I am currently 1 year and 4 months sober. It’s not easy and some days are really hard but I’m the happiest and healthiest I’ve ever been and I choose sobriety every single day! I had no idea you were three years sober Sam. Finding out someone you’ve followed for years is walking the same path as you is humbling. THANK YOU for your story. Here’s to many more years! We got this!!
A year ago I tried weed for the first time, and within a month I was smoking every day. A year later and that’s turned into multiple times a day. My Gf of 3 years almost broke up with me because of it, and I’m still working on cutting down. Addiction sucks so much man.... but 3 years is something you should be so fucking proud of!!!!
In July I just celebrated 31 years clean and sober, that includes any drugs etc! Keep trudging! U will 31 years before u know it! U gotta go to meetings though and lots of meetings! Love your videos
I bawled my eyes out watching this, I am 19 and have now been drinking almost daily since the age of 16. I’ve tried time and time again to get sober but that’s only lasted me a few days. My dad is an alcoholic so I’m more susceptible to it as well, I have lost many friends and my mom doesn’t like having me around and my father worries 24/7 that he’ll come home and find me dead from drinking too much. Thank you so much for sharing your story and inspiring others.
It's not easy and one thing that helped me was reaching out for help...either through AA meetings or a therapist. It helped me to speak to other people who have been were I was and could understand without judgement.
I’m proud of you! I’m sober, will be 9years this December 23rd I got myself into dangerous situations and was assaulted at 18 I also was nearly arrested due to taking my sisters bank card as I had used all my money and credit card money and I needed money for booze. I look back and think how did nobody know, I was going out every night but i got sober and I’m so happy I did xx
I’m almost at my 7 months sober! watching this video helped me feel so much better & less alone. I grew up watching my father drinking & becoming violent every night. My GF opening my eyes and forcing me to see the path I was on, changed so many things for me. It’s so terrifying to take on everything in life head on, but it was the best decision I have ever made. To anyone who feels they’re struggling, you can do this. It is the best decision in the world to choose yourself 💗
im a retired addiction therapists also a recovering addict. ive be sober for over 42 yrs and I will always be thankful.... my 29 yr old son died of a fentenyl over dose 4 yrs ago ... Its ok to be proud of yourself .For your wife and baby too. keep on keeping on
We had to deal with an alcoholic father, and much of what you described was evident in him. You’re courage to tell your story and the obviously tremendous support of your wife, plus the love of your child, I hope will keep you on the sobriety track! You definitely have my respect!😘
I'm 2 yrs 2 months sober I turned 21 the day this video was posted(relax, 21 is not a thing in Norway, we can legally drink at 18, hard liquor at 20), and started drinking at 14(with family present) and at 16 with friends. I never labeled myself as an addict, but I know I was headed down that path. After drinking more and harder stuff over the years, and essentially drowning sorrows in alcohol, I figured out that if I didn't stop then, I wouldn't be able to. So I stopped, right before moving to a new city, and starting with my studies. Being surrounded by students(who at least here, drink 3-7 nights out of the week) isn't the easiest, so every time I'm being offered something, I think of the dark place the alcohol lead me to, and I never want to go there again. So now I happily accept the negative comments from friends and family about my sobriety, cuz I would rather have that, than to visit the dark place again or being found drunk in a ditch
Two minutes into this and I’m already crying because me and my fiancé can relate. Here in Massachusetts I feel like everyone has a drinking problem, drinking at a young age is a big part of it and where you grew up. I am so happy that you have the willpower and the strength to stay sober you go mamas. Your story definitely helped me
Congratulations on that! Wow 3 years, I have been sober 7 months now! Alcohol was my thing, no other substances. I'm proud of all who are sober or is trying to become sober, you got this ! ❤💪
Hi Sam I congratulate you very much, now you have a great reason to stay away from the alcohol, is your daughter she is the star and the light of your ayes I tell you, I've been around sober for 11 years, 4 months and 5 days ... being sober and I can be around people drinking or at a party and I see how their personality is transformed, and think that I had control of alcoholism, when they offer me I say Nooo It will not happen, I do not allow anyone to tempt me and I tell them It is not No, and I always sign when I wake up I tell God thank you for one more day of life and one more day without alcohol.
Hi Sam, it takes a lot of strength to be honest about a very personal struggle. I have also struggled with alcohol addiction and have been sober 1 year this week! It has not been easy but I take it one day at a time. And similar to you my issue was not being able to just have a drink. One thing that helps me is I read that "Some of us were not born or able to drink like gentlemen". "Take it one day at a time" 😊
I was at the start of a drinking problem after I realized I was gay, i was spiraling thinking of my families reaction. I also have an addictive personality as does my older brother from past trauma. I saw this problem getting worse, so I kind of forced myself to stop as my older brother got worse. Now, we are both in a lot better place.
Super brave that you told your story about addiction. Your story may help someone that is struggling with addiction or depression. My nephew that would of been 31 died of an overdose 4 weeks ago. The more people tell their stories you don't feel so alone and you can hear a story about success but also being honest about the future.
