Gay Trans Male Sex Ed
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 25 ก.ค. 2024
- Here is a link to a Google doc with the sources and resources and I consulted in making this video:
docs.google.com/document/d/10...
TIME STAMPS:
General info (vaccines, PrEP, testing): 0:00-7:55
Topping: 7:55
Receiving Oral: 9:54
Giving Oral: 11:27
Bottoming (PIV): 12:39
Bottoming (anal): 19:00
FTM Slang Dictionary:
PIV sex - penis-in-vagina sex
Bottom growth - clitoris enlarged due to testosterone
Front hole - vagina
BV - bacterial vaginosis (not FTM slang, but I used the acronym to avoid saying a word derived from “vagina”)
Prosthetic - realistic dildo
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TIME STAMPS:
General info (vaccines, PrEP, testing): 0:00-7:55
Topping: 7:55
Receiving Oral: 9:54
Giving Oral: 11:27
Bottoming (PIV): 12:39
Bottoming (anal): 19:00
Here is a link to a Google doc with the sources and resources and I consulted in making this video:
docs.google.com/document/d/10tDZiHuh7lOsObsW4-rXM2Z1JANNDiDOJRZUvpf5tow/edit?usp=sharing
Sorry to be to be so naive. Do Trans Men primarily seek other Trans Men as romantic partners? Do they think of themselves as gay? Top, bottom, verse?
I'm gay or bi or curious I think I'm mostly bottom than top I both but I'm mostly bottom never had sex before do you have any vices before I do have anal sex and yes protection is needed cuz I will want to try out when I get seriously relationship with someone
I hope you have a good I just intense work out just now and it feels good but anyways stay safe out there and fell well 🤎❤️❤️💖💙🧡♥️💓💜🙏
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@@AlbertHess-xy7kyngl bro you sound like a pos from your comments. trans men are men. if they’re interested in dudes, they’re gay. if they’re looking for a boyfriend they’re looking for a guy attracted to men.
im an 18 yr old trans guy on his way to university who just realized he was gay and felt overwhelmed with all of the new information, resources and potential experiences that aren't assessed in depth with trans people in mind. words cannot express how this channel over the years has helped me so much in finding my footing with significantly less anxiety and now this video specifically??? 😭😭 thank you thank you thank you for all that you do!!
Awww I'm so happy to hear that!!
I'm a cis guy but it's nice to see videos like these being made! I'll keep this video in mind if I ever have a transmasc boyfriend
i could be yo transmasc boyfriend 🫶
what's the point if your partner doesn't have a penis? what if you get your boyfiriend pregnant (probably impossible, but still). i'm a straight guy that has honest questions. thanks
@@markschwartz9905 I can't really answer your other questions myself, but I can say that trans men definitely can still get pregnant, unless they've had a hysterectomy obviously, which some trans men do but many don't. In regards to the first question, I think that would be better answered by someone attracted to men (lesbian here), but I will say that there's a lot more to be attracted to than genitals. You could be attracted to masculine energy, or to the male appearance.
@@markschwartz9905 I always thought that gay men were obsessed with the penis, however the Nullo movement was an eye opener for me, Nullos are gay men who choose to become Eunuchs, so no penis, no balls, apparently removing their genitalia does not have an effect on the ability to have an orgasm.
me (a gay trans guy) and my cis boyfriend watched this together and it was so useful, i personally loved the use of nuetral wording. will reccomend this to any trans guys/ people dating trans guys i know 🫶
@@veilbreak5867womp womp
@@veilbreak5867 you know this ain't a choice, right? You can't "become gay" to be "special".
I’m not trans but I am a gay man. The period between contracting an STI and onset of symptoms is known as the latency/incubation therapy. Last thing, if you’re using toys of any kind, you need to clean it immediately after use with toy cleaner/disinfectant. It should never be used with the same partner or multiple partners without decontamination.
i'm asexual and sex-repulsed so none of this is personally useful. but i am here to comment because trans specific health education is so important!!
Yes it is!! Thank you!
I feel this as an asexual trans male
me too!! good to see another asexual here :) i’m sex-averse but i still think it’s good for me personally (especially as a trans guy myself) to know this stuff just in case. safety first always!
Ditto!
it’s so cool finding other asexual trans men! i thought i was the only one lol
this is incredibly helpful for trans men. Trying to find sex ed info that doesn’t make us dysphoric is really hard, so having something in depth like this is really helpful!
