Why Women Can't Take Criticism And Nobody Is Correcting Them
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I JUST had an argument with the wife telling her about her shitty behaviour. She immediately double down and said there is nothing wrong with her behaviour. I called her out “says who? You? Your single friends?” Suffice to say the convo didn’t go well and she’s been sleeping in the kids room for 2 days now. I never listen to her when she tells me to sleep on the couch. “Im not stopping you if you want to be away from me. The couch is great for angry women.”
Fk marriage
Lol, she knows you’re right.
@@Syzygy77 Her lawyer will tell her she is right.
How many bills are in her name?
......ex wife
They don't want help, they want confirmation of the decisions they have already made, whether formalized or not.
That is so sexist! Men don’t want help either and don’t like it when women call them out on their terrible behavior either. Why can’t men and women just be respectful towards one another? Please stop being sexist and disrespectful towards women. And women should be feminists, not femi-Nazis.
@@HeatherAngus-vj2jqmen are willing to die with their choices. Women are not which is the key difference. Weak men are more akin to women than regular healthy minded men.
Youre absolutely right. They dont want to learn from or take accountability of their mistakes and do better. They just want people to keep feeling sorry for them when they continuously make the same bad decisions and blame other people.
You just proved his point.@@HeatherAngus-vj2jq
I knew a gal who was very attractive and married to an old friend of mine. I hired her to work in my office (against my better judgment, I know) as a favor to him, as he was disabled and money was tight. She only lasted a few weeks, as she had apparently never taken orders before and felt perfectly entitled to conduct personal business on company time. She took it as a personal affront every time she heard the word “no”. She was so used to getting her way that she had a meltdown whenever she didn’t.
Later she divorced my friend and he died not long after that. A sad epilogue
a real human bean moment for sure
I feel bad for your friend, to be saddled with such a witch AND a disability. Dang.
lol it takes two to tango. You. Simp. Employed her. You said YES. lol not words. Actions. ..your actions
...damn
@@jmd3236 he said that. that was his point. did you even read what he wrote or are you just a 16 year-old kid learning about adulthood?
This is why therapist isbthe greatest job ever. Women will come back to you and because its impossible for them to listen to advice and change their behavior you will have a customer for life.
And I want you to know that here in Texas at the Psyche clinics, it's between 95 and 100 percent females in every waiting room on any business day.
But clearly, they’re the superior gender because a random shmoe in a talk show says so.
Therapy is fraud. Only women fall for that scam long term.
@@user-co8uy5rb2s because the men are in jail.
@@donaldgminski8621 Way too many men are in jail, many on false accusations by females.
I always feel like, when the podcasts ask "Rate yourself 1 to 10", what the girls hear is "Tell us a number that represents how happy you want to feel about yourself." (or, in practice, it's just "everybody say the number 10").
They put value on how you think they think about themselves. They don’t judge things objectively, they like confident men because they trust the confident men’s judgment of himself. They view it as “If I said I was a 5, you would think I think I have low or mid value on myself” They put value on how you view them because they put value on how you view yourself, so they assume or instinctively do the same. They always use men as a guidance system with everything in life.
You guys missed something with the final sentence, women can fully understand the male version, she can tell you why the stripper is treating you well, but she can’t for the life of her understand why men treat her well.
That is a really good point. There have been some very insightful behavioural studies of men and women that show things like men are more honest and accurate when describing their dating / potential partner preferences than women - hence the BS that women place less value on appearance than men - actually they're about equal but women lie about it. Interestingly, when women were asked about the preferences of OTHER women, they were far more accurate and truthful.
You’re witnessing a woman lie to you in real time about the nature of her value.
Like you REALLY think she doesn’t know why men like her…..? Do you really believe that…..?
@Darth_Bateman It’s sad to say, but I truly believe they don’t know. Self reflection and logical thinking are not things that women excel at. I truly believe that the vast majority of women can’t see basic things like that.
Imagine knowing that the main reason for why everyone treats you well is because you're hot or they want to fuck you.
It's not bad since you get status, attention and sex, but it's not very pleasant either. Some women simply believe they're personality is amazing, they lie to themselves.
At least that's what I've seem
Women understand everything just like we do. The feign ignorance with everything and use lies and manipulation to get their way, on mass. Learn this now.
