"Surround yourself with people who make it easier to achieve your goals." "Just because you texted me does not mean I'm obligated to respond." "Saying no doesn't mean saying no, it actually means saying yes to the one thing that is most important to you." "One aspect of success comes from the ability to quickly identify when a good decision turns into a bad one and then reroute."
The first step in every successful trade is to establish your goals and risk tolerance, a task best undertaken with the assistance of a financial advisor with extensive financial market knowledge like Stacey Macken :
YES! that's exactly her name (Stacey Macken) I watched her interview on CNN News and so many people recommended highly about her and her trading skills, she's an expert and I'm just starting with her....From Brisbane Australia
Truly, investing has changed my perspective on how one can succeed in life; working multiple jobs isn't the optimal way to attain financial freedom and unfortunately, we discover this later in life. Currently earn as much as 12 grand weekly and this has improved my financial life
”There are points where you're not going to have a lot of friends, because maybe you're in a transitional period, or maybe you're going from one level to the next, and that's okay. It's okay to be alone, it's okay to do things on our own, it's okay to stand on your own two feet, and it's okay to not have an insanely large friend group", much needed to hear this, thank you.
This is exactly what living an aligned and intentional life looks like. I began my most recent “Season of No” a couple of years ago and the most satisfying thing to me is seeing my progress. I now realise I truly am not available for most things and genuinely don’t even suffer from FOMO. I am obsessed with my ascension and personal growth. I manage the frequency with which I see or catch up with those childhood friends because ultimately they do keep me grounded - and they have loved me since before I truly knew myself so I do appreciate them. But they know I’m just on a mission and that mission comes first. I love it… ☺️💜👍🏾
Thanks for your comment. I was also thinking about my childhood friends. Sometimes we are in different phases. For example one of my friends is a great entrepreneur but currently she is just enjoying live. She lost some family members and now she is questioning the priority of financial success. Yes, she is currently not the ideal mate to spend time with, but times will change.
This is totally viable, but also be ready to not have people in your corner when you need them too. Someone else’s emergency is not yours, but that works in the other direction as well.
This also includes work you take on. Sometimes, following the money will also hinder you. Nothing wrong with taking on work you need, but at least consider if the work is growing you in the direction you want to go (learn, build, experiment, etc).
Agreed! I’ve been hired as a python developer for last 3 jobs and have done everything from reading refrigerator graphs to writing code in react to making pictures - very little python lol so obviously had to move on to find more alignment to hone my ai skills deeper
1:11 "I said no to texting people back." Wow, that's refreshing to hear because I have to schedule responding to texts in order to get it done. It feels like a burden, so hearing how Leila allowed herself to be free from that, it's liberating to know it's a possibility.
Leila--you're so right about the importance of your environment. How did you remove yourself from your old environment and find a new one that supported your goals?
Alex is very lucky to have you. Working on your personal development before finding your partner was the key 🔑. Much blessings always. Thank you for sharing so much love Leila. even knowing that not everyone would see it. Mua! 💖💖💖
Feedback to Leila team: STOP overdoing editing. The goal of creating content is so people can easily consume it. Bg music and all those random graphics take an unnecessary amount of energy to consume content. I know you guys want to become Mr beast's version of business. Just create a simple video. I'm not complaining - just give feedback so you can improve. I might be wrong but this is just my opinion. Once again, I'm trying to provide value by giving honest feedback - Cheers!
@@tristansulter8206 you won't understand. I'm not a content creator but an online biz owner making tons of money. I'm following them for years and learning from them. for the last few months, they have been doing overediting. No hate - just giving feedback and it just my opinion - I might be wrong.
Agreed! This retention editing can be a little too much going forward. A return to just a normal style of conversation would be better in some respects. Good points!
@@tristansulter8206 value, value, value.. this is the new buzzword of scammers... lol.. deliver "value". just lie about being worth $100 million with zero verifiable proof like the hormozis and keep talking about "value"
Amazing teaching points to have a better 2024! I am going to send this to my family and a few friends (hopefully, they will get the point, LOL). I love saying no, which is saying yes to your goals and priorities without feeling guilty about it (my paraphrasing). Most never figure this out in life. You are a rock star, Leila! Keep kicking ass in 2024!
The editing is amazing, helps to focus and when the video is done you don't even feel tired. It's well structured to keep you attended. Amazing content.
