And if they don’t have any investment in your life or what and who’s important to you, it’s never going to work. Make sure you are equally yoked … and have the same values we will be ok. We just have to keep our eyes on the prize. And that is Jesus!
Amen! A lot of us idolise relationships/marriage and the bible condemns idolatry. Only seek God and let him bring your spouse to you. Thank you Pastor for this message
My heart has been broken four times because Satan brought me the wrong man. I’m now 66 years old. Single for 11 years. I just now accept to being on my own. If god doesn’t bring me a husband I will be good. I’m completely fulfilled because I have my daughter and family. I just came across you. You are so amazing. I thank you from my heart ♥️
I love your comment. I just turned 65 this year and am widowed 4 years now after a 40 plus years to the same man. I have not met anyone that would be a good fit as a husband. But I am totally content to be alone. I to have a wonderful family and two daughters. God bless you!😀
I am single Christian man. And I will be praying for you that God lead you. And give us both eyes and ears and show us what to do in the mean time until that happens. Jesus has been showing me to focus on whatever he has in front of me concerning His Kingdom. To grow in trust of Him as a father. If you would pray for me I will also praying for you.
I feel the same way. I often ask God “WHY ME”. Maybe I need to start by loving myself first. I pray to God to bring me a good man who loves God above all. 🙏🏽
Knowing your identity in Christ means knowing His standards. I always choose God’s standards because I am a daughter of God. Know your standards of having a relationship. Test every spirits that attracts you.
The devil doesn't just send intimate partners as distractions and counterfeits, he will also send supposed friends. The devil isn't someone with a pitchfork and horns when he comes to you. But with a smile and possibly in someone you know.
Please learned 🎉I have dated few guys that show up to be like Christian but their fruit was the opposite. They can speak in tongues, cast out Demons , serve at church but no self control! No respect to value . I am glad that I didn't go into marriage with anyone of them .
My last ex a few years back was very calculating about winning me. I was in my purpose & in alignment with God. Not broken. He was intrigued that i was a Godly woman with healthy esteem. He just wanted to break me down. Those demons in him sought to destroy me.
it's the same for we men too - get attracted to ladies who calculate - But at times it could be that they are struggling for a period - they may become the best spouse ever
@@kate_fairchild_237 At times they are not calculating - they are just not done - Major thing to consider is their passion and love for Godly things - At times you need to let them know you know who they are then they will open up - it may be healing that follow - i have a lot of experience here - i need a lady to that will love God together
Satan is trying to defeat you through a distraction, either to disarm you or distract you!! Have discernment! Understand Satan’s bait and God’s blessing. Just because it looks good, doesn’t mean it is. Thank you Lord for protecting me🙏🏾
Sometimes when you're a pastor you have to be careful because satan can distract you and deceive you to think that you understand the biblical Grace that saves, which it's been led by the Holy Spirit, so that sin will not have dominion over us, so that we can resist temptation like Jesus, the enemy will caused us to write books to lead other people astray, as people always want to read man-made stuff, yet don't want to obey the Bible which is the first and most important
Yes, but He gifts us all with it. Many learn through trauma to ignore it...comes with abuse. For me, I was hyper vigilent to it.......just turned against it in the early phase of my youth but never again after I never turned it down with a patient (I'm a nurse)
I wasn't seeking to meet someone, I was wholly focused on my calling and fully in love with the Lord. I was completely deceived, and ended up marrying this man and he was extremely abusive. A complete distraction from my call. I ignored my gut, and listened to other believers. I was a widow with 5 children and I guess they wanted me to be cared for. I never had peace about it, but I ignored my own feelings.
So sorry I hope you learnt a valuable lesson there Where you really focused on the lord though reading your word lead by the holy spirit and not your flesh?. Was he a follower of Jesus ? You ignored the holy spirit or your gut feelings. Yeah there will never be peace where God doesn't want you to be.
This happened to me literally within the last two weeks. I believe the enemy was trying to capitalize on me having neglected my walk with God. Fortunately it took less than two months of going out with this man to see things for what they were. God is too good to us, protecting us even from our own poor choices...
I’m going through this now we been dating for six months. Everything was good until he i saw him following sexual girls on social media and he actually pay cash app to view a profile. When I confronted him he just laugh and I’m overreacting WTH my heart hurts but I know I need to let him go!
@flyg74 oh girl! Let him go. If he's doing that now, it's only going to get worse the longer your together. Walk away while you can. Jesus is a perfect companion. He will NEVER hurt your heart!!
Wow! My friend sent this to me at perfect timing.. I ran into an ex from 10 years ago over the weekend and it was like I was immediately transported back to when I was a 21 year old. 😮 To make a long story short, I’ve done too much growing to let old flings rise back up again. This was so good!
I’m in the same boat. Married for 8yr with kids to a non believer in Christ and it’s been hell. God loves you and he will forgive you. I pray and hope God gives you the strength to surpass it.
I feel like I was the distraction to my ex wife. Everything you’re saying is exactly was I was doing 😢I feel so bad for her and I feel like I wasted her time and a huge part of her life. God please forgive me for not growing up, for not respecting her boundaries, for being lustful during our marriage, for being neglectful, for not being there for her when she needed me. I was sent from hell and I know I was. I wasn’t close to God how was I supposed to be, I had baggage coming into the relationship, I wasn’t taking care of my child, I wasn’t mentally or spiritually ready for any type of commitment, I wasn’t financially ready for marriage. God I am so damn sorry for wasting her time. She is definitely a beautiful loving and caring soul. She is perfect. Please forgive me God for hurting your child 😢
Wow you're brave for admitting your mistake and being convicted by the holy spirit. The lord forgives I hope you're in a better place now and have a strong relationship with God your self and your child. God bless you.