The thing about the women thinking we care about there degrees is so true. Ive tried to explain to women that us men couldnt care less about the degrees. In fact I prefer them to have NO degrees at all because the ones who have them think they know everything.
And they get the same degrees, such as English, Business Management, Marketing, Psychology, ect.
@@CobraR1993 Hive mind in action. Women love credentials they really think it makes them an expert on something.
Exactly we don't care. From an evolutionary standpoint why would we lol. It doesn't benefit us at all. They still expect us to provide regardless
Their *
Stay away from any social science degree unless you want to hear about the patriarchy
I don’t waste time giving good advice to women. Instead I give them blatantly terrible advice (that borders on sarcasm) and when they pick up on it, usually they become incredulous that I would dare suggest they take the bad advice.
Thanks, I needed to hear this. My autistic ass tried to do this and she of course freaked out. I keep forgetting, just don't play. Let them live their lives. Just don't put people who can't hear constructive criticism in positions of power 😂😂😂. This is also why men shouldn't have primary female friends. You need people who don't need to be in perpetual happiness.
Can you believe we almost a Hilary Clinton president? The worst woman on earth when it comes to criticism. 😂
I wish this wasn't true. I had a fight with my wife who is mormon and is all of a sudden ready to fight me for divorce and charging me with domestic violence for "making her feel small"
By perpetual hapinnes you
Mean misery??
@@Syzygy77
Glad she didnt become
President & make men
Cocubines.
'Perpetual happiness'...very well put. Women have been dopamined into the delusion that theyre supposed to be constantly jumping for joy.
They typically don’t focus on the criticism, they focus on source of the criticism and bombard it with aspersions. I periodically check a certain f-ist circle online, and the responses are around throwing around labels, denial and misdirection.
grown kids
They’re tactical rather than strategic
I wrote a comment on why nobody takes male grape victims seriously and asked them : “how do people respond when they see a guy getting bullied by a bigger guy?”
One of the sentences out of many was “do girls even care?”
Guess which one they focused on….
"How do you rate women so well?"
"Well, I think of a man, and take away reason and accountability."
Best line ever. Except I think it’s “write” not rate.
@@WestcoastrocksduhHahahahaha!!! Lived my whole life thinking it was rate. 😂 I'm not even going to fix it because I'm such a dork. Thanks for that! But, yes, best line ever.
@@Westcoastrocksduh -great movie
Great scene too, with the receptionist fawning over Jack's character, and he just delivers the line whilst getting into an elevator before the door closes. Bam.... Red pill truth. @@aaronhhill
Write*
I have to remind my wife regularly that corrections and criticisms are not negative. She completely shuts down any time I critique her in any way and we have to reset and talk about it and come back to it days later. It's the most frustrating thing ever when she's making mistakes that are glaring to me but she won't just listen and correct it instead of being absolutely captivated by her feelings in the moment, and she's a Doctor. Women just need to learn to talk to men and stop shutting down.
I had something similar. I won’t go into personal details but a female member of my family was in the middle of making a huge mistake, which would have seriously affected our family had it have been allowed to continue. She did this out of fear, which lead to anger at her helplessness ( cause she had to rely on someone else with greater knowledge of the situation to solve the problem) which lead to hatred of innocent parties.
Her husband is a wet sock who can’t fight back against her and her female friends are too exhausted by her to fight back, so I did it.
I tried to find her logic and she walked away, so I followed her. She locked the door behind me, so I found a key and unlocked it and spoke to her. I never raised my voice, and never swore at her, even though she did to me. It took around half hour and I admit I ended up treating her like a child at times despite her being well into her 50th year.
It wasn’t until I point blank refused to help her, then prevented her from continuing her mistake, then stubbornly stood in her metaphorical way until she slowly let slip her fear. Once u grasped at those, she u ravelled and within 5 minutes I had her happy, relieved and perfectly compliant. The mistake was averted and the overalll issue was solved the next day,
For me, this is why women can’t take criticism: a lot of their logic is based on emotion, be it fear leading to rage, or elation blinding them from facts, I find that it is simply a fact that most women I have ever met quote-unquote “run on emotion”. That doesn’t mean they’re illogical, just that their logic derives FROM their emotions.