I'm not a trans man although I am nonbinary, and tbh even for me as a person who's very comfortable with my body (I really don't mind the way I look, the way I was born, and feel no need to change much about myself other than buying more masc clothing) it can still be daunting to find information about sex ed. Particularly in my case since I am afab nonbinary and I have no interest in transitioning my body medically nor do I want to present hyper masc, I always feel a certain amount of stress about it. I think to myself, "All of this info that is geared towards women is perfectly applicable to me, does that mean I am a woman in the end?" It causes me so much pain and I want to seek out more gender neutral or queer sex ed.
While this video doesn't exactly help me, it's nice info to know especially since I do sometimes feel like I could be comfortable presenting as a man.
I'm happy to hear it!! That was my goal
Im sorry if Im curious,
Why you turn your body to be male if you like male?
@@bcoveplmene9791 Can you explain what you mean? I'd be happy to answer questions since I am a trans person, although they won't be super specific to trans men. It'll just be general trans knowledge.
@@ettaetta439
I am asking a gay trans men
Why they change body to be a man, if they are attracted to men
as a gay trans guy with a gay trans boyfriend this is rly helpful !! ur vids r so underrated tysm arthur :)
Yay happy to hear it!
Woah bro's got the double banger. What a dynamic duo
Im sorry if Im curious,
Why you turn your body to be male if you like male?
@@bcoveplmene9791 one's gender and sexual and/or romantic attraction/preference are completely different (and arguably unrelated) things
@@bcoveplmene9791trans people have dysphoria, and for most trans men, medical transition is necessary to live a happy life. sexuality and gender are very different things. trans men who like men don’t want to be with men as a woman, they want to be with men as a man.
Important to know (as of writing) that Plan B has a weight limit! If you are over 165lbs most won’t work as well for you (or not even work at all if you’re over 176lbs.) No shame in that at all, I’m personally over both, but just be sure to incorporate that into your sexual health plans if you have PIV sex.
I believe it is a weight limit for dosaging. This is a "talk to your doctor" moment. Plan B will work, you just have to take more of it
I don’t know if anyone will ever see this comment but this means so much.
I’m only 18, but I was starting to figure out gender and sexuality stuff around early puberty and I stayed confused, closeted and miserable for years because it felt impossible for me to be able to be both gay and trans. It felt like I’d never be loved or accepted or understood and I didn’t have ANY education. It took me years to really accept myself and I’m so glad I’m so lucky to be alive at a time where it’s finally being spoken about and accepted socially.
I’d say I couldn’t imagine what finding a video like this years ago would have meant to me but I can imagine it because in a way it means just as much.
i see you 💜💜💜
Me too (: I'm glad you're here
You truly are a sweetheart for making this video so organized and with timestamps. I usually can't watch anything related to ftm sexual health because I have severe bottom dysphoria (there were well-intentioned guides made by trans ppl that made me wanna throw up), but this was surprisingly fine. You are very careful with your words and it works! The timestamps made everything a lot easier so I didn't felt super uncomfortable
Great video, dude! Gonna send it to my boyfriend
so relatable as another trans guy w severe bottom dysphoria - so many sex ed videos just make me wanna vomit 😭😭
This was incredbly informative. Thanks for making this video!
This helped me so much, I'm a Brazilian trans man and bisexual, but I will certainly use these tips. I will talk to my doctor about prep
THIS IS SUCH AN IMPORTANT VIDEO THANK YOU
thanks for this! it's very difficult to get information about sex that apply to me so this is extremely helpful
Thanks a lot for gathering all this info in one place! :)
Such a good and helpful video - thank you
I discovered your channel a week ago n im loving it. As a straight trans man starting this journey, im really thankful for your content, its been really hard to find videos like yours to help trans men n feels like a fresh air for this community ❤❤
Awww happy to hear it!!
Oh my god this video is so useful. I've always been so worried about being attracted to men when being trans, especially when it comes to sex. Knowing that theres a video about how to do it safely puts my mind at ease.
I’m a young trans guy who isn’t planning on having sex anytime soon, but this video was definitely more helpful to me than my high school health class. Thank you for this crash course on having safe sex, I’ll be sure to keep this information in mind and speak with my doctor once I’m ready!
I wish I had a video like this 3 years ago. thank you for making it for the young transmascs
Can you make a separate video about atrophy? I’m not sure what I should be looking out for. I just had my hysto a year ago and I’ve been on T for 4 years and everything seems to be normal? Idk 😭
This is so informative. I was very scared of who to go to to even talk about these things because I was curious. Thank you for making this video it really gave me so much information that was helpful.