I also have addiction in my family. When my brother started started going down the same road i asked him. "do you want your kids to experience what we did growing up? do you want them to feel that same fear we did?" And obviously thats not something you would ever want for your child. Good job Sam for finding the strenght to be the person you want and need to be for yourself, your family but most importantly your little one.
Good for you,SAM. This wasn't easy for you to discuss. Just remember, AVERY and ALYSSA always will be there for you. Stay strong, and have confidence in your own will to succeed.
Sam- I'm extremely happy and proud of you. Happy that You came into recognition of your own self. My dad passed away from consumption of alcohol, he didn't know when to stop or how to. Therefore he didn't care to even consider to respect his body nor his love one's. I'll tell you this; Pure sadness right there.... Much love to you and your family,stay bless❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🤎🖤🤍♥️
also important: you dont have to get a healthy partner to get sober. it may helps, but you can also get help from a therapist, a help-group and other professionals to get sober. do not wait for a helping partner, to get help!
Thank you for sharing your story w us, Sam. Our stories are pretty similar but I never got to the point where you say. I, too, grew up in a small town and had nothing but football games, parties, and alcohol to look forward to. I left that when I moved into Chicago for school. I never drank on the weekdays but the weekends - they were out of control. There was one weekend I just didn’t know how I got home. I didn’t have my phone, but I made it to my dorm. I think back to those times and I think of how foolish I was. As a grown adult I noticed that I couldn’t just drink one. I had to get to the point of drunk, sometimes that meant a whole 6/12pk like you say....luckily, I also chose on my own to stop. I stopped smoking. I stopped treating my body poorly and began working out. Occupied my mind with other things. I’m grateful to the universe that 4 months after I chose this I met my now wife, who (just like Alyssa) didn’t drink much or smoke. My life changed completely. Nowadays, we occasionally have wine but I stop at one - and when I say occasionally it’s like 3-4 times a year. I haven’t been drunk-drunk in so many years, and as I age I find it more pointless. I’m 30 now. You’re an inspiration and you’ll be one to Avery too. God bless!
Greetings. Just wanted to say that you have done some good and difficult work. You seem like you are a bit “ashamed” to to talk about it. Not sure that is the right word, but I get that it likely feels “embarrassing” that you mention the challenge. First, please don’t feel ashamed. Everyone has SOMETHING they struggle with or have to overcome. We are all human and it is part of our journey. No need to put pressure on yourself or feel bad. Secondly, I know it is easier said than done... but tell those asking invasive or personal questions to go pound sand!! It is none of their business, even if they “look to you” for advice...only do it if YOU feel comfortable and strong enough to do so. You and your family are what truly matters. Thanks for the content over the years. Nice to see how your relationship and family have grown over the years.
I am very proud of you Sam! My dad struggled with alcoholism for years before he got clean. It’s a terrible disease that you have to take one day at a time everyday! My Grandpa was also an alcohol and he got clean on his own after years of addiction. I partied a lot in my 20’s and went to bars all the time, but now I drink maybe 3-5 times a year and very rarely go to bars anymore!
I’m so glad you did this video. Not a lot of our generation speak on alcoholism and have the courage to say “hey i do have this problem”. So applaud you for it !!!!!!! 👏🏽
Proud of you Sam. I remember some of the first videos I saw on your channel, were funny videos of you drunk. I feel bad for enjoying those in retrospect, not knowing the history. Thank you for sharing this with us.
I am in sobriety myself from alchohol and drug use. I am still shrugging with alchohol . I quite drinking for 4 years, for one reason my drug probably was stronger and I couldn't do the both. I have been cleaned from drugs know for 3 years but I find myself feeling like I still can drink when really I am fooling myself. I still work a great job but I know that I need to quit. I am in counseling and doing my best. Thanks sharing your story. It takes a lot!!!
thank you for sharing this Sam, alcoholism runs in my family as well and I have to be extra careful of my relationship with alcohol. having a partner who has a healthy relationship with drinking has been the best influence on me. sending you all the good vibes today to you and your fam!!
hey Sam! thank you for sharing your story I know it wasn't easy. I'm 23 (almost 24) and your story resonates with mine. I was in college at 19 and I remember wanting to go out make friends and the only way I knew how was at the bar. "One drink" turned into more till I couldn't count. "Ok but just tonight then" turned into several times a week. until I could not go to class without having a drink first. My parents didn't know back then and since I have my own apartment it was easier for me to hide it... I did get sober for a year after college but didn't last long. Now I drink occasionally and at home and I can't say I won't ever drink again like I used to too. I know it's a process. A work in progress. anyway, Thank you so much for sharing it means a lot. Love, Mia.
Good for you! 11•08•11- almost 9 years for me. Being sober definitely takes time to get used to. It’s like getting to know an awkward stranger but that stranger is yourself. Definitely worth it tho!