It wasn’t “I can’t do anything, but this person can. I’ll stand back and let them deal with it” it was “I can’t do anything. I feel trapped. I feel helpless. I need to do something.” Often this comes from women trying to talk over masculine roles. I said that her husband was a wet sock and that’s the issue: if he had control of the situation it would’ve been “I’ll deal with it honey”, “thanks dear” but instead she felt the burden and when women feel the burden, they often crack because their not taught to be logical from an early age. They’re taught emotions; they’re taught that what matters is how they feel and what they think. Boys are taught “you’re fat, get in shape. You’re weak, get stronger. You don’t know this. Learn it or no woman will want you”. Girls by comparison are moddycoddled, because of simple logic, they start from emotion almost all the time (at least from my experience).
That’s why women can’t accept criticism, and why no one corrects them: because no one corrects girls. They let them believe whatever they want and incorrect thoughts are gently nudged by their friend group. Sometimes, you don’t have time to spend weeks slowly turning a ship from a cliff. Sometimes you need to full astern, which often relies on someone saying “I’m not helping you; I’m stopping you before you screw this up for everyone”. I would wager very very few girls ever experience such a harsh denial, phrased in that way.
So, girls who don’t face direct criticism, only back handed compliments and two-faced greetings, grow to women who can’t take criticism and see two faced back-handed insults from everywhere.
It comes from how we)re raised and our biology.
From an early age, girls are taught to express, while boys are taught to supress.
I think it's more nature versus nurture....
@@fpanadero2626 Maybe it's nurture that builds on nature and exaggerates behaviours and traits that would be there anyway to some degree. That nurture can also push a mindset that discourages awareness and recognition by women of their own harmful instincts or reactions, as well as criticising or outright dismissing strategies for coping with the negative aspects of a woman's nature in order to prevent it harming herself and those around her.
A lot of wisdom, here. I would add an addendum to improve your overall point.
It’s not that “no one corrects women.” Men try. And they fail usually because they are either too aggressive, or too weak.
A man can be too aggressive physically, or acts out of his anger with shouting, ridicule, or outright malevolence. Or, he acts hurt when she lashes out, shrinks back, or runs away.
She is like a bunch of static electricity looking for a grounding. And the more a man tries to answer the question, “How can I be a rocksteady grounding for this woman?” the more he will become a man that women genuinely love and respect.
@@robhulson
Even if a man is reasonable
Women still wont listen
Because they are brainwashed.
Women are told by their own mothers and grandmothers that it is completely okay to go out, looking for an octogenarian millionaire to marry so that he can die and pass her all of the riches. What is the male equivalent to this?
They’re also told by mother that not having kids is better.
While they also vote to make it nearly impossible for men to become millionaires and give women all the best jobs through affirmative action...
Any Asian or Eastern Europe etc footage you will have the mother pushing and taking part in the grift with the teen or 20 something duaghter . Usually the mother is the one cooking for the man and her duaghter and BOTH have dollar signs in there eyes.. think how disgusting that shit is. I had 3 kids withna Spanish girl virgin teenager are first kid she was the youngest of 3 the eldest was still a virgin wen we had a kid and started a family she was jealous as hell. And was the duaghter that was expected to bring home the millionaire englishmen. Anyway she got lucky at Moroni radar and bagged a missile engineer ex sir force nuke missile engineer type KEVIN i was already part of the family being the youngest duaghtrs man and we had are son. I would watch the rile play of the mother and the sister entertaining this man fuuuking hilarious 😂😂😂😂
find a hot girl with daddy issues and be a complete pr1ck to them., over and over when they keep coming back.
The male equivalent is a guy that runs a fraudulent tinder, where he lies about his height, weight, income, status, net worth, etc. He says and does whatever it takes to convince women to sleep with him, but then bounces when he is finished with them.
There was also a man that used women to get free food by not bringing his wallet or whatever, and he got his shit pushed in by the police.
It took me a bit to figure out what his sweater says: "Nakatomi Plaza". He believes that Die Hard is a Christmas movie! I knew he was a smart guy.
Yippie kay-ay cowboy!
Die Hard is a Christmas movie lol
Alan Rickman was great, as the villain Hans Gruber.
Die Hard...IS a Christmas movie...Hans
Yes, my favorite, feel good Christmas movie.
Aaron: "The girl of every woman is to have Ryan Gosselin"
Women: "Ryan is mid".
I remember when The Notebook came out, women were saying Ryan was the hottest man in Hollywood. Now I see women online saying he's mid. What happened?
