Is Our Marriage Going To Last?

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 14 ก.พ. 2023
  • We are slipping and sliding into this week with a classic Mayhem Memory from Shane’s childhood. Also, in the spirit of this week’s holiday, we are taking a Marriage Health Quiz….how will we do? Finally, we answer some of your sizzling questions!
    For transcripts of this week's podcast click below: www.dropbox.com/s/73sjbdegghk...
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ความคิดเห็น • 573

  • @haynesatteh4463
    @haynesatteh4463 ปีที่แล้ว +418

    Just glad to see them happy together, my relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, Really love her so much, i can’t stop thinking about her. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life but to no avail, I’m frustrated because i literally can't envision my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her..

    • @ddirtdid
      @ddirtdid ปีที่แล้ว +10

      your feelings are understandable, It's always difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation when my wife of 12 years left me, i couldn't just let her go. I did all I could to get her back, I had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back.

    • @haynesatteh4463
      @haynesatteh4463 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ddirtdid Wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?

    • @ddirtdid
      @ddirtdid ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@haynesatteh4463 her name is MONICA ERLENE MORA, and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as a caster and healer

    • @haynesatteh4463
      @haynesatteh4463 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ddirtdid Thank you for this valuable information, I just looked her up online. impressive.

    • @Ironhart
      @Ironhart ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You got this!!! And you don’t need her!!!! Time will take this away. And In time you will meet the right one!

  • @rachelcreel1163
    @rachelcreel1163 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    Never ceases to amaze me how many times Shane has almost died from something completely unrelated to his condition. Lol. His childhood was so exciting!

  • @nicolemh
    @nicolemh ปีที่แล้ว +175

    I am a parent of two. I am the primary parent. I do most of the taking care of because my husband works long hours, I also do all the appointments all the extracurricular activities and anything else my boys might need. The fact that Shane would be able to help with the mental load of having a child is help! if my husband had the time to make appointments or do paperwork that would be tremendously helpful! I think people need to understand that raising a child is more than just the physical acts of raising a child. And my children are young four and two.

    • @spikedchair7123
      @spikedchair7123 ปีที่แล้ว

      Shane Burkaw can't raise a baby or foster or adopted , he can't even take care of himself .
      He's a baby himself.

    • @hernameispekka_Rebecca
      @hernameispekka_Rebecca ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Very much this. The meal planning, shopping list, buy new shoes, make sure the neighbours birthday party is not the same day as the swim meet etc. The traditional "womans housework" that always is minimized. This is an extension of that. The part when the child is a baby is just a part of having a child.

    • @3roachkidsdhe
      @3roachkidsdhe ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Totally agree all of this stuff is on me while my husband usually works long hours and doesn’t have the time for any of this. I have three kids and I home school one with learning disabilities. I make appointments, make conferences and speak with the teachers, volunteer at the school, plan all of there activities, plan our budget, do most of the cleaning. I don’t think my husbands ever fine laundry. I do all the food shopping. I get any school supplies or clothes they need. Organize play dates and birthday parties. My husband says it’s not fair that he’s the only one who has to work which really upsets me because all of this falls on me due to the fact his job is so consuming. He also frequently travels within the state. I set up all the appointments for my learning disabled so who had tutors and therapists come to the house. But he is upset that I don’t do anything meanwhile I am exhausted and he wonders why I never want to go out. Oh, and I get up early to drive the kids to school snd I pick them up. He will only get up if I beg him to if I am super tired. All that stuff will be a big help

    • @clboymom9467
      @clboymom9467 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes!!

    • @redinabloogs8477
      @redinabloogs8477 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @3 Roach Kids DHE Sweetheart I hear you..I really do...but one statement u said alarmed me...ur too tired to go out with your husband...I know it's hard But find a way to go out with your husband..it's very important..find a way . I know it's not what u want to hear right now, but u need to keep that connection alive with you and your husband. I understand u are exhausted...cut back on some of these things you are doing. I was a single parent to my kids..it only gets harder on ur own. So nature, you're relationship with ur husband, spend time reaffirming ur love for each other. I think u will find that his attitude will improve significantly. GOOD LUCK 👍 I hope this advice helps and doesn't just offend. TC.

  • @lindamurphy3969
    @lindamurphy3969 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I prefer wedding anniversary to Valentines Day. Also, I think it can be romantic when your spouse folds your clothes you may have left in the dryer, brings you a blanket when it’s chilly, makes you a snack, etc. Small gestures to show they care is better than one holiday.