I strongly belive that the Father forgave you in the Name Of Jesus Christ who died for our sins but only if u repent and change ur ways, focus on God do his willing and u shall be redempted. Start praying create a relationship with God by praying everyday and read the scriptures, that's available for everyone who's reading this comment and doesn't know how to start being closer to God. God bless you and im praying for you 🙏🏿 ❤️🩹💯
I am 27 and this the first time I am making it a point to date wisely at a slow pace. Prior to my last relationship I sought counsel in our church to ensure that I wasnt walking into something that would hurt me. I was very open to objective feedback. The relationship was encouraged, and was probably the most damaging relationship Ive had. This Summer I have been talking to a man that has pursued me with intentionality, respect, patience, and grace with a focus on pleasing the Lord. We work very well together but are still very much ourselves. But as this pastor mentioned, every time I feel my heart become close to this gentleman, I enter a state of panic because Im so scared of being hurt and side-tracked again. Im scared of his words not being true like many of the other "Christians" Ive dated. He will be away this month, and said it would be a good opportunity to let things dissolve and hear from the Lord. I pray that I will no longer be in fear and believe that I am worthy of receiving a good thing that is from the Lord, but I will wait on His direction
Same thing happened to me. Met a guy that seemed too good to be true. And my friends and church seemed to like us getting to know each other. But I prayed A LOT during the situationship. I prayed so much because I kept not having peace. Anyways it all ended 2 months later. And the hurt I’m experiencing from it I can’t put to words. It’s been 3 months and I’m still hurt. Not as bad as in the beginning though. I pray for your journey sis. God be with you :)
@@hadassaheritage I’ve experienced a similar situation. Dated a guy that I go to church with. Received sooo much encouragement. The aftermath of the ending of the relationship has brought up so much old trauma wounds like rejection and public humiliation. Praying for you and all our sisters in Christ. God reminds us we are not alone in our experiences 🙏🏾 pray for me♥️
Wow the timing… currently going through this. 😮 I feel like I’ve always attracted the same kind of person. Different person same character and it always happens to be with a man who clearly doesn’t have good intentions. Narcissists or someone who just wants to take advantage. I pray and hope God brings me my man of God soon.
This is timely.Heavenly Father have mercy and thank you for delivering me from the trap of a relationship the enemy brought my way..I struggled,didn’t have peace,I was sad,I was stressed,I got so distracted,it was everything wrong but I love how God love me.He took me out with force!
In His love and jealousy He came for us and rescued us from a path that seemed right in the beginning but was only leading to destruction. Praise be to God for saving us by force 🙌🏽🙏🏽
I am healing and may God heal everyone's broken hearts, traumas and help us attract people who are good for us and equally we are good to them. Amen. 💗💖
To add, broken people are also attracted to light. You could not be bleeding and still attract dark and broken individuals as sometimes they navigate to your healing. It's up to your discernment to repel and move on.
Hallelujah 🙌🏻!!!!! The daily jesus devotional has been a huge part of my transformation, God is good 🙌🏻🙌🏻. I was owing a loan of $49,000 to the bank for my son's brain surgery, Now I'm no longer in debt after I invested $11,000 and got my payout of $290,500 every month…God bless Mrs Susan Jane Christy ❤️
After I raised up to 525k trading with her I bought a new House and a car here in the states 🇺🇸🇺🇸and also paid for my son's surgery (Oscar). Glory to God.shalom.
If you loose your standards when you are with them, they are not Godsend. This video really touched me 😢, I watched it twice. While I’m in my late 20’s, I have getting guys since my early twenties that waist my time and energy that are not godly. Thank God for the message, he sent through you. 🙏🏾
They cannot hide themselves very long, it always comes out. 😂 takes about 2-5 months.. Wolves are very real. God is the answer, love yourself allow God to love you. ❤🙏🏽❤
Pastor Vlad you really 😢 blessed me with the prayer you did for single moms, for God to bring a man that will not only love me but my son too, like Joseph loved Jesus that was not his son, you opened my eyes on these, I never sow it these way, I am a single mom, I and my son we bless 🎉🎉
Wow perfect timing explains everything I just went thru in a unhealthy relationship I have ended the relationship I wish everyone could here this message
This is very relatable, and I finally put my foot down in my last relationship as soon as the Red flags were raised high in the air. We dated 1 month, and it was a month of insane highs and lows. This is so true, because I’ve been going through so much change in my life, that it’s messed with my headspace, and the women that have been drawn to me fit exactly what Vlad is describing in this video. I still include my recent exes in my prayers, hoping they find their way and change, even though they’re not apart of my life any longer. Pray’n all the way from Central, NJ 🙏🏼
I always being in a wrong relationship, its our fault that we got distracted by evil . M in my recovering phase but m in spritual struggle please pray for the broken heart 😭
I have a friend who is experiencing. Right now she blocked me because she is an ex of mine but I am praying to God to help her turn away from the wrong relationship and seek God. Praying 🙏
it's oversimplification to say it's "our fault we got distracted" .....we act out of our subconsciousness from childhood wounds and traumas. Sin, yes, that our fault. Inherited sin and abuse, trauma, is not.
I am currently passing through the same state, it's hard. At times you just feel tired, you cry and wet your pillow. Just stay strong. You are not alone. There many people going through the same issues.
For those who have never experienced all these things that he has mentioned in this video, please believe what he said. Everything is 100% true and I know this from my horrible experience. I wish someone had told me these words before. May Christ protect you all from evil people! ☦️💖
@miraclessite3522 when you hang out with people who are not living right or live by Jesus's Standards, you will get hurt, and the Bible says from such turn away. Because they will bring you down and the devil will try to kill, steal and destroy your well being through anyone who isn't filled with the Holy Spirit. If they don't live by Jesus, they are their own god and play by their own rules. That is not safe and is causing so much heartache. It's bad enough with followers of Christ who struggle, but real ones will repent, be sorry, try and try again to be better. Who is to say that a regular Samaritan will EVER put your well being before their own when they are not following any kind of statutes. Just picking from here and there and saying they are a good person. No. You will know them by their fruits. And from those with no Jesus, you must turn away to avoid getting hurt. Not to judge, but to protect yourself.
