get the money. Then you get the muthafuckin' power! After you get the power, muthafuckas will RESPECT YOU!" I heard that in the Marines in 1998...didn't say shit about a woman. A woman is optional. It's amazing...Cher said a man is optional and she was celebrated. Man says that, he's misogynist. It's amazing. Women really thought they could get away with that passive aggressive shit forever.
“You fuck with me you fuck wit da best!” Scarface knows what’s up
Joe ''If you tell me you haven't met a beautiful black woman you haven't met enough black women.'' Rogan
Donnie Brasco 👏🏾
Well its true
That's facts tho
most are fat or annoying
@@flowrepins6663 That's not what he said though... 👁️ Learn
The 1k dislikes are from artists that can paint 100 million dollar paintings.
I don't want to marry - the investment isn't worth it.
right! not any more (not worth it)!
Why do you need a piece of paper from “the man,” to define a relationship? It’s the same people that tell you, you have to spend 1/4 of your annual salary on a ring! F**K that!!! (The key is to find a likeminded female...... and, I’m lucky to say..... I have!)
@@1MinuteFlipDoc It was never worth it.
It's not an investment it's a financial, soul, mental drain. Get a vasectomy and bang them. If you wear a wedding ring they will bang you. Or Brad Pitt.. or rich.
Like many investments, you have to be very fortunate and/or knowledgeable to find one that's worth it.
There’s an old saying “Women marry the lifestyle not the man.” Is there actually any doubt that women are hypergamous?
Absolutely
Well, duh! You think women of past and present would risk having children with some bum ass dude? When it comes to biology, men have nothing to offer (since they cannot give birth) their value is tied to working and supporting the family. I’m sure modern times have jaded that.
From my experience being better at everything compared to her can still not work. You need to have some flaws. At the end of the day, it's about how you maker her feel. Does she feel secure? Would 10 million dollars make her feel more secure or would 2k a month be ok? Does she feel safe? Do you need to get buff and the tallest, strongest ever or would simply going by a car and then driving instead of walking through that dangerous alley solve it? Does she feel pretty? Do you need to tell her twice a day or is simple smile enough? Does she feel sexually satisfied? Do you need to learn tantra or would eating her well be enough? Does she experience adventure? Would you need to go on 10 vacations a year or is having sex 3 times a year in a unusual place enough? I met couple of girls where the balance was not there. If she just wants to be pumped for next 3 months, you gotta have the D of destiny and money does not matter much
@ There is a strong evolutional reason for female hypergamy but men not having anything to offer biologically is the most stupid argument I have ever read. Like women can make children without men lol. In the end its strongly mens genes that women pass.
Karen Aguilar you gonna give birth without a man? Wouldn’t surprise me if women start extracting animal semen to try and prove that they don’t need men period 😂
I'm 5'6" and dated a couple women that were some inches taller than me and one of them even liked to wear heels. I used to get these looks from other people, especially other dudes, like "what the fuck is going on here?" 😆
Nothing wrong there. I’m 6’4” and honestly it still bugs me to see tall girls with shorter guys. I don’t think I’ll ever not feel a little cringe towards it. Doesn’t mean it’s bad though! Good on you for telling the rest of them to fuck off.
Are you flexing your wealth and your power?
You were playing the place of the 1 in 720.
I’m 5’5” and most women I’ve dated were taller than me. I feel your pain brother.
Mr Saad is my new HAPPY! ☀️ Great chat gentlemen! Thank you. 🙏
Wow. this has just explained my divorce. My ex-wife could never explain to me what went wrong, the divorce was a huge shock to me.... and this has just clarified it totally. Thank you.
Your not alone. My x-wife never gave me a satisfactory answer. But it was money, it was always about money, perceived income potential and status. Unfortunately she greatly over estimated her sexual market place value and it has not gone well for her..
Fucking slags. Get rid of no fault divorce. Xd
I never understood why it is necessary for people to get married anyway. Why can't there be such a thing as people living together without it being legally-binding for either party? I mean, if two people really 'love' each other, then making it official via marriage shouldn't really be of importance, right?
@@sneakyninja5802 my sentiments exactly
Youll die alone . lol Join human norms or be lonely. Stop reaching for ought philosophy. Its immature. lol
Men desire beauty, fertility, sex, and femininity. Women want status, money, children, and masculinity. This isn’t true in all cases, but it’s largely accurate.
