Getting Vulnerable With Dr. K (
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00:00 - Intro
01:51 - New Content
05:11 - Political Correctness
06:50 - Female VS Male Twitch Streamers
09:04 - Optimism and Desperation
10:08 - Upbringing
11:40 - Getting Fired
12:51 - Who Are You Here For?
15:21 - Being A People Pleaser
18:04 - Conflict Avoidance
19:57 - Burning Out
22:17 - Disappointment
23:08 - Turning On A Happy Face
24:35 - Being Fake
25:35 - Disintegration
26:47 - Not Being Happy
28:16 - Two Selves
30:16 - Negativity On Stream
33:26 - Disappointing Viewers
34:18 - Stale Content
36:36 - Failing
37:27 - Parents
38:17 - Conditional Support
39:47 - Are You Proud Of Yourself?
40:47 - Getting Used To It
41:14 - Jealousy
42:56 - Self-Awareness
44:45 - Discipline
46:25 - Not Recognizing The Bad
46:55 - Raising Kids
48:11 - Growing Up With Strict Parents
50:41 - Reintegrating
52:19 - Understanding The Brain
53:37 - Trauma
54:48 - Feeling Failure
56:31 - Articulating Emotions
58:13 - Terrified Emily
59:32 - State of Consciousness
59:59 - Fearing Failure
1:00:37 - Avoiding Failure
1:01:49 - It's Okay To Fail
1:03:04 - Looking At A Different Perspective
1:05:13 - Celebrating Wins Vs Losses
1:06:45 - What To Take Forward
1:08:09 - Value As A Person
1:10:09 - Looking At Disintegration
1:10:27 - Making Adjustments / Externalizing
1:12:06 - Reasons For Burnout
1:14:50 - Acknowledging Hurt
1:16:15 - Improvement
1:17:16 - Closing Remarks
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Thanks for the great conversation 💚
You help so much people Doc, have a great day/week/month/year/life, always looking forward to what you will discuss next
Ikr, huge huge fan of dr k and his dharma 😊...
Dr K is the best
@@cadel8142 what are you talking about lmao
And no thank you comment from Emily lol. I'm not surprised, you can tell she's very afraid of her emotions
Nothing scarier than telling a silly story from your childhood and having someone respond with “you’re telling this like it’s supposed to be funny”
Literally! I was like.. wait Emily how is this funny :(?
Have you ever been diagnosed with leukemia?
@@sage0x That's funny
That's like the meme where this person said "not any more than normal" when their therapist asked if they had any thoughts of suicide or depression. And their therapist said, "the normal amount is 0"
@@Vincisomething This made me think
Seeing Emily cry is like seeing your dad cry, it's not something you thought it was possible until it happens
I think is more than burnout.!!
your dad must be cute af
@mikiel lol
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
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First time I've actually seen Emily outside her "entertainer shell", just made me like her more. I used to see her as a cartoon/twitch character, now I see her more like a real person.
Psychology is a great field and the more people can talk about it the more people can study it and understand it (because honestly academic psychology is full of lots of bad ideas and wrong concepts and blind trust in some untested concepts that have become the establishment).
If she's like other streamers, she will slowly let more of herself show through. She will still be an animated entertainer, but she will be more human as well- integrated.
I get a sense E.E. is on this path.
and that my friend is a great insight because EVERYONE is living in their own reality and the sooner you can see that the more empathetic you will become
@@anon-il9qf If you've ever studied psychology, even at a basic level, you understand it's extremely immoral to utilize untested theories. Even in academic psychology, you are told about some theories and ideas that don't work. You are not told that they do work, you are told that they're part of the history of psychology. You know theories like that don't work because it's very possible to look at used methods and study the effectiveness of treatment. Also psychology is chock full of scientific studies like any other science. This is because of the fact that therapy is a form of healthcare. It is good to advocate for it to advance, but to claim that it's the wild west in therapy is a crazy statement.
I don't understand. She's already came outside of her "entertainer shell" on stream before. She doesn't have a problem expressing when she's annoyed, or feels disgust towards something.
Seeing influencers/streamers like her be vulnerable is really important to see. I'm happy that you shared this vulnerability with us.
I don't know about that...conversations like this are usually best had behind closed doors, due to their private nature. You expose too much of yourself, people may use it against you. Even "nice" people when they know your secret can start using it in conversations to try to make you feel bad or shame you.
That is important, but I think it is good to let the viewers get a view into the humanity of their entertainers
@@anon-il9qfone thing that’s good about this type of content is that it helps people that have the same or similar problems as the creator
@@twobraincellsbl1582 Yeah, but you do have to watch out, people like to use people's weaknesses against them, instinctively. They like having "leverage" over somebody, or a good zinger they can bring up if that person acts "out of line" ever.