  • @mikemorris4008
    @mikemorris4008 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    The world would be a much better place if we would all have a marriage as strong as this. You guy's have this figured out and are a great example for the rest of us.

    • @catshultz9045
      @catshultz9045 ปีที่แล้ว

      I wish I could find it

    • @bobs1356
      @bobs1356 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      There are a lot of strong marriages out there. And I have one.

    • @scratchy1704
      @scratchy1704 ปีที่แล้ว

      My marriage is strong also.

  • @mollbel
    @mollbel ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Me and my sweetheart have 45 years of marriage under our belt. I am pretty sure you young’uns will have a lasting love and will make so many wonderful memories together. You two have everything it takes to navigate the bumpy roads ahead as well as the smooth sailing. I love the couple you are and love the messages you are sending out into the universe. 😘

  • @jessid2011
    @jessid2011 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I've said it a hundred times and I'll keep saying it - Shane is going to be a great dad! He has so much to offer a child - humor, wisdom, guidance, grace. The list goes on and on. People with disabilities have children all the time, and you know what they do? Adapt. And from the marriage quiz results, as if we needed more proof, they're marriage is solid and their love is strong further lending to the idea that they've got this!
    Anyways! Loved the episode guys, I needed the laugh and you never let me down. 🤘🏻Junkyard Mayhem🤘🏻

  • @Ant-Honie
    @Ant-Honie ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Your relationship is beyond healthy! Hannah knows her needs and what she wants! She’s a unique one for sure! She’s also soooooo lucky to have you Shane! Your heart… it’s what stole her! ❤

    • @bobs1356
      @bobs1356 ปีที่แล้ว

      Shirley here, it's a kind of odd marriage, we are all different in out attractions and what turns us on physically.

  • @VicandWes
    @VicandWes ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Instead of saying “do you just want to complain? Or Are you just whining?” I prefer to be asked “do you want to vent?” It doesn’t sound as annoying

    • @lc4life369
      @lc4life369 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Im sure they are being sarcastic because they are already annoyed by you.

    • @bevtrue6937
      @bevtrue6937 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes, it does sound less condescending. Whining can be terribly annoying, though. Shane are you saying you were the instigator of this lawn crisis? I'll bet you were. Haha. I bet you enjoyed every minute of it. 😁

    • @windybeach2184
      @windybeach2184 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Or “That sounds tough. Is there anything I can do to help? Or are you happy to just chat?”

    • @VicandWes
      @VicandWes ปีที่แล้ว

      @@windybeach2184 yes those too 😊

  • @EternalLoveAnkh
    @EternalLoveAnkh ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Here is a story that I like to share that means the world to me:
    For me, 7th grade was in elementary school. I've known all of my classmates for several years. A month after school started, a boy I've never seen came into our classroom. He was introduced as the new kid. I'm sure he was nervous being the new kid. All the girls instantly crushed on him. A few of them actually dated him in the years to come. There was an empty seat next to me so he sat there. Over the next few weeks, we talked and became best friends. One day, I was supposed to go to an afterschool club meeting but it was canceled at the last minute. I had no way of getting home. My mom couldn't pick me up until hours later. The boy was still at school and asked me if I wanted to come over to his house. I was absolutely shocked. This was the first time in a long time that a friend WITHOUT a disability asked me to come over. I obviously said yes. We walked to his house, which was only a few blocks away. Once we got to his place, we noticed nobody was home. Which is fine since all we were going to do was hang out and watch TV... except for one issue: there was a steep flight of stairs to get into his house. Keep in mind I had a power wheelchair that weighed a few hundred pounds. What was going on in my head at that moment was we either had to sit outside or find an adult neighbor to help us. But no... he was determined to get me in his house by himself. Also keep in mind we were both 12 at the time. He found some plywood boards and placed them on top of the stairs. As I drove on top of the boards, he stayed behind me and pushed. He made sure I didn't fall off or tip over. After about a half hour, we finally got me in his house safe and sound. Then we just ate snacks and watched TV. At one point, I looked at him and that was when I knew he was a true friend and we were going to be friends for life. I can't remember a time before that when a non-family member has gone to such great length for me. Ironically, shortly after we got me into the house, his older brothers and mom came home. That's the first time I was introduced to them. Over the course of that year, I repeatedly went over his house (and vice versa). It got easier and faster to get me in his house as time went on. I became part of his family. His mother thought of me as her own son (and brothers as brother). Once we got into high school, he and his brother helped me. They all took turns. Towards the end of high school, he started dating this one classmate of ours. She did not like me at all. I'm not sure if it was because I was in a wheelchair or because he spent a lot of time with me. Shortly after graduation, they got married. Apparently, she was in charge of inviting people. She did not invite me. Once he got wind of it, he came to me personally and invited me. I did go to the wedding. My mom couldn't stay but his mom and brothers took care of me and made sure I had everything I needed. After that, he joined the army, had a kid, and eventually divorced his wife. He got married again to another girl a few years ago. We do keep in touch a lot. One of the bestest friends ever... friends for life.
    RJ