*edit- this isn’t bad either, it’s just the way it is. Nothing wrong with the fact that men and women want different things.
Stellar Gnoma trolling?
Stellar Gnoma yes obviously women still care about looks, but it’s not to the same degree that men do. And as I said in my comment this isn’t true in all cases but it largely is. Just look to the extremes. If an older man is mega successful and wealthy it doesn’t matter if he’s ugly or handsome he can have a beautiful wife. If a older woman is mega successful there aren’t exactly rows of hot young Chads lining up to marry her. Are there girls who would marry a man solely because of looks, certainty there are, but it’s not a huge number. Are there men that would marry a women just because of her good looks? Well I think that one answers itself. The point isn’t to say women don’t care about looks, they obviously do just like any human. If you ask an average girl what she wants in a man, “someone hot” usually isn’t at the very top of the list. It’s more likely to be “wants children”,”has a stable job”, “very intelligent” etc. There is a complete overlap in what men and women want from one another. Both sexes value good looks, money, shared morals, children, sex, etc. but depending on the sex, it is to different degrees or different priorities on average
Nah man if you’re ugly I ain’t into you
No matter how rich you are
I don’t care if I’m shallow
Women just care too much about being called shallow they don’t wanna admit that looks count
@@goldgabich6863 Looks are far more important to women than men. They just lie about it. In fact, women when polled only consider the top 20% of men attractive. When presented with an average man she rates him as below average, while men rate average women without bias.
not different because what both sexes ultimately want is the best of the best
Kevin Samuels is somewhere pressing his " IMA PHD " button 😭
Soo much information in just 18 minutes, thank you
If a woman expects/insists on a ring worth 25% your annual salary, don’t marry her
If she expects anything, she's done. Gifts are given. Not expected.
@JJ Buddhabrot
No. A must is food, water, shelter, clothing. These are musts. A piece of metal with an over-priced piece of carbon, mined by the hands of starving children... Is not a must.
Coming from a woman, I couldn't agree more 😂
@@manictiger Wish more people understood how big of a waste of money diamonds are. They aren't even rare, just made artificially scarce.
@@tonyg490 f&%kin debeers company
Has anyone heard of "The wife's money is the wife's money. The husband's money is the wife's money"?
Yes but no thanks lolol.
Stay strong out there.
Yes
What’s mine is hers
What’s hers is also hers.
Bullshit. I know soooo many woman completely floating their men and never getting the fair shake and it’s never appreciated but rather resented
@@Ugo4jog 💯
One of the best shorts i've ever watched. More people need to hear this
My mom hasn’t worked since I was born and my dad is very successful at his work and has been the only bread winner for over 23 years. You can tell that there’s a huge disconnect between them and lots of fighting because their contribution is so disproportional.
Perhaps your mom should be more cooperative and submissive
we're bio-programmed: women look at wallets, we look at boobs. There. Can we go eat now? The pizza's getting cold.
masterxyr not all women think about money especially if they come from it and know it’s not what makes happiness or have it themselves and don’t need to worry about basic necessities.
@Phry3 I mean that makes it seem like the guy has serious problems with basic things.
masterxyr on on keto so get fucked 😉
johnDomain well actually women seem to fall easily for “fucked up” guys, thinking they could fix them. Most men look at girls with issues as easy prey they can fuck and dump because of their low self esteem
Thank you. People are too caught up in saying one sex is worst than the other. Personality and connection are important as well. No one has mentioned that.
gad saad looks so happy to be talking about what he studies. what a guy.
Not very Saad after all
Wow Joe, what you said right at 6:48 is so true. You described my current situation. And I live in Miami.. You could imagine how tough it is to deal with that.
i didnt like joe at first , but i listened to him ,now i like him .
Joe “doesn’t mention his wife is taller than he is” Rogan
kek
MONEY
$$$
Nope. I saw a picture of them. She's wearing heels. So she looks taller.
They’re both 5’8... But you had to run your mouth before fact checking.
It's called hypergamy!
yeeeup
Still depressing.