@@anon-il9qf i agree with it being better to be done in private due to the subject per say, but i also see the good in doing it more public as it can encourage other people after seeing it to find the help they may need or to be more open to trying it which can help alot more people than having it not shown
Seeing her be genuinely sad/upset and emotional was insanely refreshing. I don’t think she has any idea how likable she is. She can truly be herself and she’s beautiful. She doesn’t have to be the “happy” version all the time. Just be genuine and we will connect with that. It’s scarier, sure. But this was a very refreshing look at how she really is a genuinely beautiful person
she's not really likable tbh, i mean after this i think she will be
This could be an Asian thing
@@llama079 she is. She’s hilarious, intelligent and genuinely sweet. A bit of a psychopath, maybe, but likable lol
@@llama079 You're high on cocaine if you think she's not likeable when she's one of the fastest growing twitch channels on twitch in a long while.
The idea that you have to fix what isn't broken, like with emily, is nuts.
Emily has a perfectly great personality which is based around a default happy mode. She means well, and wants to be happy because it's the right thing to do (because it is).
I think you're unironically jealous of her, and want her to be ugly like you, because you're depressed and don't want others to be happy.
Stay mad.
@@llama079her growth says otherwise.
Dr K is so good at peeling back the character. The real Emily needed this. & it helps us all to watch this chat.
"the real Emily"? Do you think she's faking her gitty up beat twitch persona?
@@JacobHayden911 I'm only a few minutes in (mainly just watch dr k), but yeah that was kind of my first thought too. I wouldn't say she's faking anything, though, just that you can tell she's making an extra effort to keep things light and positive. Nothing wrong with that as long as you let yourself feel negative things too.
@@JacobHayden911 Did you even watch this? She plays the Character of ExtraEmily, she is Emily. Just like Actors, wrestlers, celebrities, you have a public image, and the real self. Does NOT mean you are fake.
@@JacobHayden911 every streamer personality amplifies during stream, doesn't mean they are always like their twitch personality in real life, but doesn't mean they are faking it either. I think the meaning of real emily, is that the real us may be hidden in all of us, suppressed by society standards and expectations.
@@AlexH274stop justifying witch burning for your entertainment. There was no reason for this. If you really wanna help and not just shove a '"I told you so" in the face of Emily, then just be her really good friend you asshole
Holy cow. Making yourself this vulnerable in front of people is so brave. Sending positive vibes.
I mean, Dr K should've been smart enough to not poke too deeply, and also I think conversations like this should be had behind closed doors slightly. I don't blame emily, of course, I think she just went into the conversation to make content and to make it light hearted, not to take it too seriously.
@@anon-il9qf I think dr K did a great job and went just deep enough for the time being.
@@anon-il9qf Yeah and he didn’t poke “too deep” at all, if there even is something like too deep
@anon I don't think you watched the whole video. Also like people have stated, it's a therapy session, Emily knows what it is and will have watched others like Mizkif and other friends on here. She didn't just do this for the content.
@@anon-il9qf Having absolutely everything happen behind closed doors is why a LOT of viewers dont think of content creators as humans. You only have to look at the top twitch streamers to see this very clearly. Maybe think a little?
Emily has a lot of depth to her and is a beautiful person for the amount of effort she puts into trying to be her best self.
Those xqc dating-thingies really showed her true colors.
I would argue it's easy to dismiss her personality for the upbeat appearances
@@Afasia420 you HAVE to be trolling my guys. PLEASE tell me u are trolling.
@@FUzzYPotAt0 you need a session with Dr K
@@wipeyourbuttocks i see you didnt have any friends growing up
@@FUzzYPotAt0 :(
Its easy to see that Emily's happy demeanor is learned behavior from having to be perfect. Its so sad but also heartwarming to see her fall out of the act. ❤
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
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This one did hurt to watch because you see someone who is calling for help without actually calling for help or even realizing she might need it. Really hope Emily continues talking to Dr.K and maybe even offline
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
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1:11:33 wow. What a moment. NAIL. HEAD. I love Dr.K's sessions, as there is always something that will resonate with me. So much perspective in this dialogue that I think summarizes the whole episode.
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
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Squeex really diversifying his content.
Right? This is a huge switch up from Mario 64!! Has he been using Rogaine as well!? Lookin good Squeex my boi.
He didn’t even say “Bazinga!” once during this whole stream 🙄
No but for real have Squeex on though!
HAHAHAHA
Classic
Man, she really needs an off-air therapist. She's awesome and I like watching her streams, but there's a TON of baggage below the surface. Hopefully this is just a healthy first step for her.
I think she thought it would be a great content idea without thinking about the real impact it would have on her. You could see how surprised she was when her pain came to the surface so quick and she had trouble hiding it. Made me sad because she puts enormous pressure on herself and she feels like she needs to have her happiness turned to 15.