Sometimes the only thing you can do is walk away. Even when the addict is your father. Some thing your mom should really think about. Hang in there though there’s hope for every addict. We can get better and many of us do.
So inspiring! Thank you for sharing and giving another example of what addiction can look like. Marrying into a Mormon family where drinking isn’t a thing has really put into perspective for me how in certain circles of society, alcohol is such a huge part of socialization that it can so easily becomes an addiction or a problem. Bars and clubs at night, boozy brunches in the afternoons, ordering alcohol with every meal, etc. And like you said, so many friendships are based on the idea of going out to bars and clubs together, that if you take that away, there might not be any friendship left. Ugh, so much to say on this topic! I am so glad you were brave enough to share this story and bring a perspective that some people might not have. 🖤
I've been watching your videos for a while and I love you guys. Watching the 2 of you Love each other and have a family has inspired me in so many ways. I'm 36 years old and I came out to my family 2 years ago and my life has been amazing being able to be my full self outloud. I don't ever comment because I feel like y'all probably have so many things to read so I just watch but I too am a recovering addict and I just want to say I'M PROUD OF YOU! Thanks for being you and sharing your vulnerability with the world. You change lives when you let people in!
I just want to say I am a long-time addict and alcoholic and I've been clean for three years I tried to get clean for long time I would fall off and everything it took a long time but I've been clean for three years and I commend you for making this video I'm proud of you
Congratulations Sam on 3 years sober. Your honesty is what l love about you and it shows with how you and Alyssa parent Avert. Nothing but the best for you Sam.
I appreciate you sharing this. I am almost 7 years sober. My wife got sober after we had been together for a while (similarly). Strength in the story. Be well.
Takes courage to share so openly on the internet with millions of people to see, for whatever its worth, I appreciate and respect you for being a fighter and sharing with us.. addiction is a lot harder than people think that don't.. its known that its hard of course but its much much more of a hell than just a hard little
Congratulations! Thank you for sharing your story. It is VERY important to be honest with yourself, friends and family and in the public eye, with us. I remember the incomparable Stevie Nicks talking about her addictions, first to Cocaine, then pain pills and saying that is was not something she wanted to do, but felt she had to because if she could help one person, it was worth sharing her story. I have an addictive personality and had bouts of drinking very heavily. Like you, I have done it myself, but not everyone can. This year I found my biological family and found out my bio dad was a horrible drunk, a mean drunk. I am glad I was not mean...I was the sad drunk or the loud "trying to be funny" drunk. With the exception of wine a couple times a year, I do not drink. I will pour out a bottle of wine to keep myself from having more than a glass. I can do that...but I am very afraid to pick up a whiskey, because if I start with the hard stuff, I will want to get "that feeling" or numbness again, and I know where it can lead. It is really great that you have a support system and I completely understand the need to chose one or the other. I am grateful that the people I used to drink with are no longer around and I can find the strength to not fall down that well again. I wish you the best and continues sobriety! Love to you and your family!
I can relate to this, in the uk it’s not uncommon for kids to start drinking heavily at parties around 14, and from their it just got worse for me. But now I’m finally almost 1 year sober
This was all incredibly relatable. I just hit one year of sobriety today. I also consider myself to be a "lucky" one that wasn't physically dependent on alcohol and could quit with my own will power. I loved that you mentioned the past struggles of quitting and having to realize that you aren't someone who can just have "one drink" and be okay with that. I, too, have finally learned that after many times of being sober and ultimately going back to drinking again. Thank you for sharing your story. It was nice to hear such a similar experience to my own : )
Thank you for being brave and sharing your story. As someone that has struggled with depression, anxiety and addiction I always appreciate someone opening up about their experience.
congratulation you com out of you depression and your anxiety attacks and fatty anxiety attacks at the help center bravo its going well Ashley and Brittany
Hey Sam, I don't like how the alcohol taste, so i don't drink, but u made me feel this kind of empathy for all the ones who are dealing with this. Thanks for share your experience u are making the right decision.
I can't imagine the amount of strength that must've taken for you to make that decision and to keep making it everyday. I will say though that I am inspired by you and I hope that if I happen to have a problem like that in the future (God forbid), that I too, can make such an important decision.
Wow. Just wow, thank you so much for sharing your experience. Sometimes you don’t know you have a problem until you hear that someone else had it and it’s turning into your reality. Stay blessed and safe ❤️
Wow this is incredible! I've been watching you for years and I'm 11 months sober and its so incredible to hear you share your story! I know how personal this journey can be so thank you for using your platform to share your story and bring comfort and awareness to your viewers so we know we're not alone. Love you and your family and thank you for sharing your experience, strength, and hope.
Alcoholics destroy families thats for sure 😢 I know first hand. 😢My biggest regret is not bailing out a long time ago before the damage was done. Be proud Sam that you chose love and kicked the Vodka into touch. Best decision you ever made ❤️❤️❤️
I can't imagine this was easy for you to share. I really applaud you for getting sober 3 years ago and the continued effort you make every day to stay sober. I know you'll be helping a lot of people who see this video and have similar experiences.