Sandman's here to save the daaaaay! ; )
I knew itd see it here
It's true, women, and men as well, are seeking to climb the social hierarchy. But why stop our analysis there? What is the core motivation to reach the top of the social hierarchy? Is it because it is perceived that by doing so we will attain something that we are lacking? There has to be something at or near the top of the social hierarchy that has value, right? Is it increased potential of survival? Well, not necessarily. With added wealth comes added risk of predatory behaviour, especially from lower members of the hierarchy. It is probably safest to be in the middle of the pack, insulated from destitute poverty, and from others seeking your wealth. So its not survival. It is, I think, satisfaction, that people are searching for. To finally be satisfied. The only thing that satisfies in my experience, is love. And so high status without love is fundamentally dissatisfying. To work so hard only to still be dissatisfied... what a torture. Work for what you love, and who you love. Forget the hierarchy. Practice self-love. Or keep on chasing... but I don't recommend it, you'll just end up where you were, with a golden noose from which to hang yourself.
6:50 that feel when she says "your job doesn't sound like it pays a lot of money" to your face....
My parents were high school sweets hearts, my moms career took off and my dad was very uncomfortable with that and he was making just as good money too but that pretty much ended their marriage. My dad saw my mom as a stay at home mom but my mom was very into her career so that didn’t work out. It’s just the perfect example of what u guys are talking about my parents were the text book of that .
This sounds like he was the one with the problem - any sound man would take the as an opportunity to improve. He is just very insecure.
My husband and I were married at 19 and 20. Gad is right about the early marriage thing. I was lucky enough that although I am more educated than my husband (I have a Master's degree) and he has a Bachelor's degree ,he makes more money than I do. I love my role in our family as a mother and wife. Another factor that Gad can study is ethnicity and the role it plays in keeping young couples together. My husband and I are both Hispanic and Catholic, divorce was never an option for us during tough times. We were forced by family to work it out. BTW, we've now been married for 22 years and I love him much more today than ever before. I feel like he feels the same :)
Malena The Menace Almost identical life to mine. I was 21, my husband 22, when we married 27 years ago. We’re also Catholic, and we never considered divorce either ~ even though we definitely had some rough times in the first 10 years. I also think our relationship is even better now than it was in the beginning; the knowledge that you successfully overcame the bad times makes you even stronger.
🎉congrats but I would like to say 1 degree difference doesn’t mean your smarter than him you just decided to stay in school longer
@@greg20423 she didn't say she was smarter than him. She said she was more educated than him which is true and also exactly what you said.
All those problems could have been avoided by not getting a masters degree. His stress and mental health would also have been better. Women don't give a shit about men, they care about the luxury he can give. That makes them all 304s.
Catholic.... That's unfortunate
So many double standards against men in western society
Grow up and be impressive and youll be rewarded like other strong males. Dont be weak?
@Aaron Jacobson Plenty of attractive girls with no power or control over their lifes whatsoever.
@@ivandjolev2700 but at least they have easier life than ugly chicks
@@nitinpandey6037 But who doesn't ?
@@nitinpandey6037 an ugly chick could suck her way to the top. An EXTREMELY underrated skill that greatly boosts your "mating value" is doing things in the bedroom with your mouth that others mates cannot or will not. Its a harder method of seduction than just being naturally attractive but importantly it IS something you have control over.
A lot of interesting points. I enjoyed watching this video.
"I dont like friends who get drunk in public and are loud"
Bert Kreisher:
Gad “I’m the cool cheerleader” Saad
Being tall, good looking, intelligent and rich, makes you attractive to the opposite sex? No way.
No way bro, can’t call women on their actual shit. It’s totally sexist my dude
@@BallJuiceOfZeus hows that getting called out dipshit
@@car9melo Calling you out for being a piece of shit, dipshit. Bwahahaha 🤣
I am woman and only
attracted to 5’3 men who make min wage!!
@@ThatGuy-vi8ch lol good one kid
Joe Rogan- Great podcast! Lots of interesting info!
i watch a lot of joe rogan.... this guy is real mind blower
Bro looks like an assassins creed odyssey character 😂
lmaooo
😂😂😂
Lmaoooo I was thinking the same thing
No jokes lol. He does
He kinda looks like old dude from Gladiator who owns the Gladiators.
I have been married twice first one at 19 lasted 7 years, second marriage 17 years going strong. This is so true. First husband didn't want to move forward past 22, drinking no job. He was a good fit at 19 20, terrible at 26.
Our values split, we spilt.
I think this is the truth behind what these guys are saying. Women want the guy to work provide for her and the children do that by money. Simple as that.
@@HONDACR919USA313 that or at least someone who is a good a partner. If a women feels like she has to work a full-time job and then come home and take over most of the housework and child uprearing, she will become resentful because her spouse isn't a partner but just another human to take care of who contributes some of the money. Housework and raising children are a whole job in themselves, so if both parties work, both parties should share responsibilities at home.