    • @elizabethk6658
      @elizabethk6658 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      That is a beautiful story!! ♥

  • @lizrichardson3309
    @lizrichardson3309 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    It's a shame that people who are listening can't see Hannah's face when Shane is describing the slip and slide adventure! 😆 You two are so suited to each other, I'm positive your marriage will last!

    • @spikedchair7123
      @spikedchair7123 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hannah Aylward and Shane Burkaw have an NDA, LCC business open relationship agreement.

    • @candibeam9059
      @candibeam9059 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@spikedchair7123 Jealousy is obvious.
      Go watch someone else. They are definitely in love.

    • @spikedchair7123
      @spikedchair7123 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@candibeam9059 Why would anyone or myself be jealous when these two especially these are in a NDA , LCC business open relationship agreements.
      It's that obvious.
      Lol!!!

    • @spikedchair7123
      @spikedchair7123 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@candibeam9059 You do know Hannah Aylward never did change her last to Burkaw and yet you'd think that would hurt Shane Burkaw a lot or little yet makes him feel more smaller than he is .
      Either way these two are both dip shits .

    • @mollbel
      @mollbel ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ha! I only listened and had to rewatch to see Hannah’s expressions. 🥰. Cute! Thanks for the tip!

  • @zenjamin6262
    @zenjamin6262 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Oh my these two have such a deep connection ... she looks at him and just melts totally in love.

    • @chrisferenschak2486
      @chrisferenschak2486 ปีที่แล้ว

      I wish I could clone her for me!

    • @felicitymcconville4322
      @felicitymcconville4322 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I have said that all along. Pure adoration ❤

    • @spikedchair7123
      @spikedchair7123 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      These two Shane Burkaw and Hannah Aylward have an NDA, LCC business open relationship.
      Lol!!

    • @zenjamin6262
      @zenjamin6262 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@spikedchair7123 Shane is her first and only love hes everything she always wanted

    • @spikedchair7123
      @spikedchair7123 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@zenjamin6262 Fake scheme and in a NDA, LCC business open relationship agreements love .
      Those no strings attached between these too it all a out dark greed and fame of business fraud.

  • @marycummins8979
    @marycummins8979 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    My husband and i have been married 50 years. People ask how we made it that long. My answer is one word. COMMUNICATION. You are spot on. Love you guys

  • @HealedandThriving
    @HealedandThriving ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Shane... a little parenting tip from me to you. Once you have kids ANYTHING is considered a Thanksgiving side so your kid will eat something that day 😂 Ours was mac n cheese. So Hannah can have Thanksgiving dinner with a side of bagel bites.

  • @cbryce9243
    @cbryce9243 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    The only thing I would be worried about with having Shane's child, is his wicked sense of humor. Between the two of you, that little kid of yours will be so smart and get into SO much trouble. Shane will just bat his innocent eyelashes at you, and you'll say, "Oh Shane". You two crack me up!

    • @windybeach2184
      @windybeach2184 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I’m sure that their child will quickly become fluent in sarcasm

  • @abbsterlicious
    @abbsterlicious ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I ended a relationship of 5 years n was inspired to because I see the way y’all interact n I realized how defensive he is n that I was unable to be myself. You n another channel (Cody ko n Kelsey Kreppel) I started to realize they can have lighthearted banter n we couldn’t at all. I was always tip toeing n having to full myself. So thank you for changing my life for the Bette. I saw another comment on here that y’all’s marriage is a great example. Yes I know this isn’t all of it and of course any relationship has issues so I’m not trying to say oh you’re perfect, what I am saying is seeing how much fun y’all have n how well you compliment each other made me realize the relationship I was In was one sided and abusive. I am eternally grateful to y’all. And my momma for being honest when I needed it even tho it hurt. We broke up a few days ago n hopefully in 2 months this chapter will be completely over as I take over this lease. Thank you for opening my eyes & being so vulnerable. You’re teaching me so much!

