The OP owes neither his mother nor his sister anything. The fact that he had to "be the man of the house" while his mother and sister did little to nothing but leech off of him is disgusting. The moment the mother thought her daughter "deserved all the inheritance" she proved she didn't care about her son. The sister has a "communications" degree..... She is NEVER going to get a real job, and that is the real tell. She will end up marrying a man just because he has money. The reality is that the grandmother (the mother's own mother) is completely against the rest of that side of the family proves that she is the only adult other than the OP
I agree, the OP doesn't owe his mother or sister anything. Its unfair that be had to shoulder all the responsibilities while they contributed little. The mother's decision to give all the inheritance to the sister shows a clear lack of care for her son. As for the sister, a communications degree doesn't mean she'll never get a real job, but replying on OP and not contributing is definitely wrong. The grandmother siding with OP speaks volumes about the family 's dynamics.
Op said the inheritance was from his father’s side so why did the grandmother on the mother’s side convince him to split the inheritance and not give it all to the sister.
@@ekta2220 No it was the dad side😅 but it's because the grandma already knew how her daughter was and how she treated her kids so she convinced him to not give everything to the sister and to equally split the money but I'm low-key confused on why the cousins didn't get nun😂
It sounds like the grandmother on the mother's side saw the unfairness in giving all the inheritance to the sister and wanted to make sure OP was treated fairly. It's good to see that at least someone in the family is looking out for him.
Treat others how you wanted to be treated. If your dead to your mother, then she's dead to you as well. The more you think of your mother about the Ifs and Why's, the more you'll put yourself into depression. Put your mother and sister, and the rest of your maternal family (except your grandmother) out of your mind. They'll only hold you back from moving forward. You know you are not in the wrong, they are. --- You are already successful with your dreams and life, so you make sure you have some recording devices on you, or your property in case of any unexpected confrontations with your family for any MO of getting money from you. Because from what I read so far (with your sister's threat), they are the type of people who will not own up to their mistakes and will force themselves and others into getting what they want. At least with those devices you will have good evidence against them.
You don't have to look for family your grandmother is family and the family that you built with friends and co-workers those are your family now your mother your sister sometimes that family that you're born with is in family they're just the people you grow up with and sometimes you have to let that go and I realize that's the hard part is letting the people that you have grown up with go but sometimes that's the only thing you can do and it's the best thing for you mentally so just remember families like fruit sometimes it's really good and ripe other times it's rotten to the Core
Scorched earth seems to have some merit. Corruption rot could very well be the foundation of cowardly spineless pride. That’s all I have. Just plain nasty.
Because her mother may not able to be her 'Piggy Bank' whom she could ask money whenever she wants but since OP have a cafe she thought she could live more comfortably
Find an apartment find a roommate that will split everything 50/50 that'll help with rent places to live that should help solve that problem and then do your coffee shop do you deserve it don't give any of that money to that greedy sister of yours and your mother go no contact with both of them after all they're doing nothing for you number one and number two all they're doing is trying to suck you down and they're not helping you as far as I can see they're harming you get out while you can and go for life you sound like a really awesome dude
Can you start posting more positive stories or ones that just aren’t about relationships, I’d like to hear “EMS workers- what are some crazy stories” type stuff, other than the overwhelming amount of cheating/betrayal stories, you’re doing a good job. It’s just not good for the mind to listen to stuff like that everyday.
@@tc9487 why would I do that when he can conform to a wider audience and gain more views. You want to see the downfall of inkspillers, I want to see him thrive with variety. No one should have people like you on their team, straight negative mindset.
@@Buuggss Do you agree that Steak restaurants should turn vegan? A channel has its audience that wants its content. Change the content and you lose your audience. Why should the regular audience move away to satisfy the selfishness of a single person? YOU should move on and away.
Despite everything, they are still my family. Sorry to anybody who says this. A family is like a crystal artifact, once broken it can never be brought back to its original state, no matter how hard you try. Those past bad memories will always linger and haunt in your thoughts, because you can never erase them no matter what. You can forgive, but you can never forget. Letting go of something or someone toxic, is the best course of action to change your life for the better. This is hard, I know, but it is harder to keep them in your life.
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The OP owes neither his mother nor his sister anything. The fact that he had to "be the man of the house" while his mother and sister did little to nothing but leech off of him is disgusting. The moment the mother thought her daughter "deserved all the inheritance" she proved she didn't care about her son.
The sister has a "communications" degree..... She is NEVER going to get a real job, and that is the real tell. She will end up marrying a man just because he has money. The reality is that the grandmother (the mother's own mother) is completely against the rest of that side of the family proves that she is the only adult other than the OP
I agree, the OP doesn't owe his mother or sister anything. Its unfair that be had to shoulder all the responsibilities while they contributed little. The mother's decision to give all the inheritance to the sister shows a clear lack of care for her son. As for the sister, a communications degree doesn't mean she'll never get a real job, but replying on OP and not contributing is definitely wrong. The grandmother siding with OP speaks volumes about the family 's dynamics.
Absolutely, his mother proving she didn't care about him by saying his sister "deserved all the inheritance" is beyond hurtful.