Your values didn't split, they were always the same. You were just dumb enough to be fooled by it when you were younger until enough years and enough other men in sight taught you how wrong you were. I'd be willing to bet that you certainly didn't make him prove his value or commitment, which women should do by withholding sex until marriage. If you had done so, then I guarantee he wouldn't have stuck around to wait for you, or he would have been cheat g while trying to con you and you would have caught him.
@@NovusIgnis I was married at 18 so yes young and dumb. But now remarried for 20 years to great man so lesson learned
@@patriciaikeda2608 I'm glad it worked out for you in the long run. I wish more people got to have a happy ending but they seem to be few and far between these days.
The personality is key. The body is just the playground. When you're done at the playground, what's left is a personality and attitude. Good or bad.
In my understanding everything that we do sets a standard for what is expected of us in the future.
Well said.
Loved this guy in Borat
Joanna d'Arc that dosn t fit here
Floyd Pink yeah man I'm confused. Or at least...I think, therefore I am.
Joanna d'Arc Descartes killed dogs for fun
He doesn't look like him.
Sacha Baron Cohen got really fat
So you are basically renting a woman..
The Pussy is never yours. it's just your turn
nailed it
@@frankystrings Amish envy intensifies
Eddie Murphy said this 33 years ago. They called him a misogynist. Re-watch his bit about women and marriage (i.e. Johnny Carson)...it's damn near sociology at this point.
Until you can’t rent her anymore
Man, there are so many good quotes I'm stealing from this one haha
I had a bf that was lazy, I paid for everything, he even cheated on me, and once he got physical I kicked him out, and never looked back, I'm married with 2 kids and my husband treats me wonderfully, I'm thankful for knowing i have standards and expectations.
That's the thing to. Younger women aren't as smart when choosing guys early on. They just go for the hottest guys with a big mouth and big status that put up a front. Then when the women get older, they realize that they missed out on dating ACTUAL good nice guys. By this time the woman is usually at least 28+ years old desperate for a man.
Then you experienced with that boyfriend, what absolutely countless men experience!
@@wombat5252 Not all of them, I'm 18 years old and I chose the good boy before the bad boy, maybe the environment in which women grow up has a lot of influence, I was always disgusted by bad boys for being egocentric and manipulative and always putting themselves in victim mode, god yuck
@@wombat5252always the women’s fault huh.
what if your bf comes back to get physical with you again? Do you think you or your husband would be able to stop him from harming you?
Staying single and going out and having fun with friends with benefits or a chill hang is the best. Men take note!
@Rob Gibson until your friends get married and have families of their own. It will get lonely as you get older. An God forbid you get sick. I hope you mgtow redpill guys wake up before it’s too late. Married men overall are happier and live longer. There is lots of benefits to marriage, you just have to pick well.
@@trinab9587 you can just live with a girl friend
@@soleilsonira4467 FWB are fuck buddies not GFs. long time relationship is like marriage without legal issues.
Best way to leave no legacy
Best way to ensure no generational wealth build-up
This has to be the best video clip I have ever seen of a Joe Rogan interview. It is so informative and important especially for men of all ages , races and creeds to watch and learn from this . Save this video to your favorites and rewatch it fellas because it will be a long time till you hear the truth spoken like this again.
So wants the lesson. Make a Ton of money?
@@npatil85 sure. But the details he gave on why is what’s valuable.
@@alansjf33 i know why i aint considered now..depressing
Yes
“shes a foul beast” -joe rogan 😂
This episode was taken down on Spotify, I was able to find it and I have to say. They crossed a lot of lines there and it was hilarious, I don't blame Spotify for taking it down
What Gad Saad says is the truth. I like that he just lays it out without making any judgment of value, even though the judgment of value is pretty obvious for any man with a brain.
Wow, what he shared about divorces when married young speaks to me since my divorce. Huge inequities that weren't there in the beginning. That's so insightful it makes me a bit sad, as that might have been helpful to assess together before things went south.