  • @darlouthia5153
    @darlouthia5153 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Just hearing talk about how enthusiastic you are about having a baby just makes me so happy ❤❤❤❤

  • @reneelewis7187
    @reneelewis7187 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I've said many times that Shane has very much to offer in the role of parenting.
    I can't believe people actually ask these things.

    • @spikedchair7123
      @spikedchair7123 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's like saying Hannah Aylward took Shane Burkaws virginity card and yet technically he can't take of baby or child or teen kid or even himself .
      Lol!!!!
      Shane Burkaw is a baby himself .

    • @lesleyhughes3174
      @lesleyhughes3174 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@spikedchair7123 crawl back under your rock

    • @spikedchair7123
      @spikedchair7123 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lesleyhughes3174 When Hannah Aylward and Shane Burkaw tell you to jump off a cliff you do so how pathetic are you ? Lol!!! A LOT .

  • @jerrylaninolan923
    @jerrylaninolan923 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This was one of your best talks, and here’s why. Being a concerned Nana type, and wanting the best for any child of yours, I wondered how much thought you were putting into the potential stress of parenthood. Hannah expressed so thoughtfully, patiently!, and maturely how you two consider various issues of raising your child, that I, and the others who care about you, can feel assured that you’re on the right path. Your child will be “our” baby! Love, from Michigan

  • @RiceDcourtney
    @RiceDcourtney ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Your marriage is beautiful. Both of you guys have such good energy.
    I wish the best in the future for you guys! Being vulnerable is really hard and you guys do it every week. 🙌

    • @spikedchair7123
      @spikedchair7123 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do you believe that the both took each others virginity???
      Lol!!!

  • @Ant-Honie
    @Ant-Honie ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Hannah… never too old to slip and slide. I just laughed so hard,… ok maybe you made me laugh so hard I peed… yep…in my pants…😂…. Thanks!!! Love you 2! ❤😂

  • @mdkdm123
    @mdkdm123 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    It is my dream to have a healthy, loving, and stable marriage like yours one day❤️ On the other hand, that slip n slide is the most chaotic story I’ve ever heard and I feel bad for all the adults affected😂

  • @linebrunelle1004
    @linebrunelle1004 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Having 3 brothers, I understand the absolute chaotic mischief they caused. And that was before video games, etc. So, I laughed hard at the slip&slide.

    • @linebrunelle1004
      @linebrunelle1004 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      the please and thank you: Hannah, as a sociology graduate, you might have discussed role theory.

  • @dianaspy6733
    @dianaspy6733 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    It’s funny when Hannah pretends to look at Shane with disdain. Lol 😂. Hannah is right, the ground is too ruff under the plastic. I tried it. You guys are good. ❤

  • @maj6190
    @maj6190 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Because you two demonstrate your love by routinely putting the other person first, you don't need the artificial construct of "romance" demanded by Valentine's Day.

  • @turnupyourlov3
    @turnupyourlov3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    We need T-shirts that say “oh, Shane”

  • @IntrovertedJester
    @IntrovertedJester ปีที่แล้ว +1

    the epiphany of “i think i love you” 🤣 keep being surprised by how much you love each other!

  • @kasiapek7575
    @kasiapek7575 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I still can not wrap my mind aroud that some people question your relationship ( and spend time to create video's or write these crazy stories on internet). You have to be some kind of monster to not see and feel the true love that you have to each other. Like real, real love. When you are your best friend.
    Thank You for your work to show us your life, Shane and Hannah:)

  • @sandeepettit696
    @sandeepettit696 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I see you both as very romantic. It doesn't have to be a date or a gift. It's the way you look at each other. The way you smile at each other. That is very romantic. It reminds me of how my parents were🥰😍

  • @odonovan
    @odonovan ปีที่แล้ว +7

    We missed Monday GrubBag! +sigh+ I love the reference to "six more weeks of marriage." Way to go, Punxsutawney Shane!

  • @Ant-Honie
    @Ant-Honie ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Married 35 yrs… and I’m learning so much from you two!

    • @danparish1344
      @danparish1344 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Maybe you should consider making your own TH-cam channel to become an inspiration for others! Congrats on your success, I hope to be there someday as well. 🤞

    • @Ant-Honie
      @Ant-Honie ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Marriage is a life sentence!

    • @Ant-Honie
      @Ant-Honie ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@danparish1344 patience,communication, trust and honestly the grass is never greener on the other side, something draws people together, I am a cowgirl, he’s a metal head! I looked at that butt and Bronco 2!