Cool video, My relationship of 6 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
Not necessarily true. This is particularly difficult to discern if someone suffers anxiety and is typically an anxious person and an overthinker. I speak from experience.
Thank you for this. I’m dating a woman that was also abused and this video got me thinking we shouldn’t be together. I really care for this woman. Thanks for sharing.
Wish I'd seen this video 17yrs ago 😢 Would have saved me a lot of heartache. 11yrs bad marriage would have been avoided. Glad I've been single for nearly 7yrs & concentrating on God and myself 💯🙏❤️✝️🙏💯🤠🇦🇺
Single ready to mingle….never been married but just came out of a 20 year relationship she just left me out of nowhere and my heart is really broken please pray for me.
Wow!! I am out of words!! I recently went through a hard time in my relationship....ai woke up crying today asking God why why??!!..with lots of questions in my mind asking God to give me an answer...few minutes later I fell on this podcast...I feel like it's clearly speaking to me!!❤️🙏🏽
You are super right Pastor Vlad, I have been in the wrong relationship with so emotionally attached. I repented and got out of it even so heart broken, Hurts and bleeding .
You spoke of great wisdom from beginning to end ❤🎉❤ that’s powerful 🎉 I’ve learnt a lot and thank God and you for this message and I’m glad I didn’t enter into the relationship I was about to because she wanted everything fast and I noticed it was lust she was craving for. Your message is helpful ❤
A person whose low self image (with an inferiority complex or very poor self esteem)leads to attracting unhealthy relationship, thank you for this practical truth
I am healing now from past wrong relationship. All of what you've said Pastor Vlad are true.. Thank you for the enlightenment. Godless to your ministry.
1. Amen... Pray for me the enemy is distracting me with being lonely. I am single and ready to Mingle with the right Man of God. I need help with feeling lonely and desperate. Dating sites come up in my mind as a Intrusive thought. God please keep me from falling into the trap of the enemy.
I have a great relationship with the Lord. A man introduced himself to me at a mall & asked to go for a coffee some time. I gave him my phone number. I know the holy spirit warned me about him. He called. I didn’t answer. He didn’t wait for it to go to voicemail. I interpreted that as impatience. A month or so later i called him & asked him to meet for coffee. I had reservations about him. He wanted me to go on a trip with him right away. He was pushy. I thought my good behavior would be good for him & he would come to church. I suspected him of stealing from me. That should have been the deal breaker. I continued on. He was nothing but frustration all the way. No peace. I finally told him not to call me again. Thank God.
Thankyou! Wonderful preaching and teaching. I would like all young women to listen to this! I also think all preachers should listen provide this wise counsel to all singles young and old.
Thank you, Jesus. I experienced it, and even though I saw those red flags, I tend to ignore it. I love him, but I don't have peace in my heart. Thank God for setting me free. I
GOD blessed you with devine wisdom for you to know all of this Pastor Savchuk. Thank you for this. I have been celibate for a very, very long time because of my Christian principles. I feel whole, free, happy, clean and most of all, very powerful in my walk with GOD. I feel and see HIS protection, protecting me from the sharks. It is not hurting me to WAIT. Thank you, GOD bless you 🙏🏽
10 years ago I married my soul tie….today I’m reaping what I sowed coz my wife doesn’t walk with the Lord, doesn’t have a relationship with the Lord. She has mounted up debt 3 times within our marriage each time I was told won’t happen again. Found out that there’s still massive amounts of debt. Before we were married she was involved in Church and reading the bible and walking with God but the last 4 years nothing
I wonder if people read the Bible and obey the way they run down other people's book because if we read the Bible and listen to what Jesus said where in the path of biblical Grace that is the power of the Holy Spirit in us where sin will not have dominion over us, and we have a spirit of discernment, wisdom, knowledge, insight,and understanding
I had a boyfriend who was training to be a pastor but was recently divorced with his wife of almost 20 years. He said his therapist cleared him to have another relationship but he kept on complaining about his ex-wife. After a year I realized that our relationship was a rebound. I totally agree on all the points... He lured me into showing him my body and giving him my virginity. 27:38 I should have listened to all the warnings my family and friends gave me. I wish he healed well before coming into my life, but I was too broken to see that.
I hate when men try to get women’s innocence especially when you had been faithful to keep it till older age. That’s just so evil. He stole something so precious from you, and not responsible for you. Just cruel and coward. It hurts me so bad seeing all the brokenness in this world
@@texan-psalmbecause people does not understand the danger of sin, and it's because of one saved always saved or eternal security the doctrine of demons that is why so many people who claim to be Christians are falling into sin and think they're save the real Gospel of the Bible is a ministry of power supernatural Grace that strengthens the inner Man the human spirit and soul so that we can have dominion over sin that is the sinful nature, once we come to Jesus and confess each sin individually that a person is struggling with repent renew our mind by reading his word and obeying it no matter the cost it's tough it's a difficult road but it can be done with him so that we can be born again
@@chris-ib2lc yep I once was involved with that kind of teaching but if you read the Bible and spend time with God, you will have discernment to point out wrong teachers and prophets. I thank God for letting seeing the truth
Lord forgive me for ignoring the red flags, for allowing my boundaries to be bent in the name of giving people the benefit of the doubt. For falling for the honey. Now I'm emotionally attached because of all the future promises and destroyed. I am literally re-building my life. Thank you for the great advice for my future especially regarding emotions.
