Addressing a Parenting Double Standard

If you’re the kind of guy who would comment “I’ll never understand why dudes feel like they have to change who they are when they have a family” this one’s for you. The double standard here is egregious. #parenting #motherhood #fatherhood #marriage #fairplay #change #newparents

[@HTOP1982]

The reality is that you can NOT change. It's a choice to take on parenting.
There is much value in parenting, but for some men and some women, they cant see it. Shipping off the child to daycare as soon as possible so they become emotinally unattached. And yes this also affects women.
None of us will take our work titles with us, or academic accolades, and our kids will jot give a rats ass about that stuff...