    • @Ant-Honie
      @Ant-Honie ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@danparish1344 I thought about it, but people are mean on YT! I also am intuitive! I could help so many.,, I’m a feeler? But my heart can’t handle meanness! These two are are beautiful!

    • @Ant-Honie
      @Ant-Honie ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bagel Bits…send Hannah a year supply!❤

  • @martinagraham3792
    @martinagraham3792 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You two are truly living your best life, and I appreciate that you share it with your Mayhem Junkers. Having been married (97.5% happily) to my best friend for over 45 years, it is fun to watch a young couple grow in their partnership. I find it very important to have common interests but also have things to do without the other person. Hannah, I totally understand that you pick Bagel Bites. My favorite food is pizza, which fits the perfect breakfast category every time.

  • @tonywalters9436
    @tonywalters9436 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You two have a better relationship with each other than I have with my wife of 45 years because she can’t always guess what I’m going to do some days

  • @terryenby2304
    @terryenby2304 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I feel like before I even watched this, the answer is “yes, your marriage will last” you both have honesty, communication skills, romance, you both have a great sense of humour, you both work hard to enjoy your lives together. Of course it will last! I can’t wait to see you have a baby and enjoy many more years of adventures together!

  • @heatherscoggins395
    @heatherscoggins395 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Shane you are the best story teller!! I died at the slip-n-slide fiasco!!!!
    I love you 2.

  • @kevinwatkins7202
    @kevinwatkins7202 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Shane needs to make a movie about his childhood, Lol!

    • @hannakinn
      @hannakinn ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Shane's childhood would make a fun sitcom/drama show while teaching about issues surrounding disability and accessibility without preaching about it. Shane should get someone to pitch it to TV or a big streaming service. Really!

    • @jaxxc397
      @jaxxc397 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hannakinn truly!! There’s so much to explore when it comes to children living with disabilities, there’s so much infantilization & misunderstanding when it comes to how/ when/ what ways play should be implemented with different abilities & diverse personalities

  • @CommittedtoCalm
    @CommittedtoCalm 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Absolutely! Grew up with dishsoap on a tarp. 100% My abs were hurting from laughing so hard. As soon as you said "My wheel hit the corner.." 😂 I am dead!

  • @janiebrossmann1178
    @janiebrossmann1178 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You guys keep doing you with your marriage..that’s all that matters…those tests and surveys are a bunch of nonsense 😡
    I have cerebral palsy and epilepsy. We’ve been happily married for nearly 28 years…together for over 29 years. We’ve seen dozens of family members and friends’ marriages fall apart where both of them were not disabled. Don’t listen to anyone who speaks negatively about your relationship and marriage❤️

  • @ButterflyElsy
    @ButterflyElsy ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What will make a valentine dinner more unique compared to other times is the WAIT for food because everyone is doing the same thing in the name of Valentines day! LOL

  • @Seapatico
    @Seapatico ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I mean, I get how silly it sounds when Shane describes getting home from walking the dog and immediately romantically dancing with your partner (30:14), but that's genuinely what I want in life, lol. I'm an excited person who thrives on expressions of love, and I'm the person who wants that relationship. 🥰

  • @daleclark8872
    @daleclark8872 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Love this podcast! So fun to listen to your banter back and forth. ❤️🙏

  • @galaxycuber_official
    @galaxycuber_official ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your marriage is very healthy. I've watched so many of your videos already and your relationship is getting stronger everyday! You guys are awesome!

  • @donnaf422
    @donnaf422 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You guys never cease to make me laugh. Thank you! I look forward to your junk and anything else you dish.

  • @sjwestmo
    @sjwestmo ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ‘Youre knocked down a point until you fix that behavior’
    Im going to try this one 😂

  • @trustmeimfabulous
    @trustmeimfabulous ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When my husband wants me to get him something to drink out of the refrigerator so he don't have to get off the couch he says, "hey get me a Mt dew"😕😳 I say, "will you ask" and he says he did ask lol🤦‍♀️😂😂 I've learned it's just how my husband talks, he's not being rude. You guys have a great love language. That's not something I thought ab years ago but have learned to let it go. He's so good to me where it matters. Love you guys!! 🙏❤✌

  • @biddiemutter3481
    @biddiemutter3481 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    'Can you trust your Spouse?'
    Shane "9999"
    Next phase: " Hannah's such a liar" 😄😄

  • @emp556
    @emp556 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Aww! I can see how concerned Hannah looked when Shane was first talking about if their Marriage is healthy. Just by her response you can tell she genuinely loves him because she seemed concerned.