Excellent, very helpful message for so many people. I have long thought a great place to head off divorce is to teach Bible wisdom to church singles. Although some will not listen, some will. When I was young, a pastor just said to the singles, "Be content". That was not terribly helpful.
I really needed to hear this. Thank you. The Lord is not slow to fulfill his promises. I will wait upon the Lord for he is faithful and his gifts and promises are irrevocable. I will patiently wait.
Sir, God has answered what I've been asking for through your wise counsel. I finally realize everything I have been doing wrong in this life, and I only hope and pray that God will allow me to make and do better and to finally set godly boundaries for myself. I have failed miserably by having no boundaries, by not wanting to see the red flags, and for not heeding wise council from those who truly love me. Thank you for all the advice and humbly ask for your prayers.
"If you loose your standards when you are with them, they are not from God"🙏
This is so good!
Exactly. When you have to be like them to.keep them around, not good either. Lots of wolves in sheep's clothing out there, particularly guys
Yup 💯 %
Agree
And it takes time to get back to where you were only left fragmented
Relationship will not heal you, singleness will not kill you.❣️
Perfect words! Smart!!! ❤
"You are more likely to lack discernment when you are emotionally needy and desperate"🙏
U right amen
I like peace that comes from GOD
U hit on the da head Amen brother
Amen Amen Amen GOD is Good!
I’m in trouble but still feeling stronger every day so hopefully I attract the correct person next time
"If they are not honoring your boundaries today, they won't honor your heart tomorrow,"
Thank you, Pastor Vlad.
And if they don’t have any investment in your life or what and who’s important to you, it’s never going to work. Make sure you are equally yoked … and have the same values we will be ok. We just have to keep our eyes on the prize. And that is Jesus!
Very true.
AMEN!!!!!
Love is patient, lust is not. Thank you for this timely message!
"This person needs rehab, NOT romance. This person needs deliverance, NOT a date. THIS PERSON NEEDS HELP." Wow 🔥
Recently divorced people 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@@toria.239exactly!!! I’m almost divorced and was recently distracted by someone. Quickly realized this is definitely NOT the time for dating!!!!
I WANT rehab!!! 😊
@@artsbybware4790you cannot hold onto unforgiveness you have to forgive so that you can get forgiven by Jesus
I gree ..🇳🇱juist...its right!! Jesjoea..Jeshua Blessed you🕊️😇🔥🙏🏻
Low self image tends to attract unhealthy relationship
Amen! A lot of us idolise relationships/marriage and the bible condemns idolatry. Only seek God and let him bring your spouse to you. Thank you Pastor for this message
Exactly amen.
Totally 💯
Brilliant. It's a product of taking the world more seriously than God and it is written "cursed is he who trusts in man".
‘Don’t go swimming if you are bleeding…’. Low self-image attracts unhealthy people’.
I never thought of relationships as idolatry. That’s such a good point
My heart has been broken four times because Satan brought me the wrong man. I’m now 66 years old. Single for 11 years. I just now accept to being on my own. If god doesn’t bring me a husband I will be good. I’m completely fulfilled because I have my daughter and family. I just came across you. You are so amazing. I thank you from my heart ♥️
I love your comment. I just turned 65 this year and am widowed 4 years now after a 40 plus years to the same man. I have not met anyone that would be a good fit as a husband. But I am totally content to be alone. I to have a wonderful family and two daughters. God bless you!😀
"if they're not gonna honor your boundaries today, they're not going to honor your heart tomorrow."
If you loose your standards when you are with them, they are NoT God sent 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Right!
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Perfect timing ! Yesterday l was crying to God about why do I always seem to attract the wrong men in my life.
Because you not walking in obedience that more of a lust dires of the flesh
You’re what you attract
I am single Christian man. And I will be praying for you that God lead you. And give us both eyes and ears and show us what to do in the mean time until that happens. Jesus has been showing me to focus on whatever he has in front of me concerning His Kingdom. To grow in trust of Him as a father. If you would pray for me I will also praying for you.
I feel the same way. I often ask God “WHY ME”. Maybe I need to start by loving myself first.
I pray to God to bring me a good man who loves God above all. 🙏🏽
Knowing your identity in Christ means knowing His standards. I always choose God’s standards because I am a daughter of God. Know your standards of having a relationship. Test every spirits that attracts you.
The devil doesn't just send intimate partners as distractions and counterfeits, he will also send supposed friends. The devil isn't someone with a pitchfork and horns when he comes to you. But with a smile and possibly in someone you know.
So True, unfortunately. Even in the church 😢
You are so right
Please learned 🎉I have dated few guys that show up to be like Christian but their fruit was the opposite. They can speak in tongues, cast out Demons , serve at church but no self control! No respect to value . I am glad that I didn't go into marriage with anyone of them .
Yeah sadly 😢
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1. I'm single and not ready to mingle, holy spirit carry me🙏
My last ex a few years back was very calculating about winning me. I was in my purpose & in alignment with God. Not broken. He was intrigued that i was a Godly woman with healthy esteem. He just wanted to break me down. Those demons in him sought to destroy me.
Wow!! Sounds like my story. Thanks be to God for setting us free🙌🏽🙌🏽
I'm tired of this. Like I keep meeting people like this, calculating.
Yes I went back to a lifestyle I had put behind me and as I got into the wrong relationship which ended up a situationship I was so blind
it's the same for we men too - get attracted to ladies who calculate - But at times it could be that they are struggling for a period - they may become the best spouse ever
@@kate_fairchild_237 At times they are not calculating - they are just not done - Major thing to consider is their passion and love for Godly things - At times you need to let them know you know who they are then they will open up - it may be healing that follow - i have a lot of experience here - i need a lady to that will love God together
Satan is trying to defeat you through a distraction, either to disarm you or distract you!! Have discernment! Understand Satan’s bait and God’s blessing. Just because it looks good, doesn’t mean it is. Thank you Lord for protecting me🙏🏾
Sometimes when you're a pastor you have to be careful because satan can distract you and deceive you to think that you understand the biblical Grace that saves, which it's been led by the Holy Spirit, so that sin will not have dominion over us, so that we can resist temptation like Jesus, the enemy will caused us to write books to lead other people astray, as people always want to read man-made stuff, yet don't want to obey the Bible which is the first and most important
Jesus Christ
Thank you for Lord for Your protection!