Hey Leila🤩 I 100% agree with your season of No philosophy. I have really just started mine after years and years of building and losing momentum because I kept on doing things for other people and it was soul destroying 😩. But in a way I am glad for Everything I went through 😅. Because now I shall be a fiend for doing or trying my very best to do the things that will benefit and move me forwards. Thanks once again 🙏 You never know. Maybe I’ll get enough cash in the business to work with you guys🤞🥳 Have a great day!!!❤️
@6:57 agree with everything she says about choosing wisely, however, calling it “friendships” is a stretch , more like “associationships,” which is ok, too. Just sayin, it’d be like getting rid of my service dog cuz she’s too old to be functional for mobility - what kind of best friend would I be to that dog right? However if I’m an EOD in the military and the dog im assigned has aged and can’t support the mission, yes let that dog go where it gets to retire happily. However , that doesn’t make me that dog’s friend , and it probably won’t understand it was just an asset for a mission and it will break its heart - so the kinder thing to do imo is let the dog also have human companions that interact with it in a non working mode , if I know I’m going to relinquish it when it can no longer serve, just like let people know, hey we are here as long as we are working on this thing together - which to her credit, she’s doing with this video . And it’s ok to do that , 💯
Great advice! I will apply this in my life. I feel strongly that I have been wanting to retreat from people to focus on my goals, but simply haven't considered consistently saying no until I reach my goals. Never heard of a "season of no" before, this concept brings much freedom. Thank you!
THIS!! This is what I've been thinking about for the last few days!! And I've been talking myself into how I am still a good person even though I have goals now and I have a right to reach them!! It can be hard
this is so what i felt inside but felt afraid to act upon due to my people pleasing side. Watching this video millions of times, thank thank thank you soooo much. I appreciate you!
Bless you Woman! That was THE BEST video that I have ever seen of yours and most likely one of the most powerful tools I have now added to my arsenal. Thank you, Leila ❤ And Team ❤
Holy Shit! Love this! Truth!! I’ve thought many of these issues (usually coming from my own guilt perspective) but never heard it verbalized like this. Thank you!
❤Leyla you are incredible! I’m so pleased I found you! I resonate with this so much .. I have been in a season of no for almost a year now! I’m really focused on my channel which you will know takes a lot of consistency and hard but fun work! 😅❤
Wow, this is a video what I needed today. One question remains: Do you say sometimes yes just to meet somebody who can be helpful in your current phase? Somebody who could move the needle forward.
Saying no to things has been so freeing this year. 🙌🏻 Another thing I've been doing is not making others feel guilty for saying no. Huge mindset change!
opinions on ppl at work that isn't the healthiest environment- their mindset isn't the best etc but the job is enjoyable and the people are nice and brings a stable income
@10:58 why not just get a chatbot that texts back and lets them know you’re busy vs ignore them? Sounds kinda mean when there’s solutions that leave you out of the loop and doesn’t leave em feeling abandoned
Leila, honest questions here, how do you feel about the restaurant industry? I know both you and Alex tend to lean more onto the brick and mortar businesses, but I rarely see the both of you speak about restaurants which are arguably one of the most popular business models in the world. I know the high costs, high over head makes these types of businesses unappealing but what about franchises running 20%+ profit margins? would be great to hear your insight on this.
But what if you randomly made your goal "have a 10 billion dollar company by 1/1/2025" but if you took that awesome 1 week trip with those friends, you could have hit your goal by 1/7/2025? And what if you're 80 and look back and regret only caring about making more money and wished your goals were to have had more awesome friends?
How exactly do you find these "friends"? I have a friends in college that doesn't really have the same goal as me, I am more than willing to change my environment but how?
I get that this is good for making money - but there are people you need that will love you regardless of money when the chips are down. Otherwise, you'll be surrounded by enablers. Stepping on and saying no to people now could come back to bite you if they end up becoming more successful than you later on. Saying no with compassion is different then burning bridges. Money can't buy loyalty and priceless relationships. And that's why so many uber-wealthy people are so miserable.
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"Surround yourself with people who make it easier to achieve your goals."
"Just because you texted me does not mean I'm obligated to respond."
"Saying no doesn't mean saying no, it actually means saying yes to the one thing that is most important to you."
"One aspect of success comes from the ability to quickly identify when a good decision turns into a bad one and then reroute."