I live his face when he goes im the cheer leader 🤣
The only way to survive as a man is to aim to be the best version of yourself everyday, regardless of how you feel or want, and be able to walk away at any point, even at the slightest disrespect, as a man you have the advantage of time on your side. Men peak in their 30s, women peak in their 20s, women always want older, and men will always want younger, but you need to be successful first, however you define your own success. Easier to be a 40yo man with a 20yo girl to fall in love with you then a 40yo women to get a 20 year old man to fall in love
Sorry to break it to you but men hit the wall too. You get beer bellies and receding hairlines. I don’t think any woman in their twenties can fall in love with a wrinkly balding 40 year old man. She might tag along for a while if he’s rich, just like a 20 something guy will tag along with a rich old lady. but there’s almost 0% chance of actual love, because they’re ugly.
Gad is brilliant! I can see why Rollo likes him so much.
I miss being in my 20's with a beautiful, nympho girlfriend. We had so much fun together till she met a wealthy construction baron who paid for everything.
Preach it bro!
It's all good bro, the wealthy dude got your sloppy seconds ;)
@@obaidmalik4688 thats just a sad cope
@@soleilsonira4467 It is cope but what he said is true tho. Why don't the oil baron go for a virgin who looks 10x better? I'm sure he has loads of option with that kinda money.
@@threeequalsd4865 i dont think beautifull and virgin go hand in hand nowadays, and maybe he just did it to hurt this guy who knows
Patrice Oneal on Black Phillip said so much of this.
I just think there’s too many of us to really come to a conclusion on why we do certain things when it comes to relationships and dating. Everyone has their own wants/ needs on top of their own set of morals and reasoning behind the way they treat others. On top of that, humans are just emotionally weird. Especially in this new age we live in..
Congratulations to whoever has naturally loving relationships. They’re definitely out there..
There's always some jackass trying to explain why we do shit like we're all the same haha. I truly think JRE makes people dumber
@@ClappyCakes nah I disagree. I think if anything he just helps people think for themselves. Trying to give a reason to everything is definitely a hard one but if we want to have everyone accountable for their own actions then I thinks it’s important that we at least try to understand the reasoning behind those actions. Why are we this complex? I don’t fucking know 😓
Joe, once again I'm asking you to explain how to watch the full episode outside of the US? Spotify blocks it.
Joe skirted that sexual racism question so hard lmao
Rob Sep yeah I go on tinder and I find chicks who want a white guy to date with and will date no other racial color #nojokefam
Darthwing Xodius can you blame them though?
@@egordontov9814 I won't hold expectations because I expect nothing from females but it is messed up that society is gonna normalize racial preferences especially since I hear stories about a single racial society in a city, for example blacks with blacks and whites with whites is widely accepted?
@@egordontov9814 To add onto what I just said, I don't believe the color of anybody's skin should be the reason for a relationship because to me it has no value , a men either wants to fuck or reproduce while a women uses racial bias to selectively choose her mate go ahead but you bury your own grave.
Darthwing Xodius what are you trying to say
This guy is so positive,calm and smiley
Quality contemplation and good discussion.
This was eye opening. Thank you joe and Gad
Im 6'4 male i dont date women below 5'4 cause its like im standing next to a child.
I dated a girl that was 5'2" and I'm 5'11" and the first time we ever kissed her head almost hit my chin. Akward
Lol 😂
damn, sorry for being 5'1 😫😂
That’s normal and understandable lol.
I would kneel and kiss her. ROMANTIC
Or maybe I would look like a creep. IDK
I'm 5'7 so I see a lot of women who look down on me. Ha ha. But don't worry guys, money makes all your imperfections vanish for some reason. So chase money first, instead of women and watch how it works better. But yeah, being poor and short is no real fun. Trust me.
Shouldn't you be at the north pole mr elf, christmas is coming
Im 5'6 and poor. But luckily ive got a whopper on me
@@danielmayen6545 Yeah, thats the bonus of being shorter. Our junk looks more impressive cause the size to height ratio is better for us. Average on us looks good but tiny on taller men. Just ask @pliit upstairs.
@@gutz1981 a real whopper. Not a jr whopper on a small bun
@@gutz1981 bonus? I couldnt give 2 fucks of how my dick looks to a bitch, nice try tho dwarf
I dropped 30% on a ring.. took her to Walmart with me to get it. Best $450 I ever spent.
The best part of all of this is that none of these rules are written and nothing fucking matters anyway
This man just explains life so simply.
“Do you wanna name any names?”
🤣 hilarious answer
I know it's up to me to lose what I want . I've never lost anything I wanted to keep . (No ego) just keeping it real.
I’ve had many more people tell me to NOT get married than get married… just sayin…