Yo honestly I'm sure this helps a lot of people out ik it helps me ta keep in mind how my actions effect others thank you so much Sam you're so brave and wonderful you got this 💖
Thank you for sharing the most vulnerable parts of yourself with us. I’m not addicted to alcohol, but I do struggle with my own addictions. I appreciate you. You’re doing great, never forget that. ✨
I'm proud of you Sam and congratulations on being sober for almost 3 years... sharing your story can be an inspiration to other struggling...i use drink not everyday but w h enjoy I went out with friends and a it drink to the point of having just enough money to get home... I stopped drinking due to to alcohol poisoning my last drink was when I was 25 I'm Now 38 and when i go out to dinner with friends I have soda water or soda that's it...i do joke around I'll have a vodka and coke but hold the vodka my friends laugh bout it with me too, because they know I don't drink .i know how serious it is and I'm not making jokes to hide it, if anyone is struggling I hope they do seek help For me alcohol poisoning was a wake up call... Time to start a new chapter, new friends new outlooks which is what I did. I'm proud of you Sam and Thank you for sharing your story Much love to You, Alyssa and moose and of course your little girl xo
Sam, thank you so much for sharing your story. I have been following you guys for years and had no idea. This Friday I will be 5 years and 2 months sober so I can definitely relate to a lot of what you said. I really appreciate, respect, and admire you sharing your story and speaking your truth.
It takes great courage to admit you have a problem . The secret is to recognize that an has the will power to change . You should be proud , way to go.
Congratulations on 3 years I can relate so much with your story and with me at the end I was at the bottom and had nothing ruined all my friendship through work was forced to go to rehab but there I think it was time and from my first meeting and my life changed for the better and when I left rehab I stayed sober due to fear. But it got better it really is a day at a time and if I ever drink again I’ll go back to there which I don’t want or need, and thank you for being so honest and baring yourself. Also love this video cause you think your fine but your not you need to love yourself first then ........oh I have to say I am 24 years sober and it does work and trust yourself and yes an ultimatum is true. I do have to add didn’t realise a person I follow is on the same path as me and it’s humbling to thank you again sooo much
Thank you so much for sharing this part of yourself with us Sam💜 I stopped drinking almost 4 years ago and it has completely changed every part of my life. I'm super proud of you and I've loved following you and Alyssa for all these years 💖💗
Sam, thank you for sharing your sobriety story 🙏🏼 You are very brave! I am also struggling with an alcohol addiction. My story is similar to yours. It is important to stay healthy, strong and sober! Ive had 6 months sober then I got some drinks on my BD, now I am again trying to stay sober. I also don’t know how long is gonna be but I am not going back to drinking like crazy. This is horrible and an addiction is strong but we are stronger 💪🏼 I wish everyone with a same problem to choose life and health over drinks 👎🏽
I’ve been watching you for the past three years and I remember I was living in the Bay Area when y’all lived in SF, and then I moved to Texas and y’all did too!! Small world! I’m Inspired by you’re story Sam, thank you for sharing 🖤
This video is long awaited, but it was on sams terms. If you are trying to get sober or want to stay sober, we left a link in description for help!
I don't do drugs for 6 months now and i'm so happy for me and for you Sam!!!!!😁
Congratulations Sam on ur 2 year sobriety
I am currently 1 year and 4 months sober. It’s not easy and some days are really hard but I’m the happiest and healthiest I’ve ever been and I choose sobriety every single day! I had no idea you were three years sober Sam. Finding out someone you’ve followed for years is walking the same path as you is humbling. THANK YOU for your story. Here’s to many more years! We got this!!
way to go 4Landry15 keep it up You can do it
My Mom is now two years sober, she made it out of addiction by herself. She was almost 12 years an addict, I'm really proud of her.
A year ago I tried weed for the first time, and within a month I was smoking every day. A year later and that’s turned into multiple times a day. My Gf of 3 years almost broke up with me because of it, and I’m still working on cutting down. Addiction sucks so much man.... but 3 years is something you should be so fucking proud of!!!!
I was addicted to heroin when I was 14and I have been sober for 3 years
Congrats xplortheunknown keep staying sober
In July I just celebrated 31 years clean and sober, that includes any drugs etc! Keep trudging! U will 31 years before u know it! U gotta go to meetings though and lots of meetings! Love your videos
I bawled my eyes out watching this, I am 19 and have now been drinking almost daily since the age of 16. I’ve tried time and time again to get sober but that’s only lasted me a few days. My dad is an alcoholic so I’m more susceptible to it as well, I have lost many friends and my mom doesn’t like having me around and my father worries 24/7 that he’ll come home and find me dead from drinking too much. Thank you so much for sharing your story and inspiring others.
It's not easy and one thing that helped me was reaching out for help...either through AA meetings or a therapist. It helped me to speak to other people who have been were I was and could understand without judgement.