We got the same flags :D
@@Noahsharks that's cool omg hello
as yet another gay trans guy with a gay trans bf this is so helpful
this is so helpful omg tysm
Thank you so much for this video❤
This is great, I mean, this video probably isn't for me since I'm ace, but there's still plenty of amazing advice
Arthur, thank you for putting this out there. Healthy sex is what everyone should have and part of that is to take care of your sexual health. And this is even more important being a gay trans man.
i'm an afab bigender asexual lesbian, however i'm still thankful for you making this video since this is such an important topic to be open about and to talk about. plus i enjoy educating myself on sex whenever i can. whenever people are just really open and honest about sex its something i really appreciate
This was very informative: thank you.
I might add, anyone with a cervix, who has ever had sexual contact with another person of any gender, may have been exposed to HPV (human papilloma virus). This exposure can increase their risk of developing cervical cancer & as such, they should be screened for the disease: this includes people who've received the HPV vaccine as it doesn't protect against all strains of the virus.
Great teacher
I’m an ace trans guy that doesn’t engage in any of this but I still watched the whole thing because it’s great knowledge to have! Thank you!
thank you for all this info, I'm feeling more confident than ever about sex as a trans person and it's thanks to people like you ❤
I really like your videos I’m also a trans man as well 💯💪🏾
Thank you so much.
so i’m a trans guy, and i think im gay, but also im a teenager so.. anyways thanks for making this video, it’s so hard to find decent sex ed for trans/gay people, and you made it very easy to watch
VERY IMPORTANT THANK U SO MUCH ARTHUR SAVING THE DAY AGAIN
thank you
not a gay man or trans but this was interesting. absolutely amazing eyes btw, like.. wow.
I don't even have a boyfriend and im on the asexual spectrum but i still really wanted to watch this video HAHA ty for posting this, it's really useful and also interesting
I'm so thankfull that this isn't age restricted
Dude I just want to thank you so much for this video. I'm a gay trans guy who mostly wants to do t4t stuff but the only videos that have relevent info are usually for lesbians (which makes me extremely dysphoric). seriously tysm this is video is amazing!! 💚🤍🩵💙
Thank you for making this video. A lot of people dont realise you cant have anal and then piv straight after so it was great that you mentioned it and went into detail about what it can cause
I like your little wall fish too
Ace fellow here but still good information to know 👍
4:41, not in Kitimat-Stikine.
i am on progesterone only pill for several years which is great, level moods, no cramps, no bleeding, recently also got in the nexplanon implant (about 5-6 months) though has added back mood issues, might be because i use both at the same time, just sharing my experiences
Hi Arthur I’m not gay but I am a trans man. Just wanted to thank you because during the summer I was questioning whether or not I should go on T, and your video about when you were going through the same decision making process was a huge help, and I started on T this week. Happy holidays 😊🏳️⚧️
Awww 🥰!! Congratulations that's so exciting! And I love hearing this kind of thing ❤️
@@arthur_rockwell thank you 😁🥰
CONGRATS!!! Wish you the best of luck throughout your journey!!
yo, congrats man!
Congratulations on starting the medical part of your transition 💗💗💗!!
You’re already insanely handsome, so I can’t imagine how great you’ll look, much love ❤
I appreciate you sharing...but it was getting to intense for me! Thanks for the post!
This is an amazing resource! Well done you!
I’m cis but healthcare-versed, and have known friends confused about this topic.
One quick query though. About the Descovy vs Truvada. They *are* both the same medication. They’re just in different salts for your body to get them into the system. As you yourself mentioned about the doxycycline protocol, it should theoretically be just as effective.
Obviously protect yourself as well as possible but if somebody can only get one over the other, it’s not like they’re completely different medications in different preparations. They should dissolve and be absorbed similarly easily, given the data on levels in cod men. With the benefit that Descovy should have less side effects on organs.
Sex sounds scary omg 😅
Real💀
Bi cis girl here, but VERY UTI prone. The only thing that helps me in addition to doing everything else (vitamin c and aftercare) is taking an antinflammatory afterwards! No doctor told me, they always just tell you youre dirty.
aftercare?
@@patienceveysey5109 peeing after haha
Very, very handsome man! Incomparable eyes!
I’m a minor who is not planning on having sex for awhile (or ever tbh) but it was so comforting to watch this, thanks 💜
This is such a great resource! Thank you!
I would've loved a dot point summary & final thoughts/conclusion, even if it were filmed later and added on to the end.