Agreed
Lately I got interested in the financial market, but have no idea on how to go about it.. How does it work please
The first step in every successful trade is to establish your goals and risk tolerance, a task best undertaken with the assistance of a financial advisor with extensive financial market knowledge like Stacey Macken :
YES! that's exactly her name (Stacey Macken) I watched her interview on CNN News and so many people recommended highly about her and her trading skills, she's an expert and I'm just starting with her....From Brisbane Australia
Truly, investing has changed my perspective on how one can succeed in life; working multiple jobs isn't the optimal way to attain financial freedom and unfortunately, we discover this later in life. Currently earn as much as 12 grand weekly and this has improved my financial life
This Woman has really change the life of many people from different countries and am a testimony of her trading platform .
Retirement took a toll on my finances, but with my involvement in the digital market, 27thousand weekly returns has been life changing.
”There are points where you're not going to have a lot of friends, because maybe you're in a transitional period, or maybe you're going from one level to the next, and that's okay. It's okay to be alone, it's okay to do things on our own, it's okay to stand on your own two feet, and it's okay to not have an insanely large friend group", much needed to hear this, thank you.
This is exactly what living an aligned and intentional life looks like. I began my most recent “Season of No” a couple of years ago and the most satisfying thing to me is seeing my progress. I now realise I truly am not available for most things and genuinely don’t even suffer from FOMO. I am obsessed with my ascension and personal growth. I manage the frequency with which I see or catch up with those childhood friends because ultimately they do keep me grounded - and they have loved me since before I truly knew myself so I do appreciate them. But they know I’m just on a mission and that mission comes first. I love it… ☺️💜👍🏾
Thanks for your comment. I was also thinking about my childhood friends. Sometimes we are in different phases. For example one of my friends is a great entrepreneur but currently she is just enjoying live. She lost some family members and now she is questioning the priority of financial success. Yes, she is currently not the ideal mate to spend time with, but times will change.
You’re amazing! We need more women to come out and represent like this in the world
Happy International Women's History Month as well to the both of you! :D
Except this is not a woman
@@quintessent8793 you sad sad person, Your bitterness can’t take away her success😂😂
@@quintessent8793 Just lots of TRT
This is totally viable, but also be ready to not have people in your corner when you need them too. Someone else’s emergency is not yours, but that works in the other direction as well.
This also includes work you take on. Sometimes, following the money will also hinder you. Nothing wrong with taking on work you need, but at least consider if the work is growing you in the direction you want to go (learn, build, experiment, etc).
Bingo! Chasing money in the short-term won't lead you to real wealth down the line, or at leas that's what I'm telling myself lol.
Agreed! I’ve been hired as a python developer for last 3 jobs and have done everything from reading refrigerator graphs to writing code in react to making pictures - very little python lol so obviously had to move on to find more alignment to hone my ai skills deeper
1:11 "I said no to texting people back."
Wow, that's refreshing to hear because I have to schedule responding to texts in order to get it done.
It feels like a burden, so hearing how Leila allowed herself to be free from that, it's liberating to know it's a possibility.
Leila--you're so right about the importance of your environment. How did you remove yourself from your old environment and find a new one that supported your goals?
Alex is very lucky to have you. Working on your personal development before finding your partner was the key 🔑. Much blessings always. Thank you for sharing so much love Leila. even knowing that not everyone would see it. Mua! 💖💖💖
Actually, she is lucky to have him.
Feedback to Leila team: STOP overdoing editing. The goal of creating content is so people can easily consume it. Bg music and all those random graphics take an unnecessary amount of energy to consume content. I know you guys want to become Mr beast's version of business. Just create a simple video. I'm not complaining - just give feedback so you can improve. I might be wrong but this is just my opinion. Once again, I'm trying to provide value by giving honest feedback - Cheers!
Do you have a channel with 290k subscribers? What value are you bringing lol this is obviously working.
@@tristansulter8206 you won't understand. I'm not a content creator but an online biz owner making tons of money. I'm following them for years and learning from them. for the last few months, they have been doing overediting. No hate - just giving feedback and it just my opinion - I might be wrong.
Agreed! This retention editing can be a little too much going forward. A return to just a normal style of conversation would be better in some respects. Good points!