@@virgilhawkins7368 What happened to make KEN "mid"? Tinder. Women's expectations are based on the type of filtered men their filtered photos can attract.
@@virgilhawkins7368 their entitlement is through the roof
@@virgilhawkins7368that was 20 years ago…
I've heard two explanations for that.
The first is ego affirmation, 'I'm a 10 and so if I call him mid then that means that I'm on his level or above him.'
The second is just female visibility. Of the men they can perceive as human, he is middle of the road.
Women: "men don't listen to me"
also women: "we don't listen to you, we know better"
correcting women is like driving a truck with 2 tires...pointless🤷♂
I don't even bother anymore.
When people accuse me of being misogynist for believing women shouldn't lead? See this video. Perfect explanation.
👌
They shouldn't be allowed to make decisions
This is the way to sort through keepers vs sleepers. If she can't deal w/the truth, she's not a keeper...
3:43 In the dystopia of Bladerunner 2049, even Ryan Gosling can’t get a real girlfriend.
and he fared considerably better with ‘joi’ than with ‘luv’, indeed. to explore this further, the pinkish counter in gosling’s recent movie was obviously a replicant either, maybe new but not advanced in model.
Wow that used car salesman was so nice to me when I walked into his business. I wonder why?!?!😂
I ask divorcees what they decided to no longer do for their husband, and are willing to do for another man, and I'm a man and most likely want the same things your EX wanted.
This is why arguing with vvomen is one of the biggest wastes of time in existance. They rarely learn or listen because they dont live in a reality of accountability. Just leave them to their own misery and only deal with the ones who follow your lead.
Imagine the shock to a hot woman's ego if they accepted that their status is based on looks and not their looks. That would require a whole rethink of their model of the world and essentially obliterate their ego. We're starting to see this happening in older millennial women, and they're miserable and hopeless.
NO, NOT a Perfect Mental state. A Perfect Emotional state!
Not taking criticism is the core of narcissism.
Which begs the question, are women innately more narcissistic than men?
Cappy's "perfect mental state" is basically the fantastical delusion takes priority over anything. Those contrary to this are either attacked or ignored. Men could never afford this way of thinking. Those that do wouldn't survive.
I loved your conversation. The prettier the woman, the more leeway she is granted, and no one calls them out.
And when you do call them out, they are master manipulators.
I feel bad for the women that do a good job and can take constructive criticism, although rare.
As a man, can you imagine trying to "explain away" your poor decisions, actions, behavior?
I also love the fact that women do not want a female boss, because that female boss will call them out and openly criticize them.
Bro, they are not master manipulators….. the whole thing about their ability to manipulate you stems from when you want something from them.
Take that away, and their skills are trash from the same low tier playbook.
:) And yet woman of the year is a man. I'd say women play the long game better and pretend to be dumb, while men sit in their own echo chamber/egos and tell themselves they're smarter. Testosterone has already be halved. 75% of IVF is for girls. Men are now wanting robots. Totally leaving real women alone while waiting to install a much stronger robot doll that can be controlled by remote. All the while men thinking they're the smart ones......lol!! :) @@Darth_Bateman
ThIs is why Western men NEED to become Passport Brothers.
I've been a passport bro for the past 10 years and love it
@suntzu94 Good for you bro, you confirmed why dating on the West is rigged against men.
We need to invent a new scale to measure delusion and we're going to need to make it logarithmic so both men and women can be seen on the same frame.
Hoe_math
I loved that last bit about a guy would look stupid for thinking the stripper giving him a lap dance loves him 😂
Yet it does happen. The difference between men and women is that other guys don't try to convince him he is right.
The need to maintain the Perfect Mental State is a product of how high in trait neuroticism they are. They compensate for their sensitivity to negative emotions by trying to avoid negative emotions at almost all times.
Exactly!!! Truth!!
4:27 Aaron , You nailed it here. They just go back to Ignoring it 🙆🏻♂️
they do get punished for their mistakes but no one has them reflect on the punishment. they just get coddled more by morons because they are children. if we dont correct them and stop protecting them, the dating market will never improve. not that i had hope to begin with im just saying.
They do reflect once their looks fade and age out
the internet gave women an echo chamber of bad decision confirmation..
RIP Earf.
the worst thing is when you try to correct a chick and then she just starts hating you and never wanting to fuck u if u tell her the truth instead of just lying
But most don’t want to fuck you anyway so why not correct them ?