I'm not sober, but my wife has been for just over 2 years and I'm so proud of her!!!
I just hit 8 months of sobriety. I’ve been watching you guys for years. Thank you so much for sharing your story ❤️ you are so strong
Good Job Meghan Rose , keep it up
I’m proud of you! I’m sober, will be 9years this December 23rd I got myself into dangerous situations and was assaulted at 18 I also was nearly arrested due to taking my sisters bank card as I had used all my money and credit card money and I needed money for booze. I look back and think how did nobody know, I was going out every night but i got sober and I’m so happy I did xx
I’m almost at my 7 months sober! watching this video helped me feel so much better & less alone.
I grew up watching my father drinking & becoming violent every night. My GF opening my eyes and forcing me to see the path I was on, changed so many things for me. It’s so terrifying to take on everything in life head on, but it was the best decision I have ever made.
To anyone who feels they’re struggling, you can do this. It is the best decision in the world to choose yourself 💗
im a retired addiction therapists also a recovering addict. ive be sober for over 42 yrs and I will always be thankful.... my 29 yr old son died of a fentenyl over dose 4 yrs ago ... Its ok to be proud of yourself .For your wife and baby too. keep on keeping on
This was so hard to heard but so helpful and thank you love you
My addiction was self harm and today I am 7 months clean/sober and it feels good 😭I’m so proud of myself
You are a warrior, a beautiful story, God bless your life and your beautiful family
We had to deal with an alcoholic father, and much of what you described was evident in him. You’re courage to tell your story and the obviously tremendous support of your wife, plus the love of your child, I hope will keep you on the sobriety track! You definitely have my respect!😘
Thanks for sharing Sam. I got sober when I was 21 and I'm now 6 years sober. Best decision I've ever made and definitely my proudest accomplishment.
I'm 2 yrs 2 months sober
I turned 21 the day this video was posted(relax, 21 is not a thing in Norway, we can legally drink at 18, hard liquor at 20), and started drinking at 14(with family present) and at 16 with friends.
I never labeled myself as an addict, but I know I was headed down that path. After drinking more and harder stuff over the years, and essentially drowning sorrows in alcohol, I figured out that if I didn't stop then, I wouldn't be able to.
So I stopped, right before moving to a new city, and starting with my studies. Being surrounded by students(who at least here, drink 3-7 nights out of the week) isn't the easiest, so every time I'm being offered something, I think of the dark place the alcohol lead me to, and I never want to go there again.
So now I happily accept the negative comments from friends and family about my sobriety, cuz I would rather have that, than to visit the dark place again or being found drunk in a ditch
Two minutes into this and I’m already crying because me and my fiancé can relate. Here in Massachusetts I feel like everyone has a drinking problem, drinking at a young age is a big part of it and where you grew up. I am so happy that you have the willpower and the strength to stay sober you go mamas. Your story definitely helped me
Congratulations on being 3 years sober no one is perfect we all make mistakes you are a good mom
Congratulations on that! Wow 3 years, I have been sober 7 months now! Alcohol was my thing, no other substances. I'm proud of all who are sober or is trying to become sober, you got this ! ❤💪
Hi Sam I congratulate you very much, now you have a great reason to stay away from the alcohol, is your daughter she is the star and the light of your ayes I tell you, I've been around sober for 11 years, 4 months and 5 days ... being sober and I can be around people drinking or at a party and I see how their personality is transformed, and think that I had control of alcoholism, when they offer me I say Nooo It will not happen, I do not allow anyone to tempt me and I tell them It is not No, and I always sign when I wake up I tell God thank you for one more day of life and one more day without alcohol.
I personally can’t relate, but you are so strong for choosing this for you, and your family💙💙
Very brave of you, Sam! Thank you!
Congrats Sam for being 3 years clean, So very proud of you
Hi Sam, it takes a lot of strength to be honest about a very personal struggle. I have also struggled with alcohol addiction and have been sober 1 year this week! It has not been easy but I take it one day at a time. And similar to you my issue was not being able to just have a drink. One thing that helps me is I read that "Some of us were not born or able to drink like gentlemen". "Take it one day at a time" 😊
I was at the start of a drinking problem after I realized I was gay, i was spiraling thinking of my families reaction. I also have an addictive personality as does my older brother from past trauma. I saw this problem getting worse, so I kind of forced myself to stop as my older brother got worse. Now, we are both in a lot better place.
Super brave that you told your story about addiction. Your story may help someone that is struggling with addiction or depression. My nephew that would of been 31 died of an overdose 4 weeks ago. The more people tell their stories you don't feel so alone and you can hear a story about success but also being honest about the future.
I also have addiction in my family. When my brother started started going down the same road i asked him. "do you want your kids to experience what we did growing up? do you want them to feel that same fear we did?" And obviously thats not something you would ever want for your child. Good job Sam for finding the strenght to be the person you want and need to be for yourself, your family but most importantly your little one.