True
@@tristansulter8206 value, value, value.. this is the new buzzword of scammers... lol.. deliver "value". just lie about being worth $100 million with zero verifiable proof like the hormozis and keep talking about "value"
Great insights Leila. Your "no" can give you access a deeper yes to what is ultimately most important to you.
Amazing teaching points to have a better 2024! I am going to send this to my family and a few friends (hopefully, they will get the point, LOL). I love saying no, which is saying yes to your goals and priorities without feeling guilty about it (my paraphrasing). Most never figure this out in life. You are a rock star, Leila! Keep kicking ass in 2024!
Thanks Leila, what I hear really is the power of DISCIPLINE. Which is extremely important.
The set lighting looks so good.
The editing is amazing, helps to focus and when the video is done you don't even feel tired. It's well structured to keep you attended. Amazing content.
Hey Leila🤩 I 100% agree with your season of No philosophy. I have really just started mine after years and years of building and losing momentum because I kept on doing things for other people and it was soul destroying 😩. But in a way I am glad for Everything I went through 😅. Because now I shall be a fiend for doing or trying my very best to do the things that will benefit and move me forwards. Thanks once again 🙏
You never know. Maybe I’ll get enough cash in the business to work with you guys🤞🥳
Have a great day!!!❤️
Thank you Leila!
Great examples Lady L, thanks for sharing, stay blessed, keep shining and let's go! 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
@6:57 agree with everything she says about choosing wisely, however, calling it “friendships” is a stretch , more like “associationships,” which is ok, too. Just sayin, it’d be like getting rid of my service dog cuz she’s too old to be functional for mobility - what kind of best friend would I be to that dog right? However if I’m an EOD in the military and the dog im assigned has aged and can’t support the mission, yes let that dog go where it gets to retire happily. However , that doesn’t make me that dog’s friend , and it probably won’t understand it was just an asset for a mission and it will break its heart - so the kinder thing to do imo is let the dog also have human companions that interact with it in a non working mode , if
I know I’m going to relinquish it when it can no longer serve, just like let people know, hey we are here as long as we are working on this thing together - which to her credit, she’s doing with this video . And it’s ok to do that , 💯
Great advice! I will apply this in my life. I feel strongly that I have been wanting to retreat from people to focus on my goals, but simply haven't considered consistently saying no until I reach my goals. Never heard of a "season of no" before, this concept brings much freedom. Thank you!
Grateful you are so down to earth, authentic, and transparent. Great content.
Thank you so much Leila for this. Came across similar things relevant to me as well. We appreciate it
THIS!! This is what I've been thinking about for the last few days!! And I've been talking myself into how I am still a good person even though I have goals now and I have a right to reach them!! It can be hard
Thank you Leila!
This was two separate videos smashed together. 💕💕 Leila has a lot wisdom and great points.
2 min mark agree. Relationships are cool in beginning but at some point the other person not being an entrepreneur starts bringing you down.
this is so what i felt inside but felt afraid to act upon due to my people pleasing side. Watching this video millions of times, thank thank thank you soooo much. I appreciate you!
Appreciate the brut Honesty, refreshing. Nothing sugar coated here..great work.
I love this video and the graphics!❤
So great to see Alex's "other half". You're awesome. You both rock.
❤ the graphics, it’s like seeing your thoughts - great add!
Excellent information Leila!!! Thank u
Bless you Woman! That was THE BEST video that I have ever seen of yours and most likely one of the most powerful tools I have now added to my arsenal. Thank you, Leila ❤ And Team ❤
OMG loving all your recent content, Leila! Keeps getting better and better. Plz keep it up
I love listening to you talk!!!
Holy Shit! Love this! Truth!! I’ve thought many of these issues (usually coming from my own guilt perspective) but never heard it verbalized like this. Thank you!
You motivate me so much Leila
Brilliant woman.
Leila and Alex have inspired my wife and I to start a business and TH-cam channels.
Woah. I loveeeee tthis video. Not just content-wise but also because of how it was edited. It's soooooo good to listen to while running! It's a vibe!
Listening to this I can relate family or friends saying rude things, glad you made it!!!!!
This is the best video you have done. i love all of this
Leila, the edits are super dope!! Thank you for generously sharing all the valuable free game on both TH-cam and the podcast.