I think you should let her decide what she “needs.”
Case in point: Doctor K has told countless others that they should seek therapy during/after their conversations together.
has to make money some how.
Most people need some sort of therapy
@@woody_you_want no most people don't. You don't need another human, who's incentive is to milk as much money from you, to tell you about your own life. The reason people enjoy therapy is because they receive sympathy from it. It's a clever way to rinse weak minded people of their money. The only way to fix your weak mind is by doing it yourself.
it's okay to cry or for your voice to shake, it happens to me all the time during therapy even if we're not talking about things that are sad or super emotional, it just means you're speaking from the heart and/or feeling something real ❤
I think it's because Dr K is, either consciously or unconsciously is being super like imposing and off-putting with his voice and so on.
This is one of the reasons I don't like Dr K, I think half of what he says is smart and good, and the other half is like either blind research and study regurgitation, and it's him having an ego trip. I think Dr K gets off and likes to feel important, and to tell his patients how they feel, vs investigating with the patient how they feel and getting the patient to realize why they feel how they feel, etc.
Like all of Dr K's mannerisms are off if he wants to come off as a welcoming empathetic neutral and non judgemental person, he comes off as extremely judgemental, dismissive, short, his remarks are very short and pointed like slurs, and it seems like he wants to gain power in the conversation and the relationship with the patient, basically strip down the patient, humiliate the patient, then tell the patient how they really feel.
I actually worry, that Dr K might unironically have a complex where he likes to intentionally get patients or people around him even to humiliate themselves in front of him, and then after he does enough humiliating, or humiliation-bait where they expose themselves to him, then he can come in and try to give them some kind of feedback, but mostly feed off of the power dynamic and power imbalance in the conversation, where he is the sole judge in the conversation, the sole authority, and is actively like aggressively getting a person to weaken themselves, so he can tell them, force them even, to accept his conclusions.
@@anon-il9qf ???? weird take imo, a lot of this is baseless. He’s just trying to reach a balance of professionalism and friendliness, and he might not reach it for you
@@underscore2554 yeah I dont get that impression either, he seems to be doing pretty standard CBT most of the time
@@anon-il9qf How many comments do you need to respond to telling people they are wrong to feel heard? It's ironic that all of your run on sentence responses try to label Dr. K as some narcissist with villainous intent. Projecting?
@@underscore2554I agree with you. Dr K I thought was being pretty gentle and very professional in not wanting to dig too deep because he could see her pain so close to the surface. Emily has created this public persona as a type of defence mechanism due to her trauma.
As an Asian American who also grew up in Nebraska, I really felt you on a lot of things, ESPECIALLY the family pressure. I ended up staying on the academic path, but admittedly, I think you inspired something in me to consider streaming too.
Cheers, Emily! Good luck with everything :D
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
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its always hard to tell with people like Emily if you're getting their honest feedback, or if they're just telling you what they think you want to hear to please you.
Agreed. Even when she's talking about something completely trivial, she's giggling. This isn't a diss, but it can be hard to tell if she's just faking being nice or she's actually excited about something trivial.
While you cannot tell whether she is happy or not, you can still see her compassionate nature. She does want to uplift other people and avoid letting others down. So, she is not faking being nice.
@@Tpoleful that's not what op is saying though
The thing is, what kind of feedback would you get? Always positive. Although this is nice, it wouldn't give you much to go for. Her personality is good for a hype man (maybe going to the gym and just sharing things like "hey I read a book this week!" But if you want a "what could I do to fix this or to become bette, she might get too caught up in being nice, she might never get to a point or actually tell you. I wouldn't recommend getting proactive feedback from someone with this personality but instead get close to someone like this when you need reassurance or a listen
@@Kaybye555 Well, your comment made me realize why nobody wants to be close to me. I mean it's more like the other way around actually. It is actually me who - by my behavior - kind of not let people close to me, unknowingly. I've known myself to be a people pleaser for a long time, but never thought that it affects my life this deep. People usually say that I'm such a great person to talk to... but yeah that's just it, it feels good to talk but there's nothing below that. Deep inside they probably feel that it's kind of fake.
A good takeaway for me personally is that I should be more honest and open about my thoughts. I think I can manage doing that slowly. Just be less afraid about speaking my mind. How could people get to know ME otherwise? And how can I expect anyone wanting to get to know me if I'm shallow on the surface?
Thank you so much for your comment, it made things click into place in my brain.
Emily, I think the main thing you need to realize is that most of your viewers simply like you as a person and that is the main reason why they watch you. You being entertaining, high energy, a people pleaser, making all the best jokes…these are all just bonuses after the fact.