Good for you,SAM. This wasn't easy for you to discuss. Just remember, AVERY and ALYSSA always will be there for you. Stay strong, and have confidence in your own will to succeed.
Sam- I'm extremely happy and proud of you. Happy that You came into recognition of your own self. My dad passed away from consumption of alcohol, he didn't know when to stop or how to. Therefore he didn't care to even consider to respect his body nor his love one's. I'll tell you this; Pure sadness right there.... Much love to you and your family,stay bless❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🤎🖤🤍♥️
also important: you dont have to get a healthy partner to get sober. it may helps, but you can also get help from a therapist, a help-group and other professionals to get sober. do not wait for a helping partner, to get help!
Thank you for sharing your story w us, Sam. Our stories are pretty similar but I never got to the point where you say. I, too, grew up in a small town and had nothing but football games, parties, and alcohol to look forward to. I left that when I moved into Chicago for school. I never drank on the weekdays but the weekends - they were out of control. There was one weekend I just didn’t know how I got home. I didn’t have my phone, but I made it to my dorm. I think back to those times and I think of how foolish I was. As a grown adult I noticed that I couldn’t just drink one. I had to get to the point of drunk, sometimes that meant a whole 6/12pk like you say....luckily, I also chose on my own to stop. I stopped smoking. I stopped treating my body poorly and began working out. Occupied my mind with other things. I’m grateful to the universe that 4 months after I chose this I met my now wife, who (just like Alyssa) didn’t drink much or smoke. My life changed completely. Nowadays, we occasionally have wine but I stop at one - and when I say occasionally it’s like 3-4 times a year. I haven’t been drunk-drunk in so many years, and as I age I find it more pointless. I’m 30 now. You’re an inspiration and you’ll be one to Avery too. God bless!
thank you sam for your story
Thank you for your vulnerability in sharing this. Congrats as well.
Greetings. Just wanted to say that you have done some good and difficult work. You seem like you are a bit “ashamed” to to talk about it. Not sure that is the right word, but I get that it likely feels “embarrassing” that you mention the challenge. First, please don’t feel ashamed. Everyone has SOMETHING they struggle with or have to overcome. We are all human and it is part of our journey. No need to put pressure on yourself or feel bad. Secondly, I know it is easier said than done... but tell those asking invasive or personal questions to go pound sand!! It is none of their business, even if they “look to you” for advice...only do it if YOU feel comfortable and strong enough to do so. You and your family are what truly matters. Thanks for the content over the years. Nice to see how your relationship and family have grown over the years.
I can not imagine the strength it took to share this with everyone. Thank you.
Wow! So strong!!
I am very proud of you Sam! My dad struggled with alcoholism for years before he got clean. It’s a terrible disease that you have to take one day at a time everyday! My Grandpa was also an alcohol and he got clean on his own after years of addiction. I partied a lot in my 20’s and went to bars all the time, but now I drink maybe 3-5 times a year and very rarely go to bars anymore!
Sam thanks for sharing your story
I’m so glad you did this video. Not a lot of our generation speak on alcoholism and have the courage to say “hey i do have this problem”. So applaud you for it !!!!!!! 👏🏽
Thanks for being so real
Use this button as a Thank you for sharing! That was very brave and courageous
Proud of you Sam. I remember some of the first videos I saw on your channel, were funny videos of you drunk. I feel bad for enjoying those in retrospect, not knowing the history. Thank you for sharing this with us.
Sam I'm so so proud of you because not everyone can do what you've done and be this happy and successful
I am in sobriety myself from alchohol and drug use. I am still shrugging with alchohol . I quite drinking for 4 years, for one reason my drug probably was stronger and I couldn't do the both. I have been cleaned from drugs know for 3 years but I find myself feeling like I still can drink when really I am fooling myself. I still work a great job but I know that I need to quit. I am in counseling and doing my best. Thanks sharing your story. It takes a lot!!!
Thanks for sharing Sam! I am 72 days sober today. I needed this video today and to hear your words.
thank you for sharing this Sam, alcoholism runs in my family as well and I have to be extra careful of my relationship with alcohol. having a partner who has a healthy relationship with drinking has been the best influence on me. sending you all the good vibes today to you and your fam!!
hey Sam! thank you for sharing your story I know it wasn't easy. I'm 23 (almost 24) and your story resonates with mine. I was in college at 19 and I remember wanting to go out make friends and the only way I knew how was at the bar. "One drink" turned into more till I couldn't count. "Ok but just tonight then" turned into several times a week. until I could not go to class without having a drink first. My parents didn't know back then and since I have my own apartment it was easier for me to hide it... I did get sober for a year after college but didn't last long. Now I drink occasionally and at home and I can't say I won't ever drink again like I used to too. I know it's a process. A work in progress. anyway, Thank you so much for sharing it means a lot.
Love, Mia.
Good for you! 11•08•11- almost 9 years for me. Being sober definitely takes time to get used to. It’s like getting to know an awkward stranger but that stranger is yourself. Definitely worth it tho!