  • @walterlloyd
    @walterlloyd ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You two are the best! You have a better relationship than most other married couples. I don't want this to come off the wrong way like most of these nasty comments, but it is so incredible seeing a loving inter-abled couple. As a physically disabled person myself, it is so nice to see an inter-abled couple. It is something that is rarely represented in media, and you do a beautiful job of representing us and deconstructing bs myths about how a couple should operate. Thank you so much for everything!

  • @mejusthot
    @mejusthot ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Years Ago now my cousin slid me down a slip n slide (I've paraplegia) so I'd slide all the way down the tarp. What a blast.. love the memory. Love my cousin. Grateful for the memory. Grateful for my cousin

  • @phillipjones626
    @phillipjones626 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oh your marriage is so going to last until infinity. You're so adorable, you communicate, you care for and about each others wants, needs and desires far more than my marriage and we've been married 20 years last October.

    • @phillipjones626
      @phillipjones626 ปีที่แล้ว

      As an aside, if I didn't say please 90% of the time to my wife she gets right pissed. My paid carers aren't that bothered about the Ps&Qs.

  • @Nana2four
    @Nana2four ปีที่แล้ว

    You two are So Incredibly Compatible, it’s so refreshing to watch you two banter. ❤

  • @vickieowens4548
    @vickieowens4548 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love your sessions together! You two are meant for one another!

  • @joyona7430
    @joyona7430 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    love you guyz : )! Thanks for a very thought provoking pod cast : )!

  • @beckerthenbeck
    @beckerthenbeck ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Question for both of you: What fictional TV show, movie, or book characters do you see yourselves (or each other) future parenting styles to be like?
    For example, I see my parenting style similar to Loreli Gilmore from the Gilmore girls with a bit of Danny Tanner from Full House. My kids are all my friends, and we are all brutally honest with each other, but we do have our full house moments where we deal with hard issues.

    • @spikedchair7123
      @spikedchair7123 ปีที่แล้ว

      Are you on meth or something???
      These two are fake !

  • @adelascello
    @adelascello ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have to think that perhaps those who comment on these videos without understanding are maybe just misguided folks with physical touch as their main love language? People who don't understand the importance of someone to carry more intellectual loads like doing the bills, goal planning, cracking jokes at the right time to turn your day around... and some are maybe even people who have been hurt by cheating, or stereotypical man/woman roles in the past.
    Yes this couple will encounter different struggles than an able-bodied couple, but that doesn't mean they are better or worse. They will also encounter many of the same wild joys and wonderful days.
    If you're someone who doesn't believe this is real, I have to think its because you've never looked at someone (or been looked at by someone) in the way that Hannah and Shane look at each other. There are so many different factors that go into a relationship. How people can question this comfortable, very secure, very naturally attached couple is beyond me. When I look at them, I see the same admiration and respect I feel in my own marriage.
    Please don't look at everything as having a notorious, evil agenda behind it guys. The world isn't always so dark.

  • @carlamerrell4441
    @carlamerrell4441 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sometimes I wish these events were live so that I could ask questions to make the stories more relevant. Sounds like the story about your brother and his friend on a rainy day when you were kids were getting into content you’ve most likely shared before, yet I’m just not yet familiar with about your background.
    Also sounds like you were three kids having fun! Love that about your parents in about your neighborhood and whatever else is part of that. Goes along with what you’re talking about today of defining “ability”
    All of this is reminding me what assumptions we make just because we have four limbs that work.

  • @pattituron8510
    @pattituron8510 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey, Hannah and Shane! As always, you both make me giggle with your banter. I can't wait to hear when you are expecting a little one. You will be absolutely awesome parents ~ your child will be blessed with so much love. ❤I miss seeing Chloe, your fur baby!❤

  • @patriciaanderson1679
    @patriciaanderson1679 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You guys crack me up!!
    I'm always in a better mood after I watch you both!

  • @sarahillstrom1590
    @sarahillstrom1590 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think they need to recall slip and slides so many people get hurt with them. A family member ending up breaking a arm using a slip and slide. I agree with Hannah I have no desire to throw my body on the ground haha

  • @kattiswennberg1282
    @kattiswennberg1282 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love watching your videos. Your love for each other is amazing. Love you guys❤

  • @mk1864
    @mk1864 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Romance is in the eye of the beholder. Each couple views romance differently.