Don't go swimming if you're bleeding
Well said!!!!!!❤
A discernment is a gift from god
Yes, but He gifts us all with it. Many learn through trauma to ignore it...comes with abuse. For me, I was hyper vigilent to it.......just turned against it in the early phase of my youth but never again after I never turned it down with a patient (I'm a nurse)
I wasn't seeking to meet someone, I was wholly focused on my calling and fully in love with the Lord. I was completely deceived, and ended up marrying this man and he was extremely abusive. A complete distraction from my call. I ignored my gut, and listened to other believers. I was a widow with 5 children and I guess they wanted me to be cared for. I never had peace about it, but I ignored my own feelings.
So sorry I hope you learnt a valuable lesson there Where you really focused on the lord though reading your word lead by the holy spirit and not your flesh?. Was he a follower of Jesus ? You ignored the holy spirit or your gut feelings. Yeah there will never be peace where God doesn't want you to be.
Don’t go swimming if you’re bleeding! This resonates with me deeply!
Avoid desperation and loneliness trust in God's timing
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I'm older than you but this is the best advice I never received. Young people please listen to Pastor Vlad.
Don’t just listen act on it 1:58
Sexual purity standard, Financial standard, faith/ value standard
My boyfriend is disabled he can't work.
If he has a relationship with God then the better @@PricelessJesus
Keep Your SPIRIT MAN PURE!!! YOUR Body IS THE TEMPLE OF GOD!!!
"Relationships are like mirrors, they magnify what you have" 🔥🔥 good word.
This happened to me literally within the last two weeks. I believe the enemy was trying to capitalize on me having neglected my walk with God. Fortunately it took less than two months of going out with this man to see things for what they were. God is too good to us, protecting us even from our own poor choices...
Ikkk same!
I’m going through this now we been dating for six months. Everything was good until he i saw him following sexual girls on social media and he actually pay cash app to view a profile. When I confronted him he just laugh and I’m overreacting WTH my heart hurts but I know I need to let him go!
@flyg74 oh girl! Let him go. If he's doing that now, it's only going to get worse the longer your together.
Walk away while you can. Jesus is a perfect companion. He will NEVER hurt your heart!!
@@lorrainesherman1660 thank you. I did dropped him a hot potato!
Wow! My friend sent this to me at perfect timing.. I ran into an ex from 10 years ago over the weekend and it was like I was immediately transported back to when I was a 21 year old. 😮 To make a long story short, I’ve done too much growing to let old flings rise back up again. This was so good!
I reconciled with old college boyfriend. Big mistake. He became a Satanist. For REAL.
Strong Sister 💪👏🧗♀️🏊♀️🏋️♀️🧖♀️😄💕
I got I got in a wrong relationship 😢 is been ten years…. Suffering the consequences …. God forgive me for not hearing Your voice 🙌
He will forgive you because He loves you 🌹
I’m in the same boat. Married for 8yr with kids to a non believer in Christ and it’s been hell. God loves you and he will forgive you. I pray and hope God gives you the strength to surpass it.
@@patriciachicco9763wow god bless
There’s an escape door for you
1. Single and ready to mingle in Gods perfect timing
Me too
Stay focused on God ❤
I feel like I was the distraction to my ex wife. Everything you’re saying is exactly was I was doing 😢I feel so bad for her and I feel like I wasted her time and a huge part of her life. God please forgive me for not growing up, for not respecting her boundaries, for being lustful during our marriage, for being neglectful, for not being there for her when she needed me. I was sent from hell and I know I was. I wasn’t close to God how was I supposed to be, I had baggage coming into the relationship, I wasn’t taking care of my child, I wasn’t mentally or spiritually ready for any type of commitment, I wasn’t financially ready for marriage. God I am so damn sorry for wasting her time. She is definitely a beautiful loving and caring soul. She is perfect. Please forgive me God for hurting your child 😢
Wow you're brave for admitting your mistake and being convicted by the holy spirit. The lord forgives I hope you're in a better place now and have a strong relationship with God your self and your child. God bless you.
I strongly belive that the Father forgave you in the Name Of Jesus Christ who died for our sins but only if u repent and change ur ways, focus on God do his willing and u shall be redempted. Start praying create a relationship with God by praying everyday and read the scriptures, that's available for everyone who's reading this comment and doesn't know how to start being closer to God. God bless you and im praying for you 🙏🏿 ❤️🩹💯
God will forgive you. Now stop cussing and preceding the curse word with God's name.
@@laurierose1293 I won’t judge this man he will eventually stop cussing the closer he gets to God… I know that and God knows it too.
I am 27 and this the first time I am making it a point to date wisely at a slow pace. Prior to my last relationship I sought counsel in our church to ensure that I wasnt walking into something that would hurt me. I was very open to objective feedback. The relationship was encouraged, and was probably the most damaging relationship Ive had. This Summer I have been talking to a man that has pursued me with intentionality, respect, patience, and grace with a focus on pleasing the Lord. We work very well together but are still very much ourselves. But as this pastor mentioned, every time I feel my heart become close to this gentleman, I enter a state of panic because Im so scared of being hurt and side-tracked again. Im scared of his words not being true like many of the other "Christians" Ive dated. He will be away this month, and said it would be a good opportunity to let things dissolve and hear from the Lord. I pray that I will no longer be in fear and believe that I am worthy of receiving a good thing that is from the Lord, but I will wait on His direction
Same thing happened to me. Met a guy that seemed too good to be true. And my friends and church seemed to like us getting to know each other. But I prayed A LOT during the situationship. I prayed so much because I kept not having peace. Anyways it all ended 2 months later. And the hurt I’m experiencing from it I can’t put to words. It’s been 3 months and I’m still hurt. Not as bad as in the beginning though.