Proud of you Sam, anyone else in the process or thinking about it...YOU GOT THIS 💪🏽💪🏽
I wish my dad would realize he has an addiction, because it is killing him, me, my mom and our family
Sometimes the only thing you can do is walk away. Even when the addict is your father. Some thing your mom should really think about. Hang in there though there’s hope for every addict. We can get better and many of us do.
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Have you tried Al Anon?
So inspiring! Thank you for sharing and giving another example of what addiction can look like. Marrying into a Mormon family where drinking isn’t a thing has really put into perspective for me how in certain circles of society, alcohol is such a huge part of socialization that it can so easily becomes an addiction or a problem. Bars and clubs at night, boozy brunches in the afternoons, ordering alcohol with every meal, etc. And like you said, so many friendships are based on the idea of going out to bars and clubs together, that if you take that away, there might not be any friendship left. Ugh, so much to say on this topic! I am so glad you were brave enough to share this story and bring a perspective that some people might not have. 🖤
I've been watching your videos for a while and I love you guys. Watching the 2 of you Love each other and have a family has inspired me in so many ways. I'm 36 years old and I came out to my family 2 years ago and my life has been amazing being able to be my full self outloud. I don't ever comment because I feel like y'all probably have so many things to read so I just watch but I too am a recovering addict and I just want to say I'M PROUD OF YOU! Thanks for being you and sharing your vulnerability with the world. You change lives when you let people in!
I just want to say I am a long-time addict and alcoholic and I've been clean for three years I tried to get clean for long time I would fall off and everything it took a long time but I've been clean for three years and I commend you for making this video I'm proud of you
Thank you for your honesty, my sister went through a similar situation with alcohol. You are all brave and strong.
Congratulations Sam on 3 years sober. Your honesty is what l love about you and it shows with how you and Alyssa parent Avert. Nothing but the best for you Sam.
I appreciate you sharing this. I am almost 7 years sober. My wife got sober after we had been together for a while (similarly). Strength in the story.
Be well.
Takes courage to share so openly on the internet with millions of people to see, for whatever its worth, I appreciate and respect you for being a fighter and sharing with us.. addiction is a lot harder than people think that don't.. its known that its hard of course but its much much more of a hell than just a hard little
Congratulations! Thank you for sharing your story. It is VERY important to be honest with yourself, friends and family and in the public eye, with us. I remember the incomparable Stevie Nicks talking about her addictions, first to Cocaine, then pain pills and saying that is was not something she wanted to do, but felt she had to because if she could help one person, it was worth sharing her story. I have an addictive personality and had bouts of drinking very heavily. Like you, I have done it myself, but not everyone can. This year I found my biological family and found out my bio dad was a horrible drunk, a mean drunk. I am glad I was not mean...I was the sad drunk or the loud "trying to be funny" drunk. With the exception of wine a couple times a year, I do not drink. I will pour out a bottle of wine to keep myself from having more than a glass. I can do that...but I am very afraid to pick up a whiskey, because if I start with the hard stuff, I will want to get "that feeling" or numbness again, and I know where it can lead. It is really great that you have a support system and I completely understand the need to chose one or the other. I am grateful that the people I used to drink with are no longer around and I can find the strength to not fall down that well again. I wish you the best and continues sobriety! Love to you and your family!
Thank you for sharing your story, Sam.
I can relate to this, in the uk it’s not uncommon for kids to start drinking heavily at parties around 14, and from their it just got worse for me. But now I’m finally almost 1 year sober
This was all incredibly relatable. I just hit one year of sobriety today. I also consider myself to be a "lucky" one that wasn't physically dependent on alcohol and could quit with my own will power. I loved that you mentioned the past struggles of quitting and having to realize that you aren't someone who can just have "one drink" and be okay with that. I, too, have finally learned that after many times of being sober and ultimately going back to drinking again. Thank you for sharing your story. It was nice to hear such a similar experience to my own : )
Thank you for being brave and sharing your story. As someone that has struggled with depression, anxiety and addiction I always appreciate someone opening up about their experience.
congratulation you com out of you depression and your anxiety attacks and fatty anxiety attacks at the help center bravo its going well Ashley and Brittany
Thank you for sharing.
❤❤❤❤❤ sending you strength & love & courage to keep trying every day.
Hey Sam, I don't like how the alcohol taste, so i don't drink, but u made me feel this kind of empathy for all the ones who are dealing with this. Thanks for share your experience u are making the right decision.
Thanks for sharing.
So proud of you Sam! You are brave and so deserving of your beautiful loving family!
Very brave to share your story! No matter what we're struggling with, we can't give up. Keep trying again and again!
I can relate to Sam story, what made me get sober was my mother getting diagnose with cancer three years ago.
I can't imagine the amount of strength that must've taken for you to make that decision and to keep making it everyday. I will say though that I am inspired by you and I hope that if I happen to have a problem like that in the future (God forbid), that I too, can make such an important decision.