Wasn't there a chick pop song the said: "Tell me lies sweet little lies...tell me, tell me lies"?
It's a lot like the child athletes who have had everyone around them telling them how great they are under all circumstances. When they do face tougher times, they aren't prepared to deal with it. Just as it's doing those children any favors for their future, it's not ultimately healthy or in their long term best interests for women.
If women keep living like this it's not going to end well for them. You literally can not tell women anything.
Where did all of the good WALLET'S go ? Divorced gals over age 35 with 2 pups in toe NOBODY is coming 2 save you EVER. Now git back2work.
Tow*
Or… she could git back to twerk!
Best advice I ever heard way back when I was young and horny. "Find em, Feel em, Fuck em, Forget em". 3 marraiges and divorces later, I wish to hell I had listened.
"When men do things wrong, there's a punishment for us." You hit it on the head. So unfair it's ridiculous
I majored in film studies and minor in Journalism because I wanted to. I made some money as a film critic for a few years. When I realized it wasn't enough I went and got a Masters in Social Work because I had to.
Perfect mental state is actually genius.
There is no such thing as "constructive criticism". There is only criticism and what the individual does with it makes it constructive or not... If they take the information and use it to help or better themself then it becomes "constructive".😂
Constructive criticism is a healthy framing of dealing with an alternative perspective.
The difference is in the motive and method of the one offering the criticism.
Criticism: Telling me what’s wrong.
Constructive criticism: Proceeds to show or explain how to do it right.
@@damianholmes3049 i like that. Ok ok. Ill add that to my thinking.
Graduated in engineering after my military service, spent 4 years trying to convince my sister not to do a useless degree... she did it anyway.
This works (if you want to give a woman constructive criticism). Tell them “here’s a hypothetical example of a man that has this issue of…” and then add “wouldn’t it seem like he would consider…”
Making it about a man needing to fix his shit they can focus on the issue and means to finding a solution without going bat shit crazy.
This is why we have so many Karen’s in the world.
Anyone else see the Dallas Cowboys season finale last night?
Most women can't be accountable because they've been told how important they are because of feminism and stuff so they see themselves as upper tier men are lower tier so how can they tell women anything
My gf is like this and it causes problems if i say one thing about her being rude or mean she comes back with a list of things for me to reflect on instead of actually hearing my side
Me: "Statistically speaking..."
Her: "That's not true...I know someone..."
These women are what happens when every girl is raised like Angelica Pickles.
Yes... They vote on who will rule your life, too...
easy answer = fatherless behavior
Oooo. Careful guys. Simps and feminists are gonna freak out for hearing the truth😂😂😂😂.
Calling it constructive criticism is kind of a copout. It sounds better than "you need to change" and that sounds better than not meeting a standard and correcting with incentives and punishment. That's what it is.
In the big picture, Western society has been taking this apart for a long time, because we just see it as aggression against the defenseless and oppression, and I guarantee any woman watching this is going to translate constructive criticism into oppression. They aren't wrong. The problem with that is, most punishment in the past has been geared towards modifying personal behavior to make it to where other people don't have to take care of you all the time or fix your mistakes. It's not all sociopathy or dehumanization: people are held to a standard because we need it, because without it, shit doesn't work right.
And you can't hold a standard, you can't enforce expectations, unless you have some actual authority. We need to be careful about how we talk about this, but the bare fact is that men have no leverage. This is a power game, and it always has been.
Dating isnt worth it these days in the West!
Go to Afghanistan.
Or anywhere, they are all a lost cause.
Why try to understand girls, when you can watch a 24-minute documentary to educate yourself instead without leaving the house.
The older I get, the more I realize that women and marriage is just not worth it.
The disrespect to cappy in this thumbnail 😂😂
Modern western women… avoid them like the plague.
"That's not me!" That's right but it's gonna be. 😂😂😂😂 we will laugh. 😂😂😂😂
It’s not only attractiveness. As a species we tend to naturally be more forgiving and accommodating to women - which makes sense from an evolutionary perspective since they were the fragile child bearers while men are disposable
Im not like that at all lol.
Modern women aren't the issue, modern soft men with no backbone are - Casey Zander
#Truth That why they get so pissed off as they age. Reality that everyone else experiences from birth finally starts to catch up with them.