❤Leyla you are incredible! I’m so pleased I found you! I resonate with this so much .. I have been in a season of no for almost a year now! I’m really focused on my channel which you will know takes a lot of consistency and hard but fun work! 😅❤
I love this season if No idea. Great way to go after what hopefully matters to you.
Wow, this is a video what I needed today.
One question remains: Do you say sometimes yes just to meet somebody who can be helpful in your current phase? Somebody who could move the needle forward.
Wunderbar , wie immer ❤
Saying no to things has been so freeing this year. 🙌🏻 Another thing I've been doing is not making others feel guilty for saying no. Huge mindset change!
Luv that I've been doing this already. Keep going yall✨
this helped me so much focus on one thing to achieve more in 1 week then if you were unfocused on many things for a few years
Your content's getting better and better 😊
Exactly what I needed to hear right now. 🗝️
Thank you for your tips Leila!
Thank you! Leila for this content. It was very helpful and eye opening to more forward in the direction for success.
This was blessed thank you ❤🙏🏽 God bless
Good for you for having that insight. Season of No, it's difficult with immediate family. But definitely something I will implement ❤
I'm in one now. NOTHING is going to detour me from hitting goals to be a candidate for next year's National Accounts position.
Alex Hormozi video but female version, you guys are doing a good job at reaching out to more audiences without too much effort
Engineer your environment. Love that one.
Thank you! I needed to hear this.
opinions on ppl at work that isn't the healthiest environment- their mindset isn't the best etc but the job is enjoyable and the people are nice and brings a stable income
Wow! This is so good reminder!! I love You @Leila for sharing so much inspiration :D
Just what i need to hear. Thank you!!!
so much wisdom here!
That's word for word the video from Alex. And it's nice! And proves the point it's not by accident 😊
If y’all hate so much about the way she does stuff, stop watching 😂
Say it louder!!😂😂💯
Would love for you to develop on how you select which "big potatoes" are worth your attention if possible 😊
Love this. Once again great value and helpful!
Yes, I agree. Just like Gardens
@10:58 why not just get a chatbot that texts back and lets them know you’re busy vs ignore them? Sounds kinda mean when there’s solutions that leave you out of the loop and doesn’t leave em feeling abandoned
Absolutely love this ❤
Thank you for this video ❤
Golden advices ❤
Love this channel ❤
I freaking love her.
Leila, honest questions here, how do you feel about the restaurant industry? I know both you and Alex tend to lean more onto the brick and mortar businesses, but I rarely see the both of you speak about restaurants which are arguably one of the most popular business models in the world. I know the high costs, high over head makes these types of businesses unappealing but what about franchises running 20%+ profit margins? would be great to hear your insight on this.
They’ve said they think it’s a bad business to be in. After 5 years 90% of restaurants close
90% of closures are mom and pop shops, its wouldn't be in their interest. however owning a national chain is very different. @@talstoic
The exact video I came looking for.
I appreciate your content
But what if you randomly made your goal "have a 10 billion dollar company by 1/1/2025" but if you took that awesome 1 week trip with those friends, you could have hit your goal by 1/7/2025? And what if you're 80 and look back and regret only caring about making more money and wished your goals were to have had more awesome friends?
Yeah, wonderful talks, thanka and all the best for u, I am try to better 2024 in my career.
Straight the FOOOOOK UP !!! Thank you Leila for this.
It’s good to know I’m on the right track 🤗
I love how real you are ❤❤❤
How exactly do you find these "friends"? I have a friends in college that doesn't really have the same goal as me, I am more than willing to change my environment but how?
If you guys toned down the edits that’d be awesome
Blame iman
I get that this is good for making money - but there are people you need that will love you regardless of money when the chips are down. Otherwise, you'll be surrounded by enablers.
Stepping on and saying no to people now could come back to bite you if they end up becoming more successful than you later on.
Saying no with compassion is different then burning bridges.
Money can't buy loyalty and priceless relationships. And that's why so many uber-wealthy people are so miserable.
4:07 dang this one hit
Reading the book *When I say no I feel guilty* good book so far!
Thanks for the gems 💎‼
You're my favorite new badass entrepreneur.
Most of her advice is about discipline.
This video was super helpful
SZN of No The Only Way To Go!
INSHALLAH
this video is amazing!
Good advice
8:02 this is me right now.
Damn this was much needed
"fuck this shit i dont need to be here" is soooo real - definitely big facts haha!