I pray for your journey sis.
God be with you :)
@@hadassaheritage I’ve experienced a similar situation. Dated a guy that I go to church with. Received sooo much encouragement. The aftermath of the ending of the relationship has brought up so much old trauma wounds like rejection and public humiliation. Praying for you and all our sisters in Christ. God reminds us we are not alone in our experiences 🙏🏾 pray for me♥️
Wow the timing… currently going through this. 😮 I feel like I’ve always attracted the same kind of person. Different person same character and it always happens to be with a man who clearly doesn’t have good intentions. Narcissists or someone who just wants to take advantage. I pray and hope God brings me my man of God soon.
Connect to Prophetess Tiphani Montgomery,she is great at explaining and breaking covenants,also check out Rev James Solomon
Amennn
This is timely.Heavenly Father have mercy and thank you for delivering me from the trap of a relationship the enemy brought my way..I struggled,didn’t have peace,I was sad,I was stressed,I got so distracted,it was everything wrong but I love how God love me.He took me out with force!
I definitely can relate to this from 2019 til 2021 I went through what you mentioned with a counterfeit but thank God he rescued me.
Thank you, Jesus!!! Same with me.
In His love and jealousy He came for us and rescued us from a path that seemed right in the beginning but was only leading to destruction. Praise be to God for saving us by force 🙌🏽🙏🏽
@@KikiKea , amen!!!
Amen 🙏
Every single person needs to hear this.
I am healing and may God heal everyone's broken hearts, traumas and help us attract people who are good for us and equally we are good to them. Amen. 💗💖
Amen
There are not very many people the world anymore who are emotionally ready for relationship.
😢this is sooo very sad hey!
Truth hurts but we need to know all of this.
Good word Pastor. ❤
so painful
To add, broken people are also attracted to light. You could not be bleeding and still attract dark and broken individuals as sometimes they navigate to your healing. It's up to your discernment to repel and move on.
Hallelujah 🙌🏻!!!!! The daily jesus devotional has been a huge part of my transformation, God is good 🙌🏻🙌🏻. I was owing a loan of $49,000 to the bank for my son's brain surgery, Now I'm no longer in debt after I invested $11,000 and got my payout of $290,500 every month…God bless Mrs Susan Jane Christy ❤️
Hello how do you make such monthly??
I'm a born Christian and sometimes I feel so down🤦🏼of myself because of low finance but I still believe in God🙏.
She's a licensed broker here in the states🇺🇸 finance advisor.
Thanks to my co-worker (Alex) who suggested Ms Susan Jane Christy
After I raised up to 525k trading with her I bought a new House and a car here in the states 🇺🇸🇺🇸and also paid for my son's surgery (Oscar). Glory to God.shalom.
Can I also do it??? My life is facing lots of challenges lately
This teaching is the dad-voice I don’t have but need in my life. Thanks so much, Pastor V
If you loose your standards when you are with them, they are not Godsend. This video really touched me 😢, I watched it twice. While I’m in my late 20’s, I have getting guys since my early twenties that waist my time and energy that are not godly. Thank God for the message, he sent through you. 🙏🏾
They cannot hide themselves very long, it always comes out. 😂 takes about 2-5 months.. Wolves are very real.
God is the answer, love yourself allow God to love you. ❤🙏🏽❤
loneliness is also bad
@@bendevoice5877 it’s better than having a stick in your eye! 👁️
Pastor Vlad, you are so wise for someone so young. I pray God continue to bless you with wisdom and knowledge in spreading the gospel.
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I'm single but I'm ready to know me more and to get closer and focus on God 💗 Thank you 🙏🏽
Pastor Vlad you really 😢 blessed me with the prayer you did for single moms, for God to bring a man that will not only love me but my son too, like Joseph loved Jesus that was not his son, you opened my eyes on these, I never sow it these way, I am a single mom, I and my son we bless 🎉🎉
Do you believe in eternal security gospel
Wow perfect timing explains everything I just went thru in a unhealthy relationship I have ended the relationship I wish everyone could here this message
You're more likely to lack discernment when you're emotionally needy and desperated. So true!
This is very relatable, and I finally put my foot down in my last relationship as soon as the Red flags were raised high in the air. We dated 1 month, and it was a month of insane highs and lows.
This is so true, because I’ve been going through so much change in my life, that it’s messed with my headspace, and the women that have been drawn to me fit exactly what Vlad is describing in this video. I still include my recent exes in my prayers, hoping they find their way and change, even though they’re not apart of my life any longer.
Pray’n all the way from Central, NJ 🙏🏼
Invest as much in a relationship as you are willing to loose.
Low self image, turns to attract wrong relationship....don't go swimming while bleeding.... WOW!!
If I can't say no to something I don't feel comfortable about, I'm probably being deceived.
Gonna watch this on loop everytime I think about my toxic ex.
I always being in a wrong relationship, its our fault that we got distracted by evil . M in my recovering phase but m in spritual struggle please pray for the broken heart 😭
I have a friend who is experiencing. Right now she blocked me because she is an ex of mine but I am praying to God to help her turn away from the wrong relationship and seek God. Praying 🙏
it's oversimplification to say it's "our fault we got distracted" .....we act out of our subconsciousness from childhood wounds and traumas. Sin, yes, that our fault. Inherited sin and abuse, trauma, is not.