Women have been told they are only worth something when they are young and beautiful. For thousands of years.
Reality and don't get along very well.
@CordeliaWagner1999 Men have been told that they are worthless from birth unless they provide and protect for others.
feels bad = avoid
Okay, fine. I will watch the whole episode.
USMC Mustang retired here. How does one contact Michael Sartain?
You get more chicks by being honest, that's the irony of it all.
So true.
What you are explaining is simp factor 101.
6:26 - 6:44 Lmaoooo 😂
Three words you will NEVER hear a woman say: "I messed up"
🤣💀🤣
Really? I own up to mistakes, oversights and wrong decisions all the time. Age and experience shows it’s the best response irrespective of whether you are a mam or a woman.
Perfect Mental State….PMS.
Y'know, I _do_ care about her degree. I used to not care about her job. Now that I'm making money though? She has to make more than me. Only way to fend off the diggers.
2:53 The perfect mental state.
“Perfect Mental State” - PMS… coincidence? 🤔
no body likes criticism of any kind even if they claim otherwise. that includes both men and women. some people don't like any type of criticism and go crazy even if you do it very gently because it is their personality to begin with. some people will take certain amount of criticism but if they are criticized all the time they will eventually get angry and that is normal. my guess is you are the type of guy who can smile through everything because you don't care about anyone's opinion. now that can be a good trait because one needs to stay true to oneself. but someone who thinks he is always right and is very confident of their opinions even if they make no sense is usually stupid. and someone smart will more often question ones own choices or opinions. now that type of person will generally take constructive criticism pretty well at first. but if he is criticized all the time he is more likely to get defensive because in back of his mind he will be wondering if all of it could be true even if it is not or mostly not true. also what one person calls constructive criticism other will not it depends on the individual and individual case. if someone criticized me because I question their idea of christian values or on the other side someone criticized me because despite that I do believe that there is more to life than just what we see I would be annoyed by that and think they are idiots and neither of them would be giving me constructive criticism. just being stupid. similarly if someone would criticism me because I believe in global warming and believe that killing sharks for their fins to make fin sup is something that should be highly illegal I would also think they are idiots and the more they would criticize me the more I would criticize them.
Men take criticism far better than women
there are some men I know who do nothing but tell women what is wrong with them day in and day out - as if they are perfect -
@@RawOlympia there are man like that but there are also women like that. what kind of person someone is has very little to do with what gender they are. yes on average men tend to be more violent while women are more manipulative. but even that is not always the case. also like I said no one really likes to be criticized even if they pretend its cool. some people don't like it because of their insecurity some don't like it because their ego gets bruised. some because of both of those reasons.
thee are few people who are both secure but don't have that big of an ego and will take criticism pretty well. but only constructive criticism. absolutely no one likes to be criticized just because. and someone who seems to be ok with it does it because they are either afraid or they have something to gain so they take it until they have to and then once they get what they want the simply remove themselves from the situation.
@@bartangel4867 Thnx, of course women can be godawful. What I am addressing is walking home in the evening ~ or even the daylight, I keep seeing daytime murders of men jumping out of bushes and murdering people, women and elderly men - in public places. We have that with joggers here, jogging is damn dangerous, men cruise around bus stops, jogging areas, rest areas, there are predatory men all over, shopping mall parking lots, they will slow down if you are out walking the dog, etc. men have to be careful in a relationship. Women have to be careful the minute they leave the house. You can never let your guard down. Men, not addressing this issue, where women cannot walk the streets they pay for with taxes, at any city or town in this nation at night, or even during the day because, men. They are ready to throw us onto subway tracks, rape us at knife point, break into our homes, some even become famous, Bundy, BTK, Jack the Ripper, Hillside Strangler, some even go after boys. It is hell living as a woman in such a world. It is being in a prison or being the victim of a male perpetrated crime. Men do not walk around at night terrified that a woman is going to abduct them and end their life. It's time to not be intellectually dishonest.
How can women change is they never have to be accountable for their poor behavior.
That's why the vast majority of people in jails are men?
The list gets longer and longer by the day
There are certain things you can do which will get through to people, even many tough cases.
The first thing to know how to do, that anyone who wants to influence others positively should know how to do, is tell a story. An exemplary story is preferable, but a cautionary tale is also useful. When you tell a story, you don't have to tell someone directly how to think or what to do. You give them a space to interpret the story for themselves, perhaps even thinking about it from different angles, or letting it sink into their subconscious
In fact, they don't even have to understand what the point of the story is, for it to have an effect on them.