All you have to do is go on stream and be yourself. Relax, have fun, do the things you want to do…and everyone will support you. No one wants you to burn out or feel overwhelmed. Most people care way more about your well being then about how good your content is.
awesome comment i thought the same thing i wish she reads this lol
let's be real bro, if she was a fat guy or an ugly chick most people wouldn't even give her a chance to show that personality. she is being realistic when she realizes she is now in her prime
@@TeiaiCEO she could be in her 'prime' based on the type of content she makes right now. But she is so smart and talented that I think she will be able to pivot her content to other genres and avenues and be equally successful if not more.
@@overshot8331 and that's what her worry is. she is scared of a change which is inevitable once her 'prime' goes away.
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
is the translated text
I've literally never watched Emily before, just sometimes peruse healthygamer content, but I genuinely hope the best for her. It's so insanely difficult to be vulnerable in front of other people, especially strangers. She's a really brave person and truly deserves to be happy and enjoy her success.
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
is the translated text
I think this may be one of the first times I've seen Emily actually break character and it's so refreshing! Big kudos to Emily for being vulnerable and sharing this part of herself with so many people!
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
-is the translated text
Thank you Emily for expressing vulnerability.
It warms my heart to see a fellow people-pleaser have these authentic conversations.
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
is the translated text
The overwhelming positive tone has always put me off of her streams but watching this really opened my eyes to the fact that she is human.
Yes - this is why I have a hard time watching her streams for lengthy periods. I hope she can continue to mature emotionally after this.
It’s like an adult that’s still mentally 9.
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
-is the translated text
I really love this advice from Dr. K that we don’t have to be happy all the time and it’s ok to fail because that’s how we grow.
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
is the translated text
When she genuinely answered "We get used to getting hot showers!" I was giggling despite all the serious discussions. God bless her. Pls protect her at all cost. 💝
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
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Literally two people in one body - it must be EXHAUSTING maintaining that.
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
-is the translated text
Dr. K: *asks for the 3rd or 4th time* "Is it okay to fail?"
Emily: "Yes! 🤩😁🙃"
Dr. K: "No it's not.... what the fuck?"
Emily: "oop. 😋"
This sent me 😭😭 such a powerful moment.
No disrespect. Alot of love.
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
is the translated text
i really loved watching this stream!! discussions about mental health aren't easy but they are *so* important! well done emily :)
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
is the translated text
Have to keep pausing because Emily crying makes me cry lol 😭 Emily I wish all of your dreams come true and you never feel like a failure or fear failing ever again.
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
--is the translated text
This was hilarious and really emotional at the same time. It takes a lot of strength to open up like this, especially in front of so many people.
Also I didn't know squeex did therapy, good for him!
That's not squeex..I'm pretty sure lmao
Hilarious? Is not the word I would use for this chat. Maybe I’m just old but I tear’d up for this girl a couple of times.
She literally won’t let herself feel an entire part of her being.
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
-is the translated text
I love these interviews. I can tell they are definitely beneficial for the streamers, it would be such a cool experience to get help from Dr. K .
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
is the translated text
Thought it was so funny how Dr. K immediately went on a breastfeeding tangent.
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
--is the translated text
Props to you Emily for being vulnerable and not only streaming the conversation but uploading it for historical purposes. This took some serious courage and I'm excited to follow you success.
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
-is the translated text
Emily is so selfless it was hard for her to start saying she was there for herself- the tears- being there for other people first - relatable
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
--is the translated text
When Dr. K asked what she would be like as a mom and she went full on tiger mom mode with cherry on top lmao.
I do agree though that this interview is for Emily to process privately so she can at least lessen the burden of being burned out and be able to dish out content without the cost of her health.
I just watched for 15 mins and I'm sobbing now. I want her to express out what she really felt, then I realized that I deserve that, too. I'm a person like her. This hits hard at home.
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
--is the translated text
Damn its painful for me to see her cry like this..🙃 breaks my heart...for the 1st time im seeing her tear up...its feels good too that she is opening up about what she has been through or what she is going through so that she can get all the support she needs..❤
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
-is the translated text
This was so so so so good. What a raw and real experience. I’m glad you decided to share this on TH-cam because I really needed to hear it. Even though my upbringing was very different I definitely resonate with a lot of the same struggles and thoughts that were expressed here so seeing it really broken down was refreshing, especially since you have a very bubbly persona on stream that always brightens the mood.
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
is the translated text
I haven’t even watched the whole video, but I just needed to say that I am so proud of Emily for opening up like this. It is not easy especially in front of so many people. Total badass.