I’ve been there too many times. I understand your deep pain. Praying for you!!
Yes. I had a few horrific relationships because of unhealed childhood sexual abuse. Healed now! Freedom.
I am currently passing through the same state, it's hard. At times you just feel tired, you cry and wet your pillow. Just stay strong. You are not alone. There many people going through the same issues.
I’m watching all the way from Samoa🇼🇸 I’m married and i have 3boys. Please pray for my family my marriage and my kids🙏
and yourself too!
Thank you for this message! It’s everything I needed.
The church always focuses on marriage and neglects the singles, this was truly a blessing.
Everything you talked about in this video is the 💯 % truth I have fell victim to what you spoke about .May God bless you
For those who have never experienced all these things that he has mentioned in this video, please believe what he said. Everything is 100% true and I know this from my horrible experience. I wish someone had told me these words before. May Christ protect you all from evil people! ☦️💖
“Don’t go swimming if you are bleeding”
That one hits hard
Amen. Thanks for your prayer for single mothers that are praying for faithful decent husbands. Appteciate it.
Amen
A person with low self-esteem is a person bleeding. Thus, the person will attract the wrong people.
and funny thing is, I have a bleeding disorder......;) Also a hole in my broken heart.
and a person bleeding and as a Christian you are supppose to be the good samartitan, not the other men who left the scene
Avoid desperation and trust in God. You are more likely to lack decernment
Learn to say No to things you don't have peace about if not the devil will trap you
@miraclessite3522 when you hang out with people who are not living right or live by Jesus's Standards, you will get hurt, and the Bible says from such turn away. Because they will bring you down and the devil will try to kill, steal and destroy your well being through anyone who isn't filled with the Holy Spirit. If they don't live by Jesus, they are their own god and play by their own rules. That is not safe and is causing so much heartache. It's bad enough with followers of Christ who struggle, but real ones will repent, be sorry, try and try again to be better. Who is to say that a regular Samaritan will EVER put your well being before their own when they are not following any kind of statutes. Just picking from here and there and saying they are a good person. No. You will know them by their fruits. And from those with no Jesus, you must turn away to avoid getting hurt. Not to judge, but to protect yourself.
Cool video, My relationship of 6 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him
He is Fatherabulu has great powers, he can help you.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked he up now online. impressive
Jesus said call no man Father. 😂
After fasting and praying for revelation and a breakthrough, I stumble on this. Thank you Lord.
If you can’t say no to something that you don’t have peace about the enemy will distract you…
Pay attention to tension
I loved that one too!
Very good. No peace = not Gods will.
Not necessarily true. This is particularly difficult to discern if someone suffers anxiety and is typically an anxious person and an overthinker. I speak from experience.
I met my husband he did heal my broken heart from being abused “! And of course God and Jesus first
Amen ❤
Thank you for this. I’m dating a woman that was also abused and this video got me thinking we shouldn’t be together. I really care for this woman. Thanks for sharing.
@@anthonyfox6068 apply God's wisdom and let God guide your paths. Don't just leave without seeking God about it!
@@stacyhugues1806 I’ve been uneasy since watching this video. I think that means leave, even though I don’t want to.
@anthonyfox6068 please why reject an abused woman 😢😢 ? God isn't after a Mrs perfect. Just saying
Wish I'd seen this video 17yrs ago 😢 Would have saved me a lot of heartache. 11yrs bad marriage would have been avoided. Glad I've been single for nearly 7yrs & concentrating on God and myself 💯🙏❤️✝️🙏💯🤠🇦🇺
thats great of you
I wish this message came sooner, but I also asked the question, and this video is God's answer. He does answer if u ask the right question 😢
Single ready to mingle….never been married but just came out of a 20 year relationship she just left me out of nowhere and my heart is really broken please pray for me.
She waited 20 years for you to marry her, and you don't know why she's had enough? Really?
20 years of relationship and never got married..
@@marinamerveille7731 and already looking for another one...
@@Shaara1 I know I stuffed up….I just hope I get a second chance at it Ive been praying for it
Make sure it's God and not codependency.
Wow!! I am out of words!! I recently went through a hard time in my relationship....ai woke up crying today asking God why why??!!..with lots of questions in my mind asking God to give me an answer...few minutes later I fell on this podcast...I feel like it's clearly speaking to me!!❤️🙏🏽
You are super right Pastor Vlad, I have been in the wrong relationship with so emotionally attached. I repented and got out of it even so heart broken, Hurts and bleeding .
Exactly the same here,blessings for you sister❤
You spoke of great wisdom from beginning to end ❤🎉❤ that’s powerful 🎉
I’ve learnt a lot and thank God and you for this message and I’m glad I didn’t enter into the relationship I was about to because she wanted everything fast and I noticed it was lust she was craving for.
Your message is helpful ❤
Thank you Pastor." Invest as much into that relationship as you are willing to lose."
I'm grateful for this wisdom.I'm single ready to mingle.
A person whose low self image (with an inferiority complex or very poor self esteem)leads to attracting unhealthy relationship, thank you for this practical truth
I am healing now from past wrong relationship. All of what you've said Pastor Vlad are true.. Thank you for the enlightenment. Godless to your ministry.
I feel like i’m getting a talk from my dad. appreciate this word, Pastor!
I just finished the book Single and Ready to Mingle. It helped a lot and this is helping drive it all home even more. I really needed this.
1. Amen... Pray for me the enemy is distracting me with being lonely. I am single and ready to Mingle with the right Man of God. I need help with feeling lonely and desperate. Dating sites come up in my mind as a Intrusive thought. God please keep me from falling into the trap of the enemy.