Wow. Just wow, thank you so much for sharing your experience. Sometimes you don’t know you have a problem until you hear that someone else had it and it’s turning into your reality. Stay blessed and safe ❤️
Congratulations on your continued sobriety. It’s not easy to discuss this! 27 and 19 months sober for me! Keep going strong! :)
Wow this is incredible! I've been watching you for years and I'm 11 months sober and its so incredible to hear you share your story! I know how personal this journey can be so thank you for using your platform to share your story and bring comfort and awareness to your viewers so we know we're not alone. Love you and your family and thank you for sharing your experience, strength, and hope.
Alcoholics destroy families thats for sure 😢 I know first hand. 😢My biggest regret is not bailing out a long time ago before the damage was done. Be proud Sam that you chose love and kicked the Vodka into touch. Best decision you ever made ❤️❤️❤️
I can't imagine this was easy for you to share. I really applaud you for getting sober 3 years ago and the continued effort you make every day to stay sober. I know you'll be helping a lot of people who see this video and have similar experiences.
Thank you for being, so open and honest. About your struggles with alcohol Sam. Stay strong for yourself. Also for your beautiful family.
Yo honestly I'm sure this helps a lot of people out ik it helps me ta keep in mind how my actions effect others thank you so much Sam you're so brave and wonderful you got this 💖
Love this video sam! Thanks for sharing! 🤗❤️
Thanks for sharing your story Sam!!! Love you guys!!
So far of how far you have come! This video just hit my recommended page again and I just want to say that you are incredible, Sam.
Yes queen! Thank you for sharing!!
Thank you for sharing the most vulnerable parts of yourself with us. I’m not addicted to alcohol, but I do struggle with my own addictions. I appreciate you. You’re doing great, never forget that. ✨
I didn’t ever expect this. But I’m so proud that you thought about ur self and others and put that as a priority kuddos ❤️
I'm proud of you Sam and congratulations on being sober for almost 3 years... sharing your story can be an inspiration to other struggling...i use drink not everyday but w h enjoy I went out with friends and a it drink to the point of having just enough money to get home... I stopped drinking due to to alcohol poisoning my last drink was when I was 25 I'm Now 38 and when i go out to dinner with friends I have soda water or soda that's it...i do joke around I'll have a vodka and coke but hold the vodka my friends laugh bout it with me too, because they know I don't drink .i know how serious it is and I'm not making jokes to hide it, if anyone is struggling I hope they do seek help
For me alcohol poisoning was a wake up call... Time to start a new chapter, new friends new outlooks which is what I did.
I'm proud of you Sam and Thank you for sharing your story
Much love to You, Alyssa and moose and of course your little girl xo
Thank you for being vulnerable. Sobriety needs to be normalized because a lot of people go through it in many aspects. Thanks for sharing 💖
Sam, thank you so much for sharing your story. I have been following you guys for years and had no idea. This Friday I will be 5 years and 2 months sober so I can definitely relate to a lot of what you said. I really appreciate, respect, and admire you sharing your story and speaking your truth.
It takes great courage to admit you have a problem . The secret is to recognize that an has the will power to change . You should be proud , way to go.
Congratulations on 3 years I can relate so much with your story and with me at the end I was at the bottom and had nothing ruined all my friendship through work was forced to go to rehab but there I think it was time and from my first meeting and my life changed for the better and when I left rehab I stayed sober due to fear. But it got better it really is a day at a time and if I ever drink again I’ll go back to there which I don’t want or need, and thank you for being so honest and baring yourself. Also love this video cause you think your fine but your not you need to love yourself first then ........oh I have to say I am 24 years sober and it does work and trust yourself and yes an ultimatum is true. I do have to add didn’t realise a person I follow is on the same path as me and it’s humbling to thank you again sooo much
Thank you so much for sharing this part of yourself with us Sam💜 I stopped drinking almost 4 years ago and it has completely changed every part of my life. I'm super proud of you and I've loved following you and Alyssa for all these years 💖💗
Thank you for sharing your story Sam ❤️
Sam, thank you for sharing your sobriety story 🙏🏼 You are very brave! I am also struggling with an alcohol addiction. My story is similar to yours. It is important to stay healthy, strong and sober! Ive had 6 months sober then I got some drinks on my BD, now I am again trying to stay sober. I also don’t know how long is gonna be but I am not going back to drinking like crazy. This is horrible and an addiction is strong but we are stronger 💪🏼 I wish everyone with a same problem to choose life and health over drinks 👎🏽
I'm very proud of you..love u and ur family
It's so hard to get clean and 3 years is amazing!
Thankyou for your brave story❣
Sam, thank you for sharing your story. You’re strong 💕
I can relate so much thanks so much for sharing you're story I was a alcoholic for 5 years I dont drink now
I’ve been watching you for the past three years and I remember I was living in the Bay Area when y’all lived in SF, and then I moved to Texas and y’all did too!! Small world! I’m Inspired by you’re story Sam, thank you for sharing 🖤