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
-is the translated text
33:00 just wanted to add input, whenever I see a streamer being down on themselves or unsure in life, or negative on stream; it’s usually met with tons of hearts from their community / chat. I don’t think she’d lose viewers, but instead gets lots of support from them in a rough time
I never related to EE much, but somehow her way of processing emotions suddenly seems so much like mine. Able to gloss over apparently deep, introspective questions with a correct (both to you and the person who asked it) answer, but then almost crying over the simplest things.
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
--is the translated text
I love Emily's spirit. Such a sweet soul. You are doing amazing em, I and many others are so amazed and inspired and proud of you. Can't wait to see where your path takes you!
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
is the translated text
Emily, I relate to you in a lot of ways. I also hate the idea of disappointing others and feeling like a failure. I tend to not give my all so that I don't have to be judged for doing things wrong. After all, you can't fail if you didn't even put in effort in the first place. I was very much a people pleaser growing up and I still carry some of that with me in my 30s. I am also from Nebraska as well, so we share way more in common than I would've thought when I first discovered you. I think you are going to be okay just like Dr. K told you at the end. You are such a genuinely kind person, and you should be proud of your accomplishments. I hope you get to the point where you are able to be completely comfortable with all sides of you, particularly "terrified Emily". Accepting all aspects of who you are and allowing it to come naturally is an important part of dealing with all the things that life throws at you. Thank you for the conversation with Dr. K and showing your fans that it's okay to not always measure up to people's expectations. I believe in you and I have complete confidence that when you get to my age, 32, you'll have so much more to offer the world than you thought you did :)
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
is the translated text
I love that you gave him feedback at the end to summarize main talking points so that you can allow the discussion to percolate in your mind and refer back to it - that is a symptom of a very “self improvement” focused mindset that serves you extremely well & it will be beneficial for him to start doing that following his interviews more if he actually implements your feedback. I would want the same!!
You did a wonderful job & I’m sure it was very helpful and engaging for your followers to see more of the “real” you so to speak. To be human is to be a mix of both positive and negative emotions and experiences, so for your audience to fully relate to you they have to get the full experience. I see your desire to make others happy by portraying positivity as much as you can as a very noble thing to do, but it has pros and cons in the way it impacts yourself and the way it prevents your viewers from fully relating and connecting to you (which isn’t inherently bad btw)
I can articulate this as I’ve experienced it myself to a lesser extent in my job and also my personal life- as someone who was taught to be independent and avoid “burdening” others with my emotions or problems, my intent was to be a good friend/coworker etc but the result was people who needed MY help felt the relationship was one sided and it was hard to fully get to know the “real” me, so at times I sensed they felt I was… not fake exactly but they perceived the relationship as unbalanced because I didn’t share or “need” others the way they needed me and I always would put a smile on or play group therapist in my relationships with them. It’s not my fault for being programmed that way by my upbringing/society, but I have been taking steps to grow and improve my relationships. After 26 years on this planet just a few months ago I asked my sister for a small favor, and it brought her SUCH joy to do something for me. I could tell it was appreciated by her moreso than it was by me!!
This may not all apply to your situation but I just want to say that if you keep working at emotional self awareness and become more open and accepting to vulnerability, you’ll go far; in life, but also in content creation. Just look at your peers’ most popular videos and you’ll see what I mean 😊 People want to engage with you at your happy and bubbly and they will at your sad and struggling too.
SIDEBAR: if you read all this, ask Miz if he ever saw my DM from November 17, 2021 asking to put together an all female SM64 tourney. I name dropped you & I like to pretend that’s how you got discovered (this isn’t parasocial btw I swear, I was clout chasing) 😂😂😂 I’m so glad you took off and it has been a joy to see you blossom. I was watching other small sm64 streamers to see how I could improve & you were one I connected with moreso than most. I wasn’t shocked to see you finally blow up and gain a sizeable following, although I never pictured you’d be this huge!! Congrats, it was so well deserved.
Good luck, Emily!!!
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
is the translated text
Thank you for opening up to us Emily, as someone who also struggles with anxiety, strict parents and being a people pleaser I can relate as well. You are brave for sharing your mental health problems on a public platform and allowing everyone to see your vulnerable side ❤
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
is the translated text
The “Emily who are you here for” was crazy even for me if i was asked that question in her position, jesus i’d be out.
That was a definite gut punch psychological question. And many therapists and psychologists use it to really feel out people that are there just to waste their time or that actually need the help and want it.
Dr K is the best, I love that guy. He did a great job framing this conversation. I hope Emily got some good insight out this, and can find ways to motivate herself and find joy thru her wins, rather than stressing over potential failures. :)
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
-is the translated text
this was amazingly insightful, I relate to this so much. Thank you for putting yourself out there Emily.