One book I highly recommend on the subject is "My Voice Will Go With You: The teaching tales of Dr. Milton Erickson" by Sidney Rosen. It's a beautiful book, and just about anyone will gain something from it
The other thing I'll mention, which can be a kind of last resort, is "naming the dynamic". This is mentioned in "Difficult Conversations: How to talk about what matters most" by Stone, Patton and Heen. In the book it describes telling someone what normally happens when you try to confront them about their behaviour, or about how your interact together, thus, hopefully, making it conscious so it can be discussed.
However, I also like to not just name the dynamic, but "name the game". For example, I'm asking someone a question, and I've phrased it in two ways. They say to me "I just don't understand the question..." I might say "Okay, so here the game is that you pretend to not understand me, and that way you think you'll be excused from answering the question, or you won't even have to think about it."
Sometimes people will cycle through several games as you do this, and if you're astute you can name every one. After about the fifth one, they might relent and decide it's time to be honest in some form. If it takes more than five, it might be time to consider how much energy you want to spend on this person.
However, as Dr. Erickson said, there's no such thing as a resistant patient, only an inflexible therapist. If you want to get through to a person, it's important to adapt your approach and see what will get through.
Can't Hurt Me 👌✨️
Brilliant
Stop interrupting your guests.
Cappy is looking younger.
Why did men allow this
The problem with women goes back to The Garden of Eden...
Gosling IS average
Ignorance is a bliss right hahah.. Yeah above average people with their “pretty privileges”..
It’s funny to get a glimpse in their world like I’m an average dude and I have this drop dead gorgeous cosplay friend I hang out with during conventions.. The amount of things / offers / words of affirmations she get from bystanders (especially men) is crazy! And most of the time she’s oblivious and also she is like ‘wooow, did you see that , that kind guy gave this, or let me through the line etcetc’ or even sometimes like ‘yoo dude you came by bus? A “friend” of mine drove hour extra to pick me up.. how nice!’ errhh yeah.. Not sus at all right haha! Even had some dudes questioning me about how I know her and what I’m to her like duuude.. She is already taken and please don’t see me as a competitor (been there done that ;p, she was too chaotic and ofc had too many suitors ahah.. ) but yeah it’s a whole another level of livin through the world.
Stop thinking about it already damn.
VVomen can’t take criticism and no one corrects them for the same reason…they’re vvomen.
What is a woman going to do, listen?
Women really don't understand the male sex drive. Inwas intrigued by a study of women who transitioned through hormone therapy and their reactions to the increased sex drive. Its hilarious. I like the perfect mental state hypothesis.
?? Statistics cover everyone? That's a dumb thing to say.
Coaching men explains alot
Shiiiii, I don't even wanna fuck em' (most days) I just don't wanna get locked up!
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He has a shirt with the text "Nakatomi"
Not sure about it, but Nakatomi is a dutch Happy Hardcore Act from the 90's, famous for a few hits, but mostly because the track: FREE
It's about being free. It's either the girl that ditched you and gave the excuse she just wants to be free .... or... the way I like it... FREE... like no marriage, no contracts! :D
Nakatomi Plaza is the setting of Die Hard . It's the Christmas movie of choice for us Generation X-ers
Nakatomi Plaza was a fictional locale in the movie, "Die Hard"; it is actually Fox Plaza, in the Century City area of Los Angeles.
Bro has never seen Die Hard.
I can't believe they let your kind in here.
@@oldscratch3535 Die Hard was in 1988. I remember it vaguely. I was a kid. I stopped watching tv when I was 15. Not much later I also stopped watching Hollywood movies, because both are $#%.
I can't believe there are still people around who are obsessed with TV and Hollywood.
....and they allow this kind in here?
@@YATESA8don’t be an ass. See how old the guy is. Of course he still likes a film that was likely a key entertainment point in his life. Talk about women not being able to take criticism but you’ve been made to look silly by making a dumb comment and you are doubling down and flinging mud at a massive group of people just because you feel a bit embarrassed. Yikes
Richards Dawkins book. What an “L” Michael.
coming soon a women that wants a man that can FLY no not with a plane real FLYING like SUPER MAN !
Mel Gibson, still hot.