  • @pamelaferebee3648
    @pamelaferebee3648 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Every time is something good to watch. You two are so good. Blessings to you both 🙏🏾

  • @kristinaarp9144
    @kristinaarp9144 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m with you, Hannah! I’ve never done a slip and slide, either. Because…whyyy?? Sounds so painful!

  • @JestRLee
    @JestRLee ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Shane and Hannah are the best ! ! !
    Silly and Sarcastic... it doesn't get any better than that... love you both

  • @nancyrojas1926
    @nancyrojas1926 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You guys are so funny I did enjoy this episode ,Thank you I think some people have the misconception that you are constantly doing something for Shane every minute of every day ... Obviously you do have to do somethings for him but you also have free time which a child would fit right in.

  • @jimkuntz8423
    @jimkuntz8423 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What a great story, Shane’s dad is great, such a loving dad and what a great family. Love the bonding story.

  • @colleenmccowan5083
    @colleenmccowan5083 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    LOVE YOU BOTH! LAUGHED OUT LOUD AT LEAST 3 TIMES ON THIS ONE! THANK YOU.

  • @karenfitzpatrick6256
    @karenfitzpatrick6256 ปีที่แล้ว

    Looks Like a pretty healthy marriage to me. The mutual respect, acceptance of different viewpoints and the deep love is obvious.
    I love Shane's stories! There is a reason "No Trespassing" signs appear. Kids (or irresponsible adults) who don't see the neighbor's lawn in the same way the owner's do...
    I can't decide between baked stuffed shrimp or fried calamari for a forever food...
    You two "normalize" my thoughts about life. The World is so negatively bent online, I appreciate your channel more than I can say. You two were made for each other!

  • @lmkays
    @lmkays ปีที่แล้ว

    Hannah, Slip N Slides are awesome! Great summer front yard fun in Minnesota! Loved those yellow tarps 💙

  • @chriswilliams999
    @chriswilliams999 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Soap and detergent are very different. I get the impression from the start of this chat that they are classed together in the USA. It is a minor point, but I am now a very proud proud grandfather of an American grandaughter, so these little things will matter more to me if I am ever lucky (long lived enough) to interact with her on a chatty basis.

  • @lelanoel3499
    @lelanoel3499 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The key to a lasting marriage is to have your minds made up that divorce is not even an option and you will work through things and figure it out.

    • @powderandpaint14
      @powderandpaint14 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not true because in the case of abuse people should divorce.

    • @JamaicanRain
      @JamaicanRain ปีที่แล้ว

      Love this. Also, the key to a lasting friendship with a married person!

    • @spikedchair7123
      @spikedchair7123 ปีที่แล้ว

      These two have an NDA , LCC open relationship.

  • @JoyNoelle.
    @JoyNoelle. ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I could literally just watch you two talk about nothing all day and night. You two are hilarious, adorable and fascinating ❤

  • @dianethompson463
    @dianethompson463 ปีที่แล้ว

    Truthfully, you two need your own show. Love is designed for each couple in the way it"s meant for them and you two are doing just that Connected

  • @julianickels7791
    @julianickels7791 ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys make me laugh every time I watch your videos! I find myself smiling throughout the entire video. Have an amazing day!

  • @PrairieRose4
    @PrairieRose4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your relationship & humor. Thanks for sharing!

  • @nordquist52
    @nordquist52 ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys have the best dynamic for your marriage! And you guys are absolutely adorable 😁 I wish you guys nothing but the best for the future! Shane, you hit the jackpot, Hannah...his sense of humor is going to keep you laughing for years..."I'm so sorry" 😁

  • @anneofhearts
    @anneofhearts ปีที่แล้ว

    YOU GUYS!!!! Ive never laughed so much as i do when i watch your videos! i want to binge watch them all now! you guys are the HEALTHIEST Couple of all time and enduring and genuine and so darn CUTE i want to SCREAM lololololololololololol God Bless

  • @thelifeandtimes.ofazombiegirl
    @thelifeandtimes.ofazombiegirl ปีที่แล้ว

    The first at least 14 minutes... Shane 🤣🤣🤣 Also Hannah sounds so much like me with the flat slip n slide, kinda afraid of things most kids are so ready for! Love her for it!

  • @Sketcher93
    @Sketcher93 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    People who think you're not prepared for Parenthood couldn't be watching too many videos or they'd catch on how intelligent the two of you are and how self-aware you are. You two are the last people I would worry about being prepared. What could they be thinking ☺️. Carry on ✔️ (LOL, jail by proxy 😂)

  • @BusinessCasualLabCoat
    @BusinessCasualLabCoat ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So funny story, somehow Shane is my only friend on spotify, and we're often listening to music around the same time later in the evening. More often than not, he's listening to classical or jazz, and I'm listening to like... Slipknot.