When I was younger, I was told I smile too much. Even though I genuinely felt happy, sometimes it was a way to hide behind problems I didnt want to face
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
is the translated text
Emily, I'm new to your videos. I've been watching them for a few month and have very much enjoyed them. I wanted to say I am extremely proud of you for talking about your feelings, it is hard to do and you should be proud of yourself as well. It takes great strength to talk about weaknesses. We all have them, and it makes life easier when you talk about them with someone. We love you!
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
is the translated text
What I admire about Dr. K in comparison to other psychiatrists I have met is that you can really tell that he feels the emotions that are presented to him and also those he gives back. It shows that psychology is more than just a science you can learn and perform and I think that aspect is lacking in a lot of mental health experts.
I totally agree.
I appreciate you being vulnerable and sharing; although not nearly as successful, I experience a lot of the same trauna and it was nice to have someone to relate to.
huge respect, emily 💜
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
is the translated text
Great video! Helped me realize there are others going through similar thoughts and mental burdens as myself. Seems like an obvious thing but sometimes it’s good to get a reminder you’re not alone.
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
-is the translated text
This was one of the best conversations I've seen on TH-cam. It was quite an emotional journey, and I felt compelled by both Alok's guidance and direction, and Emily's "coming to terms", if you will. Been a fan of HG for a while, but this one hit different. Consider me a new sub!
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
-is the translated text
As a recovering people pleaser, this hit HARD… I hear you and I see you Emily ❤
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
--is the translated text
Having your parents show you that failing is okay relieves the stress and helped me realize to be less hard on myself.
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
-is the translated text
Thank you so much Emily for showing this side of yourself and opening up. Vulnerability is a constant struggle for me. This entire discussion was so relatable and reminds me of myself in therapy especially in the initial days. You're doing great, you should definitely be genuinely happy with yourself. I also struggle with celebrating wins. The vulnerability and self reflection is SO important to normalize in social media and in content creation. Young people and people in general need to see that they are normal for feeling sad or anxious. Self reflection is healthy and so important.
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
is the translated text
damn i needed this, i been dealing with this for over 10 years now and it has destroyed my own life it's self hate and disappointment in myself the breaks me everytime just for someone else just for the fucking trauma the damn childhood trauma
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
--is the translated text
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
-is the translated text
She is beautiful, kind and open heart what is he trying to say in my sense, if he try to add else extra it's on him
Wow, proud of Emily for being so strong and open about these things, it’s hard. Actually helped me, too, I approach so much with the same attitude and that feeling, so seeing someone else, let alone a bigger content creator also going through the same, kind of eye opening.
Emily is wholesome😁
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
-is the translated text
I would just like to say I’m happy Emily can open up to us and would like to say thank you. It hasn’t been the easiest year for me but Emily really has brought some light into it. I could care less what she does I’m just glad she takes the time out of her day to stream for us.
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
-is the translated text
Aww I relate to Emily so much; it's really hard to show venerability especially when you feel it will affect how people see you
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
-is the translated text
I just discovered you because of a stream of you and squeex eating pretzels, and I'm so glad I came upon this video. Thanks for the content. I found it incredibly relatable, and I hope you benefited as well.
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
is the translated text
I really enjoyed this video. I first saw you on Miskif's You Laugh You Lose challenges and I loved your energetic and happy vibes! You have a great energy to you, but please know that you're loved because of who you are, so you don't ever to worry about being anyone else other than yourself!
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
-is the translated text
I love how Dr K shows so much compassion and genuine care for the people he speaks to. His therapy sessions with streamers are so good to see a side of the streamer (actor) you never usually see. Twitch is full of entertainers and actors, It's nice to see their genuine side.
One thing I noticed is Twitch chat really struggle with empathy, Instead of just saying nothing in these meaningful scenarios they will spam emotes (usually Sadge or something crying related) not realising that someone feeling genuine emotion (Emily) Isn't going to want to see a little green frog crying, knowing It's coming from real humans, fly down her screen in such a meaningful, emotional time.
It's not wrong that Twitch chat does this, It could just be that they need to feel a sense of importance or maybe a connection they feel with Emily (as If she is reading it like a message from her friend) I just find it somewhat robot like, could just be autism, very interesting nevertheless.
"Could be autism"??? LMAO. No but I see what you mean I literally don't even read chat when someone gets emotional on these sessions. It's better to just say something like "I feel you" or something like that then to spam emotes lol.
@@Mystic_Kitty Yeah, I guess I'm just being an armchair psychologist (Dr K probably wouldn't approve of that) but autism just came to mind. I know autistic people can lack empathy as well as showing emotion naturally, so that was just the first thing that came to mind; could be a plethora of reasons.
It just feels really weird to be honest.
@@SealSore65_parasocial twitch chat don't know how to be serious this is reality TV to them
Frick, I wish my therapist was as good as Dr. K. My therapist will put 2minutes of input into a 1hour session of me talking, and I feel like I'm just talking to someone without getting any feedback or solutions. Maybe it's time to change therapists.