Both you and your Grandma are Blessed to have each other 🙏, be safe and well.
Op said the inheritance was from his father’s side so why did the grandmother on the mother’s side convince him to split the inheritance and not give it all to the sister.
No, the will was from his grandfather of his mother's side.
@@ekta2220 No it was the dad side😅 but it's because the grandma already knew how her daughter was and how she treated her kids so she convinced him to not give everything to the sister and to equally split the money but I'm low-key confused on why the cousins didn't get nun😂
It sounds like the grandmother on the mother's side saw the unfairness in giving all the inheritance to the sister and wanted to make sure OP was treated fairly. It's good to see that at least someone in the family is looking out for him.
@@TayTayB-xq1uqIt was probably their dad's share that was split between them.
These stories are a lot of imagination and or BS imo. Storytellers paradise.
Treat others how you wanted to be treated.
If your dead to your mother, then she's dead to you as well. The more you think of your mother about the Ifs and Why's, the more you'll put yourself into depression.
Put your mother and sister, and the rest of your maternal family (except your grandmother) out of your mind. They'll only hold you back from moving forward. You know you are not in the wrong, they are.
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You are already successful with your dreams and life, so you make sure you have some recording devices on you, or your property in case of any unexpected confrontations with your family for any MO of getting money from you. Because from what I read so far (with your sister's threat), they are the type of people who will not own up to their mistakes and will force themselves and others into getting what they want. At least with those devices you will have good evidence against them.
The mom said she only has one child now. Well, it wasn't that always the case with her? Op should have pointed that out to her.
the audacity of the sister! she already enjoyed her inheritance and now that she was in red numbers wants to take OP's
Better lock your credit.
Tell mom you'll give her the money if she gives you title to her house.
Mom doesn't have money she blew it all on spoiling her daughter.
These story are amazing you did the right choice the favouritism was too too much
Mom was inattentive,cruel and abusive.
Make sure you start recording whenever you're confronted by mom and sister.
I don't understand why OP would miss those people?
He was "conditioned" to believe they were his family.
Sound like mom was pretty ‘cruel and abusive’
“I don’t know what the future holds….” lol
Ikr
Blood don't make you Family Love and Loyalty Do
Don't go wasting your emotions, *lay all your love on me!*
You don't have to look for family your grandmother is family and the family that you built with friends and co-workers those are your family now your mother your sister sometimes that family that you're born with is in family they're just the people you grow up with and sometimes you have to let that go and I realize that's the hard part is letting the people that you have grown up with go but sometimes that's the only thing you can do and it's the best thing for you mentally so just remember families like fruit sometimes it's really good and ripe other times it's rotten to the Core
Scorched earth seems to have some merit. Corruption rot could very well be the foundation of cowardly spineless pride. That’s all I have. Just plain nasty.
Why didn’t sister move in with mother ?
Yeah, I'd also like to know?
Because her mother may not able to be her 'Piggy Bank' whom she could ask money whenever she wants but since OP have a cafe she thought she could live more comfortably
Sister wanted to live in a Viv city to better her job situation.
Find an apartment find a roommate that will split everything 50/50 that'll help with rent places to live that should help solve that problem and then do your coffee shop do you deserve it don't give any of that money to that greedy sister of yours and your mother go no contact with both of them after all they're doing nothing for you number one and number two all they're doing is trying to suck you down and they're not helping you as far as I can see they're harming you get out while you can and go for life you sound like a really awesome dude
Just because she didn't hit didn't mean she wasn't abusive.
Your mom WAS both CRUEL and ABUSIVE.
You're 28. Move. If you need to change areas, do it.
Can you start posting more positive stories or ones that just aren’t about relationships, I’d like to hear “EMS workers- what are some crazy stories” type stuff, other than the overwhelming amount of cheating/betrayal stories, you’re doing a good job. It’s just not good for the mind to listen to stuff like that everyday.
Don't listen to it then
Go find them and listen to them then.
@@tc9487 wasn’t talking to your bum ass
@@tc9487 why would I do that when he can conform to a wider audience and gain more views. You want to see the downfall of inkspillers, I want to see him thrive with variety. No one should have people like you on their team, straight negative mindset.
@@Buuggss Do you agree that Steak restaurants should turn vegan?
A channel has its audience that wants its content. Change the content and you lose your audience.
Why should the regular audience move away to satisfy the selfishness of a single person?
YOU should move on and away.
Despite everything, they are still my family. Sorry to anybody who says this. A family is like a crystal artifact, once broken it can never be brought back to its original state, no matter how hard you try. Those past bad memories will always linger and haunt in your thoughts, because you can never erase them no matter what. You can forgive, but you can never forget. Letting go of something or someone toxic, is the best course of action to change your life for the better. This is hard, I know, but it is harder to keep them in your life.
Reality gets blurred when hearts are involved. You need abs want love not reality.
No sympathy for doormats
COME ON YOU CAN DO IT
Sometimes u need to go NC with family
move out bro!
Love your vids keep it going
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Let me get this right: OP is the best one?
Beahahahaha
OP don’t be stupid, go to the police and get ahead of her bullshit.