Really good content!
this is more helpful than any sex ed class could ever hope to be thank you so much
totally unrelated and irrelavent but YOUR EYES ARE SO GORGEOUS
Hi, Arthur! It was a very interesting and informative video on sex ed, thank you so much. Loved it! The little dictionary was very helpful too :)
thank you so much heart emoji
this came in perfect timing for me. Thanks for all the informational videos! Btw you look great
Prob wont be using this info anytime soon but its a massive confidence booster and anxiety relief to know there is usefull sex ed for trans men out there as resuources for us are damn near impossible to find. Thanks a ton for making this and sharing the info
That's a really important video for me.
This is very well presented and well researched. Sex can be a very uncomfortable topic to discuss, thank you for getting this info out to people, it would help a lot, not only gay trans men but cis men-loving-men as well.
This is a GODSEND bro thank you!!! I've been wondering about non-feminizing birth control for so long and this finally gave me some answers!! 💖💖
Yaaaay education!
I'm a gay trans med student, so while I knew most of the stuff in this video, I'm so glad it exists! I definitely wish there were resources like this when I was younger
Thank you.
Great video. I didn't receive a relevant sex-ed in school.
Thank you for this video, im trans male & gay, and even tho im not yet planning to do sex in near future, i was really worried that i wont know how to do it in a few years and didnt have anyone to talk to abt it, so this video really helped me to clear out some stuff and stop worrying so much :)
could you comment on Trans Men dating Trans Men? would you dating say Schuyler Bailar
As a (virgin) gay trans man only interested in anal sex, I would like to thank you for this helpful video.
It's so hard to find information on anal penetration for trans men that I used to put pressure on myself wondering if I was the only one, or if we could actually enjoy it etc. Besides, apart from the fact that I'm an extremely shy person when it comes to sex, I don't know any other gay transgender men, so I can't really talk about it.
If a gay trans-masc who have ever tried anal penetration as a bottom would like to share their experience, this would be really helpful !
I would like to say while plan b works for trans men it has a weight limit!! Make sure that you're under the maximum weight or look for another option.
as a 16 year old trans man (gender-fluid but leaning towards man most of the time) thank you 😭 i already never got sex ed let alone trans sex ed and i think it’s so important at my age to know this stuff
Saaame ❤
I’m scared
Thank you
Is there anyway to get in contact with you outside of TH-cam? Instagram?
I don't have an Instagram! I have an email associated w my TH-cam channel that people will reach out to (though I keep boundaries around my irl life and TH-cam channel, so I don't meet up with or call people)
@@arthur_rockwell I've tried to send you my email but I guess TH-cam won't let me
Adding a little info about BC for transmasc people. I am a trans man who uses a vaginal ring birth control. It’s a hormonal form of BC however it is localized to the uterus, thus the hormones are not going into your blood stream.
I love it, I’ve seen no feminizing effects from it and it’s 90-95% effective (depends on the brand).
love your videos, thanks for making them!
Thank you for making this video
I may be aroace with a bit of an aversion to sex, but I still find this video necessary to know. Thank you for sharing! I’ll keep this video in a playlist so I can share it to any friends who may need it!
You go king
I’m the outlier here as I’m a cis lesbian, I’m watching this so that when I write about trans male characters I don’t accidentally write any intimate moments wrong.
thank you, this is really informative
u look like damon albarn in the 90s-early 2000s (not a bad thing,more a good thing😁) have a good day
he totally does wtf
Thanks so much man! As a bi trans guy this is literally so helpful- I hadn't even thought about a bunch of stuff you mentioned which is super important :)
im genderfluid Amab who's primarily into men, so learning this was super helpful mainly if I end up getting with a transmasc person ^^
Thank you thank you thank you for making this.
Your eyes compliment your face so well 🐬🌊 also this video was very informative and helpful
Thank you for doing this!! Especially in a time where sex aversion and puritanism is taking root again, even inside our queer communities. This is a topic that should be very useful to a lot of younger trans folk (im cis myself but still)
I had the luxury of hearing a lecture of a professor specializing in STD’s / STI’s in Highschool. Yet, I am so very glad that you bring attention to this subject, while also making viewers very comfortable watching this.
You’re awesome, thank you for your work!
thanks for making this!
thanks for doing this video! as a young transmasc who is starting with this stuff, it's very helpful! I'll investigate more!
Thank you for making such a well structured and informative video about this. I have been finding it difficult to find this kind of information online. Like I‘ve been wondering for over a year whether the progesterone only pill interferes with testosterone and neither my regular doctor nor the internet could tell me. Thank you so much!!:)
Long ahh title XD
Thank you this is very helpful for me
Ty! Very helpful
I NEEDED THIS OMG
good video
u kinda look like aaron paul lol
Thank you ❤ I feel so much more prepared now