If you don't feel like he's working in a way that benefits you the most, definitely try changing. Some people would love to be able to talk themselves through, and sessions like that may help the therapist understand how your work yourself through your thought process, but if you're not seeing a benefit to it, definitely try changing. Guided therapy is definitely needed in some cases.
I would agree sir I went through years of therapy 4 of them, until I found my current one, it's a game changer when you find someone that clicks. Highly suggest not settling till you find someone that clicks with you
Proud of you Emily for opening up! You work so hard you deserve the life you’ve built for yourself, seeing this other side of you helps us as viewers to understand your personality a little deeper and I think that’s a great thing! So thank you for allowing us this insight into your life and mindset, keep being great
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
-is the translated text
I'm soooo glad you did this Emily, you don't know how happy this made me to see you be able to get so much off your chest. I'm a VERY empathetic person, and I love helping others, I'm not as '😃' as you but I try to be as upbeat as possible. Tbh, it made me tear up just watching you get teary eyed. Much love from me to you, I hope you will continue having HealthyGamerGG on occasionally for your health. Please continue being yourself, you have sooo many people (myself included) that adore you, and wouldn't change a thing about you. You bring a smile to my face every time I watch any stream or YT video with you in it. I wish I could give you a hug through this screen
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
is the translated text
thanks for sharing Emily, I can relate to a lot of things you've gone through. I appreciate your honesty
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
-is the translated text
Great stream. It's good hearing other people's experience growing up with asian tiger parents. Also, made me weep a bit😢
I’ve had the same challenges myself as a successful Asian American and the feelings of failure and trauma. My childhood and professional experience is very similar to yours. Thanks doing this with Dr K, I bawled my eyes out 😭😭
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
-is the translated text
I totally feel Emily on dealing with parents who made mistakes, yet the world still expects you to thank them for your trauma, even in your own head. Otherwise we're suddenly disrespectful, ungrateful, and so on. At the very least, that's how we see it in our heads. We punish ourselves for their missteps.
She is the savior of twitch. Never clean ur room Emily ur going to be great and we will all watch u succeed with smiles :)
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
is the translated text
I couldnt let go of when she said, "I wouldn't have to take hot showers :D:D!!". Shes terrified of failure because failure obviously had consequences. Her parents pushed her to be successful but at what cost
Was honestly so impressed watching this, I can’t imagine how difficult was to share like this on such a public platform. It just made me enjoy her as a person even more. If Emily doesn’t already see a therapist I would definitely suggest her to do so, it seems like it would be beneficial for her
i think emily is still trying to please her parents
I don’t think she ever will. Their standards and expectations were set so high for their daughter that she’ll never reach them because they’re the ones in control of where the bar is set.
44:21 is right when you can tell that she has started reflecting on herself and being open. it's really awesome. mentioning the self awareness and "going through the motions" and then being ready to dive past that was really cool to see. i don't watch emily much (not because of anything negative, just can't watch many streams at all anymore) but it really makes me respect her as a fellow person who wants to learn more about themself
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
-is the translated text
@@Liex09 nah
I loved watching this stream vod (saw it oh the HG channel the other day) and I really appreciate you for talking about this stuff
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
--is the translated text
Its nice to see the actual person behind the character. It didnt take long to notice that Emily puts on a face for her community and maybe for most people around her but I hope she allows herself to be authentic and not feel like she needs to be this "happy" person all the time
I like seeing people so similar to me going through this cause its so fucking helpful to me. I have been a people pleaser for most of my life now. One of my only and biggest fears is disappointing the people around me
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
--is the translated text
To be honest, as an Asian born in America, the "Asian way," almost like a cultural thing, of raising kids is bad, in my opinion. Though parents do want the best for their kids, however, most asian parents never listen, never stand up for you, most of the time never side with you when you're in the right, never accept that they are wrong, their ego always get in their head, not humble when they are wrong, keeps you in a cage, makes you afraid of disappointment and failures, and much more of other psychological trauma.
I still love my parents of course but it's hard to give them the respect I want to give them. I want them to see they are fucking up with our psychology and mental health.
As an Asian with parents that have high expectations, this is so relatable. I think I it took a toll with the relationship, I’m just not that close with my parents
Asian parent definatly have this stereotype nailed. I feel like most asian need therapy because of the trauma.
As a not Asian that grew up with strict parents I can agree. Me and my parents are very transactional and that's it. I don't even remember last time we said I love you
This was great! Just wow! Thanks for being so open and honest, and even willing to do this in the first place!