I have a great relationship with the Lord. A man introduced himself to me at a mall & asked to go for a coffee some time. I gave him my phone number. I know the holy spirit warned me about him. He called. I didn’t answer. He didn’t wait for it to go to voicemail. I interpreted that as impatience. A month or so later i called him & asked him to meet for coffee. I had reservations about him. He wanted me to go on a trip with him right away. He was pushy. I thought my good behavior would be good for him & he would come to church. I suspected him of stealing from me. That should have been the deal breaker. I continued on. He was nothing but frustration all the way. No peace. I finally told him not to call me again. Thank God.
No peace is a red flag.. Especially if you were peaceful before him
Amen, this is a wonderful lesson for this day and age, when the church has just seemed to close their eyes to infidelity.
Yeah, infidelity is the worst. Simply manipulation..
Thankyou! Wonderful preaching and teaching. I would like all young women to listen to this! I also think all preachers should listen provide this wise counsel to all singles young and old.
Thank you, Jesus. I experienced it, and even though I saw those red flags, I tend to ignore it. I love him, but I don't have peace in my heart. Thank God for setting me free. I
Amen and Amen. I'm a single mom, I have been married for 15 years, and got saved during my divorce.
The devil will grab you if you are in pursuit someone who does not love you
I see sisters from Rwanda listening in and I am so happy. This message is very timely for me
single and waiting for a good godly man, I got baptised a month ago and Im 23.
1 Thank you for such a beautiful prayer I receive.
GOD blessed you with devine wisdom for you to know all of this Pastor Savchuk.
Thank you for this.
I have been celibate for a very, very long time because of my Christian principles.
I feel whole, free, happy, clean and most of all, very powerful in my walk with GOD.
I feel and see HIS protection, protecting me from the sharks.
It is not hurting me to WAIT.
Thank you, GOD bless you 🙏🏽
God Reading My Mail AGAIN! PERFECT TIMING! I've been praying trying to break off soul ties. So sick of it! Needed this!
10 years ago I married my soul tie….today I’m reaping what I sowed coz my wife doesn’t walk with the Lord, doesn’t have a relationship with the Lord. She has mounted up debt 3 times within our marriage each time I was told won’t happen again. Found out that there’s still massive amounts of debt. Before we were married she was involved in Church and reading the bible and walking with God but the last 4 years nothing
The first sentence. I can identify.
I feel your pain. Geez....
May the Lord restore🙏
Hmmmm😢, Enquire of the LORD , you are not meant to suffer till death . She may not be a cross like you think
I have my grandchildren, and God. Good enough for me❤
Awesome I needed this as a reminder. Glad I caught before venturing into a nother failed relationship
1. Single desire to be married
Satan is trying to defeat you with the distraction of a wrong relationship.
I wonder if people read the Bible and obey the way they run down other people's book because if we read the Bible and listen to what Jesus said where in the path of biblical Grace that is the power of the Holy Spirit in us where sin will not have dominion over us, and we have a spirit of discernment, wisdom, knowledge, insight,and understanding
Avoid desperation,
I had a boyfriend who was training to be a pastor but was recently divorced with his wife of almost 20 years. He said his therapist cleared him to have another relationship but he kept on complaining about his ex-wife. After a year I realized that our relationship was a rebound.
I totally agree on all the points... He lured me into showing him my body and giving him my virginity. 27:38 I should have listened to all the warnings my family and friends gave me. I wish he healed well before coming into my life, but I was too broken to see that.
I hate when men try to get women’s innocence especially when you had been faithful to keep it till older age. That’s just so evil. He stole something so precious from you, and not responsible for you. Just cruel and coward. It hurts me so bad seeing all the brokenness in this world
@@texan-psalm I am praying to talk to his mentor for him to be corrected or for God to avenge me on my behalf. Please pray for wisdom and healing.
@@texan-psalmbecause people does not understand the danger of sin, and it's because of one saved always saved or eternal security the doctrine of demons that is why so many people who claim to be Christians are falling into sin and think they're save the real Gospel of the Bible is a ministry of power supernatural Grace that strengthens the inner Man the human spirit and soul so that we can have dominion over sin that is the sinful nature, once we come to Jesus and confess each sin individually that a person is struggling with repent renew our mind by reading his word and obeying it no matter the cost it's tough it's a difficult road but it can be done with him so that we can be born again
@@chris-ib2lc yep I once was involved with that kind of teaching but if you read the Bible and spend time with God, you will have discernment to point out wrong teachers and prophets. I thank God for letting seeing the truth
Any man that is complaining about his wife in the long run will do the same to you.
Lord forgive me for ignoring the red flags, for allowing my boundaries to be bent in the name of giving people the benefit of the doubt. For falling for the honey. Now I'm emotionally attached because of all the future promises and destroyed. I am literally re-building my life. Thank you for the great advice for my future especially regarding emotions.
There are so many that will never get this healthy relationship because there are so few healthy available Christians
Thank YOU!… someone said it. Christians are messed up. Healthy available Christians are rare.
If you lose your standards when you are with them, they are not God sent.
Yes.
The timing of this 🙌🏽🎯
This has blessed me so much. Thank you brother Vlad!! Definitely going to buy that book.
Excellent, very helpful message for so many people. I have long thought a great place to head off divorce is to teach Bible wisdom to church singles. Although some will not listen, some will.
When I was young, a pastor just said to the singles, "Be content". That was not terribly helpful.
I really needed to hear this. Thank you. The Lord is not slow to fulfill his promises. I will wait upon the Lord for he is faithful and his gifts and promises are irrevocable. I will patiently wait.
Sir, God has answered what I've been asking for through your wise counsel. I finally realize everything I have been doing wrong in this life, and I only hope and pray that God will allow me to make and do better and to finally set godly boundaries for myself. I have failed miserably by having no boundaries, by not wanting to see the red flags, and for not heeding wise council from those who truly love me. Thank you for all the advice and humbly ask for your prayers.