  • @lindalowies5436
    @lindalowies5436 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hands down my favourite podcast! So entertaining! Wish they were more often hint hint xxx

  • @johnsargent3346
    @johnsargent3346 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wanted to say I am very happy I found you guys again and I am subscribed again. I mostly wanted to say I love you guys and am truly happy you two are doing great

  • @JoyNoelle.
    @JoyNoelle. ปีที่แล้ว

    We had a Slip an Slide growing up too!! No hill was needed. Just the Slip N Slide, hose and dawn dish soap! That dish soap was the secret ingredient to going the fastest that led into catastrophe and laughter every time 😂

  • @otislord5660
    @otislord5660 ปีที่แล้ว

    The ending got me there XD always happy to hear your podcast :D much love

  • @Brebrelady
    @Brebrelady ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved this episode !! The end 😂just two genuine people in love laughing sharing thoughts ❤

  • @bethanynapier9407
    @bethanynapier9407 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your Q&A at the end made me think... Hannah could do a dumpster dive on what caregiving/accessibility looks like in prisons? Never thought about it but now I'm curious...

    • @Megan-vd8li
      @Megan-vd8li ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly my thought ! So curious is their workers for this or how does it work

  • @thenargles
    @thenargles ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Another fun episode! The slip and slide story was especially fun!

  • @Casper-jx1zd
    @Casper-jx1zd ปีที่แล้ว

    You two kids totally, unequivocally, absolutely, utterly, exponentially rock!

  • @joycefoster684
    @joycefoster684 ปีที่แล้ว

    Y'all crack me up! You sound just like my husband and I joking around and laughing with each other 😁. You fill in each other's blanks like we, been doing for 54 years, you'll be just fine👍

  • @amberhepworth7797
    @amberhepworth7797 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you guys! You are both are so real and relatable ❤ you both remind me of my marriage. My husband makes fun of me in a lovable way. I can be clumsy at times and he says I am his baby giraffe lol! I am hooked on your podcast!

  • @lynnspeenburgh4577
    @lynnspeenburgh4577 ปีที่แล้ว

    I laughed so hard picturing this mud pit that you boys created! I can relate as my brother's, sisters, and I had very creative minds as well. Haha.

  • @kittyvanzandt4407
    @kittyvanzandt4407 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Who is the little Pope looking guy to the left of Shane? Creepy dude was watching me the entire video! ;)

  • @marylande5097
    @marylande5097 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Today was my favorite episode!..I have to acknowledge the little man standing proud on the floor on the right side of Shane. I do anticipate what will be in that spot next podcast. I’m now going to put Bagel Bites on my grocery list.

    • @claret.8733
      @claret.8733 ปีที่แล้ว

      I just put Bagel Bites on my grocery list too! Thanks Hannah!! 😸

  • @fernandagoncalves2776
    @fernandagoncalves2776 ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys are SO CUTE!!! Ugh! I can't with the two of you!

  • @heidia6270
    @heidia6270 ปีที่แล้ว

    The slip n slide story was great! I was totally laughing!! This was a great episode! 😂

  • @melissaaddison-webster212
    @melissaaddison-webster212 ปีที่แล้ว

    So funny!! Self-injury on a whole other level. LOVE YOU GUYS!!! From Canada

  • @teessleeperspeepersreborns
    @teessleeperspeepersreborns ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My 1st crush was a guy with a trackeostomy. I also had feeling for a guy that had several syndromes. I never told anyone about that guy because I thought something must be wrong with me and someone would think I was weird so I definitely can see you all together. People can be so shallow. I love watching you all.

  • @lorettahausman-ck7qv
    @lorettahausman-ck7qv ปีที่แล้ว

    My husband and I have been together for almost 30 years and we are still in the honeymoon stage! ❤️ He is the love of my life and you guys sound so much like us. Our Valentines Day, the romance and passion are right on! It is all about the relationship and how you express! You are so right Shane…communication is so important! And we embrace each other’s weirdness! Lol Keep it up guys! You guys are awesome!

  • @queenofswords6463
    @queenofswords6463 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh man that slip n slide story had me in stitches! 😂😂😂

  • @fredolsen1014
    @fredolsen1014 ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys are so funny, thanks for brightening up my day