Thanks Emily, for being brave when allowed me to learn so much about myself. Good luck you, i must go now and digest these thoughts further. Nuff luv, peace
Emily seems like an amazing human being, but she was conditioned to be that way. She really is hard on herself, but she keeps so much bottled up. I really feel bad for her, but at the same time if she is truly happy than I hope she doesnt change. I think that this conversation will help her look inside a little bit even if shes not ready to be sad yet, she will acknowledge that and learn from it. She's an incredibly smart girl and it will make sense eventually.
thanks for doing this em ❤
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
is the translated text
Gosh. Emily is so sweet. I found this to be so beautiful to listen to and see. What an amazing person.
Emily's mom unintentionally taught her that love is conditional. We aren't here for your looks or content Emily, we're here because we love you and think you're funny and enjoyable as shit doing anything as a fellow earthling. Your value isn't tied to those things
I mean I don't know about that, but probably her mom was a bit forceful in telling her what to do vs letting emily choose what to do, which is why she (emily) harbors resentment.
I don't think her mom is a bad person now though. But I don't know how emily feels about her parents :/
@@anon-il9qf I dont think she's a bad person either. Its just survival mechanisms that have been passed down for generations
Kinda cringe, ngl.
I think all love is conditional, it's just that people have tighter conditions than others.
@@Astheniumn Conditional based on performance isn’t a good thing imo. Should be based on personality and who you really are as a person, especially parents
Seeing Emily get sad made me want to cry :(
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
is the translated text
I’ve haven’t watched a lot of your content. I’ve clicked on a few streams here and there and have seen some clips but this interview helped me really view you as an authentic person. I can relate to this interview a lot. It takes a lot of guts to be vulnerable to an audience. I’m rooting for you and wish you all the success and happiness in the world.
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
-is the translated text
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
-is the translated text
This has been quite eye-opening for me. I say that as a Emily "Hater". Her cartoon-like personality was what put me off from watching her, but I can't really avoid her either since she pops up in nearly all other streamers whos content I do watch and enjoy. Then somehow I got this video recommendation and decided to click and see "what's she all about", "why do I find her so annoying". Holy shit, I feel so bad now. I didn't realise she was just being her genuine "happy" self even if it's tied to a lot of trauma. After watching this, I find her quite relateable it nearly made me cry along with her.
I've decided to give her another try, I will start watching her content more going into the future, hopefully with a more open-minded approach. I will be rooting for your success Emily, even if I do stop watching again at some point.
Curiously, I noticed this is the same reason why I can't watch Emiru's content, but when she's being herself in someone else's video I enjoy her a lot more.
It hurts to see Emily cry, I hope Dr. K did a session for her off stream too. She puts up so many walls and I think she can see a problem now but she has no idea how to fix it.
She's so sweet I hope all of the pressure isn't getting to her too bad. She really does work really hard and needs more breaks!
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
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Great to have Dr. K be able to help you with your issues Emily. You were great on the Steak and Eggs podcast. Very engaging and it would be cool to see you on their again with Emiru and the guys together. OTK is a good group of people to be involved with and they will help you immensely.
Ive never seen Dr K so stunlocked before
Damn he’s really good! So much deep rooted family trauma that I hope one day she breaks and doesn’t pass the cycle. Even him telling her he’s proud of her made her emotional, I wonder if her parents have ever told her that :/ much love to you Emily! You can do it! And if you don’t it’s totally ok :)❤
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
is the translated text
Honestly can't imagine how much Emily has held back since blowing up on Twitch and joining OTK. Forcing the positive crazy persona, even tho its probably pretty close to how she really is, not breaking that persona ever is probably a major cause of stress deep down that gets shoved back. I was not expecting such a real talk here but its good stuff. Get it out Emily!
this was super cool Emily, as someone who doesnt watch you much. It's nice to see this side of you as well
This was a great watch, as a kid who had trauma from my childhood i died laughing at the "you’re telling this like it’s supposed to be funny" because i had a coworker very recently tell me the exact same thing when telling him a story about what my dad did when i was a child.
I Laughed, i cried and most importantly watching this also helped me realize a lot about myself (although ive been blaming my parents for years which is the polar opposite of Emily but basically same consequences)
Much love Emily, happy you are a streamer! And that you were so open with Dr. K 😇
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
--is the translated text
Takes incredible courage to open up and be vulnerable in front of a live audience, you should be proud of that.
Promise people will be here for you even if you show negative emotions ❤
"Everything exists with its opposite, we must remember death sometimes so that we can understand the value of life. Let's seek to live life in the right way and prepare for death in the right way.
We must believe in the Creator and all his prophets, It is important for us to try to find the Creator and turn to him, He gave us reason, conscience and will and set us free, It would be good for us to approach this issue openly, We can do some more research in many ways to improve ourselves on this subject.
Transitory life..."
--is the translated text